Stavvy's World - #124 - Kareem Rahma

Episode Date: April 14, 2025

Kareem Rahma, host of Subway Takes, joins the pod to discuss immigrant dads, being a coat guy, Brad Pitt being hotter to men than women, his dad's nice piece, being a McNugget-loving adolescent, bro food science, Bryan Johnson, and much more. Kareem and Stav help callers including a man who wants tips on how to stop binge-eating fast food, and a woman whose friend is trying to play matchmaker again after setting her up with a guy that the caller had to end up getting a restraining order against. Check out Kareem's shows Subway Takes and Keep the Meter Running: https://www.instagram.com/subwaytakes https://www.instagram.com/keepthemeterrunnin Follow Kareem Rahma on social media: https://www.instagram.com/kareem Eat smart with Factor. Head to https://www.factormeals.com/stavvy50off and use code STAVVY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping. Protect your home from bugs with Pestie. Go to pestie.com/STAVVY for an extra 10% off your order. Find exactly what you're booking for on Booking.com! https://www.booking.com/  Visit https://mintmobile.com/stavvy to get a 3-month premium wireless plan for just $15/month. Get a refreshing Twisted Tea today. Keep It Twisted!! Visit https://www.twistedtea.com/locations to find Twisted Tea near you. 🎟️ See Stavvy live on the Dreamboat Tour 🛥️💕!!! https://stavvy.biz/ for tickets 🎥 Rent or buy LET'S START A CULT at https://stavvy.biz/movie ‼️ Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld ☎️ Wanna be part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

Welcome everybody to StavisWorlds 904 800 stop. Call in, we'll solve your problems. We got Kareem Rama on the couch right now. What's up big dog? What's up fella? You know him from Subway. You've seen a couple people embarrassed themselves next to him on the subway. You've seen a couple people say some great stuff.

I first saw you from, we were just talking about it, Keep the Meter Running, which I love. My little baby. I love that show where you just take cab drivers and just say, take me to your favorite place, which is such a great, you know, as we got a room full of immigrants here and it's like, it's basically immigrant, you hanging out with immigrant dads. I don't think there's been a single person who's not an immigrant no no i will tech i mean do you consider the irish immigrants how soon what do you like like always been here oh yeah no okay he's the one yeah yeah yeah yeah oh no and i had a native new york jewish

guy so i've had two white-ish people sure Sure, sure, sure. And then the rest have been truly immigrants. But I think when you're just a cabbie, like you are an immigrant. It doesn't matter. You don't have to be of color. Yeah, absolutely. But like a cabbie is an immigrant job. Absolutely. And you go to Paris and I shot in London. Oh cool. But in London they have the black cab. Yeah. Which is a white man, working class man's job. But the Uber is the black cab. Yeah, which is a white man working class for sure man's job But the uber is an immigrant job. Yeah, true. You don't have to take the knowledge. Are you familiar with the knowledge? Yeah, you have to do like a test to like basically you're not allowed a map right? They tell you like go from here to here the most efficient route. You have to memorize every street in central London

It's fucking literally serious. It's not London makes New York look like fucking yeah I'm in Georgia, and they don't have like at least here. We have like fifth and a yeah there It's like take me to be more swally bonds Boobily knows Lord swally bonds court right next to like right next to like what is a British name like Wallace's pub? Go on Google. There's seven to the Red Cock and Foster's right away. That's such a British name. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

That might be a real place. It probably is. I went there for the first time last, or this summer, and I actually, it pissed me off because I love shitting on the British. I love talking about how they're you know they kind of just get away with they just were the Nazis to half the world for like a hundred years and Everybody just kind of lets that slide. Yeah, I guess cuz World War two It's like who were the most recent knots and they did it to non-white people mostly I mean the Irish got you know obviously but still the British get let you know They their shit gets they slit we let them slide so much. Their food sucks, whatever, whatever.

And then I went there and I was like, this city's fucking incredible. It's like, it's like old that it's like, imagine New York, but also there's just something from the year 700, right? And it's still a library. It was a library that like monks use and you can go in there and get a book today. They haven't had the Denverification. Yes.

Of every city in America. They don't have the shitty glass, glass and metal fucking buildings. Everything in this country looks like Denver. Yeah, yeah. Baltimore looks like Denver. Minneapolis looks like Denver. Texas, Austin looks like Denver. It's all Denver. New York looks like Denver. Baltimore looks like Denver, Minneapolis looks like Denver, Texas, Austin looks like Denver, it's all Denver.

New York looks like Denver now. You know what's interesting? Calling it Denver, because I think everybody maybe associates it with the first shitty suburb they're familiar with. Because you could call, if you're in New York, you could say everything looks like Williamsburg. Right.

Because it's that, for me, I don't know if for you, Elvis, we're from Maryland. Silver Spring, Maryland is what I think of, which is kind of like that was the first place I saw those shitty glass and metal. I don't like the and the paint, the weird window like, yeah, it's red. We, why is it red? The skinny leather, the way too skinny addresses every and it's like, you're right, everything fuck and London just

looks so everything's old they kept it the trains are incredible the cabs those black cabs and I was talking about fire you fucking sit you're facing your friend like that is something it's awesome that is something that's also in Paris yeah why don't we do that shit it's like simple shit we were just in Paris shooting subway takes and every time we got the cruise four people every time we got in the car we had a business meeting yeah it's nice you're talking to your fucking friends oh you haven't been to London have you those I have a couple times are you oh yeah you're right I'm sorry what I'm talking

about you're even a sorry no I got how multi-colonial I don't know why Americans all want to face the same direction I know I get people complain about You know, I think fucking car sickness, but shut the can you get car? I don't know. I don't yeah I get it. I get it when I'm going straight Which is really bad because when we were doing keep the meter running Oh, yeah, and I had it for a moment and time I had car sickness But it was during when we were shooting a lot of episodes and I'd be like in the back of the cab But then it went away and it's the only time in my life I ever had I feel like I may have self inflicted

What was going on at the time were you stressed man? Was I stressed? I don't know Kind of too blessed to be stressed I try to maintain a level of stasis right where I don't go too up. Yeah, I don't go too down Do was that always the case knows been a level head again? No, no, no, I've been some peaks and valleys of mental breakdown and bipolar kind of really general general I'm a light version. Okay, which is called cyclothemia Cyclothemia, which sounds fake but is real sounds like a strokes album

Cyclothemia cyclothemia, yeah, which sounds fake but is real sounds like a strokes album It's somewhere in Julian Casablanca's hard drive Cyclothemia is a rapid cycling. It's essentially the same as bipolar, except it's more rapid. It's like six days up, six days down, six days normal, six. So I would just wake up. Little slider to the bipolar's burger. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And it's not, it's like the period is not so, it's not so manic that you're like, I'm gonna go gamble, like my house. You're just happy and like really productive honestly. I like that part of it. And so I found this medication which only treats the depression part. So now I'm just manic all the time.

But it's nice because that's just my, like my stasis is now like high energy and like pretty excited and optimistic. But it's not a depression drug. It's not SSRI Interesting. I don't know what it is. I don't know where you just take a loose pill and for a while I take a loose because there was a moment where I was like, oh, I think I'm cured Yeah, and so I stopped taking it and I fucking tanked immediately and just got really I love people do that I've had friends who like just have a couple good years and they like just forget that it's because of the medication

I know that's it's the same thing as like, you know when you you're in a relationship and you're like, whoa I could fuck hot girls. That's like yeah, cuz this woman built you up the second She's out of your life. You're back to being a loser So true and it's like that happens a lot where people think they're just like yeah there maybe there's some side effects whatever just stick with it man. Do you have any conditions? Not really just the classic stuff you know anxiety depression stuff barely anything you know. Just the classic American cocktail. Just like you know just but you know being fat as shit I guess. Oh that's nice. Yeah we're the same we're both obese. Yeah yeah I got the I got the COVID shot early. Oh wow fucking stealing valor dude. No I am. No. No I am. We're in America brother we gotta slide that scale a little bit.

We gotta grate it on the curb. They put me in the obese pile I said all right every time I go to the doctor he says you're obese and I say I know I've been obese my whole life really and then people Go you're not obese. Yeah, and I'm like you are wearing the coat you were talking about being a coat guy Yes, maybe you do have a shitty dumpy body under there Pretty nice thick leather coat where I can't you're cutting a nice silhouette right now Yeah, you know you're on the ver I would say you're on the verge of being a couple of things that of turning into like a uh... alike you know that like that straight dad bod i have that you know i have that or that that uh... when i think i need your japan

well here you're in that like an Egyptian dad zone i know they have nice bellies like you can bodies are when they're not're nice they're nice that's one of my favorite things when I go to Minnesota which shout out Minnesota are you from where I'm from oh hell yeah I moved there when I was like two years old actually six months I always forget the details of my childhood we like from Egypt or yeah okay I'm Cairo cool I did I'm ESL I actually just realized that I'm ESL nice 35 I am too but like I like I went to preschool with a Greek accent

Did you only speak Greek or only spoke Greek but I lived in Baltimore. Oh, yeah It was just my parents only spoke Greek to me. That's pretty much the same. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah I held it eldest Albanian. He actually knew Greek. He's over this we're talking to an Albanian refugee over here Oh, that's true. Oh Only because Greece provided him some safe haven for a couple years as he allowed in America six months for six Your family would be fucking in the mud farms right now outside of Tiran or wherever Albanians I think are the most underrated no they're not York category properly rated Greeks number one with a bullet we can all agree and there'll be no further discussion Stop! Stop! You're gonna lose your fucking, your soundboard privileges, okay? When's the last time, when's the last time somebody said, oh you're in town, let's go get an Albanian meal?

