Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1111 - The O-Shot, Perimenopause and Pellets, Aging P*****, Botox, Fillers and more w/Layla

Episode Date: May 10, 2025

Tune in to hear Kathy and Layla called discuss the O shot, perimenopause, pellets, aging pussies, botox and fillers and more. Tune in to hear all the details including when and why Kathy recently purchased female Viagra, the O shot and Layla’s experience getting it, what the procedure was like, what it did for her orgasms, how long the effects last, how much costs, the key to having killer orgasms and what kind of things help, how to not lose your sex drive when going through menopause, use it or lose It and why that’s so important, pellets and how horny they make you, how orgasms can get better as you age,  Botox and what it does and doesn’t do for you, how long it lasts, lip injections and why some people get addicted ton them, facelifts vs. fillers, the changes that take place to women’s pussies when they get older plus a whole lot more. Get $10 off Shameless Care’s female viagra cream, just click on the link and use code: Strictly ⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠ **To see HOT, anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! You can find Layla's podcast here: https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2512-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I'm waiting for it to be sent. I was talking to Lila about that. But she explained all about the O-Shod. I was very curious. Like what does the O-Shod do? She talks about what it does for you, you know, how it felt once you got it done, how much it typically cost, how long it lasts, what her exact experience is with it. We also talk all about orgasms and how they change over time. We talk about menopause. And then we wind up talking about Botox and fillers and

lip injections and all that kind of stuff that, you know, women do. And then we go back at the end and talk again about pussies and, you know, what happens to them as you get older. It's a fun episode. I think you might learn some stuff. Layla did send me in a video of her getting the O shot. She had that. She sent it. It's going to be on my Discord. So if you want to join my Discord, either get my book or go in through Patreon and you get all the other stuff with Patreon, links are all in the description. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Layla. Hey, Layla, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing great. Thanks for having me back. Yeah, well, listen,

we're going to talk about something that you hate to talk about now. Oh, no. What is it? I know you hate it because I try to like ask you many times like let's talk about a whole episode on AGE. Wait, did you, I'm sorry, did you just pull a bait and switch on me? You said you were going to be talking about the O shot. Yes, but it's that, I mean, listen, there's no 25 year old getting an O shot, okay? That does have to do. I would like to talk about the fact that, listen, I am very exciting. My female Viagra cream is in the fucking male.

Okay, I am getting it ASAP. What is that? What is that? Do you know that there is now female Viagra cream? No. Or female. Yeah, supposedly, like, I didn't know this. And I don't know if you knew this, that women in the past have used Viagra, okay, for themselves, like the pills.

But it never really, like, work. So they created it, they created it instead to use as a cream and you rub it on your clit, on your pussy, you know, all over. And supposedly it's like a little dose, but it really works as a Viagra. same thing for guys, but for women to increase like your orgasm stuff. And I'm like, you know what? Like my brother takes Viagra and he doesn't even need it. He just kind of takes it for fun. So I'm like, I'm going to try it. I'm going to buy the Viagra cream. I had the guy from Shameless Keron talk about it. He called in to talk all about it. They just started to make it and send it out. So I'm getting mine soon. So I'm very excited. But I know that you have done some stuff to like help your

orgasm stuff. That's where I want to start off. But it is about like orgasms, aging, things that you could do things that you could help to improve your sex life. I feel like we might discuss pellets on here because I know you've tried them before. So it kind of does have to do with, you know, older age. I know you don't like that. Well, I'm just, part of it is, you know, I'm more, I'm, I'm, I'm in that Perry stage where I know I've lost some hormones, but I'm not, you know, I'm still having periods and things like that. But I know, you know, that I'm in that Perry category. So I'm trying to be on the, you know, just plan ahead, basically. And so you need to.

That is when I tell all my girls behind me. You're behind me. Like, you know. That's true. I mean, I think women should start taking a look at this instead well ahead of it actually just landing in your lap. And then you're like, oh, shit, I have no sex drive. I'm having hot flashes or, you know, all the, all the stuff that comes with.

it, I just want to stay, my whole thing is I just want to maintain my pristine vagina. You know, I want it to continue to function and feel great and so I can continue to enjoy sex with partners and I don't want that going away. So I'm very defensive of preserving it where I think a lot of women just don't kind of think of it that way. But I'm always, I'm all about it because, you know, I love them having sex. Listen, I think more women are thinking more like you because I think that people are talking about it a little bit more. I think back in the day, and even in my day, I mean, I've been on hormones since I'm 46 when I was in perimenopause. And a lot of women didn't even think about going on hormones at that time, right? They would wait until way past

menopause. And even then, they didn't think to do it. And at that point, sometimes it's like you've lost your sex drive for so long, you don't even care. But I was very proactive because I had a kid and stuff. But I think that, and I'm just like, I like to Google medical stuff. And I love all that stuff. So I think that's why I was always into it and up on it. But a lot of women didn't have any idea about anything. You know, I wrote a whole book with a doctor called Perry fucking menopause because when I went through it, I was like, this is the craziest shit and no one talks about it. You know, now so many more people are talking about it, Hallie Berry's like taking it up as

her big cause and she's speaking about it. And, you know, social media is just so much more present in everyone's lives. So I think, you know, there's more education about it. So of course you're thinking about it now in Perry because you know what's going to happen. Whereas in the past, I don't think they talked about it. No women talked about it. People, you know, there were menopause didn't turn around and tell the younger ones what was going to happen. No one told me, but I tell all my young friends.

You want to not lose your fucking sex drive. Fuck yourself every day if you don't have a guy. And if you have a guy, fuck him every day. Okay. But yeah, but unfortunately what happens a lot of times at that point, they're not fucking all the time, you know. But I do know that like you did have like, or like you did do some stuff. Like I wanted to talk about like the things that are available to like help your orgasms and help your Vaj and how like you know I'm going to try the Viagro Kim you did the O shot right I wanted to hear

about that like what is that all about I did do the O shot I should have sent you the video I have a video of it you know what I can send it to you you could post it in your uh oh posted by discord yeah because nobody there's no it's not of me it's just me it's just the doctor doing it and we're talking and literally which you know you're getting a needle interclit and a needle like right in your G spot she numbed me so well I didn't even feel it. And this was the topical stuff. And you know, usually that doesn't work.

