Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1012 - GIRL TALK: DD Secret Freak on Posting Naked Pics Online for her Hubby and Others

Episode Date: January 15, 2025

DD Secret Freak called in to talk about posting naughty pics online for her hubby and others. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she decided to get into shape and exactly what she did to change her body for the better, how her husband started taking naughty pics of her and asked to share oner with a friend and how she reacted, when she decided to start posting her naughty pics online and how and why she was an instant success, the guys she will send nudes to and why some guys get them and some guys don’t, how and why connecting with her online audience is important o her and how a guy can do it, how posting her pics has been empowering and validating for her, how posting her pics is a turn on for both her and her husband and how posting has helped their marriage and sex life, how they read and comment back to direct messages and comments together, how her husband loves guys looking at her and is def into the hotwife fantasy, how he’s now open about that and how she felt about it at first, the instagram guy she connected with and how she sends him pics and he sends her naked pics as well, how her and her husband use him when they role-play the hotwife scenario in bed, how she has monetized a little but hasn’t done more, how and why she blew up on all social media platforms, and how being natural helped, how and why she’s anonymous, the downfalls or being online plus a whole lot more. Instagram: @ddsecretfreak2.0 X: @ddsecretfreak **To see anonymous pics of DD SECRET FREAK plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://beducate.me/anonymous2025 Use code anonymous To get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://shop.butterwellness.com/pages/vday Get 20% off your The Perineum Massager by Butter Wellness. Go to butterwellness.com and use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20$ off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Her and her husband do like role play other guys in their scenario. And there's one guy who's DMT her that gets put into her role play scenarios. So they're into the hot wifing role play scenario, but they really get their rocks off by posting naughty picks of her online. And her picks are super naughty and she's super hot and you're going to be totally into her. Her story is interesting. Her picks are going to be interesting to you. I'm going to put all of the links to both her Instagram and her Twitter in the description. But I think what I love about her story most is that like, you know, for vanilla couples who don't want to cross the line and get into hotwifing or doing anything, doing something like what she's doing, which is kind of safe because she's anonymous on there,

right? She's not putting her face or anything on there, which is kind of safe, but it still is a little bit naughty. And it really has added to her life and her marriage and her sex life with her husband. And they never like had to open up their relationship or anything, but they completely change the game by doing this. So I think it's an interesting thing that maybe other people might think to do, you know, other people who want to remain vanilla, but add a little spice to their life. So anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Didi. Hi, Dedy, secret freak, Didi. How are you doing today?

Welcome to the Stricklandana's podcast. Thank you very much for having me. I'm having a great day. Yeah, well, listen, you do lead like a double life. I mean, you're kind of like very vanilla compared to some of my other female guest, but what's not vanilla about you? What makes you a secret freak and what people wouldn't know is. is that by day you're like a nurse and a mom and a, you know, been with the same guy and you're very vanilla.

And by at another time or other times in your life, actually probably still during the day. You're posting like tons of nudes and tons of stuff online and getting tons of attention. You got a hot body. You're putting it out there. You're a total exhibitionist. And this is like what you got going on now. You're still monogamous with your husband and you guys don't play with other people. But you play in this way, correct?

Correct. Correct. We do not swing or anything like that, but he does allow me to post and he gets a kick out of that. I could imagine there's a lot of guys and that's why I figured like maybe there is something here and we could do it like a girl talk episode. Like what, you know, why do people enjoy? Like why, like, you know, and I'm going to get the story from you as well as you could tell me like from your guy's point of view. You know, what is it about putting yourself naked online? Because so many people are doing. it nowadays. And I personally, because I've had a couple, I mean, typically I'm talking to couples who are way crossing major lines that you and your husband probably will never do. And that's what my audience comes to my show for. But I do kind of enjoy hearing stories that are a little less risky because I think it's a great way for couples who don't want to go, you know, to the extreme

and, you know, maybe have an open marriage and they want to stay monogamous. But, you know, there's ways that you could still have fun and be that way. Like, and this is maybe one of them. I don't know. Do you get off on putting your pictures out there? Does it add to your sex life? It actually adds to our sex life. It is, you know, I can say, hey, I DM'd someone, and I will DM and then send that same

picture to my husband and say, yeah, this is what I just sent. Right. So he gets, you know, he gets off on that knowing that other men are attracted to me. And then I do as well. I mean, who, you know, when you live a very banella life and you've been in a very conservative upbringing and environment to do something naughty like that, it is a turn on. And you have to redefine your relationship as a couple, you know, down the road. So this is what we're doing right now. It doesn't have to be forever.

And, you know, at any time there could be a man. Anywhere in the world, whack it off to me. So, you know, that's empowering as a, as a woman. Yeah, and that's what I think is so interesting about this. Because, listen, the majority of people are not going to do what a lot of the people on my show are doing, right? You know, becoming swingers, hot wafing for their husbands, fucking guys in front of their husbands, having threesomes, all that kind of stuff. Most people don't do. I don't say the majority.

