Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1125 - Tom Got a Free Pass and Now he’s Into Sugar Babies, Pegging, Threesomes and More

Episode Date: May 27, 2025

Tom is a sugar daddy with a free pass who’s into sugars, pegging, threesomes and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he got a free pass from his wife to go and find a mistress, the rules surrounding his free pass from his wife, the website he joined and why he joined it, how he finds women on the sugar sites, the first “arrangement” he had and how his wife found out and how she reacted, how seeing sugars on the side has helped his marriage, the demographics of the women he sees, how many sugars he’s been with in the past two years, how he got into pegging and how his wife felt about it when she tried it, how his sugars feel about pegging him and exactly what goes down with them, the threesomes he’s had with them and ow he sets them up, the fisting the goes down with both them and him, the famous trans woman he hooked up with and exactly what went down, how and when he was able to suck his own d***, the “hairy girl” he’s been with and the kinky things she’s into, how this arrangement has negatively effected his feelings for his wife plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of TOM plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2512-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get $10 off Shameless Care’s female viagra cream, just click on the link and use code: Strictly   Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Tom is a very interesting story. I felt like the more I talked to, the more I got out of him. And he, I was like, you're kind of like goals for a lot of guys. I feel like a lot of guys are going to be a little jealous about Tom because he is like living this life that some guys live out secretly, but he's not really doing it secretly. He has a free pass from his wife to go out and, you know, fuck other women. And he does. The way he gets his girls is he goes onto like a sugar site.

He's a sugar daddy and he loves being a sugar daddy. And he's got a lot of girls, a lot of sugars he calls them. I think they're called sugars. He's been with over a hundred women. He's got some favorites. He talks about exactly what he's into with these girls. He does a lot of different things. And he's also into pegging. He talks about that. Him and his wife have been, you know, he got into that before he got into the sugar thing. He talks about that. Him and his wife did swing at one point. They had like a threesome with another guy. He talks about how and why the free pass came up with his wife. That's, of course, how we kick off the conversation. Then we talk about all his sugars and the experience.

how much, you know, he typically pays them. What's their story? What these girls are all about? What he does with them. Like I said, he does a lot of crazy things with them from pegging to fissing to, you know, threysms to all that kind of good stuff. It's super interesting. His story. I could have probably got like a hundred more stories out of him because he's got a lot of stories. He's kind of been there, done that. He also did trans women. He talks about that towards the end. Someone he famous, too. I actually Googled the trans woman he was with. Someone famous. You'll hear about it. His stories are super interesting. So I'm going to get right to you and be right back on with Tom. Hey Tom. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm great. Kathy. Thanks for having me on.

Thanks for calling in. Listen, you do, you're into a lot of things that I've had on my show. I've had guys who are into pegging on my show. I've had women who have sugar daddies on my show, but you're like a sugar daddy. Like you have sugars or something like that. I don't know. Like you're a sugar daddy to people, correct? Plus you're married. Plus you're married. And I don't know if your wife is in the know here. I don't know, you know, maybe we'll start with, like, where you're at now and what's that deal, and then we'll go all the way back. Sure.

Well, my wife and I did a little swinging between the second and third kid, so we had, you know, some fun. And then later on, she was kind of like, you know, you should get a mistress. You're kidding. She's like, farm you out. Like, I'm done. I need some help here. I can't satisfy you all the time.

Not interested. Go get it someplace else. I don't mind that. Yeah, I didn't either. Well, at first I was like, yeah, that's a trick question. And I'm just like, yeah, here. And then a couple weeks later, I was like, yeah, what would that look like? And so we, you know, talked it over.

And she's like, I just don't want to know about it, don't want to see it. And that's it. So, yeah, so then I kind of started branching out. And we didn't want to, you know, part of the rules was no friends, no relationships, right? So I'm like, I hadn't really done anything in the sugar world before. So I found one of the sites, secret benefits. Oh, I've never heard of that one. But can we just talk real quick about this?

swinging like in between kids you just decided to open up your relationship yeah you know i'd been probably 150 plus women when we got married my wife was on her number two with so she wanted to catch up well it's kind of my my coaching you know you know the fantasy talk and stuff like that and did went to some swinger parties and things like that did she enjoy it well you know actually was a pretty short run because, you know, went to one Halloween party. And to me, it felt like going to a high school dance, you know, and when it was talking and it was really kind of weird.

Oh, weird. Bad vibes. Long story short, the after party had the, you know, the big, big BBC guy in there. That was kind of brought by the club. And so the next week, I'm like, well, if we did something, would that guy work? And she was like, yeah, I think so. So long story short, I called the club, got a whole of the guy, set up a three. some and went really good. Yeah.

She had a good time. I had a good time. Did a D.P. Wow. She went pretty far considering, you know, where she came from. Yeah, it kind of surprised me. You know, she was on top of him. And she's like, you want to put your cock in my ass?

Oh, my God. Yeah, I do. You had never? She had never let you before. Oh, no. Yeah. Yeah. She could have an orgasm from anal sex, so.

Yeah. Okay, cool. So it wasn't like the first time. And that was part of this fantasy play too. You know, it would be like, you know, the stories that make up stories where we were having sex and that would be part of it. So you could have been more like, hey, you want, you know, I talked about it. So she's like, okay, let's do it.

And but it was really hot. I mean, it looks like it's got disappointing for me because once I got going, it was like two minutes and I was like, I was done. Yeah. Well, let me ask you this. Like afterwards, like how did she feel about the whole situation? Was it a one time thing? Well, I think that sums it up.

like we were driving a couple days later and she said like it's like we did something it's like you did something really fun but you can't tell your friends about it but no we never did again we never really didn't cause anything in our relationship we never really talked about it or you know it was kind of a she's like a catholic schoolgirl so she likes to talk about sex when she's turned on but not when she's not yeah i got it um so yeah so and then you know you had another kid but let me ask you this so how does it come up and why do you think it came up that she was like, hey, by the way, you need to go have an affair or find a booty call or whatever she said. We were on a trip with the kids and we were at an own hotel room and we were having sex and longer than she wanted to.

