Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1146 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: She Had a Threesome with her Ex and His Ex, She Started Swinging at 65, His Hotwife Experience Turned Into a Forced Bi Scenario Recently and More!\

Episode Date: June 18, 2025

THIS ONE IS FUN AND FUNNY Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy’s take on them. You’ll heard first rom a a guy who loves being humiliated and the crazy things tow women made him do recently, a guy who just had a hotwifing experience that turned into forced bi scenario, a girl who’s having threesomes with her ex and his ex, a seventy year old woman who just started swinging with her new partner and then from a woman who figured out to squirt and has Aton of questions about squatting, moaning and jerking off. Then you’ll hear Kathy and Erica talk about the confessions as well as discuss Erica’s pay pig and exactly what she loved making him do, how and why she’d get turned on by it, what Erica enjoys during a forced bi scenario but why she’s not into her husband participating, the guy she hooks up with and the exact scenario she is going to play out with him, how and why your vaginal ph can change and what to do about it, how old Erica was when she started swinging, the Japanese study that was done to see if squirt is pee and what they ultimately found, The squirt vs. pee experiment Erica did and what her results were, how and why almost crying after squirting or sex is normal, why pleasuring yourself is key to having good sex, clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms and Erica and Kathy’s experience with them plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics of ERICA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://promescent.com/kathy⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠To get 15% off your WHOLE order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2516-anonymous⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: ANONYMOUS to get an 50% off plus a 14 day money-back guarantee Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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podcast at Gmail.com. Okay, today is a confessions episode. And this is a fucking funny one. Okay. I have Erica On, who's my favorite co-host to do the Confessions episode. And she had to do this one with me because she is like featured in two of these confessions. One girl wants advice from her and another guy. You'll see what happens. I can't give it away. But the way these confessions episodes go is we have a confession and then me and Erica will talk about it. We first hear from a guy named Alex who's been on my show and he talks about two crazy humiliation experiences he had. One is with like an older woman and one is with someone he met after he was on my show. He was on my show and he talks about what this bitch made him do and you're just going to die when you hear

who she was and what went down and everything she made him do that he loved he's very into humiliation but the whole thing is fucking amazing you have to listen i can't give any more away you have to listen to that first episode we kick it off with a good one then we hear from joseph from Vegas he had a forced to buy scenario with a man a woman he met out and about he never disappoints it's a forced by scenario we talk all about that one. Erica talks about her being into forced by scenarios. Then we hear from a girl. I just, you know, I don't know what the point of her confession was, but she sounded super hot and she was kind of nutty. I use a certain word. You're going to have to listen when I talk about her.

She was the one that wanted Erica's advice on her experience with a threesome with her ex. Then we hear from Annie, who's a 70-year-old who started swinging when she was 65. She had a whole episode with me recently, but this was her confession. You're going to love it. When you hear her concise confession and hear me and Erica talk about it. You're going to want to go listen to her episode if you haven't yet because it's super inspiring. Then we hear from a woman who wanted advice. She sounds like a virgin to me. She's squirts. She wants to know if it's pee or not. She also cries and moans when she squirts and she doesn't know what the fuck that is. And she knows a lot of people that think pleasuring yourself is bad, which is weird. So we talk about that too.

But those are all the confessions. Erica winds up confess. So, I'm guessing so much on these confessions episode. So there's so much more than just these confessions. You hear me and Erica wrap about each one afterwards. This is a funny one. I think it's a fun one. You're going to enjoy it. And if you want to see Erica, because we talk about her being a 12 on a 1 to 10,

scale of 1 to 10, she's over on my Discord. The only place you could see her, and you see a lot of her over there, okay? Link to all of the Patreon and Discord is in the description. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with the first confession. Hey, Kathy. It's Alex. I was on episode 1104, talking about, Femdom, Kuckane, humiliation, all that.

There was a couple stories that I realized I'd left out that I definitely should have included. One of them was when I was having random girls online humiliate me. There was one I came across, and she was older, probably 50s, and she really got off on, like, the humiliation and making someone feel like a piece of shit and wanted the same thing I wanted. And so had her do it, and she ended up making me get a stuffed pig, or not a stuffed pig, a toy pig, and cut a hole in the back of it and fuck it, send her a video of me fucking it and me eating the come out of it. She would also go deep on the humiliation with me. She would have me send her pictures of like every angle of my face, and she would get very specific, like, your hair lines bad because of this and, like, your eyes have a, tilt to them that is not attractive and really broke me down in like a real way. So that was super hot.

And then the other one was, this was probably a couple months ago. I was talking to a lady who was a female, she's probably about 30 and she's a mental health therapist or counselor and talk to her about the pay pig and humiliation and all that and how hardcore I wanted it. And she agreed. So this is at the time that I'm dating my current girlfriend and She would make me do things like take I'd have to put on a pair of my girlfriend's panties every morning before I headed to work

And send her a picture that I'm actually wearing them and So trying to work that all around my girlfriend was tricky, but she works different schedules so it wasn't that hard And then she would have me like to tell me like if I'm gonna fuck my girlfriend from now on I'm not allowed to look her in the face and I have to imagine it's her and all that. And I have to ask permission before fucking my girlfriend. And then she wanted to, like, see all my girlfriend's stuff. So she could dress, pick out what she wanted me to wear and send her. I gave her a bunch of info, like passwords of certain things,

like sending her, like, pictures of my bank statements. And it was getting very real, very quick. And I ended up ending everything. But those are the two stories I wanted to tell you about. So, yeah, have a good day. Thanks. Okay, Erica, I am fucking laughing at this one because you know what I know, that you know, that he knows that now everyone else is going to know. Is that 30-something-year-old therapist?

Mm-hmm. Is you? It is. It is me. I have had some fun with him. I have had some fun with him. Erica, you are so fond. fucking naughty. This guy, okay, I just need to get everyone the little back story here before.

