Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1151 - Mike Got his Wife Into Hotwifing

Episode Date: June 24, 2025

Mike got his wife into hotwifing and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear him discuss all the details including when he got into the hotwifing fantasy, how he brought it up to his wife and how she reacted at first, what her fantasies were about and how they role played those out, the app he joined to post nude photos of his wife and how she found out about it and how she reacted, the hotel take over they went to and what went down during their first experience, the second hotel takeover they attended and the erotic massage his wife got, what he did during the massage and exactly what went down, the guys they went on dates with and why those dates didn’t work out, the third hotel takeover they attended where she got another erotic massage and how that led to her first full on hook-up, exactly what went down andhow he felt seeing her have sex with another guy, how she felt about it afterwards, their reclaiming sex after her her two erotic massages, what they’re looking for now that they’re crossed the line plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics of MIKE'S WIFE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠http://promescent.com/kathy⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠To get 15% off your WHOLE order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠https://beducate.me/pd2516-anonymous⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14 day money back guarantee  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get $10 off Shameless Care’s female viagra cream, just click on the link and use code: Strictly    Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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You get all of that on my Patreon. It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. the link is in the description. Now listen, if you want to join the lifestyle, if you're curious about hotel takeovers, meet and greets and all that kind of stuff, or gangbangs that are going on in your area and you need to sign up for SDC.

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for many, many years before she crossed the line and slept with someone. And he talks about that whole journey. He's been with his wife since the dawn of time. It's one of those classic cases. where he's been with her forever, very vanilla sex. Things were totally one way. And then he just got into hot wiping. He talks about how that came to be in his sphere and, you know, where he heard about it first and then how he got really into it. And then how he brought up to his wife and how she reacted, of course, at first. And then what happened six years after he brought it up? It took that long for her to actually sleep with someone. But in that six year time, they did do a lot of different things like role playing and going to hotel takeovers and getting naughty massages. And then eventually

you know she did just have her first look up with a guy he tells a whole story really well I didn't have to say you at one point you'll just be like oh Kathy's not here anymore like I don't have to say one word really because he was just telling his story and he goes through the whole thing and there's a lot of specific details I think what his story is here to say is that playing the long game works because eventually his wife went from like not being into it at all to fucking another guy and totally being into it and everybody's happy and it just happened and he works all the way up to that story then tells that story. So it's an interesting journey. It's an interesting story. Mike sent me in picks of his wife. They're over on my Patreon. You'll hear about that at the end of the episode.

But anyway, I'm going to get right to him. Be right back on with Mike. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Good. Good morning. Good. I'm glad to be here. Super excited. Yeah. So listen, Mike, you have a hot wife, your girl. Fucks other guys for you, right? I'm assuming. That's your, that's all I know. I'm going to get the whole story. How long you've been married to your for how long you've been with her? This later this year will be 34 years married. Wow. And okay.

40 years together. Okay, 40 years together, 34 years married. Let me ask you this. When, how long have you been hot wifing? Oh gosh. The first experience was about a month ago. What? It just started?

Oh, interesting. Okay, so let's get, okay, so before this time, okay, because you're with her since the dawn of time. What was your sex life like, you know, all this time? Yeah, I would say totally vanilla, right? I don't think that we were very good at it, frankly, until much later in life. I think the sex got good in the last, you know, 10 years, I'd say. And we started to kind of really communicate much better about wants and needs and desires and open things up.

So let's go to there. Yeah, let's get to that place. So you're with this woman for, you know, since the dawn of time. You've always had a vanilla relationship, never done anything, you know, beyond the norm. What happens 10 years ago that changes the game? Well, I would say more specifically six years ago, I had, well, let me take you back a little further. So my kind of go-to fantasy with her, right, was an MFF, I guess it would be, right? You always want to see her with another girl's what you're saying.

Exactly. Okay. And me involved, too. And then at some point. that changed to MFM, okay? And I can tell you specifically that about six or seven years ago, I found a podcast that just captivated me, okay? It was all about hot wife and cuckold stories. And it just captivated me. And I had never thought of that before. I'd never had that fantasy in my mind, really, until listening to these stories of these couples that have gone down this road.

And I remember telling her we were camping, actually. And I'd get up early in the morning, go fishing. And I would listen to this podcast on the way to and from. And one night sitting by the fire, I blurted out to her that I'd love to see you fuck another man. And she said to me, that will never happen. Of course. Most women would say that. And the second question would be like, why the fuck would you want me to fuck another guy?

