Something You Should Know - Proven Techniques for A Great Day Everyday & The Mysteries of Dog Behavior
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Today on Something You Should Know,
how the clothes you wear can change who you are
in a big way.
Then how to have a great day every day.
Well, if there's one thing that I want people to know,
it's that you can queue up your best day at a moment's notice.
Neuroscience has revealed some great strategies
that help you make the most of the brain you've got,
given the day you've got.
Also, some facts and myths about bad breath
to help keep you minty fresh,
and understanding dog behavior
and how we sometimes unknowingly reinforce the bad behavior.
Too often what I see happen is, you know, dog barks and then someone's like, Stella,
stop it, stop it.
And then the dog's barking and it's like, I think the dog is like, oh, I barked and
then that caught attention from her and now she's barking and now we're all barking together.
It has like The wrong effect.
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Something you should know. Fascinating intel. The world's top experts and practical advice
you can use in your life. Today, Something you should know with Mike Carruthers.
So how in the world could the clothes you wear make you measurably smarter, stronger
and give you better posture?
Well, you're about to find out as we begin this episode of Something You Should Know.
Hi and welcome. So if you want to be smarter, you wear a white coat. You just have to make sure it's
the right kind of white coat. In an experiment, volunteers were given an intelligence test while wearing a white lab jacket.
The group who believed the jacket belonged to one of the doctors scored higher than the other group
who were told that the jacket was a painter's smock. The study had some other interesting results.
Women wearing a white blouse looked and felt more innocent. Men in black t-shirts were a little stronger.
People had more energy when wearing bright colored clothing and those who
wore formal attire had better posture, grammar and more poise. And that is
something you should know.
Some days just go better than other days. On some days you're on top of the world.
Everything goes well. It's a great day. Other days you struggle. Things don't go your way.
The motivation's not there. You make mistakes. If only there was a way to smooth things out,
to make the day go better, go more your way.
Well, there are some things, actually.
Proven techniques to help you in the moment so you have a better day and better outcomes
throughout the day.
Here to explain what they are and how to use them is Therese Houston.
She is a cognitive scientist at Seattle University.
She was the founding director of the Center for Excellence in Teaching and Learning at Seattle University.
And she is author of a book called Sharp, 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science.
Hi, Therese. Welcome to Something You Should Know.
Thank you so much, Mike. It's a real treat to be here.
So you have an interesting message because, you know, I have good days and bad days.
I think most people do where, you know I have good days and bad days,
I think most people do where you know you just you're just on your game things are going great,
other days just kind of struggles to get through the day. So what's your message here? Well if
there's one thing that I want people to know it's that you can queue up your best day at a moment's notice.
So often we feel like our best day is subject to whether or not we got a good night's sleep
or whether everything's going well at home.
But the truth is, neuroscience has revealed some great strategies
that help you make the most of the brain you've got, given the day you've got.
And I just want to communicate as many of those strategies as possible.
Well, that's a great idea because how many of us have had days that just didn't go so
well, didn't turn out too well, even with the best of intentions, but maybe you have
to be more than just intentional.
Maybe you have some things you can do that will help you have a better day.
Exactly. We all want to show up and do our best in most situations and yet
it can feel frustrating. You know there's this phrase
work smarter not harder and and I say that tentatively because
I've always been confused by what that means.
If your manager says that to you,
it can feel like extra pressure
and you're not sure how to do anything differently.
So I wanna give people as many quick techniques as possible,
things you can do in five minutes or 10 minutes or less,
just to ensure you have the best day you can have.
So dive in and pick one
and that gives people a sense of what you're talking about and let's
do that one.
Sure.
So why don't we start, I would love to do a demonstration of a technique that actually
both reduces stress and improves decision making, which seems as though those two would
be very different parts of your brain or that they would require different techniques.
But the beauty is neuroscience shows this one technique can
actually kill two birds with one stone and be so effective.
Would you mind, Mike, if we do a demonstration of this?
It's going to be a breathing technique and people can
follow along if they want to.
What we're going to do is a breathing technique that is sometimes called skewed breathing
or five to seven breathing.
So you're going to inhale for a count of five
and I'll count out loud.
You'll hold that breath for a count of two
and then you'll exhale for a count of seven.
