Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 102 - Sara Slept with Well Hung William and Loved It

Episode Date: November 30, 2015

Sara went on to craigslist looking for some meaningless sex and came across well hung William's (episode 99) ad. Will was looking for a woman who could accommodate him anally and Sara was not only a...ble to, she also was able to take it vaginally and she loved every minute of it. Why does Sara use craigslist to find men? What went down the first time she fooled around with William? Is Sara a true size queen or was this her first experience with a man of his size?  Tune in to find out, plus hear a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. Craigslist is definitely the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.
Starting point is 00:00:18 Real problem. Does your friend know that you're banging her? No, he has no idea. And anything goes. The motto of the show, let your Greek flag lie. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whips and change. Here are your hosts, Kathy Kay and Tommy. Hey, welcome Strictly Anonymous podcast, Kathy.
Starting point is 00:00:36 Do you want to follow the show on Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous, or follow me on Twitter at Cartoon Therapy. You could like my Facebook page, Strictly Anonymous, even though I don't do shit on there, but you can like it anyway. It's just a push of a button, right? And give me some likes. I just don't really do anything that. I hate Facebook.
Starting point is 00:00:54 But I like Twitter. Less is more. I can't stand blah, blah, blah. Even though that's what I do in my podcast. I blah, blah, blah, through the whole thing. I'm more of a talker than a writer. I guess that's why I don't like Facebook or anything more than Twitter.
Starting point is 00:01:09 But anyway, what else can you do? Oh, you can buy my book. My book is on Amazon.com. It's called The Cartoon Misadventures of a Total Chain Rock. And it's basically a bunch of love gone very wrong stories. That's my tagline. And it's my tagline because that's exactly what the book is. It's basically, it's kind of a true story.
Starting point is 00:01:27 even though, I mean, you know, who was it, James Fry that got in a lot of trouble for saying it was true and not every fucking word was true. I mean, like, it's basically what I did was I just retold all my relationship stories from the time I lost my virginity to the time I'm 40. And so, you know, to my recollection, this is how it went down. And it's pretty fucking hilarious and it's pretty tragic. Everyone has a different experience reading my book. I've heard back from some people that have got it and people feel different things when they read it. And so it's interesting to me because that's art, right? You put something out. out there and everyone takes different things. Personally, I think the book is fucking funny. And, uh, but there's lessons in it, you know, because I, I write that kind of stuff into the book as well. Um, it's more for women, I think, because it's, you know, about relationships. I don't think guys really like to analyze that shit. But if you're a guy, you might like it because there's a lot of SEX in there and you might learn some stuff about women. I'm pretty honest about, you know, and transparent about what I was feeling and what was going down on all the relationships. So anyway, that's my book. You could buy it. Cartoon Therapy. Uh, not Cartoon.
Starting point is 00:02:27 That was my old bad name of my book. It's called The Cartoon Miss Adventures of a Total Train Rock. It's about $11.95 is on Amazon. Buy it. Read it. Let me know what you think. Also, if you can write a review, if you like my podcast, write a great review. I need reviews. I like reviews. I know it's a pain in the ass. It must be because I know I have thousands of listeners, but nobody ever writes a fucking review. And I know I get emails from people that love my podcast. So I know you're out there. So if you can just write a one sentence review or, you know, whatever. And then what? What else? So today, let me just get right to it. Today I have on a girl. I always love when I have females on my show. And the way I got this girl is remember Will, the guy whose dick was too big. He was a couple podcasts ago. I think he was like 101, episode 101. Will was this guy who had a really big dick and couldn't, it wasn't satisfied with women sexually. No woman could take him sexually. I mean, vaginally or anally. And he was looking for a woman that could because, you know, he wants to enjoy sex and he wants to settle down and he wants to have a relationship. Well, it turns out like two weeks after that podcast aired, he found a girl. And not only could she take him anal-a, she could take
Starting point is 00:03:30 him badgily, and she was into it. She really liked it. And so he told me like, hey, I found this girl. And she, like, loves my dick size. And maybe you want her on the show. And I was like, oh, yeah. And so he put me in touch with her. And I was like, you know, I would love to have you on, but I would need to talk to you, you know, about more than just your experience with Will, right? Because I wanted to know her story. And that's, and she agreed. And that's what goes down on this podcast. This woman calls in. I forget what we call her. Maybe Kim, Lisa. Joanna. I don't know. What does it fucking matter? Names are so irrelevant to me. That's why I have everyone make up names. To me, I'm more interested in who somebody is. So she calls in,
Starting point is 00:04:06 this Jane Doe, I forget her name. She calls in and she explains, you know, how she met Will, what went down with him, as well as like, you know, stuff about her. She's a girl who met him on Craigslist. So this is a real woman that really goes on Craigslist looking to fucking hook up and just hook up for sex. And I know that most people don't think that that exists. It's like a dinosaur, but she exists. She does it. So that woman on Craigslist, the real woman on Craigslist does exist. You can find it, but they're few and far between. And this girl's not what you think. I mean, you think, oh, what kind of girl will go on Craigslist and just respond to a guy to fuck a stranger? But if you listen to the whole thing, you get that, you get a different
Starting point is 00:04:48 picture than what you probably would go into just knowing, you know, those facts. So anyway, I'm just going to get right back on with Kim, I think her name is. So you could hear all about it. Do you have a story, lifestyle, or situation you can't talk about to anyone, to anyone? Or do you just want to let your freak flag fly and be on the show? Well, Strictly Anonymous wants to hear from you. Send us an email, Strictly Anonymous podcast at gmail.com with your story and your anonymous name. And remember, everything is strictly anonymous. Strictly anonymous.
Starting point is 00:05:34 Hi, is this Sarah? Yes, hi, Kathy. How are you? Good. How are you doing? I'm doing well, thanks. Great. So you're calling it alone, right?
Starting point is 00:05:44 But really, you're calling in because will, my previous guest, will the guy with the extremely large, whatever you want to call it? because I don't know. You can't even call it a cock, right? Because it's like nothing you've probably ever seen before. I don't know. But I know that he described how big it is on the show.
Starting point is 00:06:05 And he's like extra large, like extra well hung. And his problem was he couldn't find a girl that could take him. I don't know if you listened to his episode, but I was like, No, I didn't. Okay, because he was actually putting it out there on Craigslist. He was looking for a girl because he was really looking for a girl to like get married and stuff. but he can't, he's not sexually satisfied, but he said he found one woman in his whole life that could actually take him anally. So I was like, that's really what you should look for, a girl who could take you anally because I don't think, you know, you're a woman, I'm a woman.