Erica, who is Erica as well as a slash therapist. She lives two separate lives because I don't understand how the therapist side of her could do what she's fucking doing. This guy comes on my show, okay? Now, this is where Erica has a lot more pull than I do because I was like the angel on his shoulder and Erica was the devil and he shot me down. He listened to you because this guy called into my shout he said he's episode 11.04 talking all about his torrid pass of like having people abuse him

and all this shit and doing all this stuff and he never had a fucking girlfriend. He finally found one who was as kinky as he was and he was cheating on her. And I really talked him down from a clip like you can't do it. You can't see other people and like I give him this whole therapy session and he was really like listening to me and I really felt like I changed his life. But like maybe a week later Erica is like DMing me like

Oh, remember Alex? Like I'm kind of like, he's like my fucking pay pick. And I'm thinking it's Alex, your other guy, who we are going to talk about because you have another guy, Alex, and you are married. But no, you're like, no, you're fucking guy. I'm like, the one with the girlfriend. You're like, yeah, I'm like, that's so fucked up. Okay. Kathy, when you put it like that, it does take me sound like kind of bad.

You just laid it all out there in black and white. No, but actually, I'm right. Okay, but you know, you tell me your side of things. I hadn't even listened to his story. My husband's like, hey, did you hear this guy? And he starts talking about him. And I said, oh, that's funny because this Alex guy on Discord actually hit me up and was telling me, you know, he's a pay pig and he wants to be humiliated and all this. I was like, oh, I need to listen to his story so I can fuck with it, like a little harder.

Because if you kind of know, you know, what gets somebody going, you can really, you know. Rule their world. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So within a day, he was paying me $25 per interaction with him.

And it added up quick, really quick. Like per sentence? Like was each interaction like 20 minutes long or like one sentence DM on instance? Instagram? Like what kind of fucking interaction? Yeah, pretty much the latter. It would be like he would want me to say something humiliating or like give him a task. So he'd pay me $25. And I would tell him things like he said like you have to wear underwear your girlfriend's panties to work. You have to only watch gay porn. Like I don't want you thinking about pussy at all. I want you only thinking about being a cum dump for somebody. Oh, my God. Oh, so I got him on Grindr within like three days. I got him to cheat on his girlfriend with a guy. Oh, my God, it doesn't stop.

Are you fucking kidding me? I swear to you, Kathy, I swear. This is your confession. You always give me a confession in these episodes. Are you serious? Yeah, within two weeks, he and the girlfriend were broken up. She had moved out. And he was dressing as a woman, getting facials from guys.

And then all of a sudden, he just stopped communicating with me. So, Alex, if you're out there, my wallet is feeling a little lonely. Hit me up. Well, according to him, he dumped you, okay? He's trying to say that he ended everything. No, your girlfriend ended everything, okay? That's who fucking ended everything. I tried to keep everything going.

Erica and you ended everything. Okay. And then your girlfriend fucking dumped your ass. You didn't dump anyone. Not Erica, not her. I've never been dumped just for the record. Oh my God. Wait, first of all, do you know how his girlfriend found out that he was like fucking guys and shit?

Like, why did his girlfriend dump him? Did she find out of you? So the story he gave me was that she had some mental health concerns and he broke up with her. I don't know. I don't know if that's true. or not. Well, he also said he broke up with you on this. Right. So we don't know. You know what I mean? We don't know. It's a big question mark. I will say that, you know, things really kind of

escalated from there and he wanted to go like full bimboification. He wanted to modify his diet so that he would, you know, slim down in order to look better in girls' clothing. But then, like I said, it just stopped. So I don't know how far he took it. Beyond, he did take several like cum facials, sent me those pictures. He also had to send me all of his interactions with the guys on Grindr and let me approve the guys and things like that. So it was, it was fun. I liked it.

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to do whatever I say, even to the point of having another guy come on his face. I mean, I mean, I mean, that is pretty high. And also throwing out my whole therapy session into the fucking trash can. Okay. So you got more power than me. Okay, you bitch. I really like put him on the right path and you in like two seconds of humiliating him ruined his whole life.

I think it's because of my boobs are out there, Kathy. Okay. He saw the booze. He's like, oh, this girl's hot. Like you're hot too, but you're just not out there. No, no, no. No, it's really the angel. and the devil, that poor guy had both of us there in his ear, and he chose the devil. And so Alex,

you know, I'm going to give you a pass because he's still a young guy, right? From what I remember, he's in his 20s. And I always like, listen, if you compared me to, you know, who I was in my 20s to who I am now, I mean, please, you know, that's the time to fuck up and do shit like that. Okay. He doesn't have kids. He's not married. He doesn't have a house. And not saying that it's right, but like, you know, this is how you learn stuff. by like making these ridiculous mistakes. Sorry, Alex, you listen to the wrong person. Erica is fucked up, okay? She's just having fucking fun with your life.

And she blew it all up. But you know what? In a weird way, this is another spin. I'm going to give you the lawyer. And he's going to give you another spin. In a weird way, Erica, you know what? You put him to a test. You know, you showed him that he still needs to work on himself.

Because, you know, at some point, you got to just listen to the angel. You know what I mean? Like, I don't listen to that fucking devil on my shoulder anymore. You know what I mean? Like, I'm, like, together enough to be like, shut the fuck up, Erica. Like, no thanks. You know what I mean? But the fact that in two seconds, right after we hung up, he was like doing that shit to you.

