Start With A Win - The Secret to Building High-Performing Teams / Mike Robbins

Episode Date: March 5, 2025

⚡️FREE RESOURCE: 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵'𝘴 𝘞𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘓𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱?  ➡︎ https://adamcontos.com/myleadershipWant we...ekly leadership content? Go here ➡︎ https://adamcontos.comIn this episode of Start With a Win, host Adam Contos sits down with leadership expert and former pro baseball player Mike Robbins to explore the essence of high-performing teams. From the boardroom to the playing field, they discuss the power of culture, chemistry, and commitment in building winning organizations. With insights from Mike’s experience working with top companies like Google and Microsoft, this conversation unpacks what it truly means to be a team, how great leaders foster trust and accountability, and why positive competition elevates everyone. Don't miss this deep dive into leadership, mindset, and teamwork!Mike Robbins is a renowned keynote speaker, author, and leadership expert known for captivating audiences with his insights on team performance and company culture. His five books, including his latest, We’re All In This Together, have made him a leading voice in the field, while his dynamic approach to public speaking has earned him accolades from some of the biggest organizations in the world.A former star baseball player, Mike transitioned from the sports field to the corporate world after an injury ended his career. He quickly rose through the ranks in sales and business development, eventually founding his own consulting firm in 2001. Since then, he has delivered keynote speeches and seminars to Google, Microsoft, Airbnb, and Harvard University, among others, showcasing his ability to resonate with everyone from corporate executives to college students. Mike blends relatable stories with actionable advice, making complex concepts accessible and inspiring for diverse audiences. His work has been featured on NPR, ABC News, Fast Company, and The New York Times, and he is a regular contributor to Forbes.His passion for helping people and teams thrive, combined with his energetic style and sense of humor, ensures a lively and inspiring discussion.00:00 Intro01:50 What does it take to call ourselves this…03:45 If you have this then you have a chance to have this!06:45 How to maintain cultural integrity?09:45 Can imposter syndrome be positive?  12:20 This can really mess with you however it really is exciting…16:28 There is a billion people that don’t care!  18:18 Difference between appreciation and recognition. 21:09 A coach/leader needs to ask this…25:19 A series of things…https://mike-robbins.com/===========================Subscribe and Listen to the Start With a Win Podcast HERE:📱 ===========================YT ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@AdamContosCEOApple ➡︎ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/start-with-a-win/id1438598347Spotify ➡︎ https://open.spotify.com/show/4w1qmb90KZOKoisbwj6cqT===========================Connect with Adam:===========================Website ➡︎ https://adamcontos.com/Facebook  ➡︎ https://facebook.com/AdamContosCEOTwitter  ➡︎ https://twitter.com/AdamContosCEOInstagram  ➡︎ https://instagram.com/adamcontosceo/#adamcontos #startwithawin #leadershipfactory

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Starting point is 00:00:00 So it's like I often say to managers, look, here's a great conversation you can have with everybody on your team, however big or small the team is. Sit down with them and say, hey, if I wanted to motivate you and get the most out of you, what could I do? Tell me some things I could do that would really work for you. That makes a huge difference in the chemistry and the performance of the team. Because a lot of times people hate change and how do we how do we deal with that on a team? Welcome to Start with a Win, where we unpack leadership, personal growth and development, and how to build a better business. Let's go.
Starting point is 00:00:30 Have you ever wondered how to build a team culture that really works? Today we talk about that on Start with a Win. Coming to you from Area 15 Ventures and Start with a Win headquarters, it's Adam Kontos with Start with a Win. We're sitting down with Mike Robbins, a guy who knows a thing or two about creating winning teams and thriving workplaces. From being a star baseball player to becoming a sought after keynote speaker
Starting point is 00:00:53 and author of five books, including We're All In This Together, Mike's insights have helped companies like Google, Microsoft, and Airbnb. If you're ready to hear some powerful lessons on leadership and company culture, you won't want to miss this conversation. Mike, welcome to Start with a Win. Yeah, great to be here.
