Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1121 - Jasmine and her Husband are Into Threesomes, Couple Swaps, Having Solo Partners and a Lot More

Episode Date: May 22, 2025

Jasmine and her husband are into threesomes, couple swaps, having solo partners and much more and she called in to talk all about it. When did they decide to open up their marriage? What did they go out looking for at first? And, what do they enjoy doing now? Tune in to hear all the details including the status of their sex life before they entered into the lifestyle, how and why they decided to go online and start looking for couples to hook up with, the first couple they met up with and exactly what went down including her first dvp, the next couple they met and what they learned from, how and why they decided to be out ab out being in the lifestyle and how people, including their son reacted, how and why they decided to start playing solo, how playing solo led to complications and how communication was key for them to work through it, how they video themselves with their solo partners and then watch the videos together, how she loves hooking up with women and what she enjoys doing with them, how she met Candy (ep. 650) and what she did with her husband the first time she et her, how she met her much younger solo partner and all the crazy fantasies they’ve live out together including their most recent hardcore kidnapping fantasy and exactly what went down, how she was dying to squirt and how she wound up squirting and how she wound up as a squirting demo at a sex party, how they have evolved into having feelings for their solo partners and how they now all play together, how seeking out a lifestyle therapist has helped them navigate through everything they’re into, how and why she didn’t lose her libido plus a whole lot more. You can find Jasmine on Onlyfans here: ⁠onlyfans.com/jasmine_jett69⁠ **To see anonymous pics of JASMINE plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2512-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get $10 off Shameless Care’s female viagra cream, just click on the link and use code: Strictly   Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It helps the show. Okay. So today I have on Jasmine. Oh, my gosh. You're just going to get the feeling that this is just the tip of the iceberg with her. because she's into a lot of different things. She happens to be Candy's girlfriend. Remember Candy?

She was a very hardcore woman, Melf, a Milt episode 650. She was on my show. Candy told me she was meeting up with her girlfriend and they were going to have a girl's weekend in Vegas and she wanted to come on with her. But I was like, let me get your girlfriend's backstory because I'm sure there's backstory there. And there is, okay? Now listen, we used Candy's real name throughout the whole.

podcast. Okay. So I have to dub out every single real name with her stage name, which is candy, her strictly anonymous name, which is candy. Okay. So if you hear a weird candy here or there, it's because I had to dub it in and take out her real name. Okay. So anyway, back to Jasmine's backstory. Jasmine and her husband started in the lifestyle right at the get-go of COVID. Okay? They haven't been at it for a long time, but they have done a fucking lot of shit. Okay. They started out really just like fantasy talking to each other. They've been with each other for a very long time.

Solid relationship. Great sex life. Everything was really cool with them. Like I said, they were fantasy talking to each other about all the naughty things that they wanted to do. And they decided right around before, right before COVID hit to go on to the apps and put themselves on there, kind of looking for couples, figuring out what they wanted. They weren't even that specific at that time, but they wound up meeting.

a couple. They hooked up with that couple. She's very bisexual. She's very into women. She talked about what happens with that first couple. And then they met another couple who they were very close with who became like their mentors and got them heavily involved in the lifestyle. And after that, it was like a fucking free for all. They've gone very far. She told me, I think it was like in her first hookup with the one couple. She did her first DVP, which is two dicks inside of her. Okay. You know, she's fisted. You know, she's very into women. She talked about that. They started playing with couples. They did full swaps, but then they realized that it's like hard to find couples that they were both attracted to. So they eventually started playing solo. That came with its

issues. She talks about that. That's a really interesting part of their story because it's not like, oh, it's so easy to just play solo. That could always be a recipe for disaster. But it hasn't been for them. They've been able to navigate through that. And she talks about that. But it wasn't like easy, right. Her guy found a girl first and it kind of changed the game between them. She talks about how they navigated through it and how they work through it and how they're fine with it now and everyone's happy and they're almost like at the point where they're polyamorous because she eventually found her own solo guy and she talks about how like they all hang out together and if you saw them out, you'd think like that her husband's with the other girl and she's with the other guy but really like it's a

husband and wife with their fucking boyfriend and girlfriend all hanging out eating burgers together. But what she says is like that, you know, she's come to realize that she can't be everything for her partner as far as what he's into and vice versa. And she found a guy that she gets to play with and do all kinds of things with that her husband isn't into. And she talks about how freeing that was. The things that she's fucking into, oh my God, are all my worst fears. Okay. This bitch is into. The craziest experiences, like C&C she talks about, which is consent, non-consent. She has a kidnapping role play scenario. She played out with her guy, her young boyfriend, which is out of control.

Okay. She also likes medical play. She learned how to squirt in the lifestyle. I was obsessed with that story. We talk about that. She talks about how she learned to squirt and how now she can. She loves fifting women. She's been fisted.

She loves D.P. She loves anal. She loves women. She loves it fucking all. She's into so much, like I said, that I almost feel like I was all over the place in this episode because there was so much to cover, even though it was only a couple years. They are a very hardcore couple. They're very in the lifestyle.

And the other thing I forgot to mention is they're very out and proud. And she talks about how and why they're out and proud. And that's an interesting story too. You're going to love her whole episode. She's eventually going to come back on with Candy to talk. to talk about all their experiences together. Okay, they recently went to Vegas. They had a whole thing there.

They had a gang bang that she talked about on this episode that they're going to come on and talk about. But I thought it would be great to get her backstory. First, you're going to love her. She's really into sex. She sent me pictures. She's super hot. I have those sexy picks on my Patreon.

She has an only fan. I'm going to put the link to her only fans in the description. Okay, she's the real deal. She ain't on only fans to make a buck. She loves fucking sex and she loves to film it and she was always filming it. She was always doing it. And now she just puts that shit up on. On OnlyFans for your enjoyment as well as Fat Life.

And she gets her Fat Life profile name as well. All that information will be in the description. You're going to love her story. She's super interesting. So I'm going to get right to be right back on with Jasmine. Hi, Jasmine. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?

I'm doing great. Thank you. Happy to be here. Yeah, happy you're here, Jasmine. First of all, I like your name. It's a total slutty name. It is your fake name for your only fans. It's a perfect kind of sexy name.