It worked. I mean, I was all nervous and I'm sitting there talking to her. And I literally, and she's like, you're all done. I'm like, what? I mean, and the camera's on her the whole time. So it's interesting to watch. I should send it to you. Yeah, I would love for you.

Please send me a video. That would be so fucking cool. And I'll put it there. But like it didn't hurt. No. I mean, it's like an in and out thing. No, I mean, that's the thing. I really thought, you know, I mean, it's hard to get excited about

having a needle in your clit and in your badge. Anyway, no, it was fine. I did not feel a thing, no thing. It was incredible, actually. Okay, but tell me what it promises why you did it and then tell me your experience afterwards. Yes, because it's supposed to make your G spot and your clit more sensitive. And it absolutely did. Now, I probably did this about a year and a half ago, and it does wear off.

But I want to go back and get another one because it really does. It basically, so it puffs up that spongy area where your G spot is and internally. And it's almost like if you put filler in there almost, you know, think about that. It like puffs it up. So it's just, it's just it makes it tighter. And you're kind of, and then you're. wetter and you're more, I don't know, I was more turned on. Like I, I felt like I could just, because my G spot was more sensitive, you know, I was always getting kind of turned on,

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It's just, it makes it tighter and you're kind of, and then you're wetter and you're more, I was more turned on. Like I felt like I could just, because my G spot was more sensitive, you know, I was always getting kind of turned on even when, you know, I wasn't having sex or thinking about having sex. My body was like, okay, let's go. Okay, but let me ask you this, because this is all the questions I would go in Google, you know, that I would want to know. Like, is it something immediate?

it. Like, is it like, oh, you go home and like you jerk yourself off and you had like the best orgasm ever? Is it something that comes over time? And then how long did it last? So for me, it lasted about, I mean, I think I still feel it. It's, you know, but I'd love to go get a top off. Like, top me off. Let's keep this going. It's not, it's less sensitive than it was when I first got it done. I noticed the G-spot, the interior right away. And then I think the clit part took, you know, maybe later on in the week, then I really started to feel that kind of coming on where it was just like a lot of extra blood flow. It just was extra sensitive. I felt like, you know, when your click gets engorged, I felt like it was like harder, more of like an actual erection. Yeah, yeah, interesting.

But did it lot like, what do they say like when they say, okay, this is like what you're going to get and this is how long it lasts? Like what is the guarantee that it lasts for like, is it months? Is it years? Now, I can't remember specifically. I thought she said it was a year. And I agree with that because I did, it felt. Yeah, it felt like a year. Now I think it's been about a year and a half, maybe a little over a year to a year

and a half. And I feel like I could go in. I still think, I still feel it, but I, it's diminished a little bit. Right. So I'd want it to, like I said, like, you can go in and you just get. it again and it puts you. And do they recommend that for women in menopause, perimenopause, anyone that has any kind of like difficulty orgasm or just for fun or all of the above? Do you remember? Like do you talk to the doctor? Well, I think they're probably really targeting women that are

perimenopause to menopausal, but you can, I mean, you could do, there's no reason why you can't do this at any point. Right. Just to increase your, to increase your orgasms. Because that's what it's promising. Like it's going to increase your orgasm, increase your, and it literally, it's not just like your clitoral, but it does something to your G spot, like makes it bigger so that it's easier to stimulate it, I guess. Yes. Basically, it's so it makes it protrude out a little bit. You know, it's almost like putting filler in there, you know, and it, and so it stands out more. And then it's just you feel. So which makes you, the cool thing is it made me feel tighter and much more Yes. And so because of that snugness, then everything I put in there, even just an average-sized

dick, feels really, really good. I mean, when I talk about, you know, like on my show, when I'm always talking about having sex, like I, that's why I just love it so much because I feel every detail of what's in there, like the guy's dick and the ridge of, you know, on the head of his cock. And if he's got a vainy dick, like, I can feel all that in there. It's really crazy and it feels really good. So it did it for me. I mean, I definitely, I'm a fan. You know, I'll go and get another one.

The only reason I've been, I've just been waiting, you know, and every time I go in, my doctor's like, well, do you think, you know, are you ready for another one? Do you want to do another one? Let's just, you know, scheduling it and going in and getting it done. Well, listen, when Susan Pratton has been on my show, and she's really smart when it comes to like, you know, what you need to do to have, like, killer orgasms. And I've changed the way I orgasm and breathe during it to have, like,

like better ones. And I've definitely changed my orgasms to be 10,000 times better because of what she said. But she does talk a lot about how, you know, the inside of a woman's vagina, not just the clit, not just the G spot, but like you said, the whole inside is just filled with so many nerve-ending. And the key to having great orgasms and really getting yourself to like go, you know, to the end of the earth with your orgasms is, and to have the best orgasms ever, is to fully engorge every part of that inside in there so that you really feel it. Because I was talking to a girl recently who was like a size queen. And I was saying like, you know, I bought this really gigantic dildo by accident.

I promised I didn't want to buy something that was like a size of up. You can send it to me. I love big dildos. I had a guy throw it out for me because I was like, I'm going to fucking ruin myself. I don't know what he did with it. He told me my gym partner, he threw it out on his way home. But maybe he took it home for fun for one try. I don't know.

But like I used it every now and then. And, you know, and I remember saying, like, I think because it was so big that it filled me up so much that when I would be able to use it and get turned on enough for it to go. And it was like the sickest orgasm ever. And I think it's because, like, what Susan was saying is that everything inside was being touched and stimulated. That's why, yeah, you kind of discover how sensitive it is in there. And, you know, even if I think back when I was younger, before I really tried to sort of explore playing with my G spot and having a G spot orgasm, you know, I was always just, I knew that I would orgasm by stimulating my clit.

