Spiritually Speaking with Jessica & Samantha - What We Manifested… And What Actually Happened

Episode Date: February 27, 2026

In this episode of Spiritually Speaking, we’re getting really real about manifesting, not the Pinterest version, not the “perfect morning routine” version, but what actually worked for us.We’re talking about the things we tried to call in, what showed up in ways we didn’t expect, what took longer than we thought, and what landed in a completely different form to how we imagined it. Because manifesting isn’t just about vision boards and affirmations, it’s about timing, choice, growth, and sometimes being redirected.We share the manifestations that genuinely shifted our lives, the lessons we learned along the way, and the moments where we realised, “oh… this is what we were actually manifesting.”If you’ve ever wondered why some things seem to flow in and others take their time, or if you’ve been questioning whether you’re “doing it right,” this episode is such a grounding, honest reminder that manifesting is a relationship with life, not a checklist.

Hello and welcome back to spiritually speaking with me Sam. And with me, Jess. Welcome back. Welcome back, everybody. It's lovely to be back. It is. It's lovely weather here in the UK. We've got the sun shining blue skies. I can see the sun shining on your face. It literally is like, and I'm not going to pull the blinds to shield myself because I feel like the vitamin D will be good for me. It's crazy that like, and I'm not to say this to be like, annoying for people that live in the UK and I live over here, but you can't fathom how cold it must be in the UK. Like when you said to me before about like, oh, you know, I got in the car the other day and it said it was 21 degrees and I was thinking, oh wow, that's, you know, quite warm. But as in, obviously it wasn't 21. Yeah, you said your car had just gone to that.

But I can't, like even wearing a jumper. Yeah. I know. I'm still like the thing is I always feel like we get tricked at. around this time of year where we think this is it, spring is here, summer's coming and then there'll be like another little cold spell and you're like, oh my God, like, but I'm hoping that it is just spring energy now. But like, you just feel such a difference in yourself. You just feel so much more like happier, like everything feels more of a flow. Like, yeah, I'm really loving that

about the seasons, to be honest. I remember that when I first moved to Dubai and when I, my car was parked underground and whenever I'd come out of the car park it was always blue sky and I was like honestly that just makes me feel so good having blue sky every day it makes such a difference doesn't it to your mood definitely and also like one thing I remember that I loved about Dubai was sort of like that five o'clock haze where the sky because the sunsets were weird in Dubai they weren't like the beautiful light I'd be for sunset it's sort of you know the sun sort of is you can see you can sort of stare at the sun because the sky's so hazy but there's always like that just like glow at that time and I just used to love that sort of yeah just before it got dark so

yeah no all good babe so we're embracing it good so what have you been up to so um what have I been up to God I feel like my life hasn't got as many exciting updates me and Sam were looking at the stats before of the pod and we were laughing because like some of the wild travel stuff and your birth story has like really high stats. And now we're like just, you know, enjoying spring. We were laughing because we actually get so many views and what listens on this, on this podcast. And, you know, I'm really proud of us because it's very consistent as well.

It is. And, you know, now doing my own podcast on the side, I realize like actually how incredible that is, especially considering we don't really push it. No. So, yeah, we have a, a lovely. group of very loyal listeners, which is really nice. We do. We do.

We were laughing because we were seeing which episodes do better than others. And, yeah, the ones that were like juicy, let's say, or a bit personal were like through the roof. Yeah. But then like we were saying the Gemini episode from like 2024 has got a high amount of listeners and then Libra's got like a low amount. And we was like, what's the difference between Gemini and Libra's? Yeah, yeah.

It's so funny. But no, it's good. And it is like our little passion project. And I feel like for our friendship is just like our nice little check-in every couple of weeks. It's lovely. So true. Yeah, no it is. Yeah, it's very wholesome.

So I love it. But yes, thanks everyone for being loyal listeners. What's been going on. So I moved all my stuff into Ben's house on the weekend, which was lovely. So those that have followed me on social, you'll see all my furniture's in, which is nice. So my spiritual room, which is the conservatory, is now covered in tarot car, and like random little signs that people have bought me over the years. Like one says that behind every successful woman is herself.

And like he was laughing. He was like, this is like a room of a feminist. And I'm like, it is my mom. So, um, yeah, it's not my part of the house. Yeah, exactly.

So, um, so that's being like the main focus. Um, and yeah, there's not really much to update or all good. I'm feeling very happy at the moment. Like I'm not saying I don't always feel happy.

Um, But I feel very, like, content at the moment. Yeah. Yeah, there's this really nice feeling of just enjoying and being present, which I think I can struggle with a lot. I'm always sort of, you know, thinking about the past and the future and forget to be present. So that's been really lovely.

And I think that's because I'm feeling really stable now, like being in one place, you know, for years I've been moving around. So I feel like the gypsy era is gone. She's no longer moving around. And now I'm feeling nice and content. So all good. Honestly, that's it. I don't think I've got anything else to share, which is very boring.

And it's your birthday. Yes, it's my birthday on Sunday. So that's exciting. So I'm going to the Ned in London for the brunch there because we don't get like the Dubai branch that, you know, and in England, if you go to a branch, they're just a bit rubbish. But the Ned looks unreal, like very much. It kind of looks a bit like meridian.