Yeah, yeah. So we talked a bit about it around the fire. She says that, you know, her position was that will never happen. And I, yeah, that's what I expected. And I didn't expect it six years later. We'd actually make it happen, really, certainly at that time. We talked about it a bit. And then driving home from that camping trip, she agreed to listen to one of the episodes of this particular podcast that

I thought would resonate with her because that thicker couple that were talking about their journey was a lot like us, right, in the sense that married a long time, high school sweethearts, etc. And she listened to it on the way home, didn't have much to say about it. And then it was just a long journey to get to where we are today, which was, as I said, about a month and a half ago, she had her first experience another man. And it was. Yeah, but we need an hour's worth of content here. So you need to go through that long journey. Like how does it go from her saying no fucking way? Six years of what? Just talking, fantasies, opening up your relationship, doing other things. Like what happened? Yeah. So, yeah. I didn't want to push her, right? And I wanted to take it

slow. And so what I would do is just bring it up now and then in the bedroom, outside of the bedroom as well. I mentioned communication, right? Open communication. She, she, when she started to open up to me about fantasy she had, in particular, I'll call them celebrities, right, that she was very, very fond of, and it became clear to me that she fantasizes about those guys, right? So we started to open that up and roleplay that. That took a while to get there, right, but we both enjoyed it immensely. I encouraged her, right, to, it was okay to have those fantasies about these guys. And then I liked it. And I did. And I would show her visibly what the conversation would do to me, right? I'd have an erection. So I'd show her that. And then, you know,

over time, just being consistent with that, she realized this really is a big turn on for him. He wants this, right? For me and for us. I would start to send her these memes off of Twitter, you know, hot wife related content, right? And I was but careful about that, you know, so in the sense of, you know, not since memes are too racy necessarily, they would turn her off or not turn her off necessarily, but, you know, be offensive in some way, right, especially she's not in the right mindset of the time. And so there are gentle memes, and then she began to like them, right? hit the like button on the phone.

And we just consistently showed her and let her know, you know, how much I wanted this for her. She had never been with another man. I wanted her to have that experience. I wanted her to feel the joy in that, right? And feel the joy in the fact that I was feeling nothing but joy from that experience. So it just took a long time. We went to a nude beach in my name. Maui. The first thing we did that was somewhat not vanilla.

We were in Hawaii and I suggested we go there and she was open to it and we did. And it was fun. It was fraying. She took her top off and out of bottoms. Totally fine. I stripped down, we were walking up and down the beach, no problem. We had a great time. We came back and enjoyed the experience.

That was sort of the first thing. It was sort of out of the box, not vanilla, right? Okay. Then I found, so, well, I'll tell you about a mistake I made. You'll call me sloppy on this one too. Okay. I created a profile on Cassidy, didn't tell her about it, and posted two or three photos of her without her face, of course.

They were nude, and I would often sort of check the size. right and to see the comments and so forth I enjoyed the you know the men commenting or and women for that matter about her well she had noticed that I was in my phone a lot and maybe when she came near swiping the clothes to the app right well one night she after I went to sleep she went into my phone and that site was open I think she was thinking she wasn't I don't know what she's saying but she was saying I was looking at something, right? Maybe there's other women.

I don't know what she was thinking exactly. And she found that the app popped up and a picked photo of her popped up. She knew it was her because of the circumstances where we were, et cetera. And then the next morning, we get up to go to work that evening. I come home. It's clear that she's upset.

But we weren't in a position to talk about it yet with family with us. And then later that night, I said, what's up? You know, because I had no idea. And she says, you know, she went in my phone and she was just very upset by what she saw. And, you know, I thought, oh, shit, it's sloppy. But it was good because it made us communicate again, right? She got over it quickly because she understood that this was all about me showing her off, right?

Wasn't me looking at other women, engaging with other women. It was just me showing her off. So she kind of got over pretty quickly. Did she make you take it down? Or did she allow you to keep it up? No. What happened after with your profile? Well, I did take the photos down.

I told her I would do that. I took them down. So I had no photos up. The profile still existed. Okay. One of the best parts about having a partner is definitely sharing everything with them, including your fantasies. Trust me, opening up to your partner about your secret fantasies can be.

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did she allow you to keep it up? No. What was the, what happened after with your profile? I, well, I did take the, I did take the photos down.

