Stavvy's World - #142 - Ralph Barbosa

Episode Date: August 18, 2025

Ralph Barbosa joins the pod to discuss his new special PLANET BOSA out now on Hulu, worrying about not having any cool facts to share when he did Joe Rogan’s pod, an offer that he’s sad no one has ever made him, the industry he wishes he broke into, being the Robin Hood of buying cars on Facebook Marketplace, and much more. Ralph and Stav help callers including a guy who’s wondering if he should sabotage the job of a guy he doesn’t like based on a rumor, and a guy who’s wondering if he can keep packages that keep getting mistakenly delivered to his house by the former residents. Watch Ralph Barbosa’s special PLANET BOSA on Hulu: https://www.hulu.com/movie/ralph-barbosa-planet-bosa Follow Ralph Barbosa: https://www.instagram.com/ralphbarbosa03/ http://www.tiktok.com/@ralphbarbosa03 https://www.youtube.com/@ralphbarbosa03 https://twitter.com/ralphbarbosa03 For 10% off your order, go to https://pestie.com/stavvy Head Green Chef at http://greenchef.com/50stavvy and use code 50STAVVY to get 50% off your first month, then 20% off the next two months with free shipping. Grow your business right now at Shopify -- no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a  $1/month trial at https://www.shopify.com/stavvy MeUndies -- comfort that's made for summer! Visit https://www.meundies.com/stavvy and enter promo code STAVVY for up to 50% off. 🎟️ See Stavvy live on the Dreamboat Tour 🛥️💕!!! https://stavvy.biz/ for tickets 🎥 Rent or buy LET'S START A CULT at https://stavvy.biz/movie ‼️ Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld ☎️ Wanna be part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

Opa, welcome everybody to Stavvy's World 9-0-4-800-stop. Call in and solve all your problems. We got Ralph Barbos on the couch today. Ralph, thanks for coming, bro. Thanks for having me. What's up, everybody. Oh, yeah, dude. Straight, straight off the jet.

Straight off the jet. Straight off the jet from, from, what's the, it's George Bush, it's George H. Bush Airport? No, no, no. Yeah, but I was, I mean, I'm not from Houston. I know, but which one's Dallas? Dallas is DFW. They didn't name it after a fucking president, nothing.

They just named it after. Yeah. The two cities it's in between. Fort Worth is barely a city, though. The Dallas is all suburb. Thank you for saying that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You hear that Forward, you fucking assholes.

Yeah. Let's get into it. Let's do some greater Dallas metro area. Let's do 40 minutes on the Dallas metro area. Hell yeah. People, you've got to know. Yeah. This is as important as like Civil War, history,

in World War II shit. Dallas is better than Fort Worth. Yeah, I mean, sure. I do think the problem with Dallas, though, it is all suburbs. It's just a collection of suburbs and, like, it's like mall to mall. Yeah, I guess so. I didn't really realize how many malls we had until I went to cities with no mall. Yeah, it's a big mall culture over there.

It's malls and then bars. That's all it is. And then you drive drunk from the bar to the mall. Everybody drives drunk in Dallas. It's insane. Yeah, dude, people would look at me, like, I, because, you know, I did, I think, hyenas or some shit way back in the day. Yeah. And just walking anywhere, people looked at you like you were insane.

Yeah. Like, no one walked. Like, I would walk from my, like, hotel to, like, there was like a movie theater. And it was like, you know, 12 minute one. What are you doing? Drive a truck. It was insane. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Burn eight gallons of gasoline for a four-minute drive. If you're not burning gas, bro, they'll tax you. Yeah, yeah. They love that shit. I flew in from Austin, though. Okay. Yeah. in my stomach i've been having the shits the past couple of days what did you get into in i had an

had an extravagant meal i've been splurging uh let's talk about i love talk about extravagant meals yeah i flew in to austin before coming to new york and i was at my hotel and i was just like i couldn't decide what to order from door dash and then i was like bro i just made a bunch of money on hulu i can order like three different three different three different three different $40 meals. I ordered from two Italian restaurants. Two, okay. And then I ordered from one wing place.

The same, two restaurants, the same cuisine, that is a wild move. Because one of them didn't have meatball subs. And then the other one had, what do you call it, bolognese? Sure, sure, sure. So you wanted a high end and a low end, Italian experience, plus wings. Yeah. Interesting. Yeah, I was craving hot wings for a couple days.

but man that fucked up my stomach that is a wild meal spaghetti bolognese a meatball sub and wings i have tipped my cap to you i mean i didn't eat all of it obviously but i just wanted a little bit of each a third a third of each to make one full meal or did you take down all the hot wings you can't save hot wings yeah no no i took them down but then uh i woke up in the middle of the night and then i finished off the bolognais it was good man a little 2 a m bolognais i had i did uh rogan's podcast next day and uh yeah it's you know it goes long it goes like three hours and the whole time i was like i'm gonna shit my pants like and your shit's you're just rumbling the whole time yeah yeah dude it's bad man belly full of bolognese and wings and brogan's just kind of hitting you with like

you know theories about a human evolution or whatever yeah i feel bad because i feel like people always go on his show and they have like a lot of cool knowledge like information to share yeah and i was just asking them stuff Oh, nice. Yeah. You're just like trying to like fill time so you can shit. Yeah. You're like, oh, that's really interesting, Joe.

Can you tell me more about that? As you're just like, holding back, just focusing all your attention on holding your asshole, just slammed shut. I just kept in my mind, I just kept telling myself. And I tell myself this anytime that I feel like I might shit my pants, I just keep telling myself like, I'm an adult, I'm an adult, I'm an adult. But the more I say that, the more I come to the realization, like I should just shit my pants. I'm grown, man.

Right. Right, right. Tell me anything. Oh, that's an interesting read on it. It's the flip side. Yeah. As an adult, I have the choice to shit my pants. Yeah.

Because I have to deal with it. I'm not a child who's going to shit my pants. I'm buying the new pants. Yeah. I'm buying Rogan a new $400 chair or whatever. You know what I mean? I'm paying. We'll smoke a couple of cigar.

I mean, the cigar smoke is so thick in there. I feel like it would cover the smell of shit. Yeah, last time I was there, the first time I went, he offered me a cigar. This time, he didn't offer me one. I don't know if I did something wrong Uh-oh And you know

The first time I was there Is he smoking a cigar? Nah Okay, okay Maybe he's living clean Who knows? Yeah, that could be it I'm gonna go with that

Yeah, yeah, yeah The first time I went I got to use his pool table And then this time I showed up And they were like Yeah, he'll be here in a minute And I was like

All right, cool Can I go fuck with the pool tables While I wait? And they're like, no. Whoa! I was like, What did I do last time? And then

And I was like, all right, we'll give him another shot the whole time. You're quiet, just trying not to shit yourself. Yeah. Wow, so you lost pool table and cigar privileges. Yeah, I got to earn those back. I don't think it was you. I think somebody did something stupid with the pool table. I bet you like Ben Shapiro got something on the pool table, you know what I mean, got some locks not to be stereotypical.

You know what I mean? It was probably like, you know, maybe Jordan Peterson started crying about how beautiful, you know, Pinocchio is. And so he got tears all over the felt pool table. I think it's something like that.

Jordan Peterson fucking ended up for me. Jordan Peterson gave me diarrhea. Oh, fuck, dude. I do like, I like when a skinny man will indulge in a,

you know, in a true meal. Oh, yeah. You know, do you plan? I have crazy metabolism. Oh, interesting. So do you think that's

right around the corner is just getting fat at like, 40 for you or something like that yeah for some reason my metabolism has been like just fucking on overdrive but i have a feeling like any day now it's just gonna completely shut down and then i'll just like that is true i do feel like latinos as they age either keep like keep like a good like physique or all of a sudden one day you're shaped like a potato i try to look at and that goes for men and women by the yeah not i mean like either one like what sucks about I think for the women, for Latino women, it's usually right after they have a baby.

Right. You know what I mean? Right. They all go, yes. But for men, it's, it's, I don't know when. But, and then I try to look at older people, like at airports and stuff. And I try to wonder, like, which body type am I going to be when I start to lose it. Right.

Like, there's dudes who, like, the, it's just, like, the belly and, like, hip area. One round. Yes. One incredibly spherical stomach. Yeah. They got, like, the four-month pregnant thing going on. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But then I feel like my neck is sticking it up, so I'm like,

nah, I'm definitely going to be one of those like V-shaped kind of chunky guys. You think V? Yeah, but not like good V. Not like muscular V. Okay, more like my legs will probably stay small. Oh, skinny-ass legs. Yeah, yeah, my legs will stay small, but my upper body will start to like. Right, right, right.

I think you're thinking of ice cream cone. Ice cream cone, there you go. Yeah, yeah, yeah. A V on the legs, too fat, you know, too. Snowman up top, cone in the bottom. Yeah, yeah. I think I'm a snowman. man i don't know yeah i like that dude i like that you're just you're you're not trying to fight it

you're like i'm gonna get fat as shit someday yeah but i also have these moments where i lie to myself and i'm like because i eat shitty on the road like i'll have two weeks where i'm like i'm eating really good and then uh i'll i'll it'll start with one like fucking downhill meal where i'll just be like nah i've earned these fucking bolognese and hot wings and then it just goes shit after that i want to eat like yeah you're just you just eat the way like as if you were like a Vegas buffet yeah Like, I want two disparate cuisines. And, but as I'm eating this shit, I lie to myself.

