Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1137 - Annie and Roger Started Swinging When they Met Each Other at 65?!

Episode Date: June 9, 2025

Annie and Roger started swinging from the minute they met and they were 65 and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in ton hear all the details including how and when Annie started dating after her divorce, the crossdresser she met who turned her on to the lifestyle, how her and Roger met each other and how and when Annie brought up swinging with him, how he felt about having an open relationship with her, their first swinger club experience and exactly what went down and how they both felt about it, their first hook up with a couple and what went wrong, their first hotel takeover and the first soft swap experience they had and exactly what went down, Annie’s first hook-up with a woman and what went down, Roger’s first double blow job he experienced and exactly what went down, Annie’s first MFM and exactly what went down including her first DVP, their first trip to Hedonism and all the naughty things they did including a MFM threesome, getting flogged, the 5 woman massage Annie got Roger for his b-day and what went down, the Lifestyle cruise they went on and the massive orgy they took part in and exactly what went down, how and why Annie sometimes gets jealous when she sees Roger with another woman and how sometimes she gets turned on, the best blow job Roger got and how Annie felt watching it, the sex barn they built in there backyard and the sex party they’re going to have there, the one person they told about their swinging and how she outed them, what becoming swingers so late in life has done for them plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics of ANNIE AND ROGER guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order http://promescent.com/kathy⁠⁠ To get 15% off your WHOLE order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON  Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠t⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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and they weren't jumping all over each other. They knew how to throw the story to each other. They have the best fucking stories. Their whole story is the best. This is a couple. They're in their 70s and they have been swinging and having an open relationship since they met five years ago. They both come from a very vanilla background. Annie, though, did meet. somebody and who she met and you know the story with that guy i'm not going to give it all away on the intro is super interesting she did meet a guy when she got divorced she went on to tinder she met a guy that was into some interesting things and got her involved in the lifestyle she didn't do much with that guy but when she did hook up with roger she told him this is what she had looked into and she was looking to

experience more of it and he was down their whole story about how they met and how they knew each other and the first night that they hooked up and how Annie brought up that she wanted to be in the lifestyle with them. It's all fascinating. I was like obsessed with their story the whole time. They did not disappoint. As the story goes on, you hear how they got involved in the lifestyle, how they've done orgies. She's done women. They've done spit roasting.

She wants to do a gang bang. They go on a lot of swingers cruises and swinger resorts. I mean, they have been there, done that. And they are living their best life. and they couldn't be happier. I really think that their story is super inspiring. You're going to love it. Annie did send me in picks.

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Hi, Annie and Roger. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you guys today? we're awesome so thank you so much for having us oh no no no when i got your email or however you got in touch with me i don't remember and when i just looked it over before we got on a call i was like oh my god i can't want to talk to them you guys have such an interesting story it's going to be an inspiring one because you guys are in your 70s and you guys are like having fun and not just like oh you're just having a lot of sex you're having like crazy sex like the sex that people have on my show right

this has been the most incredible sex i've ever had in my entire life. It's just been a crazy, crazy fun journey. Well, let me tell you, Annie, you're like goals for me. Like when I was way younger, I saw a documentary on HBO all about swingers, you know, and I was like, oh, when I'm like at my 60s, I'm just going to fucking do it. Like, why not at the end of your life when you don't have to worry about anything anymore? Just do it. So I'm like, you're like living my life because this is something that you guys just recently picked up, correct? Oh, yeah. I mean, I had no idea this even existed until I was like 65.

Yeah, so you're living my life, Annie. You're living my life. So tell me how it came to be. Rogers on the call, too. They're both talking. Annie's going to start. Roger's going to chime in. But, Annie, why don't you tell me like how this got started at when you were around 65?

And but actually, you know what? Do me a favor though, too. Just explain like how long you guys been together and what your sex life was before. Right. So we have only been together for five years. Okay. We're not married, but we have known each other since we were 12. Oh, really?

And we both went off and had, you know, 30-plus year marriages to other people. I got divorced and actually started trying to find dates. And I went on Tinder because I'm so cheap. I didn't want to pay for match or any of those. those sites. So I went on Tinder and I didn't know it was like a hookup kind of website. So I dated, I don't know how many people, seven, eight, nine people on Tinder. And I got hooked up with this one guy for actually quite some time who was a cross-dresser.

And he took me to clubs and, you know, exposed me to the lifestyle that was out there, including kink and all kinds of things. And I'm like, oh, my God, I just had no idea this even existed. Yeah, but the fact that you were open to it is amazing. And that's what, let me just ask you a quick question before we got to slow down that story too. I need a little details about the cross jester and the clubs and all that stuff. But like before that in your first marriage, what was that marriage like?

