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Episode Date: June 22, 2024

Cammie and Taryn are here! Happy Pride! Head to https://factormeals.com/pitreddit50 and use code pitreddit50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month. 0:00 Intro 1:52 AITA for making a gay sex joke? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/iq3c6s/aita_for_making_a_gay_sex_joke/ 6:53 AITA for taking my straight friends to a lesbian bar? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/11iah94/aita_for_taking_my_straight_female_friends_out_to/ 19:30 I suggested a threesome and things got out of control https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/irda24/i_28m_suggested_a_threesome_to_my_girlfriend_24f/ 30:42 Pro/con list about my girlfriend https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/1calt26/pro_con_lists/?share_id=JZSDBJtKwzV5aIS9s3jVk&utm_content=1&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1 40:29 AITA for mocking my nephew? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/pu239z/aita_for_mocking_my_nephew_and_ganging_up_on_him/ 47:22 Found out I was bi and my bf flipped https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexual/comments/1b6pu97/found_out_i_was_bi_in_a_committed_relationship/?share_id=ENsFira9eEP46OCwnZ1p4&utm_content=1&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1 54:55 I slept with my roommate... https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sf5sye/i_23f_slept_with_my_roommate_21f_and_dont_know/ SUBSCRIBE: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshPit WEAR OUR JOKES: https://smosh.com WHO YOU HEAR Shayne Topp // https://www.instagram.com/shaynetopp/ Cammie Scott // https://www.instagram.com/cammiescott/ Taryn Arnold Scott // https://www.instagram.com/tarynarnoldscott/ Taryn and Cammie's Podcast:  @stayinguppod  WHO YOU DON’T HEAR (usually) Director: Emily Rose Jacobson Editor: Vida Robbins Director of Programming, Smosh Pit: Emily Rose Jacobson Associate Producer, Smosh Pit: Bailey Petracek Production Designer: Cassie Vance Art Director: Erin Kuschner Art Coordinator: Alex Aguilar, Josie Bellerby Prop Master: Luke Brau Audio Mixer: Scott Neff Audio Utility: Dina Ramli Director of Photography: Brennan Iketani Camera Operator: Eric Wann Videographer: James Hull Assistant Director: Amanda Barnes Director of Production: Amanda Barnes Production Manager: Alexcina Figueroa Production Coordinator: Marcus Munguia Operations & Production Coordinator: Oliver Wehlander Production Assistant: Ovsana Tsaturian Post Production Manager: Luke Baker DIT/Lead AE: Matt Duran IT: Tim Baker Director of Design: Brittany Hobbs Graphic Designers: Ness Cardano, Monica Ravitch Senior Manager, Channel & Strategy: Lizzy Jones Channel Operations Coordinator: Audrey Carganilla Social Creative Producer: Peter Ditzler, Tommy Bowe Social Strategist: Erica Noboa, Mallory Myers Social Media Coordinator: Kim Wilborn Talent Coordinator: Selina Garcia Operations PA: Katie Fink CEO: Alessandra Catanese EVP of Programming: Kiana Parker Executive Coordinator: Rachel Collis OTHER SMOSHES: Smosh: https://smo.sh/Sub2Smosh Smosh Games: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshGames El Smosh (Spanish Dub): https://smo.sh/Sub2ElSmosh SmoshCast: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshCast FOLLOW US: TikTok: https://smo.sh/TikTok Snapchat: http://smo.sh/OnSnapchat Instagram: https://instagram.com/smosh Facebook: https://facebook.com/smosh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Well we're queer women and we have a perspective so let's do it. Good, thank God. Okay. What's your guys backstory for those who may not know? Yeah I've done social media for as long as I can remember kind of when it wasn't a career I stumbled into it and met this lovely lady. We're used to work at Patreon. We met from a mutual like a creators show And yeah, I'm just boring marketing person. She's amazing and now we have a podcast just talking about our life and And we're married and we're married. Oh my god. We got married last year. So fun, good times in our life. Very cool. Well, awesome.

And you are familiar with Reddit. Very familiar. Well, actually, no, I've never been on it. That was crazy. So you're alive. I'm so. Before this, I said, I'm going to go with whatever you say. And then she just flat out laughing. I mean, like I know it's th. th. th. th. th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, tho tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, thi, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, thi, th. And, th. And, th. And, th. And, th. And, th. And, th. And, th. And, th. And, th, th, th, th, th. And, th. And, th. And, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to thooooooom, thi, out laughing. I mean, like, I know what it is, but I've never dabbled.

Yeah, we haven't gotten too, like, deep into Reddit. But we know it's crazy and we're ready. But I watched the stories via this show and tick-tocs and stuff, but I've never been on Reddit. I'm such a liar. Yeah, before we started, you don't need it. Yeah, wow. That's what I say to everyone. I'm like, you don't have to do. And then she's like, I love Reddit. Reddit's my favorite. I don't know how, where that came out of. Telling people Reddit's your personality.

That'll go really well. Oh my, tho'n't. All right. starting off strong. This comes from the Am I the Asshole subreddit. Am I the asshole for making a gay sex joke? No. We'll find out. Yeah, you never know. You really never know. Okay.

Hey, people, I think this is the right sub for this, so let's get started on the story and y'all can judge me. This is a 22-year-old man. My friends and I were at a friend's house, Jock, who's 23, and we were drinking and chilling in a responsible manner. I'm gay, been out for a year now. While we're drinking, Jock makes a comment, and I turned it into a sex joke, because why not?

The atmosphere had been pretty lighthearted. Everyone freezes. Jock asks me, what the fuck do you mean by that? So I explain, and he looks visibly uncomfortable, and tells me that I'm not funny, and that gay men shouldn't make these sort of jokes around straight people, because it was essentially me hitting on him, and like two other of my friends, agree. The atmosphere doesn't go quite back to normal, andock moves further from me after calling me an unbelievable asshole, and so I make an excuse and bounce. Razor, my best friend, who's... I'm assuming these are not real names.

Okay, okay. This person is just very creative with the names they're creating. Razor, my best friend, who's gay and has been out for longer than I have, thinks they're overly sensitive, and he followed me immediately when I left and said some choice words about Jock and the two friends who defended him. I don't know how to feel. When I was younger, I had issues with boundaries, so maybe I did transgress some, and Jock told me that unless I apologize for making him uncomfortable, I'm not welcome in. So what do you all think? Am I the assuble for making the the the the the people? Edit, he said, bottoms up and I stood up. That's so good. That's pretty good. Jock, or not Jock. What's his name? We don't know, we don't know OPs. We call him O.P. O.P. O. E. E. E. that number two. Over 3, to clarify know I'm a bottom, thank you, Reddit. Edit number three, to clarify something, I wasn't the first person who made a sex joke, others were made. Okay. He did nothing wrong. He made a silly joke.