And I'm like, nah, it's okay because one of these days I'm just going to go super fit and gym every day. Right. Like, that's not. It's probably not going to happen. I don't think so. What about, do you have people in your family? Can you look forward? What's your dad's body look like?

What's your uncles? Anything like that? My dad has a beer belly. He hardly drinks. It just stayed, you know? My uncle is short. And, man, you know what? Yeah.

He's losing the next. neck. It's just becoming a chest piece. Oh, wow. His head is just descending into his body. I'm fucked, bro. And then I start to get the pressure. Like, I'm turning 29 this year. So now I feel like that pressure of like, all right, it's only going to get worse, right? Like, it's only going to get harder. Like, I have to find somebody to marry now. Right. Before my options start to diminish. Right, right, right. I know what you mean. Yeah.

Oh, we're living in the middle of a comedy bubble. Both of us have more money than we deserve. For sure. We're more famous than we're more famous than we're. deserve you know what i mean michael were talking about that on the way here like i'm so thankful that comedy is like the most popular that it's ever been yes yes yeah we got so so lucky like in terms of when our careers popped was that on the first episode of sopranos and tony soprano's like i feel like i came in at the end at the end of the best is over yeah yeah i'm like opposite like i came in at the fucking pinnacle of this people much more talented than us had to play the shittiest comedy clubs for like 12 years to make like a third of the money i had a couple

videos go viral the next thing I know women are DMing me sometimes I want to talk to these women just straightforward I'm like why are you doing this yeah yeah yeah this is you don't buy Bitcoin now bitch you buy it eight years ago it's too it's too expensive now I fucked up a couple opportunities to settle down with some good women you did over the last two years okay interesting because I got got cocky really fast sure they're talking to me like hey you know what let's work at something serious and I'm Like, I'm fucking, I'm killing it right now. Are you kidding?

I'm living a triple door dash lifestyle. You think a man who orders from three, from two different Italian restaurants and one night is going to have a wife? One night. Bro, I don't know. I'm living crazy. Yeah, I mean, but I get that, though. It's been, everything's kind of popped over the last, what, two years, would you say?

Yeah, yeah, for sure. And you were, and so you were, you were 26, 27? Yeah, I was like 26. That's the tail end of being able to blame it on youth, too, you know? Yeah. You know what I mean? Like, it's not quite... Like, I feel bad for athletes where it's like you're 19 or you're 20 and you have

$100 million in your fame. Like, of course you're going to act crazy. But, you know, you probably, like at 25, I was all, I was as dumb as like most 18-year-olds. I'm sure you feel like things took off for you. Probably, you know, similar three, four years ago. Maybe it started popping just a little before, but like, you know, I was, but I was older, right? I was like, I guess 30, 31, 32. When was, when was the-

What do you think kicked it off for you? Was it Comptown? Come down definitely helped. Don't get me wrong. Like, Comptown, I was like, when I was kind of your age is when, like, 27 is when it really popped. It was like when Comptown pop. But that was like a level of like specific podcast fame, which is awesome because, like, I need, I got to quit my job.

We were making solid, you know, we were making good money. And I could do like, you know, comedy clubs pretty good. But it was like the same shit that happened with you where I was like, we just got caught up in that stand-up clips going viral shit. And I went from like, you know, people knew me from a podcast to like people like in selling pretty well at comedy club weekends to selling eight shows in a weekend to selling theaters out to like, you know. And the special live of the live.

Lodge, when did we do that? That was like three years ago. I came out 2022. Hey, is that the one where you did the opener where you said, uh, I looked like a, a side mission boss, a side quest boss on like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. By the way, GTA, I saw the fucking guy. I don't got nothing.

People have been asking me, dude, you're in the GTA. No, they've stolen my likeness, Cal Hampton or whoever the fuck that is. There's still time to make it right, rock star. Do you see the new guy? You put you in GTA. Look at that guy. How the fuck is that not me That's fucking me dude

That's not you dude I mean they made him taller So they have But like come on Dude that's Bert Kreischer No no Bert's got enough Bert's got enough

We've been on his arena tour Yeah anyway Yes that was the one though Hey you know one time I had a I had a chance to meet you I don't know where I think it was like a comedy club I can't remember if it was here

or North Carolina Probably not North Carolina I don't think I've I just remember somebody being like Yeah But they They were I didn't know who you were necessarily

And they were like Yeah he's the dude from Comptown You wanna meet him But I was like Comptown Like I didn't know it was a podcast Sure

I was like nah It's probably like some Fucking only fans dude It's probably like some porn guy Who transitioned to comedy I was like now I'm alright That would be cool

I would give credit To like some gay porn guy Like, a lot of hot girls can go from sex work to comedy, right? Because they're hot, whatever. But if it was a fat, if it was a fat, bald, gay porn guy who flipped it into comedy, I would tip my hat to him because that's not, you know. That would be sick. The porn industry would be, like, a sick industry to, like, break into.

But it's so crazy these days. Like, I wouldn't even know how. I have a friend who said the same shit, actually. He was like, he's, like, uh, 40. something and he was like and he settled down now but he was like like his regret it's not like i wish you know people be like i wish i gave like music or comedy or whatever i try he's literally like i wish i had tried porn before i got married i should like not that i should have been like an actor no i'm not sure you know that you're not talented like that yeah yeah yeah but like bro you

you know to like produce your own porn and like put it out there like now it's just you know Only fans put too much power in the actors So wait Your pro middleman Is what you're saying I am

You're mad That the performers get all the money You think there should be some guy Who takes advantage of these Well because now it's like It's more expensive than ever Now it's like Give them the money directly back here

And then like I live in Texas Where they banned Pornhub Right And other websites Yeah I mean that's fucking crazy The Land of the Free Come on

And now, so I go on OnlyFans because I'm like, I guess this is what I got to do now, you know? But then I go on there and it's like, I got to pay for each individual video on what is the world becoming? We used to bootleg music all the time. Right. You know what I mean? We used to line wire shit. Oh, you need the Napster of OnlyFans. Is that what you're saying?

Like, yeah. Like, because now we, don't you think it's crazy that we used to give our music for free? And then, because we were bootlegging it or whatever. Sure. But now we all pay the fucking. subscriptions to like Apple or Spotify. You could argue that we used to pay for our music and artists could make a living and then getting it for free was the fucked up thing.

And now Spotify is double fucked up because we still have to pay, but it's not the artist. It's some fucking CEO that gets the money. The middleman. Yeah, yeah. But you're coming out as pro middleman is what you're saying. I'm pro middleman from porn. Because you want to be one? Is that what you're saying?

Because yeah, because I want to be a pro. Because you imagine the world, even though you're doing great right now. But you're imagining, you're mad that you could have been a porn producer and made money off that, and then probably gotten sucked off by the... Yeah, I could have been one of those guys with, like, a cigar. And then I see, like, some, like, some stripper chick, and I'm just, like, kids of stock. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. She just doesn't know it yet.

And then I'll also look at guys. You see her you to meetball sub hole? You're like, now that girl's got to be on film. Some dude, you know, I got, like, power over people. It's just like some dude wants to be a porn star. I'm like, drop your pants, kid, let's see what you got. That would give you a thrill. Yeah.

He's exploiting these people and forcing a kid to show you his penis. These are the things you wish you could do. I wish I. Okay. Hey, man, to each his own, I can't say that I share those desires. I feel like as a stand-up comedian, I might be able to get some people to show me their penis, but it wouldn't mean anything. It would be about the spectacle I'd be like I can't get you rich guy

I'm sorry right right right but he would be thinking maybe this will go viral you know what I mean he'd be doing it for exposure I feel like anybody can go viral these days but only very talented people can stay viral okay yeah yeah I think there's definitely there's definitely some kind of yeah it's interesting now I mean I do think

it was like shit was just going viral pretty easily a couple years ago yeah I think it's still goes viral easily. I just think now when I see like content creators, they like, if you go through their pages, there's a lot of content creators, but there's a shitload of them that like, if you look through their reels or their TikToks, they get like consistent views for a while. Right. And then they'll go through like heavy dips. Sure, sure, sure. But then some do's, or some content creators are just like kind of killing it consistently. Yeah, for sure. I mean,

I also do think there's a problem in that the metric has become. getting views and not is what you're making good. You know what I mean? Yeah. Because I do think there's a way, I do think people, some people are very talented and smart and shrewd about staying viral and they understand the algorithms. Was that word mean shrewd? Shrewd means just like kind of like, sort of like just smart about, like smart in a very

specific way and like understanding of the exact. It's sort of like the way people understand how to go, like somebody being shrewd about going viral is like somebody who like really understand. the algorithm patterns and shit the patterns exactly exactly they're kind of they're locked in on you know on what it takes when you use that like as many times as I can

yeah yeah yeah get true if you were a porn producer you could be like you know I'll make some shrewd moves for you kid you know what I mean you can say that to him now show me that penis now fuck my wife and do it good do it good see look I'll be honest with guys I grew up in poverty I wasn't I wasn't a stranger

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shit like that on the road? Yes, yeah, a couple A couple times Nobody's offered me And it wasn't good I don't want to do it You did it? No, no

I'm just saying That specific thing Was not interesting to me I wouldn't do it I'm just offended That I haven't even had The offer to do it Right, right

Right Right But I met a dude No, I'm not saying any names But I met a dude Who apparently Like Got hired

By his manager To bang his manager's life What an industry And got paid Wow But imagine like He was like Do this

And I think we could get you on impractical jokes You could be a guy That Sal throws a pie in his face All you got to do is fuck my wife This is just some dude Working like at an assembly line Oh you mean manager Is in like

At his blue collar job manager Not like Supervisor Supervisor Yeah Not in there So some guy this guy's making fucking parts for cars or whatever and the guy's like the guy's basically

doing what you said scouted him and he was like hey the dude was like yeah my my wife i told her for her birthday she could fuck somebody else and she chose that dude wow she chose a guy you work with that's insane yeah guys got to see him every day imagine how it feels he's got to eat turkey sandwich with him in the break room bro but imagine how it feels to be the guy next to that guy at the assembly line. Like, bro, I put in for a fucking raise. Yeah, you overhear them too. Yeah, like, can I talk to you for a second?

