Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 087 - Marc is Looking for Some Anal Action from a Female

Episode Date: August 17, 2015

Marc is totally straight but he loves getting screwed in the ass by a woman while he screws another woman. He has experienced being the "meat in the sandwich" in this kind of threesome before and he calls in and explains how it all went down, exactly what happened and why he, as a straight guy, enjoys anal action. Tune on for all the details. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. Craigslist is definitely the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore, or a Thailand. You can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.

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Hey, welcome to Stricklandonymous on this podcast. It's Kathy. If you want to follow the show on Twitter, follow the show at Strygonymous or me at Cartoon Therapy. It's on Twitter. If you haven't subscribed to the show, subscribe.

And if you can, write a review. I need reviews. I love reviews. It's hard to get people to write reviews. I think it's a pain the ass. I don't know. Or people don't like to put their name to something. I don't know what it is.

But to get people to write reviews is kind of hard. I think a lot of people. Either like you know they get a lot of their friends to do it but I don't tell my friends that I do this podcast Um so I can't tell my friends to To write reviews so I want my real listeners to write real reviews for me so if you like my show and you feel like Writing review write a review on Stitcher or iTunes Uh today I have on the show a guy named Mark now um I can't find his email I'm not his email his ad that I responded to

I've been going on Craigslist lately and responding to ads that people place online where they're looking for advice. And I send an email to them like, hey, you want to be on my show? Instead of the opposite way, because my ads looking for guests keep getting deleted and flagged for whatever. Anyway, this guy posts his ad. I saw his ad a bunch of times. It was always, I always passed by it and never thought to email him, but I did. And then when he did, he said, okay, I'll be on the show.

And his ad, the title was, I want to be the meat in the sandwich, meaning, and it was a man. for a woman woman situation. What he was looking to do was have a threesome with two women and he wanted one of the women to fuck him in the ass while he was fucking another girl in the ass. And I've already taped the podcast.

It's a really interesting call. He, and he's very street. This is the deal. Which I totally get and I think most women understand that, but guys have this weird thing about anal action. Like every guy thinks like if they like something in their ass that it makes them gay, which is ridiculous because lesbians go down

on each other. So does that make me gay if I like it when my guy goes down on me? Like it's just the dumbest thing. And I really believe that all assholes are made the same. So if it feels really good for my asshole to have something inside of it and for gay men's assholes to have something inside of it, wouldn't it feel really great for straight men to have something inside their ass as well? This guy is here to prove that the answer to that question is yes, and he's totally straight. And so it's interesting. This guy has done this before. It's not like something that he's looking to do that he's fantasizing about.

He actually had the experience and he liked it so much that he wants to do it again. And he gets to a detail about what he liked about it. And I personally believe that straight guys listening to the show, I bet you anything that even if you've never been into any kind of anal pleasure, play, whatever you want to fucking call it. Even if you're very anti-it, when you hear him describing what it's like and why it was good for him and what, you know, and what went down, I have a feeling you might get a slight woody. He describes it in a way that, like, I think guys don't understand or wouldn't expect it to be like that, but it's a very straight thing that he does. It doesn't mean he's gay. And it's totally enjoyable to him.

He did it once, like I said, and he loved it, and he's looking to do it again. And he explains all about that. He explains, you know, we get into, like, what kind of action he's got on Craigslist, how his first experience or a couple experiences went down with the threesome. And what kind of, like, open relationships he's had. He's pretty open sexually. He always has been. So he's had some really open relationships.

He's had monogamous relationships. He's sort of been, he's like an outlier. You know, he's more European than he is a mirror. I think I remember him saying that he grew up in Europe for a lot of his life and then moved here. So he has that mentality. He's a little bit more open-minded than some regular American people. And he's much more open-minded than most guys because, like I said, he doesn't, he's not so bound by that whole, oh, if anything goes near my ass, it makes me gay. Which I think like regular guys are, I know so many guys are like that and I think it's so ridiculous. Life's too short. Think I to like to sort of be bound by that because it's like, it's like, it's, like, it's,

kind of fun and it feels really good and I think more straight guys should be open to anal place so anyway I'm going to be right back on with Mark so you could hear it from his mouth to your ears sometimes I think I say things that just don't even make sense so funny that I have a podcast and I can't talk anyway I'll be right back on with Mark Do you have a story, lifestyle, or situation you can't talk about to anyone, to anyone? Or do you just want to let your freak flag fly and be on the show? Well, Strictly Anonymous wants to hear from you. Send us an email, Strictly Anonymous podcast at gmail.com, with your story and your anonymous name.

And remember, everything is strictly anonymous. Strictly Anonymous Hey Mark, how are you? Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. I'm glad to be here. I like people who are on time. You're two minutes early.

I love that. Oh, that's cool. Well, you know, I've worked as a in my work in the production world, so I understand the importance of timeliness. So do you, so you're, you post an ad on Craigslist looking for, like, you're looking for a girl.

You want to fuck a girl in the ass while some other girl fucks you in the ass, right? Like you want to, like, a three, Well, it's a threesome. I'm not necessarily looking to fuck her in the ass. I'm looking to engage in sexual activities with one while another one is penetrating my ass. Right. And you put in there like you're totally straight and you're really not looking for a dude and you probably got a, you probably gets like a lot of emails from guys, right? I get a fair share of emails from guys. And of course, people who just like to offer judgment and telling me, you're not straight man.

