Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 073 - Bob is Bisexual

Episode Date: May 11, 2015

Bob lost his virginity to his 30 year old neighbor when he was very young and he's been getting it on with both men and women ever since. He's done it all...He use to cheat on his ex-wife with men in massage parlors as well as with her female friends, he's had threesomes with other guys with a woman he dated for a couple of years and he's had affairs with random men he's met online behind his current girlfriends back. How has he kept his secret life hidden from all these women  Has he ever got caught? Where does he find the guys he fools around with? Tune in to find out. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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And that's what's interesting to me. So write in if you want to be on Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. Also, if you like the podcast, subscribe, and write me a review. And if you don't like the podcast, don't write a review. You're probably not listening if you don't like it. But if you do and you can, that'd be great to write a review. Today I have on another adult front finder's guy. His name is Bob.

We're calling him Bob. and Bob lives a very secret double life. It's not like anything that he's freaked out about. He just doesn't tell many people about it. He's totally by. He's been by from a young age. We get totally into that. We talk about his losing his virginity story.

And then he gets married and he has some sort of sex with guys behind her back. And then after they break up, he has lots of sex with guys. And I think he even swings with his by with a woman. And he also fucks around. He fucked around a lot behind his own. vice back with women as well he's very bisexual um so that's the story we get into a lot of his stories um his name is bob bob by bob maybe i'll call him bob the by guy i don't know i never know my titles either that's like the last thing that i do but anyway i'll be right back on with bob the bisexual

from adult friend finders so i found you on adult friend finders a lot of my calls i don't know if you checked on my podcast before but a lot of my um callers i get from craigslist and so normally with Craigslist because they're responding to an ad I put out saying, hey, you want to be on my podcast. They email me a whole long-winded thing about why they're calling into the show and I have a lot of information. I had a time of like if they have a problem or something. But most of my adult friend finder people that I find, they don't give me a lot of

information because it's a sort of different a setup and I find them on like instant messenger. And so basically what I typically talk to them about is like their secret lives that they're leading on adult friend frienders because a lot of times and I know for you, I know you're leading a secret life because when we were emailing back and forth to say, you're up the call, you had to do it when your girlfriend, right, was out of the house. So obviously she doesn't know you're on adult friend. Right. She don't know I'm on there.

Correct. Right. So how long, so first of all, like, how old are you? I'm 43. You're 43. How old's your girlfriend? 40. She's 40.

Okay. And how long have you guys been dating? Two years. Two years now. Have you ever been married? I was married one time. How long were you married for? 15 years.

Oh, that's a long time. How long have you been divorced for? About nine. Nine years? Okay, cool. Now, so this whole, so you obviously live like a secret life behind your girlfriend's back. Did you do the same sort of thing behind your wife's back too?

Is this something that's been constant in your life or something you picked up recently? I just, I wanted to do it before, but I've never had the opportunity to do it. And so after I got divorced, I was like looking into it more and it got more friendly with it. You got what? You're a little muffled. Are you, like, talking?

Yeah, I got more friendly with it than I guess more open with myself. And I wanted to try other things, but I didn't want nobody else to know what I had in my mind. Right, and what you had on your mind is, Like you live a bisexual life behind your girlfriend's back. Like you're by and nobody really knows about it, right? Right.

Only a few people know that I'm by. Like people that you've been by with or people like your friends or your family? That I was with. One person that you were like dating or something? Yes. Okay. And how come she knew? Like was it that she was just open?

Yeah, she was supposed to be there. Uh-huh. The thing is that would be there. when I did it and know about it. She didn't want me to keep it behind her back. Right. And so is that what you guys did together? Would you, like, fuck other guys in front of her?

Yes, well, people and bring them home and then have threesomes together and stuff like that. Right. So she'd go out and solicit men to bring back and have threesomes. Now, would the guys be by? Would she look for by guys? Yes. She would expand it to them before. Mm-hmm.

She did that a few times. but a lot of times you might have went on Craigslist and Love Friend Finder and found people that way because there's more

open on adult friend finder and Gregsless Of course Well at least I had adult friendfinders and Craigslist And this is why I post ads Looking for what I'm looking for too

Is that like you know That's the place where all those people are looking are of the same mind You know what I mean the mindset Like you know and you put specific things in your ad So if someone reaches out to you, there's no bait and switch. People know exactly what they're getting, you know? And so it just weeds out all the bullshit.

If you go to a bar, what are the odds you're going to find a by guy that is interested in going on and fucking you that night? You know what I mean? Right. For a guy that's going to tell you that he's buying and wanted some home. Right. I mean, there might be, you know, three buy guys in there. But like you said, what are the odds that they're going to be honest about it?

