Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1136 - The Orgasm Gap, ED and Delay Spray, Vibrating C*** Rings and More w/Lisa from Promescent

Episode Date: June 7, 2025

Lisa from Promescent called in to talk all about the orgasm gap, erectile dysfunction, sex toys and more. Tune in to hear her discuss all the details including what the orgasm gap is, the difference between how long it takes for men to orgasm vs. women, how and why orgasming together should be the goal, the difference between erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation how and why the products that treat them are totally different,  how long Promescent delay spray takes to work and what it can do for you, how and why it won’t take away sensitivity like other delay spays when used properly, how to make sure it doesn’t transfer to your partner once it’s applied, helpful tips on how both men and women can introduce delay spray and sex toys into the bedroom, nitric oxide boosters and how and when they are super helpful when it comes to sex, vibrating cock rings and how and why even though they’re made for men, they’re also fun for women plus a whole lot more. Lisa Schaefer is the VP of Marketing for Promescent. To get 15% off your WHOLE order, click here: http://promescent.com/kathy **To see HOT pics of my female guests  + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2512-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get $10 off Shameless Care’s female viagra cream, just click on the link and use code: Strictly   Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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takeovers and meetups and munches are in your location or in any location. They are worldwide. You want to sign up for SCC and get a free trial. Use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay. So today I have on Lisa. Now Lisa just started working over at Promeson and I had her call in because I'm doing now this sexual health series, sexual health Saturday series. And I was like, oh, who better to have on than somebody who wants to talk about delay spray and the orgasm gap and PE and how it's different than ED? And we wound up actually talking about all of that and then so much more. She actually started at Promeson to like build up their women's side of things.

So we talk a lot about the products that they also have for women. We talk all about in the beginning, the orgasm gap. like I said, and we talk about PE. We talk about their delay spray, how it works, how it's different, how to use it. You know, also how to like bring it up with your partner, whether you're a man or a woman. We also talk about like their sex toys that they have now that they sell. They have a great one for guys. I always say I feel sorry for guys.

Well, there is a great sex toy that they have that you could get. And the prices of their sex toys because they're their own that they offer are super inexpensive. You are going to get a Kathy discount. on this call. You're going to get 15% off your whole order. So you're going to learn a lot about a lot of different things on this episode as well as a lot of different products. And if you want to go out and get anything, they have a lot of bundles and stuff. You're going to get 15% off everything, your first time buying. And the way you get it is just to go into the description and click on the link. Or you type in promescent.com slash Kathy. That's promescent.com slash Kathy. But we talk about

so many different things. She's super interesting. You're going to learn a lot. You're going to want to go out and buy all the products. Like I said, we did talk a lot about also the female products that they offer, their warming gel, vitiflux. You're going to find it super interesting. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Lisa. Hi, Lisa. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast.

How are you today? I'm so good. Thank you for having me. No, thank you for coming on. You know, recently I started a sexual health Saturdays series and I've been trying to bring on professionals to talk about different kind of health things that could really help my listeners and I reached out to Promesit and you happen to be like their new VP of marketing and I love what you're doing at Promesum because you're there, you know, all about the things that we're going to

talk about including like the orgasm gap and you know, P.E and how it's different than E.D. But you also like were signed up there to really promote and talk a lot about all the women's products they have. I've used some of their women's products. So we're also going to talk about all that kind of good stuff. I used to promote the shit out of their delays, right, which by the way, my listeners always loved. It really works. And I used to talk all about the orgasm gap, but you like know more than I do. And I used to only say it in a one minute ad. So we're going to do a whole episode and talk about all this kind of good stuff.

And it's going to be super interesting. So, so welcome to the podcast, Lisa. You know, do you want to start talking about the orgasm gap? Like, because I, you know, I don't think a lot of people know anything about it. Yeah, absolutely. I think this is one of my favorite. were things to talk about. I mean, I've, you know, Premescent is really well known for like the delay spray, like you mentioned. And it really is to kind of like conquer or address the orgasm gap. So sometimes

they call it the climax gap or the orgasm gap, the O gap. So a few different like names for it. But, you know, I think that like anecdotally, it's kind of, you know, known like in heterosexual relationships, right? Like the saying goes like men, you know, orgasm more. than women. So I think anecdotally, we, we know that, but it was so interesting to me to find out that it's actually like a scientific, like a proven phenomenon. And it's, it's kind of a layered thing, actually. So it obviously, it expresses like the distance, right, the gap between like how often men versus women in heterosexual relationships like climax. So in, again, this is heterosexual relationships, but like 95% of the time, men climax. Whereas women climax 65% of the time.

