Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 092 - Molly Hooks up with Both Men and Women Online

Episode Date: September 21, 2015

Just when you thought there were no real women looking for meaningless sex online, think again. Molly calls in and talks about all men and women she has hooked up with while on Adultfriendfinder.com, Craigslist.com as well as Fetlife.com. She explains what she looks for in an ad and what men say in their emails that either turn her on or off, what kind of sexual etishes she’s gotten into since she’s been on those sites as well as the details about her numerous hookups plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. Craigslist is definitely the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.

With real problems. Does your friend know that you're banging her? No, he has no idea. And anything goes. The motto of the show, let your Greek black lie. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whips and change. Here are your hosts Kathy Kay and Tommy. Hi, welcome to strictly anonymous podcast with Kathy.

If you want to follow the show on Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous or follow me on Twitter at Cartoon Therapy. If you want to, if you're on Facebook and you want to like my Facebook page, like it at Strictly Anonymous podcast. It's kind of self-explanatory. Speaking of Facebook, actually, today's caller, who is a girl, I always get excited when we have female callers because I rarely get them. Her name is Molly and I actually got a message from her on Facebook.

She had messaged me a while back but, you know, I had never gone on there so I didn't see. And she had found one of my podcasts about adult friend finders and about a guy who was looking to hook up on there but never really met any women on there. And she wrote in to be like, hey, listen, I'm on there and I fuck a lot of guys on adult friend finders. and then some. So she called in and she wanted to talk about, you know, what she does in her spare time, an adult friend finder, and a couple other sites that she's on.

She's had relationships in the past. She was married. She's single now. She's making up for lost time. She's having a lot of fun. She has a lot of meaningless sex. Something that I think that not a lot of men believe women are into or can do it. or I don't know, there's always like problems that are, that happen when guys and girls hook up just for sex.

The girl sometimes gets too involved. I don't know. Or people think that's what happens. You know, that whole fucking thing. But this is like a chick that's like a guy. And she's out there just having sex and having fun and having one night stanzas with as many men as possible. And she talks all about it, not just men and women too. And so she talks all about it and gives like lots of details on all of the stuff that she's,

done via adult friend finders. I think she's on set life or fet life, whatever the hell that website is, as well as Craigslist. So just when you think there are no females on any of those sites that are really looking to hook up and it's just like prostitutes or dudes or scams, you know, or spam or whatever you want to call it, Molly calls in to let you know that no, there are women on there that will fuck you. You just got to play them the right way. And Molly explains that. So I, I will be right back on with Molly. Do you have a story, lifestyle, or situation you can't talk about to anyone, to anyone? Or do you just want to let your freak flag fly and be on the show?

Well, Strictly Anonymous wants to hear from you. Send us an email, Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com with your story and your anonymous name. And remember, everything is strictly anonymous. Unanimous. Hi, is Molly? Hi. Yes, it is. Hi.

Hey, Molly. How you doing? Welcome to Strictly Anonymous podcast. You're on with Kathy. Me, Kathy. Thank you. Thank you for having me. Yeah, I always get so excited when I get girls.

I never get girls from my ads. I always get girls like, I mean, I found you. You actually sent me an email on Facebook, and I just happened to see it because I was just deciding that I need to like rework my Facebook page. And I saw that you had emailed me. while ago. And I was like, oh my God, this girl is like a unicorn. You're like, you're the girl. The deal with you is like you're a girl that's really on adult friend finders and you really have sex with guys on that site. And nobody thinks that that exists because most of the time when I'm

talking to these guys, whether it's from Craigslist or even all the people from adult friend finders, they all say like they rarely have ever. I don't even think rarely. Like they're all across the board. Like never met a girl in real life. But you have. have actually met guys in real life and done all kinds of things on adult front finder and you are calling in to talk all about it. Yeah, I have. And, you know, and I get all the time, are you real? Of course. Aside from, when you sit on my face, I get, are you real? Which do they ask first? Yes, I am. What was that?

Which do they ask first? Will you sit on my face or are you real? Oh, it's about 50-50. Exactly. Yeah, because like, I mean, if you listen, I don't know if you're new listener to the show or you just listen to a couple of the adult friend finder guys, but across the board, like I said, it's like not one guy on adult friend finder has ever really, I don't think that they've ever really met anybody on there that's really real. I think what they found, what they do find, though, is like women that want to do virtual stuff and keep stuff like sort of anonymous maybe and they do stuff online with them. But nobody in real life, you actually have met people off that site, right?

In real life, like you've done it all from that site, right? I'm assuming. You know, and I have, and it's not just from that side. It's from a couple others, but I sat down to try and make a list of all of them, and honestly, I can't remember many of them. Really? Yeah, yeah. You know, some of them, like I, you know, when I wrote you the email, I was, I don't even

know how I came across the podcast. Uh-huh. But when I wrote you the email, I was like, oh, I've met guys, you know, on an adult friend finder, but I was like in every capacity, pretty much. I mean, met up and barely got names, dated for a while, some were married, you know, some I turned around and walked away. Right. Because they didn't exactly portray themselves as who they said they are.

So, yeah, I have every, pretty much every perspective on the situation. So let me ask you this. Like, let me get like your just background history. Are you, how old are you? Like, have you ever been married? Are you in a relationship now? I know I think you said in your email that you were like a chronic relationship. person, like you went from relationship to relationship. Have you ever been married or no?

I was married. I got married kind of young. I was about 23. When I got married, I was married for six years. I got divorced. And I kept a good relationship with my ex-husband. And then I jumped into another one almost immediately for three years. And we had a kid together. And then I jumped into another one right after that for two years, another one after that for about a year and a half. And that ended last summer, not this past summer, but the summer before. And it didn't end very well. It was one of the very few relationships that I had that didn't end well. And I had just, I was, there was one day where I just threw my hands up and I just said, fuck it.

Fuck it. I'm not doing it anymore. I'm going to do what I want to do and I'm going to do, you know, what makes me happy and what's fun. And, you know, I'm sick of being, you know, told what to do and tied down. And I'm just, I, that's exactly what I did. I went a little crazy. But I've been very happy ever. Right. So all of this stuff that you've done online, you've done only when you've been single, right? Like you've never, were you cheating on these guys behind their back or none of that stuff was going on, right? No, no, no, none of that. Right. So you were pretty faithful. You were like a, you were definitely like a serial relationship person. You know, you were like always in relationships your whole life since you're like 23. When did you, how old were you when you lost your virginity? I was, it was a week before my 17th birthday.

Right. So you had to be with a lot of guys because you, like, you lost your Virginia at 17, then you got married, right? And so since you were faithful to all those guys and you got in from one relationship to another, I'm assuming you only had like not that many guys before you hit up adult friend find or so. Well, that's not completely true. And I was kind of like this back before I started my serial monogamy, but I was young. I didn't think I could do it again. But with the Internet these days, it's not that difficult to do. Oh, okay, cool. So when you were 17, you lost your virginity. Like, before you got married, you were pretty open-minded to sexually and had a lot of sexual partners and was, like, into it. Like, you know, you weren't like repressed, like a lot of women were or a lot of girls.

No. No, I wasn't one of those people who had just never, you know, done anything their whole life and then all of a sudden discovered their sexuality and, you know, went crazy. I always had it. I knew it was there. And it always had been there even with, you know, being in relationships. it's kind of a lot of the times it's what kept us together was the sex. Right.

Yeah. And it was nice to go in a way where I could explore different avenues when it came to sex. Right. You mean like when you got out of the relationships and went on these websites and stuff, you mean? Yeah. Yeah. I didn't really know all of like so much was out there these days. And especially like I said, you know, I'm 36 years old.

So, you know, we had internet back then. I'm not saying, you know, I'm pre-internet. or anything, but it wasn't as open as it was as it is today. Right. The way people, you know, talk about sex and, you know, put stuff out there online. You know, a lot of it is anonymous, which is fine. But it also, that makes it more easy for people to say, this is what I like. This is what I don't like.

Hey, it's just as weird as people think it is. Exactly. And kind of explain their side of it. Yeah, no, that's why I do my show and I do it anonymously because that's the way that people feel comfortable, sort of really being totally honest with me. So I'm assuming that that's what, how. happens online on these dating websites too. When you say you put a list together of all the sites, besides adult friend finder, what is on

your list? What were the other websites that you had went on to hook up with people? It's mostly just the other, there's only really two, Craigslist and set life. Oh, set life. That's like bondage, right? Is that a bond? Just bondage or is that all kinds of different fetishes? No, no.

It's all kinds of stuff. I mean, there's people who are, you know, they call them the vanilla, who are just kind testing it out and seeing what this is all about, which is what I would like when I started. And then there's the people who are, you know, into that. You know, and it's kind of, it's a kind of a place where you can't say weird stuff because people go there where they, so they're not judged. So I don't want to say like the weird stuff. But to me, it's kind of weird stuff. But, you know, lots of stuff I just sort of glaze over and don't read. It says kind of fix me out a little bit.