Starting point is 00:06:35 We know how we're made inside vaginally. And I just don't think it's possible to take that totally in because of the cervix, right? So you are the girl that he met right after he taped the podcast on Craigslist, off of Craigslist, right? That's where you guys met. That's correct, yeah. And you took him inally and you loved it. I mean, that's what he told me. And then he put us in contact, okay?
Starting point is 00:07:00 Right, right. So that we can take a podcast all about it. But of course, we're going to talk about other things. So tell me how that all went down. You met him on Craigslist? Yeah, that's correct. Yeah. Yeah, found him, responded, chatted a little bit, you know, talked about, I guess, you know,
Starting point is 00:07:19 what he wanted and what I wanted and, you know, decided. to meet up and yeah and you know kind of went from there right so now tell me like okay because I get a lot of my callers all the guys mostly guys that I talk to that call in from Craigslist right and their
Starting point is 00:07:36 biggest complaint most of the time is that there's no real women on Craigslist it's very hard to meet a girl that's really looking to you know sort of do the things that these guys are on their advertising for but you're a real girl right who was really on Craigslist looking to hook up
Starting point is 00:07:52 up, right? Like, what were you on Craigslist looking for? Yeah, I mean, I just, exactly that. I mean, you know, nothing heavy. I feel like with Craigslist, people are, they kind of put it out there. This is what I want. This is what I'm looking for. You know, there's no mixed messages or anything like that. It's, you know, straight up and pretty direct. So, you know, that's, I personally haven't ever, um, done an ad myself. It was just mainly, you know, kind of just go on there and check things out and and, you know, talk to people and see what happens. Um, you know, he's the first person that I met up with that anything really materialized in that respect. Oh, really? Yeah, I've talked to other people
Starting point is 00:08:43 and met them and just thought, you know, no. But, um, you know, there was just something just different about him and so you know we talked and and met up and in fact initially when i had reached out to him um he's pretty far away from me and you know it's just like at the time i had too much going on and i was just like no it's not going to work out and then um i reconnected and just hey hey you know did you find what you're looking for he's like no and i said all right well you know what about this weekend and um you know it was just It was like that. But it was just kind of what I like about, like I said, it's just straightforward.
Starting point is 00:09:26 This is what I want. You know. And you were on there looking because you're just looking for like a booty call or you're just looking for someone to have sex with. Like what are you like when you say it's so direct? Is it because you're not looking for a relationship in your life and you just want like sex with a guy that you kind of like and feel comfortable with? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:09:43 I mean, if I'm looking for a relationship, I'm not going to Craigslist, quite honestly, you know. So to me, This kind of like fantasy fulfillment, you know, a quick hookup or something like that. That's what in my mind, you know, that's my intention. Now, let me just get a little backstory on you, Sarah. How old are you? 40. You're 40.
Starting point is 00:10:05 And now have you ever been married or anything like that? No. Okay. And when was like your last long-term relationship? About a few months ago. I ended, I would have been seeing somebody for about a year and a half, almost two years. Mm-hmm. So you're, so now.
Starting point is 00:10:23 let me ask you this. Are you the type of person when you're with someone, you're totally monogamous? Yes. Okay. So this Craigslist thing, is it a new thing for you? Or have you always sort of gone on there looking for like hookups and that kind of a thing? I did it before, I guess, when I was younger, you know, when I guess I first kind of discovered Craigslist. And I had, like I said, you know, I'd met up with people. But then I was, I foolishly thought, well, maybe I could. it would be a, you know, a cheap way to, like, date somebody, you know? Right. And back then when Craigslist first came out, because you're 40, I'm in my 40, so, you know, back then there was no other way to sort of meet people.
Starting point is 00:11:05 There wasn't all these other, like, regular dating sites, right? So maybe you go there and you think, oh, I could get sex, and then it could turn into a relationship or whatever, you know? Right. Exactly. Exactly. And early in, I guess, like mid-20s, I guess, I was exploring kind of, like, um, dominant submissive lifestyle.
Starting point is 00:11:27 And so Craigslist was an easy way to kind of engage with people who were in that lifestyle and kind of learn about it and talk to them and, you know, kind of put feelers out there. So initially, you know, back then, that's what I did. I was just, you know, chatting with people. But nothing really, no relationship or anything, no hookups really materialized out of it. Never, you never. So in all the years and your 40 years in between guys, I'm assuming that you've dated, You go into Craigslist sometimes just look around, right?
Starting point is 00:11:56 And none of that time did you ever have sex with anybody or any kind of hookup? No, no. Interesting. And now how come do you think? I mean, because that's a long time. And how many people would you say you sort of engaged with? Like tons of people? No, not tons of people.
Starting point is 00:12:13 I mean, initially I had, like I said, you know, it was more kind of learning about the dominant submissive lifestyle. And so I would talk with people. And there were, you know, a lot of crazy people out there. Like, I remember I had chatted with this one guy who was significantly older than me. And his idea of the lifestyle was completely foreign than anything I was interested in. And so we talked for a really long time. And then I was just like, this dude is not on the same page with what I want. You know, but then, you know, I was always kind of, I was always a safety girl.
Starting point is 00:12:50 So I was afraid of just like the random. like people around here, you just hear horror stories, right? So I was just kind of, you know, a little freaked out by that. People have gotten murdered by people on Craigslist. Yeah, absolutely. Right? So, and as a woman, you always have to be weary if you're not really vetting somebody. You know, a guy meeting someone.
Starting point is 00:13:07 And if you're not telling anyone and this is something that you're doing on the down, though, it's even worse. You know, I don't know. I haven't gotten to that question yet. Like, do most, do people know that you do this? Or is this sort of a secret thing that you do on the side to sort of fulfill your fantasy or, you know, or do people know? Yeah, no.
Starting point is 00:13:25 No, nobody really knows. Yeah. And that's the other thing, too. You know, it's kind of like, like you said, you know, you're doing it on the down low. And, you know, so you're not really telling people what you're doing. No. You got to be. So you wind up on Dateline, because I watch those shows.
Starting point is 00:13:40 I love those shows. You know, it's like, you disappear. No one understands why. But then they get a hold of your computer. And they're like, oh, you know, you come back from commercial break. And it's because they're like, oh, they found out she was on Craigslist. She was hooking up with these guys and then you know what happened. You just got knifed by one of them.