Right. I mean, getting comfacials and wearing panties and wanting to get breast implants. And when you say bimbification, that was him. So the fact that he was still in that place. you were able to do that so quickly and easily means that, you know, listen, you want to get humiliated, you want to do all this stuff. You want to fuck a pig because a woman tells you. You want to give passwords out and do all this dangerous stuff. You got to have your shit together because, listen, Erica, I know you as fucked up as I'm making you sound right now. You are pretty

together considering what you just did to this poor guy. You know, you could take some, you know, that kind of information in the wrong person's hand. And there's a lot of people out there. online would take his passwords his bank account and wipe him fucking dry. So this is what I believe, Alex, and this is the last thing I'm going to say, and this is a lesson to everybody when you listen to the devil. Like, you know, when you need to learn a lesson, you're just going to keep learning it over and over again. And every time it comes your way, it gets a little bit harder. You know what I mean? So like, if you don't learn by losing your girl and your whole fucking life going to shit like it just did, well, then the next time it might be somebody, you know,

stealing all your money or, you know, stealing your identity. It'll get worse and worse until you get your shit together and you don't do stuff like this. Alex. I'm a little mad that he didn't listen to me, but thanks for calling in because you gave us a great kickoff to our first confession. Let's get to the next one. Hey, Katie. This is Joseph from Vegas.

So I'm just leaving an experience that, oddly enough, as soon as it was over with, I figured I would call in and talk about it. So I met a guy through business, work, the 8-year-old, and we started talking about just different things. He said that he's recently married to 41-year-old, but super smoking, showed me some pictures, that she's really into hooking up with other guys. And I said that that's hot wiping.

And, you know, I just went through the whole conversation. And then fast-forward a couple weeks. I go over there to hook up with a wife. He's super nervous. And then I started hooking up with the wife. And then that experience turns into her force-by situation. So, you know, after hooking up with her for only about 30 minutes, she calls him over, tells him to come over and watch,

and then literally shoves my dick in his mouth. So he's blowing me, not doing a very good job, but it's pretty hot for me, you know, because this whole thing just kind of unfolded very quickly. And she's pushing his head down on my cock. He's gagging. He has his eyes closed the whole time at first. you know, he's blowing me. Then just to make this guy feel a little bit better,

I put him on his back, and then I start blowing him, start playing with his ass a little bit, and he goes from being, you know, somewhat erect to full on erect. And I'm blowing him. She's playing with herself next to us on the bed. This turns into a really different scenario

than I thought it was going to happen, and he asked me if I wanted him to fuck me, I said I wasn't necessarily into that. But if he wanted me to try to fuck him, we could make that happen. That did not happen, actually, because I couldn't even get it in. This guy's never had anything in his ass before. But we ended up 690ing, and the whole thing turned into more of me hooking up with him, her playing with herself, me eating her out, her coming while he was setting on her face.

And it was just overall a hot experience. And then we talked a little bit afterwards. He said that he was actually very shocked. She's never brought this up. We laughed about it. He said that he's not sure if he's by or by curious. And I said, man, you just had a dick in your mouth and, you know, you were fully erect when I was blowing you and playing with your ass. And you were going to let me fuck you.

So there's definitely some curiosity there. And then the whole time, I was wondering if she had ever even brought this up to him and apparently never brought it up. They were dating for a while, got married, and never even brought this whole thing up. So as of right now, we have no plans to each other. I'll see him just because of the industry we both work in. So hopefully this isn't awkward. And I'd actually be super down to ease into some sort of something with them casually. And I just figured I'm on the freeway heading home from this experience.

And I figured you're the first to know. So, yeah, show's been great. Thanks for what you do. Okay. So this is my guy, Joe, from Vegas. He never disappoints. He has a lot of, like, crazy scenarios that go down with him. Okay. We've heard from Joe from Vegas. Now, you know, my first thought is like, does his girlfriend know about this? I don't think so. He has this whole, he's got a really cool girlfriend and let some fuck other girls now. She's like co-queaning him and all that shit. He does have this thing that he's into guys on the side, right? Yep. Yeah. So, I mean, this is a forced by scenario. As a girl who likes to corrupt men like you just did to poor Alex that we heard before, would you be, like is that kind of scenario that you just heard like,

her forcing her guy to, you know, get blown and do a forced by. And is that like a turn on to you? It is. I've never done it. But I have spoken to some guys about it, which to Joe, the last time we heard one of your confessions, I asked him to DM me and he still hasn't. Oh, he commented about you, though, about like you being like his favorite or some shit like that.

Like, I think he finally saw you on Discord. Gotcha. I don't know. I don't know why he didn't DM you. He probably couldn't find you or something. Like, that's weird because he would be all about it. Yeah. Okay, so Joe, you're listening.

D.M her. Right. DM me. I do have a guy that I've talked to for probably a year or so, and we've just never made it happen in person. And he's the sweetest guy, but he's really into, like, come clean up. Mm-hmm. And particularly anal cream pies, like, that's his thing.

Like, his number one fantasy is to eat out a girl after there's a cream pie in her ass. so I'm all for that. And this is a guy, a new guy you just met, is this your guy? Because you are kind of like in a thruple now. We still haven't even talked about that. Is this your thruple guy? This is like, this is a different guy. Yeah.

So I have spoken to him because like you just asked if I was turned on kind of by that power dynamic. I am. And one thing that I've talked about with him is I want him to eat my ass out after I have the cream pie in and then I want him to jerk off. onto my feet and then lick his come off of my feet. So I'm definitely into that forced by scenario and but not with either of the guys that I'm with. It would have to be with a guy that I know is super submissive. Alex. Onening into it. Yes, exactly. Exactly. I'm just bringing

it all together today. Yeah, you could bring Alex in right and he could be the other guy. That would be perfect. So what you're saying is you wouldn't want your guy to be the power guy in that, in the forced by scenario? Because listen, the submissive would be your guy that you would be forcing, right? Like in, in this story, Joe is not the submissive. Right. He's forcing the guy. Yeah. Yeah, I would want to be the one. Forcing. I would want to be the Dom. Yeah. Oh, okay. So you'd want to subby guys. Yeah. Well, I think I'd want a. Debbie guy, one of my regular guys, and then I would be kind of directing the whole show. Yeah.

