Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1081 - Roy has Been Enjoying the Courtesans at Sheri’s Ranch for the Past Four Years

Episode Date: April 5, 2025

Roy enjoys the courtesans at Sheri’s ranch for the past four years and he called in to talk all about It. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he goes to started going to Sheet’s ranch, how believes paying for the courtesans and how and why that works best for him right now, how he picks the courtesans he wants to hook up with, why he thinks it better to go to the bar at the ranch then do a “line up”, how he lost his virginity and his history dating women, the brief stint he had dating and hooking up with guys, how far he went with them,  how and why he decided to stop, how important safe sex is for him and how that is dealt with at the ranch, how he tried a matchmaker at some point and why that didn’t work out for him, how going to the ranch became an outlet for him and what he really gets out of going,  what he recommends as the first time experience and how his first experience went down, the type of courtesans he digs when he’s there, the specific girls he has been with and what he thought about each one of them, how and why he doesn’t have a regular thing with one girl and prefers a variety, the type of things he has tried with the girls, how many times a year he goes to the ranch, how going to the ranch can help others and how and why going shouldn’t be stigmatized plus a whole lot more. **To see pics of and my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors:  https://butterwellness.com/ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://beducate.me/march2025 Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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the dating world. Didn't really find anybody. Then COVID hit him when in the, middle of that, he decided to start going to the ranch when it opened up and he's been going ever since. And he talks about that whole experience. What he digs about it, why it works for him. I really try to get the details, you know, like how it exactly goes down, how good the sexes, all that kind of stuff. Even how much it costs, but you're not allowed to talk about that. We talk about it all, though, everything else. That's a super interesting story because I've got the story about the ranch from the girls. I've had a bunch of girls on from Sherry's ranch, including, like I said, once he talks about, but I've never gotten the story about the ranch from a guy. So here's my first guy. His name is Roy,

and I'm going to get right to be right back on with Roy. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Well, hi there. I'm glad to be here and, you know, hopefully to be able to be just a member of a fine cornucopia of guests. Yes, yes. And listen, I had, and I was saying this before we started speaking, because we're going to talk a lot about, we're going to get your whole sort of backstory. And you have a little, a couple of interesting. things in the backstory. But what you do currently now for the past like a few years, four years is you go to the ranch and you see girls. And we're going to talk all about that. I've had a lot of ranch girls on my show. I wonder if you've ever slept with any of them. You know, which do you go

to all the different ones? Have you been to all the different ones? Or do you go to a specific one? I just only, I've only gone to Sherry's. Oh, okay, good. I've had a lot of Sherry's girls on. Yes. And the fact is, what I appreciate about it and the fact is that there's nothing else like in the countries that the fact that it is completely legal above board. And the fact is for the people out there that will, you know, whine about the cost. Now, admittedly, I'm a person of reasonable means. Yeah. But the fact is you are paying, you know, and I kind of say this, and even though it's, you know, it's not a, you know, glib way of saying it, you are paying for quality control.

Yeah. And the fact is, is that, yes, people online will whine about the cost or they don't understand what they're getting into. But the fact is, look, you know, you're not going to get engaged in a health scare. You're not, more importantly, you're not going to risk getting robbed or possibly, you know, ripped up or at least ripped off because there's always a story periodically about from. Yeah, you're talking about if you're doing this illegally. Yeah. Correct.

You know, like people on the, you know, that will think they can try to pull a fast one, whether out there living, you know, the high life and on strip and think they can just go, you know, ring a number or take one of those cards from one of those guys that smack in those cards on the street and think they, you know, try to get some together with a stripper or something like that. And the fact is, it's not worth the trouble. You may, you routinely hear stories of, of guys getting, you know, either they're getting, they get robbed of hundreds of thousands of dollars, or more importantly, they themselves could get arrested. And then that becomes, you know, you know, then they have a criminal record. So the fact is, is that, yes, you are paying more

upfront, but you're paying for peace of mind and you're paying for safety. The fact that you know that you're going to have a good time. And I think what's great about, you know, Sherry's is that, yes, does it cater itself as a more high-end establishment? I, you know, I suppose I haven't been to the other ranches, simply because, as you mentioned, like, Bellas is up in the northern part of Nevada, and I just haven't been up to that part of the state. But I think what also I like about Sherry's, and, you know,

it's not all, you know, sunshine and roses, but I think what about is that it's, like I said, it's completely transparent about what it is you're trying, if you're exploring that, you know, the women that you're going to encounter. And I think what, and I stress this, and I've been going to the ranch fairly regularly since late 2021. And I'm going there about two or three times a year. And coincidentally, I'm going to be actually going there in a couple of weeks in March. And so what I appreciate about it, and this is what I stress to anyone, any man or any woman

that considers going to, going to Sherry's or going to any of these ranches, is that you have the ability to take your time. I think that's critical. I think that's critical. I think naturally some some people are going to be like they're just going to you know for lack of better turn pump and dump and be done with it and they don't want to they don't want to go anywhere beyond just like just you know just let me beat off and get the hell out of here so what i suggest what i you know naturally when you go to the when you go to sherry's and this is you know and you go to these other places you have the ability to do the lineup now i think it bell is you may not be able to have conversations with them i can't speak to that some

places maybe exclusively with the lineup. I stress this. I can't stress this enough. It's important if you want to have a really good time at Sherry's, is that you take your time at the bar. Naturally, especially if it's your first time and you're really nervous and it can feel intimidating talking to the girls, I believe that not only are you going to be able to really think through who you want to spend time with, because you can run into a situation where, you know, you look at their photos and they look amazing. They look really hot. You know, you want to fuck them and all that. And but at the same time, you know, they may not, one, they may not be there when you get there. And then the other thing is that, at least for myself, it's also about making sure that I'm going to be able to have a good conversation.

I know the fact I'm not going to be friends with them. I'm not trying to make this any more than what it is. But I want to know that there's good person, you know, there's good chemistry here for the time that we're going to spend. because I personally like to go ideally, you know, three, four hours. I haven't done all nights or anything like that or like do like multi-day stuff. I'm not that level of means. But generally, I want to spend some significant time

and I want to know I'm going to be able to have a good conversation with them because that's what I look for. Because the other key thing is this, especially if you don't have a lot of experience talking to women, this is a fantastic opportunity to do that. Well, that's my question for you. Listen, I love the way you're just fucking talking. I'm going to, this is going to be one of those calls

where I can like put my mic down. I get it and I love that. You don't understand. I love guests like that. You're doing such a good job. But I just want a tiny little backstory. And I remember exactly where we are before we get into all the details, which I love all the details that you're explaining.

