Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1094 - Codi Rae is a Hotwife

Episode Date: April 21, 2025

Cody Rae is a hotwife and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when her and her husband decided to get into hotwifing, how and why full swinging wasn’t an op...tion for her even though she was a swinger previously, how they’re started having threesomes with men and what was in it for her in the beginning, how her husband feels about him not being able to hook up with women, where they started looking at first for guys, their first experience with another guy, why she chose him and exactly what went down with the three of them, how she squirted for the first time during that first threesome, how and why the reclaiming sex the first time up until now is still the best sex for her, how she felt after her first experience and how she worked through it all, the websites they use now to meet guys and how their process has evolved over time, how she became a size queen and asks for dick pic right away as well as STI test and face pics, the type of guys she likes and the ones she doesn’t like, her first dvp she had recently had and exactly what went down, how her husband loves sloppy seconds, how and why they’ve always taken pics and videos of all their hook ups, how she sometimes plays solo but will on give a blowjob and where that typically go down, how and why her neighbor knows about what her and her husband are up to, how they outed themselves to everyone else in their town, why she recently started an Onlyfans, the 18 guys gloryhole experience she had recently and what went down, the hotel take over they went to afterwards and what went down there, how opening up their marriage has changed their relationship and what it has added plus a whole lot more.  You can see more of CODI here! https://onlyfans.com/therealcocorae **To see HOT, anonymous pics of CODI RAE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://butterwellness.com/ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://beducate.me/pd2508-anonymous Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:03:15 and email it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. If you pre-order it, I will send you a link into my Discord. So you could also get into my Discord that way. And it's Super fun. That will get you in forever. The link to the book is in the description and email it to me at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Today I have on Cody Ray. I think I didn't have to change her voice. She got like a little girly voice if you ask me. She's a true hot wife. She met a guy, her third husband. He was into swinging. He had been a swinger before, but she was like not down for that because she wasn't into seeing him with girls, but she was open to the hot wifing scenario. And that's what they wound up getting into. She talks about that whole process. I mean,
Starting point is 00:03:55 didn't happen overnight, but they were talking about this kind of stuff like right from the get-go. And she walks me through and talks about her first experience and then how it progressed, all the crazy things she's done, and why she turned into a size queen, how she wound up squirting. And what was the key to that when she had never squirted before? She loves giving blowjob. She talks about that. She recently did a whole glory hole thing that she videotaped. She had like 18 guys in a glory hole.
Starting point is 00:04:24 She also did her recent hotel takeover. She talks about what went down there. But she's very into the hot wiping thing. It's very much a threesome experience all the time. Her guy is always involved. Unless it's blowjobs. She does do solo blowjobs without him. And she talks about how and why she does that.
Starting point is 00:04:40 She's got one guy that she blows all the time. She talks about that specifically. She gives a lot of hot stories. She's done a DVP. She talks about that. She's done spit roasting. And she also has her whole blowjob glory hole experience videotaped on her only fan.
Starting point is 00:04:53 And so after you hear her story, if you want to go see it, you could see it on her OnlyFans. She gave me the link. It will be in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on with Cody. Ray. Hey, Cody Ray. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today?
Starting point is 00:05:07 I'm great. How are you? Good. I like your name. Too bad I got to change your voice because you got already have a baby girl voice. You have the voice that I typically change people's voices to sound like. You sound like you're five. I'm tapping away about five.
Starting point is 00:05:19 And guys love that just so you know. you have a good name. I was like, oh, Cody Ray, that's like a stripper name. It definitely sounds like a stripper name. Yeah. So Cody, Ray, let's start with like a snapshot of where you're at now and then we'll get your whole story. I know you're like a hot wife. Are you married? And, you know, if so, like how long did give me that kind of snapshot of where you are now? Yeah. So we are married. We've been married almost seven years now. We dated sadly, like only six months before we got married. We kind of just jumped right into it.
Starting point is 00:05:51 Yeah, that's okay. Worked. Yeah. When you know, you know. Yeah. Especially when you're older, I think. I don't know. I've heard of many stories where people met each other and got married really quickly
Starting point is 00:06:02 and lasted. And then you hear the opposite. So who the fuck cares? Oh, definitely. Yeah. Okay. So you're married for seven years together for, you know, like almost the same amount. Now, when did you guys decide to open up your marriage?
Starting point is 00:06:15 So actually, when we first started dating, my husband, I kind of brought it up. up to me. He had previously been in an open marriage. They were full swing. Oh, really? That really wasn't something I was interested in. So we kind of discussed like the hot wife aspect of it and, you know, kind of how that would play out. And it was about four months into our marriage that we, you know, really started exploring things and kind of taking it to that next level of, you know, actually living out those fantasies instead of just talking about them. Four months into your relationship or into your marriage. Our marriage. So six months later, so really like, not even a year later into your relationship. It's a very new relationship, right? Like right from the get-go, you guys are open.
Starting point is 00:07:00 Now, was this your first marriage, second marriage? How old are you guys? This is my third marriage. Oh, I love that. Third marriage and second for him? Yes. Okay. So now what was it about full swinging that you didn't like?
Starting point is 00:07:13 You didn't want to see your guy with a girl? Like, what was it about that that wasn't appealing to you? I am terribly jealous, like, terribly jealous. Like, the absolute worst, want to punch someone in the face for even having them look at my husband. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Do you have a history of, like, people cheating on you? Yeah, both of my first and second marriage, both very openly cheated on me, like, our entire relationship.
Starting point is 00:07:40 So. Well, how do you openly cheat? Like, you knew or, like, they just were so sloppy that you found out? sloppy about it. That's so rude, right? Like, it doesn't feel like if you're going to fucking cheat, at least care about me enough to try as hard as you can to not let me not know, right? Because to me, if they don't hide it, it's like a double fuck you, you know? Exactly. Exactly. Like, not only are, do you not care that you're cheating on me? You don't care that I fucking know, okay? Like, so rude. Be a little less of a dick, please. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's like a double
Starting point is 00:08:12 dick. Okay, so that's why those relate. But I think like, unfortunately, when you have, have history like that, you know, you could, you could be a lot more jealous because of those kinds of things for sure. That's why I asked, you know, it's going to, because it's going to trigger stuff in you if you see him with another girl, right? Oh, yes. Yeah. Okay. So who brings up, so he says, oh, by the way, I just want you to know, like I was a swinger with my wife and you were like, no way. No, actually, so we met on Tinder. Uh-huh. So we kind of had an open. conversation about it from the very beginning. We went to the same high school, but there's a six-year age gap, so not at the same time. I kind of knew a little bit of his history with his ex-wife,
Starting point is 00:08:58 and he was just very open about talking about it and their relationship and how it went south and what was good and what was bad. So he didn't just like springing on me one day that was like, oh, hey, by the way, like, it started, conversation started very early, like in the, very early part of our dating. But then the more we started to talk, he started with like the cheesy pickup lines. Like he was looking for his fur ever home. We had two golden retrievers when he moved in. Oh, okay. Okay. That's so funny. So he wanted to, he wanted to get back in the game. He wanted a girlfriend, really. I mean, he did. Listen, I find that most guys married guys want to jump into another relationship because they get used to that having that women around doing all that shit for them, don't you think?
