Stavvy's World - Bonus #132 - Kush Brothers Vol. 20 w/ Ontonio Kareem [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: June 12, 2025

Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Maniacs become brothers… Kush Brothers. Ontonio Kareem returns with JP McDade to chief kush and report the damn news after proving his bonafides as one of McDade’s most twisted Maniacs. The boys cover pressing news stories including how Diddy stole Christmas, a crypto bro kidnapping and torture saga, a freaky ahhh innovation by Japanese scientists, and much more. They help callers including an uncirc’d guy from the Midwest who feels self-conscious about his hood, and a guy who’s concerned about his evangelical brother homeschooling his kids. Follow Ontonio Kareem on social media: https://ontoniokareem.com/ https://www.instagram.com/ontoniokareem/ https://twitter.com/OntonioKareem https://www.youtube.com/@ontoniokareem  Watch JP McDade's special JP MCDADE: IN BROOKYLN out now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9TOXFM3t1M Follow JP McDade on social media: https://twitter.com/jp_mcdade https://www.instagram.com/mcdadebaby 🎟️ See Stavvy live on the Dreamboat Tour 🛥️💕!!! https://stavvy.biz/ for tickets 🎥 Rent or buy LET'S START A CULT at https://stavvy.biz/movie ‼️ Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld ☎️ Wanna be part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

Um, hi, Stavi hi whatever freak you have on there Because I do sex work waiting and I recently fell in love crazy Yeah, yeah, I'm at the sky it was instant. It was everything they talk about Yeah, pretty fucking crazy Yeah, pretty fucking crazy And I was actually working when I met him

No, like I didn't meet him through sex work, but I was doing sex work I met him and literally immediately decided to stop. I was like this is perfect This is the sign I needed and I just want to be really in love and all that Anyways, when is how do I go about that conversation? You know like if something comes up like I feel like there's been Points and conversations where it could have come up My friend says I need to like bring it up intentionally like sit him down and be like, hey, this is something I used to do but I'm kind of like I feel like for me it's not a big deal and if he really likes me it shouldn't be a huge deal but I mean I understand it's gonna is the thing for people but what do you think should I be

nonchalant should I bring it up you know and I'm down and you know drop the bomb or what and then show you sooner rather than later we've been dating two months he's definitely my husband And I'm crazy for him Anyways, love you too. Oh, thank you. He also listens. So maybe it'll be funny Oh shit. Anyways, have a beautiful sparkling day and tell you this How do you do this when we're on Kush Brothers? Why do you always do shit like this? Save it for your honeymoon. Yeah.

Tell him on the beach. Yeah. Next call. Yeah. Bro. I mean, okay, I agree with you when you're like, the person you're gonna end up with, it's obviously not gonna be a big deal For them right like but at the same time you do have to sit it

I think your friend is right and it's like he might maybe you know this guy, you know you for two months Whatever you got a vibe that he wouldn't care that much I assumed he knew when you guys started dating. You know what I mean? Because it's like, that's sort of, in that case it's like, well yeah, he knows what he's getting into, whatever. But she said they met, she was doing sex work and they met.

She was just doing that to pay the bills. Unrelated. They must have met like summer. She didn't mean the day, the moment they met. She meant like at the time when they had met. That was her job. She was like working continuously. It kind of sounded to me like she was on a job The moment they meant she meant like at the time when they had met like that She was like working continuously as it kind of sounds to me like she was on a job with some kind of what she did Job left the job encountered this guy through some other means like he was around

Yeah, yeah, I don't think that day that night. She was like, I'm done. I'm on yeah't think it was through... You see, didn't meet him through actual sex work. No, he wasn't the cli... She said he wasn't the client. Yeah, yeah. So anyway, I sort of just agree with your friend here. It's like, it is the kind of thing that it will be, some people might not wanna do it. So you just kind of have to be like,

hope, I mean, I agree that hopefully, if somebody sits you down and says that and you don't care, then he have to be like, hope, I mean, I agree that hopefully, like if somebody sits you down and says that and you don't care, then he'll just be like, thanks for telling me, that's cool, I'm good. You know what I mean? Like he'll have that conversation. If he reacts the way you want him to, it'll come up that way, the same way as like nonchalantly.

I don't even know how you nonchalantly bring it up, you know? Yeah, don't do that. That'll piss a nigga clean, you know? Yeah, don't do that. Not a pissin' nigga cleanin' or you just fuckin' You know how you paid for that box of cereal? I actually used to get paid to do certain things. You know, like there's no like fun segue. Yeah. You can say it during a fuckin'.

You be like, niggas pay for this. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Hey, you gettin' free. There's a bargain every time. It's a pretty penny right here. So yeah, look, you just have to have a conversation.

It's sort of like anything that might require some discussion that you think some people you don't you're clearly had falling head over heels. And I think it's basically important for you to understand that you're on the same page with something like this before you get any deeper. Cause like that's another thing that could be kind of dangerous. The yeah, pure Nora situation here.

It's just like, you want to tell him sooner or later, I think for yourself too, to just like know he's going to be chill with it. And also- If I got hogtied by Russian goons. Yeah. Yeah. But also it's like, you know.

The longer you wait, the more it's gonna look to him like you were hiding something. I think that's probably true. Two months is the cutoff. Yeah, you're kind of in the, it's kind of like the way you would bring up anything that kind of is like, make is like make things complicated like I don't know

You'd have to be long like you're gonna move or you're gonna fucking like You have like a kid or some shit. You know what I mean? Like it's like you're in that you've passed the get to know you stage now It's like next level you want to know more about your partner at that stage and I think It also doesn't be like I'm not saying you have to fucking sit him down like it's an intervention But you you could be just hanging out like hey, I want to talk to you about something order a little pizza. Yeah Have a chip which in the freezer ready to go shipwitching the freezer ready to go. If he has feelings about it.

But in general, when there's something big that's on your mind that you need to bring up, it's easier said than done, but sooner's better than later. But the good thing to remember is you're only making it harder the more you, if it is gonna be hard now, it's gonna suck, but it's only gonna get worse the longer you work.

I agree, stuff that I was, and I think, I get wanting to make it nonchalant because I felt like what if there was an easier way To get into this annoying conversation. Yeah, that should be a formality But you know you're nervous to talk about and you know like I said plenty of people are gonna be fine with it We're a pro sex worker pod here Sounds like you know, I think Antonio's point is very is a astute one and so will this guy be probably it sounds like since you seem to be in love with this guy and if you're right great and then if not you know you move on you find somebody else

and it's not the end of the world you don't have to go back to selling pussy if you don't want to you know they're probably hiring at you know there's a job training programs you can go back though I'm saying you know but she did stop but it is it is crazy to have found someone that you're like that night you're like I'm a different person yeah I kind of got her out the game with it that's, I'm scared. That's I'm just scared of that. You're so emotionally. That's such an emotional high. I'm just I would just guard yourself a little more as your friend. Yes. You know what I mean? Like don't get too wrapped up in this your whole life.

And then that's I'm a little scared of that. But anyway, yeah, good luck out there. It's a different thing because we all had jobs, but anyway. Good luck out there. It's a different thing, because we all had jobs, but we have not done this. So it's like, it would be different if you, it's like I saw the most beautiful girl and I stopped driving Uber that day. Yeah!

Why'd you do that? Yeah, because I only drive my princess.