A lot of people do do it, right? That's what my show is here to say. Like there are a lot of people doing this shit, but I don't think it's the majority. The majority are more like you and your husband. And what I think is interesting about what you and your husband did is like this is kind of a super interesting like one step out of vanilla, but still very safe and keeping within, you know, the norm, I think. But still kind of completely changing the game. And if I mean, the majority of people that we know, there is no way that they're doing this. And there's no way that they think that we are, but they could.

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for 60% off plus a free 24-hour trial. They don't want to see their partner really fuck somebody else. They don't know how they're going to feel. They're never, you know, they believe in monogamy. But this is like a very fun thing to do to add to your sex life without really changing anything, but it does still change it. That's all I'm saying. Like this is like a example of like something you could do and still stay the same.

But still, like I said, at the same time, completely change the game. Let's get the story, though, first, okay? So, like, here you are, you're, like, in your 50s now. Like, you do have a super hot body, right? And that's why you, like, kind of went viral online, right? Like, you did kind of blow up. And that's a part of your story. And you'll get to that, right?

But, like, what age were you in why and how did you start doing this whole thing? So had turned 50, kind of redefined how I was imagining myself, empty nest, started hitting the gym really hard, diet, exercise. And I thought, dang, I look pretty darn good. Losing 30 pounds is a powering. Wait, had you hit menopause yet or no? I was Perry. Okay, you're Perry.

Okay. So probably hornier than ever at that time, right? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. You know, it was like, you know, trying to wear a skimpy bikini, you know, doing all the things, you know, thong, the whole nine yards. And so it just kind of a. All from that.

Was that new for you, like, wearing thongs at the beach and all that kind of stuff? Like, was that even new for you? Yes, yes. And where did that confidence come from, working out and getting in shape or, like, just feeling good about yourself because you're 50 and you're kind of, like, feeling, you know, comfortable in your own skin? Like, where do you think that this change in you came from? So I think getting rid of the fluff.

Okay. Getting rid of, you know, the doughy look, probably adequate sleep. And just kind of like a, I don't give a fuck attitude. Yeah, that happens when you're older. It does. You don't really care what other people think. Yeah, yeah, finally. And I'm over that.

Yeah, yeah. Wait, real quick, because, you know, there's plenty of women that want to get rid of the fluff, right? Especially when they're middle age, like, you know, so many things don't work anymore. What did you find, like, real quick? Like, why don't you get, do you have any, like, tips and tricks or things that worked for you at that time to lose those extra pounds? Yeah, so it was seven hours of sleep, lots of water. And I hate to tell everyone, but no alcohol. Yeah.

Get rid of the alcohol. And then I went basically carnivore. I'll eat some vegetables right now, but for the most part, it was just real food. If you can't, you flip it over, read the label. And if it has chemicals in it, I don't eat it. So when you say carnivore, like mostly meat, no carbs, grains, anything like that? Yeah, I don't eat bread. I don't eat pasta.

I'll eat a potato, sweet potato, but that's about it. Occasionally a salad, but just a tiny salad. But yeah. Yeah, interesting. And that helped. I mean, how quickly did you see the weight, like, sort of falling off finally? So it took a year. Interesting.

Okay. Yeah, heavy lifting, deadlift, squats, you know, all that stuff, biking. And to get the, get the, get the cardio, yeah. But not a ton of cardio, though. No, too much cardio will actually make you gain weight. That's what people, I used to, like, always work out with weights all my life. And I always had the best body out of anyone I knew. And nobody would ever listen to me, but I'd always, like, walk through the gym on my way to the weight room in the back with all the guys.

And all the poor girls were wasting their time for an hour on the fucking treadmill. And they would never lose a pound because you don't lose weight that way. They just don't get it. No, you got to build muscle. Yeah, yeah. Now they all know. I mean, I'm in the, you know, at the gym, every girl is working out the way I. I used to, but no girls did back then.

So you started this whole life change. You lost all the weight. Now, why, like, how did the whole thing with the pictures come up? So, hubby had taken some pictures of me because I, you know, he'd snap a little picture. Then he said, can I send this to? And he says this person's name. Whoa. A friend?

And I was like, sure, whatever. You know, go ahead. Wait, I got a selfie right there because I just did a whole poll on my Patreon because there was a guy on I had recently, Jack, it was his name. And he had been having threesomes with his wife, but he, she didn't know. She was down for the threesomes when they got there. But she didn't know that he was like, you know, setting up the guy that was going to show up and picking the guy and everything. And then he was also sharing her pictures online without her knowing, you know, and I did a poll like how fucked up is that, you know? And, but it's interesting that your husband, I love the fact that he was so honest, because I said to my audience, I'm sorry, I have a lot of guy friends.

I can't tell you how many times a guy friend. If I was hanging out with him and ding, ding, his phone got a fucking dirty pick, he showed it to me. Oh, look at what I just got. Like, guys do that all the time, okay? And I totally love that your husband actually asked permission first. You don't hear that often. Yeah. He did.