You just hear them like, hey, man, so I'm like, I'll give you fuck. I'm like, bro, I show up to work every fucking day on time. But this guy gets to fuck your wife. You think I don't want to fuck your wife fucking asshole? Yeah. But yeah. Well, how it was for his wife? See, if it was for like a that's their thing, because some people look, it's not, I'm not

into it. I mean, maybe it is their thing. Sure. So you think he was lying about it. I told my wife she could pick one guy. Well, I think that, uh... You think that's more of like a recruitment tactic, but he actually wanted it? I think that maybe they were like those, like those swinger types that they go out to, like, bars or whatever swinger type parties meet people and do that shit.

But I think as a birthday gift, she was like wanting to pick somebody specifically that... Oh, yes, yes. Well, for my birthday, we'll be a little naughty. We'll find someone that you work with. Yeah. Interesting, interesting. And he did it a few times. A few times.

It was her birthday month, I guess It wasn't just one time She started that whole birthday month thing I wanted to broker the whole thing I want her to broker the whole thing I'll be like hold on Yeah yeah yeah middle men You show me your penis too

Not just him, you too Wow so he asked him to do that I think about this stuff sometimes When I'm laying in bed Right Just I'm like it's like good for them That they're doing this stuff And that good for the people

That get these offers for any listeners out there maybe somebody's offered it to you but like it's just crazy to me that I'm almost 30 never once been offered and now I don't even want nobody to offer it because now I feel like they heard me complain about it

and they'll do it like a petty hey fuck my wife come on yeah hey come on it's like they're being polite yeah because they know you're not going to take them up on and they're like Ralph could really use this so now it means nothing Ralph could use this yeah yeah oh so you think it's over yeah and you just to you just want to feel desired

Yeah But you don't want to do it It would have made my year If just one guy was like Do you want to, did you fuck my wife, please? Now, this is interesting because Many women have asked to fuck you You know what I mean?

Like hot girls have DM'd you They're not asking They're like, can I fuck you sometime? Right. Oh, you think it's something about the raw You want to be desired as a sexual being Not just as an overall package of a man I'm a piece of me too

You want to be a piece of meat too You want to be a piece of meat. You want to be objectified in a way that these DMs are not cutting it. Yeah. You want another man to be like, I need you to fuck my wife. Maybe there's a little misogyny wrapped up in here because the value of a, you want a man to place sexual value on you. It's not enough for a woman to see you as a partner.

You're a good therapist. I'm learning a lot about myself. I want men. to objectify me but in a straight way but you need it filtered through their wives I want to do it to be like dude you're fucking hot fuck my girl

fuck my girl you beef cake now but if a girl just was that sexually forward with you would it scratch the same itch uh yeah now that would definitely feel better okay okay that would be better that would be cool I'm going to go through my message request

Maybe there's something in there Yeah Yeah hopefully There might be something Christmas morning Yeah yeah yeah yeah exactly Hopefully something comes in Before this episode comes out

Yeah That would really boost my evil It wasn't because People saw this and are responding to it Yeah I wouldn't even like need the actual hookup I just need the thrill of I could have had it Right

You know what I get The older I get the more Being able to is almost as good as doing it. Yeah. You know what I mean? Like knowing a hot girl wanted to fuck me and having like proof, especially now where it was like, you know, I'm tired, I don't want to stay up late.

You know what I mean? Like, it's like I'm 36. I'm fat as hell. I'm trying to get. I have a friend that I don't know how many times he's already been, had, had his trips paid for by women who want to bang him. Wow. And then.

Respect. And then has gotten offered like, hey, why don't you take a trip with? me here i'll i'll cover the cause you know just take the trip with me and he's just like wow i was like what the fuck i would fucking drop tour days for these opportunities well this is a very interesting thing because i think we're both kind of it's it's from a similar place of like you have it all right like your shit's awesome but you just want and maybe we're similar here where i think so much of my pathology and like all the shit that's fucked up with me is that like i and why, like,

hooking up with girls matters to me and what I'm trying to get in control of is that you just want, you just wish you had been desirable when it mattered. Yeah. Like high school, you know what I mean?

Like, you wanted to, because I didn't fucking high school, I'm trapped in this like, I think if someone, if I fuck enough women, like it'll be like a time machine where I go back in time

and like I was cool in high school. But that'll never happen. You can't fuck your way to not being a loser We're on this villain arc. Yeah, yeah. Our life is a villain arc now. No, it doesn't have to be.

But it is true. It doesn't, yeah. You don't have to be a porn producer, around. You don't have to exploit the most vulnerable in our society. You don't have to aspire that when you've already achieved your comedy dreams. But I get why you're, I get why you're... Stavi, you made a new calendar. Yeah.

You don't think that's villain arc shit? No, dude, that's art. That's pure art. way they're five dollars you know there's only a couple months left in the year we're selling them off before the new we have the 2026 calendar is coming out so this so august september they're flying off the shelves five dollars as a piece of art it's not really a calendar anymore but we can get it to you but no but i know but i'm trying certainly there was some villainous behavior where you're like trying to get it back but it's like yes you're jealous of your friend just because

he's a sexy guy who gets pussy you know what i mean and i need and i need to He doesn't have, he's a motherfucker's never been on TV unless he's been in the background of your shit. He didn't go to like a thousand open mics. No. Just was born with

better bone structure than you. Nicer hair, better bone structure. How do you know he has nicer hair? He's not here. He's not here. You're right. It's just some guy. I'm speculating.

Yeah, that is funny. It would be awesome to, to um to that and i do think though one nice thing is when more people know you like so sure certain people might fuck you because they're a fan or whatever but it's like sometimes they just kind of see you or find out about you and they're like oh that's the type of guy i'd like the fuck and that kind of feels good yeah when someone is attract you for they do kind of objectify you that does feel i'm sure that's happening yeah for sure you you know I like, every now and then, I like talking to a girl who really didn't know, like, what my comedy was and doesn't plan my comedy funny.

That's the best. Oh, hell yeah, yeah, yeah. Because now I feel like they have genuine interest. You're like, well, that's all I have to offer. You're actually like, that's crazy. What the fuck do you even like about me? But, hey, that's cool. I'll take it.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love a good weirdo. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Yeah, something's not right, for sure, in their lives. Do you think you ever get married? I don't know. probably. I guess it's just kind of another thing with like

you just realize how much of what we do in our lives is because of sort of social cues and like the rest with the rest of your circle is doing like I've realized like everything I've done

in my life has been I've been kind of a late bloomer and everything but the more you the older you get the more everyone around you is married has kids like it might take me a little longer

but it's like you know all my friends are pretty much not all but most are settled down some are looking at having kids my brother had a kid my best friends had a couple kids like it does feel like

you know and then you see it in comedy too dude how pathetic is it when it's like a 47 year old guy and he's still trying to get pussy you see that a lot you see that a lot and it's like I don't want to be that fucking guy I was funny I was just thinking about that

is when I first started going to open mics and I'd see like older guys like you said like 40 year old guys Yeah. Like hitting on young comics or like stuff like that. A fucking 48-year-old hitting on like a 22-year-old open micer is one of the most pathetic things in the world. I like forgot all about those guys until like maybe a few weeks ago, as I saw, I don't want to say no names or I saw like older successful comics like still hitting on young girls. And I was like, oh man, it never changes.

It's tough stuff, dude. Yeah. And that's the thing that doesn't change unless you try hard to change it unless you steer away from the villain arc. But that's the thing. The Villanark ultimately leads there is being pathetic and lonely. You're rich and you're trying to get 23-year-olds to like you. And it's like you don't have a fucking connection with anybody. I feel like I at least need to be, like, even if I don't stay married, I need at least like.

Going into it being like, it's not going to work. But I need this for phase and my life is awesome. I need at least one divorce by like my 40s or 50s. Okay. You know what I mean? Well, see, this, I guess. I think what you're doing is setting yourself up for a reason to be that pathetic old guy. No, I don't want to be that guy that's harder that way.

