Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1031 - SEXUAL HEALTH SATURDAY: Ricky and Lucy on. Erectile Dysfunction, Penile Implants and HRT and How it All Majorly Changed their Sex Life

Episode Date: February 8, 2025

Ricky and Lucy called in to discuss his ed issue, the penile implant he got, the HRT Lucy went on and how all of it changed their sex life for the better. Tune in to hear all the details including when Ricky started having erectile dysfunction issues and all the things he tried and why he didn’t like any of them, how the testosterone made him horny but didn’t fix his ed, the real reason he why had erectile dysfunction and how that led him to get the penile implant, all the groups he joined to learn about penile implants before hand and all the things he learned from the guys he met there, and how it all put him at ease, when he wound up having the surgery and how soon he recovered, how long he had to wait to have sex after the surgery and how the first time was, how the penile implant works, how many pumps it takes to make it hard and how many to release it, the rehabilitation process and about how long it all took, how and why he had an erection at first all the time and how long it lasted, exactly how long it took to get all his feeling back, how the surgery takes away a little bit of length but not girth, how and when he started sharing swinger podcasts with his wife and how she felt about it at first, how his erectile issues effected Lucy and how and why she personalized it, how she eventually realized it was a physical issues, how Ricky started sharing fantasies and past sexual experiences with Lucy and how that led to Lucy sharing hers, how Ricky brought up joining the Lifestyle and how Lucy was very upset at first, how she got past her bad feelings, what Lucy loves about the people she’s met in the lifestyle and how and why she’s ow open to it, the hrt she is using now and how it has completely changed the game, MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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they have such a fascinating story I have Ricky on first and then Lucy comes on second there are a couple they're older and age Ricky I think is in the 70s Lucy's in her 60s and you know he was facing

some ED issues and he came on to talk about his penile implant because I think it's so important to hear about a penile implant I had one guy on only one guy in all of like my 10 11 years of doing my show

that came on and talked about it and I thought it was so fucking interesting And so many guys didn't know about it. And so many guys have ED out there. And so many guys don't know that much about the peanut implant that I think it's important to have episodes on it because this guy did it. It changed his life. He loves it.

He's here to tell you all about that. It also changed his sex life with his wife and brought them a lot closer together. And she also went on hormone therapy. She wasn't on it before, but she eventually got on it as well. much later in her life and it's completely changed her game and now they're like thinking about swinging and stuff like another big thing he did besides having the penile implant as he started copying to some fantasies of his with his wife and at first she was like pretty horrified uh but eventually she came around and now they're like living their best life they're hornyer than ever they're fucking all the time they're looking to get into the lifestyle and do some parallel play with other couples and all kinds of good stuff and uh their whole life and their whole life change. And it's because of the hormones. It's because of the penile implant. It's because Ricky had the balls to sort of start putting some stuff out there with his wife and tell her stuff that he was into that she had never known about. And I think what they're here to say is that no matter how old you are,

you could always completely change the game. They have come full circle. They fuck like 17 year olds. And they're not 17. So you're going to love their story. It's super hopeful and helpful, I think, to other people. So you've got to listen to it. Okay. It's great. I do have pictures of Lucy over on my Patreon and hopefully they'll be on my Discord. So go over there, patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. Anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Ricky and Lucy. Hey, Ricky. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast.

I got Ricky and Lucy here. I'm assuming that's Ricky and Lucy from the TV show. You're a couple. Now, I'm going to do you guys, like I do a lot of my couples, which I'm going to get 30 minutes from you first, Ricky. And then we're going to get your girl on Lucy, your wife. She's going to come on and talk for. 30 minutes. I'm going to give the very short story in like a sentence. You guys are, you're kind of

like swingers. You do go out and you're starting to play in the swinger world, but that's not what's most interesting about you guys. You, Ricky, had a penile implant and we're going to talk all about that. I always have a million questions about that. I only talk to one other person that had that done. I think it's a super interesting story because I can't believe more guys don't get it done after I talk to the first guy, right? So you're going to talk all about that as well as how you guys kind of are tiptoeing into the Swinger World. And then your wife also, after you did the peanut lip, she went on HRT and she's doing testosterone therapy. So we're going to talk about that with her as well as her experience with the peanut implant implant implant implant implant implant implant implant implant. I've never had like

the woman's take on it, you know? So Lucy will come on about 30 minutes. So listen, Ricky, when did you, how long ago did you get your peanut lymph? Or first tell me, first of all, tell me how long you guys were married. Okay. We have known each other for 50 years. I'm 70 and she is 66. And we met in high school. Yeah. And we kind of learned about, we learned about sex from each other, really. And, you know, in their 20s was great, you know, before we had kids. And we just would have fun. And, you know, of course, I was always a horny guy and she had to keep pushing me away. But, But, you know, she every once in a mile, we have some really wild sex, and that was fun. And then lived together for two years.

Then we got married. You're not doing any of the swinging or penile implant anything early on. But how was your relationship, though, before you started to have issues? I'm assuming you got the penile implant because you started to have issues. It was, I thought it was good. I mean, it was so-so. And, you know, I just thought that's the way it was. And when I started having ED issues, when I returned 60, about 62, I think, it wasn't as hard as what it used to be.

And I thought, well, I tried the Viagra. And it didn't help me. And then it got to be a real problem when I was about, I guess, 66 or so is like really nothing. And I just had a, it was a medical issue with me. And so I started, you know, trying to research what would help, what would help. And I tried, the pills, the pump, the injection, which is supposed to really help. And it didn't help. What's the name of that injection again?

