Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1053 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: She Had a DP w/her Husband and Sugar Daddy, His Wife Hooks Up w/Her Ex and He Loves It, She Can Deep Throat and she Wants to Teach You How and More

Episode Date: March 5, 2025

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy's critique of them. First you’ll hear from a guy who has a wife still screws her ex boyfriend and he’s down for it, then from a girl who learned how to deep throat and gives a tip on how you can learn too, and then from a guy who hooked up with a couple he met on my Discord and explained what went down, and then from a guy who’s wife bangs other guys and has a breeding kink, then from a girl who finally got her bf into hotwifing and then from an extremely pissed off listener. how and why a fucking machine and a spreader bar rules, how to make your first moves into the lifestyle to avoid hurting your partner plus a whole lot more. **To see hot pics of ERICA plus my other hot female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://beducate.me/march2025 Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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fun. Like I said, you get access to all of that by joining my Patreon in $7 a month and you could cancel it any time. All you got to do is go to patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. That's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. There is a link in the description. Now listen, if you're looking to get on an and look for people to have threesomes or hook up with a couple to have sex with or you just want to open up your relationship. I now can offer you a free trial to SDC. Okay, that's a free trial and you're going to want to check it out. It's sdc.com. You use my code 37712. That's 371712 or just go to the description and click on the link and you're going to get a free trial. SDC is like the largest adult dating website. They have people on there from all over the world.

So if you're going to be traveling and you want to hook up with someone, you can join on SDC and set that shit up. But you're also like besides like hooking up with people on SDC, what's great about those kind of that, that web, their website is like you get to learn about all the meet and greets and gangbangs and hotel takeovers and smoker clubs, all this shit that's going down in your area or where you're traveling to. It will be on SDC. So make sure to check it out. Last thing I want to say is on a recent episode, I did ask for reviews. And people, wrote like the nicest reviews, okay, recently. And I really, really appreciate it. It's one thing to get a troll that's going to write a really rude episode, a really, really rude comment about my show. I don't care about those fucking comments, but I love the good ones. So thank you. So I'm not going to read them because they're long, but they're so nice. And that kind of shit really helps my show. Even if you don't want to write a review, just press five star. Like I said, it helps. So if you could do me the favor, just press five star. That really helps. Or write a nice review. I, love them. So anyways, today is a really fun confessions episode. I have Erica on again with me.

Erica really is like great on these confessions episode because she always winds up confessing so much to it. And she just like has so much in common with the people calling in to confess about all their crazy sex things. On this episode, we hear first from a guy whose wife is a hot wife, hot wife's from him. He met her early on and she was like doing other people and he's into it. She's currently hooking up with an ex. Then we hear from a girl who could deep throat. Then we hear from my Vegas guy who's been on my show before who met a couple on my Discord and hooked up with them, both the guy and the girl. Then we hear from a guy who's got a hot wife that is into breeding, has like the breeding

kink. We talk about that. We hear from that, that guy. And then we hear from a girl who called into my show and I gave her advice to go get a fucking machine. She got a fucking machine. She called and just talk about like what went down with that fucking machine. And then we end it.

Okay. It's not really like with a confession where a guy. It wasn't really a confession. A guy called up and he was so angry at me and a past guest. And I decided to just throw that one in because I thought it was kind of interesting and kind of funny. And with that, we ended with that. During this episode, you know, you don't just hear those confessions. You hear so much more because Erica knows how to deep throat.

She's used a fucking machine. She's had a breeding fantasy. She's into guys coming in her. And then she has her own confession. She had a DP with her guy and another guy. She talks about that whole thing. That confession is in there in details, but there's so much more about her naughty life in there. And we talk about so many different things in relation to these confessions.

There's a super interesting episode. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with the first confession. And then after each confession, you'll hear me and Erica talking. And if you want to see Erica, okay, like Erica doesn't just sound hot. She actually really is. She's like a 12 on a scale of 1 to 10. and she's all over my Discord and all over my Patreon. She's not anywhere else, so you can't really see her put a body to her anywhere except on my Patreon or my Discord.

So make sure to sign up. It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. Link is in the description. I'm going to get right back to it and be right back on with the first confession. First off, I've got to say, I love your show. It's great. And I've wanted to call in for a while because I feel like I want to get this story off my chest. And it's funny as I actually am calling you.

my wife is at her ex's place and I know he's taking control of her and she's surrendering completely to him and I know how much she needs that and I also know how much she needs me and it's just a huge turn on her having both of us and I wanted to tell the background story so I met my wife in university days she was actually my roommate's girlfriend and that's who she's with right now it was like this immediate attraction effectual but intelligent and smart and she's been a lot of times, a lot of time at our apartment, we had two-bedroom apartment and I could hear them through the walls. They would have this ring and, you know, I'd never heard two people have sex like that before and, you know, she would do little things like, where's the t-shirt and her underwear and,

you know, let me see parts of it and, and it was just so primal and sexy. And then one night I was sitting on the couch and she left the door open and I just sat there and watched and she could make eye contact with me, like she knew I was watching, I think he knew I was watching, when I just had to touch myself and couldn't help but stroke myself and get off. And it sort of progressed from there. She invited me in. She had me close up watching. She took me in her mouth.

And, you know, for a period of about a year, she basically lived with the two of us and we took turns with her. And she'd sometimes have both of us in her. Sometimes she'd be with me, be with him. And then I tended to be the one she would be with second. and they would have this incredible fucking, and then she'd come in and let me ride her and let me off, and it was great. And we ended up going all our separate ways.

He moved across the country, and it was actually quite a few years later that her and I got back together, and we ended up getting married. Okay, so listen, you know, the reason why I love having you on the call, Erica, okay, is that, you know, if before I did my show, and even mostly throughout doing my show, I sometimes don't believe these kinds of stories, but, you know, The fact that you live this shit out is why I do believe it.

Like you are here on the show and this is like stuff that you have done. I mean, like you're going to have your own confession today where you did a D.P. in the afternoon with your guy and another guy. We're going to talk about this. But this guy's a wife is like cooking up with the X. I mean, he met her when they were like, you know, and he loved the sloppy seconds. And I know that you're, doesn't your guy like sloppy seconds? He definitely does.

But I actually had a partner. who's been fairly long term. I've, you know, been seeing him for about three, three years on and off, maybe two years. And he is in an open marriage. And his wife still sees her boyfriend from before they got married. Oh my God, it's this guy. Maybe this is your guy. Yeah, maybe it is the same guy.

