Stavvy's World - Bonus #63 - Live Call Show Vol. 7 [PATREON PREVIEW]

Episode Date: February 15, 2024

Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Stavvy talks directly to the fans in Live Call Show Vol. 7!! Stav and Eldis help callers including a man who's in a caustic on-again, off-again relationship with a divorced Albanian woman, a lesbian who can't keep up with her girlfriend's libido, and a younger Geman man wondering if he should take a chance on love. If you'd like to be a part of future live call episode, subscribe at www.patreon.com/stavvysworld to get access to the Stavvy's World Discord channel where these live calls are taken. Have a question for a regular episode? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!

Hello Fielding, what's troubling you, our friend? Uh, I'll tell you what, man, I just got out of a six year relationship and I met someone pretty quickly who's kind of complicating a few facets of my life. Okay. So the girl I was dating for a while We separated officially on the first of this year, okay, damn we had spent some time officially We fucking paper work got stamped on the first All right new year new year new bitch I got you that's right We shared a pretty, and we still share quite a bit of life together.

We have a dog together, we have finances, car loans, all that kind of stuff, so we're pretty close. Finances. But about three years ago, we took about a seven month break where I didn't really do much, but pying over the fact that we weren't together. Jesus Christ. I didn't really spend a lot of time with me I kind of waited around and let her control how that went

brutal and Yeah, man, and we're in a similar situation now She kind of made the call and you know needs to do some reflective self work. What totally for hold on a second, dude I'm sorry. You let this bitch every three years go on a little dick rum springer That's crazy And I didn't do I didn't I didn't go anywhere and I'm a guy that's in in previous relationships I hate to say this but I've always been a cheater too This is your karmic comeuppance. This is this is it getting back to you

Right, so that was but at this point that was about three years ago Okay, so now we split now she goes through something similar and this time after doing a lot of work on myself I say I totally respect your decision. I'm not gonna wait around this time. Yeah, of course But by doing a lot of work on yourself, do you mean having basic self-respect? Is that what you consider that? Exactly, and that's been a struggle. But I work in management in a hospitality setting, and I have someone that I met through work. Time out, time out. This is fucking, sorry, sorry to interrupt you, bro. You're a man.

Oh, please. You're a fucking manager at a fucking TGI Friday's fucked the hostess, and he's couching it in fucking therapy language. Essentially, yeah. I mean, what am I gonna do? I'm trying to, you know, hold an image a little bit, but... Um, she gave me a lot of... This is your big self fucking... I'm trying to you know hold an image a little bit This is your big self fucking you're finding yourself as you're an old guy older man who fucked the waitress You're a boss who fucking employing you're like I did some soul searching

Here's the best part is that she's older than me? Oh there we go Situation she's a lifer there we go. That's fucking awesome. All right, I'm back in I'm back in I respect you again Go ahead. So listen, she's bad man. She's bad. She's out. She's recently divorced She separated from a husband that she married for papers. Nice She moved across the country to kind of get away from him to start over. She landed in the city that I'm in. Hell yeah. He followed her about four months ago without telling her. He moved to the city to try to find her. Like an detective.

It's pretty wild on her side. So she's got her own shit. Holy shit. Yeah, man, it's messy. So she gave me an ear. And on New Year's, we work New Year's Eve together. And she was like, yo, you know, you got to rip the bandaid off basically. She was like, this is what I did. I moved across the. And she was like, yo, you know, you gotta rip the band-aid off basically.

She was like, this is what I did. I moved across again. And I was like, yeah, you know what? I'm gonna make a decision tomorrow. Oh, I see. And then the next day we were, we started hooking up immediately. So she was trying to pull me in that direction

to begin with. Dude, I'm sorry. So you, so when you go on these breaks, you didn't even fuck a girl who like fell in your lap until you officially like broke up with your ex. That's crazy. Yeah, we have a, brother, we have a dog together. And I don't know really if you know what that means,

but it's an unbreakable bond. Yeah, look, man, you're talking, you're talking to a first generation immigrant who never grew up with a pet in his home. You might as well say we have a fucking, like a golf, like we have like a fucking fish tank that we share. Like you might as well say we have a fucking like a golf like we have like a fucking fish tank that we share Like you might as well be like yeah, we got a mini fridge that we fucking both put drinks in That's crazy. I mean the idea that I let a woman ruin my life because of a fucking