And it's not only like, I guess the frequency with which they orgasm, but it's the timing. So like on average men need like, I think it's five minutes and women need like 18. So there's a huge disparity there. Right. So that timing obviously contributes then to the frequency because, you know, if men are climaxing at five minutes, women need 18. They go again. Given the chance, right? So yeah, that makes sense. Yeah. So that's fun. You know, that's not fun, right? Like, I think we all wish it wasn't really that way. But, but it is interesting to know that it's a proven thing. And so, you know, we kind of set out to, to solve for that. Yeah. But what's interesting is that, because I remember looking into this and finding it super interesting.

I mean, it's so obvious that it's like it takes a little bit longer for women than for men. I was very interested in the scientific like numbers that they have. I remember those the minutes between. I didn't also, though, realize that the gap was also about the frequency. I just thought it was like the minutes it takes a woman, a woman to come like, you know, than her guy. And it's always a little bit more, you know, so it can't hurt. Exactly.

If you're not given the opportunity, than your percentage of frequency goes down. Yeah, so that makes sense. I know I used to talk, like, I mean, and it is true, you know, and there's nothing worse, being with a guy as a woman when you're like having sex and you want to come and they go first and then, you know, they can't continue to have sex, right? It's just not physically possible. So if they go first and they're so fast and it's taking you a long time and they can't hold off, right?

And it's a problem. And like, I don't know what guys do. I'm not a guy. Like, you know, how do guys hold it in? You know, like do they start thinking of the weather? Like you hear people make jokes about it. Well, that's what they say, right? Yeah.

Like baseball and like grammar or something. Yeah, because they have this hot body in front of them. They got all the things they're loving, right? They're inside. They're staring at your tits. Like, you know, and they could get off super quick, you know. They're wired so much different than we are. Well, yeah.

And I think like sometimes it's like, okay, so he went and now he can pay attention to just you. And I mean, that's honestly not comfortable for some people. Right. Some women are like, right? Like, oh, now it's like all eyes on me and it might be pressure. So we kind of set out to set like to close that gap more in a mutual way so that so that the men could last longer and together. Right. So we actually have studies that say like like using our product or delay spray helps like 50% more for mutual climax. Yeah. And that's top of the mountain. Sorry like that to me, it doesn't happen. and often, right? But you could remember when it does, and it's always the hottest sex you had that week, that month, whatever, when you both come at the same time. It never fails. That is like the best. Like seriously. Absolutely. And that's sometimes hard to do because of the orgasm gap, right? And so what I remember about the spray and what's great about it is, is it doesn't take away all the, like, it just kind of takes the edge off, right, of the sensitivity so that you could go. And,

longer? Like, what's a, like, mechanism behind it of, like, how it works? Well, it's actually, so we actually have a patented formula. So there's, there's a lot of delay sprays out there and they have more of a numbing effect because they just kind of sit on the skin, just like a, like a lotion or like a cream wood, you know? Yeah. Ours, we actually have a patented formula. It was actually developed by a urologist and to solve for PE because he saw a lot of premature ejaculation, like, patients. They have more of a numbing effect because, they just kind of sit on the skin, just like a, like a lotion or like a cream wood, you know. Yeah.

Yeah. Ours, we actually have a patented formula. It was actually developed by a urologist. And to solve for PE because he saw a lot of premature ejaculation, like, patients. And so this is what's called, it's called a eutectic formula. So it's very sciencey. But basically the formula, like, absorbs into the skin. And then it absorbs into the fatty tissue.

tissue below the skin. So you've got this desensitation that's below the skin and not a numbing that is on the skin. So you do have to like use it right. Like you have to wait like eight to 10 minutes after you put it on to the most sensitive part of the penis before you like start, you know, with intercourse because you want that to absorb. You want, you don't want it to be still sitting on the skin, right? Not only for the for the for the man, but also for the partner. because you can transfer it. Like, ours doesn't transfer because it absorbs into that fatty tissue. But like some of the numbing ones on the market, like basically then you're just having

numbing sex and then everyone's numb and then maybe you last longer. But I mean, then your partner's really lasting longer. Exactly. Then you're never coming. Right. Then it's like you have another problem. Could you just explain the difference between P.E. and E.D. because I think that sometimes people get those confused or they don't know the actual

difference and why there's different products at work. Because, like, I have a sponsor, and it's called Blue Chew, right? And I could, you know, sponsor them and sponsor Primosa at the same time. There's no conflict of interest because there are two separate things, you know, hitting two separate, very different problems, right? And I think sometimes people get that confused. A hundred percent. Like, so a lot, actually a lot of men who think and try to treat for ED actually have PE. So, So ED is erectile dysfunction. So erectile and dysfunction, like just break down the words, right?

