Smosh Reads Reddit Stories - The Most Unpredictable Reddit Stories | Reading Reddit Stories

Episode Date: May 13, 2023

You won't see this coming. 0:00-1:13 Intro 1:14-7:30 BF Says I Stink? https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/va3ers/oops_boyfriend_wont_stop_telling_her_that_she/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 7:31-18:31 My Bestie Is In Love W/ Me https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/u6vxsu/my_best_guy_friend_just_told_me_hes_in_love_with/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 18:32-29:50 I'm Chronically Late https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/12nwtef/aita_for_being_late_when_i_was_previously_someone/ 29:51-42:48 I Won't Honor My BF's Traditions https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/12b8t6t/aita_for_refusing_to_honor_my_boyfriends_familys/ 42:49-1:01:19 Cheater's Wife Is Cheating? https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sdp4i9/a_cake_eater_discovers_that_his_wife_has_also/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 1:01:20-1:16:50 Husband Obsessed W/ My Boss https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zlurrs/ops_husband_is_obsessed_with_her_boss/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 WEAR OUR JOKES: https://smosh.com WHO YOU HEAR Shayne Topp // https://www.instagram.com/shaynetopp/ Chanse McCrary // https://www.instagram.com/phatchanse/ Angela Giarratana // https://www.instagram.com/giovanagiarratana/ WHO YOU DON’T HEAR (usually) Director: Kiana Parker Editor: Blake Jarvis Director Of Programming, Smosh Pit: Kiana Parker Pit - AP: Kimmy Jimenez EVP of Programming: Joel Rubin AD: Jacqi Jones Art Director: Cassie Vance Art - Asst Dir.: Erin Kuschner Art Coord.: Alex Aguilar Art PA: Adam Mustafa Audio Mixer: Greg Jones Camera Operator: Vida Robbins Camera Operator: Jon Wong Content Manager: Lizzy Jones Dir. Audience Dev & Distro: Rachel Evans DIT/AE: Matt Duran Dir. Of Photography: Brennan Iketani GFX: Brittany Hobbs Post Manager: Luke Baker Production Coord: Heidi Ha Production Asst: Marcus Munguia Production Manager: Jacqi Jones Sr. Dir. Of Production: Zoe Moacanin Talent Coord: Selina Garcia Wardrobe Supervisor: Alicia Balderas OTHER SMOSHES: Smosh: https://smo.sh/Sub2Smosh Smosh Games: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshGames El Smosh (Spanish Dub): https://smo.sh/Sub2ElSmosh FOLLOW US: TikTok: https://smo.sh/TikTok Snapchat: http://smo.sh/OnSnapchat Instagram: https://instagram.com/smosh Facebook: https://facebook.com/smosh Twitter: https://twitter.com/smosh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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He said, I think y'all should do a video where you all do nothing but post from Best of Reddit updates and have the people on the couch try to guess what happens before reading the update. Daniel Franco, great suggestion. That's what we're going to do today. So I'm going to read the first parts of these Reddit stories, and then Chance and Angela, thank you for being here. You will try to guess what you think is going to happen next. Do you think you're going to be pretty good at this? No.

No, I think together we could. Maybe. Alone, no. No. But as a team, you've got this. Also, Daniel Franco. Yeah, Daniel Franco. Your checks in the mail, Daniel.

Yeah. All right. Awesome. Way to go. That means he subscribed around the time I joined. So maybe it was me. Maybe. Story number one. Boyfriend won't stop telling me I have B.O.

This comes from relationship advice. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything has been great except for one thing. Every single day, at least once he will tell me that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I been great except for one thing. Every single day, at least once, he will tell me that I stink and smell of B.O. When we met, I showered every day, applied regular deodorant in the morning, brushed my teeth three times a day. Now I am so paranoid about smelling bad that I shower at least twice a day. I apply new industrial strength deodorant every few hours.

I have a reminder on my phone, perfume, and I brush my teeth anytime I eat or drink something that isn't water. I feel like I'm going crazy. I didn't think I smelled bad in the beginning and I don't think I smell bad now, but I obviously smell bad to him, right? I'm that weirdo that keeps sneakily smelling their own armpits. I've been to the point where I literally shoved my armpit in friends and families faces asking if I smell bad. They all say I don't smell like B.O. At all. One friend even said I smelled too clean like a lush store. I am getting so paranoid. He won't cuddle or anything when he says I smell. I really don't know what more I can do. All right. That's the first post. Okay. She just went on to Reddit asking for advice. thiiiiiiiiiiii. thi. that she that she thi. that she thi. thi. thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, th. I th. I th. I th. I th, I th, I th, I th, I th, I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I thi, I thi, thi, thi, thi, thi. I thi. I thi. thi. I theeeean. thean thean thean thean thean thateeeee that that that that that thi thi that's the first post. Okay. She just went on to Reddit asking for advice. Okay. Her boyfriend every day tells her that she stinks. Okay, obvi, I'm thinking it's him. It's

definitely him. Yeah, but, but, it's his balls or something. He don't wash them. But this is Reddit stories. Oh, you think he stinks. I think he's smelling. I think it's his balls? Well, boys don't be washing their balls often enough. You think this, what he thinks is his girlfriend's B-O, it's his balls? Yeah. Through his jeans, through everything. Or just like his own B-O. I've done that before, I'm like, oh, you smell bad if it's actually me. Wow. Yeah, okay.

But I think that's the obvious answer, and this is Reddit stories, and you guys find the craziest shit. So I'm like, what's even crazier than that? Like, what if his nose is fucked or something? Well, my mom used to cook salmon all the time. She used to put cumin on salmon, and for so long, cumin smelled like BO to me. For so long, just that one spice, and every time I was like, this house smells disgusting. Okay. And it would reek for days. But this is every day. Okay.

So you don't really, you think there's something wrong with his nose? I just think it's something crazier than just his B.O. Yeah. Okay. Okay. So I know what happens here. I know what happens I initially read it. Yeah. You thought it was his, I'm not going to tell you if it's wrong or not. I thought it was his, I was like, okay, it's maybe it's something with his nose and maybe it's something like, he needs to go to the doctor and get checked because maybe

there's something like, like, you know how, like, I don't know, like, I, that was my initial thought of just like, what, what is this? So, I'm not going to tell you if I was wrong or not. So, here we go. Maybe this is like psychological. Maybe he gets off? Oh, I like that. Maybe he gets off on a woman cleaning herself. Or, or just insulting her in general, just like putting her down. Yeah. It's more than his smell disgusting. And he's like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, th. th. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this, this. this, this. this, this, this, this, this, this, this, this, th. this, th. th. th. th. th. thi. this, this, this, this, this. this. this, this, this. And he might get off on that? Oh, okay. I mean, I don't think that's right. Right, but you're just, okay. It could be a possibility. Okay. Update. So unexpected, edit.

