Soft Skills Engineering - Episode 69: A Know-It-All Lead and Selling Your Boss on Remote Work
Episode Date: July 21, 2017Jamison and Dave answer these questions: My supervisor is a know-it-all who needs to be the smartest person in the room. How do I deal with it? I want to move to another city and work remotely. ...How do I convince my boss to let me?
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It takes more than great code to be a great engineer.
This is episode 69 of the Soft Skills Engineering Podcast.
I'm your host, Jameson Dance.
I'm your host, Dave Smith.
And this is the podcast where we talk about all of your non-technical questions
about mostly technical fields like software development.
Yep.
No more words go here.
uh we have some good uh comments from listeners about the the stuff we said about graduate school
which is fantastic because we don't dave and i haven't been to grad school uh so i've been
inside no no i've been inside one okay that yeah that's i had lunch in a grad school cafeteria a
few weeks ago yeah you're right i have been to harvard um i rode my bike through harvard today
it's that easy so it's like you know how in races they have those tables set up where you just like
grab a thing of water off off the table as you're going by it's like that but with degrees you just
like blasted through picked up your masters on my bike tomorrow you'll pick up your phd
on my way home actually okay on your way home so this was jameson is referring to episode 67 if
you want to pause and go back uh but we made some we expressed some opinions about graduate school
and we got some great feedback from a couple of listeners we'd like to share that with you
do you want to read the first one oh yes i will uh this comes from a listener named matt
matt says hi jamison and dave in the most recent episode loved it as always he actually wrote that
thanks matt you oh matt you shared your thoughts about getting a master's degree and whether or
not it's a valuable career move while i generally agree with your perspective that a master's degree
usually doesn't matter, my experience was quite different. I was an intern at my first job just
before starting my master's program. At the end of the summer, the company made an offer for full-time
work. As part of the offer, I was to work full-time the following summer between my two master's
academic years at salary X. Upon completion of my degree the following summer, I would return
again for the full-time work at a salary that was 12% higher than salary X. Conditioned upon
my successful completion of the degree. Furthermore, the company paid my master's
tuition. So it would appear that that particular company was very interested and invested in
graduate level education, even though my master's degree was in information systems and not computer
science. Anyway, if this perspective is useful, feel free to share it on the air. Thanks for your
great work and funny jokes. Soft Skills is one of my favorite podcasts. Thanks, Matt.
All right. Yeah, I wish we could talk to Max. I have so many questions about this. First of all,
that's awesome that it that it worked out really well for you i want to know if if you're using the
thing you studied for your master's degree or is it just the act of getting a master's degree
was the company interested in you having a master's degree or was it interested in like
you working there and getting a master's degree would it would help you stay there i didn't phrase
that right and what if you so the his bat matt's bachelor's degree was in information systems what
if his bachelor's had been in computer science would the company still want them want him to
get a master's you know like did that play into it i don't think he says what his bachelor's was
no he did no he says he got his master's in information systems oh my bad i read that out
loud that means you don't have the part of your brain available that understands stuff that's
right because reading it out loud takes up all of my brain yeah i just say words and my brain
is all focused on not saying the wrong words and even then it can't usually do that okay that that's
very interesting so they the company paid for a master's degree in information systems and we
don't know what the bachelor's was it was probably art why do you say that well maybe art history
okay i don't know i'm just teasing okay cool well anyway i'm i'm yeah i'm glad that worked out for
you i would also love to know how big of a company this is i feel like this is probably a larger
company actually i know the company size it was uh about 50 engineers maybe 100 people 200 people
total oh wow that's smaller than i would have expected yeah it is huh interesting cool well
that's that's good perspective that i did not have cool you want to read our next comment okay this
is from an anonymous listener i love the show you know what uh we do edit these comments and we may
or may not add superlatives about how awesome we are to all of them just kidding this is real i love
the show in your recent episode you were talking about the value of a graduate degree i'd like to
share my experience i have a master's degree and a phd after finishing my phd i found it very
difficult to get a job many employers told me flat out they would never hire anyone with a phd
because they can't do practical work and have their head in the clouds all the time um which
is so hot right now what with aws yeah the cloud digital ocean yeah like heading the clouds that
