Stavvy's World - Bonus #154 - Blair Socci [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: November 13, 2025

Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworldBlair Socci returns to the pod to discuss the fine line between ayahuasca and Hawaiian pizza, getting back to her SoCal Republican roots, how being sincere transformed her dating experience, bad eggs vs. bad spunk, and much more. Blair and Stav help callers including a woman who’s afraid that her best frenemy will bang every guy she likes, and an oil rig worker dating a girl who’s perfect except for the fact that her parents wouldn’t approve of his blue collar career.Follow Blair Socci on social media:  https://blairsocci.com/https://www.instagram.com/blairsocci/https://x.com/blairsoccihttps://www.tiktok.com/@blairsocci    https://www.youtube.com/user/bsocci/☎️ Have a question for a regular episode? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!🎟️ See Stavvy live on the Dreamboat Tour 🛥️💕!!! https://stavvy.biz/ for tickets‼️ Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Thanks, Dobby. So calling today, less for advice for me, but calling as a girl who's out here in these streets and hooking up with guys who are your, like, followers, friends, your audience. So I figured, you know what, they're pissing me off. We're going to call dad to come directly to you. So recently I've noticed there's this, like, epidemic of men who will, like, sign into my DMs, whether it's, like, Instagram, Twitter, or whatever. and I don't know what it is

will we just like totally chill like hey hey how are you like we get to know each other like again I don't know you you are just some random man on the internet who follows me maybe seems normal and within like five to six of like questions like very early on in the conversation

they will just randomly bring it sexual make it sexual like bring up porn like what kind of porn do you like I'm gonna go watch porn do you like corn like kind of your feet and I'm like and neither like not boxed like I go to their pages like these are people like I have mutual followers in front in common with people that I look at their page like we're retweeting each other

and we seem politically in line like we like the same comics we like the same jokes like they're real human beings and yet they immediately fuck up any single or every single conversation I have with them because they make it freakishly sexual so early like I don't think so and then just gives me the ick because then it's just another horny man in my DMs and like maybe we would have gotten a lot of long, maybe we could have been compatible. We'll never fucking know because you just gross me out. So this is me as a girl, just begging you to talk to the men out there.

Okay, I love you. Thank you so much. Elvis, you rule to I can't speak. Thank you, bye. Oh, she sounds like an angel. I know. You feel her frustration. She's like, I might have even liked you.

Yeah, no. She's like, I might have fucked you. Why don't you just like take me out one time? I'll just say this one thing. Like, anyone with real Riz and game, has a sense of timing of when to go into those waters. And if you're just meeting someone on a hinge of first date asking about porn and stuff,

like that's absolutely insane. I mean, porn in general is like a, you've been dating something. Like, I don't even look at porn as like a... That's not a casual conversation. That's a private. That's an inside thought.

I'm like, so what are you beating off the eldest? Yeah, totally. That's between you and your laptop. Sure, sure. Yeah, you feel frustration. And I think, unfortunately, what I'm worried about is that this is the like sort of commodification of human beings where it's like, somebody doesn't see her as a person. She's a hot woman on the internet who he might be able to fuck. And he's like, you've done a calculus in your head that's like, okay, it is worth five back and forth.

And then I am, and then I have put in too much capital, too much social capital trying to get pussy if I don't see. tits by then like it's like looking at human interaction as a formula instead of like actually getting to know someone hinge is wild though i've never i've never had yeah that's so inch that's so cool that you never had to do that that's awesome she's talking about like instagram and social media though right oh no she said hinge did you say hinge she said i think she also said social media okay i'm imagining she's like someone like on twitter yeah i will also say that um my therapist once like when i would go on hinge like i only go on there like twice a year when i remember um like asked me to send my her pictures of my profile and then made me like write the entire thing

like sincere whoa and it weeds out so many people it's like there's nothing of like i would have just written like dumb jokes or something and it is like no i'm looking for the love of my life someone like who likes to go home early and hold hand like said like that right right right right and it's like the most sincere profile you've ever seen. I would actually die if any... If ever came to light. If any of you ever saw. I love to take a look.

