Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1152 - She LOVES to Cuck Guys with Venus Cuckoldress

Episode Date: June 25, 2025

Venus Cuckoldress called in to discuss cuckolding and talk all about why she only dates cucks. Tune in to. Hear her discuss how and why she loves being a cucoldress and what exactly about it turns her on, how and why guys love being a cuck, her relationship with a cukold and how it was set up, how extreme her cuckold was and how she felt about what he wanted from her, how and why cucks need to be moderate when it comes to cuckolding, the moral tug of war a lot of cucks have and how it plays out for them, how fighting against cuckold desires is worse then just accepting them, how and why she sees cucks are more evolved, her definition of a cuck and how it differs from a stag, how common cuckolding is and where it can come from, her cuckolding matchmaking service and what she offers, why the main reason women come to her to be set up with a cuck, how men see cuckolding vs the way women see it and why that can be a problem if not discussed, how a couple can start fantasizing and role playing the cuck scenario at first plus a whole lot more. YOU CAN FIND VENUS HERE: https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress **To see HOT pics of VENUS C. plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠http://promescent.com/kathy⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠To get 15% off your WHOLE order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2516-anonymous⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code anonymous to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14 day money back guarantee  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get $10 off Shameless Care’s female viagra cream, just click on the link and use code: Strictly    Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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and you need to sign up for SDC. SDC is like the largest adult dating website. And I am partnered up with them and can offer all of my listeners a free trial to SDC.com. just use my code 37712 when you sign up at sdc.com or go to the description, click on the link, and you're automatically going to get a free trial to sdc.com. That link is in the description. Two. Okay. Today I have a great fun conversation with Venus cuckledress. She's like fucking cool. She's so smart. She knows all about cuckleding and all that kind of stuff. She's a cuckled

dress. Her perfect partner is a cuck, okay? But she's also like super honest. There's a couple times where she answers like so honestly I'm like I fucking love her. She's called Venus cuckledress for a reason. She has her own podcast called the Venus cuckledress podcast. She also has her own matchmaking service where if you're a cuck and you want to meet a girl that's down for that kind of relationship, she's got those girls in her database and she match makes people. We talk, you know, about that service towards the end of the conversation, but we talk a bigger picture about cuckolding. She talks about her own experience with it, how she got into it. She talks a lot about, you know, cuckolding from the guy's perspective as well as from the girls, like what kind of girls want to be, like what she

gets out of it as a female and what the cuck gets out of it. We talk about the difference between a cock and a stag and hot wiping and all that kind of stuff. And we get some personal stuff, whether she's in a relationship now. She does talk about her past relationships and her cuckleaving, what she got out of it, what the guys did. She talks about, you know, if you're a personal stuff, a woman, what you could do to have like the perfect cuck relationship as well as like if you were a cuck, like how to bring it up to your girl, how to act with your girl. We talk a lot of bigger picture stuff. It's a really informative episode. It's super fun. She's great. She really knows what she's talking about. She's like not only been there, done that. She talks on her podcast about this topic all

the time. If you want more information, you go to her podcast. If you want a fucking girlfriend that's down for this good of her matchmaking service. I think it's a brilliant idea that she has this. But first, you're going to listen to her episode. It's super interesting. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Venus cuckledress. Welcome back to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Hi. Thanks for having me back. I'm great. Thank you. Yeah, listen, you are Venus. You are a cuckledress. You've been on before. So I have most of your backstory on. You called in last year around the same time. Your episode number is 846. if people want to go check it out. I will want to get a snapshot of where you're at now a year later.

But we're going to be talking like bigger picture here about cuckl chucks and cuckledresses and this whole kink fetish, whatever it is, right? I have some questions from people that submitted questions for you, but this is like a bigger picture episode. Your first episode, like I said, is called Venus is a cuggledress who loves to cuck guys. Like you do really like cucking guys. Like that is like your kink, right? Like just like a cuck likes to be cucked, you like to cuck guys, right? That's, yeah. I mean, it's definitely the kind of relationship that really feels like it fits me. Right.

And I think that like there's guys out there who feel like they might have been like born to be a cuck. That's what it just feels like natural to them to be in that kind of relationship. For me, I just, as soon as I found cuckolding, I was like, oh, okay, yes, this. is what fits me. So yeah, it's just, it comes naturally to me. And do you feel like it's because you like to be a little bit more dominant in the relationship? Like, is the cuckoldress the more of the dom? Is it more like a female-led relationship?

Is it that kind of vibe? This is a great, great question. I don't think it necessarily starts out that way. Uh-huh. For me, I just really liked to have the freedom of a one-sided open relationship. where, you know, my partner is faithful to me, he's monogamous to me, but I have been given the gift of being able to have all of these other sexual experiences. And, you know, and because of that, I involve my partner in some way, whether he hears about it later or I send him

pictures or whatever. But that was the really the pull that it's like so attractive to me. and then I just feel like it's such an odd and unusual thing for women to have our sexuality celebrated and put on a pedestal. Like in such an unselfish way too, it's like when I've met my first cuck out, I was like, I don't understand why you don't want the same privilege of like sleeping with other women. Yeah. And he's like, no, I just really get off on you with other guys. and I was just like, I'm not used to this. So for me, it was like he celebrated my sexuality like that, you know, and I never had that before. And I just thought that was so unique and so special and so love, what a loving gesture.

