Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1109 - Neil has a Hotwife who is Into Bimbofication and More

Episode Date: May 8, 2025

Neil has a hotwife who is into bimbofication and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did his wife start hotwifing? Why did she start? And, how involved is Neil in her hotwife experiences? Tune in to hear all the details including how ad why his wife’s sex drive was super high and how and why his started to decline, the first bull his wife hooked up woth and what exactly went down, how and why he didn’t feel anything (either good or bad) about their hook up but what he did get out of her being with a bull, their first bulls cuck kinks and how and why he catered to them, their second bull the American business man and what he had him do that did turned him into a cuck, how and why his wife started to get into the bimbofiction lifestyle, the famous bimbofication author who contacted them and helped her along her journey, what she did to be more bimbo like including tons of breast surgeries, lip injections and a bbl, her hyper-sexuality diagnosis and how that tied into their sex life, how they started to not have sex with each other and who initiated it, how they met Tony the third bull and how his wife moved in with him, how he have another breast surgery tp make her bra size 36LLL, her first “s** walk” and exactly what went down and how and why it turned her on, Tony’s kink that he was really into and how and why it turned him on, how he took her dogging and set up g* b***s and how she slept with over 2k guys while living with him, how and why they’re currently looking for a poly third and why it’s been hard to find one, why there now have zero sex now and how and why thats totally fine with him plus a whole lot more. REPEAT THURSDAYS originally aired 11/23 **To see HOT, anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2512-anonymous⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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and I've been doing my show a long time. This is one of the most fascinating stories I've ever heard because there's so many layers to it. There's a lot going on with all the players in this story. There's Neil who called in, who's fascinating and there's a lot of layers there.

We get more into his layers towards the end. We get a lot into his wife's layers. She's very fascinating. But then he's got some bulls that come and go, but one that sticks around named Tocke, and he really fascinated me. He's a very interesting player in the story. But Neil called in to talk about how him and his wife were married for a while and then all of a sudden he started to lose his sex drive. And they got into the whole bull thing. It turned out that his wife then started to get

very hypersexual. She actually got that diagnosis. She had a lot of surgeries he talks about because she got really into something called bimbofication, I think is the way. it's phrased. He talks all about that. And like I said, she literally had like surgeries to become like this over-exaggerated looking bimbo. We talk about the psychology behind that. And then they meet some bulls. He gets very specific about them. And then in comes Tony. And Tony is very seasoned, very professional. And there's just that kind of thing where it works with them from the get-go. And it also, I think it worked because he had a really big thick dick. like the thickest one they've ever seen. But you just can't even believe what happens when Tony

comes into the picture. He gets her into doing all kinds of things. I'm not going to give you too many of the details with Tony. He gets into all of them. He talks about how they eventually stopped having sex altogether. I kind of psychoanalyze him in their situation at the end because I like to. And he talks about where they're at now. He does give a big shout out at the end, okay, because he is really looking for a bull that's going to come in and live with them, and that bull is going to get to be with his wife. He called it like a Polly 3 or Polly 3. They're looking for that.

He gives a shout out with an email. So if you want to sign up and apply to be a part of this scenario, and he's going to explain it all in detail. But it's like a fascinating story. Neil is so interesting. His girl is so interesting. Tony is so interesting. The whole story together and the way they all interact and what.

what they do together is so interesting. He sent me a picture so you could see how big they are. It's over on my Patreon, anonymous picks of his wife. So if you want to join that, Patreon.com is that strictly anonymous. But that's going to be in the description as well as his email. I'm going to be right back on with Neil. Hi, Neil. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm fine. How are you? I'm doing good. You're Neil. You're calling from someplace that you have a great accent. And you are called slutty couple on FetLife or something. like that. I'm assuming you were at one time a vanilla couple. I don't know. But at some point, you opened up your marriage and then you started doing things and wound up as like a cuckolding,

but kind of by accident. I don't know. You're going to have to tell the whole story. Yeah. So we're slutty couple 1983 on our life. Okay. I just was funny that it's a slutty couple. I mean, it tells you right there what kind of couple you are. Yeah. Okay. I want to hear your story. Okay. How long have you been married, Neil? So we met 20 years ago, married 18 years. I guess a key point here is that Sam comes from a, Sam's my wife, obviously. Sam comes from a very, very religious family where her father was a, so I won't call it extreme Catholic, but pretty hardcore, no sex before marriage kind of thing.

And that kind of had a trickle down effect on her and her mentality to think. things. During the first five, six, seven, eight years, she had a very high sex drive, but just a very high sex drive. It started to get a bit difficult from my point of view about six years in because my sex drive started reducing. I had significant problems, getting erections and things like that. And because of Sam's high sex drive, that started to cause issues, irritability, etc. on her part. Then in 2011, her father died. And so obviously it was a sad time, but also it was kind of like a trigger. I didn't, you don't identify that at the time, but looking back on what's happened, you can, it's too coincidental to not be a factor. So once he died, the sex drive

went out of the window. I mean, went more, hardcore, even worse? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, yeah. I mean, It went really, yeah, it just kept going. And then about a year later, we were, one of her friends was round for just a glass of wine and a chat and who had been having her own marriage difficulties, which I won't obviously go into, but they were more serious. And she was struggling to give all the facts and things. So we opened up about our situation. And that became just a nice chat. And she said, well, why have you considered getting a third person in another guy? Because obviously I couldn't give what someone did, some wanted a lot more.

I'm not desperately hung up on possessiveness and things like that anyway, although it never crossed my mind. So anyway, we put a advert on a website, a guy called a thing called Dirty David's. It's not around anymore. It's kind of like a swingers website. we joined through that, got talking to a guy, he came round, visited, just, he wasn't like spectacular, he wasn't like hung like a lamp post or anything, and he was just, just a

normal guy who had been seeing couples. We hadn't gone into any details about that. We just found that he was a decent guy and he'd got experience. So we, as I said, we invited him round. He had sex with Sam. I watched. I sat in the bedroom. Sam enjoyed it. But at meantime, I'd read up on inviting extras in and whatnot. And it didn't do anything for me at all. I didn't feel possessive. I didn't feel jealous. It didn't excite me. Oh, wow. So nothing on either side, nothing good nor bad, which is interesting. No, nothing good nor bad. Yeah. But obviously, Sam really liked it. The one thing that I realized when I was thinking about it the day after

was the feeling that it did elicit was relief. There was a degree of relief that Sam had been satisfied and had got something out of it. And so that was an interesting point. We were chatting to the guy after when we were having a coffee. So he explained what he was. He then went into relative detail talking about cookholes and he was a bull, etc. And he had owned couples in the past.