And if you find any of that hard, for instance,
if it's tricky to inhale for a count of five,
just inhale for a count of four and then hold your breath
and then do the exhale.
It's the long exhale that's the most important.
And it can help to breathe out through little pursed lips
like you're sipping through a straw.
That can help slow your exhale if that's tricky.
And we'll do it twice, two rounds of it,
and what you should find. Well,
I'll ask you when we're done, the impact on you. So are you ready to try?
Sure, absolutely.
Okay, great. So exhale and now inhale, two, three, four, five, hold, two, exhale, 4, 5, 6, 7. And inhale 2, 3, 4, 5. Hold 2. Exhale 2, 3, 4, five, six, seven.
Okay, how do you feel?
I guess more relaxed.
I mean, I just, you know, I took my mind off
of what we were doing and got my head into that
and it just kind of slowed everything down
because I was working on breathing rather than anything else.
Yeah, it felt, it feels good.
Feels good, yeah. Well, so what the research indicates is if we just did two cycles,
that took less than 30 seconds, what you would want to do is about six cycles of that.
So that would last about two minutes. And researchers find that that objectively improves
decision making. And part of what it's doing is, as you noted, it's making you feel less stressed, more relaxed.
It's actually activating that slow exhale is activating part of your body called the
vagus nerve.
And the vagus nerve is part of your parasympathetic nervous system, which helps your body relax.
And the reason, well, first of all, that's nice for relaxation, right?
You can, you can do this anytime you can be sitting in a meeting and you can do this,
you know, activity without counting out loud, just counting in your head.
But what's beautiful about it is it actually improves decision making because it reduces
activity the vagus nerve with an exercise like that reduces activity in part of your
brain called the amygdala, which is, you know know people have heard of the amygdala as a fear center but it's also
related to anxiety and and other strong emotions so by reducing activity in the
amygdala suddenly your stress levels go down and it becomes easier to make
decisions that were causing you stress because stress stress impairs
decision-making. Well that was pretty simple and fun and easy. Let's, let's do
another one. A wonderful technique for improving focus because I hear so many
people are finding it hard to get focused when they need to get focused,
right? You sit down to do your work or you get drawn into doing internet
shopping, whatever it might be, can be hard to get your day started as quickly as you
might like to or you find it hard to get focused when you need to. And so one of
my favorite techniques for this is to do something called binaural
beats. It's Latin for two ears and basically what you do with binaural
beats is you put on a set of headphones or AirPods
and you look for YouTube has plenty of these videos and you type in binaural beats 40 Hz
or you can spell out Hertz, H-E-R-T-Z.
And you put on your headphones and you start the recording and you listen to it.
You don't have to watch what's beautiful about it.
You know, these are videos,
but they're basically audio recordings.
And it will take you from scattered thinking
to incredible focus within minutes.
So if you have some tasks you need to do,
put on your headphones,
turn on the 40 Hertz binaural beats,
and within minutes you will be so focused,
you will think, wait a second, how is this working?
And basically what you're gonna hear
are two different tones,
and each ear will hear a different tone,
but it will just sound like one tone
because your brain will do a subtraction.
So if one ear is hearing 410 hertz
and the other ear is hearing 450 hertz, your brain does a subtraction, so you hear 40 Hertz.
That's why it would be called 40 Hertz binaural beats.
And what's almost magic about this is that 40, when you listen to binaural beats of 40 Hertz, your brain electrical activity starts to synchronize with that and 40 Hertz is
kind of an optimal focus for brain activity and so you're basically you know
you're you're getting in and you're reaching into your brain and tuning a
dial so that you have optimal focus and it it helps me every time on days when
I'm feeling unfocused.
I've taught this technique to many people
and it's the one that people write back to me most about
to say, I can't believe it, this works.
And it's now my go-to on days
when I feel a little fuzzy headed.
Well, that's cool.
Well, I wanna try that later.
That's an interesting, I had never heard of that before.
So that's great.
It is, it's surprising. and it's one of these things
that I'm not sure why more people don't know about it.
The one tip I would offer on this, if you're gonna try it,
don't do it for longer than 20 minutes,
especially the first time.
For me, I'll get so caught up in a task
that I'll forget to turn off the binaural beats.
