Stavvy's World - Bonus #60 - Live Call Show Vol. 6 [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: January 26, 2024

Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld We're back with our first live call show of the year! Stav and Eldy talk to the beautiful Patreon members directly and help give advice for complicated life issues. Callers include a guy who lost his bro to a green card marriage, a dad who fumbled the bag with a hot chick from his climbing gym by being too thirsty, and a man who's stuck in the middle of a feud between his two best friends after one of them cucked the other. If you'd like to be a part of future live call episode, subscribe at www.patreon.com/stavvysworld to get access to the Stavvy's World Discord channel where these live calls are taken. Have a question for a regular episode? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

silly dilly you little fucker all i'm here i'm here what's up silly dill hey uh... thanks for having me all this savvy of course to you hey so

my question i guess is whether i should send an apology text message to somebody that i became friends with who was like pretty cool. She's also extremely attractive. Let me pause you right now, yes. Just knowing the tone in your voice

and the two pieces of information you chose to give us, yes, but let's find out the rest of it. Your voice sounds like when a dog ate your fucking hamburger and you fucking scold them about it. Your voice sounds like a, like a, like a fucking droopy, like droopy the dog's eyes right now. But anyway, go ahead. Hey, so she is an only Phantom model and we had been doing like lots of stuff together I had come like asked her if she would be like interested in making out at like

one point in time or something like that and a real man's way to try and get pussy can I kiss you a real alpha way to try and get pussy you look really pretty. Can I kiss you? I need it. Hey listen, whatever man. You took your shot. We're shitting on you, but go ahead. We've all been, again, we've all been there. You think that's the most pathetic way? I've tried to get pussy not even close. But go ahead pal, sorry.

So we continue being friends and So I'm sorry. I'm sorry. How do you guys meet you just like you just are friends in real life He's like I've paid her fifty thousand dollars over the last 18 months We go to the same like climbing gym and then I kind of saw her like outside of that. Sure. Okay, so you met your friends in real life and you're like, yeah, your casual friends and then you find out that she's on OnlyFans, whatever, whatever, she's a hot as shit. You befriended a hot girl at your climbing gym, basically.

Yeah. Okay. And you made a pass at her, it didn't work, but you maintained a friendship. Yeah. OK. And you made a pass at her. It didn't work, but you maintained a friendship. Yeah. And and as as I time passed, I are like in a certain situation, I sort of started like getting vibes again that I don't know. She might be interested in something, but then I guess she posted a piece of literatica on like that life or whatever.

Oh, yeah, dude And how many fuck how many platforms you jerking off to this girl on? This guy's jacking off to his memories of the climbing gym jacking off the only fans He's fucking reading her. You're beating off to her fucking literature motherfucker This man is the fucking easy he wants this pussy bad Anyway, sorry you're on her visco looking at her fucking architectural photos of buildings Like is it that bad to Google somebody if you find them attractive like is that that, is that? Are we doing a little sub, a sub question in the middle of your question here?

I'm not saying it's that bad, but following every link and beating off to it. Yeah, you know, maybe, you know. Hey, if I was talking to a hot only fans chick, I would be all up in that shit and looking, looking whatever I could find. So I'm with you silly, silly. I'm with you.

Here's the thing. Philosophically, there's two things, right? There's human nature. And of course, the human nature is like, you see, our brains are now trained. We're in the generation where in our lifetime, you were able to type in name of woman breasts in the Google and get a pretty good chance of seeing them, right?

So we're spoiled here. But I will say philosophically, when I've been in of seeing them, right? So we're spoiled here, but I will say, philosophically, when I've been in a similar situation, right, where it's like I'm talking to somebody who, I know what their, you know, if they're a sex worker, if they're an only fans girl, if I know you can see them doing cool stuff on the internet, I personally, my philosophy is,

I try not to do that so that I can maintain a like regular relationship with this person. If I'm really trying to get to A either get to know them but let's be honest with ourselves here try and fuck them right or like date them or would it not to be so crash about it but it's like because I find I find it like being like well let me let me just treat this person like a human being I'm sure everyone who comes across her googles her tits and if I want an actual relationship, even if it's a fling, even if it's something,

like, that's just my personal philosophy, which I landed on through trial and error, silly dilly. I've made the same mistake you have before, and I've been like, ah, jeez, this just turned me into like, one of those Indian reply guys that's like, boob please, boobs please kill myself no see boob if I if I fucking find videos of her sucking dick before you know we

hook up but anyway so that's a little that's the side answer to your main answer continue so you're reading her literatica I wish it was Bob's please was my reply but I replied with a haiku and Wait wait you applied to her literatica Yes, and what did you say? With like a haiku so I can't remember the exact Where how where did you reply to it like in the DM or on the comment or something you had to comment Okay a second ago. I was like, disagreeing with stuff. Now, I'm back on stuff side.