But what do you think? You know, he did say, like, supposedly, like, he just, the girl just, like, made that happen in the middle of the scenario. Like, do you believe that? Like, and he just, like, what would they? Like, I don't know. I think so because, think about it, Kathy. Like, guys will basically do anything with a boner.

Yeah, because, you know, it's like, I always say, like, when you're kind of horny, you're kind of, like, drunk. I mean, you're not thinking properly. And that's why some guys will suck a dick. And I just literally re-aired because even Joe, I don't know, Joe, he listened to my podcast, he's had to have listened to the Joe court episode. And he went against it by saying, oh, this guy was like, I don't think I'm buying. And he's like, well, you just had a dick in your mouth.

But like Joe court, who I just reared his episode, because I think it was a great one. He really, he's like a PhD therapist, said it for the first time and really made it clear and said, listen, a straight guy can suck a dick. And it doesn't mean anything. because in the heat of passion, people sometimes do things that don't mean anything, right? Just because you're fucking horny. And that's it. Right.

Right. Yeah. It's just that erotic orientation. Yeah. And not your sexual orientation. That's a different thing. Right. Yeah.

The only thing that I don't like about that is I would want it to be like very consent forward and have that conversation before you start the interaction. Yeah. Like he was kind of saying that like, oh, the girl made it and like in the middle of it. And like I said, you know, when you have a boner, you'll basically do anything. So that's the only thing that kind of gives me a little bit of a pause about that. But maybe they have a little bit of an Alex Erica dynamic. Like maybe he, like she knows like this is what he's down for and he likes for her to force him to do shit.

Because like look at like, who would think that there's a guy out there? I mean, we didn't even talk about the beginning of Alex's first story where he fucked a pig, okay, for the older woman, right? because we were just so mesmerized by what you did to him. But at least I was. But, you know, he talked about how she would make fun of his face and really put him down. And, you know, if you ended at that sentence, you'd be like, oh, that's so sad. But the next sentence was, and it turned me the fuck on, you know. So there are.

So there's these people. And then I got a boner. Yeah, there's these people that get turned on. So maybe they have that kind of dynamic. Who knows? I don't know. Yeah. But you don't have that kind of dynamic with your.

Like you wouldn't want a date a guy that wants you to push him around like you do to some of these guys. Like you just like to do it every now and then. Yeah. It's more of like a turn on. It's not really an attraction. Like I'm attracted to that like alpha energy. Yeah. Yeah.

I get it. Okay. Let's get to the next confession. Hi, Kathy. I am right next to my ex right now who is jerking their penis to me. but I'm going to tell you about something else I'm going to tell you about my most recent ex and his name is

what's his name? I'll name him a fake name David and David and I dated for about two months and then he broke me a little bit so a couple days ago

I fucked his ex of five years but not alone it was with him and her pussy smelled horrible. So I hope Erica can give me some fucking advice on this one, but he fucks great.

And lately he's leaving a whole bruises on my ass. But his ex seems to get out of the picture. She does. She's trying to fuck me to get back with him. So we'll see. You'll probably respond to this in like three months.

As he said, I'm usually. So hopefully she'll be dead by then. Just kidding. Okay. Okay.

And I sure hope you changed my words. Oh, wait. Oh my God. Okay, this one is fucking diabolical because I don't, anyone couldn't understand what she said at the end, which is the only reason why I'm adding this in, because I don't know what the point of this one was is she says,

hopefully she'll be dead by that. Is she talking to me or the ex? She's obviously talking about the ex. Listen, I hope she's so. high as a kite and this is why she's saying this diabolical stuff but I watch so much date line that I'm like I know this girl she could really mean it like there there are people out there like she's like oh she's dead by then and she doesn't start laughing hysterically because like that'd be

kind of funny like we've all said like oh my god I wish you just like you fucking die then fuck somebody else after you break up but you know I don't know she sounds a little crazy but like I said I'm hoping she's high or something she does even bring up your name again. I know. I'm like living rent-free in people's minds. I think she wants, she's like, I want Erica to give me some fucking advice on this one. Does she mean that the girl's pussy smelled? Because she said it right after the girl's pussy smelled horrible. First of all, like, if you're like in competition with this girl, it's good that her pussy smelled bad because, like, who's going to go back to that? Who's going to back to that? But I want to know, like, you know,

because she says, oh, you know, she's trying to fuck me to get. back at him, but like, why are you fucking her? And do you want to get back with him? Like, she's got all these exes. She's got an ex jerking off to her right now. And then she's got this other ex. And sounds like she's jealous of this girl because she wants her fucking dead. But like, are you trying to get him back?

Right. I'm confused, are you? Right. And then they had a threesome. Like, did she eat the pussy too? And that's five. She said it smelled terrible. Okay, guys, want to have better sex.

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got this other accent sounds like she's jealous of this girl because she wants her fucking dead but like are you trying to get him back right i'm confused are you right right and then they had a threesome like did she eat the pussy too and that yeah she said it smelled terrible like uh so first of all to this third girl who has the smelly pussy please get some borg acid insert that yeah yeah yeah yeah it shouldn't smell right it should not Never smell. No matter what. No.

No. And here's the thing. And this is just going to be like a little bit of a sexual health thing for my slutty girls out there sometimes when you fuck different guys, hopefully safely. Your pH can get thrown off because different, you know, different guys come. It's going to have like that different makeup. Even toys. Toys.