And what can happen if you listen too long,
it can make you feel a little nauseous.
Well, that's good to know.
I wouldn't want to find that out the hard way.
Well, I want to get to more of your proven techniques
to help people have a better day.
I'm speaking with Therese Houston.
She is a cognitive scientist at Seattle University
and author of the book Sharp,
14 simple ways to improve your life with brain science.
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So, Therese, I know you talk a lot about multitasking
and I know there are people
who believe they're very good at it.
And then I've also heard that it's not really a thing,
that it's a myth that multitasking is really
switching back and forth between two or more things,
but not really doing multiple things at the same time.
So what's your take on that?
Yes, multitasking.
People can have such pride around being good
at multitasking.
And I'm not saying that they're bad at it. They might they might
be better than the other people in their household. They might be better than they
used to be, but the research is very clear on this that when you're
multitasking you're worse at the two things that you're trying to do or the
three things you're trying to do than you would be if you single-tasked if you
just focused on one thing. So if it's all right I'd love to do than you would be if you single-tasked, if you just focused on one thing.
So if it's all right, I'd love to do a demonstration of how many mistakes we make or how hard it is when
we multitask. Sure, go right ahead. So here is how this is going to work. I'm going to ask you, Mike,
to count out loud from one to seven as fast as you can. Go. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven.
Excellent. Now I'd like you to say the alphabet out loud
as fast as you can from A to the letter F. Go.
A, B, C, D, E, F.
Excellent. So that was single tasking. You were doing counting, you were focused on that,
and then you did the alphabet and you were focused on that.
So now we're going to multitask. So what I want you to do is say a number and then say the letter
and move down from one to seven and from A to F. So the first one would be 1A, go.
A, two B, three C, four D, five E, six F.
There you go. Good job.
It's so much harder, right?
Yeah, it is.
But it is misleading
because I do feel like I'm just doing one thing.
I'm doing that task.
But the reality is you're rapidly shifting back and forth,
just like you did between the alphabet and the numbers.
And the result is you don't do either task nearly as well.
Research indicates that your brain activity for whatever the main task is.
So let's say your main task is you're trying to get this email done before dinner, but you're also talking with your partner or your kids while you do this.
also talking with your partner or your kids while you do this, your brain activity for writing that email goes down by on average 37%. So you're really not performing as well
and mistakes will go up by as much as 50%. Because the brain can only do one thing at
a time. We can we can make motions, we can do something that doesn't require any attention. I can adjust in my seat as I'm talking.
I can move my hands.
Those things I can do simultaneously
because moving my hands, adjusting in my seat, that doesn't take any attention.
But something that does take attention
away from whatever we're trying to do that we're switching back and forth.
We may not realize it, but we're doing these little tiny micro-switchings and all those micro-switches add up. They cost something. They're not free.
Let's talk about managing acute stress. I know you have some techniques that can help and,
you know, who doesn't face that from time to time, where you're really under the gun
and some help would be great. There are fabulous techniques for reducing acute stress.
So the one that people are most surprised to hear initially,
but then they're like, oh, this makes sense, is affection.
So researchers have found that as little
as a 20-second hug from your partner
or someone that you're comfortable hugging, right? You can't do this just to a random
coworker. But if you get a 20 second hug from your partner in
the morning or from your even your pet, you hug your pet for
20 seconds, you'll have lower quarters cortisol levels. And we
think of cortisol is a bad thing cortisol can help you act. But
if cortisol levels are high all day,
that's going to be hard on your body. And so 20 seconds worth of hug and boom, your cortisol
levels will be less when you go into that stressful event at work later that day. Now, self-affection
works too. So giving yourself a hug. So if you wanted to grab the tops of your arms, just setting your hands gently on the tops of your heart and just rest them there.
And if you try this, you'll find that within 20 seconds,
you feel more relaxed.
So it's a wonderful way to reduce cortisol levels,
to reduce immediate stress,
and you'll feel less stressed
when you go into a stressful situation.
What about getting motivated?
Because that's something I think everybody struggles with.
You know, I don't really want to do this.
I really just don't have it in me.
And eventually maybe you get it done, but maybe not well.
And what about that?