Was it totally vanilla? Were you always kind of curious, but your guy didn't want to do anything or were you just both vanilla? We were totally vanilla, but probably didn't have sex for the last 10 or 15 years of our marriage. It was pretty bad. And was that like there was lack of attraction on both sides? Did you go through menopause? Was he, were you not attracted to him, like all of the above?

Like, what was the reason for no sex for 10 years? He was pretty much, you know, an alcoholic. And so there was no attraction for me at all. I just kind of put up with being married until the kids graduated from college. And then I just said, okay, I mean, we mutually agreed. You know, we're done. Yeah, I get it. So we just parted.

It was fine. So what was it like? Because, you know, you were out of business for a long time. And now all of a sudden you go on Tinder. Okay. Like, these guys are expecting you to bang them when you're going on AIDS. Like, what was it like having sex, like, for the first time in all these years? It was mind-blowing.

I will say it was difficult at first. I mean, I just felt super uncomfortable. I was, you know, I kind of felt like a slut because I was dating multiple people. And I just thought, oh, my God, I don't want to die and not have been with, you know, more men and experience more sex in my life than I had growing up, even as a young woman, I had a long-term boyfriend, and I'd only been with three, maybe four guys before I got married. And I just felt like I was missing something. So I just said, you know, I got, why not? If it feels good, do it. That kind of became my mantra. It was like, if it feels good, just fucking do it. Yeah, but let me ask you this. Did you still

have a sex drive? Were you on hormones? Were you not? Like, did your sex drive come back? once you started to get all this attention from these new guys? I've been on hormones since I was 50. I had a total hysterectomy. And so the sex drive was always there. And I just ended up masturbating most of the time throughout my marriage because that was the only way I could get satisfaction. And I didn't really feel the need to cheat on my husband.

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you that he's a crossdresser? Because that's pretty ballsy, you know, and it's pretty cool of you to be like, okay, let's go to swingers clubs. Like, how did that come to beat? Like, how did that relationship start with him? It started, I was on vacation, actually, and I met him while I was on vacation. And then we didn't hook up or anything. We just, I was with a bunch of women, and we just went out.

to a bunch of gay bars, which I'd never been to a gay bar. And then when we got back home, we actually found each other on Tinder and started going out. And I just started explaining to him that, you know, there were all these things that I had never done. I'd never been to a strip club. You know, I really wanted to go to one. I'd never, you know, had a threesome. I'd never done, I really had never done anything.

and I said, I'm just open to it all. And so he said, well, I'm going to share with you that, you know, I'm a cross-dresser. And he goes, do you have a problem with that? And I'm like, no. Wow. You know, and so there were several times that we went out together, and he was dressed as a woman, and I was obviously a woman. And it was an interesting experience to have that happen.

And it was just very, very unusual. Again, I didn't realize people actually went out in public and did this. I thought maybe it was something you did in the privacy of your home. Yeah, but there was not one part of you, it sounds like that was worried about what people would think or anything. So you're obviously a very open, even though maybe you have an experience a lot, you're a very open-minded person considering you were just like down. Can I mean? Like seriously, it says a lot about who you are. Yeah.

No, I was just like, yeah, let's do it. I, you know, as long as I feel safe, you know, and I did, I felt very safe. He was, he was, let's say, he was not a pretty woman. He was a big, he was a big guy. Oh my God, was he like a big hairy woman. He was, he had no hair. He shaved his entire body. Okay.

Shaved his entire body. But he was like, you know, 6'3 and 225 or, you know. He was a big guy. I mean, his wrists were like the size of my ankles. Oh, my God, but would you have sex with him while he was dressed? I had sex with him, yes, but he mostly went down on me. I mean, there was very little penetration, you know, yeah. Interesting.

Okay, so he was the one, though, that started taking you to sex clubs. Yes, yep. And how was that first experience for you? It was eye opening. You know, I felt very uncomfortable, I think, the first time I went, you know, basically kind of just walked around and looked in the rooms and watched people. And one of the places had a, like, a two-way window. And so I stood there and watched two people fucking. And I just, I got really turned on by all of it.

I thought this is actually pretty cool. But I never, we never played with anybody else. Yeah. We just basically went to. several clubs and watched. And then he also took me to a fetish flea market, which that opened my eyes to a whole another side of this, which I am not really into. I don't really want to be strung up by my skin.

That's not my thing. Right. And listen, if it was, you would have tried it because it sounds like you're, you know, you're very open and you're just like taking it all in, right? and figuring out for the first time, like what you're actually really into. So you found when you went to that swingers club like you were a little bit of a voyeur, like it turned you on to see other people fucking, but you didn't do anything that time, right? Did you do anything with him like going back or did you go a lot with him or did you start

more so in the lifestyle with Roger? I started in the lifestyle with Roger. I think my cross-dressing friend basically just kind of introduced me to the possibilities, you know. And I dated, I stopped dating him. I think he really discovered he was gay and so things kind of petered off. And I dated several other people on Tinder, but, you know, never anything extreme at all. And then I got kind of tired of the whole thing. I just said, I'm done.

