Solved Murders - True Crime Stories - The Secret Passion of Mérida A Forbidden Affair That Ended in Obsession and Death PART4 #68

Episode Date: February 2, 2026

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Starting point is 00:00:00 It was the kind of case that tore through the quiet streets of Merida like a thunderclap on a clear day. The investigation revealed something deeply unsettling, the aggressor had entered the house without breaking in. No locks were forced, no windows shattered. That single fact told investigators a lot, whoever had come into Merna Guadalupe Balin's home had either been trusted or had access that was willingly granted. It meant familiarity.
Starting point is 00:00:27 It meant someone she knew, someone she didn't. fear. The scene inside didn't fit the picture of a robbery gone wrong either. Nothing was out of place, no drawers ransacked, no valuables missing, no desperate signs of struggle suggesting an intruder searching for quick cash. It wasn't random. It was personal. The violence was focused, deliberate, and deeply emotional. When the forensic team examined Mernas' body, they found the cause of death was a devastating blow to the back of her skull. The wound was made with brutal precision, a heavy metallic object had crushed bone and tissue instantly. Later, that weapon would be identified as a wrench, the kind Alder, her secret lover,
Starting point is 00:01:14 carried to his construction job almost every day. That detail alone painted a horrifying picture. This wasn't an accident or a moment of uncontrolled rage that came from nowhere. It was planned. Days after the murder, the wrench surfaced again, tossed among piles of trash in an abandoned lot near Alder's home. The forensic tests confirmed what everyone feared, the object carried biological traces matching Mernas DNA.
Starting point is 00:01:44 Even worse, partial fingerprints recovered from the handle pointed directly to Alder. The case that had once been filled with uncertainty now started tightening its grip around him. When authorities raided a friend's house, a place where all there was known to hang out, they found his phone. What the investigators uncovered in that small piece of technology changed everything. Deleted call logs, erased text messages, and GPS data showing that he had been in the area of Mernas house on the night of the murder.
Starting point is 00:02:16 He had denied it at first, claiming he was home, asleep, disconnected from the world. But digital footprints don't lie. When they finally sat him down in the interrogation room, he cracked under the pressure. He admitted that, yes, he had gone to see her that night. He said they'd argued. According to his version, the conversation had spiraled when she told him it was over, for good this time. He said he couldn't handle it.
Starting point is 00:02:45 He said something inside him broke. That he lost control. But his story didn't explain why he was carrying a wrench, why he had deleted all traces of their communication, or how he managed to leave without alerting anyone. Those gaps spoke louder than his words. The prosecution wasn't buying the narrative of a momentary outburst. They called it what it was, premeditated. Forensic psychologists analyzed all theirs behavior, and their findings were chilling. He displayed patterns of obsessive conduct, pathological jealousy, and emotional dependency.
Starting point is 00:03:24 His attachment to Myrna wasn't love, it was possession disguised as affection. He had built an emotional cage around her, one she hadn't even noticed until it was too late. The experts described him as emotionally immature, someone unable to deal with rejection or autonomy from the person he idealized. To them, this wasn't a spontaneous act, it was the tragic end of a cycle of control that had been brewing for months. When the first hearing came, the judge ordered preventive imprisonment. The defense, desperate to save him from the heaviest charges, tried to reframe the crime as simple homicide, arguing that there was no formal relationship between the two and no evidence of premeditation. But the prosecution pushed back hard, presenting aggravating factors,
Starting point is 00:04:13 the clandestine romantic bond, the gender-based violence, and the clear advantage Alder had over Murna that night. In April 2017, the oral trial began. It became one of the most followed cases in the state. More than a dozen witnesses testified, neighbors, relatives, co-workers from the hardware store, and even the forensic team that pieced the puzzle together. Each testimony added another brick to the wall of evidence against Alder. One of the most emotional moments came when Roman Lujan, Meena's husband, took the stand.
Starting point is 00:04:50 He was visibly shaken, his voice-breaking as he said he had never known about his wife's secret relationship. He mentioned how, in the months before her death, he'd noticed she seemed distant, distracted maybe, but he had assumed it was just stress or family tension. Never, he said, did he imagine betrayal or, much less, violence. The forensic experts from the State Institute detailed the sequence of events, the angle of the wound, the depth of the fracture, the force required. Everything indicated that Myrna had been attacked from behind, with lethal intent, and without a chance to defend herself.
Starting point is 00:05:29 There was no sign of struggle. No defensive wounds. It was quick, silent, and merciless. The evidence didn't end there. Investigators found a small notebook in Alder's house, a disturbing artifact that offered a glimpse into his mind. Inside, he had scribbled obsessive notes about Myrna, phrases like, She's mine, she can't leave me, and, if she won't be with me, she'll be with no one.