Starting point is 00:01:12 Thanks for having me, Adam. Awesome, Mike. I mean, I'm really excited about this conversation because I love team building. I love the leadership mindset and how the influence of leadership impacts so many people on a daily basis, both in the small business space, whether or not
Starting point is 00:01:27 you run on a small store or something like that, and you're leading the people that walk in the door to the cash register, or you're in big business and you have a team and you have to accomplish something. But I want to start with that word team. I think we overuse the word and underappreciate what it stands for, Mike. And you've done so much work on it.
Starting point is 00:01:46 You're a professional baseball player on a team. You've consulted to so many different large firms. Tell us, what is a team and what's it take for us to actually call ourself a team? I think it's an interesting kind of basic question, but a good one, I think, Adam. Because really, to me, a team is a group of people who are committed to each other and committed to something bigger than themselves.
Starting point is 00:02:08 So you know from being in the military, that's sort of the ultimate being committed to something bigger than yourself. But even as an athlete, I felt like the best teams that I was on, yeah, we had some talent. Of course, you got to have some good players. Just like in business, you got to have some smart people who know what they're doing. I imagine in the military, too, you want people who know how to handle the different things they have to handle, because we're talking about life and death. But at the end of the day, it's really
Starting point is 00:02:32 about the trust and the connection that the humans have with each other and the commitment to the larger purpose of what we're trying to do. Oh, totally. I love that. And you've talked before about kind of this, OK, we have a superstar or whatever.
Starting point is 00:02:47 And I've looked at comparing. You've got, for instance, in the National Football League, you have a pro-ball team, which is like all these superstars. And actually, they don't function very well together, frankly, when you look at it. And then you have a Super Bowl team who has a great leader. You've got a couple of key leaders in the team. But for the most part, everybody is
Starting point is 00:03:07 focused on doing their job for each other. I mean, what's your perspective on having all these prima donnas or egos or whatever versus how I get the rest of these people to function well? Right, I mean, all-star teams in sports are interesting because you look around and you think, oh, wow, pro-Bowl team or all-star team in basketball or baseball or hockey. It's like, oh, we have all the best players.
Starting point is 00:03:30 You think about the Olympics over the years. Sometimes it's challenging. I mean, the USA basketball team pulled it out at the end and Steph Curry was amazing, who by the way is my, I'm a little biased just because I'm here in the Bay Area and I'm a huge Warriors fan. I love Steph. But the thing about it is though is really that in sports, we see this a lot. Sometimes the team you root for, you go sign some great players in the off season.
Starting point is 00:03:52 They come in and it's like, oh, they don't quite have the chemistry because that's what's really important in sports, just like in business. And I often say, again, I use Steph Curry as an example. And whether you're a basketball fan or not, it's like Steph is not only this incredibly talented player, but he's such a great teammate. And if your best player is also one of your best teammates, then you got a chance to be a really great team. So like in a small business even, if the smartest person, or maybe it's you, or the salesperson, or the person in a bigger company, again, it's the CEO or the person who's
Starting point is 00:04:25 producing the results at the highest level. If that person actually has the ability to focus on not just themselves, not just what they're doing and their outcomes, but other people and making other people better, that makes a huge difference in the chemistry and the performance of the team. You talk about chemistry and performance,
Starting point is 00:04:44 and you use the word culture a lot. How does that play into it? How do we build a culture? What, what is that? Well, you know, I mean, there's lots of cliches, right? The whole, you know, culture strategy for breakfast, I think is a good one when you think about it. And for me, Adam, coming into, you know, I, I played baseball growing up, I got to play at Stanford. I got a chance to play professionally in the Kansas City Royals Organization.
Starting point is 00:05:06 I hurt my arm when I was still in the minor leagues, but I played baseball from the age of seven until I finally retired at 25 after four surgeries on my pitching arm. And I couldn't quite articulate it when I was young because I didn't really understand it, but there was that thing that again, was about rooting for each other, being more focused on
Starting point is 00:05:27 the team succeeding than simply the individual performance. And look, it's not that even on the best teams I was on in terms of chemistry and culture, people still wanted to do well individually. We all still wanted to get drafted or get to the big leagues or whatever the individual ambition was. But we put the success of the team above the individual ambitions. And that is, by the way, really hard to do in our society because we focus, I mean, I often joke and say, what's teamwork called when we're in school?