This Tinder thing is just not working. I don't. And I was happy being alone. I'm like, okay, I don't need to be in a relationship. I'm 65 years old, but it's okay. I don't mind being alone. And then Roger, it was COVID. I got on Facebook for the first time ever and connected with Roger on Facebook.

Again, we'd been friends when we were in high school and junior high. And so it was comfortable and easy to talk to him. And his partner had recently passed away. He got divorced, actually the same time I got divorced. And then he dated one woman. and she had passed away. And I'm like sending condolences and whatever. And he was trying to have a celebration of life for her and needed tables and tents.

And I said, hey, I got tables and tents. I'll bring you some because everything had to be outside. And I thought maybe he could stand to be fucked, you know. So I thought, you know, it wouldn't be bad to have friends with benefits. So I went to his house and, you know, he had a hot tub. And that night we got in the hot tub and had stacks and it was great. And I basically was very open and honest with them and said, look, you know, I've learned about their lifestyle thing. You know, I don't really want to be monogamous.

I just want to really explore what's out there. Life is too fucking short. and I just want to be able to explore whatever's out there. And he's like, okay, I'm all in. Oh, my God. Wait, we need to hear from Roger for a second. Roger is sitting there just listening, reminiscing about the day he hit the fucking jackpot

and Annie came into his life. Because, like, I mean, Roger, you have to be like, oh, my God, here comes this woman and she's so forward and she just wants to fuck. And now she's telling you about the lifestyle. Like, could you believe what was happening to you? I couldn't believe it. I looked up in the sky and said, what did I do, God?

How did this angel drop in in my life? I know. I can't believe it. Now, when she was coming over, were you even thinking like along the same lines? Or were you just like, oh, she's so nice. She's giving me these things. Or like, when you saw her on Facebook, we were like, oh, she's so attractive still. Or like, you know, what were you?

Where was your mind at? I was still in kind of a weird state at that time. And when she came over, you know, she brought me flowers and a case of blue moon. And I was, like, blown away by her generosity and just her caring. Her thoughtfulness. Yeah, that's very thoughtful. Her thoughtfulness. And then when we got together and started talking about our life, I mean, we both had this journey that we've been on and kids and family and everything.

So she starts explaining what she's gone through. and I'm like, oh my God, that's exactly what now at my age I'm looking for too. Let's explore. Let's leave no stone unturned. And that's how we started our relationship as an open way of just exploring what's out there. Your sexuality together. Together. And we started, you know, we started and we still have the most amazing sex with each other now.

I mean, we even say, we don't need to go out and do this because of how good our sexual activities are ourselves. But the energy that you get when you get into some of these situations, when you get into a six-person or eight-person orgy, you're just having the time of your life, it's amazing. I mean, it's just totally incredible. I'm already obsessed with your story and I haven't even gotten the details. I just love this whole thing. It's like a movie. It should be a movie. You know what I mean?

So wait, so that first night you guys fuck in the hot tub? It was, it was a magical night. We were in the hot tub and then we, you know, obviously went into the bedroom and we just had amazing, amazing sex. And, you know, like from that day forward, we just knew that we were kind of. soulmates. We were going to spend a lot of time together, and we did, even though we were three hours apart. Yeah. We do, we do summer up north three hours apart from each other, but then in the wintertime, we have a place down south. So we've turned into what they call the snowbirds. Yeah, yeah, I love that. Okay, so walk me through that beginning. I mean, you both decide that you're

on the same page. Annie, you have more experience than Roger. So you're obviously the one that's going to lead this chart. Like, what do you wind up hooking up for you guys the first time? Like, do you guys go to a swinger club? Like, do you go online, start looking for people? So we went to a club, and

again, it was it was Rogers' first time, so we just kind of walked around and tried to talk to people and watched. We were, again, kind of voyeuristic, and neither one of us really had done any swapping of any kind.

And then we ended up going into the playroom and just playing with each other. And that was it. That was it. But how was that playing with each other in front of people? Because that's a big first step, right? You had never done anything like that. No. It actually grossed me out.

That's interesting. That's important to say. Like, that's honest. What grossed you out about it? It was the noise that people were making around me. It was just distracting to hear, you know, All the moaning and groaning and the body slamming and licking. I'm like right there with you, Annie.

I'm sorry. You're like my soulmate too. I could see why that would be a little. And I loved it. You loved it. And I loved it. I had a great time that night. You guys are the fucking bad.