Right. It's kind of like, it's like, I mean, you know, there's something for everybody. Like you could go on there and you pick and choose what you're into. And then everything else, but there's something for everybody, right? On that website. I've had, like my bondage guy that I've had on a couple of times, he's the one that told me about that website. I didn't know if it was just strictly for bondage or, you know, they have all kinds of stuff.

So which one did you start with first? And then how far did you take it and what kinds of different things that you get into? Well, I actually started with BetLife. The relationship that I had last, you know, the end of last summer, he was the one who introduced me to rights. And he set up the page and whatnot. But he wanted me to go a little farther than I was ready for.

She kind of pushed me. It's not something you can just dive into head first, really. You know, you've got to kind of dip your toes in it and sort of, you know, get your feet wet and kind of walk in. Otherwise, it's just going to totally freak you out. I mean, like I said, there are some really freaky things on there. Right. But when you say it, like, what are you talking about? Because if it's not just bondage, like, what is that website?

all about? Like what is that a place for? Well, you can put a list of like stuff that you like. You know, some people, they just like to dress up. You know, I like to wear like corsets and heels and stockings. And so there's all kinds of groups that you can join that they just talk about, you know, where's the best place to shop to find this, you know, these kind of outfits that I like. You know, there's cross-dreppers. There's, I mean, if you hop on the site and just go to start searching groups, you'll find, you know, hundreds of groups. Right. So what did you and your guy, so this was the guy that ended badly, right? That relationship. But sometime during that, you were with him a year and a half, right? Sometime during that relationship, you guys, I'm assuming, had a really good

sex life, right? And we're pretty open with each other that it came up that, right? So then when did it come up that you would go on that site? And what did you guys go on that site looking for? Well, I meet you and just was kind of like, oh, just look around and see, you know, and I was kind of like, what is all this? But, you know, there's stuff that that's not that weird. And, you know, You know, like I said, like heels and courses and that kind of stuff. Right. But then he started telling me a little bit more of what he was into, and it was more of the stuff that scared me.

Like what? Like, well, I mean, I've heard it all, so I'm like, what was... He was just, big into gangbangs. Every porn that he watched was a gangbang. He would sit and watch hours of gangbang porn. Oh. And not that I have anything against it, and everybody, you know, everybody's got their thing, but it was certainly not my thing.

Right. You don't want to get fucked by 10 guys in front of your guy. No, I don't. And I haven't even had a free from at this point. Right. That's why I was, you know, I was like, you know, you got to get your toes. He can't just hop into a gang bang. Yeah.

You just found out pretty much what one was. So he tried to push me into that, and I said absolutely not. And then that was part, you know, one of the main reasons for our breakup with him doing that. So the page was left there for a couple months. And then I think just one day, I can't remember why I went back on it. but I logged back in and started looking around, you know, as a new, like a newbie here, and found to people who were, the thing that I loved about it is that people were really honest. Right.

And I just got out of a relationship for a year and a half where it was constant. He was accusing me things that I wasn't doing, and he was jealous and this, that, and it was just, it built up, built up. And going on the site, there was a lot of couples. And there was a, you know, I didn't see the jealousy. You know, they were open. Like, hey, who wants to come in here and, you know, have sex with my wife while I watch. Wow.

What? Yeah, but it's so interesting because your guy was super jealous, but he wanted you to be a part of a gangbang. So maybe these other people have jealousy on the outside, too. You know what I mean? Because, like, it's weird because you would think, other people would think you and your guy if you were on there looking for a gangbing that your guy wasn't jealous. But it's so interesting that he was like a super jealous guy, yet he wanted you to take part in that, right? It's interesting.

And I, where a lot of that came from. And honestly, by the end, I just really didn't care. Exactly. So you went on there and you started to just like look into it and then you started to realize the things that you were kind of into because now that you don't have to like go with what somebody else is into. It was all up to you. It's like what you were right.

And so what were the first things that you got into that you took part in? One of the first things I got into was the photography. I had met a photographer on there. And, you know, at this time. I just kind of started with the dressing up kind of thing. And we were talking about that. And he's like, oh, I'm an amateur photographer. And he had a site and he was legit and everything.

So he actually came to my house and we did like a whole photo session in my bedroom. Did he pet you for that or do you get the pictures? Like, what's the exchange with something like that? My face wasn't in any of my, any of the pictures at this point. Okay. None of the really risque pictures anyways. The ones that did have my face, I had, you know, I was decent. in them. So I felt comfortable with him taking them and

doing what he would because if any of the ones that I didn't want to get out, got out, my face wasn't in. And how hardcore did the pictures get? Like, did you have full-on pussy shots? Like hardcore like that or like what kind of pictures were they? Totally nude or were you in those like courses and stuff? None of them were nude. I was, actually what happened was we went to the local porno shop and he bought me an outfit. and came back to my house and I put it on and then he took the pictures of me in the outfit. Right. And it was kind of like a net, like kind of like a net outfit.

And then it had kind of like a bandel bra underneath it, a sheer one with a sheer pair of like boy shorts underneath. Right. So it was kind of funny, sexy, but still, you know, everything was still covered. Right. Totally. And then probably the most scary picture was I was on my stomach on the bed with, I was, I was. I was a hand for handcuffed behind my back and attached to my legs cuff to those handcuffs. Right, right.

And he directed the whole shoot. Like, I mean, he was the guy that he was the professional and he knew what he was looking for, the pictures. Yeah, yeah. And I had never done a photo shoot like that before. So, you know, it was nice to have someone to make me so comfortable. He had done several before. And, you know, I'd seen the pictures that he had done and they were very peaceful and well done. So that's why I said it would be okay.

And everything turned out just fine. You know, just great. Was there any, let me ask you this. Like, was there any kind of fooling around going on afterwards? Like, or were you... Afterwards, yeah. That's what I would assume. Like, because I'm thinking, like, if you met on that site, right, and, like, you guys go together, there's, you know, there's, maybe that's like foreplay, right?

Your little photo shoot, right? And then, you know, you're sort of doing the stuff and he is, and I'm wondering if you were getting turned on. And I guess you were, and he was getting turned on. And so then who makes the first move afterwards? Um, at the very end of the session when I still had the handcuffs on and he kind of started. And, you know, it's a lot of times it's talked about beforehand, whether you are, you aren't, or, you know, if you say, okay, this is just a photo shoot, you know, nothing else. Guys usually respect that. Right.

Usually respect that. So, and I didn't say no beforehand, you know, I didn't say, okay, this is just a photo shoot, no sex. Right. So there's kind of like an unspoken thing. That's what I would think, right? Like both of you kind of know if you or him don't say specifically, hey, listen, I only want pictures. Then you're both sort of leaving it open to you want more. Like that's kind of unspoken, but you know that because you're on a site where people are looking to hook up, right?

You didn't like find him on a, you know, on a photograph, like, you know, looking for a photographer. So you both knew that you were into it. And we both knew it. We had, you know, we met outside my house beforehand. We met, I think, at a bar and had like one drink or something. And then, you know, as long as I felt comfortable, you know, taking them back to my house. And I, which I did. So, you know, I talked to them, you know, over the site beforehand.

And it's easy to get a read on people because they have a page. They have a list of everything that they're into. You can tell if they're into, like, you know, stuff that's way beyond what you're into. Right. you know, it's easier, it's easier read people on a lot of these sites. Yeah, no, and I would be a little, like, I think to myself, like, oh, like, that would be maybe a little scary if someone's putting handcuffs on you because now at this point, you don't know who this person is, right?

You have a total stranger in your house, and now he's handcuffed you. But I'm, you know, I'm thinking you have good, like, you know, you met this person and you just knew straight up he was an okay guy, right? Like, and you didn't have, like, that sort of instinct that something. might go wrong. You know, because at that point, he could have killed you. He could have. And that's the thing, too, is I get, and a lot of people don't know this part of my life.

Right. I live a complete double life, and a lot of people do when it comes to this kind of stuff. Totally. I do live a complete double life. But it's easier for me, in my job, you know, part of my job is asking questions, and I know how to ask the questions to get the answer that I'm looking for, even if they don't know it. Right. I hear you. And the other, yeah, and that's one thing. And the other thing is instinct. You know, if I walked into the bar, I took one look at him and said, I don't know about this. It's an automatic no.

