So Supernatural - LEGEND: La Llorona
Episode Date: April 11, 2025La Llorona – a haunting figure from Latin folklore – is said to be a ghostly spirit who wanders rivers and waterways, searching for her lost children. With her mournful cries and chilling presence..., La Llorona serves as a cautionary tale of maternal love, loss, and the consequences of betrayal. But some believe “The Weeping Woman” is very real and very threatening… If you or a loved one is experiencing domestic abuse of any kind, you are not alone. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or text START to 88788 for help. You can also visit: www.thehotline.org/ For a full list of sources, please visit: sosupernaturalpodcast.com/legend-la-lloronaSo Supernatural is an audiochuck and Crime House production. Find us on social!Instagram: @sosupernatualpodTwitter: @_sosupernaturalFacebook: /sosupernaturalpod
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You hear a lot of heartbreaking stories when you work in true crime.
A lot of things that keep you up at night, wondering how someone could do something so
horrible.
What went wrong along the way?
But the question I sometimes find myself asking is what happens to them next?
And I'm not just talking about a prison sentence or rehabilitation programs.
I'm talking about the afterlife.
Do remorse and guilt and shame follow someone?
Can their souls be trapped here in perpetuity to relive the consequences of their decisions forever?
This is where my mind went when I learned the story of La Llorona.
See, there's a legend in Mexican folklore,
one about a woman who drowned her children
after finding out her husband was unfaithful.
But she's not just trapped here to suffer her own fate.
Apparently she wants you to suffer with her.
And godspeed to anyone who crosses her path, because those who've heard her siren-like
cries have found themselves suffering terrible luck,
and in some cases, tragic deaths of their own.
Which is why La Llorona might be more than just a ghost story.
She might be a cautionary tale.
I'm Ashley Flowers, and this is Sew Supernatural. I'm Yvette Gentile. And I'm her sister Rasha Pecorero.
And today we're talking about one of the most famous legends from Mexican folklore, the weeping woman known as La Llorona.
As a kid, the world can feel so magical and so scary at the same time. Like it's full of all
these mystical, legendary creatures
that will reward you if you're good
or punish you if you're bad.
You know, the Have or Santa Claus
won't bring you any Christmas presents,
eat your vegetables,
or the Boogeyman will come for you in the night.
Or for me, it was the Candyman.
I remember my friends would try to get me
to stand in front of a mirror and say his name five times.
And I was like, nope, no freaking way.
I am not doing that.
But for misbehaving children growing up in Latin America, there's one legend that stands
out from all the rest.
Almost every family knows about her and everyone agrees.
She's terrifying, no matter how old
you are.
And her name is La Llorona.
Which in English literally translates to the weeping woman.
She's said to dress in either all white or all black and she wears a reboso, which
is a scarf-like garment almost like a shawl that's very popular in Mexican culture.
But if you get a good look at the weeping woman from behind, you might notice something under
her dress and scarf, something jagged and bumpy sticking out of her back. Legend has it, those are the bones of La Llorona's victims fused into her spine.
And that she wanders around shouting in Spanish, saying things like,
Mi hijos, mi hijos, donde están mi hijos?
Or my sons, my sons, where are my sons?
It's so creepy and eerie.
But it makes sense when we dive into legends about who she is and
where she comes from.
And yes, that's legends, plural.
Because while there are a lot of different accounts about how the Weeping Woman got her
start, there's some common themes in each origin story.
One story about La Llorona almost reads like a fairy tale,
except for when you get to the ending, of course.
We don't know when it takes place or where,
aside from the fact that it was in Mexico
a very long, long time ago.
In this story, La Llorona began her life
as a woman named Maria.
She was a married mother of two,
and she was said to be the most beautiful
woman in her entire village. Men would flock to her, so she was used to getting that constant
attention from them. She enjoyed it so much that she kept dating different guys even after
she was married.
One day, while her husband was away, she sent her two sons outside to play while
she met up with a secret lover. Maria was completely distracted with her partner, and
it was during that time her boys ran off to a nearby river. No one was watching when they
fell into the water, and tragically, both boys drowned.
Once her lover left, Maria opened the door to call her boys home for dinner.
When neither one came running back, she began to panic.
Maria started searching everywhere for them.
Her yard, the neighbor's house, literally all over her town.
But there was no sign of them, and all Maria knew for sure was that something terrible
must have happened.
She was so panicked, so devastated that she burst into tears and began screaming,
My sons, my sons, where are my sons?
And she never stopped crying or searching.