And it was good joke. And it wasn't about anyone else. He was just like, bottoms up, I'll get up. Yeah, that's hilarious. That's hilarious. That's hilarious. That was incredible. I think there's a little internalized homophobia maybe going on. One percent. From Jacques. Something's up with Jacques. Yeah. No, that's a joke. Especially if he's saying other sex jokes were made.

Yeah. It's just like that one wasn't okay. That's not even that explicit of a joke. No. Okay, maybe it was very intense or whatever. I would say that in front of my family. I would do. Yeah. And they wouldn't get it, but it would be fun. It would be fun for those who do. Yeah, no. He's fine.

Yeah. I feel, I feel sure about that, that Jock about that, that Jock shouldn't be mad at that. Yeah. This is me just filling in with my brain. That Jock would be the type then to also be like, man, you can't say anything these days. Oh, 100% that would come around. Which is ironic. Wow.

Honestly? Can't you take a bottom joke? The verdict was not the asshole. No. No. Did anyone say? Um, that's inappropriate? Well, he said to some other friends backed up jock, but he did say his friend Razor also said they're being overly sensitive.

Yeah, and whatever razor says, must be right. But Razor, nothing affects Razor. No, like, he's so chill. Razor's cool as hell. We have a few comments here. Someone said, not the asshole. the joke, thii's, that is incredibly tame and their reaction is a bit homophobic. Someone said, holy shit, seriously, before I read the edit, I thought maybe the joke had crossed the line into harassment, i.e. unwanted advances on someone as a joke.

The joke wasn't even at someone. It was literally a statement about O.P. the person is just homophobic as fuck. Someone said, I laughed out loud. You were poking fun of yourself, not even the gay community at large, so really don't see any issue here. Edit if you live in Canada, let's be friends. Opie said, I'm planning to move there soon. Oh, okay. Oh, at the least we're getting a friendship out of this. Yeah. Or perhaps he found his top. Maybe.

Maybe that. Lastly, someone said, maybe for his next birthday, O.P. can get Jock, some pearls to clutch, not the asshole at all. I love that. I'm going to steal that. Agreed to all of the above. Some pulls to clutch. Yeah. It wasn't even like a sex joke.

It's like an identity joke. It really, yeah. Literally, he was just identified and stood up. She's being clear. Yeah. I think I love him. Yeah. Super funny. They got a round of applause from our room. So, yeah, a killer joke. Special. All right, let's move on the next story. That was a good start one.

It's a tour. Yeah, calm. Yeah, calm. Yeah, calm. Yeah, calm. the t taking my straight female friends out to a lesbian bar because they always make me go to gay bars? Okay. I'm a 26 year old man and straight. I have a group of friends with a few more women than men and we go out a couple nights a week. Every time we go out, the girls all insist we end up at a gay club at the end of the night. To be clear, I don't normally mind, but it's getting excessive. I can't remember the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last the last. the last. the last. the last. the last. the last. the last. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thi. th. I'm th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I, th. I, th. I, th. I, th. I, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the thi. I, thi. I, thi. I, thi. I'm thi. I'm thi. I'm thi. I'm tooooooooooooooooooooooo. I'm te. I'm th. th. th. I'm th. I'm out, the girls all insist we end up at a gay club at the end of the night. To be clear, I don't normally mind, but it's getting excessive.

I can't remember the last time they didn't insist we go, and lately I've been getting hit on a lot, and some of the drunk guys at the bars get very handsy. It's gotten uncomfortable at this same way. I tried to bring it up, but they don't listen and accuse me of acting homophobic, which I am not. My sister is by and suggested our city has a lesbian bar and I should take them there to see how they react. To be clear, this bar does openly welcome straight and cisgendered people so we the game a basketball game last night and this bar sets up a game night whenever our local NBA team is playing.

I suggested we go there to watch the game and most of the group came along. They immediately got really uncomfortable when other women started flirting with them at the bar and offering to buy them drinks. It lasted about an hour before the girls all took off. A couple of the other guys and I actually ended up staying, the women there were were were, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, there, th th th th that, that, that, that, that, th th th that, their, that, and, their, their, and I, and I, and I, and I, and I, and I, and, and, and I, and, and, and I, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th th th th th th th th th that, that, that, that, that, that, thr-s, thr-s, their, their, thr-s, the the throoa. throooooooooooooooooooooo. that, were all really cool and we made some new friends. The group chat this morning has been a big argument. The girls all say it was fucked up that we took them there. I told them to stop acting homophobic. The other guys in the chat are mostly supporting me

and saying they have no leg to stand on since we always constantly agree to join them at gay clubs and never complain. I actually want to start going there regularly on game nights. It's a really fun atmosphere and everyone we met was awesome. So okay, interesting. Yeah. What do you think? This one's layered. I know.

My issue with this one is that he's bringing them there to kind of reverse it and be like, see, you don't like it. Which I don't really love our space being used as like a gotcha moment. Don't come. Yes. But if he wants to come and hang out and be respectful, I'll allow it. But that's what I didn't like about it. But he's not the asshole for flipping it on them, it's just including us. Because I could imagine like I'm at a bar, all these straight guys and women come in. The women are obviously, what th, th, th, th, what th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, they's they's they's th, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, and I I's, th, thi, and I's, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi's thi, thi's thi's thi's they's they's they's they's they's they, these straight guys and women come in, the women are obviously uncomfortable, then I'd be like, what are you doing here? Get out of here.

Yeah, imagining that I'm in that scenario is really annoying. But as the observer of this story, I'm not that annoyed. But if I was at the bar and there's like a group of people that I'm like don't do that here. I think they're all assholes I think everyone's the asshole. I think everyone's the asshole in this. I think I do too. Because it's like you don't need to go to a gay bar. You're not gay. If you're going with your gay friends, great. If you're being invited in the space but it sounds like the straight girls are wanting to go to go, there's nothing wrong with that, don't go. And then they're coming into the lesbian bar, which where are they finding a lesbian bar? is my first question, because there's far and few in between. Well, he said my, he said his sister is by and suggested our city has a lesbian bar.

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I also had a moment during that story where I was like, like, the, the, th, th, the, th, th, th, th, the, th, th, th, the, th, th, th, th, th, and, and, and, and, th, and, and, this is so sweet. Should we get comfy? I was like feeling this was a weird story to have you read to me, but I'm loving it. I have moments where I'm reading these stories where I kind of like, because I do it so much, where I kind of almost like view myself from above? Like, am I reading Reddit for two hours straight here? And I'm just like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, same. really great at reading. Thank you. I think I've gotten better. Yeah, really good. Yeah, same. Interesting, yeah. I think for me it's like everyone's the asshole.

