Stavvy's World - Bonus #159 - McDade's Maniacs Vol. 10 w/ Myka Fox [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: December 18, 2025

Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworldThe Mastermind of Those Out of Their Mind, JP McDade, taps Myka Fox for the newest edition of McDade’s Maniacs, to discuss the joys of shoplifting, Arizona childhoods, her dad’s pragmatic dream of becoming a dentist, whether Stav is smart or dumb, Angelina Jolie in Beowulf, and much more. Myka, JP and Stav help callers including an adult man who doesn’t like his best friend’s nephew’s girlfriend because she can’t riff, and a woman who’s mad that he male friend dogged a girl from Bumble.  Check out Myka Fox’s podcast Great Hang: https://www.patreon.com/GreatHangSee Myka Fox live and follow her on social media:https://www.mykafox.com/http://instagram.com/mykafoxhttp://twitter.com/mykafoxhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/MykaFox☎️ Want to be a part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!🎟️ See Stavvy live on the Dreamboat Tour 🛥️💕!!! https://stavvy.biz/ for tickets‼️ Bonus episodes every week! Unlock exclusive, Patreon-only episodes at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Hey, Stave, eldest, hey guest. Left the voicemail, but it wasn't really good. I want to give more detail. Got a best friend that has a nephew. I've known this nephew since he's about 10 years old. I've watched him grow up. Grow up. Recently got his first girlfriend, I believe, within a year, year and a half.

Long story's short, she sucks. Like, she won't go along with bits. If we try to roast her, he thinks we can't be mean. He's 10. No, no, I think he's 19. He's 19. Oh, okay. Wait, I don't know.

I thought he was 10. I think he's known. Wait, he's known his nephew since he was 10? He says he's about 10 years old. Played again from the beginning. I was left a voicemail, but it wasn't really good. I want to give more detail. Got a best friend that has a nephew.

I've known this nephew since he's about 10 years old. I've watched him grow up. Recently got his first girlfriend, I believe, within a year, year and a half. Long story's short. She sucks. Like, she won't go along with bits if we try to roaster. she thinks we're genuinely being mean. And it just doesn't...

This is what Michael Richards thought about, Jerry Seinfelds. A 19-year-old girlfriend, he's like, she won't even riff. I say one little naughty word around her, and she gets all uptight. Anyway, okay, this is insane. Let's just, off the bat, this is insane. That a grown man is mad, a child won't rip. A girl child who's dating his friend's nephew, won't riff with him.

What kind of relationship do you think friend of your boyfriend's uncle is to a fucking girl in high school or, you know, college? Do you have her calling in? Hey, so my uncle's friend keeps trying to hang out with me. Yeah, my boyfriend's uncle's friend doesn't think I'm fun.

He keeps trying to fucking show me memes. Anyway, let's finish it. Genuinely being mean and just doesn't, you know, vibe along. Most recent thing is that the nephew and his brother got together, started drinking for the nephew's 20th birthday, started watching anime. Girlfriend finds out all of a sudden starts calling him an alcoholic, all of a sudden says he's going to start ruining his life, and, like, you know, all this toxic shit. And overall, I just don't like her. So what can I tell, you know, basically my nephew, like the guy's a kid, I've watched girl up, like, hey, get rid of this chick, you deserve better.

What? He's a bigger guy Not a lot of confidence So I get why he's kind of dealing with it But, you know He's complained about her No, dude, let this kid have his slump buster He's not good for him Yeah

She's not good for him Dude what the fuck are you talking about? Yeah This is the kind of thing You're like Oh isn't this hilarious Like isn't it funny Like you know

Billy's Billy's girlfriend is kind of a fucking idiot Oh well They're children Who cares Yeah what are they going to get married? They're not Amish, right? 20, anyway, let's finish, let's finish his call.

So I want to try to find a way to instill the confidence in him to be like, hey, you can get somebody that doesn't suck. You can get somebody that doesn't call you an alcoholic. Like my wife. Oh, that's your leg up like me. Let me know, love the podcast. I hope to hear what you got. Okay. It's possible to be like, I don't really like, and okay, we're busting your balls, but also.

he said who did he say it's like his friend's nephew yeah so it's kind of like if you you know but even you and your nieces it's like i wouldn't about my other nephew or it's like his oh your other nephew that's true that's a better example actually that's that's why i'm like okay i could kind of see it but he's also how old is he now like 22 so it would be like if okay but 19 honestly 19 and 20 like 19 turning 20 is a lot different than even 22, 23, right? Like, this is someone who's in college, like, to give a, okay, it's like, for example, if that kid had a girlfriend who sucked, I would have an opinion, I would, we would talk about

it, but I would never be like, bro, man to man. She's sucking the life out of you, dude. You would just be like, oh, I hope this kid figures it out. You pause golden eye to be like, let's talk for a second. Yeah. You are coming off really weird, man. You are coming off insanely loserish. You're coming, honestly, I hate to be this.