I changed his voice. So, like, he, his wife, you know, when they first started dating and talking and everything, She was seeing other people. And she basically asked him, like, should I stop seeing this guy? I really love the way he fucks me. And the guy was like, no, keep seeing him. And she thought it was a little weird at first. But then he kept telling her, like, you know, go on a date with him, then come over to my place.

And it just kind of evolved from there. So even though this guy's story sounds a little bit unbelievable, having known someone who basically had the exact same thing, happen and it still happens. I mean, his wife still sees this guy. It's been 10 or 12 years every month or so and then comes home to her husband. And he does the total cleanup thing. And she only hot wives with that one guy. I always say like, you know, I'm more of a cuck queen and would love for my partner to go out and like do all the work, you know, and I'm just so lazy. I'd stay at home. I don't need to fuck a million guys. But I do say like if I had a guy and he was like begging me to go bang someone. That one could be hot. I'd do. I do. I do. I. I'm just so. I'm

right but I would totally call up one of my booty calls like I'm like very like one guy oriented right listen you're like the type of girl was so interesting why I love girls like you but you're not the majority right whereas you you know you could like a lot of different guys you know you could become attracted to a lot of guys you could take you know you could blow eight guys in a glory hole I mean I think that's what you told us on the last I may have done that yeah yeah I think there's pictures on my discord okay of her blowing all those dicks in the glory hole. Now, but, you know, a lot of girls aren't wired that way.

Like, so why not? I think it's always great to go to an X, right? Or somebody that you've always been there, done that. Especially if you have a good rapport. I mean, a lot of times relationships end because maybe your goals are aligned or like one person wants kids, one person doesn't want kids. That doesn't mean that you can't fuck them still. It's just not going to be your life partner.

Exactly. And so I can totally see how that works. because the woman probably feels safe with that guy. If he's good in bed, she knows she's going to have a good time. Because there is nothing worse than hooking up with someone and it being lame. You know? Yes. Yeah.

It's just a total waste of time. Right. And so she knows. I mean, she's going with the accident. That's what I said. I mean, it sounds like a lot of guys fantasy, right? What this guy's talking about. Like, oh, you know.

Right. Like it's like a porn. It starts out even like a porn. Like, oh, the college. roommate is fucking the girl and then he's sloppy seconds and that you know and then another separate porn is like my wife's fucking her ex but like I said like what's so interesting to have you on is like you like have lived these scenarios and now I didn't even realize it but you like have a guy that has this exact same scenario so it's not like these kinds of things do happen like this shit

does go down some guys are living this out in real life yeah yeah yeah and I mean I know just from personal experience. There is nothing more satisfying to a man who's into this as sliding his cock into a woman who has come in her pussy. Like, it is incredible. That is a thing. That sloppy seconds is a real, real turn on for a lot of men. Your guy likes that? He loves it. Right. He loves it so much. And does, will he go down on you too? I mean, this guy says, because that's like, is that considered a cream prior or do you have to go down on a cream pie? It's a cream pie. I feel like, I don't know. Yeah, I think that that's kind of the cleanup kink. My guy doesn't have that, but, but he definitely has the sloppy second, like, fucking part. Like, he loves the way that come feels while he's

fucking me. Why don't I ever have your guy on my show? How come he's never been on? He's been on my show. He has been on the show. He has? Yeah, it was a long time ago, Kathy. Kathy, you and I, we go way back. Yeah, I know. He was on your show maybe four years ago, three years. What was his name? His name's Sam. Oh, Sam. But we weren't really, yes. We were new.

We weren't as into it as we are now. Yes, it was four years ago. So we've kind of navigated all the things and landed here. Okay, we need Sam Part 2. And let's get to the next episode. Okay. I will tell him to come on. Yeah, we're going to do Sam 4 2.

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And let's get to the next episode. Okay. I will tell him to come on. Yeah, we're going to do Sam. we're doing. All right. Let's get to the next episode. I mean the next episode, the next confession. Hey, so I was listening to your podcast and you were talking about, like, people deep-throating and stuff. And a lot of girls don't know how to do that. Just calling for like a tip for those who want to try deep-throating and don't really know how. When I was younger, that was like one of

my first goals was to like deep-throat with the porn stars on the videos that people watched and stuff. So that was like one of the main sex goals that I had when I was younger. And for all the ladies right there that want to know how to deep throat, all you really got to do is literally look up sword swallowing. As long as you can learn to relax those muscles in your throat, like, that's all you've got to do. And it makes deep throwing a really good experience once you catch on to doing that. And honestly, like, look up, that's what I did. I just looked up videos on YouTube where I try to sword swallow and follow the,

instructions on how to relax your throat and stuff when they're swallowing the swords. So that's all you got to do, ladies. Ciao. Oh, my God. Don't you love that one? I don't know. I think it's so fucking funny. I love this little problem solver.

It's so cute. But sword fight. I mean, I would never think sword swallowing and deep throating. But it's like if you think about it, it's smart. I mean, shout out to her. She's definitely a problem solver. Yeah, which I love. You know how people are like, you know, some people are very like straight by the book.

She's like, let me, let me see if I can figure this shit out. Right, like a sword, a dick, same shit, right? They call dick swords. But like the fact that she was like, how do I learn at a deep throat? Instead of like going on porn and watching people like deep throat cocks, she went to sorts volume. But I guess it's probably like there's like tutorials for it, right? It's a how to too. Yeah.

Like you can't just jump straight to porn. Like those girls already know how to do it. You need the step by step guide. Yeah. But you don't know how to deep. Like how did you learn? Like, listen, I love that she learns because. Like to me there's these things, right?

That I don't think that like you have to know these things to be good in bed. Like I was always kind of considered good in bed. But like I don't know how to deep throat or squirt. But I want to. And I think I want to and I think most people want to because these are just great like party tricks. Like you throw that shit into the mix. Right. Like people are impressed.

Right. Like you could get a standing ovation. Like that's what I want to know. Like how do you know how to deep throw correct? I do. How do learn? Let me tell you. There's a few factors.

So it's positioned It's also like type of cock So I don't know if you've experienced this But some guys get like rock fucking hard Yeah right And if that's the guy that you're trying to deep throat Then you've got to like lay your head off the side of the bed Because just the angles

You're not going to be able to like kneel in front of him And get that cock down their throat Because of how hard the dick is Right because it's got to curve down through your throat Exactly. So you got to think of like the geometry behind it. Yeah. And I guess like people swallowing swords really got to take geometry into session because it's like live or die. Well, right. But they put their heads back. Same concept. Like laying off the side of the bed or like putting your head straight back. You get that straight line down your throat. And then you can really do the throat fucking in that position. But how did you learn? Okay. Like how did you? I know you're going to give us a good confession on this episode too. But like, can. confess to us.