I told her I would do that. I took them down. So we had no photos up. The profile still existed. Okay. Fast forward to, I learn about a hot wife hotel takeover. Where do you learn about this?

On campus. Okay. It's advertised, okay, advertised through a company that, hey, we're going to have a hotel takeover this time of year and sign up. And so I asked her about it and I said, I really want to go. No expectations, right? I wasn't ready for her to, at this point, I wasn't mentally ready for her to have sex with another man either at that point, right?

The fantasy was real for me, but to actually take that action, I wasn't quite ready for that. I need, we need to find the right person. She, she needed to be totally on board. because if she is this is not something she wants, there's no turn on for me. So she agrees to go to this hotel takeover. And the way I framed it up was I think it's a safe space for us, unlike, let's say, a house party where it's much smaller, much more intimate. A hotel takeover to me meant if, you know, we could get away.

We had a rental car outside. We could go back to our room. So if it became uncomfortable, awkward for either of us, both of us, we could, you know, we could get away. escape that. We, you know, we could be flies on the wall in that environment. But what were you planning on doing? Nothing. Nothing. Okay. Nothing. Just, you know, topples at the pool. But your wife was down. She was like, okay, let's try. Like, what was her stipulation? She was saying, let's go as long as there's zero expectations, right? Okay. And I was, clear about that. So we go. I tell you. So, it's a Friday, Saturday, we leave Sunday. So if we get there

Friday and there's a pool party going on and we go down there and she's in her bikini and someone with her apopolis others or not and it was fun just sort of mingling folks and then that evening there's a speed dating

event right where you can meet and unfortunately in that speed dating deal we only met with different couples right it's just a matter of where we were and I guess in the tables and chairs.

And I remember a woman, a couple said, so this is a classic question you get from everybody. So how long you've been in the lifestyle? And we're sitting across from this couple, and this woman says to me, us, how long have you been in the lifestyle? I said, today is our first day. And she laughs out loud at us, right?

But you've got to be kidding me. I said, no, this is our first day. It's our first experience in the lifestyle is coming to this hotel takeover. So as we met people, That question would come up quite a bit. And we'd just be honest to say, you know, today's the first day, we've done nothing. We're just dipping our toe in the pool here.

And Saturday rolls around. And now my wife's topless in the pool, feeling good. We're feeling great. Talking some folks. And remember this one couple, this lady, she was very interested in our story, right? And fun to talk to because she had some ideas. And one of the ideas was, look, you know, maybe you can, my wife had never kissed another man since we've been together, right?

So she suggested maybe you can find one single males and just say, hey, is it okay if we just kiss for a bit, just to dip our toe in the pool? So that was mentioned. I thought that's a great idea, right? It's a great way to kind of start. And the mistakes I made on this particular hotel takeover, there was two more, I'll tell you about, was put too much pressure on her not to have sex for somebody,

but to dance with another man, to engage. just stopped at the kissing thing. Does she wind up kissing a guy? Yeah, so I'm going to get there. Okay. So we, so, you know, we're at the dance party, whatever, and we meet this gentleman, and he's sitting at the bar. This is early on in the evening. And we start talking to him, nothing about sex or anything like that. We're talking about sports, really. And we find that we have, there's a common denominator between us in a particular professional sport, we like a lot. So we're chatting about that. And the guys is super smooth, super nice,

you know, bright guy, you can tell, professional. And we part ways, nothing happens. That evening we go for the first time into the playroom. My life has never been to the bedroom nor have I. And within five minutes, she grabs my hand and walks straight out of there. She's overwhelmed by what she sees going on in this playroom. You know, know, just people having sex everywhere, right? Women trying to deep throat a guy. Well, it is a hot wife hotel takeover, so I think, you know, there's obviously going to be sex going on. Yeah, yeah.

Well, she did not expect to see what she saw. Okay. So we walk out of there. That was Friday night, and she's, you know, overwhelmed at the moment. And, you know, I was frustrated, actually, because with her that she got so overwhelmed. But in hindsight, I totally understand. the next evening we're back in the playroom and she wants to go in the playroom she's discovering that she likes to watch that evening we have a lot to drink both of us and the end of the night

this is a Saturday night she's decided that she's going to kiss this guy she didn't tell me this right I don't know this this gentleman we met earlier was nice guy bright guy so we're getting ready to kind of go back to hotel for the night and all of a sudden she walks towards this guy and just starts making out with him. And then stops, comes back to me, we walk for a room. And I say to her, was that nice? And she said, yeah, really nice. So we get back to our room and we have this old patio outside.