That's pretty bold because you could be like. Like, are you fucking kidding me? But you were like, okay? Yeah, I'm like, whatever. Sure. Because you know you look good, right? Yeah, I'm like, you know, and I've known this person for years. And I know that person's backstory.

So. Yeah, but I feel like that could be worse that you know the person for years. And now you're going to show them your, now you know your husband showing them your naked body. You're kind of naughty, D.D., you know, that's a naughty thing to do. Maybe. I'm not so vanilla. Not all. Not at all.

I'm just trying to, I'm giving you your story. You don't know, you don't realize, okay? So, because like, listen, most women would be like, no way, especially because they know them. Like, you're going to show the sky that I know me. And, like, what was the picture? Were you naked or was it like in a bikini? No, I was not naked.

Oh, okay. I was in a bikini. Okay. And, you know. But he's still showing you off. But that was a lot for me at that point. Okay. But he's still showing you off.

Okay. So maybe that whole conversation doesn't really come into play because of what you said, but it's still an interesting conversation. And girls, just so, you know, guys do show your pictures to other guys. So your guy says, can I send this picture? You say, sure, go ahead. Okay, then what happened? So we started having a good time taking photos.

So I would put on lingerie and he would take pictures and I would pose. And then it was like, it kind of was like, well, now what do we do with all these pictures? So we decided one night to start an Instagram account that was anonymous, no face, just body pictures. And so we made an account. And that was the first account. And how far were you going with the pictures at that point? Because now you could go online and see your tits, your ass, like, I mean, you're really showing a lot. Like in the beginning, were you showing that much?

Or was it just bikini shots and lingerie shots? Yeah, just bikini shots and lingerie shots and just, you know, around the house. Okay. I thought, oh, you know, I thought, you know, he was like, oh, my God. I hope someone, like, follows her because if not, I'm going to feel terrible for her. I mean, this is later on. He says this. Yeah.

And I'm thinking of myself, there ain't nobody on earth going to follow a 50-year-old woman and lingerie. Yeah. Woke up the next freaking morning and there were hundreds of followers. I'm like, what is going on? So you do kind of get addicted to every morning getting up and seeing more followers and more messages. And it just exploded. And what were the messages like? Like what do guys say to hot chicks that they see online?

Oh, they're like, well, the main thing is send me news. All of them. In the DM. Send me news. Send me news. And I was like, what? Is that even possible? Yeah, I was just naive to that.

Eventually, did you start sending nudes? So, yeah. Yeah, I did. I mean, why were you hesitant, Dede? I don't even know who you are. Why were you so hesitant? Well, I did a lot of selfies and said those, but I was hesitant.

Where are those going to go? who's going to see those? Is there a tracking mechanism? You know, so that, the consequences. But you did it. No, but you were like hesitant, but you were even hesitant to tell me. I don't know.

Okay. So you did actually eventually start sending nudes to guys that requested it. Correct. Select individuals. Yes. And so why would one guy get a nude and one guy wouldn't? Is it because he was like hot, attractive, you're polite? What gets a guy and nude from a girl like you?

So they have to be extremely intelligent. Okay. And be extremely witty. And so, yeah, that was the main thing. That intelligence and someone just saying, hey, babe, you know, send me nudes. That didn't work. It was someone coming back with a witty comment that was. was intelligent and it wasn't just like it took time so basically if they were going to put the

work in that individual put the work in then and and there was some sort of attraction then yeah why not they would reap the reward yeah see unfortunately what a lot of guys don't realize is when they send a dick pick to a girl they're like projecting because like if you send just a picture of your tits to a guy, he'd be like elated. That would be enough for him to be totally hooked on you if you had a great pair of tits, right? Like that's it. That's how a guy rolls. But like for a girl, it's different. Like a dick pick, even if it's the biggest, fucking thickest, greatest dick on the planet, it's not going to get a girl to be like, oh my God, I want to talk to you. You know, they need that kind of initial, like some sort of weird connection,

right? It's like that personality. Like I said, that quick, wooded thing. You got to be funny. You got to be smart. You got to be something for a girl to connect. and that's what guys really need to know. Because I think when a guy is sending you the dick pick and a guy is saying like the dirty things, it's not that he's so dumb. He's just giving you what he thinks you like it because it's like what he would like. And what guys need to know is like you can't come from your own brain. You have to come from the girl's brain.

Like that's not what girls like. That's what guys like, right? Those guys just want your naked pick. They don't give a fuck if you're intelligent. No offense, right? They don't care about you. But you care about them. And I'm just stating that so that guys learn a little lesson listening.

Like they're going to see your picks and they're going to be like, oh, how am I going to get Dee Dee's secrets to send me a naked pick? You've got to connect with her. Valentine's Day is coming up. And you know what girls dig besides flowers? Guys with confidence. And that's especially true in the bedroom. Remember back in the day when you were always like super hard and ready to go.