It was trimix. Right, trimix. Yeah, I know some guys in the swinger roll just use it for fun. And they swear. Yeah. Yeah. And they swear by it. But it's also dangerous for your penis, too.

it can cause coronin disease and stuff if you don't, I don't know, I don't really understand, but if you don't use it correctly or too much or something, it will give you problems. The problem with that too is it kind of breaks the mood because you don't know when you're going to use it. You know, you get all ready and hot and everything and then you, okay, honey, wait a minute, I'm going to go do my injections. So, you know, I'm gone for, you know, two or three minutes and then I come back and you can't, It's kind of psychological. You worry about it.

Is it going to work? Is it going to work? And it kind of makes you, it's all you can think about. Right. It gets you two in the head. Like, can I ask you a dumb question,

though, about E.D. because I'm a woman and I don't have any clue about it. And this just popped into my head when you were talking. Like, so you can't, you know, your dick can't get hard, but can you get horny? Like, is that what happens? Like, you're so fucking horny,

but, like, you're, and you feel it in every part of your body, but your dick won't get hard. Like is that what happens? Yeah, you're horny. Okay. You just can't do anything. And it's,

it just, it really makes you feel like you're not a man anymore. And it's, it's really hard. Of course. Not hard, but, you know,

hard for your mind. Right, because it doesn't take away your sex drive, but it takes away your, your sort of will, not will, but your performance. It doesn't allow you to perform.

Yeah, of course not. I could do oral. I like oral. She likes oral. And we were doing that. And I just, still wanted to have sex with my wife because I just didn't feel like I could complete our

lovemaking. But could you orgasm if you jerked off your like soft cock? I didn't. No, no, I couldn't really. Some people can they say, but I just, I don't know, just couldn't. Yeah, no, that must be so frustrating. Okay, so now you're running to doctors and you're trying to figure out like the solution. You're trying everything. Yeah. Okay. And then when I saw my, my testosterone level, I said, oh, okay, let's try this. And all that did was make me really warning then. But still didn't get it up. It still didn't get it up. It helped in other areas of my testosterone in my mind and thinking and just energy, but it just didn't work. Can I ask you a question? Did you go to a cardiologist? Because a lot of time they say, like, the first thing you should

check is your heart. A lot of times it's definitely related to your cardiovascular health. Yeah. Well, I had a I'm a heartologist because I have a touch of high blood pressure, which can also cause ED. Yeah. But it was under control. Okay. And I asked the cardiologist would, you know, I have high blood pressure, but they don't deal in, you know, those issues. So I finally did go to see a urologist. My doctor said, I think, you know, I said, I think I need to see a urologist, a specialist.

And that was really good because I learned a lot about. more about penal implant, but by the time I went to see urologists, after the injections, they had to prescribe that. And I said, after that didn't work, I just said, heck, I'm ready, I'm ready for this implant. I want to get it done. And it still took a few months to, you know, get approvals from insurance and all that. And once I got it, I know it was in March of 23 that I went in. And, okay, they have two kinds of.

of surgeries for penal implants. One in the pubic bone and one to the testicles. The one to the testicles sounded really horrible. It says I've heard of guys nuts swelling like grapefruit. And they talk about how bad it was. I thought, God, I hated to do that. But then they came out with a surgery that's interpubic, I think they call it. Through the pub bone.

How they get all that stuff in there? I don't know. There's a bladder in my stomach that has. Well, it will blow my stomach muscles and you cannot see it at all. And that's where the silicon, not silicone, the saline is. And I have a pump in my testicle, well, next to my testicles that I squeeze the pump to get it to pump up into my penis. There's two canals in each of your penis. And those just don't work anymore.

It's like a leak in a tire. You can pump it up and it'll stay pump. jumped up for so long. Well, mine was not even old in air. It was flat. So it would blood go in and just go right back out. Oh, so is that like, because I was going to ask you real quick, because you're just already at the operation. And I love all this information. It's so fascinating. But I was just going to, I wanted to know, like, what did they finally diagnose you? Like, what was the problem? It wasn't in cardiovascular. I think it was my age, probably some of my diet. But I had a a leak in, I can't remember the word for the, in the vow that held it, you know, it was too big,

you know, and it was just, the blood was going in and it was just coming right back out and it's no erection in. So that's why nothing could fix it for you. Right. Yeah, that makes sense. Okay, so they found that out before and then they got you approved for the penile implant. Yeah. Okay, cool.

So now you get the surgery. Let me ask you this. Like, were you worried about having this done? I mean, a lot of guys, when I sort of put my first episode out, they were like, oh, I'm so afraid. But I'm like, I feel like this is like a very common thing that a lot of people do. It's not like that scary of an operation. I was desperate. I said, and because I did research on a Facebook group.

I joined a Facebook group for penal implants. Yeah, I love it. Guys were just like me going, I'm worried about this. And then the guys that had it would say, hey, it's a piece of cake. Yeah. You'll be happy. everyone, all the men that had the penile implant, said, I wish I would have done this sooner. Right.

And then from that, I heard of franktalk.org, which is another online support group. But Frank Top is talk is like any kind of penis issues. If you're trying to figure out how to do the injections or whatever. Right. And then there's a group in there that talks about implants. And that group really helped me a lot. because they were more X-rated on there. The Facebook doesn't kind of are.

They don't really tell you some things. Yeah. And on Facebook, oh, I mean, on Franktog.org, I'm, I had a guy reach out to me because I'm asking questions. Hey, if you, and he says, hey, if you want to know about a penal implant, I can show you. And I said, well, how is he going to show me on something? And so he had me download the WhatsApp, and I've never done that before. And we did a video chat. And this guy lives in England.

And I'm like, okay, you know. And he kept, and I could ask my questions. And then finally he said, do you want me to show you? I said, well, you'll have to. And he goes, no, no. And he was more than willing to show me how it work. He dropped his pants and pumped it up and everything. And I was just like, wow, it looks like a real, like a real erection.