And we found that was interesting. We knew we kind of knew already that we were going to meet him again. And so we decided to go ahead with what he was saying in terms of being a couple. So it was clear that he was expecting certain things from me. But I think it wasn't necessarily. he was expecting it because it should be done, but he got a thrill out of certain things. So I decided,

and this is a long-standing theme throughout the next 12 years, because we were doing it for Sam's satisfaction, I would play along in a role where I would do what he wanted me to do because it was clear that he was getting satisfaction out of it. So for Sam, she gets one element, she gets satisfaction for herself from having sex, and she gets probably 90% of the satisfaction from seeing her partner enjoying her.

Okay. My role, it became obvious, was that I wanted to see Sam happy and satisfied, but I also wanted to see him very satisfied because it was then likely that him and Sam would get on further and more would happen, and it would put a less strain on our marriage. So he had two things, two kind of kinks. One was me sitting nearby on a chair. while he he said how crap I was and how, how, the stereotypical, how inefficient I was, how useless I was kind of thing.

Yeah. And then the other thing was that he really got into me, as he was about to enter Sam, I would take hold of his cork and guide him in. Yeah. Obviously, I've talked to many cook, I don't know how often that happens. But anyway, that's what he was. king course. We didn't go out. We saw him for about 18 months, sometimes once a week, sometimes twice a week, all in-house, nothing, nothing beyond that.

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first time. Did anything ever change in you during that first year? Did you start to like it a little bit? Did you ever wind up feeling jealous? Did anything change either good or bad as far as your feelings were concerned about what you were doing? No, the only thing that did change, the only thing that did change was my initial instinct of making, of wanting to do it for Sam and wanting to do it for him so that he would enjoy Sam more, that became a lot stronger. And I would even go so far as say that became my kink if such a thing exists. Yeah, you became a pleaser and you got off on that. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. If that's what you call it. Yeah. No, I don't think, I don't know that that's what you call it, but that's a good way to explain it, I guess. I don't know. Yeah. It wasn't, so I wasn't,

I wasn't getting turned on. It was, I'm, it's, it's getting extreme satisfaction that, Sam's getting the satisfaction and he's getting the satisfaction so that they were clearly really enjoying it. And that was the whole focus for me and my role was to ensure that they had that extreme satisfaction. Then it started to change after about 17 months where he turned up a few times when we weren't expecting it. his language, to be blunt, it was clear that emotion and fancying Sam had crossed the line. So whereas he'd been an expert, I mean, we've obviously know a lot more about it now, but he was an experienced guy who is used to controlling his emotions and things and maintaining a degree of emotional distance, that clearly had started to erode.

we hadn't maybe we maybe it had happened over a period of time but we only started noticing it we or connecting the dots when he came around a couple of times just because he said he was in the area because he didn't live local and once we noticed it it was more obvious and we thought we've got we've got to we've got to we're clearly not we're not newbies anymore I mean obviously we didn't done much compared to what we were what was going to happen Oh, okay. Some people would think fucking is another guy, you know, twice a week for a whole year and a half is a lot. But I can't wait to hear what else you guys have done. You don't have false advertising when you're calling yourself a slutty couple, that's for sure. No, no. So anyway, we parted ways with him. So then saw a couple of guys, again, through the net. But, but.

But that wasn't like an ownership thing. It wasn't like a regular thing. Then around about, oh, 2014, Sam, who had been unhappy with the size of her breasts, she got surgery to increase them. And then she had about a year later, she had further surgery to increase them, to have a second op.

I think that took her to 36D or something like that. Then we got in touch with a second guy, a second serious guy. This was an American guy who visited. It was like a businessman who visited once a month. And it was pretty regular as clockwork. Again, he wasn't especially home. There was nothing jazzy about it. But he was after a connection while he was in the country.

Can I ask you a quick question? During this time, Did you feel that this, did anything either positive or negative to your guy's relationship? Did you feel that it brought you closer? Did it feel like you brought you farther apart? Because you're not being intimate, right? So that lack of intimacy with you, did it create something negative with you guys? Or because you were there and you were helping it and you were allowing her to do this,

did it bring you closer? What did it, how, what was happening with you and her during this time? Okay, so at that stage, we hadn't stopped having sex. Okay, okay. Yeah, that came later. It's just my problems, it was around the frequency with which Sam needed sex. Yeah, yeah, just became an impossible task. And, but also, I mean, obviously I've not looked at a bar chart over how many guys,

how many times do you have sex a night? but it was clear that I was lower in my eyes than other people. But did it affect your relationship at that point? You were still having sex? So it didn't. Did it make you closer? Was it positive or negative or nothing? Oh,

it was definitely positive. Okay. Yeah, that was the question. Positive. Hugely positive because it took the negatives away. Yeah. So there was no,

there was the irritability disappeared. Right, right. We were getting on better. So before this first guy came along, or just up to the point where he walked in the door. But it was really, it wasn't going as downhill as it went downhill. Downhill moments just disappeared. We got on really well and we always get on well emotionally.

And yeah, everything was going fine. Okay, that's interesting. Okay, so go on. So you're meeting, you have a couple bulls. You got that American guy coming in, like clockwork. He's doing his thing. Yeah. And again, I didn't get much satisfaction of it.