Jasmine Jet. Jasmine Jet, Little Racy. Well, we heard about, what my listeners don't understand is they've heard a little bit about you from one of the people who have already called into my show, which is your girlfriend, which is Candy. She called you her girlfriend on my podcast, right? She definitely, we are definitely girlfriends in every sense. Yes.

So she gave me a killer episode. She talked about this girlfriend that she had. And then she told me she was going to come back on because her and her girlfriend were going to have this whole little thing go down in Vegas. And I'm like, okay, listen, if I'm going to have you guys on together, which we're going to do and you guys are going to recap your like crazy weekend in Vegas, I need to get your girlfriend's backstory. So that's what you're going to do here.

We're going to get your whole story, Jasmine, because you're fascinating. I mean, there has been an interview written about. you and your husband because you guys like fast-tracked through COVID into being in the lifestyle, right? I mean, you've done a lot since. It's only been a couple of years. It's only been, it's been actually three years. Yeah. I actually celebrated our three-year swing anniversary. But yeah, we've had a real steep trajectory into the lifestyle. It's just we, we, when we decide we want to do something and we're very sexually motivated people, we go for it. So we is you and your husband. Now, how?

long were you and your husband married for before you decided to take that plunge? 27 years. But I know in the email you said you were always like super horny and highly sexual. I mean, what was your guy's sex life before you decided to start having three sons and playing with others during COVID? What were you doing before that, though? It was really, I mean, we had a great sex life by any monogamous couple standards. I think it was off the charts.

We were creative. We had a really rich fantasy life. So that we introduced that into we weren't afraid to talk to each other about things and and explore fantasies and talk about some of the things that we're doing now. And we would explore a little bit of a little bit of bondage. And we started doing a little bit of impact and just kind of just kind of exploded from there. we would, a lot of times I would be thinking about something like, I mean, anal sex. I love anal sex and I was thinking about butt plugs and this was early out. This is pre-lifestyle.

And I thought, I don't know what he's going to think about that. I don't know. I just, I had no other outlets, no other resources where I was looking at. I wasn't even watching much porn. But I started thinking about butt plugs. And I, one night in the kitchen, I said, hey, what do you think about like me wearing a butt plug? And he was like, I've been thinking about the same thing. I've been watching this. So it was like that we've had a lot of those moments who were like,

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Use code strictly or just go to the description and click on the link. What do you think about like me wearing a butt plug? And he was like, I've been thinking about the same thing. I've been watching this. So it was like, though we've had a lot of those moments who were like, oh my God, same page. Yeah, that's great. That's great. Because I think no matter how long you've been with somebody, if you haven't put like stuff

on the table yet, it's always a little scary because what if the person's like, what the fuck or whatever. But I do think that being open and honest about your fantasies really can help your sex life. Even if you never cross the line, like I always say, if you have a good enough imagination, You could role play the hottest scenarios and it could really feel real, right? If you really go there, if you're able to put that stuff on the table. And what happened with you guys is it was all talk in the beginning. But eventually you guys are now living out those kind of fantasies that used to talk about, right?

Right. Most of them, yeah. I mean, there's a lot of fantasies. You're right. There's a line between real life, you know, acting out your fantasies and then having some really crazy fantasies, which are fun to talk about and think about and masturbate. to, but you don't actually do them. But yeah, we've delved into a lot of things that we've never thought we would do.

We never, we've learned that we never yuck anybody's yum because that could be our yum like soon. You never know. Well, so how did you get to the point where you decided to change it all up? We were, well, we were out of vanilla vacation in Cancun in February of 2020. And we were sitting around the pool and just kind of, we were doing our usual. kind of fantasy thing and talk just looking at couples and look it was it was a vanilla resort and and we we just started talking about it was like I'd be so hot if you went up grab that couple

and went up to the room and facetime me and you were fucking her and I was just watching and so we just kind of went into that and who would you who would you play with who do you find sexy and just making up stories about people yeah and just got so riled up so riled up we and then when we got back I was like, we got to make this happen. Like, how do we make, how do we make this happen? And so I got online and found some swinger sites. And that led us eventually to Cassidy and Lifestyle Lounge. And since then, we've delved into other, we both have separate,

we have separate fat life profiles as well. Yeah, because you guys played together and solo. But, I mean, like that first experience, what was it that you went out that first time when you went on to Cassidy looking for? I really did not know. I was just like it was a complete exploration. Okay. Just a complete, wow, this is a whole world that I knew was out here, but I didn't know

how to navigate it. And so I was just basically just searching around, looking at profiles, created, we both, we created a profile. And yeah, and then just started talking to a couple. from the Bay Area and set up a date. And they came to our house and we we fucked them. And it was actually the very night that it was March 14th, 2020. So it was the night that California pretty much shut down COVID. That's when we popped our Swinger cherries. Oh my God. That night. And so it was kind of like, we all kind of knew something was happening in the world, but we were just like, okay,

we can do fuck all about that right now so let's fuck yeah yeah yeah so did you guys though because this was going to be the first time you guys were hooking up with other people did you guys have any kind of rules or regulations going in to that first hookup with that couple we had some we really didn't even know what rules we were going to we we kind of played it a little bit by ear and then we had a debrief after that's kind of how we rolled yeah that's kind of how we rolled so we were pretty solid so I don't know that anything could have I mean maybe something tragic could have happened but yeah we we're pretty good communicators and it was kind of awkward some of it was awkward he came super fast my husband came super fast and she was a little cold like she wasn't into

women but she like was what I call a faker woman a faker bisexual you know like oh I'll just we'll warm it up together for the boys and that just always has bothered me because I really am into women and why fake it if you're not. But that's kind of a, that's a standard sort of practice with a lot of couples, I think. Yeah, that's sad for the woman because she's obviously putting herself in a position to do something she's not into. Like, why? I don't think there's any guys that are blowing guys because their wives want them to.