Starting point is 00:09:44 Oh, yeah, yeah. Okay, so you meet this guy, he's very open, you're like, I'm not into watching you with other people so I don't want to swing. So how does it come up though that you're like, but I'll fuck other guys for you? Because that's what hot waiving is, right? Yes. So it was kind of like, well, what are the other things that do it for you? Like, what other things turn you on? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:07 Like, I am very straight. I am not into women and I made that very clear to him. Right. Not a thing. So we kind of talked about like what other things does he imagine would be that turn on for him. So we talked about it and we decided that like we would try some threesomes. And it worked really well in the beginning. So kind of just went with it from there.
Starting point is 00:10:33 Well, three sums with guys is what he said. With guys. Okay. Now is he going to be involved with the guys? Like what's going to go down at these threesomes when you're just talking about them? So it's just basically centered around my pleasure. Like his thing is compersion. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:10:49 My pleasure is his pleasure. So it's just all centered around me, really. Right. But he was like, he's not interested in guys. He does no guy action or anything like that. No. But he did. Okay.
Starting point is 00:11:02 But he wanted to join in to on those three sums. Okay. He's not just sitting there watching. It's not like he's a cuck sitting at home. No, definitely not a cuck. No. He wanted to be in on the action. Now, did he ever, did he ever, like, talk about the fact that eventually he would maybe
Starting point is 00:11:19 want or need that variety with women as well, considering he did have it in his previous marriage and you're, like, you know, kind of like not into that? Well, we did kind of talk about it early on. Like, what if there comes a time where, like, this isn't enough for you and you want that? And he was very open and honest about it. He's like, that was, you know, the past. And that was because she was also into having other women join. And so it was kind of a mutual turn on for them.
Starting point is 00:11:48 And he's like, I don't need that now. Like, this is more than enough. Like, seeing your pleasure is more than enough to keep my cup full. So it was kind of a mutual turn on for them. And he's like, I don't need that now. Like, this is more than enough. Like, seeing your pleasure is more than enough to keep my. my cup full. Right. Okay. So walk me through that first three, he decides, hey, you want to have a
Starting point is 00:12:14 threesome with a guy now. Had you ever had a threesome in your life? It doesn't sound like it. No, no. I had not at that point. So, you know, I was like, I don't even know, like, where do you, where do you find people like this? You know, we live in a small town. It's not like you can just go to the bar and, you know, there's no lifestyle. Well, you can go right back to fucking Tinder. Okay. You're on Tinder. So you know how to make guys to hook up with. Yeah. But that has found upon on Tinder. We have had many Tinder accounts closed down for looking for a group play, as they say. Interesting. Seriously. So Tinder, you're not allowed to look for a three-way. No. I mean not. I didn't realize. Okay, sorry Tinder. You're not going to get a lot of people
Starting point is 00:13:00 signing up from this episode. So now let me ask you this though. Like, are you open to trying this because just the thought of having two guys because you're so hetero is like a fucking turrets. And on to you? Are you doing it because it's a turn on to him? Like in the beginning, like what is the reason to have to start this life with him considering you never have? Yeah. So in the beginning it was, you know, like he painted such a like bright, colorful picture about it that it was really a turn on for me to see like what is all about like can I actually, you know, really get in and enjoy this or is it going to be one of those like super awkward things and I'm going to be like, nope, I don't want to do it.
Starting point is 00:13:40 It wasn't just about like him being turned on and pleasure. It was the picture that he painted of how enjoyable it was going to be. And, you know, just all the extra things that just add to the pleasure of already having sex. Right. So were you guys like role playing or talking about it? I mean, was he painting pictures while he was fucking you? What's the picture he's painting that made you so horny? So it started off just like regular conversations like late at night,
Starting point is 00:14:08 watching TV after we put the kids to bed, you know. And then it turned into a little more like role playing once we were having sex and, you know, kind of, any more vivid picture of could you imagine if there was another guy, like, what would you be doing if we had another guy with us at this time? And, you know, kind of let me be able to kind of play into it and discuss like what I thought it would be like. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:34 Okay. So now you, where do you decide to go on to look for a guy? And are you going to be the one looking or is he going to be the one looking? So we originally started off on Adult Friend Finder. Oh, okay. That's a good one, right? It was really good when we first started and it kind of, it's kind of aged out. It's not really got a lot of people we would be interested anymore.
Starting point is 00:14:59 You're trying to say something nicely. What do you really mean by that? Are they too old? Are they busted? Is it like outdated? Is it fake people? Like what is the problem with the majority of people on there? So it's pretty outdated.
Starting point is 00:15:13 It's a lot of older people out of what we consider our age range. And a lot of people that aren't really necessarily in the lifestyle, they're just trying to get their dick wet. So they're rude. They're forceful. They expect you, like just because they messaged you and they sent you a dick pick that you're just going to jump in bed without having any conversation with them. Right.
Starting point is 00:15:33 So in the beginning, that was kind of like the whole point. So we started off with Adult Friend Finder. Yeah. And we were both on it. So we had one account. We both had the login. So, you know, if I was talking, I could see what was happening. Or if he was communicating with the guy, I could see what was happening.
Starting point is 00:15:50 And then, you know, if we're both working, we can just pop in and out, you know, carry on the conversation if the other one's busy. Right. Okay. So now did you meet any guys? Did you have your first experience through someone that you found on Adult Front Finder or did you have to go someplace else? No, our first experience was through AFF and the guy was, you know, really nice. He had past experience in the lifestyle and like I felt very comfortable walking into it. I mean, very nervous, but comfortable knowing that it wasn't just like some guy that had no idea of the dynamic and was going to cause a problem or anything.
Starting point is 00:16:28 And now was he hot to you? Did you like what was it about him that made you choose him out of everybody else? So he was very good looking. I guess I wouldn't say that I was like a size queen at that time. Now I kind of am, yeah. I know what I like. But then it was just kind of like, okay, got to get this one under our belt. Let's find somebody that there's at least a little bit of a connection with and that looks good.