So it's when they can't get or maintain an erection. And then PE is when it's premature ejaculation. So really, you know, I mean, if you break down the words, but since they're both associated with penis, I think that it's easy to conflate the two. Yeah. But PE is when a man ejaculates before him or his partner desires, basically. I mean, if you really look at it, I think the actual clinical PE is, which is objective PE is like under a minute. So there are guys out there that like can't last a minute and it's just it has to do with this premature ejaculation.

And then you have like subjective PEE, which is like you might last five minutes but you want to last 10. Right. So it's kind of a scale, but right. But you know, they definitely get conflated a lot. So you've got the blue chew that helps with arrest. tactile dysfunction that helps with keeping blood flow. That's all blood flow. Yeah, that's about blood flow. And that's very different than a sensation, which this is helping with, right, to make you last longer. And I think, like, the great thing about having this kind of delis spray available is I personally think like anyone could

kind of use it at any time, right? There are those people, like you said, that come like way too fast. Maybe there's like an issue there, you know? And then, but I think most guys would, could, could use, you know, would benefit from using it because, like I said, as a woman, I like when my partner could go and wait for me. I feel really irritated. Like, you know, I feel pressure. If I, the more pressure I feel that I have to hurry up because my guy can't wait, like the worse it is for me to orgasm, right? Then you get more in your head. And that's mental. Yeah, yeah. It's mental. Yeah, yeah. It's very mental for women. So if she knows, like, she could just like take her time and you're good to go and because sometimes I don't know about you. I don't know your life story. I'm not going to ask you

because you're the expert on this call. But like, you know, for me, if I'm looking at the guy and I could see it's like painful for him and he's like, I feel bad. You know what I mean? I kind of want to I feel bad if I can't come and you're like, you know, and so it would be nice to know that like there's no pressure. Yeah. No. I mean, definitely. I think a large percentage of men who like use our products like, you know, do have a premature ejaculation issue. But then some guys, you know, use it more what we call recreationally, right? Like, just because you just want to last longer because, quote, unquote, like, you know, lasting long is, there's nothing wrong with lasting long.

And I don't think any girl's going to like, because listen, I think some guys, you know, there's a lot of ego attached to guys' dicks in every way shape and form. You know what I mean? Like I asked one of my guy friends recently if you ever took Viagra because I got some Viagra cream for myself and he's like, no, never. I was like, yeah, you're so full of shit. Because I think, because I. Well, I hear you say, why wouldn't you just try it just to see what it's.

like yeah I don't even I don't believe it because I'm just saying that I think that you know there's like a lot of ego like oh like oh I don't need it it it's like I don't think most people take it because they need it even a lot of they just take it to last really long and have fun you know and I just feel like there's sometimes you know guys have like issues sort of you know going out and buying something because of how it means or they don't want to tell somebody about it but I don't think if like any if a guy came to me and said hey listen I got I'm going to spray this shit on myself and I got to wait eight to ten minutes, but it's going to make me last longer, like, no girl's going to care.

You know what I mean? I'm just saying that to guys if they're worried to tell their girl or their partner that I'm using this delay spray. It doesn't, no girl is going to be like, what the fuck, you know, she's going to be like, oh, thank you. You know, if you say you're doing it for her. Yeah, like find something to do. I'm sure you can find something fun to do for, you know, find some foreplay to do for that

eight to ten minutes, you know. Yeah. And if you tell your girl, you're doing it so that, you know, you guys could come at the same time so you could take longer and fuck her good and wait for her you know what i mean and there's no pressure like no girl is going to be upset about that yeah no not at all but it's interesting you said like about the like guys don't like to talk or like sort of with the macho you know yeah we we we deal with that a lot because you know like referral business obviously is always good and it's like so hard to get that in this being in this market because who wants to like you know do guys

really want to admit that they're using like an aid to last longer. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So that's why, that's one of the reasons why we're starting to try to talk to women because women, you know, we talk about everything, right? So yeah. If we find a solution that makes their sex life bigger, better, we know they're going to tell their friends because women talk about sex. Right. But how would you tell the women that are listening? Because I have a lot of women listeners too. Like I was just talking to the guys before. Like, like trust me, buy some fucking delay spray. You're going to be happy and your girl's going to be happy and tell her all about it. Don't hide in the bathroom. Don't worry about it. No girl's going to care. She's going to be happy. But like for the girl that's listening that maybe wants to

her guy, right? He's not listening to this, but she's like, oh, this would be great for my guy. How does she bring it up to him without insulting him or whatever, you know, hurting his ego? Yeah. No, I think that's one of like the biggest things that we talk about even, like internally is like how can we make women more comfortable talking about this? And I think, I mean, look, the past few years even, like conversations around sex and sexual experience and specifically women's sexual experiences, like, has become much more commonplace and just like communication in general. So, you know, that definitely supports this. But I think you can make it fun. I think you could say, you know, whether if you've ever brought any other type of sex story or anything into the