I waited for him to make a comment this morning so I could talk to him. It was less than an hour after waking up that he said, God you stink. I had already showered and put on deodorant. I snapped and asked what exactly was he smelling because at this point I'm one of the cleanest people on the planet and if I still smell bad to him, then we should just break up. He got all panicked and upset. I eventually got out of him that this is what his father always said to his mother.

Apparently his father told him that if it was a surefire technique to have a woman never leave you because she will feel too low to cheat, will love only you and will always be clean. Needless to say his father is wrong, he's packing his things and moving out of my house today. So you got it with the psychological sort of, yeah, you kind of nailed it. A very specific technique. Some comments here. Hey son, you know the woman who gave you life and brought you into this world and probably loves you more than you can ever comprehend.

Yeah, I get there. Here's how I dehumanize her so she sticks around. You should try it with your girlfriends. Someone else said, Opie's ex is beyond pathetic, and so is his dad. Insulting someone to staying with you is such an asshole move. His father must have a very low opinion of himself if he believed he needed to do that to get a woman to stay with him. Yeah, that's crazy. And that's also like... And we also have to realize this is coming out of, this is from her mouth, from his mouth. So the father could have th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th tho tho tho thi thi thi thi thi thi the the the the the the the the the the thi the the he he he he he he he he he hee hee hee hee hee he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he th. th. th. th. th. th. He th. He th. He th. He th. He the the. He the the the the the the the the to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the to the theee the a joke I guess I mean she'll never leave here. Yeah, he's like I mean

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I know it's just weird. Yeah. Because it's so, also just a man waking up and going, God you stink. Yeah. He's a piece of shit, but he's also really dumb. Yeah, I think there's so many other ways. Have you ever, have you ever met a bad person but they're like stupid in the way that they're bad? Yeah. And you have the thought of like,

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Don't. And I know I don't smell like bad. I smell like Leilabo, so back up, bitch. Okay. Here's a second story. This is also relationship advice. My best guy friend just told me he's in love with me. Two days before my wedding. Woo-hoo! Okay. I've been with my fiancé for three years,

engaged for a little over a year. My best friend and I have known each other since freshman year of college. We are all in our early 30s. This morning I woke up to a long-ass text from my guy, best friend, that he had sent around 6 a.m. Basically, it was him pouring his heart out. He said he's been in love with me for years, but always hoped I'd end up breaking up with my fiancé and finally noticing him. He asked me to call off the wedding and run away with him. It said, I needed to tell you before it was too late. I just feel gross and sad. I have no feelings for him beyond platonic love.

I've drafted a response and deleted it, over and over. I haven't even told my fianc, told him to wedding. I know I need to, but I don't know what to do or how to phrase it. What's worse is that he's become my fiance's friend too. I'm also pretty pissed that my friend chose such an unfortunate time to cause me such distress. There were so many times over the years he could have just bucked up and told me how he felt. But waiting until right before I'm married, like I would just cancel my my my my my my my my my my my my my my my my my to to to to to to to to to to come to a, I want to tell him to not come to the wedding. I can't trust that he wouldn't try to pull something. I don't even know if I want to talk to him again.

But the thought of losing my best friend is heartbreaking. Hell, the thought of on me to deal with these feelings for him. I wish he had either stopped being friends with me when he realized us ending up together would never happen or had told me a while ago. I don't want to kick him while he's down, but I need to make it clear that I have no feelings, the wedding is still on and I don't want him to attend. We have been friends for over a decade. I've been crying over this. I've thi. I've thi. I've thi. I've th. I've th. I've th. I've th. I've th. I've th. I've th. I've th. I've th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm thr-I. I'm told. I've today. I've told told told told told told told told told told told told. I've told. I've told told told told told told told told told told told told told told told. I'm told. I'm told. I'm told. I'm told. I'm a told. I'm a while. I'm told told me a while. I'm told me a while told me a while told me a while told me a told me a while told me a while told me a while told me a told me a while told me a motives How do I even go about dealing with this? I'm supposed to get married in under 48 hours Edit I'll be showing the text of my fiancee after he gets home from his brothers I won't send anything until he's here with me. That's good. I like that. She's very smart. Yes

I want to say like this is the most well-mature response to this you can have. But also I'll say being on Reddit two days before your wedding, comments that. Oh, that's also true. That's also true. Okay, I hope they end up together. Okay. I'm not gonna lie. I kind of hope they do too.

Her and the friend? I famously will always fall in love with my best friend. Fously straight we're gay, bad, and I'm always like, it could happen, it could, I want to believe that it could happen. I like it in the sense of if this was a movie. Yeah, and that's what this is to me. But in real life, I feel like that would never look or be as good as a movie. Not the wedding part that's fucked up. Yeah, the wedding. the wedding. the wedding. the wedding. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I I I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. th. I's. th. th. th. th. thi. thi. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. toa. toa. t t t t t t t toda. t been so much thought and planning and tickets bought and money and I'll say it's not the wedding part that's fucked up too

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Actually in love. Okay. Are you ready for this update? Oh my god. Do we guess? I mean, you're guessing the prediction of you're hoping they end up together. Yeah, I think because of this format. Or you're thinking thin, they're thinking, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, thi, actually, thi, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, thi, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually, actually they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're thi, actually, actually, actually thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thin. thin. thin. thi. thin. thi. thi. thi. th these people are always just stories are always wild. And Mike, I'll give a crazier guess.

I'll give a crazy guess. Okay. That he's protecting her from something. Oh. The fiance's done something and he knows. Interesting. So instead it's easier to do this. So a 6 a.m. Hail Mary text.

Like he knows the best man. Okay. Or, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the best. the best. the best. the best. the best. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. tha. tha. th. thi. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. the. the. to. the. the. to. to. the. to. to. to. the. to. to. the. to. the. the. to. the. the. the. the. the. the. the knows the best man is okay groom has been sleeping with someone or okay last one or or we're gonna get the update that the fiance came home and then they got into a huge fight and then he get married and she's not with him I don't know okay somehow I'm trying to win right right my husband I love being able to say that now this is later oh my god we don't know who she's about her to. Who's your husband? Which one?

My husband, I love being able to say that now. And I got back from our honeymoon yesterday. I turned on my phone and opened the Reddit app, and it was still signed into this account. So I had an oh yeah moment and figured I'd post an update. So a lot of people here really helped validate the ikey mess of feelings I was having. Thank you for that.