And so I just fell in love with that kind of, you know, feeling of like, yes, this is female sexuality at its purest form. and like it's just unrestrained. And this is, and, but I feel like what goes along with that, what is like an unintentional byproduct of celebrating that her sexuality like that is the female empowerment part that goes along with it just naturally. And so when I said like it doesn't necessarily start out that way as in like, she's more dominant or the female like relationship or anything like that. But I feel like when you give a woman permission,

to really be her own sexual self and whatever way, shape, or form she wants to do that, there is this kind of power that goes along with that. And I noticed that over the years that I kind of, the more I allowed myself to, like, really feel that role, the more comfortable I felt. And then I was like, oh, yeah, this kind of suits who I am. And I've seen that in relationships,

cuck relationships before, lifeing and where there's no power dynamic. And then she just like naturally just starts to feel more confident and more comfortable in the decision making and say asking for the things that she wants. And I just think that's like so amazing. Let me ask you this. And then I'm going to talk more so and have a lot more questions like from the cuck standpoint. But like as the cuckoldress, like I know that the cuck is getting very turned on by

this scenario, right? Like his sort of variety is, and his pleasure is your pleasure. You're going out and doing that. And he's getting off on that. It is like a sexual thing for him. For you, I know you feel empowered and you feel maybe closer or more intimate or, you know, whatever. But do you also like get off on it? Is it a sexual thing for you as well to be doing this and you're thinking about it while your guy is at home? Or is it not anything like that for you? I think for cucks, like it's so, the usual script gets them off, where it's your typical cuck porn script that gets them off. For me, it's not that.

Yeah. It's very unique and individual. Like, it really depends on the person. Mm-hmm. What really, like, hooked me in in the beginning was I could see how much these things turned on my partner. Like, right. It's turning him on and it turns you on.

Yeah. Yeah. was very much that kind of like reciprocal feeding off of each other kind of thing like he's getting so turned on and I'm just like oh that was fun like look at him you can't control himself like shit that's fun and that's hot I think that's hot right enjoying it yeah right that's like why you want to like that's what I like when I'm blowing a guy if he's like really into it it's not like I love a cock in my mouth some women do but like to me it's about pleasing him and he's in I feel like oh, I'm doing that for him, right?

That's what it's about. Same thing is what you're saying. Yeah. And you learn what really pushes the buttons of your partner and was cuckling it such a psychological case that you quickly realize, oh, I'm literally, I don't even have to have a dick in my mouth. All I need to do is say this one word or look at him in this way while I'm doing this one thing. And he will fucking melt. Right.

Right. It's so easy and fun and practical because you don't really have to do a lot. You figure out what your partner is sensitive to in a very sexual turn-on way. And you could just press those little buttons and be like it is a mental mind fuck. Cuckolding is. A lot of that is. And I know that some guys are like, oh, no, I'm a stag. I'm not a tuck.

like I'm not into being degraded and whatever. I get that, but what I'm talking about is a mental strip tease. Yeah. And every fucking guy loves that shit. It is a tease. And it's a way you take that word humiliation or degradation out of it and you replace it with that word sexual teasing.

And it's a fun little fucking game. And as a woman, when you learn how to do that mental, sexual stripte. It's like, holy shit, this is a fun game I can get into. But it's very unique to each tuck out there. And that's all part of exploring your partner and figuring out, you know, what they like and what they don't like. And that requires emotional intimacy and honesty and vulnerability. And those are the things that bring you together as a couple. So this whole journey just makes you closer and stronger together. Yeah. And I have so many

questions like that you're going to answer if you're talking to a guy who wants to get into this or a woman who's been asked. But let me ask you real quick. Okay. Now, are you, I think when we last book, you weren't in a relationship with a guy, you know, doing this. Now, are you now a year later or are you still single? And we're going to get to the point that you run a whole service where like you hook people up, which I think is like a brilliant fucking thing. Okay. Let's tease people with that. Okay. But that's all going to, we're going to get there. that's why you're called to be in this cuckledress, but are you in a relationship right now? No, I'm not in a relationship right now. I'm happily single. Now, listen, I know that most guys

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No, I'm not in a relationship right now. I'm happily single. Okay, cool. Now, okay, so now also in, like what was your longest? relationship with a cuck that you've had in your life? That was almost a year. That was several years ago now. Okay. Because I just wanted to know, like, so while you're there and you're doing this with your guy, you know, for over a year, like, have, like, did your, because sometimes I

think, like, if it's very hardcore and I don't know what, well, maybe I should ask first, like, how, like, extreme was your cuck? Was there a lot of humiliation involved, quote, unquote? or was it just like you having that freedom to go out and him getting off on hearing about it or anything or did he like to be denied or told he wasn't as good? Like what was the dynamic between you guys specifically in that relationship? Well, I've had a variety of different kinds of dynamics over the years with different guys, but with him specifically, he really enjoyed the fact that I only wanted to sleep with black guys.

Oh. So that was, yeah, that was a big thing for him. And at that time and since I was only sleeping with black guys. And so that was like a big part of it for him. But he did really like the idea of like the dirty talk around the humiliation part. The kind of more like hardcore teasing, teasing about size and stuff like that. And it did take me a long time. to get used to what that, like, feeling comfortable with that.

And I'm not sure that I was entirely comfortable with it, but I was winging it sometimes. And it did become more comfortable over time, but it was definitely something that took practice for me to feel comfortable with the really kind of teasing the fuck out of him. But, like, I wouldn't have done it unless he, loved it so much. No, the truth is that there are a lot of guys that do enjoy that. I think it's very counterintuitive if they're like asking their girl to do it. It's very hard for their girl to like go there. And I wonder, like for me, I always think.

