Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1158 - Kayleigh Cake Went from Stripping to Nude Modeling to Professional Porn
Episode Date: July 2, 2025Kayleigh Cake went from nude dancing, to nude modeling to mainstream porn and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she got into the adult entertainment bu...siness and why she decided to go down that path, how and when she decided to start selling naughty pics and then videos online, how and when she went from doing amateur porn to mainstream porn, how her boyfriend at the time felt about her doing porn, what she does to make sure she’s not taken advantage of in the business, her first porn shoot and how it was set up and what went down, her first girl/girl scene and how she felt about it afterwards, how and why she’s not dating anyone now, how her family found out about what she does and how they feel about it, how she vets the people she shoots with, how there are no more fluffers on set and why she wants to bring them back, the specific things she’ll do and not do in scenes, how and why her tattoos have been a problem in the business plus a whole lot more. You can find all Kayleigh's stuff here: http://linktree.com/kayleigh_cake **To see HOT pics KAYLEIGH CAKE plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://vb.health To get 10% off Drive AND LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY https://beducate.me/pd2516-anonymous Use code: ANONYMOUS to get an 50% off plus a 14 day money-back guarantee Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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reviews coming. It helps the show. Okay, today I have on Kaylee Cake. I love Kaylee Cake. I want her
to work for me one day. She's like, she's like the first young person that's like a hard worker. She's
like a successful bitch. I love her. She's got a such a good head on her shoulders. She has made a lot of
money and become very successful in the adult entertainment business. She started super young.
She talks about why she started and how she started. It's an interesting story. She was dating a guy
at the time. She got into videotaping herself and then selling nudes on Snapchat and then selling
like her videos on Snapchat and then eventually she got contacted by a professional company and she started
to do professional porn shoots and she talks about that she talks a lot about like how the scenes go down
how she feels about the sex that she does she's done girl on girl scenes she's done a guy on girl scenes
she talks about the differences of all of that she talks a lot about the business and how it works
She talks about how her family knows and how they found out and how they reacted.
Her sisters know, all her friends know.
She's a very open-minded girl.
She's a little workaholic.
That's why she does very well.
She's very successful.
She loves what she does.
She gives all her shoutouts at the end.
You could go check her out.
She's got an only fan still.
She also dances and she's got a lot of porn stuff out there.
So you'll be able to find her.
She's super hot.
She's got a great story.
and she really has a good head on her shoulders.
I loved her.
Like I said, I wanted her to work for me,
but she doesn't need to work for fucking anyone, okay?
She's a little entrepreneur,
and she's doing very well herself,
and I give her a lot of credit,
and I think you're going to as well
when you hear her story.
So I'm going to be right back on with Kaylee Cake.
Hey, Kaylee Cake.
Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast.
How are you today?
Hi, good.
How are you doing?
Good.
Listen, Kaylee, you sound super young.
I'm so glad I don't have to change your voice because you already sound kind of like
how I normally change girls' voices.
I try to make them sound like they're 15.
Guys like really young sounding girls' voices.
I should have changed mine because I sound like a dude, right?
But this is my real voice.
But you still sound young anyway, and the short story is you've been a stripper.
You do like nude modeling and stuff, right?
And you also are doing porn.
I know that you had to like change times today.
because you're like shooting some porn scenes in the desert,
which I'm a little jealous of not that you're doing porn scenes,
but that you're in the desert.
It's so beautiful.
That's a short story, right?
Yeah, yeah, that's the gist of things there.
I appreciate it too.
I think your voice sounds awesome either way.
But, yeah, I do kind of a mix of everything in the adult entertainment world,
even in just the regular entertainment world, too.
Yeah.
Oh, okay, cool, cool.
So let's get a snapshot, like I said, of where you're at now.
how old are you currently?
Yep, I'm 27 years old.
Okay, you're 27.
Now, how long have you been doing all this stuff?
Like, what age did you start into, you know, getting into the adult entertainment business?
Even when it was just like stripping, because I would consider that.
Yeah.
Right?
Oh, yeah.
I kind of started kind of all of it with, like, I did amateur adult film.
And I did start stripping.
And then nude modeling all began when I was 19 years old.
Wow.
19, all of it, all the porn, the stripping, the modeling, all at once at 19.
Yeah, and it was a lot more amateur, like just, I made videos with friends and with my partners
at the time, but it definitely all started getting the ball rolling for sure at 19.
And then within the next few years, I started doing mainstream.
Right.
Okay, cool.
So, Kaylee, what's going on in your 18-year-old, like, world that gets you into all of this
when you're 19?
I mean, were you just always like super horny, very curious, really open-minded?
You know, what made you make that move so early on?
Yeah, I get asked that a lot, actually.
And, you know, for the most part, you already said it.
I have always been extremely open-minded, very in tune with my sexuality.
Not always as much on the super horny side as just wanting to be free.
I'm a nudist.
I always love dancing.
I love being sexual.
I love expressing that too.
So I've just had more of a nature of kind of those regards.
And of course, I do have an ailment.
I am handicapped.
I have an autoimmune disease.