That's what people are here for, right? And that's and I've never got it from the guy's point of view, right? So I love that. But I want to know a little bit of your backstory because like why does a guy go for that kind of thing instead of go to the local bar or, you know, go on a dating app. looking for a chick. Like, what is your story and how did you wind up deciding that this kind of hookup is the perfect thing for you? Sure. And thank you for steering this. So I am, I'm a single guy. I'm, you know, I jokingly refer to as I'm a perpetually single guy. That's cool. I'm a guy,

you know, and it is what it is, you know, so. I'm a perpetually single girl. I don't know why people have a problem saying they're always been single like it's some bad thing. I don't know. That's my choice. That's your choice. Big deal. Yeah, my guess is that because it has negative connotations. Yeah, but it shouldn't. Yeah, and it shouldn't. And I agree with you on that. I think that for my backstory, I mean, currently I'm a single guy.

I have, you know, admittedly, I've never been in a relationship. Have I had sex before going to the ranch? Yes. Okay. I lost my virginity at 20 to a woman that was seven years older than me. Okay. And, you know, we had basically a fling for a couple of months. And then, and then for a year, this was in.

2004 and then in 2000 you know then I didn't have sex for a whole year and then I got to another fling with a you know a girl I knew from I used to go to like industrial clubs when I was younger in college because I liked the music and then there was even a time when for about 10 years I was dating men oh that's interesting how did that how and why did that come up for you that came about because in 2005 I had a crush on this really androgynous looking guy that that was a photographer at these, you know, where I was, you know, going out, like these industrial clubs where I was dancing. And in retrospect, I realize now that the guy had a real ridiculous look.

It was a feminized look. And so I had this crush on this guy. I knew that at the time that, all right, you know, because I, especially at that time with men, if you had any crush, you know, if you felt attracted towards men, it was more that, all right, you were gay. If you could take your stuff to buy, you basically mute as, you know, it was buying. now, gay later was the phrase, basically. And I knew if I had this crush, I'm like,

all right, let me pursue this because at the time also, there was just a lot of stories of men that, you know, they developed these crushes, then they try to bury it and they end up closeted. So I'm like, all right, I thought this was, you know, this is my life. I'm going to pursue this. I don't want to be a closeted man. And then think that, like, I have a family in 20 years. And then I'm like, whoops, I'm a, you know,

I got to, you know, I'm attracted to men. This is all a sham. I didn't want to do that. men that, you know, they develop these crushes, then they try to bury it, and they have closet it. So I'm like, all right, I thought this was, you know, this is my life. I'm going to pursue this. I don't want to be a closeted man

and then think that, like, I have a family in 20 years, and then I'm like, whoops, I'm like, you know, I've attracted to men, this is all a sham. I didn't want to do that. So, I did try to, you know, I would go out, I live in Los Angeles. You go to West Hollywood, like anybody else at that time. I would

try to hook up, you know, as safely as I could. and no issue, no disease issues or anything like that. But that kind of ran, you know, eventually it kind of ran its course. What I realized after a few years, and I even tried dating apps, I even played around with Grindr at one point. And then I just, what I initially thought, to sum it up, what I initially thought was attractive was no longer attractive to me. And I don't say this, because when dealing with men and their sexuality, there's always this feeling, especially in that era where bisexual men were just basically viewed as fooling themselves.

You know, I wanted to be sure that I wasn't trying to say like, oh, I'm, you know, putting it on the down low, I, you know, pretending to be straight. It's just that after a while I wasn't liking what I used to thought was what I thought was attractive. And the other thing, the other key thing was this, really, was that I'm getting older. What I initially thought was appealing is really more for like much younger men, effectively, for lack of a better term, like, twinky-looking guys. And I'm like, and I thought, if I'm pursuing this, I'm going to be in a situation.

where if I get into a relationship, it's going to be someone who's going to be significantly younger than me. And then I don't like how that feels. And I can't, as I'm getting older, I don't really like hanging around younger people because I can't have a conversation with them. To me, it's like talking to a pot of plant. I can't, I just don't know. Okay.

Well, then we'll talk about when you get to the ranch because they all got to be younger than you. But I'm going to file that. Oh, no, they are. They are. That's a different dynamic. Okay. You know, but it's, it's, but at the ranch, there are a winter.

around my age. No, no, but let's stick with that story. Like, so, but okay, I get that you don't, you realize that you don't want a relationship with a guy, but did you enjoy, like, being with men intimately? Like, was that a thing for you? Or did you get tired of that? Or was that not that great for you? Like, hooking up a guy. I mean, no, it was, it was fun for the time. But eventually what I thought was attractive was no longer attractive to me. And I just got, I just, basically, I grew out of it. Let me just ask you this. So did, after you stop that phase, have you been with men ever any time since or was that just like a time in your life you've been there done that tried it was curious and then never look back it was basically the latter i think after a certain

point after i had kind of stopped pursuing men and then i try to go back into the scene just to see you know if it was there and i'm just like i'm not i'm not joined myself and and i'm just not you know i'm just not liking it and it's just not what i want is really what it comes down to and it's an interesting and then the way i thought about it was like you know what And this is how I looked at it It was the fact that women go through this all the time Because it's certainly it's almost It's practically celebrated the fact that

Women will have their phase of by you know Or they will be by and then they'll have their They'll be with a same sexual issue And then they'll just you know Then they'll be with a man after that And so it's not talked about enough with men And it's not I know that's all point to my show to say like there's Like there like girls I got a girl crush

I want to try it like all you know for sure, but guys aren't allowed to talk about it because it's very stigmatized. It's very stigmatizing. And the fact was it was that I don't, I don't mind the fact I spent the time that I did. I went to Sydney Mardi Gras. You tried. Yeah. How did you know?

You wouldn't have known. Maybe you were gay. Maybe you were bisexual. You know, you kind of went there and figured it out for yourself. Yeah. Yeah. And the fact is now it's not, it's just not something I seek out now. Like, could there be a situation where there's like a threesome with a,

two men and one woman, I guess I could make it happen, you know, be able to do something. But it's my heart, I'm not going to seek it out. It's not what I want. And at least I could say is that through what I've been able to do in dating men and then, you know, trying to date in the straight, in the straight world or attempting to is to really hone in as to what I want. And that's for a long time. I couldn't figure out. I just didn't know what that was. Just ask you a quick question, though. Like, did you go all the way with guys? Were you a top? Were you a bottom? Like, oh, I had, I had topped. I nearly bottomed once.