And we start plucking, actually trying to fuck, I should say. You know, I mean, we're both completely hammered. and, you know, I was the first time being exposed, you know, trying to have sex and being exposed to potentially somebody walking by if they did. And two people did. And we didn't stop us at all. So it was fun. So we get back, we go home from that trip.

And I don't talk to her about the next day at all because she's really, really hungover, traveling back. And not a good time to bring this up, this kiss. So, Wait, So I think it was Monday night. We're sitting in our living room, feeling better. And I'm bringing up. And I say, I just want you to know that I loved it. I loved watching you kiss another man. And I think she appreciated that, but she was feeling weird about it.

Mostly, I think, because she made this decision while she was drunk. And that didn't feel good. she expressed you know in the weeks after some feelings of guilt right and i would ask her about that why why do you feel guilty if i loved it why would you feel guilty and she would explain that well it's it's sort of the commitment thing to into our marriage you know so she struggled with that a bit and we went to a second hotel takeover but before we did that she agreed to have a profile together. So we took a photo of us with a sign showing our username and the date,

which was a requirement to have a profile that was verified. So she agreed to that. We did that. And then we put some photos up that were obviously no faces and started to get some attention there and then actually tried to set up a date with a single guy. she agreed to do that. And we had agreed to meet this guy, but I felt funny about this guy because I thought he was going to flake, right? And effectively he did.

Right before we're getting ready to leave for about an hour and a half drive to go meet this guy with no expectations for going to sex, just meet and greet, right? And he kind of flaked out. But that was a big move. She got dressed up, you know, she looked great, super sexy, and a sexy dress, and ready to go to this date. so didn't happen. And then a year later, we go to our second hotel takeover. And this one was much different, right? So it was the same.

A whole year, I'm sorry, let me just ask you a question. In a whole year, you have this failed date. You don't try to hook up with anyone else. You're finally going to be getting exactly what you want. She's ready to fuck another guy. One guy flakes, and you just, you're supposedly on this website. No guys since you wait a whole year and do nothing? Exactly.

Okay. Okay. So we do a lot of roleplay, a lot of this conversation. But why weren't you looking for another guy to actually show up? You're about to like live out your fantasy. I was, but she's very picky. Okay. So she's, what she likes is younger, muscular fit guys.

Okay. And a lot of those guys don't fit that bill. Okay. Or the least ones we ran across. So yeah. So it was a whole year. Now, she's not saying I'm ready to fuck another guy yet at that point, but she's ready to go on a date and meet somebody. So what does she want to go on a date for if she's not going to fuck him? I'm sorry.

Well, she may end up fucking him, but she's not going to fuck him that night. Okay, okay. This is a meeting greet. Okay. Okay. So we go to this hotel takeover again. And again, no expectations. Oh, in the meantime, we did meet a guy that was from Las Vegas, that his stick,

is that he does massage, right? And then ends up fucking a woman. And he's got a ton of validations, right? So lots of women have validated. This guy's legit. It's a great massage, great sex at the end. And I introduced that to my wife, and she decided that's the way she could see herself actually having sex for her man. It's starting with a massage and see if it turns into sex.

And so I get that too, right? Won't get all warmed up, enjoy that massage, a touch. And then maybe that leads to sex. So we contacted him about meeting him for this. And that's kind of a pompous ass in the way you responded. They basically said, I'm booked for three months. You know, no chance I can meet you in two or three weeks. So I said, whatever, fine.

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He's just a masseuse for the women that want a massage here. So I found the guy, and I said, hey, my, my wife. wife loves a massage, can you do an erotic massage? And he says, sure. And I said, is it okay if I'm present? They said, that's encouraged that you're there. I said, amazing. So I found my wife, grabbed her, brought her over and he said, this guy, we'll call him Tim.

We'll give you a massage tomorrow. It can be erotic massage. And she says, okay. So the next day, we go at our scheduled time. And he says, okay, erotic massage. on a scale of 1 to 10, what kind of massage do you want? And she says, I have no idea. I've never had erotic massage before.