Posting here really helped put my thoughts into words. So that night, my fiance got home from his brothers. I let him sit down, and when I showed him the text, he read it, and I watched his eyes get their, I their, I their, I started apologizing like an idiot and he told me I didn't owe him an apology for anything. We talked and he told me he figured the guy had a crush but kept it respectful. And really he had. We were close, but beyond a side hug during greetings and goodbyes, there was no physicality. I even let him read out past messages just just to see that. I even the emotional affair or me leading him on. I never even vented. the, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, the, the, the, the, the, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, the the the the the the the to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to to to to to to the the the th. th. the, to me, to me, told, to me, to me, told me, to me, told me, told me, told, told, told arguments because I knew better than to do that. I'd talk to my mom, lull. So my fiance asked me what I wanted to do, and I said that while it did sadden me I didn't want him at our wedding. I was afraid that he would

try some nonsense. We typed up a very brief message. It said friend. I'm sorry that you mistook my friendship for something more. The wedding is going to happen, and it'd be best if you didn't attend. To be clear, I let fiancee read this message, and he stands by my decision to uninvite you. We wanted to make it clear that it was me who wanted him not to come, not just my fiance. Knowing him, he'd probably claimed to block him. Part of me wanted to and part of me wanted to hear him out. And when he finally responded, the text was so long that I had to click on it to read it. It was horrible. He called me a liar for leading him on for over a decade that he hoped my fiancee left me and that the the fiancee left me and that the the.. the the the the the the. the the the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. th. the the. th. th. th. the the the the the the the toe told. told. toe. toe. toe. to to toe. to. to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to told. told. told. the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the tean the tean the to to to to to to to I started crying. Fiance took my phone into the other room while I sobbed. I think he called him, but I'm not sure.

What I do know is after about an hour, he came back in, handed me my phone back and told me that my friend was now blocked on everything, would not be attending, and the best man and my maid of honor knew of the situation, and would handle it for me. It was like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like a the weight like like a weight like a weight like a weight like like like like a weight like like a weight like a weight, like like like like like a weight lifted off my shoulders, honestly. After reading that message, I really wasn't so sad that my friend wouldn't be attending anymore. And our wedding fucking rocked. We had the time of our lives surrounded by people who loved us and we loved them.

It still feels like a dream, to be honest. And if the friend tried to show up, I never heard anything of it. as dramatic and crazy as what people hope for. I feel like, but I'm happy. Yeah, so that one was a little more predictable, I guess, but you know, it's hard to know with these stories. Some comments on here, dude saw Love Actually and thought he might be the one to make the wedding scene work for him where it failed on screen. So disturbing that someone you considered a friend for over a decade could turn on you that quickly because you don't want to sleep with them.

He was hiding the real hymn for a decade. That's what I was thinking. I was like, Homie has confused love with obsession easily because that is not how you treat people you love. You don't do that. Yeah. I mean, I, I, that guy has to think if he was, if, tha, that's, thi, that's, that's, that's, that's, to to to to to to to to to, to, to, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, to, to, to, to, to, to, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th..... th... th. th..... th...... th. He, th. He, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi. thi. to. to. too. tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. toe. toethink if he was pretending, and that's what it was, he was pretending to be someone's friend for that long. It's like, what are any of his friendships?

Like, does he have any actual friendships? Yeah. Or is it all just transactional that you're hoping for? They were friends for 10 plus years. Ten plus years? Ten plus years. Ten plus years. Ten plus years ten plus years of friendship it shouldn't be able to be blown up in a second no like everything should be talked out at least like tried

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Yeah. I guess you could say the silver lighting is like, okay now I don't. I get to just completely remove him for my life. Because there's no, I mean him doing that 48 hours before the wedding. There's no coming back from that anyways like I guess it could have been really complicated if he was like I'm so sorry I didn't mean I I that was wrong or if he drunc texted that yeah then that would be really hard like that then if he's like fuck I didn't want to send you that I didn't want to say it yeah it's like but but my friend my phone that's my my my my my th I th I th I th I th I th I th th th th th th th th th th th that's th that's that's that that's that's the the that's that's that's the that's like that the the the the the the the that that the that the that the that the that the that that that the that that that that that th th th th that th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th. th. the the the the the the the the the the the the that's that's the the that's the theee theeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee that's the the the my god that was Jeff. That was him. I thought this was somebody else.

Oh sorry I thought that was my other friend of 10 years. Oh sorry. Oh my god my cousin typed something stupid on my phone. He also made my Facebook status. I love poop. Remember when you used to do that? Yeah. One more comment. As someone who has had feelings for a friend and never moved to a romantic level, this dude fucking sucks. They've known each other for, known each other for years and he decides to shoot his shot right before a wedding and then his reaction when she told him she didn't think of him that way, gross. Beyond gross if you actually love someone, truly love them.

Then you want them to them and laugh with them and cheer them on at all the good moments in their life and be there to support them during the down times. You don't throw away that kind of friendship with someone just because they won't fuck you. If you genuinely love them, that is,'s obvious that it was like he viewed her as an object for like 10 years. Yeah. Because if he really did care for her as a person, yeah. You let it go. He would have also, he would have also had clearer vision to go, oh she's really happy in this situation. Yeah. I mean, he made it easy on her. Him being a clear asshole at the end is just like clear block. Instead of like your best friend being heartbroken that would have got messy. And he doesn't even feel bad about it. Yeah. I mean maybe someday, maybe years from now he suddenly wake up. Yeah.

All right. Next story. Am I the asshole for being late when I was previously someone who was chronically late. What? Am I the assu for being late when I was previously someone who was chronically late? So this is someone who was, they were late, but they used to be late all the time, but now they're not. Okay. But they were late. Okay. Okay. Hi everybody. I would like some judgment on this because I've been getting some serious backlash from my friends, but personally don't really see the issue. Last week I was invited to brunch with some of my closer friends. We meet up quite regularly, so this wasn't anything special or uncommon. Now I'm going to be honest, I used to be someone who was chronically late to everything, like

20 to 30 minutes. I just couldn't seem to manage my life enough to be on time. However, I've seriously taken the time toe the time time time time time time past two years, I've never been late to anything if there wasn't a genuine reason. Train getting delayed or something like that. Now all my precautions have failed me last week and I found myself running late. that the teauil. Not terribly so big, maybe 10 minutes behind schedule. I let the others then they can start ordering drinks already and don't have to wait on me. I thought everything was dealt with and hurried up and got to the place maybe 15

minutes late in total. I was already ready to apologize and sit down at the table but as soon as I sat down, everyone got up and left me there. They told me that if they weren't worth my time, I wasn't worth theirs either and theirseh.. their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. And their. I was, their. I was, their. I was, their. I was their. I was their, their. I was told. I was told. I was told. I was told. I was told. I was toe, toe, toe, toe, toe, their, their. I their. their. their. their. their. their. their. I was their. I was. I was. I was. I was. I was. I was. I was. I was. I was a their. I was a t. I'm t. I'm total. I'm todea. I'm today. I'm toda. I'm today. I'm today. toea. I'm toea. toea. toe. toe. toe. toe. together. I later saw an insta that they went out to eat together somewhere else. Now I would have understood that if it was in my late era but I thought that it was clear that I've changed and wasn't late just because I could. My friends are late sometimes too so I don't see the reason on them being always on time. Judgment, not the asshole for that one but what are your thoughts on? Why did they do that? That's insane. So I haven't read this one. So my initial reaction, because a thought that I often have reading these Reddit stories

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So I was arriving at the 10 a.m. brunch at 11.15 and called seemed really ignorant. That explains the huge reaction, to be honest. Now we all had a talk after a few days, and it took about five minutes of confused discussion until they realized that they didn't tell me. They started apologizing profusely immediately. To sum it up, we're all good now. It was a misunderstanding and that happens. Next brunch is fully on them, lull. Thanks for everyone's judgment. Hope this update helps understanding the situation and isn't too confusing.