Thankfully, I didn't because if I had, it would have, I thankfully never barebacked. I was not stupid enough to do that at the time. But I did, like the time I topped, last time I topped, I think probably was going all the way back a long time ago. And that was when I was in Australia. And then had I,

and I had done oral on guys, that was pretty much my, you know, one, you know, family is that I never, thankfully I'm not, I've been checked for SDD since and I've been clean, but I,

I didn't use a condom when I was blowing them. So that was a mistake. Well, do you use condoms when you go down on girls? I mean, it's the same shit just so you know. Yeah, I know. Well, the fact is I haven't gone down on it. Okay, well, this is interesting. Yeah, you sound like you're very, you know, safe and, you know, maybe a little bit of a

hypochondriac when it comes to that stuff, which I don't think is a bad thing. I'm just telling you. You know what I mean? I was always like, don't even let your dick touch the outside of my pussy without a condom on because you can get STDs in a lot of ways that people don't understand, you know, for sure. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. No, absolutely.

Look, the fact is I'm not one of those guys that are going to whine about having to put on economy. It's like it is what it is. No, you sound like you make sure that you're very safe. That's a top priority for you. There's nothing wrong with that. I think that's great. More people should be like, yeah. Yeah, not only that because the way I look at, and it's also the way I look at one of them at the ranch, is the fact that I, if I'm not, I got to make sure that they're comfortable because I'm not going to put them in a difficult situation because it's going to, I know it's going to reflect back.

And furthermore, I don't want to put myself in, I don't want to be put in those situations either. So it's very much a practicing of the golden rule. And that's what I look at when I'm at the ranch. And certainly, you know, in my attempts to try to date now, I look out for that. And that's why I have, you know, I spend my time trying to talk. And, you know, be after, you know, the time of, you know, of trying to date men and all that, you know, for a long time, I wasn't dating trying to date at all. I just thought I was going to be perpetually single. I would occasionally try to make my way into the straight dating world through, you know,

trying to date online, never really make any progress. And even, you know, I would even like, you know, and again, I have, and this is someone who, as I said, I've got the means. I had someone try to, you know, I had someone ghost write my dating profile to help me articulate what it is I'm trying to look for. And that actually helped a lot because it helped figure out what it was trying to find. But, you know, I try and nothing. happen and then it's the same thing with dating apps and here's the thing with when you're trying to

online dating and this is a this is a shortcoming for me is that admittedly uh i lead you know to put it bluntly i leave a lonely life i don't have many you know i have in-person friends but they've you know those relationships go by the wayside and i've just not and i have a lot of acquaintances but i don't have a lot of i don't have really any in-person friends where i live and that's a that's a that's a shortcoming for me. So if you have, you don't have any friends and you're trying to date online, you have to set up photos of yourself. And so if you're just doing this by yourself, it looks weird. And I remember once I paid for a matchmaker. I knew what I was getting into with that. So I'm not like playing that. It was ripped off. And they had me take some nice photos and I like the photos.

And then I reused them for dating profiles. And I know recently I tried to reuse those photos where they're professional looking. And then one woman was like, did you get professional photos taken of yourself and she was basically, it was both, the way I look interpreted that was like she's basically making fun of it. Yeah, but who cares about her one person? Because, you know, my brother was back on. My brother just got divorced and he's on dating apps and he did get like these really.

To me, I was like, oh my God, are these professional photos? But he looks fucking good and he puts it on and he gets hit up by tons of girls. Who gives a shit what that one said? Keep those photos up and keep dating. But let's get back to your story. So you never like really had any long-term relationships with women after that, right? like and eventually you start going to the ranch because you can't sort of have that companionship

in your regular life or it's just easier to do it that way? I, uh, the way I look when I decided to go, I always knew about the ranch throughout my life. And I knew about what was in Nevada. I used to choke with friends at the time, like when I remember in college, like, I'll just go to one of those, you know, places in Nevada if I have to.

And for a long time, I didn't think I would go that route, not for any moral reason, but the fact is I thought I could try to make it on my own in terms of, of dating and and and or just get just be used to the fact I'm just going to be a single guy and it is what it is and that's how it goes yeah and then when and I thought I could just you know live my you know my solitary life and the fact was uh you know once COVID hit and I'm having to be in my apartment all you know all hours of the day with nothing to do I realize I couldn't be living like this anymore and so at that point uh by the time 2020 one rolled around I said the hell with this and And, you know, I decided I'm going to, you know, pull the trigger and actually go out there and go to the ranch. And I knew going in with the ranch that I knew this full, one, I didn't, you know, I didn't obviously know what they charged. And I set aside, you know, enough funds that I thought I wouldn't for what I thought.

And the other thing was that I even knew that what I made it. And when you go to Sherry's and you go to the website, you have the ability to set up an appointment if you want. You want to set up something in advance. I didn't want to do that because simply that I didn't know what the women were going to be like. And I knew going in that even, and I made sure to prepare myself that even what I wanted to make sure was that I wasn't going to get disappointed if I didn't find what I was looking for. And that I knew that what was going to be, as I mentioned, that what was, I looked at this was that this was that this was going to be an opportunity to really talk to women. Now, obviously, it's not, you know, what you would want to be doing. It's not going to be exactly what you would try to do at a bar or any social setting.

but I thought I don't get to talk to women. I don't really get to talk to many people at all. Let me, at least let me practice doing that with, you know, the girls at the ranch. Yeah, I mean,

that's the story that I wanted to know. Like, how does a guy wind up deciding like, you know what, this is actually going to solve whatever, something for me, right? It did solve something for you. You were alone.

You couldn't, you sort of define chicks in your regular life. You had been there, done that tried it. And so this was like solving that problem. Yes, that's exactly right. And the fact is, look, I'm a guy, as I've said before, I'm a guy with means. If I didn't have the income that I had, I would not be able to do it.

