Speaking of Psychology - Why do we push ourselves to be perfect? With Thomas Curran, PhD

Episode Date: December 11, 2024

In job interviews and in life, perfectionism is often seen as a selling point – an asset disguised as a flaw. But as psychologists have found rising rates of perfectionism in the United States and a...round the world in recent decades, they’ve begun to recognize the toll that the drive to be perfect can take on people’s mental health and well-being. Thomas Curran, PhD, author of “The Perfection Trap: Embracing the Power of Good Enough,” talks about different types of perfectionism, why more and more of us feel the need to push ourselves to perfection, and what can we do – as individuals, as parents and as a society – to recognize that often, ‘good’ is good enough. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:27 See Home Depot.com slash price match for details. Have you ever done a job interview where you're asked, what's your biggest weakness? And did you answer? Oh, I'm such a perfectionist. There's a good reason this answer has become a job interview cliche. Perfection, after all, is usually seen as a selling point, an asset disguised as a flaw.
Starting point is 00:00:48 Who wouldn't want to hire a perfect employee, after all? But psychologist's research suggests that perfectionism may not be something to aspire to at all. In recent years, researchers have found rising rates of perfection, perfectionism in the United States and around the world, and they've begun to recognize the toll that the drive to be perfect can take on people's mental health and well-being. So why do more and more of us feel the need to push ourselves to perfection? Does our achievement culture demand it? Is it social media and the endless comparisons that come with it? And what does it mean to be a perfectionist anyway? How is perfectionism different from just striving for excellence? And what can we do as individuals,
Starting point is 00:01:28 as parents, as a society, to help ourselves and each other recognize that often, good, is good enough. Welcome to Speaking of Psychology, the flagship podcast of the American Psychological Association that examines the links between psychological science and everyday life. I'm Kim Mills. My guest today is Dr. Thomas Curran, an associate professor in the Department of Psychological and Behavioral Science at the London School of Economics. He's a leading expert on perfection in and how perfectionism is increasing in the modern world. His popular TED talk on perfectionism has been viewed more than three million times, and his research has been covered by news outlets, including the New York Times,
Starting point is 00:02:13 the Wall Street Journal, NPR, and CNN.com. His debut book is The Perfection Trap, Embracing the Power of Good Enough. Dr. Curran, thank you for joining me today. Pleasure to be speaking of a recap. Back in 2019, you published a study that found rising rates, to perfectionism and young people in the US, Canada, and the UK over the past several decades. Tell us about that work. What kind of data did you look at? What did you find? Yeah, that was the, I suppose, my biggest paper I've ever published. And I didn't realize
Starting point is 00:02:44 at the time it was going to be quite the story it was. It was really a hunch. Sometimes the best ideas are the simplest ideas. And I just had a hunch of seeing young people in my office. I'm a professor. So I work with young people a lot. And it became evident to me over the recent years, that there was a lot of pressure that young people were putting on themselves, they were feeling that they weren't good enough or that no matter how hard they tried, they weren't achieving in the ways in which they were hoping to achieve. And I was seeing a lot of requests for not just academic support, but also mental health support as well.
Starting point is 00:03:21 And all of this seemed to be bound up in this idea of self-imposed pressure. So one of the things I decided to do was to try to understand if there is a trend. here, if something's happening, something in the water around young people, whether we can maybe detect any of those changes in levels of perfectionism. So that was the hunch and Clay did all the possible information that could possibly clay on levels of perfectionism in college students from the US, UK, Canada, starting in around 1989, so late 80s, and all the way through to around 2021, 2022. And because college students have broadly similar characteristics, which is, by the way, terrible thing for sampling generally in psychology, but it does happen to have an advantage
Starting point is 00:04:01 when it comes to comparing across generations because they're broadly similar, can make reliable comparisons. And if you string them out over time, you see rising levels of perfectionism among young people, and that hunch was confirmed in the data, and those rises were quite steep, particularly for what's called socially prescribed perfectionism, which is a sense that other people and everyone around me expects me to be perfect. That was rising exponentially at a rate of about 33% increase since the late 80s. So, yeah, some really interesting and challenging findings.
Starting point is 00:04:31 And that propelled me, I suppose, into the TED Talk sphere and writing a book and all the rest of it because people really wanted to know about this phenomenon. Well, how do researchers measure perfectionism? Was there some kind of scale that you used or did you have to create one? Yeah, so luckily there is a scale that most researchers use when they study perfectionism is called the multi-dimensional perfectionism scale. It was developed by two psychologists, Paul Hewitt, Canadian psychologist, Paul Hewitt, and Gordon Flett. I think Gordon Fletts been on the podcast previously. Incredible scholars did a lot of heavy lifting in this area, developed the scale, and that's what we've been using across the years.