They don't do that, they go, oh let's go have Polish food, let's go have pierogies. Pierogies I will tell you, I will, I am willing to move Albanians up in the white European rankings past Poland, right? Here's the thing, I like to keep Elvis down because this is sort of the- I'm building the West Pole. Are you familiar with the Greek Albanian? We sort of, we're trying to basically teach, this is like how Sesame Street teaches little kids

about like, you know, how to act in school or how to eat vegetables or whatever. We're trying to teach people who don't know about Greeks and Albanians. This is Greek state media. This is Greek state media because we've had this our whole lives. You guys have a kinship. Yeah, I mean we've literally been friends since we were five years old and that's always

been a fun element of like, you know, just kind of truly ironic racism happened to me so early because of Aldis. Because of Aldis. Because we had another friend's family who was literally racist against Greeks who were like villager idiot Greeks who thought they were better than Albanians. And I remember seeing as a little kid like, wait, they actually think Aldis is a fucking piece of shit.

I was like, that's crazy. And then it like was, that was the first time I realized, maybe, dude, honestly, maybe you and our pal and you know, that set my life down the course of thinking, like thinking racists are funny because of how stupid they are, from like a young age. I was introducing that concept literally like seven years old. One of like the dumbest guys I knew hated my little nice little kid best friend

because he's Albanian and he's just like this drunk Greek idiot and I'm like, wait, he was an adult. Oh, the adult didn't like Albanians. I thought it was like a little seven year old that was like, are you fucking Albanians dumb? Our friend's dad would, that's like, oh, you fucking Albanian's dumb. Our friend's dad wouldn't let him in the house, dude. Are you Muslim Albanian? No, I'm not Muslim.

No, never mind. But I'm close to complete. Never mind, dude. And we see the agenda. Never mind, dude. Never mind. He takes back everything he says. I was out here trying to help you guys, but...

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like Turkmenistan. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Have you googled Turkmenistan? Isn't that like, that guy's kind of on some North Korea type shit. They're all kind of on it. Or in that little region like Turkmenistan, oh type in Turkmenistan, Gates of Hell. Gates of Hell. Check out this tourist attraction.

Why hasn't anyone got talked about this? It's literally just that. The door to hell It's been on fire for like 50 or 70 years. That's so sick and you go there take a selfie It's just on fire. It's all it is. It's a pit of fire It's so fucking cool. And then if you do a Zurbizhan rug museum, oh, this is this is cool because it's in the You'll see look look at look at the architecture here. Oh Nice oh wow in the you'll see. Look, look, look at the architecture here. Oh, nice.

Oh, wow. That's fucking cool, right? Like these places are sick. I'm a big rug guy. My mother. So when my my my grandparents, my mom's parents came here in the 70s. Her dad was a, you know, he was like a machine worker.

And the first job, my grandma, my grandma was just like, I'll do whatever for a buck. And well, you know, within reason, she didn't go to America selling pussy, everyone relax. But she she she had never worked on drugs before. She like off the like off the plane, got a job repairing like orientental rugs and so my mom and my grandmother my whole life Like I would go after school to my mom's job Which you repair just in this old like sick rug store and I would just like be playing and these so I love That's my fight this museum. I actually would love to go. Let's go. Let's fucking let's do the pot of

actually would love to let's go let's fucking let's do the pot of no that whole like it's it's so like wild wild west out there yeah like there's another city I forgot or like another country or city I don't remember but like the guys obsessed with white like white marble mmm so the whole town is just white interesting it's all white marble it looks like it looks like heaven yeah except it's not it's not it's not dilapidated yeah yeah yeah yeah you know so just like looks weird it's just like a weird white marble town oh there it is is that is that it's also in Turkmenistan yeah yeah I think this guy is like some kind of fucking no they're not No, I don't think they're good people

Yeah, that's a sick statue though. Go down a little bit on that little skeleton boy more motherfucker right there Yeah, that like weird gold guy on top of a mountain. It kind of looks like a dick now that I see it though Everything's are addicted. What does it? They're all that has kind of dick and balls Whatever those little hats too. I like their little hats. Yeah, they have a nice little swag to them for sure. They have a they have a nice little swag of Europeans that will. That culture is coming back like the Slavic Slav core Turkmenistan.

Slav core. Yeah, we have a little Greek. I've said like Greeks are I have a bit where I say Greeks are the whitest like Arabs But I but it's like you also have to sprinkle some slaw in there. Yeah, it all it basically North that basically means north and south people never think of Greece as like northern and southern because you just think the islands all this place but like by the mountains it's like It kind of is like my grandma in her pictures of like when she's kind of young Kind of looks like a Turkmenist like Kazakhstan where people look kind of look a little Asian

Yeah, my grandma has like the high those high-ass cheek But and like yeah like she's such an old little lady now that like you know She just looks like an old lady to me And then you see a picture of her and it's like this could be the Turkmeni Dictator's daughter like she like straight-up looks casual royalty. Yeah and you see a picture of her as i just could be the turk many dictators daughter like she likes straight up looks as a royalty yeah yeah i mean you you have a little asian and you know i think that is just being fat i think that

people think of a smiling guy with fat cheeks then the whole soon i think it's not a lot of money i was a popular jewelry that the in chinatown and this is when I had my head shaved and I had no facial hair And I was like hairless about your action and they literally yeah No, they asked me if I was Chinese It was the first and I wasn't I was less fat at the time and I was just like Truly these were people that like barely spoke English Chinese and they were like we thought I was just like, truly, these were people that like barely spoke English, Chinese, and they were like, thought I was Chinese. That's right. So that was interesting. That was the first. Yeah, they actually did. And I was like, they're like Chinese.

And I was like, what? I was like, I was like, it took me like five minutes to get what they were asking because it's never happened. So, yeah, maybe because my grandma. That's so that's that's well that's good though being ethnically ambiguous I realized mm-hmm is great because I can go to Italy and people are speaking to me but yeah go to London they're like okay he's something it is true depending on how you know depending on how you dress you could be five different yeah Yeah, I could like The only place like like like but if you're Norwegian right and you go to Italy Right, you don't blend in like you're obviously a tourist So I realized that like having the dark features, but I used to not like mine

I don't know if you have the same problem, but like not really I was like, I don't really want to be I don't like curly hair I don't like yeah, I don't even want a beard right as beard Oh, yeah, and power he does know it powers in that beard. Oh, this is the thing is he's not ethnically ambiguous That's if you look up Albanian Well, this is the Minecraft Albanian head White I don't know. There's no white. No, they're there. There's no way I think is there in bread, right? white. I know they're very there's no white I think is their inbred right? I don't know I wouldn't say that pretty confidently. They're so nice though I had an Albanian Uber driver the other day and he was really a nice guy. Yeah don't make me admit that I like Albanians on camera man don't make me admit that I have that

my closest friend is an Albanian and that Albanians are going to be part of the New World Order Thankfully elder says she like this Who's at the top of the New World Order God, I don't know Rank the races right now Let's not get an Albanians perspective on which races are the most powerful. We just want to know when the U.S. falls. Right. Well, I think China. China's kind of poised. An ally of Albania, by the way. Allies since the 70s. Yeah, yeah. India's a little sleeper. They're a little sleeper. That is true. I think we take them for like're like we're like oh, they're not a threat

Yeah, but they got a lot of people they got numbers. They got numbers. They're doing numbers. Yeah, they have strong work ethic Yep, you know Chinese also have a strong work ethic Arabs That's why we're never gonna be we have that's why I say Greeks are kind of like Arabs. Yeah, they just chilling culture You hang out. Yeah, drink a little. Yeah. Why would you drink a little coffee cups, coffee, little tea, meat off a fucking stick, meat off a thing. Yeah, it's a lot of like a lot of joking around. Not a lot of not a lot of business.

No. Unless it's import export. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. A lot.

Well, Egyptian in particular, I feel like is kind of its own little, you know what I mean? Like, because you guys kind of have like, I don't know, like the North African thing, it's not quite the Middle East. You know what I mean like cuz you guys kind of have like I don't know the like the North African thing it's not quite the Middle East you know what I mean it's like you're in yeah Africa it's not quite it kind of has again like you're in that we could take a corner of the like a circle of the world that kind of has Greece you know Egypt Turkey and like a little piece of

like the slot there's more southern Slavs and it's like they're all pretty much the same type of guy, a different flavor of the same type of guy. Same body though. Yeah, definitely same body. Us. Definitely same body. Variations of us.

Yeah, yeah, I love it. I love that and it's a great, that is the thing, you're right, that there's a Slav Corps and also like an Arab thing of like, you could be a big fat piece of shit with the hottest woman you've ever seen in your life. And that's kind of expected. Like no one thinks, and that is something I am truly leaning into.

That's what I've found in my advanced age of soon to be, well now, when this comes out 36 years old I've definitely found that out of like that's the you know these are some lessons I can learn we're blind my forefathers we're very we're blessed at a time when you and I were growing up mm-hmm it was the Brad Pitt's right you know it was it was the Ryan Reynolds you're right and now it's kind of bifurcated to you're either a twink that women want to fuck or you're just like a fucking daddy. Yeah. Like some kind of daddy. Yeah.