And a lot of times it's my first question when I'm talking to people in a very extreme kind of cock or female led relationship kind of situation. Like, you know, how do you tow that line between like, you know, respecting your guy and like, losing that respect over time if this is, I wonder about that. Yeah. Because like you're putting someone down. Yeah. There were times where I just like, I was like, I just not in the mood right now to talk

about this stuff. Like honestly, real life talk. Like, you know. We're just like, no, I'm like, I've had a fucking long day. I just don't feel like it. Like I'm not going into that mode right now. And he was very respectful of that, obviously. but let's be clear

like this is not a 24-7 thing this is not I mean just like your sex life is not a 24-7 thing this is not either the dirty talk the telling you know teasing your boyfriend and stuff like that and there is the fucking post nut clarity thing

that happens afterwards where they're like I can't take like once I'm like that's it like we're going back to normal talk after that yeah yeah that's good because I have talked to stream ones though that have like they almost get addicted to it and then they want it all the time, you know. And this is when, because I think that there's a lot of crossover, right, with like small penis

humiliation, caging, chastity, humiliation, like all these, you know, couple that with being a cuck and then being like a fucking addict, you know, I've heard of some situations where they're so extreme that I wonder like over time, you know, can that erode a relationship because like the woman is always like looking down and that's what the guy is always asking. I've had some cuck gone wrong stories on my show, and it is always when it's been so extreme. So I think probably you know this, and it sounds like you've, you know, because you're a cuckoldress and you're a professional, you know, like this shouldn't be a 24-7 thing, right? Like, that would be the worst thing for a relationship. I think this is one of the most common misunderstandings about cuckolding relationships is that a lot of guys out there do assume that this is full-time, that this is full-on, that this is a,

lifestyle that is like a, like a master slave kind of thing, like straight out of the Kinkbook. Like, and, and so they come at me assuming that I live my life like that. And I'm just like, like, fuck, no. I don't think any woman wants to live their life like that. No. And I don't know if it's the porn scripts or if it's the heavy overlap with BDSM and Kink. I'm not sure. but there is this assumption that I'm doing this 24 hours a day and that if I'm in a relationship

that it would be like that 24 hours a day. And I think that the bottom line is that this is just a fun aspect of your sex life. And that all it is, it's not your life. It is not, you know, the focus of who you are. It doesn't even define who you are. This is just simply a fun, spicy little part of your sex life. And sure, there are some kinds of BDSM-Kink relationships that are 24-7, dominance and submission, master-slave, dynamics.

I'm like, yes, are those common? Hell no. And, you know, it is not the norm. And so for people to assume that that's what it actually is, is not, it should be playful. it should be fun. And if he is constantly asking for sexual degradation, which is sexual satisfaction or that he's demanding from his partner, that's not fun for anybody.

Yeah. And one of the things I should mention, because you talked about that word addicted, is that unfortunately with cuckolding, a lot of these guys who fantasize about cuckolding, thing. They harbor a deep level of shame and self-hatred regarding their fantasies because they have a moral tug of war with it. They are very turned on by it, but they hate the fact that they're turned on by it because they don't want to be a cuck. They don't want to be weak. They don't want to

be the opposite of what they think a real man is. And so they get very turned on by the cuck porn. They consume it in heavy amounts and then they each time they do that they have wicked amount of self-hatred and shame afterwards and then they push it all away no I'm not going to watch that porn again I'm not going to consume that content again and I'm done with it

and they fight against it and then what Dr. David Lade Dr. David Lay said on my podcast he's the author of InSageable Wives he said that the research shows that the more you fight against your desires, the stronger those desires become, the less controllable those desires become. What you resist process is my favorite.

Exactly. Yeah, it's true. It becomes this wicked shame spiral where these guys consume, consume, consume the cock porn, and then they fight against it. And then it becomes all consuming again, and they can't stop. And it is really like a spiral. and so that's not healthy and I want people to know that

you can't keep fighting against these sexual desires you're going to have to come to terms with them and when you do you become a lot easier to handle a lot easier to control in your life so it's not healthy for you you just need to accept that okay these are fun sexual desires I have doesn't necessarily mean

I need to make them happen in real life and doesn't mean anything about me as a person Yeah, because I mean, one of my questions is like, because, listen, I have a lot of guys on my show that like to share their wives. They're very typical, like the guys that you've been with that you enjoy in that they only want their girl out there fucking other guys. They could care less about fucking other women themselves. Zero interest in that. All of their, quote unquote, variety they get from their girl and her experiences with other men. And I would typically get a lot of comments like, oh, that woman's so selfish, that guy's so.

week, like what's wrong with him. You know what I mean? And so I think a lot of people have this under misunderstanding. And maybe these guys that you're talking about that have this fetish or not have this fetish that are like sitting there in shame or thinking like, oh, you know, because they like this is something that they're into that this makes them quote unquote less of a man. But like what I've heard are from guys that are into this and from girls that are with guys that are like, no, they're like more of a man because they have that confidence that their

girl could go and do that and come back to them. I mean, like, I think it's the opposite of what people think, right? Yeah, absolutely. My friend Crystal Weld, she said it perfectly when she said cucks are an evolved species. Yeah. In that, like, they have learned how to have that kind of mental and emotional strength. Yeah. And give their partner, selflessly give their partner the gift of, you know, these other

sexual experiences doesn't mean that they're not getting, you know, a lot back. Absolutely. They are getting so much. joins one of the most bonding kind of trusting relationships you can have. I mean, they're really just basking in all of the greatness that is a loving cuckolding relationship. And yet you have these very narrow-minded people who just can't get past the fact that this is one-sided and that cucks must be somehow flawed. Yeah. Yeah. And the women that are with them that are doing this are being selfish too. It's like, I don't understand. Like listen, if the guy want to fuck other women, they'd be

swingers. There's a big difference, right? Between. swingers and people that are in open relationships compared to people that are hot wiping. What is that like, because like when I'm talking to a lot of like women who are hotwifing and guys who, you know, love for them to fuck other people, I'll call them a cock and they'll be like, no, no, no, but I don't like to be humiliated and I don't necessarily think that those two go hand in hand.