Starting point is 00:05:06 And that's amazing because we've got one consistent tool there. It's a paper and pencil questionnaire that measures socially corrects of perfectionism, as I mentioned, but also some of self-oriented perfectionism, which is perfectionism comes from within high self-standers and excessive self-standers. And, yeah, students have responded to this same survey now for about 30, 35 of years. So that gives us a treasure trove of data really to make these cohort, do these cohort analyses, and that's what we've used to derive our conclusions from. What are a couple of the questions, just so our listeners can understand what you ask people,
Starting point is 00:05:39 that indicates that, yeah, you're a perfectionist. So self-oriented perfectionism is a form of perfectionism that comes from inside of us. it's high self-set goals and expectations. And we might use an item like, I expect myself to be perfect or everything I do has to be perfect. And we might measure that on a one to five like at scale. So if you don't agree with that statement, then I don't agree with that statement. So it might be a one.
Starting point is 00:06:03 If you really agree with that statement and strongly agree, you would put a five and everywhere in between. These infectious constructs, they really operate on a spectrum. So higher or lower, most people are in the middle. And that middle bit is increasing over time, as we saw in our data. socially described affections with another form of affections that we measure. And that's really rooted in pressures from the outside world. So the people who expect me to be perfect, my parents expect me to be perfect.
Starting point is 00:06:27 For example, those are sorts of things we might ask and measure of social to perfectionism. And again, same principle. If you disagree, it's a one. If you agree, it's a five and everywhere in between. And once you aggregate those to items, get an average, you can get a reasonably good idea of where you sit on the spectrum. Now, you've talked about different,
Starting point is 00:06:47 kinds of perfectionism. He said self-oriented, there's other-oriented and socially prescribed. Have all of these been increasing? Yes. It's important to bear in mind that when it comes to self-oriented perfectionism, that started from a high baseline. So in the late 80s, it was already quite high. It's a five-point light at scale. It was around four the mean scores across many, many samples of college students. So that already started high. It went even higher over time. But what was really interesting is not necessarily the self-worn infections, although that wasn't interesting finding, but what was going on was socially prescribed as really interesting, because that didn't start very high. That started around three, right? So around the midpoint scale,
Starting point is 00:07:31 basically, most people said, yeah, kind of, kind of not to those items. However, we're seeing that now sharply accelerated. We've updated our 2009 paper with new data when we're seeing a sharp acceleration in recent years for socially prescribed pressures. And that's really worrying because it's those social pressures that most concern us when it comes to things like mental health. They have the strongest link with depression, anxiety, worry, rumination. And so that's what it concerns us because what we used to see perhaps in the past was high strivings or high self-oriented perfectionism, but kind of moderate levels of socially prescribed perfectionism, but now what we're seeing is a slightly different pattern in recent generations
Starting point is 00:08:07 where they've got high self-oriented perfectionism, but fast accelerating socially prescribed perfectionism. What do you think is driving these increases? I mean, what's changed in our society in the last couple of decades that would lead to this rise in perfectionism? That's the whole book in and of itself. I mean, first of all, it's not a causal analysis. So essentially, anything I say here would be speculative. But nevertheless, we can say with reasonable confidence that there are a number of factors,
Starting point is 00:08:36 and one of which we have empirically tested. So one of the things we think is happening is parental behavior. are changing, the way in which we rear children is changing. There's a lot more pressure, a lot more surveillance, a lot more monitoring of young people for good reason, and also a lot more expectation as well. It's been placed on young people, particularly in the academic sphere, and there's a lot of evidence to support those claims. But we've shown empirically that young people are perceiving that the parents are demanding
Starting point is 00:09:05 more of them, particularly in the academic route. And those higher demands, those higher expectations are highly correlated with perfectionism. So you put those two things together and you begin to see that changing parental practices towards more expectant and controlling forms of rearing have a direct correlation with perfectionism. And that may be one of the reasons why perfectionism is rising among young people. But there are factors way beyond parents. And it's also important to recognize that this isn't something that parents are doing intentionally. They're just responding to pressures in the outside world, right? I mean, ID League acceptance rates are around 5% today.