Starting point is 00:05:56 Cheating, right? It's like, we don't really work well. We're not trained well to work in teams until you go into the military or sports or other things. And even by the way, in sports nowadays, it's still like, are you going to make the varsity team? Are you going to get a scholarship? Are you going to get the biggest contract?
Starting point is 00:06:11 And so it takes a lot of faith, quite frankly, to count on each other, lean on each other, and trust. If we believe in something bigger than just our individual accomplishments, we're going to be OK. That's interesting because it seems like we have this very fine line when there comes time for a promotion or cuts on the team.
Starting point is 00:06:32 Maybe you're working so well with, maybe you're a first baseman, and you're working so well with the other first baseman. But it comes down to, we only have so many first basemen on the team, so somebody has to go. And you go from being team member to competitor. How do you maintain a little bit of that cultural integrity when everything's said and done when it comes down
Starting point is 00:06:56 to who gets voted off the island? Well, I mean, so I get drafted by the Kansas City Royals in 1995, and I go to spring training in 96. The way baseball works, the draft's in June. You go off and play sort of the short season. Next year, I go back to spring training. I'm so excited. I've dreamed about this my entire life. I'm in minor league camp. I get there, pitchers and catchers report a little early. I put on my uniform. It's a big league uniform. I mean, a couple of years old, it's got my name on the back. I mean, I'm like a little kid. It's like I felt when I was playing Little League and I'd put on my uniform at seven in the
Starting point is 00:07:27 morning for a three o'clock game, right? Go out to the practice field and we have a meeting. And I knew some of the guys because I'd played with them in the summer before, but as they're talking to us in the meeting, I count how many pitchers there are. And there were 75 pitchers in the meeting. And I counted again, I'm like, there's 75. And then they told us during the meeting, there was 25 more pitchers, what they said across the street, meaning in big league camp. That meant there were a hundred pitchers in camp with the Kansas City Royals. And about three weeks later, probably 25 of us or so were going to get cut. And I looked around and I remember thinking to myself, these dudes are not my friends. Cause it was really kind of a me or you thing. But what
Starting point is 00:08:01 I learned that very first spring training, I didn't get cut. Thankfully, I made one of the minor league teams, but I was miserable. I didn't pitch well. I had knots in my stomach. And I thought to myself, I don't think I'm going to make it to the big leagues by rooting against everyone around me. And I say that because it's very natural for us as human beings to have that fear or that scarcity. And sometimes in life and in business, someone gets the promotion and we don't, or someone gets the promotion and we don't, or someone gets the business and we don't, or we got a downsize and someone loses their job. That's real. And I believe there's a difference between positive and negative competition.
Starting point is 00:08:36 Negative competition is when we root against each other, coming from a place of fear and scarcity that, Adam, if you're successful, that somehow takes away from my success. Positive competition is when we push each other, challenge each other. Yes, we compete, but we do it knowing that if you and I compete, it's going to make both of us better. And at the end of it, I might lose ultimately, I might lose my job, lose the business, have to do something else, but I'll still be better off because I competed with you and you helped me raise the bar.
Starting point is 00:09:02 We've all had that experience in life and in business. The question is, where are we coming from when we engage in that competition? That's amazing. I remember the, and I'm sure you remember this, when Usain Bolt was in the Olympics. Yeah. And all of these other runners were running against him.
Starting point is 00:09:18 And Usain won the race, but the next two people behind him broke world records. So they actually ran faster than a new scene had ever run. Totally. And even though they didn't win the gold medal, they both broke world records and set personal best because they were competing against the group. The group was rising together in the competition.