Brasery 2.0. All nice. Yeah. Lobster, seafood, roast dinner, like, and yeah. Oh, lovely. It's going to be a bit bougie, get a bit dressed up, doing my hair nice. So, yeah. Exactly what you want to your birthday. Yeah, exactly. Well, this is like, you know, the first time in a long time. I've had a boyfriend on my birthday. So I'm like, goodness me. He did actually be people on Saturday. And I was like, no, babes it's Sunday. And I was like, have you got me a birthday cake? He's like, yes, don't worry. I'm like, okay. It's just something. It's quite hard though when, yeah, when you live with someone to try and like hide things like that. Yeah, he has been hiding bits because I think even the birthday cake, he's like, Jess, just, you know, let it go.

And he's a Capricorn. So he's very organised. He's, he doesn't forget things. Like, he's incredibly efficient. So I'm very lucky in that way. But yeah, I think things have been hidden in his office. But I'm not someone to try and like ruin my surprises. No, I'm not.

I'm like, no, I can't wait on my birthday to like. open my gifts and stuff. So yeah, so that's very sweet. So yeah, and then Ben's off on Friday. So we've got like a long weekend basically together. And basically he says, what do you want to do today? And I might just want to be in the garden. So I'm really just embracing my gardening.

So let me tell you what's growing, okay? So I've got my strawberry plants growing. I've got spring onions. I've got garlic. I've got sweet peppers. I've got chili. I've got coriander, parsley, rosemary,

and then I've got some flowers, I've got some sunflowers, I've got these other flowers that are like a cupcake-style flower. I've got my meadow little area growing. So yeah, like I'm proper on it. You've just listed like a whole aisle in waitrose. Exactly.

I'm going to have my own waitrose, babes. And the plan is right, so this is sort of, I'm collecting loads of jars because there's going to be a lot. like obviously me and Ben aren't going to be able to eat like 500 tomatoes a day because I'm going to have loads of tomato plants. But I'm going to like sun dry them.

I'm going to like dehydrate some of the chilies and then chop them, put them in a jar. And with the herbs as well, I want to dehydrate the herbs. So they're all like you can use them in the winter. So I know the herbs are all year round. But so yeah. So I'm planning this way of living where like you can keep. keep keep it going, not just fresh. Obviously, you can freeze it as well.

Yeah. So yeah. Oh, love that. Yeah, the tomatoes are coming next. And red onions. Yeah, it's very exciting. Potato. Oh.

So yeah. You literally won't even need to go and do a food shop anymore. I know. Well, that's it. Would you ever get chickens? Yeah, but not in this garden. So I've already said to Ben, like, when we buy a house together one day, all right?

So the dream for me is, which is kind of aligns with what we're going to talk about today, like what I'm manifesting is like a bit of land, not loads, but like enough that I've got chickens and my neighbours aren't going to hear them and get annoyed. Because I would like to hold like sort of retreats and workshops from my home. I've always seen that. And now I'm back in England. It feels like that dream has kind of come awake, like awakened again. So yeah, definitely chickens, definitely living off the land.

And yeah, like, I don't, we go to the farm shop to get our meat. We do eat quite a lot of meat. I don't feel like we're on the veggie path and I don't think he would be. So I don't know where I'm going to go with that. But, yeah, I imagine with the way that I'm sort of wanting to live off the land in some way, we won't have to go to the shop that much, you know, and just go and get good produce. And yeah. And then the dream is that then when I have like retreat,

and workshops and when I say retreats it could just be like a day like or an afternoon for the full moon or whatever and then I can just feed everybody from like all the garden and have like I always have this vision of all these like salads and lots of dishes and yeah that's kind of the feels I think it will happen but it'll probably be sort of like more you know further down the line when I've got a bit more money and land to do that. But it's going to happen. Yeah. And you have to start now.

You have to live with that intention. So I've got a mini version in this garden. So that works. Yes. You know? So yeah. So that's me. How are you?

What's going on? All good. All good. What has been going on? I have had quite a nice few weeks, to be honest. More on the chill side. I feel like I had quite a hectic mid-end of January and even beginning of Fab. And then now I feel like I am in a really nice, just flow of life, which is good.

Oh my God, listen to what I did the other day. So I, so I was picking the girls up from nursery and I took Cherry with me, which is my nanny. And because if anyone's wondering why I took her with me, not that I need to explain this, but I took her with me because the girls will run in opposite directions. Yeah. And the nursery exits onto a car park and it's just not safe. So when I can, I take her with me or I get someone to help me from nursery just to get them in the car because otherwise it's just dangerous basically.

But anyway, so Cherry was with me in the car and I said to her, oh, just bring Gurney as well, which is my dog because we leave him in a crate when we go out and it just saves having to leave him in the crate, just bring him in the car. So we're all in the car, you know. So anyway, I go in to go and get the girls. out of nursery and then when I kind of get to the gate then Cherry gets out of the car and comes and meets me and she obviously leaves Ernie in the car

we go to open the car Ernie has locked the car Oh no So he's put his paws on the like door To stand up And as he's done it he's locked the car The keys are in the car with him Oh no

The car key, the house key My phone is in the car with him I'm on obviously the outside of the car with a baby and one arm, cherry's got the other, not a baby, but you know what I mean? And I was just like,

oh my God. And you know, in that split second when you're just like, how has this just happened? And I've like, I've tried the boot. I've tried the window. Thank God,

the engine was still running so the AC was on for him. I was just thinking that. Yeah. Because it was obviously so hard. And this really lovely guy, bless him, saw the whole thing happen.

And he was just picking up his kid from nursery and he was like, look, I'll take you home to go and get your spare car key. And I was like, thank you. Now, luckily, Dubai is safe enough that, you know, I don't want to say that this and now people know where I live, but we don't often lock our door. Yeah. So luckily, my front door was open and I knew where my spare car key was.