And then they're going to be willing to cross the line. You know, there's a lot of things that. go into it. So yeah, you're going to, you're going to meet those guys there. So you, so how long did you date that girl? I mean, that sounds like the perfect girl. I mean, actually, yeah, I dated her for about five years. Uh-huh. And how many, yeah? And then actually she moved. Oh, so that's the only reason why you guys broke up? Kind of, yes. Yeah, it was real fun with that. We used to go like the adult movie theaters and playing in there. It was pretty, she let me be open to do what I wanted to do.

Right. Like she was the person that like, listen, you were always thinking about those things, but she was the first person and was like, hey, let's do it together. So you started experimenting. Like, you probably did a lot of first things with her? Like she turned you on to stuff? Yeah, she did. First time I let him there fuck me was when.

Yeah, that's what I was going to ask you, like, when did you lose your virginity to a guy? How old were you? I was, for the first time, I lost it. To a girl or a guy? To a guy. To a guy when you were 13? Yeah, he was a, like, a neighbor. And he was an older man, or was he a young kid, too?

He was older man, yeah. He was about 30. I was about 13. Okay, wait, wait, because that could be rape, okay? I don't know. Well, let me just say, what grade are you in at 13? I don't really know. Like, what grade were you in?

I was in high school. I might have been older. Okay, you weren't like a child. No, no, no. Actually, I might have been, might have been, yeah, I think it was like right at the end of high school. Okay, so maybe like 16 or 17. Yeah, maybe about 16 or 17. Okay, let me ask you how that shit went down.

Okay, like, so obviously you knew before any. of this that you were like into guys like do you always have an like did you always know you were into dudes too before this incident yes i kind of you know i like i like like watching and i like looking at men uh-huh and i always i just never um went all with it but i don't know with the reaction that i would get from them uh-huh so that's why i never really did it right and i mean listen when you're young and like if you're in your 40s now, I'm in my 40s too. So I know the time period. You know, you're talking like 20-something years ago.

It's still not completely accepted. So back then it was even more not accepted. So, you know, you would have got this shit kicked out of you, you know, if you sort of approach somebody that wasn't into it. So you had to. Right. Yeah. I had to want that that happened. I also didn't want my family memories to know anything.

You don't want your family members to know? Right. Right, or anybody or right, exactly. So how did the thing happen with the neighbor? Well, what happened was, I went over his house that happened. Mm-hmm. And if they're, I helped him a while then he has to try and want him to beer. Mm-hmm.

And I have to drink a beer and stuff. And then he put some pouring on. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, it's hard to, it's so hard to understand you. Maybe pull the phone a little bit out away from your mouth. So, wait, he invites you now. I'm going to have to do, like, subtitles with you. He invites you over to his house, right? He gives you a beer.

Well, I don't know if I got down to help him. And if I got down to help him, he asked me if I wanted a beer. Mm-hmm. So I said, sure. And we had a few beers, and then he put a porn movie on. And then what he, he put the porn movie on. A porn movie, right. He put, yes.

Mm-hmm. And he asked me, he said, you mind if I jerk off? I said, okay. Guys just are so funny. It's very romantic, by the way. So I said, I do what you want to do with your ass, you know. So then he told me, he says, well, you can't, too, you know. So you have to drinking a few beers and walked me before.

You know, I got hard. And so I said, got them off. He came over and then he was sitting pretty close to me. And then he grabbed my couch. and he was playing with it. And then, and I just, you know,

I just, you know what I mean? Because it felt good. Right. And so then, he told me, he said, you could touch me if you want.

And then I start touching him. And I mean, he, he was hard, you know. Mm-hmm. And he told me, says,

if you want, you could, you know, put it in the mouth if you want. So, I'm like, so I'm like, so I,

you know, I'm, I wanted to try it, you know. Uh-huh. I never blew a guy before, you know, and I said. And it was, it was a pretty good side, he had a pretty good size, talk. Right. So I wanted to, so I wanted to try it, so I tried it, you know.

And then he was, he was turning with mine, and then he started to fill my, fill my butt, stuff like that. Uh-huh. Put his finger in there, and, you know, and he asked me how it felt. It feels okay. Then if you wanted to know if I wanted to try You know If you're okay You would just rub this cock on my

On my butt Right And then that's a short You know I think we would I guess get them do it by then you know Wait you what was that We were like

You were like You're horny by then You know Right you were really horny and he was too Yeah he was too So you let him like rub his cock On your asshole like right there.