that screams money i eventually got a job as a web developer and concluded that my graduate
degrees were a waste of time however last year after i'd been working for 10 years as a professional
software developer i got a job with an ai startup with a 50 increase in salary breaking past a
salary ceiling that i had hit in the web development world and an opportunity to work on really exciting
technology with a great team my phd was instrumental in getting the job more specifically the combination
of practical software engineering skills and the ability to read understand and apply scientific
papers was what the investors backing the startup were looking for indeed we require at least a
master's degree for any job applicant as without that they would be lost in understanding the work
that we are doing so anyway that might be helpful to some people keep up the great podcast wow cool
story yeah yeah and uh pretty consistent all it took all it took was 17 years that's right
just seven years to get a master's and a phd and 10 more years of practical software development
work and boom ai startup it's that easy but this is this is actually quite consistent with the
comments you and i made uh in episode 67 where we were talking about how this machine learning craze
that's really picking up recently seems to be geared towards higher education or people who
have degree advanced degrees for sure yeah and this is like a poster boy story i have dabbled
in it a little bit and i think i know enough about it to know that i would be able to be like a grunt
implementing some stuff i'd be like the code monkey version of a machine learning developer
you know where like someone with a phd tells me what to do and then i do it but if anything weird
goes wrong i'm stymied it so you're you're the developer that has to like strip white space off
of the big data ingest process yeah yeah yeah i just write a lot of pearl scripts and
hand the results back to someone with a phd a 50 salary increase that's awesome that's great
that's big yeah i think this also feels like a a market thing too i mean i think if ai and
machine learning was not exploding it might they they might still just be a web developer oh
absolutely i mean 10 years right 10 years of that um the listener says that there was a ceiling
right that after 10 years it just couldn't really break through but boom overnight this machine
learning craze and suddenly 50 percent raise but it is interesting in that i think you could
probably well i don't know you might be able to get a phd planning on working in in this field
now in a way that you wouldn't have been able to 15 years ago whenever whenever this listener got
their phd yep um and one of the interesting things about machine learning and ai is that it doesn't
seem to matter what what your phd was in right like you could be focused on chemistry or physics
or bioinformatics and then suddenly you are a plausible candidate for an engineering position
working in machine learning and i really oh yeah like we at my last job we employed three or four
data scientists who had phds in all kinds of crazy fields they i mean they all have to have a pretty
strong math background though absolutely like phd in art history maybe not but basically a science
phd unless you're working on the deep mind stuff that is generating art from other similar art and
then it might actually be super useful maybe maybe yeah that's interesting i i assumed that it was
all just cs phds but you're saying that someone in a science field who i mean they know how to
program and then they know enough math to be able to decipher the the ai papers i i think that's
what it comes down to or they don't know how to program very well actually um i don't think
knowing how to program is necessarily a requirement in this listener's case it turned out to be a
match made in heaven right phd background 10 years of practical software development experience yeah
really solid developer plus someone who can who can understand what on earth a recurrent neural
network even means exactly but most of the machine learning scientists that i know and i know a fair
bit they don't consider themselves developers yeah uh have you heard that phrase about a data
scientist where there's someone who knows less math than uh than a real scientist and is a
worse developer than a real developer but they make more money than both of them yeah yeah
yep yeah it's kind of that combination of skills anyways cool that sounds like it worked out really
well for you also so both of these are i don't know if they counter our points or not actually
because we did kind of say that phds are great for this advanced work well i think one of the
core tenets of this podcast is that we are never wrong so it would be impossible for them to
counter our points that's true um and we can edit these before we post them so we'll just add a
little just as dave and jameson predicted to the end of all of them yep awesome thank you so much
for your comment cool uh should we read our first question yeah my turn yes okay this one comes from
an anonymous listener as well uh who writes how do i deal with a supervisor who has the need to be
important. After four months in my new job as a junior full-stack developer in a small startup,
I have come to understand that my supervisor needs to feel important and be the smartest person in
the room. When I ask a question, he begins answering about something totally different
and starts using technical words that sometimes I think don't even exist.