Like what is your, because you are the cuckledress and this is what you, you know, you do on your podcast. You have a podcast too, by the way. Did I say that in the beginning? You have your podcast Venus cuckoldress. I mean, and you talk about this, like, what is your definition of a cuck. Yeah, I'm, it's hard right.

It's not a hard one because, you know, historically, it's not wrong that like cuckolding usually means that there's a power dynamic going on there. Right. Whereas hot whysing or stag vixen means that there's not a power dynamic going on there. and there are lots of people who will say that that's the difference and for a long time I was like okay that's the difference but I don't know I'm out here making waves saying nah it's all puck holding that's what I think is I consider myself a cuck queen like I get off on like the guy going and fucking like that's kind of what I realized over time with myself but like to me there doesn't have to be humiliation involved I'm not looking for that scenario to be me being put down or anything it's just actually seeing it and I'm just actually seeing it and I'm just actually seeing it and I'm just I think that, because I talk to a lot of guys that have this kink, and that's just what I call it, because what would you call that guy if he's not? A stag?

Is that like the, that's like the term for stag? Yeah. I use that word way less than I use cuck. Yeah. And I have, what I will, what I do know for sure. Yeah. Is that I'm willing to bet that at least 90% of the guys who call themselves a stag, yeah, call themselves that because they're,

afraid they dislike the cuckled label. The connotation, just what people think it is, right? Yeah. Exactly. And so they're like, no, that's not me. But they like the exact same mental strip tease game that I was talking about. Exactly. And they're in a one-sided open relationship.

So tell me. What's the fucking different? That's what I mean. Yeah. It's the stereotype they don't like, so they avoid the cuck label. I get that. But, I mean, it's kind of ridiculous, honestly. How about we just change the fucking stereotype instead, address that shit instead of being

so scared of this little label. That really, if people knew about it, is exactly what we're talking about. Cucks are not weak. They are not pathetic. They are not doormats. Like, they are amazing selfless partners. Yeah, totally. You know, let me ask you this, and because I'm a little bit all over the place, but

you just made me think of this question, like, because I, I have talked to a lot of guys who have this kind of thing because 100%, and I don't think this is across the board always, but sometimes people that have this do have like cheating very early on that happened to them, right? Like a cheating scenario that happened and they got like sort of like horrified by it, but they kind of like turned that energy into like a turn on. And I've always felt like, oh, like what a fucking smart thing to do because you took this bad wiring and you're just taking this energy, which is a feeling, right? It's a feeling. It's a certain energy. And you're taking it and you're just turning it into some other kind of energy, which is much better.

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Yes. I have definitely heard a lot of origin stories from cuck's where they were, you know, in college, their girlfriend cheated on them with like the, you know, football quarterback or whatever. And like, it just, it was devastating. But then they were oddly turned on by it. And then from that point on, this was something. that like they were into. Very, very common. Yes, I do hear about, you know, married couples where the wife cheats, the husband finds out,

he's devastated, but then he's the same thing, oddly turned on by it. I think those relationships are probably more difficult and challenging to navigate just because there is that issue of broken trust happening that happened that they have to, you know, that's not easy but it does happen and I also have heard of guys who are cucks who have decided to go down that road because they want to avoid heartbreak of her cheating they just were like I don't even want to like have to deal with that trauma so let's just let her sleep with whoever she wants she'll come home to me yeah I'm like wow okay all right there's a lot of creativity there yeah I just think it's so like more common than people know you know I know that when I first started doing my show

I and I say this a lot like I had a lot of guy friends I was always very open sexually so my guy friends would tell me everything that they were doing I'd always talk about sex openly and freely and not one of my guy friends ever said to me like oh I wish like I could see my girl fuck another guy not one to cop to that and I had a lot of guy friends you know but then when I started to do my show I started to get these guys on and they would talk about this. And then over time, it's like, oh my God, so many guys are fucking into this. That I was like, why did none of my guy friends ever tell me? And I think sometimes back to like questions my guys would ask me, you know, like, oh, was his dick bigger than mine? And I was like, oh, my God, he probably wanted me to be like, yes. And he fucked so good.

You know what I mean? Like there are so many signs that are there because so many guys, there are a lot guys are kind of into this. It's not like that uncommon. Yeah, I had no idea when I met my first cut. I'd never heard of cuckolding. I didn't know it was a thing. I just thought it was something that he was into. Yeah, and it goes against everything you would ever think of, you know, as a woman. Like, my guy wants me to do this. Like, he wants the guy's dick to be bigger. Like, what are you fucking kidding me? I had, I had always wanted a one-sided open relationship, but I didn't know it existed. Oh, my God. I love how honest you are. I remember thinking to myself, that's what I want, but there's like, there's no guy that would ever sign up for that.

And then when I met that guy, I was like, what? And then after we went up when I went online and I was like, holy fuck, they're everywhere. Yeah. Can you believe? Yeah. It's like a, it's a real big thing. And I never, like I said, I could look back now and be like, oh, that guy was asked me because he wanted this. And then even for myself as a girl who realized I have.

had the cuck of me because there's women out there same fucking thing. I got to tell you. I mean, you're obviously not one, right? Because you want to be on the other side. Right. But for a woman, they have the same thing. And whenever I put out an episode with a woman calling and talking about this, I get so many emails from women. And like for me, I didn't realize it until I started to talk about it on my show, you know, and then it clicked in me like, oh, and I thought this. And when, you know, this happened and blah, blah, blah. You know, same fucking thing. I'm into it. too. And so like, why wouldn't women be into it the same like men? You know what I mean? It's not like, I don't, I just think it's like a thing that exists. And for women, it's not as talked about yet, right?

