Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1110 - Mr. Dominus Sea is a Daddy Dom

Episode Date: May 9, 2025

Mr. Dominus Sea is a daddy Dom and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including what went down between him and his dom wife (Domina ep #1098) when they first met, how a...nd when he got into being a dom,  how hes more of a daddy dom and how thats different then other doms, how he gauges how far he can go with his subs, how and why he was leery about impact play at first, what he enjoys about domming women, how and why being a daddy dom comes naturally for him, where he got his daddy dom name from, the common age of the women who seek him out, how far he goes with his subs and what they enjoy having him to do to them, their recent “high protocol dinner” and what went down, what goes down at a typical session with him, how and why he enjoys finishing the women off even when they don’t want to be finished off plus a whole lot more.  His name o n Fetlife: MrSeaaphrodite **To see HOT, anonymous pics of DOMINUS and HIS WIFE plus see HOT pic of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2512-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:03:49 Today I have on Mr. C. Mr. C. Domine's, so you could call him Dominez, is Mrs. C. Aphrodite's husband. She was on recently. She's a Dom. She's a hot Dom. Okay, let me just tell you. She went very big over on Fat Life. And he did too. He's on Fet Life as well.
Starting point is 00:04:08 This is a couple who both are doms. They dom people together separately. They've been together since the dawn of time. they started in the lifestyle many years ago and then eventually realized they were both into being dominance. Like I said, I got her whole story on another episode. I'll put the number for that in the description. But now I get his story because they are like both dom. And she's very into guy and guy action. He's not into that. So she like doms twinks and shit like that and women. And he doms women mostly always. And he talks all about it. Like when he realized he was a dom,
Starting point is 00:04:47 what kind of domi is, what he looks for in his subs, what goes down with them. He gives all the details. It's a super interesting story because this is a couple that just does this for their own pleasure. Like I said, they did get very big on FetLife. His wife started posting a lot, and then he eventually got on there. He's on there as well. I will put his Fet Life information in the description so you could check him out. And then he's linked to his wife.
Starting point is 00:05:12 You could check out her as well. They do this for fun. But they're kind of professionals. because they do this a lot ever since they started. It's a super interesting story. So anyway, I'm going to get right to it. I have pictures over on my Patreon as well as my Discord of him. I had pictures of his girl she sent in before.
Starting point is 00:05:32 So you could go there and check it out. The links will be in the description. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Dominus. Hey, Mr. Oh, I keep forgetting your name. Mr. C. I could call you. Or Dominus, you're Domina C. Aphrodite's husband, who I just spoke with, right? I'm going to call, I like Domineus.
Starting point is 00:05:51 You're a Dom, just like your girl. I was very interested in your guy situation because, you know, you're two, you've been together the dawn of time, right? But you both happen to be Dom's. And she's very, like, she doesn't fucking switch off. Like, never, ever does she want to be your sub, right? But you obviously like to have subs because you're also a Dom as well, correct? Correct.
Starting point is 00:06:14 Okay, so how the fuck did that happen? I know that you guys got together very early on and you were super open with each other and always kind of exploring, right? Yes. Okay. So tell me the story from your angle. You know, like when did you realize you were into dominating women? And it's just women, right? It's not men because I know that your girl is very into guy on guy action. And she does that a lot in when she's doming people. She doms women and men. But you're not into that, correct? No, I'm not into that.
Starting point is 00:06:46 that I direct with any other guys other than helping her with photos if I'm seeing like a cut couple so like you know you can restrain the guy taunt him things like that but I don't really do anything
Starting point is 00:07:01 physical with him every once a while like you know if the actual impact or something like that I'm fine with but beyond that it's just like then see there in the corner you know watching their wife or their girlfriend being used in any way I want on.
Starting point is 00:07:16 Yeah. So that's the limit to my interaction with the guys. Right. So let's go all the way back, though. So like you meet your girl, she's not a sub at all, right? When do you realize that you're into being a dom or being the more dominant one? Well, when we first got together, we were both basically, you know, like the type A personality. The biggest difference is, I guess, it's to joke around.
Starting point is 00:07:43 Like, I'm a little bit more of a laid-back one. and she's a little bit more like in your face type of, you know, personality. Oh, I like that. Yeah. Uh-huh. But you're still both doms, but you're more laid back. Yeah. Yeah. But when we, like, especially in the beginning, you know, we just viewed each other as equals.
Starting point is 00:08:04 So when we really got into declaring that we were both like doms, I really think it came more with our renaissance when we came back into the lifestyle. after we, you know, had the children. When we did have, like, threesomes or things like that, you know, when we were in college or things like that, we would both take, you know, the roles of, you know, it's hard to say there's, like, really dumb, because I don't think we looked at it as, like, being, you know,
Starting point is 00:08:36 doming girls. Of course, of course. Yeah. I think it more looked like we took the lead because, you know, with a couple, the girls sometimes are a little bit nervous. it might have been their first time doing a threesome, things like that. So it was just us taking the lead. Well, that kind of makes sense.
Starting point is 00:08:51 In that situation, you could both, like, be doms because that girl is, like, the third person, right? If she's into it, she's going to be domed by the both of you. And you could both do that, and that works in that kind of a threesome. Yeah. It was never like, you know, both of them were, like, serving me or anything like that. It was like us, you know, using them in, you know, the ways we saw fit. Right. was doming right next to you.
Starting point is 00:09:17 Yes. Yeah, that's interesting. Okay, cool. Now, and I did remember, I mean, I did ask her, like, how do you guys fuck yourselves because, you know, she's, like, not into being a sub and you're a dom and she's a dom, you know, but the roles don't really change. You're just, like, equal. Is that, like, how it happens when you guys are together in your vanilla life?
Starting point is 00:09:38 Yeah, I mean, like I said, like she also said, we just treat more as equals, you know, we, she enjoys it when I go down on her. I enjoy it when she gives me a blowjob. You know, we, you know, we have sex and things like that, but it's not like, you know, she's not ordering me around or I'm not ordering her around or anything like that. She'll hate if I say this, but sometimes, you know, maybe I'll give it a little pat on the ass here there, but nothing too much. Then you'll shoot me a bad, a dirty look for it.