And so that's what it was always about. And I didn't really spend a lot of time exploring, trying to find out, you know, playing with myself. Like, how does it really, like, what's going on inside me? Because I just kind of assumed that, well, that's not how I orgasm. Well, it turns out, yes, I do orgasm, I can orgasm through a G spot orgasm. And when all of that stuff, like you say, is super, super engorged and just super sensitive, there's so many nerve endings in there. And every single one is just going off, you know, ping, ping, ping, oh, it feels,

that's what I'm saying, it just feels amazing. Then it's like if you even touch your gist or your clitoris after that, it's like you're done. I mean, I have the, oh. And that's with the g-s, but that's with the o-shot, right? Yes. I'm always edging myself because I can come so fast. You know, like a dude, like I could be like a minute man sometimes. And I'm like, no, you know, because it's feeling so good, you know, and you want to prolong it and drag it out. Like you don't

want to go over the edge. You just want to ride that edge. I never had that riding that edge sensation just from my clip. I mean, a little bit, but not even on the same scale that when you engage, like what's going on inside you and get that going. Oh my gosh. It's, it feels really good. Okay, so it lasts about a year. That's a long time if you ask me. And how much does it cost? Well, so my doctor was nice enough to do it for free because she came on the show and that was our trade.

So that was very nice. But I think they cost around, I think it's around $1,000. Now, now that was back then. And I'm sure you could shop around, find a good deal or whatever. And probably even I talk about this a lot on my show. like when you're getting laser or things like that done, I'm like, get a Group on, you know, like, look like seriously. I'm sure they have a Group on O'Shots. But I don't want people, you know, that aside, like literally I do not want people to cheap out over their pleasure. Like,

this is really well worth it. You know, if you do anything for yourself sexually, I would say this, do this, because it really made a big difference. For you, someone that was going through, pari manopause and maybe notice because when you're going through parry menopause a lot of different things happen and every other day it's like fucking different and that's what's so crazy about going through peri you could be hornier than ever and then your click could go numb for a little while and then you could have like the best orgasms ever and then your orgasms feel like phantom orgasms like a lot of things change because your hormones are in flux they're like even if you take hormones which i did through perry what i learned from my doctor and it's very true like you can never really fully balance them

through that time because they're so different every day. There was no way you could get the right concoction, right? Like, so it's, you know, you kind of could take a little bit and it takes the edge off of some of the symptoms, but you're going to go through a lot of different things down there. You know, what I always say, though, to keep your sex drive, because when you go through full menopause, it can go away forever. And it does a lot of times because women aren't fucking enough. And if you're single, you know, you got to be playing with yourself all the time.

Like you don't, if you use it, you don't lose it. That's a real thing. I have talked to women. on my show who are full on menopause, but because they like met a guy, like right around that time, a new guy and they were fucking him like mad, or they were still fucking their husbands like mad.

They're still horny as ever doing all kinds of crazy things, you know, the people that are my show. But that's not the norm is a lot of times you're not fucking that much any time that person because you're with them for so long. Or if you're single, you don't have anybody.

So I tell my single friends, like when you're going through pari menopause, like you got to jerk yourself off as much as possible. Like put a dildo in you, walk around all day long, like don't stop. Don't lose your baseline. I mean, I'm going to try the female Viagra cream. I remember people calling into my show and talking about pellets for sure and hormones

because when I was started hormones, I was just doing a little estradiol and some progesterone. And then eventually when I started to lose my sex drive more, I realized I needed some testosterone. And that's when I went and I did pellets. Now, you did pellets too. And now, pellets made me really fucking horny. Yeah. Okay. What about you?

What was your experience? No, they definitely did. Yeah, they definitely did. I stopped doing the, I loved the pellets. It's like kind of a no fuss, no must. You just, they, you know, pop them in there. I stopped doing it for, because I just noticed that my, I started to not be like healing. Like one, at one time I used it and it just kind of left a scar.

And I didn't want, I don't really want a scar on my butt. So I, this is old age stuff. Sorry. Well, that's the word I mean. That's the only thing what I mean. That's not. Like all of a sudden, it just hit me. You know, I was like, wait a minute. That didn't heal right. And I had done a few pellets, you know, before and no problem. And then all of a sudden I just noticed that. And so I was like, okay, nope, I don't want that. I don't want, you know, I don't want a bunch of scars on my butt.

So I stopped. But now I just use the cream. I've got some cream that I get at a compounding pharmacy. And that, yeah, that's testosterone. So that keeps me horny. I just like, oh yeah, for sure. Honestly, I think like women, I wish I knew what I knew now before I hit perimenopause. I would have started doing that some of this stuff. I would have pushed to do some of this stuff or at least measure my accurate, have an accurate baseline and actually made notes to myself so that I knew where I was at. You know, I just wish I had that information because I don't want to, that's the whole thing. You know, it's hard to know. I know where I'm at now, but I don't know what my original. baseline was. And I just don't want to lose, you know, I want to fight to preserve this as best I can. So. Yeah, because there was, I mean, there was a time when I was just doing the light amount of, like the

light amount of hormones, but I wasn't doing testosterone and my sex drive, it was like, oh, if my guy came over and Easter would go down to me, I would totally get into it. I would get wet. I would have a great orgasm. But I was not thinking about it. You know what I mean? And I miss that. I like to feel like corny for no reason. You know what I mean? And I, I know when I was on, and I think I've said this before, and I don't know if you remember this, but I was on the pellets. I was like with my son, a swim class for him. And some girl walked by and I saw her ass in like a bathing suit and I got horny for her

ass. And I'm like, what the fuck is going on? I'm like, it's turning me into a guy. Do you know what I mean? I mean, that's like when. Well, and the other thing, too, is when you take testosterone, it's like, oh my God, talk about like bumping up your sex drive. Holy shit.