So I, but whenever I talk about it, like, it comes out. I mean, I get a lot of people emailing me about it. Now, you do, like, you have this, like, you have a service right where is it just you doing like a dating service for cucks and cuck, like people to meet or is it also like consulting? Like, what do you do for cucks besides your, is it? Like, is it just a, or do you talk to them too and and coach them? No, there's no coaching. It's just a matchmaking service. Okay, I love that.

It's for, yeah, for single men and single women who are looking for either a cuckolding relationship or an FLR relationship. And so, yeah, they fill out a questionnaire and they do some courses and have an interview with me, but it's completely private, so it's not like a dating app. And so all of the dates are blind dates. which is so different from what people are used to. They don't see the person beforehand? They don't know anything about them.

Oh my God. You're a little bitch. You really are a cuckold dress. You might be like female lead girl too. Like you ought to just like boss people around. You send them out both sides. Neither one sees or knows anything beforehand. Well, they're virtual dates and they're only 30 minutes.

That's the first date's only 30 minutes. So it's actually really great. Like the women love the 30 minute format. The guys are always complaining it's not long enough. But it's 30 minutes. You decide if you want to, afterwards you decide if you want to invest your time getting to know them more. So it's a great little format.

Oh, I love it. That's so smart. So this is how it's set up, right? You have people coming to you, signing up. You have your girls in one place, your guys. When you get a match, you put them together. And their first meeting is like a FaceTime kind of virtual thing. And there's a specific time limit.

that has to be followed, right? And then after that, they could decide if they want to move on and go on an actual date? Yeah, so if they both decide they want a second date, then I'll arrange that. It's also a virtual date, but it's way longer. It's like up to two hours and lengths, and they can share contact information during that date. So it seems to be like a process that though women are very grateful for. They really like that part because you don't have to. So unlike like an in-person date, it's kind of awkward.

You have to go to figure out, you like tell the person to their face whether or not you want to have a second date. Oh, yeah, no, no, no. It's much better. Even if you're regular dating, you should always do a face time first. You know, I mean, before you go and spend to actual physical time. It's safer. It's easier.

It's more efficient. And yeah, the ladies, they certainly love it. And so when you are, when you have like an intake for a cuck coming in, like what kind of questions do you ask him to matchmake him with somebody else? Like what what is that process like? Well, I ask some standard questions for everybody and a lot, you know, not so funny because like people would have just assumed that it's the cuckolding related desires or preferences that make it more most challenging to matchmake for people. And it's not. It is mainly the regular as dating preferences that you have that make it, you know, challenging or less challenging for matchmaking.

So like normal things. Like where do you want to be matched with people? Like your city or your country or what your state. Like and then what age range you want to date? Oh, just the fucking basics. Yeah. You're the regular fucking basics. Like do you want to have kids?

Yeah. Do you not want to have kids? Do you mind if someone smokes or vapes? Like these kind of questions, those are the most important, make it or break it questions. There's very few questions actually related to kink or cuckolding. Right. Yeah. And so really, this, a lot of it, and this is what a lot of guys don't really understand,

is that like a lot of it has to do with those basic regular dating questions or preferences that you have. No, I love that. You made a distinction because I think, like, you know, what I'm treating it as or asking questions as if you're hooking up people for a sexual experience and you're not. You're literally hooking people up that are going to maybe, you know, be matched in a way, like they know that they're going to be matched in a way where maybe their sexual preference are going to be very in line, right? But you're really still matching them to have a real relationship, which is actually smart. Because listen, if you're really

into fucking cooking, okay, and you really get off on your girl saying, you know, why not find somebody that would be open to that from the get-go. But it's like you're, so you're matching everything else as well because these are long-term relationship. Like, you're trying to find people like their partners. Absolutely. And I think that's where some guys especially get confused about my service because they, they just automatically think that I'm selling cuckolding experiences.

I'm like, no. I asked because I think you really cleared that up. And I think that that's really important. I was even asking in the wrong way. Because I'm even thinking it's coming from like, oh, this is like you're setting people up for just like a booty call. Right? Like, you know what I mean? But it's not that.

And I think it's better what you're doing. But I think it's better what you're doing. There's women out there who provide that service. You just go to a pro-john. They will absolutely do a cuckolding service for you. Right. And that's what you do if you really want to be cut. if you really want to have an actual loving cuckolding relationship, then you come to Venus Connections.

Yeah, no, I love that because this is like I said. And I think that this is a better situation, especially for a guy that really is into this, that he knows he's going to have a partner. You're going to match him on all the regular things that he needs to be matched on, regular matchmaking, right, which is always great to have somebody helping you with that. But then the benefit, the major benefit that you provide in your dating services, is that on top of all of that stuff you're matching them, you know for a fact that this girl's, like, down to go fuck other guys for you. So you don't have to have that awkward conversation.