That's hilarious. I love that. So those sounds for you were like hot. Yeah. So we go to a mean greet and she. She actually starts kissing another woman for the first time. Oh, was this on your bucket list, Annie? Wait, wait.

Annie, was this on your bucket list? Absolutely. Okay. Absolutely. Sorry, keep going, Roger. So we have this interaction with this couple, and it's really hot. And, you know, we think, okay, this is great. I mean, we've met another couple.

We're going, then they invited it over to return the week later to their house. So we go over with anticipation that we're going to do our first full swap and we're really nervous. And we get there and we have a nice dinner and we get in their hot tub. And all of a sudden, the girl that Annie had been anticipating having a nice interaction with, she just jumps on me and just starts going, oh, yeah, I just love guys. and the husband was kind of a, you know, I don't know how to say this nicely. He was, he just, there wasn't anything there. Yeah.

And poor, poor Annie spent the night kind of sitting there going, oh, my God, you know, what's going on and I'm having the time of my life with this other woman. And that turns into kind of a really one of those times where you really have to do some soul searching. And is this what we really want to do? and that's where you really start opening up the communication back and forth. And obviously I missed all the signs that night of saying, hey, you know, this wasn't going right. We should have pulled back. But me thinking with my little head just kept going through.

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Some soul searching. And is this what we really want to do? And that's where you really start opening up the communication back and forth. And obviously I missed all the signs that night of saying, hey, you know, this wasn't going right. We should have pulled back. but me thinking with my little head just kept going through. And so anyway, we learned from that and we went on to a hotel takeover about a month later. And that's where we really had our first really good experience with another couple.

We just soft played that night. It was just a lot of touching, a lot of oral. And we just had a great weekend. And again, that's where when you start meeting people in the lifestyle, it's just amazing. You meet the nicest people. You become such good friends with people. And even if you don't play together, it's just a great way to meet interesting people when you go places. And that kind of got the ball rolling of how we started, you know, really getting into the lifestyle.

So that hotel takeover, Annie, did you know, you get to hook up with a woman that time? I did. I did. How was that for you? It was awesome. It was awesome. I mean, I never realized how soft women are. Right. And it was, it was fascinating. I mean, I ate my first pussy. I did body sliding, you know, two women's bodies together. I, you know, kissed and, oh, my God, I just had, I had. I had.

It's so much fun. And how was it going down on a woman? I mean, this is something you'd never done. It's kind of major. It was major. It was major. And it was actually, it was delightful. I was really surprised.

I think I had that maybe, you know, fallacy that it was going to taste like tuna fish or something. And it didn't. It was sweet. It was delicious. It was wonderful. It was actually there were two women, and it was amazing.

to just see physically the differences between each of these women. Oh, really? Like what were they, what did they look like? I'm assuming you were attracted to both of them, but they were like different body types? Or what was the different? Well, I was talking more about the differences in their pussy. Oh, because you went down to both of them. I forgot.

I did. So I don't think I ever realized, you know, that women's pussies look different. Yeah. I mean, I just never, I never thought about it. Oh, well, listen, Annie and Roger, I'm going to give you guys free access to my discreet after, and you're going to see the pussy pick contest I just had. And I had over like, probably 100 pussy picks we went through. You won't believe how different they look.

Oh, my God. We had to rate each one. It's like, oh, my gosh, that's crazy. But anyway, so, yeah, but you liked it, right? But it was like enjoyable for you, hot. How was it, Roger, seeing your girl with another girl? It was awesome. Yeah.

It was great. I mean, we were all having a great time, and, you know, I got my first double blow job at that event, and I was in heaven. It was just, it was great. We just had a wonderful time. I had a guy yesterday talking about double blow jobs, and he was saying, like, oh, it's like the hottest thing. Like, he highly recommends every guy having, like, a double blow job once in his life. You liked it, Roger. I liked it. I liked it very much, and we'll jump ahead to another story later on, if you want, about, about, a birthday package that Annie put together for me. Yeah, that's, yeah, well, I can't wait to get to that story, but let's go chronological. So you go to that hotel takeover. It's like soft swapping at that point, right?

Like what happens after that? Are you guys by this, at this time, though, let me ask you real quick. Are you guys on any sites like SDC or any of the other ones, like, or are you just going to these clubs? Yes. We got on SLS up in the north, and then when we were down south, we go on SBC, and SBC is by far the best site out there. I know they're one of your sponsors, but they are, it's a great way to meet people in the area.

It's a great way to see what parties and events are going on. Yeah, all of the above. Everything I say at my intro. And that's why I partnered with them. Like, you know, over time, I've talked to so many people in the lifestyle and I'll always asking about the apps. And, you know, when I started to want to partner up with somebody, I, I'm not in the lifestyle.

