Stavvy's World - Bonus #79 - Dan Licata [PATREON PREVIEW]
Episode Date: June 6, 2024Patreon preview. Unlock full episode at https://www.patreon.com/stavvysworld Dan Licata joins the pod to discuss his new special FOR THE BOYS, what it was like filming it at his high school in front o...f a bunch of 15-year-old dudes, making hecklers cry, high school pranks, making Jackass-style videos, adolescence, and much more. Dan and Stav help callers including a teacher wondering if it's appropriate to accept friend requests from students on social media, and a woman whose boyfriend won't stop talking about past relationships and hookups. Watch Dan Licata's special FOR THE BOYS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrCb9rntbv0 Follow Dan Licata on social media: https://www.instagram.com/danlicatasucks/ https://twitter.com/danlicatasucks https://www.youtube.com/user/danlicata Wanna be part of the show? Call 904-800-STAV and leave a voicemail to get advice!
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I'm a 24 year old teacher. I'm a lot younger than all the other teachers in my school
So it's been pretty cool because like the students seem to like me
They seem to connect with me really well, and that's a good thing, but
Recently it looks like it's been a little too much where like they start to
reach out to me on social media and trying to friend me
on Facebook and they're trying to figure out my discord. They found my B-real too
so they're trying to add me on B-real. Anyway, so like they're cool students and I want to be
cool but I also kind of want to draw a line between like I'm also a teacher. Yeah
How do I draw that line of professionalism and be a little bit act a little more like an adult?
All right, thanks. Love you guys. Bye
It's awesome. I mean don't add them on fucking face
Fuck are we talking about here?
I'm I was figuring like if I snap them no filters
my real face
Yeah, dude, I mean this is you're already
Yeah, now look recipe for disaster yeah, yeah, let's without goes without saying don't fuck any of the kids
Let's just start there. If you do that you could get fired.
We gotta keep you employed man. I think and look there's also the fact that you
know it's been so long since we've been in school
Maybe kids are just so online that like
Having some kind of online relationship with them there is some normal thing normalcy to it
But I don't my knee-jerk reaction is that the line is
Exactly there the line is exactly there. The line is exactly, because even before social media,
it's like, and I know you were less,
you know, you'd have to call someone or email.
Like, how about this?
Email seems like a reasonable,
like if anybody wants to get in touch with you,
maybe they can email you, you know what I mean?
But I think all social media,
I mean, we were growing up just,
social media sort of started to be a thing
and
Or even like you know I just had you know being younger
Just knowing people that were in school even when you were in college
College even a college where it's like college social media was taking off and I feel like professors made it a point
To not be accessible there, and I think the reality is you got a fucking you cannot
You're young you just started teaching
It sounds like you need to understand that like you cannot have a digital footprint these kids can find
Yeah, and you're gonna have to use social media less you're gonna have to be private on everything
You're gonna have to just like that's to me
That's the line and if if you want to have some kind of online relationship outside of school with them
I think keep it something professional like email
And let it let it be clear that when they are emailing you they're emailing their teacher
They're not emailing their buddy fucking Dan or whatever the fuck. Sorry, Dan
Common name just to be clear. I would never be a teacher
It's a common name. And just to be clear, I would never be a teacher.
Never.
Yeah, no, it seems fucking crazy and a lot of work.
But yeah, that's what I would say.
You just cannot.
Yeah, make your shit private, because they will find stuff to use against you.
I mean, I know you're the cool teacher, but...
Yeah, that changes quick, brother.
Changes fast if anything like you can if they like try to add you after like they graduate high school or something like that's when you
Can be like okay sure whatever this is harmless as long as you're like. I don't even know about that no
18 dude as soon as they graduate that's kind of fucking weird still
18 but down the line
I don't know I can think of like teachers from high school that I'm friends with on Facebook now that it's just like yeah whatever but
did you fucking add them the day you graduated the day you turned 18 you get
a fucking couple requests yeah the moment they turn 18 you want to send a
singing telegram to their home?
Well, happy birthday Sarah.
You've grown into such an impressive woman.
Yeah. I got you this Sibian as a graduation present.
Can I drop it off?
Yeah, sorry. I ordered it up on Amazon. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha