Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1004 - Joselyn and her Husband are Hard Swapping with Other Couples

Episode Date: January 6, 2025

Joselyn and her husband are hard swapping with other couples and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her husbands religious beliefs effected their early sex life, how and why exploring kink started things off for them and the kinds of kinky things that they tried including rough sex and the dom/sub dynamic, how she was always into women and how her husband had that fantasy too, how far they took it and how and why she loved it, the surprise cancer diagnosis she got and how she felt about it at first, why she decided to start posting nudes of herself on reddit and how it helped her with her confidence after her surgery, the couples they stated meeting on reddit, how her husband wasn’t on board with hooking up with them at first and what eventually changed his mind, how and why she thinks she’s a cuckquean, the rules they had going in, the first couple they met and hooked up with, why they picked them, how it started off as soft swap but wound up full swap and exactly what went down, how she felt the next day about crossing the line and how it surprised her, the second couple they met up with and how and why some jealousy came up for her and how she got past it, what exactly went down with them during their full swap including her first sixty nine with a woman and how she felt about it, how and why opening things up has added a levity to her cancer journey and helped her deal with what she was going though and got her back in touch with the sexy part of her plus a whole lot more. You can find her Reddit here: https://www.reddit.com/u/AdInfinite1297/s/T7RK72hIZa **To see HOT pics of JOSELYN plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order https://beducate.me/anonymous40 Get BEDucated! For 40% off PLUS a FREE 24-hour trial, click the link and use code: anonymous Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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There is a little part of the story that is something that I've never talked to anyone about. But, you know, this is a couple. A young couple, they're only in their early 30s who were actually very, very religious. Like, when you hear their upbringing and how they were with each other when it came to sex before they were married, you're going to be like, how is that couple go from that to being, you know, to having full swaps with other couples? It's crazy. But that's where we start off, like how they met and got married. they have only been with each other, super, you know, vanilla couple. And eventually over time, like one thing led to another and they started really like roleplaying and getting into different kinds of kinks and trying different things out, which got them into communicating with each other more and more.

And like I said, a lot of roleplay, which led to more and more, you know, talking about their fantasy. She talks about how she was always into women. They had been to strip clubs together. She made out with a girl. Her husband was into it. and they started to discuss being with other people. And then at some point in her story, and she talks about this, she did get a breast cancer diagnosis.

She's very young. She had to go through the whole process. She had a mastectomy, and she talks about how that happened, like, right in the middle of all this new stuff that they were doing and talking about, all this role-playing, all this, like, let's maybe be with other couples. And instead of that deterring her, they still moved forward. And I think that's like a super inspiring, amazing part. of her story. You know, she just, we discussed that more towards the end. But, you know, that was a big

reason why she put herself out there. She wanted to feel sexy again, even though she was going through the operations and everything, started posting herself on Reddit, started meeting couples. And, you know, she put it out there that she wanted to actually go and hook up with the couples. And they are literally only 25 days into them being with other people. And they have full swapped twice. And she goes into full details about those two full swaps, you know, in this episode. And it's super interesting because they were going to full swap. Okay. They were just soft swapping.

They had a lot of rules. And one thing led to another. And they full swapped twice with the hottest couples ever. She's totally into it. Like I said, we talk again at the end of how dealing with her cancer diagnosis and starting to open up her life sexually with her husband and doing this stuff with other people has really helped that process for her. It's super interesting. I love this story. I have picks of her over on my Patreon and she'll be on my Discord. So anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be

right back on with Jocelyn. Hi, Jocelyn. Welcome to the Strictly Notamus podcast. I'm having a real effing problem. I'm just going to be honest about it with your name. I might not even edit that out because I keep saying the wrong name and I have this weird dyslexia thing I just can't get out the name Roslyn, but that's not your name. It's not your real name. But you want to be called Jocelyn. Everyone's using fake names here. Okay, that's your fake name.

That's right. And Jocelyn, you're young, right? I think maybe did you say you were 31 and your husband are both 31? Yes, that's correct. Okay, so you guys are a young couple. That to me is young. And you've been married for a while and you just started swinging, correct? Is that what you want to talk about?

That's right. Yes. So we are literally just super, super brand new. I think it's been like 25 days since we've seen. started a journey. I like new people. Yeah. Yeah, this is brand new. But yeah, we've been together since we were 14 years old

and we had like a very, very tiny break right after our first year of college. But other than that, we've been together since 14. So we were each other's first everything and only everything for quite a while. And I think what's unique

about our story is that we did not start swinging until after I was diagnosed with cancer. and had a double mastectomy, which honestly, when it first happened, I thought was going to like thwart all of our plans of ever adding people into our sex life. But it was what was like the catalyst for us to actually pull the trigger and do it. Oh, this is an interesting part of your story. I love this. Now, I remember reading about this. Okay, so that's kind of like something that you thought was going to be a roadblock, but it winds up being like the catalyst. Now, let me ask you this

real quick, and we'll get into all of that. I have a lot of breast cancer my family, so I've been through it with a lot of people that are close to me, including my sister, my cousin, like all young, too, you know, premenopausal, which, you know, could be fucked up. But let me ask you this question. Were you discussing it before your diagnosis, like the swinging and opening things up, or did that even spawn it after that? Right. So we were discussing it beforehand, and it actually is like quite uncanny. So to back up a little bit, like we, our sex life started, obviously, when we were very young. Now, we didn't have actual P&V sex until probably like our early 20s. What does that mean? Penis and vagina? You didn't put a, you didn't put his dick in you?