There's two things in all this that I've got him. It just hit a trigger and I got a lot of satisfaction. The first one was with him was where something he demanded, which was it wasn't to sit in a chair and watch. So we've got a metal bed. It's like metal frame, yeah? And the mattress is quite high from the floor. So it's not like a lot of beds where it's like a divan or where you can't get underneath

or you can't put much underneath. He demanded me lay under the bed while he was fucking Sam. Oh, there are so many funny cuck stories. These kinds of stories are so funny to me. Because I've talked to some bulls and they tell me about that the guys are sometimes telling, setting these scenarios up. They say, I want to hide in the closet or go underneath the bed. But this guy was telling you, I want you underneath the bed. And that turned you on?

Immensely. Yeah. Oh my God, it's so funny. Out of all the things, out of all the things, it's going under the fucking bad. Because this was like a good two and a quarter, two and a half years since that first guy walked through the door and I hadn't felt a thing. Yeah, I know, it's so funny.

I mean, I've since done the, being made to sit outside the room or stand outside the room and not see. But that didn't do anything. it was just this under the bed thing and it was just fucking weird how it just creates a turn on. I don't know. Did you jerk off underneath your bed when you were little

a lot of the times or something? Like maybe it's connected to something else. Maybe underneath, did you go underneath your bed when you were a little kid and jerk off under there? No. There is no logical reason that I can think of. You could probably chase it back to something, but who cares? It's so

funny and specific, right? It's so interesting, I think, that that was a thing that turned you on. But let me ask you this, because it did turn you on and it was the first time that it did. Did you always go under the bed with that guy? That was one of his things. So yeah, not every time, but most times, yeah. And I think it was the fact that it was a shaky bed. I mean, if it's a metal bed, it's shaking. So while he's pounding away, there's a lot of shaking going. The Elvis, I don't know, is that a lot of shaking going on? There's a lot of shaking going on.

That's so funny. You can just hear a lot. There's a lot of senses that come into play. And that's probably, rather than a historical trigger, I think it's all the different senses that come into play when that happens. Totally makes sense. Yeah. I think a lot of, I think you're painting the picture.

And I think a lot of people might use that scenario as like jerk off material. They could see how that would maybe be a hot scenario. area, right? Feeling the bed going back and forth, hearing the noises, not being able to see it being right underneath it. It makes sense. So around that, so that lasted for what another, just short of two years. During that time, something else started to happen, which was, so Sam had had those two breast surgeries and she hadn't stopped her particular reason for doing, obviously that's the reason in terms of sex drive, but there's also the intense desire to please the guy and make sure he's having the best time possible, okay?

So as part of that mindset thing, she got very into, or still is she got into the sort of the bimbo vacation lifestyle theory, kind of thing. Could you explain that bimbo vacation? So it's a question, it's about being blonde. thin, skinny, big tits, quite stupid, although she would like to try hypnosis at some point because there's always that sticking point that she's not stupid. And she wants to be. Oh my God.

Yeah. Yeah. So we start obviously talking about this. It just sounded. She didn't want to just be in. She wanted to do something about it. So there's a guy called Doug Adams. I don't know whether you've heard of him over there.

He wrote a bimbification guide on the internet. He's from Britain. And he'd actually contacted us on the profile that we had. And we got talking to him, and it was around the time that she started getting into the bimbo thing. And it kind of cemented in her head what she wanted. So we didn't meet him or anything. We just had a good hour or so chatting on the phone.

As a consequence of that, she then had a number of different. different surgeries. So she's had, I'll rhyme them off. She's had two further surgeries at that point. What kind? Oh, the breasts. Yeah, two breast enhancements, which took her to double G. They were huge at that point, huge. Lip injections, regular, regular lip injections to get more of a pout. She started working out a lot more, but obviously you can't with such big tits. She started swimming a lot because she wanted the sort of the lifestyle look of skinny waist, huge, huge tits. One problem that happened with that is that she became unhappy with

her rear her ass. She felt it was too bony, so she had fat transfer injections. It wasn't like a proper Kardashian it was like it was just I'd call it sculpting yeah that's probably the one thing that I regret saying yeah go ahead because obviously I know now that it's not

potentially not as safe as some think it is yeah yeah that's what they say but does it look good I mean she survived and everything's fine does it look good? Oh yeah everything was absolutely fine and really really sculpted

tight tight ass and she also had a vaginalplasty. Uh-huh. She read about the different sensations that you can have once you've had it. So once it's done, she can do keg-kegle exercises for the muscles themselves, but when a cock is inside, she can do the kegill exercise and it tightens onto the cock. Guys said it's just incredible. And it was, as I continued to say, it's 10% her pleasure, but 90% the guy's pleasure.

Everything is kind of focused on the submissiveness of, because she's not, like, when you read about other cookholes and there's a degree of dominance to the wife and whatnot, there's zero dominance to Sam, extremely submissive. And it's all about focusing on the guy's pleasure. But there was kind of like a hidden reason for those surgeries, and that was because of the continuing sex issues. With you? In terms of the... No, in terms of her sex. It wasn't just a sex drive, okay? Obviously, the sex drive was going up the charts, but also it was manifesting in other ways in terms of long periods of masturbation, long periods of watching porn.

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up the charts, but also it was manifesting in other ways in terms of long periods of masturbation, long periods of watching porn, yeah, very, lots of irritability, lots of, lots of, irritability. Why? I don't understand. Yeah. This is the point where we were really having problems with our marriage and there was a question of whether, does it, can it continue? Because it was that bad in terms of the irritability. That was the principal problem. So we knew there was a problem. We went to, so we got a doctor's appointment with a jeepens. He put us on to another doctor within that practice who had experience of similar. similar sort of sexual related things and she was diagnosed as being

hypersexual yeah yeah yeah sounds it for sure yeah yeah yeah we had an option and with with hypersexuality you can have you can take medication into in that things that are treated for other things like you can take there's a bipolar medicine which can decrease the mood or you can take antidepressants which again affects the reduces sex drive yeah for sure Because she, we were, we were really reticent to do those things because she didn't have those other, I don't know, not diseases, but she wasn't bipolar. She wasn't depressed. So we were reluctant to take medication for those things because she wasn't. So it was, that was in the midst of these surgeries. And so we just thought, well, let's go with these surgeries and see if it has some kind of, if it takes a mind off it, that's part of it in my head as well. So this, then the American guy stopped seeing us because