How did you fucking learn? Did you just always know how to? You just, that's bloody. I don't think I always knew how. It's just dedication to the cause, Kathy. It was more.

Guys shoving it down and you've, oh, so practicing. So you did practice. I did practice with my husband. He is a very, very patient man and was able to, uh, you know,

give up his time to let me practice on his dick. Right. Because you wanted to learn. You wanted to learn. I did. I did. I did. And I really get off on deep throat porn.

Sometimes I feel bad about it. You know, I don't know if you're like me, but I'll like watch a video. And while I'm masturbating, I'm super into it. And then it gets over and I'm like, oh shit. I can't believe that. Oh, yeah, of course. I think a lot of you have post-not clarity happens for girls too. Post-not clarity for sure.

So I'm really into like the throat fucking messy, deep throat. That is 100% my go-to when it comes to porn. Yeah. I had a, I just taped a woman. I think I'm airing her tomorrow or sometime soon, but when she was talking about how like just having the cock down her mouth is such a turn on for her that she like will take a dildo and put it in while she's jerking. You know, like say you're playing with yourself right and you're putting your toys in your pussy. She'll put a toy in her mouth. Yeah, I actually did that the other night during a hot life date.

And the my guy who I was fucking, he actually put the dildo up on the headboard of the bed and was kind of sure. shoving my head down onto the dildo while he was fucking me from behind. So it's kind of like simulating a threesome. Oh my God. You're so crazy. Yeah. It never fails at anything that comes up on my confessions episodes comes up on the thing. And you still haven't gotten to your confession.

We're always going to throw in a confession for yours. Yours is going to come up soon after the next one. I just have to sprinkle my little naughtiness throughout. Yeah. How did you listen? I have, okay, how did you not wind up in my book? I know that you said yes. Like what I had to do for my book.

So I have a book. coming out. Unfortunately, it's not coming out until October 17th, but it is available for pre-sell, which is kind of fun, but I don't want to bother. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's kind of fun, right? It's available, but it's like, you know, far out, but it's coming out on October 17th. And what I did was I sort of went through and thought of like all my hardcore people. You were one of them on the list and I had to get like permission. You said yes. And I'm right. Yeah. And so what it is is like a bunch of like the hottest episodes and stories. And I like, you know, my publisher was very particular about like, you know how many different kinds of episodes I had.

I had to like be smart about it. But hopefully I'll get a second. If this one does well, I know I'll get another one because they're like, oh, you have so many stories. You will be in. But that book is out. If you want to check it out, the link is in the description. It's like 17 of the hottest stories that have been on my show, all told in like the third person.

And it's kind of a little bit of, like there's a little bit more sex stuff in there because we took, that's where we took like. Creative Liberty. Yeah, creative liberty in there. These are like stories based on these. stories, you know. But you're going to have to be in my next book because I think maybe it was just, you had so many different things going on. I didn't know what category to put you in. And I have like one gang bang person, one hot wife, you know, that kind of thing. But you're going to the next one for

sure. But anyway, that book link is in the description if people want to pre-order it. But all right, let's get to the next confession. And then after that, you're going to give your confession, okay? Okay. Hey, what's up? This is Joseph from Vegas. And I know you've heard quite a bit of things that's gone on in my life recently, but I felt this was very relevant to a call in because it has to do with your podcast. So I met a couple, first the guy, and then later he found out that he was engaged from your Discord. And so they were, they said they were from Vegas, but they were actually a little bit north of Vegas, about an hour north of Vegas. So we got to talking on Discord so much to where I actually like don't even log in the Discord very much because you were

just planning, you know, a bunch of crazy shit. We were just talking back and forward. We were just talking back and forth, a bunch of dirty talk, and at that, you know, about a, you know, three weeks in, three, four weeks in, you know, we decided that we were actually going to meet up in Vegas. And so I rented an Airbnb, so I didn't bring them over to my place. Airbnb, hot tub in the backyard, and basically just stripped down naked. And had this whole role play thing going on where they were going to walk in the backyard and catch me, you know, basically jerking off. And so they walked into the backyard.

It was definitely them from the pictures. We basically got right to it. You know, I was watching some borns and buy porn by the hot tub. You know, they got in. He fucked around. So the highlight of the night was after I fucked him aggressively hard, he just couldn't not get enough. I mean, I was short-winded after fucking this guy and almost came about 20 times in his ass.

Fucked her. I mean, it was amazing. You know, we actually called the girl that I was messing around with a while back in Vegas that I talked about on my last episode and had her come over. And about two hours after, we had called her and we were all pretty much blueballing each other and just edging the whole time, talking around, talking dirty to each other, having a good time conversating. She shows up, and then it turns into a full-on five-four-sum, you know, those two girls

were hooking up, me and this other guy were hooking up. We fought us and then we're literally outside most of the evening then turned it everything inside and it fucked until the sun came up and then all fell asleep naked or almost naked and then woke up early in the morning had some eggs and then kind of went back at it like well the three of us the girl had to eat for work at some point with two hours sleep or hour and a half sleep or something like that so it's fucking amazing thanks to your discord and you know I've talked to them a couple times since then and I think we're going to plan it again.

Okay, shout out to my Discord. Wait, shout out to my Discord. Yeah, sorry. I mean, I have to say, I talk a lot on my intro when I'm telling people to sign up that people are hooking up on my Discord and they are. This guy actually met the other girl, the girl that showed up, you know, halfway into the story. He called him the other girl.

She also met him from my show because she recognized him from his picks on Discord. Oh, wow. Yeah, and that's how he made. met the girl because he had some tattoos. So that's where all of this stuff goes down. People that don't know. Like I have a Patreon. It's connected to Discord. And that's where like Erica, who you're listening to right now. Okay. That's where all her stuff is. Like when I say that there's pictures of her with all the, you know, seven dick she took in the glory hall. They're on my Discord. You can't see Erica anywhere else. She has no OnlyFans nothing. She's been, she's on my Discord. And this guy's

hook it up for my Discord. It's crazy. That's awesome. Yeah. I love your Discord to be honest. I go on there frequently and I try to answer all of my DMs. Oh, you must get a lot. I do. I mean, if someone just sends me a wave, I don't answer. But if someone sends me a message, I always try to answer and had several like long-term conversations on there. And I love it.

I think it's an awesome community. I'm so happy you decided to set that up because it really does allow for that connection and conversation beyond the show. Yeah, because this is what I felt like was lacking. Like on Patreon, I love it because I love having that connection with my listeners. Like I obviously, like I respond to every comment and I respond by having like conversations. Like I obviously love what I do, right? I don't just do it for no reason.