No. Why? Are you Mormon or something? No. No. And honestly, I was begging him. I was like, please, let's just try having sex. probably when we were like, you know, 17 or 18, but he grew up super religious, just like basic Christianity. Just basic, like non-denominational. Oh, my God, he's like a rule follower. I'm slightly obsessed with this part of your story,

and I'm going to try not to harp on it, but I am going to have some questions because I find that so bizarre, especially because he's just like, he's just like Christianity, right? Like, I mean, he's Catholic, but he was so strict in his household that he was like, and what was it about penis and vagina? know like it's about being married like you wanted to wait until you were married is that was he he was saying yeah exactly and i think both of us were quite scared of pregnancy even though we yeah we're terrified of god we were scared of pregnancy but we knew how to prevent pregnancy i mean

it's not like we weren't aware of condoms and i was even on birth control for a little bit of time in college but it was just some like deep rooted shame on his part and i don't want to you know i don't want to words in his mouth or speak to his story, but I was always a lot more sexually liberated than he was. Everyone is more sexually liberated than he was. Especially a guy. Exactly. You know, because here he is, hornier than he'll ever be probably in his whole life, right, at that age.

And listen, you got to give kudos to him. He must have real good discipline, okay? And that will probably show up in the rest of his life in all areas. And I think it's great to have great discipline because, like, you know, he was told one thing he bought into it which and he's he stuck to it no matter what which i like like you like you got to say this guy could you know he's he's strong wilt very strong wilt especially with me you know at that age yeah you know let's do this and i was always kind of leading the charge of like what to try sexually next so we did a lot of like oral a lot of hand jobs this is what's so funny

to me though is like you'll do everything but please don't tell me you are allowed to have anal. No, we have not. We are still like that is still something that we're both like trying to figure out if we want to pursue mostly because there was a slight experience in our first swinging event. Oh, we'll get to that. Yeah, but wait, let's not fast forward yet to your swinging experience. But wait, so you're, so you would be totally naked with each other, right? And like doing oral and hamilton. jobs. He would go down on you. Yep. Yep. Okay. And you would give him blow jobs. Yes. Right. And I loved it. Yeah. And did he? He was obsessed. I mean, it's really funny because like who there's, you know, there probably are a lot of people who stick with their first partners. But like, he was the, the dick that I learned everything on. And so I wasn't good when I first started. And we were just talking about this that, you know, I used to.

nick him with my teeth and I didn't know how to position my mouth and now it's a million times better and it's kind of suited to him because he's the only person that I've done that with. Right. So you know exactly how to rock his belt. Like I mean, you know exactly what to do for his cock. That makes him have the best blow job ever probably. Right. And especially because we spent so much time where that was like as far as we were going to go. But, you know, even without having, you know, penis and vagina sex, we still found ourselves getting into, like, a lot of trouble when we were young. Obviously, because you are getting naked and doing everything. That's what's so interesting about it, you know, that like, but yet the dick inside is like this whole other thing. Right. And

especially because we spent so much time where that was like as far as we were going to go. But, you know, even without having, you know, penis and vagina sex, we still found ourselves getting into like a lot of trouble when we were young. Obviously, because you are getting naked and doing everything. That's what's so interesting about it, you know, but yet the dick inside is like this whole other thing. So now, did you wait until you were married? So we were probably a year out from being married. And I was the one who said, if we're going to get married, we need to experience this.

And because my parents came from a household where they had me before they were married. they lived together before they were married. My mother was married before my father, and they were always a bit more sexually open. They definitely didn't want me to be like fucking around or whatever, but they were more realistic to the fact that, like, yeah, we were probably going to live together a little bit before we got married versus my husband's parents who were like,

we will not support your wedding or give you any money for help if you live together before your marriage. Yeah, they were super, super religious. It's interesting because you guys are, really young. And so you're not surrounded by people like you. I mean, you're kind of like the minority. In my day, you would have been, it would have been, I think you would have found more like-minded people. But like, at your age, he would, that's like, you know, interesting that there are still people that, you know, right? Or that I don't know what you would call it. Like, not prude. I don't

know what the right word is. Or just like conservative when it comes to. Yeah. Very conservative. Yeah. And so he then just, he was like, okay, let's do this. Did he feel guilty after the first time? Do you remember? He really did. And I honestly am not happy with my, I've done a lot of growth since I was in my early teens and 20s of course. But like, I was really guilt-tripping him about sex.

Yeah. Confused as to why he didn't want to have sex with me. But of course he did. He was just very stuck in his ways, I guess. Yeah. He was committed. He was very committed. And after we had sex, it was like a light switch.

It was like, oh, this is amazing. Let's never stop. So he did feel guilty, though, the first time. But after that, it was a free for all. And you were like banging. Right. Well, it was funny because, you know, we finished or whatever. He finished.

For me, it was just kind of like overwhelming. And I started crying. And I was like, now you have to marry me. Oh, my God. hilarious. You didn't have a ring on it at that point? We were engaged. Oh, you were.

Okay. So you knew you were getting married. Okay, cool. All right. So it's so interesting even more so that that guy now is like swinging, right? Like that guy that, you know. Okay. Yeah. Yes.