he switched jobs but wait did you find that these that her surgeries did help with her hypersexuality no of course not yeah I wouldn't think so no offense but I'm like that's not really

you know that's not going to be the fix you're not really no I mean listen I'm sorry but the surgeries are a part of it I'm sorry when a woman goes and has her surgery on her vage just so she could have better sex, that's a part of her hypersexuality diagnosis or that woman wouldn't be going doing that. You know what I mean? Like that's, that's, that's, I was, I didn't even get her diagnosis yet and I was already saying she was that way because these like,

this is, she's like literally going under the knife and it's all about sex. Like it was, it's like that's a hardcore. Yeah, you said it about two or three minutes before. Yeah. I mean, it's obviously she's having a problem. There's a. an imbalance and it's very strong in one way that when someone's doing all this kind of surgery and stuff that's really like what the fuck's going on here so now you're having problems in your marriage how come because of the irritability yeah it was like so the if you remember when we first met that first guy and the reasons why we got him and then multiply that by 10 because we kind of I guess had we opened pantoras box I don't know I mean the thing is it's

easy, it's easy to look back on now and for you to say, or me to say, oh, yeah, she's got a sex addiction problem. But when you, when, when, when, when, when, when, when, when I'm living that, or when we're living that, we don't, it's, it's, it's, you just don't, you don't, you don't necessarily logically put two and two together. No, 100%. That's very important to say, because I always get comments on YouTube's a lot of times from certain stories that end badly or whatever. And people are like, oh, it's so obvious this or that's like, yeah, but it's not when you're in. it, okay? And like, things happen. And that's real life, but it's hard for somebody when you are looking at it from, it's easy for me to say and see it because I'm getting the whole picture at once.

You're not. You're like, you said you're living it. This thing is happening day to day and you have other things going on. So, of course you don't realize it. This is, that's how real life goes. Yeah. And so, like, if you, when you write it all down today, everything that's happened. Yeah. And you think, and you, and you go like from A to Z. Yeah. you're only looking at, only looking at Z. People think, oh, that's fucking ridiculous. That's so stupid. But this has been like, this has gone like from A to B to C to Z.

And it's, it's a slow evolving process. Totally. Of course. So you're hitting this real bad time in your marriage because now you're not having sex at all. Is this one that starts out? Yeah. So as part of the deal with this second, this American guy, we agreed to start.

having sex. What did he, him leaving, have to do with you guys not having sex? I don't understand the correlation. It was, it was, so it was him as a bull. And his, I wouldn't call it a kink, but it's more a stereotypical thing that the, that the, that he is with the wife sexually while the, the husband is deprived. Oh, okay. So he deprive, he got you guys into that mode.

Not only did he put you underneath the bed, he said stop fucking your wife. He really made you into, he really turned you into a cuck. He wanted that kind of thing. Okay. So when I said we got into cook, we got into the cook accidentally initially with that first guy because he happened to be a bull. And he, was he that experienced in it? I don't know. But this second guy was a lot more experience, a lot more demanding, a lot more dominant.

He took advantage of Sam's submissiveness. Yeah. And a lot more, we haven't really spoke about that second guy much, but yeah, he was a much more stereotypical bull in terms of what he wanted and what he demanded. And listen, let me just say, unfortunately, but he was the one that turned you on. He was the one that finally got you into it. Yeah. So he was good at what he does. He got me wearing a cock cage. Yeah, he put you under the bed. You were fucking turned on for the first time in a long time. So he really was a professional. Yeah, so we'd stopped having sex, not that it was great anyway, and we were really at a very, very low ebb, and so we had our profile. This was on colour space by that stage.

Lots of time wasters on there, etc. But this guy contacted us, a guy called Tony, and that's when everything changed. This guy contacted us. He, like the others, he arranged to meet. He came round. and the first meet was just, because he lived in the wiles of nowhere up in Scotland,

way above Glasgow and Edinburgh, sort of a few hundred miles away. So we were never thinking, we thought it was, we thought, oh, it might be a one-off, but it might be whenever he's in the area again. So we met him,

and it went very well. But we never heard from him. And then about two months later, we got a call. It was back in the area, could we meet up? So we did. It's funny, there was just a greater degree of trust almost immediately with the guy.

There was just something, there was like some kind of connection. It's difficult to explain. It was just he understood. We did not go into our details at that stage, so he didn't know our backstory. He didn't know about our marriage problems. He just knew that we were looking for a third and whatnot. But his experience seemed to gel with us. And after the second session, we were sat again talking.

and he said okay how would you feel about Sam living with me for a year when it was nine months at that stage go on it was nine months at that stage because he was a contractor he was moving about 130 150 miles away he had got involved with couples before after this conversation we actually talked to someone who verified what he said and whatnot but he said that he was massively into the whole bimbo thing massively into hot wives and he said he felt that sam needed this is what and what he called it bimbo fuck doll training okay that was his turn oh my god oh my god i'm obsessed with your story i'm sorry yeah and he he could see that sam's got these fucking big tits with 34 36 dg and he said and he fly out said have you

thought about going even bigger. Oh my God. And the key three words, he said was because you need to get to proper bimbo size. Oh no.

Yeah. And with Sam's mindset Yeah, yeah. She now she has to do it. That, and he didn't really, you could say was he clever, was he not? No, because he, he didn't know that Sam's motivation. for this. He knows what we've been doing.

We told him the facts, but he didn't, we haven't gone to the, okay, I'm going to tell you, listen to me. No, no, no,

no, listen to me. A guy like him, okay, who walks into another man's house and says, love your girl come fucking,

fucking live in my house is a boundary pusher, okay? And something about boundary pushers, they know a week, they smell weakness from a mile away. So he knew what her

weakness was and he used it against her. Okay, so him asking her, her to make it better and become more of a bimbo if you get your tits even bigger. He knew exactly what he was fucking doing. Okay. Come on. Okay. Well, yeah, okay. Psychology 101. Yeah, I don't know. You've talked to a lot of people. Come on. This guy walks into your house. He's a bull. You don't even barely know him. And he says to you, I'm going to take your wife. She needs to come into my house.