And she's just like, are you done yet? I'm like, no, we're at hotel. It's hotel sex time. And the kids are down at the pool. So she's just kind of like, you know, just kind of stock that. No, she said it. She didn't just think it. She said it, right?

Yeah, she'd well, we're having sex Right after we were done there But it was a funny story Kind of So I did, I went out A couple weeks later I met a girl Made an arrangement and We were together, like the second time we were together

I had some pictures and plugged my phone into my computer And long story short, it synced with her phone And so I broke a rule because she saw Yeah, but that was by accident You didn't mean it I mean that's not breaking the rules That was an action Yeah, yeah. And so she got, you know, then there was kind of a thing for a while for a few days.

And finally, I was like, honey, it's a paid arrangement. And then she was like, oh, so wait, but let me just ask you this. That's why I was curious about the initial conversation. Did she kind of like say it as a joke and she didn't think you were going to do it? Like, was it an actual serious thing? Because how come she's flipping out the first time she sees you're actually doing it? Because it was a mistake. So you didn't really break a rule. You made a mistake, right? So she's like, you know, was she. pissed that she found out about it or was she pissed that you actually went through with it or maybe because you know listen I think maybe it's one thing to kind of just like say it but then it's another thing to know it's really happening yeah I think maybe she didn't quite well the one thing the

girl was fucking amazing she was like hot is what you're saying yeah and it was you know it's kind of a sped on the bed kind of thing yeah and so I think that kind of surprised who I was with yeah and so when I said it's a paid arrangement and then she was like like, oh, why don't you pay me? And I'm like, okay. So I got up out of bed. We were in bed and I got some cash and stuck it in her panties. I'm sorry.

I'm glad I don't let you just blow through all this shit. Like you were ready to go so far beyond these funny fucking stories. And I'm like, thank God I ask questions and interrupt. That's funny. She was like, why don't you pay me? I mean, I like your wife. She's funny. Well, she's the kind of girl like we were living in a small town.

and it costs a lot to get a cleaner. She's like, I'd buy myself a pair of boots every time I pay that cleaner. So she just said, I'm going to clean the house and buy boots. So now she's got 30 pairs of boots. So then that work for, that was fun for a while. I just like make her a drink and stick some cash in her panties. And fuck her. And she'd give you sex.

And she was like, it was like fun for her to pretend she's getting paid for sex, blah, blah, blah. Yeah. Did she ever ask you about the girl again? Or did she just like sweep it under the rug the way she wanted it to be because she knew it was happening. but she didn't want to know about it. Like, did she ask you any questions afterwards? Yeah, well, we brought it to our therapist and, you know, told the story, same thing I told

you. And the therapist was like, well, if you agree to it, we talked over the deal and that was a mistake, but, you know, you can't really get mad because you agreed to the terms of the deal. Yeah. And then, so then it was pretty, this thing wasn't doing much for a while after that. And then kind of had this got kind of the same place, metapause stuff coming up. And I said, look, I'm not going to, you know, I don't want to put you in a position where you feel like you've got to do sex and stuff. So I'm just going to take care of myself.

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And I said, look, I'm not going to, you know, I don't want to put you in a position where you feel like you've got to do sex and stuff, so I'm just going to take care of myself. She said, okay. And I said, okay, you understand what that means? And she said, yeah. Oh, okay, so that was you letting her know,

I'm going to go back out there and do it. Because, listen, your therapist could say, and you could say, and I could say, you're not allowed to get back because you made the deal. But if she gets mad, then that means that the deal maybe shouldn't have been made to begin with, right? Like, I mean, everyone's allowed to kind of change their mind because they realize they're not into it.

Do you think, though, that she was okay with it by then? Or obviously, how many years has it been since you've been doing this now? Probably two years. Mm-hmm. Two and a half years. And I've probably had a hundred plus sugars. Oh, yeah. We're going to get all those stories.

But one more last question about your wife. Do you think, like, at this point, like, she's cool with the arrangement. She never brings anything up or, like, are there any issues? Does she ever talk about it? have any insecurities about it? No, we don't really talk about it. And I don't think she knows. I mean, I'll say once in a while, like, okay, I'm going to go see this tantra provider

because I want to work on my receiving and she's like, how much is it? And I'm like, 700. And she's like, that's a lot. I'm like, a couple of massages, you know, so. Yeah. So, I mean, that's like she knows that I'm seeing, you know, providers or a massage parlor or something like that. I think she would be very upset about the amount of money that I spend.

Right, but she doesn't look into it, but you do believe that she knows you're seeing sugars and have all these people and she's fine with and she's okay with it as long as she doesn't know. And she has not known in the past two years. Right. You never gotten caught again. Because you're not really doing anything wrong, but I get it. She doesn't want to see it, especially because it's like way too much information, right? Like you said, like, you know, maybe she didn't think it through, you know? And that's always the dilemma, right?

Because it happens like, well, how many and who and what and where and all this stuff? And when you're doing that, then it's kind of like, then that could be a problem for sure. Yeah, no, I understand all of it, you know. Okay, so you get onto this site and do you find a lot of nonsense on that side? Or was it like all like real chicks looking for a sugar daddy situation? Yeah, no, there's some cat, there's cat, there's catfish on there too. And I, you know, I would get my time that I've spent, I mean, I'll just jump back to before I got married. I was when Yahoo dating was free.