Or is it also just like this situation is so much more complicated than it needed to be? Yeah. Because he could have just said, hey, like, can we sometimes not go to gay clubs? Because I get hit on and it would be nice nice nice nice nice nice there. Yeah. The lesson teaching this work. Maybe he just needs new friends. They don't, it sounded like he did say that and they didn't respect it. And he'd even go home early and they were mad at him. Yeah.

I don't know. It's never good when you have to play too many games. Yeah, it's interesting. not the asshole. They're saying he's not the asshole for his whole situation. I don't think he's an I guess. I agree. Sometimes assholes too harsh. Yeah, right? Where it's just like you're annoying. You didn't need to do all that. Yeah. Yeah. Yes. I'm like playing monopoly to figure out a very easy, simple. Yes. Exactly. Yes. Big comment here. Someone said not the asshole. This is a crystal clear case of what's good. the g g g g g g. the g. the g. the g. the g. the g. the g. the g. the g. the g. the the the th. the the th. th. the the th. th. th. the th. the their. their. their. thi. thi. their. their. they. the the the th. I is. I is. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I is. I's. I's. I'm. th. I'm th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the th. I'm th. the th. I'm the the the th. I's of what's good for the goose is good for the gander. I assume they wanted to go to male gay bars because they feel more comfortable, not being hit on all the time, but you were being hit on all the time, but you were being hit on, and they insisted you were homophobic for not liking being hit on. And they insisted, you're homeifed the to thiioged, the, tho, tho, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. that, that, that, that, that, that, that, tho, tho, the, the, tho, the the the, tho, tho, tho, tho, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, thr, tttttttttttttttttttttttoday, ttttttttoday, tttoday, today, thau. thr-a hit on. Honestly, it sounds like the best answer here is for the group to split up

with the women going to the male gay bar and the men going to the female gay bar. Everyone wins. Friends... No, straight people stop coming to gay bar. I was like, I was like, what's going on? Everyone's winning except gay people in this situation. Yeah. You don't want you in our space. to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the to to the to to to the to get the to get to get the to get the the the to be to be to be to be to be to be the the the the to be to be to be to be to be their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their tha. tha. tha. tha. throooooooooooooooooooooooooom. tha. tha. tha. their their their their their tha. Yeah. We don't want you in our space if you don't want to like genuinely be here. Right. It's that as- Yeah. You have so many bars.

You have so many. Yeah, there's a bar on every corner for you. I was gonna say, they're talking about the men can go to the female gay bar. I'm like, the men can also They can be where they want to be. Yeah. Furthermore, they say, friend groups don't have to hang out as a single unit all the time, but at this point, the girls are being the assholes, particularly because they labeled you homophobic for not wanting to be hit on all the time. Yeah, fair.

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everything together. Yeah I don't understand that especially like wherever people end up at the end of the night yeah I think that naturally happens you thin to the gym and lift weights and I'm the th I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I th I don't th I don't th I don't th I don't th I don't th I don't the the tho. Yeah I don't tho. Yeah I don't tho. I don't th. I don't th. I don't th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I the. I th. I th friends want to go to the gym and lift weights and I'm like, I want to go to Pilates. I'm not going to be like, you don't want to go to Pilates with me. Like, you know, it's like Pilates phobic? Yeah, it's not like there's something wrong with them not wanting to go to throw weights around. It's also sad that the girls feel like there's no bar they're they's like they's like they's like their their their they's like their their their their their their their their their the gay bar, that feels like a deeper problem. That we will not unpack here today. Although we would love to. I fear that it's gonna, like, because it's starting to become a known thing

that like straight women go to gay bars to avoid getting hit on by men, then straight men are gonna start being like, well, we'll go to gay bars. It's happened. It's been happening. It's been happening. It's been happening. It's been happening. It's been happening. It's been happening. It's been happening. You can't, like there are specific LA gay bars that you don't go to because it's all straight people. So, another, some other comments here. Someone said, as a lesbian, yes, please give lesbian bars business so long as you're not using them to be creepy towards women, we need more of them in the US. We need more lesbian bars in the US. Someone said, please go to lesbian bars and drop lots of cash on game nights, nachos for everyone, keep to to to to th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th and th and th and thoes, thoes, thoes, and thi, and tho-a, and tho-a, and tho-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a, and, and, and, and, and th, and th, and th, and their, and their, and their, and their, and their, and their their their their their th, and thi-s, and the-s, the-s, thereeaseaseaseaseaseaseasea-s. And, tha-s. And, tha-s. And, tha-s. And, theaseasease, and thease on game nights not just for everyone keep them in business I love that too now I've changed my mind

I don't I get keeping them in business but like How do I say this respectfully? Straight guys aren't always the best at getting hints of like? I don't want to talk to you. Yeah fair. So you might be thinking. Oh, I'm being so nice. It just happened to us the other night? We were at a bar in th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. to to to to to to to to to to to to the th. to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to their. I, I their. I to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the to the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the tha. tha. tha. the te. the the te. the the te. the the te. the the the today. to to their to to their to t to you. Yeah, fair. So you might be thinking, oh, I'm being so nice. It just happened to us the other night. We were at a bar in LA and people came up to us and there are these two guys came up to like a group of five so clearly gay people, besides Kami. And she's gay. I am gay. She's gay.

I'm gay. We're literally married. And he said something like, oh, how you girls doing or whatever. And we were like, how do you all know each other? How do you all know each other? And someone said, we're gay. And he's like, oh, so you guys have fun tonight? He didn't know what to do. Kept flurting, whatever. Are you guys? Oh, he said gay as and happy or gay as it and we were like happy to not be straight

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But literally there's one in LA and it is packed 20 I mean there might be more than one. I think there's one and all the other ones are just pop-ups. Yeah. So there's like queer events but actual structure that's always there. So then to have like your one space in like one of the gay cities in America? I'm so confused why there's not more in LA. anyone look it on? Oh, it has like 10 on one block. 10 on one block yeah. 10 on one block. Yeah it's a wild set. So the the new lesbian bar that's opening like now is the first lesbian bar in like 10 years. Yeah in LA that's crazy. And it is packed. Yeah I didn't I didn't realize it was a first in a decade I thoubt at- at at at at at at at at at at at at at at at at at at at th th th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the th. the th. the th. the the th. the the the the th. the th. the th. 10. 10 10. 10. th. 10. th. their. their. th. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the their. their. their. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. ten. tene. ten. ten. ten. ten. ten. 10. 10. ten. ten. crazy. And it is packed. Yeah. I didn't realize it was a first in a decade. I thought at least something had happened. I haven't even been in LA for a decade. Give the girls our bar. We want, and like the concept, the proof of concept is there. All the pop-ups are always so crowded. I can't believe there's not more. Should we open a bar? Should we all open a bar?