He likes nothing. All those words are fluid, but you know, you can imagine the kind of response you get. But you're also kind of amusing from a social observation, yeah. Yeah, totally. Why does that mean that you're gay just because you want to get fucked? I think that's so stupid. Like, I feel like guys are so dumb that way, and I think that that's like a really homophobic sort of view of things. And I think a lot of guys are afraid of ass play because they think, oh, if I like something in my ass, it means I'm fucking gay.

When, you know, every ass is made the same. It feels good sometimes to have something in your ass. So it's really about who's putting it in there that would make you gay or not. Exactly. And the irony of the fact, of course, is that the same guy for the same ones you're asking women to, you know, offer up their ass. Right. So, you know, it's sort of like, well, you know, it doesn't matter. But, you know, it just, yeah, it's kind of funny.

And why are they even bothering to write you and have a conversation? Like, that's weird, too. Like, I get a lot of emails from people on Craigslist sometimes, like, trashing me or my show. And I always email them back and be like, hey, you want to be on? could totally do this via on my show, like, because I think it would be really interesting to get kind of these people that are on there that are just, like, I don't know, really mean, and they like to, like, call people out, like, via, you know, email. Yeah, well, that's like a whole other subject.

So, you know, the personality who, like, has nothing better to do. Totally. It's just, like, to find fault in whatever, like, uptightness, which is really not that uptight. God, I'm completely open and not in the edge of middle. But I'm like, you know, seriously, what is it that your deep, dark thing that you just can't even talk? about doing other ones. Otherwise, she would have to be tacked to actually.

Because how did they find you unless they were on there to begin with, right? And for me, I'm like always, I always call those people out and invite them on to my show because I can handle my own and I have a thick skin, I don't, you want to trash my show, that's fine. Like, let's get on a call and do it. You know, and they never, they never step up.

It's really, it's like. No, I totally, yeah. So anyway, let's get back to you. So what's your deal? Like, what's your history and, like, who are you? How old are you? Are you in a relationship? Or have you ever been married? Like, what's your deal?

Um, so I mean, I'm useful looking, apparently. I've got good genes. I don't look my age apparently. Scale of one to ten, what would you rate yourself? Um, God, I'm not like, you know, I always make it happen to making yourself like a vein or ectistical, but I'm definitely, I'm an above average looking guy. I'd say eight. Okay, cool. Yeah, you know, I'm so, um, so is that.

Uh, you know, I, uh, I have an obvious. obviously a very open mind when it comes to sex. I've always not had any judgment in terms of sexual. I've not had any problems, in other words, I've appealing sexual relationships and a selective means. Uh-huh, right. Have you ever been married? Are you in a relationship now?

Have you had? Yeah, I've had long-term relationships. Uh-huh. You know, and some have, you know, in various degrees. I've been in a long-established monogamous relationships. I've been in open relationships. I've, you know, I'm currently, I couldn't see I'm completely single because I do have female friends and some more regular than others, but at the point I would not, like, you know,

I check on my IRS statement single. Right. But are you currently in a, you're not currently in a monogamous relationship with anyone, though? No, I am not. There's, I haven't been in for some time. And, you know, I'm comfortable that way. Right, right. Are you happier that way or were you happier in the open relationship compared to the monogamous

relationship? You know what? I mean, I can't say. For each, you know, happier is kind of the subjective word. Uh-huh. There's definitely pros and cons. To both. It's, you know, what I do in terms of, you know, work, what I do in terms of just my everyday,

my flighty artistic or gypsy bagabond lifestyle. I'm not conducive to a long-term relationship that I recognize that. So I'm not fooling anybody. So, you know, it's like I'm not entering into, you know, relationships with women who expect anything more, it's pretty much up front. I'm like, oh, by the way, it's going to work out. You know, I'm not like the guy who runs for him and things. I'm just serious.

I never say never anything. I mean, I can meet someone in half hour from now and suddenly. That's completely changing my ways for so many years. Well, what do you, explain your vagabond lifestyle. Like, what do you do that makes your light, like, what makes it unworkable for a relationship? I work for myself on contract basis in a creative world. That's probably the easiest way.

And as a result, I'm, you know, I don't have your traditional nine to five hours. I tend to travel here and there. I'm one who will get up and, like, you know, I got some time off now. I'm going to go to, you know, Maine for a couple weeks. Right. So I have that aspect. And it's just, you know, the settlement plus simple fact that I've always been from a very young age. Not quite, I wouldn't say a loner because that's not quite weird,

but I've had more friendships with women than I have. And then I'm not a guy who hangs around with the guys. Right. Kind of plastic. So hanging out with women has always been my things. And, you know, I find for some, again, odd reason, which I can't figure out. Women have a tendency of you that is so, you know, oh, you're going to, you know, go out and find somebody else. And it's not like I'm actually looking like I can't wait to yell that one.

You know, it's not one that I don't come from that aspect. But, you know, I'm not, I recognize, do my weaknesses. But what do you mean? When you're friends with women, they get possessive over even just your friendship and they're worried about you going out and meeting another girl? Well, I mean, when you're like, yeah, some women have a tendency to be a little, like, you know, that way. Like, you know, there's a little possessiveness. I've ran and counted. But I haven't, you know, that's a while.

I mean, since, you know, you're kind of up front, I don't know if it's something that happened more when I was in my 20s and 30s. But I think as you get older, I love that petty bullshit go to the way. Right. A lot of it doesn't. Some of it doesn't. But so, but do you sleep with most of your girlfriend? or a lot of your girlfriends are just friends? A combo.