Yeah. I was traveling all the time and I'd go on there and I kind of learned a system of like, okay, it's a numbers game, you know, send it to 50 people home in town for the couple of nights, looking for someone to have dinner and have some fun. And, you know, five people would say, sure, you know, then you sort them out. But so same thing with the sugar site, you know, for a guy, listen to this that's thinking about getting into sugars. Yeah. first time I did it, I was like, oh, she's cute. That's send her text and then wait for a week. Then you realize that these girls are getting hundreds of

headups, yeah. Paying, right? So there's a 2% chance they even see you. Every time they come on, they get 100 new things, right? So from what I, you know, I talked to them about it too and how it looks from their side. So I kind of learned the game a little bit. What is the game? How do you get noticed in the 100, you know, emails a day? Yeah, you've got to kind of have an interesting picture.

different than just, you know, I got a picture, me and my garden holding up a bunch of melanchinis or something. And then I do pretty quickly to the message, you know, it's like, hey, you know, wait, if they don't respond in one day, then I go back and say, hey, what's my message kind of like? Just to be up front, I'm interested in a central woman who knows how to enjoy yourself in bed, and there's just pleasure when together. I don't know, no desire to control you outside of our time together. if that sounds like fun to you let me know right do you let these people i think a good thing to let them know too is like wife it knows i have a free pass like you know what i mean i don't know does that help do you think do any of them care yeah yeah they do a lot of mask what the situation is and yeah

and that's that's what i say it's like i don't go into the full story but you know it's like i can i've done enough to know like one of my favorite girls i call her my girl um stephanie her only picture on the website was like her sitting on someone's laps in her legs, right? So I'm like, that's interesting. So I'm, you know, sent my message and her response was, that's a face I can sit on. And then I'm like, okay, I think I like this girl. Yeah. And it still took me a couple of weeks to connect with her.

And that was two, I was three years ago. And, you know, we still see each other. Actually, she's not, I don't pay her anymore. We just hang out when we can. And, but it's really, after you do it enough, Like, you can tell if a girl's just working for the money. Like, I avoid someone that's like, hey, I really am into buying it. I need somebody.

Like, that's not fun. And then there's people that are like, I like like 30 to 30, 30 to 40, 40 that are like, got their life together. And I'm really just looking to have a sex and enjoy sex because they're not too busy to date. And the dating scene sucks. So they're just like, hey, might as well make a couple hundred bucks and have some sex. Right. You're not into the, you like a little bit of the girlfriend experience. It's funny, I talked to a courtesan yesterday from the Sherry's ranch and she's like, I don't know why transactional sex gets such a bad rap. She's like, you know, a lot of these guys wanted to be like, oh, there's no money about. But she's like, she's like, I think that that's like really hot and it shouldn't be such a bad thing. And because it, and it is reality. Yeah, I mean, the cheapest sex you get is the ones you pay for. What I love about it is it's very clear and it's like, you know, you talk about your boundaries and it's like, for me, it's just kind of really fun to like, you're meeting another adult in a hotel room for the express purpose of just having fun.

Yeah, it is very transactional. And I think if you could like you get into that just for that reason alone, you know, I mean, could I just ask you a quick question before I want like specific details and I want you to walk me through a lot of stuff. but I just want to know in all this time that you've been doing it like this one girl Stephanie who's your favorite girl that you see all the time like have there ever been any feelings involved either way like whether you got a girl that you were seeing too much and she started copying feelings or did you ever feel like things like started to cross the line with anyone oh I would say with Stephanie for sure you know I mean we're close we talk she's from a different country and had to go back for visa reasons for six months we kept in touch and she tried to fly over and see me but wouldn't let her country so yeah I mean that's I think with all with my with my main girls like three or four of them you know yeah I like them right but do you but do you feel like they they have their place like does do you ever feel like it starts to bleed over into your marriage because you love your husband your wife right at home like do you ever feel like though you start to think about somebody else like do you think

that there is an issue there or do you think it's possible because this is what you're you know you're living this life and I think that interesting question is is it possible to like completely love your life and have that love your wife and have this relationship over here with this person that you're intimate with that you also like outside of the bedroom you know that kind of a thing yes I do I mean I think with with stuff and me like that something good happened and I was like went to text and she I texted her first and I was like that's oh that's interesting that's interesting to note right like you even noted that like oh I'm texting her before my wife Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm. So, yeah, but I think there's, what it does for my relationship with my wife is, like, I don't have to be grumpy because I'm not getting laid. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. You know, so I can be nice and sweet to her, and I'll hug her and love her and be intimate, and I don't have to hope that, you know, we're going to have sex. Yeah. So, you know, so that helps my relationship and it helps me be kind to her and helps me, you know, like her. So there's no resentment. Yeah, and that builds up over time a lot, especially with couples

of a certain age after kids. The guy's not slowing down, but the wife is, it's a big problem. And it does cause, and it does start to bleed out to so many different things. Okay, so let's get to, so your first girl, like, okay, give me the demographics of the girls that you see on there. Are they all, like, young and hot? Like, the ones I end up, like, establishing, like, repeat relationship with are usually, you know, in the 28 to 30 to 40. I'm 59. Okay. But I can pass for 40.

52. You look good for your age. You're saying is what you're saying. Yeah. I mean, and you know, there's a demographic of women that like. Older men. Silver Fox, right? Yeah, for sure.

You know, so I kind of ask that question. And so you're into older guys and they're like, absolutely. And if they're like, yeah, it's okay. You know, I can tell, you know, if they're not into older guys, I'm not into like, a typical session for me with my girls is like three hours. Okay. And we do, you know, I like pegging, right? So I like, I like giving anal sex.

And so I was like, hey, I should like probably know what that feels like if I'm going to be doing that. Right. So that's where I kind of started playing with myself a little bit just because I wanted to you know, and all the pressure and, you know, not hurt somebody. Yes, that's smart. So that I told my wife that, 10, 12 years ago, about the same time we did the swinging thing. And, you know, after we went through, like, the discussion if I was gay or not. Which always is going to come up for that, yeah.