You're making me be woke. But you're coming off misogynistic. You're being like, she's a shrill harpy this 20-year-old. She's a real wet blanket this one. Yeah, it's like, dude, they're fucking kids. If he's a, listen, as someone who was a fat kid, I would have killed to have a dumb bitch girlfriend when I was 19. Yeah.

I didn't get pussy. To get pussy at 19, a girl could have treated me anyway. Who cares? I think it's better for him to have a shitty girlfriend that might. And by the way, she's not even, we don't even know that she's shitty. Because you're weird. So what your opinion. No, she sucks, I can tell.

She can't even roof, bro. We don't even know that you're funny. This guy's asking us to vouch for his sense of humor, sight unseen. If anything, off of your energy, I am betting she's funnier than you are. Just off of your general demeanor, there was something very wrong with how you're taking this. You're taking it personally, and you're being weird. You've got to know that.

You're being fucking strange. Let the kid have his fucking shitty first girlfriend. Is this projection on your part? What was your life like when you were 19? And by the way, you want to know how he gets confidence? It's like, you go through a couple relationships when you're fucking 19 and 20. You work your way up. This is when you fuck up.

he should have like he learned he'll learn this lesson by doing it this is like you being like um my friend's nephew um you know he's still he's using training wheels on a bike how do i tell him to have the confidence to use two wheel you know what i mean to use a motorcycle and it's like that's not the age he's at right now dude like this isn't a matter of confidence he'll figure it out for himself don't meddle in a child's affairs yeah it's also not even your fucking place. I have friends who are 40 who are picking bad partners. I'm like, good luck with that. I'm standing in a fuck out of this.

100%. And like, look, you might be closer to him than we're giving you credit for, but it's kind of fucking weird, dude. Now, you're baiting him with booze and to get him to hang out with you. I'm on to this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, totally. You're mad. This is the only reason he calls you. He needs you to buy

him fucking twisted teas. He needs you to buy him twist. Keep it twisted. the only reason he calls this guy is like hey can you um buy me a handle of vodka that's the only back and forth he has and he scared this girl might take his fucking connection handle a vodka you can't even handle a kid

so yeah dude you uh something is really off with your energy here it's it's kind of making me uncomfortable if I'm being completely honest with you the amount of you're judging a 19 year old girl for not thinking for not having your sense of humor Wait, can you imagine, right, he talks that kid into dumping her and she finds out that he was, she was dumped because Stob on a podcast was like, you got to get rid of her, wrong. Yeah, yeah.

How old is this guy? Did he say? He didn't say, but he must be, I don't know. On the low end, mid-20s at the absolute lowest? Yeah, probably late 20s. I mean, your conversations with your friends, like 19, 20-year-old kid should be like, hey, how you doing? Going to college? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, dude.

How often are you hanging out? This is crazy. I mean, I mean, if we also want to give them, like, the full benefit of a debt, it's like, the same principles do apply when it is, like, your real friend, like, when you're friends in a bad relationship, like, unless it's, like, something crazy, catastrophic or even, like, abusive, like, you can't really tell them, like, it sucks. They just have to, like, learn it for themselves and, like, suffer through it. And, like, that, and, like, that, and, like, that pretty.

principle just applies double and it's like a kid where like when an adult tells them like that person's bad for you that this makes them want to rebel and like lean into it harder yeah okay sure let's give him the benefit of doubt this is a kid that looks at you as a mentor right let's just say that's the case okay you want you don't proactively meddle if he comes to you or if he talks to It's like, you know, I watched my friend, I watched my friend, like, talk her three-year-old through a temper tantrum. She was like, breathe. How do we deal with our feelings? He was like, can you take a deep breath?

He was like, no. And she's like, okay, but can you try? And he was like, and he was like, I feel better. And she's like, good. How do you know, like, you walk him through it. You're like, he comes to me. He's like, hey, hey, fucking uncle, whatever the fuck. I don't know.

I'm having like, I'm feeling bummed out. He's like, why, buddy? What's going on with your relationship? And then you let him talk it out. And you don't even give him direction. Just let him try and figure it out for himself. But I have to just come back to how uncomfortable it makes me the amount you're judging this child that the child you know is dating. Just let her.

She might be fine for him. And look, maybe she's a little bit of like, she's a little more uptight than he is. But it's like, kids figure this shit out. Whatever. Who gives a fuck? And is he an alcoholic? Because also, again, the problem is we don't understand. You are an unreliable narrator here.

Like, what if this kid is getting fucked up all the time? You know what I mean? Like, and she probably doesn't. She's probably overreacting. But either way, he's a fat kid and you think he has confidence issues, his uncle's loser friend not stopping him from getting pussy is not going to fix his confidence issues. Yeah, you don't need pussy. You need to chill with me, you need.

You need to get fucked up with a 32-year-old. You need to spend time with a girl you like. yeah anyway man i have a sting suspicion you are not fulfilled in your life and maybe look inward before getting mad at a you know 19 year old girl