I mean, come on. Think about the fucking balls. What kind of man, would put that on the table and propose that. A boundary pusher. Come on. A guy with zero boundaries. There's a brocode, okay? Don't you know what a fucking brocode is? But anyway, the key words were proper bin boss.

I'm okay. And so he asked Sam, he said, so what's your, what's your ideal look? And she said, I want to be basketball. on a cocktail stick. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So he said, well, why haven't you done it? And we said, we just haven't. We're just going along at our pace and whatnot.

He said, okay, well, if you're going to come and live with me, or I should have said, sorry, I've missed something out. The guy is, it was above average in length, cockwise, yeah, but just really, really, really, really thick girth. Yeah. When Sam, that first meet, when he took his trousers down, it was like, I mean, the look on Sam's face.

Yeah, she's got to get the bigger. She's going to do whatever he says. Okay. A kid at Christmas. Yeah. So that, so that's had an effect, you know, in this second conversation. Yeah. Because she's already, she's already pretty much decide.

Yeah. She's wanting to move into him just because of what he'd done. It was pretty, pretty fantastic in bed in terms of the orgasms and what she had and just, yeah, everything. And so anyway, we agreed to go to the clinic in London. We also agreed for him to join us with the consultant. We were part of a Polly 3. That was what he told us to say. But we kind of like allowed him to take a degree of control.

obviously I was paying, we had the money, etc. Oh my gosh, yes. This guy's a control freak. Oh, my gosh. Oh, yes. I mean, yeah. I know the type, it's a type. It's a fucking character out of a movie.

I could, you know, yeah. Very insightful. Yeah. During that year, it's ultra controlling, yeah. Yeah, of course. Which Sam loved, but anyway, so, yeah, to cut along story, so she went spectacularly big. Oh, thank you.

God. She is, in terms of volume, she is 2,900 C.C. Does she know you're calling into my show by any chance? Yes, yes, she does. Oh, okay, great. So can you give me, like, pictures from my Patreon, anonymous pictures of her so we could see these fucking tits? Not, in a top, not, I don't put X-rated stuff on there.

I do, R-rated. Okay. I'll ask her. It could be in a top. Of course, I don't want to see. She's not, not with her top off. I'm not going to do that. but, you know, just to show off her body because it's such a part of this thing.

It's actually interesting. If you actually click on our, if you see our WhatsApp, that's come up on your phone. Oh, I didn't look. Just give me private pick, but I don't put pictures up of anyone unless they know. So you ask her and if she's okay, you send it to me. She's totally cool about me being. I also got in touch with Tony as well to say that I was going on it. He was, I wouldn't say frightened, but he was, because he's got a, he's got, he's got,

he genuinely leads a double life where he's got a family up in Scotland and then he goes away for very long extended periods. And so he was worried that I was on going on here. Oh, don't worry. You're not saying anything about him. Nobody knows where you live. You're making up fake names. This situation, what you've said about Tony at this point, listen, Tony, I know your type, okay? You might freak out because you're a control freak, but he didn't say one damaging thing about you. So fuck off. I'm not afraid of those kind of guys, Okay. To be honest, I got the impression that this is, whilst we've been in touch periodically

since they split up, I think we might not hear him from him again as a result. You might what? Anyway, we might not hear from him again. Oh, okay, whatever. Me telling him that I'm talking to you, but who cares? Anyway, so yeah, so she now has 2,900 Cc's ultra-massive. In terms of bra size, it's a kind of tricky one. Of course.

So from a measurement perspective, she measures at 36K. She finds the bra sizes for 36K uncomfortable. So instead she has a seamstress who makes custom bras. Yeah, yeah, I can imagine. And so the measurement that the seamstress goes off is 36.L. So I don't know whether that makes her a 36K or 36th, 6K or 3600L. Oh, my goodness. But anyway, they are just fucking colossal.

and she loves them. Anyway, so. Look at me now, Dad. I'm sorry. This is all her father's fault. I'm sorry. Probably, yeah. Yeah.

So anyway, we, she moves in. Yeah. I rent an apartment for them and he rents a separate apartment just in in case his wife was to come down. So he lives at the apartment with Sam that I'm paying for. Mm-hmm. We agreed that for the first month, they would live as a vanilla couple, purely vanilla.

You're sex and everything. Yeah. But just from a vanilla perspective. I mean, during that time, he taught her how to deep throat and did lots of anal with her. So there was lots of normal sort of sex, but nothing of what I'm going to explain. Oh, my God. I'm sorry. I'm just obsessed with this story.

Keep coming. So after a month, I got invited to stay the weekend because this was the weekend where it was going to turn non-vanilla. We talked about limits. The one thing that Sam doesn't like, she doesn't like the idea of water sports. So that's the only thing that she wouldn't do, obviously apart from illegal stuff. Yeah. But what we agreed with Tony, partly because Sam doesn't like specifying limits, because it feels like she has an element of control, which she doesn't want, we agreed that Tony would control limits based upon what he he felt was appropriate that Sam needed.

Somewhat dangerous, you could say, but that was the purpose of the month living vanilla, so trust could be established, and we could see that it wasn't some axe-wielding psycho. Yeah, so I turns up for this weekend, where things change from non-vanilla. He asked me to bring the pair of highest heels that Sam's got, which I took along.

on the, so this was on a Friday afternoon he said to Sam you're having your first slut walk and he got out these, he got out it was things that he bought it was a

a boob tube but very stretching material but in extra small size okay and it was just fucking crazy I mean it was legal because it wasn't showing any pulls, but because of the stretch, it was hanging like, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was a proper

hook thing. Yeah. So a skirt, which was more like a belt, I'd say it was about four or five inches. Oh, crazy. And then these heels. Yeah. No one, no one, no, no pants, no underwear. Yeah, yeah.

