Stavvy's World - Bonus #143 - McDade's Maniacs Vol. 7 w/ Shane O'Connor [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: August 28, 2025

Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Ringleader of lunatics JP McDade is back, tapping Shane O'Connor as the latest maniac in McDade's Maniacs Vol. 7!! The boys discuss the time Shane's therapist completely gave up on him, growing up Catholic, getting humiliated by girls via Snapchat, the night Trump got elected, and much more. Shane, JP and Stav also help callers including a single mom tempted to homewreck her high school boyfriend's relationship after crossing paths with him at a reunion, and a man whose wife is boring in bed except when she comes home tipsy after a night out with the girls. Follow Shane O'Connor: https://shaneocomedy.com/ https://www.instagram.com/plane_shane https://www.youtube.com/@shaneohconnor   https://x.com/plain_shane https://www.tiktok.com/@plane_shane Follow JP McDade: https://twitter.com/jp_mcdade https://www.instagram.com/mcdadebaby 🎟️ See Stavvy live on the Dreamboat Tour 🛥️💕!!! https://stavvy.biz/ for tickets 🎥 Rent or buy LET'S START A CULT at https://stavvy.biz/movie ‼️ Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld ☎️ Wanna be part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

Hi, Shav. Hi, Elvis. Love your guys' show. Listen to it every week. Thank you. My question for you is, I recently went back to a high school reunion. Hmm. And I ran into a guy that I used to date, I don't know, mid-2000s. Anyways, life has obviously changed since then. He's been in a long-term partnership. I've just been single mom in it. living life

I kind of got the vibe that things aren't great in his current relationship you got the vibe he didn't tell you explicitly he's currently in a relationship but because you had a flirty interaction at a nostalgia filled event

with your former boyfriend because you kind of got the vibe you asked him how his wife is and you're like yeah she's good and he said a natural tone of voice and you're like Oh, yeah, yeah. Anyway, single mom to everyone else.

Yeah, exactly. Which, you're right. I'll give you that. If anybody picks up on it, it's a single mother. He's like, let's get this going. He hit me up, but keep going, L.D. In his current relationship and was kind of picking up on something. Back in the day, probably would have totally flogged it up and jumped his phone.

But I refrain, really proud of myself. You didn't fuck a guy in a relationship. Anyways, I kind of wanted. explore that a little bit more, but I'm trying to figure out the best way to really stuff out the situation and figure out if that old split up is on the horizon. No. Anyways, love to hear your guys' thoughts. Let me know.

This is awesome. And I respect you. I respect what this is about. I get it. Your life is tough. This is the guy you had a connection. with and we all like to romanticize what if the one that got

away comes back to us, whatever you can't listen and listen if he was single absolutely go for it but you can't try and fucking break up this guy like stay into whatever follow each other on Instagram like a keep the

burner warm right keep it on simmer discern his wife's hair color find a wig that matches get a hotel room with the lights down low Don't use the same credit card more than once. Yeah, pay for... Multiple stores. Pay for everything in cash.

You can't, like... Look, we respect dirtbags, but we cannot legally tell you to try and break up this relationship. If you want to just, like, you know, if you want... You made a connection, you can kind of soft stalk it. Like, this is the thing men think about. Like, we've all been there.

Not just men. think everybody's sort of like there's people who are like on the you know to fuck if if the situation arises list right we all have yeah yeah yeah we all have a list where it's like you know she was ever single i'm going to take a shot at it and that's okay you put him at the top of that list and you maybe keep an artful eye on his instagram stories but to try and make contact with the like idea that you're sussing out, whether you have a shot at ruining his current relationship. Because let's say you get, right? And by the way, what are you trying to get out of this?

Are you just trying to fuck this guy? You probably could just fuck him. But when you start a relationship in these circumstances, it's like you think, you think this is going to be serious? Yeah. You think if you fucking, like, cheat, if you, like, connive to make him cheat? You know what they say? People who cheat with you, never cheat again.

Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they definitely don't cheat on you. They just loved you so much that it made them do something they can't even fathom doing to you. You defeated every other woman in the world. Yeah, so I don't know, man. I don't think, I don't think, like, actively trying to keep in touch is going to help. Yeah, you know, I think it's, you know, those feelings from high school are always the ones you can trust the most. Back when you had it all figured out.

There's one thing I know 10 years later I still like that guy in algebra class I had a similar thing at my high school reunion It was in Westchester Walking down the streets The lady I just was too scared

To do anything with We and I got talking We're rubbing against each other We hold hands for a bit And then like six months later She's engaged I'm like this is all you need This is the closure I needed

And it's like This lady needs guys Wow Hold hands rubbing up You really You really just had like a very like monkly Catholic upbringing

If they're wearing like a scurple of the knee I'm like this is perfect Yeah holding hands counts is a hookup It's like whoa I'm gonna not masturbate to this For a long time Yeah wow

This will be what I whip myself To forgetting For getting an erection to this memory That's big respect Was she like one of the popular girls And then like She was she did seem out of my league But then yeah we started hanging out a lot

I went to Dairy Queen a couple times That's a nice come up. Yeah, yeah. And then just fumbled, fumbled a bag. A whole bunch of those eyes of fungles. Showed up at my work one time, invited me to a party at her house. She's like, we're getting drunk. I was like, I'm scared I'm getting in trouble.

She's like, tell your friends you're at another person's house sleepover. I was like, my mom will check the sources. Oh, my God, dude. Her husband's losing his hair, so, you know. There we go. That's one where you go back in time, you tell your younger self, like, you'll come up with a story for your mom. And even if it doesn't work, whatever. Yeah, it'll be fine.

That's where you just slap the fucking young you. You're like, you're going! You slap younger you, and then all of a sudden you are wearing a leather jacket. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Every slap, you're fucking awesome. Whoa, I'm jacked. Whoa, I have a sweet chain. You do it too many times.

Now you're fucking... You're in prison. Yeah, man, don't fucking do this. Just kind of keep it on the back burner. I feel like you just, you know, there's a general air at the high school reunion. You have to move forward. Absolutely.

That's not real life. You're not going to regain, even if you fuck this guy, even if you break up his relationship, it's not going to give you what you need. Totally. You have to look to the future. You're absolutely correct.

There is like a magical vibe at a high school reunion where it's like, we're all pretending we're young one more night. Even he would probably be like, that was fun flirting with that girl. Yeah, yeah. And then he goes back to his loving relationship. like he probably he probably there's a really good chance that he regrets even flirting with you

like he probably gets back to his house that he got swept up in the moment you know and he's like I shouldn't have made it seem like me and barb or on the you know what I mean like he was probably like there's a chance I'm not saying there's a chance that's true right for sure but there's a 50% chance that if he if you had pushed the envelope that night you probably could have fucked him and it would have been like a huge mistake for him you know what I mean like a life ruining mistake I agree with you all there's the vibe you know there's a little

vibe going I did miss my high school reunion and it's now it's I mean now we're getting to fucking 20 years yeah people are turning on the charm at high school reunions they're like up you know what I mean like they're making conversation and in a way could seem pretty flirty even if it's not yeah yeah statistically

someone at that reunion would have fucked her if she just looked around a little bit 100% but it wasn't about that she wanted to forbidden fruit. Good luck.