You know, I don't feel bad turning around and walking away. Right. No, I totally understand. I feel like I would have, I would know whether or not I could trust somebody. And, you know, especially if you met him outside and then you talked to the bar and you were talking online, like I think that we do have instincts. People, you know, and if you're pretty clear-headed and you have a good head on your stuff. shoulder. Like you said, you know, in your job, you, you ask questions and you know that you could trust yourself. You know, you trusted yourself. You trusted this person. And it all went well, obviously, because you guys pulled around after. Yeah, and I have Mace hidden all throughout my house. Just thinking. You what? I do take, I have Mace hidden alter all throughout my house. Oh, you do? Right, because you could never, so this is like a, all this stuff is like a total secret, right, that you do like, you're never, like, are there any friends in your life that you're like, hey, listen, I got this. photographer coming over and I just want you to know in case anything goes right or like is this

totally secret like not even one person knows? You know a lot of my guy friends know about it and two of my girlfriends know about it. Right. That's cool. But yeah, you know, and they're the single ones. You know, a lot of my friends have, you know, they're married and just kids and whatnot. So, and that's kind of part of the reason I got into this is because they're all at home with their families and I'm single and, you know, what am I going to do? I don't, I'm not a big bar person. I don't go out to the bars very often. So I was sitting at home and, you know, it actually started because I was on, um, on holiday breaks from work and I was, I was really bored and I was just going through, you know, some, you know, I started with that life and then I started hearing about, you know,

AFS after that and, you know, I don't even know how I started on Craigslist. And I got to be honest to you, some of the coolest guys that I have met have been on Craigslist. On Craigslist? Yeah, on Craigslist. Oh, so you have. have done. What is your ad? What ad do you put out on Craigslist? What do you, I've never put an ad. You answer there. And what kind of ads did you answer? I'm assuming. So from that situation, first you got into like the photography, right? And then what other kinds of stuff have you gone into from there?

You mean like kind of fetish-wise? Yeah, yeah. Like what you went to when you, like, what are the stuff that you look for on Craigslist? And what are all the different things that you've experienced? It's like, because you've, you've, sort of. sort of done a lot of different things. I prefer not to know anything about my callers before because then I just have to ask a million questions. So I don't know much except for the fact that you've sort of been on these websites and you've done it all, right? So, you know, what my listeners probably want to know is like what are those things? Like what, you know, after the, you know, dipping your toe in the water and doing the

photo shoots, what other stuff did you get into? And what kind of adds would you answer on Craigslist? It's kind of funny because I could answer those questions in the way. about 400 different ways. Right. The Craxless ads, I would start with the ones that say, I have no expectations. You know, I don't like the ones who say, I want to come over and I want to have sex and then I want to leave.

Right. I don't like having sex with somebody when I don't know what they like and what they don't like because then it's just uncomfortable and like, how do you ask? If you say I want to do this, are they going to get freaked out? Like, I like to have all that stuff kind of out of the way beforehand. And, you know, and I'm also a girl. So I do like to get to know someone a little bit before I sleep with them. Right.

So I would never answer the ones that straight up would ask for a blowjob or a handjob or sex. I would answer the ones that sounded more sincere, you know, hey, I'm bored tonight. Is there anybody up? You know, do want to hang out? If anything happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Because that way I don't feel like, you know, if I go to hang out with somebody, oh, well, they expect me to come over for sex, but I met them and I don't want to have sex and then I'm going to

hurt their feelings. or this is that. See, this is good for people who are listening, right? All these guys that are going on Craigslist and are never getting any action. Like this is like interesting information, you know, for a guy to be listened to. If he's smart, right, he'll hear what you're saying and be like, oh, this is what girls want. You know what I mean? Because a lot of times I think that they just think women are like men, so they just write what they think a man would, like, you know,

but they don't understand that that's what a man would respond to, not a woman, right? You're like, I'm a girl. And the guys who put the ads up that say, hey, you want to meet me in the Burger King parking lot for a blow job? Have they ever had anybody answer that ad? No, just guys. Just guys, because that's a guy would do that. I'm telling you. And that's why they say, only guys answer my ads.

Like, a lot of the guys, I've only had, like, gay guys answer my ads. I'm like, well, look at what you wrote. Of course. Right, right. So all you guys that want to go on Craigslist or wherever it is, whether it's adult friend finders or Craigslist, or even Tinder. Like this is, you have to do,

you have to make the woman feel comfortable. Women do like sex. Women can have sex with men that they don't fucking like, right? Like women could do that, but you just have to sort of do it in the way that a woman will respond.

Right. So you would add. He's in sort of way. Don't just punch him in the face with, hey, give me a blow job kind of thing. Right, right. Packed them a little bit, finesse him a little bit.

Right. And it's not like you went over to their house, these people and you fuck them and then you're like a leech ball to them right? Like you're not looking for a relationship. You were just looking for sex too with these people right or maybe friendship or whatever but it wasn't like you were trying to trick them into anything

but you just need a little more right. You know and I can't speak for other women you know anything I say I really can't speak for everybody but you know and there are times where I do meet someone and I think they're really cool and look I'm not going to shut down the chance for a relationship but it's not what I'm looking for.

It's definitely not what I'm looking for. If a cone's a along, then great. But I'm not answering the Craigslist ad to, you know, looking for someone to marry. And I do get that sometimes with guys where, you know, if I do hang out with them and we do have sex, hey, I had a really good time. You know, it's not that I want to marry you or, you know, be your girlfriend, but I do want to hang out again.

And some of them get a little freaked out. Like, they think that I'm going to get kind of clinging. And I'm like, I met you on Craigslist. Like, I'm not going to go on Craigslist to meet a guy. Right. I want to marry. Like I just thought you were cool to hang out with and I'd like to hang out again, you know? Right.

And you're clearly, don't you want to have sex again? Listen. And I'm like, I don't know. I don't know about this. And it's just like, really? Come on. And then I just give up. Please.

Listen, if they listen to, like, if they got your backstory like I did, I mean, you're clearly a woman that if you wanted to be in a relationship, you could have been in another relationship. I mean, you know, you know how to attract that into your life. You've gone from one relationship to another or like it. You know, I think that. So if you're single now, because I'm, it's what you want, you know?

And like probably when you want to have a relationship, but you probably won't meet them on Craigslist. Like you'll get another relationship if that time ever comes, you know? But, you know, you're not on, like you say, you're not on there. Like guys are just freaked out because they think all girls are like one way. When they just don't realize that a lot of guys just don't really understand women, they don't know how to play women to get what they want. You know, I know that women want to fuck guys and could fuck guys like, you know,

that they don't like, I tell a lot of my. my guy friends like half the time they're trying they're playing a girl and they're being too nice you know I'm just like listen if you're and you're and they never want to date them but they're trying to sleep with them I'm like you're playing them the wrong way because if you act like a nice guy the boyfriend guy then she thinks you're she wants you as a boyfriend then she's not going to fuck you because she wants you as her boyfriend right you know like you act like an asshole she's gonna be like oh he's a douche I never want to date him but maybe I'll fuck them like that's what I believe that's what the girls that I know are like that's the way I am right like if you're like oh

This guy's not so great, but I'll sleep with him because he's hot. Yeah, that's a perfect way to put it because the guys that do, like, you know, they act really nice and like stuff because they want to sleep with you and then they sleep with you and then they act like a dick. And then it's just like, well, why did you have to do that? Like, why did you act? You act nice. And then turn around and act like a dick. And a lot of times when I first meet the guy, I'm like, look, this is who I am. This is what I do.

This is what I'm looking for. You know, if we have sex, to me, it's, I don't owe them anything and they don't owe me anything. unless we've met in person at least twice. Right. Okay. If we haven't met in person, I don't know you anything. If we met in person once and, you know, we had sex once and didn't call you back, well, then you probably felt that you had a reason not to call me back and that's fine.

Right. If you call me back and we met again and then you decided to, like, be a douche or whatever, then I have a problem. Right. Then it's more of like, okay, somehow it's, you know, it's a form of leading. on without, it's just being a dick, really. Yeah, but I just think a lot of guys don't get laid that way because

they're trying to play girls and it's like all wrong. Like, it's like some girls will just sleep with you. A lot of girls will just sleep with you. You don't have to put that out there. Just be honest. And I think then a girl knows what she's dealing with and then she can make decision. Maybe I'll just fuck you and that's it because you're not not, there's no future here.

But sometimes when a girl thinks that there's a future she plays those games just like the guys playing the games, you know? Because she's like, oh, I can't sleep with them because I want to date him. Like, whatever. And it's just like, it's just the wrong way to play it. But anyway.

Yeah. And it's funny because that's all new to me because I never had to do any of that game playing and stuff like that. So, you know, when I started this whole thing that when the game playing comes about, I don't know what to do with it. Right. Like, what is this? Like, what do you mean? Wait two hours until I text back.

Like, what is, what does that mean? Isn't it so annoying? Right. Oh, I don't get it and I don't do it and I don't deal with it, which is why I do what I do. Right. But look, but you had tons of relationships and you never had to pull. play games to have those relationships, right? You didn't have to pretend like you didn't like somebody to have a relationship and you had tons

of relationships with a lot of guys. It's like that's not really the way it works. That's like all dating bullshit. But anyway, so that's the Craigslist. What other stuff did you get into on that? What is it? Fet Life. What is that website?