And that's the beauty of it. It's great. There's a lot of different flavors of that, too. Yeah, there's the Adrian, Adrian Brody, long nose skinny. He's like a hybrid of a twink and ugly guy. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. And then and then there's like the thick men like I think I would consider Javier Bardem is like a thickie okay he's a thick he's I don't know that you can claim him but yeah I think he's the the ideal the ideal man the ideal of that you know what I mean like yeah like the

hottest ugly guy yes like what a woman's like I have a Javier but like that like a woman was an ugly boyfriend who just kind of you know Has a nice head of hair maybe, you know, so, you know, they'd be like I'm really into Javier Bardem types You know what I mean? like that the way the way you might be like back when Pamela Anderson was an archetype and it was just right any blonde lady with like big tits even if she wasn't like We've got knockers knockers is good i do like knock actually i didn't really use knockers that much well i'm taking myself back yeah yeah dude she has huge knockers fucking fat knockers

my life my wife does love uh javier bardem point proven right there every time she says that i, God, he's not really my type. Exactly. I do go more for the Brad Pitt's comedy old-fashioned. Exactly, yeah. We're all idolizing Brad Pitt, and they're all idolizing. Who's another ugly hot guy? Yeah, yeah.

Who's another one of these guys? I think there's old, like, Serge Gainsburg, just straight ugly. Yeah, yeah. He has a baddie, you know what I mean? Like, a baddie. Like, he's known for being ugly. Yeah, yeah, like his wife I mean Jane Birkin like a total babe. Yeah the look at this. Yeah, that's awesome It's that's that is to me that is an inspiration to all of us

Mm-hmm. I mean guys the my vision board is the pit. There's like a couple I've said it before red carpet pictures of Joe Fuck I can't believe my cousin Vinny Is the pit there's like a couple I've said it before red carpet pictures of? Joe Fuck I can't believe my cousin Vinny Joe Pesci Oh, yeah and it's like him and his model is like model wife that is like fully a foot and a half taller and like the the fucking aura just buzzing off him fucking drip like it's like that's the thing of like I you know not tall like I don't I don't give a fuck about I would

date a tall one but it's just like that imbalance of the like there's something to be said of like just having that much sauce that it just doesn't matter extra sauce extra drip being very sauce so I think because I did grow up around see I never had that thing of like you know not liking being in fact Greek people I think have the opposite problem of like Weirdly thinking we're the best for no reason and I grew up in a I grew up in a in a Greek community like to the Point where we called Non Greek people we called them Americans like other white people

We would just call them Americans like you know he hangs out a lot of Americans or that and that was a point of like when you went to Greece that was an insult right where it's like oh This fuck it. I'm made kanaki right and so I never I grew up around all that stuff in Minneapolis Was it just like you and your friend? I think that's the difference Yeah, like we didn't have really a community like there was not a community of Arabs and when I went to Egypt They would call me Agnebi which means foreigner. Yeah. Oh my family's even worse family. There's like, oh, what's up you little Foreigner I'm Egyptian. Yeah, like saying it in English just like that Grandma and like yeah, I I think that I was gonna say

that the key word, I think in order to have that, you have to have some sort of community. And our community was just not, I mean, it wasn't there. You know, it was not, there was not, like my dad was one of the first Egyptians to move to America or at least to Minnesota. Right, yeah, yeah, to Minnesota. And it was like him and a couple boys in 1969 on one plane wow and it was fire though because everyone was

like that's when it was like dope yeah that's when people hadn't met an arrow totally totally and it was like Lawrence of Arabia like yeah Omar Sharif totally exotic creature like a rug yeah yeah yeah and it's a size fucking 1969 summer of love. Yes, and my dad just full-on Travolta Just what like watch that movie That's me. That's the closest thing to me like to shit back He went full like disco balls hanging out of the pants like in every photo that I have of him is balls They're massive. Massive hog.

Did not bless me. Damn. That's really tough. I did not only know that, but like see the pics. I mean, they're literally in my face every time I look at old photos and I get embarrassed because every time I show like a woman in my life, they're always like, damn.

And I'm like, I know exactly what you're thinking. And then it's a letdown My dad had a huge day That he's hogging in heaven cause of death massive Flow he tripped on it. Yeah fell down the stairs. I get that man. Yeah, damn dude Yeah, all right Peter the boy all right Peter the boy All right, Peter the boy so he moved by himself Yeah, is your mom American or no, she's Egyptian. Oh, you want you went home. He did the old. Oh wow You know, let me get myself a nice little Arab girl. Yeah went to the wife store. Yeah

I went to the little lying which I thought was interesting Told her he. Okay, I told her he was Okay, so He lied about his age and he was 20 years older than her but he told her that he was only 10 years older She didn't discover it until they were married and I was born Which at that point is kind of her fault. Yeah, I mean that's like I didn't say much about your mom's detective Like you didn't know until I was born and then it was too late. I was like, what a good liar Yeah, like madmen. My dad was on this Don Draper. Yeah, you're born. He's like, oh Anyway, yeah

He's playing fucking back you know, he was 45 when I was born. OK, and my mom was 25 and she thought he was 35. Wow. I know. But he had to look from what you're telling me. You look good. Did he look youthful, though? Yeah, he had that hog. OK, yeah, yeah, yeah. He was he was decomitized. He had this kind of look.

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Yeah, just came home when they was like, by the way got a sick job offer. It's in Baltimore And you know, it's really fucked up He had the choice between Astoria and Baltimore and he fucking chose Baltimore because he knew one guy that that's a classic move And by the way, I mean that ended up in Minnesota Yeah, there was one guy just that you know fucking one one of your boys and I say I'm pissed but like if my mom came to New York She's probably not going she hated Baltimore so much that she and they weren't even like to see they were like the burbs She hated it so much that she went back to Athens by herself. That's where she met my dad So I say I'm pissed cuz in my head. I'm like he would just own a house here

That's worth like their house and fucking the shitty neighborhood that we grew up in is probably worth a 170 thousand dollars and the house we if they had bought a house here would be worth 2.5 But having said that my mom probably never goes back to Greece. I'm never born whatever or who knows how consciousness works Maybe I'm born with my mom Maybe it's passed through your mom, and I'm just so fucking sexy. I don't have my dad's stupid cowardly anger problem genes

Just or heart problem Yeah, yeah, like the essence is born from the mother's womb yeah It's more about like vibes. Yeah, just fucking flushing it out. There's probably a couple things that sperm gives you. There are, I've been reading, AKA seeing a couple TikToks. I think it's because my brother just had a kid, so I've been like just more interested in baby stuff

and like, and it's probably spying on me. So it's- So you're on dad talk now. So it's just, yeah, baby stuff and like or and it's probably spying on me so dad talk so it's just yeah it's just like I'm getting videos they're like talking about babies but also talking about like what does you know what does a baby get from its mom versus that apparently like you get certain you do it does work that way where it's like certain things really are like you know way more determinative depending on send me me those videos. I just had a kid. Oh, you just had a kid? Congrats. Wow. How old are you talking? How's the baby?

11 months. Oh, cute. She's dope. That's awesome. She's very cool. Imagine if I was like, she sucks. She's so shitty, man. She doesn't even auto. She doesn't chill.

She doesn't chill. I'll tell you that much. She's like an annoying chihuahua. Like, just doesn't stop moving. And's she's she doesn't know how to say that much she she's like a little annoying chihuahua doesn't stop moving kind of you know my mom I'm like what is going to say you're always moving yeah maybe she got your little fucking my jeans you're yeah insanity yeah yeah yeah your little bootleg bipolar baby she's got it I'm more minus she's fucking choking blue he's the one thing that concerns me is I feel like her hands are too big. Oh, okay And I'm like, you know with a dog. Yeah, that means it's gonna be a big dog. She might be a big girl. That's cool Cool. Yeah, she's fucking huge hands. The hands are massive my

My boy my little guy my nephew has he has huge he has huge hands. Okay, maybe it's just a baby thing I think it's a baby thing. They look big in comparison to their little ass body There's so because their arms are short as fuck like t-rex. Yeah, but their hands are kind of you know, they're big man Yeah, I don't know. I hope her hands don't grow. Oh you grow into them That's a little hand. No, did you want a big workman style girl? Fucking is just you know a modern a model. We're talking. She's gonna be 20 in 2045 So she can man the AI machine dude. It's gonna be the big girls. It's gonna be for the big girls, dude

We need a big girl to man the AI computer. Do you want it? What you know could be a fucking athlete, you know, could be a fucking athlete, you know? She could be an athlete, but that, we would have nothing, I'm like not a throw the baseball around type of guy. Right, right, yeah. Like, let's make a funny movie.

Sure. You know, I'm hoping that she's a Nepo baby. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, I really. Hey, clock's ticking. I am working, I am working very hard. Right now, she's okay. No disrespect, I like your work, but there there wouldn't be if she gets casted something they wouldn't be an expose a

like her dad had some sick web series yeah you want to say like a daughter of niche micro internet celebrity. Niche of micro, niche micro internet vertical short form unscripted video series created Kareem Rama's daughter cast in a new unscripted vertical unscripted video series directed by her father. Yeah, dude. Serious directed by her father Yeah, dude you want people pissed off when you want people to love her and then figure out You know you want that cycle of oh this girl's rules, and then it comes out right?

