Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1101 - Stacy Recently Started Pegging Guys, had a Threesome with a Couple and Caught her Husband Cheating on her?!

Episode Date: April 29, 2025

Stacy recently  started pegging guys, had a threesome with couple and caught her husband cheating her? and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including what exactly went down when her husband proposed to her and why she was disappointed, their trip to Vegas and how it was gangbang night when they got there, exactly what went down with them at the club, how and why she told her husband she wanted to peg other guys and how he felt about, the first time she pegged a guy and exactly what went down and how she felt about it afterward, the next guy she pegged and exactly what went down with him,  how she crossed the line with him and how she felt about “cheating” on her husband, how she caught her new husband cheating and how she hated led to them separating, the first guy she pegged while separated and what went down with him. the threesome she had with a couple she met at a swinger club and exactly what went down with the two of them, how she felt about hooking up with a woman for the first time, how she cucked her ex-husband after pegging one of her guys and how much it turned him on, the girl her hubby was having affair with and the stuff she found out about her, how and why her ex stopped seeing the other girl, why she doesn’t want to divorce even though they’re living separate lives and still believed they’ll be back together soon plus a whole lot more. HER FIRST EP. **To see HOT, anonymous pics of STACY plus see HOT pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠ To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2508-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off ⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠ ⁠Get $10 off Shameless Care’s female viagra cream, just click on the link and use code: Strictly Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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and I just talked to a girl named Stacy who has called in before. I think I'm going to air her episode first. Repeat Thursday is going to be her first episode. And then you're going to get the update episode two years later where she's at. Stacey's a fun girl. I just remember the first episode being so much fun. She didn't disappoint this time. Her update story to what went down since her boyfriend proposed to her,

how he proposed to her, and then all the crazy stuff that happened between them. She talks about their trip to Vegas and going to like a swingers club and how it was like gangbing night. And then she talks about how she got into pegging guys. And then she's pegged a lot of guys. And she goes into all those experiences. Some guys were cissies.

And she talked about fucking them. And then she talked about the masculine guy she did it with. There was one guy she really liked. She talked about going farther and crossing the line with the one guy she really liked. And then she caught her husband cheating like emotionally with like a scam artist online. I don't know. That's a whole story. they kind of like separated.

It was very early on in their marriage. And then things got even messier. And she started pegging again, went back to pegging. She pegged a prisoner, a guy who just got out of prison. She had a threesome with a couple. And then she was pegging other guys. And then she, her ex-husband, who she's still in contact with was, like, cucking him. She'd come home from, like, pegging other guys.

And then they'd fuck, even though they were, like, divorced. But nobody knows. I mean, this girl is hilarious. I don't know about you. but no, I do know. You are going to find this conversation hilarious. It is always fun to talk to her. This one is super fun. It's funny. She's a walking contradiction. And I think you're going to like pick up on it just like I did. I get to call her out on everything. She's super cool. She's very honest. I mean, I really give her credit of how honest she is about all of her nonsense and all the nonsense that's going on. Because a lot of it is kind of like nonsensical, but it's fucking funny. She's super cool and you're going to love her episode. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Stacey. Oh, and by the way, she's going to be on my Patreon and my Discord and she sends me hot picks over there.

Okay. Anyway, I'm going to get right to and be right back on with Stacy. Hey, Stacy, welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast. How you doing today? Thank you, for having me. I don't know if you're good or bad. I can't tell. There's some crazy things that are going on with you.

Last time, you were like a good time. Okay. If people haven't heard your first episode, I should do it on a repeat Thursday because I repeat some episodes. maybe I'll do I'm going to repeat your episode on a repeat Thursday first and then air this one so they'll have like instant gratification of like the next part of your story. What I remember about you first time was you were really fucking funny first of all. You're a good time to talk to. Second of all, you had this young boyfriend who you were like bringing along to hotel takeovers and swinger clubs and all the shit and you were like really on a mission for him to put a ring on it. He was going to propose to you. This was this whole thing and I don't know. We ended on that. It was really funny. And now we're going to take it from there.

There's a lot of salacious things that happened. You said that the proposal happened, but I was like spot on and I might be psychic. So I don't remember what I said, but I am kind of psychic. So you could tell me. And then you started, you became a dominatrix. You started pegging guys. There's some emotional cheating going on. I think it was on his side.

And now you're living a life. I love the sentence. You're like, now I'm living a life that's half dominatrix, half cheating and half life? Question mark. That's the short story, the bullets. I like it. I don't know. Let's start off with like the proposal.

Let's go start off from there. Okay. Well, you were 100% correct. I actually relistened to my old episode. What did I say? And you said, you know, are you going to be mad if he, what if he proposes to a parking lot? And I was like, that's not going to happen.

It definitely happened like that. So basically, I knew the date, which was, you know, my own. snooping and basically forcing you to tell me. And you were going to go to Vegas. You're very bossy. Yeah. Yeah. So I knew the date. And then on the day of, I was like, oh, I'm going to go get my nails done. And I'll just meet up wherever you tell me to meet up with you. You know, let me know. But I hope we're not going to a restaurant who's like, we're, that's what I planned. And I was like, oh, you don't have to do that. This is why men don't

listen. Because I think we've said so many times I would, I would never want to get proposed to in a restaurant. You've told them that? I have. Okay. Just men have selective hearing clearly. So, and we were going to go to Vegas after. I didn't want him to spend hundreds of dollars at, you know, a restaurant when we're going to go to Vegas. So I was like, just do something else, you know, pick something sentimental. It doesn't have to be that serious.

So I get my nails done. He tells me a location and I pull up and I am dressed to the nine's heels on and everything. And we're at a gun range. So what? That's sentimental. Does he love guns? I mean, that's fine. He does love guns.

I mean, we've been to gun race before. I don't know. I love that you, a girl like you, that is so fucking picky of the stupidest shit is shacking up with a guy like him who's dumb as a doorknob when it comes to this kind of stupid stuff that doesn't matter. I love what he does. I know, but don't worry. He gets dumber. So when we get in there, he's wearing like a whole like casual suit, which doesn't even make any sense. No, he put on a suit.

That's nice. Why does that not make sense? Because he's at a gun range. Well, I mean, like, more like, like, a really nice shirt and, like, you know, khaki pants and, like, the dress shoes. It just, I mean, the guy was like, what do you guys celebrating? Yeah. And he was like, oh. Well, do you think you made sense walking up into a gun range, but high heels dressed of the knives?

No, absolutely not. I looked completely out of place. And it was an indoor gun range. so so loud and like not romantic at all and like I probably shot the gun maybe like three times and then I was like it's too loud like I'm getting anxiety I had to like literally leave so I pretty much spent the half of the time outside and I would think that he would say something along the lines of okay like let's go somewhere else or let's leave he goes well I just bought this pack of bullets so can I like finish shooting if you want to like step outside yeah that's a guy mentality he's like he paid for them he's going to finish the rounds why should he leave literally so I'm outside And I'm sitting there, you know, and I'm thinking, you know, Kathy said just, just let it go. This is him. I mean, it is what it is. Like, this is who I want to be with.