I mean, it, yeah. It really does. Yes. But the thing is that you have to like be careful because like it can make your clit grow. It could make your voice get deeper, you know. But like once you're on hormones, if you're the right doctor, they really sort of watch you and level you out. That's what I didn't kind of like about the pellets in that I couldn't really control

the dosage. And I felt like I went very up and down when it came to the horniness. Like it reached a peak, you know, when I was taking my son swimming. But then it sort of waned and went a way. way totally. Whereas now that I'm on injections, it's kind of like baseline all the time, whatever. But I am not so crazy horny like I was. And sometimes I miss that. You know, like when you're ovulating, you still ovulate, right? Like, and you just wake up. I love that. Oh my God. Yes. That's what you want, right? And I feel like pellets really give you that.

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Sometimes I miss that. You know, like when you're ovulating, you still ovulate, right? Like, you just wake up. I love that. Oh my God.

Yes. That's what you want, right? And I feel like pellets really give you that. They do. They do. Yeah. And I'm wondering,

like, I'm going to try. Now, I will say, though, as an older woman, like, you know,

one thing that happened to my vagges is like a little tighter, which is a little weird. And I'm like, you know, and that is a thing that could happen. But also I find, I find that what definitely happened is that my orgasms, though I'm not as like overly horny,

like if I'm ovulating, but my orgasms. And I don't know if it's from what I learned from Susan Bratton, but became 10,000 times stronger and better. Like seriously. Like when I do orgasm, they are like better than any orgasm I ever had. And I'm like, what the fuck's going on? I know. Well, I honestly, so for me, I think it's the.

the Oshot and the testosterone. Like I just, I'm like, give me that testosterone because I think that's what really makes you horny and want to fuck all the time. And I don't, it's not doing anything. It's not like I'm not growing a mustache and I'm not like, nothing weird is happening. And I've been using it for a while. I just like it because I do. I love, I love that feeling like this is what men have to deal with all the time.

Yeah, it does. Yeah. I mean, I have had full-fledged women call into my show and be like, I went on pellets and now I'm having gangbings. like seriously like that kind of like like I said when I saw that woman walk by and I just got like attracted for no reason by a body part I'm like this is like how guys walk around all day long this is why they are the way that they are because they're so fucking jacked up on testosterone you know I didn't stay at that level and I don't know that I would want to stay at that level all the time like

the way I'm leveled out now with my injections is pretty much even I am going to try the female biagra cream just for fun you know what I mean like why not I don't really? I don't really drink. Not really. I don't drink at all. I don't do drugs. I don't do anything. Okay. I'm like, I'm going to try some fucking female Viagra, you know, because I'm like, why not? Maybe it would make my orgasms even better. I don't know. I don't know about this. I want to try it now. Yeah, well, I'm going to give a full review on it. I, listen, I, you know, I don't like to promote things if I don't know about them. I really, like, if I believe in something, I could sell it and want to because I like helping people. So I'm always, like I'm a pusher. If I like something I tell all my friends and everything, not, for

any other reason than I just like to hook people up. So, you know, I'm going to try it and see. I did some Googling and there's what most people say it really helps her orgasms, but you hear of people like, oh, did nothing for me. So you just never know, right? You know, could be one of those outliers. I don't know. Viagra typically works for all men, but I'm sure there's some guys out there that it doesn't work for. I'm going to try the Viagra cream. I just got to notice that it's like going to be at my house like in a couple days. So I will give a, I will give a full update. I just can't believe that it wasn't available before. They have all these things for guys available and now they're

finally doing stuff for women. I didn't know that women took Viagra in the pill form. Did you know that? That women would take that? No, I didn't know they could. Yeah, well, they did. It didn't really do anything, but they found like through the cream, I think, is what it was. I did a whole episode on it. It was like super interesting. But I was just like, I was hoping it was going to get here before. When you do get it, you have to do like a whole online thing. It's prescription only. You get it through a doctor, you do it online, you know, you meet them online and go through some stuff just to make sure it's okay. The telehealth stuff. Yeah. And the good thing about the shameless care one is they have two percent instead of one percent. Like the typical cream out there is like one percent of like the

stuff that makes you fucking horny or give you a clit like the extra stimulation. No, do you just, is it all two percent? It's external. Okay. So you don't put any inside. You just rub it around the area. No, that's why I was interested in the Oshot, which I think is like super interesting because you're saying like that engorges you all over. and last for a whole year. It does. But I think that it's interesting that these options exist, right? And they're different options, but I love that they exist because, like, for someone that

maybe doesn't want to go on hormones and a lot of people are very anti them, they could go get the Oshot that's going to help for a whole year. Or if they're afraid of needles, they could do, there's female viagric cream. Maybe that helps your stuff go over. But the most thing that helps when you're older is to just fucking, like to me, when I get even the slightest bit horny, the slightest. I make sure I finish myself off. I don't let one minute of that ever go. No, I don't. Because I know it's like homework. I know that that's the key to keeping myself fully plugged in. Right.

Yes. I'm a single mom. I'm busy. It's like you have to take time for that because you could, it could become like a thing. That's what happens. Yeah. Yeah. Use it or lose it. Yeah. You have to. So I'm just like always like whatever. But I mean, every time you said like, oh, it's like filler. and your thing. I was like, you know, me and you talk off air. And we talk about filler and Botox because like a lot of people, like I was like, I always want to talk about filler and Botox for women out there because I think a lot of women, if they've never really tried it, should know about it. Because I've tried it all. When I was dating Dr. Guy, who's a guy that's been on my show, he was like a cardiologist turned injector and he just injected me with everything. So I've tried it

in my lips. I've tried Botox. I didn't do Botox until I was 45. And I know that like, you know, for the woman out there that is like, oh my God, I would never do filler. a Botox because look at how people look like. For every one person that looks so fucking crazy because they're so filled out and they're overdone and they have too much and they look like freaks, there's like 50 women that you have walked by that look great, that you would have no idea, but are doing the same thing. Most people don't overdo it. A little Botox goes a long way. It's really like the most basic thing that doesn't really change the way you look at all, right? But it just does something that makes you look great.