She has like like Lily Lily Rose Depp brave brave woman very she came out and said I'm Lilyulu rose down the road rose that my dad didn't do anything weird but that's still chill and i don't know if she's ten years too late man ten years ago and i'll show you this here is the fun fun pirate guy he's not there's nothing weird about it he's someone that was very attractive yet and then decided to literally look like a pirate yeah really really was like am i just like am I literally did I lose my do you lose his mind on like pirates? You're being for where he's like I am this guy

It's like what was Austin Butler when he? That guy fascinates me. I love that. I love I like the bit. I wonder if it's a bit He's like I can't do I don't think I think the best actors are so fucking stupid Like I think like they they don't think they just are yeah, you know I think he's one of those guys like that's how I feel about Brad Pitt great actor you hear him talk It's like what the fuck are you hear him trying to be like funny, and it's like like this I just think about the name of his production company, which is plan B entertainment. I'm like, yeah I'm like brother like you've never heard of this other plan

Come on. Yeah, you might be right. Your theory might be correct Yeah, I was looking at all the production company names because I want obviously want to start one and they're not good Yeah, like no one's getting creative, right? You know, you know a little upset. I think of any Like Jordan Peele shout out Jordan Peele, but like monkey ball. I don't like that. I like it I would like to not keep on not the horror But it's just like the classic monkey paw wish I know no I had to Google it But I'll see it's just but it's just not like it. Okay. You want to be I know what you're doing, huh? I know I think it's great to have a

uh... i think that you're right i didn't realize that okay so it's not really like i'd love to trash things you know other things but i'd based on i'd the monkey paul wish to me is such a funny i've used it in our little i wikipedia so for god basically's it's basically like whatever it's like the it's like I want to have the you know It's like if you were like I want to have the biggest dick in the world right and then they just shrink everybody else's dick

That's a monkey. Oh, yeah It's like it's like you know it's like it's like it's like Robin Williams is genie exactly There's always a it's a more intenseie exactly there's always a more intense word anything there's always a unintended consequence yeah like a catch okay there's always a good it's basically a more severe catch type thing with the genies always trying to trick you the monkey pause just like basically that well if you had a genie what would you wish for I mean I would like a bigger penis They did a survey that's gotta be it It's number one with a bullet

Everyone even guys with a even your dad Your dad before he would wish to be back to life He would wish to be in heaven with a fatter dick He's like one more it Just one more Just one more it I want it to touch my knee I don't fucking know just in just a I

Guess I would I would honestly just wish for my body to be reset to like factory health That's a great. Oh, that's like a fucked up shoulder Yeah, you know and so I would like to just lose and not even by the way don't I don't want to lose I don't want to be the BMI a man should be at my height because then I would weigh 125 pounds probably Yeah, I would litter like you know on those those charts are fucking hysterical But I would just like to be you know still fat But not this fat and just all my nagging injuries are gone. That's nagging.

All your health reset is the number one thing. I think that that is honestly really good. Thanks and down to Earth. So hopefully the genie genies if you're out there, I woke up today. Sore, but I didn't work like I was sore from the tough feeling walking around. Yeah, it's a really tough. I walked a lot. I've got to get probably around 10,000. I would say not not enough to be sore not enough to be

But I'm like my my feet were sore at my shoulder is also sore and you know having the kid Yeah has made me I mean 11 months you're in the thick of it right now but it's made me realize that like I yeah, my dad died when I was 20. And he didn't really take care of himself. And it made me, I'm like, I don't wanna die. Like I already saw my mortality when my dad died. And when you're a young man, you're like, I'm gonna live forever, I'm gonna do all this dumb shit.

Like, you know, I'm invincible. And so I immediately clicked into like, responsible guy. You know, didn't have as much fun as I probably should have had. And now with- In your 20s you're talking about. Yeah. You know didn't have as much fun as I probably should have had and now in your 20s you're talking about yeah in my 20s like I had I had fun but I didn't do like I didn't like study abroad. I didn't like you know I had no real vision for my life aside from like I need to like be the father to my family like my actual mom and my brother my sister I was like stepped into that role right so I missed out and and work so I started working when I was 14. Damn. What are we doing? McDonald's at 14 Wow

Which is like really young? Yeah, you need a fucking you have to be paper on like my 14th birthday Wow, I was like I need a job and then have a beard already or No, but but you know what was fucked up? I went to, I went from, so I started working in the summer of eighth grade. Damn dude! That's fucked up. And I gained like 40 pounds. Of course dude. And so I went to high school as like a fat boy.

Oh no! But all my life before that I was like this, almost fat but not actually. Yeah, yeah, yeah. The access to them fucking nuggets, boy. I mean, I would literally walk past the nuggets and pop one. Yeah. And in my head, I'm like, it's just a nugget. So like, but 40 calories, that's how many in one nugget, times 20 every day.

And then also, 800 extra calories. And then mixing like, That's no fries. No, no, but mix those in. Mix in the ice cream flurry. I mean, I was eating 5,000 McDonald's calories. And I think that McDonald's and those types of fast foods,

I think that their calories, I really think are harder to lose than regular calories. I think that they're sticky. It's like they make it, I'm literally doing it. Love this kind of bro science. Yeah, I'm doing Joe Rogan science. But it sounds convincing. Put that music under it, Elders. Do do do really do shit it's purely the steps and you know, I

It's like it hasn't really I've done a lot of health things where it's like why haven't I seen any difference? But I think about like what would happen if I didn't do it like I've been sober for a year and people like I'm sober and I cut out soda and I lost 500 pounds and like literally nothing happened and and then the same thing with like This Fitbit it's like I don't fucking I'm not a exercise I'm not a huge exercise guy, but when I don't wear it I just is there's just something in your dumb brain when it's like you're kind of I'm not doing shit And I see like oh fuck. I only have 4,000 steps like right

I'll go walk for even if you just I'll just go pop out and like go fucking grab eggs or whatever I'll and then I'll just I'll take an extra fucking It's purely like kind of like the McDonald's thing of like something you're constantly thinking about Your car this kind of constantly puts the is purely steps. I don't monitor. Yeah I also don't believe that these things actually monitor your sleep or your any of that shit I think that's all yeah, go crazy. I just want to ask them. Yeah Thank you. Thank you. I I don't know I like my friend was like saying I like monitors your oxygen It can tell you when you're about to get sick. I don't know I think that's all fake you think so

I think that's we all are worried about dying and they know that and they're like, oh they'll buy this $500 piece of fucking metal if we say it'll make them live longer. That's my guess. I think it don't get me wrong I think it can work I just think you probably it's for it to really work by I have to calibrate it and that's different for different people's Bodies and all this other shit. There's a way to track things for sure And maybe whoop those straps are better. I don't fucking know and I'm sure some of them work I just feel like a lot of the data you're getting Is probably fun like that fucking weird guy that like you know measures his son's cock

He has the ability to like track his shit you think he sneaks into the room with a little tape measure Yeah, he's got yeah. Yeah, he takes a string and he measures the diameter of his son's cock. No, but he's measuring his son's erections or whatever, and he just does, he just looks like a regular, he looks like a fucking regular ass dude and he just, he looks shiny as fuck. He looks really shiny, but that's just the skincare routine. Yeah, exactly. It's brought to you by Booking.com, Booking.yeah. Now every time I use Booking.com to find a place to stay in the United States, I know they'll have exactly what I'm looking for. They have a huge variety of options from hotels to vacation rentals,

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And is it because you are afraid of like, I't know like a Carter Cardilla Carter Larry I don't know like sort of like party are you afraid of like a heart a lot early or is that more about your appearance it's not about my appearance a sexy boy thank you I appreciate that truly it's actually if you have a song I have Joe Pesci songs. Thank you, thank you. You are Joe Pesci. Stop it, stop it. Yes, no, no, that's too much. It's actually, I wish it was about my, because in the past, when I wasn't as confident, when I wasn't successful, when I didn't have shit going on, the things that made me lose weight

were my appearance and feeling insecure and all this stuff. And like, you know, will I see a picture I'm tagged in from an angle I wasn't aware of and be like, God damn, what the fuck is going on? Yeah, I'll have that, you know. And appearance-wise, I would legitimately like to lose like 30 pounds, but I would be very comfortable being like 270, you know?

But I should, I should be less than that. And it's purely health It's exactly what you said. It's like I want to fucking live and then especially, you know It's not my kid, but a nephew is like a real I'm like I want to be around for this kid and it's even you know I'm even thinking about do I want to have kids? I want to have a family whatever and the nephew really makes you think like oh, this is a fucking You it's a crazy just put it plainly.

It's a new generation. Yeah. And that this kid, I have to be for this kid. What my aunts and uncles and like the people that are still in my life. And it just kind of makes you think like, holy fuck, there is a before this kid was born and there's an after. And then you think about how you only know your parents for half their fucking well and like I'm at the age right now where Mike About the age my parents had they had my brother had me at 33 or 34 and my brothers at 36 I'm a I'm 36 so I'm like at the age

Every life experience I have had It's like I don't know I don't know that part of my family's life. A whole, my entire existence is like, so I have, I want to have that level of life after this kid and like it's just insane to think like, oh I'm entering the second half of life where I'm the adult to some babies and some kids and so like yeah, it's that. It's weird.

It's the invincibility thing and that's over and not only that but it's thinking like wait. What did I waste my youth on? Like some guys fucking do drugs what it's like you're here now Ice cream like I ate ice cream and didn't get that much pussy And you know what I mean? Like it was like I didn't do cool shit. I didn't like Jump off cliffs. Well, you had a good you had a good Fourth quarter I get yeah Close strong. Yeah, you are good. I didn't even third and second. Yeah. Yeah second half sure When does the second half start like 24 20 20 like 24 to 34? I had a good 25 I had a horrible three after that and the rest were pretty good. You had a horrible three just moving here is tough

Oh, yeah, I don't know what age were you when you moved? I was 25. Yeah, say I moved to 26 It feels old feels a little feels a little you got to catch up and it's exactly it's like though You're going through shit You should be going through when you're 21 like the shitty a party. Oh, I lived in this place, but it was shitty You know We had a bunch of roommates and I lived in the living room and like you're so fucking broke you move I I came from you know I was doing stand-up and you come from your little town where you're the man and then you come here and everyone hates you

You know what I mean? And it's like no one wants no one cares about you even the people that like you it's like they can't help the people that Like you and are nice can't help you It's cuz it's the shittiest people in the world or bookers and like you know whatever right? That's not you shout out to Patrick at the. He fuck I got past the stand very quickly He was the man for that but like, you know How like small-time bookers that are shitty comics that want some power in the world So they run a bar show and and then those people if you're actually funny are mad cuz they're like great

Another person who's better than me more competition And so I was so depressed I broke up with this girl and I felt weird about Cause they're like, great. Another person who's better than me in New York. More competition. You know what I mean? Yeah. And so I was so depressed. I broke up with this girl and I felt weird about it. And it was just like a depressing. It's hard. And then I got a fucking, and I had a shitty writing job, which it was for shitty website, but at least I had,

I could pay my rent, which is huge. And then eventually Compton took off and I didn't't have to once I didn't have to worry about money. And then people would start seeing me on the road because I was I was working a lot as an opening act. But even that is like I would make like after fucking expenses, like you make three hundred dollars a weekend. You know what I mean? Like, yeah, it was just fucking brutal. But in so that was really depressing. But yeah, the tail end of it has been good.