And I, you know, I remember I'd be one of those guys whining online or just resigned to the fact that, you know, I'm just going to be just solitary. So the fact is, is that this isn't, what this is with the ranch is an outlet. And it's a way, you know, to, to, you know, explore, you know, being sexual and, you know, being, you know, being. able to, you know, experience being a man or, you know, for least I can only speak for myself, of course, to be, you know, viewed as a sexual being, to be viewed as someone who's desired. Now, understandably, this is, you know, this is transactional sex. I'm not, I don't go in with any delusions thinking this is going to be more than what it is. But even though it is transactional sex, I'm still going to make it about, you know, a worthwhile experience. I'm not going to just, just because it's transactional doesn't mean I'm going to, you know, treat, you know, treat, you know, treat, treat, treat this like dirt, basically and treat everyone like shit.

Listen, that's not where those girls are coming from either. Oh, not at all. You know what I mean? Because I've had a lot of them on my show, and I was just going to say before when you were talking about, like, being protective and, you know, always putting a condom on and stuff. Like, they talk about the fact that that's what they love about sort of hooking up at the ranch. Like, they don't have to have those awkward conversations because a lot of times in the regular world, you know, guys don't want to put on a condom. You know what I mean? And you have to ask for it.

And it's like a whole thing. And they love that that is controlled for them as well, you know? And they do find that they have, you know, they're not going to be dating these guys that come in, but they do develop friendships. And they do like these people. And they do feel like the service that they're provided. It is a more intimate thing for them as well. Yeah. So I completely agree with that.

And I think the way it also helps is that it helps a man or women figure out what they're looking for in, you know, in their day to days. Yeah. Interesting. You're dealing with different women of, you know, physically as well as their person and really about the personalities. Yeah. And I remember the first girl I met, I went with was Chasing, who was incredibly nice. And I know she's actually, you know, back at the ranch now. I thought, you know, and I know there was one other woman there that, I wish I remembered

her name, but, and I know she's no longer there at the ranch currently. And, but, you know, she gave me the tour and all that. And, you know, also it's a beautiful drive going from Vegas to Perum. It really, you know, that to me is almost because it's the anticipation. That's the most exciting, you know, worthwhile part. It's the fact, oh, I'm going to the ranch. Oh, when you're driving up there, you mean? Yeah, when I'm driving up there, you mean?

Pretty much. Yeah, yeah, okay. Respect, oh, I'm going to the ranch. Oh, when you're driving up there, you mean? Yeah, when I'm driving up there, you mean? That's interesting. That's like your foreplay. Pretty much. Yeah, yeah, okay. That's cool.

Because ultimately what I want to do is that, because it's, you know, it's a 50-mile drive. You want to make, you know, to me, it goes back to what I said before. You want to take your time. when going to the ranch there's no point especially in that drive which is about an hour and i recommend for anyone that i think i don't think they do this now when i went there in 2020 when the first time i went there they used to offer like a limo service i don't think they don't have no idea if they still do that but i would say to anyone that make the drive out there because you want to take your time to relax at the bar and and just really soak it all in

and because at the end of the day if you're not finding what you're looking for at least the fact you had a nice drive. You saw some beautiful scenery and you were able to settle down for a bit before going back out. I think is always, is at least something. Yeah, but did you know, though, on your way there, had you booked a girl? Like, walk us through that first time. Oh, sure. And then get all specific like you're going.

You're just going to take it from here. Yeah, I did not book a girl because I knew that what I, because it goes back to what I said about wanting to talk to women. I wanted to feel things out. Yeah, that's smart. Yeah, and to me, that's the way to do it, because what it was clear to me, the first time I've gone there and the times that I've gone since there, I've never had a bad experience in talking to anyone. It's certainly a matter that their personality is such as their personalities is in something I'm, it's not, I can clearly see there's no chemistry here. And I don't say that derisively. Some women are just going to be, you know, just they're going to be much more curt.

They're going to be just about the business. And some guys want that. They just want the bit, you know, some women are going to be. and then there's also the physical aspect. I remember, and she was actually a wonderful conversation. There was a woman named there, Sybil Sloan. Now, she is an adult entertainer, as far as I know, and she has a particular look. Now, I don't like that kind of look.

Now, I don't say that in a discerning fashion. It's just not what I find attracted. Yeah. She was a wonderful conversationalist, and I was actually, you know, I was legit. I was actually surprised, you know, just because the way her, the way she, you you know, comes off. And so when it's at the ranch and then I'm talking these women, I'm looking at two things. Obviously, there's the physical aspect and the other part is to make sure that I can have a good conversation. What I actually want to make sure that I don't do,

because I nearly did this at the first time, was that I had this really good conversation with this one woman, but she admittedly, you know, she was a bigger woman. That's not necessarily what I wanted to seek out. And I was thinking to myself, I had a great time talking with her, but at the same time, I got to go for something physical and, you know, that's, that's, I'm not necessarily, you know, I'm not here to make friends. That's not how this works. You know, I can't go in with that idea. So I got to balance this out correctly. And since then, since the other times that I've gone out to the ranch, what ends up happening is like in the conversation that I've had, it's usually I end up talking to a variety of women and I get an idea. And then maybe there's like one one where

it's like, ah, maybe. And then there's another woman. I'm like, ah, I got to go with this one. I can remember the second time I went. No, but what about the first time? How did it all work out with the girl? Like, you get there. This is your first time there. You're doing it. You know, you decided to do the lineup, right?

There's a couple different ways you could pick the girl. Oh, I did not do the line. Oh, you did the bar thing, right? Where you just walked in? I did the bar thing. Okay. Yeah, yeah. That's what you're talking about, right?

So you went in and then what girl did you pick and how did that whole scenario go? Like that's specific for that first time. And then talk more general again. Sure. I was, and that was Chasen, who I mentioned before. That was the first. And I just said, I, you know, I'd already knew the menu prior. I said, you know, my needs are basic.