Yeah. Mm-hmm. Right there. Well, let me put some oil on it this way to, you know, you'll slip around a little better. Mm-hmm. And so he did. And then, and then before I knew it, he had the head in. And I was pushing, pushing on my butt.

And then kind of, like, just stripped the head in. Mm-hmm. And it felt good. And it felt good. Right. So, like, I feel it, you know, and he, he wasn't going real, you know, real hard and not, like, he's just, just putting it in there. And just putting the head in and then he started a little bit more at a time.

And just working it in. Right. And it felt good. You know, I mean, so I got to just let him keep going there. Mm-hmm. And then did you fuck him in the ass? No, I did not. No, you didn't.

So that's how it ended? And do you, like, jerk off while he's fucking me in the ass? And then that was the end of it? Right. Mm-hmm. And now this was your neighbor. Let me ask you, did you know him for, like, years? or was it like, like, did you live in a two-hats?

Like, was this like, would you live in? I knew. Right. He was a nice guy. You know what I mean? Was he married? What was his deal? Was he married?

No, he was single. He was single? Okay. Yeah. And was he good-looking? Yeah, he was good-looking. Was he a known gay man in your neighborhood? Or was he, like, you know, secretly by to?

I think he was. I see him go out with other women. Right. Okay. Okay. So you, he fucked you. you fucked you both came right

with his mouth no no oh I don't know I don't know I don't really know about gay sex that much I don't know I mean I think I mean wouldn't some gay men do that

I don't know some gay men do that I don't know yeah okay so that's like a hot experience like to have when you're that age of that if you're open to it I mean it could have been rape if you weren't interested in it. But, I mean, listen, he felt you out, right?

I mean, another guy that wasn't into it would have been said no. It was okay. Mm-hmm. I said it was okay. You know, because I was always thinking about trying it, and I never had a person. Listen, the opera, you were lucky because you were always sort of fantasizing about having that happen, right? And then, you know, here it was, like, right in your backyard.

I mean, like, a guy just sort of, and he was cool with you. Like, he didn't push you. he sort of, you know. Right. And it felt good. Did you go back for more? Like, did you guys screw a lot after that, or was that a one-time deal? Well, maybe once or twice a week?

You would see him? Yeah. For a while, yeah. Wow. So, and then eventually you must have screwed him in the ass, right? Or was that not, he was more of a top and not a bottom? Yeah. Eventually, yeah.

Then I wanted me to screw him in the ass. Uh-huh. And I put that too, you know. And how is that for you? Was that, like, amazing? Right. And being, you know, that age yet, you know. Right, right.

And, like, I mean, I make jokes all the time with my straight guys. I'm always telling them they'd be better off gay. Or, like, bisexual, right? Because at least then you have, like, more action, right? Like, you know, most guys, if they're straight, they could only fuck girls, right? And a lot of girls are like, no, I don't want to fuck you. But, like, a lot of guys are like, look what happened. You go over to your neighbor's house.

and he's just like, you want to put, you know, could I jerk all in front of you? And you're like, yeah, and he's like, can I put it in porn? You're like, yeah, in the next minute he's fucking you in the ass. Like that normally will not happen with your next door neighbor who's a girl. I mean, it would happen in a porn, but it wouldn't happen in real life. You know what I mean? Right, right.

But because women just are wired that. You know, women are a little bit different. But men are, you know, so that's like every guy's straight guy's fantasy. If it's like the next door, 16 year old hot girl, you know. But, you know, for you guys. So you fucked him every now and then or, actually more than every now and then. You fucked him two times a week. I kind of like went over and gave him a blow job.

Uh-huh. He'd be fucked me all the time. Right. You did different things. Yeah. He was telling me, you know, I was getting good at it. And I'm like, so I wanted to do it more, you know what? I wanted to, you know, was a good feeling of somebody else, you know.

Be turned on. turn somebody else on? You turn on, absolutely. Right. And then did you start to want to have variety with guys like most men want? Like you're like, oh, this guy's good, but I want another guy? Yeah, well, kind of. I'm going to try other guys, too.

Right. And now let me ask you this. Like, as a young guy, right, back in the day, and like I said, I grew up in those times, it was like much more taboo, right? Like, were you conflicted about, like, what the fuck was going on with you? Like, here you are, like, screwing God, like, your next neighbor would be in nobody knows, but yet you're attracted to women, right? Because you're by.

Yes, yes. Like, was it confusing to you? I love women. Right. I love women. Don't get me wrong. Yeah? Yeah.

You don't, let me ask. Did you have a preference? Um, she's talking to women. I think they go to a woman. Uh-huh. But I wouldn't turn a guy down. Right. I get it.