But even that it's like it's its own issues of I don't do well with excess. Now, the last couple of years, I had too much. I had everything I wanted. Right. That killed me. Right. That if I that was going to kill me. So it was like, you know, it's all it's all. It's a balance, the balance learning. But I think as you as as we enter early man, I guess late man What are we in? I guess mid met mid mid manhood

We have we are mid men like the changes the changes are like the shoulder pain like waking up and feeling sorry My bag is just fucked. It's just so weird cuz it's like you never thought it would happen. Yeah, and it's here It's here. You hear people talk about it. You're like those old pieces There's pathetic old cock and I went to the doctor with and I had a I went to it for a checkup And they were like they saw like some fucked up discs and I go to like a back spec I'm about to go on tour. So I'm like, you know actually dreamboat tour it's been going on for a while buy your tickets and and

I was gonna I and and I was gonna I was gonna I was like oh I should get this fixed before I leave for the tour I'm gonna sleep on a bus it's gonna be weird it's gonna be awful and then he I go to the doctor's like okay well so really nothing you can really do about this you can maybe put some shot if the pain is really bad here's a doctor that will shoot you up with like I guess what they give NFL players when they have fucking ACL tears and they still want to play in the Super Bowl. And I was like, what? I have the same thing.

I have a herniated disc. Yeah, I have. Yeah. And the worst like I never really did anything about it for a long time. I've had it for a long time, but it was like it was annoying, but it wasn't the worst thing in the world. And this summer it slipped And I couldn't fucking walk dude. I thought I was paralyzed Yeah, and I had to go to the ER and I oh no It was like painful driving to the ER and it was only like 15 minutes away And I was in long

I was on Long Island at the time and I couldn't walk and I felt like I was like I had to get Painkillers which were nice. Yeah, but and then it happened again like two weeks later right after I covered so I finally was like I need to Pay attention to this yeah, so I went to like I had the same situation They're like well we could do surgery, but we don't recommend it unless it's like really bad I'm like well. What's really bad, and they're you know it's like hard You can never walk if you have to spend all your time in a hot tub Like that happened to fucking Bill Walton the NBA guy He had such a bad back that he just was in a hot tub for like nine hours a day

That's awful is he would just be chill. It was a cool hot tub He lived in like fucking somewhere tropical. But but now I I'll send you this thing. I bought this thing on Amazon that I lay on every morning Okay, and it kind of decompresses the spine. I think it was the spiky thing. It's a little spiky thing, but it's not too spiky. Okay, all right, all right. It's more of just a curve.

All right, all right, all right. But I do it every morning for like five minutes. Bro, I'm interested. I feel like it loosens it up a little bit. Yeah. And it's, you know, it's minimal amount of work, which is nice because it doesn't take too much time. And then yoga has helped. I haven't had it since I started doing that and yoga. I haven't heard any of this and But anyways, yeah, it was like something that needed to be addressed for a long time

Yeah, and I finally addressed it and now I'm like, okay, what would do about the shoulder? Like do I think once you start doing that's where I met where I find I started addressing my shit And it's like damn there's so much to do man. I know and who has time I think about people that I don't know if you work out or not. Yeah, I do I do that's the other fucked up thing I've been working out Truly three three times a week and I've been doing like like a whole year like this year has been I've been sober I've been working out with the exception of maybe two week stretches here and there I've been fucking getting my steps.

My diet has been, that's how bad my diet can get where it's like, that's the only bad thing and that's fucking me up. But yes, I do work out. Well, maybe internally you are actually healthy though. I would. You know, I did go to the, I actually got a bunch of, I keep, my doctor keeps being like, he doesn't say, the subtexttext is like why don't you have diabetes after after every? After every test and I'm like he's like literally made me check my heart and my diabetes like three times

I hired like a like one of those Doctors that comes to your house and shit cuz I just like was in Baltimore and I was like, let's just figure this I need to make sure I don't die on this tour and yeah, I weirdly have some but so maybe though The word even that even that that's you don't trust that it's the it's the name of the guy Get into the like diamonds and that's my diabetes. I keep going He's not gonna lose weight one more year and we give it to every time I go to like I didn't get a physical for Like two years and I was like again baby was born. I was like I should get this I actually just got it like probably last month and I was like this is not gonna be good cuz I was like I'm a

Have high cholesterol He's like I don't need that. Well, yeah, I do a lot of clean whatever a cat tells you to eat And he was like he like, you're pretty healthy. Yeah, you should watch the cholesterol, which I had high cholesterol when I was 14 due to the nuggets. Yeah, me too. I think I think literally I had I worked at it as a telemarketer across the street from the Wendy's. I was and that's what did it. Oh, nice, dude.

We have a lot to get to. What do you say? Mortgages. Part of the subpr is part of the prime part of the housing crisis. I mean, I didn't. The good thing is I was so bad at it. I did not convert a single mortgage. Really? I worked there for like, you know, I don't know, six months, one year. So your name was never on the board. Never on the board.

One time it almost was. And then the guy's credit like fell through at the last second. And it actually saved me from having that off my conscience. Right, now you don't have to worry about destroying a family. We could talk forever but we need to get, we need some of your fatherly wisdom. You got to come back, we have so much, we have more to talk about for sure. Telemarketing, how you feel about being a father, was the child on purpose? Lot of questions.

But let's take some of this advice. Let's do a little advice and something to plug here in the middle. Obviously, Subway Takes, whatever. We're going to keep the meter running. Keep doing a live show of Subway Takes, Subway Takes live in March at Joe's Pub. Tickets already available.

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know the date we'll do this for a second. Movie comes out on, and then we'll put the date right there. Go ahead, I'll just play us some fucking, play us some calls, little buddy. Hey, hey, Savi, hey, all this, hey, guest of honor. So I'm 23, I live in New York City. I have about like four more months of living here, deadline, whatever. It's fine. Deadline. I spent the entirety of 2024 sexless.

I didn't have sex one time. She has a sexy voice. And like I'm hot. So I need to know some tips on how to get good hot sex in the city. Sex is not hard. And I don't want to use dating apps. And you don't want to use dating apps. I want a bar scene meetup. That classic like seeing each other and then going home with each other.

I love this. What are the tests here? Because no one in my generation does that anymore. That is true, bro. I just need notes and tips. Go ahead. Thanks for the advice. She's misguided.

Bye. She's misguided. She's very misguided. Okay. What are your thoughts? Well, I think she chose to be sexless, and that's why she's not having good hot sex. Well, first of all to let's start there good hot sex

your twenty three guys in your job just think about how bad i was a fucking in twenty three can't fuck a twenty three-year-old she pay use he said it not me for the guy with a kid you know she needs to go thirty plot yeah yeah yeah thirty two thirty five or even late twenty's but But like right in 20. Yes, exactly. What she's looking for does not happen. I remember being 23 and like going to a bar and like, you know, looking at a girl and like, be like, hey, and her being like, hey,

and then being like, can I have a beer, please, sir? You know, like just this second it didn't go perfect Like I can count on my hands at that age how many women I met and it went well and the whole time I was I was like the whole time it felt like when you just like are trying to keep something like Trying to keep the DDR multiplier going we're like I can't miss a fucking single step or I'm back to zero art, you know and so That's part of it. I mean, yes, probably going older is the, especially in New York is the quickest solution.

There's so many man children that have done nothing, but there's so many people that were losers in high school and didn't get pussy and moved to this city to be- And now they're rich. And now they're rich, you know, so. And all they've done is, you know, whatever thing got them rich and tried to fuck girls for 15 years, 10 years.

But she's not looking for relationships. She's just trying to get smashed out. I think she needs to go to rich, elegant places. Like I think she's gotta stop by like Balthazar. Okay. Like she's gotta go to the classics. Like she's going to bars, she's gotta go to restaurants that have bars.

And hang out at these places that have like a $60 stake. I think she can't go to like cowboys and divorces in Williamsburg. You know, she can't go to like the Levy. She can't go to like, she can't go to Delancey street. There's too many hoes running around. There's too much competition. She needs to go to a nice, elegant, and stand by the bar, and just put out Riz.

She sounds like she has Riz. Well, she doesn't though, because she spent a whole year not getting fucked. But that's my choice. Right, but she's, they're like, her body her choice. She could, yes. But I guess part of it is also like you can't sit in your fucking room

No, or even just at a bar with your friends and just you know and like she basically she's like I'm so hot that I should be able to just like be wherever I am and a Guy that I will like and that will fuck awesome not even just fuck me But we'll fuck awesome will approach me. And like all that stuff happens, especially good hot sex, you know, we're no prudes here, we're pro-hos, everything, but. Pro-hos.

