Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1107 - Samantha and her Husband are Opening Up Their Marriage but he’s Into Hooking up with Guys and She's Not Into it at All

Episode Date: May 6, 2025

Samantha’s and her husband want to open up their marriage but he wants to hook up with guys and she’s not into guy on guy action at all and she called in to talk all about it,. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why they decided to get onto a swinger app and what they were looking for at first, her husbands history with guy on guy action and how she feels about it, how they have mocked up guy on guy action ion the past and how she felt about it, why she thinks her husband is “insecure,” the guy they found to have a MFM threesome with and what was suppose to go down, how and why her husband changed what was suppose to go down and why the threesome didn’t wind up happening, how she eventually came to realize she was turned off by guy on guy action, how she gave him a hall pass to be with guys solo and why he’s not down with it, how they’re both bi and why they’re now looking for a bi couple, how and why she thinks looking for a bi couple is the best way for them to proceed, the first sex club they went to and what went down while they were there, the second time they went to a sex club and what went down between her and another woman, how long they have been communicating about their likes and disc=like and what they should do moving forward plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT, anonymous pics of SAMANTHA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: ⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY ⁠https://beducate.me/pd2512-anonymous⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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That's 37712. Or just go to the description and click on the link. In my description is links to everything that I just talked about. Now, today I have on Samantha. Samantha is so fun. Her story is super interesting. She loves to a confession a while ago. And me and Erika analyzed it a lot.

she was a woman who's like, oh, my guy wants to play with other guys. And I'm like really turned off and I want him to suck a dick and blah, blah, blah. And she was like, we had her on the confessions. And then she emailed me and said, there's so much more to this story. So I'm like, okay, you got to come on because I do want to hear the backstory. And that's what she gives the whole backstory here. And it is much more of a story than her guy just wants to suck a dick. I mean, these are people who decided to get into the lifestyle.

Her and her husband had been married for a very long time. They wanted to spice things up. They decided to go on two adult websites. And then they started to figure. out what they were into and what they wanted. And therein lies all the problems that they've had because he wants to suck a dick. She's really not into it. She explains exactly why she's not into it. She explains the things that she's done to get herself into it, but she's just not into it. And like I said, there lies the problem. That's a big issue. They're currently looking for by couples,

but they've tried things in between. Like first they were going to do a threesome with a guy and where she was just going to hug up. Then it was supposed to be a buy situation. She talks about all these kinds of the things that have happened. But what's interesting about all the stories that didn't kind of happen is all the stories that didn't happen made them realize exactly like what they're looking for. She talks about exactly what they're looking for now. I personally think they just need to fucking do something and figure it. And then they're going to figure it out later. She does. There is a funny part of where she calls her husband insecure so many times that I was like, had a whole conversation about the word insecure because I thought it was kind of rude how many times

she called her husband insecure. And I'm like, is being jealous insecure? Like some people are jealous, does that mean they're insecure? I don't know. Someone needs to chime in here because I was like confused, but I'm like, that's a great question. So we talk about that. But mostly we talk about all their stories. They did go to a sex club like a couple times. She talks about what they did there and stuff as well as like I said, what they're planning to do. It's a really interesting episode, I think. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Samantha. Hey, Samantha. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Good. Hi, Kathy. How are you? I'm good. Listen, I can't wait to get your whole story because you were

featured on a confessions episode. You left a confessions on my confessions hotline. And you were like, I need to give you the whole story. Because sometimes with the confessions, it's hard to really analyze them or, you know, we tend to give our opinions about them afterwards. That's how I run my confessions episode. But we don't have the whole story. And the short confession was like, oh, you know, you and your guy play around and do all this stuff. But like, he really wants you to see him like suck a cock or suck a dick. Like he wants to be with a guy and you are not into it. at all. And me and Erica were on that Confessions episode and we gave you a lot of advice and stuff, but I feel like I need the whole story before we give you any advice going down, right?

Because you were like, oh, there's a lot more you need to know. That's correct, right? Correct, correct. Okay, so let's get your story. You sound super young to me. Give me a snapshot of where you're at now. How old you guys are, how long you've been with your guy, are you married, single, you know, what do you get to deal? Oh, gosh. No, I'm in my 50s. My husband is in his 50s. Oh, thank you. Kids? Yes, kids too. Oh, okay.

Yeah, we've been married for over 25 years. Oh, okay. Yeah, you know, things just kind of get flat after a while. And, you know, we thought we would spice things up. And this kind of all started, I don't know, a couple years ago, we went to a friend's wedding. And there was this really cute guy, ended up dancing with us all night. And at the end of the night, you know, we were all having cocktails and everything.

And he was like, oh, I should go home with you. And we did. And you did? We did not. No, we did not. No, we were like just deer in headlight. Like, oh, he must have been kidding. But then it kind of like lit something.

So we're like, oh, okay. Well, maybe we should spice things up. Maybe we should, you know, think about swingers apps. So we started getting on swingers apps. And we made a profile and we started meeting people, you know, through the app and found a few couples. We went out to some vanilla dates with a couple of couples a few times. nothing really panned out with that. So that's kind of how it started.

There's a few questions about that though. So when you go on, first of all, which Swinger app did you go on? Because I always like to give my shout out to SDC.com. That's the one I work with. And they're great. Yeah. It was SDC and the other one, Swinger lifestyle or something. Yeah, SLO.