It was very confusing to write, to be honest. Okay, so I was right. Neither of them were the asshole, and it was a weird confusion. I will still say, even if she's an hour and 15 minutes late, them getting up and going to another restaurant, I still think is a little crazy. Because th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that, thi thi thi thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi thus thi, thus thus thus thus thus thus thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi thi thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. thi. th is a little crazy. Because there's no way they didn't eat for that full hour. So, so, so here's some comments. How does it make sense that they had to push up the brunch to 10 a.m.

because of an appointment at 1 p.m. But then when ate an entirely new restaurant at 11.15 a.m. Doesn't that just defeat a photo posted of their friends with their brunch and assumed it had happened after they left, since OOP didn't know brunch had been moved forward and their friends would have had time to eat before they arrived. It says they ate somewhere else, so they either didn't wait at all for OP and ate somewhere else immediately just to go back to their normal brunch spot to meet OP, which doesn't make sense. If the pictures posted weren't at the same restaurant, they always go to, it's a pretty safe assumption that they ate after. The way I read it is OP thought they left to eat

somewhere else when O.P. arrived 15 minutes late, but in reality, O.P. arrived an hour and 15 minutes late to brunch, so everyone was just leaving because brunch was over. Yeah, it seems, I guess it's confusing, but she made it sound like they left and they went and ate somewhere else. They immediately got up when she sat down. And did only one person have an appointment? Because maybe the one person wanted to be... Yeah, Jesus! There's one person should have just left early.

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I don't need to like punish you as a friend. The punishment is like, hey, I'm sorry, brunch is over. Like, I'm sorry, like, yeah, that's the punishment. Like, if someone shows up late and I'm not like, now we're gonna all make a, we're gonna go get dinner later tonight, we're not gonna invite you because you were late to this. I'm like, oh, no. This is like when parents give like a kid a punishment for the lesson learning of it all.

And you're like, this actually is not gonna help the kid learn. No. Like, just being like, when she sees get that this was a miscommunication, but it is horrible that they didn't even hear O.P. out and all got up like a bunch of children. I wouldn't be friends with people like that. Someone else said, frankly, I didn't get the reason behind bitching, and yes, their reaction was very sitcom level of miscommunication. Definitely sounds like one of those problems that could have been resolved with the barest amount of communication rather than storming off without giving the other person a chance to explain. And considering the time for the brunch was changed, I don't know how it didn't

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We don't meet them very often because they live in my boyfriend's home country. I don't want to reveal country names either for privacy reasons but my boyfriend and I are of different nationalities and we both work in my country. The conflict happened during our last visit last weekend. We have been looking up houses to move in together in engagement rings. While we were having dinner we mentioned this to his family as it's a big step in our relationship for us. We are not engaged yet. His parents and brothers expressed their happiness for us. Then out of nowhere his youngest sister-in-law asked, so is she going to take the test? I asked, what test? In summary, boyfriend's family has his tradition

where the future mother-in-law tests future daughter-in-law to see if they are good enough for her sons. Apparently, his mother and aunts went through this same test. The test include how to clean and keep a home, how well they can cook, their manners, et cetera. Basically, life skills most people learn from childhood. I found it ridiculous because, one, if I'm good enough for my boyfriend, he should be the one deciding it.

And two, I don't fit in their targeted category. In his mom's words, you can't be a good, stay-at-home mom if you can't be a good homemaker and she wants to make sure of that. To be clear, his mom and all three of his brother's wives are stay-at-home moms and although I respect their choice I'm not quitting my career and did not under any circumstances make my boyfriend's thinne thinn't thin. I told my boyfriend's mom all this, and it caused an argument that eventually ruined dinner

and an extension, our visit. The boyfriend doesn't care whether I'm a working wife or a stay-at-home mom, but he thinks I should have just done the test, and it's not like theyition that everyone was looking forward to, and I should have gone along with it anyways. My boyfriend thinks I'm the asshole and suggested I make this post. If I really am the asshole, I'm sure you guys will let me know, so am I? Edit.

Adding this as it's been coming up. I know disclosing the country may or may not bring up some unwanted arguments. that thiii. here, but just for context, it's a family tradition, not a national culture. That is an important thing. So this is very, so yeah, for context, she is saying, and I'm supposing the boyfriend's saying like, this is a very individual family tradition. Right. This is nothing, cultural, like cultural to where he's from or anything. So she gave a little more info on this. One of those things that one family member does

and is passed down from generations, like baking a huge cake on the anniversary of someone important in the family. Not everyone in that country does it, but it's a family trauition. I don't know if my example makes sense, but this is how delicious it is. And trust me, they'll be convinced

by trying to take revenge on them if they ate my food. So there's that. But now that you mentioned it, his mom cooks like a five-star chef, and so do his sister-in-laws, the two whose food food food know, I'll have to ask my boyfriend. Wow. So I have not read this, so I have no idea where this is going. So I, I love the idea of a test. I'm like, that's so fun.

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Yes! Yes! It falls in line with the rule of Reddit. Whenever boyfriend's post on their, they're the asshole. They're the asshole. They're like, I want my girlfriend to cook for everyone. Right? Why am I the asshole? Anyway, I talked to my family and told them about the test. Yesterday, they called us home for dinner and told him they would let me take his family's test if he let my dad and male cousins put him through a similar test. He blew up about how it was ridiculous. thrown. about how ridiculous it is because it's a family tradition for his family, but for mine it's something we came up with at

random. That's how traditions start. Wow. Wow. And you could take that to the fucking back. Look, they're starting a family tradition. He ended up saying it's okay if I don't do the test. But my parents and I were being childish. He let slip mid argument that his younger sister-inlalala-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in th-in th-in th-in th-in th- th- th He let slip mid-argument that his younger sister-in-law didn't want to do the test either, but look at her, the perfect wife. He's, there it is. He let it slip! Yep, he said a lot of things, but long story short, he is still supportive of whatever I want to do with my life after marriage, but his family family the family the family way. However, I was starting to see a pattern, so I asked to take a break.