So who cares how it happens, right? Yeah. So he comes out. And then we're like, standing by the car. And I was like, so what do you, like, when you, like, get a propose? Like, what's the plan? You know, like, what's the thing to do? And he goes, when are you going to propose?

I know. I mean, you think that you're not doing anything wrong in this scenario. know, first of all, he had a plan probably taking you a nice restaurant. You said, don't take me there. So then he switched it. And now you're like, what are you proposing in the parking lot? And so now he's going to do it. Oh, no.

Then he goes, oh, it's kind of awkward here. Let's go to the park across the street. And then he proposed in that parking lot. Well, was it a park or was it a parking lot? No, it was just like it was a park, but it was nighttime. So it's like, we didn't even go into the park. I just like got out of the car. And then he just proposed right there as a parking lot.

which, you know, I was just... Listen, if you do not see your flaws in this story, I mean, you're equally both ruined this a whole situation, okay? And I'm sorry, but you kind of started it with like, don't do it at a restaurant. Then where is he supposed to do it? Where did you want...

You were dressed up in heels. Do you want him to do it on a beach? Then you'd complain that you can't walk on the fucking sand with your dressed up heels. You'd look stupid at the beach with your high heels on. Like, where did you want him to go, if not a restaurant? The top of the rock? I mean like, you know, where do you want him to go?

I would 100% agree with you. And that's why I thought I shouldn't have said anything. I should just been like, okay, whatever you want to do, I'm here for it. I guess sometimes I'm a little bit of like, oh, well, we're going to save money because they're going to be like, it's too controlling. It's too much, obviously. Yeah, you show your own self in the foot. Sorry to bring the gun reference in considering you're at a gun place. I mean, you ruined this whole thing.

But anyway, and none of this really matters. I don't think so. But you wind up getting your ring, okay? and that's all good. We need to get to the, I mean, it is funny, it's a funny story,

but let's get to the becoming a dominatrix. Do you guys get engaged? Everything's all good, right? Yes. So when we went to Vegas, there was a kind of like swingers club sort of thing there. It's called the green door. Oh, yeah.

I heard of it. Yes. Well, so I was like, you know, we're already here in Vegas. You know, we're not big clubbing people.

So I thought, you know, it would be kind of fun for us to go there instead. So what we did. didn't know is that it was gang bang night it was way too much going on so first we walk in there and there's like a few couples and they're all like sitting on a couch sitting on like kind of couches around this like stage with a bed on it and there's this a white guy who's like fucking his Asian girlfriend or something and they're like fucking in the middle and you know I'm kind of sitting on his lap my my husband's lap or fiance's lap and we're kind of like making out a little bit but this is when everything kind of turned for me because the guy was fucking the girl and he just kept staring at me the whole time like he'd be literally like he was in missionary like fucking her and just like watching at me the whole time which I thought was so hot and I think that kind of started my journey into finding kind of what I do now which is kind of a little bit

like a dominatrix but a really bad one okay but you actually were turned on by the fact that he's like fucking that girl and staring you down the whole time I loved it it was the best part and then I didn't know it was gang bang night like I said so after he was finished fucking her like literally like 50 guys filled the room and they just like all started fucking her and it was intense I was like here let's get the fuck out of here right but I also asked him if you wanted to join and he was like now so okay so then that was the first step so I feel like I have pretty good communication you know I guess I am a little bit bossy but I am very direct so I kind of told him I said you know that I really enjoyed that part of it you know I've realized that you know I've always said that

I wasn't really kind of buy and I wasn't really looking to like just fuck girls for for fun. But like I do love guys. And that made me want to possibly consider like, you know, like I feel like I could be a dawn and then I started looking into it more and stuff like that. So I told him that, you know, I basically want to peg a guy. And at first he was super not into that. Well, he didn't want me to do it to him like at all. Yeah. But he didn't want me to do it to.

a guy at first because he thought that, you know, obviously it's like a sexual thing and he was nervous to do that. But I did tell you before that we did have like that threesome sort of scenario. Yeah, that's what I'm confused about because he's seen you with other people before. Yes, but it was a girl. Oh, okay. Big difference. Yeah, it was a girl.

But so I was just kind of like, you know, I gave you that option. Like just let me peg a guy. I'm not going to fuck him. Like it's not even real. It's classic. Like that's a normal thing to ask. Like, what do you mean? Just let me fuck a guy in his ass with a straw pot.

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what is the problem? Because I'm not even, I'm not even touching him. I mean, you know, basically. But you know that my reaction is like you are, that is a big ask. It's not like it's not No big deal. Oh, and it is very intimate. Like, I didn't know that. Yeah, yeah. Okay. Go on.

So I meet this guy online. But he gives you the green light. Like, even though he's like not really into it, he decides to say, okay, you could do it. Yeah. Okay. Because the one thing about our relationship is that he's not a very like social person. He doesn't like to go out and stuff like that a lot. He knows that I go out by myself.

I go with my friends. But like, I go by myself all the time, you know? And he, so he kind of already. me. So I think that he was kind of like, okay, if that's what you want to do, you can do it just like, I don't want to hear about it. That was, that's always his thing. He's like, I just don't want to know. So I meet this guy. And I didn't really know what like cissies. Like I knew about cissies and stuff through your podcast, but not necessarily what it is like, what it looks like in real life. So I meet this guy and he basically was kind of letting me know that he is a bit more he's masked presenting, but he wants to be cisified and yada, yada, yada. And at first I thought, you know, that was, I could do that. But so I met up with him. He came to, he lived outside of my city. So he came to my city for like two days and got like a hotel.

And the first day, we just kind of met, hung out. And honestly, he was very femme. Like he honestly looked gay and talked gay and acted kind of like he was gay, which is not like the worst thing in the world, but it wasn't necessarily what I was looking for. No, you wanted to dom a guy, right? Like that takes away the dumb part. He's too much like a female. You want to dominate a male energy, right?

Exactly. Yeah. But, of course, I did it anyways because, you know, it's like a guy like losing in Virginia. You're like, hey, this person's willing. So let me just do it. So the next day I came and, you know, I bought some stuff, whatever I came. And I basically pegged him.

And honestly, Kathy, it was so good. I literally came. Like, which is so crazy. I know. did it have like a like did your strap on have something that was like rubbing your clay at the same time? No no no I don't know I was wearing like clothes basically wow so you just got so into it I know I know I really did yeah no not I don't know you tell me it was just something that turned you on so much It did it just turned me on so much I don't know if you've ever done something like that but just it did it just it just did

I mean it's the visual it's the like idea of it like I don't know I don't know what came over me it was but it was so good. Yeah. So that's what I knew like, okay, I'm like, this is my thing. Like, I'm going all in. Like, this is my new life. Yeah. Interesting.

Yes. So, of course, I didn't like come home and tell him exactly like, you know, what I did. But he didn't know that I was going to meet up with that guy. And so that, that, that passes. Now we have our, I don't do anything else until like our wedding. So, I mean, maybe like two months before our wedding, actually. So basically, I'm still kind of perusing that website. But now I'm like, you know, looking for somebody that's a little bit more mask, but above.