Just let's do a half and a half, which is obviously oral and regular sex, whether that's missionary sex, doggy style, things like that. And then, but naturally, if you want to do other things at the ranch, you can take, there's a variety of things you do. There's a whole menu. Yeah, interesting. And as well, as well as there's a lot, the ability to do like role play or if you're in BDSM or other activities that are in the run, that are, practice safely. Now, admittedly for myself, I'm a regular guy. I, you know, I respect other people's, you know, desires and preferences. It's not what I need. What I need is just the ability to have companionship and the ability to have affection and, you know, just be able to have someone on my

level. So that's all there is. So what about physically were you looking for? Like what do you dig? Like what did your girl look like? Sure. Physically, it's more, and I have a better idea now, I haven't gone to the ranch. Obviously, you know, a woman around my age, I mean, it could be, you know, up, you know, I say that, and there was this one girl, uh, Cora, who's, oh, she's on my show. Oh, she's, she is quite the character. I'll tell you this right now. I, when I, when I spent time with her, uh, last year, I did not, I did not initially,

I did not seek her out initially. What happened was I was trying to meet up with Cameron. Yeah. He was also fantastic. She has an amazing story. Uh-huh. Uh, and then later on, I did get to actually spend time with Cameron. June of last year, but she wasn't there when I thought she was going to be there.

And so when I initially met up with Cora, you know, she's a whirlwind. And I was like, whoa, this is a bit too much. And but then I'm thinking about, I'm thinking about. And I'm like, no, there's something there where if I had encountered her in my day-to-day of life, you'd be like, it is what it is. It's, this would be someone to have like a, you know, a hookup, a one-night stand situation, not necessarily make a relationship out because she is an incredibly attractive woman. But in terms of what I'm looking for, I generally, it's, I, I can, let me frame it a better way,

because I know what I don't like. What I don't like necessarily is like overly made up women. I don't like the porn star look. I like a more handsome looking woman, I guess. That's, you know, you know, I'm not saying that, but she needs to look like a guy, but not necessarily someone who's, you know, what you would expect is like incredibly girly looking. Yeah, I guess that. I think that they don't need to be rail, you know, rail thin. But generally, I like a woman that could take care of themselves, take care of themselves, and that they're independent, their personality such as that they can hold their own. I'm not looking to be someone's daddy. And I think that's, I'm looking to encounter someone who's an adult here. And that's what I liked about.

Jason was like that. I definitely like a, you know, a woman that could be a bit more that's willing, here's something that's really key for me, because I can see, and certainly what I've looked at in terms the women that I've encountered at the ranch and then what I look at to be attracted. I like a woman that could be, you know, funny. For example, you know, Luna is like that. She's going to be on my show. I'm going to be taping with her soon. She was on my show with somebody else too recently, but we didn't get a whole backstory.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, Luna is, you know, and I've known Luna, you know, through the ranch is, you know, she could be a bit, you know, I find her first, and I don't say this meanly, but you know, I find her to be. a bit flighty at times, but her personality and the body, there's such that like, that's your vibe. That's your thing. Exactly. It's kind of like, you know, it's, I don't know how else to describe it. And I hate to be vague about this because it's, it's one of those things that you know it when

you see it. But it's like it's, it's that combination of there's the physicality, but also the fact that, you know, that she's not willing, you know, she can take her, you know, she's not willing to, you know, she's not willing to, no, let me phrase that. She can take her, she could be humorous about it. And she can, you know, be playful, being playful. It's the personality to me as well. So that's kind of the extent of it. It's not like the way I look at it, I hate to use, you know, I mean, the way I look at it for like celebrities, like the all-timer for me is like Allison Bray.

So I don't know if you know who she is. No. Okay. So that's all right. But that's okay. But let's get specifically of like what, like so you get the menu. You're going in with these girls. You always do half and half.

and what is that again? Like, go through, like, how the actual hookup goes down. Yeah, so that's, that happen and a half and a half is oral sex and then regular sex, which could be like missionary, you know, penis and vaginic type stuff, which is what you, you know, you can't be, you know, as they sit, you know, as they properly display at the ranch, you can't be doing anal out there now. Right now, do you discuss ahead of time, like I wanted to be missionary or does it flow like you're just like hooking up with a girl?

Like, how is it, is it negotiated ahead of time? No, the assented negotiation is I find a woman that I want to spend time with at the ranch. I said, let's talk, let's consult further. We go to the room to talk, you know, she tells me her rate. I then say, I tell her what I want. She tells me the rate. I figure out how much time is a probe, you know, how much time I want based on the rate. And then we go from there.

But I don't say to her like at the 30 minute mark, we're going to go ahead and go into straight up missionary sex. And then at the 60 minute mark, I want you to blow me. It's not like that at all. Yeah, right. It's really just, you know, I say that I'd like to do, you know, I'd like to have a half and a half. Let's do half and a half. What, you know, what is your rate? And then they tell me the rate.

And then we go from there. I know some people will think that they could try to haggle. I'm in mind that whatever the rate is is whatever the rate is. As I once spoke to one of the, so the girls there at the previous time, it's like a consultation. And that I'm not a guy. To me, it's like we're not going to, you know, there's no hard bargaining here. I know some guys will try to do that. What are the rates?

That I cannot say because, one, I do it at, you know, I do it as I was told repeatedly by the girls there. You don't broadcast the rates. Furthermore, there's no universal rate. So because each woman works as an independent contractor. Oh, interesting. Okay. So the fact, and then here's the other thing. For anyone who goes to the ranch, they may, you know, admittedly, they may be put off by the initial rate.

But the fact is, the reason that is is because half the money goes to the house and half the money goes to the girl. So, and actually the house is overhead. So what you're paying for is what I said before. You're paying for quality control. You're paying for safety. And you're paying for the fact that you're going to get guaranteed service. If you go in, you know, if you're going to go in the attitude thinking, you know, what you're going to pay on the street is where you're going to pay at the ranch.

That's not going to happen. Let me ask you this because you're driving, you know, a couple of hours to go to a place and then you're going to pay for a girl. Obviously, you're allowed to know on somewhere, whether it's online or you make a phone call. call how much it costs ahead of time because nobody's just going to go to a place not knowing what the fuck they're going to spend right like well you got the information ahead of time right I know you're not allowed I had a ball yeah I had a ballpark idea just from like I mean because who's going to go there and not know any pricing isn't their pricing available like can't you call up and be like how much just so that someone could know whether they're going to be able to afford it ahead of

time no you can't you can't call up as far as I understand it is it on the website it is definitely not on the website so you got to get there and then you might be told it's 600 and hour or 200 an hour you have zero clue about like what the price is going to be you could you could ball you can get a feel for it through like say reddit online but again that's weird and then you and you just figure you know what just like you set us you know just set aside enough and naturally look i mean here's and i i remember i'll never forget this i would want i would need to know how much i had a time like i don't think i's like weird to me you know that people but i guess it's just it makes it so that somebody that has the means is going to show up.