Starting point is 00:10:06 I think she mentioned that, by the way. Yeah, just being a little bit playful, you know. Yeah. But it's not like, you know, I'm not, I'm not tired of up to the bed, you know, spread, you know, eagle and just, you know, having my way with whatever I want. Like I said, we do things that both of us enjoy doing. Yeah, well, why you guys work so well is because you have, you know, allowed each other to go get those needs met by other people, right? Like, I mean, it's not like you probably don't need to get, you know, dominate her because you release that part of yourself with your, sessions with the women that you see and vice versa with her too like she really digs two guys
Starting point is 00:10:46 together right that's not your thing but she gets her fill over there when she's doing like her twinks and stuff those are the kind of guy she loves right yes yeah yeah it's interesting so when did you first realize you wanted to be like a dumb and then how did it you know turn into something where like you got your first sub we came back into the lifestyle like the lifestyle there's actually So it's kind of like when COVID hit, if you want to talk about perfect timing. So we started having, like, we started buying some girls over, and then she did want to do some stuff with, like, you know, doing guys and it was actually, and it's kind of a funny story that before this, you know, I really was never into, like, impact because I just, maybe it's the
Starting point is 00:11:36 old school mentality, you know, we're a little bit older. You know, you really don't hit a girl you don't hit a woman I said oh you know I've seen it in porn but you know they're at porn you know maybe there's some outliers that do enjoy it but I really didn't think it was more of a normal thing but then we had the first
Starting point is 00:11:55 girl where we first started like she wanted that and Yoshivan brought over some of her own impact because we really didn't have anything and then I saw that she enjoyed it and then we started getting more that enjoyed it so that's I think that's where
Starting point is 00:12:11 more my evolution start happening. It was more of a dom. Because, you know, being a dom, you know, anyone can take the lead. But then it's doing these other things. It's doing the restraints. It's doing the bondage. It's doing the impact. And I kind of like grew from that into like what I am today.
Starting point is 00:12:29 Yeah, but where did you learn to do all that stuff? Because, you know, listen, there's a fine line between like, you know, the kind of pain the the person wants and like real pain like, oh, you crossed the fucking line and you didn't do that right. You know, so I feel like there's a lot, there's a learning curve there, right? If you're in control of, you know, doing that to somebody, you have to really know what the fuck you're doing, right? Like, I mean, and you obviously didn't because it just kind of happened, but did you ever, like,
Starting point is 00:12:52 were you ever taught by anyone, or did you just learn as you went? I kind of just learned as I went. I already have a teacher in it. I think because also I'm considered a bit of a daddy-darm, so I'm always checking in with any of the girls, especially like in the beginning when. And if someone comes to me like brand new, and I don't know her, if she goes, oh, you know, my pain tolerance is a six. Yeah. Well, every guy has a different strength level also, you know, so someone's six is someone else's three or someone else is ten.
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Starting point is 00:16:07 Well, every guy has a different strength level also. Mm-hmm. You know, so someone's six is someone else's three or someone else is ten. Oh, yeah, that makes sense. Depending on how strong that guy is. Yeah. So we, like, I always start off softer and I'll give them cues to say, you know, that's good enough or harder or.
Starting point is 00:16:30 or, you know, they'll say, oh, please, Dominus, more, or thank you, Domit's meaning that they're good, good at that level. And then as, and I'll just start building up until I get to see, okay, this is, this is their tolerance. We'll stay here for now. And then, you know, maybe we'll try to push a little bit, you know, later on or later on to see how it progresses, you know, from there. Right. But, you know, every girl is going to be different. and every impact Dom is going to be different. You know, we had an event.
Starting point is 00:17:04 I don't know, I forgot she mentioned that we did. We all went to the rent fare. So we did like a little kiki field trip. And we rented a house afterwards. We brought our toys. And one of the girls there was saying, oh, you know, I've never had an impact top, you know, hit me hard that it ever, you know, it ever really shocked me.
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Starting point is 00:17:42 Like everyone burst out laughing. It was like a funny moment. Yeah, that is funny. But, you know, it's one of those things. So you always have to, if I've seen a person, I know what they like, but if it's someone for a new time, you know, it's, again, It's starting at level one and just seeing how it progresses through the whole session. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:18:01 Now, I mean, you guys are very much like, you know, like it's real life, you're doing this in person. Listen, I've talked to some other DOMs before and there's a lot of like a writing and mental manipulation, that kind of stuff, right? And I was very surprised at first when I first spoke with my first dom because it was a lot more of that than sex. and I was like, oh, that's so interesting. Like, I always just thought of it as, like, a lot of sex. But I feel like you guys do do a lot of, like, the sex, right?
Starting point is 00:18:30 It's not so much the, oh, are you getting, like, your girls to, like, write, like, essays? And do you do all that mind manipulation stuff, too? Or is it different? Because I feel like you guys seem different. No, with, like, everything. No, no, I understand what you're saying. I don't know. BDSS is sometimes, like, a lot of fucking talking.
Starting point is 00:18:50 And, like, especially the Dom sub-Relub, relationship. Like, I couldn't believe how involved it was and what they get their subs to do. And it's like a lot of writing. I was like, oh, who wants to do that shit? You know what I mean? But it doesn't seem like you guys roll that way. No, I think, again, with being more of a daddy down, like, if you want to my set page, you see a bunch of girls on it. So some of them, like, we don't see all of them, like every week or every two weeks. Sometimes we see it might be a month or two because, listen, everyone has lives. They have jobs. They have jobs. Some of them are in school. But what I do is, I check in with all of them.
Starting point is 00:19:24 Some I'll check in with monthly, some I'll check in with, you know, two weeks or every week. I go, and again, I think it's more that the daddy dom and me, because I want to make sure that they're all right, do they,
Starting point is 00:19:35 if they need a talk, if they need to. And they all know that they can text me, whatever, too, to say, oh, listen, you know,
Starting point is 00:19:41 going through this, going through that, whatever in the case. I do have one that, like, on my page, it says, like, Olin Collard.