Starting point is 00:13:57 Exactly. So you have to be careful because we've all seen that story. So you have been super cautious. Like as much as you want to do something like this and you're open to it, you're super cautious and you're smart about the way you do your business. And you haven't met anybody that you felt comfortable enough in all these years to actually hook up with. Right. Right.
Starting point is 00:14:16 Except Will. And what was it about Will? Do you think? I think, you know, he was very non-threatening, you know, and it wasn't, it wasn't anything at all about the whole, it wasn't the whole dominant submissive thing, it wasn't that, it was just straight, you know, listen, I have, I sort of have an issue here, and I'm looking to meet somebody who would be open, and, you know, I guess he just, he was non-threatening, and he was just, he wasn't aggressive in his conversation. either, you know, and he, you know, he wanted to talk first and all that kind of stuff. So he just approached it differently. Right. You know? I think because I, listen, I talked to him for like 45 minutes and I, you know, question him like Barbara Walters. That's what I do on my show, you know. And so I know I got from him the fact that like this is like a normal guy that probably if his dick wasn't too big and he could
Starting point is 00:15:11 just get girls in a regular way and he didn't have this problem that he would never be on Craigslist, right? Right. Right. Right. He was doing it after, you know, because, you know, he's a 30-something-year-old guy and he's just been out there trying to do it the regular way. And it's just like, you know, he gets to the point where he pulls it out and most women can't take it so that, you know, he looks to Craigslist to be sort of like a problem, like a solution to his problem. Yeah. He could go on there, weed it out, get the women in front of him that could handle it and then take it from there and see if he likes them. Because when he does it the opposite way, he waste a lot of time. So I think, you know, maybe that's why you felt less starting from him because he's not really on there.
Starting point is 00:15:50 you know, because he's just looking for some secret sexual kind of a dirty thing, you know, which maybe that freaks you out if you're, it's a total stranger, you know. Right, exactly. He's a regular guy who's really well hung and maybe for somebody like you, that was like the perfect thing, like hitting the jackpot. I'm assuming you must be a size queen. I mean, you saw his ad, right? Is that what appealed to you?
Starting point is 00:16:15 Yeah, well, you know what? Another thing, too, he put his face out there. I know. You know, he put his face out there. So, you know, that was the other thing, too, where a lot of people just, you know, they hide. They only give you a shot of the cock and that's it. And they, you know, they hide who they are. And he didn't do that.
Starting point is 00:16:35 Well, I was even wondering, this is why I'm glad to have you on because I'm like, you know, is he, is that even real? Do you know what I'm saying? And he was like, no, I put face shots and you could have your listeners look at, you know, he sort of told me all that stuff. you know, because I was like maybe he's bait and switching women. Like maybe he puts those pictures up, but you show up. But like, I mean, you bad him, you fooled around with him. You had sex with him. So like those pictures of his face, which I never saw, but he told me he puts them out there,
Starting point is 00:17:01 as well as the pictures that he put up of how well hung he was. Those were all the real deal, right? Well, are definitely the real deal. Yeah. There, you know, there are two pictures that he put up there that I thought there's one where it I thought I don't know where he got that from
Starting point is 00:17:24 because to me that's not him okay because it's I mean it's almost it's um it looks like something alien it's not real you know it's just yes I think that's the one I saw
Starting point is 00:17:36 it was like the biggest thing I've ever seen like a baseball bat sticking out of like between a guy's legs yeah no no and then there's one picture that he had where um he's fully dressed
Starting point is 00:17:48 and you can see the imprint. And to me, that looks like a dildo. Because nobody's that veined. So when it's, you know, coming through the, the, oh my God, you're kidding me. So I didn't call him on that because when we started talking and then when we were texting, he sent me videos. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:18:10 So, right, because I said to him, how did these women know that you're not to be? He said, well, listen, they show up. And like, I mean, what, what good would it do if I lied? You know, so basically he sort of said, like, I, you know, I am what they, they expect me to be. So the videos that he showed you was it like. They were him. And how big was it? Huge.
Starting point is 00:18:35 Like insanely huge? In my opinion. Because, like, so when we were talking, I told him when I was, I waited until I was 20 and I lost my virginity to my college boyfriend. and my college boyfriend was well endowed, okay? Right. He was very long and he was, what I come to know, you know, thicker than average. Right. Will has him beat tenfold.
Starting point is 00:19:01 Right. He told us, he told my listeners and me that he is eight inches around. I believe it, yeah. I didn't measure, but I believe it. I think it was eight inches. Is that even physically possible? Yeah. I thought it was at least, um,
Starting point is 00:19:17 at least nine or ten inches round. Right. And what was your boyfriend in high school? I mean, your first boyfriend, do you remember? He was probably around like seven inches round, maybe six. Wow. So that's like the size of like a baseball can. Like what would you sort of like to so that we could get a picture in our heads? Like what would you say it's equivalent to like a regular like an inanimate object?
Starting point is 00:19:40 Like a beer can? Like what? Yeah. Like that thick. Yeah. Right. Right. Because when I first started to go down on him, I was just like, I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this.
Starting point is 00:19:53 Right. Because I felt like I couldn't get any air in. Nothing else could fit into my mouth and I couldn't get any air in. Right. And this is not your boyfriend. This is Will. Right. Okay.
Starting point is 00:20:04 But then also isn't it super long? Yes. Right. How long about? 13 inches. Right. So you couldn't take it vaginally. Did you guys try?
Starting point is 00:20:20 Yeah. I took both. Oh, you did? Yeah. Oh, my God. He's going to marry. Are you looking for a husband? You're not looking for a relationship to me because you know he is.
Starting point is 00:20:30 No, we didn't talk about that at all. Oh, okay. I don't want to burst your bubble in case, you know, you could be the opposite. Most girls are like, that's what they're looking for. I was more like you. I was like never looking for that. So that would have freaked me out, you know? Yeah, yeah, no.
Starting point is 00:20:45 Yeah, he finds it very hard to find, I mean, just between me and you and all my listeners. he finds if he's like really looking for a relationship but he wants to be sexually satisfied in his relationship like anybody would want to be right and the problem is you know he meets girls and he likes them but they just cannot take it and they're always in pain and nobody's really enjoying it and he wants and that's not enjoyable for him and most of the time he can't get his dick all the way in someone vaginally so he never enjoys vaginal sex with anybody um so he was really looking for somebody that could and then hope i hope i hope that, you know, what follows after that is, you know, compatibility on other levels. But let's get back to, like, you know, to year, like you hooking up with him.