Yeah. Yeah. The chemicals on them are some shit. Yeah. So boric acid get the. suppository, put it in, the next day you'll be fine. So there's no shame in that. Yeah, but let me just tell you something about boric acid, okay? I am a supplement girl, and I get so afraid when I have boric acid in my house, because I am like, what if one day

I'm not paying attention and I pop one of those? Like, you could literally die and it looks like any other vitamin, okay? I don't know how they got boric acid to get out there in a form that looks exactly like a vitamin. There's got to be people that have died from popping a boric acid by accident because it looks just like a regular vitamin, but it goes in your vagina. Like it should look like a fish or something. Like it should not look like a fucking pill that you put in your mouth because you could literally die.

Life or death. Okay, life or death, you better pay attention. So I'm petrified of borg acid. Okay? I just buy monostat or any, some other shit. Give me the chemicals. Give me the real chemicals to make it go away. You know what I'm saying, though?

You know what I mean? Like, you can die from it. I know what you're saying, and I know it is like rat poison or something. Yeah. But I just want to know, like, does this really keep you up at night, Kathy? No, when I had it one time when someone, when I went to get it because I was having something. I didn't know if I had BB. Like, what the fuck is going on?

I took some boric acid. And yeah, it did keep me up at night when it was in my house. I had to throw it out because I'm like, I, like, I, like, the first. fact that you could literally die. I don't care about anything except dying, okay? Like, I don't give a fuck if I get, like, sick for six weeks. If my leg gets chopped off, like, I just don't want to die, right? So, like, this is life or death.

And I'm sorry, I'd rather have a smelly pussy than be dead. I'm like, I'm going to CVS for something else because I don't, there's, I believe in that 1% thing. Like, what if you're not fucking thinking for two seconds? You know what I mean? That's how accidents happen. And so I don't know. This is my weird PSA.

Porkic acid. I don't know. I think that they, I don't know, like I said, I don't know how the FDA approved it in a form that looks like something that you put in your mouth when it's going into your vagina. It should look like a suppository or something. Do you know what I mean? I'm sorry. I think I'm giving out very valid good advice. You are.

I mean, the brand I buy does come in like single, it's like single use little packs. And so it, I don't know. I don't think I would mistake it for a vitamin. But I could see if it was in like a jar or something. Yeah, I think mine was in a jar. And I'm like, every night I have my supplements that I take and my thing. And I'm like, no, forget it. But anyway, we forgot about this diabolical girl.

Like, I don't know what advice she's looking for you. Should she stop seeing this X? Like, is that what it's about? I don't know. My advice for her would be clear the roster. Just get rid of everyone that's on your bench right now and start over. Because it sounds like you've got a lot of drama going on. A lot of X's, right?

Yes. Yes. If you have to have like a flow chart of exes and who's fucking who, it's too complicated, start fresh, get back on the apps, report back. Yeah, exactly. But, you know, I always use my exes booty calls in between guys, you know? Because like what do you, it's like better than just fucking random people. Right. And I think that you, like you know what to expect, right?

Like sometimes you're just really in the mood for someone that eats your pussy really well. Yeah. You're like, I'm just going to call this person because, you know, you know what you're getting. Yeah, and you feel comfortable. You've been naked with them a million times. Like, for me, that's what it's always about. It's like, and you're comfortable talking to them. They know exactly how to get turned you on.

You can boss them around in bed. The sex is always going to be, like, you know, it's going to be good. Do you know what? It's going to be good. Yeah. I could tell them what the fuck to do and they're going to listen. But, you know, something just tells me about this whole situation. Yeah, tell me.

It's just not, like, the juice is not worth a squeeze in this. There's just too much. Yeah. Get rid of them all. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know about the one who's jerking her off on the side that's there. I was, like, very confused, but I thought it was like kind of, like I said, I just wanted to use the word diabolical on my podcast. I don't know if I've ever used that word before when she said, so hopefully she'll be dead by then.

I was like, ooh, diabolical, bitch. I'm going to have her on my show. Well, and she named dropped me. So it's like, that's too far too, right? Yeah. All right, let's get to the next confession. Hey, Kathy, this is Annie and Roger. That's not our real names, but that's okay. We are a 70-year-old, wild and crazy couple that are just having the time of our life together five years ago. We're not married, but we have been having the time of our lives doing all kinds of crazy things

and going to all kinds of crazy places, including Hito and Bliss Cruz. and other places like that, we are totally into the lifestyle and just trying to get as much done as we possibly can before we age out, as we call it. You know, our motto is to basically leave no stone unturned and to do, if it feels good, just do it. So we're really having a great time. It's been an amazing trip. I mean, MFM, FMF, DV, DVD. VPs, orgies like crazy. And we even have a, I would call it the sex barn, which has got, you know, swing and chair and a big giant bed and all kinds of crazy stuff. But anyway, if you want, give us a call back. We'd love to love to be on your show. Talk to you later. Bye.

Okay. So listen, I just aired Annie's episode. And I don't know if everybody listens to everybody's episode, you know, but I wanted to include this confession because if people have not listened to Annie and Rogers story, okay, literally they're 70, they started swinging when they were 65 and I don't care if you're 25. You want to listen to their story because they are going to give you fucking hope. Like, I loved their story. I thought it was like super inspiring that you could be doing this. And this is something they were both very vanilla. Like they, people need to hear their whole backstory because it was so interesting. Neither one of them did anything like this.

It was not on the radar at all until they were 65. Right. Right? When did you start doing all your crazy shit? Like when you were 25? Well, I would say the first time I went to a swingers club, I used the fake ID. Oh. So you were under age.

I was under age. Oh, my God. And what made you at such a young age to decide? I was under the drinking age. I should say that. I was over 18 under the drink. Okay, but let me ask you this. Like, what made, were you going with a guy friend of yours?

I forget. I don't remember your story. I was, actually, it was with my ex-husband. We were dating at the time. And it was actually pretty funny because we had been going for about a year before I turned 21. And on my 21st birthday, we went. And I gave my ID to the bouncer. And he looked at me.