And he says, okay, we'll play it by air. So he says, you can go bare or you can be clothed. And she says, I'll go bear. So she takes off her clothes. And he starts to give her massage. And it starts off as like a sweetest massage, right? Now, I'm sitting in a chair, actually miserably cold because I'm right next to the air conditioner, the hotel room wall air conditioner

is blowing right on me and I don't want to move because I don't want to disrupt, disrupt anything that's going on here. I don't want to be distraction. I don't know what's going to happen. But I just certainly don't. I want to be a fly in the wall. And so

he starts with the Swedish Masha. She's definitely enjoying it and it gets more and more ironic. He's touching her breast and he's constantly checking in with me. Looking at me, giving me a thumbs up. Are you okay? Yes, I'm giving a thumbs up.

I'm good. this happened three or four times guys are just a total pro so I find she's got her eyes closed the entire time she does not open her eyes she's I think just nervous about

that and just trying to stay in her own space her own mindset knowing that I'm enjoying it but you know I'm freezing my ass off at the same time and then he starts to touch her you know around her vagina and and then

we're getting close to an hour's up and I don't see that she tells me later that he starts to finger her. I can't see it where I'm sitting again. Remember, I don't want to move because I don't want to disrupt anything. But I do see, I can see that her mouth begins to open, which is a tell for me that she's enjoying that and probably going to have an orgasm any moment. So at that point, I stand up because I realize what's going on. And he is massaging her clit. And she has a giant orgasm from him. And it was amazing.

And he finishes, like it's a massage. He's over. She's done. He gets dressed. He says, okay, and he asks us, is there anything that, any suggestions you can give me, anything that could do better? We're like, no, it's freaking amazing. We're good.

So we go back to our room and she says, to me, do you want to fuck me now? Like, reclaim me. I said, yeah. So we start to fuck, and I am not getting really close to an orgasm.

And she says to me, and this becomes a trigger over and over, she says to me, did you see me rocking on him, on his fingers, right, her pelvis? And Kathy, I came almost instantaneously. at that point when she said that, right?

It's amazing. So we really enjoyed that experience, and that's all that happened. We went home on Sunday and just enjoyed the fact that she had her happy ending massage, that it was a step in the direction, it was a careful, slow step in the direction, and all was good. And from there, we had lots of times we had really great sex where we'd roll play and talk about either that moment or one of her celebrity crushes and just had a lot of fun kept talking about the fantasy then we went on another guy and went on another date this guy didn't flake

he's from out of town but traveling near us and he had a ton of validations to this guy probably 20 women or 20 couples validated this guy's legit he's perfect what he does He puts me all sorts of positions, et cetera, et cetera. So we go on a day with him, and he shows up. He is this kind of odd personality. He's, frankly, in hindsight, boring, right? There's zero chemistry because there's zero flirting, right? He, at one point, he asked, so what are you guys into?

You know, which I thought was kind of an odd question. Sexually, I think, you know, he's in. suggesting what are you guys into sexually. We were just getting to know each other. And I was hoping for some flirting and some chemistry to show up. And not just an odd, random question like that in the moment. So he learned real quickly that, you know, he wasn't going to have sex with my wife that night.

I've been up front about that beforehand. And then he asked when we were meeting there, he said, you know, do you guys want to take this best? to a hotel room. And I said, no, you know, listen, we're not doing that tonight. I was clear about that. So, no. And then you quickly kind of excuse himself and left.

Odd dude. Nice guy, but just awkward. Very odd job, which I won't disclose because it'll be. Yeah, no need to go into his life story. It's not, you know, he's not on the thing to talk his side of the story. So we get home, you know, we go home and it's like, that was kind of odd. you know, weird, whatever. And then we have another date with a guy that is visiting from out of town.

He's apparently, him and his wife are swingers, but he's got a hall pass. He was totally upfront about that. And we meet this guy, and he's a nice guy too, but there's just no chemistry, really, between them. So we had a nice evening, and then, you know, he wanted to follow up with it. but we explained that there's just no chemistry there. So there's a couple dates in there, no action. We plan to go back to the third Aunt Wife Hotel takeover. This is the third year now.

And leading up to that, we had asked Tim, the masseuse, who we have his phone number now, is he going to go? And he says, yeah. And we actually had tried to plan another massage for her before that, but we just couldn't sync up the calendars and get it done, right? Traveling to Vegas, try to meet and do that. Couldn't sink up the calendar. So we had accepted that if it was going to happen again, it was probably going to happen at this hotel take over. And so we get signed up again.