I mean, I think that's pretty great. And that's, yeah, that's exactly it. That's what the guys tell me they appreciate about the program so much, is that they don't have to worry about bringing it up to her. Like, are you into this? And then her being, like, who knows what reactions she might have. And so, yeah. And then the women are, you know, they like the fact that these guys,

are actually serious about finding their long-term partner and somebody who, you know, you would want to spend the rest of your life with. And then they're happy about that. Who are these women? Like, what are they like? Because, I mean, you know who you are, and, like, you knew you specifically were, like, really wanted that kind of one side relationship. Like, are these, like, why would a woman seek this out? Like, I get why the guy would. Like, why do you think that the women are coming to you? Like, what kind of women are they? Like, Well, first of all, there's hardly any women. Yeah.

You're so honest. I love it. I mean, Well, let's get you some women. Historically, it's always been that way. It's unfortunate, but there's just so many more single guys looking for this kind of or interested in this kind of relationship than there are women. I mean, look, I didn't even know it was a thing.

Why didn't I know it was a thing? Because no guys had ever brought it up to me. Like you said, why did my guy friends never bring it up to me? Yeah. Guys are deathly afraid to talk to women about their cuckolding desires, okay? Definitely afraid. They will pretty much never write it on a dating profile. And if they do, they do it the completely wrong way.

Yeah. And so there's a bunch of women out there who don't even know that this kind of relationship exists. Yeah. And so there's over half of all the men in the United States are fantasizing about, cuckolding. Okay, that's a lot of men thinking about this kind of desire. And there's hardly, hardly any women thinking about it. Okay. Yeah. So with matchmaking, I knew I was like, oh, it's going to be so hard. There's just so many more guys than women. Yeah. You would think it would be the other way around because there's so much benefits of the ladies, right? But you just don't know

it exists. But, you know, it's interesting because I wanted to answer that question that you asked me, what is with these like what are we who are these women what what do they want out of yeah who would they be if they all knew about it so I I actually sent out a survey to the ladies in the program uh-huh and I asked them I said what is it about this a cuckolding relationship that really draws you in like that first hooked you in and the answers were interesting because it was the one-sided open relationship part That's the big draw for them Where they could have these

Yeah, it's just like me Where I could have those other experiences And my partner Still be monogamous to me And then I asked them another question I said now that you know more about it Or you're more experience with cuckolding Like what is it that you appreciate about it now

And it was still Number one answer was that it was a one-sided open relationship But there was a bunch of other answers That were really interesting They said that it was a lot about putting her sexuality first, celebrating her sexuality. But it was also that this was really about her. And that's where that female empowerment comes in.

And they realized that that kind of relationship results in that kind of next level, trust, love, and connection. And that was something they were not expecting. So I thought that was very interesting because Dr. Justin Lay Miller, when he did his study of Americans in their fantasies and their disasters, and their desires. He was talking about cuckolding, specifically men fantasize about cuckolding more from a BDSM perspective or focus, yes, than women do.

And I thought, yes, that makes a lot of sense. So women really do view a cuckolding relationship through the lens of a relationship. Yeah. Whereas men tend to view it through the lens of, VDSM and Kink. Right. And I was like, okay, this makes a lot of sense. For your research and how you're finding people, right?

Yes, yes. And so that's why everyone in the Venus Connections program has to do courses so that we're all on the same page and we understand that we're looking at things through slightly different lenses. And then we can appreciate that in how we approach each other. Listen, I mean, this is like a weird thing to sort of put out. there, but like, I'm thinking, like, oh, what kind of woman would this kind of release to be good for besides all the women you just spoke about? But I think it would also be really great for a woman who has,

like, you know, trust issues because, like, these guys really are the kind of guys that are never going to go out and cheat on you. Like, seriously, they really don't have that desire. I know it sounds stupid, but I'm really thinking, like, for you, like, you know, you can get those women because they could really trust these guys. These guys are the most, like, mononial. monogamous guys there are. I got to tell you, they don't have that desire for other women. They really do not. The reason why they don't is because they are getting so much sexual fulfillment.

Yeah. Through her activities with other guys. Exactly. And it's still involving her cuck husband in some way. He's getting so much fulfillment that he would like, why would I ever want to have sex with another woman? Yeah. And they just don't even have that in them. Like they're kink, they're turn.

Just like like a player guy, like a guy that does like to fuck a lot of women. Like he needs variety and pussy. Like that's just the way he's wired, right? Like he just needs that different kind of a thing. Whereas that guy that's into this really doesn't. And that's what I would always argue with with people that would come back and be like, oh, like would say in this situation if I was still on YouTube like Venus is so selfish. She just wants to fuck guys and she won't allow her guy to do that. Like, no, but he doesn't want to.

He really doesn't. So like for a girl that doesn't ever want like her guy to be with someone else and that's like her thing. Like, you know, this is like a perfect kind of situation. I do also think like younger women are more inclined to be ethically non monogamous nowadays, right? And more free and not want to settle down. So I think it's also great for younger women that don't want to be stuck with one guy. But you could have your guy. But maybe you don't want to see your guy with somebody else, right?

But maybe, you know, so it's kind of like. like great for her too. Oh, absolutely. There's so many benefits to this kind of relationship for women. It's just amazing if only women knew about it. Yeah. Do you get, let me ask for this because you do a whole podcast on it. This is like what you focus on.

This is what you're talking about all the time. And you've been doing podcasting for a long time too. Like, do you get a lot of women finding your show? Or do you, is it just the guys going and getting that information? Because I would think, like if a guy came to me and there are men out there that are bringing this up to their women. Like I do think, but not every woman is inclined to go out and do the research, but, you know, like, I would think maybe the women who have been approached by their guy to do this type of thing, go looking for information on it and find your show. Like, do you have a lot

of women that listen? I don't have a lot of female listeners. I think it's like 80-something percent of my listeners are men, which is not surprising. Yeah, of course. I just don't feel like there's a lot of engagement from women in general about like really researching these kinds of things, analyzing their desires and going out and researching them. Just not, that's just not something. And I think I say that because a lot of the online spaces where there's cuckolding content, it's like very rare to actually have women on there who are there for educational reasons. Like they're usually there selling content or something like that.