So that's what I love about Patreon. There's all these extended conversations that are going on about all these topics that we're talking about. But there was always this like sort of X-rated component to it that. I was getting all these picks. And that's why I started the Discord. Like, where can I put all this other stuff? Right?

I can't do it on Patreon. I put it there. I locked it down. But what I love about Discord beyond that is that you guys get to have that conversation. Because it's kind of like I have to be the person talking. I'm like the moderator on Patreon. But what's great about Discord is everyone gets to talk to each other. And that's what you can't do on Patreon or like I used to do on YouTube.

Right. So that's what's so great about the Discord. Like you could talk to my guests. Like I always say, like you really are. on there. And there's a lot of other hot girls, you know, but like, and there's tons of shit. And there's a lot of guys on there. There's a lot of dickpicks. And there's a lot of, we're doing a whole dick pick contest. You're going to have to be a judge for that one. Okay. No, you're going to have to be a judge. You're going to judge. Okay. Because there was too many dick pics that came in. And I was like,

oh, my God, we're going to do a private judging on Discord of the dick picks. But I love that you love it and that you participate. And that's where people could go and talk to you, right? Yes. Yeah. I mean, I do. I chat to a lot of people. My husband posts. in the rate my wife all the time. Oh my God. He's always posting pictures of me. And one thing that he and I were discussing about the discord is, you know, we have this life that's very naughty, but it's only one little segment of our life.

We have plenty of like vanilla friends, activities, jobs, life. So we're not going around just talking to people about, hey, I had a gangbang today or, you know, I had a hot wife date. So it's a good outlet for having those discussions and being able to connect. with people that have similar experiences. Yeah, so you have that little part of your life and you get a little bit more of it and you get to talk about it a little bit more because like you said, then you go back to your regular vanilla life and nobody would have any idea that you are a therapist.

Absolutely. You need to be, though, a sex therapist. You need to blend the two. I know. I'm working. I am working on it. Yeah, that's what you need to do. Why don't you give your, well, let's just go about for, first of all, get Vegas guy.

I'm sorry, Vegas guy. You're going to get mad at me for this, but like, I don't know. you do have the free pass. I get confused. Like, are you cheating on your girl? Because this Vegas guy does have a girlfriend. She wasn't there. But, you know, I love Vegas guy. He is like the gift that keeps on giving. He has been on my show many times before. He was like, you know, he's always banging couples. He's doing guys. He used to do a gay porn star guy that he met. He's been on my show. Yeah, many times. And now he's hooking on my discord. So, you know, he's kind of like you. He's like the gift that keeps on giving. He's got a lot of stories. I'll put his number of his episode for people

to go listen to it. But I wonder if you're still cheating, Vegas guy. Let us know on Discord or on Patreon. Was this whole scenario cheating again on your girl or do you have a free pass? I'm confused. He's because he's with a girlfriend, but she wasn't a part of this whole crazy story. Yeah. Okay.

Wow. Yeah, I don't know. But if he also, I'd be interested to talk to him. So he should, you know. Oh, DM you. Okay. Vegas guy. DM Erica.

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him so he should, you know. Oh, DMU. Okay, Vegas guy, DM Erica, okay. So why don't you give, you want to do your confession now? Absolutely. I had a very naughty day yesterday, but actually it wasn't naughty. It was kind of just sandwiched into like regular, regular life things. I got up to Saturday. I went to the gym with a friend, had a good workout. And while I was at the gym, the guy I've been seeing, I talked about him on the last confessions. He's actually a sugar daddy of mine, I've been seeing him like two to three times a week. And we've kind of turned it into a hot wife dynamic with my husband and him. So he texted me and was kind of like, what are you up to?

And I said, you know, I let him know what was going on. I had some kid stuff in the afternoon. And he asked if I wanted to have a little fun. And I let him know, sure, you know, but my husband was going to be there. And he said, all right. So he comes over. We get right down to business. And it was just very.

hot. My husband was super turned on right from the start. My sugar daddy was super turned on. They both have giant cocks. They're both like nine inch thick dicks. Oh my God. And I am a size queen. So I'm in heaven.

We, you know, we kind of fuck just spit roasting and me going down on both of them for a little while. And then I told my husband, I was like, I took total control of the situation. I said, you need to lay down. So I got on top of him. put his cock in my pussy and then told my sugar daddy to fuck my ass. And he did. And the best part of it,

Kathy, was all three of us. And this is no lie. Came at the exact same time. No way. Yes. It was so spontaneous. The whole thing lasted maybe like 15 minutes start to finish. And he was back out the door because we had shit we had to do. But it was amazing. It was probably the best D.P. I've ever had. Wow, I love the fact that that was a 15-minute D.P. That makes a story even more interesting to me for some reason. I like that. Why not? Right middle of the day? I was kind of like to Erica when she told me I did a D.P. In the day, I was like, I was some people who meet for coffee. You meet for quick D.P. It was just a little D.P. Sesh in the middle of. We called it a saturnace shenan again. So that's going to be the code word now.

Oh, my God. So that's what, when you want to do that. And he was like in and out. He had some place to go. squeezing you in. Yep. Wow. Yeah, I can't wait to get that guy on the show. I'm going to definitely tell him that he needs to come on. He would definitely be down. Yeah, I mean, this is the type of stuff that Erica does.

You know, I don't even know what to say back to that confession. It's like, we're going to get to the next confession because we have more confessions of yours is going to come out. But, I mean, that's just like your quick Saturday afternoon outing, which is hilarious. I know. I mean, then you go to your kids' sporting event and comes leaking out of, both your holes. It's just, it's a great place to be. Oh my God. And you could take two guys with those big thick dicks in you at the same time. Do you squirt when that happens? Are you a squirder? I am a squirter, but I didn't squirt during, it was just so intense. It was just a huge orgasm. It

wasn't, I didn't squirt. Right. But and the orgasm at everyone at the same time. Crazy. Everyone. Yeah. It was. And we got the whole thing on video. So. Oh, you're kidding. No. Oh my God. And you don't video this shit for OnlyFans or anything like that. You like just do it for your own personal pleasure. We just do it for ourselves because we love to watch it and it turns us on. So it's just for us. Yeah. Okay. That's a good part of added that in, the 15 minute DP that was filmed.

Yeah. All right. Let's get to the next. You're always good for your confessions. Let's get to the next confessions. And listen, for people that need to know, like Erica has been on my show so many times, there are so many hot episodes of Erica like the way, you know, because people comment on your voice.

