Snapped: Women Who Murder - Valerie Rider

Episode Date: January 25, 2026

When a young mother goes missing in rural Ohio, it's a race against time to uncover the truth behind her disappearance.Season 33 Episode 10Originally aired: Jan 7, 2024Watch full episodes of Snapped for FREE on the Oxygen app: https://oxygentv.app.link/WatchSnappedPodSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In rural Ohio, a beautiful young mother goes missing. In all the time that he's known Whitney, she doesn't go off the radar. She doesn't go dark. She doesn't ghost. As a parent, you don't want to ever think that when you're chattel is taken from you. The evidence quickly points to foul play. They're looking in the windows with flashlights, and they start to notice trash bags. I drop the tailgate, and I see.

large clumps of blonde hair. As the investigation escalates, an inner circle is thrown into question. Family members have witnessed them fighting with each other. They would break up, get back together, break up, get back together. But is this close-knit family hiding a killer? You guys didn't kill her, did you? No. To our knowledge, they were the last ones that saw Whitney alive.

Dead body, bottom of the ravine. Oh, serious. Yeah, might be that missing girl. Champaign County, Ohio, is a quiet farming community a few miles north of Springfield. You would probably describe it mostly as blue collar. There's beautiful farming land, very green in the summer, and people think it's a great place to raise a family.

There's not much crime here, and people feel mostly safe. But just after midnight on October 1st, 2020, the sense of peace is disturbed by a mysterious 911 call. I was dispatched to meet a mail in the parking lot of the sheriff's office. I was told by the dispatch center that the mail would not give them any information about what he wanted to report. He just wanted to speak to someone in person. So I go out into the parking lot. The young man, who identifies himself as Randy Ryder, gets out of the vehicle and tells the deputy why his friends brought him there. Randy stated that an incident had occurred at the house where he lives with his girlfriend, Whitney Osler, his father, Rodney Ryder, Sr., and his mother, Valerie Ryder.

He advised that around 11 a.m. on September 30th, there had been an argument between Whitney, his mother, Valerie, and him. They were screaming at each other, and the argument ended abruptly. Randy then left, and he stated to me that his mother, Valerie, continued to argue with Whitney. Now it's midnight on October 1st, and over 12 hours have passed since. he last heard from Whitney. Randy said that he had been with his friends all day and someone was supposed to come pick up Whitney. They were not able to get a hold of her.

You can tell that he was genuinely worried about her well-being. In all the time that he's known Whitney, which was many years, she doesn't go off the radar. She doesn't go dark. She doesn't ghost. And he hasn't heard from her in all this time. They just told him to stand by at the sheriff. office and that they would go out to the residents and try to make contact with Whitney. We felt like maybe something had happened to her at that point.

Whitney Lynn Hossler was born on July 27, 1995 in Dayton, Ohio. Whitney was the last baby. When she was first born, we lived in a trailer park. Whitney was a little terror. she really was. She liked to run around a lot. She would mess with her sister a lot. They would argue,

fight, you know, like little kids do. But she loved her sister, though. But when Whitney was two, her life was upended by her parents' divorce. I just fell out of love with him. Since I was having, you know, some issues that I needed to work through, I decided to have Chuck take the girls

The girls really didn't understand at first. I mean, they was two and three years old. I just told them that they had to go with Daddy until, you know, Mommy got everything together and that I would get them back. That did ever happen. Chuck moved around with the girls and basically raised them through the early years of their lives. The next time she saw her mother, Whitney was a teenager. She was having a lot of behavioral issues,

so they thought it would be best if Whitney went and lived with our mother, see if maybe that's why she was acting out. Whitney was something else. Whitney just had her own little personality. If she didn't like something, she would definitely let you know it. She was very blunt. She was a little edgy. She had some facial,

piercings, blonde hair. She obviously cared about her appearance. She would do kind of some cool tricks with her mascara and eyeliner. She's really good at drawing and painting. She liked to do like eyes and like abstract pictures. You would not even believe the creativity that girl had in her head. And sometimes I wondered, where did you think of this from, Whitney? Like many 15-year-olds, Whitney's academic goals were eclipsed by other interests.

