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Episode Date: July 24, 2025

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When I got over here, I was just carrying a lot of resentment because it's like, you made me sell a half a million dollar house and pay the same mortgage on a $350,000 house as close to your mom oh you know tough and put me thirty grand in debt so I'm upset and then she's spending we're spending an average eleven thousand

dollars a month and she can't see why that bothers me right right yeah what so go gone keep going sorry yeah yeah so I'm just harboring resentment and I start drinking pretty heavy again not every day I'm somebody who I'm not gonna miss my kids or miss work But on a weekend after I put the kids down I'll sit over here and self wallow a bit and drink so okay now since have been six months sober

Because they long so sure I made a big mistake She took my kids and took off. I didn't cheat on her or sleep with anybody, but I just put myself in position I shouldn't have been in was having conversation. I shouldn't have had Which is not okay, and I take didn't even get a pussy moved out kids gone Living in a house you fucking hate Didn't even take the raccoon butt plug out of the girl you met on Discord and put your dick in, man.

And you lost it all. Not the red gem, right? Oh, no, but she don't get her on this girl as like, she's the girl who got two coaches fired and, and, you know, all those things like growing up, like she's been a problem to him. And so I knew like no no shot, but apparently and they were giving me moonshine, which I'm not a moonshine drinker I don't know who is really but they were giving it to you like you're a fucking child getting those I didn't bring the the alcohol Who is they where didn't bring the alcohol Where where are you talking about? Who is they? Where did you bring the alcohol?

Yeah, so basically I made a mistake. I think responsibility. I miss my kids. I'm yeah, I am a good father No, I know we're bustier balls. I play with my kids I sleep five hours and I repeat it and I've been making six figures since I was 20 years old like I'm I'm a hardworking Yeah, dude the 12-hour nights I mean some blue-collar like that is that I worked in a machine shop where we did 12-hour shifts and it was like you know in the summer of and it was like a legitimate like Part of me was like if I didn't want to do comedy I was looking at how much I was making already and like how much there was like Union like raises and I was seeing like these fucking guys who were just like you know just they're just fucking red you just look at me like these fucking hillbillies

right with like shitty trucks and then I see how much they're making I'm like wait why the fuck and it was awesome because it's I guess it's tiring work obviously but it's like you don't really take it home with you And it's like I you know we've been we're big blue-collar guys here So you know that it does fuck you up obviously you're tired, and there's like wear and tear on your body But you know if you work hard you you're in the right position That's obviously a great a great track to go down so so where you now what's going on? What's kind of like where do you find yourself? What do you what are you thinking about?

Which what's like directly troubling you in your circumstances? Yes. So the big thing is, is that she was thinking about coming home and then she is very like hyper religious once she got over with her mom to a point where they believe in prophets and they pay to go to these events where they talk about like people prophesize over them and they They find out about their prophetic powers and uh So she she tells me she wakes up like she's coming right? She's gonna come home. We're gonna work this out It's what's best for the kids. We still love each other and she tells me she had a dream about uh

Donald trump baptizing two babies and that the number two and the president Red here, man. Is this worth it? Crazy You have love for your nephew, right? The way my kids is like that times a thousand. Yeah, right? Yeah, and And I'm not a dad who's like not there. I mean, I'm a dad who comes home, plays with his kids. I take them to the pool. I take them, I hold my daughter all day. Like, and I do laundry, I do dishes. Like I'm a good husband as well, don't get me wrong.

And I do all those things. I don't really have time for myself. And I think that's kind of where I get into the drinking. But now I got my meetings and stuff and that all helps. But anyways, for my kids, it's just like, where do I draw the line? Because the way I grew up and where I grew up and you know I had issues with being like ego and anger being quick to anger and just like people don't talk to me that way this and

That and I've worked on those things for a long time and I'm trying to draw a line between where's it stopping ego and start being enabling and And just do I really want to go to court because yeah she sent me paperwork yesterday and the paperwork like she wants me to have them every other weekend and that's it and she wants me to give her five grand a month and I'm like you're fucking crazy yeah Mike you're how dare you do how yeah please apologize more profusely for saying fuck. Thank you very much Move back in with this fucking religious wife

Yeah, that's kind of my question is like oh and I guess I left out a very interesting part is that uh, I Caught her like basically two weeks after We had split up like just separated mm-hmm Then two months later. She had me pay for a trip where she was going on a retreat to get close to God Oh, no, and when she came back I went through her phone, and I basically paid for a trip for her to go fuck some guy that she met on Instagram Yeah, that's nuts. I mean, I don't want to talk down to me about religion and how I mean, by the way, this is like I just don't know.