And then have, did you ever have relationships with dudes or you feel only romantic with women? Like did you ever feel like maybe you were a homosexual, whereas you could have a relationship with a guy or was it just strictly sex? No, it was just strictly sex. Right, right. Right. So how did you start seeing guys outside after that? And so no one ever found out, right?

Like you were never caught or anything while you were having... No one never found out. No one knows. Right. And let me ask you this, because I was always the biggest type of conject. And, you know, me and you grew up, nobody was using condoms. I mean, condoms were just like, oh, you might get pregnant. you're going to get something that you have to take antibiotics, right?

Like, it wasn't that big. There was no AIDS, right? You know, but all of a sudden, in our lifetime, like, AIDS came out and you're like, oh, my God, I could have, you know, everyone thought, like, what the fuck, you know, because. Sure. You know, they should have started. Yeah, and no one knew, you know, and if people were just, like, doing shit without condoms and stuff.

Like, so were you, like, really nervous that you could have contracted something? Because you weren't using condoms, I'm assuming. Right. Right. But other guys you started to? Not a year ago. Uh-huh. You know a show ago?

I'm not a guy on the Definder. Uh-huh. So that was the first kind of you've used all your life? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. No, I mean, listen, I'm not the moral police here. You could do whatever you want. You know, I'm a hypochondriac, so I get paranoid about stuff. But, I mean, you know, I don't give a shit what you do.

I was just wondering if you got freaked out back then when AIDS came out. out that you know what I mean? And I was even wondering if she gave a blowout. Yeah, no, we all got scared. Everyone was freaked out about it. But anyway, so after that guy, how did you meet guys after him? Well, and I did it again. The only time I did it is when I was not, I had to say, I thought I got a massage from a guy.

Uh-huh. And I had a guy, and the guy gave you a happy ending. Oh, and now let me ask you this with those happy endings. Did you know going in that that was a massage with a happy ending place with a man or did it just happen by accident? Right. You just went into a regular massage place. You were cool with a guy massaging you and then he just... It was in a private home.

Uh-huh. Where do you find his ad? I was actually in the newspaper. Right, back in the day. Right. Yeah, it was in the newspaper. And I guess this had to be about 10 years ago. Uh-huh.

He was in the newspaper. And I was going to him for a while, maybe once in a mock show. Uh-huh. And he would give you a happy ending. Yeah, he would give you a happy ending, yeah. Right. That must have been a nice surprise, considering you weren't expecting it. Oh, yeah, it was.

I was. And he was an older man. Uh-huh. And I imagine he was an older man. and I just went there for a massage and I didn't know what to expect and then he just told me lay at a table and that's what he did

and he did a great job you know and then then after the guy had the ending at the end and he even better. Right, so he gave you a real massage and it was actually a good massage and then what does he do? He like turns you over and are you hard at that point?

But when he turned me over, yeah well I didn't even start massaging my chest and my weight, stuff like that. And then, you know, I was, you know, rubbing his hands, you know, my bones and my top and stuff. Uh-huh. And then, yeah, and it got hard. Of course. Right.

But I mean, did you know. But did you, right. Did you know going in, though, that it was, there is a chance that it could go that way? Or were you just looking up for, like, were you just looking for a straight-up massage? I was hoping. You were hoping. Right, right, right. Okay.

Absolutely. Absolutely. Right. It wasn't like you went into, like, some legitimate, massage place and then it turned into like that experience. So that way, that's, you would, so you would have that kind of experience while you were, you were doing that when you were married? And I was married, yes.

Right. And my wife didn't know. Right. Obviously. She never knew anything. Did you cheat on her with women too? Yes, I did. And where would you find the women?

I don't know. Right. So, I mean, were you doing, like I'm saying, like, were you doing adult friend finder or Craigslist or any kind of back page ads? like, you know, while you were married to meet women? Or it was just if it happened, it would happen. Most of the time, it was like friends. They were friends, you know.

Uh-huh. A lot of times there were her friends. Oh, my God, that's what I was just going to say. Your friends are her friends? Wait a second. They were her friends? How did that happen? Her friends.

And, well, she would bring them home. For instance, one was wonderful. She worked with and put over half to do some work for. and one thing led to another, you know, we didn't do it then, but like a week or so, you know, only should be called, I would go over and then, you know, her husband wouldn't be home, you know, and that's what, you know. Okay, but when you say one thing led to another, what does that mean? Like, you're at her house.

This is your girlfriend's friend, right, from work? I mean, your wife's friend from work, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. And, yeah. Well, the thing was, she, I did the work for it, and she gave me a kiss. So, well, she said, does that good enough? Yeah, and so then I go out there, I start making out with her, you know what I mean? I pushed her.