So I don't know these sites, right? And it was because most people said that this was their favorite. This was the best. And that's why I chose them. So I love that you're just saying that as well. And that's what I've typically heard. Okay, so you're on the apps. You're looking for people, even though you had that first time experience that was like a little weirded out.

You guys are though open, you know, because you haven't done a full swap or anything, but you guys are open to like everything, right? Like you're going to be full swapping. Like you both want to try all of that kind of stuff together. That's what's on the table. That's what's on the table. And when we get down south, the south is a hotbed. Oh, my God.

When you say the south, are you mean Florida? Florida. That is like the Swinger Capital. Swinger Capital. We get down. We meet a couple in our area. And we, you know, we made them out for dinner first. And then we invite them back to our house.

And kind of the unusual thing with this one was, The wife was not quite ready to, you know, go a full swap, but she was fine with the husband being there. So the four of us get into a situation where she's like taking pictures. She's naked and she's helping, you know, massage people and everything. But Annie ends up in a true MFM. And she probably has the best day of her life. I'll let her explain what happened. But again, it was a total amazing experience, and that was our first voyage into an MFF.

And it was, I enjoyed it, and she certainly enjoyed it. Oh, my God, I love how you just teed her up, Roger. Go for it, Annie. Explain the details. You guys are great. It was by far the best day of my life. And when I first said that to him after the, you know, after the days, oh my God, it was the best day of my life.

I thought, oh, I probably just insulted him, but it was phenomenal. I just, I think MFM, you know, two guys is my favorite thing at this point, although I still have a true gang bang on my bucket or fuck it list. But the two guys was just amazing, and I just enjoyed every second of it. It was so fucking hot. It was just over, over any of my expectation. And I think for me, even now, you know, that I get to this place of like an endorphin rush. Yeah.

You know, my body goes someplace else. And I just become euphoric in the sexual activity. And I'm just like, oh, my God. how where where has this been all my life? Yeah, maybe that comes with just being so, maybe that just comes with being so confident and at peace and with what you're doing. You know what I mean? You're just like totally letting go.

And I think a lot of people are two in their heads for one reason or another. And sometimes that could be for your whole life that they could never really fully, fully relax and let go for a lot of different reasons, you know, but that's obviously what's happening to you. Yeah. Well, I still have problems in my head. You know, Roger once described it, and I thought this was a perfect description. I'm fine dining, and he's the all-you-can-eat buffet. And it has to be the right person.

It does have to be the right chemistry. I don't really feel great about, you know, just fucking anyone for the sake of So I really like to have a connection with somebody before we do anything. So let me ask you real quick, though, about these. Let me ask you real quick, though, about these people. Then I want to just ask, well, let me ask you first, though, about the MFM, the first one. Did you do spit roasting, DVP, DP, any of that kind of fun stuff while you were doing that first threesome? We definitely did spit roast.

And we've gotten together with this couple several times, and we have done DVP with them. Not DP. I haven't quite gotten there yet. Yeah, but you've had two dicks in your pussy at one time. Yes. How was that? Oh, my God. It was great.

Yeah, that's crazy. This particular guy, he's a little, he's a little too big to feel really comfortable, but there's another guy that we've been together with several times that's like between him and Roger, they're like the perfect combination for DVP. It's just, it's great. Oh my God, for two dicks in your pussy. Okay, quick question. This is my other question I wanted to ask you.

So these couples, because you guys are at this point 65 years old, right? So when you're going to these clubs and when you're going on these apps and you're meeting these couples, what age are they? And do you find, as an older couple, going to these places that you're going to? you're like the minority, are you the majority, are people totally into you? Like, or do you have a, or is it harder to meet people? Or do you have so many people around your age, especially in Florida that are in the lifestyle? Yeah.

I think the average age of most of the places that we go to in Florida, that probably the average age is probably 50, 45 to 50, somewhere in that ballpark. we don't look like we're 70. No, I know you sent me a picture today. And so, you know, I've asked people, well, how old do you think I am? And they'll say, oh, you're, you know, 55. And I'm like, I'm okay with that. You know, but we do have this kind of sense of urgency, like, okay, we're going to age out here, you know.

Eventually, we're going to age out. We're going to start looking older. And it is kind of happening now. At 70? At 70. Yeah. We went to a club very recently in Colorado, and we were by far the oldest couple there and didn't hook up with anybody.

And we just played together, which was fine. But it was kind of the first time we thought, oh, gosh, you know, it's coming. Oh, my God. You got to get to it. But I love that at 65. You didn't feel that way. And like, that's good to know. Because I'm always like looking at people that are older than me.