I have tried to explain in a nice way that usually when I ask about something,
he starts talking about other things that are not relative to the question,
but the two times i've nicely tried this have simply worsened the situation it is making me
look super bad in the office i want to leave my job but i'm afraid i will simply find someone
like this in my next job as well maybe the same person will quit at the same time and follow you
to the new job what a coincidence so you just make me feel so smart i just want to be around you
so my question is how do you deal with developers that have this attitude
a second question i'd like to ask oh wait a minute we have a one question limit here sorry
okay we'll let we'll let this in 69 more episodes friend we'll let this one back in line
a second question i'd like to ask according to a close colleague or friend in the office this
person feels threatened over the ideas i contribute to the project which maybe is true
should i stop giving ideas for the project oh oh this sounds really hard what you need to do
is just crush your dreams and your hopes just tamp it down just become a drone okay
and and then stop contributing beyond mechanically typing out what the smarter person tells you to
type out have you ever worked with someone who who you felt like was trying to kind of one-up
you or show that they were smart i'm trying to think back uh yes i just thought of one
how did you deal with it well i was in a slightly different situation because i was a little more
senior than this person oh you were more senior than the person who was trying to one-up exactly
okay and so it didn't feel threatening it just felt annoying you know yeah but i think this
listener feels threatened by this to the point that he wants to quit um uh but in my situation
it was just like oh geez stop it you know yeah then i would move on with my life and i was no
worse off yeah i i don't think i've had it with a senior developer a senior person to me either i
have had situations where it was a colleague or someone more junior i have had situations where
more senior people genuinely did know way more than i did and sometimes they weren't the best
at communicating but but it didn't feel like they were trying to just like crush me it was just like
they weren't great communicators but they were communicating the knowledge they had and it was
a little scary earlier on yeah so oh oh i just thought of one no i just thought of one a real
legitimate situation no there was i uh i went to work for a company and there was a uh a scientist
who had developed a lot of the original stuff like a lot of the algorithms and things that
were in use at the company and i had a lot of questions um about how it worked and you know
i would ask questions like you know the scientists would say well you have to do it this way and i
would say or else what you know and he would be super threatened by that and he'd start kind of
monologuing about stuff and i got the impression that he really was he felt threatened and wanted
he would kind of go on these rants and these philosophical monologuing sessions that in the
end basically boiled down to i don't know you know like i never tried that or or uh um you know
it's hard to explain like but it sounds really similar to this situation and you want to know
how i resolved that situation how i did nothing and he got fired
uh that's hilarious because i actually just remembered a very similar situation it wasn't
a scientist but it was like the original developer of a large and complex system um and and me asking
questions about it threatened this developer quite a bit okay how do you know he was threatened he or
she i am inferring based on what i know about how people work um sorry that's funny it it was like
the answers i would say i don't know like a third or a quarter of the time there was there was a
real answer of like because of this technical constraint some of the time was just like i don't
know i just had to get it done but but they would never admit it they would always they would they
would just like come up with fake reasons why instead of just saying i don't know like i was
trying to learn it and i had to get it done quickly and that's just what i did and and it
got a little aggressive at times a little a little hot under the collar yeah yeah because
and to be fair i think this person had a reasonable justification for feeling threatened because
they kind of were threatened
and they had a similar outcome
to what you described
Dave
but
I think the
key thing there was I
didn't
I don't feel like it made me look bad
because I feel like I knew enough
to be secure in asking
questions and
and because I
didn't know the system didn't make me dumb it just meant i didn't know what i didn't know the
all the inner workings and all the quirks and stuff um so i was fine asking questions and and
getting sometimes a little bit testy answers because they would either tell me like oh okay
there isn't actually a reason or it's like no this is a giant pitfall and if i didn't ask this
question i would have broken everything so it was it was it was fine it was totally worth it
but i wasn't i wasn't super junior this person's been working for four months as a junior developer
so i assume that means they've been working for four months period as a developer uh yeah probably
uh and and the fact that their supervisor is using words they don't understand
um doesn't necessarily mean they're making words up i mean at four months into software there's a
lot of words you don't there are a lot of words i still don't know there are so many weird words
in software am i right yeah yeah who even knows what big omicron is or um funks yeah uh
co-free monads um so so i guess wait a minute you just made that up co-free monads
no i can i can't tell you what they are i can tell you they exist though okay so fancy words
that actually exist is like the name dropping of software development right yeah i guess uh
it is interesting that most of our examples have come from functional programming i know i don't
want to say anything listen some of my best friends are functional programmers but but those
people love their jargon you're so functionalist what's that you're so functionalist yeah anyways
my point is it is very possible that your supervisor is an egomaniac trying to manipulate
you into looking stupid it's also possible that they're just that they're also saying real things
that you don't understand yet as a new developer and they're just not good at explaining things
um yep i i feel like uh there's it's probably more likely that they're just not a great
communicator and also they're saying real things than that they're just straight up 100 and making
up nonsense to put you in your place i i bet there's a little bit of both that they're they're
just not good at explaining things to new developers that's right and it turns out go ahead
that not being a good communicator is i would say rampant in the software development field
right yeah odds are pretty good yeah if you just pluck an average developer out of the group i i
i agree with you i think it's likely that they might not be the best communicator that might
even be true of humanity as a whole just pluck a random human anyway yeah wait no that can't be
true they'd be an average communicator that's right that's right what i'm saying is we need a
we need a stats phd yeah i don't get this to help us answer this anyways uh that's not very helpful
to you beyond just like i don't know part of being new is feeling overwhelmed by all the new stuff
out there and and um that's a normal feeling yes and and it's also sadly normal to sometimes
have people enforce that feeling by using a lot of jargon.