If they're doing it, it's because they fucking want to, okay? It's not because they're girls begging them and they're like, oh, I'll take one for the team. Okay. I think women, we just, we twist ourselves into press. a lot more for our guy than the guy does for the woman when that's sad 100% yeah yeah and what a fucking turn off if you're the girl that's really into girls when you could tell if she's not really fucking into it oh that that is so apparent so quickly yeah so but anyway so that was a little but you know first experience we were super excited that we were just that we were actually doing this

yeah yeah yeah yeah oh my god oh my god but you just talk walk me through the whole thing so you guys started it off you and her right yes and then yeah and then her husband dove right in and he and he they had had some experience so yeah and it was on and we all started fucking and then she actually so my husband no he hadn't come yet because she got up this is to her credit yeah she whispered to me well i think it was what my we were both fucking each other's husbands yeah And we were side by side and she said, have you ever had DVP? And I said, no. And I wasn't even sure what I was at that time.

And she said, would you like to? And I'm like, sure. I'm all about experiences. So I had my first DVP on my very first night. Yeah. And I mean, how cool. Because a lot of guys won't do DVP because they don't like contact with another penis. They just don't. So, but they'll do DP. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but your guy was down and her guy was

down. He was down and her guy was down. And so that was fun. And yeah, and then they, I can't remember exactly how it, I mean, like I said, my husband came quickly and it was, there was, there was that over, uh, she, she, she worked at a department store. So she had just been told that her whole, her entire department was going to be shut down. And so there was that overall sort of like the COVID thing did sort of shadow them. So fine. They left. We have our debrief. My husband and I and I were like, whoa, this was, this was great. Yeah. That was maybe not so great. We definitely want to do this again. Maybe not with them. Yeah. We want to do it again. We want to keep doing this. We like this. And you did it all through COVID, right? We did.

We did. Yeah, we met, we had video sex. We had FaceTime sex with another couple that was also very experienced, who kind of became sort of our swinger mentors for in the beginning. And they were great. And we ended up meeting them during COVID at a hotel, meeting them halfway there from Southern California. We're more northern, southern hours away. And we spent the night, and it was an amazing time. And we became, we're still friends. We're still friends. We're still friends. What did they, what did you learn from them that was like super beneficial right off, like, right off the back? Because you guys were newbies. Yeah.

Do you remember? Yeah. What did we learn? We learned everything. We learned, I mean, we, I've really learned that I could feel free just talking about sex and just being so nasty. I mean, we exchanged, especially with him. And she was cool with it. We were on a four-way text.

So everything was, there's no secrets. There's no just me talking to him or, you know, that sort of thing. But he and I definitely connected on a very nasty level. And so I felt that was just really liberating to me, like that I could just like be so nasty. And it was so hot to me. You weren't like that with your husband previously, I'm assuming, or that free yet with Not like that. Not like that. Yeah, I mean, I think it also, it helped me to accept who I am and not, because it is hard to be, if you're like that with one person and that person is maybe, oh, that's kind of weird. And they're like, oh, am I weird? And then someone else goes, oh, my God, that's so hot. Mm-hmm. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like pictures, close-ups of.

my close-ups of my my pussy that sort of thing like my husband wasn't into that this guy loved that oh my god your girlfriend loves that too your pussy oh my god oh my god yes i remember when give that to me every morning with my coffee baby oh my god i remember when she emailed me to be on the show and she just sent me that pussy shot with the whore written you know the tattoo i was like oh my god i can't wait to put this on my discord That's a whole other story about how, yeah, we actually met through my husband. Yeah, we're going to get there because you guys do have other people that you are coupled up with now. Like I said, you play solo, you play together.

But, you know, in that beginnings, you met that one couple, right? And you were with them a lot and you're still with them to this day? We haven't played. We kind of, it's funny because they said you two are going to outgrow us. And we were like, no, no, we love you. I mean, we traveled with them a couple of times. It was about a year, but we did outgrow them. Now, are you like out and proud of being in the lifestyle too?

Because I know that you're like, listen, you don't have to change my voice. You sent me an article that they wrote about you and your husband in some magazine. I mean, are you pretty out with what you guys do? You are with everybody? We are. Interesting. So when did you now, when did that come into play? Did you discuss that early on that you decided to or was it recently?

that's probably how that came about was probably something that we I can't air on your show okay you got busted maybe I can tell you about it okay kind of got busted we'll put it like that got busted so and how we we came out to our son because my husband got busted sending a a picture to the family thread which was not meant for the family thread so our son was 24 at the time yeah so And when we came out to him, luckily we came out to him before the public thing came out. Yeah, yeah. And you can air that. You can air that.

That's fine. So, but something happened where it became public information that we were lifestyle people. And luckily, our son already knew. Yeah. He didn't have to find out from someone else. He found out from us. And he was fine. He had questions.

And we answered them. and he said, I'm not, honestly, I'm not surprised. You two are just so loving and just so, you know, that sort of thing. So, yeah, so it's all good. It's all good. And how was the backlash, though, from everybody else with it going public? Can you talk about that? What kind of?

I can. Yeah. So, you know what? We had a lot of support. We both are sort of, we're people that are known in our community. And so my husband was in public service. and I own a practice. And so we had a lot of support from people publicly that people would text us and give us support.

And then there were some really ridiculous memes that were going around that were like on the other side, sort of making fun of us. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Sort of like looking at us like as maybe predators or the stereotypes that go along with. Of course, yeah. of with swingers per se. And but, but for the most part, we had nothing, we had support in, and the people that are making the memes are a lot of the people that live around here that are known to, they have shitty marriages, they are having affairs, you know, those people.

Of course, of course. They're called trolls online, a lot of them. Yeah. Whether they're doing it in their town or they're doing it on the internet. It's, what kind of people really give a shit that much to go to the extent, to send negative things to someone unless they're like miserable. You know what I mean? Like happy people don't do that.

Exactly. Even if they don't like what someone else does, they don't take the time. You know, only a miserable person does that to take that extra step. So it's always a sign for sure. Now, did you get hit on by any of those people when it went public? No. I had a couple of experiences in my office with people that they recognized me online. And it was someone that I had seen prior to that in my office.

and then saw them again with now with this knowledge and having seen all these pictures of me. And but it's kind of like at that point, it's kind of mutually assured destruction. It's like, why would you out me if I could out you? Right. You're both there. You're both there in the same place. So what could they say? All right.