Starting point is 00:19:50 So her, I do speak, with daily. She'll text me when she wakes up in the morning and she'll go well, what color underwear should I wear today? Yeah, that's what I mean. Yeah, she'll get her nails on what color would you like. You know, things like that, but it's not, you know,
Starting point is 00:20:07 and she always, you know, she knows that when she's at work, she has to go to the bathroom and send me a pick of whatever she's wearing. So it's a little, you know, so, you know, I control her in that way. Right. But, no, it's not like, you know. Because you know the dogs I'm talking about, right? It's like a different thing. Like you're saying, oh, I'm a daddy dom. So I'm assuming maybe a daddy dom is a little bit different.
Starting point is 00:20:26 And maybe there's other kinds of doms. Master Tom, I think was his name of the Dom that I spoke with. He was like, it was just very different. And I felt like, oh, it's so interesting. A lot of times I do talk to people that are involved in BDSM. And it's a lot of, like, talking and like I said, head shit more so than sex. And I never realized that. But it's not like that's across the board.
Starting point is 00:20:45 I mean, because you guys are having parties. You guys have a lot of toys. I've seen your pictures. You got a full-fledged, like, dungeon in your house, correct? like places where you know no no we really don't we don't we do it in your house everything in your house no no we do we do we do it in the house i do have one thing i kind of transformed into a little bit i was using some stuff that fell apart and we did have i do have like a little rack that you know with the kids go what the hell is this i like it's for working out um but we can attach people to it
Starting point is 00:21:16 and things like that but it's like something bigger but you know everything that we have it's funny we got a new bedroom center now has draws under the bed and So they were like fill. So then we were like spread out or stuff. It's easier to find stuff. And all the drawers are beyond. They're always all filled already. Yeah, because I've seen a picture of it all laid out.
Starting point is 00:21:33 Okay. And there's a lot of shit there. Trust me. You have never seen all of it laid out. Yeah. So that's what I mean. It's got to be somewhere. And you are doing this stuff in your house, correct?
Starting point is 00:21:43 Yeah. This is where you do dom people. So there is a quote unquote dungeon, right? Like, I don't know. If I'm coming to someone's house to be domed, I kind of want the whole setup. know? Well, like, we don't have, like, a dedicated room for it. When I think of Dungeon, oh, there's, like, you know, there's a room that's locked up, that it could be at a basement, it could be in a side room somewhere that no one can go into, except for us. Like, we don't have that type of a dedicated
Starting point is 00:22:09 space. Okay, that's interesting. Yeah. You know, I have brought, like, we do have a basement, so, like, I tied up one of them, like, between the two pillars by the spares. Yeah. And things like that. Just like, because, you know, you kind of, like, she was doing a bunch of stuff upstairs. I took it downstairs. So it's like making use of the room that you have. But we don't have like, yeah, there's no pulling out a book from a bookcase
Starting point is 00:22:31 and a room opening up behind it that has like, you know. You probably could have that if you didn't have kids, you know? Yeah, so maybe the future, you know, we might do that, you know. Because you guys are very professional. I have seen the pictures, right? Your girl sent me a lot. First of all, your girl's super hot. I don't remember seeing picks
Starting point is 00:22:47 of you, but like people should go check out your fucking wife. She got very big over on fat life, but she's sent me a lot of pictures. Now I, that I think about it, I remember seeing her like bringing people up the stairs or bringing them over here, you know, it's like in a bedroom and stuff like that. So it's kind of like you guys could be dobbing at the same time when you go to different places. So let's get back to your story, though. So like you had that first girl there was the impact play. You said you were kind of leery about it before because, you know, you grow up like you don't put your hands on a girl, right? Of course not. And now here someone is
Starting point is 00:23:16 like begging you to do it. How did you feel afterwards? Like was it a turn on for you to see that it turned her on? Like, what was, what was it about that that you enjoyed? Obviously, you enjoyed it. I mean, I actually really, you know, I did enjoy doing it because I think, because it's what made her happy, like, you know, the noises that she would make when doing it. And, you know, and I was always a big, you know, when I started doing it too, like you said, you know, I was trying to do a little bit, you know, pain and pleasure, you know,
Starting point is 00:23:46 so it's always going like going back and forth, you know, like edging her, like if I, you know, she brought, I see that, maybe three or four different impactings. Because like I said, that first time we didn't have anything. I mean, yeah, I could take a belt out of the closet, or I could take, you know, I can take a paddle that, you know, a ping pong paddle. It usually said like that, but she actually brought a few her toys. So, like in between using it, you know, like, you know, like fingering her, like letting her clit after a bunch.
Starting point is 00:24:12 And, you know, they're going back to hitting her more, and they're going, you know, and going back and forth until at the end, like, she was, like, banging to come. and things like that. So, you know, that was a turn-on. And then we met more people who wanted the impact. And some of the girls, like, you know, little impact. They don't want too much or can't handle too much.
Starting point is 00:24:33 Or they like, you know, they like feeling that helplessness in the situation. And then I do have others that, you know, they do want me to go. Again, I really don't do full force, but they do want it harder. They want to be left with a lot of moms. And things like that. But I know with them, yeah, I am going to go harder. And there's always like, you know, they always have like a safe word and things like that if I did go too hard. Or it could be that like some girls like study instruments.
Starting point is 00:25:04 Yeah. There's a difference. Yeah. Some like more stingy ones. Or some of them like they know that there's one specific toy that I don't bring out with it because they eat it. Because it's like a little too much for them. It's like funny. Like if I had it out by action, like they're like, no, put that one or one or whatever.
Starting point is 00:25:20 They know. They know. So, but yeah, it was like because they enjoyed it. So, you know, I enjoyed making them happy on that. Yeah, so like, I could evolve. Right. So, but I'm just trying to get in the mind of a dom. Because other doms that have been on my show, I do sort of see some people judging them like,
Starting point is 00:25:39 oh, they're like sick fucks, right? Because they get off on creating pain for a woman. But like, obviously that's not what's going down here, right? You know? And, you know, so for, I'm trying to see, like, what is it? to explain to other people if they're thinking that, like, it's not that, right? You see it as like you're pleasuring them. That's what you're getting off on, right?