So I ran in and look, there was so many things to be grateful for in this situation. I can't tell you. Like, you know, when something happens and I actually didn't go into like stress mode, I just went into a bit like, okay, let's just fix this. And then afterwards I was a bit like drained from all the emotion. There was just so much that was like on my side in that situation. The fact that Cherry was with me, so she was with the girls, Ernie had the AC on, this guy then took me home.

The nursery's near my house. My house was open. Got the spare car key. Luckily I knew where that was. Got back to nursery to then get the dog out and everything. But yeah, so that happened to me. Oh, babes. that that's when like your nervous system gets tested in those moments of like is this going to be

it does it does and yeah yeah and i and i felt really proud of myself because i didn't like i say i didn't get stressed i was just like right okay let's just continue cherry take the girls back into nursery and she stayed in nursery with them and yeah it was fine but it was just one of them situations where i was just a bit like yeah yeah that would um yeah so yeah so yeah so that was um intense. In those moments, sorry, I'm saying in those moments, I feel like all I do is talk to spirit and I'm like, please, please, just make everything okay, just make it smooth. Yeah.

It's going to be okay. Yeah. And I'm so lucky that the girls weren't in the car either. Yeah, there's just so many like positives sort of come out of it. And now obviously I never leave my keys in the car. I've just taken with me. So yeah, I didn't even think that would happen. Oh, of course.

I often do that and leave them in the car. But anyway, so yeah, that was. dramatic. We went on a stay-k last weekend which was so nice just being Andy. It was gorgeous. It was yeah, just really, really lovely just to be the two of us

and we were celebrating our wedding anniversary. So we actually got married eight years ago, which is a really long time given how young we are. No, so that's UK. So for anyone who doesn't know, we got married legally before we moved to Dubai because at that time you couldn't live together

unless you were married legally. And because he got housing allowance from work, we had to be married to live together. And then we got a two-bedroom apartment, basically. So we, yeah, we legally got married before we moved to Dubai, but then we got engaged and actually had a wedding after that. But we celebrate our legal wedding anniversary. Yeah, so that was really nice.

Yeah. So we had a really nice time. It was lovely just to be the two of us. And we had a fancy dinner. And it was just really nice. It was lovely. So, yeah, that's kind of all I've been up. to really. I'm trying to start making plans for summer because I've still not planned summer yet.

What's the vibes? What's the vibes? I don't know. Maybe you can help me with this, to be honest, and use your psychic powers on me. But I don't really know. I feel bad saying this. I have a little bit of PTSD from last year because I found it really difficult with the girls and just the logistics of everything was just very intense. It is a lot. And it was my first time doing it as well. So there was that. Well, actually, no, it wasn't my first time doing it. It was my first time doing it with them being on the move. Yeah. So, and they weren't even fully on the move. Like, River was walking, but Blake wasn't. And then she hated like a baby gate on anything. So if we locked her in a room, like with the baby gate, she hated that. And it was just very testing. I honestly think

18 months old is a really difficult age. And it was just very, very challenging in that sense. She didn't sleep well either. Like, it was just hard. So I think that's put a bit of the fear in me to not want to go back for as long. I also struggled being away from here for that long. So we're trying to work out exactly how long to go back for. And then one of my friends has got a cottage that we could rent, which is amazing.

I know. I am considering that, yeah, but it's quite far out in a sense that we would definitely need a car for the whole time that we're there. So we need to figure out the logistics, obviously the expense of a car and renting somewhere to stay. Yeah. I don't know if I'm just being, basically what I'm trying to work out is I don't know if I'm just being a bit over the top and actually I'll be fine staying back with my family

or Andy's family and even though it's not the most, you know, comfortable necessarily to have everybody under one roof that whole time. Am I just being a bit dramatic and do it just needs to. It's hard. I think loads of people relate to this that come back to the UK from Dubai for the summer. It's hard. Like, you know, it's not your home. It's your parents' home.

Dynamics when you're back with parents can, loads of stuff comes up. So I think the cottage sounds great. And even if you just do the cottage for like, you know, the middle of it and have a little break, have the cottage and hire a car then or something like that. that might be an option. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, that is a good idea.

You know. So, yeah, maybe something like that. So we'll say. But yeah, we're just starting to think about that. We were thinking of stopping off on the way to make the flight a bit shorter. Like as in, you know, not short. Yeah, Europe somewhere. I mean, yeah.

But I don't even think we'll do that. I think we'll just brave it and just go for it. I think it'll be all right. I think they're, you know, I've got a good feel for you. They're definitely at a better age now than last year, 100%. And I know people say like terrible twos, but honestly I think I would take that over an 18 month old that can't like, because a lot of kids walk obviously earlier than that, but Blake was a bit later when it came to walking. So it was just very difficult.

Very, very difficult. But anyway, so yeah, so that's kind of what I've had going on. Oh, feel good. Fine. Yeah, not much else to report that. One of my hairdressers actually is leaving today and look at these flowers. Oh, they're beautiful. Oh, I saw them on your Instagram story. I can't see them. Yeah, but they are massive. And she bought them for me, which is really nice. I bought her some as well, but yes, that was really, really nice. Yeah, it was lovely, bless us. That was really sweet. So yeah, that's kind of all I've had going on, really. Love it. Love it, babes. So should we get

into today's topic? Let's do it. We thought we'd do a topic today, because when we were looking at the stats, we did see some of the spiritual topics definitely tend to get, um, um, a nice little hype so we thought let's give you some stuff. What are we going to talk about, Sam? You tell them. We are going to talk about manifesting. We are. We're going to share our stories, aren't we, as well.