It wasn't hard for Whitney to meet guys, oh my Lord. She had the most prettiest eyes, and that's what attracted a lot of boys to her. But only one boy won her heart, classmate Randy Ryder. She liked that he was kind, and he'd go out of his way for her to show her. that he loved her. He said that she was just beautiful. He never seen someone so pretty in his life. Randy lived with his parents in St. Paris,

Valerie Ryder and Ronnie, Sr. Randy had an older sister and two older brothers, and he was the baby of the family. Whitney and Randy dated for the next eight years. She turned 22, and then she found out she was pregnant. In the fall of 2017, when she took her pregnancy test, I was happy for her.

My mom told me that my sister was pregnant, and Wendy was excited, but scared. But we were all very happy and excited for her. She wanted to move out to St. Paris with Randy to get a job out there, and that way they can save up and get their their own place. That was the plan. After their daughter was born in the summer of 2018, the couple realized they needed help

taking care of her. So they moved into Randy's parents' house where his brother Rodney Jr. was also living. Randy's parents were really excited about the baby coming, and they wanted to help. Rodney Sr. worked building tanks, and Valerie was into automotive sort of building as well. So they both comfortably retired. And for them, they had this opportunity in retirement to create this bond with their grandchild. From what I saw Valerie was a very loving grandmother.

She'd like to do things with them, take them to do things. Over the next two years, Whitney and the Ryder family continued to grow closer. until Whitney suddenly disappears and Randy is worried something has happened to her. The deputy caller and I responded to do the welfare check on Whitney. When the deputies arrived, this is after midnight and they were trying to make contact with someone there to see if they could find out what Whitney's status was. As soon as deputies arrive, they sense something is wrong. We began knocking on the door for no lights on in the residence.

And his brother, Rodney Jr., then came to the front door. Deputy Collar and I asked Rodney Jr. where his parents were and where Whitney was. He stated that none of them were at the residence. He stated they were going for a drive to look for hunting spots, and they were taking the two-year-old with them. But six to seven hours later, they still weren't home. At that point, we became more and more confident that something bad. could have actually happened to Whitney and the riders and her child. A home search unearths new leads.

They found a nearly empty roll of duct tape in Randy's room that he shared with Whitney. And the truth begins to surface. Grab me on my wrist. Hold me up. He said, you need to leave. Champaign County Sheriff's deputies are at the home of Randy Ryder. looking for his missing girlfriend, Whitney Hossler. But as officers talk to Randy's brother Rodney,

it seems their parents may have vanished as well. Rodney Jr. said he didn't have an idea where Whitney was. She had left earlier that day and he had not seen her since he also explained that his parents had left that evening to drive around and try to find some new deer hunting locations and that they had taken the granddaughter with them, The deputies asked if that was something that they normally did, left that late at night, especially with the child,

to go look for hunting areas. And Rodney Jr. did say that that was somewhat unusual. We asked what kind of vehicle Rodney Jr.'s parents would be driving, and he stated it would be a white Ford pickup. Deputy caller and I asked that Rodney Jr. Have Valerie and Rodney senior contact us when they arrived at the residence. Then we observe the white Ford truck pull into the front yard. They see a truck pull up, and they notice, wait, that's got to be Rodney Sr.'s truck.

We both approached the vehicle and made contact with Rodney Ryder, Sr., who was driving, and Valerie Ryder was in the passenger seat. While looking in the vehicle, I observed a small female child sitting in the back middle seat. Deputy Color asked about Whitney's. whereabouts or when the last time they had seen Whitney and Valerie stated that a maroon car had picked her up sometime in the afternoon. She said that the windows were tinted and they couldn't see the driver. According to Valerie, they had their granddaughter because Whitney and Randy had had a fight. And that wasn't unusual. They unfortunately fought a lot. However, they'd usually go their separate ways, They'll cool down.

They'll be back together tomorrow. It'll blow over. The riders say they last heard from Whitney that afternoon. Valerie Ryder stated that she had received a text from Whitney, saying that she was going to be gone for a period of time, and that she would contact her to let her know where she was at, and when she would be coming back to pick up the child, and that everything was okay.