Some friends have, you know, we've crossed that line. I think it's easier. I think a lot of guys that I know that keep it. I'm a girl that always had a lot of girlfriends, but I've always had a lot of guy friends too. And I think when you have a lot of companionship from the opposite sex, even when you're not sleeping with them, it definitely is, it makes you less needy

of having relationships in a weird way, right? Because you're getting... I totally understand. Exactly. That need met, right? And then you could kind of get. sex and it's kind of like, you know, I've always felt like I'm like kind of a commitment phob or I don't know what it is, but I know that I think having friendships with guys and then I'm a woman, right? So I could go fuck anyone I want when I want you.

Exactly. Right? So really, unless I really like someone, I'm not going to have a relationship because I have my needs kind of met in a way with other people. Yeah, yeah, there is sort of I mean, unfortunately, you know, it's now, it's trying to word describe it. I mean, there's the a la carte aspect of, you know, friendships. I mean, Yeah. I mean, and it sounds, society does not actually still accept it, but they don't. It's sort of like, I don't know. It works for me.

Right. Having that kind of like a girlfriend and five different girls. Yeah. Yeah. Right. So really, you'd have to like, really, if you met one girl that had it all, like, if you met the one girl that had it all, you'd probably settle down with that girl. But until then, you get your needs met otherwise. I have had relationships that have seen to work.

in that aspect. And then just, you know, and, you know, with the exception of, you know, one. We're still friends. So, you know, it hasn't been like, I don't have, there's not like, you know,

there's not posters of me saying, you know, asshole of the year. Right. Mm-hmm. When you're in a monogamous relationship, you stayed, when you were in that monogamous relationship, I'm assuming you stayed monogamous,

or did you cheat? Were you pretty faithful? Oh, I've never, I've never cheated. I mean, that's kind of weird because people would assume so. But, no, I mean, I didn't,

I mean, when things have gotten to the point, where there's temptation or the discussion, it's been like, hey, what's going on? What do you think? And actually it's how one relationship

had morphed from the Noggins to an open relationship because she was like, hey, I'm cool with this too. And then, you know, it just sort of turned out more so with, you know, a lot of other outside factors.

But that's just, I kind of come from the point, you know, you know, I don't mean to, you just be who yourself is and, you know, I've been a lot of bullshit.

Right. you're just really honest with who you are, what you want, and you're also that way you're as forthright with yourself. Like you're honest with yourself, therefore you're honest with other people. I think the biggest people's biggest problem is they're not honest with themselves. And then they, you know, they... Well, I think there's so much, you know, expectation. Totally.

Society expectations and the social expectation that, you know, well, and the whole, at some point we still all, you know, we're all guilty. I don't even in different aspects. We still have to fall back to, you know, it's like, high school like bullshit. The high school bullshit of what?

Having, you know, you know, what you're supposed to be and what, you know, what, you know,

template you're supposed to follow. Yeah, yeah. Obviously, you've never fallen into that. Like, you haven't done that because you still haven't been married.

You have, like, you have an open and, like, you don't follow the typical career path either. So you just live your life. You didn't buy into that sort of book.

I didn't either. So I understand that. I understand your personality and your way. life more so than anything else because I never read the book I'm not interested I actually like I think I just go the opposite way just because everybody else does something like I'm kind of rebellious that way yeah I'm kind of the same way I mean I I I moved around a lot of kids and we didn't move to the United States so I was 12 so you know I mean I got all the state background yeah I'm almost like more

into marriage now because it's becoming like something that nobody's doing and I like I feel like one day if it ever becomes like the like the thing that nobody does I'm going to be like you know what I'm going to get married. I'm like really into being married. I totally. And then I'm going to go, oh, I'm just being contrary. Totally. I think sometimes I'm really not that interesting. I'm just, I'm just rebellious. Like, everyone goes left. I'm going to go right. I just kind of think like the majority of people aren't necessarily always right. So if everyone's doing something, I kind of think like, oh, maybe that's not really the right thing to do because I think most people are kind of dumb, which is

terrible to say on my podcast. But, you know, whatever. Let's get back to you and like your sort of sexual interests. Like, so have you ever yet? Like, Have you found a woman to do that, or have you still not yet fulfilled that fantasy? I guess it should start on how it all happened. Totally. Because that would be, you know, it's not like every day, okay, I enjoy this, or I will, you know. Right. You know, it sort of happened by, you know, I have no problem when I'm a woman.

I'm pretty open. So I ended up hooking up with this woman. Her and I had a great time. And we were like, you know, and she happened to want to explore having another. woman join her. And she had played with this woman before and thought the idea of, you know, and of course, being, you know, a heterosexual male. And, you know, oh, yeah, sure.

You know, you know, woo-hoo, you know. Yeah, you're at the jockebox. Yeah. So, you know, I'm very, you know, it's the same thing. And so you're there and, you know, the friends had ball on toys. And it was fun. You know, I'm watching. All the cliche things are happening.

And then suddenly, you know, I'm fucking the other check. And simply put, I'm. finding my ass like because it's okay go for it go for and then it was like slowly you know fingers and then the next thing I discover it was you know that the fingers are pretty big

and I am feeling myself getting fucked the ass while I'm fucking with the other girl and I was like this is different you know there's a little like shock value and then it was like it was a way it wasn't what I expected to be honest with you you know because you know there was a

assessment and it was a very very you know hot it was just I mean I'm in the I am like getting, you know, in this whole point. It was like intense, and that's the only way I get in. So it was a very, very fun at time. And, you know, subsequently, you know, I've had without a third party, I've had myself done. And, you know, it's fun. I'm not going to say to them.