Starting point is 00:21:30 So where do you guys, you said he lived far away from you, where do you guys meet the first time? And was that the first, did you guys have sex that same day that you met or that night? Yeah, we did. We did. I went to him. I went to him. I, you know, I thought about it and I thought about it. And I just said, well, you know, I'm a gut and instinct person. I wouldn't necessarily recommend this for everyone.
Starting point is 00:21:56 But, you know, I had talked to him. I felt comfortable. You know, I drove out there and I met him. Listen, you didn't feel comfortable with so many people. So I, right? I mean, that's the reason why you never wound up any place else, right? And you've been like sort of in and out of Craigslist for many, many years, right? So I would
Starting point is 00:22:16 I would probably Trust I'm the same way like I would trust that you knew because you did videos with him You talked with him that this was like a Kind of a normal decent guy that you could be safe going over his house and not telling anyone about I don't know I just And you were right I don't think he like you know you survived I talked to him for 45 minutes I think he's like a normal dude just you know with a super big dick Right exactly exactly you know and um
Starting point is 00:22:46 So, yeah, I mean, I went, I went to him and, you know. And did you find him good looking? He talks about, I didn't see the pictures. He told me he posed pictures of his face. He's attractive. He told me, you know, he talked about how, like, good looking he is, too. So he's attractive on top of it. Yeah, I think he's really attractive.
Starting point is 00:23:02 And I think, I mean, he takes really good care of his body. You know, he's in great shape. He is, he's hot. Right. He's a hot guy. And, yeah, and I definitely could see, you know, if he and I had, met at a bar and he had picked me up and then you know one thing led to another i was like whoa buddy i don't know you know i mean i could see that happening where girls would just be like um no this is
Starting point is 00:23:28 not going to happen right but you had had the boyfriend that was just a little bit smaller than him so yeah you and you like that yeah i like i like that that feeling of full yeah right totally totally And so, and how long did you date that guy in your 20s? Um, for like four and a half years. Right. So you were like, how did you ever, like, how did you ever go from that for four and a half years to anyone else? Like, how does that happen? Like, do you eventually like get used to somebody else's size?
Starting point is 00:24:02 I mean, I just think when you're, when you do have that and you're filled up and you're, like, you know, and that is what's totally satisfying to you. Are you ever fully satisfied by somebody that, you know, is normal sized? Yeah. I mean, I think people, you know, quite honestly, it's overrated about size, you know. I mean, if somebody's really, really small, then... That's a problem. Yeah, that's a problem. But, you know, like the last guy I was with, he was, you know, maybe he was average to smaller.
Starting point is 00:24:33 And, but, you know, I still felt, you know, fulfilled. You had chemistry. Yeah, he was talented with his tongue and, you know, and his figure. fingers and all of that. So, yeah. So it was cool. Yeah. Okay, so you show up at his place. He's good looking. Yeah. You guys had done videos in the past, right? You guys were like Skyping or whatever and you guys like, were you like kind of sexting stuff with each other? Or was it strictly like just you were like looking at the goods? Yeah. I mean, it was more like he would send a video. I would send pictures and then we would chat about, you know, fantasies and stuff that we wanted to do and stuff. And then, um,
Starting point is 00:25:13 you know yeah so then you showed up at his house a little buzzed right you said you went to a bar before and then no oh no no no no no i say i was saying that if i could imagine if he had met a woman at a bar and just brought her home oh right okay right okay so you get to his house and then you guys like literally start going out it when you're there and it starts to come out and you were a little bit like whoa because it was even bigger than your first guys right yeah because here's the thing I mean, he's so big that even when he's flasted, he's huge. Right. So when he pulled it out, I was just like, oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:25:49 Right. You know, and then when it started to get bigger and bigger and bigger, I was just like, wow. Okay. And then, first of all, can you even use a condom with a dick that big? Yeah. I mean, yeah, you know, I think it's really tight for him. It was, you know, it's uncomfortable. But he used a condom.
Starting point is 00:26:09 he could fit one around that? Yeah, he did use one, yeah. Okay. So anyway, but you decide you're like into it. Like you were horny for that when you, in the midst of fooling around, right? Oh, yeah. Yeah, I mean, once I saw it, I was like, you know, like, that's a mountain I've got to climb. And I'm sure he was so happy.
Starting point is 00:26:29 This is like his big problem. Like, this is like, you know, you're exactly what he was waiting for. So wait, so you start like fucking him and it was like totally amazing. could he get all the way inside? Could 12 inches go all the way inside a woman? Could he go totally in you vaginally? There's probably a couple of inches on the, you know, out, but he pretty much got all the way in there.
Starting point is 00:26:53 Yeah. Really? And was it just like amazing because you hadn't had that since you were like 20? I mean, it felt it was incredible. Yeah. Right. Yeah. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:27:02 Yeah. I mean, so much that you let him fuck you in the ass too that same night? Mm-hmm. Wow. Okay. Did you stay at his first thing? We, yeah. We almost, like, because we had, he, I think he had, he'd come twice at that point already.
Starting point is 00:27:18 And so, you know, he's like, anal next time. And I said, okay. And then we were, we were like laying there talking. And then I said, you know, let's try. And so we tried and he was able. He said that he wasn't, he wasn't fully hard. So, you know, so it'll be interesting. He wants to do that first next time.
Starting point is 00:27:38 So it'll be interesting to see next time. but he was yeah I mean and yeah I was surprised I didn't think I'd be able to take as much as I could right and that was amazing too had you ever done anal with your first boyfriend with the really big dick yes yes you had so you were always a three input girl from early on yeah yeah and he must have been like holy shit and now like are you totally I mean have you guys seen each other or more than one occasion? Was that where you guys left off and then he texted me and put us together? Or like, where are you guys at now? So I'm going to see him again this weekend. That's the plan. And, you know, have some more fun and go from there. I mean, I could imagine because that must be like,
Starting point is 00:28:24 I don't know, like you said, you get turned on by other guys and it doesn't have to be that. But because you kind of like it, maybe it's like a fetish thing or whatever and you found someone that sort of has it and is a nice guy and super good looking and has a good body on top of it, right? You kind of like, you know, have, you know, you're, you should be as happy as he is that you guys met because in a way he's like really good for you. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, you know, the last time I had encountered somebody this big, I think he wasn't, Will is the biggest that I've ever seen. Right. In real life.