Starting point is 00:16:55 And I wouldn't be embarrassed, like taking the clothes off in front of kind of person. And like we talked for a couple of weeks. And then we met up at like a local hotel and it was super awkward when I first walked in because I didn't know what I was doing. Like I had never experienced a lifestyle. I didn't know like do you sit around and talk or do you just jump right into it? Like where's everybody at? So I did have to have like a little encouragement for my husband at that point where, you know, little butt slap and like get it, babe. And so, you know, just stripped down and started right at it.
Starting point is 00:17:30 And how was that for you? like, you know, because your husband's like there with you. So you got to feel comfortable at some level. Was it like, was it like, still awkward the whole time or were you like immediately turned on? Because it was like a hot scenario. Yeah. So I was really turned on like right off the bat. But I did find myself kind of like constantly looking over for like approval like turning and looking at my head. If, you know, he was fucking me and I was, you know, stuck in the other guy's cock and just trying to make sure I was doing things right since it was my first experience. but my husband was phenomenal about it, you know, like encouraging me and, you know, I, I just looked for a lot of, like, approval in that. And honestly, that was the first time I had ever squirted. So that was interesting.
Starting point is 00:18:17 No, I had never done that before. Why do you think that happened? Was it from your husband or the other guy? Was you getting fingered or fucked? Like, how did it happen? So first it was my husband fucking me and then it was the other guy, but I didn't even know I was capable of doing that. So I think it was just like the amount of arousal I had at that time, like how fucking turned on I was. Like it was a whole new level for me.
Starting point is 00:18:40 As an opportunist, you know, that's what I am. I'm like listening like, oh my God, maybe that's what I need to guys at once. I've never done it. And I've never squirted it and I always wanted to. That's what I'm missing. Another guy. I need two guys. There you go.
Starting point is 00:18:52 See? Go try it. Because you had never squirted before ever. And so it's like, listen, you had fuck this guy for a while, right? Your husband, right? You're fucking him. he never squirted. So it's not like his dick was shaped.
Starting point is 00:19:04 It's a new dick, right? Same dick. But maybe, like you said, it's just because you were so, like, horny at that time that you were able to. Yeah. I really believe that's what it was because, I mean, we had amazing sex before we did that. Yeah. And so to take it to that next level was so extreme. And it was such a turn on for me.
Starting point is 00:19:25 And I don't know. It was a whole new feeling. Like, nothing I had ever even imagined before that. And so, okay, so you fuck that guy. Do you do all the things like the spit roasting? And, I mean, do you do any kind of crazy? Listen, I know that you've done glory holes and you went to a hotel takeover recently and you've done other things.
Starting point is 00:19:42 But like that first time did you do some crazy things like spit roasting or a DP or DVP? No, so it was just spit roasting. And, you know, there were a couple times where my husband did step away and kind of catch his breath and just kind of take it in. but just just a basic three-sum at that time since you know it was my first one he didn't want me to be overwhelmed with like hey let's try this or hey let's do this of course of course and how was the other guy because you said you did pick him because he wasn't so much a newbie and stuff was he really good at guiding you as well yeah he was really great and like really understanding like if i you i don't hide if i'm uncomfortable role so like he would readjust and be like oh why don't we
Starting point is 00:20:25 want you play with your husband for a little bit and let me step back and like get comfortable So he was great about it as well. Yeah. And so how long did the whole threesome take to go to? Well, we were in the hotel for about two and a half hours. So it was pretty intense and we didn't really waste a whole lot of time getting into it. We just kind of jumped right into it within like the first five minutes. Yeah. Okay. So now was there reclaiming sex afterwards? Like I always hear people talking about that. Like what was it like when you were with your partner alone after that your first threesome? So the reclaiming was, it still is my absolute favorite and my husband's favorite. So like we came home and we didn't talk a whole lot. We kind of just went right back to the reclaiming and kind of just relived it while we were actually fucking. And it was probably the most intense sex we had even ever had before. And that was kind of like the like, okay, I can continue to do this.
Starting point is 00:21:26 This is so fucking hot. and, you know, reclaiming it and, you know, knowing that, no matter what, I'm his, he's mine. Like, this was such an amazing experience. Yeah. Now, did you have, because there is post-net clarity for women, too. I believe that, right? So I'm wondering, like, did you have any kind of, like, weird feelings afterwards the first time? Like, oh, my God, what the fuck did I just do?
Starting point is 00:21:47 Like, after you, like, came and it was all set and done? I don't know. Or were you totally, like, cool with it? So not right away. I didn't. Like, a few days later, I kind of had that post-nut clarity. where I was like, oh, man, can I continue to do this? Like, is this really me?
Starting point is 00:22:01 Do I really want to do this? And I honestly, I thought those feelings for a couple of years, too. Like every encounter we had after that were, you know, a few days or a week later, I'd be like, oh, what did I do? I'm not this person. I can't do this. And, you know, we'd start talking about it again. And I'd like, okay, I can do this.
Starting point is 00:22:18 And, you know, we'd have another encounter. And then it would be, you know, the same thing where I'd be like, oh, man, what did I just do? Right. I'm really this person. You are? because you've been doing it for seven years now. Yeah, I am that person. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:22:33 I mean, I can imagine having Postnut Clarity like right after you came, you know what the fuck who's this guy in this hotel room? I don't know. Like, that's what I would worry about that I would feel like freaked out like right after. But maybe it's a different because you're there with your husband. You know, it's not like you're with like two strange guys, right? Like you are doing this with your husband and he's there with you. So maybe that takes away from that thing that I'm thinking I would have, you know.
Starting point is 00:22:54 But anyway, so now you're like a professional. you've been doing it for a while. But like, so that's like, and that's like your first experience now. So like after that, like what do you, like how does it, how do you move forward? Do you start still continue on AFF? Do you move on and go someplace else? So we don't use AFF anymore because like I said, it's, you know, a lot of old creepy dudes or young guys that are really just trying to get their dick with.
Starting point is 00:23:19 They have no idea what the lifestyle is. And they, you know, try to force you to meet up by yourself, which is not our dynamic. I don't do that. I don't go out and sleep with other people without him there. It's just not my thing. I don't feel safe. I don't feel comfortable. I don't enjoy myself. So we don't use AFF anymore. We have met a couple off of like Reddit, but mostly we use 3F and field and pet life. Right. Okay. So that's normally where we meet. And we do have a vetting process. We do require a clean STD test. we want recent pictures because unfortunately I have been catfished. I could imagine. At this point you've been through it all, right? But did you start these, like, did you have your vetting process like right from the beginning?