The key thing to know about motivation
is that dopamine will increase your sense of motivation.
Dopamine, people think of it as the reward chemical.
I think of it as the let's do this chemical.
And the way to increase dopamine in your brain,
there are a couple of strategies.
There's a lot of talk right now
about deliberate cold exposure, right?
Cold plunges, cold showers.
Those are wonderful first thing in the morning.
But if you need a motivation burst at let's say three in the afternoon, you're like, oh,
I've got two more hours. I need to work. I do not want to be here anymore. You know,
a cold shower or a cold plunge isn't going to help you. So what I do, and of course it
depends on the time of year, is go for a brisk walk outside. You know if it's
30 degrees out, tie a jacket around your waist and go for a 10-12 minute walk and
the idea is you want it to be uncomfortable. Cold exposure will do it
and that'll increase your dopamine. You'll come back, you'll feel ready for
anything and you just then need to focus your attention on the task you've been
dreading. So deliberate cold exposure really helps. My other favorite technique, and this one doesn't get talked about nearly as much, is
to listen to music that moves you. Chances are, Mike, you have some music that when you listen to it
you just you get chills and
research shows that listening to music that gives you chills that really
moves you makes you want to get up and move that increases dopamine in the
brain. Now what's tricky here is that you can't just listen to what other people
like right so this isn't listening to what's the top 40 for right now it has
to be personal to you listening to other people's favorite songs doesn't do this
the way that listening to your favorite song will.
And so, you know, you can make a dopamine playlist,
a list of songs that when you listen to them, it moves you.
And that can be something that you can turn to in those moments
when you're feeling unmotivated.
Listen to one or two songs and then dive back into that task
that you need to work on that you're dreading, and you will feel renewed focus.
See, I would never think to do that
because I would feel guilty like I'm, you know,
I'm not doing what I'm supposed to be doing.
I'm off listening to music and that's kind of like pleasure
and recess, so shouldn't do that.
Exactly.
There can be this sense that the thing we need to do needs to be
on task every minute, right? That that's going to improve our motivation or focus.
And in the case of both doing a brisk walk outside or listening to music that moves you,
what's beautiful about them is you don't have to do them for very long. The walk can be 10 minutes, the music can just be one song, maybe two songs, but
what's beautiful about it is because it's increasing dopamine in your brain,
that is going to last for a while and so now you get back to the task that you're
dreading and you've got you've got you've got a burst of motivation that
you didn't have.
And chances are, once you then start working on that task,
you'll be able to stick with it.
One thing I think a lot of people struggle with
is remembering names when you first meet someone.
Somehow the name just evaporates.
I don't know why.
I have that problem.
And you have a way to help prevent that,
so I'd like you to talk about that.
So I'll be going into a situation.
It happened just this weekend.
I was going to an event on Saturday
where I knew I was going to meet a bunch of people.
And I wanted to be able to remember their names.
And sure enough, I got into the situation.
And I found myself saying hello to someone.
They'd say their name.
And I would forget it instantly, in part
because I was moving on
to meeting the next person at the table, right?
And I would just move around and each person's name,
I'd say it out loud,
and yet still it wasn't going into the memory bank.
We've all been there.
So how can you improve your memory for,
particularly if you know you're about to walk
into a situation where you're going to want to remember
as many names as
possible. And the strategy here is to do a 10-minute mindfulness meditation before you
walk into the situation. I'm a big fan of the Healthy Minds app. I'm not affiliated with them
whatsoever, but it's out of University of Wisconsin, and it's free, and it's developed by a
neuroscientistist and they have
great 10-minute and some of them are active so you can listen to them while you walk instead of
having to sit still and you get 10 minutes you'll be more relaxed but more importantly
it improves memory immediately. Your recall goes up by on average 75% in the time that follows.
So if you have the opportunity, you
know you're about to walk into a situation where you're going
to have to remember a bunch of names,
sit down, do a 10-minute mindfulness meditation,
and then walking into that situation,
you're going to be impressed.
Your ability to remember those names will go way up.
Well, what's great about a podcast
is they stay up for a long time. And podcast is they stay up for a long time.
And this episode will stay up for a long time.
And people can come back and re-listen to these techniques
you've given.