But what was interesting from that experience was totally going on the sideboard is I learned a lot of anal sex. Right. Because I was on the receiving in, as opposed to, you know, the perception from a perspective, you know, so I kind of understand it a little from a different angles in the end of what. So it was an educational process. And, you know, it was fun.

And so... What did you learn about anal sex that you could tell people? Because I think a lot of guys don't think that they could just put it in a girl's ass and it's like, good to go. No. Yeah, you know, it's slow. It doesn't have to be... It doesn't have to have this pornography,

violent submission kind of aspect to it, you know? It's like, you're my bitch kind of thing. It's a very... It can be a very, I mean, a very interesting thing. I'm sure, you know, Gatenen could probably explain it better. But it was just sort of, you know, but there is. It's not this sort of like, you know, what you would think. It was very, you know, it prefers that guy's hash, it or fog.

So it was completely different. But it was, you know, it felt really. It's hard to explain. But it was just, you know, you learned a lot. It was the feeling has to be ways you go, the depth, you know, all the things that, you know, I'm receiving and you don't get experience when you're the giver. Totally, you have no idea.

But I think all assholes are the same, right? So it feels the same way for you that it feels for me, right? I think that's one thing that men and women could relate to. I don't think guys' assholes are any different than women's assholes. No, no. You know, it's there.

You feel it. You understand. You don't understand like, you know, it's not, you know, you have to. And there's a completely different aspect to it. I mean, for myself, the pleasure that I was receiving was, and this was the,

question that always comes up, you know, I don't think of your bed in one fucking your ass. You know, there's something about the softness of a woman, especially like her breasts, you know, up against your back at the same time and that feeling is that there's a, you know, the back aspect of yourself, you really don't realize there's a lot of very sensual and, you know, triggers there that you really don't experience from a male perspective in those sexual situations. And that aspect, you know, while you're giving pleasure to somebody else, you're. receiving pleasure from the other person and you're basically in the middle.

Yeah. It was like, you know, it's damn good. Yeah, I'm sure a lot of guys listening right now, maybe they never thought of it, but when you're really explaining the, like, it very sort of in detail, like, probably a lot of guys are, like, getting a little hard. Like, oh, my God, that might actually be hot. And they could imagine why that would be hot. You know, and it definitely is because you're feeling, like, especially because she's, you know,

It's not like, I think a lot of people, especially, you know, it goes back to the perception. You know, I think it's related from, I guess, porn for a reason. It's mostly illustrated in that kind of thing as a cake, you know, you're just a damn little, you know, piece of shit kind of aspect. And I mean, that can be fun for many people's play, but that's not how it's perceived in my own interaction. You mean, you think that most of the time anal sex is sort of, it has to be like in a degrading, done an degrading way? I think it has, I think it's more of the issues with it. I'm kind of everywhere else.

I think it's just because of, it comes a lot, I think, from, you know, it's not exactly, you know, a self-lubricating oven. Right. So, you know, so there takes a lot of, um, excessive foreplay, you know, built of the intensity and getting into the scene. A lot of, there's a lot of work that goes before you actually get into it. It's not like, okay, we're ready. Yeah, but some guys think that, and they traumatize women by thinking that.

that's the way that it goes because they haven't had your experience and they don't understand it. I was always into anal sex from a very young age. I was like turned my boyfriends onto it most the time. I was the first person I'd be like, hey, let's do this. And they'd be like, okay. But I always knew because I was sort of very comfortable sexually, like how to make it happen for myself where it was okay. Like I would micromanage the situation and I knew I had to be really super turned on and they would go really slow until I wanted it really fucking fast. And then I'd come in like two seconds because it's too amazing. And I'd come in like two seconds because it's too amazing. And I I think that that would be for any girl,

but I think so many girls don't like it because some guy thinks that they could just stick their dick in really hard right away. And nobody could handle that. And when they do that in porn, those girls are like on drugs or those poor things. They're getting paid for that, okay? But that's not the way it feels good in the beginning.

It's a lot of acting going on people. And, you know, it goes back the same thing in the recent experience aspect there. You know, I'm having, you know, your perceiving pleasure. while you're, you know, you're fucking somebody else and you're getting your prostate massaged by a woman. Right. And you're like, you know, it's just like, whoa, wow.

And then, you know, it's sort of, you know, there's some pretty good moments that occur. Yeah, because imagine either one of those things a lot of guys would love separately. Like a lot of guys would love to be able to fuck a girl in the ass because I remember seeing somebody once explaining the difference between like vaginal sex and anal sex. You know what's interesting. I don't think I've ever fucked a girl in the ass while I was getting fucked in the ass. So that's the interesting thing. Oh, so that was like the first time that you even had anal sex regularly, is what you're saying?

Well, no, I had anal sex separately. The first time that I had my own ass penetrated, I was fucking hurt. Right, exactly. But I'm just saying most guys would love to just have anal sex, right? Maybe some guys would like to just have a girl fuck them in the ass, but how many guys really ever thought about doing both of those things at the same time? I think that's true. And, of course, if you think about it, there's a lot of aspect of just like, how do I make this happen?