But like you do have to have a, for actual good hot sex, you either have to have some sort of connection with the person or like nothing in common and weirdly you guys fuck awesome. Just a primal. There's just like, those are the two, that's the two ways that happens. I think that she could also quarterback it a little bit more.

Like she needs to be like, I see that guy, he fucks. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I would like to fuck him and she needs to come up and say. A smile. How you doing? Yeah. Or like, this is my trick. Even make eyes.

Yeah, make eyes. It's not gonna take that much. I guess my question is, if we were talking to our friend here live Okay, you don't want to be on dating apps to me. You're already setting yourself up You could be selective on dating apps a hot woman gets 100,000 matches a day a day like it's like so you can just find a hot and the and the second you don't like what's going on You could just fucking drop it. It's no big deal. That's the whole point of that game, right?

shopping for a car. Exactly, and so you could do that. You already said you don't wanna do that. So you've already eliminated one avenue to potential dick, right? Which is fine, I get that. Dating apps are weird. But then how often, yeah,

are you putting yourself out there? I wouldn't even necessarily say don't go to those trashy places that we all went to when we were in our fucking 20s. But like, yeah, have a mix of places. You have to be like, we have to kind of give her the same, even though she's a hot woman, we have to give her the same advice we would give incels. Which is what she is. She is an incel. She's literally a f**k, she's femcel.

So, you have to, your dating life starts with your social life. So are you doing shit? Right. Are you like putting yourself in a position to meet people? You don't want to be on apps? OK. Are you fucking going to, you know, cool gallery openings, movies, you know, movie places you might bump into? Comedy shows. I would stay away from those, especially if it's from podcasters.

I think also, it's rather good hot sexist to be found. It sounds like she's new maybe to New York City and doesn't realize it's a cutthroat city It's a cutthroat city baby to get good hot sex Even if you're a hot 23 year old and that's true. It is cutthroat for everyone. Everything is a little harder here But the rewards are so much better. And also she says she's living here deadline like You're only 23. You're already gonna move back to fucking Iowa. We're gonna be running out of money. That's true That is she just needs to Get fucked I

Think yeah The I remember being young and having an idea of what New York is gonna be and if she's like I need to fucking Some hot guy to fuck the shit out of me, and I need to get famous in four months Or I'm moving home you got to give it a little more time. You gotta give it a little more time You know we've all been there But so that's these are these are our general questions. Are you putting yourself out there? You seem to have you know confidence? So if that's you're good there, but it's like you do got a piece about their somewhat

you at least have to put the ball in play you know i mean like you can't just be fine you want to take charge i get that you're a you're a beautiful young woman you have an idea of how you want these things to go you have to put you have to you to win that you have to at least be in some games nothing comes easy so get out there baby girl go to a wide variety of places believe in you we do believe in I think that you're Attainable and also if you have a couple bad ones don't let that discourage

No, right like if you're looking to get you know turbo fucked or whatever If you first you don't succeed brush yourself off and try that's right the road the road to a W is littered with Losses you miss 100% of the shots. That's right. That's right. It's true Is it time to oh I think I think it's time to My god we we look where we we are I'm sorry our dear guest Kareem Rama couldn't be here for this portion but we're very happy to have JP McDade keeping it twisted with us and JP what do we you know what I mean thanks for taking thanks for taking the guest place and you know I know you really love

Kareem Rama right? I can't get enough of Kareem Rama and their performance in Keep the meter running but it's time for a very very important message. They had to go to the bathroom and it's time for us to keep it twisted keeping it twisted cannot wait when this the twisted sirens call, you must, when they beckon you, you must answer their call. We are first responders. We're the first responders to the twisted T sirens.

And it's time for this week's freaky- We got a twisted T emergency in sector five. We got a freaky ass motherfucking question of the damn ass week Brought to you by twisted t. What's the twisted question this week eldest? It's dog. Hey eldest. Um, I got a bit of a funny situation. I'm looking for your advice on So some contacts on 30 my girlfriend should 24 So some context, I'm 30, my girlfriend's at 24. Keep it twisted.

We've been dating about a year and a half, everything's been going good, we just moved in together. Nice. Super optimistic about the future, everything's looking good. Never had any arguments, never any big disagreement, but some things come up and we just can't seem to get off the topic. So, um, here it is. Um, so I'm sure you're familiar with the Migos.

Sure. I'm not their biggest fan, but I, you know, I do like some of their music. Um, there's an ad-lib in one of their songs where they go, mama, a few times. Great ad-lib. I got it queued up right here for you. T-shirt. Yeah, we know it. That little mama right there. That's what I call them. So after listening to the song a bunch, I had the ad-lib in my head and me and my girl are getting ready to get started And then she left her shirt. I had to go mama just like the Migos ad-lib so come on

Worded out blah blah looking for an explanation why they do that. I say I Literally just explained this I say, you know song t-shirt Migos they got an ad-lib that goes mama and for some reason she's she direct place from what I I don't like the Migos so why would I be doing an ad-lib from a song or an artist I apparently don't like She started pushing me to think I have some sort of mommy fetish You could she said it's okay if I do but I don't so I'm And I'm just kind of wondering how

How we're gonna how I'm gonna get through this and what I should say to move on, thanks. The next time you hook up, you take off your pants. Boom, you're wearing a diaper. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Yep, yep, yeah, I mean, your girl is accusing you of keeping it very twisted. Keeping it kind of high level twisted right now with some mommy issue, mommy fetish.

I will say she's got a point going, mama, I know you think you sounded like cool and you're like mama, but to her it was like mama. Mommy. Mama. So to her, you sounded like a baby who saw tits. Mom. Mom. Mom! Yeah. Mom!

Mom! So you gotta take the L here. You kept it too twisted. See, there's a, there's a, there is a science to keeping it twisted. You gotta keep it as twisted. We're all searching for the most twisted we can keep it before embarrassing ourselves. You bit off more than you could chew.

You got a mouthful of Keeping It Twisted, and it's coming out of the sides. Yeah, it's coming out of your ears because you could not digest all of this Keeping It Twisted. This is too big of a twisted undertaking for you. Keep it twisted responsibly. Keep it, well you gotta keep, part of Keeping It Twisted is keeping it twisted Responsibly, but we've got to keep part of keeping it to which is keeping it twisted responsibly Particularly where you're enjoying an ice cold twisted tea

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Oh yeah. Oh yeah. So yeah, dude, you kept it too twisted. You can't be doing Migos ad-libs. You don't have the sauce for Migos ad-libs. Start doing other mad libs cover your tracks. I'm trying to think yeah that is true. Go ahead Eldis. Well I was gonna say I get a vibe from this guy that like when you do something like that when you have like you know rap lyric Tourette's or something it's like you're talking to your girlfriend the way you would

around the boys. Right. If we're sitting on the couch, I could be like, mama. And that's like, yeah. And that's funny. All the bros roll with it. The girls don't really care for that. That sounds so stupid. That's actually his biggest sin. Yeah. It's not the ad lib. It's behaving the way you would in a just chilling with the fellas, keeping it twisted responsibly around, you know what I mean?

Watching a movie, keeping it twisted,ibly around you know what I mean watching a movie keeping it twisted saying some dumb shit you brought that energy into the bedroom you brought like Xbox lobby we're playing FIFA together we call each other you know derogatory names you brought that vibe to the bedroom too twisted twisted in the wrong direction. You gotta keep it twisted. Twisted clockwise, my brother, cause there's a time for that. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

So how do you move on? You take the L, you admit you don't have the ability to do that. You hit her with the Ric Flair drip, go woo on a bitch. Yeah, you go woo, yeah. Yeah, I mean, if you could try other ad-libs, but I don't think you, you know're yeah, you're getting head you're going There was some OJ the juice man Lot of great ad-libs the best ad-lib of all time is in that big-timer song We're like on on my way to fuck your girl something like the GPS navigation. Whatever is like turn left

Manifest this turn left. Might be Birdman. There's some great stuff there yeah. So look, if maybe try an ad lib that you want to bear yourself with, I personally think that's any ad lib in the bedroom is too twisted for you. You can't pull it off.

Keep it less twisted. Keep it twisted responsibly. And just don't keep the ad lis out and just take your L's man And you know what you know you really want to make it up to your girl get her a nice cold twisted tea and remember always Keep it twisted Yeah bark DMX bark while you're getting sucked off. Come on!

What? What's that? Oh no, but we were just talking about ad-libs. There was more riffs to do, but I guess it's over now. Alright, well let's return to the episode with Kareem Rama. Keep it twisted. What else we got, LD? Star-roasted Scott again. Hi Scott. Hope you guys are well.

Uh, so the biggest problem I've been having lately is, I just overeat, man. So the biggest problem I've been having lately is I just overeat, man. You know, I go hit a McDonald's, right? Get the fucking quarter pounder with cheese, large fries, large Coke, solid, can't beat it, I'll eat that. And then right after I'll hit Taco Bell.

That's a big bad. Right after? No, that is- Okay, now you have my attention. I understand. This is something I'm addicted to as well. Okay. It's really bad.