My thing is, like, if I'm, like, in my 50s and I'm single, you know, I'll probably just holler at, like, at least women my own age or something. Sure, sure, sure. But I need to, like, I don't want to be the guy who got to my 50s and was just, like, single but also never married. Like, that's a little, you know what I'm? weird is a little suspect i got you i need a track record so people can trust yeah yeah yeah but see that's part of again this is the problem is that you're doing it for plausible deniability you just want to be like i'm not weird i gave it a shot and it didn't work i fucking tried it out you yeah yeah but i don't know i mean hey also i might stay married i don't know yeah there you

i'll let you know how it goes please let me know is there are there any prospects or you're still just out here right now i'm just out here man nice yeah i met one girl but i don't know we'll see how it goes that's good man she's on instagram she's like kind of like a little instagram famous we're just friends right now but who knows she'll get more famous and then she'll dump me for like right right i don't know one of the nilk guys or something yeah yeah yeah yeah after they after they interview a different war criminal yeah um no i know what you mean dude i don't know i uh you were you When you were growing up, what was it, was it a similar thing? Like, I assumed it was the, like, trying to make up for lost time.

But what was, what were the vibes like in high school? Because one thing I do like is that, you know, we're similar to in that, like, you surround yourself with friends of yours from back in the day. Like, you know, eldest I've known since we were kids, like, everybody, you know, the people I bring the open for me or like JP, who I was one of the first guys I met in New York. It's been like 10 years, you know, over 10 years, been friends. All that stuff, you know, it's cool to be around your. crew and to kind of like get to do what you wanted as a kid like I love what you're doing with clearly you were a kid that liked cars and now like it seems like all your expense half your expendable income he's going to having sick fucking cars I'm bro I'm going bro thanks to fucking

Facebook marketplace I don't like here's it I feel like I made money just so that I could be the guy who doesn't lowball people on marketplace oh wow I love to like surprise you're redistributing wealth yeah one like fucking carburetor at a time like we have a fucking 96 camero that doesn't run for 800 i'll give you 2 000 they're like what yeah that's awesome you're like latino robin hood you're like texas car latino robin hood i look at the yard and it's just a bunch of cars that don't run and i'm like i made it yeah somebody had to fill up this land were you so did you were you like a car guy when you were a kid too? Like you grew up on that shit? Yeah, I like cars. My dad had a

body shop and I always had shitty cars coming in and out. My dad were like flip cars. Okay. And maybe not in the best ways. He was just always like, buy this car, fix it for cheese. Like, let's fucking sell it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I like that shit. I don't know. I just like junk, I guess. You were working at the body shop?

Yeah. It was bad, bro. I think I'm like, I think it definitely fucked up my head a little bit, probably my lungs. Because we didn't even have like paint boots. It was just like a building where we just, you know what I mean? People would spray and there's just clouds of like clear coat all in the air. And my dad would be like, go stand in that corner, you know?

Yeah, yeah. Don't breathe it in. Don't breathe it in. Yeah. Get away from it. Yeah. I'm just like, do this. Putting your shirt over it.

The shirt blocks the cancer. Love that, dude. But yeah. I mean, I was like in the summers and shit. It was cool, man. And so now I just, I built like a like a house to live in. But my uncle lives in there. I didn't.

Yeah. Not that he bullied me out of it. I'm a grown man, but... Sounds like he did. But I just used, like, the garage area. Sounds like your uncle got your ass. Like, I'm not allowed upstairs. The bottom floor is, like, all garage.

And then the top floor is, like, the living thing. So, like, I just go in the garage and keep them up. And where do you live? In my dad's house? Okay. How far is that? It's on the same land. Okay, nice.

Yeah, we got like a cult thing going on. I do love that, actually. The cult thing. Yeah, for real. No, I love a compound. Like, it would be also by land and like, like, one kind of like dream is like either upstate or somewhere where you can have cabins where it could be like me and all my friends just have a little house and everybody's hanging out. Man, the people, there's like some people not too far from where I live. um they have like a fuck like a real like little village going on they bought up like maybe four acres

yeah maybe five four or five acres and then every time i passed by there it's like advancing like it like it started off like two three trailer homes wow and then and then they built like houses and then they built uh bigger garages and the houses got nicer and then last time i drove by there they had like a like a brick wall with like actual like the they're learning masonry they got like fucking gates around the whole property and then they had a playground for like the kids playground i'm like bro one day i'm gonna pass by there's gonna be a fucking elementary school yeah dude some fuck yeah but they're all related to each other but they they fuck each other they have to and this is your how this is like outside of

Dallas or where is this? Yeah, yeah, yeah. This is like, I don't want to say exactly where. Yeah, yeah, sorry. But in the... Can I just say, I live in bleep and then you bleep the sleep up? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You can.

Yeah, yeah. That's another reason I think it's like, that's the other reason I think that they're doing like incest and shit because it's just like out in the country. Right, right, right. They don't have an education. Sure. They may, I don't know, they might. They might.

Who knows? It seems like they know how to build fucking, you know, fences and shit at least in the houses. They all work. I think they all work for, like, The first guy that moved in there, they're like, I don't know, they do like construction or some shit. Yeah, I mean, to me,

I'm definitely like a city person. Like, I grew up in Baltimore. Not the biggest city, but it is very urban. And then, you know, I love it here. Like, I don't, for a second, for a second, I considered moving.

And I was like, where the fuck would I even go? I just, I love, you know, in fact, I moved into Manhattan, which I like more as much as I love Queens. I just, I like being in that. Like, I like people being on top of me. I don't, the silence.

scared like being out there with like acres away from my neighbors would fucking freak me out actually when I when I first went out there like I had to stay out there for a couple weeks yeah I hated it because there was no noise like I couldn't hear the highway yeah yeah there's highway fucking down there's just highway everywhere yeah so I couldn't hear like the like yeah it kind of freaked me out but I don't know one day I just started liking it it is definitely haunted though ghost are real I hear a little girl laughing at night It's either a ghost

Or it's some little Yeah Fucking bitch Sneaking up to my landing Fucking with me or something Yeah, yeah, yeah You hear a little girl laughing Yeah

How often My uncle's fucking with me Somebody's fucking with me But I hear it sometimes When I'm in the garage Like Dude, that sucks I don't fuck with my cars

Like until it's like One a.m. That's when I'm like the most awake Oh interesting And I was getting really frustrated I was laying under the car I was getting really frustrated, and I just laid there. Like, I just gave up.

I was like, man, fuck this. And then I just hear, like, laughing. And my uncle told me once that if you hear, like, ghosts or spirits that you're supposed to say, like, you're not welcome here, like, leave or something shit. Sure, sure, sure, sure. I'm not going to piss her off more. First of all, I love that your uncle thinks he knows how to deal with ghosts. That's awesome.

It's like, oh, yeah, you have to say a specific thing. And they have to listen to you. It worked on me. Like, he's like, you're not welcome here. And I left my own house. I'm a summertime boy you see me I'm in my tank top summer it just makes you feel your best so what better time to create healthy meal habits that last than the summertime what better time to get green chef the number one meal kit for clean eating they make it so easy to spend less time

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slash 50 stavi yeah what's that relation like how much is he your dad's younger brother yeah younger brother but nah he didn't kick me out or nothing like that it was kind of hard to convince him to move in there he was the one that taught me how to do like bodyworking shit gotcha gotcha gotcha yeah no I feel you dude i i i like just keep buying shitty houses in baltimore for my family to live in yeah like most of my real estate is horrible homes in baltimore and the neighborhood i grew up in like just so my family you know there's a meme yeah that i saw i think it's like i don't know if this relates to our families but it definitely relates to like mexican families and it's like when

you see the property that your uncles like fell out yeah yes yes it's like a shitty house in me The same thing with Greek people. There's like, there's like, this happens all the time with the part of the family that moves to America because they're like, oh, they're gone. We're just going to take the land. And it's literally just like on just like shitty hills of olive trees around nothing. And they're like, yeah, there's like a blood feud over like these like hor, this horrible fucking. Me and my brothers, maybe me and my brother's, our grandma has a little piece of land in an island in Greece. And it's like, that could be a nice little.

you know an island that's fucking next level it's nice it's nice yeah yeah we would have to build it up and shit it would be expensive you'd have to build up the island there's just nothing there no that's a lot not the island no no we don't it's not doing a compound like your neighbors we just we just have to you know there's just a piece of land but yes every time there's like a fucking there's real estate battles over just shitty village properties your grandma's still alive she is dude she's still kicking she's 94 so like anytime she gets a cold you and your brother starts to be like here yeah let's get some yeah

let's get some engineers let's get some architects no she's here I mean we could we could do whatever the fuck we want with it she's she's living with my mom and she has no idea what the fuck's going on she's kind of in that phase my mom is living with my grandma that's not good that's classic immigrant shit I feel like everybody like that's how

it should be the other way around it should be my grandma oh yeah you're right I'm sorry I didn't realize that's what you're getting at your mom moved back with her mom yeah your mom moved back in with her parents you're fucking up the order yeah bro uncle gets a whole fucking floor of the house mom's got to live with grandma it's all fucked up we live like if there's no money yeah yeah we live like i have no specials yeah you can't build a fucking another little lean to on the property you can't build an a frame on the nah i'm not you don't want mom in the car i'm never building another home really because i don't

know who's going to live in that one interesting i don't yeah i don't have the boss to like build the home and, like, say no to somebody else moving. But that's what I'm saying. Build it kind of shitty, knowing they'll move. Build three shitty properties, three shitty little houses so that everyone has one, and then you get to build a good one when everybody's moved into theirs. Fuck that. I'll go to Greece, and I'll move on to your grandma's island.