Starting point is 00:29:04 There was another guy that I had met, and we met online, but we met online in a chat room. It wasn't Craigslist, and it was on run in a chat room. And we had talked for a while, and we talked on the phone, and I went to go visit. We actually dated. We went on dates and stuff. But his problem was, as big as he was, he didn't know how to use it, and he could not stay hard. Are you kidding? That's so weird.
Starting point is 00:29:30 How come? I have no idea. I have no idea. And so it was beyond frustrating because he could never fuck me. Like even, but let me ask you, if it's soft but it's so big, can't you use that? No, because it, I mean, it's like there's no backbone to it. Right, right, right. It's just mushy.
Starting point is 00:29:48 Yeah. Right. You know? So, and it was just frustrating. And it's just like, I'm the type of person. Like oral is great, but I need, I want to have a cock inside of me. Right. You want to be penetrated for sure.
Starting point is 00:30:00 Yeah. And so, you know, he was like, you know, we'll just do this. And I'm like, no. No. And so eventually it was just like, okay, enough, buddy, we're good. So, you know, it's just, it's nice to have somebody where it's like, everything kind of falls into place, you know? Yeah, totally. I honestly didn't expect Will to be real, you know. I expected that there was going to be, I thought maybe there would be a bait and switch.
Starting point is 00:30:25 And then, you know, he sent me the videos and then, you know, talking to him, he's so chill. He's really cool. And just, and then, you know, and then sometimes it's like, okay. well, they have a great dick, but then, you know, do they know what to do with it? Can they really actually fuck you with it? And then do you feel any kind of chemistry with him? Yeah, and can he do other things? Like, he told me he's really into oral too.
Starting point is 00:30:47 Like, you know, I mean, he's like the full package, right? That's what he says he normally does with girls because a lot of them can't take anything else. But, you know, it's not like he's just, he could do it all. Right. And in fact, I mean, I told him because oral, for me has not always been great because I have a large clit and, guys tend to over-stimulate it and like pull on it and it just it can be uncomfortable for me. And I tell him. That's so interesting.
Starting point is 00:31:13 Wait, so what do they do most guys? I mean, just for guys that are listening. Well, so listen, guys, if you get a girl that has a really big clit, do not, how do they over-stimulate it? They suck too hard. They feel like they suck too hard. They kind of pull at it, you know. And I think they forget, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:31:33 Maybe they don't know. Maybe they don't have the same equipment. They don't understand. But it's super sensitive. That's what I was going to say. Do you think maybe it's even more sensitive because it's like really big? Maybe. You know, maybe like hypersensitive that you have like a guy has to be a little bit more careful, right?
Starting point is 00:31:50 Because maybe you have more nerve endings in there than the average clit, right? Maybe. Yeah. Because I know, I mean, I come easily and often. So maybe. Right. Yeah. That's great.
Starting point is 00:32:01 Yeah. maybe you're like super like overly sensitive because it's like really big and but guys are into it right and then they just go to crazy on it and it's too much for you so i told him i was like look you know that's not really my thing i'm not a fan of it so and he's like um he's like well i have to i have to like you i have to taste you that's you know i have to and he's like i promise i know what i'm doing and he does you know wow so you must have had the best time did you sleep over no i went home okay cool And now have you guys like, well, how does it work with something like that?
Starting point is 00:32:35 Because I know that you're, I know what he's looking for. Okay. And listen, he's a guy. So is he going to like, you know, be upset if you just want to have sex and no strings attached? You're probably not. But for you because you're not really looking for a relationship. Like how do you sort of work it afterwards? Especially because this is like you're kind of your first like Craigslist hookup, right?
Starting point is 00:32:59 Do you guys have you guys been texting a lot? Like, I mean, you know, because you might, you might want. you might wind up in a relationship without even really realizing it. If you just keep hanging out and stuff, you know. We're texting. It's nothing crazy. You know, but, I mean, it's mainly sexual. So, I mean, there's nothing like that.
Starting point is 00:33:15 I mean, I didn't, I didn't text him the next day. He texts me maybe around in the afternoon or something, you know. He's like, are you okay? Everything good. I was like, oh, yeah, I'm great. You know, I'm fine. Right. And, you know, talking and stuff.
Starting point is 00:33:29 So, I mean, yeah, I'm fine. You know, I just, yeah, I'm, I'm happy with status quo, you know, it kind of sucks that he's so far away because it would be nice to see him more often. Right. But how far away is far away for you? Like two hours away, 40 minutes away, 20 minutes away? It's about an hour and 20. Right. That does suck.
Starting point is 00:33:52 Right. Yeah. So, and especially if you're not sleeping over or staying for the weekend. I mean, do you have plans next time to hang out for a little bit longer? No, not really. I mean, yeah, and that's fine by me. You know, it's kind of, to me, it adds to it, you know, just kind of going there and like, you know, doing the deed and just and leaving, you know, that kind of adds to it. Oh, that, right.
Starting point is 00:34:16 That's kind of like the fantasy aspect of it. Like you wanted to be that kind of like booty call in and out, like that adds to the hotness. Yeah. I totally get that. Exactly. Exactly. Right. Right.
Starting point is 00:34:26 And then, but you're not looking for sure, like, for a relationship. No, I don't think so. No. I mean, you never know what the future holds, you know. So, and we, he and I have not discussed that at all. You never know with the future holds. But, you know, and I kind of, he was so excited that I was able to do all of the things that I was able to do with him. You know, so I wondered if he was going to quickly get attached. Right. So, I mean, you know, we'll see. We'll see. Well, I think he's, you know, it's hard for him. him because think of it put yourself in his position like I really thought I had listen I do my podcast I get an email from somebody I don't typically chat a lot with them via email and I just have them call it my show because I like to do my show like I like to get on the phone with a total stranger and then tape book you know that's how I get my content right by asking all the questions so I knew
Starting point is 00:35:21 nothing about him ahead of time and um I know that when I got on the phone I just thought like this could be a joke this could be you know a guy that's saying his dick is two big like you know but really like is it really but like when I got when I right at the end of the call I really realize like this is a real guy that has kind of like a real problem like I mean for real yeah yeah quite honestly I mean guys always talk about you know that's that that's that's a great thing that's a great problem to have no it's not no it's not yeah we talk about I think it's worse if you're small right I think for sure it's worse but for him we talked about not just about meeting girls,
Starting point is 00:36:01 it's for his own sexual pleasure. I mean, most of the time, he, not even most of the time, like 99.9% of the time, he is not satisfied with women. He had one Spanish girlfriend once,
Starting point is 00:36:16 who could take him only anally. And she, like, moved, right? So that was that. And ever since then, he hasn't been able to find anybody. The fact that you could take him vaginally,
Starting point is 00:36:27 and did he come through vaginal sex with you? do you remember um no he no he didn't he didn't he he he he anally though he did right okay but i know that like i know for him it's hard because he doesn't sometimes feel like he could get totally in but when someone could take it the fact that you could do both and like it was a full-on experience he must be extremely satisfied and maybe he's playing it cool but i'm a surprise he's not busting up your phone for you to move closer because this guy can't find a girl. It's very hard for him to find a woman that he could be, you know, and let me ask you this.