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a none, visit blu-chew.com for more details and important safety information. And I thank Blu-chut for sponsoring the podcast. I want to be a team player, so I'll take one for the team. And a few times of that, and it's just, you just don't feel good about yourself. I didn't feel good about myself. Yeah. I was like, I just, I can't do this anymore, but I still want to continue to have sex. And I'd rather, instead of taking one for the team, I want to pick my own players. Yeah, yeah. And you're like, I'm not. husband too. And my and I said and you too because there's there's a whole different dynamic of course if it's on a one-on-one yeah. Then with the foursome you don't have to worry about the other person

you don't have to worry about your partner if they're doing okay that sort of thing. It's a lot less complicated so yeah you just have to have a very solid relationship to begin with to to to play separately and to feel confident that's okay and and we do and yeah it works. Yeah, no, I mean, and I like a good swingers gone wrong story or cuck gone wrong story. Well, because I just think that people could learn from it. Like seriously, what to do and what not to do. I love also showing the Swingers gone right stories because a lot of people think the minute you fuck other people in a marriage, there's no way you could be in love with someone. I'm here to tell you I have a million episodes that will tell you the opposite of that.

But I like to show the good, the bad and the ugly because that's reality. Nothing is perfect, right? And I do feel like in most of the stories that go awry, a lot of times it's that solo play. But it's not with the couple that's super happy and in love. There's always something going on that isn't right in that relationship to begin with. And then if you let someone go play solo, I mean, it's just a recipe for disaster. But I think that it's okay. Like you said, you guys had 27 years.

You had a solid foundation. So it was never really an issue. It's not like you were playing solo and you had problems. Yeah, no. I mean, believe me, it does add a whole other level of complication and deeper discussion. We've definitely had some, we've had some big time. We are great communicators as we are, but we've, I mean, this has forced our communication to go to a whole other level.

But it works. And we know that I know that I can't be everything to one person for their entire life. and he can't be everything to me. And we love that we can fill in each other's. We can fill in. He can fill in my gaps. I can fill in his. And it's wonderful.

It's like the best life ever. Yeah, yeah. And now when you play with solo people, is it like a don't ask, don't tell? Or is it like you both have a little cuck in you that you like to hear the experience and it's hot to you?

Yeah. And I don't even know that it would be cucky. Like, it's more just, it's hot. Listen, you said you were fantasizing on that vacation. like, oh, I'd love to see you fuck that woman, take her up on, watch her. That's, I call that a cuck queen. So I think that's like cuck. I don't think that a cuck has to be humiliated. The real extreme ones do. But whenever I have anyone on that is a quote unquote cuck queen, I get so many emails from other women being like, oh my God, nobody talks about this. I can't find porn on this. So this is what I have to. Like, I'm into this. When it doesn't necessarily have to have that whole humiliation aspect to it. But it definitely, I think personally a cuck queen is a woman who, really loves to see her guy with another girl or even hear about it. Yeah, no, I mean, I have, I also, I have that sort of cut queen in me as well, like,

during play. Like, I, I fantasize about being restrained and just watching him pleasure somebody in front of me without me being able to do anything, that sort of thing. But when we're watching or talking to each other about our dates with other people, it's usually just, we'll sit there and we'll watch, we'll screen mirror it on our, on our TV and our playroom, we have a playroom, and we will masturbate or fuck to it. To them, why? Could you videotape everything?

We videotape a lot. Yeah, we have a lot of video, yeah. We love to watch video, yeah. Yeah, that is hot. So you tape yourself when you go to see your play partners or he does as well. If you can and the other person agrees to it, you guys tape it and then you guys watch it together. Yes. Yes. That's great. I love it. Yeah. And now you're definitely by, right? I mean, you hook up with women. Oh, for sure. Yes. And so you have solo play partners that are female as well as males. Correct? No, I, well, the only person I played, well, have I played with? No, I have played separately. That's pretty rare, but I have. But it hasn't been current. I mean, usually there's usually a dick somewhere in the mix.

usually there's usually dick somewhere. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But I definitely enjoy women. I love, I love pussy. I love, I love going down on women. I love, yeah, I've fisted women. Yeah, I just, I dig it. And, and have you been fisted by women yourself as well? Yes. Okay. So let's get back to you're hooking up with these couples. You start to play solo. How do you wind up meeting candy? So let's see, Fet Life, fast forward to Fet Life. And, um, And my husband and I have separate profiles. And my husband, and it was a Saturday morning, and she met him here at our house. And I took off and went, I wasn't really like part of the conversation. And I was like, oh, yeah, this girl, yeah, that she sounds hot.

Okay, I'll, I have to get, I have Target and Costco Saturday morning. So, yeah, so they, she comes over. I'm doing errands. I come back, and I said during the time, I said, make sure you send pictures to me. I'm sitting in the Target parking lot, rubbing my pussy, watching at pictures of my husband, fucking hers. And it was just so hot for me. And then I didn't, I wasn't planning on meeting her in person.

And I came, I said, I'm done. And he said, you got to come in and meet her. She's awesome. You'll really like her. And she's bisexual. And so I came in and met her. and we just connected immediately. Yeah.

Right. And so sometimes if you hook up with her solo, it's more with her, that guy, correct? Absolutely. Or the four of us. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.

Interesting. And now your husband has a separate play partner. Are there ever feelings involved? Or is it just strictly like sex with other people? Oh, there's definitely feelings. There is. So do you consider yourself Polly? At all?

Lately? Yeah. Like we are. has come to that like we we've just been talking about this how crazy uh it's been because we never thought that this would happen where he's got a partner and and i play with them just them and and and i have a partner and he we all four of us play together we play separately we do things together we had cheeseburgers the other night we've got to we've gone to festival together, the four of us, and it's crazy. And our partners get along. Do they fuck each other?

Not separately, not away from us. Okay. But when we're all four, then yeah, then, then everybody fucks, everybody. So if I saw you guys out right in a restaurant and your guy is with his girl, I'm assuming his partner is a girl, right? Your partner's a guy, right? And you're sitting at the restaurant having burgers. Would I assume that your guy and the girl that he's with or sitting on one side. Like, how is it positioned when you're out and about with each other? No, I'm usually sitting with my guy and he's sitting with his girl. That's what I mean, right?