Starting point is 00:25:57 Like, pleasuring them. Are you a pleaser? Is that who you always were? And that's why this kind of works for you? Yeah, I guess, you say, I like making, you know, making the girls feel good. I always like making Mrs. C. feel good, making her calm and all that. Obviously, it wasn't doing impact and things like that, but it was the act of, you know, getting her off, making her feel good, you know.
Starting point is 00:26:19 So that kind of goes along with, and, you know, I like to do other brothers. And I guess in my, in my visit in the life, too, I was that type of person. I'd be the one to help out any of my friends. Like I was the one that people always, yeah, like I was the one who people always came to. And same thing with, sorry, Mississippi, like, you know, people came to us for marriage advice. Because we've been together, like, I have friends that I grew up with in elementary school that I'm so friends with. We were the first one who's married. everyone kind of looked at us like we were like the pinnacle so they come to advice so it's always like
Starting point is 00:26:52 helping others right so i guess part of that goes off in who i am like as a daddy dom you know i guess it's not you know it's not like a switch here and there that i'm like i'm this way in this life and this way in the other life it does blend in here and there you know being a leader in my little life being a dom in my the sexual the kinky life so it does that type of personality bled together. Hey guys, have you ever had a prostate orgasm? Now, listen, I obviously haven't had one because I'm a chick, but guests who have called into my show have said that prostate orgasms are like the best orgasm ever.
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Starting point is 00:29:27 Yeah. Now, let's talk a little bit about, like, your sessions and the kind of girls you see. Like, after that first one, you obviously liked it. And then how did you kind of turn it into, like, you becoming dominous? Like, did it just catch on and people started calling you? Did you start to look four subs? specifically as a dom. Like, how do you turn it into, like, what it is now?
Starting point is 00:29:49 Well, I think the near show is like a take off of the old movie with Kurt Douglas, but it was kind of like, you know, reinvented. And the two of the people who were like the slaves or Dom and Domitus. And that's how everyone referred to them. And then she really liked that so that she wanted, because she didn't want to be called mistress, because she said she didn't like the way that sounds because it sounds like someone's, like sidepiece, you know, things like that.
Starting point is 00:30:22 She don't want to call, like, every girl wants to be called goddess. So, but she said, I've never really seen anyone being called Domina. Oh, right. That's what she got herding. You could be, and you could be Domina. So it's like, I get it. Because in that show, they were both the Alphas. They were the ones who ruled their territory, their household, and their people that they, quote, unquote, own.
Starting point is 00:30:46 So she said, that's perfect for us, because it shows that we're on the same level. Yeah. And that's how that, and then, you know, then the girls would get it, like, they'd either call her, you know, C or they would call, you know, Mrs. C sometimes. But she usually just likes Domina, but then I'd be called Dominus or Mr. C during the sessions. You know, sometimes the girls will switch back and forth, like, you know, depending on, like, if their own moods or whatever, like that or just in that moment, you know, whatever they want to cry out and pleasure or pee, they'll yell out one or the other. So, like, I don't know. It's not, so they said, oh, you have to call me Domino's. Of course not.
Starting point is 00:31:22 Of course not. Of the time, you know, either one is fine. Okay, but after that one time, like, now you start, does that girl just continue to come back and then word spreads? Or do you start looking for subs? Like, how does it become something where, like, you, you know, you have all these girls that you see now? I think so. After her, I know, we did see her for quite a while until she eventually, like, moved away. I know it was more Mrs. C on
Starting point is 00:31:48 Fet Life and then girls reaching out to her You know, wanting sessions And they kind of building from there Because originally I actually didn't have a profile on Fed Life Oh, just Mrs. She just had one Yeah, she had it originally I don't remember the deeds of like when she did But it wasn't like she made a profile
Starting point is 00:32:08 And I made one the next day I think it could have been like months and months later And then I went on to it Right. And then, you know, and then we had like some profiles on some like normal, well, not quite normal sites, but like field or three fauna. And we'd find some girls on there. And then it just, it kind of just developed from there. And eventually some girls reached out to, like me personally.
Starting point is 00:32:34 And then, you know, kind of, I wouldn't say snowballed, but it kind of grew from there. Right. And what kind of girls seek you out? like give me the demographics first like age range is it across the board you know or i think so i think the youngest girl i had was 19 and of course in mississippi's well i had an 18 year old you know because she had a one up yeah oh my god i said she doesn't like the young twinks yeah that's why actually it was she has one that he uses a skateboard.
Starting point is 00:33:14 And the first time I saw it, I'm like, are you sure you checked your ID on this one? Oh, my God. Like skateboard from, like, school afterwards, but usually, I think with the girls, like the girls that are on my page, I think they're basically, like, 20 to 30. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:33:29 But we play with other ones that maybe they're not on our page that are older. Right. Because not everyone who we played with or played with is listed. Mm-hmm. Some girls, they're on set. but they don't want that you know they don't want to be
Starting point is 00:33:47 bombarded with DMs and all that so they kind of just are there to look to look at events and things like that but they're part of our circle so they'll get invited to you know parties and things like that so sometimes you'll notice like if I tag a bunch of girls there might be one or two who aren't tagged in it
Starting point is 00:34:04 right but the girls are typically 20 to 30 but like do you have a spit like you I know your girl really likes like young twink guys, right? Are you very particular in the subs that you pick out or are you not? I mean, do you just like someone to sort of, you know, be sub to you or do you only like younger girls? Like, what's your thing that you're into? I guess with me, it's a bit more like their personality. I mean, there has to be a level, you know, I have to be attracted to them, obviously. Right, because you guys aren't doing this professional.
Starting point is 00:34:41 professionally. This is just, that's what people need to know. Like, this is just like something you guys do for fun. You don't have an only fan, you're not creating content. I mean, she did get very big on FetLife, but she posts everything there, but this is just something that you guys do for your own enjoyment. So it's not like you'll do anyone that comes your way. Yeah, obviously, because if I was, if they were charging me, you know, if I was charging, I'm sorry, if I was charging them, then yeah, it wouldn't matter, you know, age or anything like that. Yeah, no, that's why I ask, because you're doing this for your own pleasure and enjoyment. So I wonder, like, what is the thing that you really look for? And so it's a lot of it as personality? Yeah, a bit of a personality. Like, I always tell them, like, you know, please be
Starting point is 00:35:20 honest with what you want. Because it doesn't do you any favors if you're not. It doesn't do me any favors if you're not. And it's not going to be an enjoyable experience. Yeah. Also, it's a way of me saying, well, okay, I'm comfortable doing this, this, this. Like if someone said to me, who's, oh, I'd love to see you, but I'm really into needleplay. I say, well, I say, well, I'd love to see you, but that's not my wheelhouse. I don't do anything with needles. Right. So you have those conversations ahead of time?