Starting point is 00:37:08 Do you guys, did you guys kind of get along like as friends when you were together or did it just so sexual that you didn't even like really talk? A lot of talking. But, you know, I think I think he was, number one, I think he was surprised that I'm as old as I am. I do look a lot younger. So I think he was surprised at that. I think he was also surprised at how chill I was.
Starting point is 00:37:35 But, you know, I was just kind of straightforward and like, this is what it is, you know. But he was, I mean, he was really sweet and nurturing and, and, yeah, I mean, I- Let me ask you this. I ask everybody on my podcast what they were, because I don't know what you look like. He didn't tell me anything about you. I forget what he rated himself, but he rated himself high, too. Like, what would you rate yourself on a scale one to ten? Like I know that he's good looking because you said he is.
Starting point is 00:38:02 Like how hot are you? I think I've got, you know what? It's hard for me to do that in the sense that I think I'm an attractive girl. You know, I've got straight teeth. I've got pretty eyes. I've got a nice smile. And I think that when it comes to what men find attractive, you know, I'm five foot, you know, about 130 pounds. and, you know, triple D breath.
Starting point is 00:38:37 Right, real, right. Yeah, real. You know, so I'm curvy, I'm petite. You know, I think, you know, my... You're a spinner. Isn't that what kind of? Yeah, yeah, exactly. My ex would say petite and packing.
Starting point is 00:38:50 Right. You like the petite and packing. Oh, cute. Right, right. You're petite. You know, that was me. Right. So, I mean, I think when it comes to, like, the, you know, the male ideal of, you know,
Starting point is 00:39:01 a petite, curvy woman, I don't. I definitely have that going on. And, you know, I'm not an ugly girl by any means. I think I have an attractive face, you know. And I think personally this, what I believe sexiness is it's not about like features of what you look like. It's how much, like for me, it comes from inside. And to me, if you want to be sexy, just like sex.
Starting point is 00:39:20 Like that, I think is what makes people sexy. Be comfortable, you know, who you are and love sex, right? And that makes you sexy. I think that's what sexy is all about, you know. And you obviously do. You know, you're super open from what I could tell just because of what you said you've done. Like, you know, I think to go on to Craigslist to try and live out these fantasies and have these relationships, sort of on the down low, like you have that side to you that is like sort of very open sexually. And you have the balls to, you know, to what is that the word?
Starting point is 00:39:52 To experiment, you know, and to fulfill your fantasies and should try things out, you know. And I think that that's great. You're sexually like liberated, you know. And you probably were, you know, because listen, you're, like I said, I'm in my 40s too. And when we were younger growing up, it was a very different world, you know. So people were very uptight and stuff. I never was. I was always super open and very sort of progressive.
Starting point is 00:40:16 And I couldn't wait to get laid and have sex and try all kinds of things, you know. Were you that way when you were younger or do you like suppress it? And now that's why you're sort of trying to live out your fantasies or how were you when you were younger? I definitely think I was more open but the thing I think I when I look back on myself and my sexuality and how it's evolved over the years like so number one I was always I was always really smart about about it like I felt anything I wanted to know about I learned this from my mother anything you want to know about there's a book on it right but I always read even way before I was ready to have sex I did a lot of reading of reading of of, you know, sexuality and all of that. I just wanted to know everything about it. Yeah, that you're curious on top of it. And like you said, it's smart, right?
Starting point is 00:41:05 You want to know what it's about as well besides just experiencing it. Exactly, exactly. And then I, my thing was I didn't, like, want to, I wasn't waiting for a certain age. And, like, I had no peer pressure like that. I knew that I wanted to be in love the first time I had sex. And so that was important to me. And so I didn't really, I didn't want to date in high school. And I had a bunch of friends.
Starting point is 00:41:31 We hung out. And so it wasn't until college that I got a boyfriend. And so I was a virgin until I was 20. Okay. Oh, and now, so your first guy, your first dick, you lost your virginity to that guy? Yeah. Yeah. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:41:48 Yeah. So for me, it was just always, like, I was mature. And I, you know, I had done all this reading about sex. and different types of sexuality and different types of, you know, ways to stimulate and all that kind of stuff. And I thought, I felt like really educated. So when it came time, I always said, as long as both parties are willing participants and everything is, you know, cool and agree upon, like, I'm open. Like, I'm willing to try and everything.
Starting point is 00:42:16 Right, right, right. But you wanted to do. No, but I think that's smart. Like, you are smart, right? And that's how you sort of approach the whole Craigslist thing, too, in the same way, you know, it's just who you are, right? You're super smart. You're very thorough and you really think things out. But you're also open-minded.
Starting point is 00:42:33 And I think that that is really great, you know. And I think that, you know, like other, it's not about being uptight or anything like that. Like, I mean, you have that fine balance, you know, between being someone that's like maybe just promiscuous and doing things that maybe they shouldn't be because they're trying to live out their fantasies, but they do it in ways that you could wind up chopped up in a bag. somewhere, you know. Right, right, right. But not you because you have that part of you. And that's just probably a part of who you are probably in every area of your life. And you're that way sexually as well. Probably. Yeah, I would agree with that. Yeah. Right. I mean, and what about like marriage? I mean,
Starting point is 00:43:12 for me, I know why I've never been married at my age. Like, have you ever had that desire to do it? Or do you approach marriage in the same way that you're like, you're super sort of like, not picky, but like you're very, you know, you're waiting for the right thing. And you're, you know, you're waiting for the right thing to happen and you just haven't found that or are you not into it? I believe in marriage. I'm definitely open to it. I think that, you know, maybe my head has gotten in the way too much sometimes, you know? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:41 Uh-huh. But for me, it was like my college boyfriend, I did think I was going to marry him. And when we broke up, I felt like I needed really to take time and understand, you know, I just, I took a lot of time in between there before I got into anything. Maybe you were super hurt by that and you didn't, you know, you were protecting yourself. Yeah. So for me, I mean. That happens, especially with the people that overthink.