Cocker spaniel is insane, but I get it though people love their dogs. I have people very closely to love their pets I understand it's serious, but you know, whatever It's insane But it's relevant to Any part of you guys here because she's also a first generation. I guess she's actually She's I don't know what's what's the step removed from first generation is an immigrant. She's just oh she came from the country What she came she she was born in a different country Yeah, yeah, yeah, so she was born in Albania. Wow

Okay, it's making sense. Wow. You're letting the fucking Albanian bitch control your life, dude pussy too good She thought a pussy too good My drive to work I had to listen to Eyes of the Panther by Steel Panther if you've ever heard that song dude I do man I remember Steel Panther it's the fucking best I've ever and now listen I was in a in like a

I wasn't getting anything for the six years where I was so like maybe this is just average and I'm settling for an Albanian yeah yeah, yeah. She lived in Greece from six years on and then moved here with her family. She escaped like sex trafficking and it was wild. Wow. So anyway, none of this is really a question, except for the point here, is you already hit it, man. It's like basic self-respect is I don't know if I'm

just so willing to jump into something How to differentiate something like that or be like hey, you know, I'm just I am enjoying something that is good for me right now That could be complicated. Yeah, here's the thing. Do I rationalize? You are rationalized. Listen, we can tell I can tell you're fucking you're you overthink literally everything I mean the idea that you you came up with some kind of mental gymnastics to allow To allow this woman to separate Six month long breaks to cheat on you While you paid half her bills and fucking took her dog to the vet the fact that you come up with some kind of

Philosophical reason that's okay. It's crazy. It's very's very simple dude what's that paid rent exactly I mean I hate this this is I actually have to tip my cap to you I've never met somebody who's fucked a woman and got friends owned by her afterwards that's really impressive that's really impressive. That's really impressive to somehow you got caught you got you got friendzone so hard You got friends on so hard that getting pussy doesn't erase getting friendzone somehow Yeah, dude, you're you need to look you're already over thinking this next thing I got I got news for you, buddy. You're not marrying this fucking 42 year old lifelong waitress, okay? Get head for a couple months and then move on. You need to work on breaking up with shit.

And also don't cheat. It seems like from not knowing you at all, but knowing that in the past you were a cheater and you found yourself in this kind of predicament, you either take a very nice woman for granted or you allow an evil woman to ruin your life, and you need to work on the nice balance, dude, and you need to work on getting out of situations.

I mean, six, seven months where she fucked other people and you paid her rent, I mean, there's no, we're not, there's not a question there. That's, you're a fucking, you're a moron. You're a loser who got got by some bitch and you can't let that happen again Like that's like there's no there's no analysis to happen here. It's like hey stop There's somebody's got a knife and they're telling me they're asking to chop my dick off. Should I let them do it?

No is the answer to that like that's what we're talking about here. So look buddy, you're free, it took, you know, it took too long, but never get yourself in that situation again. Get out, look, have a little fling, have a little fucking whatever with this waitress. But yeah, maybe you might need to start over and look, the dog might be cute, you might fucking,

you might lose five grand your five grand half of a Honda fit Whatever the fuck it is. It doesn't matter you got to move on bro You got to completely move on move forward and just start dating until you find something in the middle of what your life has been so far That sounds fair It does I'll tell you this I We laid together we talked about taking dick pills made a joke about dick pills earlier Mm-hmm, and I couldn't help but pull up the little short you did of Cutting your cock off. Yep. She was rolling on the floor

immediately man and But again, she could complicate my shit, man. You know, she could cost me my job if she decided to go nuts. Listen, how about this? She does. Dicey, dude. Yeah, it is. It is.

She was. Oh, God, it is. But just take look, don't do this too long. Get out of this situation in a nice amicable way and then start your life over. That way, though. All right. Good way and then start your life over for you. All right? Good luck, dude.

We're rooting for you.