But you won't be so surprised when you hear about like his methodology to handle Oh, I can't wait. I'm fascinated by him. Which is funny. Yeah. Okay. So let's get to now. When do you guys this couple that's like, you know, so on the.

the one end of the spectrum, vanilla, wind up talking about opening up your relationship. Mm-hmm. So the catalysts for us having amazing communication actually came in the form of kink, basically. So both him and I were fairly vanilla in our sex life together, obviously. But things would get, like, maybe a little bit rough. Like, the thing that stands out to me is that, like, one. of our favorite positions for me giving him head is like me laying down and him sitting on top of me and giving me head while basically like crushing me.

Oh, interesting. Yeah, it's very dominating. Yeah. It's very surprising the first time that we did it and it turned me on a lot. Well, just back in January, like a year ago, he had left for a work trip and we were just super horny for each other the whole time he was gone. We're never apart. and he was gone for maybe a week and we had just been texting and sending pictures and talking about all the stuff we wanted to do when he came back. And he came back late at night.

I waited up for him. I was in bed with him. And that night, which I do not recommend for anyone to do this because communication and kink is so important. And we didn't communicate this prior. But he was really rough in bed. like slapping me around in the face on my tits on my ass like choking and I was just like I had never seen this side of him so aggressive so dominating usually like I said I'm the one leading us in sexual experiences and it was so incredibly hot I was I was insanely turned on

I loved the feeling of being like out of control. And till this day, I'm still like, what happened to you on that trip? Because you never, he never was like that in the bedroom. I was like, what porn did you watch? What did you see? Did he ever give you an answer? He was like, no, I've just always sort of been interested in this. And it just felt like the right time.

I was like, well, maybe next time we could talk about it. But yeah, I loved it. I was obsessed. So once that happened, I was like, you know, maybe we should try some DOM sub things in the bedroom. And we did research together. We started talking about protocols and contracts. And for about a month and a half, we had a really nice DS dynamic going on pretty much 24-7. It started with in the morning, I would get out of bed and he would go and do.

his morning stuff. I would wait for him kneeling in our bedroom. We would do like affirmations while I'm like kneeling in front of his cock and I'd give him head. I'd make his coffee. We would start implementing more things in the bedroom like paddles and restraints. And then my favorite part is that we developed a communication system through WhatsApp. So this is where his like conviction and very, I guess, type A mind came into play. So he developed a WhatsApp, which is just like a texting, a texting app. But it had all of these different categories that were related to our DOM sub dynamics. So there was a communication journal where he would ask me a question every day and I'd type out a response to him.

There was picture sharing where I'd find like hot chicks that I think he would be interested in just like, you know, off Reddit or porn hub or whatever and like send him videos and send him pictures. we would have different, like, ideas sharing, like, oh, I really want to try being tied up and under your desk, giving you head while you're watching porn or you're doing something else. So we did that for about a month, and then I got my cancer diagnosis, and it was, like, world rocking because it had felt like we just unlocked this wonderful, beautiful dynamic between the two of us that was keeping us connected all day long. And we were talking about it. things we had never talked about before and then there was cancer involved. Yeah, you were so young. Like, did you have the teen? Because like, why would you even know?

Or did you feel a lot? I know. So I actually, I've had two children and I had been finished breastfeeding my youngest for like six months. Yeah. I had the sensation of like a clogged duct, which I felt like was, you know, very strange because I wasn't breastfeeding. Yeah. So I did some hand expression and I actually had blood. It. like discharge from my nipple, which was devastating. It's so scary. So scary. And everyone told me, you know, because of my age and because there was no visible lump, of course. Oh, it's probably not cancer. It's probably hormonal, whatever, whatever. So it turns out that I had like stage zero cancer, which it's just in the milk ducts, but the treatment plan is still very aggressive,

obviously. How come? Even though it's stage zero, they did very aggressive treatment. Was it a certain kind of cancer that was stage zero? So it's called. called ductal carcinoma in situ, which basically just means that like the cancer, yes, the cancer is just in the milk ducts. And so for me, particularly, it was high grade. The cells that they found were very different than my normal cells present in my tissue, which just meant that the cancer was like rapidly, I guess, changing, growing. And their big concern is that, you know, you're so young, if we leave this untreated or we go a route where it's not a great. aggressively taking care of, it could easily turn into invasive cancer.

Right. And unfortunately, for me, it was in my right breast and it was in like all four quadrants. Like it wasn't localized to one area. It was everywhere. Oh, there was more than one area. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

It's like, it's as if you sprinkle like salt on a table. Yeah, yeah. And that was like throughout the entire breast. But what was great prior to that and even post that is that in our conversation, on WhatsApp and together in person and we just started sharing fantasies with each other. Now, him and I have gone to strip clubs together previously because I like girls. Like the porn I watch is almost exclusively women. I always think like if we hadn't been together for as long as we had, I would have had way

more experiences with women. Okay, good to know. That's interesting. Yeah, I just find women so much more. pleasing than men. I very rarely if I demand that I'm like, wow, you're so hot. Like, there are a few, but it's mostly girls. Okay. So I had told him, you know, uh, you know, tell me about your fantasies. Meanwhile, I'm over here listening to like Swinger podcast and all this stuff like in private by myself. And he just relays a fantasy that he has. And it's

super, super like softcore. He's like, it would be really hot if like we met a couple out. And then we all like got into an Uber or something and like I make out with the girl. You make out with the guy. And then maybe we like all kiss together. And then we can like swap and have oral. And I'm over here like, I want to have sex with other couples. Let's do it. I've been waiting for you to like come to this realization that you're cool with this.