I'll make her a sweet deal. No car culture there. I think you'd hate it. There's no car culture in Greece? Not really. They don't give a fuck about cars. What do they do? Like ride bikes or something?

A lot of... Yeah, a lot of fucking little scooters. Vespas and shit. A lot of Vespas because they're small islands. The roads are very small in Europe, so. What do you guys eat in Greece? You know, we're talking kebabs. We're talking.

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I've had those cabbats. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Eiro, soufflaki, Greek, you know, fry, seafood, a lot of seafood. I like salad. Okay, I can maybe move to Greece. Yeah, yeah, yeah. What's the, you should go.

It's fucking awesome. What's the prostitution like there? It is not fully legal, but it is, you could figure. it out if you need to. All right. It's not like, you know, I think other European countries it's pretty much legal as hell.

I think Australia's pretty much legal. Australia has legal prostitution? I believe so. That's pretty cool. Have you been? Never. Interesting. But I want to go. Now you're going. I feel like Australians are fucking wild. Yeah, yeah, yeah. They like cars a lot too, though. I met a lot of Nissan GTR fans

or like enthusiasts who were Australian. We're Australian. Yeah. At GTR fest. Interesting. GTRFES was created by Australians. That makes sense because that's like I do feel like they would be more into Asian cars because they're right there. Yeah, they're right.

I was shocked by how much like Asian influences in Australia but then you see, you look at a map, you like, oh, it makes a lot of fucking sense. Yeah, I didn't know this. Japan has a people shortage, which you wouldn't imagine. You know, you see the videos and stuff.

Right, right, right. See Tokyo drifts and shit loads. Well, you can't get pregnant from a tentacle monster nutting in you. I think that's part of the, problem that is part of the problem there was a dude he's in a relationship with the anime character oh wow like a toy yeah there is something weird about the culture there where it's like become sexless it's like yeah they work too hard they don't really fuck or if they do

fuck they do go to like sex workers that's not like you know they're not having kids it's crazy yeah that's just crazy apparently they're trying to like invite people over to like live there but i don't know what i moved to japan i guess it just depends on their prostitution industry. They're pretty open about it. Yeah. In fact, I've seen Pete, and I don't know if this is true, it's just like a fucking TikTok I saw, but they claim that

the, if, you know, even in a relationship women don't really care because they see it as like, as long as you don't have feelings for someone, I don't care if you fuck them. That's nuts. Which is crazy, which is a crazy take. You think that's crazy? I think that's perfectly logical. I don't know if it's perfectly logical. I think it's a pretty, I think it's

a slippery slope if you're starting to fuck somebody else, you know, Now, if there are, I think, like, going back to the threesome question in a relationship, I think it would make sense to, like, get a pro involved, get a professional involved, because that way there's no emotions or anything. But I think, I think it's very easy to. I just wouldn't want the, I just wouldn't want the pro to talk to me, like, he's like a coach. Like, like, I, like, I've never been skydiving, but you know how they make you go with, like,

the guy is strapped on your back. Yeah, I just don't want that situation in a threesome. Right, right, right. Let me just show you how to properly fuck your wife here. You don't want to feel like it's a training, like you're taking a cooking class. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You want to feel like, no, you're, you know, I would look at it as like, you know, hiring like a housekeeper or something like that. Tell them exactly what you want done.

And then it's their job to kind of keep it professional. I tip them after. You got a tip. You got to tip well. Interesting. Have you been getting into prostitative? Have you been getting into sex work lately or? No, but that's another industry I wish I would have broken into.

You don't ever imagine, like... A lot of sex work is you're interested in. You're into that. I wanted to be a pimp back in the day. I don't think you have that in you, man. I don't... I know. Nobody listens to me.

I'd be like, can you fuck that guy, please? Please, I'm short on rent. I need you to start sucking dick. We're all going to be homeless if you don't start sucking dick around here. You're begging. It's like, fuck you, Ralph. Well, this is a very... very interesting perspective. I think it's time that we brought your perspective. And we should say,

by the way, new special on Hulu, planet Bosa, out now. Go check it out. And then we should take your perspective and help our, help our listeners here, Ralph. We like to do some. Let's see what we got here, Eldis. I usually don't start with ones this long, but this one touches thematically on a few things that have come up so far. Okay. Okay. and esteemed guest. I recorded a message earlier, but it wasn't long enough. So basically, for a bit of

context, I'm 37. I grew up a loser and all throughout college didn't have a lot of luck with women. And particularly I had two or three, two

actually, two incidents where there were girls right in front of me in my dorms inviting me for a threesome. What? And I've chickened out. So you get the picture. Chiquin out.

Anyway, fast forward. I've just got out of a long-term relationship about five, four months ago. It was already dead, so it was just, we appreciated the ending. And I find myself being a single man with lots of disposable income and no interest in a real relationship yet. I'm kind of just licking my wounds, as they say, and I've, because I have some disposable income and I don't spend a lot of money, my work feeds me breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and I live next to work, so I don't even use my car. I go to a lot of sex workers, and I particularly started partaking in threesomes and foursums. Ors, et cetera.

Pause this. This guy has too much fucking money. This guy clearly works for like Google or some shit. They feed him breakfast, lunch, or dinner. What the fuck kind of workplace is this? He lives at work. He goes to, does he go to like daycare? And he lives next door, and he's having, anyway, it's international, it looks like, interesting.

Keep going all this. Maybe this shows you what life is possible. What kind of life you could have under socialism, folks? This is what happens with that When you have a fucking strong safety net You get to buy pussy Yeah, what country is this? I kind of feel like scared

Oh Oh, never mind Oh, this is not Europe This is somewhere more sinister All right, keep going It's scary Yeah Well, that's crazy

Holy shit I don't think I want to work in prostitution anymore Keep going, I'll do Let's see what we got here. Sex worker at a time. It's always two or more. And it's fun. I'm loving it.

It's a new experience. It's ecstasy. I'm euphoric. But part of me is thinking that if I get used to this, probably a normal woman won't cut it. Because when I'm with these sex workers, I'm like going wild, like everything I've seen in porn. I'm doing using using protection where possible, but yeah, I'm just thinking, am I overdoing it

and then a normal woman won't cut it anymore? And that's a horrible way to think of it. I just want the easy way out as opposed to investing in learning about someone and going on dates and stuff. I mean, at the moment, I'm not interested in that, but I just feel like if I keep going with those wild come on man you know the fucking answer exhibitions

it's going to ruin me for normal relationships and normal women can do your thoughts I know that you're pro sex work we are but there's a limit to everything Paul we get it we don't have to hear more of this bullshit

I mean this is insane what's the guy's name we don't know his name okay it's anonymous buddy I'm say this start carrying a gun. I don't know that that's where we start.

I don't know that's the first thing this guy needs to take care of is having a gun. But you are right. I mean, look, we are pro sex work, right? But I'm also pro a nice steak dinner, right? That doesn't mean you should have three rib-eyes every night. It's a fucking little treat, man. Sometimes you've got to have flank steak. Sometimes you've got to have chicken breast.

I mean, this is insane. And yet, this is like, this is like, you do this on your birthday maybe you get a buy a couple you know get a couple uh sexy ladies to double suck you that sounds cool as a treat you can't what do you have an ice cream for every meal i mean this is insane that's true man don't overindose bro you know it's cool you got it you you you probably felt like yeah i missed out on this in college so let me do it now but and this guy makes too much money i mean we need to take some of his money away i feel like he's trying to bang us because he's saying

maybe he brought it up twice he's like I got disposable income dude I'll tell you though shit like this does end with crazy things like paying two guys you don't know to suck your dick even if you're not gay like he's he's fucking up his neural pathways with this much pleasure

like beating off to porn is a problem for intimacy finding human beings to recreate the shit you saw in porn every time you fuck is insane you're out of your mind And also, like, he called in from somewhere where I don't know where his source of money is. It's nothing good, right?

There is a darkness and a sinister energy to every aspect of your life right now. And you need to change a lot of things about yourself. Definitely stop doing this. Again, we're not anti-sexwork here. Hopefully you're tipping well, you're paying well, whatever. But it's like we are, you're overindulging in things. You can get addicted to anything, and you absolutely are going to get addicted to this. And it's not, and even looking at it's like, is a normal woman going to cut it?

It's like, that's not. Are you going to cut it? Yeah, it's like, what are you off? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You got to imagine, not that you're going to, like you said, you have no interest in getting into a relationship right now, but you got to imagine it could be four or five years from now. You're on a, you're in a relationship. You're, it's getting serious. And then she asked you, have you ever had a threesome?

And you're just like, yeah. and she's like how did it happen i paid for it like imagine what that's gonna i paid 30,000 over the course of four months on a threesome every three days what the fuck are you talking about dude you know what i mean a good woman is not gonna like that bro i mean look it's just i don't even know about that right i think it's yes i don't know that anybody he just clearly has an addiction this is just so clearly an addiction that it's bad it's bad for you anytime you're doing you're overindulging in things that are awesome it will fuck you up everybody has a vice but you don't want this to be your vice bro do like uh do like go on marketplace facebook marketplace or some sort of drugs

do i'm do a lot of mushrooms the mushrooms will help you brother i just yeah i mean i think yeah he's just yeah this is just not this is too too much of anything is a problem and you are really overdoing it when it comes to buying pussy I feel like also it's not going to make his like college self less of a loser. This won't have made you like have that three-summit college that is your North Star in life and you're like hollow life or whatever. Yeah, this isn't even more hollow version of what we're up to. You know what I mean? It's like this is purely transactional.