And that was interesting. And then there was another guy. I mean, people have a little profile on yourself. You kind of tell your age and what kind of implants you got and things like that, just a little information. Well, there was a guy on there, 85 years old. And I said, oh, my God, this guy, I've got to talk to him, our message with him. And I said, 85, you're my hero. I want to be you.

And I said, I'm curious, how often do you have sex with your wife with this implant? And he says, well, we cut back to about two to three times a week. And I'm like, geez. I'm like, I wouldn't even have it like at that time, not even maybe once a month. Wow. I just didn't feel like it. And then so I get the implant. And it was not as bad as what I was thinking it was going to be.

And I was out mowing the grass in two weeks afterwards, didn't have a lot of pain or swelling. And I think we, I know we had six three weeks and three days after my surgery. And three hours. It's like having a car in the garage. You want to drive it. Yeah. And so it was, I had to do it very gingerly. because I was still very tender and sore.

Right. And I wanted to see what my wife would do. And we put it, you know, we used it. Yeah. And she loved it. God, I was just like, oh, my God, I can't wait until I can pound her, you know, because I just couldn't do it. It hurt there.

But I just, we just had fun with it. And she used her vibrator on herself. And, you know, she was coming a lot. And I thought, dang, we hadn't done. We never did this. You know, when we were young or anything. So in that, it really brought us back to, you know, what we, what a lot of people experience and everything. And it was just so, we just really fell in love with each other.

I was just so in love with my life because, you know, when you have sex, you make you happy and you're happy for days. Yeah, that's what I think people give sex sometimes gets like this bad rap that it's just like this meaningless thing, you know. but it really is a bit it is and listen it's not everything in a relationship at all right but it is a part of the pie and it is a piece of it right and it is important and it does create intimacy and a closeness and when when you don't have that it's not just about getting off like it's more than that like it's like you just said it made you fall more in love with your wife again and her with you because you guys are touching again you're coming together you're going to that place together like that's an intimate thing yes very much so we just we just loved it and so

but talk me through how it worked that first time okay because like i don't know i'd be nervous like oh my god what if i pump it up and it goes down like i mean so like do you remember that first time like you so what you just like push on your balls and you feel for the little thing that pushes it in uh i was it was kind i was kind of scared i was because when you get the surgery the doctor says okay i've left you pumped up 60%. Oh. And you've got this erection for, you know, a week.

These are important facts. You're missing some facts. Wait a second. So you're erect for, I forgot about that. I think the other guy told me that. So wait, so they pump you up a little bit, 60% and you have to stay that way. Oh, my God. What about guys with really big dicks, but me too?

Oh, I don't know. I don't know. You didn't, you just like, you know, I used for, you know, years I didn't have an erection And all, now I've got one I can't get rid of. Oh, that's so funny. But I had the mind, I'll do whatever it takes. I'll just do. I'm going to do it.

In a few weeks or months, it'll be fine. And it was. It was just everything. It just, it was a textbook, textbook case of, you know, how this is supposed to go. And so I was just so pleased. And I learned a lot. Do you want to get into the, how I, got interested in the podcast and stuff?

No, this penile implant and then you're swinging. That's what we want. I don't give a fuck how you found my podcast. I mean, does it have to do with your penile implant? I want people to get educated. You're giving out such important information for other people. This is how I feel. Okay.

Why, what do you want to talk about? Well, I didn't know if you, that's pretty much the story. No, no, no, I have a million questions. Listen, you missed so much of the story that I'm going to get you. I'm going to get the full story from you. Don't worry. You don't realize some facts that you missed, okay? Like, you didn't even remember that you woke up with a hard on for six weeks.

These, like this, like, think about all the questions you had, right? And why you went on to Facebook and why you went on to Frank Talk, right, to get all that information. That's the kind of information that you could give guys, because that's what they're looking for. The same stuff you were. You have all that information and you went through with it. So I feel like there's so much more you could talk about.

Like, I didn't know that there's like a little lever that you push. And then you have to push the lever not only to get it up, but you also have to push it to get it down, correct? Yeah. Like explain how it works. It's like a little, it's like a little, I don't describe it. It's like a little pump ball that you pump up and you're not pumping air. You're pumping this fluid.

Yeah. It's going into the ball and then you squeeze the ball and you pump it and it goes into the chambers or into your penis part. Yeah. And it just, each time you pump it, it gets harder, harder. It takes about, for me, about 15 to 20 pumps to get where I want it. You can make it rock hard if you want. But it's not, it's like a stick or something, I guess.

I don't have to describe, but it would probably not be comfortable to her. So I don't pump it up that much, 50 to 80%, something like that. But I can sleep with it. It doesn't hurt being erect. I've gone to sleep, you know, after making love, I've gone to sleep actually and forgetting to pump it down. I wake up, like, oh, I forgot to undo this. Oops.

Yeah, but it doesn't hurt. And, you know, and it still feels the feeling. It took a while for the nerves to grow back together. Oh, that's interesting. Okay. I could, you know, climax because it was a while before I could climax. X. Now, it's kind of gone, even a year and almost two years, it's, it's just, I still feel it's getting better. I'm still very sensitive and everything. Now, I forgot to mention, you have three chambers,

one in the end of your penis. There's two on each side that make it erect. And then there's one on that very tip that also swells with blood. And that still works. You know, there's no problems with that. feel, you know, when I'm not excited, that swells up too. And it just, that's what really feels good. It's like, you know, your genitals swell with, with blood. And it's, it makes it feel good. So. And now when, when you pump it down, does that just like you have to do the same kind

of pumping? Like, it's not just like one pump and it all comes out, right? You got to pump it down, like that you have to pump it up. It's got a little release button. Oh, right above the squeeze ball. I've got to, they gave me, they give you a little sample, this little thing, and I can send you a picture. Yeah, please. That would be so interesting. And it's, it's, and it's just, they make a little key chain out of it. I don't know why. And I just, you know, I just have it in my little area.