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me a naked pick you got to connect with her. Correct. You have to emotion. And I say emotionally. Yeah. But I mean like brain. Yes. You have to connect with my brain.

Yeah. Not just physically. Correct. All right. So you get this. You wake up. There's hundreds of people like hitting you up and like does it like feed your ego? Like does it make you feel like great about yourself?

Is it like empowering? It is empowering. It is flattering. it is. It really does boost your ego, validate your hard work. If you've worked really hard to trim down and look good and it's like, hey, I'm all right. And then, you know, you've got the whole thing of if you're kind of a wallflower and you've always like, I don't know, it gives you confidence and you know without having to walk in and be like the the most outgoing person in the room is what you're saying like even a wallflower could do something like this because you're

you're like alone in your room doing it but you're still getting all this attention without kind of having to put yourself in a position where it's like not you correct correct yeah that makes right way of putting it and but then again it does bleed over to other things in your life explain that's interesting you you you walk a little taller your shoulders are back You might smile at someone that you normally would not smile at because you're like, hey, you might be a follower. So you just never know. You're at the grocery store and you're like, well, you know what? That could be someone who's following me on Instagram or Twitter.

You just never know. Yeah. But it does. It does give you confidence. It does, you know, it made our, it has made our marriage stronger. And I know people will be like, I don't understand, but it really has. when you're confident, you're confident in your relationship. It has worked.

Yeah, explain that, though. Like, did it help? Like, I mean, because I think one thing bleeds into another, right? Like you said. Yeah. You know, we don't just like spin in, we're all multi-faceted. And I think our emotional state is better. I think communication is better.

Even like sex is better because you become more, We are sexual beings, and so I'm able to communicate my sexual needs as well as him. More openly. More openly with each other than you did before. Appreciate each other's bodies for all the hard work that we've put in. I mean, he's not sitting here with a belly or anything. Yeah, I was going to ask you that because a lot of times, you know, if one person's getting in shape, it's important for the other one to follow.

And sometimes you see a big disconnect when one person goes there and the other person does. And you do definitely see a lot of guys walking around with those bellies, right, where they look a little pregnant. So your guy was as in good of shape as you, too. Like he was right now with you. Yeah. I mean, he's in his late 50s. He's got abs. Gym and nutrition is a priority.

So did he get you into it or did you guys both get into it at the same time? You mean like working out? Yeah, and all that. Like you changed the game. Yeah. Yeah. We did it together. That's great.

Yeah. That's important. We just figure out we've got to take care of ourselves. And so this has kind of evolved over years. Do you go to the gym together? Yes, we work out together and train together. Yeah, I do. I do.

Everyone else is in there with headphones on by themselves. Yeah. And we're in there together, you know, talking and we'll do, you know, we'll do bike rides together. We will do walks together. And, you know, there's nothing like getting out your frustrations from the day on on a five mile walk. Yeah, for sure.

You can really. Yeah. And I think working out with somebody and, you know, grunting and pushing weights as like all that testosterone, it gets you horny for that person more too. I don't know. It really does. I've had gym partners and I, listen, I love going to the gym and blasting my music in my ear and working at a loan. But when I have had workout partners and I always think to myself like if I was going to be a guy, my ideal guy would be a guy I could work out with. I think it's like super hot to work out with somebody.

Like doing that with someone, I think, that physical thing together adds to, you know, being physical with them in other ways. And again, it's all, you're all together. And I think he likes it because I've gotten to wear now, I'm wearing smaller things. Yeah. So smaller shorts, tighter items, shorter shirts. And I think he likes when someone walks by and might like get a side eye of my butt or something. Of course. Everyone's like flaunting their bodies at the gym.

So, okay, so you're posting online. Guys are like hitting you up in the emails. Now, you know, obviously you and your husband are in this together. Is he like, oh, let me see those DMs. And is he like interested in what the guys are saying to you? Like what happens after your initial going online? So initially, we would just sit and look at DMs together. Yeah.

And, and giggle or whatever. I mean like, oh, my gosh. Oh, my gosh. You know, we would, of course, deline us. Delete, delete, delete, answer comments together, try to come up with witty responses if someone says something. And just kind of go from there. So we did it together and kind of attacked it as a team because we do keep it on a separate device. So I'm not taking the DD account with me to work.

Of course. Yeah, I don't know. That's important. Keeping that as a separate, just for professional reasons. And so, you know, I'm gone for 12 hours. And so he would answer things. And then he would like send me a text and be like, oh, my God, you won't believe what, you know, this person said. Or holy crap, this picture is blowing up.

Or, oops, we can't post that. You got flagged by Instagram. Yeah. So what are we going to do now? You know, we can't post this because apparently, you know, you can't post this because apparently, you know, you can maybe see your nipple on this. So what are we going to do? It got flagged and you're suspended.

