Solved Murders - True Crime Stories - The Tragic Fall of Lisa Harum Love, Control, and a Deadly Case of Domestic Abuse PART4 #76

Episode Date: December 15, 2025

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The Fall of Lisa Haram, A Proposal, A Secret, and a Balcony. Chapter 1, The Birthday That Changed Everything June 12, 2011 should have been one of the happiest days in Lisa's life. It was her 30th birthday, a milestone, a turning point, a day that usually brings reflection, joy, and plans for the future. But instead of being surrounded by her own friends or celebrating with the people who mattered most to her, Lisa found herself at the center of a stage carefully managed by the one person who had slowly consumed every corner of her existence, Simon.

Simon, with his typical flair for appearances, decided to throw a grand party. Not just any gathering, he booked a table at one of the most expensive, high-end restaurants in the city. The kind of place where a bottle of wine could cost as much as someone's monthly rent. But there was a catch. There was always a catch with Simon. The guest list wasn't filled with Lisa's friends, because by then, she hardly had any left. Simon had cut them all out. No, the only people in attendance were his own family and friends, people who knew him, admired him, or at least tolerated his controlling quirks. Lisa sat there, dressed beautifully but hollow-eyed, surrounded by strangers who smiled politely at her but had no idea of the storm she was

living inside. And then, in front of this carefully selected audience, Simon made his move. He stood, glass of champagne in hand, and announced a surprise. With a practiced look of emotion, he pulled out a ring. Right there, in the middle of the restaurant, he proposed. Lisa, caught off guard, froze for a second. But the weight of all those eyes, the setting, the expectations, it was overwhelming. Saying, no, wasn't an option. She nodded, smiled weakly, and accepted. Aplause filled the room.

To Simon's friends and family, it was a romantic gesture. To Lisa, it was another chain, another step deeper into a life she was starting to realize she didn't want. She didn't know it then, but that moment, the acceptance of his proposal, would set into motion a sequence of events that would lead her straight to the balcony of a 15th floor apartment just six weeks later. Chapter 2, Joan's Worst Fears After the dinner, after the ring was slipped onto her finger, Lisa did what she always

did when something big happened, she called her mother, Joan. Her voice was nervous, thin, almost trembling with mixed emotions. Mom, he asked me to marry him. But unlike most mothers who would squeal with joy at such news, Joan's reaction was the opposite. Her heart sank. She didn't celebrate, didn't congratulate. Instead, she felt dread. Joan had been wary of Simon from the beginning.

She saw how Lisa and she said, had changed since being with him, the spark dimmed, the confidence eroded. She begged her daughter, once again, to leave him. To come home. To save herself before it was too late. Lisa, aware of Simon's obsessive monitoring, quickly hushed her mother. Don't say those things on the phone. Please. I'm not sure, but... I think he listens. The paranoia wasn't unfounded. Lisa suspected, correctly, as it would later turn out, that Simon was tapping her calls. But even in that moment, when her mother's pleas were raw with emotion, Lisa couldn't bring

herself to break away. She shifted her focus instead to the upcoming wedding, convincing herself that maybe, just maybe, things would improve. Chapter 3, A Wedding in His Image Like any bride-to-be, Lisa thought she would finally have something to look forward to, planning her wedding. She imagined picking out flowers, tasting cakes, flipping through bridal magazines, and finding the perfect dress that reflected who she was. But Simon had other ideas. When Lisa timidly brought up the subject, hoping to share in the excitement, Simon's response was sharp, dismissive, and cold. This is my responsibility, he told her flatly.

I'll take care of everything. The location, the food, the decorations, even your dress. Lisa was crushed. It wasn't just about the wedding. It was about what it symbolized. Her voice didn't matter. Her opinions didn't matter. Even on a day that should have celebrated her, Simon made it about himself.