OK, look, your kids are obviously the big thing here, right? And that's obviously like your kids are your number one priority. That's how it should be. It's very admirable for you. I think it's pretty clear. I don't know man, from everything you're talking about, it doesn't seem like you're, basically it's like you don't wanna be with this person, and you're like, this will be better for my kids,

and it'll save me some lawyer fees, but it's like, that's not a good enough reason to enter into this relationship again in my opinion, right like You clearly have resentments about the fucking house, right? Like clearly you're still not over that Let it like you regret I'd bet you if if you're if it wasn't if you didn't have kids with this woman There's no way you're getting back together her right? No, no, no shot. No, not, well, I'd like to say that I would be patient and try to help her through it,

but the thing is if you like, you have no empathy, you have no like voice of reason in your head in that you're a victim. There's no change that she's seeking. And like, that's more my problem. Because I would be, I've been five years patient about the only two things I've ever asked her to do, which is spend less money and be more involved as a family right I guess I forgot about the money thing Yeah, and then the mom's shit is kind of weird cuz it's like again It's nice to be around your family obviously, but it's also like

You know at the at the same time you your family Once you have kids your family is your immediate family That's A1. And then obviously your parents should be up there, but it's like, it sounds like they have some kind of strange, kind of weird religious relationship going on here. Sounds like you don't really get along with her, with her mom. I'm Mexican and she is not. And so right away her mom was like you know they still call people colored It's very much like they're that way so she didn't like me for that reason by really

Reach the branch out a lot and try to fix that but yeah She went straight to living with her mom as soon as things happen Even when I had bought a nice house in the Midwest She would I basically be flying her out every two weeks are like i every two months i mean did to be out there with her mom and it's like dates like to me it's my wife then my kids cuz i don't for my kids to be right

my what me my wife have to be right but to her it's like her mom her dad buddy i got some really bad news for you you and your wife are never going to be right that's that's the problem here. And look, maybe I'm being too, this is troubling me, I'll just, do you see this? Oh, sorry, sorry, I'm just, okay, okay, good. I thought it was the computer.

Okay, sorry, man, we have a problem with the monitor. But, dude, I just don't hear anything here that sounds like... That sounds worth you... And you know, you did... You made some mistakes too, but it's also like... I don't know, it didn't happen in a vacuum, you're clearly pretty unhappy, and should you have addressed the things that bothered you before you started fucking sending your dick to some girl you never even got to fuck? Probably. I didn't do that. I didn't do anything like that. What the fuck did you even do, man? You flirted a little? I mean for you, I flirted, yeah. But for you, like with you, I'm sure you can understand like breaking old habits and like kind of like the things you picked up being around a dad who?

Kind of would flip his lid or be sure and well for me my dad was a drunk Big drinker and look and you obviously have subs right you have a drinking problem But you're you're you're big you know that's not even a sin if if you're taking care of it And I gotta be honest you man. It doesn't sound like and look whatever she fucks some guy when you guys were separated Not great making you pay for it's insane And I gotta be honest with you, man, it doesn't sound like, and look, whatever, she fucked some guy when you guys were separated, not great, making you pay for it's insane. Once you're separated, it's like, you can't really be playing the like,

but if we're really to keep score here, it's like, it doesn't, at the very least, right, without getting into the details and saying who's wrong or whatever, at the very least, it's not a functional relationship. It's not something that it seems like you're actually, that you actually wanna get back into, right? This just seems like something you feel like you should do.

And yes, in a perfect world, would you have a good relationship with the mother of your children? Would you be together? Yes, but I'll tell you, and I don't know what kind of family you grew up in, but it's like a functioning divorced family is way better than a constantly dysfunctional you know together on paper family in my opinion right like yeah and yeah and I

also go ahead good no go ahead I think what scares me about that too is that I'm very reasonable and like I understand, you know, I'm want 50-50 and I'll set my schedule so that I could do that. I'll make sure you help out here But for her it's uh, if it's not her way, it's no way and she's uh, she worked. I'm sorry. Did you have a fucking job? No, so she's put in the paperwork that we gotta stop talking before you turn me into a fucking one of those What's your body count podcast? You're I'm feeling them. I'm feeling the fucking misogyny coursing through my veins right now She wants me to pay for to go to school and I've spent the last five years. That's fucking crazy Houses and places for her to go to the best schools and then she comes up with a reason like she stopped believing in childcare