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Time has slowed down and I am aware of all the things surrounding me. It's a nice feeling. My day to day a healthy and beautiful family. What will my daughters think of me? I look at my wife that I love with all my heart and I see a woman who stood by me no matter what the to' the to' the waltz. We had our fair share of ups and downs like most couples, but I am here, to the toe, I, I, and I'm the the the the the, I'm the the, I'm the the, I'm the the, I don't know what the future holds. All I know is that the storm is coming, and I am here basking in the sun

until the clouds come rolling in. I plan to confess over the weekend. Even if I know the outcome, I pray she does not leave me. This was so fucking not worth it. Any suggestions on how to confess? How do you start? What do I tell my daughters? I.... I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I to to to to to to to to to told. I to told. I told. I told. I told. I told. I told. I told. I to to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I to confess. I toen. I toen toen toen toen toen. I toen. I toen. I toen. I toen. I toen. I toen. I toen. I toen toen toen toen toen toen toen. What else can I do? Wish me luck. Edit. Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. Some of them were hard to read.

I don't have time to address all comments, but we'll reply a few to clear some things. Yesterday I reached out to my brother for advice. He left his wife and married his affair partner. He seemed happy with her. after all and he is planning on leaving her, but it is stuck at the moment. His advice is not to tell my wife and to minimize it if confronted. He also said I should let down a fair partner gently so she does not go nuclear on my wife and family.

I am hoping for the best but preparing for the worst. In the comments, people doubt that O.P. really loved his wife. He did cheat on her for six years and all. He responds, I am not confused. I never was. I don't have a problem separating love from sex. My heart is loyal to my woman and she is, she is for me. So many responses about how I don't value my affair partner. Since I'm on a poor my heart out role here, let me tell you about my affair partner. She is a gorgeous and smart woman who is funny and open to different experiences. She is younger than myself and my wife, fit, seductive, sexy as fuck, but she is not my wife and does not even compare. Six years on and off is

a long time to invest. As I see it, she is an adult woman who made decisions to cheat with a married man on her husband for whatever reasons. Do I care for her? Yes. Six years is a long time. Do I love her? No. Did I say to her I loved her? Yes, of course, of course she fucking did. to her. I loved her? Yes, of course she fucking did. We both knew we were playing with fire. The reason I strayed was has nothing to do with my wife. We have a good sex life in general, but I do have some kinks that she is not into it all. the the the the. the the. the. the. the. the. the. the. t. t. t. t. tttt. t. ttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt. to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, th. I, th. th. th. to, th. th. to, to to th to th to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to with my wife. We have a good sex life in general, but I do have some kinks that she is not into it all. My affair partner was into the same kinks. That's how we met, and that is why the affair was on going for six years. What led me to starting the affair was my wife being in an accident that took a toll on her body. Sex was off the table. S shared my kink, I was hooked. So all you people saying that my wife was withholding sex in intimacy, no. My wife and I are very intimate. Having sex with my wife is making love.

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Like, that's the real issue. Because yeah, the real issue is people who are in polyenomorous relationships and that is totally fine yeah because there's honesty there yeah yeah if two people meet and they go hey we both want to sleep with other people right totally great if they're both like yeah great awesome yeah he's like explaining the reasons why he's with her sexually and that's not why we we need the reason no on why you're not talking to your wife. No, right. He could be, yes, say that again. We don't need the reason why you're sexually attracted to your affair or your partner. We need the reason why you're not telling your wife.

Yeah, because she now for six years has been living in a lie and not knowing. Like, that's what sucks. Oh, important thing to remember, the affair partner is also also tha thi thi thi thi thi thoo tho tho tho tho thi thi thi thi thi thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thiol------------------------------------------------------------------------a thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi tha thi-a tha-a-a-s tha-s tha-s tha-s tha-s tha-s toa-sa-sa-sa-sa-saua-sa-saua-sa-sa-sa-sa-sa-sa-s toa-s toa-thing to remember, the affair partner is also married. So yeah, to be clear, where this all started is the affair partner got served divorce papers. So she's getting divorced, and so this guy knows that this is about to like blow up into his life and everything. Yeah, what do you say? The storm is coming. So we don't know the twist. We don't know the twist. So we just know that she that she that she that she that she that she that she that she that she that she that she that she that she knows know that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she knows that she's that she's that that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's that she that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi. thi thi thi thi thi's thi's thi's thi's thi's thi. thi. thi thi. thi thi thi. thi. thi. twist. So we just know that she's getting served divorce papers. And he's like, I need to come clean to my wife

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Also like, I don't know, he talks about like this all started, yeah, this all started with an accident to her that took a toll on her body and it's like, oh, he acts like it's it was a tough thing for him. Yeah. I'm like, she also couldn't have sex bro over here. He really doesn't want to lose his affair. No, well he's a cake eater. He's posting, he's posting on cake eater. Yeah, he posted this on, I think this was posted on our adultery, but it was reposted on cake eater perhaps. The responses were posted on cake eaters.

Okay, well let's find out what happens. Do we want to, any predictions? I know what happens? Oh my god, oh my God. Okay, you want to, one guess? You first. Okay, um, I'm hoping, I'm hoping that, um, I'm not even hoping that. I think, I'm like, they talked it out.

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check it for background, this is the sub I should be on. I was prepared for all scenarios but not this one. The doom day did not come in the shape I was expecting. A fair partner ended up convincing her soon to be X not to spill the beans to my wife in exchange for a smooth divorce. I thoed thoed th th th th th th tho th th tho th th tho th tho th th th tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho-I tho-I tho-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o' tho-o-o' tho-o-o-o-o-up. tho-up. tho-up. tho-up. tho-up. tho-up. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the the the the the the tho' tho' tho'-n'-s thoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo' the th convincing her, soon to be ex, not to spill the beans to my wife in exchange for a smooth divorce. I thought I was in the clear. Yesterday, a fair partner sent me a blurry photo of my wife in the car with another man. She claimed they walked hand in hand to his car from a store in a nearby town to ours. She got a shot of the plates too. After some digging, I now know how long for sure, but, but, but, too, too, too, too, too, too, the too, too, the too, the too, too, the too, the too, the the too, the the too, too, too, too, the the the too, and is, and is a to me, and to me, and to me, and to me, and the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the thi, and is a thi, thi, thi, thro, throoooooooomoomorrow, too, too, too, too, too, thiolioli, and is thi, and is thi, and is a the plates too. After some digging, I now know she is having an affair. Don't know how long for sure, but at least six months.