The control was absolute. He wasn't marrying her, he was absorbing her into his world, molding every detail to his liking, leaving no room for her identity to shine. Chapter 4 A Confession to a Friend During her next session with her physiotherapist, Lisa Brown, the weight of it all came tumbling out. As the massages worked on her sore knee, Lisa spoke in hushed, urgent tones. She told Lisa Brown how suffocated she felt, how sighted. had taken over every aspect of her life, how she couldn't breathe under the constant watch. I can't live like this anymore, she admitted, her voice cracking with desperation.

Lisa Brown listened carefully. She wasn't just a therapist anymore, she had become the only person in Australia Lisa could truly confide in. Slowly, together, they hatched a plan. Each visit, Lisa Haram would discreetly hand over small belongings. a few clothes, some personal documents, hidden items she wanted safe. Lisa Brown would smuggle them out, keeping them away from Simon's sharp eyes. It was risky, dangerous even. But for the first time, Lisa felt like she had a sliver of hope. Chapter 5 The Laptop Mistake

But fate has a cruel way of twisting at the most critical moments. On July 28, 2011, just six weeks after the proposal, Simon made a rare mistake. He left his laptop unattended at the apartment. Lisa, her heart racing, seized the chance. She opened it, digging through files, emails, programs, and what she found confirmed every suspicion she had carried for months. It was worse than she imagined. Simon had installed spyware on her phone.

Every text, every call, every keystroke was being funneled to him. He wasn't just guessing about her life, he was monitoring it in real time. She discovered recordings of her phone calls with her mother, proving that Jones' fears were right all along. And as if that weren't enough, Lisa found evidence of hidden cameras placed throughout the apartment. He had been watching her even when she thought, she was alone. The horror of it all washed over her. This wasn't love. This wasn't protection. This was obsession, paranoia, and abuse taken to its extreme. For Lisa, this was the breaking point. Chapter 6, the call for help. Panicked, she didn't dare call from her own phone.

Instead, she borrowed Lisa Browns and dialed her mother. Her voice was frantic, broken by sobs. Mom, please, please come to Australia. I need you. I need help to get away from him. Joan, alarmed, told her to grab her passport and leave immediately. Don't wait another second, Lisa. Take your things and go.

I'll be on the next flight. Just get out of there. Lisa promised she would. But the truth is, fear still had her in its grip. She didn't run that night. She stayed. And that decision, heartbreaking as it was, sealed her fate. Chapter 7. Confrontation

When Simon returned home, he sensed immediately that something was off. He noticed Lisa had been on his computer. His anger flared. Lisa, instead of hiding, broke down crying. She begged him for an explanation. Why? Why would you betray me like this? I trusted you. I've done everything you wanted. Why treat me this way? Simon, cold and calculated, didn't apologize. He doubled down. It's for your own good, he said, as if violating every inch of her privacy could somehow be justified.

The argument stretched into the night. Lisa, shaking, realized she was reaching her breaking point. The Fall of Lisa Haram, Part 2 Chapter 8 The Cracks in His Mask The night after Lisa discovered the spyware, the apartment was suffocating with tension. She barely slept. Every sound Simon made in the kitchen, every creak of the floorboards, felt like a threat. By the morning of July 29, 2011, Lisa could no longer hold back.

She confronted Simon once again, this time with all the anger and fear boiling inside her. Why do you treat me like a prisoner, she demanded. Why do you need to control every single part of me? You're destroying me, Simon. He sat there, calm at first, then sighed deeply, as if you were carrying some enormous burden. And then, almost casually, he dropped a confession Lisa had never expected. I have, mental problems, he admitted. Lisa blinked, stunned.

Mental problems? That was his excuse. But he didn't stop there. You don't understand, he continued, his tone a strange mix of self-pity and menace. You don't know what I've been through. You don't know my past. And so, piece by piece, Simon revealed parts of himself he had carefully hidden. His criminal history.