relationship, like it kind of can be viewed in the same way, right? Like, so, you know, I saw this, you know, this could make things last longer. It could make, you know, like, I guess just have fun with it. It's more about exploring and it'll give us more time to explore our bodies and more of like an us thing, right? Yeah. And just newness. It's fun to bring new stuff into the bedroom. So I don't think it's as heavy as it could be, right? Like, I think you can have fun with it. Yeah, listen, communication about sex is like a dom, there's a domino effect to it. Like the minute you just start talking about it and you just throw one thing out there. And if you continue, like, you cannot believe like where that kind of conversation could go. You know what I mean? Because I talk, I talk to people who,

like, you know, were totally vanilla couples and they were prompted to ask each other's questions by a game, you know, about like their fantasies or whatever. And now they're like swinging. Like you just, and it's all because they just started talking about it and started copying of things and started being open about sex. So like even if you say like, you know, and we're going to talk about sex choice for women too here. And I know that like I had a couple of boyfriends in my life where they were like, what the fuck you use this? Like they were like intimidated by it. It's a weird. You're like, you know. And but I think conversations about these kinds of things and bring it in like you said, like in a fun way, like in a sexy way like adding to your sex life. Like who's going to complain

about that? And then once you start talking about that and you start playing with that, it could lead to all kinds of things. If you continue those conversations and you break those barriers down instead of like, you know, never talking about it. That's a bad, to me, the key to great sex is like being open about, you know, being able to speak up and ask for what you want. And a lot of women don't. Like, that's why a lot of women do find it hard to come because maybe they need their clit stimulated, but they don't want to play with it themselves. They don't want to ask their partner, you know. So like, this is a great way, I think, to get conversation started and have a little fun. And, you know, listen, you could go to Promises and get your delaysway, but you could also get some warming gel or some buzzing gel,

you know, bring it in as a package deal, right? Yeah, you get a whole little basket, a fun basket. Yeah, because you have all these products for women that are fun too, right? Like, I used always promote the delays cream, but I use their buzzing cream and their warmer cream. I love warm things down there. Like, I think anything warm. You know what I mean? That could warm up, that warms you up is always super hot.

I don't know why, but I just like, I like a sensation. Yeah. Right. And so it just like helps. Like, you know, it just helps bring the sensations to life. Yeah. And I know that you're there to like get all these things out. What are the things that they have for women?

So, well, we have, all right, we have obviously like our delay sprite. It's kind of our claim to fame. It's our flagship product. And it's, it's the best in its category. But we have for women, we have arousal gels like you mentioned, the warming and buzzing. We have, we even have like simple hygiene things like. before and after wipes, like in little sachets that you can keep, like in your nightstand or throw in your purse to, like, clean up before or after, right? Which I feel like is a really underrated item. I mean,

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When you use promo code strictly anon. Just pay $5 shipping. That's promo code strictly anon. Visit bluechew.com for more details and important. safety information and I thank Blue Chew for sponsoring the podcast. But we have, for women, we have arousal gels like you mentioned, the warming and buzzing. We have,

we even have like simple hygiene things like before and after wipes, like in little sachets that you can keep, like in your nightstand or throw in your purse to like clean up before or after, right, which I feel like is a really underrated item. I mean, it's just nice to like have that hygiene thing. We also have like nitric oxen.

side boosters that have extra amino acids in there to help with libido. Oh yeah, Vitiflux, right? Right, right, right, right. We have one for women and we have one, we have one for men that helps with erectile functioning. So, and then we have toys, you know, we have some key toys, like pieces that like everyone should have in their, in their arsenal. Is that how you pick them? Like at like the top, like, you know, the clit stimulator, like, you know, like all the ones that you should have that hit all the different things. like each one is different. Yeah, I mean, we have an assortment, but then, like, of a couple other brands, but then we

also have, like, permissant branded, which are premium grade materials and, like, at a fraction of the price for, like, rabbit. We have a rabbit. We have a bullet. We have, like, a vibrating penis ring. So they're all like, you know, those are, I would, I mean, I guess I would consider them, like, quote unquote, basics, right? Yeah, for sure.

Everyone has those kind of things. If it's like a good starter kit. Start with one of those, right? Yeah, the starter kit. Doesn't the delay spray also, don't you have delay wipes? Do you still have those? Yes, yeah. Yeah. And so we kind of differentiate the spray and the wipes. Like the spray is that eutectic formula that I explained to earlier. And then the wipes are actually a different bay. The spray is lytocane base and the wipes are benzacane base and they can just go on a wipe. So those are more for like that recreational user that I was explaining before. So if a man really has like PE and like needs to last many minutes longer, definitely do the spray. If you're like a guy who already lasts like eight, ten minutes and you want to just last longer for your partner, then you could be fine with the wipes. And those come in like little sachets too, like almost like they almost look like a condom. You know, you just put them in your pocket or your wallet or whatever. Yeah, yeah.