You know, I didn't do Botox. I was 45 because I was like, why do I need it? Now people are doing it when they're 30, but like, I think it's great. People are doing it when they're 20. Like there's women doing it in their 20s. I think that's crazy. I didn't hold out as long as you, but I didn't start doing Botox until later as well. But, you know, why?

Why people are doing it in their 20s? I don't know. I think they tend to look a little bit older sometimes those younger girls that use it too much. I do too. When you're younger, it kind of has the reverse effect. It doesn't, you know, I don't think it gives them the look they think they're getting. It does it. It ages them.

I mean, you could take a 25 year old, I think, and they're going to look 30. Yeah, with too much, right? I mean, what I really believe in but doesn't look good on me because I kind of like my lips and they're not like really skinny and I I let him inject my lips like I think honestly though lip filler in the right person that has like really thin lips or a really thin upper lip compared like I think lip filler could be a fucking game changer for yeah I don't know why people hate it I know you hate it because you see all these people that are over injected they're so their their lips are so full but my sister she's gone like way off the she's gone off the reservation

but we don't even try to talk to about it because she she she knows she's like She's one of those. She just absolutely loves it. She knows that they're big and she loves them. And I'm like, we don't, you know, she did have the thinner. I got the nice lips. She got the thin lips. But still, she could have just.

She does it too much. Oh, oh, it's, she is that person that people look at that universal model when you look at them and go, that's too much. That's her. Like overdone. But. Yeah. And unfortunately, people get used to that.

I remember once there's two types of like filler. There's Rastolin and Juba Dern. And one of them, I think it's Rustylin. Like I can only use Juven. It's the only one I like to use. I sometimes do get a little filler just in my cheeks, just a little bit. One vial goes a long way because I'm not trying to look like perfect. I just would rather just get a facelift one day.

But Rustilin, when you injected, that filler brings a lot of water into your face, like when you first get it. So you swell up from Rustin. You don't swell up from Juverdrum. It goes away. But the reason why I'm freaking. hate up is because the first time Dr. Guy, I had done Juvederm in my lips before, but someone did it in my lips with rustlin. And I had those blowjob lips. And let me tell you, this is why your sister keeps getting them. Because you walk around with blowjob lips and every guy is like salivating, following you. I am telling you, no matter how bad they look, every guy likes blowjob lips. I'm, even guys that are saying they don't like it, every guy, maybe they were looking at me because I looked weird. But when I had those big, big, blown up blowjob lips and I had to go out. I was like so embarrassed, but I noticed so many guys trying to. No, I'm really serious. The rustling, of course, goes down. Yeah. But I think what happens

is some of these women, if they get it and it looks big and then they get used to it and they get all this attention, they're like, oh, put in more and then they get like super big. But I think, like I said, for every one person that you see, like your sister that has it done too much, it turns people off and they're like, I would never get it because I don't want to look like that. But you don't have to. There's so many women that are doing it and it looks fucking great. A little big goes a long way. I have some good friends that had super thin lips and they just did just a little bit and it looks really nice. I mean, really good. They did a fantastic job. It's just a little, you know, a little plumping. It looks really pretty. I think. Yeah. And I think the hardest thing that you have that you have to take into consideration when doing it. And this is where I failed in the beginning is like, You can't chase perfection.

I remember when Dr. Guy first injected me. I was like, oh. Yeah, you start to be like, oh, now this part of my face looks so young. So now put it some more stuff over here. And then you're like, oh, now that looks good, but I need something over here. And then you start going all over and you start to go crazy because you're trying to be perfect. And then what happens is you look fucked up. And that happened to me.

And that's when I learned after the first time of that happening to me, like, you know what? You release those expectations. You're not going to, you know, you want to look fucking killer for your age. Get a facelift one day. Like that's really like the best thing. And nowadays, the facelifts they do are like sick because they're not just pulling the skin up there. Do fat injections.

You know, they do. They really make women look great. But like, you know, just try not to look perfect. Just do a little bit to look slightly refreshed and look good for your age, right? Instead of trying to look 25 if you're 45, you just want to look great for 45. Yeah. And you can. Yeah.

Right? Like Botox, I don't know what it is about Botox. It just, there's something about tightening up your forehead that makes you look like you had great sleep, right? Like it's, it's very subtle, but it's like amazing. I know. No, it does because it lifts your brow. It lifts your brow up. It doesn't lift my brow up. And if anything, it pushes my brow down. And I've had to, and I'm sure people listening, I've had this happen to them. Like I've had to, I do less in my forehead and more in between my eyes. And on the sides because my forehead pushes down so much like that muscle is so strong like I can't do that much and and if I lift it gives me two lines on the side so I've learned how to do my Botox great and what's great about Botox this is what I like about it is like even in worst case scenario your eyelids get pushed down because that happened to me or your brow you know you get lines because your browser lifted up like it goes away like it's not doesn't last and trust me I don't know about your Botox but my Botox never lasts six months does yours Yeah.

It does. Like every time I go in, we're like, well, when was the last time you were here? I'm like, I don't know. It's been a while. I mean, I just, yeah. Six months? See, mine wears up three months. But I, I don't know.

I work out really hardcore and I metabolize things very fast. But like you're super skinny too. You look like you would be the type. But you, it lasts for you for six months? Yeah. Yeah. Well, that's good. So if you have a problem, it's going to last for six months.

But I don't have, but, you know, I mean, I get. there's a minimum amount. I want to say it's like 50 units. Yeah. I get like that's the minimum I think my gal will do maybe less. I don't whatever but so whatever the minimum is that's all I get like it's just like I I still want my face to move. I don't yeah yeah I don't want like so my face still articulates and all that and I and then I don't know maybe maybe I just don't notice it as much when it wears it. I'm not sure because I don't maybe I don't go so heavy on it I'm not I don't know but yeah no I mean I I would probably only go in twice a year. Like maybe, yeah, maybe longer than six months.