But I have had husbands who've brought it up to their wife who then say here, listen to this episode on the Venus Cuckoldress podcast. And I've had many men who have said that they've done that and it went well for them. That's what it's all about. No, that's what it's all about because whether I'm talking to a cuck or I'm talking to a guy with a panty hose fetish, you know, most people, like I am very much wired to investigate, Google everything, get to the bottom research something like fucking crazy if a guy told me about it, you know, but I know I'm not normal. Most people sort of aren't wired that way. So typically when I get a guy on who has like a panty-hose fetish or they're into something like this, I'm like, you know, you, most likely, if you're married to just like a regular girl who's not psychotic like me and like wants to

know everything and is super curious, you're going to have to educate her on this. Like that's what it's all about. And so like just like you said, these guys bringing their girls to, you know, understand it more to your show or, you know, episodes like this, that's what it's all about. Because I think any woman, like, and this is for the guys that are listening that wants to know how to bring it up. Like, you know, any woman, her first reaction is going to be like, what the fuck? Like, she's not going to have ever heard about it. She's going to think it means you don't love her. She's going to believe it's too good to be true. She's not going to believe that you're not going to be jealous, you know, and you're going to have to, like, really educate her. And you're not going to do this. You're

do that in one conversation, right? Yeah, yeah. I mean... Yeah, and unfortunately there's so much misinformation out there so that if she did go online, there are odds of her finding some really fucked up shit are pretty high. No, no, they have to go to podcasts. That's what we're talking about here. We're podcasters.

This is where people are going. No, it's why you were saying guys tell their girls to go there. Like, that's what you need to do. I have so many couples that, I mean, like, and I'm always like, oh, don't blame me. But they're like, oh, we have an open relationship now because of your... show like we listened and now we're doing it and I'm like okay well but you know that I think a lot and I think it's a great thing honestly that you know that's where people are going nowadays to educate themselves and sometimes you have to educate your partner so this is for like that cuck who might be

like listen what I love is that you offer a place for a cuck who's single to go and maybe find a match for himself but you know you also provide all this information for the cucks that are already in a relationship that want to bring it up to their partner because most likely it's not going to be an easy cell, right? But if you, if they start to hear like a woman talking about it, I think that's always super helpful. Like here you are a woman who's talking about it that likes it too, that's saying like, this is okay for you to do this. Like I felt the same way you did, right? And then you crossed over and it's cool. So I think that's super helpful. Because like how does a guy bring it? How do you tell guys to bring it up to his partner if he's already in a relationship?

Oh my God. Oh, I. I will tell you that most of them do it in a totally wrong way. Exactly. Most of them are just like, they'll just blurt out something like, I really want you to fuck a bunch of other guys or tell me my dick is small. And she's like, wait, what? Yeah. Where the fuck did this come from?

Exactly. Oh, my God, yeah. Yeah, it's not good. No, and I think that this is where having the female perspective out there is so important because nearly all of the content you'll find online is either male gays cuckolding

or you know female cuckolding content made for the male gays it's like not at all real life yeah it's not driven by women it's not in fact like women have different fucking cuckolding fantasies we have we look at this differently we get turned on differently

we have different buttons to be pressed than the guys. Like, it's just different. And that's something that, unfortunately, just doesn't get a lot of attention. But really, for any guys who want to bring this up to their wife, please, please, please, please, do it in a way that focuses on what a woman would get from it. And I'm not talking about random stranger dick. Like, that's not the carrot at the end of this dick that a lot of guys think that a lot of guys think that it is for us.

It's not. I don't give a shit about, you know, Joe's fucking dick next door. Yeah. I don't care. You know, I mean,

in fact, that's pretty scary for a lot of women and because we care, that's most of the risk that happens with casual sex. I mean, for us,

uh, the risk is for us, like our physical safety or health and safety, like, like every, our emotional safety, everything is not,

it's scary. So don't be talking like it's the fucking best thing in the world. This goes, fuck a bunch of random strangers, it's not. And so talk about the fact that it's a one-sided open relationship. And it's truly one-sided like you were talking about with Cucks actually not wanting to sleep with other women and know this proposal that I'm sharing with you about my fantasy

is not an invitation, secret backdoor invitation for me to fuck other women. Exactly. That's the big one. But also think about what I talked about earlier. what's the biggest draw for women, other than it being a one-side open relationship where she has that monogamous partner, is that this really is about celebrating her sexuality. And the empowerment that she feels when her sexuality is celebrated like that, that's something that you need to, you know, talk about when you bring up cuckolding, about those aspects of it.

I think you'll have more of a buy-in from her, more interest from her. if you actually bring it up in that way and not just I want you to fuck a bunch of other dudes so I can rank off yeah yeah yeah I always think like if a guy came to me and that was like his big kink and I need to like I just call like one of my old like booty call guys or my old boyfriend you know I mean like that's who I would fuck and like they'd be down like whatever you know like there's always like options for her to go and back uh last question like for the girl that maybe found this podcast because you know her guy just came to her with this like what would you say like some great questions for her? her would be to discuss or to ask her cock so that she could, you know, maybe give him that best cuck experience. Because you did talk in the beginning about how, like, you really need to know exactly what he is and then it becomes so easy, you know? Yeah. No, that's a great question.