I met my first married couple on set life. And that was your first threesome? That was my first threesome. It was a married couple. And I think they had just gotten, they had just joined the site and that. I think they had sent me a message, and I sent them something back right away, because it was something that I thought about doing and was interested in doing it just ever, because I'd always been in a relationship, and everyone said, you know, unless you're really comfortable with it,

don't do it because there's jealousy, and there's a lot of aftermath that can blow up in your face, and I didn't want to deal with that. So, you know, one night of having a good time, months worth of just bullshit, I didn't want to do any of that. So, you know, now that I was finally single and I could be the one who wasn't in the relationship in the pre-sum. I was all, I was dumbed hope for it. And it actually went really, really well.

And the thing that I really liked about it, like I said, was they were so honest with each other. You know, we had met in person once, I think. Maybe we hadn't even met in person. But the husband would text me, you know, and just be like, oh, I'm at work and I'm bored. What are you doing? I was a little kind of uncomfortable with it. I didn't know what to think about it. And then when I went to their house one night and she, you know, an offhanded

comment, oh, yeah, all of the texts that you guys send back and forth to each other go to my iPad. So, which I didn't know. I was like, oh, if you read them all, she's like, oh, yeah, I know everything that you're saying. Like, you know, she wasn't even bothered by it. Right. You know, that's the agreement that they had and it works for them. And then after that, I was like, well, then that's great. What do you guys want to do?

Right, totally. And that was, all that texting was done before you guys had ever slept together? Yes. Right. And now, had you ever been with women before, or was this going to be your first time? I had been with one a long time ago. It was right after my husband and I had split up. Right.

And that was your first experience and your last experience before this one. Yes. And so you answered their out and you met them once? Like out, like how did that first meeting go? And like, what did you? Actually, the first meeting they came to my house. And we just kind of hung out for a little bit. And then, I mean, you know, they didn't want to wait around very long.

So they initiated everything. And they knew it was my first, you know, basically my first time. And they were really great about it. And, I mean, I had a blast. It was everything that I probably had hoped for. And how old were they? And were they, like, really hot, like, as a couple? Like, what was their deal?

Well, she was bisexual. So it was kind of like, not like they were fighting over me, but it was more like, oh, it's my turn. It's my turn. turn it's my turn and it was just nice to have all that attention on me right totally i can imagine two people like just yeah they were more into you than they were into each other what was that that's where my girlliness comes in where it's like yeah you know sometimes girls do love that attention and to have both a girl and a guy have all their attention on you right it was great and then you know when i was kind of worn out and then they started the two of them and then you know i asked you want me to

leave and they said you can leave if you want you can stay and you know i'm thirsty you and got water so you left or you got water but they're in your house right like you guys are in your house and they're like screwing in your room yeah and that was fine and then um yeah and then i went just probably like two weeks later and went back and went to their house right and we all went out it was i think it was Halloween um so we went out for Halloween and then walked back to their house and did again and it's great Yeah, that's great. And how, did that relationship keep, do they live close to you or did they live in your neighborhood?

Like, were they around? Like, why would? No, they live about, they live about an hour away. I live in kind of a small town. There's a bigger town about an hour away and then there's a major, major city an hour past that. Right. So I don't like, I grew up in this town. I haven't lived here my whole life, but I did grow up here and graduated high school from here.

A lot of people in this town that I know, which is why I keep it full secret. Uh-huh. It really, it doesn't bother me that people know. It's the reaction that I get from people. Right. And the judgment and, you know, the small, small mindiness that I get from people. Right. Like, I think you have a shit who knew what I did.

Right. But I don't like the judgment that I get from people. So I keep it quiet here. You know, I go to the major city a lot. My best friend lives there. So I always, you know, have a place to say. And he's like the male me. Right.

Yeah, he's gay and he's the male me. And like, we just, I'll go. down there sometimes we won't even see each other. We'll just be hopping around, you know, going to wherever and sometimes, you know, we'll meet at like 1 o'clock in the morning and hang out after we've done what we're doing. Right, hooking up with people.

I mean, of course, like, so he, right, so he knows what you do and you could be totally open with him. So that second time with the couple was the last time with the couple. Like, how come you didn't keep seeing them? Was it just like you found something else to do or like, what's the deal with that? It was, well, by then, because that was,

they were kind of like the first people that I had met post-relationship and, you know, at the beginning of this whole, you know, discovering all these internet sites thing. They were one of the first couple of people that I met. And as time went on, it was, there was a point where I was so overwhelmed that I, like, opened up a side account just so I could go online and not be bothered. Oh my God. That is so funny. You had just so much action on that site that you were just like, so what would you,

why would you want to go on and not be bothered just to, like look around and be like a voyeur on the site you mean? Yeah, just to look around and not have like constant messages coming in or like IAMs coming in and you know, maybe just kind of talk to people. When I would talk to people on my side account, I right away would say like, this is my site account, this is who, this is my actual account, this is my screen name on there. And just so you know, like I'm not, you know. Right.

I'm just kind of heightened out a little bit. What happened was I put a video on there and it went trending. Uh-huh. What was the video? But it went viral on the website? Yeah, it went trending. And I was like, what does it said? A video there was going to say, I'm trending.

And I was like, trending, what does that mean? And I logged on and, like, I swear to God, I had messages from countries I'd never heard of before. Oh, my God, hilarious. What the hell kind of video did you put up? Like, what was the video up? It was the first time I'd ever squirted. And so I grabbed my cell phone and took a video of it. How did you get yourself?

How did you get yourself to squirt for the first time in your life? That's like my goal in life. I've never been able to do it. How did it happen for you? You did it yourself? No, I didn't do it myself. It was a guy I met on Craigslist. Oh, really?

Yep. And did you answer now that this guy's going to make you squirt, or that just happened? This was just a regular ad of Craigslist, like, look at it and kind of hook up, and then you guys hooked up, and then he made you squirt? Yeah. Let's see. I answered his ad on Craigslist. He was the only local person.

Like maybe one or, I've only had one or two, maybe three local people that I've met off these sites. And he was the first one. And, you know, he walked in and within five minutes, we knew at least 15 people we knew a comment. Oh, my God. All right. Yeah. So he was kind of like, don't tell anybody. And I was kind of like, yeah, as long as you don't tell anybody.

Right. Uh-huh. Yeah. And he, I had never, I had never done it before. So when he knew what he was doing, but he didn't tell me. Right. Which was fine. But when it happened, I couldn't believe it.

I was like, oh, my God. My first thought was I have to get a video of this. Right. And, you know, and I posted it not really knowing how many people were going to watch it, especially after it went timing. And I was like, whatever, it's just a, you know, 20-second video. My face isn't in it. His face is a minute.

It's not a big deal. Until somebody messaged me once and was like, oh, my computer is hooked up to my 60-inch television, and I'm watching it on that. That's when I was like, oh, my God, how many other people are watching me do that on a 60-inch television? Apple TV. That's what I do. Apple TV, I know, right? Technology today. Yeah, but like, listen, like, I mean, you know, that's what, if you're on that website, right,

and you're putting that up there, right? Like, that must have been kind of a turn on on some level, right? Because you kind of want, like, that's a little bit of an exhibitionist in you, right, that you want other people to see that video, right? Well, I mean, I guess I wanted other people to see it, which was fine. And a lot of people had seen it in, like, in my state, in my area. And I don't know these people in these other countries or whatever, but I was just like, so many people saw it. I mean, just the number of, I can't remember the number of hits that ad, but I mean, I was getting up to 100 emails a day.

Oh, my God, hilarious. Now, do you have real face pictures on your, on your, like in your ad? Or do you have just body shots? I just have body shots and they're not naked body shots. I actually met another photographer. He had a vacation house. in my hometown where I live. He lived in the major city, and he,

we had message back and forth, and he said that, you know, he had a cabin here, and so he was going to be passing through. And he's like, I just got this to camera. And I was like, oh, you're a photographer. I just got a new outfit. Like, will you take pictures of me? And he was like, yeah, sure. So what I do, I just crop my face out of all of them.

And so, you know, with the guys and the dick picks, that's a whole other issue. I don't even know if I want to get started on that. But, you know, you can put pictures on there. that are nice to look at and not, you know, sort of dick or your vagina being spread open by your fingers and just, you know, kind of not attractive ones, you know. And he did a very good job. And, you know, he used my memory card and then gave it to me immediately after and said you can send me whatever pictures that you want.

So that was a different photographer. So you definitely like the picture thing, right? You like to get, like, guys to come over or whatever and dress up in your outfit. and have people take pictures and then you get turned on by that and you then fool around with the guy, right? Yep. Yeah, that's like a hot fantasy. Yeah, even if it's with my cell phone, you know, I always, I was, I actually am meeting

somebody tomorrow and I said, do you want me to bring an outfit? I said, do you want like sexy, slutty or flirty? And he said, he said, I don't know, you decide. I go, I've got like 20 outfits, like, don't make me decide. And then I'm like, well, pretty much all of them could fit in my purse, so I'll just bring all of them. All right. That's so funny, right?