Yeah, and it was enough that I was like, well, maybe I should research that myself. Yeah, yeah. If I was, maybe I'm gay. And I was like, yeah. Anyway, long story short, we finally got her to do it. to do it and it wasn't exactly the way I would like to do it but anyway long story short she did it and she had an orgasm wow your wife while she was pegging you yeah yeah interesting and what about you how did you like it i liked it i i did not have an orgasm but you know i i think i get off more

in the power exchange oh and that's interesting you like to like it makes you feel a little bit subby in the moment and you enjoy that yeah and i really get off on how much the women enjoy Yeah, interesting. Yeah, and I've heard from women that sometimes, you know, especially women who never thought that they'd be into it, when they like strap it on, they feel something that they didn't expect. Like they feel very powerful. It just makes them feel a certain way that they realize, and they become very into it because of that. Yeah, the one girl I see, she's like a bodybuilder. So I got the, for guys out there, if you're interested in strapping, like get this drop on.

It's called a panty strap on. Okay. And it's like a latex underwear that's pretty tight and it's got the penis attached to the front. So it's as close to the real thing as the woman's ever going to feel. Oh, interesting. Yeah, that's smart. Okay. And so I was like, hey, try this on.

It'd be sexy on you. And she's like, no, no, no, no. I'm like, oh, come on. Just try it on. I finally got her to put it on. And she's all embarrassed and stuff. And then she was walking by and I grabbed her by the ass and put the dick in my mouth, right? Mm-hmm.

And this drop on has a hole in the box. she put your fingers in there and she squirted it in about three minutes oh wow and she's like oh my god that's like she had this huge power rush and like you know so it was like that's so let's go back to stephanie yeah so i did the same thing with her kind of would be we would be seen so there for a while and i'm like hey try the strap on it i didn't have that one but it took time but i put it on her and she was all embarrassed and stuff and then never never wore one before so next time she had it on. We used it. She used it and she thinks she had like three orgasms. Wow. So I think like, you know, if you can get to the place where you can talk about it and get

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Next time she had it on, we used it. She used it, and she had like three orgasms. Wow. So I think, like, you know, if you can get to the place where you can talk about it and get them just to try it on, so you don't have to use it. Just try it on. See how it feels, see how it looks.

Yeah. And if you're man enough to suck on it, then that really, that look on their face is amazing. And you're man enough to suck on it, obviously, because you just threw that out there. Yeah. I mean, it's like one of your podcasts, you know, the stigma to bisexuality and that stuff is like super, super deep. You know, it's like, and, you know, with the pegging, and I didn't do that early on, but now it's like, I have fun doing it because they get such a kick out of it that it makes fun for me. No, I did.

I have been with a couple transsexuals, so that is different. Oh, okay. We got to go there, too. You have a lot of shit. You're like peeling back the onion. You know what I mean? Like a lot of things start to come out. Okay.

So wait, so you will like suck on it and do all that. And you find that these women like are into that, right? Yeah. Stephanie wound up being into it. Yeah, Stephanie. And then I got it. Lena's another gal. She's like an Asian girl like 5-9 and 90 pounds.

And, you know, we have a good switch dynamic. She's like, you know, she's a super subessa, but I, you know, put the strap on on her. And she's slapping my ass. And so like the girls that I see regularly, I've introduced them all to the begging. And it was all their first time. and they all, like, want it to be part of the play every time. Yeah, that's interesting. Okay, so now, like, do they all have different arrangements?

And as far as, like, the money is concerned, do you pay the monthly? Yeah, I mean, I've tried the monthly thing, and it just never works because it always becomes, like, yeah, never do monthlies unless, I mean, if you're going to set a girl up in an apartment and have her on call, that's different. But if it's just kind of like, because of my schedule and random stuff, sometimes it's, I don't see them for a month or two months. And so it's like, but yeah, I do like for. And it's called like you gift them, right? Whenever you see them, it's like you're gifting them something. Yeah, I gift them. Yeah.

Yeah. They're escorts or anything like that. It's like, it's not that kind of an arrangement. Yeah. So, yeah, it's a gift. And so like this is my one I just met a couple weeks ago. I've seen a couple times, you know, we were doing a $500 arrangement. And then I saw her just yesterday day before.

And I was like, hey, but how about we do 300? And I see it once a week. going to be better. She's like, absolutely. And, you know, because as close by, and, you know, she really, really enjoys having, meeting with me. And I bought this drop on out yesterday,

but she didn't try it on. But next time she will. You know what I mean? So that's kind of like, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, but we all threesome. So like Lena and Maria, we get together, all three of us.

and you introduced them or did they come as a pair? No, I introduced them. Okay, so you wanted a threesome. Yeah, so I go back to Stephanie. We're both like, if I wasn't married, I'd be non-monogamous and she's been non-monogamous for years.

And so, like, we share each other. I mean, like, I have a five of a hot session. I'm like, hey, check this out, you know, and talk to her about it. And, you know, if she gives a blowjob someplace, she'll tell me about it. And so, you know, we're kind of like, lawyers or on each other's sex lives and we talk about it all the time.

And so, yeah, so I introduced those two together. She was into checks. Had she done it before you because she was always non-monogamous? Women. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, cool. So you're like, hey, I want you to be with another sugar baby of mine.

She was down and then you had this other girl you knew she was into women. Yeah. Yeah, so I usually asked that, you know, in the conversations, we're texting any into girls at all. If they are, then it's the bonus points. So I'll go online and find like five or six. So now I'm good at it. So like I can go search for 30 minutes, send out some emails. And then I'll have like four people to have conversations with.

And then I'll just lead them out to the one that seems the most sexual, most aligned with me. And then I say like, I like to play on the kinky side of the street. I hope you do too. And then they'll say like, oh, like what? Then I'm like, they say, great, I am too. Then it's like, you know, so it's kind of like, you know, I haven't seen 100 or more in the last two years. I get pretty good at kind of seen who they are through text.