Well, you know, I wanted to see how much is enough, you know? Yeah, at that point, you know that anything's enough. Like, you know what I mean? I know, yeah, at that point when she said that, then I knew to do that, but I could go to bed with her at any time. Right, that's what she was looking to cheat. She was married, obviously. She was looking for some side action. Yeah.

Right. And I think people have like a smell. I think people could smell sort of that kind of an opportunity from with somebody else. You know what I mean? You must, I mean, how many of your wife's friends did you fuck? Three. Right, three. So there must be something about you that it.

these kind of women. Like, you must reek of like, I'll fuck you behind my wife's back because... Well, they were more friends at home. Right, and you... Just find a secret. Right, and some guy that would do... Right, exactly.

So you're their equivalent. Can't turn them down. No, listen, if you're cheating with men, women, like, what's the difference to her friends? I mean, what does it matter? I think it's just worse for the friends, for the... I don't. know, like, we don't know what your wife was doing, but, I mean, all these horny women, like...

Right. What do you mean, like, afterwards? After, sure. Like, how they would act, like how fucking phony they could be? After you know, you just fuck their husband. I know. But, like, would you want to just see that just because you're like, wow, like, what a fake bitch that is?

Because she's, like, acting totally normal? Or did it actually, like, turn you on? Yeah, well, I just, she kind of. turned me on too. Right, it turned you on that you had like this dirty secret is what you're saying, right? right right so it would be like you'd fuck her then it would be hot when she'd be in around because it's like something you and her share that your wife doesn't know yeah it's funny i think i talk about this all the time there's something about cheating sex and what i don't know that just like makes it like really hot sex unfortunately it's just a sad fact i had a guy i used to date in san francisco and uh when i i was out there recently to visit and he was with a girl who was living with him and she wasn't at the house when i went over and he was like begging me to blow him and he's like come on like it'll be so hot I want you to blow me in the bed while she's not here

and of course I didn't engage but I mean I get where that mentality people have that sort of fantasy you know to like you know I mean I don't think it's nice no I didn't you want to do it no I didn't I'm not turned on by him anymore he's like been there done that he's like a past I'm not a past person

he was an ex-boyfriend of mine so I wasn't interested no but like the I like the psychology behind it, you know. So to me, I'm like, oh, my God. Like the, what would turn him on was the fact that, you know, his girl is, like, going to be coming home, like, in 20 minutes and he's in their bed, you know. And that's, like, the same thing like you're saying. Like, you were kind of interested in the fact that, you know, these were, like,

the fact that it was your wife's friends added to the hotness, right? Because they would eventually. Added to the moment, yes. Yeah, because you knew then you'd see them again. She also had one thing. What mother. She came over. She's come on, let's go upstairs, and I turned it down.

What do you mean? She wanted to fuck you when your wife was there? No, my wife wasn't there. My wife was working, but she was going to go, she was coming home. Uh-huh. Maybe within about 15 minutes to a half hour, but I turned it down because I felt it was a setup. Oh. You have good friends.

I'm like, you know. Oh, you're smart. Oh, yes. See? But I'm like, I'm not stupid. Oh, right, right. I was starting to think you had some sort of decency, but no, like you said, that's not really why you were, you would have done it, but you were, that was actually smart of you because that could have been a setup. Did your wife ever, like, think you were cheating on her?

Like, did she, like, was she? Well, I actually, actually, I told my wife when she came home. What did you tell her? Oh, that that girl tried to fuck you. Yeah, because the girl was at the house. And when she came over, she wanted to go to bed and I told her no. You know what? I said, I'm in enough trouble.

When did that get caught, baby you? Wait, wait. but let me ask you, is this one of the friends that you had fucked already or someone else? No, I never fucked them. Right. Did your wife ever? Because I sometimes think women could smell shit

from a mile away. You know what I mean? She knew everything. That's right. That's what I'm saying. Let me tell you something. Yeah. She knew what I was going to do before I did it. Totally. Everyone has that sixth sense. Like it's a crazy thing. Women don't go nuts for no reason. You know what I mean?

No. Now, because a woman could feel the difference when you make it luck with it, if you made love to someone else. They just know. And even guys, I remember I cheated on a boyfriend when I was way younger. And then I went and saw him and he was going down on me. And he stopped in the middle and he's like somebody else was here. Like, who the fuck were you with?

Like, he knew. Like, I can't explain it. Were you ever like I would be out with like you like one guy and then you're out with another guy maybe? And then all of a sudden he's like hitting you up. And you're like it's almost like he fucking knows. I'm with somebody else. You know what I mean? Like there is that unspoken sort of energy thing that I think people can pick up on,

especially when you're a close couple and you're with each other for a long time. Women are not stupid. They're very intuitive, you know. Absolutely not. Women are smarter than men, I believe. Because we're much more in touch with our feelings. You know what I mean? And so we really have that ability to see things.