Starting point is 00:44:09 I think, you know, they're the ones and the smarter ones. You know, things run deeper. So if you like when you get, you know, when things end or something, you can get really hurt and that kind of hurt could run as deep as everything else in your life and therefore make you really gun shy to get into another. thing because it, you know, it's, it's hard to go through that kind of pain again, you know, when it's so intense. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:44:33 And, you know, looking back on it, I know if I had married him, we'd be divorced. You know, there's no way that it would have worked out. Yeah. Uh-huh. Yeah. And so for, so, yeah, I mean, you know, marriage is something that is important to me, but at the same time, I'm really happy by myself. Right.
Starting point is 00:44:49 So it'll have to be somebody, like, really amazing to, like, where I just feel like I can't be without them for for me to say yes to marriage right because you're too super independent i totally get that i mean it is like when you are a happy alone it's like you have to meet somebody that really check like you check off all the boxes that you're looking for because why else would you sort of settle in i think a lot of people sometimes you know settle for somebody because the thought of being alone is worse so scary to them yeah and i'm not that chick i'm not that chick I'm not that way. Right.
Starting point is 00:45:25 And to me, you know, men are amazing. I love them, but they're also, can be dirty, gross creatures. Oh, my God. I just call them pieces of garbage, most of them across the board. No, I'm just joking. The idea of having to live with most of them just kind of grosses me out, you know. Right. Oh, yeah, you have a, you're a little pick.
Starting point is 00:45:48 Yeah, you have that. You know, it would take the right kind of guy to be able to settle down with. you. There's a, there's a perfect kind of guy though for your personality type. It's like a breed of dog, I always say. You know, it exists out there and you probably have met guys like that and you know your total, because you're smart, you know, you probably know the total type that you need, you know, and it is a little bit of your opposite, you know, and so a guy that's like really, really into you, too. Well, and, you know, one thing I also noticed, too, is there was one guy that, um, I thought, I met him and we dated for a,
Starting point is 00:46:24 a couple of years on and off, and I thought he's somebody, like if I could ever get married, he's a person I could get married to. And the reason was, because I'm so strong and independent, I have to really trust you can handle things as a man. Exactly. Well, they have to be more of a man than you. And you're like a dude yourself, right? You're independent.
Starting point is 00:46:49 You take care of yourself. You know what to do. Like you're on top of your games. So it's hard to meet a man that makes you feel like a woman. I have the same problem. You know, it takes a very manly man to make you feel like a woman because most of the time a guy would be less than you, right, in a certain way, unfortunately.
Starting point is 00:47:09 And then you feel like the guy, you know, they let you take over. They let you do, you know, and then before you know it, that doesn't make you like horny for a guy or not, you can get horny for that guy, but you don't feel girly with that guy. And I think that's what every woman wants, especially women like us. I have your same personality type, really, you know. So it takes a certain kind of guy to make me feel womanly around him.
Starting point is 00:47:32 You know what I mean? And then bring that out in me and make me feel romantic with him, you know? Exactly. Exactly. When I'm in a relationship, I totally want to feel like the lady. I want to feel taken care of, protected. And like I can sit back and I don't have to step in. He's going to handle things.
Starting point is 00:47:52 Right. And then he knows that I'm strong enough that when he's not around, you know, Sarah's got things. She's got it handled. Right. But it doesn't mean that because some guys, what happens with that kind of girl, they either feel intimidated by that or they clash with that. And there's like sort of a like, you know, the alpha, alpha thing going on. Yeah. Or they let you take too much control.
Starting point is 00:48:14 And before you know it, you're the dude in the relationship. And you're like, you know, or you're like the therapist. You know, it's like it. So, but there are those kind of. kind of guys out there, they exist. And most of the time, they're relationship guys. And they're nice guys. You know, they're more your opposite, you know, that really like strong women, that
Starting point is 00:48:33 really like women and they prefer their women to be strong. They feel, you know, they feel comfortable with a woman who's their equal. Yeah. And that guy will treat you like a woman, you know, the same that another guy would treat like a very quiet, passive girl. You know what I mean? They treat you the same way. And that's what I think you probably lack in your life.
Starting point is 00:48:55 Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. So, you know, we'll see. But for now, you know, you do. Listen, I'm just going to tell you straight up that this guy is like the way he pitched it on my podcast, you know, he's got his own business. Okay. He's pretty financially. Okay.
Starting point is 00:49:13 You know, he's got everything in his life taken care of. He definitely really, do you want kids? I'm on the fence You know You got to get out You got to figure that out Because I'll tell you as a woman Who I'm having a baby with a surrogate
Starting point is 00:49:30 And I went through years of trying to have a baby In my 40s And it's very It gets harder as it goes along At a 40 You are still good to go And you should make that decision If I could change one woman's life
Starting point is 00:49:43 To not go through what I went through Because I just didn't know And women don't really talk about it And everyone has that friend that got pregnant in one second when they were 45 or you hear about this person that had an IVF and got pregnant and you think I lived in the real world and I did it and I have friends that.
Starting point is 00:49:57 And I'm just telling you it's not like that. And you could save yourself. You know, either freeze your eggs now at 40 so you could figure out what you want or try to figure out whether you want it and start it before you're 43. Like seriously. Because after that you're 44, 45. You're like at 1% chance.
Starting point is 00:50:17 They're five. It's really, it's really real. I lived it. I tried for three years. I'm having a baby. I had to do surrogate. Like, I mean, you can't, you don't even hear my whole story.
Starting point is 00:50:26 But like, I'm telling you, you should figure that out for yourself. You should really, like you do everything else. You know, you're like, how you plan everything else and think of it.
Starting point is 00:50:34 Like, you really, really should, you know, put it in your mind that you want to make a decision on that, you know, before the end of your 41st year. So you could like either say,
Starting point is 00:50:46 that's what, this is what, this is what I'm going to do and I want to have a baby and I'm going to, you know, I have to have a relationship with however that looks for you or you have to say, oh, I don't, I don't, thank God, I don't want a baby and I don't have to worry about it, you know? Right, right, right. Okay. Because it is at 40, it's very important to figure that out.