Starting point is 00:35:50 Yeah, so maybe, unfortunately, maybe we aren't a good fit, you know, in that case. If someone said, well, I want to really be like the shabari, you know, I want to be tied up. I want to be, you know, hung from the seal. I guess, well, I'm more of a novice with ropes. Right. I could do some. I can do some of the time. But, yeah, I'm not a rigor.
Starting point is 00:36:09 I can't do that. versus, oh, you know, I just want, you know, I want impact. I want to be tied up. I want to be blindfolded. I want sensory play, you know, and all that stuff, yes, all that stuff. I could do electric, you know, I could, so I could do all of that stuff. But it's helpful, you know, when we start the conversation, knowing what they want and whether or not. Because I don't want to waste their time either.
Starting point is 00:36:31 Of course. I don't want to be talking to someone for like a week or two. And then you say, oh, I really want to do this. I'm like, yeah, I can't or I won't. Right. You know, so I always think that's, you know, a big thing. Right off the back. Yeah, with the girls.
Starting point is 00:36:48 And, again, you know, with her, her boys, every guy is, oh, yes, definitely, whatever, you know, whatever you say, Dominac. With girls, you have to develop a little bit more of a rapport with. Yeah. Yeah, it's a different scene. Sometimes they're comfortable, they want to see me, but they like to know that they want to meet Mrs. C. It makes them, it puts them at ease, especially because, you know. they generally come to us. Right.
Starting point is 00:37:14 So they're going to a strange guy's house, they don't know, but it puts them at ease knowing that she's there too. Oh yeah, for sure. I'm sure that really is. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:37:22 so it's a different, different flow and a different dynamic. Like, for every 100 of her guys, like I'll have one, you know, things like that. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:37:30 yeah. Now, I know that she doesn't do any kind of penetrative sex like in her sessions and everything, but she obviously gets pleasured. You know,
Starting point is 00:37:38 what about you? Like, what's going down for you? you're obviously getting pleasure during these sessions. Like, will you have penetrative sex or is there none of that? Like, what do you do or not do during your sessions when it comes to you? You'll fuck them? Yeah, no.
Starting point is 00:37:53 I'll usually get a blow job. I'll usually fuck them. And, you know, it might be more than once during the session. Right. So, no, she doesn't, she has a restriction based on her own preferences. Exactly. Yeah, I was just wondering if you had any. No, I mean, if she's okay with me doing.
Starting point is 00:38:11 what I do during my sisters too. I mean, she's, she's seen me fuck on the girls in front of her. Yeah. And the dad would like where we co-tapped says she's okay with that. You know, so I don't have that restriction that she puts on herself. And you enjoy that. So you are getting off on these sessions as well. Because listen, I've talked to professional dominatrix sometimes a lot more so women than the men, but, you know, they're in the dungeon. And sometimes there's no sex going on for them at all, you know, but in your case, there is, right? That's what you're there for it's not just their pleasure you're getting getting off same with your wife yeah she's
Starting point is 00:38:45 having fun she just doesn't like penetrative sex not even with you do you fuck her do you have penetrative sex with her or no she doesn't even oh yes no we have penetrative sex oh she told me she doesn't like it well she doesn't that's why she doesn't do it with the guys like other guys or like any like you go and that but no we we do have penetrative sex she just does she doesn't she doesn't come from Yeah, I get it. So that's her big thing. Yeah. But like we're together.
Starting point is 00:39:15 Like she, but it's also part of that thing like she enjoys that she's making me feel good. It's part of like that we've been together for so long. Of course. You know, she enjoys that. You know, she enjoys like us being close. Like, you know. Of course. It's a totally different scene.
Starting point is 00:39:32 Yeah, it's a lot different. It's not just, you know, if she's having a session with a guy and he's hard or whatever that and, you know, she'll go, okay, let's go for her. You know, things like that. You know, with us, because when we're together and it's just me and her, it's love. Right. It's very different. You know, so that's, yeah, so that's a lot different than her doing a scene with someone who she met 20 minutes ago for the first time.
Starting point is 00:39:57 Right. Now, do you always see women, you say, you sometimes see couples. Do you ever see two girls at once? Like if a girl comes to you and she's like, oh, I want like a forced by scenario? Because I know that goes down with guys. Does that happen with women as well, or I don't know, you have to tell me? We, I don't think we've ever had to do a force by with girls because you seem to be more open to that in general. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:21 Well, or like their first experience, they want you to do it because typically it's like, listen, a lot of these guys that are having forced by, they've done it before, but they just like to be quote unquote forced. You know, I just wonder if you, no? Some of them is their first time. Right, right. Or they're saying it's their first place. I mean, listen, you. never know. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:39 With girls, like, if I co-topped them with Mississippi, you know, it's, you know, I don't think they're being forced to because they want to do it. Right. You know, I've, none of the girls we've ever seen or said, no, I don't, I will never touch another girl. Sorry, you know, we never had that. Right. And honestly, I mean, I actually now that I think about it, the guys that do are into the
Starting point is 00:41:02 forced by thing, it's like what they're getting out of it is that they're being forced to do something that they're not into, right? So like you said, these girls are into being with girls, so there's no forcing going on so it doesn't really work. And so you don't have that. Whereas with guys, I've heard of a lot of times, they do request a forced bifing. But like you said, it's because they don't want it.
Starting point is 00:41:23 And that's what's enjoyable about it. Right? It's not about being with a guy. It's about being forced to do something that they don't want to do. Yeah. What are your girls like to be forced to do? It's more like impact and being tied up and that kind of thing. It's just submitting to you overall.