They're tiny little mini things. So guys must love you because guys are very visual, right? And when, you know, I know I've dated guys who are just like, oh, my God, send me pictures, send me videos, send me, blah, blah, blah, you know. And it's just like it's like you want to look good in those pictures. It takes a lot of work. So it's just like you have a whole, you have like, I guess, tons of pictures that you could send people on since you like to do it.

Oh, yeah, I have folders on my computer of pictures that I can send people. Right. So guys must. But that's the thing. And then they ask for wanting you send it. And then they ask for like, you know, a million of them. But and none of them are of me nude. There's not one picture of me like nude.

Right, right, right. It's just top list or bottomless, you know, I have something on in all of them. And guys love them. Right, right. Totally I'm sure because I'm sure they're like hot in it, that there's something hotter about that in a different way. You know, I mean, there's something hot about naked pictures. There's something hot about not naked pictures.

You know, you can make any picture hot if you know what's sexy, right? And you love sex. you're very open-minded, so I'm sure you know what you're doing with those picks, right? So after that couple, like what other, like, I'm assuming you had other couples? Like, what are like other things that you've gone into? I only had one other couple, and it was a really strange dynamic. They lived three hours apart. I think it was a Craigslist ad.

She had, I think, once been with a woman and wanted to be with another one. And he was, I guess her birthday was coming up or something. And like I said, the ad was very well written. And I was immediately drawn to them as a couple. And, you know, he kind of gave a little background of how they were and who they were. You know, I messaged him, and he messaged me right back. And then we actually Skyped, me and him Skype, just to kind of talk. And, you know, we had some things in common.

And so then he told her about it. And then she sent me an email because she lived near my hometown. He was three hours away. So we actually met for coffee And I was like You know if you say no Then please just say no Like don't sugarcoat it

I mean I won't be offended You know if someone says no There's someone right behind him That's going to say yes Right It's not a big deal You know not everyone is everyone else's cup of tea That's fine

I understand that And she right away was like no You're great you want to go Like that's yeah let's do this So he couldn't get away So she ended up coming to my house house one night and then he Skyped in and watched us. Oh, interesting.

Yeah, she was so, such a sexual person that she basically, you know, was addicted to sex and couldn't live without sex, but him being three hours away. So, you know, he wasn't going to deny her. So he said, you know, you can do whatever you want. But she would be really unsafe about it, you know, answering any sort of Craig's dad and, like, meeting guys in unsafe situations and that kind of thing. And so what he wanted, he's like, I was, this is what I was looking for and I honestly didn't think I would ever find it.

And the fact that you were like one of the first people that answered this ad and you're exactly what I was looking for. It just blows my mind. Right. Because he wanted somebody, because she was also interested in females, he wanted somebody that could, she could kind of fool around with and, you know, have sex with, but also be out on the town with with nobody suspecting anything. But behind closed doors could kind of do whatever she wanted. But so then, you know, she would have someone, but she wouldn't be doing these unsafe things and meeting, you know, guys and parking lots and whatnot. And I, and I knew the exact situation that they were in and what they wanted. And it, I didn't offend me at all. I was like, no, that sounds great. Yeah, right? That was perfect for you because you were interested in women, too. I mean, you were open to all kinds of stuff, right? She was really into sex. So she always wanted to have it. So, and he would Skype in when you would be, were you only with her once? Or were you? Were you only with her once? Or were you? with her multiple times? A couple times because she was a student and she was an accelerated program so it was really

hard for her to get time away and she was actually about 45 minutes, half an hour, 45 minutes away. Right. So it was difficult for us to get together because I worked two jobs. And she had two kids and I have one. So it was logistically the best situation. But when we did get together, we had a great time and it was unfortunate that we couldn't spend more time together.

But I'm sorry. What was the question? No, that was a... No, no, no. I just wanted to know if you kept that relationship going, like, because, you know, she was, like, sort of there and her boyfriend was far away, like how many times you were with her?

There was only really, I think, other than, there was two times, and then there was the one time where she was actually here. Oh, and you did a three-sim with them, or did he just watch? Well, that's what was interesting was that, you know, he came from three hours one way, and she came from the half hour or the other way,

so my place was kind of in the middle. And so we all were meeting at the same time and I was getting off work. And, you know, I walked in and she was standing in my dining room wearing nothing but a hot pink strap on, which was just hilarious. I loved it. Right. And he was just standing there like watching my reaction. You know, and he was, he's so in love with her that he didn't want to be with any other women. Right.

Even though that she had given him permission, he said, no, I just, you know, I love you and I want to be with you. And I told you you can do whatever you want. And that's, I'm fine with that. So I'll just sit back and watch. You love to sit back and watch. So he actually videotaped the whole thing. Right. And so he was actually, like, she had to go back because she had to go to school.

He was going to drive home, but I think there was something like, if something happened, it was either weather-wise or truck-wise or something happened, where he ended up having to stay at my house that night. Uh-huh. And it was so funny because he took me out to dinner, and then we went back to my house and we watched a movie and we cuddled on the couch and he was left in the same bed and it was like being in it was almost it was so relationship like but there was absolutely no sex or anything right interesting yeah let me ask you this

after he saw her fucky with a strap on right like was he jerking off when he was watching did he screw her afterwards like how did he get off after that because like did he um after it you know I'm surprised you held on for as long as he did because I watched the videos you were really hot So he finally was like, okay, like I need my turn. And I said, do you want me to stay or do you want me to go? And he was like, and I was like, if you say go, like, please, you know, they know that I'm not offended by anything they say or do or whatnot. And he was like, no, I just want to be with her. I said, that's great.

I got to go put some laundry in. Right. Went downstairs and good laundry and they finished up. And then, you know, and she had to leave. And so then he stayed over your house. Did it make any passes at you nothing? How old was he? three or four years younger than me, I think.

Right. Early 30s. Right. And were they together for a long time? She was actually married. I had a girlfriend who had a boyfriend and a husband. Oh, my God. So wait, and he knew, so she had a husband, a boyfriend, and you on the side.

So that boyfriend knew she was married, I'm assuming? Yes. The husband didn't know any of this. Oh, I would love to get her on the show. Oh, my God. Oh, my gosh. Oh, she would love it, by the way. I'll see what I can do.

Right. Yeah, she had gotten, you know, she had lost his virginity to him and gotten pregnant at 17. And so they got married at 18 and they had three, two kids together and, you know, had been married for, what, almost between 10 and 15 years, I think it was. Right. And he basically, he had caught her cheating a couple years prior and kind of had her in a prison. you know, she couldn't go anywhere she couldn't do anything. But when she went back to school, he kind of, like, gave her a little bit of a leash to go and, you know, to go to school and not have to explain where she was every second of every day.

And, you know, then she felt the freedom and then she decided she just wanted to do it. They're in the middle of divorce now. So I did feel bad about that. I do, you know, there's married guys that I have been with. And, you know, I try not to think of the other person's side. Right. I'm not doing anything wrong. No, it's that.

It's not their thing. They're going to do it with somebody else. No, that's not your thing, you know. So, so she had a husband. She had a boyfriend, and he knew about the husband, and he knew about you, and he was fine. And I find it interesting that he wouldn't fuck you or didn't want to be, especially because his girl, which was her, lived three hours away.

So he was probably not getting, you know, he wasn't getting action all the time. Like, where was he getting late? Like, he had a weird sex drive for a man. I don't know. He had just gotten a divorce, and I think it wasn't the greatest divorce. So I think he was kind of okay with, like, taking a break from women. Having somebody who he knew wasn't crazy and, you know, being in a relationship and, you know, not having to deal with the dating and the problem. Right, right, right, right.

Exactly. The long distance, all of that just, like, totally work room. Probably the cuddling with you and doing nothing probably work, too. He just didn't want any, he didn't want any kind of headache. Yeah, and I think he was from a small. town also so I can kind of see where he's coming from I mean you know going just going through a divorce and then anybody you sleep with is going to you know the ex-wife is going to find out about it because people talk they have nothing better to do in small towns oh yeah everyone knows everything

what about two guys did you ever do two guys at once I have not and I really want to and I have wanted to but my standards for that are really specific and I did find it once and then it fell through at the last minute and I was really disappointed I don't think he'll ever find it again but I But what are your standards? What do you mean? Like when you say your standards are so high or too high or very high for that? I wouldn't say standards. It's more like my expectations.

I want somebody that I've been with before and feel comfortable with. But it's not somebody who lives in my town or that I see every day or, you know, have an ongoing sort of, you know, relationship with. Right. So it's somebody that I'm comfortable with and that I know. And then they have somebody that they know and feel comfortable with enough to do it. Oh, you want them to know. Really good looking. Oh, yeah. Okay. Yeah. It is kind of hard what you're looking for. Right. You want the both guys to know. Like if you were going to bring,

if you had the one guy you knew, right, and then you guys would bring in another guy who was a stranger, that would be fine. That would be probably a no problem. But I think it's the having the guy have the other friend. Have you, are you? Yeah. Yeah. Go on. I just think I'd rather have the guy be comfortable, you know, over, I don't know, you know, because I've never done it. So I've never, I don't know what the dynamic between the two guys is in a situation like that. So as long as they, you know, even if they've done it together before, that would be great too. So as long as there's no weirdness between them because, you know, it's palpable. You can feel that weirdness and then it makes it uncomfortable.