Because if it's not, you know, whether it's 200 or 500, it's not going to be that big of a deal for you, you're going to go. But for somebody that lives like paycheck to paycheck that might want to try it out, I don't know if they're going to travel there and go. If they have no idea that it's, maybe it's going to be too much. Then they have to leave without getting laid. Like, what a waste. No, I agree with you.

I agree with you completely. And the fact is the first time I went to the ranch in 2021, there was a guy there who was what you described. And he was really, he was being an asshole about it. And I said, look, you know, I get it. And I said to him, look, you know, you, you know, it sucks that you're not able to, you know, if you're not able to do it now. But the fact is now you got some information.

If you want to pursue it, you can go ahead and, you know, you can come back. I mean, sorry, he spent the gas money. He got himself there. I think that that's kind of weird. But I get it. No, I agree. You know, you know, right? I agree with you completely.

If someone is, you know, then because it can be a surprise to some people. Yeah. And the fact is, I agree, you know. But I, the way I understand. And again, this is my ignorance showing. Yeah. Is that I think there are certain rules about the fact that they can't display price. Yeah, that makes sense.

You're right. You're right. I think that's really what it is. Yeah, the laws. The laws about it. I believe that's what it is. Because if there were not laws against it, I agree with you. There should be prices on display because then you know exactly what you're dealing with.

But I think that's the issue. Yeah, obviously they can't or they would because they wouldn't want to have that kind of thing happen. And they probably do have to face that a bunch of times, right? So it must be, you're making, you make a lot of sense. That must be the reason why. they don't they're not trying to like get people there and then scam them into it you know it must be a legal thing and that actually makes sense all right yeah yeah because there's there's no upcharging here this is not like a strip club where they're trying to take you yeah exactly yeah exactly you know you're getting can you explain how you go in the back and they check you right like for STD right like they you have to like so what is that process like because I've heard it from the girls like but for a guy like do you go in some like fluorescent like room you know like some small room with fluorescent lighting you know like some small room with fluorescent lighting you're and you drop your pants and some lady there is like, you know, moving your balls around and checking you out. Like, how is that process?

Fortunately, it's not as as a sterile. It's fortunately, it's in the room. Typically, one of the, it's the girls room. What they'll do is like, all right, let's go ahead and check it. It's the dick check. So we can check your dick. And, you know, you just, for a guy like myself, you just, you got a drop trial. Yeah.

And they put the gloves on. They get an alcohol, pat out, you know, just a, or a wet wife, rather. They do a physical check. They check everything. They check the undercarriage. And, you know, they look under the balls and, you know, just to make sure. And then they also, you know, you know, they wipe the dick down with the, with the alcohol, you know, with the wet nap. Yeah.

And, you know, it's, you know, it's not that, you know, it's no different for a guy than going, when you're going, you get checked by your doctor at a, you know, yourologist or you're just getting a physical. Yeah. Is it, you know, can it be, you know, awkward for the first time? Yes. But the fact is, if you're going to be spending time with them anyway, way, you're going to get naked. So, you know, it's not that, you know, it's nothing they haven't seen before. The other thing I want to mention is, and this has been a more recent thing, is if you're able to, you know, pay for their time and you go into one of the, one of the theme rooms,

is that you do, as the client, you do have to take a shower. And that's not a big, that's not an issue. That, that was a recent change. I guess there must have been some kind of incident, my guess, I've not heard anything. But when I first went there in 21 and 22, I didn't have to do that. I mean, I kind of did that anyway, just. because I've been driving for a while out of courtesy. But now you have to actually, as if you're the client, you have to shower and get in the road before you're able to start services. But yeah, it's, yeah, so the going back, you know,

but like I said, I agree with you completely about the pricing. But the pricing can't, but, and but the, what's interesting though, and that what we can say is that, and what I think you said is that the pricing can vary from girl to girl, correct? Because they set their own pricing, depending on what the house takes, correct? Yes, it varies from girl, girl, and of course it varies from service, the service, naturally, and also the, and more, and the critical component is the amount of time. Naturally, if you just want to say, you know, give me a hand, give me a handy, and I want

to be out of here in 30 minutes, it's going to be different from, I want a multi-day party with a lot of, you know, where I'm able to fill myself having sex, and then we're going to do a thing in the BDSA dungeon. Yeah. So naturally, it's going to be about, it's going to be all those things. And so, and naturally the shorter the amount of time, the, you know, the smaller the service, it's going to be lower. The more elaborate, the party, as they would refer to it, it's going to be more expensive. This is how it goes.

And then, you know, then you're getting into like multi-day affairs and things like, I've never gone that far. Generally, my experience, I tend to find maybe three to four hours is enough. And just because it is a long time. And the other things I kind of feel like we've kind of, you know, run the course of things. Because I've had fantastic, with the women I've gone with, whether it be Jason or Cameron or Cora or Jacqueline, Jacqueline especially. Oh, man, I remember that was the second time I went to the ranch as soon as I saw her. I would have not guessed how she looked from her photo. An example of high class and in Coys.

And, oh, I was completely floored. I immediately went for her. as soon as I encountered her. And, yeah, it's Jacqueline or Lydia was the last one. And I think that's been the extent of it. And then there was Luna twice. And they've all been fantastic. But at the end of the day, after a few hours, I kind of felt like, you know, it's run its course.

Because ultimately at the end of the day, I know that while I've had an amazing time, and I know I've had a great experience with them, I can't make it more than what it is. Again, this is transactional sex. And I know that I'm not going to be able to necessarily be friends with them. And after that, what's been experienced and the time spent, it stops at the ranch. And that's something I have to be careful about that. I don't want to, and I'm, you know, a reasonable sound mind about this, that I can't make this more than what it is. And I know that, and that's also why I generally try to rotate between, you know, various, I try to pick a different woman every time.

As I said, I've been with Luna twice. Luna's amazing. Because you don't want to get attached to them because you know you can't, but you worry that maybe you would because you go there. It's like fantasy land, right? It's like everything is perfect. And you are connecting with them for those hours and you're with them for a long time, right? And if you go multiple times over time, you will maybe develop feelings.

I'm sure that happens. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. And there are clients and I know that there are some men, especially that are clearly wealthy, that are able to have the ability to have a regular thing, whether it be every month, and they have their girl, and they're able to, in effect, have a relationship that way. I'm not at that level, and I can't pretend that I am, and that's not something I necessarily want to do either.