The fights, the arrests, the knights in jail. The violence. He told her about the time he bit a police officer's ear so hard that it tore, an attack that landed him in prison for two and a half years. He admitted to charges of assault, drug possession, even his infamous temper that had led to broken relationships long before Lisa ever entered his orbit. For Lisa, it was like a curtain being pulled back. The charming, polished man who wore suits and spoke smoothly at parties wasn't real. Behind that mask was someone dangerous, unstable, someone she had no business sharing a life with.

But instead of feeling empowered by this knowledge, Lisa felt cornered. She was living with a man who had proven, time and time again, that violence was. was his solution. What could she do now? Chapter 9, Desperation. By Saturday morning, July 30th, 2011, Lisa was done pretending. She woke early, slipped quietly into the bathroom, and locked the door behind her. She knew this was her only safe space, at least for a moment. She picked up her phone, her hands shaking, and called Joan. Her mother's voice, warm and familiar, barely made it through before Lisa burst into tears. Mom, she whispered urgently, if anything happens to me, it's Simon. It will be because of him. Those words weren't vague or melodramatic. They were a

warning, a last attempt to make sure, if the worst happened, the truth would be known. Jones' heart dropped. Lisa, please, listen to me. You need to leave right now. Don't wait. Don't think. Just walk out the door. Go to the airport, get on a plane, come home. Lisa promised she would.

She said she had her documents ready. She was going to leave while Simon was still asleep. But as fate would have it, Lisa never made it out the door. Chapter 10, The Witness Around 10 a.m., the peaceful hum of the city below was shattered. Pedestrians strolling near Hyde Park suddenly froze as a scream cut through the air. Heads turned upward, eyes scanning the sleek towers of the luxury apartments.

And then, in one horrifying instant, they saw it, a body plummeting from the 15th floor. Lisa hit the ground with a sickening impact, her life ending instantly. Among the people who witnessed those final moments was Joshua Armel, a young exchange student on his way to catch a bus. He later recalled hearing the scream, then looking up just in time to see the struggle on the balcony. He wasn't close enough to hear words, but he saw arms flailing, a figure resisting, and then, the fall.

It wasn't a jump. It wasn't a peaceful surrender. It looked like a fight. Chapter 11, Simon's performance. Three minutes later, Simon emerged from the building. He was barefoot, still in pajamas, putting on a show of devastation. He cried loudly, repeating the same lines over and over like a rehearsed script. How will I live without her?

Why didn't I catch her? I should have caught her. Some bystanders, unfamiliar with the truth, thought it was a tragic suicide and pitted him. But others, including Joshua, weren't convinced. Something about the timing, the way he appeared, the way he cried without tears, it didn't add up. Behind the facade of a grieving fiancé, Simon was calculating, already trying to control the narrative. Chapter 12 The Immediate Aftermath When the police arrived, Simon wasted no time spinning his story.

He insisted Lisa had been depressed that she had thrown herself off the balcony in a moment of despair. He played the victim, a man blindsided by tragedy. But investigators, experienced in reading people, quickly sensed cracks. His account was too neat, too rehearsed. And when they asked to review the apartment, what they found sent chills down their spine. The cameras. The spyware. The evidence of surveillance that painted a clear picture, Lisa hadn't been a woman battling depression alone, she had been living in a cage of control.

Chapter 13, Jones Heartbreak Thousands of miles away, Jones' phone rang. The kind of call no parent ever wants to receive. Her daughter, her bright, joyful, beautiful Lisa. beautiful Lisa, was gone. The words didn't feel real. Just days before, Lisa had been begging for her help, promising she would escape, swearing she'd get out. Now she never would. Jones' grief was doubled by guilt. She replayed every conversation, every warning, every plea. She had begged Lisa not to go back to Simon. She had urged her to stay in Canada, to rebuild her