Starting point is 00:51:03 Just because of, you know, just because of your eggs, that's the only reason. Right. Absolutely. No, absolutely. That makes sense. Yeah. So you should. But this guy's really looking for a relationship.
Starting point is 00:51:14 Yeah. I was very curious to see. what happens with you are you seeing anybody else at the time no no no I broke up with somebody a couple of months ago and yeah how did that end how come that ended um I thought we were exclusive you know we've been together for quite some time oh god yeah I just you know well that's very common too unfortunately but how did you find out so this was a guy you were dating exclusively yeah he was your boyfriend and you trust him? Yep, absolutely, absolutely. And I just, he used my computer and he didn't sign out of his
Starting point is 00:51:57 email and, you know, my email. And what did you find? So I found that he had, you know, he was on OKCupid and, you know, chatting with people and it had been going on for really, really long time where, you know, and again, he, you know, he didn't sign out of his email and so I clicked. on it and I guess maybe he had even used OkCupid on my computer because when I clicked on the message, it took me straight into his profile. Oh, God. I could see the conversations and the fact that he had been talking to, you know, lots of women for several months and he had his number with them.
Starting point is 00:52:44 So I knew, you know, I was only seeing a fraction of the conversation. Oh, my God. You must be devastated when you because you totally like you because I'm like you like you talk about like your instincts and like all the stuff. So I would trust your judgment, right? I mean, this guy looked you in the face for over a year and you just thought for sure this guy was like totally monogamous. Yeah. I mean, and he, you know, he was with me all the time. So that was the other thing too.
Starting point is 00:53:13 But listen, I mean, I have had friends who have been cheats and cheated. And I know that when a man wants to get it in, it doesn't matter if he's got like seven kids and three wives. He's going to make time for the mistress or the girlfriend. You know, he's going to make time. That's what he wants to do. Of course. And a lot of guys do it, unfortunately.
Starting point is 00:53:33 It's just the way that it is. I think, you know, what's really humbling in life is that no matter how old we ever are, we're always learning new things. And just when you think you know everything, someone could take you for a fucking loop and you could be like, oh, my God, you know, just when I thought, like, I have good instincts or what, you know, mean I could be just totally taken and it just keeps you on guard you just have to you know and
Starting point is 00:53:54 sometimes it's just a learning lesson that that type of guy exists that type of guy that like whatever he was it sort of pitched himself in that way like that guy could be fucking cheating on your computer in your own house you know it's like crazy I mean you don't want to get too in your head about that because that it makes you not trust because listen it makes you not trust anybody but I don't know about you I have a lot of guy friends I have a lot of girlfriends I have a lot of guy friends and you know most guys cheat, but there are guys that don't cheat, you know, and those guys exist. So, you know, as much as that guy's a fucking asshole, you know, there's the right guy for you. It doesn't cheat and they exist too, you know, so you can't get to, I mean, it's hard to trust after you go through something like that. That is a difficult thing. When the rug is pulled from underneath you like that, it's pretty tough, you know, to sort of open yourself back up and fall into relationship. So maybe this is why you're like on Craigslist. just looking for guys to bang, you know? Yeah, I mean, keep it light, you know, nothing too crazy.
Starting point is 00:54:54 But, yeah, and that's the thing. I have, I have lots of girlfriends who are married to great men who are in strong relationships. I have great guy friends that I know, you know, are good guys. So, you know, I know that there are good ones out there. Exactly. It's just a matter of timing. And it's when you really want it. I think, you know, when you're not sold on that whole thing, you know, yet.
Starting point is 00:55:17 Right. Right. You're still young as far as I'm concerned, right? And so. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, that's why you look young. You are, you know, and so when you're really ready for it, like, that's when it'll happen for you, but it'll be when you really want to. Like, that's what you, that's how you've lived your whole life. And I respect that. I was talking to somebody today. And I think that's like, you know, the key to sort of really being happy is to sort of to do what you want to do when you want to do it. Not because you read the book and you're supposed to get married or you're supposed to have kids. or you know this is what people tell you you're supposed to do. I've never lived my life that way and I've always been super happy, not meaning that you're happy every single day and everything's great, but that inner happiness. And it's just like you have to be true to whoever you are and whatever that means. And I'm 40, you're single and you don't want me to be married,
Starting point is 00:56:04 but that's what you want. That's perfect for you. And then when that changes and you want something else, you do, you know, you do it. You don't do anything because, you know, you have to. The whole thing, though, by your eggs, though, If like just so you don't have to actually do something before you're ready, go if you can't just freeze them then. You know what I mean? Like for real because that will make a very big difference.
Starting point is 00:56:25 Absolutely. For you. No, I'm definitely going to look into that. Look into it. And your guy that lives far away, you know, I don't know. I'm so curious to see what happens with you guys down the line. I don't think this is going to be a one or two or four time thing. And I think the distance actually.
Starting point is 00:56:44 might be a thing that works in his favor with you if he does like you and wants a relationship because at this point right now, because of what you went through, I think maybe that makes a little safe and because it's safe you might actually find yourself, you know, opening up to him more than you would if he was like right there on you sort of demanding something more. I don't know. That's just my little prediction. I think maybe something. I know he's a guy that's really looking for relationship and the fact that you really had great sex with him and could take it and actually really liked it is very hard for him to find so you know it's it'll be interesting to see what plays out with you guys so keep in touch definitely definitely yeah i mean it's it's been
Starting point is 00:57:32 interesting so far so you know oh my god you guys are going to have a listen regardless you guys are going to have a lot of fun he's a cool guy you seem super cool too that like listen if nothing happens you guys will be really cool for you guys will be really cool for you guys are friends that have really great sex with each other. And that's like a hard thing to find. Do you know what I mean? It is hard. People think booty calls are so easy.
Starting point is 00:57:52 They're not. It's a fucking pain in the ass to find like the right sort of situation a lot of times. Oh my God. Right? I mean, please. Absolutely. Yeah. So, you know, if he winds up to be good, even if you just get that, that's like great.
Starting point is 00:58:04 But, you know, I feel like there is a potential of a relationship to possibly with you guys. He's a good catch. I think he's a very good catch. I never say never. Well, that's good. Yeah, that's great. So, you know, I'm like a year from now, I want the update to see what happens. Okay.
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