Deputy caller asked where Valerie and Rodney, had been prior to arriving at the residence. Valerie advised that Rodney Sr. wanted to go out and scout out some new deer hunting locations. So they drove around for several hours trying to find new hunting sites. It was after that that they went down to a gas station in the city of New Carlisle to buy some cherry Coke. And then returned a short time later to find the deputies there at the residence.

Despite supporting Rodney Jr.'s account, deputies find the story odd, even under normal circumstances. Considering Whitney's disappearance, the rider's late-night trip sounds even more suspicious. They walk around the truck, and at this point, they're just kind of checking it out. They're looking in the windows with flashlights, and they start to notice trash bags. I looked in the bedcap and I could see in the bed that there were wadded up trash bags with duct tape stuck to them. I'd drop the tailgate, pull open those trash bags, and I see large clumps of blonde hair stuck in the duct tape. We knew that Whitney was a blonde female. I noticed that the duct tape had formed almost like a semi-circular shape like it had been wrapped around something.

When I saw the duct tape in the hair, I just had that feeling that this was not going to end well. Deputy caller went to make a phone call to Chief Deputy Holmes, advise him of the situation. After he made that phone call, he asked Valerie if he would walk through the house and make sure that everything looked okay. The writers said that they would be happy to consent to search, and the deputies went ahead and went through the residence. During the search, deputies find more incriminating evidence. Deputy Collar came back out of the residence, and he placed a nearly empty roll of duct tape on the tailgate and stated that he had found that next to the bed in Randy's room

that he shared with Whitney. Also in the bed of the truck, I located a two-wheel dolly, which the tires were covered in mud. It was wet still, and a single flip-fiel. flop laying under the dolly. I also located a thick green rubber glove. They're asking, what are these items for? And Valerie said, well, today was a cleaning day.

I clean often. I've got, you know, grandkids, they've got a lot of hair. That's just what this is. Trash bags, duct tape, yep, there's some hair. That's normal in my household. Rodney Jr. confirms his mother's explanation. He says, no, that actually does make sense because my daughter visits a lot and she has some hair loss. In fact, we call her Rapunzel.

So deputies say, well, could you walk with us out to the truck and take a look at it? And the hair is kind of, you know, kind of a blondeish brown color. He looks at it and says, yeah, that's probably my daughter's hair. Throughout the questioning, Valerie Ryder remains cooperative. Her husband Rodney Sr., however, doesn't seem as calm. Rodney Sr. appeared to be very nervous, and as time went on, he continued to become more nervous to the point where he started to begin to hyperventilate and actually had to go sit down because he was becoming so upset.

Based on what was found in the bed of the truck, Valerie and Rodney Sr.'s actions their demeanor, the nervousness, their story. We felt concerned enough that we needed to get detectives involved at that point. You know, something had happened to Whitney, and we needed to get to the bottom of that. Just over 12 hours after Whitney Hossler was last reportedly seen, Sheriff's deputies find human hair in the rider's truck and call in homicide detectives. We took everything from the search of the truck's evidence. and submitted to the crime lab

to check for DNA. I spoke with the deputies that were out there and they voiced their concerns. At that time, they led me into the residents, the deputies did, and showed me the general area. And then I came outside and I spoke with Valerie and Rodney, Sr. on the porch. Mr. Ryder seemed kind of hesitant and quiet.

He really didn't say a whole lot. He was very vague in his answers. When I spoke with Valerie next, She started talking and she continued to talk and talk and talk. It was a nervous talk. And based on that, that kind of made me think they're lying. I said, something's not right here with what we found in the bed of the truck and the statements that you guys are making.

And we need to talk a little further in a better setting. Valerie, Rodney Sr., Rodney Jr., the little girl, they're all taken into the station for questioning. We decided to interview Rodney Jr. first to kind of establish a baseline of what had occurred that day. Hey there, young man. Rodney had been at work on September 30th of 2020. I don't have any more conversation with you about what happened with Randy or Whitney? He said Whitney had left earlier that day and he had not seen her during the rest of that day. Come from me from here.

After completing the interview, Rodney Jr., Junior was released. Randy Ryder continues to stand by at the station, while Rodney Sr. and Valerie tell detectives about the argument that led up to Whitney's disappearance. Can you tell me, walk me through what happened that morning? I wish I good. I know it was all I said. They woke, screaming, and yelling one another cousin, fighting. What were they fighting about? Apparently, she found out the...