And then I meet this one guy. And he, oh my God, amazing, amazing. He was so masculine. He, like, worked at, like, a really, like, powerful, successful, like, firm kind of thing. He was tall. He was so hot. I mean, amazing body. His thing was that he's married.

And he frequently kind of, like, meets up with Dom's and stuff like that, especially in his travels and whatnot. and we know we got to know each other we really liked each other and I'm telling you Cassie I think he's more used to like you know paying for Dom's even though he is really hot too so I'm sure he gets it for free so we meet up and honestly he was so hot like I think I pegged him for I want to say maybe 30 seconds before I literally was like okay take it out like let's just fuck because he I just was so wait but were you allowed to fuck him no I was absolutely but I know my ex did not know about this at the time.

Okay. You didn't even know that I met this guy. Oh, you didn't even tell him that you were pegging a new guy? No, no, no, no, no. Because this one happened very randomly. It was like a day off.

It was not. Oh, God. We're getting gray. We're getting into some gray area. Keep going. Yeah. You're always good for a good story. Go on.

Yes. So, I mean, and I'm telling you in love with him. Like, I was telling, after that experience, I swear to God, I started telling all my friends. I'm like,

yeah, I take guys now. This is my boo. I love him. Like, you know, like, before your wedding to another man. Oh, my God. You're like, literally. And they're like, are you sure?

And I'm like, it's okay. Like, I love him. And of course, this guy's not even thinking about me in that, in that sense. But, I mean, it was just, it was, it was just amazing. It was a great experience for sure. Okay. And you fucked him. So, and I fucked him.

I'm like immediately. And then so that. Can I just ask you real quick, and we're going to go right to the next part. Did you feel guilty about fucking him? Because you're kind of cheating on your fiancé considering he didn't know. I mean, did you feel any kind of guilt about that? Or did you feel like, oh, I have a free pass? It doesn't really matter.

Yes. I definitely felt like I had a free pass. Okay. Because like he fucked the girl, right? Or tried to, at least. The three son that we had. And two, honestly, I can kind of compartmentalize really well. Like, it's not like I wanted to like marry the guy.

And I know I keep saying like, oh my God, it's in love with him. So you didn't feel guilty? I mean, no, not really. Okay, that's all I want to know. But I did think that, oh, it's before I got married, so it doesn't really count. Yeah, I got it. Like, I just like to know what's in the head. Like, listen, I believe that we all frame things in certain ways to, you know, and that is very important.

And that sort of gauges how you feel about something. I had the feeling that you framed it in a way that you had to have that made you feel not bad at all. So let's move on. So you're about to get married to your guy. You met that guy. You fucked him. Now what happens? Yeah.

So the other guy, he's married. He has his own thing. So we kind of like don't really talk too much. Maybe you don't text or anything like that. Don't time we ever talked really was on the app. And it was kind of like a quick thing. Oh, another reason why I really did like him as well is that we got a really nice hotel. And I told him that I want to go to a really nice hotel.

I didn't want to like be fucked like a motel six, which is like he's fine. I mean, he has money. Like I said, he usually like, you know, some girls will just completely just make it a transaction, which is fine. But because I was, I'm just not there. I wasn't there, especially at that time. I was like, well, I just want to stay in the hotel. I'm going to go to the pool after you can go back to work. I'm going to go to the spa.

I'm going to charge it out to the room. You know, like that's how I'm going to kind of get. So that's another reason why I didn't feel bad at all. I was like, I had the best day. Yeah. Like, and it was completely free. And it was just, it was amazing. It was, I had so much fun.

But okay, so we get married. Everything is fine. My family all flies out to the wedding. We got married to Vegas. Yeah, so that was good. And then I guess I want to say, I want to say like three months later. Okay, so I had a really demanding, like stressful job. And it took a lot of my day.

I mean, sometimes I'd be working like 15 hours. It was just a lot. And I could tell that our relationship. was kind of becoming a little bit rocky. I mean, it was rocky for a little bit, but the working a lot was kind of getting to us. But, but I mean, the whole job thing has been a problem for about a year anyways. Right, right, right, right. I was working there for about a year.

Right. So it's actually really funny. I completely lied on my resume to get the job, like completely chat GPT the whole thing. Had to no idea how to do any, anything. I had to like literally just make it up for the first day. So it's been absolutely stressful since the moment I started working there because it was so, obvious that I have no idea what I'm doing. Oh my God. I'm like slightly obsessed. I'm like the antithesis of you. I am like someone that overthinks things so honest. I would never lie. I have to know

everything that I'm doing ahead of time like that. I'm slightly obsessed with people like you, like your character, your breed of person. And there's a lot of people out there like that. Like I love documentaries about these people that don't fucking know anything. And they just like go for it. And they like, where do you get that confidence from when you know you're full of shit, I don't understand, but I actually admire you. I wish I could be that way. No, literally. First of all, you just kind of go with it. Like, I remember one of my friends that I started working there and I actually ended up telling him that, you know, everything was alive. So don't you have imposter syndrome? And I'm like, every, I'm like, everybody has imposter

syndrome. Just being an imposter. No, I don't. No, I don't. Yeah. No, but I don't. That's all thing. So I'm obsessed with people like that have imposter syndromes. Anyway, you know, like the lady that faked her fake voice and she made herself sound like a man, Elizabeth, whatever, and she took all that money or the guy that did the fire festival and, you know, just these, you're like that kind of breed, you know, maybe one step beneath them, but like, it's just fucking funny. And I kind of like, I don't know why I'm like admire people like you because it's so haphazard and stupid, but I admire the, uh, the, the not thinking part because I'm an overthinker. Move on. Go on. I'm sorry. Yes. No, of course. And no, absolutely. And plus I, I, I, I, I, I,

use that year to really learn the job anyway. So I definitely got good at it. And I think it was the perfect position for me. So when I first decided to apply for it, I was just applying for places for fun because I was going to quit my other job because I told my boyfriend at the time, you know, I said, you know, I want to take like a year off. You know, I want to take a break. You know, I've been working basically since I was a kid like everybody else.

But I thought, you know, you're a man. So you'll take care of it for a little bit. Oh, my God. Already you need a break. You haven't even had a baby yet. I mean, it's like what you can take from. need a break from your 20-something year old life. Okay, could you just go on?

You're so fucking funny. Yes. Well, the reason why that comes up again is because so when I applied for this job, I didn't expect to get it at all. And then I just happened to get it. So I, that's, and it was such good money. I was like, you know, I have to take this experience. So I did the year of like basically torture.

But when the year was over, you know, I learned a lot. And it was a very stressful job. It took a lot of our time. And, you know, we'd fight about it a lot because we didn't have a lot time to spent together and, you know, et cetera, et cetera. So when two months or three, three-ish months after our wedding, I was basically like, hey, our lease is going to end. Let's move into a smaller apartment.