And I've always been like, oh, when do I give it? up like having my body still look good. And how else will you know unless you look to other people? I'm like, well, that person, you know what I mean? Still looks good. So if you're still was great at 65, like that, that's like that means I can be too, you know, so I love that information. Okay, so you're doing, so you have your first MFM. Now, you, Roger, you didn't get to fuck the wife, right? Because she wasn't into it. Yeah, she wasn't into it. But it was a, it was a hot scenario. Yeah. And as, As it unfolded, we ended up going to Jamaica that year. Okay, tell me about that.

You've heard about Hito. Yeah. It's like a playground for swingers. I mean, it's just the one end is called the nude pool where everybody has to be new. Yeah. There's no, it's not optional or anything. So you have a whole resort phone, naked people, and everyone is friendly, and it's, you know, everyone's having a good time.

You're in the pool. They have a little playroom right next to the pool. And if you connect during the day, you can pop into this little love shack, they call it. And, you know, we had a nice, we've had a nice group orgy up there where both of us were full swapping with other couples. And again, we've met people there that we've become really good friends with. And that's kind of an annual trip now for us as we go to Hito for a week every year.

And that really opened up our horizons as far as the lifestyle goes. But there were a lot of firsts for us at Hito. So it was our first true full swap where both of us swapped. It was my first BBC. It was first orgy. Oh, my God. You got flogged? I got flogged.

I got another DVP. So we've had a great time at Hito every year. Okay, well, why don't you start with some of those stories if you want, you know, if that's where you want to go next, because you just, like, rifled off all these crazy things you guys did. Well, we were walking by this little gazebo, And this black guy that we had met down there was laying there. And I said to Annie, I said, come on, let's just go over.

So we went over and we just had 10 in the morning. We just had this super hot MFM in the open air gazebo there on the grounds. And, you know, it was just, you know, she was just like, first she goes, oh, I'll just, you know, I'll just play. do some moral and then she's like grabbing whole of them going oh i got to ride this thing so she was just like in heaven you know she just had the time of her life and again i get this great feeling when i see this look on her face of total ecstasy i mean she was just in total heaven so that was just an amazing experience and then uh we did meet this couple that that we're really good at flogging so

They invited us up to their room, and, you know, we had a little experience at flagging. Again, neither of us are getting into pain or anything like that. But, again, you have these experiences. You have these interactions with people that are just amazing. And it was just a whole new world that opened up for us. So then when you went back home, did you start going out more? Like, you know, considering it opened up a whole new world. world. Like, how did that change things when you went home? Yeah, we started attending more hotel

takeovers. Again, down in Florida, there's a lot more opportunity. We went to this resort this past year, and it was my 70th birthday. And he arranged to have five couples come and meet us there. And as we were enjoying the day, we went into this room and Annie arranged to have the five women give me a ten-handed massage. And let me tell you, for my birthday, I had a big blindfold of me and I just felt these ten hands running all over me and massaging me, my feet, my nipples, my cock, everything. and they started giving me a double blow job and a prostate massage. And when I exploded, it was like my head just blew off the top of me. It was just the most amazing experience I think I've ever had.

Do you think you had a prostate orgasm? No, it just really helped. Right. It just enhanced it. Yeah, and was that the first time anyone ever played with your prostate or had you experienced that before? I've been experienced. Yeah, Andy's done it a little bit. Right. Interesting. And so, okay, and so then after that, that major thing, did you guys all wind up hooking up?

We, we had, we did have, we didn't have an orgy, I don't think that, that night, if I recall, but we have had orgies at that, at that resort, for sure. Yeah, walk me through one of those. Actually, I think, I think the best orgy, like the best orgy of my life, actually, we went on a Bliss Cruise last, last year for my 70th birthday. And it was the first, first time cruise, first time lifestyle cruise, first time anytime cruise. And it was like the second to the last day that we were there. And it was this big outdoor, like, solarium area with big beds and whatever. And there were 10 couples, not 10 couples, six couples all on this bed.

There was like 11 people. and it was amazing. I just, you know, you just kind of didn't know who was touching who or who was fucking who or whose cock you were sucking or whatever.

But there was just activity all over the place and it was just so much fun. And we were all having such a good time. At one point in time, Rogers like eating me out and playing with me. and I look up and there are people that are walking by and stopping and their jaws are just

hanging open, like just looking at what was going on on this one bed. And it was by far, I think, the coolest, the coolest orgy I've ever experienced. But the very first one actually happened at that resort, and there were two other couples that we had met and knew that were there. and then we actually just randomly picked up another couple. So there were four couples in this playroom. And, you know, I think the spontaneity of it was amazing. And just the overall experience was just, again, like, where does this come from? Like, you know, how come I didn't know about this when I was 25?