Oh, but they work differently. They have different directions. What's that? I mean, does it take a different time to work? work like because you know for the spray it's like eight to ten minutes are the are the wipes like immediate the wipes yeah the wipes are are different they're more of it's more of a little bit more of a topical but it's like less it's just less potent on and the absorption like is different like the technology behind it so the benzicane wipes are the highest in the market like of benzicane

percentage because you know other companies make wipes too but ours have a higher percentage of a cane and they work a little bit faster. They're just more convenient. Right. And like I said, though, someone that has actual PE, like wouldn't, like, really benefit from the wipes. That person wants to use the spray. And really anyone can use the spray.

But it's just, that's kind of the market difference, right? Right. Of course. But the delay wipes or something just like for the girl to have on hand, you could just throw them in your bag or travel with them. Oh, you could do that too. Yeah. Same thing.

Comes in like a little sachet. And what are the questions? you get the most on your site. Because I remember what I loved about the website was like it was just like, I don't know. Jeff would be like, oh, I answer like all the people's questions out. Now you guys are a much bigger company so many years later. You're like in Target. What other stores are you in again?

Yeah, we have our delay spray is in Target, Walmart, CVS. Yeah. And then like some regional like HGB, which is in like Texas and Meyer and we're getting into Weigman soon. And then our wipes will be in a couple of those stores soon. but as it pertains to like our website, we have a shitload of content on our website about sex, about, you know, just general wellness like in the bedroom for men, for women, you know, how to orgasm better, like just all kinds of tips.

I mean, we have hundreds of articles written mostly by doctors and like just so much content on our website. It's actually pretty impressive. Can you speak on like the typical, I don't know if you've been there long enough and no or whatever, but like can you speak on like a lot of the top questions that you get from guys that come in? I don't know. You tell me. Yeah. No.

We get, I mean, look, a lot of it is like, how does this work? Does it transfer to the partner? That is the number one question that we get. Right. Is, you know, and we are lucky that our product is different that it actually doesn't. So, but you need to use it properly, right? If you take it, you spray it, you know, you rub it in and then you go and have sex right away, it's not going to work properly.

You are going to, you know, have some of that mutual desensitation because you haven't waited for it to absorb. So use it as directed, right? Rule number one. So we get that's by far our top question. Yeah, because like what if I'm going to, the guy sprays it and then you blow him? Like as long as you're waiting like eight to ten minutes after he's going to be. How long does it last for? It lasts for, I think, like up to an hour.

Okay. Yeah. So you're, you know, you want to just plan ahead 10 minutes. So a couple things. One, I think it's our most popular question because the competitors in the market, they all do that because they don't have this patented formula. So they've used other products that do transfer, right? And so they're sort of, you know, they had that experience.

And so that's their number one question. but I want to get to your thing about oral sex because if you're going to do oral sex after you apply it, I would like take a wet washcloth and just wipe it off after it's absorbed so that it's just like the right thing to do before someone puts their mouth on it. Right. Because it might have a medicine kind of taste or whatever. Yeah. I mean, I just think it's like the right thing to do for your partner. Yeah, I think so. I did the Viagra cream after I had the guy on talking about the Viagra cream. I went right out and bought it, you know. And so I had my, my guy coming over and I'm like oh I'm gonna put on my you know my cream but it was like 30 minutes later I did it in the amount of time and when he was going down to me he's like I kind of taste the chemical you know I was like oh shit I sorry like I don't know what I was thinking that oh if it absorbs it's

like totally gone but like that little leftover stuff right yeah it's still gonna be there a little bit it's a medicine right I don't know yeah and it's like it's like you know the technology like it doesn't all absorb just like me so you know what I it's just the right let's just call it the right thing to do. Yeah, yeah. But you can, though, after that 10 minutes, as long you wipe it clean or whatever, but do you have to do that if you're going inside? No, no, no. I think it's more just the taste. Do you know what I mean? So, no, you don't need to wipe it off for intercourse. Yeah, yeah, no, that's good to know. And what other questions do you typically? What else do you guys get as questions do you know? So Jeff Abraham, our CEO, he reads,

customer reviews on our products every single day. So we have like a post purchase, like how did you hear about us? And every single day, he looks at almost all of the surveys and feedback from customers. So sometimes he'll just email them and just be like, this is Jeff, the CEO. And, you know, I read your review and, you know, can we send you this or get your feedback on that? And so if anybody has ever received that email that is literally Jeff. Yeah. And he wants to know what you think. Yeah.

No, I love that. And they have an arousal gel, right? Like for women, is it the same kind of a thing? Like, what does the arousal gel do? So that is the warming. We have the warming and the buzzing gel. So that's the warming gel is the rousal gel, right? Uh-huh.