You know, you have a great voice. I've always said that. Oh, thank you. It's great for being a therapist. You should do your own podcast. but you know it's also great for your episodes and there's been so many what people don't realize is you could go into Spotify and if you go into my show you go right up to the top there's a search bar and you just put in the name Erica and you'll get all her episodes there because it's too many to list you know yeah thank you I was actually just listing them today and I hadn't realized I'd been on so many times yeah so much for having me back yeah now you're fun to do my confessions I'm doing another thing with Layla where we're going to do like rape my pussy and shit and we're going to rate your pussy on that one so you won't you won't be on that one, but you'll be guest starring. Okay, but anyway, let's get to the next confession. Hey, Kathy. This is Bob. Just calling back to follow up on previous call that I made way back some

time ago, episode 823, I was telling you about the torso delto that I had bought my wife that got us into looking into having a threesome. Yeah, so we left off with that conversation saying that we had a meetup scheduled with a guy about half her age. He was like 25 and we're in our early 50s. So we met up with him. Everything went pretty well, but my wife, they had a good time. But afterwards, it was kind of more like a hit-it-and-quitted type thing. Like, the guy disappeared didn't really say much afterwards. You know, a young guy just wanting to get his rocks off, I guess.

He didn't really follow through with all that he said. And he was, his cock was massive, so much bigger than mine, which is fine. But he really didn't kind of take care of my wife during the whole thing. So she somewhat had a good time, but other parts, you know, hurt and this and that. So afterwards, we had a little bit of a, I had like a little bit of a jealousy thing just because I don't think we talked about it as much as we should have, like just going over the details. We were fine, we'll work through it. But my wife's like, no, never again because it just, it wasn't what I expected. So, I don't know, fast forward a few months.

I just started bringing it up again and talking to her about it. I found a picture of a guy on one of the websites on Reddit actually. I just reached out to him, hey, you know, gave him our rundown. And he's like, sure, yeah, we'll meet up. So we plan to meet up. It took a couple months to meet up with a guy, but completely different outcome. Nice guy took his time with my wife, warmed her up, took care of her to get her ready for his, you know, big cock. And she enjoyed the hell out of it.

We did a bunch of stuff. I sucked his cock a little bit after he pulled out of her. We did, you know, 69 position with, I'm underneath her and he's, you know, fucking. her from behind. Anyway, before the meetup, my wife was, we got into this thing about this breeding fantasy and like this cum fantasy for her. Like, she wanted to be filled with, you know, a stranger's cum inside her. And so let me check this guy out. Had good, you know, everything was clear, medical wise. So we were pretty confident about that. So yeah, he came inside my wife like twice and we wanted more, but we didn't quite get there. But yeah, I enjoyed, you know,

eating her out afterwards. It was a lot of fun. Turned my wife on a lot. The next morning we had, I just took like 45 minutes, just like, I called it caring for a pussy afterwards, just going down on her licking and gently just, you know, cleaning her up, you know, kissing her shit, a massive orgasm from that stuff, just slow and easy. Just, it was perfect, but good guy. We're still in contact. Actually, he's going to drive a couple hours tomorrow night. We're going to sneak him in her house. and we're going to do the same again. So, yeah, the second time was a charm and the third time. Yeah, we'll see what happens.

Hopefully the third time's a charm as well. So I can call you back again and update each on that meetup as well, but we had a good experience. You know, the first one went, yeah, okay, we learned a lot from it. This second time around was amazing. We're going to meet up again, so we'll let you know what happens. For some reason, I think he was totally stroking his cock while he was leaving that confession. Oh! Oh, my God, are you serious?

I did. I have to go back. When I edit, I'm going to listen and thinking of that. That's the kind of shit I totally miss and people will be like, by the way, Kathy, blah, blah, blah. I was like, oh, my God, you're probably right. You think he was? Yeah, I think he was. Oh, my God, you're so funny.

Well, you know, his breathing pattern is what made me think it. Oh, my God. And you're not saying breathing. You're saying breathing. Breathing, yeah. This is the breeding confession, but you're saying his breathing pattern gave it away. Yes. Oh my God. Well, he is reliving. I mean, listen to the first part of this confession was like what you talked about.

Like when you have that experience, it's kind of like, eh. I mean, here was a guy that was like 25 with the biggest dick ever and it wasn't even that great, right? Do you find that with the younger guy? Sometimes they kind of over, what is that called over promise? Right. I mean, I think when you're in your 20s, you haven't really mastered the art of confidence versus cockiness. I have guys all the time that hit me up on Fet and, you know, they promised me the best night of their life, of my life. It's probably like it would be the best night of their life. Yeah. For sure. If a guy says that, it's absolutely no. You know it's not going to be the best.

And I'm sure that this 25-year-old guy was probably very nervous in this situation. So it sounds like by the second time they got together. No, the guy wasn't the second. No, no, no, no. The second guy was a totally new guy. Oh, it was a new guy. Okay. Sorry.

Yeah, it's okay. No, that's why they didn't. That was like forget about him. Then they found a new guy. Okay. It was their second time with a hot wife experience. Yes, their second time. Okay.

Yeah, they didn't bother with that other guy. I was too wrapped up and thinking about his breathing pattern. Yes. That's okay. That's an interesting thing you brought up. That's why you're here. That's why I do this with a couple. I mean, I'm glad that they found someone that worked out for them.

And I think the breeding king is very popular and common. I have heard like a scientific kind of study or reality that a man's penis is actually shaped a certain way to plunge like the semen of another man's come out of a woman. That's what I heard. that the reason for the, like, the mushroom head is to actually pull semen out of the vagina from another man. So that whoever has the most dominant sperm wins. Oh, my God. Or a last guy that gets in kind of.

I mean, he just like put it in and take it out. Oh, my God, that's the funniest thing. I like that nature. I like nature info like that. Yeah. It's very interesting. Yeah. But there has to be something to it because think of how many couples and men and women you've had on your show that have that cake. I know. So there has to be something biological there. Yeah. Yeah. Listen, I think a lot of people don't do it because of like, you know, they don't want to not use a condiment stuff. But there's a lot of guys like you just said. Like your guy loves feeling that other comments on. I think maybe it's like a tactile kind of sensation thing. But maybe it's also like a little breeding thing. I don't know. And like, you know. And like, you just. You know. You know. And like. Do you like to have a lot of guys jizz inside you? Like, I have girls that are like very into come.

You like that, right? I love it. I love it. When I had my cream pie gang bang, it was amazing. When I had my cream pie gang bang, quote unquote, Erica. I don't know. I'm sorry. It makes me laugh.