Yeah, it's interesting. But I love it. And like I said, it's like you're living the life that I'm. I always said I would live at some point. Like, why not at that time? You know, just live it up. I think it's great. Like, seriously, you know?

So when you see him with other women, does that like, because I know he said, you know, watching you with other men, like really turned him on, like when you see him like fuck other women, does that really turn you on? It does and it doesn't. I mean, I'll be honest. Sometimes it does give me that twinge of like, okay, what's he doing to her that he doesn't do to me? And that kind of came, especially with that first experience where, you know, he went off and talked this woman and I'm miserable. Yeah, yeah.

But I do get that twinge every once in a while. But then again, there are times, actually one time in particular where he got this blowjob from this woman. And she was of like mid-eastern, or not mid-eastern, but European descent. and she gave him the most amazing blow job I have ever seen in the whole time. I am like looking over his shoulder, watching her swallow him whole. Right. She just, every motion she just swallowed him whole. And he gets to the point where he's going to come and he looks at the girl's husband and says,

you know, I'm going to come and he goes, okay, okay. sweet he had I think probably maybe the second most amazing orgasm of his life and he can tell about that but his legs were wobbling I thought it was going to have to hold him up because I thought he was going to faint he was just in such delight and I loved I loved every minute of it but I find that if I get distracted when he's with another woman I just have to kind of look away but I'm not jealous or anything like that No, and what turns you on is seeing him turned on, right? Like that's the turn on is seeing him turned on. Absolutely, yeah.

How was that blow job for you, Roger, from that woman? Was it the best head you ever got? Oh, my God. It was amazing. What did she do? Was it the deep throating or I don't know? She must have been doing something where she was swallowing while she was deepthroating me or something because it just started to build and build and build.

and it almost felt like I was orgasming, but it hadn't even really hit the crest yet. And then when it did, like she said, my legs started shaking. And I thought I was going to pass out. It was amazing. It was totally incredible. And her first, when we were first in the playroom, I was trying to convince her to let me play.

we have something called the chains of love. It's a stainless steel piece of chain that I just put lube on and I just rub on a woman's pussy up and down, up and down, up and down. And it just gives, it's like a thousand fingers massaging your pussy. And I kept asking this woman, could I, you know, could I do these chains of love on you? And she goes, no. And then she goes, but I want to taste you. So I was like, okay.

that's fine and then she gives me this incredible blow job that just you know just blew my mind I guess this is the best way to say it oh my gosh she knew she was she was gonna please yeah she did what she was yeah she was good she was a pleaser

and we never learned her name we never learned her name but we nicknamed her slutvana slutvana oh my god I love it now do you have a regular club that you guys go to Do you have a whole group of friends now in the lifestyle? I mean, because you've been doing this for a while now.

Yeah. Well, we definitely have expanded our group of friends. And we're up north now for the summer. And, of course, we don't live in an area where there's any club within a reasonable distance. Oh, uh-huh. I have a barn. It's more like a garage with a dirt floor. but I turned my barn into a sex barn.

Oh, my God. So that we can have party and have our friends come to the sex barn. And we're actually having our first party, June 14th. Oh, wow. But it's the upstairs of this building. And we've totally converted it into a place of sexual passion. I mean, we've got a swing. We've got like a yoga chair.

we've got restraints, we've got a massage table, we've got a giant bean bag that holds like six people. We just put a bar up there. It's all in black lights. It's very cool. It really is very cool. Oh my God, you have to send me a pick for my Patreon.

Let me ask you this because I forget that you guys also live in the real world, right? We've been so involved in like this whole swinger world that that's what you guys are doing all this stuff. But like, you know, you do have a vanilla. life when you guys are out and about just doing your regular thing. Does anybody in either one of your guy's vanilla life know about what you're doing now, or is this a secret? It is pretty much a secret, except we told one friend in Florida and swore her to secrecy. We thought that she would actually convert. Yeah. That she really wanted to try and explore the life. lifestyle herself. She just has that energy. So, you know, I talked to her a lot about it and I just

shared with her, you know, what we've been doing and how amazing it is. And she babysat for us, well, babysat my dog, actually, while we went to Jamaica and we got back, she said, oh, my God, I'm so sorry, but I outed you. I said something. So now everybody knows that you guys are swingers. And I'm like, oh, my God. You know, how could you do that? But everybody's been pretty cool about it. So there is a circle of people in Florida that do know, and they just, I think, choose to ignore it.

Nobody's ever really ridiculed us or said anything bad about it, but they know that we go to Jamaica every year. And it's so, but up north it's a total secret. And our family does not know. I mean, we've got five kids between us. None of our kids know. Nobody knows. Right.