Yes. Yeah, we'll share our stories on it. We'll share our tips on it, how we like to do it. Because we can potentially be quite different as well than this. Definitely a common theme, but we do definitely have different, you know, ways that we would approach it. But also we thought it's a perfect. and because we are coming up to the spring equinox. Yes, that's right.

So we've got the spring equinox on the 20th of March. And for those of you that are in the psychic circle, you'll see that we've got the Equinox challenge starting on the 10th of March. So this is like the time to manifest. And, you know, it is that spring. Things are emerging. Things are starting to come through. And you can start building out a bit more of a plan as well with your manifesting, you know.

So it's really quite exciting. I love this time of year to manifest. I find it really powerful and also really energising. You know, I think when we're manifesting the depths of winter, it can feel quite hard going and a bit of resistance. I find that myself anyway. And then as soon as this time of year comes, it all gets clearer.

So we work with the energy that's on our side. So, yeah, that's the plan. So what would you say has been one of the, what would you say has been one of the most shocking things that you've manifested. Gosh. So something when maybe it's happened and then you've gone like, oh wow, that actually just happened. Do you know what I mean?

Yeah. Well, I actually think moving to Dubai was one of them because and I use this manifesting technique and I didn't realize it was one until reflecting. But for my corporate job, I went on holiday and in corporate you have like, you have to change your password. I don't know, every certain amount of times. And because I had this holiday, I just kept changing it to like Dubai something, Dubai whatever. And like for like a year, I was just type in Dubai about 20 times a day every time I unlocked my computer.

And then I moved to Dubai. And I was like, I had no plans. I got offered the job in January with no plans to leave or move. And I was in Dubai by March. Like it was rapid and it was so subconscious and so detached. that I'm like, how did that happen? And then I was like, every day I'm typing that word subconsciously letting that come through. So yeah, so that's one of my wild manifestations.

I honestly think that the password one is a big one. I really do. I've done that loads with the password. And when I was pregnant, I changed my password on my laptop to healthy twins. It's actually still that now. So if anyone wants to break into my laptop, you can. but it's and I would just have to type that every day that I went onto my laptop just healthy twins healthy twins and the same kind of thing like I wasn't I wasn't being controlling over like

this weight this gender this you know like that way I was just being like healthy healthy twins healthy twins healthy twins and I do think that doing it as a password is a really really good way to do it well it's so like subconscious I didn't even know what I was doing And actually a friend of mine the other day, she told me, oh, you know, her partner had been typing in champions because Liverpool won the Champions League. And then they ended up buying a house down Champions Way. And he had been doing that for like a year. And he was like, how weird. Like I kind of accidentally manifested like the road we live down.

So I would definitely recommend that. And I've got a Mac and you've got the fingerprint option and like the face ID. I've actually taken that off. So every time I go onto my laptop, I have to type my password. So, yeah, that's a good idea. Yeah, so then it's really false and you have to really sort of think about it. Yeah. Oh, I love that.

What about you? I mean, I've manifested a lot of things. I think the thing that probably, the two things, one of the things that really stood out for me was the date that I gave birth. Yeah. because, and I know I've spoken about this before on here, but I'll just do it again in case anybody doesn't know about it. But I really, I knew around the time that the girls were going to be due, and I knew that I really wanted them.

I just put in my diary, I marked it on my calendar, the 2-2-24, and I just put two bear emojis on that day in my calendar, and I just really wanted them to come on that day, because I just loved the date. As it got closer and closer, I just kind of released that, and I was like, look, you just come whenever you want. And I would just speak to the, now I know the girls. And I would say, like, you can come whenever you want

as long as you're healthy, happy and strong. And every day I would just say that to them. And I said that for a really, really long time, like probably a good eight weeks, probably, of just having that conversation with them because there was a lot of obviously worried they were going to come earlier. And then they were booked in by C-section on, I think,

the 7th of Feb. And when it was booked, I just was like, okay it's not my day but okay I was like whatever you know if they come that day they come that day whatever and then obviously they had to move the day because of complications and they were like oh do I do this weekend what day you free and I was like Friday it works perfectly for me

which was 2-224 yeah and I went into labour on that day yeah you didn't you so they come in that day no matter what and it just and then when they came they didn't have to go into NICU and if you are someone who's aware of what like twin pregnancies are like or just small premature babies yeah it's absolutely wild to me that and so many people that they didn't have to go into NICU like Blake was four pounds she was tiny and River was five pounds so even River was tiny as well but Blake was really small like her fingers like these thin little things and like for them to not have to go into

Nick you, I just don't, that it just blew my mind and I just felt like I really manifested that. Yeah, absolutely. That's really cool. I know I was on the journey for that, but you definitely, you know, it always makes me think, was it psychic with that number as well? Like, was there this deep knowing that they actually were going to come on that day as well? I think so, because I don't think, because it was just not even, like, they were due technically in March. Yeah. And then when they said to me, you know, we'd pull it forward normally a few weeks. I was like, oh, okay, probably be around our wedding dates,

which was like the 19th of February. And then just as it got closer, I was like, no, I just looked at the calendar one day and I was like, no, that feels like the right day. But again, I just like released the how and the when. And then it did actually happen that it was that day. And when she said to me that I was in labor, I was like, that is wild.

Yeah, that is. Like, that isn't it in a knowing, isn't it? Yeah, definitely. But yeah, but I think one of the things that we really want people to understand when you are manifesting, well, let's speak about really what manifesting is. If you don't know what manifesting is, manifesting is thinking about something that you truly desire, that you truly want, and you don't have to have a reason necessarily for why you want this thing, but you just, you know in your heart that that's what you're destined for or that you really, really want. And it's doing actions to make it happen, but also releasing the how and the when to the universe. Mm-hmm. Yeah.