So, like, I would look over and think, yeah, that's how we are. Yeah, I would look over and think that your husband is with the other woman, but yet really his wife is sitting across from him with another man. Like, people would never be able to make that shit up, right? It's interesting. That's exactly what. That's exactly it. Yeah, my guy's a bit younger.

He's 29. I'm 60, almost 61. You're 60, you don't sound 60. I don't know why. Yeah, I don't know. I feel like I'm ageless. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Some people are, for sure.

Chronologically, I've had, yeah, many revolutions around the sun. So, yep. Let me ask you this since you're so horny at 60, I would assume you went through menopause. Like, how did you stay so fucking horny? Because there's so many women that aren't. Did you go on hormones therapy?

I did. but I was still horny during that. I just didn't want the hot flashes, and I wanted to maintain. There's so many other benefits with hormone therapy. So I don't think that menopause didn't affect my libido, just because it's just that is innate in me. I mean, that's just been a driving force since, I mean, I can remember,

since I have memories. No, no, I'm just going to tell you, because I talk to a lot of people and I talk to a lot of women. I'm a woman that went through menopause. I'm on hormone replacement therapy. I love it. But it really is not just about the hormones. Unfortunately,

most of the time when women are going through menopause, they have completely also at the same time disconnected from their husbands. They're maybe having sex with them like once every three months, right? Because they've been with them since the dawn of time. And that's the people it happens to. If you're fucking your husband and you're still in lust with him at that point, which a lot of women are not, and you're having that dick inside you every day and you're still fucking horny, you don't lose it, even though you lose the hormones. It's really the concoction

of everything that happens to be going on at that time. And unfortunately, at that time, a lot of women are just with this guy that they've been with for a long time and they're not really interested in sex with them anyway, to begin with. And then they totally lose that connection. Yeah, I think those, yeah, those neurons just fizzle out. No, they say if you don't use it, you lose it. It's true. I tell my girlfriends that are younger than me because I'm 54, but I have girlfriends that are in their 40s. They're going through menopause. I'm like, if you don't have a guy at that time, put a fucking dick inside of you every day like it's your fucking job. Okay, because if you, if not, you're going to have to pay for hormones. You're going to be paying

for doctors that it's expensive or just put a dick inside of you and walk out the door every fucking day or get yourself a guy right now because if you don't use it, you lose it. And that's what happens. And there's things that women could do, but it's interesting that it didn't happen to you, because during this whole time, it doesn't sound like you and your husband ever had a time where you weren't horny for each other. No, no. I mean, and I do masturbate a lot. Yeah. You're just a horny person. I mean, yeah. I mean, give me my vibrator, my imagination at any time of day. And it's like a, it's like I derive energy from that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I think that that's great. That helps. And so how old is your guy?

29. Wow. And now, okay, so when you went looking for your side piece, were you looking for a way younger guy? What were you looking for? No. I was just looking for fun. Yeah. In fact, prior to, prior to him, I was more of a hit and run.

Mm-hmm. Yeah, yeah, yeah. More of like, more of lots of variety. Mm-hmm. And I still love the variety, but yeah, I never, I never expected to connect with with someone. No, my husband is, he's a connection guy. So he had a girlfriend prior to this for a long time. Well, I was just hitting and running and hitting and running and he would get together with her all the time. And then I was with different people. And I just never, and I couldn't understand why. I was like, why are you, why are you out with a bunch of women? And, and now I'm like, okay, I kind of get it. Because once you have those, those, those, desires like you i have a lot of different what do i want to say the fantasies like things that i like to do activities i like i like some impact i like some some medical play i like just role play some

some cnc that sort of thing and so usually i would i would look for i would seek out different people for different different things right and this guy is kind of fills in those those all of those spaces. Right. So why you don't need the variety? He's down for all of the stuff that you're into. Yeah. What the fuck is C&C? Could you go through all the things that you're into and explain them? Consent, non-consent. Oh, okay. So like role-playing some non-consensual kind of stuff. Yeah, yeah. So I was, I had an idea that the thing, this guy, I mean, when I met him, I met him on Hinge of all places. Oh, hilarious. I didn't meet him on a King's side. I know. And so, and usually Hinge guys, are pretty vanilla.

Any of those sites that are not, and I usually scare them way pretty quickly, pretty quickly. And that's fine, fine, because weed out the bullshit. Exactly. So, but he didn't, was not afraid. And I would throw stuff out there and he was like,

not afraid of that either. And I wasn't like, are you afraid of this? I just, oh, send pictures of me doming a guy or pictures of talk about some other things and he was he was down for it so I asked him if I said I've been thinking about it I think it'd be so hot if you just if you bound me up with bondage tape and put me in the trunk of a car oh my god and cut off my clothes and cut off my clothes and came on me oh my gosh and then shut the trunk oh my god I have claustrophobia so I can't breathe right now I can't even understand

Wait a second. And you did this with him. I'm assuming you lived this out right. He did it. I was like, I was, you know, and it's not, I was like, I wonder if he'll do this. And he was like, he was so down. He was so down. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. Wait, could you just explain that again? So where are you guys? You're obviously have to be out in public someplace, right? Because this is the car is involved or, I mean, was the car in the driveway? Yeah. Well, he's a, he's a mechanic. Oh, okay. So you're in the, you're in his like his shop. We're in the shop. Okay. And so you're, so walk me through that fantasy again, because I almost blacked out because I, I, that's like my biggest fear, but to go through it slowly again. So basically he's, he's, he's, he's, he's, he's kind of kidnapped. Yeah. Yeah. It's a kidnap. Fantasy. Fantasy. So CNC, consent, so he's forcing me. He's doing these things to me, but obviously I've consented. Of course, of course. Prior. Yeah, because we've talked about it. But it's still. hot as fuck. Yeah, so he's kidnapping you and he throws you into the trunk. He puts, he puts bonnage tape around my mouth and around my, and, and, and binds my arms and my legs and carries me and puts me in the trunk. And I have a white, like a white feeder shirt on and he takes his knife and cuts it off of me and slaps me around, makes me come. Plays with my pussy. Makes me come while I'm squirming and screaming and trying to scream, but I'm bound. Oh my God.