And so it kind of, it'll make more sense if you see it. And it's online too, the little pump ball and release button. And so it just takes a little practice learning how to pump up and pump down. But once you, and your nut sack is sore the first few times you do it because you're squeezing your skin. Yeah, yeah. But it gets after a while, and the guy told me this, it won't hurt after a while and it doesn't hurt. That's so interesting. So you just must get used to it or something. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And I have to do it. my wife said she wants to do it and she can release she lets the fluid out of my penis after we're finished you know tell me to help you I said okay you know she can let it out for me but you know she hadn't it's kind of hard you have to have a lot of hand strength to pump the little ball up yeah it's so fascinating I have another dumb question like does like does it interfere or have anything to do with you being able to come like and you know ejaculate or That was never an issue and that still isn't an issue? Or does one have nothing to do with the other? It's a little bit harder at first. And I have a friend that I met on Frank Tom and we talk and he says he doesn't have an issue.

But I still kind of do. It takes me a while. But when I do climax, I don't know why, but it's very, very strong. It's stronger than before when I had climaxes. Yeah, well, you know what? I feel that as a woman, as I've gotten older, my orgasms take a little bit longer, but my orgasms are 10,000 times more intense and better than they've ever been. So same shit.

What does that mean? I don't know. Maybe that, maybe there's something to having it go a lot like longer. You have more intense orgasms. Yeah. I guess so. You builds up and you're just like, oh, it feels like a drug to me. I don't know what cracks is like.

You know what pumping is like. Intense, tense orgasm. And I'm just, I can't, I can't be quiet. I just can't. And it's, it just, I just feel like I explode. Now, did all this horniness from this penal implant? Is that what got you guys into dabbling into the swinger worlds? It kind of got things going because I wanted to make love to my wife.

I could have at that time said, oh, heck with it. I'm too old. I can't, I'm not going to have sex anymore. Yeah. But I said, no, I want to try. And there was things. you know, a medical device that would help. I wanted it. I just, if this works, I want it. And and so I did it, you know, and I'm no grits, you know. And it's just really exciting now.

But how does that have to do with the swinging? That's what I have. Okay. Well, I think I told you this. When I retired, I really enjoyed it for about three weeks. And then my wife says, okay, you can a heart step me clean the house, you know? And I'm not. like, oh, golly, okay. I was really enjoying it. It was like a long vacation, but, you know, I guess she, you know, the housework and stuff she did around the house. When I was at work, I had to help her.

And so, okay, I did that. And I used to listen to the podcast on the way to work and from home. And it was about two hours of podcasts. And so as I was, you know, working and cleaning the house, I was running out of things to listen to. And I was, oh, let me listen to this one. And so I came across some sex podcasts and came across some swinger podcasts. And I'm like, oh, my God, do people really do this?

Now, I did the penal implant before I even knew about swinging. And I just got so intrigued. And I was hearing the couples talking about how this has improved their marriage. And I'm like, how could it improve their marriage? And I was just so intrigued. And I found a good podcast with a married couple and they were talking about their journey. And so I wanted to share this with my wife. And oh, my God, she thought I was crazy.

And so I'm like, no, I just kept saying, no, let's just listen to the podcast for fun. It was very interesting story. Yeah. And I don't know what she thought. But I don't know. And so finally she kind of caught around and we, I got her to listen to a few, the one I was talking about. And then she listens to your podcast a lot. I hear her all the time going through the house, listen to Kathy Kay and whoever when she's doing stuff.

And so it just really, I just really got her turned on. I just, oh, God, this is like I told her, I said, this is like the wife I always wanted when I was young. and before I got married, I wanted one that liked to have sex because I wanted to have sex. I was a horny kid and got a great wife now. But anyway, we, you know, after she kind of got interested, we joined a community group and we went on out-of-town trip. And we met this swinger couple, but not just to talk to them and they understood. And so we talked to them, and I don't know, there's something about the, I don't know if it was the out-of-town sex or what, but we went back to where we were staying. And, God, we made love like crazy in just the thought of here we met swingers and everything, and it was just exciting for us.

And I don't know what happened, but I just felt like telling her, this is my fantasies. This is what I've always thought about this. And then I also open tip to her about one of my, the time, one of the times I had sex with this girl before I knew her. And I said, I don't know, I got something to tell you. I said, I had a threesome when I was 17 or, no, 17. And she, and I told her all about it. It was a coworker. And I was taking home and this girl wanted to ride home.

So we took her home. And as I was driving. I look over and they're kissing. I'm like, oh, okay. And so I went and found a place to park, and I parked the car. And next day, no, she turns around and starts kissing me. I'm like, oh, okay. And, you know, one thing led to another, and we ended up having sex, you know, with her.

And I told my wife this on that out-of-town trip. And she had a funny look on her face. And I said, are you mad? And she says, no, I'm actually turned on. So I'm like, oh, God. I can't believe it. So that was, it just, and I don't know, we've met some other couples and had made friends, but we just haven't done anything yet. Maybe we're trying to find the right couple.

We're taking very slow, which is fine. Yeah, but listen, it's really like you guys have come full circle. I mean, for the fact that, you know, you guys are the ages that you are and this is like your lifestyle and what you're doing. and you're kind of having like a rebirth in your sex life. And here you are, like you said, with your girl acting like she's a horny 17-year-old and you two and you guys are talking about your fantasies and this is all new in your relationship. I mean, I just think it's so amazing because it really goes to show like no matter how old you are, like you could always fucking change the game.

You know what I mean? I feel like a lot of people think they get to a certain point in their life and this is the way that it is and you can't change anymore. Like that's what you do when you're young and whatever. And so this is all you got. But like to me, as long as you're alive, you could totally change at any time. And you guys have had a major transformation. And I feel like it's like a domino effect, right?