You can learn a lot through text. So you like the girls that'll do the girl and girl action. How was your first threesome? With these girls? Yeah. Oh. With Stephanie. Was it with Stephanie the first time you brought two girls together?

Yeah. Well, Stephanie and I've had a few that were not so good. Oh, really? for other sugars that we met. You know, like, lesson learned, right? Yeah. Probably the hottest one was when Stephanie brought her friend that was she was sleeping

with from, we met in Vegas. I want Stephanie on my show, by the way. Yeah. She should call her. I'll have her calling. Yeah. So she brought her friend that she was sleeping with.

They were actually going to move in together. And the deal was like, I'm not guarantee we're going to sleep together. but she's coming and then I'll just like play by ear and I'm like something like fine anyway it worked out really good and we got went to the experiment right now and and hung out there for a while went back to the toy store bought some toys back to the hotel and none of us really remember what happened when you're just ripping clothes off and having like a whole weekend of hot sex wow how do you have a whole weekend of hot sex when you have a wife is are you doing this when

you're traveling yeah yeah I had a business call conference and I extended a couple days. Right. Okay. And your wife doesn't ask questions with stuff like that. Do you think she kind of knows? I don't know. I mean, she knows me sexually.

She knows how I am. So I'm kind of curious sometimes if she's just like, doesn't want to ask that. I mean, I think she would be a little bit like, what are you doing? But yeah, I don't know if she could phone my lying bank account would be not a good thing. Because, I mean, that's the other thing about, if you're married and you don't have permission and you need to do this, you need to be, you know, like it costs money. Right. I mean, every time you're seeing them. And if you have two girls, you're paying both of them.

And, you know, I mean, it does add up. But are you still like, how many times a month do you have sex with your wife? Do you? No. I mean, I go down on her once in a while. But, you know, it's probably been over a year. Wow. Okay.

So she in menopause and just like not on hormones and has no sex drive anymore? Is that? Yeah. Yeah. Some other medical stuff I'm not going to get into. Right. Yeah. So it's like, you know, it's just not.

It's not the time of life for us, you know, for what she's dealing with and everything. So it's like, yeah. She's closed up shop for right now. And you're going there and you're not harassing her and she's not asking any questions. Yeah. I give her credit, you know, for allowing you in a sense, right, to do what you're doing. because like do you ever think that like there is a danger of you you know leaving your wife for one of these girls or you know could that never happen and this is the perfect scenario no I think it's a perfect scenario and I and I thought about it before if we ever did split up

if I would still do sugars or I would just get more involved in the lifestyle yeah let me ask you this about the girls you know because you've seen so many you've had like over a hundred you say in the past two years correct yeah something like that I can really count yeah What's like their story typically? Like what do you think these girls? Like what's the demographics of these girls? As far as like, why are they doing this kind of a thing as opposed to having a regular relationship with a guy? Like, because you obviously probably talk to these girls too, right? And you get the lowdown.

Yeah, yeah. I really enjoy getting their story. I mean, you know, my friend that's out of town kind of down south, she was married and just the husband wasn't good and didn't do it for her. And so she was just happened to be in Denver. and that's one of the interesting ones were like, I hit her up on the site. She texted the back right away. We talked for a little bit.

And like, long story, short, we ended up in an hotel room like two hours later. Oh, wow. Right. So she's just looking no strings attached, something easy, transactional because that probably doesn't fuck with her growing up life too, right?

Like someone like that. Right. Yeah, she's out of town, has her opportunity, and she's like, I want to get late. So we did. At a great time. Beautiful girl.

She's 49 now. so she must have been 47 then. And we got a good relationship. Like she was supposed to get married to the guy. He canceled marriage, but still had the wedding party. And she's like, fuck that. And so she came to town. God happened to be free.

And we spent the whole afternoon together. And she had her cry and talked about her thing. And we had good sex. And it was like, and so girls tend to tell me their story pretty well, because I'm pretty open, as you can tell. and so we get that kind of I like to hear their story but to put them in categories

there's the... Or like yeah, what's a typical story you hear like the story you hear the most? You know, I'm sure everyone has their own story. Like what is the typical story you hear that you think is attracting this kind of lifestyle to these women? Probably mostly single. I mean it's the kind of categories. There's the 20 something that's just augmenting their money and having a regular life and being pretty discreet about it with their most of them are discreet about

it but and there's the woman in the 30s 40s that's the guys they don't want to get in the clinging relationship because they don't have time but they're still they're in their horny years and yeah like so i'm kinky so like when i get the girls turned on you know like i'm pretty good at what i do and they tend to be pretty open to trying new stuff so like i got like 40 pounds or toys and stuff I bring to the counters. Oh, my God, is it in the truck of your car? I'm fortunate. I have my own garage at my house, so I just like in the garage in there. And my wife and I used to, I used to have a lot of toys with my

wife, too, so I didn't have a lot more now. But you bring them, you'll haul them out when you bring them with you. Yeah. And so another one of my favorites that's had the threesome. Like three of us, the girl I was just talking about, I introduced her to Stephanie and they had an amazing time and she was like halfway right in the middle of it she goes I think I might be a lesbian. Oh my God. But anyway, yeah, so the ones that I tend to get along with the best are people that are a little

bit on the kinky side, you know, really open to exploring different things. And, you know, my Asian friend, Lena, you know, she, I told the girls I'm going to be on the call and that's anything you don't want me to say or you know what name do you want me to use she's like well you know she's like well you talk about our switch dynamic because you know she likes to we like to switch a peg and she likes to be stretched out like big toys and fissing and she's like 90 pounds my goodness really and she's fisted me before she that's interesting both of you you fist her she fisted you yeah who fisted who first well we like Like, like, Gar dynamic is like she likes to play like a age play, like middle, little girl, or not like middle.