Let me quit my job like I wanted to a year ago. And, you know, we'll be good. Let's start focusing on the next step, but just having a child. Okay. And I think that that part a little bit freaked him out because he is a little younger, but it's kind of like we talked about this. And I've, and I always told him that, you know, I would prefer to get married first before, like, having a kid, but I think that that's half, obviously, everybody, most people want to do the

traditional way, but I also really wanted to ring and to get married. So I was like, if you're gonna, you need to commit to me in this way before I commits like having your kid, you know? Right, but the minute he commits you that way, now you wanted the kid. You were just trying to check off the boxes like ASAP. It's just so fucking funny. You read the book. You read the book. You read the book. You should throw that book out because it's never fucking works. I mean, sometimes it does, But you read the book. You're like, I need the ring. I need it to be in this place.

And then I'm going to get married. And then I'm going to get married. And then I'm going to quit my job. And I'm going to be a stay-at-home mom. And I was like, it's like you have some fairy tale life. Here, she's right. No, absolutely. I do think that it is like a checklist because it kind of helps me continue my life.

Like I have to, where I'm going to go. Three months into it. Have some fun with your poor husband, your newlyweds. Anyway, go on. So you tell him you want to have a kid. This is where it starts to get rocky, right? Yes. Well, this is the thing.

Our lease was going to end anyway. move to the state that his mom lives in, if we're really going to start, like, trying for a kid because his job was a little bit more chill. So anyways, so what happened was, so I quit my job. And then one day, so I have his location and we share locations. And I don't, I'm not the type of person. I don't necessarily always look at a guy's location. But it just happened to be he's supposed to be finished at like eight.

It takes like 20 minutes to get home. Yeah, I know. It takes about 20 minutes to get home. It's like 8.20. So I look at his location. and it says like he's in the parking lot right so i was like okay he's here and then like 15 minutes passes i look and still says he's in like the area so i'm thinking oh i never check his location maybe just it hasn't refreshed or it doesn't work or whatever right so i was like okay and then another 10 minutes

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for 20% off your entire order. In the parking lot, talking on the phone with somebody, who the hell? Like, is he talking to because he doesn't have a lot of friends that he's going to be talking to on the phone. it's like almost 9 p.m. He's not talking to his mom. And also, if you're sitting in your car, you're 99% of the time talking on the phone because I do that. Yeah.

So I go to, I'm like, I'm just going to pop up on him, of course. So I go to the garage. And as soon as I was about to go like the other way outside of the house to like see where he was at, he comes into the house immediately.

So if I had time to think about this, I would have done this in a smarter way, but I didn't have time to think about it. So I just said, that, oh, hey, he's like, hey, you know, what's up? And I go, give me your phone. And he was like, what? And I was like, let me see your phone right now.

Right. You didn't want to give him a chance to delete anything. Exactly. But you could just tell, like, the fear that went through his body. I was like, oh, my God, there's something on this man's phone. And I'm literally going to kill him. So I was like, you have two choices. Either you could just tell me the truth right now and I'll go through your phone.

And, you know, if you tell me first, I probably won't be as mad at you. or I'm literally going to take that phone from you physically, and it's going to be like the worst night you've ever had in your life, honestly. Like, so he says, no, I'm sorry. I can't. I'm not giving you my phone. Like, I can't do it. Like, you know, you're going to be so mad, blah, blah, blah.

And I'm, like, freaking out. Like, just thinking about it right now is giving me so much adrenaline. Like, I was so pissed. You wouldn't even believe it. So we have, like, we have two bedroom apartments. So I went to this other bedroom and I'm just thinking, like, what the fuck should I do right now? Like, do I, do I? do I just killed it?

Like, what do I do? So I come back out and he's gone. He left the house. Wait, he never gave you the phone, though, to look at it. He didn't give me the phone, right? So I go, I'll go, what the, like, he left the house. So then we have a home computer, his gaming computer, right? And obviously I know his passers to everything.

I mean, we're married. I'm the one who does all the finance. I do everything. So I go into the computer and immediately, I'm like, let me go onto Twitter because he happened to say something along the lines of like, oh, like, I don't want to show you my DM, something like that. I knew was Twitter, right? So I log into his Twitter and immediately the first message that pops up is some girl saying,

oh my God, so you're telling me that she saw everything. Oh, wow. And I was like, oh, my God, you can imagine how unbelievably lived I was. So basically, long story short, he, for about like two weeks at that point, he started talking to some girl and two weeks is very important. We started talking to some girl from Twitter and, yeah, they would talk on the phone together. they would, you know, just love bombing, you know, just, oh my gosh, whatever. But the thing about this girl, though, is that she said that she was getting married to another guy.

So that's also a weird part of this. And they never FaceTimed and whatnot. So I obviously, like, you know, basically like break up with him. I don't even have a job at this point. So I'm freaking out of like what I'm going to do. So I immediately take all. of my like pay steps and I get like another apartment I started applying for apartments because it was like a week after I got like I quit my job so I didn't have a lot of time where it still showed that I had a job but I had to get another apartment yeah you know so and you're already flying for other places so we basically ended up getting two different apartments and so I got my my own apartment and then he got his or he took the other one and so that kind of started like separation era and it's been I want to say like about a four months. since then.

And that's when I was like, okay, I'm free. I'm about to live my best life. I'm going to become a dominatrix. I have no job. So maybe I should start asking these guys to pay, which does not work out. Like literally, like the website that I go on a lot is fat life. I love it. And I literally ask, I was like, oh, so are you going to pay?

Because he was like ugly anyways. I didn't really want to like do it and automatically blocked. Like they made me like set my ID. I was like, I'm going to go to jail. I'm just like it's it it it's too much they don't fuck around on there they're not about sex workers I guess yeah that's I mean I think that's smart like you can't do that they don't that's not that's not what they do on their website yeah well I don't know the websites to look for I mean I remember back in the day

there was like back page like that doesn't even exist anymore so I'm like cruising yeah yeah it just honestly I gave that up to be honest with you you could go work in a brothel and do it for like the legitimate way. You don't want to get into doing illegal shit, okay? You're not the type of person who would do well in prison. Or maybe you would. You're very resourceful. I honestly,

I think I could do prison for like maybe like 30 days, you know, like I just can do the food and it seems like it's very cold. I just love how you just have everything so planned out. I mean, I've always thought, like I think I could just 30 days. It's just cold and the food sucks.

Like, and honestly, I would definitely be one of the, of those people that like immediately. I'm like, you wouldn't even have to like convince me. Like I'm fucking a guard immediately. A male or female guard?

Oh, male. Oh, yeah. I mean, a girl, I can't even do what can I do with a girl? Like a girl's too much talking and blah, blah, like I want a guy that's just obsessed with like,

it's fucking man. Wait, so you go back online looking to peg more guys or dumb guys. Like, what do you start to do? Yes. So my thing was, is like now I'm single.

So I'm like, I would love to like meet a guy that was like the guy that was like the guy that I liked that, but like to be in a relationship with them even, you know, so, so first, oh my gosh, Kathy, the first guy that like, because, you know, you, you kind of throw feelers out there and you actually get like a lot of response from that because a lot of guys are actually really looking to get pegged. But, you know, of course, for women were picky, so it's hard to find, like, the perfect people. Yeah. And so there was this one guy, the first guy that I met, and Kathy would not believe it. So in all of his pictures, he, I guess, like, blurred out like

tattoos. Yeah. And when I met him, he was completely tatted up from like head to toe. He looked like he literally just got out of prison, which he did, apparently. But you won't even believe a tattoo he had. He had a huge Hitler tattoo outside. Oh my God. Like the SS, like Hitler.