That's right, isn't it? Absolutely. And like the way I look at it is like playing with energy. You know, everything is energy and you can move it and you can expand it and you can shrink it. And there's so much you can do. And when you start understanding the power of energy, you know, you really can. sort of change your life in ways that, you know, it's quite hard to comprehend at times. Yeah, we did that.

So Jess did a workshop recently and there was a meditation in it. And in the meditation you said about holding a ball, didn't you? Yeah, I got everyone to hold that feeling of what they were manifesting. And, you know, when you sort of bounce your hands together and then you can kind of catch the energy in some way, yeah, it was good, wasn't it? It was so good. And I'd never done that before, but it really felt like strong. and I was like, oh, wow, this is really cool.

And I think that that's what's something that a lot of people can't quite wrap their head around is that it is physical and that there is, like you say, everything has energy. Yeah. And you just have to really get yourself into a different way of thinking and believing that anything is possible. Yeah, and the thing is, like, it's hard because it's not, not, we don't have a mind that allows us to think that everything is possible. So we're having to train the mind a lot, which I think can be quite difficult. And when I think about me when I was, you know, 10 years ago, you know, 21, 22, you know,

I could not comprehend the life I have now. Like, honestly, it's so, so wild that, you know, I couldn't believe that truly would have happened. But bit by bit I manifested, and I think that's the thing that people don't always realize is like it's sort of conscious manifesting like layer through layer. And I think what people, you know, with the secret and things, people, you know, you listen to it. And it's like, I manifested like a million dollars. And that's amazing, you know, and maybe their soul was meant to manifest a million dollars.

But I truly feel with manifesting it is layers and you work through each layer at a time because then you're able to do like the soul work. So like, you know, say someone gets given a million dollars and. and then they just gamble it all, then what's the point? You know, maybe they need to learn about the value of money and what that means to them. And maybe there's a lot more money lessons that have got to come up. And maybe that's why your money manifestations aren't happening as quickly or as easily

as, you know, you think you would. Because for me, I manifested love. I'm not even joking for about seven years. It took me that long to get that manifestation right. And I'm not saying everything should be, but my soul had so much, and I'm sure still so much more to learn about love. You know, so I had loads of healing to do. I had lots of anxious sort of behaviours in relationships, loads of stuff, you know. And it took me such a long time and it could be really disheartening that like it wasn't happening for me,

but it was maybe happening for someone else. But it just, there was work to be done. And manifesting can bring up work as well, I think. And that's why people don't really continue on their path with it because it involves seeing your blocks, your trauma, what needs to be healed. And, you know, I don't know. Yeah, absolutely.

I think, no, I 100% agree. I think that really ties into what you just said as well about how, like, you can manifest a million dollars. But if you don't know how to have a million dollars, then it doesn't matter. Yeah, it'll go. it as quickly as you've got it. Yeah. So with manifesting something doesn't mean that you get to keep it. You have to like, you know, learn. Like you say, you have to do the inner work alongside it.

And I think a lot of people manifest money and I manifest money. Some of my manifestations at the moment are about that. And what I realized was my manifestation was too high and it was too like unrealistic for what I needed right now. And when I was going to bid, I was sort of looking at the energy of this manifestation and spirit were like just just tweak it a bit like it's quite hard for us to give you this because it's sort of three layers away and I was like oh okay and then I actually fine-tuned a bit of the language as well in my manifestation and that's it's become clearer now and since I've sort of found that I'm feeling a difference and you find that as well like you might put out a manifestation and actually in a few months it may evolve and it may change because you've

realised actually that that language isn't right. It's like the genies wishes, you know, you wish for something and then you forget about all the other stuff that can come with it. So it is quite an interesting concept. So for the way I look at it, yeah, dare to, dare to think big, like I'm not saying don't, but like maybe establish a few steps that get you to each layer and then you manifest the first bit. And then, when you get to that, you spend some time with gratitude and really sort of honouring that before you then move to like the next step. That's, that's how I see it, you know? Yeah. Yeah, yeah, 100%. I think that manifesting is something that can be so powerful and you're used in such

incredible ways. But I think that you have got to be resilient with it as well. Like, it's not just a case of you make a wish one day and then it happens. Yeah. You know, like you have to really stick to it and believe in it, but also again, release the how and the when, because that doesn't matter. That's not your job to work out how it's going to happen or when it's going to happen. It's your job to decide what it is that you want and put actionable steps in place to make it happen. So for example, somebody actually said this to me once. They were like, if I really want to get pregnant though, then what's that step, you know? So what I would say is if you're somebody who wants to get pregnant, then this is what I did actually.

this is probably, I don't know why I didn't think of it this way. So I knew that I wanted to get pregnant. I knew I wanted twins and I had twins. I don't know why I didn't think of this actually when you just were asking me that when I was saying about that. But anyway, so I had twins on my vision board for as soon as I got married pretty much, if not even before I got married. I had a picture that I just got from Pinterest of these two like matching jumpers

and pictures of these two feet next to one another, like basically. baby's feet and that was it. I didn't, I wasn't thinking the gender. I wasn't thinking anything else. I just knew that I really, really wanted twins. And then anyway, as a lot of you know, went through, trying to get pregnant, just nothing was happening. So then what I was doing to be able to manifest being pregnant at that point, to be honest, I kind of released the twin part of it just to get pregnant in the first place is I started to prepare myself to be pregnant. So, I knew that if I was going to be pregnant, I needed to be healthy. So I did stop drinking, like, or maybe I would have the odd one, but nowhere near the same.