Starting point is 00:24:07 And also, did you have any rules and regulations going in? So we did not have a vetting process in the very beginning. That's kind of something we've developed over time. So kind of what does it for me beyond just like the three sons? and what helps me be comfortable, so I'm enjoying myself better, so my husband can enjoy himself better. We kind of just started off where it was like, oh, if he looks good and he has a good dick, like, I'm going to fuck it. Right. But we've developed, yeah, we've developed a few, you know, different ways that we go about it.
Starting point is 00:24:45 I like to have some sort of connection with them prior now. I want to be able to carry a conversation for a day or two or a week or, or, you know, whatever the case may be prior to meeting up with them. All of the apps, my husband and are both on them. So they're communicating with me. They're communicating with him. If the vibe is good, we'll move it to like a group Snapchat. So we can, you know, send dirty pictures and videos worrying up to it.
Starting point is 00:25:14 Yeah. Now what, typically what, you know, who are these guys? Like, are they young guys? Are they married guys that have a free pass to play? Are they married guys that are cheating? Are they single guys of all age and range? Like, I don't know. So I like to believe that everybody is honest and they're not married men.
Starting point is 00:25:31 But I know for a fact I have encountered a few. We live in a small town. I have a very, barely public job. My husband also does. So I don't want, you know, so-and-so's wife down the road coming and punching me in the grocery store. Yeah. We do kind of creep on their Facebook or, you know, look at their socials to see, like, are they tagged with a girl? Do they maybe not have social or, you know, stuff like that?
Starting point is 00:25:58 Kind of get an idea. And that's why we don't just, you know, jump right to it. We give it a few days or a week or so. So we kind of have an idea what the person's like and, you know, kind of where we're at. You know, they do say that there's nothing sexier than confidence. And I could tell you as a woman, I like a confident fucking man, okay? And you want to know what's going to help you be more confident? It's Blue Chew.
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Starting point is 00:27:19 and I thank Bluchu for sponsoring the podcast. Creep on their Facebook or, you know, look at their socials to see, like, are they tagged with a girl? Do they maybe not have social or, you know, stuff like that? Kind of get an idea. And that's why we don't just, you know, jump right to it. We give it a few days or a week or so. So we kind of have an idea what the person's like and, you know, kind of where we're at.
Starting point is 00:27:46 Yeah, I get it. So when did you become a size queen? and why? Did you just have like one guy that had a really big dick and then you got used to it? So my husband used to be a fairly large guy and I mean, sex was amazing with him. But then he lost a substantial amount of weight and, you know, with the guys losing weight, they get a little, a little larger. And I was like, oh. Oh. This is nice. All that inch and a half that was inside popped out, right? Yes. Yes. And I was like, oh. And then, you know, the more we got into, kind of more of experimenting with the hot wife lifestyle. Like he'd, you know, have stronger, longer, bigger erections. And I was like, hey, I kind of like this. So then it became like one of my stipulations right in the beginning and be like,
Starting point is 00:28:36 I need to see a picture of your dick, like right off the bat. Oh, you would want the dick pick right away. Right away. Yeah. I need to see your face and I need to see what you're offering before I even want to to continue the conversation. Oh, my God. You know, I just did a whole dick pick.
Starting point is 00:28:49 pick contest on my Patreon and my Discord. I got like 157 dick picks. Okay, so I've seen them all. And I have to say, some people don't know how to take a fucking dick pick. I mean, do you ever like, you ever surprise with the pics you get? Most people don't. Sometimes they're not really showing them off in the best way, you know. Have you ever been? But I mean, listen, that's the best way to not get catfished. I mean, you said you got catfish with the face. So the way your vetting process, though, works now. I mean, you really get all your information up front, right? Including the STI test, right? Yes, yes. Before we even meet, I ask for proof of a clean STI, STD test recent. And if they've had any partners since then, we ask for recent face pictures. And that's normally what we get off of Snapchat because you can't really fake it on Snapchat. You can put a filter on it. But you can't really fake 40 pounds ago. Right. Because it's live. I've never been on Snapchat. Is it because it's live?
Starting point is 00:29:47 Yeah. So like you can send a picture. that you have saved, but we have them send us like a straight live picture. So we have a better idea like, hey, that's a filter on there. Like it tells you if there's a filter or, you know, if they used an effect on the picture. Otherwise, we can kind of tell like, okay, this guy, his picture's on vet were probably two years ago and about 50 pounds ago. Yeah. Yeah. Unfortunately, we're not playing for that again. Yeah. Unfortunately, that happens in the real world too, you know. So much. So since you, okay, so you have that vetting process. us down. What kind of guy is like your favorite type now that you look at it? Besides, you know,
Starting point is 00:30:24 he's got to have a bigger, on the bigger side of dick, right? Like a big dick guy, but like, is there anything else that you is really like top of the mountain for you when it comes to guys that you're looking for? So really right now, my biggest thing is somebody who's experienced in the lifestyle. I don't want just like a random Joe. They don't understand the dynamic. They tend to want to cuck my husband and that's not my thing he's not a cook so we kind of look for people that are experienced in the lifestyle ultimately I'm kind of weird about what I like I don't want them to have hair longer than mine like it's awkward it's about shoulderling oh okay so they can have a man no man bun no man bun I made that mistake one time the guy had a hat on every picture he sent
Starting point is 00:31:14 me and his hair was clear to his bottom and I was like oh this doesn't do it for me. I don't like this. So funny. Okay. No long hair guys. No long hair guy. They have to be fairly in shape and I don't mean like six pack and pecks but like I don't want you to have 50 pounds of extra weight around your midsection. Nobody wants your belly smacking into you while you're fucking me from behind. Okay but if you got hit up by someone like Jason MoMA. He's got long hair okay. I'm sorry but he's like the hottest guy that hit this planet. Okay. Would you turn him down? Jason Momoa has long hair. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:31:48 I'm just telling. I'm just saying. Do you find him not attractive? I do not find him attractive. I know. You don't find him? He's like the most manly man man on the planet. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:32:01 My husband gives me so much shit about that where I'm like, yeah, just a guy. Even your husband finds him attractive and he's straight. He knows. He's like factually good looking. Okay. So you literally hate long hair that much that even Jason Mamoa doesn't cut it. It just doesn't do it for me. Oh my God, that's interesting.
Starting point is 00:32:18 Okay. Everyone has a type. I love that. That's so funny. Yeah. I'm glad I asked. I'm glad I asked. You're like the only person that doesn't think he's hot.