Yeah. So SDC, I always like to tell people I could give you a free trial to that. You just use my code 3771 or go to the description and click on the link. So when you went on, though, to SDC, in SLS. In your profile, what were you guys looking for? Were you like, oh, let's bring in another guy? Were you like, let's do swaps, let's hook up with women, or was it all of the above? Did you know what you were looking for at that time? Originally, I believe we were just looking for like other couples to do like soft swap. Okay, so soft swap. It wasn't like you guys wanted to fuck, like you didn't want to

you didn't want to fully fuck the other guy or him with a girl. You were just doing full swap, like soft swap? Soft swap. Because I'll, I'll, I'll get. be a little backstory. My husband is pretty insecure. So the thought of another guy fucking me was like he couldn't wrap his head around that. So that was off the table from the get go. Maybe he's just so into guys that he'd be jealous. Like there's a weird thing that I read once about some people who are like really, really jealous. Like that jealousy could be because they are like want to do it with that. You know what I mean? Sometimes a lot of buy people tend to have that because there's an attraction to the same sacks, and so they find it.

You know what I'm saying? It's like a weird stretch, but it can exist. So maybe his jealousy will go out the window and you let him suck a dick, okay? So go on, because it is interesting that he had that intended jealousy, but now he's, like, interested, you know? Yeah, so I know. We took a complete, like, 180 turns. So it started off that way.

And then we started talking about, like, maybe just a single guy. because he's always wanted like he thinks it would be hot for me to have two cocks to suck. So that was kind of a way that started with a fantasy with me being in the middle. Okay, so it was the guy thing. So that that little rendezvous in the wedding that didn't go anywhere was like the thing that maybe you were both kind of really into. Both of you, it sounds like. You as well? Yeah, sure.

I mean, another guy to join in. Too pop, better than one. Wow. Especially like, I mean, you know, you've been with your guy for a long time. It's going to be something new, finally, right? Exactly. Spice things up a little. Yeah, okay.

That's kind of how things started. And so then we started getting, we started talking to some single guys online and, I don't know. And then it just kind of like turned. Like, I know my husband has had, he's had a little by play back when he was like a teenager or college age or something. I knew about that. But going forward, I didn't. really realized this was something that he was really into was this bisexual side of him. So moving forward, we kind of started like looking for guys. So at first I thought it was just going to be like

me in the middle, like me is the attention. And we were talking to one guy for quite a while and he said, yeah, I played with couples before. And, you know, I think my husband asked him like, you know, have you ever had, you know, any kind of by-play? He's like, well, I've had, you know, I've had somebody suck my dick, but I don't reciprocate. So that was fine. So we kind of made plans with this guy to meet him. And it was going to be more about, like, me as the focus in the middle. And my husband really kind of changed it and said he really wanted to share this guy's cock with me.

Yeah. Okay. So, you know, we reached back out to him and then eventually he's like, you know what, I'm not really into like, you know, the buy thing so much. You know, like if you want to have like a threesome, you know, like a MMF, you know, that's fine. But I'm not really into like, you know, the buy thing so much. Right.

So then you have to say, by the way, I learned this on my show. Then you have to say MFM. When it's MMF, that means the guys hook up. It's a three-sum with two guys. It's M-F. M. FM. Okay. That's what the guy was like, that's what I want. He wants to be with you and you know, you and your guy, but not with your guy. Right. So go on. Okay. Yeah. So we, you know, he didn't work out because my husband decided like if he, if I'm going to get something out of it, he wants to get something out of it too. Okay. But that's a very tip or tat. Let me ask you this because you found this guy and you both liked him and he was kind of down and he's like ready. Your guy didn't want to start off with just. like a threesome with you being? No.

No? No. It's a little. No. Yeah. Okay. No. So that's kind of where this really kind of took a turn because it was supposed to be.

Now it's like you're going to take that same stance because he's like, oh, I don't want you to just have the pleasure I wanted to. So now when he says he wants a guy to, you know, for him, you're going to be like, well, what about me? Right. So now how are you both pleased? Right. What happens if you get a guy?

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a quick and then we'll get back to the story story. Like when you met the first guy, you did go back to him and say, hey, like, do you want to like hook up with me and my husband? He said no, but at that point, it seems like you were down to have your guy hook up with the guy. Like, why did it take a turn where you're like now you don't want to see it? No, originally I was going to be just kind of like the monkey in the middle, so to speak. I was going to have share his dick, share my husband's dick. No, no, no, but you said eventually you went back to this guy because your husband's and he said I'm not into the buy thing.

So what were you propositioning that guy for with your guy, him just hooking up with your husband solo? No, no. My husband wanted to actually like suck his dick with me. Right. And you were down because you tried to. set that up with the guy. That's what I'm trying to say. Well, I actually really wasn't down, though. But let's just pretend we're back in that actual time. Now, looking back, you weren't down.