Yeah. Those have natural ingredients in them that just help like to stimulate. And those are external. So those aren't, those aren't loose. I wouldn't go inside with those. But I mean, of course, if some makes its way in, that's okay. But it's not like I don't squirt it on a vibrator and then use it. But it's for external stimulation and arousal.

So that just helps to kind of bring those sensations. Those are the ones that you've used. Yeah, the warming gel. Yeah, I loved it. I thought, you know, and the buzzing gel. I'm trying to remember if I use the buzzing gel. I know you're going to send me some stuff. So I'll know.

Yeah. We'll send you a whole. Yeah, which is your favorite. I mean, I'm sure you tried everything. You know, right? Yeah, yeah. I, well, I started taking Vitiflux when I just started. So I've been with the company for about five months. And I can notice a distinct difference in my energy level, like just generally, like holistically, but also in my libido. Because I'm like, you know, 46 and I've been married for 10 years and I have two kids. And, you know, my libido wasn't at its prime. So that has made the most impact to my like daily life. Yeah, explain about that because that's good. Listen, it's great for sex drive, but it also, I mean, as someone that works out,

like, that's like a supplement that a lot of people that I've worked out with always, like, recommended for muscle gain and, like, for getting energy for the gym, right? Right. But it also happens to increase your sex drive, too, right? Well, yeah. So, so it's a nitric oxide booster. And what nitric oxide boosters do is they boost the nitric oxide in your blood to the, so that it increases your circulation and your blood flow.

Anything related to enhancing your blood flow is, well, not anything, but most things, like blood flow is directly related to your libido, right? And so it's really important for whole body health, but also, you know, we have three amino acids in it. So the ingredients in ours are more leaning towards sexual health as well, which is libido, for women and then erectile function for men. Right. And that's what both of those will. But they also, like you're saying for you, because I've taken vitiflux in the pot, like

it gives you more energy too on top of it. Like you're saying, holistically, you mean like full body. That's what you mean when you're saying that, right? It's a holistic approach for sure. Yes. Yeah. It's just good for you all over. Like, do you know like exactly what it's doing?

I forget. Like I know because I Google all this stuff and I'm so into supplements and I've always taken them. But like there's a reason for it. Well, yeah. So most of the time you see nitric oxide boosters in relation to like gym or fitness. Exactly. You know, like you just said. So it's kind of like a gym stack. But we're using it in a different way. So it has, the amino acids are what increase nitric oxide in the blood. Okay. So usually you're going to see L. Arginine and L citroline in a lot of these gym ones. nitric oxide boosters, right? We also have an amino acid called L. carnitine.

And so I'll tell you what each of them does. So L. Argenine, it actually ignites a rapid surge of nitric oxide, which instantly relaxes the vessels and it jumpsarts a healthy blood flow. Okay, so that's like a basic in a nitric oxide booster. Then you have the L citraline that helps to sustain that flow. And then the L. carnitine really comes in, the cellular level, helping with energy. So the three of those, it helps to maintain this level of nitric oxide and blood flow. And then there's also zinc and magnesium in it that help

hormone support and enhancing libido. Right. Yeah. And you notice it because listen, 46 is an interesting time for a woman. You know, that's when you could be if you're like average and normal going, you know, heading towards menopause. I'm just waiting for the show job. Perry menopause. You know like it starts around that time every listen there's always people like I have friends that I'm in my 50 so I went through menopause regular age 51 right and so at 46 I was already on hormones I was taking a little bit of hormones because I was already feeling and I had a kid at that time so I'm like I can't be like a Karen a full-fledged Karen and have a baby you know what I mean like I'm like I need some hormones to keep me like sane and normal again oh my god I can't imagine the moods yeah yeah but I but I'm fine

because I took hormones. Like I've never sort of hit that wall. I've never turned that way because I took a little hormones just right when I start to feel those kind of changes. And a little goes a long way in perimenopause. And then, you know, when I went in full menopause in 51, I went on like injections and stuff. But, you know, it could start if your normal average person goes through a 51.

But I have friends that still are getting their periods at 56. I'm like, you should be either to fucking happy, okay? Because as long as you're getting your period, you got some of those real hormones going through your body, which you want, you know. But, you know, it's great that you could take that kind of a product because it's literally like you could just buy. There's no prescription needed, right? You take it. How long do you remember how long you felt the effects of it when you took it?

You said you've been with them for like only five months. It took a few weeks. Yeah, which is normal. Cumulative thing. Yeah. Yeah. We're actually trying to work on with our. So we have like a whole medical advisory board.