Yeah, yeah, I got it. Yeah, I got it. Not little, little, but middle. And so she's super submissive in that thing. And we have, you know, great time playing that role play. And then flip on the strap on and then she's, you know, dominating me. Yeah. And same with Maria. You know, we'll take turns, you know.

and that she always has orgasms when she pegs. Yeah. Let me ask you a quick question because you're so into pegging and you've been fisted in your ass and stuff. Like have you had a prostate orgasm? No, no. I'm chasing that thing, man. I've listened to your podcast on the guy that had it accidentally, right?

So like, you know, if I have some extra time in the hotel, I'll do that. I'll put something in that vibrates and just kind of relax and watch TV and just try to get to feel that thing, right? you know and send videos to maria it's like here's try this you know watch this video and try it next yeah so like i'm i'm aware of it i've never had one it feels like i got a pee you know stop i'm getting there oh yeah that's what it feels like for men too because that's supposedly what it feels like for women before they squirt yeah actually it's kind of funny because i was like with one of your girls one of the girls and uh i was

had the stop on it. I was riding on top of her. And she was doing the hand job thing and she started doing something. I'm like, oh, I think I got a pee and I thought, well, maybe that's it. You know? Yeah. Oh. Oh my God. And it wasn't for fun.

It was by accident. It was like, that's okay. It's okay. And I'm like, all right. That's fucking funny. I mean, listen, you've been fissed. You fist that one girl. What other kinky things have you tried?

with these women that you've been with. Let's see. Mostly like toys like stretching. Like I find like most girls have never really been stretched. I think guys are really timid around the pussy, you know? Like I like most girls will be receptive to like if they don't know if they don't see what's happening like I got a John Holmes dildo that's about two inches wide. And you know, listen I've been duped before with two inches wide. I didn't know what the fuck that means.

People and sometimes like I thought that's like a. around if you take like a, you know, what you call it around? It's like, no, it's like a cross. You know, once I ordered, I talked about this recently, this huge thing that was like bigger than a baby's arm came. I was like, what the fuck is this? Because when you're seeing two and a half inches, it's like that's a cross, right? Yeah, I mean, that's like seven and a half inches around.

Yes, exactly. Right. But I didn't get that. I think some people don't understand that. I didn't at one point. Yeah. So that's a big ass dildo. what you're saying and it's thick and you you will put that in the girl your girls yeah so my what i do is i'll go

down and i'm really pretty good at oral sex so like they they know they get pretty excited and then i can tell pretty fast like how they are so like if i get my most of my hand in there then i'll get like three toys like a small medium large one yeah and then i'll just give an orgasm with one and give me orgasm with the next biggest one and then the the he's the john holmes one you can look it up it's the john homes. Yeah. Life-size deal. And then that typically ends up being their favorite.

And then I also have a bad dragon that's like a bigger one. Oh, those look really cool. Are those? Those are good? I've seen those. Yeah, no. I just have one bad dragon. It's like the medium flint.

And I've had three or four girls love to love that come over it. Have you gotten more girls to fist than that one? Or is she the one that's really into it? Lena. Yeah, Lena's really into it. I mean, I was up on a trip on a trip in Arizona a couple weeks ago, and I fisted that girl, and then there was a trip in North Dakota. You know, it just kind of depends on the girl. Yeah, but I probably fisted the six or seven girls in the last two years. Oh, wow. That's something that you get them to do for the first time, or are these just girls that happen to be into it? usually it's her first time wow okay so you know how to get to work it yeah i mean i think it it's like i get it turns me on doing it for one and so it's like i'm willing to take my time and you know it's not always on the first session you know it's usually kind of a workup thing and and then you know i i talk when i'm playing you know like you know so do you want the whole

thing and you know so it's it's hard though i got huge hands i'm i mean my hands are like eight and a half inches nine. Yeah, that's bigger than your John Holmes for sure. But let me ask you this. Who was, did that girl? Was that the first girl that fisted you or did you have that happen before? I mean, how did that happen for you?

Oh, yeah. Well, again, she's 90 pounds. Oh, yeah, it's a little hand, right. You probably had dildo's bigger. Yeah, so Stephanie, we're still working on. I mean, she gets really close, but I mean, getting past that thumb thing is the tricky part. Right. And so,

you know, I've been, I don't get a chance to play with myself very often that way because from home and it's not convenient and not private. So, you know, it's, I'm getting closer. I'm not like your guy that does bowling pins. Wait, but let me ask you about the trans women that you've been with. Has that been through this time period or was this before, you know, you married your wife? Like, when did the, when did you hook up with trans women? Oh, the first one was, uh, you can Look her up. She was a porn star, Jesse, Jesse Dubai.

And it just happened to be a night that everybody was gone. And I got online and arranged it. And actually she came to my house. That was the first experience with that. And then if I'm traveling, if I'm traveling, sometimes just for change of pace, I'll see what's on in that world. But what made you go after Jesse Dubai that first time?

Was that something you'd always fantasize about? I mean, listen, she looks like a super hot cis woman, right? I mean, she looked so passable, you know, but she obviously has a cock, right, as well. And were you, like, craving that? Because I don't know, you tell me, like, why go after her that time? I think at that time I was really starting to, like, play with myself a little bit. And, like, I've been able to take that John Holmes if I spend some time. Yeah.

But, yeah, I think it was just like... You want the real thing after... Yeah, I want to see what the real thing feels like. Yeah. And how was it different? I mean, did she, like, obviously you bought them for her, correct? Yeah. How was it?

It was good. You know, it was, you know, I was, you know, I didn't hurt. It was fun. And, you know, she came twice. And then she, this second time, you know, all my knees, she came in my mouth. and she asked me about it tasted good or how was she and I'm like I don't know I don't prepared to. Right, exactly.