But I wonder if they notice some sort of weird difference with you guys. You know what I mean? Like you're glowing, like you look younger than ever, like you're happier than you've ever been in your whole life, all of the above. I don't know. Yeah. We get that. We get that you guys look so happy, you know, because we post stuff on Facebook on our

vanilla stuff on our life together. And we are always seem to be just smiling ear to ear. just we're having the time of our life. I mean, it's just so much fun. I can't even believe that I could find someone like Roger, where we just really connect. And we've never had a harsh word. We just, we just enjoy our life together. We're just having so much fun. Yeah, unbelievable. Like, when you think back to like your regular life, like, do you feel like it happened at the perfect timing? Do you feel like you wish, like, oh, I would have, I wish I would have done this earlier? Or is it like perfect timing now or I mean listen you can't change anything anyway right but I'm just wondering when you

think back are you like oh like I would have never been able to do this when I was younger and now is the perfect time I just wish I wish I was 10 years younger so you'd have 10 more years right yeah yeah I mean life is life and we're doing everything that we can to maintain ourselves physically you know, as young as possible, but mentally, mentally, I always say I'm 28. I'm not, you know, I'm not 70. I'm 28 year old in my head. And I just, and I'm fucking like a 28 year old. Oh my God. Are you hornier than ever? Yeah. Oh, totally. Totally. I mean, just learning that all of this is out there and that I could have all this great opportunity and, and sensation is, yeah, I'm definitely hornier than

than I've ever been in my entire life. Yeah, because I think the more sex you have, the more you want it, right? And the less you have it, sometimes the less you want it, right? And I also think there's a lot of testosterone and jizz and when you're getting it all over and fucking a lot of guys and getting that energy increases that in you. I don't know. You know, I just think you have to probably be hornier than ever with what you're doing. I mean, you do have a gang bang on your bucket list, right? Like that's on your guys like to-do list?

Yes, it is. well when's your birthday not until November I think after that five I'm definitely going to do it before then I'm not waiting well Roger you know she hooked you up for your birthday how do you get it to for hers

for her last birthday I did I did have an MFF for her on her birthday morning at 10 in the morning so she was well taken care of yeah she never knew she loved that Roger real quick do you ever want to like brag to your guy friends about what you're doing? Like, isn't there a part of you that's like wishes you could tell your Vanella guy friends brag to them?

Oh, absolutely. Yeah. If they only knew, if they only knew the life that we were leading at this point, they'd flip out, especially people that are still married. I mean, marriage is great. We meet a lot of couples that have been married for multiple years and they're in the lifestyle and they're having a great time. So, you know, it does work both ways, but we are having the time of our life.

Oh my God. I am obsessed with your guy's story. I think everybody else is going to be equally obsessed. I wish my book wasn't already done and gone to the printers because you would have made it in my book, okay? Because it's like this is like to up there is like one of the best episodes. It's such a unique story. It's such a great story. I told you your goals for me, Annie. You're like who I want to be. When I grow up and I love what you guys are doing, I think it's super inspiring for. other people. I saw a pick of Annie already, okay? And she does look in her 50s, not in her 70s. I could put that pick on Patreon, right? It's anonymous. Correct? Yeah. Yeah. So if you want to send picks for Patreon, that would be great. I'm going to give you free access to my Patreon for you guys to listen. So you could go and see the comments and comment to people. I'll also give you free access to my Discord. And you could go in there and do whatever. There's a guest channel. If you want to post in there, you can. There's a lot of like-minded people in there. It's a lot of people. I have like over five people at my Discord. So it's like a community over there. I'll give you guys free access. I love your

story. How did you find my show? Were you just like Googling my show? How did you find my show to write in? We listen to it all the time. Oh, I love that. I am so seriously. I am so happy you guys came on. I have a little bit of a sickness like a cold today. Like it. I was just like, there's no way. I'm not doing this call. I have three people to call to tape today. And you guys are my first. And I'm so glad because I'm like, I'm obsessed with this story. It's so great. And thanks so much for calling in. You know, eventually a year from now, we'll get another part too because you guys are, I'm sure people are going to want to hear more. When you have that gang bang, Annie, you need to call me. Yeah, exactly. And thank you. Thanks for having us. We do love your show.

We learn a lot. And now you're paying it forward because people are going to learn from this. Like seriously, it really is, I think, an inspiring story. And I'm so glad that you've chose to call in and tell it because I think it's an important one that people could hear that this can be a life that you live and you know and that it that older people not only do older people fuck still right and can still have fun like look what you guys are doing I mean it's you know it's crazy but it's real and it's a true story and I love it oh it's totally it's totally real you guys are the best I'm obsessed with you thanks so much for calling in you guys are great you're good bye bye bye have a great weekend bye bye okay good news

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