And then you're just like, well, what am I even doing here? Yeah. Well, now, where's your kid when all this goes down? Is your kid older and in school at certain times or does your kid not live with you? I have her half the time. Oh, half the time. Okay, so you can work around. That's my double life.

Yeah, half a time I'm, you know, a PTA mom and work for, my work, I'm with the community a lot. So I work with a lot of people in the community and a lot of important people in the community. And then when I don't have her, I'm off to, you know, two hours away where I'm running around town, you know, sleeping with three guys in one night. Actually, my record's five, but that's it. Five guys in one night? 24 hours, actually, is what it was. Interesting. Well, it wasn't five guys.

it was one girl and four guys. So it was, and how did that all get hooked up? Did you know that that was happening? Or did you have like two sit up and then three more came around? Like, what was that 24-hour period? I had, an ex-boyfriend was in town. And he said he was fly out early in the morning and he was at a hotel by the airport. So he's like, you want to come down and, you know, hang out for the night.

And I got to leave here. at my, you can just flight left at like 7 a.m. or something. It's like, you know, you can stay in the hotel and just check out or, but not. And so I said, sure. And I was actually really excited to see him. And I got almost all the way down there. And he, you know, he calls me and he's like, oh, there's somebody else meeting us. And sorry, I got really excited thinking it was a three-sum with another guy, but it was

with another girl. Uh-huh. But I was kind of upset about because he sprung it on me, like probably about 15 minutes before I got there where he had all day to have said something. Right. And he's like, I thought, I thought you'd be into it. And I'm like, well, you know, I was expecting it just to be me and you know, and I was looking forward to that. And now you sprung this whole new dynamic on me.

And I don't know this person. I don't know who they are or, you know, what they do. Like I said, I like to know people beforehand. Right. He stood down for 10 minutes and doing a little bit of information. So I was kind of upset with him that he sprung it on me. And then, you know, I did end up having a good time, but I was still kind of upset about it. So, but he did leave at, like, 5 a.m.

And then one of the guys that, you know, he was going to. I had met on track list. I had been talking to him the day before, and he was like, oh, so he leaves at 5 a.m. How about I get there at 6 a.m.? I said, great, do it. So he drove down because he's on the opposite side. So a lot of times we meet there. So he met me there, and then we went to the sex shop and got a bunch of clothes and went back

and took pictures, and then he had to go back, you know, to his life. So he left. And then I had, there was another guy that I had met off that life. gotten a hold of me. I said, well, I'm in a hotel room by the airport. So he came and met me. So there's four right there. Oh, and then the fifth one. Yeah. The fifth one was another, he was actually one of the first guys I met off AFF. And he was married. So he came and met me at the hotel room and then he left. And that's so funny because my friend who lives there, he worked close to the hotel. So he was running in and out, like taking a shower and going to work

and coming back and like waiting to meet someone. And like, so he was in and out all day and like just watching the food vault, like passing these guys in the hallway. Oh my God, hilarious. Did he ever walk in on you doing it with anyone or no? Well, when the one guy was there who met me early in the morning, he was like, do you mind? I just need to come and take a shower because he had been out all night and he had to go to work. Right. So he's like, do you just mind if I come in and take a shower?

And I'm like, no, I don't mind it out. He's like, well, I don't want to interrupt you. And I was like, no, this guy's really cool. don't worry about it. So the guy came and we were, you know, we actually got along really well when I had met him on Craigslist and he came to my house because he was at a cabin here with a bunch of guys and, you know, I posted ad like, look, I'm just driving around. I'm sick of being, you know, I've been in this cabin with these guys for like four days.

I just need someone else to talk to. Right. And, you know, like I said, those are the kind of ads that I answered. So he actually, you know, I answered it and came over and we talked for three hours because we did so much in common that we didn't. you can get around to doing anything and then, well, I'm going to be good the next day. Right. Yeah.

So he came and, you know, and my friend knocks on the door. He's like, is it okay? Okay, I just need to take a shower. And I was like, oh, that's okay. You won't bother us. You know, we're so kind of, I've known this guy since I was 18 years old. And we've been friends for, you know, that long. So I, you know, he got out of the shower and we were going at it.

He's just like, okay, I'll see you guys later. And we're all like, okay, bye. Okay, see you later. Because that was the guy that you had fooled around with before earlier anyway. Yeah, I had already known him. Right, right. So that was it. So five is your record, but there's, I'm assuming, since you only have 50% of the time to do this and it's your, it's one you're with your friend and you're two hours away from home that, you know, a lot of times you have to cram a lot of guys into one night, right?

So there's probably a lot of nights that you have more than one guy at night or more than one girl, whatever. Necessarily because, you know, like I said, I live in a small town and a lot of times, you know, I get off work and I, I, don't, there's so many nights, I'm just like, God, I wish I had a local, but the one, you know, local I did have, I can know that he had a girlfriend. So when his girlfriend found out, I found out because I started getting text messages calling me a homewrecker, and I said, who the hell is this? I had no idea. Right. She, she worked in the same profession as me. Mm-hmm. In, I had two jobs, and she worked in one of the same professions, one of my jobs.

So we had a lot of people in common, and I didn't, I assumed she didn't know exactly who I was, because if she did, all hell would have broken news because everybody would have found out about it and that's why after that I'm like if she would have known who I was there was no question that everybody in this business in this town would know exactly what happened right so that scared me off from being with anybody locally right so you don't have anyone local I don't have anybody local I did for a while someone who worked out of town often but would be in town for like a week or or two at a time. And for that week or two at a time,

we would spend, you know, hanging out or whatever it is, you know, doing whatever. But that was few and far between. But yeah, so if I do want it, I have to travel for it. And sometimes I just don't feel like driving that far. Do you find that a lot of these guys

that you're meeting online are married or have significant others, like whether it's a long-term girlfriend or whatever? And that's what they're just looking for on the side. And that's why it works for the both of you because you're not looking for a relationship either? Other than the couples, I think there's only been two that were married. Right.

And both of them, when the one guy came over, the one who was just driving around looking for a place to hang out, he came over and he sat on the couch and we were just chatting and I made a comment something about, I just assumed they're all married anyway. He's like, oh, you got, you saw the ring. And I was like, oh, actually I didn't, but you are married. And he's like, oh, yeah, you know, he goes, I would, you know, and I'll never take this ring on. And so I was saying something about having the wedding ring on when you're cheating on your life or something. And he goes, I would never take this off.

I would never, I would never do that. He loved his wife. He loved his wife. Right. Both of them loved their wives, but they just didn't either their wives didn't do, you know, or weirded it out by the things they wanted to or didn't do, didn't have sex at all. One of them, the only time they had sex was the one time of year they went on vacation. Right. And the other one, I would do the things that his wife wouldn't.

Right. Exactly. No, I think that that happens a lot of the times because, you know, but they don't want to, they're not looking to have another relationship with someone. It's just strictly about sex. They're just looking to get their rocks off someplace else, but they just want to keep their relationship together, you know, in their real life, supposedly, you know, whatever. You know, and those are the ones that I get along with the most because I feel the most

comfortable because there aren't those expectations. Like, I'm not going to tell anybody to go cheat on your wife or anything. I'm not that kind, you know, I'm going to do that. but it is the easiest. I'll be honest, the easiest to be with the guys who are married because, you know, they kind of know

how to treat a woman a little bit better and not be so, like, crass or demanding or, you know, they're more understanding, I guess, the way than I'm looking for. And, you know, you go your separate ways when you're done. Exactly.

And there's no, you don't have to worry with the games, yeah. Yeah. If I get a text from on it, I know exactly what it's for It's a where and when, you know? Right. Are you in town?

Are you here? Are you there? I know exactly what it's for. I know exactly what you expect. And I know that I'm going to have a good time. Right. And what else have you done? Like, what's the most hardcore thing that you've done now that you're sort of, you know, having all these experiences?

Like, how far have you taken it? Are you ready yet for that gang bang that you're... No. I am not. there was a situation where I almost, I wouldn't say, I was hired to help out at a party. Like a swingers party? Well, it wasn't, no, a bunch of guys.

And they said you could be as mild or as wild as you want, where it was kind of like, you know, if I wanted to have sex with each one of them I could have or if I didn't want, you know, if I just wanted to go and do the job that they hired me for. And then... What was the job that they hired you for?

Bartending. Okay. So, you know, and they were like, you know, if you want to... As I said,

you know what? I won't know until I get there and I assess the situation. Right. Then I'll know if, you know, I'm comfortable around...