But it happened for you. It's happened on more than one occasion, and either I just like have just like, hey, what the hell attitude that people are like, go for it. He's a happy go lucky person. I mean, it's not like I picked these women up the same night. You know, it's been, you know, I've got to know them a little bit more before we just like get down to that. That's not exactly like a first cookup. Hey, what do you want to do this? Yeah, totally.

But how would you recommend? Like, because I think, like, you might turn a lot of guys onto this idea, right? And this would become, like, some guys' fantasy. This would be some guys, like, a lot of guys' fantasy maybe, and they'll be like, oh, how do I make that happen? You say it's happened to you on more than one occasion with two real women at the same time, or a woman and, like, a toy or, I mean, there's always a toy involved. Well, there was the one time that, okay, there's the one time that it occurred,

like I mentioned, the first time they ever happened. Uh-huh. And then, and then I had subsequent accessions with the same. and then there has been since then, you know, one other time that it just sort of happened that, you know, I'm there with a woman and her friend and we're, you know, having fun. And then, you know, hey, you know, I've suggested it. I'm like, hey, if you want to go for it, it's like, well, you're cool with that, you know, because it's also something a lot of women have never done. Right. So that aspect just alone, not necessarily in a recent situation.

Oh, you mean you're welcoming me to play with your ass? That's kind of cool. Some guys won't even let you put a finger even close. They think it makes them gay. Well, I usually find if you're naked with another woman and another guy and you have toys and situation, probably are pretty old with that. Oh, you were with a guy and a woman? No, not a guy and a woman.

I've not had that. Oh, I'm not talking about that. I'm not talking about a guy with a guy and a woman. I'm talking with a guy and just a woman. Most guys will not even let you put your finger near there. A lot of guys are very anti-any kind of anal play whatsoever. Yeah. Make them gay.

They like it, which is so stupid. It's a whole ridiculous of these weird, like, black and white worlds we live in. Yeah, they're dumb. Listen, those guys are missing out. And I tell my guy friends that because I'm like, your ass is no different than mine. And I'm going to tell you, like, it feels really good. And if you don't like...

I imagine what you learn. Yeah. Right, right. You're better. You could get probably more girls to have anal with. you now because you know how to enter. Yeah. I don't want to gloat, but yeah.

Yeah. Exactly. No, that's what you were saying before. That's the whole point. How did the second one go down again? You're fooling around with a girl. You guys are having a threesome, right? Another girl's involved.

Yeah. And then you want to try this? I'm like, you know, there's the like, what? You know, you don't have to sit and watch or, you know, you don't, if you want to go for it. You're like, okay. put the coin See who gets it You know

I don't know Right so the second time It was just as good as the first time The same sort of scenario Her tits on your back You know what Yeah it was I mean that part is actually

It's hard to describe I mean really I mean feeling like A set of hard nipples Running down your back While you're getting your ass Fucking you're fucking somebody else Or getting a blowjob

Or whatever Your cock's being worked on by another woman And the other woman It's great I don't think it's hard I mean, I think a lot of guys probably, while you explain it that way, could actually imagine it because I feel like it's the same thing if a woman's on top, right? And they feel that.

So they maybe never thought of it. But if you flip it around, like you said, a back is a very erotic area. There are a lot of nerve endings there, right? So imagine you do that. That's just like a whole other thing to explore. And I think maybe guys haven't thought about it, but they could imagine why that would be hot for sure. So now you're on Craigslist looking for people because you want to do it again.

Well, of course. You know, it's also a combination. I mean, it's Craigslist, okay? You have a realistic assumption what Craigslist is. Anybody who thinks it's like, but I put it out there, number one, just, you know, hey, it's, throw the fish out, throw the bait out, see what happens, and see if anyone does respond. Right. And, you know, you're getting a couple, you know, I'm interested in that, but I don't have a friend. I mean, you said, okay, you know, talk, you know, a lot of Q&A happens. And then, of course, as in the earlier, lot of like, you know, people who just, you know, and it so turns into kind of a sociological observation, but much like this discussion here, I get a lot of blasting questions about it. And so, you know, it's a, it's kind of an educational thing.

I mean, I don't expect Craigslist to be, like, the gold mine for this. But there's not a lot of opportunities to, like, hey. Right, where else? There's adult, you know, another place where I go to find guests like callers is adult friend finders, but I get from, like, the people from there, the guys tell me that, they don't meet a lot of women that really want to hook up in real life on that site. I have checked that place out before. And there's a lot of, I'm very leery of sites.

And, you know, Craigslist is just as bad where, you know, my responses seem to be from automated robots. A lot of what? They don't seem real. It's very much an automated robot, like, interest. It's like, especially, you know, there's a lot of comments that come in and, like, to upgrade and stuff. So it's just, that's just a whole side project on my feelings about that place. But, you know, I've heard. about more.

How long have you been advertising this scenario on Craigslist? Have you had anybody that was interested in doing it? I've met people. I've met a couple women who we discussed that nothing has matured into a third party. What's going on with those women now? Have you screwed those women just by yourself? Yeah. I mean, it's not like a lot of them.

I've had this about about six months off and all, and I kind of rotated up there just for, you know, observation and see what happens. Right. Okay. but those girls were into it, you just need to find a third party. Yeah, I mean, or it was more of this. Kind of, I guess, as the basis. You need to find a third party.