Like one thing led to another, led to another. And like here you are like probably a year from now. You will be swinging. And how fucking crazy is that? And you change that up in your 60s and 70s. That's kind of crazy, you know. But the best part is, is it has brought you closer. And that to me, like you said, you were listening to these podcasts.

I mean, you haven't been swinging yet, but you could see how just, sex, introducing sex and have better sex with your partner and being open about your fantasies and really showing each other who you really are does bring people closer because you're communicating more and talking more about things that you never talked about, right? Yeah, we just get along so much better now. We don't fight. We kiss in the store at Home Depot. People ask us, are y'all nudie wedge? Oh my God, I love that. Yeah, how fucking amazing. Like what a great whole full story for other people to hear. And listen, Ricky, I want to talk to Lucy now. I want to hear her side of things. Okay. Get her on the phone. Okay. Here she is. Okay. Thanks.

Hi. Hi, Lucy. I love your guy's story. I want to work up to when you went on testosterone. But first, let's talk about your guy first, okay? And like the whole penile implant thing and what was going down and how you were feeling in the marriage before he got it and like when he was having his issues and you guys couldn't be intimate together. Let me ask you a question, though, because, you know, at that time you guys are older, you've obviously been through menopause. Were you on hormones before or during that time or did you recently get on them? Okay, Kathy, I don't know how old you are, but back in the 80s, they came out with that stupid

fucking cancer scare. Yeah, so no one went on. And it's just been that he cheated, he lied or cheated on the results or some shit, but thanks a lot, whoever you are. Yes. From all women. Totally. So I was scared to use them.

And I had a blood clotting disorder too. And, you know, they didn't want me to take anything orally. But anyway, my husband kept telling me he thought I needed testosterone because he had done all this research and stuff. My point of asking you that was like, how was your sex life with him? Like, I mean, I know he was having ED issues. Were you having sex drive issues because you had been through menopause? Or were you still super horny for your husband?

and you were like sort of frustrated that he couldn't kind of get it up. Yeah, I, my sex drive was low. I needed it, you know, but I didn't know I needed it. And when he started experiencing ED, well, then it became turned around because I was the one that's wanting to have sex all the time and he couldn't. Oh my God, that's so funny. But you weren't on testosterone at that point or were you? No, I was not. Was it just because you couldn't have it anymore?

And you're like, oh my God, now I want it because he can't do it. Maybe it's like that kind of mind fuck. Well, I did have a sex drive. It just wasn't as high as it is now. Yeah. And then when he started experiencing this, this puts the wife in such a terrible position. Yeah, explain it. Because, okay, so your husband, for the first time in the whole time I've known him in, what, 40-something years of marriage, he can't get it up.

Yeah. So, of course, the first thing I think is it's me. Right, of course. You know, I need to lose some weight. I need to look better. You know, all the crap we tell ourselves. And then, you know, we started studying up on it. And then I realized it wasn't psychological or anything like that.

And I was just like, you need to go see a doctor about this, you know, and get this taken care of because, you know, I want to. I love to ride the meat pole. I'll admit it now. I would never have told him that. Could you say that again? I've never heard that sentence on my show in 10 years. I love to ride the meat hole.

Say that again. The meat pole. The meat pole, yeah. No, no, no, yeah. I knew that's what you said. Oh, my God. I've never heard that sentence yet on my show. I'm obsessed.

I'm sorry. No, I love it. Yeah. So you love Dick. You love Dick. Yeah. Yeah. I couldn't tell him that.

So when he's talking about getting treatments and stuff, I did encourage him. Yeah. Because I was like, look, this isn't your mind, playing tricks on you. Because I'm hot, all right? Because, you know, of course I would pull out all the stops that we do when our guys maybe not as up as you wanting to be. Yeah. And nothing would work.

And nothing would work. and I'm like, okay, I've done all his favorite nasty shit and some things that I don't do that often. You know, I was trying to help him. Yeah, but you and you were also trying to figure out what was the problem. Is it me or is it a physical thing? And at that point, you know,

if you've pulled out all the fucking stops, right? Probably offered him anal. Like, I mean, he can't get it up. Exactly. You know it is a problem. That's exactly what I did off. And if he can't get it up for that, you know something's wrong. Yeah. Yeah. I'm like, it's Dr. Tom, baby. Yeah, totally. Yeah. So that I was trying to be encouraging though. So,

anyway, each step of the process that they first gave them, you know, the Viagros, the Alice, whatever. Yeah. That didn't work. And then, you know, he would say, well, next I'm going to try this next thing. I try to encouraging, but I was just like, okay, whatever, dear, whatever makes you happy, because I didn't want him to think that he could never get it up again,

that I wouldn't love him or something. Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah, right, you didn't want to make him feel bad about it. Right, I don't want to make him feel bad about it. Of course. Yeah. It's a fine line. So, when he started taking those stupid shots, I mean, that was that was pretty much as bad as when I used to have to put my diaphragm in and do all that crap before we decided to have sex.

Right, because it's a whole thing. Yeah, that interruption. It was like a whole thing. Right, and it didn't work anyway. No, it didn't. And then it could have really fucked up his dick. Yeah, that's scary. With scar tissue and all this other bullshit. And I'm like, oh, my God, I didn't think they made things that would be dangerous for men.

They do that for us all the time. Yeah, totally. Yeah. Yeah. So anyway, so when he said he was going to get the implant, I was encouraged him to do that. But I was like, I don't want him to think that he has to do it for me, you know? Yeah. So I was like, oh, it doesn't matter.

You know, do whatever. I mean, because he's got great oral skills. Right. He even read a book for me on how to please me. And, you know, he doesn't like to read that much. So I thought that was a great big sacrifice for me. Yeah, totally. So he knows how to go down.