Go on. It's very casual. Yeah, yeah. Because it's just like so every day for you, but it's like, that's a social loaded fucking sentence. Words. It's not even a sentence. Yeah. And I think it's, you know, listening to this man's story. Obviously, he is reliving this over and over again in his mind. And that's amazing. I think I have so many experiences that I don't just think about one experience over and over again. Yeah, but you also have them on videotape. But wait, I cut you off when you said when I had my cream pie ganga. Oh, yeah. Just the thought of having seven different guys come inside of me. And of course, I did all of the safety things. Everyone had.

had to be tested within, you know, a couple days of the event before people come for me about it. But the thought of having that many men come inside of my pussy was unbelievably sexy for me. Right. And just knowing. I mean, I always thought it was like super hot to have a guy come inside of me, just knowing and, you know, hoping you could feel it and just having that thing. And then feel it like sometimes you could feel it like coming out of you. You know that feeling? Dripping out. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I know. That happens. to me all the time like my husband will come in me at night and then we'll go to sleep and then the next morning I'm at work and I can feel is kind of like drifting into my panties and I'm like oh my god

so hot yeah well that's why this guy when he said I mean that what you just said kind of goes into his confession he said the next morning he went down again because obviously he was like unlike your husband this guy wanted to go down on her afterwards he was into the cream pie and he said the next day he went down and I was wondering but you just confirmed it like there were still be that guy's jizz inside, right? Yeah, definitely. Yeah, imagine. Especially because he came a couple times, so there was a lot.

Yeah, and they wanted more. Hear him say? We wanted more. More. Yeah. Good for them. I'm happy for him. I hope that their third time goes well, too.

Let's get to the next confession. Hi, Kathy. I am the one that called in about like really wanting to be a hot life because I know that my husband wanted it. but you guys had given Bia's advice to buy a fucking machine. And so I did that right after you aired that episode, I was like, yes.

And so since then, like, we have had amazing, amazing sex. And, like, last night, he was, you know, I was sucking his sick, while the fucking machine was sucking me from behind and was having a ton of fun. And he was like, yes, we need to do this for real.

And he actually, like, without, When I went to the bathroom after we were done, you know, having sex, he, like, downloaded SDC without me even talking to him. And he was like, yep, we're going to do this. But then he, like, did it all wrong because he, like, put our real names in our exact location. That's like, whoa, whoa, whoa. We've delete the whole profile. And, like, we're going to explore that more because we have to make certain boundaries and everything.

But I just need to give a shout out to thank you. and that suggestion was just amazing. We're going to go a wedding in a couple weeks, and he, like, wants me to flirt around. He wants me to be a little sweat, and he said, we'll kind of see what happens. So I've been hitting the gym, hard pour, but working on my diet.

I am, like, ready for whatever the fuck is going to happen. And shout out to you. You guys are amazing. Thanks, Kathy. Bye. Okay, now, Erica, I don't remember if you were on the call with me for this girl, but I, listen, that wasn't. my idea of the fucking machine.

It was like from another guest called in and said, oh, you know, I got a fucking machine because they wanted to start hot wifing and that's what got them into thinking about it. Now that couple, that was on my show that actually got the fucking machine. They were so into the fucking machine that they never even went to the next level. They were just like happy doing that and that was like done with it. But I love that this girl got the fucking machine and now because she was wanting a hot wife and she was the girl that like her guy didn't want to. But having this whole sort of role play.

scenario with the fucking machine has got it into him to the point where he threw their faces up on SDC, which is my sponsor. People could sign up for free on SEC 37712. Get a free trial. The link is in the description. But like, you know, he did it all wrong. But listen, she's on her way with the fucking machine.

Yeah, she's on her way. She is. I have to say, Kathy, I'm not on SDC. So I'm going to use your code. Oh my God, use it. Yeah, go check it out. They give you a free trial. You can try it. It's 377.1.2. The link is in the description. I've gotten a lot of people to to sign up, you know, and a lot of people love it. I always wanted to partner up with somebody and I just didn't know who and people who call

into my show talk about a lot of different ones, you know, but what I love about SDC is a lot of my callers use it and they love it. You know, I'm not on there. My show is on there. And I have episodes on there and all that stuff. But a lot of people are on it. So yes, you have to check it out and you could talk about it at another time. But you don't even need SDC. You got my Discord. You could hook up on there. But anyway, I have always like, do you have a fucking machine? I don't have one, but I have used one at a party before. Oh. And I've used one twice.

The first one was kind of like a handheld fucking machine, kind of, I don't know how to describe it, almost like a drill type of thing. Yeah, that makes sense. Where it was an attachment with the doldow at the end. And I tried it. I loved it. I thought it was so fun. And, you know, I am a total exhibitionist. And so while I was using it, a bunch of people were watching me use it.

So that was really hot. And then the second time, it was the big one that you see on born. Yeah. And my husband put a big dildo on there. And then they also had this attachment where you basically were like handcuffed in so you couldn't move. So you were just in doggy with the fucking machine. Oh my God. Getting rammed from behind.

Yes. Yes. And that was very. very hot. And again, it was at a party, so people were watching me get fucked by the fucking machine. So great experience is there. I, I, when that couple told me that they got that to sort mock up the role play of having another guy there. I was like, that is a great way to start. You know, and I think a fucking machine is like where it's, I was like Googling when they were talking about it and I like found them on Amazon for like 200 bucks. I'm like, I want a fucking

machine. But then I'm like, where am I going to hide it? I always get so, I'm like, I'm like, think things through too much and I always think my cleaning lady is rifling through my shit. And you don't know how many sex toys I have in my house and products from sponsors at my house. Not just my own shit. I have all this other. I mean, I just so much stuff that my lady must be like, what the fuck is this bitch doing? And I'm like, where am I going to hide a fucking machine? I want, you know what else I want to get is a spreader bar?

But I'm like, where am I going to put the spreader bar? I really want to try it. That you could put in your closet. That I think is, because we have one in the closet. I think that's easy to hide. The fucking machine. Yeah, because it's just a bar. It's just kind of looks like a rod.

Oh, okay. So I could get that. Can you send me a link to one that you like or that is it good? I'll look and see. But yeah, so I think that's a little bit easier to hide. I was thinking of getting a safe that I could lock because I just have too much stuff and that's what I need to. Then I'm going to get a fucking machine.