You're not you're not making up for anything and you're just changing the way that you relate to sex and you're really. making it an unrealistic thing where yes of course hot women that you're paying to do exactly what you want of course a regular person who's trying to relate to you and have like sex in a loving way is not going to be is not going to behave this way you should go i don't know if you have these type of friends but you should hang out with friends who judge you yes you this guy does need a little i mean we're doing it now we're showing you that even us even this podcast that is very horny and pro sex work is disgusted at your behavior so change your life man this is too much do this once a year max even though he's saying it i'm like it doesn't sound so bad i think you should

i think you've had enough quit called turkey yeah wean yourself off folks you know starting your own business can be damn intimidating it's a lonely task all the hat you got to wear all the hats you're wearing uh A top hat. You're wearing a bowler. You're wearing a coofy on top of that. Too many hats. I know that as a one-man band podcaster, comedian, merch salesman. I did it all. And it was a pain in the ass. That was before I had my friends over at Shopify involved. And look, you're probably starting your own small business. You're probably, you got too many hats on yourself. You know what I mean? I don't know what you're doing maybe you're selling soaps you're mixing the soap you're we were doing the website you're trying to keep track of everything well get why don't you stop messing around and help

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And some people who are on the periphery of this friend group invited their friends to kind of join us when we do like outdoor activities, their concerts, stuff like that. I don't particularly like these extra friends who've been brought in. It's a couple. They're fine.

They're nice enough, but they are always illigerently drunk constantly whenever I see them it's a real fucking downer and you know we've had to like you know out of like hanging outside

save them from fucking falling into the river or some shit like that it's always a hassle they're always drunk they never remember anything for when we hang out it's kind of the worst and so I can look past this like whatever keeps their own but I recently found out that

the husband in this couple is an aircraft technician and that he supposedly drinks on the job right before he goes on the job this is hearsay like secondary that's probably not the right usage of that word but it's secondary information uh so I didn't hear him directly I'm not sure how true it is but this has me fucking terrified and also in a weird place because I don't really know what my place in this is as someone who's like on the periphery of them, you know? So I am torn because part of me wants to tell the airline and snitch. What the fuck are you talking about?

But also it's like, I don't know for sure if that's happening. And I don't want someone to lose their job and make it all worse into alcoholism. Exactly. You don't have shit or something. I don't know. Honestly, the worst part of it is I really fucking like flying. I'm terrified to fly a guy in my home airport. so just looking for advice

should I switch airlines should I report him should I forget it and act like nothing happened report him I can use your help the fuck are you talking about no dude I'm on my next few flights call it in call it

and maybe we'll bleep the airline so we don't get to that's actually really true thank you Elvis call it bleep the airline yeah yeah I mean this is fucking crazy

this is the most I'm a coward and I'm finding a different thing to pretend I'm mad at you're mad him and his drunk dumb wife have fucked up four hikes and three concerts for you you don't give a fuck that he's a drug

that you have secondhand information that he's a fuck that he drinks on the job and look you sound like a good person I get that you part of it probably is you're a little worried about this but you also don't have any proof right for you to immediately go to snitching means you hate this guy

this is like when you're you know when you say when you hate somebody when you've secretly been hating someone you're looking for any little excuse and then you wait for someone to talk shit on them and then once they talk shit it's like you fire up the group chat right this is his like

I can't say I don't like their vibes but now I can pretend I'm morally offended that I heard a rumor he drinks on the job you know what I mean dude look you either got to to go one way or the other here. You either stop hanging out with these people and

find different friends. Just get out of the circle completely. Or man up, fucking drug his drink. Put cocaine in his beer. Obviously he's going to drink or whatever in front of you. Put some drugs in there call bleep on him and like, yeah, look,

I watch him do heroin and fucking get rid of him. Either you get out or man up and get the fucking rid of this guy, bro. I mean, there is something to this general dynamic, though, of like, this, what's happening is your friends are doing a hostile takeover of your friend group, you know, like, you know, when there's like five or six people that always hang out together. Yeah. And then it's great when somebody gets added in, they vibe with everybody.

That's actually, I've been really lucky that a lot of my friends from my life, you know, like, it's great, you know, we've meshed a lot of our friend groups and, like, it's been awesome and then sometimes you bring somebody along and you're like you know what the vibes aren't exactly right

we're gonna keep them over here you know what I mean it's like but it's awesome when friend groups especially as you grow older and it's kind of harder to make friends if somebody picks up if one of your boys

picks up a friend and they're actually cool and they get in the mix and you like them and now it's like this group that's known you know it's almost like circles on a tree

where it's like it starts with four people then it's six then it's you know what I mean it's cool it works, but also it doesn't work a lot of the time, right? Like, I'm sure you've been

I'm sure like you've had a friend who's like talked up somebody and they're like, dude, you're gonna love my boy Mike, this guy's the fucking man and then you meet him like a piece of shit. And he fucking sucks. And then Mike's like eating ass in front of everybody. It's like disgusting. Mike's on some freak shit.

Mike's a side of, you know, he doesn't have to commit assault or you know, some kind of... He's getting three sex workers at a time with that. telling everyone. Come on, guys. Let's cheat on our wives with hoars. You're like, I don't know about this, man.

Yeah, you definitely got to like, like you said, change it, mess it up. You know what I mean? Yeah, so like, this is an interesting topic of discussion. Like, what do you do? Like, let's take this drunk shit aside, right? You don't give a fuck about that. You're not snitching. Okay, first of all, if you really, really care, you need absolute proof, not just somebody else who also hates this guy talking about it.

More important is, like, who told us. Who told you this? Because politically within the friend group, this might be where you can start a faction to get him out. It's not important that you hear this rumor. The fact that somebody's spreading this rumor means he also hates this person. I feel like this guy's girlfriend told him. Yeah, it might be his girlfriend.

But if there are other people within the group, like, you need to do a census of, you need to like really get in here with the rest of the group and be like, I mean, the fact, you have to. Maybe this person is just nice, actually. He sounds like a nice guy, actually. And he doesn't think in this conniving Machiavellian way about his friends the way I do. I have a problem where I am, you know, I do think of the dynamics and like, how are we going to get this piece of shit out of here? But you need to start thinking that way.

Because this guy clearly has been fucking up your friend group. Or the opposite is just like, or if you want to be an adult about it, you can just have a conversation with your friends. I was going to, what I suggest, too, is like, ask the dude himself. Be like, hey, bro, are you drinking on the dude? job and if he's like yeah just be like don't do that fucking chill out you know what I mean that is interesting though because again I'm just like he's not wrong but it's like what the fuck do you care I don't know dude you could be friends with this guy what if you could be the guy who really fixes this guy up like or at least helps him in this fucking oh like you could look at

it as like do you have a drinking problem yeah you could just be like hey bro fucking knock that I like this guy, though. Why are you, what's not to like? The guy, fucking, he's obviously in a fucking good relationship. He's a pilot. You know what I mean? He's not a pilot. He's a fucking technician.

Technician. Oh, he's a technician? Yeah. All right. He's a guy who's a technician, you know? Like, this guy, I'll be friends with this guy. I don't know, man. I get where he's coming from being annoyed at you at somebody,

what you're really, really annoyed at is somebody bringing people in the friend group that you don't like. That's really the crime. crux of the matter here. And how you deal with that is either talk to your friend about it or if you want to be Machiavellian, see who feels this way about them. And then look, at the end of the day, you don't have to hang out with people you don't like, but also snitching is kind of insane.

I don't know. Or even confronting him about a room. What if you're wrong? What if you just somebody made that up because this guy gets drunk at a fucking concert that like, people are like, oh, he drinks on the job too. And then he's like, do you drink on the job? He's like, what are you talking? Imagine somebody telling that to you and you don't.

And you'd be like, what? What the fuck are you talking about me? That's a weird overstep to somebody that you tolerate socially. You were going to say something else. Do you have anything? I agree with you that it's like kind of none of your business. Like you have to make sure the source is good. When he did make, when he did make like when he did mention the airline though,

that made it a lot more real for me where it's like I do fly them a good amount. That's kind of weird. But at the same time, you never know, like, how many pilots or aircrafts... He also doesn't know this, though. We're talking...

If it was fat, stone cold fact, even then I would be like, yeah, I don't, like, if you had proof and you do,

and you are like the kind of person who sees this as like a, uh, as like a public good. Okay, maybe. Or you confront the guy and be like, hey, man,

you should get your drinking under control. This is unsafe, right? I guess, like, different levels, right? This is somewhere between like, you know, fucking like guy to convenience store who goes to work drunk, don't care at all. Get as fucked up as you want. Doesn't matter at all. And then on the other end, it's like school bus driver, right? It's like, yes, you have to

stop that immediately. Airline technician, which, what does that even fucking mean, is somewhere in the middle for me, right? Where I, you know, and so, I just, my, my, my, my, my, my larger point is he clearly is pissed that this guy's in the friend group that's his actual problem and you either bring it up with your friend and talk about it talk about talk it with your other friends or you know may this guy it might just sting that your friend likes these people more than you and you're like i don't really want to hang out with them it might just fuck up the whole vibes of the thing but he's just looking for an out where it's somebody some there's some other reason that this guy's not in the friend group unless his point is look i've made peace with this guy being in the friend

group, I'm just, he can still, even after he gets fired from the airline, he is going to hang out and I'm okay with that. It's just a public safety thing. And if that's the case, then you have to become a fucking private eye or some shit and find actual information, proof that he's doing it. Oh, just make more friends, bro. I say make more friends, yeah. Find people that are more like you that don't get too drunk, I guess.