I started relaxing. I started working less. And not everybody can obviously do that, but it's even if you can't reduce your workload, you could maybe reduce how you show up to work to stop taking on people's problems as much, you know, like put on your phone on, do not disturb, but from 8pm or whatever it is. And I really took a step back from a lot of things and people even. And I started having acupuncture three times a week. Now, the acupuncture that I was going to was so inconvenient.

It was the other end of town to where I was working and living. It was so inconvenient. But I was like, no, I'm making this a priority because I know that I'm going to get pregnant and my body needs to be healthy to be able to carry, you know, a baby. And obviously then I ended up having fertility treatment. as well, which is obviously what led me to having my twins. Yeah. So I think if you are somebody who is wanting to get pregnant,

then you need to create the best version of you to be able to carry that baby. And if you're wanting to manifest a partner, you need to be the best version of you in that relationship. Yeah. And people might have heard it before, but it's things like clear out your wardrobe, have space in your wardrobe, for that partner to be able to,

leave some stuff at your house. Because right now, if your house is full to the brim of stuff, then there's no space for anyone to come into your life right now. Yeah. No, completely. And it's energy when you think about it. I always say this to clients. Like, you have this amount of energy that's filled with like baggage and whatever.

There's no room for the new stuff. So like you have got to make room for it. And also sort of live in that authentic way of, you know, it's kind of like, take it to you make it. And I know some people don't like that quite. quote, but I think it's a really good one. And I do really think sometimes you've just got a force a bit of energy to then kind of get into it.

Because like when I think about all the things like I've done in my life, like every time I've started something, I'm like, God, I'm not very good at this. I don't really know what I'm doing. And then I get better. And that's the same with manifesting. Like you might think, oh, God, this feels a bit, you know, weird, type in this number for my monthly earnings or, you know, but it will feel weird. And then eventually it will feel normal and then eventually you'll learn it.

Like everything has a bit of that. And I think it is powerful. But yeah, like I definitely think for me, you know, when it comes to, like when I was sort of manifesting this relationship, like every time I sort of dated someone or there was like a situation, I could see that some of my manifestations were coming true and like the type of person they were and things like that. But then there were a few bits that they weren't. and I could look at those few things and go,

ah, this is what I'm missing now. So why am I not getting that? Okay, there's some more work for me to do. So, like, I'm sure you guys might remember, but there was like the Aussie guy while I was travelling. And like he just wasn't very like into quality time. I love quality time. And I was like, this isn't going to work for me

because he needs like a lot of time on his own and whatever. And then I was like, okay. What have I got to do here to like work on this? And then I've met Ben and Ben's my best day and we basically spend nearly like every hour together unless he's at work. And that suits me and I manifested that. Like I said after that, I thought, no, what's really important to me is that I'm with someone who actually wants to be with me through the boring stuff.

And that's like the other day we were driving to be in Q and Ben laughed. He was like, I didn't really sort of think this would be that enjoyable. But it's nice, isn't it? And I'm like, yeah. Yeah. To get her over to giggle and put our music on. And I was like, oh, like I realized what was good and what wasn't good. And then I updated my manifestation, you know.

And money's a really powerful one as well because you can manifest money. And I've definitely done this. So like when I was traveling, obviously, Southeast Asia, not being funny, it's very cheap. Work was going really well for me. And I had quite a lot of money in the bank that was just sort of sitting there. my tenant leaves my flat all of a sudden need the mortgage paid and no one's there so all that money I had then went into paying my mortgage and I was like so I've manifested this money like like thank god I've got it because I've been able to cover my mortgage but actually I wanted a bit more fun money

or like money that was like not on these commitments and things so what I've started to learn with my money manifestations is like money for bills is crucial. And I think, I don't know, I've always been able to pay my bills wherever I've been in my financial city, always, because there's like this energy or this consciousness that you just have to. Like there's just this moral compass there. And what I found was then there wouldn't be much more spending money for me because I would be like, right, I've just got to cover my bills. And then that would be it. And that literally would happen so well, And so now I'm like, cover my bills, cover my outgoings and then fund money, you know. And like I say that now, like I would like more fun money.

Like I would like money that can be a bit more if I'm shopping or I want to go out for a lunch. Do you know what I mean? Like, and it's sort of, because you can have the money like I did. And then it all goes on something that you're like, oh, God. And that's where I think it is like the genies wish. Like you have to kind of be mindful of your life. language and what it is and it's trial and error. Like you'll keep learning as it goes, you know, with whatever you're manifesting.

Yeah. And it's opening your mind up to all the possibilities of it as well. Yeah. Yeah. Because like you said, you can manifest money. But if you're not being direct with exactly where that's going or what that's for, then that's where then, yeah, it could slip into old patterns or like you said, I don't know, maybe you'd never thought that, so let's say, right, say you manifested a thousand pounds,

but then like you said, your tenant left, send that thousand pounds, like that, but you were never actually visualising yourself as having a thousand pound to just blow. Yeah, a thousand pounds to just go and have fun with. Like, whereas, yeah, like you say now, you're thinking of it like, no, I actually just want that money to go and have fun with. I want to go to the Ned for my birthday brunch, you know. And yeah, until you experience those things start to happen, it opens your mind, opens your eyes to the other possibilities as well.