But at that time, you did say okay and propose it to the guy. And then he said no, but you were ready to do it, correct? Not really. So you lied? I mean, you did have a conversation. This is what I'm just saying. Like, you did have a conversation with that guy. So much so that he said, I'm not into that. So it fell through. So obviously, you guys, were decided, even if it was for one second and you fucking lied, like to have,

to do that, right? Because you went to the guy and said it. Like what was that story? What the fuck happened? Well, I think what it was was,

I was open to it. And then my husband, you know, said he wanted to share his dick with me. And he, my husband had, you know,

he started having me watch like some by porn and I just I guess I started realizing like this is not my kink like this is not really a turn on at all it's kind of a turn off and it just once I realized like geez this is actually maybe going to happen I'm really not okay with it okay so you had you also had a change of heart because you were down for it for that time when you weren't really thinking it through so much but once you started watching by porn? Yeah, I think I was agreeing to it because my husband was so, you know, he wanted this to happen. So I think I was agreeing to it for my husband, not for my

own reasons, not for my own likes. Well, you didn't know your likes because you had never looked at gay porn or anything like that. You had never thought it through, had you? I hadn't really thought it through. And then when my husband started having me watch more five-horn, I realized. Yeah, right, I didn't know. Right. I didn't know. And listen, I know, like, looking back, you're painting a very, this is what I think happens sometimes. It's like, you know, when you're farther away from something, you look back and you repaint the picture. I think that, like, your husband's saying, like, you know, sort of stopping that scenario and saying, I don't want you to even be with him because I can't get what I want started like some sort of weird battle with

you guys. And now you're like, you're like, you're like, you're like, you're like, reframing that whole situation to be what it was. Like, were you really just doing something for your husband that you didn't want to do because your husband wanted to do it? Or were you just doing it because you weren't even thinking about it because you didn't even know. And this is, you guys want to spice things up. Like maybe it wasn't that deep. Yeah. And too bad that guy wasn't by because you would have done it. And maybe you would have liked it. Who knows? You know what I mean? Because listen, I've had a lot of women on my show that, you know, I love asking them this question, especially the ones that like weren't into it. Like what, like, if you would have been able to get,

like how you would have felt before you saw your guy suck a dick. So many of them say I swore on my life I would have been fucking turned off and they were turned the fuck on. So sometimes you don't know, you know. But you started so after that now, and because you're so, to me, kind of painting that picture in such a way that makes it so like you loathe that whole situation. I wonder if a part of it, a part of you really looking down on him being with with a guy is because he didn't allow you to be with that guy and be the center of attention.

Does that have something to do with it? Maybe. Maybe. I, it's definitely not a turn on to me. I could be watching the two hottest guys. And when they're sucking each other's dick, I'm just, it kind of grosses me out. Right. For whatever reason.

I'm more of like, I would prefer more like a dominant man or to be like more of a hot wife scenario where I'm more of the attention. Yeah, this is a big problem between the two of you. So I don't know why we needed more of the situation. What more didn't we get from the last one? But we're going to keep discussing it. But I mean, I really believe like what I said on the episode, which was like, this is a serious problem because, you know, if he keeps pushing for it and then you do it, like you could ultimately get turned off if that's just like not what you're into. You know what I mean? Right. Yeah. And I mean, I've had, he's sucked my dildo many times. And I do it for him because I know he enjoys it. Yeah.

But visually, to me, it's not a turn on at all. Right. It doesn't turn you on to see. It doesn't turn you off? Yeah. It turns you off. Yeah. Okay.

Do you have any interest in being with women? I've been with women in the past. Yeah. I've had some by experiences. Can you share that with each other? Is he into hooking up with other women? he not so much he hasn't really said he wanted to be with just another woman right he's more into the guy think because this is something that he did in the past and maybe that's what he's jones jonesing for

that's what he really likes okay let's get the snapshot of where you're at now so like when things really took that turn and that guy didn't want it and you saw that he didn't even want to then just give you what you wanted right are you guys like at a stand still like nothing's happening because of that well we're on kind of at a standstill still. We are still on the app and we opened up our profile to be both bisexual. And we've chatted with a few couples that are both bisexual. Because my thought was, I don't want to stifle him, but I also don't want to be right there, you know, sucking a dick with him. It's just, it's just not my turn on. So I thought, okay, well, maybe if we have two bi-couples,

we can swap. I could play with the woman. He could play with the guy. He could be fulfilled because I've given him the hall pass to, you know, if this is something that you want to try, go try it. Like, I'm not holding back. That's pretty great. That's a good solution. And what does he say to that? He's, he doesn't want to because he wants to do it as a couple. He thinks even though I would give him a hall pass and he would do it, he feels like that would be cheating.

Right. He's got to get over that because it might be, that's a better thing to get over than he. him forcing you to see him with a guy and you get like turned off and you can never unsee it. Let me ask you this. First of all, I really want to set you guys up with Mr. and Mrs. Midnight. They were just on my show. They're both by. They're really hot.

I have pictures of them, by the way. My picture. Oh. Yeah. And they love like, and they just met like the bi couple. They were talking about how that's like the real unicorn, you know, because he's by and she's by and they're like both really into it. And they met a bi couple who they're going to hook up with them.

And they're so excited. I'm like, oh, you guys would be perfect for them. So that does exist. But what I want to know from you, because they have had their hookups with their buy couple already, you know, what does that hookup look like to you? Does that look like you guys going over the house or to the hotel and like hooking up on other sides of the room or hooking up in different rooms or hooking up with these people completely separate when the other person isn't even with you? Like, what do you plan to do when you meet that by couple? Well, he definitely wants to be in the same room. Right.

So he's pretty insecure. So he doesn't want to do anything separate. That's why he didn't take my offer when I wanted to have him go explore on his own. Well, you keep calling him insecure. Is it insecure? Is he just like nervous and he wants you there? I don't know. Is that insecure?