So, to me, I've got to be careful about it. Thankfully, I'm not a guy that can fall into that easily. I know a lot of other people can't. It happens all the time with strip clubs, for example, where it got, obviously a dancer is being flirty with a guy and and you know then the guy gets the wrong idea you know because he's desperate and you know and whether you know the girl is trying to you know admittedly take advantage of him or is you know just being pleasant whatever you know I don't know what's going on and then it just goes down the wrong road I remember talking to Jason the first

time the time I was with her and she told me that she had a guy who was a soldier and the guy proposed to her right then and there because I after he was done. It was like, that's not, that's not what this is. And that is something that you got to be careful with, you know,

it's a delicate dance. And I know not, it's, it's not something that everyone is able to do. So even if you have the means, but if you don't have a maturity to handle it, you don't go to the ranch. Or you have to go to,

you have to make it so purely transactional, just something so physical, where you know, you don't have a rapport with this woman that it's just like, uh, let me, you know, just,

you know, let me, fucking get out of here. So then you're going to have to treat it that way. And for me, I don't want to treat it like that because in the conversations that I've had with some of the women there, they are gourd. They are very good looking. But I can tell the conversations is not going to go anywhere.

And I don't chide them on that. I don't say, you know, hey, this is not going anywhere. I do my best to try to play along. Because to me, the way I look at it, again, to me, this is practice. Just to know that how do you deal with a conversation where there isn't nothing really going on or it could be another instance where the woman, you know, her language isn't the best. And for me, I don't want to be, you know, I want to be able to have a conversation. So it's not, I could tell, you know, I'm not going to be able, you know, I just got to kind

make my way through it. But the sex. Let's talk about the actual sex that's going down. You didn't mention earlier. Like, I don't go down on women. You do do oral when you get there in straight sex, meaning they go down on you, right? Are you not allowed to go down on the women there? Or is that allowed?

and you just don't do it. Like what kind of, and then also tell me, like, how great is the sex? Like, is it, like, blow your fucking mind

totally worth every penny sex? Like, is it always different? Like, I don't know. You don't go into something different. In regards to having, going, having oral on a woman,

and if I had the opportunity, I would. You can do it at the ranch. However, you have to do, it has to be done protectively. So they have,

I think dental dams. Okay, so that's what you use. Right. So you do have to cover up. Uh-huh. You'd have to cover it up. And for me,

And I thought about them like, I just didn't want to go through that process. Yeah. And even though I know if I were in my, my day-to-day life, certainly I would use protection. But I just didn't want to go through that process at the ranch. So yeah, they would put a condom on me. They would blow me. That would usually be the first go around. But is it like the best head you ever got?

Like, are these ranch girls like, so like if you, you know, if this was an advertisement? I mean, you know, you fucked in the regular world. You're going to the ranch. Is this like the sex amazing? It can be. but I think it's for me it's it's a meant the way I look at it's that you have to be a you as the clunt you as the guy need to be able to you know do the work as well yeah it's a two it's a it's a it's a two way day it's a two way street yeah and certainly I mean in regards to mind blowing sex I mean like when I was with Luna and we were able to fool around and we were like rolling around and she taught me how to do you know on a woman you know and that to me is amazing because I do like watching a woman get off because it's how expressive it is yeah and so and how it builds, to me, that's incredibly hot. So that, to me, was amazing.

I think ultimately, the way I look at with the ranch, it's what you, you know, what you put in is what you're going to get out. Naturally, if you're just someone who's just going to lay there and the woman's going to do all the work, I mean, you know, you're going to get where you're going to get out of it. And some women are just really great at that. Others are not, like, in terms

of the, like, then once, in terms of the sex I had, I mean, obviously, there was missionary, which is fine, but that's a me thing. I like, one of things that I thought was cool, again, with Luna, was that we did, she calls it flat doggy. Usually you're doing doggy style, you're on your knees. I don't find that the most comfortable.

But if for flat dog, I could be like on top of her and, you know, I'm able to, to me, I can last longer. And so again, it's to me the woman's enjoying the way I look. If the woman's enjoying more, to me that's fun. Yeah. And so I thought that was great. Just to be able to practice different positions. And she introduced me to that.

What I discovered in trying to do flat doggy is that admittedly, you can't do it with a woman with wider hips because you have to be careful when you're at obviously it's the kind of act that it's really easy where the condom can slip off and i need to make you know for her for uh for the girl's sake and then for you know i want to make sure as well that you know she's comfortable it's not always easy to ensure that the condom will stay on and i got to be careful with that so and what i discovered with uh lydia for example she was more she had wider hips was that we couldn't really do it well so instead she was on top of me you know like you know you know you're doing like cowgirl stuff August is what it's called.

So it's, you know, that's what it consists of. Naturally, if you, if you're someone that wants to insist on certain acts, in terms of that kind of sex, you can. I'm not of that mind. I, you know, play it by ear. I'm not that kind of stick with about that kind of thing. Right, right. But you've had good times at the ranch. I mean, how many times you go a year?

Two to three times. If I was having a bad time at the ranch, I would never be going there again. Yeah. I mean, you've been going for the past four years. Now, do you still continue to date or do you, do you ever plan? on picking back up and dating, you know, and trying that out again? Or do you just feel like you get your needs met in this way? Oh, no, I try to pick up and try to get back dating.

For me, it's a matter because ultimately I know what I can get at the ranch only goes so far. And I want more than that. That's not what the ranch offers. Certainly the ranch is a great place to, you know, get physical, you know, physical needs taken care of and also to be able to, you know, interact with women. but it's not everything. And if that's as far as how my life goes, I mean, it is what it is. Yeah.

Ideally, you know, and I try, I am trying to get back in the dating world. For me, it's just, it's just the frustrations of trying, doing online dating is such that, like, I just don't want to go through the process. It's hard, yeah. It's so much. Yeah. And you can't get, like, just devastated when some one girl says that thing about your picture. No, no, it's not just the one girl. It's not just the one girl.