I'm so into it. And I definitely had to slow my role because he wasn't in the same place as I was. he was definitely more keen on having an experience with a girl, like a unicorn. Yeah, uh-huh. Right. But it's not practical. I mean, I've listened to enough Swing Your podcast to know that, like, they're called unicorns for a reason. Yeah.

And also, I am interested in guys, even though less so, but I do like them. So anyway, that's how that came up. And just as my treatment continued, we kept an. open mind about it. We started watching more like foursome and threesome porn together. And then when I had my mastectomy, you know, I lost my nipples. I have like these temporary expanders in right now that are stretching the skin. Yep. Okay. Yep. You know, I'm my sister had those. I remember. Yeah. So they're really hard. They're uncomfortable. I've got the scars, whatever. They look nice, though, you know, in lingerie and in clothes.

But they were really, it was rocking my confidence in a way that I think any woman might expect. You know, your body just is so different. But once I started to feel better, probably about four or five months after my mastectomy, I told my husband, you know, I'd really like to have some sort of exhibitionist kind of outlet for myself. You know, like my body is completely different now. I am having a harder time finding me sexy, like finding myself sexy. How would you feel if I started posting on Reddit? Like just...

Oh, interesting. Yeah. I was like, just ask picks, something where I could get a little bit of a turn on from other people being interested in me. And so we chatted about that a little bit. And he was mostly concerned about privacy and keeping myself anonymous. and I jumped right in and I got a lot of attention and it was really cool. And then I was like, why don't I use this attention to like try to find other couples?

And surprisingly, Reddit turned out to be an actual viable source of finding swingers, which we were not expecting at all. Yeah, I've heard that from other people. Yeah, we've had to like weed through a bunch of fakes and people pretending to be couples. but it's really just a guy. But we actually ended up finding now two couples there. And like I said, I've been posting for about 25 days.

So in those 25 days, we've met up and full swapped with two couples. And we have a third that we're talking to and just trying to find a good time to meet up with. Oh, my God. So let's slow this down because you've done a lot really recently. And I mean, you're like literally the, like, you guys don't fuck around.

You're like, let's do this. And then you're like, you're doing it. I mean, like, I know. I know. And it's really more so me. I think I'm the one. And this has been, since we were kids, I'm just like dragging him along. He's a willing participant for sure. He just moves at a glacial pace. Well, how did you get him? Because you did say, and I like these kinds of moments, because your guy was a little bit more reluctant. I mean, he didn't mind the role playing, but he was a little bit more nervous to, you know, make it happen in reality. Like, how did you get to change his mind about actually doing it in reality? What do you think changed for him? him. I think the biggest thing that changed was we went to a strip club maybe two months ago. And we have our favorites. We live in the South. We live in an area where the strip clubs are phenomenal. And we both enjoy going. And while I was there, I made out with a girl. She was not a stripper. She was just another girl with her husband. And my husband had kind of been waiting to see that his whole life.

Like he is so he, that's all his fantasies revolved around. We would do a lot of bedroom talk about me kissing another girl or being with another girl. And so when he saw that, you know, him and the other husband kind of made eyes at each other like, can you believe that this is happening, you know, whatever. And so after that moment where we were making out and feeling on each other a little bit at the club, I think that is what really opened him up to, yeah, I'd be. willing to involve another couple who's in a good place, comfortable in their relationship, to be able to fulfill these fantasies that I have. It's really important for him that it's another couple who is committed to each other so that we're, there's no drama, basically. Yeah, for sure. I mean, I've had some drama episodes recently, you know, and a lot of times it is if you're

getting a couple that isn't unstable ground or whatever, you know, it could cause a lot of problems. You've got to be really solid in your relationship to open things up, you know. So how, so that first couple that you met, how did you find them? What was it about them that stood out for you? Like, were they just super hot? Were they? So we found them. They, uh, the husband of the couple reached out to me on Reddit. He had liked my pictures and was like, you know, we are a younger couple. I believe they were in their early 30s, similar to me and my husband. And what really drew me to them is that his wife had huge beautiful boobs. She's Latina like me.

And I don't know. I feel like my boobs are gone. I want to play with boobs. I want my husband to play with boobs. I want to see him with a girl with like huge boobs. Now, it's not just about the boobs, but that was a big turn on for me. Yeah, I love that. I mean, that's like your thing.

It is my thing. And I love watching him get turned on by other women. I am such a voyeur. I wouldn't say I'm a cut queen because I do not like degradation. Like I love getting the different perspective. And I always say it's like he's my personal porn star. Like I want to see just all of the angles, the facial expressions, how he moves his hands and his body. Like that turns me on so much.