Yeah. Personally, I want to hang out with airline guy. You don't know of that, man. I got kicks ass. You don't know if that's true. The older I get the more, I'm like, oh, people who love getting fucked up, it's like, Jesus, in your 30s, man. Again, being like, I like to get just fucking blackout.

It's like, we're not 20. I know I'm a shitty friend because I like hanging out with those people for the entertainment of it. But, like, yeah, that guy was falling down the river. I probably wouldn't, like, risk myself to catch them. Yeah, absolutely. I just be like, that guy was entertaining while he last. Yeah, yeah.

Well, there goes that guy. I'm wearing my favorite cargo shorts. I can't get in the river. What else we got, Eld? Hello, Stavs, Eldis, and a scene guest. I have a problem with my penis. I'm 22. Here we go.

I've been waiting for one. About six months ago, got out of a long-term relationship, and started having sex with women I didn't know that I met at bars and on hinge, unprotected. I thought it was going to be chill, but it turns out I got something on my dicks called Molusco Contagiosum, which is a common benign viral skin infection that causes small rays prolly bumps on the skin. Basically, my dick and my tube area is covered in red bumps, and it looks really not good. Anyways, so obviously freaked out and went to the dermatologist, and my options are either wait six to nine months for it to go away or six to 18 months some people say four

years years or I get a liquid nitrogen treatment on my penis and I am like fuck that sounds very painful but I'm going into my senior year of college and am I not gonna have sex you can't not gonna jerk off no that's insane I have like 50 bumps on my And they're going to... I mean, I don't know what burning off of liquid nitrogen is. Didn't they burn some sort of freaking out? And you just need some good thought of advice. Thanks.

I had a wart on my leg that they like burned off with some liquid liquid nitrogen. I had like the sketchiest dermatologist in the world. And like a doctor's office in Astoria that was like straight up like just a living room. Like this guy's doctor's office was how we use this apartment for a podcast studio. We're like, we're sorry we've been burn this. We've got to turn this into a studio right now. Yeah. And it was fucked up, like, the whole time he's just complaining me about how people are so harsh on, like, Zock, Doc. It was really hilarious.

But anyway, okay, so I thought, I forgot if it was your dick or whatever. This is nuts. You can't have bumps on your, first of all, don't fuck random people without a condom. Okay? That's crazy. especially not random people you meet at a bar you gotta you gotta cap up for situations like that I think you just gotta go to better bars

and Ralph you do have a child is that correct yeah wedlock yeah okay so that you get bumps or a child are you disappointed in me I just mean I just mean maybe you could have worn condoms in situations is all I'm saying

Ralph you have a bastard don't you I know certainly and all of a sudden it becomes a puritanical podcast. Why did you just do this fucking, like, what is that, Pond Stars thing? I have a buddy who's an expert on this shit. Ralph. Ralph, you've been with sleazy women, right?

I'm just saying, dude. I'm just saying you don't want to be fucking unwrapped if you can help it. That's my point. It's like, we're pro-sluts on this podcast, but we're also pro-protecting yourself. This guy ended up with, I'd probably rather have a kid than bumps.

over my dick, if I'm being honest. Yeah. But four years is nuts. And you got it. You have to go in here with night. You got to fucking, you got to get the nitrogen. It's going to hurt. And you should know that.

Yeah, do the nitrogen. If you wait, even if you get it in six, even if you wait six months for it to go away, you're going to be so horny at the end of those six months. You're going to go right in back to another. You're going to be wrong dogging in no time. Yeah. If you get that liquid nitrogen, even if it's pain. you'll have that pain to always remind you to use a condom.

Do the liquid nitrogen, bro. You have to do the liquid nitrogen. Also, your penis probably looks off fucking quasi-modal right now. Don't let it look like treat your penis with respect, man. It probably looks like what people assume herpes is even though he doesn't have herpes. Yeah. But that's, I don't even believe that it's benign. I mean, I guess it is.

But that sounds like he's really spinning this. A fucking red bumps To stay on your cock For up to four years Is a benign infection Doesn't sound benign to me No dude You could also

Maybe make some money out of this Like keep the bumps And then just go give lectures Like here's why you should wear a condom Like show your penis To high school students Okay Yeah I wouldn't do that

I wouldn't show your Professionally You're bumped In auditoriums Your bumpy prick to children I wouldn't show that You're like Like, let's look, okay, I'm going to school for the blind.

Let's learn how to do braille, everybody. Yeah, dude, get this laser, get this nitrogen off. Let the pain be a reminder of your mistakes, you know? For sure. Tough stuff, dude. Go to better bars. Don't raw dog strangers. Here's the thing.

I'll raw dog if I know someone after a while, but I can't be raw dogging strangers. Yeah. I don't, well, I didn't see what school he went to, but be careful. Go with Christ. Yeah. Not till you're married. Hey, this guy. I mean, I'm reading the fucking transcript.

Why this guy started off with Sorry? It's probably picks, it very rarely gets Stavi, right? Oh, so I say, hey, Stavi. Yeah, here's what we got. Let's see. Hey, Stavi. Love the show, first time, long time. And my wife and I, we got a question for you.

We moved into this place. We love it. Old owners left it in great condition. And after they moved out, we just kept getting packages from them. You know, at first it kind of felt like auto buys. You know, we got stuff like baby bath stuff, clothes, kid stuff. And they wouldn't come pick it up. So we would, you know, donate it.

There were a couple things we could use that we used. and it was one time they did like a whole back to school tons of kids clothes you know they came to pick those up but it it's it kept going so you know they send like women's hair products and where we're at now is they just sent an ipad mini it's been like almost a year and a half since we moved into this place like what do we do with this are you know did we donate this are we allowed to keep it i mean how long does this have to stay out in front of our, you know, door before we take it. All right. Let us know. Love you. Thanks. Yeah, this is insane.

It's crazy on the other people's part. The, the, I mean, it's crazy. I feel like it's a little crazy on both parts. But it's just funny to me that, like, I guess the stuff that wasn't expensive as an iPad, he's like, ah, I'm going to give that away and keep some of this. But now that it's something like cool, he's like, he's like, he's like looking for Stavvy's approval. Like, stop you said, I could keep it. First of all, iPad Mini.

Do they still make those? Isn't that? Aren't those old as fuck? I don't know. Anyway, whatever. It's been a year and a half. Now, what's interesting to me, what puts a little,

throws a little wrench in this is the fact that they've come to pick up certain things. Like, if it was the kind of thing where these people move out and you just have no contact with them for the entire time and you've tried to get into contact and they've sort of ignored it or whatever,

then it's almost like, whatever, man, you gave it a shot, but you have some strange connection or they've come like... Bro, look at the... Look up the laws on this shit. Like, there's got to be some sort of law where it's like if it's on your property

for more than so many days. Yeah, that's true. Could just be yours. Or fucking do the shady thing. Ignore these people's calls and when they come to your house be like, I ain't seen nothing. You could say it was stolen all the time.

Oh, true. Some places do. Only the iPad was stolen. Hey, these shitty baby clothes, they fucking left these. I'd just be like, bro, I haven't seen shit. And it's not my fucking problem. Like, I bought this house from you or whatever. Year and a half, it is crazy.

You don't know how to change addresses on fucking Amazon? I mean, that's insane. Yeah. Be like, delete the address. Delete it. Don't just change it. Delete it. Yeah, I mean, it's been so long that it's just like you don't really have.

I would say for me, A big, big ticket item, I would not feel comfortable. Like, I would either, I would probably return to send her it or some shit like that. Or if you really felt like it, you could, you know, get in contact with them. But I think, like, basically, if you ever get in contact again, you should be like, hey, just so you know, we're not, I'm never doing this again. Like, if you ever talk to them again and be like, hey, this is unacceptable. we're just donating everything that comes, you know, that gets sent our way because we just don't want to deal with this anymore.

And I think you're fine, but... I think this is a perfect opportunity to... Or just return to sender it or whatever. Nah, fuck that, bro. Just fucking, like, give the iPad to, like, some relative that you had a falling out with and be like, let's squash shit. And it just looks so good on you. That's not a bad idea.

Use it to your advantage. Use it to your personal game. Give away these gifts as if you bought them. I like that. Yeah, fix your relationships. Year and a half is nuts. Yeah, that person, that's on them, you know? I would say after, I mean, the bit, the, yeah, it is on them.

I mean, maybe, I think your point of, like, look up the laws is a good one, just so you're covered. But I think at some point, you might just want to be like, hey, please stop getting things sent here. Please delete this address. Yeah. We don't want to deal with this. and anything further will just be thrown away. You can just say that. Or there's probably just to cover yourself.