Starting point is 00:09:39 they were 10% in 2014. That is an incredible amount of pressure that parents see, they feel, and they're going to naturally translate the counter to their kids in terms of higher academic expectation because they know it's even harder to get into the elite colleges. And elite college education is really important if you want to get into the elite professions. So parents just responding to wider pressures that are going on in the wider environment, and that isn't just in schools or colleges when it comes to standardized, testing and more stringent entry criteria.
Starting point is 00:10:12 It's also the broader economy. We've slowed down and that means less opportunities for young people, particularly in the workplace. That's an added pressure that young people feel and also parents feel. So again, that ratches up the pressure. And there, of course, are of a factor, social media among them that has come on the scene in the last 10 years. That certainly hasn't helped when it's come to those social pressures and those idealized
Starting point is 00:10:38 images of how we should be looking and appearing and paving. There's so many factors that we could point to, but in our work and in our theorizing, those are the main ones. Now, your study looked at perfectionism in college students, but is it also increasing in other age groups? And you talked about parents kind of leading the way. Are they themselves perfectionists, or they're just foisting this on their kids? A bit of both. Parental perfectionism is very strongly correlated with child perfectionism. We have to be a bit careful there because disaggregating what is social modeling from genes is a tricky one. If we know about 30 to 40% of perfectionism is inherited,
Starting point is 00:11:17 so a lot of it is genetic. But beyond that, there will be parent socialization that is at play. And there are many different pathways in which parents can transmit perfectionism to young people through expectations, as I've talked about, but also through something called conditional regard. So there's conditionality of approval that can occur within parents that teachers children that only would have worth something when they've achieved
Starting point is 00:11:41 or done something well. And so conditional regard is a big one. There's also anxious forms of rearing that come into play as well. And children see parents behaving anxiously or fearing failure or treating mistakes of failure as big deals, as big problems. That's children themselves are those things are big problems
Starting point is 00:12:00 and they want to avoid them. So there's all sorts of different pathways through which parents can impact on affectionism. But it is also important to remember. remember that it is highly duty to. Have you been able to follow college students over time? So when they leave school and they go into the workplace, do they continue to have that perfectionism? Yes, they do.
Starting point is 00:12:21 There's not much life course analysis when it comes to perfectionism. So it's very difficult to say whether this is something that ameliorates or doesn't ameliorate over time. We know neuroticism does ameliorate over time. And so there may be an argument that that's the same for perfectionism. We need to test that. There was a couple of studies that show perfectionism can perhaps be a little stickier than neuroticism. One study shows that it's perfectionism and perfectionistic irritability seems to be quite sticky across the lifespan,
Starting point is 00:12:50 but that's an isolated study. We need to do more there. So it may be the case that perfectionism is a little bit more of a stable construct over time than something like neuroticism, or maybe it isn't. We just don't know. What role do you think that this increase in perfectionism and in the achievement culture is playing in driving the youth mental health crisis? Well, it's not the whole picture, of course. We are very keen to highlight perfectionism as a public health concern. We think that these are trends that are telling us something about the way young people are perceiving themselves, are viewing themselves in relation to other people, the way that they're perceiving the social environment.
Starting point is 00:13:33 and how demanding it is and what is expected of them. We think these are very salient trends in those respects. And because perfectionism, particularly socially prescribed perfectionist, has such a strong correlation with depression, anxiety, self-presentational concerns, and other psychologists, when I say big correlation, me for psychology research, you know, big correlations, we're talking about around 25% variance explained, depression and anxiety. You know, that's a lot when it comes to psychology research.
Starting point is 00:14:00 because they share such a large correlation, we do think that perfectionism might be a part of the youth mental health crisis that we're currently seeing, not the only part, but certainly a part. You said this place was steps from the water. We just haven't found the steps yet. How much did we save? Enough. Enough to get lost.
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Starting point is 00:15:00 socioeconomic ladder. Is that correct or is this tendency cutting across the socioeconomic spectrum? Now, that would be correct to say. And Dr. Lufa has published some incredibly important research on this topic showing that the more affluent teens are actually those that disproportionately suffer in terms of their mental health from the achievement pressures that they experience at school because they're the ones that are most aggressively primed for elite college and they experience a lot of psychological difficulties, substance abuse issues, and behavioural issues, a lot of which is actually not as documented, I think, as perhaps it should be, because we quite rightly focus on the more deprived end of the socio-economic
Starting point is 00:15:51 spectrum, absolutely we do because there's a lot of suffering there for many, many reasons, but also at the same time, I think it's important for us to highlight that there are teens at the higher-end of social spectrum inspection who are suffering from an excessive need to achieve so much pressure they're putting on themselves, partly rooted in perfectionism, but having impacts more broadly on their mental health. Is the educational system itself contributing to this? I mean, I know kids today come home with hours of homework. When I was a kid, you know, maybe I had a half an hour or max an hour worth of homework every night.