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No, that was about you. You and you. Nobody else is here. That one's for Jacques and Razor. Yeah. All right. Moving on to our next story. This comes from the relationship advice subreddict.

So no assholes, hopefully. Okay. We're ready. So no assholes, hopefully. Okay, I, a 28-year-old man, suggested a threesome to my girlfriend, a 24-year-old woman, and things have gotten out of control since. I'm so excited for this. Out of control is such a wild statement that I'm already so scared. I just finished watching couple throuples, so I'm an expert at this. We're ready. I'm locked in. To preface this, my girlfriend, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thi. thi, thi, thi, thi, to-a, a to-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-s. th. tho-s. tho-s. tho-s. tho-s. tho-s. tho-s. threuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu-s-se-so-so-so-sa-s. threa-s. threa-s-s-sto throuble. So I'm an expert at this. We are ready. We're ready and locked in. To preface this, my girlfriend, Tommy, is an absolutely cool, rad and chill human being. I have known she is bisexual since we started dating years ago and quite clearly had zero problem with it. She's a free woman and I don't at all want to impose on her. But I feel like both she and I have been manipulated and I don't know what to do. Tommy and I have been dating for three years now and our sex life has been wonderful.

She has only ever dated men, but she did let me know she was also interested in women and we often would check them out together and joke around about finding our own personal unicorn. All in all, it seemed like harmless talk until Delilah, a 22-year-old woman, came into the picture. Delilah is an out out out out to work at the same place as Tommy a few months back. She is unfortunately extremely attractive and it seems like both Tom... I hate when that happened. I hate when she's super hot. Uh, she's unfortunately extremely attractive and it seems like both Tommy and I were taken by that. I made the mistake of mentioning Tommy was bisexual to her when she was over for the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th the the th th th th th the th th th th th. th. thi thi thi thi the the to to to to to to to the thi to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to work to work to work to work to work to work to work to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tom. tomb. tom. tomb. tomb. tomb. tomb. tomb. tomb. taken by that. I made the mistake of mentioning Tommy was bisexual to her when she was over for drinks one day,

and things kind of snowballed from there. We were all pretty drunk at this point, and the talk was getting raunchier, and at some point I outright said I'd be down for a threesome if Delilah if the threesome. It was at this point, the man downstairs took over and I agreed to a number of things I perhaps shouldn't have. I was like, oh, they live on the top. It took, it took me a second too. It's like, and then Greg came up and he was like. I. Yeah. And the man. And the man. And the man. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th th th th. th. thi. thi. thi. that. the the the the the the the the the the th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th th. th th th th th th th th th. th th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the. the. the. the. thea thea thea thea thea thea thea thea thea thea thea the. the escalated so quickly. I was like, why is the man downstairs joining? That little man. Got it, got it. We have the threesome cleric downstairs.

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around so things wouldn't feel uncomfortable. Yes, I know I'm an idiot. Delilah has been over more than a few times and whenever I bring up to Tommy that it seems like she is just coming over for her and that no a threes is threes. thin. thin. to me me. to me. to me. to me. to me. I I I I I I I's to me. I's to me. I's to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to to me, to me, to me, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to me, to, to, to me, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to me, to thea, thea, thea, thea, thea, thea, to to to to to to to to to me, to me, is on the horizon. She gets mad at me and tells me it was my idea and I have no right to rush Delilah and that I agreed to this. Things came to a head yesterday when I returned home from work and was outright told to go out for a few hours because Tommy and Dalyla had plans. It wasn't even like they were already together and I happened to walk in. I was just told to leave so Delilah could come over. I stood my ground and was basically told by Tommy that I could leave now or she would or she would because trying to insert myself in her sex life was controlling and

weird and she wasn't going to put up with it. I love Tommy and she never has acted in this way before. Basically a lot of other things to the, thin. Basically a lot of other things. A lot, th. I, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, thi, tho, tho, tho, too, too, too, too, too, or, or too, or too, or too, or tho, or tho, or tho, or tho, or tho, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, tho, tho, too, too. too-a, to-a, too-s, too-s, or she would, too-a. too-s, or I think is feeding her a load of bullshit and demonizing me. One of the main things Tommy was bringing up was that Delilah is her best friend at the moment and that it wasn't fair for me to be lurking around the corner waiting for sex while she and her talked about personal life and that it was making them both uncomfortable. I think Delilah just wants one thing but she's, to. I don't know where to go from here or how to try to have another discussion if all she does is get angry with me. I've been thinking maybe writing a letter listing how things are making me feel right now and what is wrong with the situation or maybe trying to speak to one of

her old friends about Delilus and seeing if that's a terrible idea or not, which is why I'm turning to Reddit. Where should I go from here? Turning to Reddit was a wild decision. Yeah. Yeah. You know, this is going on for a while. Reddit, help me out. It just sounds like she's in another relationship.

Like, dude, your girlfriend has a girlfriend, and you're not involved in this. This is not a threesome. No. Any way, shape or form. Bad news. Oh, I feel really sad for him. I do too. He seems actually really respectful. And like he's doing his best. He's trying his hardest to do what's right.

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to me exploring the side of my sexuality? I still love you, but I'm missing this side. Can I go explore that? And if he's not okay with that, say absolutely not. Or say yeah, go for it, here are my boundaries. But boundaries can also change in a relationship. And Tommy's not respecting that. And, especially she's, Tommy's 24 and like I just feel like she's still young, she's probably still figuring out what her boundaries are, what her interests are, what she wants out of a relationship, like. Yeah, and our guy's 28? Yeah, he's 28. And then New Girls only 22? Oh, yeah. Massy. She must have her cake and eat it too. I feel like our guy was trying to be too respectful. to realize what boundaries he needed, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, the boundaries, the boundaries, the boundaries, the boundaries, th, th, thi, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to be to be, to, to be to, to be to be, to be, to be, to be to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be, to be to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, thi, thi, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, thi. their, their, their thi. the. thea, thea, thea, thea, thea, thea, thea, thea, thi, th our guy was trying to be too respectful and didn't realize what he needed like what boundaries he needed, what walls he

doesn't want to lose her. He's afraid his boundary will lose her but if your boundaries lose someone hit the road. Get out of here. I'm sad for him. A bunch of comments. Delilah is a lesbian. Of course she doesn't want a threesome with you involved because she's not attracted to you. At this point, I agree with almost everyone here that you've got to break up with your girlfriend. Yes. I mean. Someone said, as a bisexual woman, things like this bother me because it implies sex between women is less serious or something. Your girlfriend is cheating on you, in your own home, and you are letting it happen. Sounds like your girlfriend wants her cake and to eat it to, and th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th. th. th. thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, th, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. Someone, someone, to th. th. th. Someone, th. Someone, th. Someone, th. Someone, th. Someone, th. Someone, thi. Someone, thi. Someone, thi. Someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, thi. Someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone, someone Delilah just wants your girlfriend. Also, the fact that she has said you need to butt out of her sex life. Your girlfriend having an active sex life without you is called cheating. Obviously, you don't seem to want anything open,

so you need to address this. I think writing a letter is a good start, good luck. Someone responded to that saying, I am also a bisexual woman's to to to to to to to thia, I thia, I thia, I thi, I'm also thi, I'm also thi, I'm also thi, I'm also thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, to thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, to to to to to to the the the the the the the the the th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thi, th. th. thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thr-a, throooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. the, the, to that saying, I am also a bisexual woman. Your girlfriend is cheating on you, leave. Lastly, someone said, this right here is why threesomes are a terrible idea. Let's get this out of the way first. That threesome is never going to happen. You need to definitely explain your feelings to Tommy. A letter is a good idea.