I mean, they genuinely might be the smartest person in the room, too.
Even if they have a need to feel that way, they might actually be it.
Yeah.
I would say that that information, you know, Jameson, you said it might not be that helpful,
but I actually think it's pretty actionable because if you change your mindset and say,
I'm just going to assume that everything this guy says is real and he's not making stuff up,
And I'm going to take it as an opportunity to go learn all these words and see why he
was using them in the context that he was and make notes, write down the things he says
that you don't understand, take them back to your desk, do some research and figure
out why he may have used them.
And for the things you can't figure out, take it on as like a mentor relationship with this
guy.
He may not be open to this.
Just the crappiest mentor ever.
I know.
No, no, no.
It's like one of those gruff sports movie mentors where they're like reluctant.
they're not they're not happy or or nice at all but deep inside they have a heart of gold and at
the end you'll get like a little head ruffle and like ah kid you're all right but meanwhile they
just abuse the crap out of you yeah yeah but you have to yeah you have to suffer for that knowledge
but you love them more than anyone because it was so hard earned
yep i think that only happens in movies i think you're right don't do that but you could take it
as an opportunity to learn these new words and worst case scenario you find out that he is
completely snowballing you is that the right word i don't know anyway you might be hang on wait
yeah we got a situation here where you said a word that i didn't know to make yourself look smarter
code red we have a situation uh he's just uh emptying your water bottle you know classic
idiom in the english language that definitely exists yeah i i like that i i do find it unlikely
that this person is 100 making up words they might be trying to justify themselves with like
technical stuff that doesn't apply i've seen that a lot more than straight up making stuff up where
someone will bring up like oh it's not acid compliance and like that's a real thing that
means stuff and is useful sometimes and in like a tiny web app that has two users it doesn't matter
right so that's still a learning opportunity developers will often use that stuff with
non-technical people as well where they just they have some degree of like mystique and trust
where they just say these magic incantations
and then the non-technical people are like,
well, he said the rights on the spinning plate hard drives
would destroy it in a couple of years,
so we can't do it.
Okay, that's what he said.
They know that stuff.
Oh, man.
And I think part of growing as a developer
is learning all those constraints
and how they apply to real products.
So this might be you kind of use this stuff
and develop your self-defense skills.
against it so if you go learn what acid compliance means like dave said and then you learn when it
doesn't matter then then you can push back a little bit more intelligently instead of just
saying like i don't believe you acid compliance that's not a real thing so so i think there's
one other possibility here um one of the communication breakdowns that i've seen
between developers excuse me one of the communication breakdowns i've seen between
developers is when you have people talking at different levels. And by level, I mean,
like, you'll have someone speaking at like a pie in the sky, futuristic, philosophical level.
Meanwhile, they're having a conversation with someone who's talking boots on the ground,
ship it tomorrow level. And those people cannot see eye to eye when they're in a conversation
sometimes. And that may be happening here. You know, maybe your boss, your supervisor is
throwing out all these big words and stuff and they don't seem like idealism yeah exactly they
don't seem relevant for your situation because your boots on the ground but he is thinking you
know long-term five-year plan you know we could do anything and you're thinking yeah but i just
need to get through this this stack trace you know that so it's possible you have a mismatch there
yeah it also sounds like this happens a lot in meetings where there's some degree of like
public calling out or shaming or something yeah and and that really stinks first of all that's not
that's a bad thing for a supervisor to do um you can answer questions and bring up concerns but
you shouldn't ever make people feel stupid in front of other people in meetings i feel like
unless you're like steve jobs and then he gets away with it i guess but maybe it's an environment
Maybe a solution is to ask in more private settings or to ask other people that aren't this supervisor.
If you're trying to answer questions you have or bring up feedback about the project, then there might be some performance going on here where the audience makes them behave in a less than ideal way.