Supreme style. I love this guy. I'm so hungry. Me too, actually. I'm so fucking hungry. And at the end of the night, I feel like shit. Mm-hmm. Yeah What do you do to curve this? Eat acting out with eating I mean, thanks. Love you guys

It's so so fucking hard. He said this and it just transport it We're especially the last girl Now she already started me getting on being 23 and then this guy and I'm like, oh my god I remember the fucked up shit. We would do a McDonald's dude at Taco Bell the like the like I Coming home from open mics from the I would go to drive to DC and there was one DC There was a McDonald's on route one right before you got to 295 to drive to Baltimore and if I had the willpower to get like it was like I was literally like don't turn don't turn but the problem was there was one also at the exact opposite there was

one where you got off the highway at 95 right before and and so it was like, if one McDonald's, the McDonald's in DC didn't get me, the McDonald's in fucking, in Baltimore would get me. And I remember just, the order's creeping. It's starting like, kind of, you know, like, not crazy. A sandwich, fries, and some, and a, I would even go like Diet Coke, and then it would just be like,

well let's throw it, you know, I'm getting a, throw in the nugs. Let's throw in some four nuggets on a fucking burger I'm gonna flurry and then and then it just yeah, it just fucking cascades I respect this guy for being this level of like he's got to get two places Curbing it is tough. Honestly, you have to fuck it in my in my Experience you have to fucking treat yourself like a fucking gremlin, like a mogwai, whatever, and like lock yourself up overnight.

But if you're out there, and also finding things that feel indulgent, like what I tried for years was pure diet, pure like, I'm having apples with a little peanut butter at midnight instead of a fucking, and that's not gonna happen. You have to have like the methadone of junk food, in my opinion. This is harm reduction.

This is not like, this is not solving your problem completely, cause if you're built this way, you're gonna wanna do this, and like, even where I've lost, you know, this past year I've lost like approximately At my I lost 40 pounds. I gained 20 of it. I lost 10 So like let's say right now I'm like 30 ish pounds down from this time last year And I wanted it to be a little more this obviously, you know, I wanted I wanted that to be better but

When I was on my when I was really on my shit and eating really clean, or like eating really good, I just tracked my calories, and I knew I was a late night eater, so honestly it sounds fucking stupid, I just wouldn't eat, and I don't need, I'm a guy who doesn't really need breakfast, I learned. I just didn't eat, I just saved my calories for later. And not only that, but I would,'s there's a brand there's a Costco

brand of chicken tenders that's very lightly breaded that the macros are pretty good on it and like you eat that with a little dipping with a buffalo sauce it feels like you're eating something but and you can have like so you need a placebo effect you need the placebo and then even uh halo top right like a little fucking fake ice cream you can's a whole pint you can eat the whole pie and you do I have had nights where it's like I I will have a 750 calorie meal that if you took a picture of it Looks like a really fucked up meal But it's chicken tenders and it's fries that I would you know you can cut the fries and if you don't want that There's you know

There's like frozen fries that you can put, tenders and air fryers, and the macros are pretty good on. Less oils. Less oils, all this shit. Like there's just little stuff you can do. Because you sound pretty young, there's also pretty, you know, whatever, this is a problem. Because this is a little, this is also,

it feels fucking good. It's your little ritual. And if you can have that positive feeling and Not have the negativity like that's nice like I remember when I was dieting really heavy in the summer I would like it was my ritual It was the same way when I would come home and I would have I would have a fucking diet A&W root beer with like I would make these like Protein pancakes that were cottage cheese egg whites and a little bit of oat flour

And I would put a little bit of fucking halo top And I would have a sir and I would make it like a little fucking crepe roll-up thing And it's like that thing was like 200 calories with a bunch of protein and like and it but in my head I'm like I'm having a pancake with ice cream and I would eat a little and so that's what's worked for me in the past trying to pretend this is not the disability that I have that I must have something delicious and this guy and I'm always saying is because this guy does not sound like he's in the place to go cold turkey you hear it in his voice I don't think you should go cold turkey yeah I will say I think it's okay what he's doing but it needs to happen in moderation. So I

think if he wants to hit that Taco Bell. And yeah I'm not saying cut it out of your life completely for sure. I feel bad because he sounds like it's a curse. Yeah it is. Believe me I have this. I have whatever he has. Yeah, I can't comment on because I'm not addicted to fast food I like it I look at it like a treat Yeah, like when I go to Taco Bell, I'm like, I think about it for two days. Yeah, so that's the delayed gratification Like that now I will have Taco Bell probably within the next four days. Yeah, because it's come about it Yeah, but if I see it, I don't really think about eating it But if we have a conversation to start thinking about how good your idea is. Yeah, it tastes like fake and delicious And the tacos are fire like yeah, and then you can get a whole like a cool

Yeah, you get a nice setup dude for sure. And so I don't know it's a it's a it's definitely a tough situation But I think hang in there. I think Try to moderate I think look at it as a reward to a tough day Yeah, like if you're trying to you know, it's like you can't get caught in that feedback Like I just speaking of what is a weekend? Yeah, speaking of a guy speaking as a guy who literally like this. This is what I'm a dick That's what I've learned more than anything It's like I have taken pretty much every drug and it's fine. Like I can stop I legitimately can't stop I

Cannot this is so, this is harder by an order of magnitude. It's like food, weed, and then like I guess when I was taking pills, and I wasn't taking that much, don't get me wrong, I was never like, oh I need to take a fuck pills. But it's like, those are just so good that you're like, the first day you're like, I need to chill out,

it's kinda like the fucking Lord of the Rings We're like maybe just one more Those are those are well those feel good. Yeah. Well you this doesn't make you feel good though Second you're eating it at the yeah Incredible minutes sweating in bed, but see dude I've said this before it to me It kind of is like it is kind of pill heroin like where it's like You're in that fucked up. Like i'm so full. I can't do shit I literally like that feeling that afterwards from I don't like shitting my fucking brains out or whatever

But I like being there Stuff to the fuck. I'm also you're usually high too. It's like yeah, you're stuffed. You're high your blood You're crashed your blood sugar's crashed and you're just a fucking vegetable and you're watching fucking aqua teen hunger force. You're stuffed you're high your blood your crash your blood sugar is crashing You're just a fucking vegetable and you're watching fucking aqua teen hunger force. You're like this is the happiest I'll ever be in my life and I literally mean that where it's like if there was a pill I could take to have the moment of Just smoked a little bit Ate the food so I feel stuffed but it's not starting to hurt my stomach. There is like a beautiful half hour window.

I think you need that stick. What stick? That old stick. What's that? The little zempick. Oh yeah, no for real. That makes me feel full. I have done some very serious research.

I'm looking into with my healthcare professional. Your team. Me and my team are in. Your medical team. Me and my medical team are engaged in some serious discussions because that is that is kind of what this last year Taught me is that like yeah, even this this guy asked a question about McDonald's and I have not shut the fuck up 20 minutes cream has not gotten a word in edgewise He had stuff he was like, oh, I know you were like excited and I just I just

Expert it wasn't even I didn't meet I literally just snapped out of it like I have this addiction So that is sort of what I am. I do think I'm gonna try it I do think I'm gonna know some people that have that have lost a lot of weight. Yeah, and it's easy Yeah, seems like it's effective. Yeah, it's it's and and it makes you feel full So you just you're it nothing changes in your body yeah well i mean it does but something to me and the way you feel for you we love because you feel for sure and you feel satisfied yeah and there's i a you know i've been looking into that and i'm not even worry about the long

term shit now i'm like all right what about the side effects and especially going on towards i don't want to be fucking having diarrhea on a tour bus for the twenty hours a, but whatever we'll see I have some I I you know like I said we're in discussions we're and I do think I think I am gonna try it this year because What I tried this last year was What if I really tried to be healthy and like it worked? Until I started having to work until I started until tires came back until I had this movie to promote while tires were shooting

And that was actually the that's what killed also doing it with sobriety is hard and so because the you know All you have left is is the food. Yeah when you're stressed anyway, I Think that was enough for you, but you see you take my advice You see that it pains me greatly that I've gone through what you've gone through. And yeah, just, I think you're at a point where you need to keep the ritual but make it a little less harmful for you right now. Man, I'm fucking hungry now that we're talking about.

I'm so hungry. I got some fucking rice in the rice cooker. I might go to Taco Bell. Yeah. Is there one around here? There is one pretty close. Well, not super close, but yeah. That's what I'm having for lunch, fuck it. Oh, wait, Well, not super so much. Fuck it. Oh, yeah. Wait. No, I'm gonna cleanse right now I'm actually on a cleanse. That's why I'm so hungry. Oh

Yeah, I do these seven-day bursts I do little bursts and what's the clean your body No, you do a smooth this is why I like it you do a smoothie in the morning and they give you like all this powder and stuff and You can put like pretty much any fruit and vegetable in there and then you do a smooth this is why I like you do a smoothie in the morning and they give you like all this powder and stuff and You can put like pretty much any fruit and vegetable in there and then you do a very healthy lunch where you can get anywhere That's why that's fits into my life because I can go go to lunch get like a salmon salad or you just Get a healthy. Yeah, but you just like you have a list of foods that you can eat and not eat like cheese is not on The list and but like salmon is so like I can still be Social have lunch and then at night. It's another smoothie. Okay And these supplement pills and tea

But it is more of that like I look I actually look great. I'm on day three right now I'm deep loaded completely deep loaded and I think it is it's for detoxifying and Inflammation and it essentially cleans the inside of your body. I'll send you a link. I'd like to, yeah. I really like, I did it for 14 days once and this time I'm doing seven days,

I'm doing a little burst but I do it like two or three times a year. Feels good, I feel great. I might fucking do it, I might fuck around and do that. It's fun. Yeah. Do you say data or data? Well at my house we say data

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It's so nice to hear your voice since your beautiful face. Thanks, man. Um, I have a quick question for you. Um, so my wife is a rock star. She lets me have a girlfriend That's so this guy is the most mild-mannered for even calling your wife a rock star like a like a link again Yeah, exactly. He's so social media. Yeah. Yeah. He really has that and he was just mild-mannered as fuck Awesome all did not expect that go to be where this is going but go ahead But my girlfriend's husband Struggling doing this come on now this let's just put this on eldest got duped watch. This is a total this

Total this is fucking fake. It's a great bit, but let's let's hear it out. We're on eldest got duped watch this is a total this is a total this is fucking fake. It's a great bit But let's let's hear it out. We're on elders got duped watch everyone go ahead he's struggling doing his husbandly duties and Come on, man Being a good dad and trying not to laugh and a good provider overall Trying not to laugh this whole time. And a good provider overall. I hope to give this guy some advice.