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Like, imagine now that they're like, okay, we're ready. It's like, what is that gonna be? Delilah's like, giving and dirty looks? They're gonna have like rehearsed this whole thing and he's just literally gonna be sad. No, that's not gonna be any fun. Yeah, he's like, I haven't had sex with my girlfriend. Literally. Literally. No, it's so, I think your girlfriend is moving on to a different part of her life.

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Pros, I love her, funny, helps when asked, baseball, our kids, financially stable, pays attention to little things I say. Cons, not Facebook friend, won't let me tag her, no handholding, no handholding, no handholding, no conning, no conning, no conning, to, no, no, to to to to her, no, no, toing, no, toing, to her, to her, no, to her, to her, to her, to her, to her, to her, to her, to her, to her, to her, to her, to to to to to to to her, to her, and to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to her, and to her, and to her, and to her, and to her, and to her, and to her, to her, to her, to her, to little things I say. Oh. Cons, not Facebook friend. Won't let me tag her. No handholding, no compliments, no cuddling, can be rude, stone top, vanilla... The stone top. Vanilla sex. Haven't met family. Doesn't share feelings. Vanilla sex. Haven't met family.

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life, have said I need attention and still don't get it. Is that the end of the con list? That was five times longer than the pro list. You hate her. Yeah, I hate her too. Yeah, because she hates her. They hate each other. Kids that never met family. There's so many contradictions happening on this pro-con list. Yeah. I'm so confused.

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So baseball plays a part of that. Still, I'm financially stable plays a part of that. All the top things, besides like, funny and I love her are not really. Really just funny is what she likes about. Did she say anything else that was complimentary to the other person? Uh, helps when asked doesn't really count. No, that one's out. No, because like... It's just funny.

Pays attention to little things I say? That's weird. That's like bare minimum. You have no compliments, no cuddling. That's crazy. Vanilla sex, no handholding. Haven't met family. Yeah, I'm... You're saying our kids, but then haven't met family. Wasn't the first one, like no Facebook?

Yeah, not Facebook friend. That's... I don't know that we're Facebook. And won't let me tag her. Yeah. Which, that's sketchy. Something's up. Something's up. Something's the top comment was biggest red flag pro our kids con haven't met her family. Yeah. Excuse me what you have you two have kids and you haven't met her family. I also agree with what many other commenters are saying this girl treats you like a sideho not a girlfriend. Yeah.

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This one's doesn't have a lot of details. I feel like three years to have, you're like honeymoon, happy vibes. I could see this happening 30 years down the road when you're like they don't help, you're like grumpy at them. You're like, should I marry someone that's ugly, mean, stupid? Like, what? Yeah. Okay. Yeah.

The poster also commented, uh, I genuinely wish I was joking. I know the first three seems silly, but they feel important to me, you know? someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone someone. their? their? their? their? their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. they're they're they're, I? they're they're they're, I? they's, they? Yeah, they. they. they. Yeah, they. Yeah, they. Yeah, they. Yeah, they. Yeah. they. they. they. they. they. they. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're. they're they're they're they're they're their. their. their. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. they're, they're, you know. Someone said, I don't think they seem silly, especially with the other double standards on your list. I think they seem like red flags. Someone said, not Facebook friends makes me feel like they don't want people in their life to know y'all are together or serious. Maybe their partner is embarrassed by them. I'm not, it's a huge red flag. OP needs to drop them fast. OP, if you care about it, it's not silly. As a matter of fact, if your girlfriend tells you they are silly, she is full of shit. She just doesn't want you to be, she just doesn't want to be in the wrong and give you the bare minimum. If you continue to stay with being given the guy from the last story. Yeah, I get it.

He's like, oh, and they're like, why are you on the sub-rent? It's like, honorary member now. He's like, the lesbian's one, got too boring for me. And all the guys going to a lesbian. They're all coming in. Everyone at a certain point is like, is anyone here actually a lesbian? The guy who's writing in, it's like not even a lesbian. It's just like a guy talking about his girlfriend.

Sorry, I'm actually a 50-year-old man. We've lost the plot. I didn't know where to go. Someone said, I made that list before I got married. I've recently asked for divorce. I had some good times and have a great daughter. I thage I thage I thage I to to to thoe. I thoe. I thoe. I to thii. I thi. I times. I thi. I to to thi. to thi. to to to to to to to to to the the the to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the the the the the the the the the the the their. their. their. their. their. their. th. th. th. th. th. th. I t. I ti. I ti. I. I. I ti. I'm. I'm ti. ti. ti. ti. today. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. today. te. I'm today, I'm today, I'm a today. I don't regret ignoring the signs, but I could have avoided a lot of pain. Oh, yeah. Lastly, someone said, I stayed with someone who said

she doesn't find me attractive anymore. It ruined my self-image. I'm still struggling with it. There are other women who will find you attractive as you are. Don't be afraid to let go of things that aren's best for you. Yeah. Yeah, you know, I they kind of at the end of their post they were like, I think the only thing keeping me around is my love for her but can love always be enough? I've said it before here where I I don't think love is like top-tier I think respect is and this person does not respect them at all. Oh, yeah, totally. I also feel like you, when you're in a relationship and you are not happy,

you can think something is love when it's not, it's a whole host of other things. And I don't, I don't even trust that she feels like true deep love for her because how this person is not loving towards you in any way, shape or form. It's like, you could, I don't know, maybe you have like love, like sibling love or something, but I don't feel like this is the vibe. Yeah. I also feel like there's more pressure sometimes when you're queer of, well, I'm not gonna find somebody that I like this much and that does this, this, and this, and you kind of lower your standards, thinking that your person's not out there.