And this time, she's ready to have a massage and take it to a sexual encounter. she thinks. It's going to be a game time decision. And so we get signed up, we're looking forward to it. And the company that puts us on this hotel takeover is not advertising that Tim and the masseuse is going to be there. And I thought, that's odd. So I reached out to them.

I said, hey, the folks running this thing. I said, hey, you're going to have Tim the masseuse there. They said, hey, we're talking to him, but we're not sure if he's going to make it. Well, two days before the event, there's no advertising that Tim the masseuse is going to be there. So I tell my wife at that time, hey, he's not going to be there. And I think she was both relieved and, you know, also a little bit, well, that's too bad, you know, because I was looking forward to massage. But relieved that there was no pressure for sex. so we get to the event anyway

we're going to go have a good time no expectations again I felt like nothing was going to happen if it wasn't going to happen when Tim's on the suits so we're at the pool the first day on Friday and I see him Tim oh Tim's here and she

goes oh you know like now she's on the nervous so we see Tim and later that evening and you know his hugs and kisses and what's a warm meeting We arranged to meet the next day and have a massage.

And we explained to him at that time, hey, sex will be a game time decision for her. And understand that if it does happen, you'll be the first man other than myself to have sex with my wife, with her. And he's kind of blown away by that. You've never had sex with another man, and I might be the first. And we said, yeah, this is the deal. So, but again, it's game time decision. Next morning rolls around, we agreed to meet 1130 at our hotel room this time. And he shows up a little bit late and starts a massage.

And one of the things that my wife had just told me that she didn't want to have happen was what I call mouth love. Okay. And I hate the expression eating pussy. This never makes sense to me. So mouth love is worse. If you ask me, I prefer eating pussy. Mouth love.

Oh, my God, what to turn off. Mouth love. I love. Can I give you some mouth love? Yeah. Yeah, yeah. I would go dry. It works for us.

Sorry. It's okay. It works for us. I feel like I'm going to, that's a good Patreon question. Like, which would you prefer? Can I eat your pussy or could I give you some mouth love? Eating pussy just doesn't. No, listen, this is why everyone's so wired differently.

That could be like dirt. to some people, you know, but I like a little dirty. You know, everyone's different. I'm just rejecting a little humor into this because you're just telling your story. I haven't had to say one fucking thing. So anyway, I'll stop talking again. Go on. No, it's all good.

So, you know, she had this rule. That was too intimate for her, right? Another man giving her mouth love, eating her pussy, whatever you want to call. And I said, okay, I mean, I wanted her to enjoy that experience. But again, she would have to want it to, to, to, for it to be a turn on for me, not is go through the motions, but want it. That's the only way I'm turned on. She wants it and is enjoying it.

So that was her rule. You know, no, that's too intimate. Shit, Kathy, it was 15 minutes into the massage, and he's giving her mouth love going down on her, and she's just orgasm, having a giant orgasm. It was amazing. Yeah, no offense. I was going to be like, what woman would turn down oral sex?

Sorry, it's like the greatest thing that's ever happened. I know, I know. And we love the hell out. So is this the guy she winds up hooking up? Is this the hook, the hookup? Yeah, so he's going down on her. She has a giant orgasm. He's continued with the massage.

And he says to her, by the way, I'm in the room naked with a camera with my phone. Okay. And I asked him beforehand, said, okay, if I take pictures and video, I said, yeah, no, thanks for asking. I said, okay, if I'm naked in there. He said, yeah, no guy and guy stuff. I said, no guy and guy stuff. I just want to be naked in there with my. erection and enjoying

myself. So it was just amazing. And then, so, you know, halfway into it, she's already had a giant orgasm from him giving her mouth love. And he asked her, I love that you laugh. He asks her, you know,

do you want to take it further? And she says yes. And then, you know, then he confirms, are you sure? And she says yes, which I love that. So at that point, you know, he's, They start to fuck. And it's just wonderful.