To this day, it's said that she still roams the earth mourning her loss. And
as legend has it, if she sees any children who remind her of her deceased sons, she actually
kidnaps them.
Even more terrifying, if a child's smile or eyes or dimples resemble her son's features, it's said that she'll cut off just that body part,
leaving her victim permanently disfigured. As disturbing as that account is, it's just
one version of La Llorona's origin story. In other variations, she's a lot more complicit
in her children's deaths. See, there are a lot of narratives where Maria is faithful to her husband.
She never cheats on him, not even once.
But he's not a good partner to her, and depending on the source, he's either extremely abusive
or he has multiple affairs or he neglects her.
So at one point Maria decides she's had enough.
She wants to hurt her husband
the same way he's hurt her.
And she believes the best way to do that is
by taking away the thing that he loves the most,
his children.
But she doesn't think it's enough to pack up
and disappear with him in the middle of the night.
She wants to do something more permanent, so instead, in a fit of fury, she murders her kids.
A lot of accounts say that she drowned them, and other versions say that she actually fed them to
the pigs. But eventually, Maria snaps back to her senses. She realizes that she's done something so unforgivable
that she can't live with the guilt.
So she decides her only choice is to die by suicide.
After she passes, Maria is said to go to heaven,
or at least she makes it to the pearly gates
just outside of paradise.
But she can't get through them.
The stain on her soul is too dark.
It's something that she can never get past.
And since she can't move on to the afterlife, Maria comes back to earth instead.
A vengeful spirit who to this day can never rest. She's cursed to keep killing for all of eternity.
As far as that version goes, Maria doesn't limit herself to attacking and killing children.
She also targets men because, of course, they remind her of her cruel husband.
A cruel husband who also appears in another version of the story.
In this one, it's said that La Llorona's original name is Luisa and she's a poor but
very beautiful young woman living in the 1600s.
Luisa falls for a rich man who gives her everything she could ever want.
A beautiful house, fancy clothes, good food to eat.
There's just one problem. The man won't marry her because she's a peasant.
Well, even though they're not officially husband and wife,
Louisa and the rich man make a good life for themselves. They end up having three
children together, they seem really happy and really in love.
But the man's loyalties are divided.
He wants to be with Louisa and keep her happy of course, but he also has parents
who are pressuring him to marry someone within their class. So eventually he
chooses the latter. He abandons Louisa and their children. They all have to move
out of his fancy house and figure out how they're going
to support themselves.
And just like in the last story, Luisa decides to get back at her former lover by killing
their children. While they're sleeping in their beds, she stabs them with a dagger one
by one. But as soon as her children have passed, grief and regret wash completely over
Louisa. Horrified by what she's done, she runs out into the streets screaming and crying.
And people see her white dress is covered in blood. And right away, they know something
horrible has happened. It doesn't take long for the villagers to find the children's bodies
and realize Louisa is a murderer.
And not long after, she was executed for her crimes.
But Louisa's spirit sticks around, haunting the city forevermore.
People see her wandering the streets, but only when they're deserted or late at night.
And if anyone lets her get too close or talks with her, they turn up dead.
So there are varying accounts and some inconsistencies as to how La Llorona got her
start. And maybe this is because the Aztec people who were indigenous to Mexico were telling stories
about La Llorona even before Europeans arrived on their shores. In those stories, a crying woman
wandered through the town yelling that her children were in danger. But anyone who heard
these cries knew to get the heck out of Dodge, because according to them, La Llorona only
appeared before disasters.
Though once Spanish settlers arrived, the stories about the Weeping Woman evolved, and
they incorporated more European influences, and different communities within Latin America
ended up with different versions.
But there are also some details that stay the same in each retelling.
The woman is always a mother with more than one child, and they die because of her sins.
Either because she neglects them to have an affair, or because she kills them herself.
Afterward, her guilt turns into an immortal inhuman creature, one that's out for blood. Rumor has it, you can tell if La Llorona is close because any nearby dogs will start to
howl.
And I'm not talking any howl.
They go off.
And of course, if you see a woman dressed in all white with a ribosal over her
face, do not talk to her.
If you want extra protection from her, it's said that burning eucalyptus or sage right
at sunset is said to help get rid of the ghosts and negative spirits, including La Llorona.
And I absolutely believe in this as well, because we were raised with a mother who believed
in sage and spiritual shamans coming in to help cleanse the house or the person.
You know, all of the things.
But if you're listening and you're thinking to hell with all of these tips that you don't
need them, well, you might want to think again. Because there's evidence to suggest La Llorona isn't just a figment from some ghost story. She could actually
be real.