I mean, I just don't go that often. I wait six months, but it's like I think what happens is around three months. I start to look kind of not so great, but I'm like, oh, you know, I don't look great and I don't know why and I forget. And then I go on and, you know, things, life goes by so fast and, you know, months go by. And I'm like, oh, yeah, I look like shit because I need Botox. I mean, then I go get it. And I'm like, why didn't I do this three months ago when I started looking like shit?

I think it doesn't last that long and the older you get and the more you get used to it, it tends to wear off. And that was the good news to me to tell people like, you have a little bit of a problem. Even with the eyebrow being pushed down, it does soften up as it goes. It's not like drastic one day you lose everything. You know,

it goes over time. So nothing really lasts. Nobody really dies from Botox. You know, maybe I'm not a doctor. I shouldn't say that. But anyone afraid of trying it. I waited until I was 45 because I never understood like, what are you, why do you, why not have

wrinkles in your forehead? Like, I didn't get it. I didn't get why people wanted it. All my friends were like, you need it, Kathy. And then when I did it, I was like, oh my God, I'm obsessed with it. And what I love the most about Botox out of everything is that it really doesn't change the way you look. I was always afraid of like looking like a different person, right?

And then showing up someplace and everyone's looking at you like you're a freak. Yeah. But like it doesn't change the way you look at all. It just makes you look better, honestly, you know? Yeah. Filler can change the way you look depending. Like when doctor guy filled me up improperly because he was such a fucking doucheback. First of all, this guy, like, when you're supposed to do Botox and filler and stuff,

you're not supposed to lay down, like, right afterwards. He, like, ejected me with Botox and filler that made me fuck him. Like, I mean, this is how rude he was. What? Yeah. He actually, oh, not only that. He was such a douche back. He filled my lips with filler without any numbing cream.

Okay? Now, I don't know. Oh, what? Dude, the pain. Oh, my God. And I didn't know. I was just listening to him. He's a doctor.

You know what I mean? He was my boyfriend at the time. Like, oh, my God. He was such a fucking asshole. So he would just go, oh, you want a vial? Because he had the shit at his house. He just, like, put it all over my face. And he, when he did my lips and he doesn't, his girlfriend now, he just does the top lip bigger.

Like, some people think, like, the top lip being bigger than the bottom lip is like a thing, which I think is so wrong. Okay? Like, seriously. I know, but you see, like, do you see when women are lining in the lips, they're doing that now, too? I don't know. Like, and they actually, like, cut straight across their cupid's bow. I don't know. I can't.

No. I don't like it. I like my lips. So I, you know, I'll align them in certain ways to make them look better. But I didn't like what he did, but it would go away. Same thing, filler, you know, but filler can go away. I'm very leery about doing a lot of filler because to me it does travel. I think it can move if it's not done properly, right?

Like if you don't put it like on the bone. I don't know. I've had it in my cheeks. I feel like it's like dropped and moved. And so I think a little bit of filler, I'll do like one or two vials max. You know, you'll go to a doctor. and they'll be like, oh, okay, like, you know, six vials. Oh, my gosh.

And I'm sure that's what I need to look what they think I should look like, which is like I had a facelift. But, you know, like I said, if I want to look like that, I'd get a real facelift. Because over time, if you're spending, you know, $10,000 every time just for injections, right? Because it's like a $1,000 a vial. That's a lot. Why not just get a facelift? Right.

Yes. No, I agree. I don't do the fillers, but I have in the, I've tried, you know, I've tried it in the past and I tried it in my cheeks one time. I didn't really like that. I think just a tiny bit goes a long way if you just do it really subtle, you know, and I never had like really strong cheekbones to begin with, so I don't really do it up high. I do it down a little bit lower on my cheekbones to fill in that face because you lose volume when you get older. It's just a fact. I tried it once on my jaw line. That's a big thing because, you know, you lose bones in your face

when you get older, that's what makes your face look old. And that's why these new facelifts are really cool, because they're not just pulling the skin. They're putting stuff in to build the bones and the structure and everything to make it more youthful. And that's what it's about. So a lot of injectors started filling in the jawline and all that stuff. But I know for me, because I have a young kid and I don't want to show up at his high school graduation like looking like his grandmother. I will 100% get a facelift. I'm probably at the age I should get it now. but I don't want to, but maybe I would say maybe three or four years from now, that's what I will do. I am all for trying anything. Like, I'm skinny and I just like did a no carb thing and changed my diet a lot

just to lose a couple pounds. I felt like I had gained, but I wouldn't go on Majuro because I don't need that much to lose. But I believe in those injections for women or for men who have a lot of weight to lose. Like they really work. Like I'm not against any of that stuff for people to do to make themselves look better, right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No, for sure. I've got, yeah, I've got several friends that have used, I don't know if it was Monjaro or Gobie or, you know, some sort of GLP one. And it's been incredible for them. Yeah, they lose a whole person. And, you know, being overweight, it can be a real fucking problem that creates a lot of kind of issues. Yes, a lot of health, you know, you're getting a lot

of secondary health conditions that you don't want. Yeah, I mean, it's like really bad. So I think that, like, I don't need it. But if I did, I would do it. I mean, I take it. I take very good care of myself in that I work out. I think that that's like a really important. Taking hormones does help with a lot of things. It's not going to make you lose a ton of weight, but I think it definitely keeps the weight at bay for sure, you know, and I've been on them for a really long time. And I did gain weight through parium menopause like every woman does. And I was always really skinny. But I don't think I gained half as much as I would have if I wasn't on hormones. You know what's weird is I think I told you this right like I've recently lost just like 10 pounds, not even trying. And I'm in period.