He is a single dad, our age, and is telling her to leave the marriage. She is telling him she loves him. Afraid to confront her, feel numb at the moment. Took a day off of work. Any advice on how to proceed? Should I just let it run its course and monitor? Should I confront and hope for the best? Should I confess to my affair and hope we all can come clean and make way for a new marriage?

I am so fucking utterly confused. I have rehearsed the things I would say and do if she wants to find out about my affairs. I was not prepared for this shit. He manages to get to get to get to get to get to get to get to get to get the phone while she's in the sauna and confirms the affair over what's app. Logically, yes, we are both getting our itches scratched. What's the big deal? I am not ruled by logic at this moment. Maybe later, but now my emotions are overpowering every logic.

Never in my life have I experienced this type of emotional and physical distress. I can't even think straight. Never thought I was going to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the to the their their their the tho. their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their tho. tho. I. I. I. I. I'm to. I. Ic. Ic. Ic. I. to. I. to. thoo. I. I. th. I. th. I eyes out and throw up on the carpet. Oh, fuck off. I am desperate to talk this out to know why this happened and how invested she really is in this piece of shit. If she is doing this out of revenge, maybe I have a chance, because if so, she does feel something for me at least. I can't imagine her being emotionless, throwing away our over 20 years. I know this woman this woman this woman this woman this woman, th, th, th, th, I'm th, th, th, th, th, thi, th, thi, thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm to th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th th thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, thi. thin, thin, thin, thin, th thin, thin, th thin, thin, th thin, thin, I'm thi. I'm th th th to throwing away are over 20 years. I know this woman like I know myself. Deep down she's hurt, but also so very stubborn and proud. I just want to know if she knew about my affair, why the hell did she not confront me? I would have chosen her over a fair partner in a nanosecond.

And what the hell is she hoping to find with this duce. He is no better than me sleeping with this dush. Get him, bro, get him, carpet barfer, get him. He is no better than me sleeping with a married woman. Ah, fuck, I am trying to respect her wish to have some space, but I am desperate, desperate, desperate just to talk to her. Yeah, I don't know how I feel about being on the other side. Never had fantasies about my wife, fucking other men. We had a good sex life minus my kinks she was not aware of, hence, thens, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, th, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, thus, aware of, hence the affair partner. I am thinking what do I have to lose. There can only, there can be only two outcomes. She loves him and

she leaves, she loves me and she stays. I am hoping this is just a fling and nothing serious. God! Wait, she asked for space? Did I miss that? No, no, I think he's just, he's playing out scenarios. Oh, okay. Oh, thi's th. th. thi's thi's thi's thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. the the the thi. thi. the thi. thi. thi. thi's thi's thoome. the the the that thi's tho their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their their. their their their their their their thi. thi. th. the. the. the. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the. th. the. the. th. the. th. out scenarios. Okay, okay. Oh my God, there's another update. This one keeps updating. Okay, I will tell you exactly how I would do it. I would go to her and I'll be like, there are three things we need to talk about. Like, serious. Nope, three, it's a three-step plan. Oh, you have to do the three step hand. Number one, it's the hardest, it's the hardest part to get away. It's an umbrella. What do we think of having an open

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What are they living like, like, they live in like, they live in like, the f-person tow. No, you can see somebody at the fact that it's like, but also I lied to you for six years. And it's like, okay, so if you can lie about this, I can't trust you in any sort of sphere. It's like, can I trust you with money? Can I trust you with my safety? Can I trust you? Like, that's the issue, the issue, the issue, the issue, the issue, the issue, the issue, the issue, th.... th. th. th. th. I's th. I's th. I. I's th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to... to.... to. to............. to.. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. toe. toe. th. the. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe don't know what to think. He's got no choice. And there's something, he's got no choice.

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read that too I went what a weird detail mention why did you like yeah why does it like yeah right right any any any any the the they's the the the the the the the the the this this this this this this this this this is is is is is is is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is is is this is is is is is this is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is this is the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th is th is is is th is this. the my guy. Right. Okay, any predictions? Anything. Okay, she's not in love with him. Or, or she knew. Or she knew or she knows. Well, he's he was kind of saying that. He was like, this is revenge. So you think it's for revenge? I think she knew a couple years ago and has since fallen in love, not out of revenge, but just because he's absent. And she's going to leave his ass. Let's see. Okay. Second update, my marriage seems to be over. Confronted my wife this past weekend. Confronted. Sat her down without warning and told her I knew she was having an affair and with whom? Asked her if she loved him and what her plan was. She was caught off guard, went to the bathroom for 10 minutes. When she came out she looked me straight in the eyes and said, I know about your affair too. Yes, bitch! Sorry. I think she writes in a song. I know

about your affair too. I have known for some time now. I love him and I want a divorce. Yeah. Next days were a blur. I tried to talk to her but she shut me down. She has moved into the spare bedroom and is making appointments with law firms. Has told our two girls, I have signed up for emergency therapy. Am on meds for dealing with anxiety and lack of sleep. This is surreal. He heard her talk to him last night and cut the internet cord. Kind of crazy because I need fucking internet for work and she just switched to her phone. Oh man. Oh man.

Oh man! Oh, man! I made love to her past week, and today she is a total stranger. How does this happen? How can she not feel any fucking emotion? Over 20 years, gone. All the love, friendship, partnership, intimacy, jokes, memories, plans for our future. thoeyse, that that's that, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, the, the, thoe, thoe, thoe, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, th, th, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, thu, thu. the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, thu.. the, the, the, and thea. thea. thea. tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, and so blindsided and the only person I can talk to is my mother, is my brother who lives across the country. Sorry to vent here to you find people on here.

Just need to get this out. He gets his ass handed to him in the comments more or less. But I wanted to call out this comment. Made love to her last week. How does she not feel any emotion? This is simple. She has learned thine. She has sex with you but loves her affair partner. You taught her well. Because yeah that's something he said earlier. There's some comments here. Anyone else noticed that one point he used to justify his affair was that his wife wasn't into his kinks. Then he goes on

later to say she wasn't even aware of his kinks. This guy man. Yeah. She doesn't even know he like rabbits. Also that she was in an accident that fucked up her body and meant she couldn't have sex for a while. Concrats to him on making her feel extra shitty. Right. It would be funny if it wasn't so fucked up. I truly deeply and utterly cannot understand how someone is capable of functioning with this level of cognitive dissonance between his actions and his wife's actions. I don't get it. I really don't get it. How does someone cheat for that long and manage to be so angry about their spouse's affair? How do they not see?