No, I think he's insecure. He's very insecure. Is he like in one way? He's very insecure. He's just not, I don't think he's as open as. I am. Like, I have no jealousy, but he's very jealous. Right. Okay. And you think jealousy is always an insecurity? I mean, is it a insecurity? I wonder. It's a good question, right? Yeah, I don't know. I mean, do you see yourself, your husband as insecure in every area of his life or just in this

scenario? I would say he's fairly insecure. He's very insecure with me anyways. Yeah, I feel like that's a cock block for him with you. Like, I don't know, like, you know, maybe you need to reframe your husband and your mind because maybe that's a big part of why you don't want to see him with a guy, because, like, now his insecurity becomes, he looks even more, quote, unquote, weak. You know what I mean? Because, like, I don't know. It's very insulting to call someone insecure, you know, to look at them as so insecure. When you say that, it just sounds like you see him as weak, quote-unquote, I don't know, is it, right? I think he's just insecure about me. Like, when we, had scenarios that we talked about with like meeting up with this other guy. He was just very not into like the other guy fucking me. He didn't want that. Right. But like you couldn't handle that. Like Erica on my show, right? Okay. She calls into my show and she and her guy do a lot of things. But she does not want to see her guy with girls. Now, I have plenty of couples on my show and a lot of times one partner does and one partner doesn't. But I don't see that as insecure. It's just not what they're into. It's like you not wanting to see your guy suck a dick. Maybe it's not.

insecurity. Maybe it's just like he wouldn't be turned on by it. I don't know. Yeah. I don't know. I think he's, I think his, I don't know, he's, his brother is going through some marriage issues. So I think he kind of just worries that, I don't know, I'm going to run off with some guy that I hooked up with or something. I don't know. That's where I think the insecurity portion of it comes from. Well, let's Samantha. The truth is most people, people don't want to see their partner with somebody else. Okay, I know that my show paints the picture of everybody's out there freewheeling, letting their partner fuck everybody else getting horny for it. But the majority of people wouldn't be into that. The majority of people

couldn't handle it. But are the majority of people insecure? I don't know. Like, you know, maybe somebody, some psychologist would come on and be like, yeah, every person that doesn't want their partner and go fuck someone else is insecure. But I don't think so. You know, some people are just that way. And unfortunately, you know, or fortunately, your guy knows himself enough to like speak up about it. You know, I'm always like my favorite quote is know thyself, which is a little bit sometimes harder than it sounds. I don't believe that people, whether it's a male or a woman, should twist themselves into a pretzel to do anything for somebody else, you know, whether it's out of insecurity or not, you know, if your guy has this thing, you know, maybe he was cheated on, maybe there's trauma in his past, maybe he's just a possessive guy by nature and he doesn't want to see his girl. And he doesn't want to see his girl. You know, I don't know, but that's like his thing and it's understandable. But like him wanting you in the room, is it because he just wants to share that experience with you? Like, where does his insecurity come in that he doesn't want to go without you?

Like, does he like need you to hold his hand to do everything? Like when I said, how are you going to play? You're like, I mean, this is where I started to think like, wow, she really disses her husband because you're like, oh, no, he's too insecure to play alone. He's so insecure. I'm like, it sounds rude. But maybe it's not. You know, I don't know. You were like, why do you think he doesn't, like you, this whole thing came up for me

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I'm like, it sounds rude. But maybe it's not, you know, I don't know. You're like, why do you think he doesn't, like you,

this whole thing came up for me because you said he wouldn't play alone without you in the room. Yeah, he just, he's told me before he feels like that would be cheating. So I, I don't know.

He's big on the no cheating thing. So even though I've said like, you know, hey, go out and do this, whatever. I mean, he's talked to,

But he was even talking to a guy that he used to work with that was bisexual. And they used to, you know, silly talk at work and, you know, make comments back and forth. So I said, hey, why don't you hook up with him? And he was just like, no, I can't do that. That would be cheating. So I don't know. Is he really religious? Yeah, fairly religious.

Right. So maybe it's like against the thing. But he doesn't think it's for some reason for him, the way he has framed it. It's not cheating if you're with him, correct? Right. Right. He wants to share the experience with me, right? Yeah.

He wants to do it. He wants to do everything as a couple. Okay. Well, can you, like, hide your face and, like, the woman snatch while he's, like, sucking the dick so you don't see it? And, like, like, could it work for you? Right. Could that work for you, though?

Like, is, because maybe that is the perfect thing. I mean, listen, you've been coming up with some good solutions, right? The free pass. He doesn't want to fucking take it. But, like, the bi-couple, do you think if you're, like, wrapped up and absorbed with the woman in the room that you could go with your guy being with the guy in the room as well. Like, could that work for you? I think it would be a better solution than just having one guy.

Yeah, of course. And me being like right there. Yeah. Yeah. And you're also getting to. Yeah. Right. And it might be a hot environment too if like, you know, if we're all kind of playing together.

And, you know, I don't have to watch if he wants to, you know, suck his dick. I can focus my, you know. That's what I said. You'd be down town. Yeah. Focus somewhere else. Yeah. Yeah.

No, listen, I think it's a great solution. You know, especially with like a bi couple, hooking up with a by couple. There's like no boundaries. You know what I mean? It's not like, oh, you can't do this or you can't do that. So like I have heard from people that it's like the hottest scenario ever because there isn't a boundary anywhere. You know, where sometimes with like a male, an MFF or FM, you know, someone can't touch

someone or like that, you know, you got to stop words. in that situation. It's like a free-for-all if you're down, right? Because you'll get, you could be with the woman, he could be with the guy, then you could be, now let me ask you this. Will he let you fuck another guy and will you let him fuck another girl? Or is it just you guys going to be hooking up with the other like person of the same sex?

Initially, his answer would be no. He would not want to do that in the first date. Okay. That first date, that's okay. So what about the third? Yeah. Once he got to know them, he's down with that for that? Maybe.