Starting point is 00:32:25 Wait a second. Okay, so let's get back to like, now I know that like you recently did a glory hole and will work up to that and stuff like have you ever, you know, because I know the first time you didn't do a lot of stuff, you just did spit roasting. Have you ever done DP or DVP or that kind of stuff since you've been doing these threesome for so long? So actually we had our first DVP this year. We met a guy on field and experienced in the lifestyle. He travels a lot for work. He has, he does have a girlfriend where he lives outside of the area that we're in. Like they go to swingers clubs and all these lifestyle parties. And we talked with him for a while and we made this plan. And he asked us like, hey, is there anything on your sexual bucket list? And I had mentioned like, I'd really like to try DBP. And he's like, hey, let's do it.
Starting point is 00:33:15 So we, like, went to his house and had a couple of drinks and we were playing pool. And it just kind of naturally flowed into, like, actually getting down to the fucking. And, like, we fucked on his pool table and we fucked on the floor and, like, his, like, his family room of his house. And we moved to the bedroom. He's like, hey, you guys want to try this? And I was like, I don't even know what to do. And my husband's like, I really don't either. So he kind of guided us to it.
Starting point is 00:33:43 And like my husband was on the bottom and I was facing him and the other guy slid in from the back. My husband was so phenomenal about it. He's so very straight that he's like, I don't want another guy his balls or dick touching me. Yeah. Well, how do you do a DVP without that? You can't. You can't. Rubbing swords.
Starting point is 00:34:03 That's not crossing swords is rubbing sword. Not his rubbing swords. Like we were worried it was going to be awkward. My husband was going to be like, nope, nope, nope, can't do it. but like him being able to see the pleasure on my face from the experience like he didn't come from it but the other guy did and like we got some great video afterwards of the cream pie like we didn't get pictures and videos while we were doing and like the actual DVP because it was how do you video that? Yeah exactly. So we didn't get any videos of that but it was such a turn on even for my husband because he could see the pleasure on my face. You know, we got to check that off of our bucket list.
Starting point is 00:34:42 Was it great for you? Like, did you like to be that filled up? Is that the correct? So I wasn't sure I was going to like it because I am a very petite woman. So, like, sometimes too much is too much. But it felt fucking amazing. Like, I can't even explain to you, like, a completely different feeling than anything that I've ever felt before. So, like, it was really fucking hot.
Starting point is 00:35:09 and I came really hard. And your husband too was able to get off. So my husband didn't get off on that. Like we kind of had the agreement like that night he was going to be holding back because he really wanted like a real heavy, hard reclaim once we got home. Oh, interesting. Okay. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:35:27 So he kind of held back on that one and waited until we got home to reclaim after that one. Now he likes the cream pie thing and everything. Is he like like to see like that sort of going inside of you? after some guy has done that? Do you roll like that? Yes. So he loves sloppy seconds. Like that is 110% like his favorite thing is, you know, actually fucking someone else's
Starting point is 00:35:53 come inside of me. Like it's a huge turn on for him and, you know, compersion. My pleasure, his pleasures. And turns out it's kind of a thing for me too. Like seeing him being so fucking turned on by it makes me hornier. So it's just who's flying this clean. Right. And that's why I would assume that's why you're so particular about the SDI testing
Starting point is 00:36:17 because you're not using condoms if that is a part of your play, correct? Correct. Correct. Right. And you've always been safe. Have you ever had anything? I mean, like, because how, like, because I, listen, you know, unless you're testing like literally the day before,
Starting point is 00:36:31 there's always a chance, right, that there's been some time between, like, the time they show you the test now? Yeah, and that's why we kind of ask them like, hey, since your last test, have you been with anybody else? Right, right. Obviously, not everybody's going to be truthful, but, you know, regular testing is important to us. And, you know, we test regularly, so we know where we're at. Yeah, of course. Now, you did say, oh, we didn't get to videotape it, but we had, you know, like, do you like to videotape your threesomes and your action?
Starting point is 00:37:01 I know you do eventually open up of OnlyFans, right? is do you have that kind of content there? Yeah, we do actually have most of our content on there. Some of them, you know, you have to have them sign or release. So some people don't want to be on that. And we just save those videos for us. Yeah. But we, from the very beginning, have taken videos and pictures kind of just for us.
Starting point is 00:37:22 You know, something for us to watch to, in between new partners or, you know, if my husband are separated for any amount of time, he's got a little something that he can watch. we can, you know, roll play a little bit through. Right. When he's away from home. And do you play ever when he's not around or no? No, you don't play solo, right? I do not, I don't have sex solo.
Starting point is 00:37:46 I do, in our spells of, our dry spells of not being able to find a suitable partner, I do just blow jobs. What do you mean? So is that, and that's agreed upon by everybody? Obviously. That is agree upon, yeah. So it's a term on for my husband. well, like just to see me sucking dick. So and for me, I don't ever feel unsafe meeting somebody
Starting point is 00:38:12 to do that because really I hold the power at that point. Like the power is in my mouth. If you try to fuck with me, I can take you out pretty easy. So like I'm pretty comfortable in that. So we had talked about like, hey, if we can't find a suitable partner, how do we keep this cup full? Like, how do we keep this excitement alive in between? So we discussed like, Well, what about just like blowjob videos? Like, I love sucking tape. Like, I, it's a huge turn on for me. So I was like, well, like, I don't feel any sort of way.
Starting point is 00:38:45 It doesn't make me uncomfortable. So let's see if we can find some people that maybe they like the idea of swinging, but maybe they're not into threesomes. But they'd be willing to let like a hot wife suck their cop. Right, but they don't want the husband in the room. But they don't want the husband in the room. Yeah, I'm sure you find a lot of guys that are fit into that. category, right? Yeah, we have. We have found quite a few. And I actually, I have one specific that
Starting point is 00:39:10 anytime we're kind of in a dry spa, like, I can just hit him up and be like, hey, like, can I come over and suck your dick? And he'll be like, yeah, sure, 830 sound great. And yeah. Oh, my God, he must love you. I was going to say, like, where are these pledges happening, like, in parking lots in the car? But no, this guy, you go over his house. I go over to his house or, like, oddly enough. So we have, like, a detached garage from our house. And I have actually done a few of them in the garage. Like my husband will be in here, like getting the kids ready for bed or like finishing up dinner for him and I or, oh, he had a long day. He needs to take a shower and I'll just like, hey, come to my garage. I'll pop open the garage door, set up the tripod video and then come back in the house. Oh my God. That's so funny.