So for the ladies, it's really important to first figure out if this guy, if your guy who's said, oh, I love cuckolding fantasies, you need to first figure out, is this something that you're just going to play with in fantasy land or does he want to actually do this for real? Yeah. And that's an important one to figure out right away. And then I would actually really talk to him about whether or not he feels any kind of embarrassment or shame or anything around these fantasies because that's where you're, that's the part that's going to be tricky to navigate, where he'll be, when he's horny, be really, really excited and to talk about it. But then, you know,

after the post-net clarity, he's just like, oh, no, no, no, I don't. don't want to talk about this and then withdrawn and shut down for a day after or something like that. That is not healthy. That's not something you want to be dealing with. That's when maybe I would bring in actual kink aware therapist or counselor to be able to come in and help around that part of it. But other than that, if he is good to go and he's like, yeah, I love this part of me. I don't feel ashamed about it. Like, let's play around with it.

then it is just about picking his brain and figuring out what it is that he likes. And one of the things that I did in the beginning with my first cuck boyfriend was I had him send me these like cuck porn means. So he would go out online and find like the hottest cuck porn, cuck porn caption mean things. And he would send them to me. And those told me a lot about what turns him on. And he would do that often. and I learned a lot that way because then I knew I kind of understood oh he likes that aspect of it oh he likes that aspect of it and then we could talk about it later and then I could be like trying little things that I saw in his you know words that were said and his cuck porn memes that he would send to me it was a great little way to kind of explore that together right and also like you said which I think is a great point because you know we're all kind of busy at some point in our lives that like half the time if you know all that's stuff. It's not like you need to be outdoing everything to get them off. Like there's little things you

could be doing on days where you're not fucking another guy that's still turning him the fuck on, right? Because you have all this information. And it's super easy, right? Little things could be super easy besides the act of actually doing it. Talking about an X lever. You know, there's a lot of different things that these guys get off on, right, that you could do. I do think, too, in a scenario where there's shame or someone hasn't started to do this in real life yet, I think role play goes a long way in the beginning. And a lot of people, I've had a lot of newbie couples on who have crossed over to the other side and they only did it as role play because their girl was very anti-doing it in real

life. But over time, that same girl after feeling comfortable role-playing started to get like more turned on by it, right? Like maybe it starts out. She's just doing it for her guy. She's role-playing. Then she's like fucking horny and then she's like double penetrating with the toy. And then she's like eventually feel so comfortable with it.

And I think what happens is she becomes exactly. like what you said, like more empowered in her sexuality and her desires and she's not ashamed of wanting more men or whatever that is, you know, then she starts to feel like she could actually do this in real life. So I think sometimes it takes a little bit of waiting around for your girl to get to that place because there is so much sort of shame put on women too for being very sexual and being into things. I think it's different now. Younger generation is much more open-minded. But in my day, if you said you want to fuck two guys at once, even though your guy might get hard, he might think you're a quote unquote slut, you know, so I think women had to

repress a lot of the things that they were into because of that. Yeah, absolutely. And for some couples, let's face it, like the sexual mental strip keys that I was talking about can be everything. It does not necessarily mean that she's got to be out banging other guys. Yeah, exactly. Like it can be so fun. The role play can be fun.

You can get some toys in with it. You can, you know, you can just have fun. with that and it not be actual what guys think as cuckolding where she's banging other guys, you can still have so much fun with that and that can be everything and that is totally okay and I highly recommend it. Yep. My last thing was I had a couple on and they were going to do hot wiping. They were ready to cross that line and do it in real life and they bought a fucking machine just to get them into it and they started enjoying the fucking machine so much and they started I think like at sending videos to and posting videos of them online and like with

other couples and they realized like that was enough for them and they decided to never cross the line and that's all they did and I was like what a great episode to have out there as an option for some people that maybe are afraid to cross that line or think maybe they never can well go that far like why not you know if you have a good enough imagination it's like the real thing right like you got the fucking machine you get your guy there you know they were even sending like I said videos to other people and that was enough for them and they were actually going to do it in real life but they decided not to so just like you Oh my God, I love that so much.

Yeah, right? I just think there's so many different options out there. Listen, Venus, I love this conversation. I think people are going to learn so much for you. If people want to, you know, go sign up for your website, give them that information. Your Venus Cuckled podcast is on any podcast app, right? They could just find that anywhere, right?

But give all your shout-outs to all your things, and I'll put links in the description. Yeah, so it's venus cuckledgist.com. That's where you'll find everything about the podcast, and I do private chats and stuff like that. And then if you are interested in a cuckolding relationship or FLR relationship, you can go to venusconnections.com. Okay. Now, I do have to say, like, I mean, because you're super hot and I was going to say, can you please send me a pick for my Patreon, right?

I'll get some, you'll send me some picks for my Patreon, but like you are very pretty. Are you on, are you one of the girls that someone can be matched with on your matchmaking service? Or do you do, do you keep that separate? I keep my options open. You know I'm going to be cherry picking. I was hoping that would be the answer. You're very honest that I was like, this bitch is going to tell the truth. Because I'm sorry, if you get like the hottest guy comes through your dating service,

you're going to be like, oh, I got to be professional. I can't take this guy for myself. Of course not, right? Of course not. Okay, good. So, yeah, so listen, when you see Venus, you're going to want to go sign up because you might get hurt. too, okay? That's a good selling point for you.

But anyway, thanks so much for calling back in. I loved talking like bigger picture with you. This was like super interesting. I know my audience is going to love it. Thank you so much. This has been a lot of fun. I'll put all your links in the description. Bye Venus.

And send me some picks, okay? Okay. All right. Awesome. Bye. Bye. Okay. Good news.

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