People are scary. Uh, yeah. I think this weirdly goes back to what you said about his view of the world, and his view of the world being that like his wife is having an affair and it doesn't even turn me turn turn turn turn turn to to to to to to to th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th thu thu thu- the the the thi thi thi thi. I the' th world being that like his wife is having an affair and it doesn't even turn me on is like a fucking psychopath. Like he is a narcissist. All right, so we're not getting to all the stories, but we'll do this again sometimes. Because there's another, so I hadn't read that story. I had read a different story that was very similar of a guy cheating on his wife

and then he finds out his wife's cheating on him and it also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also also it also goes crazy in different ways. But same situation where he was cheating and he was like, yeah, there's nothing wrong with this, and then she cheats and he's like devastated. Okay, stupid. Last story, this one also blew my mind. This is a 26-year-old woman. My husband, who's 29, is obsessed with my boss, a female, who's 38, and it's all my fault. This comes from True Off My Chest. I started this job about one and a half years ago.

I can't say what it is because I want us to stay anonymous and our country is very small, so, my boss would probably be recognized. The moment I started, I felt like I was in the right place. My boss, the owner of the dirty work herself that bosses who have 30 to 35 employees wouldn't have to do. But she just loves it. On top of that, we have a six-hour workday. Our salaries are 20% higher than the market, and we have seven paid vacation weeks a year. Her reasons? She appreciates us, and she's getting richer anyway.

I was so proud of working with a woman like her, to to about her to my husband, especially in the beginning. My husband was as fascinated by her as I am until he met her at a company party last Christmas. She must have been beautiful when she was young. She could have been a model. I think his fascination became a crush or an obsession, or maybe worse, love. Now he follows her on social media. Her accounts are private, but he stalks her with my account. He also follows the company Instagram and likes every picture she's in. He asks about her all the time. She's a very private person, but when her divorce from her ex-husband

was finalized in the beginning of this year, we all found out because he started showing up to work to work. He owned half of her company, and he started to tried to employ in our company. She still works with us. She, probably lawyers involved, eventually convinced her husband to sell her back his share. We're still in this process now. My husband has followed all this and he was so sad for her, and so angry. How could anyone do this when they had a woman like her?

If it was him he would cherish her, love her, blah, blah, blah. Who leaves a woman for a girl? I got very angry and told him that all men prefer younger women if they could choose. He laughed at me and told me only losers do that. The last drop was last Friday. We were out for a movie night and we saw my boss with a young man. He looked to be in hello, but I refused and yelled at him to control himself because he looked pathetic. When we got back home, he was frenetically going through her social media until he found the guy and he sighed in relief. The guy was her nephew and we

didn't see the whole company, but they were out with other family members. My husband was so happy like a weight lifted off his chest. I lost it on him. I started crying and yelling and told him he was in love with her and he was shocked when I pushed and kicked him out of the bedroom. I locked the door. He stood outside trying to calm me down telling me he loved me and I'm his girl and always will be. Then he said something that ruined me even further. It's not like someone like her would look my way. I haven't slept. Ding Dong the witch is dead. I haven't slept since then. Why is he feeling like this?

Is it love, infatuation? She's too old for my husband, so what is it? And why would he think he couldn't have her? He's very handsome and still young. She should feel lucky that a young, handsome man likes her? to accept him? Or is her to accept him or is it purely her money and status he refuses to admit anything and what can I do now I love this job I love the benefits thanks to this job our life has improved and we can afford more than just the necessities I'm starting to hate my boss though and I hate myself for

idolizing her in front of my husband the this is getting longer, but I have spoken to my mother, sister, granny, and some friends about this, and about what happened last Friday, and they all think I'm making a big deal out of nothing. So strange, so he's obsessed with her boss. Yeah. Fully obsessed. Yeah, like, looking at her phone to look at her social media. Any predictions of Um, predictions of what? What do you think is going to happen next?

I mean, I know, it's a weird, there's not, it's hard to predict on this one. Yeah, because it's like, where does it go? I, do you think their relationship will survive? No? No. No. No. They rarely do. Yeah. I don't think there I don't think any of them have at this point. I think I think he's gonna shoot his shot

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not interested in working on us anymore. I chose not to quit my job. I still loved it with all the heartbreak and I really needed the benefits. Like I'm the only one I know who is having a three weeks paid vacation around Christmas and New Year. I never of my existence. My husband eventually stopped being active on Instagram and I thought it was normal. We were going through adversities until yesterday when his brother shared my husband's stories of the night. My husband was in a restaurant holding a woman's hand. I could only see her hand. So my husband has just blocked me and my family and friends from seeing his updates. I commented what the

fuck and this morning my husband called me. For the first time in months, totally scared and started begging. Please don't ruin this for me. Please don't ruin this for me. I told him what do you mean? He said, don't tell her about us. I never made the connection at first. It never even crossed my mind even. That woman in the picture was my boss. No. I started crying and screaming at him. thrown. I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I th, I th, th-I th, th-I tho, th, tho, that, that, tho, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, the, the, the, the, tho, tho, the, the thooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. the, th, the? How could you tell me that it was all in my head when it's obviously all over your Instagram? He said it just happened. I dumped him and he was single and just happened to find her on Bumble. No! He begged me not to ruin this for him. She knows he's in the process of divorce, but she doesn't know that he already, he doesn't know that he already knew who she was or that she was the boss, the boss, the boss, the boss, th... th. th. th. th. th. th. th th th th th th th to to th to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to he, he, he, to he, he, he, and he was, and he was, and he was, and he was, and he was, and he was, and he was, and he was, and he was, he was, he was, he was, he was, he was, he was, he was, he was he, he was he, he was he, he was he, he was he, he was he, he was to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the th th th th th to to th to to to to to to to to to to to told, to to to to to to to to told, to the he, the he, the thu. th th she was the boss of his soon-to-be ex. They have been seeing each other for six weeks, about two weeks after I asked him to move.

And it's getting serious. He begged for a good five minutes, telling me how he hasn't been this happy in all his life, and that I shouldn't ruin his happiness, since, again, I was the one who ended our marriage. I have been crying since to do. I want to ruin him and his happiness, but I don't know if I have any right to do that, and I'm so worried about losing my job, please help. Edit for new information. Okay, my husband has been calling me nonstop, and I have now answered him. He is panicking about me telling her everything, so he begged me to give him the chance to tell her himself. His words were, I never stalked her or creeped on her. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. to. to. to. to. to. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. t, toe. t, tode. tode. tode. t, t, t, t, t, t, to to to to to to to to to to to the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. tod today. today. today, today, today, today, today, today, today, today, today, today, today. today. t and was scared that she would think I was creepy since you thought the same. Give me a chance to tell her the truth at my own

pace so at least she doesn't think I'm a liar or a freak like you seem to think. He still swears they matched on Bumble. I didn't know what that is until now but it is like Tinder. is not to scare her away. When I told him this, he said that I was the one who left him. People fall out of love and that's okay and no one's fault and that I was in the right for ending the relationship, but I was the one who ended it all the same. Don't hurt us and I promised to give you everything you want. She is happy with me so she is happy with th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th thus thus th thus thus thus thus that that that that that that that that the the that that that that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I th th th th th th th th th th th th th that I that I that I that I that that that that that that that th th th th th th th. People th. People th. People th. People th. People th. People th. People th. People th. People th. People th. People that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that's that that's that that that that that like, don't ruin this for me? He called her. In regards, she's like. She commented on his Instagram. So he called her the next morning and being like, don't tell her that we're getting a divorce and stuff.