Yeah, that's so interesting. That's like a guy describing his hot wife's a scenario. I know. I'm like, oh my gosh, maybe I have a guy brain. No, you're just a cut queen. That's what it's about the same shit, you know, but for women. and have it too. Exactly. So what really set this first couple apart was that they were so communicative. We asked for a verification picture of them. Basically, they just hold up like a piece

of paper with our names on them so we know they are who they say they are. And we moved everything into a group chat. So it was the husband and wife of the other couple, me and my husband, all chatting, basically just exchanging pleasantries, what we're into kinkwise. The other couple had been in an open relationship for a long time. They each separately had other partners, which at first made us pump our breaks a little bit because we didn't want to get into a situation where either of us were being poached and then the other one couldn't watch us. But the other couple was super respectful of our boundaries. And what I really appreciated was that the wife of the other couple would text me solo a lot. And she would just send me like sexy pictures, ask me what my

husband like. She would tell me what her husband like. So it was kind of like the girls were in cahoots, basically, about what we wanted to have happen in the future. And so we talked about a lot of stuff like that we were only interested in soft swap. That was, yeah, that was going to ask you, what were those rules going in that first time? Yeah. So we did a lot of conversating me and my husband about what we were okay with. And it turns out, like, even though we are over communicators, there was still stuff that we didn't communicate beforehand. And I think that assumption of goodwill in those moments is really important, right? Like your partner is not trying to do something to break a boundary to hurt you,

but sometimes things come up and we're unprepared and we have to be okay with like stopping the whole thing and discussing, basically. But I'm getting a little ahead of myself. So our boundaries were soft swap. So oral for the guy, oral for girls, fingering, kissing. All of that was totally fine. My personal boundary is that I stay clothed on top because I'm not really comfortable with anyone seeing my chest the way that it is right now. Yeah, of course. Like I said, it looks fine in lingerie.

And so, yeah, that's what we went into. And originally we were going to meet up with this couple for dinner. and then go back to a hotel because we had been exchanging like tons of naughty pictures. Like we had sent them videos of us having sex. They sent videos of them having sex, blowjob videos, talking a lot about what we wanted to do with each other. So we knew like we wanted to have play that night that we met. But the other couple, the night that we met, they were just so gung-ho about having an experience that we skipped dinner. We went right to the hotel.

Oh my God. And so, like, me and my husband are scared shitless. I guess more so me. He was more confident. But I was, like, shaking in my boots. Like, oh, my gosh, I have no idea what I'm doing. Why did we get into this? And he's like, no, it's going to be fine.

So we get to the hotel. There's like a lot of back and forth chit-chatting, whatever. And we are just like two little leaves shaking. There are two beds. Me and my husband are on one. Her and her husband are on the other. And finally, this girl, the other wife. She is amazing. I love her. She's like, okay, are we going to get started?

And then it's like, sure. So she came over to me and just started making out with me and kissing me. And then we swapped partners. Like there was not a lot of girl on girl action in this experience, which was so surprising to me. All we did was kiss. Right. We then went on to separate beds. I was making out with her. husband, he was like unbelievably different than my husband. My husband is white and tall. And this guy is Mexican and shorter and stockier and has tons of tattoos. And so I was just like rubbing all on him. I helped him take off his pants. I'm like pulling down his boxers. I had talked up my head game a lot. So I started giving him head. And I have no idea what's going on on the other bed. Like it's out of sight. Oh, interesting. Okay.

Yes, it was crazy because I had expected us to kind of be a little bit more connected in this. But anyway, I'm doing my thing. It lasts maybe 10 minutes, maybe seven minutes. And all of a sudden, I just taste cum in my mouth. Like, I have not even, like, taken off my thong yet. And this guy has come in my mouth. And I didn't realize it. I thought it was pre-cum.

And so I just like swallowed it. And he was like, you just swallowed my come. You made me come and you swallowed it. Oh my God. That's so fucking hot. And I was like, oh, you can't. Cool. That's great.

So then he just started focusing on me and fingering me. And he was like so fucking good with his hands. They were like big and rough. And he was doing that like G spot massaging. oh, it was so good. And I came really, really well. And I look over to the other bed and my husband has this woman's legs like completely spread facing me. And he is just fingering her so, so deep.

And she fucking squirts. It was unbelievable. He was like, holy shit. Oh, my God. It was like all over his hand and his wrist. We were both like, this is amazing. Like I wanted to reach across and like high five him and be like, you did that. But unbeknownst to me, she had been begging him like since they started to fuck her.

He was like, she was like, please fuck me. Like you have such a big cock. I want to feel you, whatever. And he was basically telling you like, no, I'm not going to fuck you. You want me to, huh? But I won't. I won't. And he was, again, his willpower.

He's holding off. so she stops the whole thing jumps like literally stands up from the bed is kind of huffing and it's like are we all good to fuck i mean maybe and my husband is like okay pause how do you feel she wanted to fuck him so bad which turned me on so much so i was like yeah let's do it and my husband was like are you sure and i was like yes let's do it i want to see it. I'm totally like clear-minded. Let's go. Okay. So they brought condoms, which I was like, oh, okay, they were prepared. Maybe they thought that this was going to go further than we had discussed. Yeah. So they brought condoms. My husband put one on. This is like the first time in probably 10 years. He's worn a condom. So they start fucking. And I'm able to kind of watch because the husband that I'm with, he's, you know, still kind of trying to come back from orgasming just a few minutes ago. So he's giving me a lot of like pussy worship and going down on me.

And I'm just getting to kind of see my husband, fuck another girl. I think the first position they were in, he had her on the end of the bed. She was facing him on her back. And he was just like, you know, pounding into her. She loved it. She actually spoke Spanish to him. and he was getting off on that a lot. She was telling him more and right there in Spanish.