She's been sleeping with another girl. My dad or brother. She was done. She was taking the baby and we went to her mom's. Rodney Sr. says that his wife told him that she tried to calm Whitney down, but she was too angry. Whitney was tired of putting up with him. She wants to think about it. It happens to think about everything.

So he left. According to Valerie, as soon as Randy, left, Whitney packed up her belongings as well. Valerie said that Whitney contacted a friend of hers that was going to come and pick her up and they were going to leave that night. She had her stuff back and it was about 1130. The baby had laid down finally to take a nap. I was in the kitchen starting the dishes and stuff and vacuuming.

And that's when I looked out. and seeing her walk down, there was a car. Okay. And she went down, walked around, and got in the car. The idea that Whitney left without her two-year-old child doesn't sit right with investigators. Can you tell me what kind of mom? In my opinion, loves that little girl as much as anybody.

So in regard to Whitney, I mean, she's at your house, and now we can't find her. Did you do something to Whitney? You guys didn't kill her, did you? Okay. Randy Ryder has been voluntarily waiting at the station after reporting Whitney missing. When detectives ask him to give a statement,

officers are eager to hear his version of events. I heard Whitney in my room saying, like, but we won't ever see her, and then she was taking me to court, for child support and all that. Saying that she hates our family and that we're disgusting, knowing that my parents have done everything they can for, and it's never been good enough.

You didn't see Whitney after that? No. According to Randy, Rodney, Sr., and Valerie had the baby with them virtually all the time. They were the caretakers of that child. The child frequently would sleep in their room with them. Everything in his parents' world revolved around that little girl. To investigators, it doesn't sound like his mother was going to let her go that easily. I could hear for about five minutes at least.

It was the screaming and yelling in the room, like, some crying and stuff. But I was like, what's going on? And then it was just absolutely silent back there. A few moments later, Randy says his father emerged from the bedroom. Grab him on my wrist, pulled me up. He said literally word for word, told me, you need to leave for a few days and make sure everyone knows where you're at. In my head, I took it as I needed like an apple pie or something.

He was like he just walked in and seen something that he probably never thought he'd ever seen. Okay. So did you ever go back to the bedroom or what did you do? I didn't. They kept telling me that she didn't want to hear my voice. That's why I needed to me. Speaking with Randy, he seemed to be generally concerned for the welfare of Whitney. He seemed to be concerned for his daughter.

He seemed to be very suspicious of the situation involving his parents. That coupled with the physical evidence that we believed we had found in the truck and in the house. gave us great concern. But we at that point had nothing to support that a crime had actually been committed. It's been almost 24 hours since Whitney was last seen. Investigators return the riders to their home, but consider them to be persons of interest. Looking for more information, detectives turned to Whitney's family next.

The morning of October 1st, There was a cop outside that needed to talk to me. So I go outside and he asked me if I knew a girl named Whitney Hosler. And I said, yes, I do. That is my daughter. What's going on? And he told me that she was being reported missing. That was not her.

She would always let someone know where she was going, whether it be me or, you know, Randy. Whitney's family did not know what her current location was. However, they do know something about Whitney and Randy's volatile relationship. They would break up, get back together, break up, get back together. She would get with someone and he would get with someone. But then that wouldn't last long. But the last couple years, it just got really rocky, especially after she had the baby.

But Whitney's loved ones say Valerie Ryder, was the one she had the biggest problem with. Whitney suffered really bad from postpartum depression. It was hard on her. Winnie would sleep a lot, so it would make it hard to take care of her daughter. Whitney had issues with Valerie on the point that she was trying to take over her daughter

and keep her for herself. At one time, I guess, she wanted Randy and Whitney to sign her over to them so they can raise her because I guess they felt that Whitney and Randy wasn't capable enough of raising her which was so false

so false. According to her family, Whitney had been quietly making plans to leave for several weeks. She was supposed to move out on October 1st. She was supposed to get her apartment that day and sign the papers at 10 that morning.

Whitney never arrived. I just knew something was wrong. She was going to take her daughter with her. It didn't make no sense to me that Whitney was missing because that's not like Whitney to be missing at all, at all. She would let someone know. She always called me and let me know.