Starting point is 00:39:53 Now you're getting turned on and you're turned on by Giving Head. Like is that your pleasure? Do you come from that? Or is it like you come later when you share it with your husband? husband? So I come later when I share it with my husband. Like it's such a turn on to me and like I feel like I just hold a lot of power when I'm doing it. Yeah. And it's it is such a huge turn on to me. Like the minute I'm done like I have to rush back to my husband because I need to suck his dick. Like I am so fucking turned on and like here hold the phone. Look at the video. Let me suck your dick now. Oh. So he's like watching you suck someone else's dick while you're sucking his dick. It's so it's like a whole yeah, you're come full circle. Good thing you got that detached garage because it's not far that you have to go
Starting point is 00:40:35 to have another dick in your mouth. It's like a couple of minutes later. I just wonder if you have some nosy neighbors that are seeing all these guys going into your garage with you. The neighborhood that we live in, my best friend is actually my next door neighbor and we've been very open with them. Like they know what we do. They know we have an only fan. Oh no. Like she's my best friend. She's very understanding. She knows my content. She knows what we do. She's not judgy. She's like, get it girl. Yeah. When did you tell her and how did you tell her?
Starting point is 00:41:06 Were you just, was she just always such a good friend that you told her everything? And so like she just knew from the get-go? So they've been neighbors for like five or six years. And they opened up to us that they had previously been in the lifestyle. And I wasn't quite ready to like openly tell people, any people that we were doing it. We kept it very quiet at the time. And we actually, when we started our only fans, my husband and I joked about like with our first dollar that we make, we're going to buy its only money stickers and put them on our fun car.
Starting point is 00:41:36 And we did. And it drew a lot of attention because like I said, we live in a small town. It's a rural area. It's a beautiful car and it's very loud. So it draws attention. Right. She had mentioned something and I was like, okay, so I'm just going to tell you, like, this is what we're doing. And she was like, no shit. Like, I got to see this. So like I opened up my only fans and let her look at the pictures and the videos and she's like, shit, you're making that kind of money on that? And I was like, yeah, I am. And she's like, that's it. I'm going in. I'm talking to my husband. I got to do this. I got to get it on this. No way. Did she do one too? She hasn't started one yet. Like she just started a new job. So she's kind of, you know, crazy and hectic. But she's like, I'm, I'm totally,
Starting point is 00:42:17 when we're ready, I'm going to call you. You're going to help me get this started. Well, how and when along your, like during your journey did this only fans thing come into play? because it didn't, it wasn't available seven years ago, right? Yeah, no, we actually have only had it up and going for about two months. Oh, okay. So it's very recent. Very recent. And we joked about it early on, like when only fans first came out, like, man, we need
Starting point is 00:42:45 to get an only fans. Like, people are making bank on this. We had kind of joked about it. And I was like, yeah, I don't really want my face out there. Like, I don't want to do that. And then, like, we took a little bit of it. a little break in the lifestyle because life happens and you know we have kids and jobs and you know things happen so we took a little break and when we started back up we were like you know what
Starting point is 00:43:07 like we're already making the videos and people would ask us like hey can i video or can i get that video afterwards and we're like you know i know they're in the video but then we'd meet new people and they'd be like can i see old videos that you have i was like okay so my husband brought it up and he was like why don't we just start an only fans And I was like, okay. And he's like, really? We can do that. And we just kind of ran with it.
Starting point is 00:43:32 And I mean, it's been good. Yeah. And listen, it's work, right? So now, I don't know who does the work, but it sounds like your husband gets pleasure out of it. Is it a part of his, like, sort of seeing guys be into you knowing that his wife is out there? Does he get, like, off on that at all?
Starting point is 00:43:50 And do you get off on that? We both get off on it. We both do most of the work on it. You know, we, we record together. He uses his phone while we're doing it. I sent mine up on a tripod. It's like, oh, he's in there, right? With you all the time.
Starting point is 00:44:05 There's always three. There's two guys and you, right? Two guys and me. That's a kind of content, right? Most of it, yeah. Right. So it's not really just yours. No.
Starting point is 00:44:13 Right. I mean, it's marketed as mine, but he is in there. Yeah. Okay, cool. So he does work on it too. But like, do you guys both get off on the fact of knowing that like you're sharing your intimate moments with all these people and they're seeing you, like, Kind of like an exhibitionist, right?
Starting point is 00:44:28 Yeah, yeah. We both do, and, you know, we talk about it afterwards and, you know, makes me orgasms that much more intense. Like, we come that much harder just talking about it afterwards. Are you still squirting to this day? Yes, yes. Like, it's like once you figure it out, you could always squirt now? Not always. Like, I've had some of our, you know, extra participants that they've got the right size, but they don't really know how to use it.
Starting point is 00:44:54 which sometimes is the case, but pretty much every time with my husband. Like he just, he knows exactly where to hit and what to do and we're changing sheets a lot. Oh, right. Of course. Does it smell like pee, though? Like, do you really think it's pee? Like, so I have arguments about this shit all the time with people. I don't think it's pee.
Starting point is 00:45:16 It doesn't smell like pee. Like, my bedroom doesn't smell like a bathroom. So. Yeah, yeah. Okay, so let's get to, I know you recently went to Hotel Takeover. you did your first glory hole. I mean, did those things happen at the same time or are those separate experiences? That was actually just this last weekend.
Starting point is 00:45:32 Oh, you're kidding. There was like a hotel takeover that had a glory hole place. So the hotel takeover is about six hours away from where we're at and they have like an adult super store that's like the next town over. So we were like, you know, we're already going that way. It's like 20 minutes from where we're going. We're going to leave the day early. We're going to go to the.
Starting point is 00:45:54 glory hole the night before. Interesting. See what we can do. Yeah. So, you know, that glory hole has a fat life page. So, you know, we started advertising on there like, hey, we're going to be in town this day. We're looking to make, you know, a glory hole video. Like anybody interested. And we had so many people, like, reach out to us. Like, I'd totally be down. What time are you going to be there? Like, how long are you going to be there? Just a ridiculous outpour of people that were like, no, I'm down. Like,
Starting point is 00:46:24 be there. Oh my God. And like the glory hole experience is going to be like you inside a booth and just guys like putting their thing in, you're just blowing. How many guys did you wind up doing? Do you even know? So I ended the weekend with a total of 18. 18 guys. 18 cocks now. Are you just blowing them? Because I know you can like kind of fuck them in a glory hole somehow. Like Erica explained it to me she does. So a normal size person, yes, but I am five foot tall. So it's very hard for me to do that. And like I even wore forage heels. And, you know, we've added these people and they're friends of ours either on Fat Life or on field or some of them were people that we had met on there and had moved to my only fans.
Starting point is 00:47:13 So they would sign releases. And the first one, I was like, okay, good cock, super nice guy. He's in the lifestyle. I'm going to fuck this one. So my husband kind of lined me up to back up and I realized, I'm not calling it over this. Yeah. So it was like a challenge, but I did get it in and I did get a video of it. And then after that, I was like, this is too painful for me to try to get my ass up high enough.