Except for this is, I don't know what time I got out, but like I told the story to one of the girls the day. I did, I managed to suck my own cock. What? No way. Yeah. Wow. Like laying on your back?

Like was it just the weirdest position or were you always trying? Yeah. I mean, it took me like three weeks of like stretching and like, I don't. don't have a long cock, I got a fat cock, you know, so I'm like six and a half inches, but I'm like seven, six inches and a half around, you know, so. Oh, okay. Yeah, it was a weird position. I had to be on my back with a towel under my head and my feet, toes hooked under the

door. But the funny part of the story was I finally got it. Wow. So just the barely tip of it. And I didn't really think about it, but then I came in my mouth. And I was like, oh, wait. Did you swallow? I remember, but then I was like, I never did it again.

I was like, that freaked me out. Oh, that's so funny. But when you swallowed, you swallowed, though, for Jesse, right? Yeah, probably. And then you went back a second time to her or somebody else? Others, yeah. I was in Amsterdam on a trip, and then one time. Yeah, it's usually when I go out of town in an area that's got a bigger selection, you know.

Yeah. Uh-huh. Because I really don't like Like I've never like Like Marie Stephanie and I are planning on doing a mail mail Yeah that's what I was gonna be my last question Like how have you ever thought about being with a guy?

Yeah so we really want to do that with another guy To get the real thing and I don't mind giving head But I don't want to kiss You know like I'm not attracted to like that kind of like Someone's guys kissing on the screen I'm like I don't like So I'm not really the dick or what you and you might bought them right though yeah you know that's it's to me that's all skin right you know i guess i don't know i mean what's the difference anyway is it bad if someone is in a guy's

into kissing a guy you know listen a lot of people have rules about kissing everyone thinks kissing is this fucking thing at the end of the day you you you know call me in two years you probably let's fucking make out with some guy at one point too you're so kinky and dirty if it's hot it's hot you know what i mean i don't know i just like at this point that's the only rule i got is like yeah Yeah, everyone has that rule. Even the non-monogamous vanilla people, like when they're getting just, we're not going to kiss. You know, three times later, they're making out. Because kissing sometimes just is like a hot sensual thing.

It's not, you know, you might wind up kissing a guy. But I get it. When you're in the act, you'll suck a dick, you'll bought him, and you're down to try it. You're like an open guy. Yeah. Yeah. I don't put any label on it. Yeah.

It doesn't have to be. My guy with Joe Court, he talked about it. And I say this all the time, but he talked about there's a difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation. Sexual orientation is like, oh, you like men and, you know, and that's your thing. Erotic orientation is like maybe in the middle of sex, you're like fucking down for to suck a cock, but it doesn't mean anything. It just means like in that moment, that's what you're into. Yeah. Well, I mean, I wish I was more like really buying a track to the men because it'd be way easier to get sex. I always tell my guy friends that you'd be so much happier if you just wanted to

fuck guys because they're so down for everything you are. But listen, I'm sorry, you are not doing bad. okay you've had over a hundred hot checks in your past uh two years you're getting pegged by them you're fissing them you have like you know a such a variety like you have a year to like live in the life okay and you're not even like doing it on the d l really you know what i mean like it's not like you're cheating on your wife or anything like that you have a free pass it's a don't ask don't tell so you're not doing anything quote unquote wrong uh so you're you're really like, you know, goals for people for a lot of guys out there. You know what I mean? A 59-year-old guy, get all that variety and all that sex you're having and you're getting to live out

all your fantasies. And like I said, you're not even doing it in a bad way. I think you're, what more can you ask for? No, I'm really enjoying my time right now and it's like, it's fun and like, I wish I had more time. But, you know, but, you know, I know, I know why you're wife got rid of love was like go fuck somebody else you just need too much sex you want more time for sex i mean that's like listen it's such a common problem i you know i i i i low-key love your wife too very realistic uh in a way you know yeah and i think because we had swung before you know had sex with someone else yeah yeah like say like okay that was like sex and this is our relationship and so it's like so yeah that i think that helped her to kind of like to be able to

separate and let some of that go. And yeah, I really, I'm having a good time. I like I like bridey and don't really have a type. I have one girl that's like hairy. Like got one more hair in her chest than I do.

What do you mean? Hairy like on her chest or Harry Bush? What do you mean Harry? No, like she's like super high testosterone person, which is her clits about the size of a. A little deck? Like a. Yeah, it's like a thumb.

Yeah. Yeah, like a micro penis. Yeah, and it's all natural. And I think she just gave up trying to shave. And so, like, she's got hair on her stomach. Where do you mean her? She's a sugar. Wow.

And you're down for that. You're down for everything. You will be making out with a guy at sometime soon. I'm telling you. You're fucking down for everything. Yeah, well, she lives out of town now. Yeah, she wanted to love fisting too. She wanted to get fisted in her ass and her pussy at the same time.

Wow. Did you do it? Well, we ended up late. I was fucking her ass and fishing her. We got that far. Wow, that's crazy. So while you're fucking her and ass, you were fisting her at the same time. And this is the girl with a high testosterone.

She's like a dude. Yeah, she squirted it. We were filming it, and she scored it all over my computer. Oh, my God. I hope you hide your videos and shit, okay? You don't want your wife to ever find anything. And I hope you're, it sounds like, I mean, I would hope you're very, like, you know, I made a whole audio grandma.

it recently because I was talking to somebody and you know I always say like with quote unquote cheaters and you're not cheating but I just think it's so disrespectful when you know if you're not only cheating or doing something like you but you're sloppy about it you know what I mean like I think the most yeah no no I mean like you know be as like yeah like really high that shit don't ever get caught you know because that would be so terrible for your wife yeah no I'm good I like as soon as I I got an external hard drive that I plug in and I okay my phone into the external hard drive and then I clear them off my computer and I really do a lot of computer hygiene. Okay, good. Because I was like videos. That could get you in fucking trouble.