Because, I mean, you know, they also probably don't give a fuck. These people are fucking stupid, it sounds like. Imagine doing this for a year and a half. It's okay. It happens three times and then you fucking like, I got to delete that bullshit. Also, like these people with some of the stuff that they never picked up, how much money do they make that they're just ordering shit

and they just be like, ah. Well, that's the other point is that these people clearly, if they don't give them, a fuck at all about this many deliveries, then they also probably have the money to not give a fuck so fuck them. Yeah. It's their fault. Somebody who's like who an iPad Mini matters to is not

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all right fuck these people what else you know maybe we got time for one more maybe one more and a quick one eldest yeah

oh stop most honorable guest and general disdain for the Albania's present I'll get right down to it I fucked this girl about two years ago

we had like a weekend fling right before I went back to university over Christmas break she's great so funny just the kind of person I'd want to be in a relationship with. So I moved away, and we talked for a bit,

but I kind of dwindled off, right? So she dates a guy for about a year in between. I'm back two years later, and she just broke up to this guy. How do I get back with this girl and turn it from, like, the fuck buddy you get to get with her after a breakup? Because she had just got to have a five-year relationship the first time. I forgot to mention that.

It turned this into, like, a real-ass relationship. Because, I don't know, there was such a spark the first time. I really want to kind of capture. my opportunity here and not waste my window because, I mean, she could get back somewhere other way, I don't know. Anyway, any advice is appreciated.

Thank you very much. And sorry about the other voice house. Wow. Hey, this guy is like a good guy, man. Yeah. This guy compared to the first guy. You have range in your listeners. Yeah.

You have like romantic comedy main character guys. Yes, true. Yeah, like this guy might be cooked because he's too good a person. I feel the desperation and desire in his voice, which is good. I would say the thing to be aware of here is that, like, he clearly wants this. This might be the rare time where it's like, do you know that she wants that from you? You think she's awesome.

You might just be some little, he might be a piece of meat to her. He might be living your dream, Ralph. You might not have a good personality. So you have to be prepared for that. But I would say I mean dude This is pretty simple It's been

It's been two years Right Eldis So two years A long enough time Where you just fucking You're back in the town You're done with college or whatever You ask her

You just like ask her out You do relationship stuff with her You know that you guys Like if you hit her up You're like hey want to get dinner And she's like No but why don't you come over To my apartment at 1 a.m.

You got a good idea about what she thinks of you, right? Yeah. But if you say, hey, want to get dinner, she comes, great. You go to dinner, you fucking, whatever. I think if you get to go to dinner with her, you tell her straight up at the dinner, like, hey, I would like to, like, for real date you.

Well, the other thing, though, it has been two years. That's why I think you do a real date to just kind of catch the vibes. Because right now, he's going off of what it was two years ago, and he's a different person, she's a different person. She might just be, like, looking at us, like nice one of my old hos get back on the horse suck a little dick get ready for next i meet my husband after that you know what i mean he's looking at it's like this is my wife she might look

at it like oh nice this is just kind of that's true don't move too fast bro because what if she's changed so much now what if you meet up with her for dinner and she's like oh i caught some bumps from some weird dick bump guy i have benign rash on my pussy i'll have five i've read bumps for four year for a presidential term. Around the next Olympics, my pussy will clear up. So, yeah, I think you just go,

you just go figure out the vibes, see, go out, do something that's like not overtly sexual right up top, and just catch the vibe, see how the first hangout goes. And then if things go well, I think on the second one, you can be like, hey,

it's been great. I've had a great time. I had a really great time two years ago and I feel like those vibes are still here you know I was moving away you had just gotten out of a relationship back then but now it feels like you know from my what I'm looking for right now is something serious or you can even be like hey I've grown up a little bit I'm not looking just for a fling we have some great chemistry I enjoy spending time with you yeah why don't we yeah how far this can yeah let's let's hang out and it's like I'm looking for something a little more serious I think that's fine but I think you try the first hang out

And if you were even granted one serious hangout, you'll know kind of automatically how she feels about you. And then listen, I'm not saying you should quit on that. You could even try. Even if she sees it as a fuck buddy situation, you could kind of go in there and be like, hey, I actually would like something more serious and see how she responds to that. Like, I'm not trying to get married or anything, but like I wanted to be a little, the context needs to be a little more serious than just we fuck, which sounds crazy to me. It's like, I'm hearing that. I'm like, that sucks. But it's like, no, that's good.

You're right. I hope this works out, bro. Like, I'm invested now. I do, too. Let us know if it works out. You got something fun for us to go out on Eldis? Davy, what's up, baby? Booked a trip to Greece for this summer for two weeks.

Really excited. So naturally, I'm brushing up. my Greek culture by watching season two of the wire and I plan on using the word Malacca a lot. I think I'm really gonna lean on that one. So I'm wondering is that a word that is used in like day-to-day casual exchanges between friends that maybe like to rip on each other in Greece? So is that am I gonna stick out like a sore thumb if I use that? And also, what are some other words that I might be able to use

just so that the locals know that even though I'm American, I'm not one of the bad ones. And I like to fuck around. So, yeah, any advice is much appreciated. Thanks, man. Wow. Okay, so this guy's going to Greece. And the term Malacca is like a, it's kind of like,

it technically translates to jerk off, but it's kind of closer to our, like, asshole. It's just kind of like our standard. like curse were like malac you know you call everybody a malacca um it is a little like you call your friend like it would be like if if you're visiting if you're like a a greek guy and you're visiting america you're not going to go into a starbucks and say hey can i have some coffee you jerk off you know what i mean like that's what you would sound like just as you know what i mean so it's like that's not really what you want to lead with now

Greek people love when, now if you're like at a bar or something and you've kind of struck up a little conversation Greek people love when you throw some curse words at them. You know what I mean? Malacca the other I don't know if I even want to say because it's, it's, because our

slur for gay people is a little softer than the F than that. I feel like you know, hidden gay guys with a hard F isn't so fun here in America in Greece now I don't know if we're just a more homophobic country but I feel more comfortable saying it in Greek and it's a funnier sounding word but I don't know that I'm going to tell you it and I don't know that I'm going to say it on record

I'll tell it to you off camera but you got to release this guy into Greece with as many fucking bad words as many slur I mean putza is dick right Malacca putza Munni Muni is pussy um I think that you should have as much fun as you

can in Greece and make as many friends as you can. And I think the best way to find your friend group in Greece is by being yourself. And being yourself is saying Malacca, the strangers. Malacca that shit up, bro. I do think a lot more people than you would expect

would like it. But I think you just got to have one little interact, one little smile. But it's, again, it's like a foreigner coming into America and be like high asshole jerk off. You know what I mean? Like, can I have a sandwich, please?

One time Stavin his brother's egg me on to tell his dad in Greek, stop jerking me off you. And then like a slur. That's like an extreme F-sler kind. It's like ass-partier or something. Pissoglendi. No, no, that was more fun. Oh, okay.

Pizso-lendi literally translates to party from behind. And that's a term for gay guys. So stop jerking me off ass-partier in Greek to him. And that doesn't get like a big laugh. all thought it was going to kill and my dad he's not just kind of looked at me you can tell he was like annoyed it did not go over which is crazy that is my dad's sense of humor i don't know you we caught him on a bad day that was like you set that up right yeah yeah absolutely yeah he just really disappointed in you at that i don't know i don't know but my dad no my dad is we're like older too

it's not even like we're a little kid yeah it's a little kid you're like why are my kids my kids and his friend cursing but you know we were like 23 24 and my dad hated it and it was like it was on him because that was objectively funny but yeah you we that was a tough one my dad did not like that what's the word ass party from behind he so glendi it means party from behind yeah piso is behind the glendi's party behind party behind party that's more of an obscure one let me but it's a fun one it's a very fun one I'm going to type that down. Yeah.

How do I spell? P-I-S-O? Yeah. G-L-E-N-D-I. P-L-E-N-D-I. I'm going to call my next special that. P-S-Glendis. As party.

Guy who likes to party from behind. There it is. So anyway, that's a fun one. I think people would be kind of surprised you even know that one. But look, man, enjoy Greece. Don't worry about cursing at the locals. Everybody speaks English there. You throw a couple curse words there, they'll like.

it, Malacca, Putsa, Muni, you know, go up to a guy, go up to a guy that you're trying to be friends with and be like, Thelomune, it means I want pussy. He'll love that. He'll be like, yeah, what Thelomune. I also want pussy. You'll bond over not getting pussy at a barring green, so it'll be awesome. Anyway, that's going to do for us, Ralph. Thanks for coming, man.

This is so fun. Oh, thanks for having me. Guys, go watch the special on Hulu right now, Planet Bosa. And you've got a bunch of stuff, though. You got old special. I started a YouTube channel called Formula Bean where we fix up cars we find on Facebook Marketplace and try to race them.

That's a great idea, dude. Yeah, we've blown up our first car. Stay tuned, Formula Bean. And you might hear the haunted ghost of the garage too, if you're lucky. Wow, that's, Matt Rife's buying haunted dolls. You're living in a year in a haunted garage. We need to do some kind of haunted shit, Elders. Yeah, buy my garage, Matt Rife.

Put the Annabelle doll in the haunted doll in the haunted garage. On the garage, let them fight it out. You can have my uncle. That's going to do it for us, folks. We'll talk to you next week. Bye, bye. Peace.