It's a little scary. And I'm a black woman. So I'm like. Oh my God. Yeah, but that's some thick twisted stuff on his part that you know what I'm saying. Like he might have like a weird kink. fetishizing it. Yeah. Oh, for sure. And I was like, I think I have to peg you just for, you know, just for for reparations. Yeah. So, so that was good. I thought he was a cool guy, whatever. And then when we want to meet up again, he told me that he literally does mess recreationally. And it was just, I was like, okay, this guy's like a little bit too, too much going on. And so, and he and he really wanted me to specify him as well. Like he wanted me to like, go out with him like wearing like like girl clothing and I kind of told him I said you know if you want to wear girl clothing I think that you should go to you know like a sex club or like a gay place or or something that you know is kind of more friendly to that because you can't just go to a random dive bar and you're like tatted up head to toe wearing a fucking lingerie like you know what I've learned for my show Stacey is sometimes that guy they're looking to be humiliated and it's actually a lot more humiliating to be.

doing that in a public place where you're not supposed to do it, then go to a place where it's allowed. Do you understand? Yeah. Well, he could humiliate himself. I don't want to humiliate it. Oh, I got it. I got it. Yeah, yeah. I was like, no, so that guy, we don't really talk anymore. Okay. And then there was another guy. So now this, this second guy actually, oh, wait, and I also had a threesome too with a couple, which is great. Tell me about that. So now at this point, like, yes, I got my other apartment, but I didn't move in yet, so still living with my ex. And so I'm, but I'm like, I'm single and I'm unemployed. So I'm going out all the time.

Right. So I go to this sex club that's here in our city. And, you know, I like to go. I used to like going there in general for fun because it is just a fun, calm, chill vibe. So I went there and like immediately like I met this couple. They're so cool. They're Mormon, which is so funny, or ex- Mormon. and you know we kind of like bonded on you growing up a little bit religiously and then like towards

then they're like do you want to fuck it at first i was like oh my gosh then i was like you know what why not like i'm the unicorn like i'm like i'm the single person so uh we went to their house they had like a big beautiful house and yeah uh we you know started me and the girl started making out i never thought i'd be the type of i've never eaten pussy before before this event i didn't think that it was for me but i mean it was great she had a great body oh you did it The first time. I did it. Yep.

And you liked it. I mean, it's not, I would prefer to suck dick, to be honest with you. Right. But you don't really suck dick in these sort of scenarios, I guess, because of the fact that, you know, you're fucking, you're wearing a condom. You're not really going to suck a condom, you know? Yeah. So, which I guess that doesn't even make any sense because I did eat her pussy, but I don't know. It just felt safer.

Yeah, okay. So. But you like, and did she go down on you to? Have you ever had her you've had a girl? No, I didn't want that. Oh, you didn't. Interesting. Okay.

No. No. I didn't even, I wish I brought my stuff. I would have tried to see if I could peg her to be honest. But yeah, so no, it was great. But it was so typical of me because like literally after like we're fucking like I go, yeah, I'm breaking up with my ex-husband. I'm like giving her all the tea on my life.

It was just, oh my God. When I woke up the next morning, I was just like, oh my gosh, I can't believe like I told this lady all of my business because like she texted me. She's like, hey. Yeah. And she's like, hey, you know, how's it going with the ex-husband? I was like, oh, Jesus Christ. I'm like, I need to like learn how to like, not.

No, you don't understand as old ladies like me and probably that lady too. Like, I live vicariously through my younger friends and people are still like involved in all this nonsense drama. I'm obsessed with it. It's so much fun to listen to because, you know, been there, done that, but I'm so far from like that kind of messy shit that I love to hear it. It's kind of fun. And they were kind of like an older couple.

They had kids or kids wasn't up with them or whatever. Yeah, they're like, there's no drama. Like, there's kids drama in her life, but like your shit is probably entertaining to her. Oh, yeah, for sure. So she was like, we should do this again. And I was like, you know, I want to find another guy. And I told them that, like, you know, I like to pet guys and stuff. So they were interested in kind of like seeing that too.

So I thought that that was kind of fun. So and then I met another guy. And this is while we were still living in the same apartment. And this guy was like perfect. Like I knew like I fell. Like, I was like, this guy is amazing. who's very masculine. We went on a date.

And we actually went to kind of like a Dave and Buster sort of thing. And I always like to go on a date first before like anything, sexual, of course. But we literally didn't even play like a single game. We just like sat at the booth and like talked for like four or five hours straight until like the place closed. Like that's how good of like a connection. Yeah, that's cool. That's good. So we did that.

And I remember literally I came home. And first of all, I can understand why guys, even if they say that they would not. be cucks, kind of would be cucks for sure. Like, because as soon as I came home, I was like, oh, so I had a great date, you know, and I made him like, I made my ex-husband, whatever. He's not even ex-husband yet, but I made him, like, take my shoes off. I told him, like, all about this wonderful date that I had. And then, of course, for some reason, it is about the reclamation sex or whatever because, like,

he was just, he just wanted to fuck. Like, he didn't even want, like, you could tell that that turned him on. So it's like, you guys are all cucks, all of you. Like you don't you act like here. You're not like you guys, but like there's something that is in your head that you're just like this is hot even though you don't want to admit it. Yeah. So you fucked him. So even though your guys are separated.

Yeah. Okay. Yes. So that was like the first time we fucked since like everything like kind of happened, which is crazy because, you know, I know such good sex. Kathy. Like it's like when you get married or in your relationship for or you're in a relationship for a long time, you don't kind of have like regular normal sex like the same position, the same things. but like when it's turmoil and and all of this stuff going on i mean it's just like mind-blowing sex it's even better which is like so crazy yeah yeah totally i got it so so i meet that guy

everything kind of works out and then so i move out and now me and that guy are kind of like kind of like kind of like i peg him so i like to kind of like you know i've been watching a lot of videos and kind of like learning and also thinking that I was going to try to be some sort of dominate trick so I've been like trying to learn how to like really like set a scene for a guy and stuff like that and I noticed that he was like really into his college that he went to which is totally a like Texas thing and and he's like kind of like a cowboy whatever's vibe so like I like set the scene that he was like some sort of like frat boy that like like he's like all frat boy like I pegged him it was great he had a good

time. I mean, I had a good time and I think that it kind of just continued from there because I was single as well. Like I would kind of come over and we would do both. Sometimes we'd just fuck, you know, regularly and then sometimes we would, you know, do both. So that was really fun. And now that I had my own apartment, it's really nice to be able to kind of like set the scene. I didn't have to like have a backpack full of stuff I kept in my car. You know, I can kind of like have stuff around my house. So that was always really nice. Did you start liking this guy at all? Or were just like a sex thing with him? Yes, so I literally three days ago, he told me that he loves me and that he wants to like basically be in a somewhat of a relationship. But that's complicated because it, I mean, one, I'm still currently unemployed.