But then again, you know, you met somebody, and then you start talking. And you're like, if it happens, it happens. It's not like checklist, less complete. Right. Yeah, but I'm sure on a certain level, you're in your 40s. You know, we all know at that point how to get what we want. You know, even if you have to go in the back door, if you know what your end goal is, you could make that shit happen.

I don't know. Yeah. You could. And it's one of those things that you never know. I never say never. I guess it's, I mean, expanding your database of interested people. Uh-huh. Right.

You never know. You know, it's like, you meet good people. And even if it's not a sexual means that you meet you. I do enjoy meeting other people, getting the nose and finding out what they're all about. And then, you know, that does still be, you know, that still wins out over everything else. You know, it's just something about that, even if it's not, like on a basic sexual thing. just, you know, what makes people kick and a good conversation can, you know, open a lot of doors. Right. So you're open to that, too. And then if it goes to be, like, if you get what you're

ultimately looking for, which is that a threesome experience, that'd be really great. But you're not, like, forcing it to happen on any way in any way. Yeah, what I mean? I'm out there. And I guess in some ways you sort of have, you know, skipped over about, like, you know, 20, a big, long, these points you've got most people in relationships or interactions with people to get to that point where you bring this up. It's sort of like, you know, Here it is. Here's the, quote, freaking thing I'm into, unquote.

You know, so we cut that out of the way. So let's talk about it. Right, right, right. And then you feel like you could be yourself with that person. That's not a bad thing. Have you dated, like, any of these girls, like you say you screwed a couple of them?

Like, do you stay friends with them or you still with them? I'm still friends. You know, we date. I mean, I hang out with them. Right. You know, I'm not going to say, it's not like, you know, it's not like a disposable thing. I mean, you know, it turns into a relationship of whatever that is.

Like a friendship. Yeah, it's a friendship. It's a level of friendship with someone. Uh-huh. I mean, there's been other women not related to this ad who might met, which is just like, hey, that was fun. And then you move on. Right, all right.

That's cool. I mean, listen, like you say, you put it out there. You never know. It's like you're planting a seed. It could grow into that exact scenario. Or it could grow into other things. Like you say, you've had some friendships. You've gotten laid with some women.

Like, whatever. It's also interesting here. I mean, usually, you know, someone responding to this post has pretty, broad mind. So I'm always interested like what is it you want to try? What do you into? Because you know, I'm more than willing to hear it. It could be fun. Right. What have you gotten from women when you pose that question? Like what's the most interesting thing that you figured out about women when you start to get into it and you put your shit out there? Like what have women come back with you that was maybe like sort of surprising or interesting?

Surprise. I mean a lot of women that I talk to, it does seem to. It does seem to. be, they want to be, interesting enough, they want to have that, you know, I want to be really, really naughty. Right. And because I can't. And this is my chance to, like, do it and not be perceived as this then, you know, get out of the bed and fucking fly. I mean, it's like, and you're, I mean, you are really, you're open to letting me be

as filthy-minded. Uh-huh. And listen to myself. I mean, you know, like, you know, you're willing to, like, you know, I will tell you, You're not judging me. Yeah, because most guys do. Most guys do. And that, I think, is the reason why women can't really be their freaky selves.

Because they know that a guy will judge them. Mm-hmm. It's true. Sad but true. And, you know, that's, I mean, it's true. So they have to, there's a certain, you know, I mean, my advice to men is, you know, don't judge them. I mean, because trust me, once they feel comfortable and revealing that, side to you, you are going to have a good life.

Yeah, you're going to be a lot happy. But there's something weird about how, like, a lot of guys, especially in your generation in that age range, 40s and 50s, that's my age range. That's my generation, too. Where the men have that Madonna horror complex. And they, I think they're very happy keeping it that way. I don't think that they want to, I think that they want their girl, that they bring home to their mommy and that is the mother of their baby to be like a, you know, a prude.

and they want to fuck the horror on the side. And I don't know that that guy even wants to put that together. Like, I don't know. Even though we all know that that guy'd be happier to get both in one. And he'd live like he wouldn't have to exhaust himself living such a double life. But I don't know. I think men like to keep that separate. I don't know if they like to keep it separate.

I think they keep it separate because in reality they can't handle it. Right. They're the ones who, they're the ones I think who walk away with the shame. You know, oh, I'm a broad person because I've done this. So it's sort of like, you know, maybe just, you know, that's, I think that's where I think it comes from. I had a guy recently on a call who was into, like, some really dirty things, and he had this girl that they were, like, sort of booty calling each other, and he was, like, jizzing on her face or doing all kinds of stuff that they liked. And then when they decided to get into a relationship, quote, unquote, and they sort of put a label to something, he started to feel like, oh, now that she's my girlfriend, I can't do these dirty things with her. I don't want to do that to her.

I feel different sexually with her. and then it ruined the relationship, by the way. If she, God knows what she's doing with someone else. And that's the whole possession of crap. Yeah, I don't know. It's sad because I personally think the best person to be really dirty with is somebody that you're really close and feel very comfortable with. As a woman, because I don't, you know, I'm a woman.

I'm not want to sleep with a different guy every single day. I always prefer to have long-term booty calls. And I could let, and the more comfortable I am and the more I know somebody, the more I can let my free flag fly, and then sex could be great. But, you know, and then it's not really dirty because it's like you're doing it with someone you're close with. Because you're, that feeling of comfort that, you know, I'm not going to be judged. They're going to, they're going to let me be me. And if I go in some, like, left turn because it's just across my mind, you know, they're not going to like, you know, aghast and run away.