I feel what a difference? I feel what a difference in a woman cheats and a man cheats? She's what? When a woman cheats, when a woman cheats, and a man cheats. Yeah. A woman will think or think about it before she cheats. Right.

And she has more feelings into it. Yeah. They'll just screw you and go and none of you want to call you. Oh, yeah. Me and my friend talk about this all the time. Like we always say it's kind of worse when a woman cheats in that. I mean, and I don't mean I believe it's a double standard. I just think women cheat for a different reason.

You know, men will cheat because they see a girl and she's got nice tits and they want to fuck her, you know. A woman doesn't see a guy and she thinks he has a nice ass. and she wants to fuck him. No, she sees a guy and he's at her work and he's really nice to her and he's feeding her ego and her husband's not paying attention to her. So she fucks him. Do you know what I mean? That's why a woman cheats, you know.

It's more emotional. It's more revengeful. Yeah, I've cheated in my life when I was younger and more insecure. And I did it out of an insecurity thing. You know what I mean? It was like to get that guy back behind his back to give me some sort of false sense of security. It wasn't because I was turned on by the other guy. It was that I liked the guy that I was with so much that I was fucking cheating on him

because that was the only way I could deal with how terrible he was. I know it doesn't make sense, but that's the shit that goes on in a girl's mind. What? You needed to do that to stay with him. Exactly. That was the only way I could justify staying with him because he was such a scumbag that if I was cheating in him. But I didn't, it wasn't cheating on him because I like the other guy. Whereas when a guy's cheating, he is like into that other girl for that moment.

It's not like he's getting back at the girl that he's with, right? It has nothing. And actually right, because when I cheated on my wife, it wasn't because I wanted to hurt her. Right. I wasn't thinking about it. I was thinking about myself.

Yeah, yes. You were very much thinking about yourself. You're very, listen, you have to be, you have to have a little bit of a disconnect to be fucking her friends and stuff, like seriously. Because that's like, and then, and they're literally going to be in the same house and like you're kind of turned on by that.

So you're not thinking about her at all. You're totally just thinking about. about yourself. Right. I was thinking about myself. And I didn't, I didn't do it to hurt her. Right.

You weren't even thinking. Because she wasn't supposed to find out. Right. But she, so she would always accuse you? Like, was she just like freaked out the whole time

she was married to you? A lot of times she would accuse me cheating on her when I did. Yeah, because listen, when you know, I've,

I've dated cheaters, okay? And what happens is, is that you go crazy, you know, because you kind of know that something's going on, but you don't know,

you're not, psychic, right? You don't know what it really is, but you know, there's something. So, you know, it makes a woman fucking mental. It's really a terrible thing for a woman because it drives her nuts. It is a terrible thing for women. It's a terrible thing that she don't. Yeah, but it's... Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a terrible thing. I wish that we, there was no such thing and we were told that men are not monogamous since we're, you know, come out of the womb and we didn't have those unrealistic expectations because it really keeps women down. I always say, I have this saying, and I really believe it, that, like, you know, monotivism.

was made up by men to keep women as like the weaker sex because in a weird way it really knocks women down a notch it puts them against each other it makes them crazy it makes them more obsessed with a guy that they think is cheating the women doesn't walk away from a guy that she's suspicious she's hyper focused on him do you know what I mean like it and becomes like so fucking whipped to him and so in a weird way I think that it keeps women down and it keeps men in the power position so you know if women started to not give a shit about it. I mean like it's cheating. I think men would not like it that much because women wouldn't fucking care. It wouldn't be such a big deal. No, it really wouldn't. So I think that this whole monogamy thing is made up by men to keep women down and it's

working just so you know. It doesn't it works for men because men could do whatever they want and look. You never really got caught, right? Did you ever get caught with your wife? No. Right. You never got caught. She was nuts and the poor woman would never

trusted you because she knew you were a total cheater, but she never could pin it on you because cheating is easy. You could cheat and get away with it. You were fucking her friends and cheating. Yeah, so for guys it's like really easy. Did she ever cute, like, did she have a vibe that you were, like by too? Like, did she ever accuse you of

going with guys? Did she know that too in a weird way? Or did she have no vibe about that? I don't think she had it to know. No? She might have but she never said it. Okay, so you and your wife eventually get divorced, right? You're married for 15 years. You guys have kids?