He's like, today's your birthday. I said, yeah, I know. He said, you've been coming here for a year. I said, yeah, I know that too. He remembered? He remembered. Oh, my God. But I will say when I was 20 years old, I had zero, like, self-confidence.

I did not know what I was doing. Fast forward to now at 41. I am so confident. I know exactly what I like. And I can only imagine at 65, it's just going to be amazing. Yeah. When I watch, I remember many years ago when I was probably in like my 20s or early 30s watching a and I've talked about this on my show watching this um swinger documentary

on HBO called uh the lifestyle or something whatever it was and they followed a bunch of couples swinger couples and it was all about the swinger community I remember at that time saying oh when I turn you know get into my 60s that's like what I'm going to do you know what I mean and I remember one podcaster saying to me like Kathy why don't you do it before you're fucking 60 like what do you look hot still and your body's good but let me tell you Annie has a killer body I sent it my friend. I was like, look at this bitch. Like, I always look at women that are older than me because I'm always like, like, when do I give up my good body? Like, when do I throw the towel in that I can't keep it up anymore?

But when you see people like 62 still looking great, like, you know? I mean, yes, like, look at me more. Exactly. And I'm sorry. Yeah, I'm sorry. If she could do it than I can. So I'm like, okay, I got it in my 65. But you know what, Annie did say she said that she felt like, so I think if I wait till my 60s, it's like bad because then you only have like a 10-year run.

but because she was saying that at 70 now that there's 70 they were doing she's starting to feel like they're going to age out of this scenario so she does wish she started it early because right but they get fucked they have tons of people liking them and they're like but she's got like a killer body for her age yeah well and i think kathy you're hot if you get into the lifestyle you know right now or 65 or even 75 there are guys out there that love older women though I guarantee you. You will be pulling like a 35 year old in no time. I'm sorry.

If Alex wants a fuck a stuffed animal pig. There's guys out there that want to fuck a 75 year old woman in a swing or stuff. Just to go back to Alex for a minute, he's actually a really attractive guy. I know. I know. He posted those picks. He talked about it. And then he did not disappoint.

It wasn't like he was delusional. He's a hot guy. And he had a really pretty good. girlfriend that you fucked it all up for him. I know. Alex. Alex, Alex, come back to me. My wallet misses you.

Alex, come back. Did you see his face? I don't see people's faces. I did. Oh, and he was good looking. Yeah, he was good looking. Yeah, yeah, he was good looking. He sent me a picture of his girlfriend, too.

Of course, he said I was much prettier than his girlfriend. I'm not surprised. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, my God. You've seen my face. you know, I'm pretty. Yeah, yeah. No, I always say you're like a 12 out of 1 to 10.

All right. But I love it. Listen, I just played her little confession because I just feel like, you know, maybe somebody would disregard an episode about a 65-year-old people swimming because they're like, oh, whatever. But it's such a great episode and it's very inspiring. And to hear their journey, it's so good.

And I just think you could learn from stuff like that, especially like I love hearing from people that are ahead of me in life because then I learn from them, you know. Let's get to the last confession. So I started self-pleasureing myself in my 20s, and then I started getting more books on sex and stuff, learning about my body. And the next thing I wrote was the G-spot. I had no idea I had a G-spot. And so I started trying to figure out, you know, just sort of hunting my G-spot. So I started doing that, and then once I learned it, I used my hands for a while and it got tired of doing.

do that. So I got me, I started getting me some G-spot sex toy. And so I started learning through books and they would talk about G-spots and squirting and stuff. And then that's when I got into the squirting. And I had no idea that women could female ejaculate or squirt. That's another question I have is, I really believe it's not urine, but I would like to hear it from you to say that it's not because I have experienced it myself. I got really technical about it. I use a lot of white stuff, like white sheet. I have a white rug that I actually go on.

And from my perspective, it doesn't stain. Whenever I do do it, it doesn't smell like you. I mean, I have went to the bathroom and I had smelled my own urine. and it doesn't smell like it. It has a sweet hay smell to it. So anyway, talking about squirting, there's another odd thing that I do that I'm confessing about, and that is when I do squirt,

I've noticed that I sort of cry moaned. And I don't know if you know what that is, but it's like moaning, but I'm not actually crying tears, but it's like I'm trying to get it to come out, and it's like automatically I just cry most. And I wondered if that's really normal for a person to do. I notice I've been doing that here lately. I'll be playing with my G-spot sex toy,

and I'll get the peeing sensation, and then I'll pull the sex toy out, and then I usually get out on my knees, and I'll just sort of try to pay. push it out. It's a sort of cry moan when I do it. I've actually videotate myself on my phone doing this and it looks so sexy. I mean, I just feel like I just want to moan and cry moan and stuff. So I wondered if that's just part of the sexual arousal. I do know I pay attention to my body a lot when I get aroused. My breath swells, my nipples. I noticed the other day whenever I

was exciting myself, the same day that I did the squirting, that I was laying down in bed and all of a sudden I'm looking at my breast on the left side, I believe. It's kind of funny, but it was hard. It was direct and very hard, but the other one wasn't. So I thought that was kind of odd and funny. But anyway, that is mostly my question is about the squirting issue and the moaning and crying. But going back to the self-pleasureing part, a lot of people say that when you self-pleasure that it's sort of not a good thing to do because once you get married, that you won't have a good sexual relationship with your husband.

But I sort of disagree with that because it seems like since I've been self-pleasureing myself. And really when I'm talking about self-pleasureing, Kathy, I'm not self-pleasuring as far as just having pleasure for myself. I'm also looking, I guess you say to the future when I do get married. I feel more freer as a sexual person to express myself. So once I do get married to my future husband, I won't feel ashamed, I won't feel bashful. I know my body. I know where my clitoris is. I know what my G-spot is. I know what squirting is. So at least I won't be a stranger to know what I'm doing when I get married. And that's pretty much my confession to you.