Yeah. So, you know, since I've, since I've, you know, joined the team, I've really been focusing on women's health and trying to get women involved in our conversation. And so I'm trying to work, I'm working with our product development team to try to find more of like an on demand like libido booster. There are a lot out in the market, but honestly, a lot of them, it's just like. Don't work. Yeah.

Doesn't really work. Maybe if it works for you and it's all in your head, great, good for you. But I think that, you know, aside from prescription, some prescriptions maybe. But so I'm really, but it's not easy to do. And I'm really hopeful that we can maybe try to find something. I have a background in cannabis. You're like answering my question in my head. My question was going to be like, where were you before and how do you wind up here and now how do you know all of this stuff?

Well, I've been in like products for a long time. I was in fashion for a long time. I actually used to own clothing store and I worked all of that. But the past six years before I joined Permeson, I worked in cannabis. And we did a lot of product development with like natural ingredients. things like that. Oh, interesting. Was it gummies and like vapes or like what kind of like what kind of products?

Gummies. What's that? Like in cannabis, were you selling gummies? Like is it a gummy that we would have known? All kinds of things. So I actually worked for a company, well, I worked in a couple of different companies, but marketing for a brand. And we actually had a whole women's wellness line that we were.

Promoting up. Right. So, yep. Because cannabis actually has a lot of really like great like, like called turpines and their plant essentials like oils basically that you can help with therapeutic conditions and things like so I'm trying to take some of that knowledge like plant-based knowledge here and see how we can use that obviously we're not going to use cannabis but some of these components are found in other plants so you know stay tuned once we if we come out with

that I'll let you know and I'll come back on that yeah that'll be your thing and is that why they brought you on because they're just like killing it in the on the guy side with their spray because like, you know, and that they just want to branch out and do this and then get more stuff for women as well. Yeah. I mean, I think they needed a, they needed a female voice and someone who could just kind of like pull it together, get the brand to a place to sort of jump to the next level. Right. Did you pick out these basic sex toys? I love that you have a, let me tell you, I love that you have a ring for guys, you know, and I, because I always, I love sex toys, right?

And I'm like, always, like, felt bad for guys. I'm like, they don't really have anything for guys. You know, for a woman, like you could go to town on Adam and Eve.com, right? You know, just like so much stuff. We have so many different kinds of toys that do all different kinds of things. I love the basic ones you have, right? The rabbit. But I love that you have the ring for guys.

I don't think a lot of guys have tried something like that. Yours vibrates, right? Is that what is, a vibrating cock ring? Yes, it's a vibrating penis ring. Yep. And we can, it's definitely our most popular toy, I would say. I think because there seems to be a newness to it. But we actually saw that on walmart.com too.

We just started selling it there. It looks like a ring. You can get it on our site. Yeah. And it's, yeah, I think it's, it's, I think penis rings are interesting because sometimes they're used to say harder for longer, right? To kind of cut off the circulation. But this is more of a pleasure toy.

Yeah. I mean, it can act as that also, but it's got like this vibrating like area that's pretty sufficient like size and so you could you know have it up at the top you could have it up at the bottom like depending on who you're trying to put the vibrate on if that makes sense yeah no it's major because you're going to be hitting her clit and it's vibrating so it's like you don't have to have something else right if she doesn't need to use her wand or whatever if she's going to need that clitoral stimulation this is going to do it I think you know I had a boyfriend when I was younger who couldn't get it up and so he used cocker I also had one of those yeah he used

rings, right? Like metal ones at the time. This was a long time ago. And I was so horny for him. I didn't care. I'd be like put it in soft. I didn't even give a fuck that he couldn't get it off. So it was fine with me. But he used them. And I have to say, I liked that added thing. It's like it does make, it does add to sex sometimes having that extra thing. And the fact, like, and back in those days, it wasn't, you know, he wasn't using rings that vibrated. These were just metal rings. But like, I could feel them when we were having sex, right? And it added to it. And they were like great. I was like, oh, I don't know why more guys don't use it. Like he was using it because he had a problem. So I don't, I think like they got it got branded as like, oh, these are for guys that can't get it up. But I think like these should just be for fucking fun because these, you know,

this one's for fucking fun. Right. This is for fun because it says as nine vibrational patterns, right? And it's going to hit her clit when you're doing it. And I wonder if that, I don't know, I don't have a penis, but like, does it feel good for the guy to have it on? I don't know. I mean, it's by far like our most popular and our most commented on like sex toy. Yeah, it's actually really cheap. Okay, first of all. How do you have, I mean, it's $45. Yeah.

Now, because you said before, you mentioned something really quick. You're like, oh, we have like three of our basic things branded through us that are so inexpensive because they actually kind of are. Everything is about 40, 50 bucks, like your rabbit, your bullet. Even the rabbit, it's only 55. Yeah. And that's cheap compared, right? Yes.