Starting point is 00:05:58 Among the notes, there was also a drawing, a woman lying on the floor, bleeding. It was hauntingly similar to the actual crime scene. After weeks of testimony, the verdict came back unanimous, guilty of aggravated Femicide. The judge read the sentence aloud in a packed courtroom, 45 years in prison without the possibility of reduction, plus financial compensation to Mernas two children. The announcement came under strict security, but nothing could contain the emotional weight of that moment. For Yucatan's justice system, it became a landmark ruling. It was one of the first cases where Femmicide was applied to a situation outside a formal marriage, recognizing that violence
Starting point is 00:06:43 born of emotional control and gender dynamics could exist even in secret relationships. The prosecution described it as a silent crime incubated in the shadows of an unbalanced and destructive bond. The case shook Merida to its core. It wasn't just another headline, it was a story that pierced through the illusion of peace in a city where violent crimes were rare. The fact that Myrna, a married woman, mother, and respected community member, had been murdered by a younger man she had hidden from everyone, stirred up shock, gossip, and endless judgment. The media handled it cautiously at first, unsure how to cover a story that involved infidelity, obsession, and murder. But soon, details began leaking, the age gap, the hidden
Starting point is 00:07:30 affair, the intense jealousy. Some people sympathized, lamenting the tragedy without judging. Others turned cruel, attacking Mernas character, painting her as reckless or deceitful. But no matter how people tried to justify or explain it, two families were left shattered beyond repair. Mernas children, both teenagers at the time, were pulled out of their private school. Their father, Roman, couldn't stand the stairs, the whispers, the pity. He quit his job at a state office months after the trial, sold the family home through intermediaries, and quietly relocated to another state. Friend said he never spoke of it again.
Starting point is 00:08:13 He refused interviews, avoided public spaces, and devoted himself entirely to his children's healing. He wanted to erase the past, though the scars would never truly fade. On the other side, Alder's family carried their own cross. His mother, a poor woman who had raised him and his younger sister alone, became the target of silent disdain from neighbors. People whispered when she walked by, avoided her at the market, stopped sending their children. to play near her house. Shame, pity, and judgment wrapped around her like an invisible shroud. She never spoke to the press, but during the trial she made one heartbreaking statement, My son isn't a monster. He's just a broken boy who mistook love for possession. Her words
Starting point is 00:09:02 hung heavy in the courtroom, not as a defense, but as a mother's plea for understanding. Inside the social reintegration center where Alder serves his sentence, prison records show that he has maintained calm behavior. No fights, no disciplinary actions. He spends his days in carpentry workshops, working with his hands, silent, withdrawn. According to guards, he barely talks. He eats alone. He writes sometimes, though no one knows what about. He has never requested an appeal, never asked for a sentence review. It's as if he accepted his fate the moment the verdict was read. Years later, his case began to appear in seminars and educational talks organized by women's rights groups and psychology collectives. They used it to discuss emotional dependency, control disguised as affection, and the danger of confusing love with ownership. Specialists pointed out that Alder's attachment to Myrna had maternal overtones, he sought in her the affection he'd missed growing up, but when that source threatened to leave,
Starting point is 00:10:10 his emotional instability turned lethal. Legally, the case also became a milestone. The court's decision to uphold the Femmicide charge, even without cohabitation or marriage, set a new precedent in Yucatan's penal system. It made clear that a relationship doesn't need a marriage certificate to be abusive, manipulative, or deadly. What mattered was the dynamic of control, the imbalance of power, and the violence borne from rejection. The message was clear, gender-based violence can exist in any form,
Starting point is 00:10:44 even behind the facade of secrecy and passion. Those who knew Myrna remember her as soft-spoken, responsible, kind, and deeply dedicated to her children. To some, it's still hard to reconcile that image with the choices she made, the secret affair, the deception. But to others, her story is a mistake. mirror reflecting the hidden realities of many women who find themselves trapped between emotional need, guilt, and fear of judgment.
Starting point is 00:11:14 Mernah's tragedy wasn't a random act of madness, it was the culmination of emotional imbalance, silent manipulation, and an inability to let go. It was the story of a woman who believed she could manage a secret, and of a man who mistook control for love. In the end, what destroyed them both wasn't passion, it was silence. The kind of silence that hides wounds under polite smiles, that allows obsession to grow unchecked. Her death became a warning, what's hidden doesn't disappear, it festers, it transforms, and sometimes, it kills. The house where it happened still stands, though new owners live there now.
Starting point is 00:11:56 They say they don't believe in ghosts, but neighbors swear they sometimes hear footsteps, faint metallic clinks, or a woman's sigh in the quiet hours before dawn. maybe it's just imagination or maybe in some strange way the story of merna guadalupe ballon still lingers a reminder that behind every quiet neighborhood there might be a storm brewing where no one dares to look the end

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