Starting point is 00:16:26 I don't know how kids do it today. It's an incredibly tough schooling process. I think on average there's about 130 standardized tests that young people will undertake from kindergarten to the 12th grade. I mean, that's an incredible amount of testing and ranking and sifting and sorting. And so you can only imagine the ways in which young people begin to construe a sense of self-in identity in those contexts, which is essentially self-identity that's pinned to how well we perform, where we sit in the rank.
Starting point is 00:16:58 And of course, that's a very fragile sense of self-worth because the moment things go wrong or the moment we get a bad test score, our self-esteem plummets and we start to experience a lot of rumination, shame, guilt, stress. There's no doubt that there's a lot of pressure in schooling. And I understand the need for standardized testing. Of course, there is a place for it. But I think what we have at the moment is an excessive cold.
Starting point is 00:17:25 which is standardised testing, which is creating a lot of worry, a lot of anxiety. Given your knowledge of all this, do you go easy on your students? Do you give fewer tests? I mean, I don't want to give them any tests if I can avoid it. I feel like they've done that enough at this point. But no, the way that I try to assess is really to emphasize feedback, to make sure that I, you know, especially in the first year, because in the UK system, the first year doesn't count anything as much. We're trying not to even give us a a grade. It's all about what was what was done well, what could be improved, and those things to focus on as you develop your understanding knowledge in a certain area. And, you know, that's
Starting point is 00:18:05 difficult because it's really jarvis students to come into that different way of learning to not have a grade and to not have something. They can anchor their sense of self around, but ultimately it's a much healthier way to learn, I think. Is there such a thing as healthy perfectionism? I mean, can you be a perfectionist in a way that's not detrimental to your well-being? I'm going to say no. But this is a connection. contentious topic. And if you speak to other psychologists in the area, you may get different answers. It's all good fun, but it does hit on, I think, something really important.
Starting point is 00:18:34 And that's the question of whether this is a construct that we need to find the positives in, or it's something that we need to find a completely different track to. And that there is nothing positive about perfection is going to need to step onto a different pathway. Even the high standards, excessive standards are themselves negative in my mind for two reasons. The first is because even if we do meet those high and excessive standards, the perfectionists can never enjoy them because there's always got to be something more. So we can't appreciate our successes even if we get them. And also, of course, those problems and things don't go quite so well for those high
Starting point is 00:19:10 and excessive standard perfectionists because that's a big hit to their self-esteem. And so what they tend to do is avoid and divver and iterate and procrastinate to try to avoid those feelings of shame and guilt from making a mistake or hitting a setback. So that actually blocks our progress in the end. It doesn't carry us forward. And so for my mind, I think that the negatives far outweigh any positives that you might find from being a professionalism is much better to try to situate ourselves on a better track where we're focusing on our efforts.
Starting point is 00:19:38 We're focusing on the process of learning. We're trying to hit high goals, but we're maintaining the sense of perspective and that we're allowing ourselves to enjoy successes when they arrive. Those are all markers of a high achiever and it doesn't preclude high achievement by taking a slightly different track. But what it does mean is that we can enjoy the process. And as a consequence, we can find psychological well-being, purpose, and meaning through that process, which are things that we just simply can't do if perfectionism is in the driving scene. Part of your story is that you were a perfectionist.
Starting point is 00:20:13 Isn't that true? I mean, you recognize that in yourself and it kind of changed the way that you approach life. Can you talk about that a little bit? Yeah, a lot of people these days who are trying to climb the career ladder, affectionism really did take over in my own life, particularly in my early to mid-20s when I was doing, working all sorts of hours to try to lift myself above other people, to try and get as many publications out there as I could,
Starting point is 00:20:41 to try and win as many grants as I could, to looking around at how other people are doing and using that as my benchmark for how good I should be doing. And, you know, there's an argument to suggest that it was part of why I'm here, but also it came at heavy cost. And I burnt out, I had to leave work for a number of months. It was a very difficult period in my personal life as well because it created all sorts of overflows in terms of the way in my relationships of other people. And so, you know, there was a lot of collateral. And although ostensibly I looked like I was a high achiever, underneath I was really sinking
Starting point is 00:21:20 and that was an impetus for me to take a different direction, choose a different track, to try to remove those narcissistic self-reference tendencies that I held within me, that contingent self-esteem I held within me based on my achievement and how I was appearing relative to other people and actually just try to be more centered and focus on what it is that I want to leave in the world, what it is I want to learn and I want to share. And that flicking that switch really helped me because it gave me a bigger purpose. It made me look more holistically, field. It made me want to ask bigger questions about what's happening at a societal level.
