Stavvy's World - Bonus #103 - Sydnee Washington [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: November 22, 2024

Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Sydnee Washington returns to Stavvy's World to discuss whether her life is currently in shambles or not, getting shafted for an apartment after the realtor saw her credit score, Stav's unconventional leading man status, worrying about being uninteresting now that she's not as reckless as she used to be, and much more. Stav and Sydnee help callers including a woman who suspects that the older man she's seeing is cheating on his girlfriend, and a guy who's sick of hanging with the couple next door that his girlfriend befriended. Follow Sydnee Washington on social media: https://www.instagram.com/justsydbw/ https://twitter.com/Justsydnyc https://www.tiktok.com/@justsydbw20 Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Wanna be part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

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So I am pretty positive that he is cheating on his girlfriend. We talked about it before. He has a long-term girlfriend probably about four or five years. And he keeps on saying, oh, they're in a sexless relationship. They never have sex, yada yada. And anytime that I really ask him about if they're open or if he's talked to her, he kind of sidesteps it, like, so give me kind of a sex-ass-less.

Pause this. I'm pretty certain he's cheating. He's openly talking about cheating. That's crazy. What are you talking about you're pretty certain like you girl you just you just wanted to send this test because it is clear oh yeah there's no pretty you're not really yeah i mean this is hilarious but let's see we're feeling some mental gymnastics on her part already but let's see the rest of it

so awesome on her to be like oh yeah i did and she probably wouldn't be rest of it. So awesome. that I've left over, which thank you, I guess. And then the last time in particular, he came out and he had one of those handheld vacuums and he was hitting the couch. Oh my God. And I was like, what are you doing with that? And he was like, oh, I am picking up your hair, like picking up my strands of hair, whatever. So my question is, am I morally wrong for doing this? My opinion is that I'm not the one

who's cheating. I'm not the one who's hiding. But I do feel horrible if this is hurting his girlfriend. And also, I totally believe in karma. I'm worried that when I'm in my 50s, my partner will be cheating on me with somebody in their 30s. They will. And then also, does it sound like he's done this before? Oh my God. Yeah, we'll have your thoughts on this. Thanks, Spidey. An incredible call.

Girl. It sounds like I'm pretty certain, I mean, yeah. Girl, you crazy for this one. Honestly, you need to get out of this because this is gonna end bad for you. Yeah. Like, this guy doesn't give, like, I'm sorry, he doesn't give a fuck about you.

This is what he's doing to his wife. You think he cares about you? He's vacuuming in front of you. Babe, like you're some golden retriever and all your hairs around you. You know, I got other guests coming and I wanna get in on their coat. Like girl, stand up.

Stand up and get out. Stand up and get out. This is not, you haven't told me anything that is so like good for me. Be like, you gotta stay. It's not like he's investing in a nonprofit that is so like good for me to be like, you gotta stay. Yeah, yeah. It's not like he's investing in a nonprofit that you started or like your mother's sick.

Are you on the payroll? You know what I mean? Is there like a arrangement thing? I said is your mother sick or you said are you on the payroll? Well, yeah, sorry, I didn't hear the is your mother sick part. I sort of said it.

But go ahead, yeah, is your mother sick? Is he helping her? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, yeah, this is a no from me. And karma is real and. I don't know about that. Think karma's real? Yeah. Evil people will die happy so much.

I don't think so. You really don't think so? Mm-mm. They're miserable in a way that we just can't see. Maybe, well either way. You're okay. I think even if we weren't even to delve into the moral question here,

that you, this would be, when you're like, you're right. You don't hear anything that's like, why should you stay? Yeah. Unless it was like, I'm just having, if you really were having a good time in a disposable way, you're like, look, I'm just looking at if you're like our first caller or our last caller who was like, I'm just trying to fuck and he's hot and all this shit is none of my fucking business. I'm in and out But we can't support this and then we haven't even and then we would be like, okay, there's a reason to stay

But now let's talk about the morals. We haven't even crossed over to that. Like, it's not even worth talking about the morality because I just don't think this is a good relationship for you. Even if we haven't gotten into like, whether it's right or wrong, which of course it is wrong. I mean, it's wrong, but it's a matter of like,

do you really give a fuck? Girl, you wasting me and Stavi's time. Yeah. Because you know what it is. Yes. I mean, even the thing about like, you being worried that when you're in your 50s, it's like, girl, it can happen to you in your 20s,

your 30s, it doesn't matter. Like somebody, if he's dogging you out, he going, somebody else is going to dog you out. Like that's just how I think the tables turn. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you.

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I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not gonna be talking about you. I'm not I would think about it. Wow. I would think about it, because when I've been with somebody and they not making me come, I'm like, damn, there was somebody before me that was not busting nuts on me. Right, right. That's wild. How far back does this go? I'm like, it's probably their father. It's probably their dad.

Or their grandpa, you never know. So yes, I think, and maybe it's not karma, but maybe you're the kind of person who is attracted. This type of guy really works on her. This type of like debonair, whatever dickhead. She didn't tell me, she didn't tell us though, why it works. She doesn't tell me why she's rich. Rich, old British, like cheater.

These guys are charming, you know what I mean? He got an accent, teeth are fucked up. So, yellow, like butter. I don't... He could be a piece of ass, but anyway, yes, you don't want to do it. And you're too naive about this whole thing. Yes. And you're doing weird mental gymnastics. You're not happy. You got a couple of nuts off, hopefully.

Hopefully. And go on, let go. You live through it and now you can reflect on it. And I think when you're not in the middle of it, you will actually, when you're not in the middle of engaging in the behavior, you'll learn how you actually felt about it. And my hunch is you're gonna feel a little embarrassed and like I shouldn't have done that.

Just because you sound like a nice person. What else we got, Eldo? What is you sound like a nice person? She does. She sent us a voice memo or some shit she knew. She was dead wrong. Girl, you like hearing your voice. All right, fuck you.

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