To what's out there. And it's all like premium. grade materials like you know we stand by all of our products so I mean the pricing is very good these are very inexpensive and let me tell you I am so for guys having a little fun in their life okay like I'm all for guys using sex toys because why not right I mean I have like bags of them for myself I think every guy should have a cockering it's only $44 and the good news is like permissant is giving me a discount which is great or giving my listeners a great deal it's 15% off. And it's 15% off your entire order, correct? Is it 15% of it? Any new customers.

Any new customers. 15% off your entire order. So you can get like the penis ring as well as a little delay spray and get your girl something. Like everyone should get something. Right. There's something for everybody here. And it's not one person just getting all the fun. Right. Absolutely. Yeah. And even like if you go to like our homepage, so go to permissant.com back slash Kathy. Yeah. Oh yeah. That's where you have to go. right you're not giving out a code it's just going to be promescent.com slash kathy i'm going to put a link in the description just so you know and then the minute they log out they don't have to put in any code the 15 percent is going to come off yep absolutely yep it's just it's automatic and what would you say is like did you have bundles on there or like what would you say is like a great starter kid or something a great

first purchase for a couple to get what would you recommend yeah we have so we do have a lot of different bundles. A lot of our bundles have the delay spray in it because it's such a popular item for us. Of course. Yeah. Yeah. So we have like, I mean, I would say for men and women, we have what's called the pleasure pack and it's the delay spray with an arousal gel, the warming gel. I think that's like a really good like start. Oh, that's smart. Yeah. And throw on the penis ring for. Yeah. And some vitifl. And the bundles are already discounted. Oh yeah. It's so cheap. You even save a little bit more. I mean, it's not cheap. It's so Yeah, so inexpensive. And then what about this testosterone booster?

What is that? Oh, that's like, that's a testosterone booster. So it's, it helps to support like peak performance for men. You know, it's definitely for men. Yeah. Listen, I take testosterone as a woman and you're going to need it too. Yeah, that's why I want to clarify. I mean, yeah.

Because that's where a lot of the libido comes from. Like, so I too have looked into hormone, you know, therapy as an age. Yeah. Testosterone is the first thing when you say. your libido slips. But this is formulated more for men, yeah. Right. And what is that?

Is that a cream or what is spray? No, it's capsules. It's a supplement. Oh, it's a supplement. But it's all natural. It's not like testosterone. Of course, right? Oh, no.

Of course, it can't be. Yep. It's a supplement. Oh, interesting. Okay. So you suggest that I love these bundles. You have a whole bunch of different ones for couples to get. I suggest, I like the pleasure pack.

Is that what it is with the delay spray and the arousal cream. The razzle cream is what they what I used to say the warming cream right like that's the one I used to use. I loved it. All right. So I could highly recommend that. And I know all my listeners loved the delay spray when I used to promote a promesit. Vitafox. I'm going back on it. I know you're sending me some stuff. Yeah, we'll send you some. And I think the guy should try the the cockering. You guys like you need to get yourself a little fun. And your girl will love it. And if it's just girl listening like get your guy at and you know, because it's a fun toy for both for both people to enjoy, you know, and a lot of toys aren't like that. Right. Yeah. No, it is. And it's not one of those

ones where, right, it's kind of like all eyes on you. It's just, you just put it on and you just have fun. It's for both people to enjoy, which I love, you know? Yep. So every, so people could go to promeson.com slash Kathy. That's where they go. They're going to get 15% off the whole order. Now, listen, thank you so much for calling in. I wanted to educate my listeners on, you know, everything, not just promesson. I mean, I think we talked about a lot of like super interesting things. I love that you're kind of like a one-stop shop to help with all the things that we talked about. You know, this is definitely going to be a sexual health Saturday's episode because I feel like you gave out so much like interesting information on things that both men and women need to know or should know or will want to know. Yeah, no, that's absolutely. I mean, we want to, we want to be a hub for people to learn. So, you know, I love talking about the orgasm gap. I find it fascinating and, you know, just talk. about all of the, you know, things that we see and hear of and the products that we create to solve problems. And, you know, we're not stopping here. We're going to continue to make new products. And hopefully your listeners can find some things that they like and

even like browse our articles and learn some some fun things about the bedroom. Yeah. And that's on your website. Like they just click on learn and that's where all that extra information is, which I love. Yeah, there's a blog on there. Yeah. There's doctor. reviews, there's FAQs. You know, we have a lot of content on there for men and women. Yeah, I love it. It's perfectly aligned with my new series, Sexual Health Saturday.

So thank you so much for calling in. I'm happy to see you at Permesson. I love Pramessen as a sponsor for my show because I love their products. I think they're great. I love what they stand for. And I love that you're on there now, even thinking of more fun stuff for women. I am so happy to be at Promescent. And this is really fun.

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