Let me be clear. It's the whole process of where. I know. I get it. terrible. And here, and I'll give credit to online dating. The benefit of online dating is the fact that you can tell that what a woman wants, she's up front about it, you get a clear picture, there's no misdirection. The issue is that you've got to go through the one, you don't even know if the profile is real. Two, you don't even know, you've got to go through the whole process of setting up the meeting to even get the meeting kind of thing. It's just, it's a whole production. And the fact is, I know for myself from my experience at the ranch, I prefer being in conversation, even if the conversation doesn't lead to you. thing. I just want to be dealing with people face to face. So for me, it's like even for me, I'd rather like I, here in Los Angeles, there are a lot of social clubs that you have to be a member for. So I paid into one just to give that, give

that a shot. Have I had much progress on that? No, but it's the experience of it. Yeah. And listen, it only takes one, you know, and it's like, it's not easy to find the one. That's why people settle down with the one because it's, it's like rare. You know, all the stars have to align. So it's not like anybody out there is what online dating or going socially and meeting the one all the time. Like I said, that's why people actually settle down with someone because they're like, this, this hasn't happened to me in two years. You know, it takes a while, but you'll know when you meet that person.

But it's great, though, that or interesting, you know, that you've figured out a way and you have the means to go to the ranch and get your needs met as well as, like you said, it's like a little bit of practice for you and keeps you kind of like in the game, right, hanging out with chicks, talking to them, having sex. I think that that's like probably helps. Oh, I agree with you completely. And I think that, you know, that it ultimately, to sum it all up, it is an outlet out there for men and for women.

Yeah. That is not, should not be as stigmatized, you know, it's not, it's not, it's, it shouldn't be as stigmatized as, as it is. Yeah. And the fact is, is that there's nothing like it here in this country. And ultimately, the way I look at it is, as I've said before, this is a way to help figure out, especially if you don't know what you want, whether it be a man or a woman, to find out what it is that you really find attractive and to help articulate it. This is a really helpful guy.

Now, naturally, if you want to strut, you know, you like that porn star look, you really want that, you know, really heavily made up look. I mean, you know, that's what you go for. No, I love that. When I've talked to the girls, they've spoke about how, you know, from their standpoint of the story is always really interesting. And I've had a lot of them on and they talk about sometimes when they get their. They're feeling like a little bit personally insulted if all the guys weren't choosing them. But then eventually they realized that, you know what? Everybody likes something different. And they should just really sort of own whoever they are because every guy like something different. And one girl might be the not made up girl.

One girl might be the really made up girl. And it's like a different flavor of ice cream, you know? Yeah. So everyone likes something different. And that's what these girls eventually learn. And that's what's great about the ranch. I think you go in there. and there is something for everyone, right?

Like they do have it all. Yeah, no, I mean, I'll say this about the ranch. I mean, if there was, I mean, look, is it perfect for everything? No, is it maybe that they may not have the, you know, the woman that you're looking for. I remember, in fact, it goes back to the first time. When I met up with Jason, I didn't initially seek out Jason. There was another girl that I was looking for from the site. And then she had left right before I had gone there.

So I had just, that's why I knew going in that I was going to be, I need to be open-minded. And the fact is, as you said, the fact that there are, yes, there are, you know, different types or, you know, that are going to be attracted to different people. And the fact is it helps to stand out more. Like I said, like Jacqueline, for example, you know, she's a real high, you know, to me, you know, she, you know, she really stands out for, like, being high class. And, you know, she, you know, she's originally from, like, South Africa.

So she's got, you know, has a distinct accent. And just, you know, just a real, you know, just a stand. Yeah, I've seen her since, you know, at the bar. And I always try, you know, at least try to say hi. Sometimes I even feel embarrassed for the fact I haven't picked her since. But at the end of the day, it's, you know, I've got to continue playing the field. But yeah, there's definitely something for everyone. And I think that that's truly what the ranch and all these places offer.

And even if the ranch, say, Sherry doesn't offer it. There's other ones, yeah. There are other ones that will offer, you know, to have the, you know, will offer women or options that you're trying to find. I know that, you know, like with Bella, for example, with her, with her place, you know, there are women there that Sherry's wouldn't have. And then the same thing with like, I think it's like the chicken ranch is down the street from Sherry's. And so it's the same thing. If you, you know, if you want to give up, you know, I've had so many girls from Sherry's on my show. So people can look, you know, listen to Cora, who you spoke with, Luna's going to be on.

She's been on before. and then I had Bella on from Hacienda Ranch and she talks about how she gives virgins discounts. I had a virgin crush dresser on my show. I'm like, you need to go to that ranch. She's going to hook you up. She's going to give you a deep discount and she's going to help you lose your virginity,

which I think is very nice. You know, so everywhere there's a ranch for everybody and at every ranch there's a girl for everybody. And, you know, I really appreciate you calling in and talking about it because, you know, I was excited to have you on because I didn't, I have never heard of it from the guy. standpoint. You know what I mean? I'm always hearing it from the girl standpoint. So it's

interesting to hear. Oh, yeah. No, I agree with you completely. And I think the fact is, again, because for men, there's a stigma about paying for sex. And naturally, you know, and it's not easy for anyone to talk about it. And, you know, either it's viewed as embarrassing, it's viewed as sleazy. Naturally, if they're doing, you know, if they're getting it on the street, there's criminal, that's, there's criminal activity involved. It's, it's a loaded subject. And, and the fact is, is that with sherry's and the other ranches, as you said, especially like the Hacienda up in northern Nevada, is a resource that cannot be found anywhere else.

And it's a shame that really that it isn't. And it's just because of the laws that we have. And certainly if, you know, if there was a day where it was, you know, that was allowable in other places or, you know, you could have that transparency about pricing. And you could have, you know, the ability to have more options and resources.

It's great that it is available for as much as it is. And it should be available even more so, because a lot of people are happy. The women are happy. The guys are happy. You know, and it works for people, especially people like you,

as well as for the women. They've explained how, why it works for them. So, you know, people can go listen to those episodes. Thank you so much, Roy, which I love your name, for calling in and sharing your story.

It was super interesting. Well, thank you for having the opportunity for allowing me to speak. And as I said, hopefully for, you know, anyone who listens and it takes time

for, you know, to head out to the ranch, I think you'll have a good time, whatever the outcome may be. Yeah, I'll put the ranch, you know, I'll give, I mean, people could find it. Just Google shares. Yeah, they could easily find it. Yeah, yeah. And then go Google all the girls. I've put a ranch in the subject line on Spotify.

You'll see all the girls that I've had on from the ranch. They're super interesting from their point of view too. But thanks, Roy, thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story. Absolutely. Thanks for the opportunity. Okay, bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers is now available not only in paperback and e-book,

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