Starting point is 00:47:37 So it's just blow jobs from here. Yeah. And so how was that experience, though, in that adult super store glory hole experience? It was so awesome. Like, I can't even tell you, like, how exciting and how fun it was for me. Like, I set up my little tripod and then my husband videoed also. Like, it was, like, I was shaking with excitement. It was probably one of the funnest experiences I've had.
Starting point is 00:48:07 Like, huge turn on for me. Definitely a huge turn on for my husband. Like, I don't know. I would totally do it again if it was closer to home. Really? Well, I mean, you love giving blowjubs, right? You say that, like, it's hot. you like you actually get turned on by it not just for your guy right yeah not just for him like i totally
Starting point is 00:48:25 get turned on just by sucking up yeah and now does your husband i'm assuming like was your husband inside with you filming is that how it took place or what was it in the room yeah so it's like two little rooms they're like little they call in the arcade rooms and they have TVs that they play like porn and you can change the video on there's like a little bench in there and he kind of stood off to the side and kind of made sure like I was comfortable with anybody that was coming through as well. So kind of just started off like him standing in the corner just kind of stroking his cock. Well, like I sucked the first one and then I could hear him kind of moaning. And so it was like a lot of eye contact.
Starting point is 00:49:07 And, you know, every every one of them, I just, you know, they came right on my face or on my tits. Like it was such like a huge turn on for both of us. us and like he loved it. He came twice in the time frame that we were there as well. So like it was pretty fucking hot. Okay. But now, I mean, the weekend's not over because you first, you have this glory hole
Starting point is 00:49:30 experience and you still haven't even gotten to your first hotel takeover, right? No, no. Yeah. So like we went back to the hotel and we were so exhausted from driving and the excitement of the glory hole. And, you know, he already fucking came twice. So it was like, go to bed. Like, we're not doing this tonight.
Starting point is 00:49:47 And we got up the next day and the hotel takeover was just a few miles away from the hotel that we were staying in. And we got up and went to the pool party and we met an amazing couple there. And, you know, explained to them not our dynamic, but great couple. You know, we chatted with them for a few hours. And it was an amazing experience. Like we didn't go in there expecting like, oh, this is just going to be like dick after dick at this hotel takeover. It was more just like meeting more people in the lifestyle and seeing like their dynamic and making friends more than anything. And was it, did it disappoint or was it exactly that and you felt like you met some people?
Starting point is 00:50:26 Like how was the experience for you? Overall, I'd say the experience was pretty good. Like I said, we did meet that one couple and they're actually coming this way next weekend and we're going to meet up with them and a few other friends that they have in the area that are in the lifestyle and like have dinner and drinks and stuff. So I mean, that was good. But did you guys like have sex in front of other people or did you just sit around and watch? Were you voyeurs? Or did you just mingle and talk? We just mingled and talked.
Starting point is 00:50:53 It wasn't, I mean, it was a pretty big hotel takeover, but, you know, small area. It was about 300 people. But it was in like such a crowded small hotel lobby. And we found that even though it was advertised as like couples and singles, it was mostly couples. Right. That were looking to add other couples. or new couples to the lifestyle that didn't quite understand, not really the rules, but like common decency at these things.
Starting point is 00:51:22 Like you don't touch unless you're given permission. Yeah, of course. So there was a lot of, like nobody touched me, which was shocking because it was like a lingerie party. But we had quite a few women just like full fledged grabbing right on my husband's cock, like right on the dance floor. Oh, you must not like that. No, no, no.
Starting point is 00:51:42 So we actually ended up leaving early that night, but, you know, we can say we did it. Yeah. Let me ask you this, though, because you are going out with this couple and you have plans to meet up with them and, you know, these people are in the lifestyle. Have you guys ever thought to try to do something with a couple? I mean, I don't know what you do because you're not into your guy being with a girl. So you can't, like, really do a swap or anything. Would you soft swap with a couple or, like, would you ever do anything with a couple? You know, we have talked about it and like it's just not something that does it for us.
Starting point is 00:52:15 And, you know, this couple knows it. They're just like, hey, it's nice to have, you know, friends in the lifestyle because it gets real boring talking about the weather. Like, what other friends can you just be like, hey, I went to a glory hole last night. Yeah. Or I fucked this guy, you know, two nights ago with my husband and it was amazing. You can't have that with your normal friends, but you can talk like that with your friends in the lifestyle. No, I, I get it. I mean, you know, Erica is one of my callers who's been on my show more than once now because she's like also a therapist.
Starting point is 00:52:44 So she comes on my confessions lines. And she, she's a very big, uh, participator in my discord. And my discord is like full of like minded people that are all open to all the stuff. Of course. And what she says that she loves about it. And it's kind of like what you're saying is that, you know, listen, they have a full life. You know, everyone that does this stuff has a full vanilla life outside of what they do sexually, you know. But and they have tons of people in there and they socialize, but all that weather stuff over.
Starting point is 00:53:07 there. She said, but like what she really loves about my discord is it's like the one place because they live a very secret life that they could like talk to other people about this part of their life. Like you do kind of want to share it, right? And talk about it. So, you know, instead of just keep it between you too and that's what she loves about it. So I think it makes sense that you would maybe want to open yourself up to just have friends within the lifestyle, even though you're not going to hook up with them, but just so that you could have that kind of camaraderie and talk openly about these experiences. Because what Eric says is it just like adds to it. it because you could like talk you know it makes it a little bit bigger than having to keep it this
Starting point is 00:53:41 tiny little secret yeah it definitely does because like the you know being in the lifestyle adds to your relationship so much anyways like yeah it takes a whole other level of like commitment and trust to be in it so it's nice to talk to people that understand that like it's changed our relationship like so much for the better yeah I love that that's always like my last question and we're like at 50 minutes so let like explain that exact thing because that's what I would have you anyway right now. It's like, you know, how has it changed your relationship? Because, and especially you're the perfect person to answer it, right? Because you've had, you know, other marriages and, you know, and they were not like this at all. You know, what is the difference that you see and it's brought to
Starting point is 00:54:23 this relationship? You know, for us, it really, the biggest thing for us is like it's, it's a big trust thing. Like, you have to have a lot of trust in your partner to be able to be in an open marriage or to do the things that we do. But it's helped us so much with communication, closeness. Like, we can sit and talk about anything and everything. And there's just, there's no, like, boundaries of what's okay to talk about. Like, you can be so open and so vulnerable with your partner because you have shared such intimate things. Yeah. And opened up about, you know, things that normal people, you know, that aren't in the lifestyle, don't talk about. Like, we can talk about, you know, what feels good, what doesn't feel good, like passion, desire,
Starting point is 00:55:08 you know, things that people consider taboo. But we can have the open conversations. Like, it's made our relationship 10 times better just being able to be open and honest about every aspect of life just by, you know, opening up just that little bit about like sexual desire. Yeah, because the truth is, I think personally, uh, so many people are, keeping a big part of their sexual desires and fantasies and thoughts to themselves, right? Because it's a little scary to be like, oh, I'm really into this and the other person looking at you like your fucking pig or you're gross or you're weird, right? So it's like, you know, how great is it to be able to really have that open with someone else? I think a lot of people don't have that. Most people
Starting point is 00:55:52 probably don't. I think a lot of people are keeping that stuff to themselves. So when you can really let your freak flag fly with your partner, I think it, of course is going to make sense that it's going to make you feel closer to them in every way because you're being like you said you're really like know each other for fully who you are there's no holding back in any way there is no holding back like i know everything about this man like you would think we've known each other since birth we know so much about each other like i didn't know half the stuff about my ex-husbands and he doesn't know half that stuff about his ex-wife even though they were in the lifestyle yeah interesting it's such a like a vulnerability it's such an intimate, deep thing to be able to share those things that you just, you become closer.