So she doesn't believe in childcare anymore and I'm like when I have them I have no my family's all on the West Coast you moved me to the East Coast Like I'm gonna get them vaccinated and put them in childcare while I'm working. Oh my god. She's like she's like no That's not gonna happen. I put it in the paperwork They can't be vaccinated and that I had a prophetic I had it prophesized over me that the kids are gonna be homeschooled and I was like have you met a Homeschooled kid. Yeah, it's not gonna be homeschooled. I mean you're getting pissed talking to the imaginary version of her in your head What do you think's gonna happen when you're fucking in the same house?

Like I hate that. I mean, I just don't think you're you're basically trying to be like you're trying to be like Colin Powell who's like, oh fuck, we shouldn't be in Iraq, but the Iraq war is unjustified, but George Bush is going to do it anyway. I guess I better go overlook it. I guess I better go get involved. It's inevitable. It's like, so you're basically like, wow, this woman is for, you know, lack of a better

term, a dumb bitch And I don't want I don't want her to be raising my kids half. You know Raise my kids without my supervision without me trying to run interference. I got bad news brother This is the mother of your children one way or another and I think you Re-entering a toxic relationship where she weirdly has you by the balls even though I don't really see what you did that wrong. I mean in the grand fucking scheme of things somebody who has you know paid for everything you seem to be you seem to if you have if you have fault here it's it's sort of like allowing yourself to be pushed around by her

and not setting boundaries earlier in the relationship to stop this kind of behavior or Stop the relationship not realizing earlier that this is the kind of unreasonable person That you do not mix well with that is not someone who's gonna be healthy for you long term If they if you have if you your biggest mistake is that? Not you know whatever minor fucking infidelity that especially somebody's fucking I don't mean to get 1950s with it but it's like you're fucking paying for everything and all you did was flirt with somebody when you were pissed off you moved to the exact house she wanted to it ain't great but

it's not the kind of thing that should ruin a fucking family in my opinion again we don't have all the facts whatever whatever suck my dick if you're a bit, but I think there's yeah There's a it's like there's I touched but over the jeans You're at a crowded bar trying to get by you know anyway, it doesn't matter look Point is the point is whatever it is right you know Whatever it is right. There's there's wrong on both sides whatever The reality is I don't see any way you could be with this person whatever it is right there's there's wrong on both sides whatever the reality is I don't see any way you could be with this person I think your resentments are too you are justifiably too high I think you're right that this

sucks that it's gonna cost you more money in the long run you better get a fucking good-ass lawyer she doesn't seem like the kind of person who's gonna be reasonable it will be it will be fucking annoying. But the alternative you're the alternative that you're thinking about doesn't exist, bro. Like, like we get back together and it's good enough. Like, that's not how you want to live your life. That's not what you want to teach your children. A relationship is right.

Like you want to go work hard, spend your half your time with them. Hopefully get into a good relationship find somebody else That's functional for you right and you're working on your shit. You're working on your fucking substance abuse problems. You're working. You're in therapy You're getting over like all you know ego anger whatever childhood stuff you have you're working on that shit the best thing for your children especially especially given the fact that yeah, unfortunately unfortunately they're gonna spend half the time with somebody who thinks she's fucking prophetic. Like best case scenario, she's mildly schizophrenic. Worst case scenario, she's just fucking stupid. Like that's just gonna be raising your children half the time and her mom. Oh, God. I mean, that's, this is, and yes, it sucks, but this is a lesson to like, whatever your next relationship is,

you can't, you know, just let yourself kind of get pushed over and think, well, in the future, we're gonna fix this, right? Like, you have to set clear boundaries. You know the kind of person you wanna be with. You know it's not who you had children with. You know, you know what I mean? Like, you guys are separated. This is a lesson for you. Unfortunately, you know it's not who you had children with you know you know what I mean like you guys are separated

This is a lesson for you. Unfortunately. You learned it in a fit You're gonna learn it in an incredibly costly way you're gonna learn you're gonna with between lawyer fees and child support whatever the fuck I don't know the details of that stuff moaning alimony all that shit, right? 25 like yeah, I mean you made a huge error This person's Dude is like you know it's like you want to be vulnerable you want to trust this person you want to give them what they Want and think that they're gonna have your back And then it's like instead they just become somebody who is privileged and expects things and it's like how does that work? You know I mean so then what do you fucking get out of work? I'm trying to figure out

How does that work? You know what I mean? So then you put me in a position where I'm trying to figure out. Like I have to not do the right things and not be a good guy to you for you to want to do things that you say I keep you from doing? That makes no sense. It's so sideways, man.