No, it's so... Oh, my God. I love you. If you look at the screen blare, I'll actually be pulling this up for you right here. Yeah, I mean, look, if you're, like, if you're behaving this way on the internet as a dude, it's like, you have to realize the internet has just become real life.

And it's, especially if you're people who interact and have the same, you have the same like friend group and the same interests even if you're not in the same cities you exist in some plane together here you exist in some community together here and just kind of have to stop behaving this way

I sort of was caught I was sort of caught by this in a funny way where I haven't really been I was kind of offline a lot like I was trying to be before but then you know when I went to Venice I was like Let's, let's fucking take a look at this. This is cool.

I want to fucking. Those picks were incredible. It got me back. Yeah, it got me back online to be like, oh, nice. People are saying I look cool with the pony tail. Yeah. I love the pony. You're fit.

You looks amazing. Yes. And I just, I hadn't really done a DM slide in a while. And I just like noticed some like beautiful woman had like commented on something. And I was like, and I'm also in Venice. I'm eating pasta. Right. Yeah.

And I think I hit it was. It's romantic. I hit it with some variation of the, like, uh, uh, actually a old lady in the tramp thing, like, uh, something about lady in the tramping some pasta. Oh, that's good. You know? I feel like that's good. Well, I had done it.

I hadn't, I hadn't said in a while. I had used it in the past. Okay. And, uh, and, and I really, I wasn't saying it, but I was like, I'm in Venice eating. I had pasta every meal. It was top of mind. And she just was like, hot, L.O.L. I think you use this on a friend of a friend.

Like a year ago or whatever And I was like, damn, yeah, probably Oh, that's brutal She was like, hey, it worked Because I think I did I think I guess I hooked up with a girl Or whatever And and

And and But it was tough to be like Do you think you've hooked up with more girls Than that other girl's friend? I don't know I don't know how many You have no idea your number? I don't really know my number

Yeah, yeah I'm not sure I don't think it's over 200 Oh. That's gnarly. Yeah, I don't think so. Slot shaming you. You are, yeah.

That's the Republican in you. Yeah. But yes, that happened to me. But it's like, hey, look. You took that one on the chain. You got to take it on the chin. It's a beautiful woman. I think she had a boyfriend anyway.

Right. Pretty funny also to be like. Like once a year, I'll DM a guy where I like see their picture and all just Right. Are you single? How old are you? Respect. Does that work for you? Probably every time. A hundred percent it works. For sure, right? If they're single or like whatever. I love that directness, though. Are you single? How old are you? Yeah, that's all. That's what I care about. I like that. I'm going to try that next. A lot of young dudes hit on me. Interesting. And like, I have no interest. You're not interested in that.

So what's your cutoff? age-wise? What's the youngest you would date? I don't, I can't, I don't think I could date. Like, I don't know. I've never dated younger guys my whole life. Never in your life. I was probably because I had older brothers. I mean, I've had a boyfriend that's like a year younger than me, but like I've never dated. Either your age or. Yeah. Older. What's the, but do you have just a couple years? You wouldn't go like 10 years younger than you. No, I wouldn't. I mean, I'm not the buzzer bitch. Like I can't, I'm not fucking around. Like, we just said people are saying,

it's old eggs, but it might be old sperm. You might need that fresh jizz. I don't know. I don't know. I just can't imagine a man. Like, I like to be a real woman in a relationship. Sure. I'm not trying to be this.

Of course. You're not trying to be a mommy figure. Well, like in stand-up, you have to basically be a man. Right. And like, I'm not trying to... You would like in your personal life to have a more effeminate... Yeah, like, I don't want to be an alpha. Like...