And on Apple Podcasts, read the transcript as well.
So this will be very helpful for a lot of people.
Therese Houston has been my guest.
She's a cognitive scientist at Seattle University
and author of the book Sharp, 14 ways to improve your life with brain science.
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Whether you own a dog or not,
you certainly see them everywhere.
You likely interact with them to some extent.
And you notice how different they are. Some are very well behaved. Some seem out of control. And a lot of them are somewhere in the middle. Some dogs are mellow. Others are hyper. Dogs come
in a wide variety of temperaments and intelligence. And since we are around dogs so much, how can we best get along
with them and train them? Here to discuss that is Annie Grossman. She's a
journalist turned animal trainer who has written about dogs for The New York
Times and the Boston Globe and other publications. She runs the School for
Dogs, which is an acclaimed training facility and retail store in New York
City. She's host of a podcast called How to Train Your Dog with Love and Science and she
is author of a book with that same name, How to Train Your Dog with Love and
Science. Hi Annie, thank you for coming on something you should know. Thank you
so much for having me. So I guess I'd first like to know what's your
philosophy about dog behavior and training dogs,
getting them to do what you want to do? Where do you come in on this topic?
I think as someone who is passionate about the science of behavior, what's amazing to me is how
few people even recognize that there is a science of behavior or know that there is a science of behavior. So much of training over the last century has been about sort of dominating a dog and having a certain
kind of energy and tuning into like your inner dogginess, which if you ask me is kind of
all a bunch of malarkey. At the end of the day, behavior is part of evolution. So I guess you could say my philosophy is the science of behavior
and behaviorism is both a science and a philosophy in that I think once we can understand the basics
of what I think is a really interesting area of science, we can do a lot to managing our dog's environment in order to get the behaviors
we want, figuring out how we can reward the behaviors we want with appropriate reinforcers
or rewards.
So, what do you mean by managing or manipulating the environment?
We do things without even thinking about it that are, of course, manipulating the dog's
environment. Putting the dog in a crate, right? We put a dog in a crate because the dog who's in a crate
is a dog who is not going to pee on the carpet or chew on the coffee table.
But even more than that, we can think in any given moment about how we can structure
literally the room that the dog is in in order to encourage
the chances that we're going to get the stuff we want and be less likely to get the stuff
that we don't want. And when you're focusing on training using positive reinforcement,
what you're really doing is trying to figure out how you can encourage behaviors you want.
And part of that is trying to make sure that you're not getting a lot
of the behaviors you don't want.
The other problem with getting behaviors that you don't want is that those behaviors can
then be positively reinforced without your meaning to.
So if you create a situation, for instance, where you have a dog who jumps at everyone
who comes inside in the door. If you create a situation where your dog gets to practice that behavior over and
over and over of getting to bum rush whoever's coming in at the door, that
that behavior is most likely being reinforced because even if people are
yelling at the dog, hey get off me I don't like that, the dog might still be
interpreting it as attention, the dog still might be enjoying jumping up. So
that's why you kind of want to create a path for your dog
that they want to be on, where there is not
a whole lot of chance that they're
going to be engaging in the stuff that you don't
want them to do.
So what do you do then?
If your dog is one of those dogs that jumps on everybody who
comes over and you're having a party, what do you do?
You put the dog in another room?
What is it you do to manipulate the environment?
Yeah, you might suggest that your dog be in another room or tethered
and give your dog a more appropriate thing to do.
For instance, my dog, when people come in,
I try and make sure that she is getting rewards
in some place that is away from the door.
Because what I want her to associate with someone coming in the door is good things
happen all the way over there on the other side of the apartment when people come in.
I like to encourage people to think about associations.
What is the association that your dog is making at any given moment?
How is your dog, you know, dogs, all of us, we're all connecting, you know, if this happens, then this happens all the time, all day long.
So I use, for example, a little device, it's called a tree and train. It's a remote control
tree dispenser that I keep on the far end of my apartment. And whenever anyone comes
to the door, as soon as they ring the doorbell, I start triggering that at the other end of
the apartment. And this is a way that I've manipulated the environment, created a situation in my home where I know exactly where the rewards
are going to come out. I'm specific about where those rewards are coming out and I'm specific
about delivering them in such a way that I know that as soon as she hears the doorbell, she is
going to bolt to that other place. Because that reinforcement, the reinforcement
of getting treats from the machine
is more valuable to her than the reward of going to the door
and jumping up on someone and getting that kind of attention.