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The queers are struggling. Yeah. Happy pride Month. Shit. What's also sad is just the universal experience of people not realizing that they're not being given what they deserve. Like that is so common. We've had multiple stories of that now. Yeah.

Loving someone kind of blind you to the respect you deserve. And it's like you always think you can get back to where you once were that was like yeah some level of good and you don't know where that per what it was like when they were even doing that. It's like were they overdoing it? Were they puffing their chest up more you know it's like, right? Yeah, I don't know. And usually those signs are there from the beginning. You're just not really paying attention to them. It's tough, man. Sorry, girl. Just a little heads up for our viewers.

If they try to search this user's history for an update, they are very active in some not safer work Reddits. So pursue and search at your own discretion. Whoa. Let's go. I will be searching. All right. Let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to thi. to. to. to. tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. to. to. tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. to. tha. th go. There you go. I will be searching. All right. Let's move on to our next story and we're back to the subreddit Am I the Ashaw? We're back. We're so back. We're so back. Like we never left. Am I the asshole for mocking my nephew and ganging up on him for asking whether me or my husband was the woman.

My family, my folks, my brother, and his family, my sister and her family, me and my husband, had our first get together since the thing started on the weekend. We're all vaccinated now. This is from 2021. Okay. I was like, whoa, late to the game. We finally did it. Together, we pulled the plug. During which I

discovered my formerly adorably precocious kid of a nephew has hit his edgy teen stage with gusto. He had an attitude all afternoon which culminated in him asking me and my husband, gay couple, which of us was the woman. I was pretty taken aback and just said neither of us were both men. That's the point. At which point he came up with some evo-psych BS about how a male always seeks a female and therefore even with two guys one will always be the more feminine or something. The thing is I know he knows better and his whole attitude was blatantly just trying to get a rise. I didn't feel like ruining a nice afternoon by giving it to him so instead, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the. toe. told. theck. I I told. I the. told, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was told, I was told, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I toe, I toe, I toe, I toe, I toe, I toe, I toe, I the, I the, I the, I the, I the, thininnenenenenenenenenenec, thin, thin, thin, thin, thin, thin, thin, tean, tean, te. tean, tea.ean, tean, tean, th tean, to get a rise. I didn't feel like ruining a nice afternoon by giving it to him, so instead I decided to make a joke of it and told him seriously that

no one had told us that and in that case we'd better figure it out ASAP my husband grabbed a notepad, drew columns for each of us and we started noting down our various feminine and masculine aspects. Deliberious. Deliberately absurd stuff like I wear more pink but he cries easier. th.'s much better at sports, but I've got him beat in survival skills, etc. At some point, the other adults, minus my folks, drifted over to see what we were doing. My brother immediately wanted to join in, saying he'd never really been sure in their case either. So he and his wife started their own list, and my sister and her husband, parents of the nephew, followed suit. It was honestly pretty funny. We made up a point system and debated the gendering of breakfast foods. My nephew, my nephew got more and more sulky. We kept asking for his verdicts until finally he walked away and discussed and ended up hardly

saying a word for the rest of the afternoon. At the time I thought it was a harmless and amusing way of making a point about the stupidity of his argument without giving him the satisfaction of the your too sensitive rise he was obviously looking for it, but earlier today from his brother 19 he was not at the get-together saying my nephew was really upset and accusing us of being a bunch of adults getting up on a child and of drawing his own parents into it. I honestly hadn't thought of it in that light. And now that I do, I must must th I must th I must th I must th I must th I must th th th th th th th th th thu I must tho I must tho I must tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho thoom, I must thoom, I must thr-a thoomoom. thoomoomoom. I thoomoom. I the thoom. I'm, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the, the, the, the, the, the, the. I'm the. thru. toda. toda. today, today, today, today, today, today, today, today, today, thr. thought of it in that light, and now that I do, I must admit it's not a great look. I still think he's old enough not to be catered to when he acts like this though. Am I the asshole? See, I think that's hilarious.

That is so, that feels like parenting one-o-one. That was perfect. I'm like, you're going to like squash that shit. Like, that's annoying and dumb. It's like he's like an annoying teen boy. They're not going to have like a come to Jesus moment with him when they're like, let me explain to you that. Well, and he already knew.

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Wow. Anyways, the verdict was not the asshole. Yeah. Comments. Not the asshole. He was being a brat. He knew it. He dished it and couldn't take it.

Said loosely because you didn't even really dish it back. You joked about yourselves, not him. I think it was a great way to make the point of how ridiculous that statement was. Someone else said, you joked about yourselves, not him. This is important. They deliberately did not go at the kid, since they knew that's what he wanted. This is the opposite of asshole behavior. In fact, I can't think of a better way to handle the situation,

in, it was perfect, not the asshole, O.P. Someone said, the nephew learned a very valuable lesson. Part of being a teenager is acting out in ways to see what he can get away with, and he just learned. More clearly than if he'd gotten shoot out, a very firm limit to how he can act in public. As an aside, this had to feel so good for his parents to to participate in, given that they probably deal with this kid this kid this kid this kid this kid this kid this kid this kid this kid this kid th they probably deal with this kid's stupid edgelord shit. Yeah, the reality is they showed him how dumb he is. Yeah, and that sucks.

Without bullying him. Without bullying. Yeah, they never, I feel like I would have bullied. I would have been like, you little twoop or something. So I respect their way. Stayed calm. Made it fun little bit. Yeah. All right. Next story.

This comes from the subreddit bisexual. Found out I was by in a committed relationship and my boyfriend flipped. This is a long post so I'm warning you in advance. I honestly just need advice. I'm going to start with a bit of background. I'm a 20-year-old woman and my boyfriend is 23. I've been dating him for three years now. I love being with him. But I've questioned my sexuality since I was a freshman in high school. Around this time I started noticing how I'd feel looking at other pretty girls in my school. Also, there was a long period where I could only get off to lesbian porn

and nothing else. Looking at pretty women made me feel giddy, like a dopamine rush. It was more than just admiration. I used to daydream about being with another woman. I pushed these feelings down though, conservative family and I am still attracted to men, so I ignored my have protection. But even besides that, I find myself considering if I would be happier with a woman. When I'm horny, I used my vibrator instead of initiating sex with my boyfriend. One day, I visited this exact Reddit community to skim through and read people's posts

to see if anyone was struggling with their sexuality, too. When my boyfriend saw my phone and completely went berserk. I was embarrassed to tell him I was viewing posts from the bisexual Reddit community and I had a good reason. He immediately started yelling about how he was angry I wouldn't tell him I was by and then he proceeded to tell two of our mutual friends that I was by and that he wanted to leave me. Mind you, I haven't come out to anyone. Not even my family because I literally am not ready to come out yet, but my boyfriend told our friends with no consideration of how it'd make me feel. Then, then that night, when he calmed down,

he came to apologize for his outbursts and said he still wanted to be with me. He proposed that if I wanted to have sex with a woman, that it should be with him involved. Oh, and we already know this is a story. There, to the other story. I feel so conflicted and turned off by his actions. I want to explore other options, but we live together and I honestly just feel stuck now. I have no money saved up and my family is over 800 miles away in another state. I guess I'm just crying out for help or advice on what I should do if anyone else

has gone through something like this. Edit, thank you so much for all the support on this post. Y'all don't understand how much it means to me. I'm going to reflect some more on my decisions and I plan to silently save up money so I can get out of this situation. I have about four months left on the lease so I'm running out of time but I'm going to do what I can. Drop the Venet little baby yeah. go find this. We're starting a fund. Yeah. I feel so bad for her that like, well for one he went and told other people to me here, which is crazy.