Starting point is 00:22:00 And ultimately, that was the real reason why I think I'm here is because if I continued on that track, I'd have burnt out and I would be really struggling. But now I'm able to have good work-life balance and ask really interesting questions, which is one of the reason I'm talking to you, I suppose. Given that experience and also the research that you've done, do you have advice, you know, really specific advice for people who recognize the harmful perfectionist tendencies that they have and they want to change? What can they do? Well, there's loads of things to bear in mind. Again, that's also probably another book. But there's a few things that I found really useful in my experience and also to have some evidence behind them. The first is that self-compassion is a big part of combat imperfectionism.
Starting point is 00:22:50 And self-compassion is really about recognizing that we are a fallible, exhaustible human being and that we're going to make mistakes that are going to hit setbacks. And that's just part and part of what it means to be human. And so recognizing that and actually internalizing that, that. And then making sure that we check in on ourselves when things go wrong and we go in on ourselves and maybe we're partially self-critical about how could it be so stupid. What are you thinking? And making sure we actively step in and intervene in those moments and find constructive and compassionate ways to move forward is really, really important. Because silencing that inner
Starting point is 00:23:26 critic is a big part of combating perfectionism. I think also, you know, on a work basis, one of the things I've found really useful is to try to prioritize. I put my priorities into buckets. There are things that require high level diligence. There are things that require the activities to be good enough. And then there are things that just need to get done. Not everything has to be done at 100 miles or not everything has to be done to the minute detail absolutely perfectly.
Starting point is 00:23:53 Maybe some things require a little bit of conscientiousness, but actually most things know what I've got done and to be an efficient worker with that prioritize efficiently too. And we have to recognize that there are some tasks where good enough is. is good enough and actually making progress is more important than getting things absolutely perfect first time round. So it definitely helped me in terms of prioritising and putting my tasks into buckets and allowing myself, giving myself permission for things not quite to be
Starting point is 00:24:19 of a certain standard for tasks that don't need to be at that certain standard. And finally, I also like to journal. I think this is a lot of evidence for journaling for all sorts of psychological ailments, but particularly for perfectionism. Just writing down our fears can be so important because one of the things that blocks perfectionist people is the fear that things might go wrong.
Starting point is 00:24:42 They catastrophes a lot. And so writing down your fears, like not ignoring them or suppressing them, but actually writing them down, what is it you worried about? What stopping you making progress in this moment? And write it down, I journal. And then ask yourself, what steps, practical steps can I put in place to avoid that worst case scenario happening? And then draw it through to its conclusion, if it were to have.
Starting point is 00:25:05 happen. So let's say it did happen. What can we do to bring ourselves back to square one, right? And just putting those fears under the microscope and putting practical ways forward in the case to avoid it in the first case, but then in the case of actually happening, how do we move ourselves back? It's a really, really good way to break down those fears and it allows us to have a road map to move forward and then we could just get on and do it without that fear holding us back. What about parents and other caregivers? What can they do to encourage their kids while buffering them from the pressures that lead to perfectionism? I mean, you know you want your kid to get into the best school, but how can you keep your child from becoming overly anxious and suffering?
Starting point is 00:25:50 Yeah, there's a few things I would recommend to parents. First thing is don't put too much pressure on yourself because parenting is one of the hardest jobs. You can go into it the best intentions. and you can find very quickly that you're reduced to a helpless spectator. And that's just normal and natural and part of the process. So that I think is the first thing. Don't have but too much pressure on yourselves to get things just right. Winnicott's idea of the good enough parent is something that springs to mind when I think about parenting.