I guess both of us are kind of like just tiptoeing into it. So we're not really sure how, you know, we're going to feel right off the bat. So I think I think eventually he'd be okay with it. Well, but would you mind if he goes down on the girl and will he mind if you blow the guy? No. Yeah, no, I wouldn't mind. Okay. So you're down for that?

Yeah, I'm down for whatever. I'm not really, you know, I'm not that possessive or jealous or insecure if that's the right word. Like that wouldn't bother me. We've been together for a long time. That wouldn't bother me. So I would be fine with it. Eventually, I hope he would be fine with it. But he's like, you know, at first, if I were talking to him, he would say, oh, we're

looking for a by couple, but I only am going to hook up with the guy and my wife's only going to hook up with the woman and we're not going to do any kind of swapping? I'm not sure. We haven't really talked out the whole scenario yet. You need to. Yeah, I know we need to. Because I want to know what he's like down. We just changed our profile back to by couples.

So we just recently did that. So we'll see. And before that, what were you doing? Still looking for the by guy? Yeah, he was, he's been still looking for the by guy. And has he been trying now, how does he feel about you feeling this way? Does he put pressure on you? Is he trying to change your mind?

Like, yeah. If I was talking to him, what would he be saying about you? Yeah. He's, he's tried to make me open up my feet. feelings about it. He can't understand why I wouldn't enjoy watching him suck a dick. Right. And I've just told him it's just not my turn on. It's just something that is not sexually gratifying. No, but worse than it's not your turn on. Because, listen, just because it's not your turn on, why not allow your guy to do it? And who cares? You know what I mean? It's actually,

I think the problem here, because even if it's not your turn on, like, who cares? Like, let him do it. You're in the room, let them have fun. You know what I mean? And you can fuck the guy too. Big deal. Everyone's happy. But it's, I think the problem is that it's a turn off. And that's what you need to say. It's not about it not being a turn on because who cares, like I said, if it's not a turn on. You're going to, you're not doing anything. It's not hurting you if he does it. He's doing it for you. You're not involved. But the problem is you don't want, like, it's not a turn on for you to see it. And it also, you're afraid it could turn off. Yeah. Right. It is a turn off. It is. Right.

So what happens with the by couple? See, this is where I know. So you think that with the, you could like stay away from the being turned off if you're with the woman and you're preoccupied over there? Maybe. I'm hoping so. Oh my God.

You guys are so. You just got to do something. Let me ask you this because how long you guys been together forever, right? Like for many, many years? Yeah. Right. Like a hundred years. Okay.

And outside of all this insecurity in the bedroom or do you guys have like a pretty solid marriage like are you fulfilled happy everything's like good in every other area of your life yeah we're pretty good okay so worst let's like go to worst case scenario i always feel like that's a great place to start because if you could deal with worst case scenario then who the fuck cares right you're not going to die right so there's no death here the worst case scenario is you know somewhere in the middle of this hookup you look over and you see your guy and you're fucking turned off and there's another worst case scenario your guy gets really jealous You know what I mean?

But like my point is if like these worst case scenarios happen, are you guys a type of couple that you have like enough like good enough communication that you will be able to work through it? Do you think you'll be able to unsee it? Like do you think it can create a real problem in your relationship? Or do you think that it's just it could just be something that maybe makes you realize like this isn't the right thing to do? Yeah.

I think it would do the latter. I think we probably would, you know, leave the situation. situation, go back home, talk about it. And maybe that was be like, okay, that's a one and done. We're not doing that anymore. Right. I think it would be more. And listen, you know, you got to be the couple that could get through stuff like that by just having a conversation. It can't be like a major deal breaker that's going to break you up because things will happen in the lifestyle and they do happen, even with the most professional secure couples. Okay. Like, even the people who are completely secure allow their partner to see them fuck other people. It's one day.

the wind might blow and they get a little jealous or they feel a certain way. You know, those things are going to come up every now and then. The difference between the couples that are successful and the couples that aren't is like the couples who are successful could work through that. And it's just like a thing that happened and they talk about it and they move on and then they change course because of it, right? It's like a course correction. It isn't like an end of a relationship. Like I just don't want you. Like, you know, it sounds like you're so against it that I just wonder like if you see him suck a dick and you're so turned off. Like, is that like you're going to be, you know, turned off to him forever or just in that moment? Yeah. No, not forever. I mean, like I said, I've, I've let him suck my dildo plenty of

times because I know he enjoys it. So I, yeah. It would just be like that. So, I mean, yeah, it's just not, you know, that's not really what's turning me on. I think the best thing would be is that once he gets comfortable because, you know, he might not be comfortable going out and being with somebody else because you guys have not, as of now, you guys have not hooked up with anybody else. You've got on dates with people, right? But there has been no quote unquote in your husband's mind cheating happening yet, right? There hasn't been any of that cheating. I mean, no, I bring that up. We've been to a sex club and just, well, we've been to a sex club a couple of times, but we've just had a little bit of me playing with the other girl and him like being present.