But I do think, like in this situation, this was a girl who, you know, wanted to get her guy into bringing another guy in and he was not down for it. And now he's like on SDC. I mean, can you just tell people how to make that next move? Like you don't put your face up there like her guy did it. Right. They to go on as a couple. Right. I don't put your face up. Because you can, like I said, I'm not on SCC, but I'm assuming it's the same as other sites where you can have protected pictures. Yeah. So just put like a good picture of your bodies. Yes. Inclos, like vanilla picture so that people can get an idea of what your body. like and then you can protect those face pictures or just choose to send them like through DM but you just

want to put on your profile what you're looking for if you're new put that on your profile because some people are really into that and some people aren't so I think having that communication up front is important but I'm so happy for this couple because they tried something new they liked it they're going to try something else new if they don't like it that's great they do like it that's wonderful either way they're communicating with each other, they're trying new things, and they're having fun together. And you're seeing your partner as like a sexual being, which I think the longer you're together, you just see that person as like your roommate. Oh, yeah, you hear that all the time.

Your logistical partner. Whereas now you're laughing together. You're orgasming together. You're having fun together. So however that looks, it's going to be different for every couple. But trying the fucking machine is a great way just to kind of dip your toes or any toys. fucking machine might be a little bit too extreme for some people. Yeah, just get another dildo.

Yeah. Or a wand or something. Yeah. And start talking about it. Yeah. Right. And also though, but like, and they do need like she said to talk about their boundaries and stuff too. I think that that is the other part of like not putting your face up, right?

Like you said, put up some regular clothes picks. Definitely weed out people straight up by being really honest about what you're into. Right. Like you said, put that your newbies because it'll weed out the people that don't want you if they're newbies. right but there's plenty of people that would right and it's gonna also allow like if i see that a couple's new or that um a guy is new in the lifestyle i give him a little bit more grace or give them more grace than i would um you know someone that doesn't have that you know if a guy approaches me is like hey do you want this dick it's automatic block but if i see that he's new if he's if it's in his profile and he just says

something you know one liner or whatnot i'll say hey Hey, would you go up to a girl in the gym and say that? No. Like, you need to approach someone or a couple in the lifestyle just as you would someone at the bar or at the gym or wherever it is that you're meeting someone. Right. So put more information in your profile, not less is what I would say is my advice. Like a very specific.

Yes, absolutely. Yeah, as specific as possible. And then also have those conversations with each other. Like, what is going to be okay this first time? Where are the boundaries? Like what do you want to happen? What do you not want to happen? You know, get as clear as you can, especially the first time when you're getting into it.

Absolutely. And then have those conversations afterwards and then just go from there. Just have fun. It's not, you know, it's not the end of the world if something happens that you don't like. Just move on from it. Yeah, I get it. Okay. Erica, I'm just going to make you listen to something at the end that I got.

That is so funny. I'm going to give this guy a voice because he sounds so pent up. he just needs to be out there. I'm going to do him a favor, even though he told me to go to hell. Even though he was not very nice to me on this episode, I'm going to do this guy a favor and put him on blast right now and let everybody listen to him because I think he needs to like shout it at the rooftops. You want to hear this fucking crazy.

Sure. Sure. Okay. Episode 148. Men don't get it to understand what a woman goes through taking care of kids. Bullshit. coming from a guy who was there through thick and thin who did half the shit that his wife did, if not more, and you're going to sit there and say, men don't get it.

You don't give men enough credit. Neither does the woman in this damn episode. You don't give any men credit for the shit that they go through that they have to do. What about when the guy's changing the diapers? What about when she's checked out? What about when she's not there? And the man's taking care of the kid. Yeah, the man don't know anything, right?

He's just a big, bad fucking piece of shit. Go to hell. And you I love I was like just go to hell Oh my god I'm like I don't know If other people are as obsessed

With stuff like this like I am Like I was obsessed When I got this episode And let me tell you I'm not gonna get too into this one Because there's nothing to do With sex right And whatever

But I do have to say though The episode that he's talking about If you want to hear Exactly what I said I'm just gonna stick up for myself And then I'm gonna talk about This guy But like you know

If you want to hear Exactly the part That he's talking about where we went off on guys and kids and whatever and no sex and stuff. It is from 11 minutes to about 15 minutes, 11.15 to 15.15. I am extremely fair in that conversation story. I think this guy is so pissed off at whatever happened to him or is happening to him that he didn't hear me giving props to guys. Like I kept talking about how this is just a common problem.

A woman is taking care of a baby and she's like so overwhelmed and she doesn't want to have sex. But like what is the guy supposed to do? you know what I mean? But I said like he doesn't kind of understand why she doesn't want to. Now this guy, I guess, happened to take care of his babies and stuff. But a lot of times the guy isn't and that's okay. There's something, you know, like what I said in the thing is like, I don't know what the solution is, but it is a difficult time in a couple's life. When you got fucking kids and the woman is tending to them and the guy goes to work. Now, there's all different kinds of relationships out there. And sometimes that doesn't happen. Obviously with this guy, he changed some diapers. But. Right. You know. There's one thing changing a diaper every now and then, but there's another thing, staying home with the kid for eight hours, no different than what you do at work, right? That's what I'm talking about. That's what I was talking about. Well, I think, and you know, you and I've had this conversation before in a previous episode where we talked about how I think we were answering listener questions. And there was a common theme that was something along the lines of how to get my wife to have sex with me more or be more adventure.

or kinkier. That was kind of the general vibe of the questionings that we got. And the thing that I, the advice that gave them, which is the same advice I want to give is, first of all, to be a partner, you are not taking a laundry list of duties and saying, oh, well, you do this and this and I'll do this and this. And I did my part. You didn't do my part because every day we all show up as humans. some days I'm going to have 80% to give.

He's only going to have 20% to give. The next day it's going to be vice versa. And when you have new like small children, new babies, there's so much to do. Like just set aside all the hormonal changes that the woman's going through. Like her body is not her own at that moment. Right. And, you know, she might be breastfeeding or just recovering from birth. And so there's a lot going on in general.

So to say I change diapers. okay, I'm sure she did too. You're not doing your part. I know, I mean, there's so much more that goes into a partnership than just one person saying, I did these tasks and you didn't do these tasks. A woman has to feel emotionally connected to her man in order to be her like full sexual self. And there's actually a lot of research out there that talks about emotional connection and its direct correlation to sexual frequency and satisfaction. And so if you are not meeting the emotional needs of a woman and those emotional needs are going to be extremely high during new motherhood, then she's not going to want that sexual connection with you. And there's nothing that you can do or say just changing your baby's diaper. does not foster an emotional connection with your wife.

I know, but can we just talk, could you just be on this guy's side? This guy needs this guy. Okay, I call them sometimes. No, I don't know if he's divorced. He's going to be more mad at me. I'm going to get another episode. I'm going to get another message which I left. It's good.