They might go, whoa, that's kind of crazy and laugh about it. But they're not going to get a serious. They're able to sort of show you that side of themselves too. You know, a lot of guys keep that. I get a lot of calls from a lot of guys on my show. What people love about my show, especially men, is that they could call in and really sort of reveal their deepest, darkest, sort of sexual side and feel like they're not being judged,

whereas they feel like they totally would be, and they probably would by most women that they know, because not just men have that sort of view and judgmental view, but women, too. So men can't really be as honest with women about all the dirty shit that they're into as well. But if everyone could sort of be open about it, you do that dirty shit with your partner.

That's the best way to be. But then you could also be romantic and everything else with it. Yeah, I mean, there's like, if it comes from that point that people may have this pre, you know, society or whatever perceived template that they bought into it, this is how I'm supposed to behave,

this is what I'm supposed to do. And if I, very, if I, you know, fall out of, you know, religion or, you know, upbringing or whatever, or people will find out and judge me. It's like, yeah, I think that's where. Yeah, at the end of the day, I think people take sex way too seriously and they put too much into it.

And I think, you know, whatever you do within your relationship is your own business. And if you have trust within a relationship and you're with somebody that you trust and you guys really love each other, like you could have like the best time sexually. And that's what it's about.

But I think that a lot of times when people pair up, none of those things happen. People don't trust each other. People aren't really honest with each other. Well, I think you hit the big point there. I think people take sex way too seriously. Yeah.

And, you know, I think there's nothing that is a bigger turnoff than someone who can't laugh at the absurdity of it. I don't like it. Right. Or doesn't want to enjoy the fun of it or thinks that, you know what I mean? Because, like, I can't be, I must be really serious. I'm like, oh, God, you know, fun. Yeah, I just think that way.

And also, like, in serious, it's, like, they just take it, like, they're very, they sort look at other people, what they do sexually, and they sort of judge that. bite or they define the bite. I think that's your own personal thing, you know, and it doesn't really matter. As long as you're not like fucking animals that are helpless or children, you know, what does it matter? As long as you're not hurting anyone, you know, violating anyone. Exactly.

It's really nobody's fucking business. And it doesn't define people. That's what I love about my show. I get guys on here and women who have done pretty crazy things that if somebody just heard about the things that they do, they'd probably pass judgment and be like, oh my God, guy's this or that. But I talk to people on my show most of the time for 45 minutes to an hour, and I get to, I grill them like Barbara Walters, and I feel like I make people realize that these people

are other, there's more to them than that. And most of these people seem like very normal to me. It's just what they like to do sexually. And why does that change them as people, you know? I like a lot of things. I'm not like exclusively like I need to have my ass fuck full on. Right. Just to, I mean, although, you know, I'm open to it.

Right. That's like the number one thing right now for you. Listen, you make it sound really hot. I think like a lot of, I think you gave a lot of guys a Woody. I'm telling you, by the way you described it. I have no problem if guys get Woody's over. That's fine. I'm not going to go back.

Oh, my God. I have cleans myself because I got a Woody over my story. Yeah, I wouldn't even think of that. But yeah, right, some guys would be like, oh, my God, don't say that. But yeah, you're obviously not homophobic. You like ass play for yourself, especially the way. you had it, which you're pretty lucky. I think a lot of guys would probably wish to be in that scenario.

You've been in it more than once. I would encourage them to, you know, give it a shot. You learn something, and you probably like it. Yeah, you know, I'm surprised that. Do you live in a city? Like, I don't know if you want to out where you live, like that. You haven't been able to meet a woman. I'd rather not, I'd rather not meet you the city.

I'm from now. Yeah, that's fine. But you are from a city, though. You're not from a suburban area. Do you live in a city or like a suburban area? I live in a city. I've lived in the city for, you know, I've lived a lot of places, but I've lived in the city for 20-something years now. Right.

I've lived briefly in the suburbs. And I think a lot of my just mentality, as I mentioned earlier, me, I moved to the United States. I was 12 years old. Right. Where do you go from? My mother's French, and my father's Italian, so we just both in France and Italy. Right. So if you live there, you wouldn't have half of the shit that you have to deal with.

I know, you know. It's much more open-minded. But I think, but I do think maybe that early, you know, aesthetic and cultural awareness kind of like is in your DNA. Right. And maybe that's why you feel like you're so open-minded. But you have to live in a city. I feel like you'll, you'll, you'll find more open, you know, people that are more like-minded like you, like you're like, like, small-town area. Yeah, I don't think, I don't think, I don't think, you know.

I mean, I don't, you know, I think for this more, there's a larger, there's a lot of population tool that would be in the small. Oh, yeah. No, listen, it's not like the people in the suburbs. They're actually more probably free. I'm just saying that the people in the cities are more honest and real about who they are. So you could be yourself more so. I mean, I grew up in New Jersey. I live in New York City for like over 20 years.

And I lived in New Jersey for about 20 years. I'm like sort of lived in both places equally at this point. And I have to say I like, I mean, New York City is much more in tune with who I am than New Jersey. Because I could just be myself more here. And I still get people calling me crazy or weird, whatever. But it's like I find more people that I feel. I always say crazy is a compliment. But I get more people that I could relate to here than in New Jersey.