This is the exact behavior not Google them. You want to fuck this girl. You don't want this to be a fuck-a-fan experience. Yeah. Yeah. You got to. Yeah. Also, wait a second.

You're telling me you registered a new fucking username? You signed onto it. Huh? I had a username there. I had a username there I had a username there but like my my stuff is like slightly more it's like more hidden like I sure face sure sure sure okay now I will say even if you're allowed to Google you gotta keep it to one platform like and I wouldn't interact but anyway you're

playing with a haiku, okay? Not looking good right now. What was, what was it just, you know, real quick, what was like the context of the haiku? Were you saying some like, hornier than a motherfucker shit? Or was it just some like, you know, some cute little bullshit? I'd say it was like more like paraphrasing

the story that was written into a smaller, smaller like context. Okay. So it wasn't, it wasn't like too thirsty, but it was, yeah. The act in and of itself is the thirst. The interacting. The thirstometer is out of control. Just any comment on a tertiary, sex fucking like literature website that I don't even know exist until you told me right now and I've made my whole career is because of the internet and

I've never heard of this thing do you know what I mean anyway you send the haiku I'm telling you right now it's not looking good what's the next step what happens next in this story in this tale so like around that time there was like some back and forth about like meeting meeting up again like either grabbing coffee or Or like going climbing again, and then then I saw her in like real life and I kind of was like getting Weird vibes from her so she obviously I guess few weeks you figured out that I had replied to her like filthy story with a haiku and then after that I sent like one other message and then it's been ghosted or like yeah ghosted

me after that and I said anything else okay but our like we live in a smaller kind of city and our kids go to the same school. So like, occasionally. What an awesome little extra tidbit to drop at the end. Like the same school as what? As her kid, his kids go to same school as her kids. Oh wow. That's awesome. That's a whole other level of this. So the last time I saw her, I was like in my vehicle

and she was at a crosswalk. And like rather than crossing the crosswalk like I this seemed like we were both you know kind of like blinders on trying not to make eye contact but it seemed like she wasn't like crossing the street in front of me like at a weird weird uncomfortable awkwardness yeah this is not want to send look I know parents are people too, right? I know you're just a regular guy. You can't be a father acting like this, man. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha was down bad, he's fucking writing, how he's writing Japanese poetry for pussy? God damn dude. Okay, whatever.

Yeah, okay, so I cast a drift here. You blew it for whatever reason, one of your many mistakes finally caught up to you, even though she seemed cool for a while. And you're saying basically like, now my default when I hear a situation like this is like, you gotta just take your lumps and move on, right? Like you just gotta, it's humiliating, whatever.

We all, we've all been there. We've all tried, we've all tried to fucking, the sauce wasn't thick enough for certain hot girls, right? We've all embarrassed ourselves and that's okay. And you just take that L and you move on and you remember for next time, you take these lessons the next time you're trying to fuck a hot milf

who also has really good grip strength, right? But how much, like, so I would say probably just don't bother her again is enough. And now what's the, how much of the like Like so your kids go to the same school like how often do you see I guess you see her at the climbing gym, right? Like you're basically just worried about this is a pretty small community And you don't want to seem like a dickhead or what are you just afraid of you don't want to be putting the blinders on every time You see her. What's what's the main worry here? Right exactly I want I guess I want her to

I wanted to be like less awkward so that she that isn't like changing her behavior because right creepy me It was like around And so so like I have not seen her at the climbing gym And like I fear that I possibly have like made this gym into like an unsafe space for her and like go to or something like that. And so I kind of just want to like express like, I'm pretty sure I like harass you and I apologize for that.

Like I'm not. Well, I have a question. Yeah. In your mind, what is the harassment here? Just you're like, you know, gay comment on her story or... Making a pass at her, here's what it is. Making a pass at her, her saying no, seemingly taking it like a good guy.

And then it seems like she CSI'd the fact that he's been horny for her this whole time through the comments and shit like that. Is that what you're thinking? Exactly, and I'm pretty sure that's probably like a common occurrence for her. Right, exactly, exactly.