life surrounded by love and safety. But Lisa had been too deep under Simon's control. Too manipulated. The worst part, Joan knew this wasn't suicide. Her daughter hadn't given up on life. She had been fighting to break free. Chapter 14, the mask slips further. In the days that followed, more of Simon's past surfaced. Reports of his temper. his criminal record ex-girlfriends who described similar patterns of control and abuse the fairy tale fiancé he had pretended to be at Lisa's birthday dinner was a complete illusion the reality was darker than anyone had imagined

the hidden cameras the hacked phone the forced wardrobe choices the strict rules about where she could go who she could talk to what she could wear The psychological chokehold he maintained over her life. It all added up to one chilling conclusion, Lisa hadn't fallen. She had been pushed, both metaphorically and, most likely, physically. Chapter 15, Joshua's Testimony Joshua, the young student, became a key witness. He told investigators that he saw Lisa on the balcony just before she fell.

She was facing inward, toward the apartment, not outward toward the city. She looked like she was resisting, not jumping. This testimony would later prove crucial. Without it, Simon might have successfully painted her death as a suicide. But Joshua's account cracked his story wide open. Chapter 16, the story he never expected. Simon had underestimated Lisa, just as he had underestimated Lisa, just as he was. always had. He thought she was weak, submissive, powerless. What he didn't count on was

the trail she had left, the phone calls to her mother, the confidences with her physiotherapist, the smuggled belonging she had entrusted to Lisa Brown. And he certainly hadn't counted on the surveillance system he had installed turning into evidence against him. His own obsession became the rope that would later hang him in court. The Fall of Lisa Haram, Part 3. Chapter 17 The Police Dig Deeper From the very first interview, detectives noticed Simon's contradictions. He claimed Lisa had been depressed, yet her friends and family described a woman full of life, excited about the future, making plans to come home. He said she jumped spontaneously, yet witnesses described a struggle.

When police entered the apartment, they immediately saw how sterile it felt. Not just clean, controlled. No personal photos of Lisa. No touches of her individuality. Just Simon's minimalist taste dominating everything. And then came the disturbing discovery, hidden cameras pointing at Lisa's most private spaces. The bedroom. The living room. Even the kitchen. Investigators confiscated the devices and quickly realized Simon had been recorded. her daily life for months. His need to control her extended beyond physical presence. Even when he wasn't in the room, he wanted to watch. On her phone, they found spyware logs,

proof that Simon had been monitoring her texts, her calls, even her location. This wasn't a relationship. It was captivity. Chapter 18, Lisa's Silent Allies While detectives pieced together the puzzle, two women stepped forward as crucial voices, Joan, her mother, and Lisa Brown, the physiotherapist. Lisa Brown had been one of the few people Lisa could confide in during those final months. For times a week, under the pretense of treating her knee, she came into the apartment. Over time, Lisa began to open up. She confessed the rules Simon imposed, not looking at men, not leaving the apartment alone, not dressing as she pleased.

She spoke of the cameras, the constant surveillance, the fear of angering him. Brown also remembered Lisa's desperate attempts to smuggle personal belongings out of the apartment. Small things, a favorite piece of clothing, personal documents, even sentimental items, all hidden in Brown's bag so Simon wouldn't notice. Those small acts were Lisa's rebellion. They showed she wasn't suicidal. She was planning an escape. Joan, meanwhile, gave police the heartbreaking testimony of her last phone call with Lisa.

Her daughter had clearly said, if anything happens to me, it's because of Simon. That sentence became the anchor of the case. Chapter 19, Simon's crumbling act. At first, Simon tried to play the grieving fiancé. He attended the early police interviews wearing his sorrow like a costume. He cried, repeated cliches about how much he loved Lisa, and insisted she was simply unstable. But as evidence mounted, his tone shifted. He became defensive, angry, then cold.