And he drove us to this shopping center, not a massive, no one. mall, but I mean, it was just a one-floor thing with about 50 shops, and he had, he walked hand-in-hand with Sam through the shopping centre, okay, and I was instructed to walk about 20 yards behind, okay? I mean, Sam was fucking terrified, but the problem was, because the heels were so damn massive. You're kind of like these wooden block things. So she had to take really short, jilted steps in them just to concentrate on walking. But because of that, a tits bounced and swung even more because of the short, jilted steps. Hilarious. So perfect. And it was, yeah, perfect for him. Yeah. But I mean, every single person was staring, every single person. And I got,

With being like 20 yards behind, I could hear them saying comments when they passed. Yeah. And it was comments like, Jesus, that was a fucking enormous or what a slow or just you can imagine. We then sat and had out a coffee in a coffee area where people would walk past and stare. I had to sit at a different table. And then we walked all the way back out there and into the car. And as we got into the car park, Tony said, have a feel of a. her pussy and it was just

totally soaking wear in terms of the she was just ultra ultra ultra turned on to the point because we haven't talked about the sex addiction for a while but you know this is still raging and while we were driving away she's literally begging for Tony to

stop the car and fuck her because she she wanted it and we got to a country lane and we pulled up and yeah they got in the car and fucked but Sam said it was just extraordinarily exciting and yeah but at this point is anything turning you on in these kinds of situations or no no it was just again it was all about her and you but you're still having problems at this point in your marriage I mean because you go into this whole

situation where your guy's marriage is not is on shaky grounds once Tony had once Tony was on the scene yeah there was no shaky there was no shaky ground okay so that has helped again. Okay. Oh, yeah, big, big time. And remember this time, she'd be living with him for a month. Yeah.

Fucking every hour they could. So, yeah, he wasn't me. So they were getting on like house on fire. And I was much more into the, the support angle and making sure that they were into each other. Yeah. And now, so the set, I said,

there's two things that got me off. And so the second thing was something that Tony instituted once I got there for that weekend. And this happened every time I visited from then on where his particular thing was as he was fucking Sam, I had to hold Sam's hand and about 30 seconds before he was due to eventually come

I would be looking at him and he would provide a signal and Sam would be looking at him. And at the moment that he ejaculated into Sam me and Sam had to look into, I had to have deep eye contact. Okay. Tony is a fucking piece of work. Honestly, that was,

that was the most intense. Wow. I mean, that was, there's only one, there's only one thing in all of this that's made me blank to your excitement.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, and just a memory of that. And it was just the whole, it was, it was a number of things. It was the fact that he's staring down fucking Sam, and it was just absolutely abundantly clear, he was just so into the whole huge tip bimbo thing and just the pleasure on his face as he's fucking Sam. And then just the collective pleasure between the two of them as he ejaculated. oh, it's just, and the fact that I'm looking into Sam's eyes at that moment, honestly, unbelievable. Yeah, but I think from his standpoint, what's turning him on is that he's jizzing inside your wife while you're looking at your wife.

He's coming inside of her planting his seed. It's so fucking, the psychology from his standpoint is so hardcore. I'd love Tony to come on the show. Yeah, so then, so then the day I, after, the day after, he says we're going out again. And he brought out another top, identical, but of different colour. The second one was orange. And we did the same thing, except for the fact that he'd also taken a flask.

And as we were about to get out of the car, he got the flask out, and there's ice cubes in the flask, which he insisted some rub over a nipples and then dry. But their nipples were just like absolute sources by this because of that, even worse than the day before. So we went through that whole process again. Again, Sam loving it came out desperate for sex. But this time he refused to fuck her. And instead, he got her to masturbate in the front seat, but stop at the point of orgasm and just constantly edge. Okay.

he would tell her when she could start again and then stop where she was getting closer and whatnot. And then we pulled up at, we went to this, it was a car park and there's a toilet nearby. It was a really long nearby. We pulled up next, nearby the toilet. And we just sat there. Nothing happening. And then a kind of builder had got out of his van and he'd gone into the toilet for a piss, presumably. and so

Tony said Tony got out a condom, okay and he said to Sam I want you to go in there and ask him if you want sucking or fucking and he said he'd be standing outside listening just for the security okay so she

did because I mean the state that she was in because she hadn't fucked after the walk etc. I mean she didn't like jump out of the car we glee but she just actually did it and she went into the toilet He followed, and then about a minute later, he motioned to me with his finger, and he said, he whispered for me to go in. And I went in, and sure enough, I could hear Sam fucking, or the guy fucking Sam in the cubicle.

And, yeah, Sam was having, she was loud. It was the whole buildup of the walk and everything. I had a massive orgasmic effect, and yeah, she was absolutely loving it. both me and Tony went back to the car, Sam and the guy come out, waited in the car. About 10, 15 minutes later, another guy went in, and the same happened.

He said, go and fuck him. Anyway, that happened four times, and she fucked four guys. Yeah, I remember this part of your email, that, like, eventually he gets her to fuck a million guys. I mean, that turns out to be another one of his kings. Yeah. I mean, yeah, and that is his kick.

Yeah. He admitted, he said, Look, this whole fuck doll training thing is designed to get your wife to have lots of sex with lots of different guys. And I have lots of experience as an extreme sharer. Right. He's a dom sharer. So I went home after that weekend. From the security point of view, in case you were wondering,

we had agreed to talk on the phone at a particular time every two days with a code sentence in case he was listening and something wasn't going. We weren't going into this completely stupid. We knew that there were potential risks, even though we didn't think there were. We put safety things in place. And then went on was, so Monday through, do you have such a thing as dogging in the USA? I don't know what that means dogging. So dogging is, it's, there are cruising areas at night where either gays can go, couples can go. And the term in over here is called dogging because guys take the dogs.