I mean, it's just wonderful. So we need to finish up, and, you know, he kind of goes on his way. And then we go, we embrace and kiss, and we go, let's go to the pool, get a drink. And so we had a fantastic time in the pool. There was zero regret on either of our parts of just nothing. We've talked about many times since, and the last month and a half, we talked about last night at length. just pure joy that we had that experience together. And so it was a long,

long six years to get there. But we picked the right guy. And it was on her terms, an environment she was comfortable in. And it was her decision. And it was just fantastic. So we're looking forward to seeing him again and meeting somebody else. Should we find the right guy for her?

right i mean it sounds like she did she you know didn't go for a lot of guys she might be picky what exactly is she looking for that those other guys didn't have like there was a lot of guys you went on dates with but none of them panned out what do you what kind of like what's the specific guy that you think she would actually wind up screwing after a quote unquote date because you went on a bunch of dates but none of them panned out yeah two dates i thought there was more there was the third one that the guy flaked two dates yeah you know so younger fit clean cut

professional nice guy that's what she's like let me ask you this does your wife also like to have some sort of like rapport with a guy does she need to feel some sort of like mental connection to is that her thing because that's a lot of women's thing it's not like they're just going to see a guy and be like oh i want to fuck him like just by the looks of it a lot of times it's more a woman needs to like

the personality in some way. That's what I would think. That would be the reason why. You know, she hasn't met a million guys, because that's typically how women are wired. Absolutely. She needs to feel comfortable. She needs to like him.

I need to like him, Kathy. If I don't like the guy, I'm not going to want her to fuck him. But let me ask you this. You finally see your girl, fuck another guy, okay? Like, I know she has no guilt feelings about it. This is finally your fantasy.

You've been dreaming about this for a long time, you know, working on it for a long time. Like, how was it for you? And how was the sex since? It was amazing. Yeah. So that time together was amazing. I felt so, and I've shared this with her.

I felt so comfortable, right, in watching her with another man. It was just fun. I'm trying to, how do I describe it? Just super comfortable, warm. It just gave me great joy to watch that happen, watch her have that experience for another man that she chose. And she felt great about me being there, right? I asked her since, was it a turn-on that I was there? And she said, no, not necessarily turn-on.

I just felt really good about the fact that you were there. I would want you there. Since sex has been fantastic. You know, it was fantastic before that, too. I would say it's not any different. I'm talking more about the reclaiming sex. Typically couples, like the sex afterwards just thinking about it, whatever, like they're real horny for that aspect, playing it in their heads, you know, the visuals and all that

stuff that reclaiming afterwards is typically like off the charts. I don't know. And sometimes it could last for people. I don't know. It sounds like you felt more comfortable than turned on. I don't know. Was it a turn on to say? No, no, no, no.

No. No. I was way more turned on than that. So I'll take you back to the second hotel takeover where she had the happy ending massage. On the heels of that, we fucked nine days out of 11 in a row after that. Right. With thoughts of that scenario, got you going. Yeah, that's what I've heard that it lasts sometimes for a while.

Oh, my God. And then on the heels of the third hotel takeover where she actually had sex with this guy, I mean, I couldn't keep my hands off of her for days, for days. for days. The reclaiming it's not one event. It's just just, I just want

you know, want to embrace her. Not just fucking, but hugging, kissing, just adoring her. She's my queen and I want to make her feel that way.

And so, yeah, I mean, it still goes on to me today. It lasts for a long time. So where are you guys out now? So we're we're going to go through this website, the Cassie website.

So she doesn't go on there. I'm just going to say, like, I don't work with Cassie, but I do work with SDC and people could get it. I mean, they have all the same things. People are vetted. People give, like, you know, ratings for people so you could see that they're verified. And I have a free trial, actually, to SDC. And you just use code 37712 or go to my description, click on the link.

Most of my listeners use SDC. There's so many of them out there, right? That's the one that I work with because, It's the one I hear about the most, and I vetted them, and I think that they're great. But of course, there's other apps out there. But if you want a free trial to SDC, you can use my link or use my Code 371, too. But so you're still on your site looking for people, right? Yeah.

And we're going to, this evening, as a matter of fact, we have a date her and I to go through and look at all these comments from people to see if there's any interest in any of them. Haven't you done that before in all these years? No, okay. We have done that before, but it's very, very inconsistent. because we both work with a busy lives, we have children, you know, the whole deal, right? Does she get off at all on guys admiring her? Is that just a you thing? Well, I wouldn't characterize it as getting off on it, but she enjoys it.