So tell me that's true. Well, what I'm just going to finish what I'm going to say and then we'll talk about the sex clubs. Because I was going to say like hopefully like the person that needs the person that has a little bit more issues in this scenario besides you're like being turned off thing is like your guy with his quote unquote insecurities. I just think you know it's his feelings. He doesn't really know he's like, you know he might not be as insecure as he acts like. you know, maybe when it happens, he's like fucking down and he gets over all this stuff. Like seriously, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, maybe. Yeah. And that's what you're, that's what you would hope for that over time when he felt more comfortable hooking up with men and stuff, you know, because this is something he hasn't done in a very long time. You know, maybe when he gets more comfortable and he had, and you guys have hooked up with other people, he could reframe it, not see it as cheating. He feels comfortable to me. And maybe he could go do that on his own and have that free pass, right? Because I,

worry for you if you're always seeing it and it turns you off all the time that you'd be fully turned off. I'm also going to propose another thing that could happen. It could happen that you're like not as turned off as you were that eventually maybe you get kind of turned on by it. You just don't know. I mean, you guys just need to fucking do something, you know? Right. And I only say that now because you said that if you do something and it goes awry, you're going to be able to be okay, right? Yeah. Because you have a very solid foundation. You've been with each other from the dawn of time. It's not like you have millions of cracks in your relationship in other areas, right? So, you know, just to have a threesome, four, some something, do it.

Somebody's got to do it. You know what I mean? He's got to do it. So tell me about those sex club experiences. What went down? Okay. We decided to go to a sex club, kind of get outside of our box. We kind of went in like deer in headlights, didn't know what to expect.

Yeah, yeah. Explain like what is it like as a newbie? Oh, it was fun. I felt pretty comfortable. You know, they have a bar. You bring your own liquor, a dance floor. And so it starts off there. And, you know, you meet people. And, you know, we've had other couples approach us. Do you want to go down stairs and play? And we said, oh, I don't know. We're new. But we did eventually end up going downstairs. You have to totally undress, which is a little uncomfortable. Yeah, I can imagine. Yeah, especially after being, you know, so long married and just seeing each other naked, it's kind of awkward. But yeah, it was hot. So we kind of just went downstairs and there's a viewing room like where people are in one room and that has big windows. So we watched for a while.

I think we did that the first night. And that was pretty fun. And we just kind of played with each other and had a good night. And we went a second time. And same scenario. You start off in the bar and dancing. And we were kind of like getting a little handsy with another couple on the dance floor. And they invited us to come downstairs.

And we eventually went down. They were playing with another couple. And I think I asked the girl, like, if I could join in a little bit. And my husband didn't want to, like, join in really. I think maybe he did a little hands on with the other woman. But it was kind of me, just me playing with her a little bit, with her boobs and stuff. So that's kind of where we stopped. and we just played with each other for the rest of the night.

But yeah, it was still hot, but we didn't really, we weren't ready to totally dive in headburst. Right. And we were just kind of dipping our toes in. And why not? I think we were just a little bit not ready. Like, I mean, I probably would have been more ready, but I don't think he was ready. So what's the saying? Go at the slowest pace or the go at the pace of the slowest person.

So I don't think he wanted to die. You would have gone further with people there or been open. Like you're ready if you go to a club. Have you brought that up to your guy and said, hey, let's do a little bit more or something? Like, do you talk to him like that about stuff and try to,

you know, get him up to your speed? Or do you just assume that he's not ready and you don't even bring it up? No, we've talked a lot about it. Yeah. And that's kind of why we've been, like,

for a couple years at least, like on the websites and going to the club, off and on. We're just kind of going at a slow pace because he really wants to get to know the couple first. Like, um, and I guess for him be shy. Is he shot? Is he a shy guy? Yeah. Yeah. Maybe that's a better word. Yeah. Maybe that's a better word. Insecure is to me sounds rude. It's like a rude. Okay. It's right. Sorry. It's weird to call someone insecure. I know, don't you think would you want to be called insecure? Yeah. He's a grown man. No. I know. I know. Okay. I got shy. Maybe he's shy. Maybe he's Yeah. Maybe shy. And maybe he's demisexual. Some people are. They want to get to know somebody to build an

attraction. You know, some people, and it's not just for women. You know, a lot of women, I think, are wired in that. They have to kind of, like, really know somebody before they could, like, get a rouse. And that doesn't mean three months. It could be four hours, but they need to, like, get a vibe from somebody. You know what I mean? Whereas, like, sometimes, like, guys could just, like, look at a hot pair of tits and, like, be into, get a heart on, you know? Sometimes it's different. But there are men that wired and women that they have to have like a connection and feel something before they get physically turned on by somebody, you know? Right, right. Maybe he's that way. Yeah, yeah. I never thought of it like that, but yeah, maybe. And maybe that's why the whole, you know, hooking up with the free pass doesn't work either. Does he, like, do you both go on the apps? Who's managing your app and your

profile? He does more so, but we both are on it. Does he, like, has he, have you ever said, hey, why don't you also set what up as like a by guy? Like, but he's not interested in that because he doesn't want to be alone, right? No, right. He wants to do it as a couple. Right. I start. I think down the line, you never know how things change for him because I think he might

be shy and he might be, is he like an overthinker? Probably. Yeah, I would say probably. I mean, you know. Yeah. Yes or no answer. You've been married to the guy for like over 50 years. Okay.

You know whether he fucking thinks a lot, okay? I think a lot. I would say he thinks a lot. Yeah. I'm a overthinker. You know what I mean? So I really always appreciate and admire somebody who doesn't fucking think once and just does something.