Coming up, a local resident makes a gruesome discovery. Just found a body laying down here in the bottom of the ravine. And investigators move. move in on their suspects. I knew what had happened. I just wasn't clear on why it happened. After questioning those closest to her, investigators fear Whitney Hosler

might have been the victim of foul play. In a last ditch effort to find her, they release details of the case to the media and open a tip line to the public. But their break comes from a 911 call. The afternoon of October 1st, the Champaign County Communications Center received a call from an individual in the area of Kaiser Lake Road near Kaiser Lake State Park. 911. Where's the location of your emergency? I just found a body laying down here at the bottom of the ravine.

It looks like it's a female. She's laying face down. Okay, all right. If you want to step out towards the road, I'm going to send someone out there. Do you think that she's alive and breathing? I don't make it all. Sheriff's deputies are immediately sent to the location. The deputy Shail and I responded to the area. When we got there, St. Paris, EMS was already unseen. They had pointed out to where the body was at.

Dead body, bottom of the ravine. Yeah, might be that missing, girl. There's off the north side of the road away, about 75 feet down into a ravine. The MT and I secured a rope to a tree, and we went down to the body. No pole, the golden heart. When they rolled her over, I mean, you could see her face, and it was Whitney. The deputies notify homicide detectives who secure the area and begin searching for clues. There was a log that was laying across what appeared as the entrance to the hill where she was dumped down.

And there was a red mark that was on a log right up by the entrance to that, and it looked like blood to me. You could see leaves and dirt had been moved from coming down the hill. To me, it didn't look like she had been killed there. It appeared that she had been dumped there. The medical examiner determined that Wendy had been strangled due to the evidence around her neck and the redness, choke marks. in addition to the paticule hemorrhaging in her eyes. To our knowledge, the rioters were the last ones that had contact with Whitney and saw Whitney alive. So at that point, coupled with the evidence that had already been found at the residence,

we felt that we really needed to focus our efforts on the rioters. At that time, they were brought in for second interviews. This time, detectives' focus on Valerie Ryder's husband, Rodney C. They really start to kind of push him because they have picked up on this nervous demeanor and they think of a tactic. I actually showed him some autopsy photos. Ronya, I think you, you know, your heart, you're a good man.

And I think you want to do the right thing. For this to happen, would I be right when I said that? Do you see those marks? I said, obviously, Whitney was killed. And I asked him if he knew who killed Whitney. You know who strangled Whitney? He stated he'd been asleep in his bed and woke up to the argument. And that when he came out of the bedroom, he went in.

to where Whitney's bedroom was and where Valerie was. And he found Whitney laying on the bed with a plastic bag over her head, and it appeared that it had been taped. Yes. Yes. So then what did you, what did you and Valerie do with Whitney at that point? I put her in a trash bag. You put her in a trash bag?

Valerie put her in a trash bag. Okay. Rodney Sr. stated that even though he knew he shouldn't help, He assisted Valerie in placing Whitney into the pickup truck outside the residence. And then later they went out to try to find a location in order to dispose of Whitney's body. Where did you end up? Which was where? What sticks out to me from the whole story at this time is her own daughter, her, the two-year-old child, is in the vehicle with them.

when they're trying to get rid of Whitney's body. Armed with this information, investigators question Valerie again. I confronted Valerie with the fact that I already spoke with Rodney Sr. And that I knew what had happened. I knew where it happened. I knew how it happened. I just wasn't clear on why it happened. I said, was it an accident?

Did you accidentally kill Whitney? I had put my arm around her and it went up because she'd moved and she tried to get me off and everything. And that was, I mean, I must to squeeze too hard or something because I heard her. I don't know, it wasn't a gag or cough or whatever. And that's when I realized. You realized what? That she was not breathing. How the bad got over her head?

Valerie claims she only meant to keep Whitney from leaving, but the thought of never seeing her granddaughter again sent her into a rage. The writers seem to have their whole world wrapped up in that granddaughter. I do believe that Valerie felt that she needed to control that situation. And her way of control was to murder. Whitney. After we completed the interview with Valerie, the writers were charged with felony murder and I believe tampering with evidence and abuse of a corpse.