Yeah, I've seen that and it's unfortunate and totally happens.
Yeah, and we mentioned feeling attacked earlier.
you also mention it in your question if they feel threatened taking away the audience makes it a lot
less threatening because if you're bringing up concerns or issues with their ideas then suddenly
they're like defending themselves in front of a group and then they get all uh defensive like i
just said but if you do it one-on-one i think it's easier to avoid getting getting your guard up
worrying about looking stupid in front of other people yep um i'm afraid i will simply find
someone like this in my next job as well uh i don't know it's a fairly common trope
you can definitely find jobs without people like this oh yeah you can find people like this in a
lot of places though i would say that it's unlikely that you're necessary like i would
say the chances of running into this again are low unless the problem is you which i don't want
to come right out and say that but it could be like that that's it it's possible and i would do
some soul searching to try to figure that out if that's the case the problem is going to follow you
to the next job right unless you really address it here yeah well uh that's a shining note to
end the question anything else we should say about it i would say i probably would not quit this job
after four months i would keep trudging along and seeing what i can learn from it and if you give
yourself the mindset that it's short term for you and you maybe even give yourself a deadline say
look i'm going to take three more months and if the situation isn't better i'm going to bail that'll
give you your mind freedom to really be malleable and flex with this situation and see what you can
learn from it while not feeling you know like you have to make a decision to quit your job every two
minutes yeah so yeah that makes sense right on question answered so answered we have one more
question which i will read now i have been a developer at my current company for about two
years and i'm looking for a change of scenery i really enjoy working for the company and have no
desire to find a new job but the location has just grown old i'm considering moving to a larger city
about two hours away but like to keep my job and work remote is this something either of you have
had experience with and if so when is a good time to mention my consideration to relocate i don't
want to bring it up too early and have it backfire on me thanks so i love how this question asker
says change of scenery but it's literally a change of scenery it's not a metaphor for quitting your
job and they just literally want to change the scenery around them yeah uh have you tried new
curtains in your home or apartment you can achieve a scenery change with wallpaper curtains furniture
the succulent plants are very popular among millennials right now try acquiring some of those
so i have never um moved from full-time on-site to full-time remote but i have worked around
several people who have do you have any experience with this dave no i have been on the other end of
that question where someone comes to me and says i want to move and work remotely okay that's
perfect yeah what went through your head when they asked that oh i just blurted out you're fired
you dare
i will say this though what gives you the right to ask me you're fired
um no that's not what i did uh i will say this though among management so there were three or
three managers i think involved and and this one engineer came to his manager and said i want to
i want to move and i want to continue working for this company but remotely and i will say we did
discuss it uh and it gave us an opportunity to think hard about whether this team member was a
good fit and um because basically it was an opportunity to cut ties if we wanted to we you
know we could say yeah you're going to move we are not going to continue the working relationship
like it was it's a it is a decision point so you will be putting management into a decision-making
mode that they would not have been in otherwise so i would say ship something really awesome and
then go in did was there any uh room for concern that way was there a little or was it just okay
yeah this was what is the case uh this engineer ended up moving and and um continuing to work
uh for the company but it was like uh you know it's an opportunity to think to think about things
um you know there are some people i think on on every team who say i want to work remotely and
we say okay you can work from anywhere on the planet in any time zone and you can keep working
for my company just please keep working for me you know and then there are and that's like five
percent of the engineers you know and then everyone else it's going to be like a decision point i
think interesting so what what made you decide to let the engineer work remotely oh i'm trying
to remember so long ago let's see the gifts they brought you yeah put an apple on my desk
i honestly can't remember the individual criteria okay um so the i've seen it happen
at least three times on people that were or two people that were on my team um and in all those
cases they were just really incredible engineers developers um who were doing fantastic work
and they were also very set on moving no matter what and it was basically like i will just get
a different job if you don't let me do it they weren't threatening but like they were committed
to moving uh they were also very helpful and useful to have on the team and had a track record
of delivering really good work um and in those cases it was a no-brainer they had they had done
great work we really wanted them to stay on the team and at the company and and so we just did it
i don't think i've seen it in person where there was anyone that was kind of on the fence about
whether we would let them or not huh yeah one one of the people um moved across the country
another person would go on regular vacations for like three months every year to to europe
um and another person moved their whole family to europe wow like permanently i'm so envious
yeah i i'm i'm not envious of the of the circumstances because technically i could