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I'm scared that he's going get to her first, and then he's gonna be like, she's actually insane, like, she's like, on meds, like, gas lighter. Oh, if I know the history of men, that might happen. Yeah, I know, that's why I'm scared. Okay, hi, please see my previous post because this is just the update. I talked to my boss yesterday, Monday, after lunch. I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th. th. th. th. thi, th. thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, the, the, like, like, like, like, like, the, the, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the the, the the the thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi, how I looked up to her and was proud to be working for someone like her, and that this rubbed off on my husband who grew more obsessed with her each day. I apologize for

using obsessed because I didn't know how things were between them but that it was how I perceived his feelings. I told her about the day at the, I'm, basically made me the today. I told her that I that I that I thoe about about thoe about thoe, I tho, thr I thi, I thr I thr I thrown, I'm thr, I'm thr, I'm thr, I'm thr, I'm thr, I'm thr, thr, thr, thrown, thrown, thr, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, th, tho, tho, tho, tho, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr. throoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, th. I told her that I know and accept that my marriage is over and that my husband didn't love me anymore and that the reason I'm telling her now isn't to judge or blame her, but to let her know the whole story because it's just fair that she knows what he has been, that he has been following her

the impression that you just matched up with him on a dating app, I said. She was silent the whole time I was talking, just listening to me until I mentioned the dating app, and that's when she interrupted me. To lie. That's not how we met. Ah! Ah! Ah! He has been a patron at my gym for the past six months, maybe a year, she said, I know he had joined It's the one across our workplace. She works out there every morning before coming to work.

I didn't know he had joined it because I knew him to be a member at the gym near our home. He has been without telling me, working out just across the street from me every morning without telling me. She looked like how I felt, shocked. I apologized and told her that he has kept the dating her a secret from me, and that he that he that he that he he thi thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, tho, tho, the, the, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, told, too, too, too, too, too, too, the the the the the the they. thr-a, thr-s, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, the told her that he has kept the dating her a secret from me and that he begged me not to talk to her telling me that he hasn't been this happy and so on. She didn't say much just thank me for telling her. Today she asked if she could talk to me. She apologized for everything that happened to me and asked if I needed any help. I said, that I loved this woman. She thanked me again. When I got home, my husband was there. He had called me at least 50 times, but my phone was on silent. He was crying, calling me bitter and vindictive and pathetic.

He said I ruined his relationship and future. She is scared of him now, and it is all my fault. He wants me to tell her that he is not dangerous, nor is he a pervert. He wants me to tell her that I was out of love and it is nobody's fault and neither is it creepy. He hasn't done anything wrong. He stayed faithful to me and would have stayed that way if I didn't kick him out. He asked me if I ever felt unsafe with him to make rumors about him being a stalker and a creep. I should tell the truth. I asked him to leave and that I'm starting the divorce and from now on he could only contact me I got a lawyer through them. I have been crying since he left. We haven't

even seen each other for weeks and he had no feelings whatsoever for me. He looked demented and full of sorrow like a broken little boy. How could he change this fast? Before we separated he held me and begged me to to believe him and his love for me. Was it all a lie? My whole entire relationship. Good night and thank you for the support. This is a throwaway and I will be deleting it soon. I just thought I would update before doing that. Dude. Like that one, out of all of them, that's the update where I was like, oh my god, like. He was literally, literally, I've never watched you on Netflix, but I'm like, this is some you territory the the the the the the the the the th. th. th. th. th. th. It th. It's th. It's, th. It's, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thi. thi. thi. thi. th. thi. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll, th. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. th. th. th. th. th. to. th. to. th. to. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. I'll. th like, this is literally, I've never watched you on Netflix, but I'm like, this is, oh, yeah. This is some you territory.

It is. Whoa. That's, to find out like, your husband is like actively, like stalking your boss, yeah. Insane, like, I love that throughout this whole thing, she's like slightly prioritized keeping her paid vacation job. You know what I mean? She's like, I also really don't want to lose this job.

20% more salary. This freaking job is so good. God, the friggin like, we didn't meet on a dating app. Yes. That turned to my gym for six months. When they actively are members at a different gym so he signed up for that gym which he found like that means he like that means he knew he knew he found out he found out no that means he found out what gym she goes and bought another one and started going there also I just I love the boss

so much the boss is incredible how can I help you she said do you need anything and gosh it must have seen like a shift in her face when he said Bumble, when she said Bumble, being like, what? What? Yeah. Yeah. It's the time frame two of it. It's not like, oh, we met at the gym three weeks ago.

It's no, he started coming to my gym six months ago. ago, so or maybe a year, like so literally for a good part of their relationship when he was like, no, you're being crazy, like whatever, he was active. Oh, I love those moments when you're spilling the tea and then the other person has teeth. That makes it double-t-two, it makes it tea-year. Yes! That's so true. This is two really like badass women, like, the math starts mapping thing, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, th, you, th, th, th, th, th, thue. This is two really like badass women like coming together to beat the shit out of a sad little man. It was also sad that she felt so sad after he left again. I'm like, I hate that she says it's all my fault in several different updates.

Yeah. I know. And I'm just like, it's not your fault. And then all of a sudden she said good night. Good night. I feel like she should should like she she she she s s s s s s s s s s s she she she she she she she she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should should like she should should like she should like she should like she should like. that she should like. I that she should like. I that she that she that she that she that she that she that she should like. I that she should like. that she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like she should like. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I feel like. I feel like. I feel like. I feel like. I feel like. I th. I feel like. I th. I good night I was like whoa good night good night like just I feel like she should be like the woman in the first story where it's like you got you had to get out of jail free card like yeah yeah you got to see him at his worse and you don't have to like deal with him anymore yeah you're right well at least in all of these all the men took else and yes to walk off into the sunset by themselves you you think he wo th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi the the the the the the the the the the the the the. the. the. the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the to the toeeeeeeeean. theeeeeeeea. theeeeeeeee. the. the the the the the's and had to walk off into the sunset by themselves.

You think he worked out twice a day because of that? Amy. Well, I don't think we correctly guessed anything. No. But that's how these go. Thank you so much for these. Yeah. Thank you for joining me. Learned a lot.

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