It doesn't really address, though, the issue of,
or maybe it's not important to, of why
the dog is jumping on everybody when they come over.
You know, I tend to think people get way too caught up
in the why, especially coming when you're dealing
with behavior and with an animal that you're never
gonna be able to talk to about the origins of their,
of their feelings or their choices.
I mean, it doesn't really matter why.
When we're working with behavior,
we're very much working from the outside in.
I'm not sitting my dog down on the couch
and asking how she feels about the fact
that I leave for work every day.
I'm looking at the behavior that is being expressed
and figuring out how I can change the behavior
with things that I can control.
I would suspect one of the most common problems people have
with dogs is barking, incessant barking.
The dog barks at everything, at everybody.
Anyone comes to the door, the doorbell rings,
the car goes by, bark, bark, bark,
and people don't know what to do.
It's an interesting problem, like so many problems with dogs
when you think about it.
Like it really, the fault really is in the fact
that we bred these animals to be our alarm systems
for many, many, many thousands of years.
And now we put them in situations
where they are triggered to be our alarms.
Like wolves, wolves are not big barkers.
We've created animals that do this,
and now we put them in situations where they're triggered
and we don't want them to do it.
Certainly there's a million reasons why dogs bark.
So rather than addressing each one,
what I would say is it can be smart.
First of all, like I said, manage the environment,
figure out what's causing the barking and how can you make
those triggers less pertinent.
Sometimes the answer is as simple as,
I work a lot with city dogs
and who are triggered by noises in the hallways.
Sometimes the answer is as simple as putting up
a door sweep on the bottom of a door
to like get rid of that little gap
at the bottom of the door where sounds are coming in
and lights are coming in, like light changes in light.
Anything that's unpredictable to a dog
can is more likely to be a trigger.
Also, if you're home and dealing with a dog who's barking,
sometimes it can be useful to reward your dog
after one bark.
Sort of like say, thank you, as soon as they bark, and then give a treat.
I love using the treat and train dispenser, like I said, because I can just like always
have the button in my pocket and I can trigger that away from wherever the sounds are most
likely to be coming from.
And then what you have is a dog who barks once and then kind of comes to you looking
for the reward or going to
The other side of the house and even if you're not giving a reward every single time, you know that even just a variable rate of reinforcement
Can keep that behavior happening. They're like I bark once and then I go to my mom or I go to the treat and train
And most people don't have a problem with a dog who barks once
Too often what I see happen is, you know,
dog barks and then someone's like,
Stella, stop it, stop it.
And then the dog's barking and it's like,
I think the dog is like, oh,
I barked and then that got intention from her and now she's barking,
and now we're all barking together.
It has like the wrong, the wrong effect.
Like I said though, you know, positive reinforcement,
behaviors that we don't like may be positively
reinforced by things or negatively reinforced by things we don't have much control over.
So your dog is barking at sounds in the hallway, the person in the hallway leaves the hallway,
now that behavior of barking has been reinforced because your dog's like, oh, it made that
bad thing go away.
My barking must have done a really good job.
So that's why, you know, because we have
access to, you know, the hardware store down the street where we can do something like buy a white
noise machine or a window film or door sweep or whatever. Like I always think those are the
best things to try first. What's another big concern that dog owners talk to you about,
ask you about because they're struggling with it. Certainly a big problem is dealing with other dogs on the street. You know, so some tips
there, it's an unpopular suggestion but I often suggest that people don't let
their dog say hi to any other dog on the street. If only because I don't
necessarily trust that most people have a good enough ability to read dog body
language to keep their dogs safe.
So I would rather just because you know, you let your dog say hi to one dog on the street
and that dog's having a bad day and you know, you literally could have your dog get their
head bit off.
And if you do let your dog greet another dog on the street, make sure you're keeping your
leash really loose.
You don't want your dog to associate, oh, there's another dog coming by.