And I met, I met the guy, you know, at a restaurant beforehand to see... And he wanted to see if I would be a good fit and, of course,

I wanted to feel comfortable around him. How many guys were at this party? Twelve. And what kind of guys were they? Like, were they married guys, regular guys? Were they all friends? Was it a party of, like, people who had met on Craigslist?

No, they were all, they all went to private school together. Interesting. So, they, you know, met once a year for this party or whatever, get together. And, yeah, half of them were married. So, like, half of them were probably going to be, like, what's she doing here? What is this? They're, like, and half of them are single, and we'll be totally for it. Right. But would they get together for like a party where they were going to get laid or were they just getting together for a regular party and this one guy sort of brought somebody in just to service the people that were having fun?

It was some kind of, yeah, it was some kind of sports party. Okay. It wasn't like a Super Bowl party, like something that had to do with sports and not a sport person. So I'm no idea. But yeah. And I was all for it. And like I said to them, like, you know, they said to me, if you don't feel comfortable and then. don't do it. If you feel comfortable, then do it. And I said, oh, it feels the same way. But it turned out that I just, and we message back and forth up until the week beforehand. And I kept saying, you still want me for this? Yes, I do. And then a couple days beforehand, he just sent me a message that said it's canceled. So I don't know if maybe some lives found out or what happened. I did never find out what happened. And I'm disappointed. I was looking forward to it. I wanted to see how far I would go, I think, was why I really wanted to do it. And the guy that I had been talking to,

his brother was going to be there. So I was like, oh, me to get my first three from with two brothers. Like, that's great. So I did want, yeah. So I was really disappointed when it didn't happen. But, you know, other opportunities to come along, I'm sure. Let me ask you this regarding protection. Do you use condoms when you're with these guys? Are you pretty protect? Like, and what about it, even when you blow them? Like, or are you, are you? I use, I use protection during sex. if they don't bring it, then no.

And I've gotten guys be mad at me for that. I was going to say, I know so many guys, nobody likes to fuck with condoms, right? So many people don't fuck with condoms. In the regular world,

I don't know when you're, like, when people are really hooking up hardcore, maybe they're more, you know, protective. So that's what I was going to ask

you, like, if a lot of guys try to push you into doing it without a condom, you know? They don't try and push me.

They get kind of bitchy about it. Right. I've gotten that. guy was like, I don't use condoms because I'm not 24. And I'm like, well, I'm 36 and can still get pregnant, you know. All right. Not just a pregnancy.

Yeah, yeah, exactly. That's so funny that guys, I'm not 15. Well, and it's funny because I am on birth control. So I'm like, you know what? And I'm taking care of the birth control part, which is a lot more expensive than going into a gas station and getting a $5 box of condoms. Yeah, yeah. And like if you can't do that or at least, you know, and especially,

if it's implied that that's that you're going to have sex, then come with condoms. Like, just do it, you know? Do you normally have them on you? I didn't used to. And it also would help me kind of judge who that person was. Right. Where if you're not going to bring condoms and then you're going to, like, be pithy with me because I'm asking you for them, then I don't want to have sex with you anyways.

Right. Turn off. Kind of thing. Right. Yeah, it's a total turnoff. And there was one guy he was in town for business from Colorado. And I had met him at a hotel an hour from where I lived. And, you know, we had been talking for like a month.

And, you know, he had been planning his trip. And he was excited to see me. And he showed up at the hotel room. And he didn't have condoms. And I said, well, no. Then no, either go get him or we're not having sex. Right. And he ended up.

Get him? We ended up not having sex. We fooled around a lot. but we ended up not having sex. Right. Because we didn't have condoms. Right. You know, all that buildup for, sorry.

All you had to do was stop at the gas station, you know. Right, but now you have them on you just in case the guy doesn't. Because I would think it'd be smart for you to have them too, just in case. So if the guy doesn't have it, you know, it's like you have them to, you know. You're just like the guy, you're going there knowing you're going to have sex too. So you should also have them in your bag. Well, and that's what I kind of came to that conclusion after. a while. I just, I don't know if it's, you know, was always instilled in me that it was kind of a

guy's responsibility, which is, like, because, you know, I'm no one who's on birth control, so I'm taking care of that part of it. So you can't take care of, like, the easy part. Like, I just have a condom, right. You know, getting something inflated in me and, like, you can't stop at the gas station on your way here or, like, that's across the street just to get a box on them. Right. But, you know, and after a while, it was just like, whatever, I'll just throw some in my purse. it's not that difficult. Like I said, it's not that difficult.

So why is it? Yeah, especially if you wind up pulling around with them anyway. Because, like, you're going to get to the point where you're, like, so hard and horny and then maybe you really want to have sex with them. So it's just like if they're not, if they're too lazy to go out and get a condom, like if you have them, then at least you can have some fun. Yeah. And sometimes it comes up unexpected.

And it is nice to have to have them when, you know, you're not expecting it. And it does come up. And you're like, oh, shit. And then we've got to go to it. You know. How many guys do that? How many guys do you think now that you've been single for like, how long you've been like doing, like this sort of been out there being like pretty promiscuous and, you know,

and screwing a lot of people on these websites? How long have you, I mean, how many guys do you think and women do you think you fuck this whole time? I kept like, I had an app on my phone for a while. There's an app for that. There's an app for that. Oh my God, hilarious. What's the app? It counts how many sexual parts?

partners you had? I wish I had that app when I was younger. Well, it's kind of like just a calendar and then you put in their name and then, you know, where you were, like where in the house and then you can raid on you can put whether to protection or not. Oh, hilarious. And then you could tell whose baby it is. That what? You could tell whose baby it is.

I'm surprised I haven't seen that on Judge Judy. I'm not going to lie that. That helps. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. That's so hilarious. It is a good way to judge just. just in case it's also a phasing net.

But, yeah, I was, you know, I was looking at it. I could tell what slow months I had and what good months I had. So how many were you up to? Yeah, how many were you up to on that app? You know, I would have to look at it because a lot of them were, you know, multiple. Like, you know, I done, you know, three times, three days in a row. Right. You know, one week I would have done one and then another guy, two days after that.

And then the next week it would be the same guy. And then a different guy. And so I would have to go through and actually look at every day. But do you think it's like 50 or 20 or 100? Like, I mean, you could probably have a lot. I would go with an average of maybe 25, 30. Mm-hmm. I think.

You're just making up for lost time. I am making up for lost time. I'm not going to lie. Yeah. And, you know, and the ones I like, I go back to. And the ones I don't like, I don't. So I do have a lot of repeats because, you know, when you find something, if they don't fix it.

Yeah, and if you meet someone that you have good sex and you, you know, and you're comfortable with them and everything, I think that that's great. You know, you could go with that person for as long as they're interested. And, you know, but what's great about you is that you're still out there looking and you're still really open. And so you're still, and there's still some experiences that you want to try and you're still really into it. Like, you know, this just is beginning for you. So, you know, you know, there's just so many people for you to meet. Yeah, and I, you know, and I look forward to it, and I, you know, like going on these,

it is kind of hard sometimes to meet guys on these sites because, I mean, when it's signed into IAM and like 20 messages pop up immediately and they're either all the same or they're disgusting or it's just like, do you think a girl is going to respond to that? I mean, but I think because of the ratio of guys to girls that there are on these, on a lot of these sites, especially ASF, I think they just try every avenue that they can until they hook someone. Exactly, yeah. Well, I know when I was on their list, like, I would go on IM and then guys would send me

dick picks and send me whatever they were sending me. And then I'd send back a message like, hey, I'm not on here looking to hook up, but I do run a show and I'm looking, you know, and that's what I would do. And then I would get a lot of guys that wanted to engage me because it was probably the first time that somebody like wrote them back. That's what they would pay to me, you know. It was like just somebody talking to them. And of course, a lot of them tried to engage me in their like, because they were.

just like wanting someone to jerk them off, you know? And I never crossed that line, but, you know, I would get people that way because, and they would always tell me across the board, like, yeah, there's never any women on here. You know, it's just dudes. That's why I was like, oh, this woman, I have to have her on my show because you're like, I said, like a unicorn. You're like what people don't think exist, but it does exist. And I think that that's like what's really great and what's interesting for people to hear

is like you're a woman and you're very enthusiastic about it. and you know, and you are like into all kinds of things and you're, you know, it's not like you're that typical girl that's looking for a relationship, but you've had relationships. You've been there, done that. It's not like you're desperate. It's not like you have low self-esteem. You're just like a woman who really like sex and you're going out there and finding it and getting it and having it. And I think that that's great.

And guys need to know that that exists. Well, and I didn't really know a lot about these sites. And I started with the normal dating site. Right. You know, like POS and OKCupid and whatnot. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I was so bored out of my mind. Like, those guys were so boring, especially in my small town.