And I would appreciate if you could just give me some answers on the squirting issue because I would like to know about that. I appreciate your time. Thank you very much. Okay. So I hear three things in this girl's episode. She wanted to call and do an episode. I'm like, this is good for the confessions line because me and Erica could rap about it.

You're a squirder. Okay. So the first thing is she wants to know, you know, she figured out how to squirt. Like, listen, I give this girl credit. And at the end, she does talk about how she knows that it's supposedly not great to, like, play with yourself. And a lot of people tell her you're not supposed to play with yourself. But she feels like it's good because when she does wind up meeting a guy, it sounds like she's a virgin and she's never been with someone, you know, that she meets a guy. She knows her body.

And yeah, that's fucking true. So I don't know who she's talking to, like people at church that are telling her, like you're not supposed to pleasure yourself. That's like the key to good sex, knowing your body. but she wants to know if, you know, the squirt is pee, which I've heard a million times and I fought with people about it. And then, you know, it's the whole crying while she's squirting. But let's just talk about the is squirting pee because this is a big fucking debate, okay? Right. It is very hotly debated.

Just like a lot of things in women's health, there hasn't been a great deal of research when it comes to squirt. However, there wasn't a study. I believe it was out of Japan. and they actually, like, did an ultrasound of women's bladders. So they had the women empty their bladder prior to a sexual activity. And then the woman squirted. And then they did another ultrasound of the woman's bladder. And it was full again.

Just to kind of show that, like, that fluid is not coming from the bladder. Yeah, that's interesting. And let me just, she says, like, oh, she's got a white carpet and she sees it, like, if it was pee, like she smelled her urine. Like, I mean, I'm sorry. Like, urine has a very distinct odor, right? Yeah. Like, and yeah, so it was a squirt.

I don't know if you've ever been around it. No, I haven't. No, but she said it smells like a sweet smell. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And I've also, I've done some water sports in my life. And so I have tasted pee from my husband before.

And I've also, like, licked up my squirt from him. Here's another confession. You drank his fucking pee. We're going to talk about that in a second. Anyway, go on. And I will say they don't taste anything alike. No, that research that I spoke about. No, you just did your own research.

We don't care about the fucking research. You just did the research. You drank your squirt and you drank pee. End a story. You know. One more research. I know. We don't need the Japanese research experiment.

Fuck off. You just did it. Did it taste like piss? No. No. No, not at all. Not at all. And so I think sometimes women are afraid to squirt because they think they're going to pee. There might be a little bit of pee in there because it calms out the urethra, which carries pee. Exactly. But it is not pee. I have soaked beds before. And if I had peed all over the bed, there would be a very distinct smell. And that was not there. Yeah. What about her moaning and almost like crying?

So that's another thing. Women's orgasms can be very connected to emotions. And having a emotional response during like squirting or an orgasm, that's actually very normal. And it can be like a great release for women in particular. Right. So it's just releasing like an emotional way. and maybe some emotions get tied into it, but it's not like she's sad that she just squirted.

She's fucking happy as hell. Right. Right. Yeah. It's just that body's, you know, like somatic response to the release that she felt physically. Right, which is probably a great thing, don't you think,

to let out some attention and like that's what it's all about. It is. It is. Yeah. And I hope, you know, hopefully she doesn't kind of listen to those shamers that are telling her not. She's obviously not.

She's pleasuring herself all the time. I mean, this bitch sounds at once, in one sense, like, she's so interesting to me because she's very, like, she sounds like a virgin who hasn't done anything, but she's just been secretly, privately, like, doing all this, like, really kind of naughty stuff. You know, she's getting all these G-spot toys to figure out how to squirt and do all this stuff. She's videotaping it and everything. Like, she's very super naughty.

Yet she's around all these, like, I don't know, prude people that are telling her not to do it. but she's never been with a guy before, but some guy, some virgin out there that she's going to meet her, some puritanical guy one day is going to meet her and be very happy because you know what? She knows how to get herself to squirt. She's like fucking squirting so much. She's crying. I mean, like, I don't see anything bad with any of this.

No. No. All great, you know? And I do agree with her that. And listen, she's come to all these conclusions herself. It sounds like because it sounds like the people she's friends with are not on the same page, but she's like, I think, you know, the fact that I play with myself is a good thing. And it's like, yeah, you're fucking right.

It is a good thing. Your future husband will be happy. The fact that you've figured out that your squirt isn't peen, you don't think it is, you know, like you said, you'll be embarrassed about that in the future. I think it's so important to know your body and yourself exploring wise so that you show up your people like that are better and bad. She's going to be like a professional. Yeah.

Right? I didn't have my first orgasm during sex until I was like 30 years old. You mean just from sex? Yes. And I think had I been, even though I went to a swimmers club at 20, I didn't know anything about my body. And I think if I had been more comfortable with my body, the sex through my 20s would have been a lot better.

Yeah. Well, I jerked off the first time by accident. Like somehow a pencil wound up on like clit when I was like really young, like to the like right somehow. And it felt so good. I mean, it was my pencil in my hand. You know what I mean? Right, right.

I wasn't a teacher. And I had this organ. I'm like, what the fuck? You know, so I just like play with my clit so much that my pleasure sensation was like all the way where my clit was. So the first,

like I was like the type of young person that like I just wanted to be old. You know what I mean? Like I didn't want to be a young person. I wanted to like, uh, so I wanted to have sex like as soon as I could. I wanted to take part in all the Cosmo things I was reading and stuff. So I was like always trying to.

to lose my virginity like really young. And so like I would like try with this guy that I was friends with. And when he was going, I remember in the beginning when he was going down low, like I didn't even know because I wasn't using tampons that there was like another hole down there. I didn't even know about the whole. And he was going to and I was like, that's not where I feel pleasure. You know what I mean? It's like all the way on top because I was so used to that. So I think that what that happens a lot to women because the clit is so easy and it's so powerful and I wired myself into clitoral orgasms so good that I was like, where the fuck are you going? Like you're so far away from the pleasure. Like, what's going to? Nothing's going on in that hole down there. Do you know what I mean?