I'm getting a, I should be starting my new job by the end of this month. So that's going to be good. But this whole time my ex has been paying, you know, all of my bills and stuff like that. So and he's been trying to like get back together as well because because he's no longer talking to that girl. But because he's not talking to her because he was going to go meet up with her. And honestly, there was a lot of holes in her story that she was going to get married. But and she had like a fiance, but she had him on Twitter, but she would tweet about my man. So it's like, how can you be tweeting about another man and your man not see it?

So there's just a lot of holes in her story. I just started to realize that like a lot of the stuff that she was saying sounded so fake. And because like your girl, you're not like, you could tell. Like this girl's just literally just saying whatever. And then she'd always say like, she'd always be on the phone with him. Like she'd always be trying to call him or whatever. And at first, like she would really piss me off because she was obviously baiting him. Like when we first lived together.

Like she would like text him and be like, why don't you call me when you're in your house? Because his whole thing was, oh, I don't want to call you like while I'm in the house with, you know, my ex. I feel like that's rude. Like I would only call you if I'm like at work. or like, you know, in my car or something like that, you know? And she's like, what? You scared of her, Bub, bud? He's like, yeah, I am.

She's going to beat the shit out of me. I'd be scared of you too, Stacey. And I mean, I did for the first two days. He slept in his car. And it was cold as fuck. It was winter. Like, I was like, you're not even coming into the house. Now, and that would have been disrespectful.

I mean, even though you guys are separated and stuff and he is allowed to do whatever he wants, but I think it is still respectful of him to say to her, like, listen, I can't. But, you know, she's going to want. want to mark her territory and because you were like the other woman, she's going to want you out of the picture, you know, for sure. Exactly. And it was so obvious. And she was like a younger too.

And like I've been toxic when I was young, you know, I'm not no longer as toxic for sure. So I could just tell that she was just trying to like, it was like some sort of competition that she was in with me and she just wanted to, you know, like you said, like claim her territory. And it's like, bitch, how the fuck you're going to claim my husband? Right. Right. Now you're pissing me off because I'm, I'm happy in the sense that like I'm, I'm,

able to like do whatever I want to do and like I can now pet guys and and you know maybe I'll find a relationship that's even better for me so like and he's still around and you're still living with him and he's still paying all your bills you kind of have your cake and eat it too literally so I'm not even mad bitch enjoy talked it on the phone all the fucking why you don't even live in the state like you don't even live here so so it's what it was pissing me off because she because he was like trying to respect me she would just like talk shit about me she would like throw like very like rude sub-tweets you know, on Twitter, like such childish stuff. Like one of her, one of her like pin tweets where you should put like at the top of

you have Twitter. So her pin tweet was sometimes you're the love of your life is somebody else's spouse. Like the bitch was baiting me. Oh my God. I know. And it was pissing me off like, honestly. So I was like, you know what? So I kept like asking my ex like stuff because we would still like hang out.

And at first I was like, you know, I'm going to do my own thing. But like once I seen that this girl was like, once she started like actually pissing me off, I was like, yeah, I'm still going to fuck him. going to do whatever I want to do because why should I have any respect for you? And also, I don't even know you. So now you're fucking him just to get back at her. You're making him cheat on her. Basically.

But it's like, how can you cheat? It's my husband. He's cheating on me. You know, like what the like what the fuck? Yeah, but I got it. I get why. But you're doing it for that reason. Oh yeah, for sure.

And also like you said, I had my cake and eat it too. So like I'm fucking him. You know, I'm meeting guys. You know, I'm having a great time. So I mean, I'm unemployed. So I'm going to the spa. Like I'm sleeping in. I'm honestly having a great day.

Your break. Your break is going well. Truly better than it could have once. So, like, thank you. Like, honestly, but I don't have to be home, but I don't have to tell him where I'm going, what I'm doing.

So the reason why they stop talking is because he was going to go meet up with her. And so I listened to really toxic women online. And this one toxic girl was like, oh, the only way that you can stop your man from cheating or the easiest way to have a man or a husband that doesn't, She don't use if he doesn't even have enough money to do that because he can't take a girl in the day. He can't go anywhere if he doesn't have enough money.

And this is not something I ever told my ex and I would never tell him this. So if you ever hear this, I'm sorry. Tell me. Oh my God. I'm going to be horrified. I know it. Tell me. Yes.

So basically, like he would always use paying my rent and everything like that. But like I still have access to all of our accounts. So I would like see whenever he would like get paid and how much money you had. So like always ask for things. So I can like, you know, kind of nest a little bit of money on the side. because, you know, obviously I'm unemployed. And, like, so it just got to the point where he thought that he was going to have so much money.

So, like, go visit this girl. Then he realized, oh, my gosh, all so expensive, you know. And I used to buy all the flights and stuff. So I'd be sending him, like, flights are, like, really expensive. Like, this is how much you're going to pay to see this girl? You haven't even seen her on FaceTime. How if she's fucking fat. How she's ugly.

You don't even know because he didn't see her on FaceTime. And then it was, like, kind of, like, putting those thoughts in his head. Like, I don't know if this is even going to be worth it. And then the girl's all super annoying because she's always calling him. especially when they had their he had his own apartment and I was like yeah she's calling you all the time because she's unemployed like there's no way this girl even has a job you don't have a job I know how it is oh my god you're making fun of her that she doesn't have a job oh she doesn't even have a job and the girl who doesn't have a job is making fun of the girl for not having a job

yes well but I'm not calling like 24-7 like in acting like I have a job actually I lie I tell every small guy I mean that I have a job right because you're literally judgmental about girls that don't have jobs even though you are one. This is why you're just like a walking contradiction. Yeah. Well, you're so shrew mental about it. She's a liar.

You really do have imposter syndrome. Yes. Yeah, exactly. Everything you say is a lie. You just told me you lie to every guy you meet and tell them you have a job. Yes, but that's because you're obviously your boyfriend's attracted to chronic

liars. That's true. Honestly, you probably attracted to toxic women that's basically, yeah, 100%. You're full of shit too. You just told me. I lied to every guy. I have a job.

So let me just tell you something. Okay, listen, that girl has a reason why she's doing her lying too. Everyone has a reason why they fucking lie, okay? You think you're lying is better because you have a reason? You think she wouldn't have a reason if you put her in the corner? She might not be as good as you. You think you got like Judge Judy down, but you don't. But, I mean, you're much better of a talker.