Starting point is 00:09:43 It was amazing. And I'm a big believer in putting ourselves in situations where we get stretched, we get pushed, we're afraid. Maybe I'm not good enough to be here. We have a bit of that imposter syndrome. I actually think imposter syndrome can be a really positive thing if we
Starting point is 00:09:57 don't freak out about it. Another example from my own life when I was playing sports, I got recruited out of high school from different colleges. And education was really important in my family. I grew up in the San Francisco Bay area. And the two schools I was most interested in were UC Berkeley and Stanford. Both good schools, both good baseball programs, both local, and they were both recruiting me. Now, Stanford's program was a national program, had won a couple national championships, recruited all over the country. Cal's program, while good, not quite as strong as Stanford's. Cal was recruiting me really hard, and I was tempted
Starting point is 00:10:30 to go there. I really wanted to go to Stanford, but I was scared because I was like, I don't know if I'm going to get to pitch at Stanford. They're recruiting all the best players in the country. Cal's recruiting some really good players, especially in California, but it felt safer to me to go to Cal than to Stanford because I thought I'd have more of a chance to play. At the end of the day, I ended up deciding to go to Stanford, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made because, yes, it was more challenging, but I felt like it made me a better player, and it also changed my mindset. This is no disrespect to Cal, and I probably would have had a great experience there and
Starting point is 00:11:02 a great education, but there was something about being on the baseball team at Stanford and also being a student at Stanford, that there were kids from all over the country. And they weren't so smart and so talented, I felt like I couldn't keep up. But they had this thing, almost everyone I met at Stanford had this thing, that it was like when it came time to like, who wants to do the thing?
Starting point is 00:11:21 They would raise their hand and say, I'll do it. And I was like, maybe that's important. Is the willingness to just say, me, whether you think you're ready or not? And my friends that I played baseball at at Stanford, and some of my friends that I was just in school with there, we're now all 50 years old now. I've seen them be incredibly successful.
Starting point is 00:11:40 And I don't think it's because they're so much smarter or more talented than other people. I think it's more the mindset of, I'll do it. And that taught me at an early age, like put yourself in a situation, even if you think the people around you are better than you, it will make you better, as long as you don't let your ego get all bent out of shape about it.
Starting point is 00:11:57 I love that. It's so amazing. And some serious competitors, both in the business phase as well as in sports, have come out of Stanford. So there's something to be said about building that mindset. Speaking of mindset, I want to talk a little bit about change. Because change is like this big, I mean, it's crazy with your mindset.
Starting point is 00:12:17 It really messes with you. And you always talk about how change is exciting. Can you get into that a little bit for us? Because a lot of times, people hate change. And how do we deal with that on a team? Well, I've done a lot of research on change. I get brought in to speak a lot, small businesses, big companies, when there's change going on.
Starting point is 00:12:35 And I mean, gosh, look at the last five years. Right. Oh my goodness, how much change have we all gone through? And look, we don't know exactly what's coming. But whether it's political or social change, whether it's economic change, whether it's technological change with artificial intelligence and other things, safe to say, the next five years are probably going to involve quite a bit of change as well.
Starting point is 00:12:53 Most of us as human beings seek and fear change at the same time. We seek change. Like everybody listening to us, watching us, you wouldn't be listening or watching if you weren't interested in change in a positive way. Like I want to grow, I want to get better, I want to be more effective. But then there's the change that just happens, right? It's like the economy changes, the weather changes, there's something that happens in our life that we don't particularly like or in the business or in the market that we're in. And the fear part of change is that it's unsettling, even positive change. Sometimes,
Starting point is 00:13:24 I mean, I talk to people sometimes it's like, I Even positive change. Sometimes, I mean, I talk to people sometimes it's like, I got married, I bought my dream home, I got my dream job. And then there's this weird, like, it's kind of upsetting, not like it's a bad thing, but it's like, wow, is this all there is? Or am I good enough for whatever, you know, it's like, I remember when my wife and I, when we, when our family moved into this house that we've lived in for the last eight years that we love, it was like a week after we moved in and we were so happy. And I leaned over to Michelle and I was like, I don't know why I feel upset. And she's like, me too. And we were like embarrassed, but there was this sense of like, this was this huge change that we were so happy about.
Starting point is 00:13:56 But so I think it's important to have some grace with ourselves to know that change can be upsetting, even if it's positive change, if it's more negative change, of course, we sort of understand it's going to be upsetting, but so much of it has to do with how we relate to it. What's the story we're telling ourselves about it and what's the story we're telling everyone else about it? Now, we don't want to be phony, Pollyanna, like, isn't this great? We just had to lay off half the company. No, that's not a positive change, but there is opportunity even when those things happen. And a lot of it is, again, how are we thinking about it? How are we talking about it?
