Stavvy's World - Bonus #146 - McDade's Maniacs Vol. 8 w/ Joel Walkowski [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: September 18, 2025

Patreon preview. Unlock full episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld JP McDade, the Director of Disorder, returns to introduce the latest of McDade’s Maniacs: Joel Walkowski. Joel lays out his bonafides and discusses his upcoming book HONOLULU BLUES, having an autistic dad, his comedian basketball games, ripping his stomach lining with too much pizza, getting sued by the MLB, social media shenanigans, fishing out the trash popcorn at the movies, and much more. Joel, JP and Stav help callers including a woman who’s having an identity crisis because she’s a landlord, and an ER doctor who just can’t seem to wrap it up during hookups. Follow Joel Walkowski on social media: https://www.instagram.com/joelwalkowski https://www.facebook.com/JoelWalkowski/ https://x.com/thebigwalkowski Follow JP McDade: https://twitter.com/jp_mcdade https://www.instagram.com/mcdadebaby 🎟️ See Stavvy live on the Dreamboat Tour 🛥️💕!!! https://stavvy.biz/ for tickets 🎥 Watch LET'S START A CULT at https://stavvy.biz/movie ‼️ Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld ☎️ Wanna be part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

Hi, Savi. Hi, Eldis, and of course, honored guests. So, fuck, where do I begin? So my fiance and I broke up about two months ago, but we still live together because I'm the one that's paying all the bills, and I don't have anywhere else to go. So why is she there? And I presently can't save up the money to move out because she hasn't found a steady day job that pays the bill. and it's been a shit show. No, you're letting her stay in your fucking house for free. That's not, it's like, you don't ask her to get a job after you've broken up.

This is fucking, you're getting taken advantage of this one, but anyway, keep going, Elders. One of the fights we had had was about her doing cocaine because it was a problem. And she doesn't have money. started accusing me of stealing money from her and I wasn't I'm autistic as fuck it's very hard for me to lie and stealing is one of the things

that like makes me nauseous just thinking about first of all get better at stealing rationalize that shit like that's a you problem dog it's oh I'm autistic I can't steal no that you're weak that's why you can't steal. Don't give the autistic community

a bad man, rob the casino, all right? Makes, yes, make stealing your special interest. Hyperfixing. Make theft. Make cat burglary your special start getting into different turtlenex. That was rain man. Rain man was autistic. All he did was steal. Yep, yep, yep.

So, today at work, I found a pack of it in the center council of the car. And we had already had an agreement that she was going to stop and that it wasn't going to be around me or in the house or in the car anymore because I had gotten pulled over with some that she had forgotten

about a couple months ago when I didn't have a valid driver's license. I got pulled over with a suspended license while there were drugs that I didn't know about in the fucking car. So my question is, how do I handle this? Like, do I just confront? about it and go off about this, or do I just, like, let it slide and secretly make my way out? I let what slide? Yeah. That's my question for you guys. Against your wishes?

No, he's wondering if he should confront her about the cocaine. Keep it twisted. Like, he wants to know this very nice gentleman if he should work on his relationship with his ex-girlfriend who is living in his house. free-loading of them. That's a hard to know, my man. The hardest, though, of all time.

Yeah, I really want to work on my communication with someone. We probably hate each other, and she's a drug addict. She has made me unknowingly commit felonies, but, you know, we need to talk about it. And clearly, we're not getting the reason they broke up. You know what I mean?

Like, I guess it's drugs, and she's probably just been a dumb bitch to him in many other ways. But yeah, dude, you're completely fucked here. She's taking advantage with the entire situation. you said that you pay all the bills so you live together that doesn't make any fucking sense

stop paying the bills yeah fucking kick her out or leave or whatever it might come to a point where she's so irrational difficult to deal with like you might just need to get another place as shitty as that sounds like because it's so fucking difficult to get a tenant out or roommate out from like from a bad situation and if she's like putting cocaine in your car

The top priority is just separation. You got to get basically away from it. This is fucking crazy. It is so funny when someone's like broken up for a long time and they get into like the nitty gritty of such things and like completely lose sight of the fact that they are broken up allegedly. And it's like you're still dealing with like relationship shit. I know like a very, you know, granular level.

And you are just fucked and getting steamrolled heavy. Yeah, you get it's clearly this bitch has your number. She gets to do whatever the fuck she wants. I mean, the fact. fact that, yeah, you're, again, you live together, but you pay all the bills. It doesn't make any sense. I could see it if it was a month, whatever, but it's been like three months, he said, right? Yeah.

And like, two months. Oh, two months. Also, advice, get a driver's license so you can get away from this woman. Right, right, right. Yeah, you know, go to the DMV. Doesn't that sound, I don't know. I think he said it was suspended. He was driving with a suspended license.

Yeah, well, fix it up, man. Either way, the fuck. Why do you have a suspended? license. But yeah, don't talk about, yeah, you don't have to, you're, the conversations are not, hey, when are you going to get off cocaine and get a job so you can start paying half the rent? The conversation is, we're broken up. You have to leave. I don't give a fuck what you do with your time. Just stop fucking my life up. Don't try to fix her. Yeah, that's crazy, dude. You got to get the fuck out of there. Poor guy.

confronted a bad roommate before and it's difficult where they're like you know you got to build up to it but you know figure out what you're going to say say what you got to say confront her and then get away from her when you're like don't drag on the conversation you need a plan to get out give her

a date and be prepared to maybe leave like JP said no not even joking you have to care about yourself every part of that like request for advice was hey you know my ex who's a drug addict I care about her more than I care about myself Like you have to like

Do I deserve to have a decent life? Yeah. She's stealing all my money and framing me for felonies. You know, I don't know. Do I talk to her? Like, what do I say? No, you save your money.

You get a place and you just live that good life, brother. Leave her in the rear view. Get the fuck out of there, bro.