Starting point is 00:41:37 I think it's most of the submitting overall because, again, they enjoy being restrained. They enjoy being blindfolded. They enjoy, you know, the impact or they enjoy, you know, having their hands tied behind their back on their knees, you know, with a blindfold on, sucking me off. Yeah. They enjoy that. So, they're not mine different than hers because mine enjoy doing all those things. They want to do all those things. Yes, they get the pleasure of, like, being restrained and being, quote, unquote, forced to do it.
Starting point is 00:42:12 Yeah. But it's something that they want to do as well. Right. So it's a little bit of a different kind of play. The psychology behind it's different. Yeah, yeah, I get it. Now, so do you ever do two girls? Or typically, if you're doing two girls, it's like your Domina is there with you with the girl, if she wants another girl there.
Starting point is 00:42:30 So usually we have done two girls together or sometimes, like, it's like funny like we'll have two girls over but sometimes she'll have to leave you she'll have to be on a call or I'll take care of them both at once yeah then she'll come back and then she might have another call so it's like you know here this is actually it's it's a little funny on my own I really haven't and it's more of a timing issue also because the fact that we are more free to play during the day right and our weekends are kind of our weekends are booked with family usually and if we ever do have a weekend without the kids it's usually for an event we're doing for a party we're doing and that's everyone all together i do plan on
Starting point is 00:43:13 this summer i do have two of the girls that i see they did want to try to get together and you know do something just with me like a little i'll take one of them over to her house and we'll do that so i'll do that sometimes the summer but it's just you know some of the girls want to do, but they're both working, one's working, one's not. So it's a little harder to always plan it out like that. And our kids just start going away for school summer camp. So now the summers are going to be more open. So now there's a lot more possibilities, you know, in there.
Starting point is 00:43:51 Now, because I know that you said, like, oh, she sees you tap women at other times and she's fine with that and everything. Like I talked to a lot of guys who really love seeing their girls with other guys. Is there any kind of that going on between the two of you? Like, do you enjoy seeing her doming guys or being with guys over there? Or is that just something like that just happens, but it's not like a kink for you? No, I mean, it happens. I mean, sometimes she'll put them into some ridiculous situations. So she'll call me in.
Starting point is 00:44:23 Like, she had one of her stuff she wrapped up like a mummy the other day in the office. She's like, come here, come here, look, look. And I'll come in it. like I'm laughing as I'm shaking my head at the situation. Right. You're not hard for sure. Yeah. I mean,
Starting point is 00:44:39 I've seen her with other guys and she's seen me with other girls. So it's not, it's not something that we don't get mad at it. But you're not, it's not like a kink. You're not into the hot wafing thing where you love to see your girl with another guy or her with it. Like this obviously is what you guys are into because this is what has stuck, right?
Starting point is 00:45:00 Because you guys were in the lifestyle before. COVID, right before your kids, you got into it. Yeah. So, again, back then, I did see her, but it was never a cooked situation. It's like if we went to a party. Yeah. And then, you know, I hooked up with this girl and she hooked up with a guy, you know. It was, it was like a mutual thing.
Starting point is 00:45:19 It wasn't that, you know, she invited a guy over and I sat in the corner watching them. Yeah, right. It's not like, it was, it was, yeah, it was equals on the same level. Mm-hmm. Yeah, I get that. Now, you guys do throw a lot of parties, right? I'm assuming now that your kids are going to summer school, you're going to summer camp, you'll throw more.
Starting point is 00:45:38 Why don't you walk me through like the last? Did you have a recent party since your girl called in? Didn't one just happen? Did that? I'm trying to figure, well, we did, we did have a high protocol dinner. I forgot if it was before. You could tell me about that one because I didn't hear about that. What is a high protocol dinner?
Starting point is 00:45:55 Okay, so the dinners we started, we started it two summers ago because we did. So we did our big summer event, which was the, that was the Roman Coliseum. And on that weekend that we did it, some of the girls who were closer with couldn't make that. And they were sad and everything. And then there is one other male Dom that we were friendly with. And he said, why don't we do a dinner? And he's a fantastic cook. Right.
Starting point is 00:46:29 So he cooked everything. We helped out. But he said, so we told the girls, okay, why do we do this? When we do a dinner and for you guys, and we also kept it in the Roving Glad Eater theme, who all dressed up, you know, and that type of costumes. And then when we were talking to, he mentioned like high protocols. So basically, you know, he'll make the food, well, it will help. But then the subs have to serve, like, so we'll sit at a dining room table.
Starting point is 00:46:57 They had to come around service our food, service our food, service. service our drinks, you know, get us more. If they mess up, we all had, like, impact gear at us. We all give them a swat if they spilled something or, you know, things like that. How many people at this, dinner? That dinner. Around? In total, maybe 12 of us.
Starting point is 00:47:21 I try to, I can't remember. But they're smaller. Right. So usually there'll be, like, you know, a few more girls and guys. And then, like, so we'd have the dinner, and then they'd all have to be inspected. So they'd have to go down on their knees, like, hands, like, you know, behind their back or on their head. And, you know, they'd be inspected. They, you know, Mississippi would plug them.
Starting point is 00:47:43 They'd get, like, nipple clans put on. Then they all have to get up. And it's like, funny, we have, we had two dogs, one passed away, but we saw both their cages. So they'd have to, like, be attached to the cages and we do impact on them. And then, eventually then, you know, after all that, then we do, you know, some free play, you know, afterward. But, and then that really went well. And then we did another one last year after our big summer party. And we always tried to do it that because a lot of people want to come to, like more and more people have heard of it.
Starting point is 00:48:18 They want to come. But we always try to do, well, first we give the people who couldn't come to the big party. They get first dibs. Right. First dibs on what? and being part of the dinner. Okay. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:48:31 Because we want to give them the option because they missed the party. Right. They could have been on vacation or whatever the case. So we want to let them have another opportunity. So they would, and then we'd fill in like a few other spots with people who wanted to do it, even though they came to the party beforehand. Right. So we did again.
Starting point is 00:48:47 And then Mississippi and I really don't do too many outside parties. We don't really go to other events because, again, we have kids. It's hard on the weekends. Yeah. We were part of one group. I'm not going to mention it, but they kind of disbanded, and we said, you know, we're doing two big parties, one in the winter, one in the summer. We had the one dinner. Why don't we do another dinner?