Starting point is 00:26:24 You can't perfect. And that's good for kids because life is not perfectly. So a couple of practical things. Well, first of all, don't hitch your approval to achievement or, you know, how much effort kids are putting in, particularly when it comes to sports or academic activities. It's good to have standards. It's good to, you know, want children to do the best they can, but you have to be really careful as parents not to subtly qualify your approval based on the expectation that young people do more because it's very easy to slip into that trap when young
Starting point is 00:26:57 people have done, well, they've come home, they've got an A in their test, and and you go, that's great, okay, keep working, right? Because that full approval, full validation and recognition of parents is subtly withheld under the understanding of more. So essentially what we're doing is we're holding young people on tiptoes under the expectation they keep working. And that teaches them that they're only really worth something in this world if they strive and strive and strive and strive. And if they achieve and achieve and the moment they don't, then the implication is that other people will value them less. So conditional forms of acceptance are really problematic when it comes to development of perfectionism.
Starting point is 00:27:34 So it's really important that you give your kids full unqualified approval when they've done well, but also when things haven't gone quite so well, you give them a hug, you tell them it's okay, it's just one test of many of the tests, right? It's not an indictment on you or your self-esteem. It doesn't say anything about whether your teacher likes you or whether you're good at this particular subject.
Starting point is 00:27:53 It's just one test. And the most important thing is to immerse yourself in the learning process and things will turn around if you keep doing the revision and the reading and all the rest of it. I think it's really important to put around around our children in those moments and make sure that we give just as much acceptance when they've done well, when they haven't done quite sit well. And the second thing I would say is also just normalise mistakes, failures, setbacks. If you've had a bad day at work, it's okay to communicate that with young people. It's okay to sit around the dinner table and laugh about it. It lets them know that these things happen as past.
Starting point is 00:28:29 of the real world and that if their parents can laugh about it, if their parents can share it openly, then that gives them permission to do it too. And so those are the two main ones, but as I said at the beginning, it's really, really hard. And to any parent out there, you're doing a great job.
Starting point is 00:28:46 Is there something we can be doing on a societal level to stop this rise in perfectionism? Yes, and one of the things I write about the final part of the book is how society might need to change to, provide less pressure or provide a context of less pressure, particularly on young people. And there are many things that I've recommended, none of which I think are necessarily going to be implemented, but they're almost quite utopic in some ways. But I do think that if they were, we would see less pressure, one of which is an expansion
Starting point is 00:29:18 of participation in higher education. I mean, it's scandalous, actually, the universities have an expanded participation, because all we're really doing is excluding more and more kids as colleges become more and more competitive and that's not the way forward. And it needs to be vast investment in education. Education has so many benefits at a societal level, not just for young people but society at large.
Starting point is 00:29:43 And the more that we don't increase the higher universities, the more that's going to become more competitive and the more pressure is going to be on young people to get to gain access. So I think that's one thing we could do to help. Another thing is, I think at a broader level, I'm a really big advocate of UBI. The universal basic income is something that we're probably going to see anyway as AI comes in to capture a lot of productivity and jobs.
Starting point is 00:30:11 I think it's going to be needed as an emergency measure to bridge the gap between that world now and the new world where AI does a lot of the work that we used to do. But I think that will have many, many benefits. and in particular it will take away the sort of scarcity that often is the fire for perfectionism. This idea that if we take a risk but it doesn't pay off that we're going to be destitute is a lot of fear, it's a lot of worries,
Starting point is 00:30:38 a lot of precarity, and that creates a lot of perfectionism at a societal level. And UBI has been advocated across the board from left to right on its ability to spur creativity, to spur innovation, to give almost a safety in there that allows us to try new things and be innovative. And without it, it stifles that innovation because perfectionism holds us back.
Starting point is 00:31:02 And there are other things I advocate in the book, but I think those are the two big ones. So what's next for you? What are you working on? What's your next book? At the moment, I'm just going to take a little bit of time off to recover from what's been a grueling year or two. Yeah, I've loved writing the book. I've loved getting out there. I've loved speaking to people. I've loved talking about perfectionism. It's really, it's really, you know, one of the reasons I did it was to spread the message. But at the same time, it's quite exhausting as well. And I have a young family now and I think it's time for me to switch gears a little bit and focus on my family.
Starting point is 00:31:36 And then maybe in a few years time, I'll write another book. I have some ideas on what might come next. But I think for now, I'm just going to listen to my own advice and get a bit of work-life balance. Well, Dr. Curran, I want to thank you for joining me today. It's been fantastic to talk. Thank you for having me. To read more about Dr. Curran's and other psychologist's research on perfectionism, visit the October issue of APA's magazine Monitor on Psychology.
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