I think he also did like the, what is that called? Where you are, the girl is laying face down on the mattress kind of straight. Is it pro bone? Oh, I've never heard that before, but I know the position. Yeah. That's like one of our favorites. You know, fuck her in that position as well. And she was just loving all of it.

I think she ended up coming another time with him. My husband did not come. And then while we were watching my husband and her fuck, the husband that I was with, he started playing with my asshole, which that was a first for me. I have never, no one, not even myself, has touched my asshole. I'm not joking. No, I believe you. I think there's, you know, I think a lot of people probably have never entertained that area. And like, I'm always, I'm, I always tell my husband, like, I am down for anything in the moment.

Like, if someone else is super into X, Y, Z, like, that turns me on enough to be into it as well. Like, I'm not big, you know, I don't want to do any, like, poop or blood play. Yeah, I get it. But, like, piss play, sure. Asshole stuff. Yes. Like, anything like that. I'll even, I've come close to licking my husband's asshole because he was, like, so into it.

I'll do that. So this guy is just like rubbing on my asshole with his thumb and it feels really fucking good. And I'm like giving him head while he's doing that and he's getting turned on again. And he actually like puts a finger in and it just feels it's like overwhelmingly good. It's the kind of thing where I have to keep like reminding myself to relax. Yeah. And that ends up getting him hard and we fuck a little bit. it in doggy style.

He comes again. And then we're all just like, that was great. Thanks for hanging out. We all talk for a little bit on the bed. We give everybody kisses. And then they left. And me and my husband were just like, what the fuck just happened? That was crazy.

And we had incredible sex together that night. And he was not super happy about the asshole stuff because he was like, I want to wanted to be the first one to do all that. And I was like, listen, we've been together for 17 years. You've never touched my asshole. If you wanted to now, I'm down with it. But it was just something that the other guy was interested in. And I was down for it too. So that's kind of been our gateway into trying some more like booty stuff, I guess. Interesting. So now that reclaiming sex or that's like, you know, it was amazing, you said, right? When you got home afterwards. Yeah, so we actually ended up staying at the hotel that night.

And so we just literally hopped into the bed that I was already in and fucked there. Like, I think we did, I know I gave him head because he, he wasn't super happy with the head he received from the girl. She just had like a smaller mouth or whatever. And so I gave him head. We did that pro bone position. And then I think I finished him with my hands because we really like to do edging. and I can edge him really, really well with my hands. And he came like so much all over my like face and chest.

And it was just so, so hot. And then apart from that, like when we woke up the next morning, I was kind of anticipating this like post nut clarity or something to feel that jealousy, to feel inferior or whatever. That never came. And it was so, I guess, eye-opening to see that like, yeah, you can have sex with people, but it doesn't mean you love them. It doesn't mean that you are like pining for them to be your life partners. Like it's just fun. And if anything, it just improved our sex and what we're talking

about now. And it was so fun to like recap the night together over and over again. And that turned us on. And there's no, there was no jealousy, which I found so strange. And that's not to say I haven't had jealousy at all. Like our second experience was, we're going to get to that now. Yeah. Yes, it was with a couple who they were gorgeous. I mean, this girl, like, so gorgeous that I did not believe she was real. Like, I told my husband so many times, like, this guy is fucking with us.

That is not his girlfriend. That has to be like maybe it was his ex or his cousin or something. Like, this girl is not real. What was so hot about her? Are she just like perfect body? perfect perfect body perfect face she was latina she had these beautiful perky boobies like so i'm a mom you know i've got a mom pouch i'm super sexy i love my body yeah but her body was like unmarred by child just gorgeous gorgeous like she sent my husband a picture of her playing with her tits in the mirror

while she was like kneeling down i came to that like i was like i'm gonna get off to this video she looked like It's just perfect. Yeah. And her husband was also super handsome, like another Latino, just really pretty in the face. He had a nice, like, fat cock. I was like, these people are scamming us. But it turns out that they didn't. And so when I realized, like when the realization came that they were real, there were some jealousy feelings that I had to work through even before we did anything with them.

What was bringing up the jealousy for you? I think it was that her body was really reminiscent of. my body prior to having kids, getting weight, going through the breast cancer. Yeah. And so it was like, when I looked at her, I was like, damn, what would our life had been like if we started this lifestyle journey, you know, like 10 years ago? And I could have really used like my prime body. But then I have to like slow myself down because even though I'm not in my quote unquote prime body, I do feel like I am starting to get into my prime sexually. Like, I may have had a really, really hot body back then, but I don't know that I knew how to

use it as well as I do now. And life is just what it is. Like, my body is just what it is. There are things in my control and out of my control. And what am I going to do? Stop myself from having sex with two really hot people because I'm not super confident. Like, that's crazy. Yeah.

Yeah. But that's amazing. Yeah. And that really tells you like who you are. And I love that you were able to sort of feel those feelings, but not let them stop you and push through that. And that was probably like healing for you on a certain level. So what happens with that hot couple? So we ended up actually getting dinner with them. And it was a nice little vibe check. It was really awkward because we went to a restaurant that was completely dead. There was nobody in the restaurant. So we're like trying to have conversation about like, So how do you guys like to fuck? And it's dead silent around us. But after we left that dinner, the couple, like, were texting in our group chat and they were like, oh, my gosh, we should have gotten a hotel tonight. Like, we should have fucked in your van.