And I don't believe that people in New Jersey aren't like us. I just think they hide it more. The only reason they call you crazy is because you cleaned up the lower east side too much. Because of what? Because your city cleaned up the lower east side too much. You drove all the lack of crazies out. Yeah, exactly. It's so different.

I mean, I remember the East Village when I had a friend who lived on 11th Street in Avenue A and when I would visit him, like back in the day, you'd hear gunshots outside. That was just totally the norm. That was like a normal thing that went down. I briefly lived in, I briefly lived on Avenue A, too. Uh-huh. And now it's like yuppies and, you know, in places.

Yeah, I mean, you walk down there, you like, oh, you people would have hated it next year. Yeah. It's still dirty, though. I don't really like the Lower East Side. But yeah, like, the city's cleaned up and changed, but I prefer cities because they're more culturally, like, they're more diverse and I like, you know, all kinds of people and I get bored really easy.

And I think just people that live in smaller towns just tend to sort of hide their shit more. I don't think that they're less interesting or they don't, they do less crazy stuff than people do in the city. I just think that they tend to keep it under wraps a little bit more. You know, they're not, they're more afraid to be who they are. Exactly. And I think a city is a place where people who really want to be themselves and not feel like an outcast. And like you say, you call yourself kind of like a loner, but not really. but like in a city

what I always explain to people is like what's so great about New York is like you could kind of be alone but you always have people around you so you're never really alone but if you don't really like people it's a great place to live that's a good descriptive I like it

yeah right because you could kind of keep yourself away from people but you're still around people and so it's like a great place for people who want to be a loner because you don't but you're not like living in the woods by yourself which most people would never think right exactly it sort of sounds like

the opposite of what it is, but it's true. Right. You know, it's not like I, I'm always like, oh, God, maybe I'd be happier on a deserted island because sometimes people irritate me a lot. But, like, that's what I love about New York, because if I just want to be alone, I could go out and I could walk all day and be alone, yet there's tons of people around me and I could take it all in.

And I'm a people person and I love analyzing people. And it gives my brain so much to do, which that's what I love about it. But anyway, so, yeah. So, yeah, so, I mean, I don't know. Like, it's not like, I mean, I have a lot of times how people call in for my podcast because they have a problem or they, you know, they sort of, or they call in and they talk about their secret lives. It's not even like, this is like a secret for you, right? This is just the shit that you like to do, and you're pretty straight up about what you like to do. Well, I mean, I don't have like a big banner

and go out and, hey, you know, this, I like, I like, I like, no, secret life would be this. Secret life, what I mean is like, it's not like you're married and you have this ad out on the side and you're doing this. That's what I mean, secret life. No, I mean, you know. Yeah, you're not like some people live like these double lives. You're not living a double life. This is who you are. This is what you like and your life sort of allows you to do it without you having to lie to multiple people.

Totally, totally. Which is great. I think that that's great. You know, I feel like that's a very, that's the best way to be because it takes the least amount of energy. You know? Yeah, I mean, there's a lot of energy in creating a character. Totally, absolutely. And lying and everything.

Yeah. You know, if you're going to create a character and you, you know. Yeah, and just keep up with your lies and stuff. I don't lie because it's just too exhausting and I can't remember it. It takes too much time. To me, the truth is always so much easier no matter what it is. I think I'm fine with it. The problem is a lot of people don't like the truth, you know.

But I think that your truth is interesting. I wish you luck in your Craigslist ad. Hopefully you'll find that. But it sounds like it'll happen in your life anyway. Like it could just happen. It's happened in your life before without Craigslist. So you don't even really need that ad. But that's ads out there just in case it happens to get it.

The ads out there, you know, it makes for, you know, boring days of reading responses and psychological observation at the minimum. Right. I would have never found you if you didn't have that out there. So it led to our interesting conversation. Exactly. So that's what that's where you get. I mean, like I find I have learned so much by posting ads on Craigslist and have people

call in and it's a place filled with a lot of interesting things, especially if you're the type of person like you that is interested in sort of that end of thing. too besides the sex you like the good conversations or just the social figuring that out you know the people's I you know I I love hearing people's stories no matter what they are and so you know and that aspect

you know and what I do you know in an everyday basis it does involve that sort of you know hearing and listening to people's narrative and their life stories and you know they're documenting them and so it's you know it's

one of the interesting things like I said but the ad out there simply for kind of getting some of that kind of response just for my own, you know, observation and, you know, well, that's what I do at my show. I mean, that you'd probably like my show. So when you called me, I was like, yeah, okay, someone gets to try. That was cool. Yeah, totally. You'd like to listen to my podcast and if you like that stuff, because that's what I do on my show. Like, I believe that, like, regular people are really fascinating if you ask them the right questions, you know, so that's what I do on every call. And that's why I like to not get any information about my guests ahead of time. I think I said to you via email, like don't, let's not

talk. Because a lot of people want to go on and on via email. I'm like, I don't want to know anything. I want to get on a call with a total stranger. And then the content becomes like me learning, you know, figuring out who they are. And that's what people like to listen to you. I get it. I, you know, I listen to some of the podcast before I call in. Okay, cool. Yeah, well, thanks for calling in. And if you have any, like, interesting experiences coming up, we'll have you back on. because I always have repeat callers. And if I have anything interesting or a follow-up or like, if someone were to respond to the ad, I'll give a follow-up on this one.

Okay, awesome, for sure, definitely. Thanks so much for calling in. You're good. Take care. Okay, bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers,

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