Starting point is 00:14:29 So we're generating fear and stress when we talk about that, right? Yeah. I mean, essentially, we have to convince ourselves to turn that fear and stress into optimism and opportunity. Is that? Yeah. I think so.
Starting point is 00:14:42 And look, I mean, we all know this physiologically, like excitement and fear in the body are almost exactly the same. Yeah. And I've learned this. I'm sure, Adam, you've learned this as well through your life and career in public speaking, right? Something I do all the time. I know you do a lot of, it's terrifying for most humans
Starting point is 00:14:57 to get up in front of other humans and speak, right? And sometimes people say to me, they'll see me speak, and they'll say, wow, it's so amazing you don't get nervous. And I'm like, what are you talking about? I don't get nervous. I'm a human being like everyone else. Like, yeah, I'm not as terrified as I was 25 years ago before I started doing this for a living.
Starting point is 00:15:12 But what I've learned over the years of public speaking, just like as an athlete, I've learned some techniques to take my fear and that physiological sensation in my body that's happening. Like if I'm up on stage and there's 3000 people in a big ballroom in Las Vegas for an event, like, yeah, my body's actually vibrating and my legs are shaking a little, like all that's happening. I just have a very different story in my head. The story isn't like, oh my gosh, I'm going to forget what I'm going to say and they're all going to hate me and they're going to walk out and think I'm an idiot. The story is, how cool is this? I get to do this for a living? Let's go. And that's the way for me that I'm able to then tap into the excitement of it
Starting point is 00:15:49 as opposed to get overwhelmed by the fear. And look, we all have that ability. You may not want to get up and speak in front of thousands of people, but you can transform the fear by acknowledging it, but then choosing a different path. Awesome. I love that.
Starting point is 00:16:05 There's so much to learn here, folks. And I'll tell you what, the first time you ever hear somebody poke their head back from upstage, and they're like, there's 10,000 people out there. Are you ready? It's a little unnerving. But you go out and you do it. It's like getting off a roller coaster when you're done.
Starting point is 00:16:21 Yeah. Totally. And the thing is, with so many things in life that we get ourselves so freaked out about, I often, one of the things I'll often ask when I'm speaking to groups, I'm like, how many of you worry what other people think about you? Right?
Starting point is 00:16:32 And most people and most audiences will raise their hand. And I say, look, I do too. We all do. It's part of being human. I was like, but one of my favorite sayings, I don't even know who said this, but you wouldn't worry so much about what other people think
Starting point is 00:16:42 about you if you realize how little they actually did. Because who are most people thinking about? Themselves. Themselves. Exactly. Even when you're sort of on the hot seat in a situation, yeah, they're thinking about you for the moment, but mostly they've just got a million other things they're thinking about related to themselves. So, I had an old baseball coach that used to say like after a really bad
Starting point is 00:17:01 game, he'd go, well, good news and bad news. What do you want? And I'd be like, bad news. So bad news is you pitch terrible. The good news is there's a billion people in China who have no idea and don't care. Right? He would just try to put it in context that, like, it wasn't that big of a deal in the scheme of things. And I appreciated that perspective, you know?
Starting point is 00:17:20 Okay. I want to flip the paradigm though here because, I mean, people don't care. And unfortunately, that's the reality also for how a lot of supervisors and leaders don't care about their people. Which is why this next point is so interesting and important to me. And I look back at the book, How to Win Friends and Influence
Starting point is 00:17:41 People, he talks about personal attention and appreciation, the two things we can't give ourselves. You talk about recognition versus appreciation, how important those things are, and really, what a difference those make in the culture of an organization. Can you unpack that for us? Well, and again, I don't want to talk out of both sides of my mouth when I say that people don't care.
Starting point is 00:18:00 That's more from the perspective of us worrying so much about what other people think about us. If you think about this from a leadership perspective or a relationship perspective or even a sales perspective, like the relationships that matter most, it's super important for us to care about others. Totally. But not care from the critical judgmental perspective and the distinction that I make, Adam, between recognition and appreciation, both of which are very important and incredibly motivating. Most of us, when we do a good job and we perform at a high level, really would like to be recognized.