You're fully satisfied. So whether he gets a peanut implant or not, you're okay. But you still want, like, this is something he's doing for himself. And it turns out that it actually, like, really worked. Like, I mean, do you remember the first time, like, he pumped that shit up? Yep. I was so scared to fucking, though. That first time because I'm like, I thought you were supposed to wait two weeks.

I knew that wasn't going to happen, but, you know. Yeah. And he's going, no, we'll just go slow. And so that's what we did. And that worked. And he continued to heal. And I tell you, it's a lot of kind of like maintenance. Like when you get a knee replacement, you have to do all this rehab to get it, you know.

Oh, interesting. Yeah. Okay, that's interesting. He had a schedule where he had to pump it up and leave it for a certain amount of time. And I've got to remind him some time that, yeah, that, you know, and how many months did you have to do that? Six months. Yes, he forgot some of the details. That's important.

That's interesting. Okay. But listen, it's still worth it, right? But there is that kind of upkeep that you have to do, like the rehabilitation to get it working and keep it and make sure it works and everything. That's interesting. Right. that's to keep your size too. That's what the doctor told him.

Yeah. So they want you pumping it up every day for six to nine months to make sure you don't lose anything. Yeah. And is it the same size as before? I feel like you lose a little bit, don't you? I think you do. Yeah. I remember the first guy.

I only talked to one other guy that had the penile implant. And I remember that one guy, though, telling me you do lose like a half an inch or something. Or I forget what the amount was. It's not very much. Right. It's a little bit. even have, but you do lose a little bit of the size. But in order to keep most of it, you just got to keep that upkeep for six months. Well, yeah. And he's got his, he's got his whole circumference.

Yeah, right. It doesn't change the width. No, didn't change that at all. And it's really not that noticeable, you know, a little bit shorter. And I hate to even be saying this in front of him because he's sitting here. So who cares about length? I don't know. As a woman, I'd rather thickness that like, wouldn't you rather, if you have to lose one, as a lot, as a woman. I don't a woman. Wouldn't you rather lose the length than the thickness? Come on. And I think that's kind of how the urologist put it to us. Yeah. Oh, really? Interesting. It's kind of like, yeah. Isn't that what he said? I think that's what he said. Because that's the truth. Any woman's going to say, fine, take a quarter inch off and keep your thickness, then vice versa. You know what I mean? We all have a cervix. I'm not

interested in a 10 inch long dick at all. Exactly. When we went for the follow-up visit, I thanked the doctor. Oh. I did. I told him, I said, you gave us back our sex life. Thank you so much. I did not say because I like to ride the meat pole because I do have some. Oh my God, I wish you did.

But I wanted to. Do you guys have kids? If your kids could hear you now. Oh, my God. They knew that their mom wants, loves to ride the meat pole. You're like hilarious. I know. The best sound you ever.

We have sex, okay. I get over it, you young daughters and sons. No, I love that. I love that. So, like, when you sit there and say that it, like, changed your, you know, saved your sex life, but did you also have those same feelings like your husband, like you felt so much closer to him, too, because you guys were having better sex and all that kind of stuff? Mm-hmm.

Exactly. And I hate to say this, but I think the feminist movement kind of set us back a lot on how we view our men. And, you know, I'm a feminist, so way back. Yeah. But I feel like that we've kind of emasculated them in a way and kind of hurt ourselves, too, because, you know, I grew up in an area where, you know, I didn't want to wait until marriage to have sex, but I was a virgin when I met Ricky. Yeah. But you didn't want to be. Yeah.

No, I didn't want to be. But what do you say? What do you mean when the, like, what are those things that the feminist movement told you to do that you feel like emasculated men? Okay. Men are visual creatures. They're going to look at us. Okay. And I have been a woman who have been a cat called on the street, which I don't like that.

And it really pisses me off. But, you know, men are going to look at us. Now, my husband is a gentleman. I have never seen him checking out anybody else ever in all these years because he's polite. And but, okay, so he started sharing all these things with me, his like his real fantasies. When he told me about the little, you know, three some he had, I was, you know, I was thinking, oh, my God, I've known you, you kept a secret house. long because I was like, why couldn't you, why didn't you feel like you could tell me that before, right? And something else I didn't know is that some men would like to see their wives

spot by another man. Can you believe it? That's what I learned by my show too. I couldn't believe I know. I couldn't believe it. But we, you know, we kind of made men out to be like horrible, toxic people because there's a few guys out there that were chasing their secretary around their desk and doing bullshit like that or cat calling on the street making you feel unsafe.

Right, so all men are pigs and every man that wants to have sex is a fucking pig and they're just using you and stuff and blah, blah, blah, which is not the case. Right. Right. Yeah. For sure. And that it was important to a relationship

that you do get to know each other intimately and part of that is having sex with your guy, you know? Yeah, and talking and being and feeling comfortable enough to tell your partner these things. I think like when you say like the reason maybe why he wasn't going to tell you about those threesomes

or all these like crazy things that he was into in the past is because maybe you'd be like, oh, you're such a fucking pig or ew, you're gross. You know what I mean? Because a lot of times that's how women sort of approach stuff like that And that's why guys keep it to themselves and why the woman would keep her fantasies from her guys. Because he might be like, wow, you're such a fucking whore or you're so slutty. Like what the fuck, you know?

And so I think we both have it on each side. And so people keep these things apart. But yet these things could bring you closer together. Like he started having you like listen to podcasts, right? And then now you're listening to like swinger stuff. And like it started to put stuff in your brain too. Like did you cop to some stuff that you might be into? Yes. And so I started sharing my fantasies with him. And I think something that surprised him and surprised me is I kind of like it when he's forceful sometimes. You know what I mean?

Yeah. I want him to come in here and look at me and say, I have got to have you right now, you know, with that look in his eyes like he does. and then just come over and take my hand, leave me in the bedroom, and, you know, use me and make me come a whole bunch of times. It's great. Wow. And like you would, like, did you, do you ever remember having those thoughts in the past?