Starting point is 00:49:12 So we could do one every, so we have an event every quarter, and it keeps all of our community, like, active, and they get to go to more things. So now we start doing a dinner now in the springtime, and then we just try to, like, space them out. or like we do an event every few months. Right. But at that party, everyone winds up like dispersing and being domed by you guys. I mean, you guys are the two doms taking care of everybody and the rest of the people at the table are subs? No, no. In the dinner sense, we do have a few other doms.
Starting point is 00:49:47 People that we trust that could, that we know that they're doms or sometimes some of them are by doms. So they go guys and girls. so, but they're ones that we handpick. It's not just some, a random dom can't come to because all I'd love to go to the park because these are people that have been in our circle for a lot of events, maybe even like, we joke around like some of the OG people, like the original people. So we know them so they can be trusted. So we're the top doms, but then there'll be a few other doms that get served as well.
Starting point is 00:50:24 Right. So you're putting together, you know how to vet that. the people so that everyone's being taken care of. It's not just you guys satisfying. Everybody, you have some other doms there as well, helping out. Yes. And sometimes we'll have like, we'll have like one or two bull. If we need there, one or two other guys, we'll have like a bull.
Starting point is 00:50:38 Like she'll still be a submissive, but he'll be a bull for the girls if we need. Right. Because you want everyone to have a good time. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Because after dinner, everyone's having sex. Yeah, but obviously after the impact.
Starting point is 00:50:50 And listen, you know, if we have, if it was just Mississippi and myself. Yeah. And they were like six or eight girls, listen, you know, I'm only one man. I can only do so much. Exactly, yeah. As good as I am, I have my limit too. But, you know, Mississippi, I'm bringing a strap and all that. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:08 But it works out of having a few other times, too, and then, you know, they can be that more play. Yeah, no, that's smart. I mean, you're putting together a party. You want everyone to have a good time. And, you know, that's the way you're curating it. And you could pick and choose because, you know, like I said, even though you've only been doing this since COVID, your girl really took off on Fat Life, right? Because she started posting a lot of things.
Starting point is 00:51:30 Like she has no Onlyfans or anything. Someone can go on Fat Life and follow her. And she's going to see a lot of stuff because you guys film a lot of your content, right? I know she does. I mean, do you film your stuff too? I, well, no, I do have a bunch of videos. I don't film all that. There's some stuff.
Starting point is 00:51:46 I've had some girls that don't want to be photoed or video. I respect that. So she has most of her. I would say 99% of her boys don't mind being filmed, don't mind being photoed. Some of them, she tells them, though, that because they have too many tattoos, like they have to wear like a body stocking or so much. No, she's smart. She doesn't want to get them in trouble.
Starting point is 00:52:08 Yeah. Uh-huh. Yeah. I mean, and some don't care if their tattoos are showing or whatever, but we always ask first. Uh-huh. Because, and I guess it's more of a guys don't care as much, girls could be a little bit more self-conscious, so I've had a few more that don't want that thing. Of course.
Starting point is 00:52:25 There's more of a stigma always with women and sex than guys. Yeah. So, I mean, so, you know, they won't have, so they'll never be photoed. Or I might have so they just from my own personal use and they're fine with that, but I'll never go up on shit. Right. But there's stuff there, though, if people want to follow you. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:43 I have videos that you see impact, sex, blow jobs. Yeah. Yeah, and that's what's going down there. So now just walk me through with session. A girl finds you, you're like, you're kind of like down with what she's into. Do you guys like talk ahead of time when she gets to your place like what you're going to do and like how long does a session last for? You know, just what? That's like my last question like walk me through a session. Is it all negotiated when she gets there and then you play for an hour or two hours? Like how does it typically happen? Well, usually everything gets talked to beforehand.
Starting point is 00:53:17 Before she even gets there, right? Yeah. Before she even gets there, we go over everything. Yeah. What she wants, what she likes. what she doesn't like, so then I know what to do during the session. Because, again, I want to make it as much fun for her and as enjoyable for her as I possibly can. Right. And you want to make sure you could fulfill her fantasies and her needs, of course. Uh-huh. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:53:41 So she gets there. No, so she gets there. So, and you see this also with Mississippi, she'll strip down to her underwear, like by the front of her. Oh, real? Yep. she'll get colored and leashed. Oh, those are the picks I see of your girl walking them up the stairs. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:01 I have a few of those, but I'm not in it because I'm taking the picture from behind. Yeah, oh, that's you taking those picks. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. And then she'll, well, I'll take her upstairs, and then, again, it kind of depends on, and again, most of the girls I do see do want impact at some level. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:54:22 So we take her upstairs, and this is actually funny, this is what we always do now. We'll always take a picture, and now we have a full-length mirror in our bedroom, so that we take it for that. It used to be like a half mirror over a dresser. Oh, that's funny. But when we got a new dresser was too tall from Mississippi, and she didn't want to stand on something, because she's five, too, so now we put a full-length mirror so that we can take pictures with them there, and that's kind of like the before picture. And then what kind of right, like, she'll write on her boys, all right on my girl.
Starting point is 00:54:52 I was like, you know, first time with Mr. C or, you know, return visit, or whatever, like something just funny. And then I'll take them over, depending on what restraints I want to use, do I have them bent over on the bed, do I have them on the mattress on the floor? Like if I want to use a spreader bar with them, it has to be on the mattress on the floor. Right. If I just want to have them bent over the bed and then I'll tie up their hands or I'll tie their hands behind their back, they could be over the bed. and then, you know, we'll do the impact, we'll do the pain, we'll do the pleasure, and then it will go on depending on what, do they just want impact, do they want a little sensory play at the end, you know, do they want, like,
Starting point is 00:55:38 what type of aftercare do they want as well? Aftercare is important because, you know, especially with the girls, you know, if they, you know, they have all their impacts, sometimes they want to just, you know, relax after they decompress a tiny bed. So maybe they just want the sensory play. So it's just like, you know, sues them out a little bit. And then depending on what I'm doing with whatever situation, they'll go down on them, I'll figure them until they come.