So we kind of manage that kind of back and forth and together. And to this day, we still manage the accounts together. Right now, after that initial, like, you know, you got hundreds of people that first day. Did that just starters, like did that snowball? Was that consistent? Yeah. I mean, I would wake up in the morning and there would be a thousand new followers. Really?

And I was like, where are these? I mean, there were people from Australia. I mean, all over the world, like messaging me from all over the world. It was, it was absolutely insane and incredible all the same time. Yeah. And you weren't even like trying, really. No, no, I was just posting pictures. I wasn't, that's not like I have, you know, I don't show my face.

Yeah. I don't tell anyone where I live. Yeah. Or, you know, everything is, again, anonymous. I'm trying to keep it secret. Yeah, now did your husband, okay, so like, does your husband cop to the fact that it was like turning him on that you're doing this? He, he had a big smile. Yeah.

A lot of the time. Every morning, what do you got? A big smile, you know? So, so, yeah, he's like, hey, maybe I, oh, wow, I made a good choice all those years ago. So it's kind of validating that for both of us that we're still attractive and, and, you know, we made the right. choice with each other. Yeah, for sure. And now how has it affected your sex life as far as making it better? It has, correct? That's what you said? It has. We, you know, he'll occasionally whisper who are you thinking about or, you know, imagine, you know, like we get toys involved and he says,

why don't you imagine that's your boyfriend? And so that has, that has really changed. changed our sex life and enhanced it both. It definitely sounds like your guy has the whole hot wife fantasy. Like he likes to think of you or imagine you with other guys, correct? Yeah. He does. And did that freak you out at all at first or was that totally cool with you? And first up, I was like, yeah, it did.

Yeah. Like, is this, is this okay? You know, you just, but then, you know, you, you, you, you, uh, yeah, he's, you know, am I trying to get rid of them or something or Tracy trying to get rid of me or what what what what does this all mean you know and then so you just have to talk about it so when you're in you have to say no wait a minute I do you really want me to be with someone else and it's like well yes and no but let's just pretend for now because the consequences yeah totally because listen I mean I had a ton of guy friends like I said they'd always show me picks of their girls whatever you know

because I'm super open minded so they like talk to me like they talked to me like they talked a guy. And, uh, but none of them ever had admitted to me that they were into seeing their girl or any girl, fuck someone else. And, you know, and so it was very surprising to me when I started my show and I, you know, that this was something that I found that a lot of guys were into, you know, there was a caller I had early on named John. Eventually, after he called him like eight times, it was obviously, he was like making the whole thing up, but he was a great liar. He told the greatest stories. To this day, people are like obsessed with John. Okay.

And, but his whole thing was like he loved watching his wife get fucked by other guys. And I would notice that these episodes were like going, you know, were like totally putting me on the map. It was when I first started podcasting like 11 years ago. And I was like, is this like a thing? And I started to realize. And now, 10 years later, I know that this very much is a thing. And it's something that so many guys are into. And but I could see how a regular woman because, and I wasn't even a regular woman.

And I was more open-minded than most. And I still didn't know about it. That they would be confused. And they would have a lot of questions if their guy came to them and said, hey, I'd love to see you go fuck someone else. The first thing they would think is like, do you not like me? Like, why if you loved me would you want to see me with somebody else? Like, that's what a girl think.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But it is a thing. Yeah. And, you know, I will say someone else's name. And. Whose name?

Do you say? I'm not going to say it. Well, we don't know. him? Oh, you mean, is he like a celebrity? No, no, he's not a celebrity. So, I mean, but you just say, you don't, I mean, like, okay, when I say who's the guy, I don't want to know the name because if you tell me the name, I'm like, I don't know who the fuck it is, but like, who is he? Is he a guy friend of yours? Is he a guy that messages

you on Instagram? Is it your husband's friend? Is the guy that you see at the gas station? Like, who's the fucking guy? I mean, like, who is he in your life? It's originally an, an original Instagram Excuse me Individual Oh, an original Instagram DM slide him Oh okay

So went into my DMs On the original Way by back Oh And why did he Why is he the guy you picked Dee Dee Dee? I'd want to know

He is so freaking smart And And he's He's got some really beautiful eyes So yeah Yeah So you Google Like you went to his profile

file after he DMed you and checked him out. Now, does he get nudes from you? He does get nudes from me. And I get nudes from him. Oh, okay. See, this is a little bit more than just posting picks online. You're sending naked picks and doing more. And then he's sending back to you?

Correct. Oh, interesting. Now, does your guy like to watch all that kind of stuff? No, he knows I get them. And again, when I send. occasionally they might get the same picture, the same selfie

in a day. Who, your guy and this guy? Yeah, my guy. Yeah. But he's fine with that, right? My guy? Yeah, my guy's fine with that. Right.

So he, and he knows about this guy because you literally, like, when you guys are role-playing the scenario that you're with another guy, you're talking about this guy. I occasionally do. Yeah, interesting. Do you ever think that if you guys,

Like, do you ever think down the line that there is any chance and even one percent chance that you actually would live out any of these role playing scenarios in real life? I am not willing to accept the consequences of that. Well, what do you think are the consequences? Well, I think the consequences vary. And so I'm not into an STD all the way to I'm not in. into a wife showing up at my door. I'm not into, like, destroy my relationship with my husband.