So, okay, I get where you're coming from, right? But I also know that like, women like in my life, whether I was dating them or we were close friends or whatever, sometimes they have like, I made this mistake once where it was, somebody close to me was complaining about a guy being weird to her, right? And I was just like, that's fucking bullsh-

You know, I got mad, right? And I was like, dude, that's fucking unacceptable. And I like confronted the guy about it, right? And then he gave her a fucking apology. But then I remember her being like, hey, why the fuck did you do that? He weird to me already his apology is for him it's not for me I now I have to like make this guy feel better even though I just wanted to move on right so I think here's my here's my read on the situation I say

you just leave her alone if you are ever after you've put in enough like you're in the same small community if after enough time You've put enough goodwill where she's not like actively avoiding you and you've shown that you're a good guy And that you're not a creep whatever and you happen to be in another Whether it's a mutual friends party or you're at the climbing gym or whatever you can say I just want you can then and only then if you're ever in a situation where you have to like see her again you can be like I really apologize for my behavior last year whatever like I never want I feel

like I made you uncomfortable I was out of line I will totally leave you alone I just want you to know I'm sorry so just that if that ever comes up, but I think you don't because the other thing is Creeps often use apologies as attempts to get back in there And I think you just have to sit in this and you have to feel never getting forgiven Because the apology is half for her But it's half for you to be like please absolve me of my horniness and the sins that I committed during when my dick was hard, right? And so you just have, your punishment

is never getting that feeling. And I think the best thing you can do is just kind of leave her alone. And if it ever comes up, or let's say you hear from a friend that she would like an apology or just whatever, right? If some situation where it makes sense and you're like, you know, and you're not like,

I'm not saying like, wait outside her apartment and say, I'm sorry, but I'm saying if something naturally comes up or you hear the cheat, appreciate her apology, then feel free to do it. But I just think you're probably better off leaving her alone and just wallowing in your, you know, minor guilt here. I agree with that.

And I think like Yeah, I think I'm kind of like you know where I'm at with you know my busting too quick Behavior like right where I just really want to avoid having to say I'm sorry the Sula doctrine I'm sorry for something. That's like awkward and embarrassing But because because really what this is is like, you know I'm sorry. The Sula doctrine. I'm sorry for something that's like awkward and embarrassing, but, because really what this is is like, you know, you're just embarrassed because you're way too horny. That's really what this is.

And it's like, you know, hey, good or bad women, especially only fans models, I'm sure, deal with this shit. Red pill Sula. I mean, just like deal with this shit all the time. So I think the best thing you really can do to like Bring back goodwill just make her comfortable is like yeah ignore her fully leave her alone ignore her at the gym Maybe if you if you guys are like a foot away from each other

You just like make on eye contact or like it's unavoidable. Just say like hi with this. Hello. Keep it moving. Hello. Keep it moving No, no nothing just make it clear to her. Hey, I'm out the way you do your workout Whatever you're gonna do and I don't want to You know, I don't want to harass you or try to fuck you right now Yes, yeah, just like you know make it clear through that behavior. And yeah the apology thing I would say like the only time I would really even address that ever, even once you like, you know, let's say, let's say months from now, she's kind of more comfortable and you guys are friendly again and start talking.

The only time I would ever address that is if she brings it up. Yeah, that's probably fair. Otherwise, I don't think you really need to say anything. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because then you're just like admitting guilt for something that's not a crime. You're just like a thirsty, a thirsty motherfucker. No, no, it's not about him. It's about her. And the more you're talking about it, it's like you're right. If they've normalized shit again. It's uns, the apology is almost unspoken. Because the way you've normalized this by behaving like a guy who doesn't want to fuck her at all, you basically have to treat her the way you would treat

like a fat middle aged man at your office. You know what I mean? Just some guy named Stan who smells kind of weird. You know what I mean? Like that's how you have to put your blinders on and treat her like a hunched over old man. Just, hello, how are you doing? And then move on.

But yeah, I think that, I think we kind of got to the bottom of this, buddy. How you feel? How you feel with that analysis? I mean, I think that's good analysis. And I'd like it reaffirmed my current actions. And so, yes, and this was like more questioning. Yeah, I guess questioning,

but that was what I was going with good Yes, I love it. It's these it's always fun to work through these and really really piece these out So good luck buddy, and now you know for the next time and You know DML this letter. You know what her only fans is send us her ID We won't do any poems