Oh, my God. Okay. So you guys really want us. And that, like, hyped us up. We were really excited. And so we met up with them, again, at a hotel this time, same as our first couple. And we just, yeah, we had drinks. We were chatting all together.

And the catalyst for us starting play was the girl of the other couple, the wife. She got into some sexy lingerie and like came out and did a little catwalk for us. And we were all like applauding her. She looked so sexy. She was wearing like a lacy blue kind of onesie. And her boobies were sitting so perfectly. Her belly was so gorgeous. And so then I took off my clothes.

and her and I just started making out together. And this time there was a lot more girl on girl play. I took her boobies out. I was feeling on them, licking her nipples. Her hands were all in my pussy. I put my fingers around her pussy. And this is where, okay, I have long nails. And I was like, fish, I need to get these cut because I was so scared to, like, put them inside her because I was like, I'm going to cut you.

So I just played around with her clit. And the guys are watching us. We're literally on the floor. Me and her, there's like a perfectly good couch, two perfectly good beds. Me and her just on the floor, like kneeling, you know, whatever, doing our thing. And so the guy of this couple, her husband, he is so sweet. He was such a facilitator. And so he was telling my husband like, ooh, have you ever had a three-way kiss?

Why don't you get down there and kiss them? So my husband comes down and we all three make out together, which is his favorite memory from that night. And then we make out with her husband. And we're like progressively getting more and more naked. So then another thing my husband really likes is a three-way blow job or two-way blowjob. So he took out his cock and we're, you know, me and the other girl are giving him head. And we do the same for her husband. And what I like about this couple is they were really, really into group play.

So they were facilitating this amazing like amalgamation of our four bodies all together. Like we were always within arm's reach, pulling at each other, grabbing at each other. We end up making our way over to one of the beds. And it's really hard to remember everything because we were literally just like a tangle of limbs. But the guy pulls out, so not my husband, but the other guy pulls out his cock and it's so fucking fat. Like my husband has a long cock. This guy's cock was just like so thick at the base, like the part that's closest to his body. So I had talked up my head game so bad.

And he was the guy was like, let me see what you can do. I'm so excited for you to have your mouth around me. And I'm like, oh my God. I don't know if I can do this. Oh my God. That's funny. So I give it my all. He really enjoys the head that I'm giving him.

He's saying things like, you know, to his wife like, look. baby how she takes it. Doesn't she take it so good? And then my next favorite part of that whole exchange was my husband is fingering this other girl and I kind of get down near her pussy and it's so beautiful. Like it is a porn star pussy. It is like pink and perfectly waxed and just gorgeous. And so he's fingering her. I start licking her clit. Her husband puts his hand around her throat while she's of laying down. She is the center of attention and I was obsessed. I was like, this is what I want to have happen every time. I love the idea of making another girl be the center of attention in this environment. And you getting to watch or participate to or all the above? Me getting to watch

and participate. It was really cool because, you know, I was licking her pussy while my husband was fingering her and then I would like take a step back, watch him finger her. She would like pull the back of my neck to give her a kiss. Like she was bringing me in and just saying all sorts of beautiful things. She was like, you're so hot. Your husband's cock is so gorgeous. And I'm saying everything back to her. And I got to watch her squirt too.

I was like right up close to her pussy while my husband's fingering it. And I just get to see like all of her juices drip out onto her thigh and her ass. And like that is probably my favorite memory that I've had so far. It was so fucking hot. Now, how was it for you? Because this is your first time going down on a girl. Did she also go down on you? I know.

She went down on me. We actually 69, which was crazy. I don't know how that happened. So she got on top of me and we were just looking at each other's pussies, giving like an amazing show for our husbands. And it was so, it was natural. I don't know. It was just, I didn't think about it.

I just, I don't think I made her come. I think that it probably felt good and I definitely mean more practice but it was just like I found her clit and I moved my tongue along it and I was just like licking up all of her juices and licking on her pussy and rubbing it and I don't know. I just didn't think about it. It was just happening and she tasted so nice and she smelled really good and yeah, I just couldn't get enough. Every time her pussy was open and spread, I was like, oh, I'll go in there. That's fine. It'll be my job. And how is it for your guy to see that?

Oh, it was unbelievable. But the problem was, I think it was too hot. He got a little bit of performance anxiety, which I know he hated. He was, it was hard for him to stay hard. I think there was just a lot going on. Uh-huh. That happens. It does.

And her, the other girl's husband had talked about how much he wanted to see. her get fucked by my husband. Yeah. And I think that was really getting in his head. So at one point in our our time together, I became his fluffer, which I felt great about. Yeah. So he's like, you know, a little bit soft or whatever. And I kind of like wiggle my head down to his dick. And I'm giving him head and I'm sucking him and like doing all the things that I know he likes.