You know what I mean? Like I love those kinds of people. And I could be an overthinker, but it's not out of insecurity. It's just so sometimes when people overthink things, you know, they could also overthink like something like the future and what they don't know and overthink it and think that, you know, they know what's going to happen and all these things where I feel Like once he actually does it and you guys start moving in the direction, you start having experiences, like maybe he won't have to overthink anymore because he's living it and he'll

realize he feels different than what he thought. You know what I mean? He might just be thinking it through too much and just assuming all, assuming all these things that aren't going to come into play because he's a fucking overthinker. Exactly. Yeah. Exactly. You know, and I think that the fact, what's great about him and what's lucky, why he's

luckies. He's got a girl like you on the other side of all that over thinking. He gets to the point where he realizes, oh, like I fucking love sucking dick and he's got the guy now. And, you know, yeah, you don't like it, but he could go meet a guy and do whatever he's got a free pass. He's going to be living it up. Yeah. You know, really on the other side of things. But you got to find that by couple. I really wish I knew, I don't know, you need to go. I'm going to give you free access to my discord and to my Patreon. You got like a hook up with Mr. Mrs. Midnight. Midnight.

Yeah, there are a couple. And he's really fucking cool. And she is too. They're super smart, you know. And also what I think for you too is you're like obviously not an, I don't think two overthinkers could ever be married for as long as you guys been married. I think typically overthinkers wind up with people that don't think. I mean, that is the better match.

Right. So like, you know, maybe because. Yeah. Maybe because you haven't thought like, you know, you just think, oh, off the cuff. Like, I'm not going to be into it. I saw all these things. Like maybe because it's your husband. I don't know.

There is a chance and I don't think it's like a huge chance. But there is a chance that maybe when it happens, it's not as bad as you think. And maybe it winds up being hot in a weird way. You really don't know until you actually see it. I know you don't like it in the porn, you know, but you're attracted to your husband. Like maybe and if there's like another attractive guy there and you're hooking up with them too. And in the moment, you might wind up being into it. You don't know.

True. This is true. Yeah, you don't know until you actually try it. Yeah. So I think so many things, I just feel like you're both like he's lucky. Like I said in that like wherever things land, there's so many other ways you guys could do things because you are very open to stuff, right? Like you're like, okay, I'm not into this, but you're not like you can't do anything.

You're like, go. Oh, no, yeah. By yourself. So I think that's great for him. But he needs, because he's shy and he overthinks, he needs you to be in there with him in there in the beginning. And I think you need to push this through faster for him. I think you should be the one on board making this shit happen and just make it happen already. I mean, how many years? Just do it. Yeah. Just fucking do it. Just do it. You know what I mean? Like seriously, did you propose,

have you ever proposed, I just want to ask this, a threesome with a woman and you, with him? No, I haven't. That option hasn't even come up. Yeah. Why don't you propose that? Because then maybe he'd be open to a threat. I don't know. I just think that just looking for the buy couple could take a little bit longer because you're looking for two people that are not only by themselves. Listen, there's plenty of people that are. You have to also find people that you're both attracted to, right? Right, right.

Yeah, I mean, we've seen, you know, we've talked to quite a handful of people on the apps. And, you know, we might be like, oh, I like her. He's not so great. or vice versa. Yeah. So I mean, but I'm also open too. Like we were talking to one couple and, you know, they're kind of, you know, like our age body type, whatever. The guy's not, you know, the sexiest man in the world. But just by talking to them, they sounded cool. And I said, why don't we just mean them out for a drink anyways? Just to have conversation with somebody open minded like that. Like you never know who, you know, you're going to. meet through them or who knows they might so maybe he's not the hottest guy in the world but he might be fun I don't know

yeah because you're only looking at a picture right and listen I say this all the time do you watch Bravo shows are you one of those because I am okay sometimes oh I do all the time for my whole life I love reality TV and let me just tell you that I what I always think of because like swiping and shit like that doesn't work for me because like flat pictures just tell you nothing about a guy

Guys don't have filler and hair dye and makeup to make them look better than they are. So there's not as many good-looking guys as there are good-looking women. Women would be really fucking ugly, too, if we didn't have all the stuff we could do. There'd be a lot more ugly women walking around. Did you see Lori Valo recently? Remember Lori Valo, the one that killed her kids? She was like a fucking 10 before she went in jail. After she went in jail, she's like a guy.

No makeup, no hair dye, no nothing. And she looks so bad. She's like a four. Okay. That's, there'd be a lot more. hair and makeup. Yeah, so there's not like a lot of guys are like perfect looking, right? They don't have a lot to work with. It's like what you see is what you get. But right. But if they have a cool vibe or yeah, if they're flirty or fun. So you can not go by a picture. I always think to myself when

I'm watching like real housewives like all the husbands. I always find them like all hot. And I'm like, but 100, because I get to know them and I see them and I, you know, see their vibe and how they walk and how they're talking. I'm like there's no chance in hell that I would ever swipe the way that I like them if I saw them in a flat picture. Do you know what I mean? Right. You can never get a guy's thing in a fucking picture. So you have to like go and meet in person for sure.

Because the guy could have like fucking swag. He could be funny. He could be super confident. It's going to make him hot. He could be tall. That's going to add something. You know what I mean? Like who knows?

Yeah. Yeah. You know? So yeah, you just got to meet these people. Why did you not meet the people that you like anybody yet? Why did we not meet the people? of the bisexual people. Have you met, have you, like, found any by couples? Like, have you at all?

Yeah. Yeah. We've, we've met a few people online, but not actually had any, like, dates or, or meetups with them yet. Yeah. How come? It's kind of, it's kind of in the works. Oh, okay. So you're planning it. Yeah. Okay. So we need a part two. You guys just got to do something to analyze this any further. Do you know what I mean? Right. You know, and I, listen, I think that the, Listen, the turn that happened in the very beginning when he was like, no. I think, like, unfortunately, was the turn that had to come in because to play, because look at all the things you found out. You know what I mean?