Yeah, I have a couple kids. Right. Okay, so you guys get divorced, right? And then is that after you get divorced with her, you meet the woman that you fucked all these guys with? After that, yeah.

I'm going to want her, yeah. And so then you dated this girl for three years, and it came out that you were by and you were like, so with this girl, you didn't have to cheat. I didn't actually tell her. But one day, she seemed when I was online, and I was talking to

a guy. I was talking to a guy. Uh-huh. And he was sending me making pictures of himself. Okay. So she caught you. Yeah. She caught me with pictures. Right.

And that's my daughter. She said, well, why do you just tell me? You know what I mean? We could do it together. Interesting. But wait, let me ask you this. When you were with your wife, did you do like online stuff with guys or no? No.

No. Okay. So it was when you got divorced, you started to go back to that part of your life. Right. Because I wasn't married anymore And I'm like, you know And then The girl when I was dating

She said, you know, it's okay You know what I mean? Uh-huh And she wanted But she wanted to join us And stuff And that was okay That's as well as I could do

What I want to do Right She was turned on by seeing you With another guy Obviously she liked it Yes, she liked it Right So you guys

And she was the one That actually went out And got you guys Now, would she fuck the guys too or no? I don't know how that works. Yeah, she would fuck them too. She would, she would too. Yeah, I agree.

So she would fuck you, she'd fuck the guy, the guy'd fuck you, you'd fuck the guy. Everyone just fucks each other. Yeah, we just fuck each other. Uh-huh. Right, right. But the most of the time that we did three shins and stuff, I didn't fuck the guy.

The guy, she did he fuck me and her, but he just got her and blew me you know. Really interesting. But she was blowing me or he was fucking her. She liked to talk, really. Obviously, I mean, she was into all kinds of stuff.

She was pretty open-minded. Yeah, and I'm really too. I think the guys were telling her what they were doing with her. And she would play around a pen. Wait, so wait, you would go to adult movie theaters with her, right? And there would be guys in there and what would happen?

Well, I'd be playing with her tips in the movie theater and then they would touch her and, you know what I mean? And she'd be into it. And you'd be into that. Yeah, she'd be over. And I was into it. Did you ever have other women involved?

Right. She would do it with another man and have another woman. Right. So that's interesting. So the only reason why, and how old was she? Was she like in your age range? Were she way younger, way older? Yeah, she was about 38. Right. And was she hot?

On a scale, like, wait a second, on a scale of 1 to 10, what do you consider you? Consider it at me? Yeah. I always ask my callers. Not an 8. An 8? Okay. Okay.

And what was she? She was about an 8. Okay, that's cool. So she was hot. Yeah. Yeah, she was pretty nice little ass on her. Nice tip. And now had she been married or like, and like been there done that too?

So she was just like letting her feet fly with you? Or was she always? She was divorced. too. Right. So she was, you guys were both just having fun after being cooped up in marriage for so many years. Yeah. Right. So then after you broke up with her, did you ever like keep any of those guys that you screwed with her like around as like booty calls or like just people you'd fuck or did you? No. No. So you were off on your own again when she moved? Yeah. And then. And then, I met one other guy. Uh-huh. She left, and I would see him that maybe every other week or so like that.

He was single-tility. I mean, he had a girlfriend that lived out of state. Uh-huh. And then she moved back. She moved in with him at the walls and we had to be able to stop. But he and he were pretty well. And where did you meet him? Online?

I left him online, yeah. On Adel Friendfinders or Craigslist or something? Yeah. right and was he an older younger guy what was his age 29 and he had a girlfriend so he was living a secret life too right so he would just like interesting and so you guys would like fuck and he was a regular and you weren't dating anybody at that time right and then so you're now you're on adult friend finders yeah now I'm on again but you're dating a girl now how long you've been with your girlfriend now

two years two years and how many years and how many How many guys have you fucked while you've been with her? Four different guys? Yeah. And do you find them all on Adult Friend Finder? Between there in Craigslist, yeah. There and Craigslist, right. It's easier for guys, I have to say, to find guys than for guys to find girls, women, you know?

Yeah, I was surprised how many guys that were all in. Why? All the guys, you guys are all alike. Yeah. Yeah, who blows us. No, not at all. You're just really horny and you'll just fuck anyone because you're, you know, it's like you're just stimulated visually, right? You don't need to know someone, whatever.

So it's easier, I think, to just have a quick hookup, a guy to a guy than a guy to a girl, you know? Right, right. To a woman. So you, so you also find guys on Craigslist, too, right? And now this girl, has she ever caught, she's obviously never caught you. Does she suspicious? Do you cheat on her with women, too? No, no.