That's couging. And she feels so trapped. Like that's not a fun feeling. But also to come back, I think that same day, after this extremely, like like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, this, this, this, this, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, to thi, thi, to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to, to to to, to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi., thi., thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi, thi, thi, her coming out not by choice and then to him to come back and be like all right we can have a threesome yeah is crazy it's crazy it's absolutely insane he's like you know what I thought about it I'd like to be involved yeah I'm okay with it yeah and like that's what's what's so frustrating and where I feel so infuriated for bisexuals

where it doesn't mean that you're wanting both partners at the same time. It doesn't mean cheating. It doesn't mean threesomes. It doesn't mean confusion. And I hate that that's put on bisexual so much. She was just on the comfort of her little phone. Private, private. Yeah, she was outed there, then outed to, to, day. Yeah, two mutual friends. Oh. At the very least, she's saying

like, I have suppressed everything. She's 20. So, and she was literally going to the subreddict to try to seek advice and try to understand herself and then throw out into a storm. Yeah, and thin' thrown out out thin' thin' thrown out thrown out thrown out thrown out thrown out thrown out thrown out thrown out, thrown out, thrown out, thrown out, thrown out, thrown out, thirty, thirty, thirty, thirty, their, their thrown out, thoom-oom-oom-oom-oom-oom-oom. Yeah, thoom. Yeah, their, their their their their their their their their their their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, thrown. Yeah, thrown. Yeah, thrown. Yeah, thate. Yeah, thate. Yeah, that-a'-a'-a'-a'-a'-a'-a'-a'-a'-a'-oo'-a'-a'-a'-a'- got to get out of here. Yeah. I think she knows that. Yeah. Because she has this desire to explore her sexuality and she can't do it with her partner because he's not going to be a sport of partner in this. Clearly. Yeah, well, he broke her trust at multiple levels immediately. And I get he was angry,rying to hurt her, like he felt hurt, so he's trying to then

hurt her back. Yeah, he probably felt embarrassed. That's not going to be a safe space for her in any way. No, absolutely not. A bunch of comments here. Someone said, okay, let me get this straight. You were dating a 20-year-old-year-year-year- high school. You have moved 800 miles away from your family, which I am going to make an assumption that you did for this man.

You do not want to have sex with this man because you are afraid of getting pregnant and you do not have access to protection with him despite the fact that condoms cost less than a cup of coffee at any drug store in the country. You do not have a support to have to have to have to have to have to have to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to have, the to the to have, to have, the to make, to make, to make, tooomknon. to make, to make, the the the to make, to make a, to make a, to make, to make, to make, to make, to make, to make, to make, to, the, to, the, the, the, the the the to, to, the the to make, and, and the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the throwne, throwne, throomorrow, throomorrow, throoomorrow, theaugh, tttthea, thea, thea, thea, thea, thr.. the you could turn to in the area. What friends you do have are mutual friends of his, and you clearly don't feel you could go to them if you left him. This man saw you looking at a subreddit, and he responded to you by jumping to conclusions,

attacking you and outing you to multiple people. He then, heel turned and propositioned you for a threesome. The second he realized thi. My advice is, when people wave red flags at you, believe them. You are already neck deep in an abusive situation. Get out, get out, get out. Someone responded to that, saying this should be the top comment, OP, you have your whole life ahead of you. Get out while you can and look forward to a healthier relationships in the future. I also think, like, she's 20, thirty-a. I also think, like, she's 20, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th. th. th. th. th. th. thi. thi. thi. thi. that's thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi.'re 20. Like what we're 33, how old are you

going to say? Okay, it's like remembering how I felt at 20, I would have thought this was the end of my life when it's really, I don't even remember anything about me 20. It's feels like a lifetime ago. Yeah, my advice that I've given a lot on here is I'm like if you're, I mean any age, but really when you're under 25 and you're in a relationship that you are having red flags like this, I'm like, get out. Yeah. You're so young, like, and you are, you still don't know who you are, like, I remember when I was 20, thinking I knew exactly who I was. I totally know. And then 30 hits and you're like, thirty hits and you're like, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, and th. th. th. thi. thi. th. thi. thi. thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, th. thi, th. th. thi, you're like, you're like, you're th. th. thi, you're thi, you're th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th, you're th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. You're th. You're th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thin, you're so, you're so, you're so, you're so, you're thri. thr. thr. thr. thi. thr. thi. thi. th. th. th. th.. And the people you're in relationships with will be different too. So don't tolerate that. Yeah. I'm glad she was saving up to get out of it though. It sounds like she's well aware this is not a safe situation for me. But I need to prepare to get out. Yeah. Someone else said, your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. Not only did he out without your consent, but his first thought after apologizing to you was to to talk, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, the, and, and, and, the, to, the, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, to, to, to, to, to, and, to, to, to, and, to, and, to, and, to, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, I, and, I, and, and, I, and, the, the, the, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, the, to, the, the, so, I. to, and, so, I. the, but his first thought after apologizing to you was to talk about threesomes.