Starting point is 00:56:08 X, you know, I'd probably kind of just go with how the session is flowing naturally. Mm-hmm. And, you know, take it from there and just, you know, let it all progress. Right. And now sometimes, like, do most women want to, like, come at the end of their session? Because I've talked to a lot of guys who like to be dominated. I'm, you know, I'm not talking to your girls, but I know sometimes for guys, they just want to be kind of edged out and they leave and they want to, like, you know, get off some other time. You know, they don't want to, like, have post-nac clarity in a dungeon.
Starting point is 00:56:43 But they're not in a dungeon at your house. I mean, do most women like to be brought to orgasm or do they just want to be teased? I mean, is that typically what they're there for? No, I mean, they'll be, they'll definitely be teased. I don't, you know, they don't come. I don't let them come right away. Of course. That's a funny.
Starting point is 00:57:00 You know, they'll even ask, like, may I come? Yeah, yeah. I love what they say, may I come, Dominus? And I'm like, not yet. And I just, I just hear like, ah, they start scrubbing more. Yeah. But, no, they all come, you know, during the sessions. You know, men get that post-nuts, you know, clarity.
Starting point is 00:57:19 Yeah. Women, I don't feel, get that as much. You know, because you also have to realize what she's doing with the guys. Again, it could be a forced-by situation. It could be something that they're not used to doing. Yeah, that they feel shameful. Yeah, so they might feel more, because there's an honest stigma, you know, stigmatism. Of course.
Starting point is 00:57:40 Stigmatism with guys and guys. Girls and girls? Yes, that's fine. Perfect. You know, whatever. Guys are guys, no, you know. So that could, then, listen, that's something that is. just kind of like with nature, you know, like it's with like with everything out there.
Starting point is 00:57:58 So it still has that stigmatism that so guys will feel bad at it. Oh, my God, I can't believe I did that. I can't believe I just ran out. Yeah, of course. Yeah. Because they know what they want and it's what they want. Mm-hmm. Guys, it's, you know.
Starting point is 00:58:13 Plus maybe it's because you do develop, like you keep saying you're a daddy dom and you tend to sort of like to know them as people and it takes a minute, right? So it's not like you're a total stranger. Maybe they just feel more comfortable with you over time too, of course. Yeah. Right? Oh, you didn't. Yeah, I mean, I've done a few C&Cs. But, you know, I've had one or two girls, you know, say like, oh, no, they don't want to come.
Starting point is 00:58:37 You know, it's not a priority for that. If they do, they do. Yeah. You know, so it's just where they, that's a little bit more darker play, as I tend to put it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Consent, non-consent, just in case someone doesn't know.
Starting point is 00:58:51 Yeah. Yes, consent, not consent. So, you know, so that's, and I've done that too. But, you know, whether it was purposeful or not, or they got turned on, they did come during the session as well. Right. But they made a point. I mean, no, just use me.
Starting point is 00:59:08 Don't care if I, you know, come or not. That's, you know, whatever. It is what it is. Whatever happens happens. Yeah. Maybe that's a part of them being a sub, like, or they're not thinking about themselves, you But you do wind up making them come anyway. Yeah, it just, you know, so type, but that's what turns them on.
Starting point is 00:59:24 Yeah. Uh-huh. So even if they're not thinking, oh, well, you know, he's just going to use and abuse me, and that's going to be it, so they're not thinking that they're going to come from it. But if it's something that they really wanted, and that's their thing, it's going to be that much of a turn-on to them that they will come. Right, because they said that they weren't going to. It's like denial.
Starting point is 00:59:43 Yeah. Right. But they still get off on it. Yeah, totally. I totally understand that. It's like a mind-fuck. but they wind up, it's probably better for them even because they said they weren't gonna, you know?
Starting point is 00:59:52 Yeah. Yeah, so listen, Dominus, why don't you give out your shoutouts to all your stuff so people could go find you? I mean, it's more your girl that's on Fet Life, right? Do you want to give out the Fet Life? Well, no, my Fet Life is mixed. Oh, you have one too. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 01:00:07 Like I said, it came a few months of hers, but no. Yeah. That life is Mr. C. Aphrodite. And we're also, we're attached to each other page. We're on there, you know, married two, married too. Okay, great. We're not hiding it or anything like that. So, yes, she has 30 times the followers I have.
Starting point is 01:00:24 I think that's to be, you know. There's 30 times the men on that site, then women. Yeah. That's just the obvious way it goes. I, there are plenty of guys who follow me too. I have over 5,000 followers. I don't think that's too bad for, you know. For a guy?
Starting point is 01:00:39 No, definitely not. For a guy who's not a pro. Yeah, definitely. You know. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, you're going to get more followers. I mean, and let me ask you this. Do you guys typically sometimes get couples that seek you guys out because, like, the woman that gets down by you and the husband by your girl?
Starting point is 01:00:56 We've had a bunch of them, yes. Yeah, I can see that. Like a bunch of, like, you know, cuck couples. Yeah. If things like that, sometimes they wind up being a little bit more of a one-off thing, like they want to have that experience. Yeah. But we've had a few that have come back multiple times. I've had, we've had one or two that came back like, Mississippi is very nice.
Starting point is 01:01:16 She knows she has a longer trip. Sometimes she'll set something up for me as a surprise. Oh. So it's like I had, yeah, so I had like one of them show up while she was away. You're right. Like I said, you're right. Tied them up, threw them in the corner and just, you know, played with the wife and things like that. So we've had that too.
Starting point is 01:01:36 But, you know, we're always open to it. Again, as long as what they are looking for. Matches, you guys. and stuff that we do, we're 100% fine with that. Yeah, I just ask because I know people are listening and people might be wondering and people might be hitting you up.
Starting point is 01:01:55 You guys are on the East Coast, correct? Like, that's where people have to be. I know that when I posted your girls' episode, your wife's episode, people were like, oh, I wish I was on the East Coast, you know, because they're like drilling over her. But if anyone's down for you guys, they can follow you on Fet Life.
Starting point is 01:02:08 I'll put your Fet Life in the description. Send me a couple picks, if you can, for my Patreon and for my Discord, email them to me sooner than later. Okay. Thanks, Thomas. Thanks so much for calling in. You're very welcome.
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