Yes, of course. But the reason why she's lying is because she thought that if she can fake this lie, life that he's going to like fall in love with her and then like well actually it worked okay because like literally it worked i mean you left the house she broke up your marriage i mean you got a high-fiver for that she did what she wanted is she gonna ever get the guy no but why would she want a guy that's like cheating on her his wife to begin with like it's all nonsense you know none of this is going anywhere exactly well what i did was is that one day he was over at my house and i mean for her to break up a marriage without ever even blowing him showing her face on face time and stuff like she's like a scam artist like

I mean she can be catfishing him I mean your guy is like dumb as a doorknop you got it 100% you got it she yes so he was at my house he was at my apartment he was sleeping and I was like you know what it was like 5 a.m I couldn't sleep so I was like it was like 2 a.m so he wakes up like 6 a.m. for work so I'm like let me break in the skitman's phone let's see what he's doing and you know whatever So I go into his phone And basically all I had Was her number and her Twitter And she has like she didn't post any she doesn't post any pictures

Like blah blah blah so literally I did like some FBI Investigating found out her Her actual face real pictures of her Her mom her mom's address her address her brothers Everything I found out all of this information on this girl. Okay So when he woke up in the morning I was like hey I just want to let you know that like like, you know, I found her girl because he was also saying that she's very secretive and she won't give him like her full name and blah blah blah. And he was like, and I was like, why? And he was like,

because apparently once she was stalked before, but she was obviously stocked before because clearly she does this. Clearly she literally does this to guys. Yeah. Which is like, which makes me so much angrier because I'm like, what a stupid idiot you must be to have this random girl freaking literally blow up your life. And, and, I mean, you kind of do, but he's kind of an. idiot with you too you're blown up his bank account you're like on his dime after you dumped him and you're out fucking other guys i mean he's kind of like you kind of benefit from that dumbness too and that's why you're with him okay so let's not get a little twisted that's true that's true that that is true but it's also just mine that's why i married too like what the fuck just be dumb

with me seriously i'm the only girl that could fucking swindle you no yeah i mean out of love out of love But yeah, so they ended up not working out because he found out all of the information. What a surprise. How did she look, by the way? Was she really like busted? I mean, completely like just filters, fake contacts, like different hair, different, like, completely like almost like a like a different person. Like seriously.

He was like in fantasy land. Like, I mean, he just wanted to believe the lie. I mean, only somebody. And we see women do this all the time and men. and, you know, they just fall for the lie because on some level they just want to believe it. Whatever that person is dishing out, they want to believe that in real life this whole bunch of nonsense that this person is putting on them could be true. I mean, you know, the fact that he ignored all the red flags that she, he never saw her and everything yet. He was believing every word she said.

It's like he just like wanted to live in some fantasy that this was an actual reality. You know what I mean? But it wasn't, obviously. Literally. And he was going to go fly out and meet her and stay at her. Well, this happens all the time. She could have murdered him. Yeah, that's what I told him.

I'm like, bro, she could literally kill you. Yeah. Like, you're going to go to her house. I mean, what else was she trying to do with him? I don't know. I mean, she said that she had a fiance, number one, which sounded fake, that she lives in his house and she made it seem like she had living some, like, Christian grave, like, lifestyle, but she's never had sex with him.

So it doesn't even make any sense. But she's telling this random guy that she doesn't even know how she wants him to, like, gape her asshole. So it just wasn't, it was, nothing was making sense. And then she was going to stay at her house. He wasn't even going to get a hotel. I'm like, bro, you could literally die. Are you going to get back with him?

I don't know. I mean, I want to. I do a little bit, but the thing is that we have separate apartments now. So I feel like for at least the length of the lease, I shouldn't even give you that benefit because why should I? I mean, you're the reason why this all happened. So I don't want to like reward you and be like, we have two separate apartments. I'm going to start working. I'm going to be paying.

my own rent and being with you again. I just don't see that happening. And two, I feel like, you know, people, these things happen for a reason. Like, you know, at the end of the day, the reason that he was able to even cheat on me or whatever was because, you know, he was, maybe he felt unhappy and he felt like maybe things were happening too quickly and maybe he wants to be young and blah, blah, blah. So I'm going to give you that space to do that, even though he wants to get back together. But I feel like he wants to get back together because in this whole story,

He hasn't had sex with anybody. Right. And I'm out here just, like, living my life. So I think that he just wants to, like, pressed off to it, kind of, you know, and be like, okay, okay, I'm sorry. Like, I take it back. Yeah. Let's remind everyone how old your boyfriend this guy is, your ex-husband. He's, I met him when he was 22.

He is currently 25. Right. And I was 27 when we met, and I'm currently 30. Yeah. He's really young, you know, to have a baby that must have scared the shit out of him. And, you know, you've been, like, pulling him along on your journey, really. He's been, you know, he's passive to your aggressive. And, you know, listen, that's not a bad match.

You're a very aggressive girl. Like, you know, a guy like that is not bad. But do you think as a person like how you are, like, do you think you could go back to somebody that you knew like cheated on you on you? Like, would you be able to trust him? And did you ever throw in his face that like you cheated to or does he not know to this day? So that's a good question. One, it's so hard for me to trust him honestly. And number two, so recently I told you that the guy said that he loved me, the other guy that I was pegged.

and I'm kind of like in a situation ship with. Yeah. So he broke into my phone the day after the guy came over and told me that he loved me. And he basically gave me an ultimatum. And now he knows that he literally just said two things to me. He said, one, I know that you're still talking to the guy that you went on a date with and that you loved him. And two, I know that you had a threesome, which is like, how the fuck did you know about

the threesome? So he knows that I'm doing stuff. And I don't know how much he saw in my phone because I mean, there's a lot of things. But there's one thing about the stuff that you're doing since you guys broke up after you caught him cheating. But did he ever find out about the guy that you fucked when right before your wedding? No, you never did that. Okay, so he doesn't know that. But you did cheat.

He cheated on you. You could probably never trust him again. Is that how you feel? Oh my gosh. I never even thought about it as, oh, I cheated on him and he cheated on me. That's completely two separate things. But no, I just don't. My thing is that if you wanted to, because I gave you the option to kind of like, you know, have sex with girls or like, you know, I, I,

I think I'm very open in that aspect because I did know that he's young. So it, my thing is you didn't just have sex with a girl. You, like, fell in love with her. Right. That problem, right.

I mean, you even wrote it in the thing. It was like an emotional offer. He didn't even fuck her. I mean, there was no sex going on because she didn't live here. But it was the fact that he fell for somebody. It's almost worse,

right? Yeah. And you blew up my entire life for that, you know? Yeah. You literally got separate apartments because you liked her so much. Like, I just,

that's the part that's, I mean, all the people that gave you wedding presence feel about the fact that like three months later you guys were like separated. I get so mad at people like that. Like don't take me for a fucking ride and make me go to your stupid wedding. And then three months later you're broken up. It's like,

and I have people from a different country. Oh my God. It's so rude. I see it as rude. I didn't tell like my family. Oh, really? No one knows that this whole thing has grown up? I was going to say that's my last question.

Does anyone know that like your. marriage was a bust so soon after? I mean, how long did it last? Four months? Four months? Yes. That is a matter. I'm sorry, I do not believe if you get divorced after 10 years, it's a failure, 20 years.

Like, I don't see, like, sometimes, like, people go in different directions, but when we're, like, talking months here, that's like a, that is something you should, you just need to learn something from this and never fucking do this again, because that isn't, that's, atrocious. It's just, it's so bad. And it's rude to all those people that came for your wedding. It's like a joke. Well, technically I didn't do like wedding gifts and stuff like that.

They all just came. It was in Vegas. So it was like a Vegas wedding. So it wasn't anything like that. Yeah. But, but I mean, I'm still with him.

I mean, I don't think I'm ever going to get divorced. Oh, really. So, okay, so last thing, you are going back to him.