Or walk, yeah, outside. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So Monday through Thursday, he would take Sam dogging, where he would get her to fuck and suck guys, all protected, okay? Or any of the random stranger sex that she had was all protected. That was, we specified that from day one. Sex with him was always unprotected, and the gangbangs which he eventually organized,

the guys were vetted as well. So they were unprotected. so she did dogging Monday to Thursday Friday and Saturday he would go to clubs put him either swinging clubs or kink clubs a number of the difference not much difference because

she's there and just he's just sharing her with very very large numbers of guys there was one time when I went along and I was at the bar there was two guys next to me at the bar and the third guy came and who knew these two

guys and he said I've just, they'd asked him what he'd been doing. He said, he'd just fucked an woman with absolutely massive fake tits. And I'm listening thinking, oh, that's Sam. You know your wife. Yeah, but then the two guys said, oh, they said, they'd both fucked about, was it two weeks, two weeks before, two or three weeks before? And they were all of them having a collective conversation about how fantastic she was.

Yeah. I didn't say anything. I didn't have the guts. But anyway, she, so she did that on Fridays and Saturdays. Sometimes in the week rather than go jogging, he arranged gangbangs where to, it'd get usually around approximately a dozen guys to come around to fuck her throughout the evening. What else? Oh, she's been to, he took her to sex cinemas near Birmingham where, again, she would both fuck and suck guys. in the cinema itself or there was a room where she went in as well.

Just absolutely enormous, enormous numbers of guys. She lived within 13 months in the end. She hasn't the faintest idea to the nearest 100 how many guys she's fucked. She, when pushing her for an answer, she says it's in excess of 2,000 guys, which I guess doesn't say, seem like when you consider 365 days a year six six a day and consider at the clubs she was fucking in excess of sort of 12 to 15 guys on a quiet night it's not I mean it sounds like a lot but in

it could be it could be more exactly exactly but wait she fucked over 2,000 guys he splits what happens when he splits he goes back home because his work contract finished so I was looking for another guy for when that finished, but COVID hit. And COVID hit about a month later. And so we scheduled meets with people, but we just had to keep canceling because we were either in different lockdowns or the virus was getting worse and it was dangerous to me. And in the end, we were starting to be time wasting people with cancellation.

So we thought, fuck it. We'll leave. We'll just stop. So we were out with the lifestyle for three years. Just come back. She's now in her first living. only a short living she's in a new living with a new

it's not to it's no I mean I guess in terms of Sam's needs she was spoiled with Tony but so this guy this guy is different and we've got to we're kind of like to get used to it to be different but it's not for that long anyway because we just

wanted to see whether she still had the same juices for it the same needs we kind of thought she would because what we're ideally looking for now because this isn't going to where we are at the moment, we are looking for very long-term, stroke, permanent, living as a three with a dom. Okay, so someone that could move in permanently.

I would think that when that guy left, Tony, I mean, was she devastated? I mean, when you meet that guy, even if it's not emotionally, the guy with the biggest dick ever and you're like so a whip to somebody, a sexual connection, it could be very strong. I was just wondering if when he left, that was hard for her. yeah very hard in terms of the because the sex just dropped off completely and locked and she's hypersexual which means she needs it she's got an issue like she's wired like that so i would assume it was a hard time and then covid oh my god you're lucky she didn't kill herself yeah scary that was a bad time so she's had i've seen all the cox she's actually had a lot

bigger than tony in terms of length and things but yeah that width was just yeah and it's the emotional attachment as well as the as the as the as the as a size but anyway so yeah during COVID we got talking to a guy in Washington State and we were more than happy to relocate if need be for the right person because you know the combination of what we're looking for is quite difficult you think it'd be easy but no we want someone who's into the whole bimbo look and we want someone who's experienced so therefore we're not looking for young but when you're not looking for young, there's the potential for the guy to have sex problems for himself. Yeah?

And then he's got to be single and careful of having the Polly 3 in the first place. Of course. Yeah, it's not easy. It's not easy. And so the likely, we know that the likelihood of him, of him local is practically impossible. Right. You're willing to relocate.

Yeah, absolutely. But so after COVID, we got back in touch with this guy in Washington State. But he wasn't available anymore. He'd hooked up with someone. one. Well, listen, where you're at now is she's seeing some bulls. You're waiting to find someone that has that could take part in that ideal situation, right? Your marriage is okay? Absolutely fine. I mean, I would even go so far as to say rock solid. She, I think she, well, I know she recognizes the emotional solidarity that I provide. So I have no fear of her running off

with a bull or anything because, well, there's the finance. I provide, but also we do work well emotionally as well, and I know the history and everything. Is there any sex between you guys at all? No, zero. Since that second American guy and when, as soon as he left, we just, it was just the right thing. Even though it was for him, it was his kicks that we weren't getting it. It was just really obvious at that time that it was better that we didn't because having, or let's say trying to have sex rather than having the sex, because my sex driver declined even more by that stage. You ever looked into why, I mean, listen, she, on one end of the spectrum is someone who's hypersexual. And at the other end of the spectrum is you.

It's like the different side of the same coin. You're both probably dealing with the same sort of a thing going on. But it's just presenting in opposite ways. She's overly sexual. You're underly sexual. What guy just doesn't need sex? And it's like you could care less. So I think having thought about it, probably a psychiatrist could or psychologist could fix it.

I think it's the act of being married to someone that's hypersexual puts a crazy degree of strain on me mentally. Yeah, but listen, before that happens first, what comes first is chicken or the egg? I'll tell you what comes first. There's an issue there, just like there's an issue for her. It's not because of her. Something was going on before. and then she is just the perfect person to give you the exact thing that you need to just shove that down even further. That's what happens in length. We all meet the perfect person. That's not something I

thought of. That is subconscious stuff. We smell those things. People come into our lives for a reason. We learn from people. This is like happening all the time and it's never something consciously thought out. That's how I see things to go. It's just, but you know, it's the fact that you guys both on with the same problem come together and do these things. It's not a coincidence you guys met. It's perfect. For a guy to have zero sex drive, there's stuff deep down inside of you as, as well as deep down inside of her. Does it matter? Do you ever need to deal with that? That's your life path. You don't know what I mean? We don't need to talk about it. You just gave me like the best fucking story ever, okay? It's fascinating. Right now it's working for the both of you. You guys met each other.

besides doing exactly what you need for each other, you're allowing each other to be exactly who you are and still stay together and it works for you. So that's great. I mean, there could be medical reasons as well for me. Of course. Have you gone to a doctor? No, it's not.