Detectives recognized the narcissistic pattern, the mask slipping, revealing the man underneath. When confronted with the cameras and spywomen, Simon claimed they were for protection. He insisted Lisa wanted to be monitored, that she was fine with it. But the messages police recovered painted a different story. Lisa repeatedly begged for privacy, pleaded to live like a normal person, even argued about feeling like a prisoner. Every time, Simon manipulated her into compliance. Chapter 20, the forensics Experts examined the balcony. The railing was high, nearly impossible for someone to accidentally trip over.

To climb it, you had to make a conscious effort. But the marks on the railing suggested something else, signs of resistance. Fingernail scratches. Pressure points inconsistent with a voluntary jump. Combined with witness testimony from Joshua, who saw Lisa struggling before the fall, the physical evidence pointed away from suicide. On Lisa's body, the coroner found no trace of alcohol or drugs. She hadn't been under any influence.

Her mind was clear. Her decision to call her mother just hours before proved she was rational and intent on leaving. All the pieces pointed in one direction, Lisa didn't want to die. She wanted to live, just not with Simon. 21, the trial begins. By the time Simon was charged, public interest in the case had exploded. The media painted it as a story of a glamorous couple turned tragic, the beautiful woman and the successful businessman, their relationship hiding a dangerous secret.

In court, Simon's defense team clung to the suicide narrative. They painted Lisa as unstable, claiming her history in ballet made her fragile and prone to mood swings. They suggested she had pressure from her family that she was overwhelmed. But the prosecution countered with a mountain of evidence. The spyware. The cameras. Testimonyes from friends, family, and Lisa Brown. Joshua's eyewitness account of the balcony struggle.

The phone call to Joan, naming Simon directly. It wasn't just abuse. It was a pattern of entrapment, domination, and psychological torture that ended in a deadly climax. Chapter 22, Joan's stand. The most powerful moment of the trial came when Joan testified. With a trembling voice, she repeated her daughter's last words, if anything happens to me, it's Simon. The courtroom went silent. Even Simon, usually smug and collected, shifted uncomfortably in his seat.

Joan looked directly at him as she spoke, refusing to break eye contact. You took my daughter's light. You controlled her, isolated her, and when she tried to break free, you destroyed her. But you will not erase her. You will not silence her. Her words echoed far beyond the walls of the court. They became a rallying cry for women. women who had lived in the shadows of controlling partners.

Chapter 23, Simon's fate. After weeks of testimony, forensic evidence, and expert analysis, the jury reached its verdict. Simon wasn't convicted of premeditated murder, the prosecution couldn't prove beyond a doubt that he deliberately planned to kill Lisa that morning. But he was found guilty of manslaughter and criminal negligence causing death. He received a lengthy prison sentence, enough to strip away the polished image he had built for himself. But no sentence could bring Lisa back. Chapter 24, Lisa's legacy

Lisa Haram's story didn't end on that balcony. Her death sparked outrage, conversations, and eventually, change. Advocates for domestic abuse survivors used her case as a warning about coercive control. a form of abuse that leaves no bruises but destroys lives from the inside out. Campaigns in both Australia and Canada began to highlight the dangers of psychological manipulation, surveillance, and isolation tactics used by abusers. Laws were slowly re-examined to include coercive control as a crime, not just physical violence. Joan became an outspoken advocate, telling her daughter's story to anyone who would listen.

She wanted the world to know that Lisa wasn't weak. She wasn't broken. She fought until the very end. Her legacy lives on in those conversations, in the women who recognized the warning signs earlier, and in the families who step in before it's too late. Chapter 25, A Story to Remember Lisa's life wasn't defined by her last moments.

She was more than the woman who fell from about. She was a dancer, a daughter, a friend, someone who loved laughter, color, and freedom. Simon tried to erase all of that, to reduce her to an object under his control. But in the end, the truth came out. The world learned her story. And now, every time her name is spoken, every time someone remembers her courage, Simon's power fades just a little more. because lisa wasn't just a victim she was a fighter and even though her life was cut short her fight continues through the people who refused to let her story be forgotten to be continued