They all said the same thing. Like, their profiles were the same. You couldn't tell any difference between them. You know, they'd message back and forth and no one had anything interesting to say. Right. So I was like, I just, I got bored. And that's kind of why I moved on to at least something a little, you know, sex is more exciting and then, you know, talking about your dog or whatever.

Yeah. right right because everyone has to play that game but I think a lot of guys on there don't even understand like a lot of guys don't understand that they could be on those other sites and be more direct but I think what the problem is because I tell a lot of the guys that call my my show that are on Craigslist and Adelfrenders I'm like just go on okay cupid or match.com and you could fuck girls there like because regular girls will fuck you like first night like that's just what happens nowadays you know what I mean it's not that hard to find you know because I think that there's just not a lot of women like you out there unfortunately

Yeah, and I did hear that Christian Mingel is the one that's got all the creepy girls because they were all like used to be like that and then they found Jesus or whatever and like, you know, got married and had kids, but they still have it in them. Right. They just don't really know it. So they go on like Christian Mingle to meet, you know, those of good guys. Well, they don't, a lot of guys that I've talked to have been like they are the one, they are the freaky ones. Oh my God. That's hilarious. They try to act like they're good, but behind closed doors, they are not and they want it to come out so bad.

but right they just they're like anybody else they don't realize it until they get there yeah that's great they have imagination they're creative they just you know they like sex and that's what i try to explain to guys like women have all that inside them but i think a lot of women you know feel a little bit nervous or gun shy about sort of expressing that side of them because you know women are so judged by men with the slut word or even before i said the word promiscuous as it and i'm like oh i hope she doesn't think i mean it in a bad word in a bad way No, I don't at all. Like I, you know, and I have one guy that I am

I regularly with, like he loves like, you know, girls who dress slut and he loves calling me a slut and like, you know, and I don't mind it. I'm like, if that's what gets him off, and like after a while I started really liking it, I didn't even realize I'd like, like I call myself a slut all the time. Right, but there is a double standard.

No, but there are a lot of people that do mean it. And that's what I think is unfortunate for women. And that's why I think a lot of women keep this side of them under wraps, you know, because they're afraid that they'll, because maybe they want a relationship. You know, you've had a lot of relationships. That's not what you're looking for. So you don't really care. But like, you know, some girls, if they really want a relationship, they'd be afraid to tell a guy that they're into all that stuff because the guy might be like, okay, you know what?

Like, I'll fuck you. But I'm not taking you home to my parents because guys have that weirdo double standard. You know, it's like the Madonna Horror Complex. And that does exist to a certain extent, you know. and that's why all these poor married guys are like, you know, cheating on their girls and their wives aren't good in bed because, you know, this is like the problem that I just feel like if it was more accepted and there wasn't that whole, you know, women are horrors thing, then it, you know, women would be more open and would be, I think, you know, it would be better for men, but, you know. And I think it's getting a little better. Like, I do read some stuff online. Like, I know there's, I've read some articles like on, I haven't read Cosmo in years because once. Oh my God, it's like a joke. Reading cosmally not single is so, it's hilarious. And then when I became single again, I started, you know, reading some of the articles on their website. And they are really trying to push the, you know, sexual freedom. Finally. That magazine used to be the biggest joke. Like I would just be like, oh my God, I'm going to write an article called blowjobs, not balloons. Because like women, like they would have articles like, oh, like give your like, you know, you see these poor guys walking down the street on Valentine's Day with like, oh, like, balloons and teddy bears their girlfriends gave it to them was like who the fuck told girls to give guys that you know what i mean

it's like it's like cosmo magazine and all these stupid things like i just think it's like so crazy but if you read cosmo in those kind of um same uh magazines in other countries they were talking women how to give blow jobs like 10 years ago like we're just getting up to speed here in america you know we were more like oh yeah give your you know put rose petals on your bed and give him light some candles and give him balloons, you know, I was like, no guy fucking wants that. I don't pick up that magazine. I fucking hate those magazines, but it's good to know that they are starting to be a little bit more progressive for women.

And I don't read them that often, but, you know, I come across them every once. Usually I come across the article and then when I see the article, oh, you know, they're talking about, you know, there's full websites devoted to like, those just go and be a slut and do whatever you want. You know, as long as you're safe about it, who gets a shit? Yeah, that's great. I think everybody should think like that. I hate it here because I want to go out and do that and I can't do it here because everybody gives a shit.

Like I'm just waiting for that time to pass. Yeah, but you know, Molly, the cool thing is that you can't do it there or whatever, but that didn't stop you from doing it at all. Like you are totally doing what you want to do. You figured out a way to make it work. It's not a total secret. You don't feel bad about what you're doing. You have some friends that totally know. You have your gay friend, your best friend who's totally right there with you doing it.

And you're having a great time. You know, you have your kid. You were married. You've had many relationships. And now you're having, you know, you're fun. And it's totally healthy and it's what you want to do. And I think it's like great for people to hear this and other women to know that like you can do those kind of things and, uh, and feel okay about yourself. And it's, and it's fine, you know, like it's a good thing.

I think it's great. Well, yeah. And then I see, you know, a lot of my friends were married and at home with their, you know, little. kids and they're miserable, you know. And it's not that they're miserable because they're married with families. I think it's more of just like they didn't have, they weren't able to really do that, do this kind of stuff because it was really repressed and, you know, people weren't talking about it.

But now the fact that people are talking about it a little bit more, like, I mean, you know, I used to live in California and this kind of thing was so normal out there. And so I lived it. Right. You know, in that sense of, you know, even though I was married, like, we had, you know, friends or a couple friends who were in open relationships. Right, right, right. It wasn't like foreign to you. Right.

Yeah. So it wasn't, it's not strange to me. We're here it's very strange to them. Like, you know, this is a small town and they've never seen it and only on TV or, you know, in the regards of people who do that are considered, you know, a slut in the in the bad sense. Right, right, right. Exactly. You know, I'm used to it where I'm just like, yeah, I. I did that.

So what? That's cool. You want to hear all about it? I'll tell you all about it. And then we're like, no, no, my God, don't see you say that. I'm just like, wait,

what? But you have some friends, and your guy friends are cool, are cool with it. Like, you could tell some of your guy friends know about it and they're cool with it. Yeah, yeah. And a lot of my guy friends are just like,

I don't look at you that way. Like, you are my friend, you know, and even here, like, I have a lot of guy friends, but according to a lot of people, I'm, you know, fucking every single one of them.

really I'm only fucking half of them. Right. But there are the ones that I'm not. And they're just like, you're more of like a sister to me. So like you talking like that. Like it's just weird. So, you know, that's the only respect that I don't tell them that kind of stuff. Right.

You know, I do have a couple people here that I tell. And I know that I overshare and I'm like, if you don't want to hear it, just tell me. And sometimes they're just like, well, I can just get in their face. And I'm like, okay, then I won't talk to you more. No, well, we, I love people that overshare on my podcast. We're already at like an hour. and 20 minutes and I normally I only like to keep my podcast for an hour but you know you're I I feel like you probably have like 50 more good stories to give me so I always have repeat callers I mean and I don't

have many women that call in and share this kind of stuff so I'd love to have you back on to share even more of your experiences I'm sure you're gonna have many more I don't think you're like done with this I think you're just beginning and having a lot of fun yeah totally I just I just hit about a year. I think I started doing all this. My ex-bye broke up early July and then I kind of dated somebody and then that didn't work out and that's when I was just like there was all that game playing going on and I didn't understand it. You're not going backwards. I know. I was like constantly frustrated and I'm like, why am I always miserable?

Like why? It's like, you know, why all you have to do is text back. Like I know he has this phone like what is what is going on here? Like it's not that hard to do. Like just you know, send back a yes or no. And then, okay, you can't hang out? Okay, good. I'm going to go hang out with this person over here. You know, I don't want to be rude and make other plans when I just tried to make plans of you kind of thing.

And that was just like, ah, I was so much. Yeah, David irritating. I was already ready. I was already like, you know, on my, you know, that was a straw that broke the camel's bag. I was just like, I cannot do this anymore. And I just, that's when I, I literally threw up my hands and said, fuck it. Right, exactly.

And then you've been fucking ever since. And then I've been fucking ever. versus that's actually. No, I think that's great. I think it's fascinating. I think it's so great that people know that there are women out there that are on there. Now all my adult friend friender guys can listen to this podcast and now you know how to get girls that this girl's on adult friend writers and she actually fucks guys in real life. And so, you know, but you explained in ways that, you know, or like what women like you were looking for. And I think that's interesting for the guys to hear. And I think it's interesting for the women to hear a woman who's sexually very

open and free with herself and comfortable with it who's like you know sort of going out there and living her life and you know sort of her sexuality in the way that she wants and I think that that's like great for women to hear as well and like I said I love you know I don't like my podcast to be too long so I have to end it but I'd love to have you back on again and do more of your stories because I'm sure you have a lot more stories to tell but we'll do the part two very soon okay great thanks so much Kathy thank you for calling in Molly Bye. Yep.

Bye-bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story.

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