Now my neck is going to get all this pressure on it. And let the greeting just be very quick. I also like
using a hands-free leash outside, especially for city walking, because I think it makes it a lot
easier to deliver food rewards outside, which I think can be really useful. You know, when we're
outside with our dogs, we are the least interesting thing.
They're with us all the time,
and outside there's lots of novelty,
lots of things to distract them,
lots of things that are more interesting to us.
So anything that we can do to make ourselves
more interesting when we're outside, I think we should do.
And that might mean using some kind of like
really high value treat,
having it on your person, person in a treat pouch.
If you're using a hands-free leash,
like something that you can wear around your waist or
like something carabiner to your belt,
you have two hands-free to give that stuff rather
than trying to use one hand with a leash and one hand with a treat.
You can work on making sure that your dog is on
the opposite side of wherever the other dogs are on the street.
Practicing having your dogs change sides is something that we can do a lot of work with pretty quickly with a dog,
teaching them, you know, I want you on this side or that side so that you can make sure that you are putting yourself between them and any dog on the street.
And also giving some sort of small food reward whenever you see another dog, again, to make
that association and build that habit.
Other dogs are good because when another dog comes, Annie gives me a little bit of hot
dog.
And when I see another dog, that's a cue for me to look at my person or to go to that spot near her knee
or wherever where she's usually giving me the treat.
That's what I need to do.
That's the information.
Other dog equals go to that spot, get that good thing,
rather than other dog equals me bum rushing the other dog
and barking or whatever else.
I've often heard people say that a well-trained dog is
a happier dog.
That to leave a dog untrained is not good for the dog.
But what's your sense of that?
Well, I don't think of training as a binary thing.
It's not like a dog is trained or not trained.
I mean, you could train a dog every day
and keep training them.
There's always more to learn. That said, I think we can help dogs be happier by helping them understand how
they can make choices that benefit them and giving them a little bit more agency and control over
their lives in that way. And I don't think training necessarily, the way I think of training,
doesn't necessarily mean, you know, sit sit down, stay calm, drop it.
Training might just be helping them use their energy in a more efficient or a more productive,
less dangerous way so that that energy is not left over.
For instance, I think it's a really great idea to feed dogs out of toys.
I think every dog could benefit from getting one, if not all of their meals,
out of toys or during some sort of training session. We tend to think of like, this is food
and these are treats, but really it all ends up in the same place. And you could use every piece
of kibble in your dog's bowl as a treat if your dog is into it. And you can use every kibble in
that bowl to reward some behavior that you like. Now that behavior might be sitting quietly on the couch,
that behavior might be not barking at someone that comes in,
but every time you're rewarding your dog,
it's kind of like you're underscoring a moment of good
and you're saying, I like that you did that,
I'm gonna pay into the bank account that you did that.
Puzzle toys, I think are a great way
to help your dog burn some energy and problem solve
and sort of become smarter in that way. These are toys that you can put, sometimes
they're called work to eat toys, these are toys you can put kibble in, you could
put treats in, you could put wet food, there's lots of different kinds of toys.
But dogs have that need to problem solve and figure things out and work and if
we don't give them jobs they're much more likely to make up their own jobs.
Like I'm going to announce every person who goes in the hallway to take the elevator.
So it's like how can we help them use that energy in other ways?
So I think dogs are happier when they have more information about what they can do that the humans like.
And positive reinforcement training gives that to them as a gift because what you're
doing is, I like to use a marker.
A marker is anything that, like something that pinpoints a moment in time.
A clicker is the most common marker that dog trainers use, but you can use anything.
I often use a word like yes.
Sometimes with other species, people use whistles.
You can snap your fingers,
but what you're doing is pinpointing a moment saying,
I like that you did that,
and now something good is going to happen.
And what you can get with a dog
is kind of what I call like a goody two shoes dog
who's like walking around all day trying to be like,
what is the thing that I need to do to get make that get that sound and get the good
stuff? Which doesn't have to be food, it could be anything your dog likes. But the
sound, the marker, the clicker is the information and it's followed by
something, something your dog likes. And I do think that that dogs are happier
when they're not just the victims of their surrounding. I also think dogs are
happier when they're trained with positive reinforcement versus with punishment
because it's a difference between like operating
in a world where you're trying to figure out what works
and what's gonna benefit you versus operating in a world
where you're, you know, walking on landmines trying
to figure out, you know, constantly worried that, you know,
you're gonna, you could do the wrong thing
but you're not sure what the wrong thing is.