It's just such a victim's mentality. I mean, look. I've worked hard my whole life, man. Like you can't give me six points. You're clearly not compatible, dude. You know, yes you fucking like I don't even need to know the exact and then look my hunch is you're completely right, right, but Even if you weren't right and even if you're like you're just not compatible with this person This person is not right for you and you need to understand like you going forward

You cannot have these are not the types of people you can have relationships with and I think Right now you need to focus on figuring out the best way out of this relationship long-term you know i mean she doesn't have any money right hope you could afford a better lawyer unless her mom is richer some shit trying to get her parents paid for a lawyer there is certainly paperwork but i have a really good i had a good family and i basically sent the paperwork to uh... my pops came down here but a bunch of properties so he can move some of my

family out here that's great and you know well that's that's huge and i think this is the is the lesson there's no salvaging this right there's rebuilding your life there's creating a good environment for your children it's nice that you some of your family's gonna move out there that's huge cuz that sucks to your isolated over there focus on being a good dad keep that work ethic going and just that's it bro

it's gonna suck clearly this is not i this doesn't feel like the kind of uh... separation that's going to be uh... you know very uh... it's not gonna be friendly it's not gonna be let's let's keep the lawyers out of it Let's just what's right. She's gonna try and get every fucking dime this you know Yeah, when you do your best to win this fucking custody and this lawsuit or whatever happens and this divorce And then from then on whatever it is

Don't be fucking you know just move forward And do the best you can for your kids and the best thing you can do is Learn from a personal level learn from this know the kind of person you want to end up with and eventually you will you'll have A sort of you know maybe you'll end up with just a nice She'll get a nice stepmom. You know what I mean you'll you'll provide a nice environment for them You'll have your family around and and that's that bro. It sucks Yeah, it would be nice if we went a different way, but you know I think I get back to the Latino girls, dude Not a bad idea

They're jealous, but let me tell you they're loyal You're gonna overcorrect hard the fucking other way and just get fucking With you see me wearing pink a lot my hair really well gel Go back return this turns you this turns you into a fucking Latino supremacist fucking with the fucking with these fucking tongue talking Midwestern religious dumb bitches Well, dude, I will tell you something about being blue-collar in the East Coast though bad is like it is what you said It's a bunch of hillbillies and pickups and a lot of Trump stickers on any earth is like any surface you can put a sticker

There's a Trump sticker there, dude. It's pretty listen. I always got along with those guys like on a personal level It's not a bad time. It's just that you don't want to start talking about how they think society should be bad time it's just that you don't want to start talking about how they think society should be all my you know the the they're like oh you know their schools are gay and I was like what school where did you have this you don't have children your children have been out of school for 20 years because of the gay kids like all right dude yeah I know it sucks hopefully one day we can we can get these guys on our side by them realizing who's who's robbing them is the rich is rich Is the upper class but because they are a good time and we have a lot more in common with them than we have differences

It's just that they fall for some dumb bullshit. You know Mad about middle-class taxes, so I guess we can all kind of touch. Yeah I mean the middle class is getting fucked that is the absolute truth in the end till everyone understands that understands that the only way around it that middle-class tax been going up all the taxes for the you know top percentage has been going down they pay less percentage uh... than they ever had than they have seen a long time

even even in the recent bill but all they focus on is not tax overtime for i think it's only up to like 10 grand or something Yeah, which is fucking it's just something that sounds dumb It's just something that looks good exactly and they bury the rest of what they gave to the rich Yeah, and they stole they still and say but anyways brother. I gotta let you go. No, you got a bunch of other calls I will say love your podcast will listen for a long time. Love you LD Thank you guys a great man and good luck your weight loss journey And I hope you get find some love man your life, bro You're not only at the end of the day brother. Thanks, man

And listen call calls back it goes back Keep us updated like you know when this is all maybe like a year how you're how you're doing settled Hopefully this is all over and you're you know you're doing good Yeah, brother. I will I will I mean I'm I'll you what, if she gets my kids, I'll leave a message. You know what I'm saying? If she thinks I'm paying her way through life. Hey, maybe don't. If you're... Depending on what you're planning, maybe don't

leave a message. We'll talk to you later, brother. Good luck. Bye.