There are plenty of eyewitnesses who've claimed to have an encounter with La Llorona. Including one man who looked her
in the eyes and paid the price with his life. So we're going to take you back in time to November
9th of 1906 when a Washington DC based newspaper publishes an article. It's about an incident in
a Mexican town, though the article doesn't say exactly where or when.
Still, the story goes that one night, a police officer is making his rounds when he sees
a woman dressed all in white.
Her reboso is covering her face, so the officer can't tell what she looks like, but he still
stops to flirt with her anyway.
And why? Nobody knows.
But it must have gone well.
Because soon, he's begging the woman to take her rebozo off so he can look her in
the eyes.
And eventually, the woman gives in.
She removes her shawl, and right away, the police officer regrets ever saying anything because this woman does not have
a normal human face.
She has a bare skull with no flesh.
While the officer stares at her in horror, the skull-faced woman exhales this icy cold
breath right in his face. The police officer is so stunned by the
whole encounter, he literally just faints right there on the spot. And when he
wakes up, there's no sign of the woman. But the officer knows that he wasn't
dreaming because he's still jittery, sick to his stomach even, and shaken to his core. Eventually, he goes back to his supervisors and he tells them exactly what happened.
And while you might imagine them laughing the whole thing off, that's actually not
the case.
The officials take his account very seriously.
But here's what's really spooky.
The officer supposedly never recovers from that fainting spell.
It seems like the encounter actually had a lasting deadly effect on him.
Because not long after sharing his story, the police officer dies.
Now that newspaper article doesn't say how he died, but it does refer to the lady he
encountered as La Llorona.
However, I will say that this story was passed around a few times before it made it to that
paper, so it's very possible some details got added or exaggerated in the game of telephone,
meaning take it with a grain of salt. That's not the only La Llorona sighting to make it into the papers.
That same year, we're talking 1906, another write-up appears in Washington, D.C.'s Evening
Star.
Again, it doesn't say exactly when or where this happened.
But apparently, a woman was seen wandering around another Mexican town, possibly Mexico
City. She had white clothing
and a white rebozo, and she was always crying and screaming, looking for her children.
Somewhere along the way, someone saw this woman and wanted to help, so they pulled her
aside to ask what was wrong. But rather than answer, the woman in white simply lifted her reposo.
And once again, she didn't have a face underneath.
She only had a skull.
Then she breathed on them.
It was so icy cold that the person in front of her ended up freezing to death.
This time right on the spot.
And this was only the first of many times this
happened in that area, with the woman in white taking multiple victims. Until finally, the local
papers in Mexico printed what were essentially warnings telling people to stay away from this
mysterious and deadly woman. And just a few years later, in August of 1914, another article ran, this time
in San Bernardino, California's The Evening Index. Their new story came from the Mexican-American
residence of West Chino, which is about an hour outside of Los Angeles. And according to that
article, there had been rumors going around for years about people
seeing La Llorona in the area.
She was said to wander West Chino streets at night, wailing.
But the best account might just come from the evening of Sunday, August 30th, 1914.
That night, a man named Omegon Moreno was out on the town visiting some friends.
His wife was at home by herself
when suddenly she began feeling ill.
She wanted her husband to come home and be by her side,
but since these are the days
before most people had telephones,
she had no way of reaching him.
The good news was Omegon's parents and siblings
lived right around the corner.
Somehow they found out his wife wasn't feeling well, Good news was Omegon's parents and siblings live right around the corner.
Somehow they found out his wife wasn't feeling well, so they sent Omegon's brother Cleophis
into town to find him and bring him home.
But before Cleophis can hit the streets, his dad pulls him aside and he tells him something
really weird.
He has a gut feeling that something bad is going to happen that
night, so he urges Cleophas to be careful. Cleophas takes the warning seriously and
he grabs a gun for protection before walking out the door. A few hours go by
and Cleophas spends the night searching for his brother all over town. He's
stopping at friends houses, restaurant, bars,
basically anywhere he can think of.
But when midnight hits
and there's still no sign of his brother,
Cleophas is ready to go home.
He's on the outskirts of town by this point
on a dark, deserted road that's lined with corn fields.
So there's no reason for Cleophas to expect anyone to be here
at this time of night. But then he hears footsteps behind him. He turns around and that's when he
sees a woman following him. Unlike a lot of other reports, this time she's dressed head to toe in black, and she still
has a reboso over her head.
It covers her entire face except for her eyes, which are glowing in the moonlight.