Do you feel like there was new thoughts, or do you feel like those are thoughts that you could never tell him in the past? Thoughts I couldn't tell him in the past. Yeah. Right. Yeah, it's not crazy. And it's like, you know,

I had a guy on recently who wrote a book, and it was all, these questions you could buy you could buy this book and it was like all questions that would prompt your partner and you to have conversations about sex and not all of them were about sex but it was just a way to get into conversation and then lead up to questions that had to do with sex so that you could learn these things about each other right and like look just because he wound up telling you that story and he sort of changed the game by talking about it and revealing one little thing about himself made you feel comfortable to say that too i mean just as much as we think men are pigs

people think women are the biggest prudes on the planet. Women have dirty thoughts. Women fucking like sex. Look at you. You said I love the meat pole like 10 times on this conversation. I mean, you're the pig, okay? But yet guys, a lot of times women can't open up about that, right? And they don't.

And they keep that to themselves. But it doesn't mean, like your wife has fantasies too, just like you brought them up to him as well. Once he decided to have the balls to sort of put his stuff out there, which like that kind of thing could so change the game. you know, and it changed you guys in a major great way, right? Exactly. Because, for one, I validated what I thought men think about my whole life, that they do think about sex all the time. And they do love to look at women.

But what is interesting is, okay, so my husband will share pictures, you know, of couples and their profiles and everything. And it's amazing to me. I thought when he talked about this lifestyle stuff, and I thought we were going to end up getting a divorce, and I was going to have to live with my kids or something. Why? Because you were so freaked out by it?

I was so freaked out. Interesting. Because he had just gotten that implant, and I thought, oh, my God. Now that he can get hard, he wants other women. and he kind of made it sound like it was kind of on his bucket list. Like another woman.

And I'm like going, how old he is. No, I seriously did. Of course. I was so upset. I was crying. Oh, I love your honesty. Okay, that's interesting. bawling.

And he's looking at me with this horrified looking at his eyes because he's looking like most men look and they're going, what did I just do? Yeah, oh no. And how can I back out of it? Yeah, oh no, okay. Yeah. But that's what I heard. That's what I heard when he came in here and says he just innocently asked me to speak to listen to some podcast with some swingers.

I just immediately went back to the 70s, you know, you know, the swingers, the guy has the porn stash. Yeah, of course. You know, and the women dress all slutty and everything, which I like doing now. So don't judge me. Listen, this whole story is very real life. and I prefer real life than like the made-up movie shit where you feel like, oh, one person brings something up and then everything changes and everything is perfect.

Like that isn't the way. Like everything is great now between you guys, but it was like a little bit of a rocky road, but you were able to make it through. And sometimes that's what you have to go through to get to this other side of where you guys are at now, right? You know, listen, you were totally upset when he brought it up, but it didn't break you guys up.

I mean, there was a chance that you were thinking about it, but at the end of the day, he didn't leave him for it and you were able to continue to have conversations about it. Like, what do you think got you past that, that, those horrifying feelings about it? Like, how did you get past those? Okay. So I got a subscription to psychology today. Yeah, I love this.

So I could look through the archives. Yeah. Because I wanted to see if there's some kind of weird aberration that older men go through or something, you know. Yeah. And I really couldn't find anything to help me. And then I think I started listening to the podcast like he asked me to. And it was such a fucking turn on. Even though it wasn't anything I was interested in doing at that time, I was like,

I've become a lot more liberated in my thinking about sexual differences. Like if he had a bell curve in the middle was like, monogamy, monogamous marriage. Yeah. And on the one side, we have the LGBTQ plus queer side. And then on the other side, you have people who are maybe into threesomes or swinging

or, you know, they like to be peed on when they have sex, whatever kink they have on that side. And I am so accepting now of every, because they're not hurting anybody. It's what they want to do. If it turns them on,

I'm happy for you. You know, I was a teenager in the 70s, okay? We just knew there was gay and something called lesbians. Yeah. And that was it. Yeah, exactly. Nobody talked about it. We didn't have any kids in school that admitted, you know, that they were different because it wasn't safe to.

And so for me to have gone from there to where I am now. Totally open and accepting. And going on dates with other couples. kind of getting horny about it, kind of, right? Well, yeah, and I want to be able to, I want a woman friend that I can talk to, like I'm talking to you, that she would not think I was, be horrified that I said riding the meat pole. Yeah, the sad thing is, is that, you know, they'd probably then cop to you about things. Like, everybody a lot of times keeps a lot of this stuff secret.

Let's get to the point, though, where you guys were on that vacation. He tells you about the threesome. You get kind of horny about it, like, and then eventually, you go out with that couple and now you're kind of like teetering around that swinger world. Like what do you think that that's all about? Where do you see you guys going? Like what are your thoughts about it like right now? Okay.

I like the swinger community because they're open-minded. Yeah. You know, it's like anything, if that's your kink, go with God and have a good time. Yeah. But, you know, don't hold it against me because I don't want to do that. Maybe I like to do something else. So I like the positivity about sex. I need to be able to talk to other women.

I mean, I didn't talk to anybody when I was going through menopause, you know? Yeah. We just didn't talk about things like that. And I like posting pictures of me, even though I'm wearing lingerie. I believe my husband now that he told me that I'm really beautiful. I never believed him before. See, these other men comment. on my pictures and stuff and now i believe him that i'm gorgeous and it's improved my confidence

i would like to i need to get naked in front of another couple like in a hot tub or something but if i do the other couple needs to be fine with us with me fucking my husband because i will not be able to control myself yeah yeah so i would like to do a parallel play thing that's where i want to try and but i'm just such a fucking chicken yeah you're a little less a of a chicken than you think you are. Okay, I don't think you're a chicken. I think you're just listen. It takes time. It's not easy for couples to go out and meet another couple where all the stars aligned and everyone's interested and everyone shows up. I mean, sometimes it takes a minute. You know, but if you're down and you're open to it, it'll eventually, the stars will align.