I think money is a really big one. I think a lot of people want to manifest money as well, but like you say, they need to do the inner work first to be able to know how to actually handle it when it does come to them. The other thing with manifesting money that I think is really important, money comes to you in so many different ways to what you ever could think. and a lot of people who are in a set salary job think they can't manifest any more money

because they have a set salary that they get and then that's it. And that is just not true. That is your mindset that you've been conditioned to think that way. And that's absolutely not true. Like money can come to you in a sense that you could go to a coffee with your mate

and your mate buys your coffee. Yeah. Well, you're just £5 up because you didn't have to pay for your coffee, you know, or you go somewhere, and they give you, it's buy one, get one free. So you get an extra back. Well, you've just actually just made 10 pound

because you were going to buy two anyway, but now one of them's free. Yeah. But it's open in your eyes and your mind to see things in a different way. Well, that's why I sort of brought money up as one of the main things because I think so many people want to work with that. And I think it's because money is such a physical form of energy. Like we have to give money to receive something.

So there's this constant sort of back and forth. One, like a few things I've done is when I spend money, like I try as much as I can to spend it with like gratitude as well. So I had someone who's going to do a little bit of social media work for me and I had to pay the invoice. I made sure I sent it before Mercury retrograde. And I just sent it really detached. I was just like that money is going to be used in such a good way.

I'm not even like thinking, oh God, I could have, could have spent it on this or could have spent it on that. So like things like that are a really good practice. But also, when you manifest, you will see your limitations. So if you are in a salary job, which I was for like 10 years, I found that I always hit a limit. I could just never really seem to get a job that paid more than that or whatever I seemed to take every month after tax and everything was always sort of the same.

And I realized I had built this like energy limitation. So that's what's really powerful as well because you can see your blind spots with manifesting and I think that's what I was sort of saying at the beginning and a bit like when I was explaining about different people with dating and then that's helped me with my manifesting. It is a journey. Sorry, I need to cough.

Sorry. It is like this journey where you're going to see parts of you that maybe you've avoided. And that's sort of what we do just to sort of mention with the psychic circle when we do that manifesting. Those of you that did it last year, you'll remember on one of the days, I basically said, now I want you to spend like 20 minutes writing all the reasons why you don't deserve this.

And it was like, you know, I'm not hard working enough for my money. And it was sort of people were messaging me like, God, this is brutal. And I was like, that is what you now need to work with. Like if you work with that and see that they're the beliefs you need to change, It's all well and good gaslighting yourself to say I'm going to be 10K richer. But if you actually are honest and write down the things that are true beliefs that you've built about why you can't have it, if you can rewire them, you'll manifest it. Yeah, absolutely.

Yeah, I completely agree. Because I did that with love. I think I spent a lot of mine on love last year. And I remember being like, oh, you know, but there was these really. horrible thoughts that I had about myself, like, oh, I'm too much of this or, you know, I'm too independent and now, you know, and all these sort of beliefs that I'd been sort of built inside me. And I looked at them all and I was like, it's just a load of bollocks. Like, I just have this because of old trauma and whatever. And like now this is a chance to rewrite it. And I think that's

the power of this. So I see this as like deep soul work. I think that's why manifesting is such a big thing because actually it is an opportunity to do soul work and also with manifesting. Like I manifest with a lot of rituals. Like I'm much more ritual based when it comes to mind. So I have so many spells like sitting in the corner of my room at the moment and they're like health, everything. You know, there's there's so many things. And I do my spells on like really significant days.

So I do tend to do it on New Year's Eve. I'll do a spring equinox one. I'll do one probably for my birth. birthday, like there's so many rituals I build where I'm consciously like working with the energy. But the thing is, with all of this, if you're not detached, it just won't happen. And that's the hardest lesson in all ways. You know, when you want something, you're always obsessing over it. It just can't come.

I don't know about you, Sam, but whenever I've obsessed it. Yeah, yeah, no, I do agree with you. Yeah, absolutely. But the thing is as well, you're kind of like blocking yourself from getting it in what could be a much better way. Yeah. Yeah. So like I think, yeah, I think for me, for example, with wanting to get pregnant, for example, and being so like, you know, desperate in that sense, maybe I was then actually blocking myself when I'd probably release that. Yeah.

And then I did facility treatment. I got two kids. Yeah. No, but that's it. Lots of people say that. And, you know, I kind of got to a point last year where I said to myself, you know, life shouldn't be about finding someone. Life should just be about happiness. Do you want to spend your 30s trying to find someone?

And then as soon as I sort of did that, you know, this shift happened. And I think that's it. And detachment is one of the most spiritual things we can do, which is probably the hardest. And that's why we're all here learning it. And also, especially Dubai, but especially social media, everyone around you has everything by the looks of it, you know. So you feel like you're missing out and like you're hard done by. Like there can really be that as well.

And I think it's such a big reminder to like stay in your own lane when you're manifesting and really sort of stay true to yourself because if it's not, then it won't align and it won't bring your happiness. Yeah, I agree. I think that's where you have to really. think about what it is that you want and not what you think you should want or not what you think you should have. Yeah. Yeah, 100%. I think manifesting with music is a really good one as well. That is a good one. Love that. Tell me more about that. I love man. So I have on my phone,

on my Spotify, I have a playlist that is just called power and it's songs that are on it that, for me, like, they kind of like light a spark in me. Like when I listen to them, I'm like, you know, charged up, I'm ready to go for the day, like I'm buzzing. And it's kind of, then I can, I'll be driving, for example, and let's say I'm listening to that and it instantly puts me in a good mood. And it just raises my vibration and makes me start thinking about the things that I really want or the things that I want to manifest and how I can make them happen. And I remember I used to, like, walk really fast on the treadmill or, you know, be in the gym or

whatever and I would listen to these songs on this playlist and visualize what it would be like getting that thing. My wedding was a really big one. I would literally listen to like my first dance song, the going down the aisle song all the time in the car, in the gym, whatever it was. And I would just, in my head, I'd be like, this will be the best day of my life and everyone I love will be there. And it was like, that was a massive, massive thing for me. my wedding was at the time of COVID. So a 70 guests had to have COVID test before they came to the wedding. And every single one of them was negative.