You guys are sick, fucks. I just wonder if someone was walking by, they'd really think that there's a fucking robbery going down. They think that they come to the rescue and they don't realize they just ruined your whole fucking scenario. Oh my God. Go on though. Sorry.

No, I mean, he's done, like, I just got a whip. So he's, yeah, he's doing a little bit of that, doing a little bit of, whipping. But did he ever shut that, that trunk on you and then drove away? Is that what happened? He didn't drive away. No, I just shut the trunk. And then that was it. No, we didn't do that whole thing. Sorry. No, no, no. It's still, it's still crazy. It's interesting, you know. It was way hot. And we, we filmed the whole thing. Wow. It's actually, part of it's on my felt, like, part of it's not because we need to blur out the license plate of the car. But I know. But I would and it's not even one of our cars.

That's what I was going to say. It's like someone put it in there to get a new muffler and they're like, what the fuck is my car? I'm doing on pet life. Oh my God. This is this shit you can't make up. I love it. Someone is driving that car as we speak.

I've already squirted all over it. I think he put a towel down. I think he did put a towel down. Oh my God. Wait, did you start squirting when you got into the lifestyle or we? you always a squirder? It was after I got in. I was, I was obsessed. I was obsessed with squirting watching porn. Well, I would watch porn. My two go-to searches for porn were brutal gangbang and women masturbating squirting. Okay. And I did everything and my husband was trying to help me and

it just turned into an exercise and frustration and his arm wore out, you know, trying to to try. I mean, I think we bought the, did we buy the, like, we bought this quirky, like this squirt watch, something that's supposed to like help you with your motion. I mean, it was just ridiculous. Yeah. So, no, it was actually our first, it was that first meeting with the lifestyle couple that we became sort of bonded with and our mentors that he, when we met in that hotel during COVID, he, I said, we were talking about it and, and he said, I can make you squirt. and my husband's like, right? And by gosh and by golly, I

with his hands. With his hands. Yep. Wow. And then let me ask you this because I'm someone that's obsessed with learning how to squirt. I've never been able to. I've had guys that have had to like, you know,

their arm went numb for trying and I can't, you know, I've been there done not like you, but I still haven't squirted. And I'm like, is it the type of thing where once that guy sort of did it to you and you did it a couple times now you could do it any time? or is it just like only certain people could do it? I can do it anytime because once you get that feeling of release and you're absolutely right. You have to experience it. Somehow it has to happen.

And after our play partner did that to me, when we got back, I took a shower and I'm going to see if I can make myself squirt. And I did. And I was like, oh my God, I could do this. It was just like, it was amazing. So I can have a regular, just a regular clitoral orgasm without squirting. Which, I mean, because how inconvenient would it be if every time I masturbated I had to, I gushed. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So I can do that with my vibrator. But then also I can, and I can squirt when I'm primed with just clitoral stimulation. And that's a whole different release. It's a feeling. Yeah, it's a feeling. It's a feeling of release. Yeah, yeah, yeah, interesting. Yeah, that's crazy.

What a great party trick. Don't you feel, like, impressed with yourself that you could do it now? I'm impressed with people. I actually was a demo, a squirting demo. I did a squirting demo at a party in Cupertino. What kind of party was that? Like a Swingers party? Yeah, yeah, it was a rich dude in Cupertino who had this huge party I got invited to.

And I went, I actually, you know what? I went with a woman to that party. I went with a woman to that party and sold. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so what was that party all about? It's like some rich dude and like it's the insider swingers party that people are. Kind of. Yeah. I probably can't talk too much about it. Okay. Yeah. But people there now. Maybe they did. Yeah. It was like a, it was how you might. It's not like exactly my cup of tea. It's kind of a little formal. And now we're going to do a demonstration. And actually the woman that was supposed to do the squirting demonstration chickened out because there were like 40 people at this. party and she just got. And I said, I'm a total exquisite. I will totally be your model of you. And yeah, and I squirted it all over the front row, I think, of people. But it's like a bunch of these, a bunch of techies. So if you picture like a bunch of Bay Area techie party, that's kind of how that went. Yeah, that's why it was set up that way. That's a very like logical way to do things. You

know what I mean? That's the way their brains work. That's how they're turned on. So like you're on a table or something and then like people are in chairs around you. Oh my God. He's got like this pit. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Interesting. In this strange house. Yeah. And then you did you get yourself to squirt or did somebody come to do it for you? This guy who was who he had brought in to do the demonstration. It was the one who was giving the presentation and he had brought a girl with him. Yeah. That was supposed to be the squirter. And like I said, she chickened out. And it somehow got out that I was and so I got shoulder tapped. So you really did do the party, the party trick. Have you ever, I mean, I know you did the DVP. Have you, and you said recently you liked anal, so I'm assuming have

you tried DP as well? Absolutely. Oh yeah. Lots. I know your girl Candy loves that. She likes everything too as much as you, right? Oh, yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, pretty much. Yeah. She's not as much of an impact player as I am. Or maybe not much of a role player. I mean, have our differences there. She likes more, she's more of a younger guy, lots of variety. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I, but I like more like role play, get in my head kind of stuff. But, but yeah, I mean, we're just, we're two sexual sisters and I just, I'm, I'm so thankful. I'm so grateful that I met a woman like her because it's also very freeing sexually to have another woman who feels like you do. Yeah, especially about their sexuality.

For women, it's so much more repressed. We have to be, especially you guys are older. I'm 54. We grew up in a time where it was just like, I mean, women were not allowed to like sex. And I think nowadays the younger generation, it's different. Women fucking love sex. They fuck everybody. They do what they want to do, it's very different times.

But what people don't understand if they're younger, the world that we grew up on, it's like you were a girl that liked sex. You were a whore. There were so many labels that were put there, right? Yep. Yeah. And so now with your husband, like you did say that. Like when you started to do solo play, there was a lot more conversations.