Yeah, you might have like a thyroid. You might have hypothyroidism, which is and it's going to be terrible for me to say this right now. And I'm not a doctor and this is not. I know it's sexual health Saturdays, but I'll have real doctors on talking about this and they're never going to say what I'm going to say. But if I was hypothyroid, no, a hyper, hyperthyroid. I don't think I'd ever fucking fix it because I have a friend who. hyperthyroid like you know your fucking thyroid's messed up like that and she literally has to force herself to eat to keep weight on i was like oh my god like my whole life would be different if that was that's where i'm at it's like where i'm at right now i'm doing it's ridiculous and i'm like what is going on i know i mean i really do thank you i mean i really need to go but i'm serious like so you know i'm we're the same height right i'm like five seven and a half oh you're five seven okay i'm five ten oh no you're taller yeah and i'm 120 pounds Yeah, that's skinny.

Like I was, I usually would hover around 1.30 and I felt like that was skinny and I was happy with that and it was not too skinny. But now I feel like a little. No, that's perfect for your own height. That's really thin. Yeah. But now I'm like, I really feel too skinny. And it's honestly making me a little self-conscious.

Like I feel weird about it. Yeah. Yeah. I hate to say what a plastic surgeon friend told my friend's husband once and he told us and this when we were younger. He's like, you know, he told me like every guy loves the skinny. girl until they get older. That's what I was saying.

It's just when I was, you know, I was this when I was in my 20s and, you know, 20s and most of my 30s, you know, and then I started to, you know, creep up a little bit to like 1.30. But I, yeah, I feel it's weird. I go, I used to walk around like this all the time and think it was hot. Now I don't, I just don't think it looks right. Like you said, it doesn't, when you get a little bit older, it just, because, and then it's also making my face hollow out.

So I'm like, well, that, yeah, that unfortunately, that shows the real age. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And they do look better and have less wrinkles. And if they lose a lot of weight, their face is like, what the fuck? But it's like because they don't have that fat in there. Yeah.

Now, like, that's why I always worked out. Because when I was like really young, I remember specifically seeing a woman at the beach. And she was like really skinny, but she had like all the cellulate. And she like wasn't like tone. You know what I mean? And I just remember thinking like, because I was always a very skinny person. And I always went to the gym to work out and bulk up and have an ass. So, like, I'm, like, very in shape because I work out and I work out with weights.

And that's just, like, what you have to do. And now, I don't know about you, but, like, I am, as a skinny girl, I am horrified by the, like, the awful clothing that is available out there right now. So I don't know how you sport these baggy mom jeans that are all the rage being so skinny because there's nothing worse than wearing that shit when you are skinny. If you don't have like a body to wear that stuff, it looks terrible. Like I don't care. I have been so out of fashion for the past five years. Still wearing my skinny jeans. Fuck you with these baggy, disgusting clothes that women are walking around with.

They look so good on maybe some people, but I do not like it. And I think as a skinny girl, like I get lost in them. Like they look terrible. You know, I don't know. Do you wear that shit? With your skinny legs and ass? I wear the I wear I do both actually I'm a hybrid I will yeah I have like some big baggy 5-0-1s that I love to like cinch up and you know wear with a tank top like I think those are I think

it's cute and then put a little sandals with it or whatever and then I but I do prefer my skinny jeans still like although yeah if you're skinny you look better I think I always felt like as a skinny person like I looked better in tighter clothes I always looked like felt like I look like I look like I had a sickness when I would wear really baggy clothes because I'd get lost in it. I couldn't carry it really well. Though I like the look of it, like I said, I just can. And when you're talking about how overly skinny you are, I was like, oh, God, are you sporting those mom jeans with nobody?

You look like you have like, you know, you're like dying. My five, no, I don't do the, I'm like, I'm not buying the mom jeans, but I, you know, I'm doing like the oversized 501s with the boyfriend jeans. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

That I'm down for. But yeah, I know what you're talking about. like the mom. I can't, yeah, with the big long, makes your ass look like it's half the size of your body, how long it is. I don't like that. Let me ask you this is very off topic. And this last thing I want to talk about because we were talking about, you know,

we did want to talk about sex and we're talking about vaginas and pussies. We're off on a tangent. Yeah, sorry. Yeah, vaginas and pussies. Like, I just wanted to know because like I feel and my like when I had penetrated a site, like recently, like that I am way tighter than I was when I. was younger. And now, do you notice yourself getting tighter or are you still playing with your huge dildos and you're good to go and all that kind of stuff? No, I'm still nice and tight.

And I do think part of that's the O shot. And just the other day, as a matter of fact, in this, I was in a mood and I was like, wanted to fuck myself with my big special occasion dildo. You still have it. Oh, my God. Of course. I'll never get rid of that thing. And I was like, okay, you know, I'm whipping it out. But it was really hard to get in. Like really, I had to sit there and kind of really loop it up and breathe and try like that. Right, whereas in the past you wouldn't have had to do that, right? Right. And I haven't used it in a while. So, you know, I do think it does, like if I've been using it a lot, it's easier to use. But then when I haven't used it, it just pops, everything pops back into shape. So yeah. So you are getting maybe a little tighter. Like I just

think that that is an age thing. Someone told me that, like, someone older than me told me, no, that's like an old age thing. Because I was like, do I have a pelvic floor issue? I wanted, you know, because I'm doing sexual health Saturdays now and I'm trying to wrangle doctors. It's hard to get in touch with these people to come on and talk about different things. And I was like, maybe it's a pelvic floor thing. You know, I do a lot of working out. And I always have, but I'm like, you know, you just don't know because that's like, I had a girl on recently who talked about, she was like very tight and she had a pelvic floor issue. And then she did some PT and it went away. But I think that when you get older, you do naturally get a little bit tighter. And maybe that's

why my orgasms are so great. Maybe that's why there's so much better. I don't know. But what... Yeah. Yeah, but what Susan Bratton taught me, which I think I should share in what I did was like, I used to, she was, she talks about how like a lot of women like, whole, like clench when they're having, or it's the other that you're clenching and you're supposed to push out or you're pushing out and you're supposed to clench. But whatever she said that most women do is what I was doing and what she said was the right thing to do I did. And now I'm not being helpful because I don't remember what the fuck it was. But it's just like you're supposed to like instead of clenching and holding and then pushing like you're just supposed to like relax into it and not push out. I think that's what it is.