You're super cautious. I understand. I ever think things, too. Like, you see all the things that could go wrong, even though, like, a lot of times they don't, but those are all the things that could, and they're real things. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

There are, yeah, and, and there have been opportunities, and I did not. I, it didn't work out, thankfully. Well, what were those opportunities? What do you mean? There wasn't, you know, there have been opportunities where I was, you know, people wanted to do some things and I did not. And I'm glad I didn't because down the road, things got ugly with those individuals. Oh, is that interesting?

Yeah. So I'm glad it was, it was divine intervention. Well, you used your job. Listen, you listen to your gut and it improved, and you were right. You were right. You know, but listen, maybe they'll be like a gut feeling one day about someone that's like, oh, this is, this is okay. Like there's no red flags for some reason. I don't know. Listen, I have had a million stories on my show and I love a gone wrong story. And I'm like you. I think of all the things that could go wrong or would go wrong. You know, and I tend to be way too cautious to do any of these fun things that all my listeners do, right? Like that's why I kind of live vicariously through them. I think they have more balls than I do. You know, it's like because I do think all these things like, what if this, what if that? You know, and I love carefree people that don't, right? But, you know, you never know, because I do have so many people on that have sort of crossed a line and like went there. And none of those things that you're worried about have happened to them. No jealousy, only brought them closer.

No STDs or STI's. No wives at their doorstep. None of that, you know. So it could actually happen and be okay, right? But what I think is interesting and what I like about your story is that for the people that are like you, you know, that you sound very fulfilled just doing this. It's not like you're looking for anything more, correct? That is correct. We are having a great time doing this.

Exactly. And when we no longer are having fun and when it becomes a chore or, you know, and again, when it's no longer fun. Yeah. Or, you know, and again, when it's no longer fun, I'm not doing it anymore. Yeah. Delete, delete, delete. Yeah, of course.

Now, did you ever start an only fan? Did you ever start making money or monetizing it or you just do it for fun? I have monetized some stuff. I had an Amazon wish list. Uh-huh. And I have Jimmy Chuse. I have items. I have items from Tiffany.

I got some red bottom shoes, handbags, tons of lingerie. Yeah. I also get Malibu strings, bikini. Oh, Lola. Panties for her, sends me panties. I've been featured on Danny Daniels website. Who's that?

Next to Jenna Jameson. And she's a porn star. They're porn stars. Well, I know who Jenna Jameson is. How did you get featured on their sites? I don't know. Yeah, I'm actually a photo of me and their merchandise. What do you mean?

So, uh, Danny Daniels has a, has a brand and it's a D-D brand. The letters D-D. Okay. So I have a DD, one of her items on. And in her website, it's me next to Jenna Jamison. Oh, how funny. Yeah. So I don't show my face or anything, but there I am.

Also, you know, there was a microdistillery that I did some promo stuff for. They reached out to you from Instagram? Pardon that? Did they reach out to you from Instagram? Is that how they found you? Yeah. Well, the distillery slid into heat, the owner slid into my DMs. So, and said, hey, send me news, basically.

And I was like, well, send me some vodka and I'll do some stuff for you. So, yeah. Oh, wow, that's interesting. Well, because you did kind of blow up. We haven't even gotten there yet. Like, explain to people. I mean, it started hundreds and you're getting thousands. And, I mean, like, you did kind of get big on both Twitter and Instagram.

Right. So my first Instagram was deleted at 104,000. That's a lot of people. That's a lot. Yeah. And so then, you know, it takes a while to rebuild all of that. And you, if anyone's ever, you know, had their Instagram account suspended or deleted, it is a mess trying to get it back. And you, so we start a second. We always, you know, with all these people that are like, you need to have a backup account. You need to have a backup account. I need to do that. So my second Instagram was hijacked at 55,000. And then I currently have the third Instagram account. It's DD, the letter D, letter D, secret freak, 2.0. It's at 14.5. And then I do have a Twitter slash X account. I do pretty well on Twitter for not showing my face.

So my nudes, I leave something to the imagination. And it's at 225. and I am getting some monetization out of that. I do get, you know, a couple hundred bucks every month for ads and things like that. You could get ads even with your content? Yes. They don't know. They don't look.