When Whitney's loved ones learn of the arrests, they are devastated. I tried to keep it together because my mom was crying. She lost it. So I felt like I had to be the strong one. As a parent, you don't want to never, ever think that one of your child is taken from you like that. But it happened to me, my family. And it didn't need to. It was so senseless, senseless.

Now it's up to prosecutors to get justice for Whitney's family. Just that in that courtroom, looking at her, was the hardest thing I think I've ever had to do. I wanted them to get the most that was most years that they could get, which was hopefully forever. And I'm going to make sure that happens. Days after Whitney Hossler's body was found, Valerie and Rodney Ryder Sr. are both in jail awaiting trial for her murder. But some question whether they are truly the ones responsible for her death. After the arrest of both Rodney Sr. and Valerie, we obviously were continuing to receive information or calls indicating that they believe that Randy probably killed Whitney himself and that Valerie and Rodney Sr. were simply claiming responsibilities so they could protect their son. So there's history there between Whitney and Randy. We know that family members have witnessed them

fighting with each other. And they started thinking about, well, what really happened? We continued to look into Randy's and possible involvement in it, just to make sure that nothing come up down the road. To investigators surprise, Randy is happy to cooperate. We interviewed Randy, and we said, well, would you be willing to take a polygraph? And he said, absolutely. Detective Kemp and I drove Randy over to the Ohio Bureau of Criminal Investigation in London, Ohio,

where he was subject to a polygraph exam by one of the BCI polygraph investigators. All right. Are you ready to get started then, Randy? Did you kill Whitney? No. Did you help kill Whitney? No. Did you help dump Whitney's body? No.

Upon completing the polygraphy. exam. It was very clear that Randy was not trying to lie. He was not trying to cover up any truth and that he did not commit the crime. Two months later in December 2020, Rodney Ryder Sr. Enteres a plea deal. Rodney Sr. was convicted of possession of criminal tools, obstructing justice, and tampering with evidence and was sentenced to 336. months in prison. That leaves the confessed killer Valerie Ryder to stand trial alone. When her trial begins in February 2021, both her son and her husband are witnesses for the

prosecution. Here's what they had. Hair and the duct tape, that was the same color as Whitney's. They had statements from Rodney saying, look, my wife did it. Then they have Valerie sort of breaking down and admitting things that proved or at least pointed to her involvement in Whitney's death. Not only that, this big piece of evidence happened to be one green glove that was found in the truck. And this is the golden part for prosecutors. Valerie's DNA was inside the glove while Whitney's DNA was on.

on the outside of the glove. While the case against Valerie seems straightforward, her lawyers insist she didn't do it. Despite the results of Randy's polygraph test, they maintain he was the one who actually killed Whitney. The defense said not a chance. Valerie is innocent. In fact, she's taking the fall for her son Randy.

And in that defense, they called Randy's siblings. Valerie and Rodney Sr.'s children. And they came to the stand, and they argued that their mother was kind and caring. And, in fact, rather than being an instigator, she tried to always calm people down. Randy's many things, but Randy's not a murderer, okay? Wanting to put her own son under the bus to save her own skin. Yeah, what mother does that? that's no mother to me.

She acted like she had no care in the world and denied it, denied it, all the way to the end, all the way to the end. You didn't show any type of remorse. She just acted like she would never hurt my sister, but she did. The jury agrees. On February 25th, 2021, they find Valerie guilty.

Valerie Ryder was convicted of murder, felonious assault, tampering with evidence, and gross abusive corpse. She received 21 years in prison to life. I was happy that my sister got justice, not that her serving 21 years to life is ever going to bring my sister back. She was a mother. She was a daughter. She was a granddaughter. She was a great friend. And her daughter has to live the rest of her life without her mother. My daughter didn't have to die. No, she didn't. But there's nothing that can be done now about that. Except for we love her. We miss her every day. Every day. Randy Ryder has never been charged in connection with Whitney's murder.

Whitney's sister Chelsea Hosler was given custody of Whitney and Randy's two-year-old daughter. Rodney Ryder Sr. was released from prison on March 28, 2023. Valerie Ryder will be eligible for parole in 2041.