do that if i wanted to i'm envious of the ability to just decide to do that i'm just so rooted where
i live with family and also laziness that i just know i'm not gonna pick up and move to costa rica
you're paralyzed by inertia i i am i have put down roots anyways so so i think the most useful
advice i can give you is be really good at your job be very visibly good at your job
and then you have to decide how willing you are to find a different job because if you're if you're
100 moving then you're gonna move and you'll just get a different job and you can find remote jobs
that is oh that is one more wrinkle here it sounds like you didn't really mention it in your question
but i gather that this is not a remote company that remote is the exception and that's a very
different experience than working remote for a remote company and it can be pretty isolating
if everyone's used to talking face to face and getting work done with people in the office you
can feel left out a lot because people won't communicate with you because they just don't see
you so you have to work harder both to communicate your efforts and to find out what's going on you
have to make sure what you're doing is visible and you have to make sure that you know all the
architect all the architecture discussions that are happening or the product changes or i don't
know it's a lot more work communicating with people that tend to forget you exist sometimes
that's true and i think that's a bit of a separate question is you know are you remote work material
because not yeah yeah but i mean i think being able to demonstrate that you are remote work
material both that you do great work for the company right now but also showing like hey i think
i've looked into what the issues are and i'm confident i can overcome them that is a really
good point if someone showed up at my desk as a manager and asked me those questions and came to
me with a bullet point of remote work challenges and plans that they had to overcome those
challenges i would be very impressed and i would say you've clearly thought this through i'm much
more inclined to grant you this than i would be otherwise that would be especially important for
a company like jameson said in this case if it's not remote work oriented already you know bring
the concerns up front that's so good such a good idea and then make sure you post a lot on social
media at like two in the afternoon of you just hanging out on your couch playing video games or
like another great day at the beach what an awesome week i so i've personally discovered
remote is super cool and it's hip and and there's there's this cultural thing that goes along with
it and i've learned that it does not make me happy that i'm real sad when i work remote i don't work
as well that's so interesting to hear you say that because all your hobbies you're out seeking
isolation but at work you want to be around engineers yeah i do i just i just i just like
those people you're such a complex being jameson just can't understand you have depth you're
sophisticated only yeah it only comes out in the poems i write and the black eyeshadow that i put
on at home yeah have we answered the question anything else we should say well let's look at
this last sentence i don't want to bring it up too early and have it backfire on me what does
that mean too early like what would be a too early uh i mean they've worked there for two years maybe
they feel like they haven't paid their dues yet haven't earned people's trust two years that's
plenty of time for people to know who you are and what you're capable of yeah i agree two years
doesn't feel too early to me or or maybe it's like too early since the time i ruined the whole
company on accident back when i accidentally the prod database yeah i think uh okay so here's one
other thing if they're if the your manager seems really reluctant to grant you this opportunity
why don't you engage in a trial period where you stay in your current scenery
and you just work from home a number of days per week as a trial period and then you can assess at
the end and then do a darn good job performing while you're in this trial period and demonstrate
that you can do it and uh you know put that out there and say i want to do a one month trial and
and see how it goes maybe your manager will be likely to or more likely to accept it yeah one
other thing to look out for is i i have seen places that will i don't know if it's deliberate
or inadvertent they'll just dangle this in front of people forever and never actually do it i guess
it's i've seen it more with salary things uh we're like yeah well you'll get a raise next period we
just can't right now because of business all right this one is a little easier to force because you
can just like move and see what they do but if you're doing the trial period make sure it has
an end date on it that yeah yeah that is unambiguous so that you can actually get an answer instead of
just like well we'll get back to you we'll evaluate it you'll hear back from us yep because
the danger there is they don't want to but they also don't want to say no so they just never give
you an answer yep all right did we answer it indubitably another question answered another
one down we're closer one question closer to answering all the questions how can people go
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there's a link right up at the top of the website to ask a question thank you so much for your
questions they're great we really enjoy uh reading them and answering them they help us
become more powerful
yeah thank you
we also have really been enjoying
wait did you say powerful
what
did you say powerful
yeah I said they help us become more powerful
I've been playing a lot of Dungeons and Dragons lately
so that's where my brain is
it's all about like gathering power
you mean literally like hit points
you get more
yeah yeah
does D&D use the word hit points
they do yeah
I knew that
anyway jameson listen star wars that stuff's for nerds dnd is what distinguished people of
fine taste play okay excellent yeah so thanks very much we love your questions if you have
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