I know you mean. Like, I like, I like, I like, I'm into that, you're not into that. I like a dude that is like, takes care of shit and it's like, uh, has a good job and wants to coach soccer and man the grill, you know? Totally, totally, totally. Yeah. No, I'm, I'm fucking with you. But I also, again, the older you get, the more you're like, all right, I kind of feel

the same way where it's like, yeah, I do like doing those things. I do kind of like, you know, I like doing all. Even though it's like I have other non-traditional beliefs, like, yeah, you know. No, but I. Although I wouldn't mind being like a stay-at-home husband. That would be hilarious. Yeah. I think now if that happened to me, that means how I don't know who.

You married Meryl Street. It would be awesome. Yeah. I'm listening. I'm listening, Meryl. You have to get Marty short out of the way. I'm going to fuck you up, Marty. You old little motherfucker.

He's like the funniest person alive. He's so funny. He's so funny. He's so funny in every context. It's like makes you mad. He crushes like anything he does is hilarious. Jimny good is like the funniest thing in the world. Unbelievable. I love it.

So good. But yeah, sorry, you know, stop doing that, fellas. Start treating women like human beings. Oh, also for this gal, if you're a gal listening, I, you see how direct I go. Like, no, I don't have time. What are you looking? Just say, what are you looking for? And if they should, if they're a good dude, be honest.

Like, they're like, I want, I'm just looking to hook up right now or I'm looking to date or I'm looking for a girlfriend, whatever. Just ask straight up But I think the problem is She hasn't even gotten They've exchanged a couple pleasantries And they're coming through Dix hard Oh I thought this was like on the date They were asking

No no she's saying like in the DMs Oh yeah no I if someone sends me Sexual DMs or like nasty shit From these fuckers And how I even have one male fan at this point Is like I am so confused by And most of mine are men

It's so confusing to me Because I'm like the gal's gal. Of course. You are. I don't even like dudes. No, you don't. So. I'm at the game, but I feel like dating got like so much simpler for me where it was like,

I just like stopped worrying about like trying to make anything sexual. The bar is like so low for men. It's like you get so far if you just like know how to like sit politely and like just go back and forth for like an hour or two over some drinks and just like, you know, know, keep it to like polite conversation, maybe some friendly rifts and like, don't be, you know, don't be like, oh yeah, I have a fucking electric vibrator in my house that I use on everyone. Have you ever written a Sibbian? Yeah.

Like, you know, the girls don't want to hear about your. Let me show you a hilarious video. And it's like Howard Stern, the girl riding the Sibian, would you ever want to ride one of these? Like the girls don't want to hear about the sex toys and shit or, you know, all that shit. It's like, you just got to, like, wait out those, like, getting to know you beats and, like, you know, especially if it's in the context of a date or online dating. Like, everyone is there to fuck, really, unless you're like, you know, Christian or some crazy shit. Like, even if, even if people, I mean, you know what I mean. Like, even if you're like looking for a relationship or something.

Elders saying ultimately people, at the end of it, is a sexual relationship. Oh, okay. Well, yeah. At the end of the road, not a hookup. Right, right, right, necessarily. But at the end of the day, if a guy, I like when it got dudes like, oh, yeah, I'm just looking to hook up. I'm like, thank you for telling me. That's not what I, like, you know, I think that's great.

Totally. That's happened to. Just everyone just be straight up. And then everyone can find what they're looking for. Yeah. So anyway, good luck out there, Tuts. Yeah. Stop.

Yeah. Like Elda said, just. And all those guys, like, the guys who just deemned her probably could have gone out with her and they maybe even could have hooked up or even dated. Yeah, because she's like, they seem really cool. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Like, she was yours and then it was yours to.

Why is it so fast? Why are you going so fast? So horny. Yeah. I mean, look, do I behave that way sometimes? Maybe. According to a friend of a friend. Yeah.

But it's sort of like making it clear what you're interested in. Yeah. Even though you keep calling me a Christian. nationalists. I'm like, what? Because I don't fuck on hinge? Yeah, exactly. Damn. That's that wild? No, I'm kidding. Oh, okay. It's a fucking joke, too. Oh, okay. I thought you were serious.

No. I don't actually think you're an Orange County Republican. Oh. Well, I mean, really. I'm like, what? I'm like really defending. Yeah. Thank you.