Oh, yeah, yeah. I mean, I could have a porn up channel. Right. Oh my God. But you have it all separate. You're, I think that that's the smart way to do it and the respectable way to do it. My last question would be because you have this whole setup and I think you kind of answered it in the beginning. But like, I mean, do you feel like, I know that you said it makes your marriage better because you don't have arguments with her and everything, but like, has it made you closer to her? Has it drawn you a little farther apart besides it helping your marriage in that you guys don't have arguments and stuff like that? Like, has it affected your marriage in any other way? For better or for worse that you think? Well, yeah, I mean, honestly, I think that, like, when you are

kind of working for sex from your wife there's probably once you know more intimacy building up to the sex right because it's like kind of part of the deal so I think that part is kind of missed where where we don't

you're not intimate on that level you're not close on that physical level yeah so that would be regardless whether you have these other people or not right right but I mean like if I was to be more pursue her more for sex, then I would be probably paying her more attention. Yeah.

You know what I mean? Mm-hmm. And so that's probably the downside for her. But, you know, I do other things that, you know, just to make sure I have time to have lunch and talk and, you know, keep all those kind of things going. But, and the one thing that, like, because she comes back around when everything's better,

like I'm so done so much stuff now on the kinky side that I'm not, I don't know how that's going to go, right? Because it's like conventional just like... The last thing, like... Like, I screwed up before I'm glad to girl, you know, coming. She's like, like a, you know, a hoker, right? Like, wants to give you a blowjob, jump on top and ride you out. And then like 20 minutes and it's like, okay, I'm going to come done.

That's like the, like, I'd rather go jerk off. Yeah. And so You're afraid that when it comes down to the intimacy with your wife, when it comes back around that, it might not be enough for you because you're so used to going so far off the rails with all these other girls?

Yeah. Yeah. But maybe, listen, you know, you do have, there's a lot more layers. And I don't know if this is the same way for men as it is for women. Like, is it different for men with sex? Like, because, you know, there's so many layers involved with your wife. That's not just sex, right?

Like, I mean, you're close to her on every other level. You know this one, you know, so maybe that kind of closeness will add to the very vanilla sex that you have to hurt. So it will be okay, you know what I mean? Because you care about it. Yeah, well, I would say that. Is that add to it? Yeah. When we were still having sex and I was still doing this, I mean, I would be much more easily aroused and orgasm much sooner.

And because the intimacy and the little history. That's what I mean. Yeah. So, yeah, for sure. Like when I go down on her, I get hard. I mean, I've had orgasms going down on her before. Yeah. So you'll probably be fine.

So, yeah, I think so. I mean, especially because, you know, our dynamic is really kind of fun. And she's kinky too. I mean, she's like all the stuff that we've done that she's not, she's not vanilla. No, obviously not. She'll taggers. Yeah, no, not compared. It's all relative.

You know what I mean? it really is. I mean, you know, the more I ask you questions, the more you're like, holy shit, like you've done this and that, you know, you've, you've sort of been there, done that. But I feel like, you know, sometimes when you've been there done that so much, you know, maybe the vanilla sex will be kind of fucking hot because it's something different. You know, who knows? But I think you'll be fine. But I listen, I love your story. I want all your girls on my show. They're listening, right? You said, maybe, I don't know, you said you're going to be on. I wonder if they're going to listen to your show. Any of you girls want to come on my show. Call in. I'll make you anonymous. You could tell your story. I feel like I could, there's so many, I mean, you have hundreds of girls. All these things are into, I could get like 10,000 more stories out of you. But I love the story that you told, and thank you so much for calling in and sharing it. It was super interesting. Now, I don't know if you want to send a pick of anything or if you have anything, you know, of any of the, I don't let anyone share picks of people that, you know, aren't.

They don't agree to it. I do have a Discord, though, and I will allow you free access to that. You could post anything you want over there. but some guys send me in picks of themselves but I don't take dick pics or anything like that for my Patreon it's like R-rated stuff so but I will give you free access to my Patreon so you could comment to the comments that people make on your show I feel like a lot of people will be talking about you

like I told you you're like goals for a lot of guys and I'll also give you free access to my Discord but what do we call you Tom Tom? Tom yeah Tom and I would like I didn't even think about it but like what's changed my world was Tri-Mix injectable thing for EDD kidding, really? The Trimax? Yeah. That really helps. Yeah, like three hours. Three hours. Oh, my God. Your poor wife. She doesn't have to deal with you in three hours. Oh, my gosh.

Fuck off, three hours. Yeah. Well, I mean, the thing is, like, yeah, you don't have to, the thing is you don't have to use it for three hours. You can just go stop and. Yeah, with your big, thick dick? Like, how are you walking around just the target with three hours on Trimax? Oh, my gosh. Well, that's why I like to have three hours sessions. Yeah, there you go. That makes sense now. Yeah, your lucky sugars, you know what I mean? Listen, there's a time in everyone's life where, you know, you could spend three hours having sex. And then there's times in your life where you're like, like, for me, I'm like a single mom.

I have a career. Like, I don't have time of three hours sex. You know what I mean? Like, but it's all relative. I mean, that's why what's great for you is you could have that time and you have it all settled, you know, with these people that want exactly that too, with the fucking trimax. But, uh, yeah, I do a sexual health. Saturdays I need to get on a guy who could talk about that doctor that could talk about

ED and how that could help but that's like good to know but listen Tom thank you for calling in it was super interesting like I said you see there's so much more to your fucking sir I could talk you for two hours go on your other call but thanks for calling in Tom yeah I'll tell the girls call in I'm sure yeah please do I'll email you the link and if any of them want to call in just have them use the link and tell me that they're one of your girls okay okay perfect all right awesome thanks so much for calling in this super interesting. Thanks.

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