I'm giving him pressure behind his balls and all. this stuff. And so he finally gets hard again. And then I sort of like slip away, grab a condom, open it from behind, put the condom on him because he's standing. So I'm like putting it on for him. And then I like guided his dick into this girl. And I was like, great. Okay. Yes. Now we're doing this. So I was like, I want to be your fluffer every time. Yeah. And he thought that was hilarious. So that was great. And then the other guy, guy fucked me and that's he came he fucked me from behind and came again kind of earlier on which I don't know if this is a good thing I don't know why all these guys are like coming with me before

we're really done but it gave me a good opportunity to kind of like sit back for a minute and watch my husband and his wife do some more stuff together I think he was going down on her which was really, really hot for me. But yeah, and then again, we were, you know, everybody was sort of done. My husband did not come. And again, the performance anxiety, I think, you know, was really, really got to his head. But we said, thank you. And they left. And I gave my husband really, really good hand job. And then the couple actually came back and brought us dinner. Like that night, they came back to the hotel room and we're like, we brought you raising canes. Do you want it? And it's super sweet.

Are you going to see them again? We are. Yeah, we're still in communication. And so that's kind of the next piece. My husband and I are trying to figure out, like, are we just bed hoppers or are we trying to like make a connection with people that's sort of long lasting? And this couple in particular, we are super attracted to. And I feel like my husband wants a little bit of a redemption with them.

Of course. Yeah. That makes sense. Yeah. So we'll definitely see them again. And we're just trying to find our way, like trying to figure out if we like more of that group aspect, if we like more of like focused one-on-one time with, you know, the partners that we're switching with.

So yeah, it's all just like a learning experience right now. So let me ask you this last question because, you know, like after getting your diagnosis and still having the expanders and going through this experience that, you know, made you feel down about your body and everything. Has any of this helped you in a way with that process? Yeah, definitely. It has totally helped. And I think what it made me realize is that my sexuality and my sexiness is not dependent on one particular part of my body.

And it has helped me realize that, like, I don't need to be so self-conscious because I am just like a naturally sexy person, regardless of what I look like, my attitude, my personality, the way that I talk to people. people, the things that I want to hear from people, learn more about them. Like, I am just interested in sex. I have always been interested in sex. I love talking about sex. And that in and of itself makes me desirable to others. And so now I need to, like, I need to internalize it. Because every time I share with, because I share with everyone we talk to if we get to a certain point. Like if we're, you know, talking about meeting up, I have to tell them I'm not going to take my top off. And the reason why. Yeah, of course. Yeah, that might be a deal breaker for some people. And I think what it also has helped me realize is like, if it is a deal breaker for someone,

that is out of my control. So it's, it's not a reflection on me. It's not a rejection of me as a, as a person. I have my husband who is my best friend, who loves me for me, who loves my body, regardless of what it is. And so I don't need to seek that validation from others. I'm just kind of seeking fun and it's really added a lot of levity to my diagnosis and all this shit that comes with getting breast cancer, I guess. Yeah, yeah. Listen, I think it's a very empowering part of your story for other people. It's not like, you listen, breast cancer touches a lot of people's lives over time. Like I said, it's very rampant in my family. And listen, I'm here to tell you that, you know, I remember my sister going through it, she was where you were out. And, you know,

we're like 15 years later. And she's completely. fine. It's like a blip in the sand of her life, right? You know, life does go on. And nowadays, there's so much that they could do and you'll be completely fine, right? It's not like a death sentence anymore. Thank God. And I think you did the right thing by just removing them. I don't like to call it a misectomy. I like to call a tissue removal because I, you know, because it's not like you're cutting your breasts off. Like you still have breath. Like, I don't know. I just feel like it's, I still have breath. Yeah. I feel like it's some women look at it in a way that just makes it even more devastating, like they're not a woman anymore, took away their womanhood. And I don't agree

with that, you know, at all. Yes. And I feel like this experience has shown me that. Yeah, I love that. Oh, no, no. I am still a woman. I'm still sexy. I still, you know, can give pleasure and get pleasure. Because my, I mean, I'll be honest, my nipples were like, I was the kind of person who could come from just nipple play. Oh, God. Yeah, yeah. I know. That's part of your erogenous zone. But I think it's amazing and inspiring that through it all and you're still very, very early on in it, you were able to be a sexual being and all that stuff. And I think that that's like, it's such a great story for other women that might be going through the same thing or have gone through it, you know, to say that you don't have to give up on everything and you don't have to feel like

not sexy. I'm sure you were worried about all those things. I, yeah, I thought that this was like, I thought that having to remove my tissue meant that I could never fulfill the fantasy of, swinging with my husband and I was so wrong, so wrong. Yeah. And look, you're getting the hottest couples and all that shit, right? And, you know, listen, your breasts are going to be look a lot better when those expanders are out and you get your implants and stuff. Like, you'll be amazed at what they can do.

But it's amazing how you've been able to embrace what you've been through and still live your life and experience all this stuff. And the direction that you took it in is like crazy and so interesting. I love that. You know. It really is, but I think it's inspiring, and that's what I love about it. So, you know, if you want to send in picks, you know, you don't send a book. Yeah, yeah.

For my Patreon, I put that, I'll give you free access to my Patreon. Like, so you could see the comments and talk to people because I feel like there'll be a lot of comments for this one. And I mean, there always is, but I think even more so for this one. But, and also free access to my Discord so you could go in there, maybe meet more couples. People are hooking up on there. Cool. Okay. Thank you so much, Kathy.

No, thank you. What do we call you, Rosalind, Jocelyn? Jocelyn. Jocelyn. I still. The fucking Roslyn. Okay. Jocelyn,

thank you so much for calling in. I love your story. It was super interesting. Thanks so much for sharing. Thank you. Thank you. Have a great day.

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