And then what would happen instead of me like pushing it out and having that orgasm, I would like breathe through it and just relax into it. And then it would make my orgasms last so much fucking longer than I'm like, maybe I'm having multiple orgasms and I was never that person because I think I was always clenching and pushing out. I don't push out. Yeah. I think that might relax. Yeah. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. And breathe into it. Yep. And not push it out and let it happen. And then it just stretches out, right? I don't, yeah, I don't ever. Yeah. I mean, I've always had good orgasms that. I've never tried pushing them out. And so I think that might be part of it. Yeah, I'm not a pusher outer. But my orgasms changed. But I always felt like I had great orgasms before.

I just didn't experience them as being as intense as I have them now. Now, I personally never lost my lubrication, but I was always someone that got like extra wet to begin with anyway. Like, you know, that was like a part of my physiological body. You know, like guys would be like, oh my God, you're so fucking wet. Like before you're, I could just think about sex. I get wet. Yeah.

You're the same way? That is another thing. No, I'm, and I think, again, it's probably a combination of the hormones and, the O shot, I am still, I am ridiculously wet. Sometimes I get, you know, you don't want to get overwet because you want to be able to, you do, you want to be able to grip his cock, you know, like, feel it. Yeah, I got it. Yeah. I never thought of that. When it's overly wet, it's sloppy in there. Like, I don't want that, you know, like, it's almost embarrassing. It's like, oh, oh, sorry about that. Sorry about that. Let me get that. Like, I'm going to dab that.

Let me dab, dab, dab, dab, dab, dab. Get some of that wetness out of there. It's, yeah, I can get super, super saturated. But you weren't like that before? Not to the, I was always a good lubricator, but not to this extreme. I mean, yeah, it's. Yeah, see, I was always so good that I never even, and needed like lubrication to have anal sex because like I would just be lubricated from my pussy because I would be so turned on that that whole area would be so wet that I was just like put it in.

without, I don't know, I never used lube ever to have anal. Never needed lube in my pussy. Never needed lube for those big dildos I use. Never because, you know, but like I said, I think that that's just a part of my physical body. And I never really lost that through Perry or peri menopause ever really. But like I said, I did always stay on hormones a little bit here and there and then just change them up.

And then, and you do kind of have to change them up. I mean, everybody goes through menopause at a different time. Not everybody is, like they say the average is 51, but I have a girlfriend who's like 57, 56 still has periods. You know, that's like late onset menopause. Right. And there's early onset menopause. But most people are around average. I was average.

I went at the time. And they say it's very genetic. You tend to go like when your mom has gone or somebody else, you know. But it's a real mind fuck. But I think that what's so great is because more people are talking about it, I mean, maybe that's why there is a female. Viagra cream. And there is a female OSHA and there are things that they're making for women to get their sex drive. Because I'm always

like, you know, if guys make this shit, like why weren't they making this shit for women? Like, they like to fuck women, right? Like, don't they want their women to be horny? Like, they should? Yeah, you're making it just Viagra for guys. Make it for women. And now they do it. I was like, oh, thank God. So I can't wait to try it. I'm going to tell you

about it. I can't wait to hear about it. I'm glad I, you told me. I had no idea that they even had this. Like I would just use it straight out. I love to try stuff. I'm all for it. Like anything that will that could or will make my sex and my sexual experience is better, I am all for. Yeah, I'm going to do what you did. I'm going to go get a doc. I'm going to find a doctor in the city that will do the O shot with me so I could talk through it and have them on my show. They'll give it to me for free, quote unquote, right? Maybe I could get a coupon code for people in New York City, right, to do it as well. But try it out too so that I could tell people because I love medical stuff. I like trying that stuff because I'm interested in it. And I do like educating others. Like I said, I'm a pusher, but only because I like to help people. So to me, if the Viagra cream really works, like I can't wait to tell people about it and be like, oh my God, like this will really help you have better orgasms or like, oh, I got this. Oh shit. It's like, like, like you did. Like it's really

great. Yeah. For a whole year at last. Like that's like great information to pass on because you actually been there done that, you know? So I had the guy on talking about the female Viagra cream last Saturday, but like I was like, I need to try it too if I'm going to like tell people to go get it, right? And I'm the prime candidate. I'm around the right age. So I can't wait. I will keep you posted. We talk offline. I'll let you know. Yeah. How it goes. And then I'm going to do the O shot. You should. I mean, you really should. I would love, yeah, I would love to know what your take is on it. I just, I loved it. I think it really did a lot for me. And now that I'm thinking about it. I'm like, I should just go back. I need to get a little top. Yeah, get it again. Yeah. Let me just tell you, I don't like to

feel around for my G spot because I'm like a little weird with stuff like that. I call it pokey pokey. Like, I don't even like to touch the inside of my belly button. It flips me out. So I don't want to go inside my vagina and feel around for shit. So, but if like you could like engorge my G spot and make it bigger so that it's found easier by somebody else, like that to me is a plus. So that's why I want to try it because I don't want to go looking for it. But if it could get some help, because I don't think I've ever found my G spot, because I've never squirted, you know, and I would like to. Like it's, you know, as long as you're alive, why not? I want to try to have to squirt.

So I feel like maybe the O shot would be the right thing. So I'm going to try it. I will keep you posted. Do me a favor and send me for this episode to go up with it. Your video of the Oshot. I will. I'm going to. Okay.

Send it for my, I'm thinking, you know, I'm telling you, I have a feeling like somebody, somebody's going to like get off on watching me and that with my legs in the stir. for sure you know how many guys you got off when you were talking about the guy's small dick and how pathetic it was i mean you guys could just get off on the craziest things you know your legs in stare-ups you know come on yeah they're up there like you know the she's like in her chair between my legs you know there's the nurse there she's sort of assisting like this is the guy's gonna be like what's this oh my god i can't wait to see on my discord how many like hot signs are

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