They don't care. It's the Wild Wild West on Twitter. Not really because I can't. I don't know. You know what the Wild Wild West means to me. Like you never fucking know and nothing makes any sense because I was on YouTube and I got deleted there. I'm on Instagram jail. I can't go live for like a year.

at this point. I post literally I post words words words not pictures nothing ever nothing words like a word that says cuck okay and letters like that's all I post and I am so shadow band that I'll get like 13 likes and I have 16,000 real followers okay they don't they won't send me out to anybody other than my followers they you know I'm always getting fucked and I'm like and same on Twitter like I'll get things like oh we we put a sensitivity thing on your thing I'm like I see full on assertion on X okay like how the fuck am I getting these sort of things on my Instagram when I'm not an Instagram when Twitter seems to be like like you said wow wow West where you could do anything I like you know you're well so mine set on

Twitter as adult content oh so that is why that's why I can you know I can get monetization on the mature content items that they put there oh so I don't know if like your content setting. Oh, that's what I'm going to do. I'm going to change to that. So then I'll have last problem. Yeah. Try that. And then you might, you know, you might not grow. I don't know how you just give it an experiment. Just see how it does. Listen, I only grow through, listen, the way I've got and I have like 7,000 people on Twitter, but I get it through like just advertising on my show. I'm never like, I'm not posting a lot or doing anything to find me. You know, people are going and following me on my Instagram, my Twitter because they hear my

episode. So I don't really need them to get me to grow. I've never gone viral or anything like that because I'm not putting pictures of myself up or anything. So I don't care about that. I'll still grow at the rate that I am, which is fine. I just want to be able to not get screwed, you know. So you just have to change it to be adult content is what you do. Adult content on your Twitter. And you might, yeah, that might work for you. And then they'll throw it out to some people who are also set as, you know, accepting adult content. Yeah, that's great. I'd rather.

I'm fine. I like, like, I have a Discord attached to my Patreon and it's so great. It's become like a Craigslist. I mean, there's like tons of naked stuff going on there and there's like voice channels and everyone's like having fun and posting picks. And, you know,

there's like, there's all kinds of stuff going on there. A lot of my guests go on there. Like, you could go on. I'll give you free access. But, you know,

I made it a not safe for work site and locked it down because I, you know, I just rather do things on the up and up because I don't want this fucking trouble. It's a painy ass. And again, that's why I don't like, when people ask me for stuff, I'm like, I never send. I only post because I don't know who's on the other end.

Yeah, that's smart. Yeah. You know, you cannot, I can't risk, you know, a 15 year old, me sending a boob pick to a 15 year old. Oh, my God. So I just don't, you know, I just don't send. And then people get really pissed off. And then they say that I'm bullying or whatever. And that's how my Instagram gets locked down.

Because they get mad and they report you. They get mad. Yeah. Yeah. That's how my YouTube got taken down. People get mad at me all the time because I'm kind of like a big mouth in it. I'm very opinionated. So I know I have people that hate me.

They hate listen. So they like, they go after me, you know, and they get me in trouble. And like, whatever. You know, it is what it is. But you got to be careful. So you blew up and you became really famous without even really trying. Like, what do you think is the reason? I don't know if it's that during the pandemic, you know, there was a thing about nurses.

Everybody loved a nurse. So I went ahead and ran with that. you know, posting pictures with my stethoscope and, you know, in scrubs and things like that. People loved that. I don't know if it was just because, I mean, I put songs to all my reels and stories. I'm a try to be hubby is extremely witty. And so I try to put funny stuff. I try to post things in different locations.

So anytime we are out of town, I'm, you know, doing. Actually, I was changing on the beach on like a low-key beach in Florida and changing in and out of bikinis in a towel on the beach. And I didn't care who was walking by. There were boats going by. And I was posing for my husband as he's taking my pictures. So I don't know if it's that. Or maybe it is the fact that I don't show my face. And people can imagine what I look like in their own.

head and leave a little bit to the imagination. Yeah, but also your boobs look real to me, right? They are real. Yeah. So I think the fact that you have big natural boobs helps too, don't you think? Because it's a lot of nowadays, I'm not classic at all. What? Yeah, a lot of women, it's very rare. You see like big, real boobs nowadays and I think that that's a draw too. I'm sorry. I'm slightly curvy. I do a lot of times I show my stretch marks. Yeah. And people like that. Yeah. I seem to be a real person. So, and I am.

Yeah, it's like the milf. I mean, a lot of guys like older women. I mean, it just is a thing. It is. And I think because of the lack of bullshit. There's so many young people that everything is just offensive or you can't, like you, you talk and you say what you feel. Yeah. And you're authentic.

Yeah. Brutely honest, I like to call it. And, you know, if you don't like me, then just don't follow. me. That's fine. I'm just doing this for fun. Yeah. Has, is it all fun? Like, what are, like, what are some of the downfalls of it, if there are any? Some of the downfalls is sometimes making content gets to be a chore. Sometimes, sometimes I take a break and I just, like, dig out some old photos and post those. Yeah. And it's expensive. I mean, if, I mean, you can get cheap lingerie off of Amazon and stuff, but sometimes it's expensive to buy all that stuff and have something

new to post or at a location. You know, there's only so many places you can post selfies from your house. No, that's true. And I think a lot of people don't really understand, like, how hard it is to build and a platform and keep it going. You know, they don't understand. It's a daily thing. It's no different than the gym.