Okay, so I'm to believe that you want advice for your girlfriend's husband. It's a great bit. And by the way, it's like, yeah, this is crazy. It's a great bit. I mean, I don't want to minimize it though, but if it's not a bit... I would, I do, but go ahead, Eldis. Let's just finish it out. Because I'm able to keep His wife and my wife happy so just I don't know how to filter it to him Without what are you talking making him like a total cuck?

Yeah, any pointers you can give trying to Get this why I get Obviously he's not a great listener. Yeah, any pointers would be appreciated. Best of luck. Love your show. Stay on your diet. You look beautiful. Bye. I think he should fuck the husband. Yeah, fuck his ass. Like literally fuck him.

Yeah. That will work. Honestly, yeah, you have to fuck each other for supremacy of the polycule. And then he has to listen to you. Um, this isn't real. There's no way this is fucking real. other for supremacy of the polycule and then he has to listen to you um this isn't real there's no way this is fucking real because you don't sit your fucking girlfriend's husband down and have a life chat with him that's not these people fuck each other you fuck your girlfriend you don't fucking give her husband fucking life advice out this Jesus Christ yeah it sounds like he's a little more he's a little controlling yeah she likes the guy you don't fucking give her husband fucking life advice eldest Jesus Christ. Yeah, it sounds like he's a little more

He's a little controlling. Yeah She likes the guy you don't get a yeah first of all what a medal in their life. Yeah. Yeah, I don't happy We don't believe you if you want to come back call back with you know some proof. I don't know how you would do it Some proof maybe make it sound less like you're smiling the whole time I mean it literally sounds like he's about to laugh the whole time and he's like talking in short clipped sentences so he doesn't lose it so we don't believe you all this is fucking stupid next question eldest hey Bobby hey Elvis and esteemed guests I'm calling because I have a bit of a predicament with a friend of mine She

fancies herself a bit of a matchmaker and has Convinced herself that she has found me Perfect soul mate for me And she's really insistent on introducing us and has been for the last two or three months on introducing us and has been for the last two or three months. The problem is that the last person she introduced me to I ended up having to get a restraining order. So obviously I don't really trust her judgment. Come on this one feels fake too! Keep going. For some reason she's just insistent on trying to get me to go out with this guy that she thinks will be the love of my life.

So I was wondering if you could give me some advice on how to approach this with her. I don't want to be mean to say, hey, I don't think that you're a good judge of character. Why don't you want to say that? I'll say as your friend as your friend, you know that the last time you hooked me up with a guy He went to jail. Yeah Yeah, somebody cooks you a meal and you get violent diarrhea from it and they're like, hey

I got some fucking linguine for you you might not have the fucking linguine I mean what is this I think she's being too soft I think it's easy hey friend I know you have good intentions and you want to set me up with a with a guy I'm okay also like she doesn't feel bad about the guy the other person having a fucking restraining order no she's re-upping maybe okay that actually could be it she might feel so bad that she's like oh I can fix this if I if I get her her actual husband and so yeah look you're more we're and maybe I do believe this because this is it is how funny like this is like you know women not trying to hurt anybody's feelings and being so like so dating being so hard

You're just like maybe I should do it But it's like you don't want to do it if you had to if you had to meet this person like Also, your friend is fucking weird too because it's like what is she telling this guy like if if someone is telling me for months Like you gotta meet my friend. What is she saying to the other person? Yeah, yeah, I don't know it's it's it sounds like you just if it's if she's your good friend Just having that's not that you don't say that yeah, you know like Mark tried to fucking stab me I don't want to get fucking noodles with this guy. That's what you say like you're on probation from What do you mean? You don't want to say that?

That's crazy. She could also lie and just say I Know she can't lie. She can't live like this her friend introduces somebody who she has to get a restraining order I don't want her to lie But it just in case she needs like if she just know something's fucked up in this in their relationship with the power dynamic If you can't tell her are you out of your fucking mind? I'm gonna go on a fucking day. That's true with somebody after the last guy Fucking was in my air vents like then you did you like what this isn't a friend This is a person you're scared to speak up around and that's something you need to think about and that's something you have to like

This is an assertiveness problem overall for you I think like that's even underlying this thing like look you don't have to meet this guy Yes, you could lie whatever but you don't want to be the kind of person that somebody fucks you I mean this your friend fucked you over she might had good intentions, whatever but like You're allowed to be pissed at this person. You're allowed to say no. Like they fucking had, they brought a weird criminal stalker into your life, like you're allowed to not,

and yeah, even if you're not pissed, you're like, hey, I get it, you couldn't have known, you just met this guy at work and you thought he was cool. I just don't fucking try. You're on setting me up with people probation. I think it's okay. I think she just says it's a pass. But I do think you have,

she, cause she wants to say you're not a good judge of character. And the friend earned it. It's not like she's, it's not like her friend has a fucking, you know, lazy eye and she wants to like, be like, you know, be like, treated with kid gloves and be respectful. It's not something that like, you know, be like, treat it with kid gloves and be respectful.

It's not something that like, her friend made a fucking weird mistake and it pisses her off. She should be able to say how she feels about it. Like if this happened to me, again, I just go back to what if this happened to me and Eldis? It would actually be kind of a gift

because I would never stop shitting on him for it for the rest of my life I would just bring it up non-stop. He made these really salty brownies ones We'll talk about it for the rest of our lives. He tried to sneak out. That was the best part This is a true. He made very salty brownies Don't you don't and then he was like, all right guys I'm gonna head out before he cut the brownies who it does does that? Who makes the dessert and doesn't wanna see everybody's face as they eat it?

Yeah, doesn't want, he tried a little bite, he saw how salty it was and he was like, okay. Didn't clean up by the way, there's bowls in the fucking sink. He's like, see, he's got his backpack on. By the way, we all hang out until like midnight here all the time. This is the most uncharacteristic,

he thought he was being fucking slick. I gotta go guys. Yeah. And we were like what? Hey the brownies are done. I gotta go guys, enjoy. Yes. I was on the time quite set.

Imagine a grandma dude. A grandma or a mom, come on. You can't make the brownies and then dip. So the salty brownies. I don't even feel like cleaning that shit, I don't care. It's crazy you didn't clean after fucking ruining those brownies What's alarming if she says I don't want to be mean to say hey I don't think that you're a good judge of character. It's not me and that's what I'm saying

That's that's my point is a normal conversation. You have to stop living your life in fear of being mean My hunch is this is an overarching problem for our friend in this relationship dynamic and this is a safe way Not just in relation to dynamic. And this is a safe way, not just in relationship dynamic, I think this probably has to do with everybody. That's my guess. It's a life dynamic. Just because this was something I worked on when I was younger too,

like just not being assertive, not whatever. People-pleaser. People-pleasing stuff, right? And so I think this is a good way amongst, you're with a friend and she did something fucked up that you're not even mad about, you just want it on the record that because of your error, I will no longer. You drove me home drunk.

I'm not getting in your Corolla again. This is that. That's what she's doing. You fucking put me in danger whether you want it to or not. I'm not going. And you're fine to say that. She is a bad judge of character, clearly. Confirmed. So, yeah, you're good. And you know, you don't have to be super mean about it. You're fine to say that. She is a bad judge of character, clearly.

Confirmed. So yeah, you're good. And you don't have to be super mean about it. You can even laugh it off, but you, I just am very, I just don't want people to ever have to live in somebody else's fake reality. You want to live in the real world, and if your friend is pretending like that was no big deal,

you have to be like, hey, it's cool, I guy kind of no harm no harm but I'm obviously not trusting you we don't gotta go for it yeah exactly the bang bang what do you say one more eldest what do we got here you got you got time for one more cream I got I got one more we can like we can wrap up super quick you like we like then on a very quick one Elvis I know you you bet Hi, I'm literally watching. Let's start a call right now Can you fucking let your boy know that he doesn't even have a fucking? IMDB photo. What is he has a whole ass movie? he doesn't even have an ice a picture of his

Check I think I did put one out the same like bro. Please get on his ass I went I I forget why oh I wanted to see when the hell it actually came out it came out in October I'm sorry, but I'm also I like that laugh. Listen. I was People heard about fucking advertising and stuff and one of the main fucking things that people with movies up on- Shut the fuck up. Stop the glee in your voice, motherfucker. Okay, sorry, I'm talking your ear off.

Apology accepted. All right, love you. Love, Savvy, obviously. Please give him some shit, and God, don't put this on the show. Okay, bye. Let's go to my IMDB. Do I have a fucking picture up? If he's right, he's right. He's right, he's right. Because, okay, it used to be- If he's right, he's right. Do I have a fucking picture up if he's right?

Okay, you're right. He's right. It used to be Shane Gillis someone put that's so funny. Oh Oh, it's up there. You look great Okay, and that's the trailer for the film. That's the trailer. That's sick. Yeah, fuck you. You piece of shit. I got a picture update your internet connection That's how it works all right well that's the show Kareem this is great brother this was great man thank you for having me I love you all yep go watch Kareem stuff and we will talk to you guys later bye bye see you on the flip I'm out. Bye.