Like, and this is just the way that it is. Like, it would have been great if he would have just, like, gone forward with that threesome with you where you were the center of attention, you know? Right. But he didn't and it really changed things up. But I think it brought to light the truth of the situation. The truth is you don't want to seem with another guy. The truth is he doesn't want to go fuck a guy.

guy without you. You know what you're dealing with exactly what both of you were into. And that's like the best place to start. Now, most likely. I know we've had and we have had so much communication over these last couple of years. Just trying to figure out what we like, what we don't like, what we're into, what we're not into, you know, rules and, you know, how far we're willing to go. Yeah, it's kind of a long process to figure out what we want. Yeah, for sure. But now I think it's, at the point where you just got to start doing stuff because then things will change even more. But not in a way where you're like having to talk about it. A lot of times what happens once you start doing things, you just like rules fly out the window,

things that you thought you didn't like, things that you thought you were jealous of. You're not. Like that's what I typically hear. And I think right now you're all stuck in your head and you haven't done much that you just got to fucking start doing things. Right. Yeah. You're right.

Maybe we're both just stuck in our heads. Yes. Yeah, totally. You need to just start doing something. Just go for it, do it. And then you're going to start to figure out so much more. You can't, you just can't know any more about how you guys are going to be when you're actually hooking up until you actually do it. You've thought it through long enough. Do you know what I mean? Like there's nothing left to know. You're like trying to predict the future. You just, you don't know. You've got to fucking do it. So just do it. Right. Go on to my page on and hit up Mr. Mrs. Midnight. I wonder where they're from. I know where you're from because I know your phone number, but I'm not going to out you or anything, but, you know, maybe you're in the same place. Thanks. Thanks. Small towns out here. Yeah.

Yeah. So listen, do me a favor. This is like your, this is just like a real part one. This is like not even a part. This is even chapter one. This is like, what's the thing that comes before the first chapter? The introduction. This is the introduction because you guys haven't done shit yet.

You got to start. Okay. But I want the update when you guys have hooked up with a couple, did a three some, whatever you're going to do together. Yeah, you know, because I think, because what I think with you guys is, you know, two years after you're doing stuff like things could be so different and great in a way that is like everything falls together. But at this point, you need to, the only way you're going to figure out how it works moving forward is to start doing stuff.

And I think both of you will wind up realizing probably things that you never thought would be when you actually do it, you know, you could think it all in your head as you want. Yeah. Okay. But when it actually happens, things might be different. different like seriously might be how to tell totally like that's what i always say like to people like you know i learned this very late in life it's like sometimes you can think you're not attracted to

someone but if you have to kiss them because once you kiss someone there could be chemistry there i had a best friend who has best friend for like 15 years i never looked at him for fucking twice actually i looked at him and i was like no fucking way okay like you know what i mean not interested and then one time somehow he like pulled me in and started making out with me because he was like drunk and let me tell you if you would have stopped my face one second before and said what do you think is going to happen? I would have been like I'm going to throw up

you know what I mean like this is going to be so gross oh my God forget about it first of all we started making out he was the best kisser I had the serious chemistry with it with him I like hopped on his body he had the biggest cock I'm like oh my God like what the fuck he went down on me he was like the best at going down that of any guy I had ever been with my whole life I was like

holy fucking shit it like changed my mind like how changed your whole perception. Yeah, that you got it. You think you have no, I had zero chemistry, zero pull, zero thought of him in any way. And then I had instant chemistry when we lock lips. So sometimes you just don't know. So do some shit and then call me back and keep me posted.

And thank you so much for calling in. I love this kind of conversation. It was fun talking to you. I hope I gave you some insight. Absolutely you did. I'm just going to freaking dive in head first. Dive in. someone's got to stop fucking thinking.

You know what my favorite Tom Cruise line is? And I was thinking of this when I didn't want to go to the gym today. I was like, don't think do. Don't think do. That's Tom Cruise. Yeah. Just do. A top gun.

Yeah, don't think do. Just go meet a couple tomorrow. Okay. All right. Let me know. It's going to go fucking do. Let me know how it goes. And listen, I'm going to, listen, Samantha, please send me in picks if you can for my

Patreon, like anonymous picks. People send me R-rated sexy picks for Patreon. And then I'll give you free access for a month for my Patreon. for my Patreon so you could see the comments and talk to people there. And I think, listen, I give you my advice, but other people are going to come in with their advice and maybe you're going to get 10,000 times better advice from other people, which is great. I'm in on this one. So you definitely want to see the comments. And then I'll give you, though, also free access for my discord. And I'm going to give a little shout, you know, let Mr. Midnight, Mr. Mrs. Midnight

keep a lookout for you guys. I'm going to try and hook you all up, all right? So go look for them when you get on there too. I'll send you the link for that. But send me your pictures sooner than later. Okay. Sure. Sounds good. Thanks for calling it. All right. Thanks so much, Kathy.

Yeah, keep me posted, please. I will. I will. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it.

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All right, thanks. Okay, I just want to tell you that I do. I have a book coming out, and it's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, the Secret Lives of Total Strangers. I picked like 17 of the best episodes. That was actually hard to do because I have over a thousand episodes. And I retold them all in third person. So it's a little bit more erotica, but it's still like real life stories. If you like secret lives of Mormon wives, this is like the secret lives of real fucking people's wives, okay?

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