I mean, you don't get to a certain point at the gym where you work out to a certain point and then you just have you could stop and your body stays that way it's like a you have to do it all the time or it goes sway you know same with the platform if you don't tend to it all the time it's going to die and it's it's not going to continue so anybody that has a lot of followers or is doing well that they are working that platform on a daily basis and it is a lot of work it's so you have to like love it and it sounds like you do and I'll tell you one thing and it doesn't sound like you had this experience and I love that you have it I'm thinking you haven't I don't know you tell me but you know what I have heard from some women who decide you

to like get out of the vanilla world and put themselves online in a very sexual way, uh, they tend to get very offended by what comes back in their DMs with the guys and the way men are treating them. Like have you ever felt like, oh, like this is making me hate men or does it make like, you know, did it change your view? Do you get a lot of like DMs from like gross guys and it pisses you, like guys that piss you off or anything?

Because I've heard that from some people. I don't have that experience. And all I do is talk about sex. My show is so sexual and there's men emailing me all the time. But I don't find I get any of that kind of stuff to me, but other people do. And I'm wondering how you experience it. But the only time that I was super pissed off. Yeah.

We went and we did this really cool photo shoot. I stood in the middle of a desert highway with the, I was looking at the mountains. Yeah. The photo is from the back. Yeah. And I have boots on and a pair of under. underwear. Okay. A thong in the freaking middle of the desert. Yeah. Double lines right in between my legs. And some fucker said that's a dude. To you about you? About me. And I was like,

that just really pissed me off. I'm like, how could you think I'm a dude? But I think that was probably the only. But I mean, you don't feel like guys hitting you up or anything. Like you don't take that in the wrong way. Like it is empowering to you. It makes you feel good. Like you're cool with it. Because I do find sometimes women,

they go on and they start these kinds of things. And then they're just like, oh, they didn't really like the way guys were hitting them up and asking them for things. Well, it's like, be careful what you wish for. Yeah. Yeah. Or like, what did you think is going to happen when you post yourself half naked? Yeah.

guys are going to want nudes. They're going to ask for stuff. Like they're going to go. So, yeah. And that's why those people get off because, like, like you said, if this is not what you want, then don't do that because that's what you're going to get. That's what you're going to be on the receiving end of. But you enjoy it.

And that's what's most important. Yeah. Yeah. And if you don't like what I post, just unfollow me. Yeah. No one's going to not like what you post. Okay. No one's going to not like what you post.

Didi. Dedy freak. Give me, I love your story. Give me a give a. a shout out to all your stuff so all my people could go and check you out. All right. So Instagram is at D-D, letter D, letter D, secret freak 2.0. So you'll see me on there.

I do reels and then posting and feel free to slide in my DMs and let me know where you found me. The other is on X or formerly known as Twitter, which is at DD, D, which again, letter D, letter D, secret freak. And that DD is my double D's. So I do show those off on Twitter along with my fabulous little rear end. Yes, you got a great body. You look great.

You're all natural. I think my audience is going to fucking love you. So you're going to get a lot of follows. What I'm going to do, D.D., is put all of your links in the description. So send them to me. Send me a couple hot picks of you or I could take them off of Twitter. I see a million picks that are so great on here that I could put. for my Patreon.

So he's anonymous. And then what I'll also do when your episode comes out is give you free access to my Patreon and my Discord so you could go on and see the comments for your episode as well as then go on to my Discord and you can promote there and tell people where to find you on Instagram as well. And I have like over 2,500 people on there. So you'll get people from there as well too. I do have a Patreon as well.

Oh, you do? Cool. Why don't you give that out? I do that shout out. What do they get on your Patreon? Not a lot. You want me edit that out? You want to repitch your Patreon?

You obviously don't have a lot of people on there if that's the way you pitch it. Yeah. It's there. It's there for people to want extra content that's not available. Okay. So they get extra content. It's extra, extra content. A lot of see-through.

Okay. So more nudes. Like more stuff. If they're not getting any. Yeah. A little spicier. Yeah. If they're not getting enough from you via the D.

They could go onto your Patreon and you do it there. Okay, cool. So they could find that through your links. You send me some hot picks. I could get some for sure from your Twitter, if not for my Patreon. But thanks so much for calling in. Like I knew I could make this a story. I think it's super interesting.

Thank you so much. And when you're ready and you want to send links and stuff, then I will post that for my 22, my 225 Twitter and get you some more. Yeah, they're going to love to hear your story. I mean, whenever I have people on that are big on Twitter or something like that, you know, their fans love to hear their backstories. I think it's like, you know, it makes you more real to them, you know? Yes. And trust me, guys like that.

So your audience is going to love hearing your whole backstory and hearing you talk like this, you know, after seeing your hot bot all this time. So thanks so much for calling in. I will definitely tag you and everything so then you could promote the episode to your audience too. But thanks so much for calling in, DD. This was super interesting. All right. All right. Thank you, Kathy.

You have a great one. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that. My book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show.

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