Starting point is 00:18:29 And when we're not recognized, that's demotivating. There's nothing worse than working really hard on something or accomplishing something and people being like, oh, no big deal. Right? So we want to recognize people when they deserve it. But recognition is about outcome. It's about performance. It's about what we do.
Starting point is 00:18:43 Appreciation, on the other hand, is more about caring about people, valuing people, it's about what we do. Appreciation on the other hand, is more about caring about people, valuing people, it's about who they are. So we wanna recognize people when they deserve it, appreciate people all the time. Because if we give people a trophy, if everybody gets a trophy, then the trophy doesn't mean anything.
Starting point is 00:18:59 And we've gotten a little bit out of whack in our society about that, right? So we wanna give the trophy when it actually means something. And not everyone gets it and it's not a participation trophy. It's actually because you earned it. However, we want to appreciate people all the time.
Starting point is 00:19:12 And the example that I often use when I'm talking about this is I was a pitcher in baseball. And most people know, even if you're not a baseball fan, when the pitcher does really bad in a baseball game, the manager literally stops the game, walks out to the mound, physically removes the ball, makes you leave, then hands the ball to someone else who takes over and starts doing your job for you, which kind of sucks, right? Especially if it's like the second inning and you're already losing seven to nothing. It is humiliating, deflating, demoralizing. It's awful, right? But the worst part of the whole experience, Adam, is when I go sit down on the bench,
Starting point is 00:19:42 especially if I did really bad, nobody would talk to me. They would just leave me alone, right? Because that was kind of the unwritten rule. Oh, he must be really upset, leave him alone. What I needed in that situation and almost never got was not recognition. They weren't going to say, hey, Robbins, way to go. Great job. Seven runs in the second.
Starting point is 00:19:59 No, that's inauthentic, right? What I needed was actually some appreciation, not for my performance, because the was bad, right? Like there's probably, there's got to be some accountability, like we're probably gonna lose the game, like we don't want to celebrate that, but that's probably not the moment to coach me on what I did wrong and how I can get better. That's the moment to connect with me as a human and make sure that I know I'm still valued and cared about as a human even though I didn't perform well. So when we can separate performance and people, then we can really tend to and care about the people
Starting point is 00:20:28 all the time. And we can either recognize or coach the performance, depending on whether it's great or good or mediocre or poor. And people actually really appreciate it. Amazing. How often should this happen? Because in a lot of places, I see your annual review is when you hear whether or not
Starting point is 00:20:46 you're on either of these lists. I mean, what are your thoughts on is there too much, too little? I mean, I think you can customize it a bit, again, especially if it's a small business, but even if it's a bigger company. Like, usually, it's not like 1,000 people you have to do this.
Starting point is 00:21:01 I mean, big companies do have to set up parameters, and that's why the annual performance review. That can be okay if it's just a thing that's in the calendar or it's a part of the year, but you wanna be coaching people on a regular basis. Now, too much, too little, some of that's gonna depend on your style as a manager. If you're a manager, some of it also needs to be customized
Starting point is 00:21:19 to who it is you're working with. So it's like, I often say to managers, look, here's a great conversation you can have with everybody on your team, however big or small the team is. Sit down with them and say, hey, if I wanted to motivate you and get the most out of you, what could I do?
Starting point is 00:21:34 Tell me some things I could do that would really work for you. And another part of the question is if I want to really irritate you or piss you off or stress you out, what could I do? Give me a little bit of feedback proactively about what works and doesn't work for you so I can then customize my coaching style, my managing style to you.
Starting point is 00:21:51 I gotta be myself, but I also wanna know what works for you. Some people, autonomy is really motivating for them, leaving them alone, letting them figure it out. Other people won't say it like this, but they need more handholding, they need more checking in and making sure they're on the right track. One's not better than the other.