What I gather judging from what you've written is that he isn't even pleasing you, so he'd be disappointing two women at once. That would just be cruel to bring someone else to do. That's just awful. We don't have time for that. We need to get Delilah into Yeah. Get your work over here. Literally. Nobody here is a relationship expert and only you yourself know how you want to deal with the situation you find yourself in. But to me it seems like you wish to embrace the other side of you, awful wording, so

apologies. And the more you fixate on it without experiencing it will likely eat away at you. I wish you good luck in happiness. But I will say is don't allow toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity toxicity to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the to to to to to to the to to to to to to to to to to to to to the the the to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. to. I. I. I. I. I. I. I to to the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the toe. the toe. say is don't allow toxicity into your life. It's easier said than done by, but I would rather leave, if safe and plausible, then stay and let things fester. Exactly. I think the best advice for her is to just, she's doing it, you just got to get out. Yeah, girl is just got to dip and go explore. Our final story comes from relationship advice. I, a 23-year-old woman, slept with my roommate, a 21-year-old woman, and don't know how to handle my life now. I

I've been basically in love with my roommate since we met three years ago, but she never gave any indication she was by or gay and is pretty like strongly hetero in the sense that she loves romance stuff and talks about finding a romcom type dude. It was totally fine and it never affected our ability to, you know, be roommates. A few weeks ago she randomly brought up like I wonder what it would be like to kiss a girl slash is it different slash whatever. We made out a after all. We made out a couple times and it was good and I was somehow able to to remain a normal person afterward. We to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the and I was somehow able... So that was easy. I was somehow able to remain a normal person afterward but then two nights ago things

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This is not your wife. It's not like, oh, know your first relationships in your early 20s like it all gets better and it's not a big deal. Of course that one's going to end. Of course it'll end and everyone was like what? As they're like watching our podcast with their girlfriend and they're in their early 20s so yeah so maybe maybe this is the love of their life. There's always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always always there's a there's a. There's a. There's a. the. this. this. this. this is. this is. Maybe. Maybe this is. Maybe this. Maybe this. Maybe this. this. this. this is. Maybe this is. Maybe this is. Maybe. this. Maybe. Maybe this. Maybe this. Maybe this. Maybe this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this is. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. this. be. I don't think this is it. You don't know that. I don't know that, but. I feel like she should,

I hate to use this term, she should write it out. I think it's not. I mean, she needs to continue to figure this out. You know, like, I think she should talk to a therapist about what happens if this goes south. Maybe this is messed up to say, but there's also the argument of like when you're young like that, it's like, oh, is this leading towards heartbreak? Yeah, but it's like you're young, like maybe you experience that too. Yeah. There's nothing wrong with that.

Unless we're going to end up with a year lease, lea. debate on how much of your life is gonna. But as far as your emotions and just whatever, it's like, yeah, get caught up in it. Yeah, we all need our souls crush so a couple times. And if they're like good friends, they've been roommates for a while, I feel like you could have like a little gal pal hang out and be like, do we know what's going to, do we know what's going on here? if this, we just need to be open and honest about where things go. That's probably the smartest thing. I feel like that's what I would do.

That communication is not having here. She's avoiding her all day. She's like running in, getting cheeses and running back to her room. Like a little rat? They're not chatting. Well, maybe she's 20. Well, maybe she could push herself. Yeah. Just talk. Just talk about that. But she's 20. They're not going to talk.

A couple comments here. I think the sex and the cuddling and the admission that maybe she's into women is the clearest sign you're ever going to get that she's, you know, into women and you specifically. That said, be careful. The potential for disaster here is off the charts. for it because, come on, you've got to go for it, but take it slow and be prepared for complications up to and including brutal heartbreak. Y'all are close friends that live together, she's navigating something brand new and you've already got intense feelings. First of all, you should stop avoiding her.

She's probably a little raw as it is, and into her but don't make it something she has to decide or commit to right now. Hey, I'm really attracted to you and I really had fun last night, but I don't want to pressure you. What do you think? So far is, if she had sex with you and is still talking positively to you, wants to cuddle, et cetera, she is into you. Be the romcom woman of her dreams, stop avoiding her. Love that. And we have an update.

Oh my god. Oh, well, that's a big deal around here. I'm excited. They're dating. I'm about to freak out. What do you think? Do you think it's worse or you think it's better? Oh, there's no way you would do this to us. It gets better.

It gets better. They're dating. They're fully dating. They're fully dating. their people. They're dating. They're married. They you hauled. Oh, they already lived together. Oh my God. They got a bigger apartment. They got cats.

Yes. Okay, update. Like I said last night, she came to sleep in my bed again with me. And I was planning on talking to her this morning, but I couldn't really figure out not to. On Sundays, we usually go to the library and then get coffee and just started that again now that it's reopened. And I was like, okay, I can have this conversation with her when we're at the coffee place waiting for our drinks.

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And I was like, how did you make that sound so easy, I hate you? Anyway, long story short, I told her I like her too, and I was sorry that I acted weird. I was just nervous and scared, so now I guess we're trying the whole dating thing. Wow! Let's go! Let's go! Wait, th, th, there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's there's th, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I that's that's that's that's that's that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that I that that that that that's that's th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. thi thi. thi. thi. thi. thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi. thing. Wow! Let's go! Let's go! Wait, there's more. I don't like your face. I don't like your face. I don't like stop and we're done. Happy Pride Month goodbye. We have another update. Oh my god. They're still together. I'm like hiving. I'm so stressed out. I know I don't know what's about to happen either. Oh my god. You do. You've been creeping down that. You know. Your eyes are like, oh.

Okay. Update number two. Basically, we made out a bunch and then had sex, but I wasn't sure if she was into me. It turned out that she was, and we started dating. Okay, we just watched this episode. She's saying my original post post. But here's the, that's the recap. Things have gone really great. Let's go. This has been the literal most stable and loving relationship I've ever had with any human being in my life, and I'm including my actual family, L-O-L.

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I appreciate it more than you could possibly know. I love how we started this conversation with being like your first relationship it's not going to work and at the end we're like they got married and they did it they're gonna do it. I literally said in a quote that's not your wife and I said but what if it is? And it is. Wow it's a replay, it's a reason it worked is because the girl who is struggling with her sexual so mature can handle her emotions can communicate her emotions. Shattie, Kathy, in a good way. I'm a lot of it. Wow, really, really solid. Her opening the bedroom door, like, what is this? She got her romcum.

Also, the way that all went down is so romcon. Super romcom. Somebody write it. She don't want to have sex with me and her being like, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, oh, oh, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, really, really, oh, that, really, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really Perfect. I get that she's nervous but man it's like she did everything to make that not happen. Yeah she was sabotaging. Yeah really she was over the time. Yeah wow she just needed to have that first girly experience and then it all was like it all clicked off. Yeah Happens. Oh I want to go to their wedding. I was this old? The original post was from... I do want to know how long they were they were they were they were they were they were they were they were they were they were the they were the the the they were their their their. their. their. their. their. their. the their. their. their. their. their. th. th. their. th. th. th. to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to th. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. th. th. th. th. th. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. the the the the the the. their. their. th. the. their. th. th. th. th. th. th go to their wedding. Would this old? The original post was from... I do want to know how long they were dating before getting engaged.

The original post was from 2020, so this, they could be married. They're married. I don't think we have any updates after that, so... Congratulations, guys. Go girls. Send us your registry. Yeah, yeah. Four years a little late, but. Yeah, yeah.

That was so sweet. We finally had a positive. Thank you for that. I needed on a great show. We needed that ending and we loved it. I'm like exhausted from that. that emotional roller coaster. Yeah.

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