And unfortunately, I think that's the standard.
Something I've wondered about
and maybe felt a little guilty about,
because I don't know the answer to this,
and I've had dogs most of my life,
is that we hear dogs need exercise,
but I don't really know how much.
How much is enough exercise for a dog?
Because some people take their dog on a run every day.
Other people take the dog down to the end of the driveway,
turn around, and come back.
Really, every dog is different.
I was watching my best friend's dog this weekend,
and his dog is like a quarter of the size of my dog.
And I would take his dog and my dog for a walk
and my dog goes around the block one time
and she's like, I've had enough, I need to go inside now.
And his dog was like just getting started.
And so I would like bring my dog home
and then his dog would like take me, you know,
on like a two mile Odyssey, which is what she needed.
Dogs are individuals, even breeds of dogs, every cavapoo is not like every other cavapoo.
You want to make sure that you have a dog who gets enough exercise that they are not
going stir crazy, that their health is okay, that their weight is okay. You know, it's definitely a health issue as much as a behavior issue.
But if somebody is having a behavior issue, especially one that has to do with like active
behaviors like barking, lunging, chewing, you know, as opposed to, you know, more sedentary
behaviors that could be problematic, like separation anxiety maybe.
You want to make sure that your dog
is getting enough exercise,
is getting enough cardiovascular activity.
And it's also eating appropriately.
And that you're sort of running a clean, healthy system
because behavior is not separate from everything else.
Behavior is like part of a continuum.
Well, obviously there's a lot to this science
of dog behavior and dog training,
but any one last thing you wanna mention
that you really think people need to understand
about why dogs do what they do?
Again, I think thinking about the associations
that your dog's making is so important.
I really tell the story of the science of behavior over the last like century, century
and a half.
And part of where it starts is with Pavlov.
And most people kind of know the name Pavlov.
Does the name Pavlov ring a bell?
Ha ha ha.
What Pavlov did was he rang a bell or rang a buzzer actually and then gave his dog's
food and buzzer food, buzzer food, buzzer food.
Eventually the dog just associated the buzzer
with the food and the buzzer itself made them salivate.
And I think it's interesting to remember this experiment
because nobody actually talks about
what else the dogs were doing.
Were they barking?
Were they peeing?
Were they sniffing each other?
We don't really know.
And it doesn't really matter
because it was just about creating that association and that
Association produced a behavior that wasn't happening before right the dogs were not born knowing about the buzzer
But because of that, you know repeated association it made them salivate
We can use that exact same kind of training that classical conditioning it's called that you know to make those associations
that classical conditioning it's called, that you know to make those associations
left and right with dogs in order to change their behavior and it's not the kind of training that you think about that happens at dog training class. It's not sit day,
sit down, come, leave, and drop, it stay. It's changing the feeling and it's, it can be I think
an incredibly powerful brain shift when you start thinking about how can I make associations
that ultimately make my dog feel safe and good about the world that we're asking them
to live in.
And in the book, I call it like starting out with criterion zero, just start out rewarding
your dog for existing in the world that you're asking them to live in because we're asking
a lot of them all the time.
And before you start worrying about, you know,
is my dog sitting when someone comes to pet them,
think is my dog feeling okay
about the fact that someone's approaching?
You know, start by like just assuming that every moment
is something that your dog might not feel good about
and start thinking like,
how can I make my dog feel good about that
rather than worrying about like what behavior
are they engaging in at that very moment
because the behavior will follow.
Well, this is great because I think when you have a dog,
you know, you see the world through your human lens
and you sort of think the dog does too,
but the dog has a whole different perspective on the world
and what motivates and doesn't motivate them.
And it's really good to dive into this.
Annie Grossman has been my guest.
She is a journalist, an animal trainer,
and she is author of a book called How to Train Your Dog
with Love and Science.
She's also a host of the podcast, How to Train Your Dog
with Love and Science.
And there's a link to both the book and the podcast in the show notes.
Thank you, Annie.
Thanks for explaining all this.
All right.
Thank you so much, Mike.
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