Starting point is 00:22:06 It's just different. Right. And if you, as a manager, as a leader, care about your people and really want to get the best out of them, you don't want to coach them just one way. You want to coach them the way they want to be coached so they perform their best. And that's the sign of a really good coach or leader is someone who can tailor a bit of how, yeah, they have their philosophies and their values and their approach, but they can also tailor it. Look, just like we parent our kids differently,
Starting point is 00:22:30 people manage people on their team differently. And we want to do it in a conscious way, not just, Oh, I'm going to give preferential treatment to the top performer. And I'm being kind of a jerk to the people who aren't performing. Like that doesn't usually bode well in terms of getting the best out of people. Right. Interesting tool. I mean, I think everybody should go back and re-listen
Starting point is 00:22:48 to what Mike just said. Because the tool of asking people, how do you want to be appreciated or recognized, but also asking them what really upsets you, I think is a very powerful way of formulating how to help them maximize their outputs and frankly build a great culture around people appreciating each other.
Starting point is 00:23:09 Well, in knowing people, I mean, a lot of people are familiar with that book, that relationship book, The Five Love Languages. You know, they actually wrote, the folks who wrote that book wrote a book about appreciation at work with that same model. And the idea being is that not everybody's motivated in the same way. Not everybody feels, you know, in the context of a marriage, you don's motivated in the same way. Not everybody feels, you
Starting point is 00:23:25 know, in the context of a marriage, you don't feel loved the same way. So you want to know what does my spouse, how do they experience that? But if you think about it outside of a romantic relationship or a family relationship, what is the quote unquote language of appreciation, so to speak, for the people on my team? Sometimes we do this thing. We often appreciate other people the way we want to be appreciated. And that's not necessarily motivating for them. We coach people the way we want to be coached. Again, it makes sense.
Starting point is 00:23:51 It's not evil or strange or even selfish. We just have to step outside of ourselves and go, not everybody's like me. Not everybody's wired the same way I am. And that's a good thing. You don't want a team full of people who are just like you. That's usually not going to be a very high performing team. Totally.
Starting point is 00:24:05 Amazing. Speaking of books, you've written five books. The latest one is We're All In This Together. Yeah. Hopefully you've got more coming out, because your books are amazing, man. Thank you. This is fantastic.
Starting point is 00:24:19 Where can people find you, and where can they find your books online? Yeah, best place to find me is our website, which is mike-robbins.com. And the books are all available on Amazon and wherever you get books. And I'm on all the social channels. But the website has links to all that stuff.
Starting point is 00:24:34 So mike-robbins.com is the best place. Awesome. And Mike has coached and spoken for a lot of amazing businesses. If you are a business leader looking for someone to come into your organization and really expound upon some of these things that we've talked about, please check Mike out. You will not be disappointed.
Starting point is 00:24:52 I can assure you Mike is really well known in the speaking circuit and in the corporate circuit of helping businesses really capture their culture and how to grow their leadership and their teams. So Mike, I have an important question I ask all of the great leaders on the show. And I love the answers I get. But I want to hear this one from you. How do you start your day with a win?
Starting point is 00:25:18 I have a series of things that I try to do every morning. And when I do, it's a real win. I mean, I try to get a good night's sleep to begin with. But when I wake up, the first thing that I do while I'm still lying in bed is I meditate. Sometimes for two minutes or five minutes, sometimes for 20 minutes. So that's my first thing. And if I'm home, I go downstairs, I clean the kitchen, empty the dishwasher, and then I sit down and I have two journals that I write in. One is just a regular share my thoughts and feelings journal.
Starting point is 00:25:48 Another one is a journal where I write down things I'm grateful for. And then before I get on my computer or my phone, I try to move my body. So that either means go for a walk, have a little rebounder in my office, and some little free weights that I'll try to just, you know, 10, 15 minutes of movement. Then if I do all of that and sit down at my computer, I feel like I've really won the morning and I'm ready to go. It doesn't always work and sometimes I'm on the road, but if I can get most of those things done,
Starting point is 00:26:16 that sets me up for a good day. I love it. That's such a great morning routine. Something that everybody needs to think about. Copy mics if you'd like. This is, I mean, it's a great way to start your day. Mike Robbins, great author, great speaker, and just an all-around great guy. Thank you for all you do for those of us that follow you and keep track of the wisdom that you're sharing. Please continue to share that. We really appreciate
Starting point is 00:26:42 it and we appreciate you being on Start with a Win. Thanks. Thanks for having me.

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