And you did say that he got a girl first, like his girlfriend first before you got your guy. Now, were you bothered by that at all in the beginning? Did you set boundaries? I don't want you to like her or no feelings are involved. I know there's feelings now. And you guys have evolved into that. But in the beginning, did you try to put like any kind of restrictions on that kind of stuff? Yeah, we had some big issues around that.

Yeah, I can imagine. Huge, huge issues around that. Yeah. And it was a big, it was a big learning experience for both of us. And yeah, those were, there were some tough times. I had a tough, because I thought, this is just about sex. Totally, yeah. Like, and you're doing, you're doing things like you're taking, you're going to a movie with her.

What the fuck? Yeah. I'm fucking her? What is up with that? Which is kind of the opposite. It's kind of the opposite of what. a vanilla couple would say a vanilla couple would say go to the movie with her fine but you fucked her and i'm the i was the opposite i was like no if you're going if you're going to the movie with her

you should just fuck her yeah yeah yeah that's such a funny point but it's so true yeah yeah so i yeah i was really like it was it was different i did not understand that and to me that didn't fit into my definition of what lifestyle was about but that was my mom definition. Yeah. How did you come around? So we had, we enlisted a therapist. Mm-hmm.

So we got a lifestyle therapist and she was amazing. That's good to know that there are therapists out there that can help with this kind, these kinds of situations and that they, it was a good one. You know what I mean? Because a lot of therapists are she was, whack to do this. Well, they would tell you don't do that. Well, if you're having problems, do it, don't do it. No, yeah, no.

She's, yeah. So it's no, we're not, we're not going to know. We're not putting this. This genie can never go back in the bottle. We really like our lowest own. We're willing to do whatever it takes to make it work because it's worth it. And yeah, so she really helped us both, as therapists do, to see, I could kind of see his point of view and he could see my point of view. And we could, but the main thing was to nourish, to make sure that the primary relationship was nurtured.

Right. And that what felt was happening is that is that the other was she was getting a little priority over me. Like you would have guessed. Like you take care of your guest more than you take care of your guests. And that was like, no, that's not going to work for me. And I felt like she was, and she was not the best first partner to find. And it's kind of interesting because I actually found her for her. Her husband reached out to me on Fat Life.

And I said, oh, your wife plays too. let's all meet. And he and I, I did not connect with him. And my husband and his wife, just, it was on. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so, but she kind of, yeah, it was, it was a good learning. It was a good learning experience. Right.

It brought up all the conversations that you guys needed to. Oh, the horrible ones. They're horrible conversations to have, but you've got to do it. Yeah. And it's interesting that you were able to work through that, because that's hard shit, I think, to work through. That's the scariest thing, right? That's what I think everybody's deepest fear is that you're going to lose your partner or something like this, right?

Yeah. Yep. Yeah, we've, yeah, we've had those times. Yeah. But, you know, you talk through it. And then you come out stronger. You come out stronger. And that's the thing that always amazes me because sometimes I think, okay, this is it.

Like, we're never going to get through this shit. Yeah. And then we do. And it's hard. and then we come out like way start like now we're like look at us now yeah that's amazing this is fucking amazing where we're out now yeah now did he have those same feelings when you started in with your guy i think it took a little adjustment i mean at first he was like see now now you understand and then i think he was like hmm now i now i i don't think he thought that was

gonna stick yeah he's yeah this will last a month yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah And it's been about six. Wow. And yeah, actually for both of us, we both met our current primaries about this. He met his a little sooner than me. And it was actually, I met, I met mine a couple weeks after I had a gang bang out here at my house. Oh my gosh.

I can't. Yeah. I can't wait to have the two of you on the show. Oh, my God. Yeah. Yeah. Now that we have your back story. We got some great stories.

Yeah. So, yeah, I feel like miss boring right now. What are you kidding? I feel like we've been all over the place and I miss like 80 stories. I mean, I just got the, I'm sure there's more C and C stories that we could do a whole episode on that. There's, oh, medical alert, taught him how to use a speculum. Yeah, you are into my biggest fears. I mean, the fact that you could square, I high five you, okay, but.

Have spears and hang me close faces. Oh, my God, I call it pokey, pokey. I can't stand anything thin and pokey inside my vagina. Like I don't even let someone finger me with one finger. I'm like put three in because it's so fucking gross. And you're like turned on by a pap smear. Oh my God, I can't.

Yeah. So interesting, right? But that's what's so interesting about what you said. Like maybe your husband wasn't into that, but you realize you're into these things. And now you found a guy that is totally into it too and right there with you. And you guys are, you're getting to live out those kinds of fantasies with him and your husband too with his

girl. Exactly. No, they have a great dynamic. They have a different dynamic that I can't provide for him. Yeah. And it's, it works. And I love her. We talk all the time. We talk every day. And yeah. Does she have a partner? No. Okay. And your guy doesn't either, right? No. Last question. Let's talk about your only fans because you eventually started an only fans, right? I did. Yeah. Yeah. My partner encouraged me to do it because when he saw my camera roll, he's you are. You are only fans. Cash money, baby.

Yeah, and you're an exhibitionist, you said, right? Before I caught that. And you love your very visual. You've been taping all your shit all this time, right? So it's a natural thing. A lot of times in the beginning when I started to have women on that had only fans or couples, people would be like, why do you have people that have only fans? This is just something that everybody does nowadays.

And why not? Most of the people that I have on my show, they didn't start doing only fans because they wanted to make money. These are people that loved sex and were doing it. Anyway, so why not add it on? Like you said, that guy looked at your library and knows who you are. Like, why the fuck are you not doing this? Because it's available.

But you're not doing it for that reason because that's not hot, right? The girl that's doing OnlyFans just to make money because she's like, oh. Because she needs the money. Yeah, but you're a woman who loves fucking sex. They just got your whole backstory. They know what they're seeing on Onlyfans is the real fucking deal. Okay. And this is just the tip of the iceberg with you.