I know, but that's the psychological part of it that doesn't make sense, okay? The guy that has that, but it hasn't even looked into it. Okay. So is it medical, even if it is, what's the psychological reasoning for a man to not want to find a solution. Do you know what I mean? The fact that it could be medical

and you've never gone to the doctor for it says something. It doesn't say that it's not medical. It says that you don't want to find out because you're not even trying to solve the problem. No, I think it's not that I want to. Not bothering is perhaps true. But I just presumed the connection between trying to satisfy Sam was the cause.

No, you're not listening. You are happy. The fact that you are okay with all of this and you don't have any sex drive whatsoever and no sex. And it doesn't matter where it comes from or where it stems from. The fact that you haven't done anything in your own life to change that, to get yourself back to where you would be functioning like a normal person who's plugged in and can open up to intimacy and sex with his wife and all those kinds of pleasures in life. the fact that you haven't gone there, looked into that, you could figure out all the reasons why, but you're not trying to figure out any reason to get out of that. That's, therein lies your answer, okay? You're not, that's, that's the problem that I see. I think what you're saying and a possible, just thinking on the spirit, you've just opened my eyes a little bit, is that somewhere along the line,

somewhere between now and 2012, it actually became my kink. Yeah. Yeah. So I'm happy for you're well beyond it, right? I could see that happening too. It starts out as something maybe medical or something. Instead of you going to the doctor trying to figure it out, you wind up solving the problem by bringing in this bull.

And then over time it becomes your kink. And now you're so beyond it and you're into it. It just became what it is. And it's working for the both of you, right? so you're right. Like maybe that's what it is too. And even if we fixed it and let's say I suddenly, suddenly out of nowhere got sex drive back,

what we have now works. I get it. I love that part of this story. This is like a fascinating story. I just wonder, like to me, there's certain things in life. Food, sex,

beautiful scenery. There are just certain things that are just like the pleasures of being a human being. There's a lot of hard things about being a human being, right? but there's certain things about being a human being that are the most pleasurable parts of it. And I get that you're so far away from it that you don't even remember it. But there is this whole world of pleasure and stuff that you're just not experiencing anymore. And you gave up at a certain time.

And you don't have that in your life anymore. I find that to be sad. I'm a woman in menopause and I'm on hormone. So that doesn't happen to me because I don't want to lose the little pleasures we have in life. Because to me life is short. Life is full of garbage and bullshit and bad things that those pleasurable things are fucking worth it. You want those. So it does work for you.

And I think that that's great. It's working for her. It's working for you. Thank God you guys met each other because you have a very twisted scenario going on here. But you're doing it together and you're there for each other emotionally. Your needs are being met 100%. She's able to work out her stuff and all of her issues and you're right there with and same for you. Like I said, it's not just her working out her hypersexuality. You're working out your

hyposexuality. You're zero. And you're both doing it together. And there's nothing wrong with that. The only time it would be a problem is if one of you decided to maybe tend to the reason why you had those issues and fix it. And then there was a change. And then the other person's extreme kink and behavior and issues would then cause a problem for the other person. But you're right on the same page. And I think just to summarize as well is that whilst I might not be getting sexual pleasure, you cannot put a scale on the degree of emotional pleasure I get from seeing Sam the way she is and the pleasure she's getting with guys and with doms. In the depths of where we were to where we are now, the pleasure and seeing that change

has filled that void. I got it. I got it. I just think it's hard to understand. Okay. So if there's any, there's any bulls out there listening. Oh my God, put the call out. I'm sorry, listen to me.

I could talk to you for two more fucking hours. This is one of the most interesting stories I've heard. And I have been doing my show for nine years. Okay, Neil. So Neil and Sam's story, holy fucking shit. Okay, thank you so much for calling in and sharing it and being so open and honest with everything. I cannot wait for the comments on you. YouTube. They're going to fucking fly.

Okay. Thanks very much. Wait, Lee, no, Neil, do me a favor. Ask your wife if you could send in the picks, the anonymous picks. Okay. If you can, that would be great for my, for my Patreon. And I will also, because you called into my show, give you free access to my Discord. That's a great place for you to go on afterwards to give a shout out looking for a bull because that is what you're looking for. And why don't you give your shout out right now again for your bull?

And explain what you're looking for. Give an email. Do what you need to do to put that shout out to all the people listening to my show as well. Yeah. So saying that now, yeah. Yeah. On FetLife, we're a slutty couple, 1983. But for people that don't have Fet Life, a lot of times people send me, oh, you, if you want

to know that I'm real, look at my Fet Life. I'm not a member of Fet Life. So for people to contact you, do you have a fake email you could give out or something? That would be the best way. Yeah, it's cut couple without the O and you. So it's C-U-C-K-P-L-E-U-U-K-U-L-E-U-K at hotmail.com. Love it. And I will put that in the description for you, okay?

I'm going to hook you guys up. We're not particularly looking for one-offs. No, you're looking for that. You're looking for the unicorn. You're looking for that guy that could come in, live, be a Polly 3. I mean, it is a very specific thing. But listen, you're going out to a very great office. audience, my audience. I have a large audience and it's people that are into this stuff. So it's a

perfect place to advertise and I'm going to help you. And I'm going to put that email in the description. So anyone driving, listening that's like, oh my God, I fit the bill. I want to apply. Don't worry about remembering the email he just gave. I will put it in the description. Okay, Neil, I'll do that for you so that hopefully you find someone. And then you come on and you tell me the fucking story from there, okay? All right. Thank you. All right. Awesome. Thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. All right. Thank you. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook.

It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories.

17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get in. to my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of

contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is, email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.

This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Okay, I just want to tell you that I do. I have a book coming out. called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, the Secret Lives of Total Strangers. I picked like 17 of the best episodes. That was actually hard to do because I have over a thousand episodes. And I retold them all in third person. So it's a little bit more erotica, but it's still like real life stories.

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