Trust me. Yeah, we had a bad day. So, yeah, I mean, that happens, though. But I mean, you guys just started your journey with that. I mean, quickly, because we've got to talk about your testosterone. Like, what do you do? Do you do injections? Do you do pellets? Like, how are you taking your testosterone? Okay, because I'm on blood thinners, I take the pellets. Okay, right. That I insert in my vagina. It's estrogen. And then my testosterone is a cream that I apply at my groin area. Yeah, okay, cool. Yeah. So you do the cream and then you do the pellets of the, you do like the vaginal, like the, what are they called? Suppositories. Estrogen. Estrogen depositories, right? They're actually,

little tablets. Yeah, okay. So you put them in vaginally and then the cream is to the testosterone. Now, how much has the hormones changed your game? Oh, my God. Okay. So we are fucking like we did when we were teenagers, when we used to get out of school, race home to Ricky's house. Okay, we'd race home to Ricky's house and we would fuck like little bunny rabbits because, you know, his parents got home at like 5.30, right? Yeah. And we'd always wait to the last fucking minute to get dressed because we're just horny all the time. That's what we're doing right now.

And we're making love for one to three hours. Wow. Wow. Yes. So it's just been wonderful. And like, clits gotten bigger. Yeah, that happens. Yeah. Mm-hmm. I didn't even know the anatomy of my own body. Well, what happens? You probably didn't realize that.

got smaller. No, no, I didn't. Yeah. I didn't know it. It looks like a little tiny penis. And I never, I can't see down there. Yeah. And now I like to look at porn of women in their vaginas because I'm just so curious about

how they look so different and everything. It's cool. Yeah. Can you believe? They do come in all different shapes and sizes. So it's totally, how long you've been on them for? The testosterone. I think, yeah, both.

film, I think, a year. Yeah, that's amazing. Because it takes a little while to get like your levels up and to have them all dialed in and everything. But it does like make you horny again, right? Yeah. Yeah, it took two months before I started feeling anything. So I don't want women out there to get discouraged. No. And sometimes it could take two months and then you feel great and then maybe six months later you don't. But you could tweak them. And what's great is when you're doing it like your way with cream and if they're not that the pod that you eject inside your ass. You can tweak them accordingly if you're having. You can tweak them accordingly if you're having. You problems or you feel like it's too much, you know, and stuff. Right. And you'll know that because you'll know your body. But the fact that you feel great and everything is obviously you got your right levels and you're good to go. I mean, you guys got the penile implant. You got your testosterone, your astrodial.

You guys got your. And a very moist vagina. Yeah. That was a big help too. Yeah. Major. It's like changing your whole life. I love your guy's story.

I'm so glad you called in and shared it. Like I feel like it's a very hopeful story for other people. so many people that are out there that are around your age, like would love to be you guys. And what I love is that like this is just a new thing for you guys, right? So you're here to say like this can happen to you too because it wasn't like you guys were always this way. This is like out of the blue, you know, you're in your 60s and 70s and things have totally changed. And like I said, it's not the movies. It didn't change overnight.

It wasn't like perfect. You know, we had to go through his penile implant. You were like horrified at him telling you his fantasies. but like, you know, it really has brought you guys closer and closer and changed your life. And it was actually like just only positive. And it's like so helpful for other people to hear that I feel like because I believe you're never too old to change. Right.

As long as you're alive. Right. You got it in you, you know. And I think a lot of people don't understand that. They think you get to a certain point. That's it. You're done. No more changing.

You know, and a lot of times it's like the people feel that way way before they're fucking dead. Like the only time you can't change anymore is after you die. But before that, it's always, you always could change things up. And why not? You only live once. You guys are living in your best life. Yeah.

That are my age, that you can still have a great fucking sex life. And it's important as women. Yeah. And you feel sexy again. No, and you feel sexy again. And how great does that feel? If you're my confidence. And I'm 66 years old and I have the body of a 66 year old, you know?

Right. Right. But you feel hot and you feel sexy. Right. that's important because no matter how old you are like I said before you know you still want to feel that way you know you don't want to let go of that and you don't have to right that's what that's what you guys are saying I love that so thank you so much for calling in now listen I have a whole Patreon and discord that takes picks hot sexy picks you know send me some of those for my

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Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. everybody shares content with each other and that's what you get to do there you can post your own pictures and videos there's tons of channels we have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money it's a super fun place to be it's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it i will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my discord it's private like i said all you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase whether you did the audiobook the ebook or the paperback

send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Good news. Strictly Anonymous Podcast is looking for people to call into the show. So if you lead an interesting, naughty secret life that you want to talk about,

while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, that's cool too. Send me an email, Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Or go to my website, strictly anonymouspodcast.com and click on Be on the Show. If you have a short confession that you want to get off your back, call my Confessions Hotline. [phone]. That's 347-4-4-203579. call that number 24-7. I change all the voices on the confessions too, so you remain anonymous.

The number, the website, and the email address will all be in the description. If you want to follow the show, follow me at Strict Anonymous on either Instagram or Twitter. That's at Strict Anonymous. And if you want to sign up for my Patreon, you're not only supporting my show, but you're going to get all of these episodes early and ad-free. You're going to get anonymous picks of all of my guests, most of the girls, send me in anonymous hot picks of themselves, and some of the guys are sending me in anonymous picks as well. You also get access to my private discord where people are getting super naughty. If you sign up for my Discord, you could post whatever you want and talk to my other listeners.

To sign up for my Patreon, just go to patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. That's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The links and everything else I spoke about are all in the description. Thanks so much for listening. Thank you.