You're still with him. You live separately. What do you mean you're still with them? We live separately. I don't want to get a divorce because I, it's going to sound crazy. I don't believe in divorce. So I think that we're just going to keep,

Oh my God, it sounds equally as crazy as every other thing that came out of your mouth. You don't disappoint. Yeah, so I don't really believe in divorce. I mean, I think the only way I would divorce me is if I got really angry. Wait, another imposter syndrome. I don't believe in divorce, but we literally, like, moved into different places. We're with other people. We don't talk.

I'm in love with other guys. I'm going on dates, but I don't believe in divorce. Well, I will say we do talk, and I do still love him, too. That counts. I just don't believe him. I mean, you might not believe in it, but you're kind of like separated divorce. Same shit. I mean, you don't believe divorce on a piece of paper.

That's what it is. This guy's stuck with you for the rest of his life because you're not going to give him a divorce. Basically, I mean, if I can, I know a lot of places. The only one party needs to say it, but I will never. I'm not, I don't think I'll let that happen. Because you don't believe in divorce. Is it because you love him and want to stay with him? and that's why you don't want to make, you know, go the distance and, you know, go forward with this separation.

I mean, you've been separated for a while. You don't want to move forward with this because you love him and you want to be with him and you see your life with him or because you don't want to get a divorce. One, I do see a life with him to a certain degree, but I think that there, he needs time to grow up and, you know, and he needs to have his own life. So I want him to like evolve. And I want to do my own thing on, on the. side and then wait for that for you to figure that out because I did meet you when you're really young so I am willing to wait but I think that the only way that I would get divorced is if I like madly fell in love with like another guy that's just like perfect and oh yeah in two fucking seconds

if you met the guy of your dreams tomorrow you'd kick this guy to the curb you just don't have anything else so why would you ever give this guy up yes and I don't want him to be other people as well of course yeah of course very very human being nature it sounds so selfish but we're all that way. Like, wait, I don't want to maybe be with you, but I don't want you with anyone else or, you know, it's like, literally at all. I think that's the worst part. So you're going to live like, this is my husband, you're going to show up at Thanksgiving to your family's house with him, but they don't know that you have your own apartment and you're dating other guys looking for a backup plan and he's going to, and someday he's going to be grown up enough for you to

move back in with him. Basically, or make him be grown up enough to realize that this is a little bit toxic and maybe he should just, you know, go in a healthy relationship with him. I mean, listen, listen, he was talking to this girl. So it's not like he doesn't have the same mentality that you do. Like maybe he's also looking for something better than you too and but hasn't found it. So he's still holding on to you just like you're doing to him. I mean, it's not like he's sitting there desperate not doing anything. I mean, he was cheating on you even, you know, like he was, he was looking elsewhere.

So if he was looking elsewhere there, then he's probably looking elsewhere now. Maybe he hasn't found anyone because he doesn't go out and stuff. but, you know, it's either you guys will get back together or one of you guys will find someone else. You know, it'll probably be you before him. And I think that's what will wind up happening. I don't think this guy has ever been the right guy for you. And I don't think he's a bad guy at all. I just think you have a certain way of being.

And there's a certain kind of guy that would be better suited than him for you. And maybe it's a guy that's a little bit older that you could dom in the bedroom. But when out of the bedroom, he could, you know, not be so domed by you. you know, this guy's like a fucking pushover and you're going to push over someone who lets you push them over. And I don't know, as a woman who's like bossy and that way, like, I would never want to be with a guy that I could like step all over. You know what I mean? I don't want. And I never understood what, stand why girls want that.

And not that he's a bad guy for that, but he's like a person that you could really take advantage of and you do. And like, I don't know. Like, you know, I think you need somebody that would be like to fucking stop your shit. someone that needs to control you a little bit because you need to be railed in. Like you know what I'm saying? Yeah. You're a little extreme and you need someone that you're going to respect enough that's going to tell you how the fuck you need to act to be a good partner or somebody.

Do you get it? This guy just lets you be you and what you are right now. You do a lot of fucked up things. It's true. And I think that I do need a guy like that. And I think that there is probably a better match for me that is a little bit more. And a better match for you. your guy because he's a really nice guy.

He needs a girl that even though he's a guy that you can push around isn't going to push him around. Do you get it? Like there's the right girl for him too. It's just not you. Pushed around. That's another thing too, which I feel like in our whole relationship. Like I know I talk to you candidly, but like, you know, this is not how I approach him.

Like I'm a little bit sweeter and nicer and whatever. Yes, yes. That's why I talk to my girls because I just want to get to the point. I'm like, this is how we got to figure out how we're going to, you know, get these. guys listen to us and think it's their own idea. But for for him like the thing about it is that he is to dominant in his own like mind and like sexually as well too. So like it's very hard. I would love to meet a guy like when I started to think that I would be a dom, I start to realize a lot of my, the ways that I want to be the ways that I've been in any relationship even before him is very

domineering, is very controlling. But like some guys want that. They literally love that. Yeah. No, for sure. Sure. And I don't have to convince them of it. I don't have to like go in circles. I don't have to manipulate and fucking make it feel like it's their idea or something. And that's what I'm like, I do think that there is a better match for me that is going to want me to take over his life and control everything. And also it was going to be like dominion, dominant on his own and masculine. And then, you know, we'll be like my sub in the bedroom as well, you know. Right, right. Yeah. I think there might be a benefit for the both of you. I don't. I don't think, you know, this is working. But listen, I cannot wait for part three. I mean, in such short amount of time, so much has happened. You never disappoint when you call in. I'm slightly obsessed with you. You're a fucking character.

It's so funny. Your episodes are so funny. I wish you were my best friend and I could just call you up and hear all your drama every day because, like, I live vicariously through you. Like, that's the fun of being young. Just all this nonsense. It's not so serious. Listen, if you were 50 or 45, like this would be a real dark conversation.

you know what I mean? I mean, to me, you're still really super young, but you're like on the brink that you're going to have to fucking grow up and have a lot of this stuff, like not happening. Because after you're a certain age, like this kind of stuff, you're going to be just considered a loser. Do you know what I mean? Right now you're like young and you could get away with it and it's like really fucking funny, but, you know, just start thinking about cleaning your stuff up and, you know, being

less dramatic and start, you know, being a little bit more stable. Yeah, and that's why I'm going to stay with him so that we could just be together and have kids And, you know, all this stuff will be, we'll be like, oh, imagine you had a fucking kid in the middle of this. I, yeah, Stacy, I love you. You're hilarious. You are fucking hilarious. I'm so glad you called in with your update. Do me a favor.

If you ever get pregnant, please call because I'm going to need to give you some advice. And send me some picks if you have for my, for my Patreon. Can you? Oh, I will. Okay. Now I give you free. I'm able to give free access. I'll give you free access for one month for my Patreon so you can see all the comments.

I know you're going to get comments. and I'll give you free access to my Discord. My Discord, you're going to be able to find a lot of guys on my Discord. People are hooking up over there. I'm going to give you free access to my Discord. And you could do whatever you want over there. I'll give you guest roll access. And this is going to be up very soon.

Thank you so much for the update. It was so much fun. Of course. Thank you so much for talking for. Good luck with everything. Yeah. You have a great day, Kathy. You too.

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