So back to, again, last night, she, on this last hotel takeover, there's theme nights, Friday night's a theme night, Saturday night's a theme night. So you dress up in some sort of theme attire. night was lingerie night and she had this thing she bought from Amazon that was like a body suit that's see through and so she had her underwear on but nothing no bra so you could see right through this thing that beautiful and she commented about how much attention she got and how she enjoyed that attention on Friday night for more than that outfit from both men and women so she enjoys the attention but I wouldn't say get off Right. Some people are exhibitions. Some people aren't. You know, it's, everyone's different. That's why I asked. So you're, so you're open now to meeting another guy. Are you looking to go back to the same guy? Both. Right. Okay. And she's down. She had a good time. No, no issues, no feelings, negative feelings. None. Yeah, that's great. It was a big concern. It was a big concern for me that, you know, she actually did this, that she would feel really guilty afterwards. And that would,

you know, that would be hurtful in some way. Of course. I was concerned about that. And there's none. There's absolutely none of it. Most of that's because it was, again, the right time for us, our relationship can handle this, can support it. We have fantastic relationship. We communicate extremely well.

We found the right person. She knew him. She was comfortable with him because of the prior engagement. And she just felt good and comfortable by it. So zero regret on either side does nothing but joy when we talk about it. Yeah. And listen, I think the key is that you, you know, followed her lead. They really do say, and I think it's very true.

In the lifestyle, it is a woman's world. It's kind of like, you know, they lead the charge in that, you know, you're going to fare a lot better if you go by your woman's pace, not if you're pushing her. That just leads to fucking disaster. Women might take a while to come around and a guy might be ready. way before, but the people who are successful in getting their wives to be down with it are the ones who take their time and don't push them until they're ready. I don't think that that's ever going to work, and that could lead to disaster. I think the thing to do is like what you did, which was take it as slow as your girl needs to take it. Yes, absolutely. I can't say that

wasn't frustrated at times and how long it took to get here. The fact that it was ever going to happen was in doubt, okay? But again, what I've said to her many times, and I'll say to you, is the turn on for me is the joy she gets out of it. So if she's doing something for me and not for her, that's not what it won't. Yeah, yeah, that's not going to be a turn on. You want her to be turned on. Not at all.

No choice. Even though you're frustrated, you had no choice but to wait for her to really be into it because or else you wouldn't be getting what you want and you wouldn't be turned on by her just doing it for you. I get it. That makes sense. And so, you know, as frustrating as it is, the best move is to do what you did, which was to wait around. And then, you know, look, at it all came to be, right?

And you finally lived your fantasy. If you go back, you know, six years ago when you brought it up, like, would you ever expected this to happen? Probably not. But here you are. No. No, I didn't. I didn't at all. And here we are. And you're right.

And she appreciates that I was patient as well. And that's over that six years. There's a lot of fun in there. There's a lot of role playing. There's a lot of good fun in there. We use this fantasy for sure. That's a great place to start. Listen, that's a great place to start.

And just talking about your fantasies and then role playing them and, you know, then you never know what it leads to. Let me ask you a question. Does your wife know that you're calling in? Oh, yeah. She's upstairs. Yeah. She said, have fun. I want downstairs to have a call.

Well, I ask that because we're not in the same room. No, it's okay. I just ask that because of my patron. I do take picks, you know, of people for my Patreon. on like anonymous picks. And if you want to send them in for my Patreon, that would be great, but not like X-rated pick, like tasteful picks. Sure, I'd love to.

But I don't take picks of wives unless they're okay with it and they know. You know what I mean? As long as she knows you're calling it. And plus, I'll give you free access to my Patreon so you can see the comments, as well as give you free access to my Discord, where you could go in there and really talk to like-minded people. My Discord's a whole fucking thing going down there. You won't believe what's going on in my Discord.

I'd love that. I'd love that. I hear it all the time. I love that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's very X-rated. I mean, you don't know. But I will give you free access to that as well as to my Patreon.

And if you want to do the send-in-pick, send them to me sooner than later. Because this episode could be out next week, the week after, but, you know, it's better to send me them sooner than later. So I have it for when I air it. I can send it to my email or you could text it to this phone, either or. The photos. Yeah, the photos. Yeah, you could text it to the phone or just send it via email and just say, hey, this is Mike.

this is pictures of Paula. You said her. That's her fake name. Yeah, exactly. Okay. Yeah, I'm happy to do that. She's totally on board. They'll be anonymous, not x-rated, and it'll be great. I'd love to have access to your Discord, too. All right. Also, I'll send that to you. Thanks so much, Mike. Thanks for calling in. You made my job very easy. I didn't have to say one fucking word. Thanks for calling in and telling your story. Do you think you'll air it? Of course. It's going to be aired. Yeah, 100%. Oh, cool. Cool. Okay. Very cool. Okay. Awesome. Thanks, Mike. Thank you so much, Kathy. Bye.

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