Starting point is 00:56:38 Yeah, I love that. I mean, that's typically what I hear. And I, listen, I know that sometimes opening up a relationship could destroy it. Of course. I have those stories. I love a Swingers gone wrong story, okay, because that's real life. But what I love more so is to show these kinds of stories because I think the majority of people out there think like it could never work. they think it's just like black and white.
Starting point is 00:57:02 Like it will just completely ruin your relationship. You can never do it. Like you can't, you must not be in love if you do this, you know. And what my show is here to say is like, listen to all these great stories about these couples that are only fucking closer because of it,
Starting point is 00:57:14 you know? So sorry, it does work. It can work. And when it works, it brings couples closer together, you know? And I think that that's like really great. Now listen,
Starting point is 00:57:23 since you're sharing all your closeness with everybody, why don't you give a big fat shout out to like where they could find all these hot threesome videos. I mean, you just started your only fans will get you some more people signing up. That would be awesome. Yeah. So our only fans is the real Coco Ray. And we're posting about twice a week right now. There's pictures and videos. Most of our adventures are on there. Some of them we still save for us. But we answer all of our messages. I answer the messages myself. My husband does help taking pictures. And, you know, I do videos and customs and sexting and. All the things important for only fans.
Starting point is 00:58:02 Oh, okay, great. So, but there's lots of pictures and videos on there, correct? Is that what they're saying? Yeah. There's, you know, some mildly naughty pictures and then, you know, full frontal nudity, a lot of videos of threesomes. My glory hole videos are actually on there as well. Oh, so that story you just told us they could go and actually see the video on your
Starting point is 00:58:23 Onlyfans. Yes. My Glory Hole adventure was posted yesterday, so it's on my OnlyFans. Okay, awesome. So you have to send me a link because I think you already sent it to me, right? And I have some picks. I typically may, I mean, you send me like picks where I get to your face. Like I typically suggest you just like make yourself anonymous, okay?
Starting point is 00:58:40 On my Patreon even I make most the time I'll make people anonymous unless you really want to don't care about putting yourself out there only because if you do lead like a little bit of a secret life, you just never know. I don't know. Do you want me to put your face on there or do you want me to take your face out? You can put my face on there. My face is on my only fans. Oh, it is.
Starting point is 00:58:57 Okay. So you're like kind of out and proud. I'm not faceless. Yeah, we're pretty out and proud. Okay, cool. People don't bother us too much in public. They know what we do. Obviously, it's stickers around our cars. Yeah, I love that. Okay, well, I respect that and I think that that's great. You know, and I always say, like, you know, if you're out and proud, you don't have to be not, do I need to change your voice? No, you can mean my voice the same. That's fine. Oh, okay, because I change everyone's voice. I was just thinking, like I was saying complimenting your baby voice. I was just thinking, like, maybe I don't even have to change it. If your face is out there and you're out and proud, why change your voice? right? I don't even have to. No, it's good. All right. Awesome. So listen, I have your only fans. Like I'm going to put it in the description. Thanks so much for calling in. Hopefully third times the charm. That's what I think is right. I mean, you got a third time you got your, you got the right one. I'm glad it's working out. I'm glad I'm very jealous that you start to squirt. I think I have to add another guy into my mix.
Starting point is 00:59:51 Gotta give it a try. Yeah, totally. But anyway, listen, thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story. And it'll be up very soon. And when it's up, I will share, I will give you. I will give you free access to my Patreon for a month so you could see comments and you can comment back as well as free access to my Discord. There's like a whole guest channel on there which I'll give you a guest role so you could only guests can post in there and you make sure you sign up as Cocoa. But there's also a content creator channel in there so you could post stuff and teasers and everything in videos to have people sign up and you could promote whatever you want on there. That's all good with me.
Starting point is 01:00:23 Like that's what it's for. It's totally cool to do that over there. So I'll give you a link to that as well. okay. Awesome. Thank you so much. No, thank you, Coco. Thanks for calling in. Yeah, thanks for having me on the show. No problem. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, secret sex lives of total strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order. order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story
Starting point is 01:01:03 from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang-bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse. letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th.
Starting point is 01:01:54 But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You can post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community. And you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the
Starting point is 01:02:39 audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. Okay, good news. I do have a book out. I wrote a book and it's coming out. The book is called Trickland on Miss Confessions. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. What I did was I picked out the 17 best episodes. That was very hard to do. Okay. I picked like one from each category. And I retold the story from the third person. So it's not interview style. It's a little bit more erotica. The only place where I to creative liberty was in the sex scene. So it's even hotter than my episodes. Like I said,
Starting point is 01:03:41 it's told in the third person. And they're all true, just like my show. I mean, these are real stories from my show, just written out. Like I said, in the third person, not an interview style, more like a story, but a true story, a true super hot story. Now, listen, it is available for pre-order now. And it's not coming out until October 14th. And I was like, oh, my God, that's a long time away. So I figured I'd incentivize people. you want to pre-order it now, I will give you free access to my Discord if you pre-order it now. All you got to do is screenshot, a pick of the receipt, just screenshot it to me. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.
Starting point is 01:04:22 And then I will send you the link to my Discord. So that's a little incentive to pick it up now. It's on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Simon & Schuster. The link is in the description. So make sure to click on it. and if you get it, send me the pick of you purchasing and I'll give you free access to my private Discord that is a totally naughty, super hot community with a lot of people over 2500 people over there having fun. Remember email me the pick at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com.

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