You know, I call guys that are like really like dickless divorcees. Like you know those guys that have been like in a bad marriage with a woman who that's my ex-husband. Yeah. Couldn't fucking stand them and then they get divorced and they're just like really unhappy afterwards. You know what this guy says. So like if you're not divorced, you're in a bad marriage and something needs to change.

Talk to this guy. Because like I said, I needed to give him a voice. He's so angry. Because listen, if you listen to the whole thing that I talked about on the thing, I was very much, very partial to men. Like I think it's sad that the men don't get sex and I think it's sad that the women feels obligate to and it doesn't want to. Like it's a real problem, right? And you could, and I could see both sides of the problem. And it's a real hard thing.

And everyone goes through it, right? And it's really common. And this guy's really pissed off of it. But like stick up for the guy in this scenario. Okay. Well, I'll say it sounds like he has had a very rough experience. It sounds like he's angry. I'm sure he's sad.

And it sounds like he's just overall unhappy. And that's a hard place to be in. And he probably has a hard journey ahead of him as far as, you know, figuring out what he wants as his next step in life. Yeah. I mean, listen, I think, like I said, I wanted to put his episode out. He put his confession out there because I thought, A, I thought it was like hilarious and funny because it was so, you know, but, and B, because I'm like, oh, let's let this guy. Like, he obviously wanted to be heard, you know what I mean?

And he obviously is so angry. Like, let it out. But eventually, after you get out all this anger, you're going to have to get to a place where you have to let go of all this. This is just the tip of the iceberg, right? Like, he doesn't even know me and he's getting so upset. this is triggering some other shit that went down for him. And like he needs like a therapist, right? Like he needs someone like use that.

Right. Go be angry and keep being angry and let it out and then get to like what's really going on and what happened. Maybe he was married to like the most selfish person. Like I don't know. You know what I mean? I'm never like, oh, I'm only on the guy side or I'm just like a woman man fucking hater. No.

Like I, that's what I love about doing my show. I talk to specific people and I listen to their exact story and judge from there. And what is his story? I don't know. but his story isn't good. I mean, and like I said, he probably was with someone that was really terrible to him or else. Why would he be so mad? But you got to, like, unpack it.

Yeah, I hear a lot of resentment in when he said. And I hear a lot of pain. And a lot of times anger can mask pain because anger is an easier emotion to have. Especially for men. Right. Definitely. And so I'm thankful that he was able to. Let it out?

let it out. Yeah, that's why I'm like, I'm going to let it air it. That's a, it's a safe space, you know, because he's not hurting anyone. You're a big girl. You can take the criticism. Oh, I like it. I think it's funny. He could be my friend.

He could yell at me like that and then I could talk to him and be like, okay, now that, are you done? Like, I don't know where we haven't debate and we move on with it. It's okay. You think, like you thought, you know, I could debate about stuff like that. I don't mind. But I think that this is like a deeper thing. You know, he's being triggered. Definitely.

Right. Yeah. So it's not about me and him. It's not about. me and Amanda, go listen to like 11 minutes to 15 minutes, re-listen to it because I did stick up for the guy. I hope for him that he does get some help and he does have someone to talk to because if he doesn't, he's going to bring all of this baggage into whatever the next relationship is. Oh my God, imagine.

Yeah, you got to unpack that shit. I helped you out here a little bit. You're going to get guys that are going to be on your side, which is going to be great. It's only going to empower that angry side of you even more. But eventually you're going to have to get past that, you know, and you're going to going to have to move on and, you know, I don't know, get to a place where, you know, you're not so angry because that just doesn't, right? I don't know. He's going to have to get to a place where he has peace about the situation. He's not going to be able to go back and change the way that things

went down, the way that his life reacted or didn't react to a certain situation. And he's going to have to get to the place where he's okay with that. Because you cannot go back and redo the past. You can only move forward. And you need to move forward with a better. version of yourself than the one that was in the past. Yeah. Or else you just can repeat it. Yeah. And I personally think, and you know, you don't believe me, I wrote another book that was like

a cartoon book where I talked about every one of my fucking relationships. And at the end of every single one, you know, no matter how bad the guy was, I talked about what I did fucking wrong in that. And I owned what my problem was. Why was I with that person? And I think really the real freedom of any kind of situation comes when you could literally be honest with yourself. about what you did wrong in that.

And sometimes what you did wrong is by being with that terrible person to begin with, why? You need to know why. Because, you know, you could be the biggest victim, but you're still having allowed yourself to be a victim for that long, right? And I feel like a lot of times people just want to move on by blaming somebody else and being a victim. But you don't get true. To me, you do not get true closure until you get to the point where you could

own your issue, even if it's the little issue. And that's how I've been able to release every horrific fucking relationship I've ever had. You know, it was never when I was hating that person. It was never when I'm angry. Like, I can't be set free with those kinds of thoughts. I am set free when I finally get to the point where like, what was my fucking problem? Why did I stay with that guy that said the rudest things to me that didn't like me was fucking other people? Like, what was my problem? I wasn't tied up. You know what I mean? And when I could get to me, that point, I can move on, you know, because that's what it's all about. So, you know, that's what that guy needs to do. And you know that because you're a fucking therapist. When are you going to be a therapist

so we could start pitching you. Like, I feel like, you know, you're at the end of these episodes. I'm like, I want to like help you out because you're helping me out. Everyone always reaches out. I know. Everyone always reaches out. You know, it's a very long process. I do. I am a therapist, but I am still working towards, you know, the licensing to be a sex therapist. So it's a long process, but I'm learning a lot along the journey and very happy where I'm at right now. Yeah, I love that. But no, what I'm going to promote is they want to see everything about you. Go on to my Discord.

And then actually listen to my episode that's coming out with Lila. I don't know when you, this one's coming out or that one, but we're going to rate your pussy on my episode because we're going to do a rate your pussy episode. I can't tell you. And it's going to be really fucking funny and it's going to be good. But people could see all kinds of stuff on you, on my Discord. Sorry, like you're promoting my Discord by being on here. And you're like super hot. Like I always say you're like a 12, you know.

and so you're kind of like a unicorn, I feel like, because you do all these, like, crazy things. And then, like, you're literally like the hottest girl, too on top of it. People could go see that on Discord. But thanks so much for calling in always and being, like, the best co-host on these confessions episode. It's like confessions, like your confessions, too, with all the other ones. I feel like I have a million of them on here. It's amazing. I love it.

Thank you so much for having me again. And I sent you some new pictures to put a feature in too. Perfect. Okay. So I'll have those up. Thanks, Erica. Thanks so much. Thank you. Bye-bye.

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