You don't? I haven't cheated on her with women. woman. Uh-huh. You what? Just with different men I have. Right. But why haven't you cheated on her with other women?

You just don't have those options anymore or you're just not interested in doing that? Really? How come? Yeah. I don't know. Because I don't want to get into another relationship. No, I don't understand. How would you get another relationship if you just fucked another girl?

Right. So you find that cheating with the woman is a little bit more complicated. Is that how you found when you were? Because, I mean, you were really cheating on your poor wife with. with tons of women. But maybe you just grew up. Maybe as you get older, you know, yeah,

changes. Yeah, totally. That definitely happens for sure. You just don't even want to deal. Right. Mm-hmm. That makes sense, actually.

Yeah, so it's easier to just do the guys. So you cheat on her with dudes. Yeah, yeah. And you never have any intention of actually telling her, right? And how do you, like, I mean,

that other girl caught you, right? Like, with your computer. How do you keep your shit away from her? Does this girl live with this one lives with you, right? Because you were telling me when we were trying to set up this call that she would be at work when you were calling me. Uh-huh, to your phone? Right. That's cool.

Listen, I mean, you know, I think that, and you don't feel any, like you're not conflicted about any of this, right? Like, you feel totally fine to live like this double life. It's like perfect for you, right? As long as your girl doesn't find out. would you prefer to do what you were doing with that other girl or do you like it better this way i kind of would yeah i would because there's more you mean being really open about it yeah uh-huh because it was like a threesome with a woman too it's like adds to it with this with this girl where do you fuck the guys like where do you meet the guys on adult by and i have a girl

with their house yeah right have you ever had any really bad experiences or are they all great experiences. Actually, actually, you know, I've been pretty good. Do you care as a man? Like, I know a man cares a lot, or some men do, some men don't. Like, do you care as a man, like, what his body

looks like, what his face looks like? Are you just interested in how big his dick is? Like, what is it? What are your standard? Yeah, I don't care much. Right, you don't care about anything else. You're not into, like, a fatter guy. You're not a chubby chaser.

Right. And do the guys basically, like, because I see when I'm on Adult Friend Finder's, like, and I'm on that Instant Messenger thing, guys are just sending me their dick picks constantly, you know, trying to get me to engage. And, you know, I go straight up like, oh, I have this show you want to be on it.

But do you find that most of these guys, those pictures are really of their real dicks or, like, it's bullshit? I think half of it's bullshit. And half of it is, the real pictures of their real... Yeah. But most of them that I'm like...

Yeah. Yeah. It was their real dick. It really was. That's cool. That's good. at least you know that they're not like false advertising. I think you get it more with women because they're prostitutes.

Yeah, you don't want to drive 20 minutes for like some, I don't know what you're not into, but you know what I mean for something that you're not going to be into. That would be a waste of your time. Yeah, nobody does. So, and when do you do your business, like morning, noon, night, whenever, like whenever your girlfriend's working, is that when you get it on with these guys? Most of time, yeah, when she's working. Right.

And do you use condoms all the time or not so much? Yes. You what? We use condoms. Right. A lot of dollars, there's no job now. Right. Do you make out with guys?

No. No? I do one time, you know, really never like that intimate. Right, right. That's like a weird thing. Like that's not a part of like the sexual experience. Right. That's more, that's all right.

I don't know. That's more of a gay side or not. that's not. Okay, well, let me tell you. This was like an earfall. It's so interesting, like, always when I think I've heard it all, I get... I mean, I've had other by guys on, but your story's, like, really interesting because, you know, it's just a little bit different. It's interesting that you were able to, you know...

Well, as long as you see, it's a lot of it, you can open up for, you know what I mean? Totally. That's what... Listen, my show is called Strictly Anonymous. I don't... Nobody even knows who I am. my name is Kathy, but nobody knows my last name. Nobody knows who I am.

I don't even tell my friends that I do it. Because what does it really matter? You know, I like, though, to find out the truth about people. I think what real people, regular people do is really interesting. I love to hear the stories. And nobody likes to talk about it, but because it's anonymous, I always tell people like, no one's going to know who you are, not even me. I don't need you to, you know, to see someone's phone number.

I don't need you to tell me your real name or know where you're from. I just want to hear your stories. And people tell me the truth because it's anonymous, you know, know and people and people are into it because it's like the first time you can get to be really honest and sort of like talk about the shit that you do you know yeah it's kind of fun what it looks fun yeah totally I'm glad you called Bob like I'll let you know I'll be airing your podcast soon um you know in a in I always have repeat callers on so if you have a bunch of like really crazy experiences coming up or anything happens interesting uh let me know and I'll have you back

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