But Cleophas knows right away exactly who this woman is.
It's La Llorona.
His first thought is he still has time to run away, so he turns his back on her,
but that's when she lets out a blood-curdling shriek.
It terrifies Cleophas so much
that he screams right back at her.
But this only seems to annoy the weeping woman
because she charges at Cleophis
and in self-defense, he fires his gun.
He's too panicked to wait and see if he hit her or not.
So instead, Cleophis breaks into a sprint.
But out of the corner of his eye,
he can tell that La Llorona is un-injured
because she's also running. Instead of chasing him, she makes a break for the cornfields
and disappears into the stalks without a freaking sound.
Which, by the way, if you've ever been around corn, it's damn near impossible for there to be
no sound.
That stuff crackles and crunches if you so much as brush up against it.
So it feels like this woman, her spirit, whatever it may be, is bending the rules of reality
to get away.
That's exactly what I'm saying.
Now once Cleophas makes it home, he presumably tells his family all about what he saw.
And later he even files an official police report.
No idea what happened to Omegon or his wife, by the way.
But at this point, it doesn't seem like the biggest concern
because word gets around about Cleophas' night.
And before you know it, his friends
and his neighbors, they are also speaking up, saying they've had encounters with the
Weeping Woman in the past few weeks as well.
And a lot of the accounts are the same.
People just walking around late at night, some were alone while others were in pairs.
The point is, none of these people thought anyone else was out on the streets until they
noticed a woman in black creeping up behind them.
In at least one case, she was close enough to touch a man on the elbow before he spotted
her.
In each account, as soon as the witnesses spotted La Llorona, she screamed bloody murder at them.
And the witnesses did what any reasonable person would do in that situation. They got the hell out
of there. It gets to the point where some of the people of West Chino are too afraid to even leave
their houses at night. And many people believe the spirit of La Llorona really is haunting the
neighborhood.
And that's sort of where the coverage seems to end.
There's no follow-up articles, no more news updates, nothing nada.
Until over 50 years later when more recent sightings would come to light, including one
well-documented corroborated incident which ended in a brutal murder.
Stories of La Llorona date back centuries.
And whether or not her existence is real?
Well, that's been debated for almost as long.
But one story from 1986 turned the La Llorona legend on its head.
It started with a Latin Texas woman named Juana Ligia, and at the time she was reportedly
in a physically abusive marriage with her husband, who she had seven children with.
The situation was dire, but each time Juana would pack her bags and move out, she'd start getting calls from her family
members. And they'd always said the same thing, that she had to find a way to make her marriage
work, that she owed it to her husband to give him another chance. And like so many other women in
this position, she went back to him. Which, let me just pause right there and say, that is the worst
and most troublesome advice ever.
So if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, just remember, there is always
a way out.
Always look for your helpers.
We will link out to some resources in English and in Spanish in our show notes for this
episode.
But just know, no matter who you are, where you are, or what you're dealing with, help
is always available.
Now in Juana's case, things only got worse over time, to the point where she couldn't
eat, and she couldn't even sleep.
And then Juana started seeing things, including a woman in white who was constantly crying.
And Juana said the woman had told her exactly how to escape her situation.
Juana later said she believed this to be La Llorona, and that her spirit had told her
the best way to get away from her husband was to become the weeping woman herself.
So one day in April, Juana and all seven of her kids boarded a bus towards downtown Houston.
They got off at a stop close to a river called the Buffalo Bayou.
And one by one, Juana throws each of her children into the water, recreating La Llorona's
crime.
In Juana's mind, this was the only way to protect her children.
She believed if she didn't kill them quickly and mercifully now, they'd suffer and die
more slowly at the hands of their horrible and disgusting, abusive father.
Then after taking the lives of her children, Juana planned to take her own life as well.
Tragically, two of her kids did drown, five-year-old Juana and six-year-old
Judas, but one of the older children managed to escape and run for help.
Some locals arrived and pulled the surviving kids out of the water.
Ultimately, Juana was arrested before she could hurt anyone else, including herself,
and she was sentenced to 10 years of probation.
The light sentence was probably due to the fact that Juana pleaded no contest, and that means she
wasn't admitting to guilt, but she also wasn't fighting the charges.
And the judge may have sympathized with Juana's circumstances. To this day, Juana insists
she saw La Llorona before the murders. But it is worth clarifying, she doesn't believe
a ghost literally appeared and made
her murder her children.
Instead Juana lived with bipolar disorder.
From the sound of it, her visions of the waking woman were just symptoms of that condition.