Like, what do they see on your Onlyfans? They see a lot. I mean, anything that OnlyFans doesn't ban me from. I've gotten banned with a few things. So I have to, yeah, so I have to put those on my Fet Life, but that'll draw people to my only fans. I know, yeah, my guy fucked me with an earicorn. Oh my, yeah. And OnlyFans to ban that. Oh, my God, you're so funny. I know your girl got thrown off OnlyFans. How have you not been thrown off? You've never been thrown off? Just banned like videos banned? No, no. And I'm not quite sure even. Why? It's funny because they will say nothing against only fans, but it's like they will, if they disallow a video or a photo, they won't tell you specifically why. So they'll just send you all their terms and you have to interpret. Yeah, yeah. It's like YouTube. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So one my, the corn was, uh, uh, things not meant to be inserted for penetration. I think that's pretty subjective. Yeah. Right. Come on.

Exactly. If they ask you, there's a lot, a lot of stuff you don't want to inject it. Right. The list of naught is shorter. Yeah. But no, on my only fans, I mean, there's a lot of squirting. There's a lot of anal. There's a lot, oh gosh, a lot of solo, a lot of masturbation.

Yeah. And do you do like custom stuff for guys as well? I mean, like they buy in, they're going to see all your videos and all the stuff. of you with other people. Do you also do custom videos and stuff like that for people? I do. Yeah, I do. What are some of the requests do you get? Do you dig it since you're like a little exhibitionist?

I do. So I fucked myself with a shoe, the heel of a shoe. I fucked myself with that. Yeah, I fucked my pussy and then I fucked my ass with it. And I got so turned on. I came everywhere. I squirted it everywhere. Yeah, that was That was pretty hot That was about that was like a $150 video I think And I mean, I had a great time Yeah, yeah

I mean, listen with your imagination I feel like you're like the custom queen Guys out there with these really vivid imaginations You're there girl, okay? Just listen to this fucking episode My mind is a pretty crazy place Yeah, super creative I mean you like to go there

And it turns you on I think that that's fucking great. I'm just pitching your only fans because I think you're the real deal. It's so obvious. Like I said, I think it's not hot either to have an only fans. The girls that are just doing it for the money. You're just performing. I'm not performing.

This is what I would do anyway. And sometimes I think I'm doing these things and I think, God, why didn't I film that? But you know, you can't film everything. Yeah. So give out your only fans. Give out your Fet life. I will put all the information for the people that are, driving. Don't worry. All the information to find her will be in the description. So give your

FetLife, because there's some stuff on FetLife that they can't see on OnlyFans, but they'll find both of you, right? So give your Fet Life and your own fans. Yes, yes, yes, yes. My Fet Life is CA Hotwife. So it's capital C.A. Hot Wife. I think you don't even need caps. And my only fans is Jasmine underscore JET, JETT. Okay. 69. Okay. So you'll send me links to both. Well, you'll, the fat life, I'll just put your name, right? They don't need a link to that. Yes. I'll send you a link to my only fans, yeah.

Yeah, yeah, and to your only fan to do that. And then, listen, this was just your backstory, but really the way I got in contact with you is you were going to come on with candy to talk about your guy's experience in Vegas, and then you just threw out there that you had a gang bang. I mean, I'm assuming you guys have a ton of other experiences. So you two are now that we have your backstory, we're going to get the two of you on, okay, ASAP. and we're going to get all the stories of you guys together, which will be fascinating.

But I love your story. It's super interesting. Like I said, I feel like it was, there's no way it was boring. Did you just use that word people? Fucking boring. I think that you're just into so, it's actually like the opposite that you're into like so much. I didn't know where the fuck to go because there's just so much there. It was like a little bit of everything.

Yeah, that's what I mean. So we'll have you back on next time. Okay, we're going to book that when we get off. Do me a favor and send me some hot picks like R rated picks for my Patreon. I post R rated picks for my Patreon members. What I'll do though as well is give you free access to my Discord. There's over like 1,600 paying people on there. You're going to get free access.

Now on there you could put up some teaser only fans. You could put up some X rated stuff. You could promote whatever you want on there. And a lot of people will be on there looking for you when your episode comes out. But just send me the R rated stuff like sexy picks. but no like pussy shots. I got, I got too. I got plenty of that.

Well, that's like Instagram-ish, Instagram-ish. Yeah, yeah. So sexy picks for my Patreon and get me those pictures as soon as possible because I'm going to put this up on my Patreon on Friday. I'll do it directly. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous Confession,

Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the, audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gangbbing girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it.

in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short. Chapters, easy read. You could read one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available. coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy

my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contest where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Sent it to me at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord.

So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. I'm looking forward to talking about. Yes, and then you guys have to just book any time because, you know, listen,

you guys come on anytime and I'll air it now that I just wanted your backstory. Now we know both of your guys' backstory. We could just do a whole hour of your guys' shenanigans with each other. You know what I mean? It'll be great. I like it.

All right. Awesome. We could definitely fill an hour with just us. Oh, yeah, totally. All right. Awesome. Thank you, Jasmine. All right, Kathy.

Thank you. Pleasure. Bye. Okay. Bye. Okay. Good news. I do have a book out.

I wrote a book and it's coming out. The book is called Trickland on Miss Confessions. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. What I did was I picked out the 17 best episodes. That was very hard to do. Okay. I picked like one from each category. And I retold the story from the third person.

So it's not interview style. It's a little bit more erotica. The only place where I took creative. of liberty was in the sex scene. So it's even hotter than my episodes. Like I said, it's told in the third person. And they're all true, just like my show. I mean, these are real stories from my show, just written out. Like I said, in the third person, not an interview style, more like a story, but a true story, a true super hot story. Now, listen, it is available for pre-order now. And it's not coming out until October 14th. And I was like, oh, my God, that's a long time away. So I figured I'd

incentivize people. If you want to pre-order it now, I will give you free access to my Discord if you pre-order it now. All you got to do is screenshot, a pick of the receipt. Just screenshot it to me. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. And then I will send you the link to my Discord. So that's a little incentive to pick it up now. It's on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Simon & Schuster. The link is in the description. So make sure to click on it. And And if you get it, send me the pick of you purchasing and I'll give you free access to my private Discord. That is a totally naughty, super hot community with a lot of people over 25,100 people over there having fun.

Remember, email me the pick at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.