Yeah. That's unreal. Like that's quite crazy really. And when you think about it at that time. And nobody even got COVID when they were here either. So it was, you know, insane really. But like I say, with that, I just listened to those songs every single day. And it was just like, I knew that that was going to happen.

and yeah I think Manifesto my music is a really good one I love that I think that's a really nice thing and gratitude gratitude is massive I will like journal most mornings if I if I have time or at some point through the day I try to and it'll just be a case of saying how thankful I am for what is coming to me and what I already have and also with gratitude you can simplify it by just literally writing free words of like three things you're grateful for It doesn't need to be like a really big practice. But yeah, I agree gratitude is a big one. Yeah, absolutely.

Yeah. One of the other things I was thinking about that I would say I've probably manifested was my dog. Yeah. Because he was really random how it came about. But I had a picture of a dog very similar to him on, again, on a vision board and I knew that I always wanted a dog. And I, long story short, ended up finding.

him really randomly. He was the only dog left. It was like just a very random situation as to how it came about. And we ended up calling him Ernie because that was my granddad's name. And we took him to the vets to get him checked over. And she was like, oh, you know, everything's great. But have you noticed his eye? And I was like, no. And she said, oh, he's, I don't even know which eye it is now. I think it's his right eye. Looks a bit like glazed over and it's a lot smaller. And I was like, oh, I've never even noticed. Anyway, that was that. She's like, it doesn't seem like anything to worry about.

And then that evening, Andy said to me, is that not the weirdest thing? And I was like, why? And he said, because your granddad had a glass eye. And like his eye looked very similar to what Ernie's does. And yeah, it was just crazy. But I feel like I manifested him specifically. Yeah. Do you know what to mean?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And that's the thing. And I think, like, what I was thinking as you was speaking, we're such different manifesters in a synonymous. of you get your manifestations, I feel quite quickly. Yes. There are a lot more like instant manifestations. And my manifestations are much more gradual.

And like I go a bit more on the journey, I think of like, teaching me, what is showing me. And that's what's really nice because we both have different styles. And that means that different people will relate to like what you do or how I do it. Because there's different ways. And like the way I see it with my, my sort of manifestations, they're for me like the pillars or like the foundations of my like long term life. So I'm always sort of looking at things like, you know, with my business.

This is sort of, you know, for the long term. And, you know, and then, you know, financially it's sort of building that like legacy that I'm trying to build more financially for myself and all these different things. And like love, like I say, seven years it took me, you know, and I wouldn't change those seven years because I think I could have manifested a love quicker but it wouldn't have been the right love for me or the healthy love. Yeah. Like, you know, there is different paces and different styles and the thing is your style

really works for you. Like it's so like it matches your energy. You're sort of much more get up and go make things happen. Because of that, your manifestations match that. And I think that shows to people that are listening don't, compare your manifesting to our manifesting, compare it to like yourself and your own journey and know that everyone's different, everyone's on a different path, but it's really powerful and it's really magical.

And we both, you know, Sam's got her podcast. So if Sam's sort of style works for you, then go and listen to that because that is going to be like completely fueling your sort of style of manifesting. And if my style suits you, then come over to the psychic. circle because we're going to be doing some bits in March that you'll love. So there's, there's resources there and manifesting in a collective is really powerful. Like if you can do that, then yeah, very, very, very good stuff can happen. I agree. Do you want to say one thing that you're manifested now? I'm manifesting, what am manifesting right now? I'm manifesting a more

consistent sort of passive income from my subscriptions. So the reason I'm manifesting that is for when the time comes when I'm a mum, because I also want to be a mum and have children, I would like to have my work to be more flexible. It's obviously very flexible now, but when I'm with clients, I love being with clients, but it consumes me and I feel like I dedicate my life to it. And I don't know how I will combine that with motherhood. So right now I am manifesting this lovely sort of business that's more subscription-based that can really help people that gives me financial independence

so that I can be like the best mum and live like a happy life for me without it being to my detriment because sometimes this work has caused me to be very heavy and deep in my emotions. So that's what I'm manifesting. Love that. Yeah, well about you. Um, mine would be, I've probably two main things. One of the main things would be to have a space to be able to work from home. Yeah. Comfortably, um, soundproof. And yeah, a, my own little space from home to be able to work would be really, really nice. Um, and then my big one, which is more of like a long term manifestation, um, is I would love to see my podcast. Um,

one day on a billboard. Love that. I would just love, that's like a vision. I'd just love to just see it, drive past it and be like, wow, that would be amazing. Definitely. Well, I love that, babe. And I think all these things will definitely be there

with our manifesting energy. Absolutely. Well, I hope everybody has enjoyed that episode. Please feel free to send in some questions, anonymous questions for next weeks, well, the one after the next episode. The link is in our bio on Instagram. We are at Spircially Speaking underscore podcast.

The question can be about anything. So just go to town, have fun with that. And we will answer them in the next episode. If you want to get us on Instagram, Jess is at Jessica Marie underscore holistic and I am at samantha green.tghe. Love it. Thanks guys. We'll enjoy your manifesting. Lots of love.

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