But the reason why we're including this account is to show exactly how ingrained this
legend is in Latin culture and how deeply it's implanted into some people's psyches,
because it's not just Juana who had stories like this. In fact, in 1965, professional researchers
tried to determine just why the legend of the Weeping Woman resonated so much with certain
people, particularly with women. This included researchers like Bess Lomax-Hawes.
Bess was a folklorist who studied mythology and legends, and somewhere along the way,
she heard about a school in Los Angeles called the Las Palmas School for Girls.
It was technically part of a juvenile correctional facility, so if any girls under the age of
18 got sentenced to prison,
they'd go to Las Palmas during the day for classes. That way they could still earn a high school
diploma and at least have a chance at a bright future. Now, an employee at the school had gotten
close with some of the girls, and over time she noticed a pattern. A lot of them talked about the legend of La Llorona. They didn't just
talk about it. They were actually, literally obsessed with it. That's right.
It was almost as if for the girls at Las Palmas, the Weeping Woman wasn't just a
fairy tale or a boogeyman. She felt very real. something to be seriously feared.
One girl claimed she saw La Llorona with her own eyes.
Another said the weeping woman was known to peer in through the windows of the juvenile detention center,
like she was spying on the girls.
Overall, it seems like the girls all felt that La Llorona was out to hurt kids like them, ones who broke
the rules and ended up in juvenile detention facilities.
And these girls were terrified because they thought they were about to become La Llorona's
next victims.
And Bess wondered, why were these stories so meaningful to them?
What was it about La Llorona, more than any other legend,
that resonated with the troubled girls at Las Palmas?
I mean, think about it.
We're talking about a bunch of young women who've had very unstable lives.
They're stuck behind bars at a young age in a world that feels so scary,
so unfamiliar, and uncertain.
And they also can't quite open up to each other about how they feel,
because they're too worried about being judged or being bullied
or looking weak in front of their peers.
Basically, they were under so much pressure to act tough.
So what do they do?
They channel a lot of those fears and uncertainties into La Llorona, or at least sightings and
stories about her.
It's sort of an emotional response.
They use her as a way to indirectly bond with their own traumas, because everyone can agree
that a legendary deadly ghost is worth fearing. And ultimately, that's what folklorist Vess Hawes concludes,
that La Llorona was an outlet
for the girls' anxieties about the world.
And Rasha, obviously, we did a deep dive
on the lore surrounding La Llorona for this episode.
And one of the things that I know we both found
so surprising is just how
ingrained this legend is in the lives of so many people that we know.
Yes, and the first person that we asked was one of our oldest family friends in the world,
Jessica, who is Mexican. When we asked her if she'd ever heard of La Llorona, her response
was, what Mexican hasn't? And of course we laughed about it.
But she ended up telling us how many times she used the story of La Llorona to scare her children
and her grandchildren into going to sleep. It only worked on a few of them. But it's so ingrained
in so many of our friends' lives. And yes, when I spoke to our friend Veronica,
who is also Mexican,
she mentioned how her mother had told her this story,
but she didn't use it to scare her
because it was just such a sad story,
so it was more of a cautionary tale in their home.
Legends, like La Llorona,
sort of help us maintain control over the uncontrollable.
Like if we know what the threat is, we can sort of help us maintain control over the uncontrollable.
Like if we know what the threat is, we can sort of treat it in a way.
Whether that's burning eucalyptus or sage like our mom would, or just staying off the
streets at night, legends like these feel avoidable.
But avoiding our biggest fears isn't always possible in day-to-day life. It also might be why there are so many variations
of La Llorona's origin story.
In 2021, an intern for the Folklife American Center
named Camila Costa wrote a thesis on La Llorona
that makes complete sense to me.
She claims La Llorona represents something different
to everyone, depending on who you
are and what you're going through.
So if you're a child, La Llorona represents the threat of misbehaving.
But as you get older, that legend sort of adapts and evolves.
When you reach your teenage years like the girls at Las Palmas, La Llorona starts to
symbolize what it's like to be an outcast
in society. Someone who made a mistake and has to learn to live with the consequences.
For parents like Juana Lejia, La Llorona might be seen as a mother who had the weight of
the world on her shoulders, and she just sought to escape reality. So essentially, these legends represent some of
our deepest, darkest fears. And they can manifest into actual sightings of La Llorona. Ones that
feel pretty darn real in the moment. Maybe because they allow us to feel some control
over a world that we know is chaotic, unpredictable, and filled with mysteries
we will never fully understand.
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