So did you find it difficult to have an orgasm? Yeah, the first time it happened. Yeah. The first time it happened and I have to be in a weird position because I don't really like to be on top. But like, like on my stomach. I was like bent over a car outside and my boyfriend was fucking me from behind if I'm bent over the bed or something like I have to be in a certain position and it really touches that spot in a weird way. And I have to say though, I really feel too that your body changes. And I didn't realize that there is an actual physical change.

I saw a gynecologist talking about how like a woman's pussy is like shaped in one way like the internal canal and where it gets a lot straighter when you get older. And it makes sense to me because the older I get, the more intense my orgasms are and the more they feel all over my body orgasms. You know what I mean? That it's all happening at once and everything is getting stimulated and they're the best fucking orgasms I've ever had in my life. And that is just happening naturally. And I think it's like your body changes as you get older. And I personally will tell you that as you get older, like that could have.

happen and that's a good thing, you know, because the orgasms are 10 times better and I feel like I'm orgasming inside, outside on my clit, not on constantly, you know, and it's easier. But when I was younger, it'd have to be in a certain position to get it. But I would always just play with my clit at the same time I never, I was going to have an orgasm no matter what. And it would feel good going in and out. And I would use my hand because I didn't want to get so tied into like a fucking wand, which like ruins your life, right? Oh my God, that wand. I love it. Yeah. But so I would just play with my clit. to have orgasms through sex if I couldn't get off, you know, if we weren't in the right

position. Is that what you would do? Right. Yeah, I mean, I didn't really have that connection with my body. Like I said, until I was about 30. I had, um, I got married at 21 and I've had a few partners prior to getting married, but I had an affair when I was 30. And I fell in love with him. And it was really my first time having like an emotional connection with a sexual partner. Oh, interesting. Mm-hmm. And through that affair, I really kind of came into my own sexually. And I was comfortable, like, touching myself during sex. And he was much more into, like, making sure that I came, like, giving me oral, things like that.

Whereas, like, my husband was not, he wasn't really a pleaser. It was just like, okay, we're having sex. Let's do it. Yeah, the worst. So I think having a partner who you feel super comfortable with can also be a catalyst for discovering yourself. Yeah. But after that, I was always kind of chasing that carrot again after I ended that affair. I was like, oh my God, I don't know if I'll ever have that again.

But here I am. I'm here. I remember my first boyfriend after like I lost my virginity to some guy, like I had this boyfriend who was way older than me. And he never gave me an orgasm through sex. And I was really like, oh my God, like through anything like seriously, like the whole time we were, because I, he was so much older than me. I was so intimidated by him.

I had no voice, you know. And I remember right after him dating some guy and him just like laying behind me at one point. And he was just like rubbing his dick on my lips from the back. And I had an orgasm. And I was like, oh my God, like best day of my life. Like I really thought I'm going to be on Oprah 40 years from now. You know, like I've never had an orgasm in my life. I just thought there was like I was going to be one of those women.

But then once that guy did it, I was good to go. You know what I mean? And then I would just like boss guys around and I would never not come. And I knew how to make myself come. and everything and stuff. But yeah, I had a whole relationship kind of like you

where I had no voice and he was like a real selfish dude you know, he didn't give a fuck about me and he never made me calm and then afterwards once that guy did I realized I can make myself calm

and I would and I did and then it was always good to go but yes, the orgasms get better when you get older I think in a weird way. Definitely. So, all right, so anyway, this girl, I don't know

you don't need any advice. You're right. It's not pee. It's okay to moan and cry. Erica as a therapist is telling you that's normal. And it's a release. I think it's a good thing, right? And you are going to be better in bed, and your future husband's going to be very fucking happy. So anyone out there that thinks that doesn't

masturbate girls, right? Like it's, right? Go over your body. Play with yourself. Figure shit out. Yes. Look at yourself in the mirror. It's fun. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Well, listen, you know, sometimes I, like, prompt you to give out some, uh, confessions. We didn't need a confession on this one because we got enough from you. Okay. On this one. I still can't get past how you tainted my poor guy who called him. We're going to have to do a part too. But it's going to end right after you're going to be back with him because you're ready put a shout out to him.

Call her, Alex. I don't know who you're going to listen to you, but Erica's down. Okay. She's over on Discord. If anyone else wants her to be her pay pig, okay, she is accessible on my Discord. DMs are open. DMs are open. Okay, she's over there.

My Discord is fucking fun. There's so many different challenges. the big pussy pick contest there's thousands of people on there erika's on there her guy okay your guy sometimes i'm like what the fuck your guy gives play by play of all your hot wife scenarios anyone in the hot wave scenarios he does videos so much shit like he knows because i guess it's like he's smart you know he knows what turns him on right and what he does is he gives everybody a play by play as you know and i could tell it's like what he's turned on by right so therefore he knows he's turning everybody else on. So if you like the hot wiping thing and you like hot chicks, Erica's hot and you like

hot wiping, her guy gives you it all and you see it all on my Discord. So sign up over there. That's the only place you're going to really get Erica besides on these confessions episode. But thanks for being on this call with me again. You never disappoint. Thanks for having me, Kathy. I'll talk to you soon. Bye, Erica. Thanks, Erica. Bye. Bye. Okay. Good news. I do have a book out. I wrote a book and it's coming out. The book is called Trickle and on Miss Confessions. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. What I did was I picked out the 17 best episodes. That was very hard to do.

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