So I really did have to get my career going just to making money for myself at a young
age and just kind of be in control of my own schedule for when I need to go to the hospital
and make sure I pay for all my medical bills.
Yeah.
It's a kind of disease, the autoimmune disease, that you have to go to the hospital,
consistently, like within a year, like a couple times or something to get worked on or whatever?
I mean, could you say what it is?
Is it at mass or something?
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, yeah, no worries.
So right now, basically how they, it's kind of to explain it how they classify it is, I have an overactive adrenal gland.
Uh-huh.
So my body produces too much cortisol.
And that just kind of affects me in many different ways.
I have extremely low blood pressure.
So I do faint a lot.
I do get sick to my stomach a lot.
so I'm very, very sensitive to food and to temperature.
I am, well, aside being sensitive to temperature, that will make me faint pretty easily, too.
And then I actually, I'm about to get a pacemaker inserted into my nervous system to help with my
stomach and my bladder, which gives me my handicap.
And it's all just from like overactive cortisol from like a hormonal imbalance.
So I've been dealing with it my entire life.
I just really sick in and out of the hospital, pretty much every.
other month. I have to go to the hospital doctor appointments every couple of weeks. But, you know,
my medical team has been awesome and so amazing. You know, even for me being this young, we're already
on the right track for everything to make me feel better for right now and for when I'm older too.
So they've just been great, but it's been very expensive. So I've been so thankful for my job,
for being able to afford this and for it being flexible enough to when I have to go get my surgeries done.
it's just been amazing and I'm very blessed for that.
Yeah, for sure.
Because imagine the regular person who doesn't have that kind of cash or maybe doesn't have
insurance that also has a nine to five job.
I mean, this could be a real serious problem that you would not think of.
So I think it's like really interesting.
You know, it's good that you pointed that all out because it can really, you know,
it obviously really affects your life, but you have set it up in a way that you could
tend to that and live your life at the same time, which is pretty amazing.
that you figure it out so young, you know?
Yes.
Yes, absolutely.
Yep.
And so.
It's been very empowering.
Yeah, of course.
So,
okay,
so you're like 19 years old now.
You just start like videotaping shit with like your boyfriend.
Are you in a relationship right now real quick?
Now I am not.
No.
Okay.
So when you were 19 though,
were you dating somebody and were you like filming it then?
Is that where like the the filming stuff started?
Yeah,
it is actually.
Yep.
It was definitely more my partner's idea.
And I wasn't really sure at first, but, you know, I was kind of like curious about it.
So I was interested in it.
So, you know, I let it happen.
And once I watched it, I was like, oh, my gosh, I want to do this again and again.
And I want to make something out of it.
And he honestly was completely on board and he liked it a lot.
We were together for years, but just, you know, we did end up just having completely like,
I travel a lot and he's a home body.
So we did definitely go our separate ways there.
But, you know, I definitely had the support to just do the sex work and do what I needed to do also to pay my bills.
And he let me be very independent.
And, you know, that helped me out a lot too.
So I was very appreciative of that.
Yeah, but what was on the table when he brought it up?
Like you were like, he was the one that brought it up and wanted to.
Is it just like, let's film ourselves like fucking?
Or was it like, let me let's film ourselves fucking and put it on.
online or something?
Like what was the ass in the beginning?
Actually, no.
It wasn't the most appropriate.
We were really,
really young.
And of course,
I completely forgave him too,
but he had already filmed me without me knowing.
I had a boyfriend that tried to do that and I saw the fucking camera.
I'm like,
are you,
it's like right there.
Like,
you're so fucking stupid.
I didn't see it at all.
I was doing the regress cowgirl.
I did not see it.
But he did show me.
He showed me right afterwards, you know, and I was like, oh, my gosh, you what?
But then when he showed me.
So he didn't ask you.
Sorry.
You told the story wrong.
He didn't ask you to tape you.
He taped you without your knowing and then showed you.
And then he showed it to me.
And then he asked if we can continue.
And then I was like, well, that one was really good.
So, so yes.
But, you know, I have to say, I did really.
I loved when I saw it, I was like, oh, my God.
I did awesome.
So, like, I can't even be that mad.
I was like, can I use this?
Can I sell this video?
He's like, yeah, absolutely, you can.
I was like, okay, cool.
So what did you do with the video?
I ended up, that's pretty much right around when I began to selling content online
and, like, using Snapchat was more popular at first before only fans.
Oh, interesting, really?
A lot more popular.
Yeah, people definitely used, they called it private Snapchat, but just regular Snapchat.
You just sell content that way through text.
You could sell.
People were selling on Snapchat?
Oh, yeah.
Oh, definitely.
So, like, clueless.
You'd think I know everything because of my show.
I never heard of this.
But, okay, so you were doing that even before your guy taped you.
You were already into the nude, like taking pictures and selling stuff yourself.
Anyway.
Yes, I was already doing the nude modeling.
And I was already definitely selling nudes.
But I was not doing anything.
the pornographic side
like it even took me a while to even
not be topless anymore because I started
just topless dancing only
topless photo shoots then
eventually it took me
about a year or two to migrate to
being bottomless too
from that so it was more around like 1920
it did take me some time
but then from being bottomless to the porn
that was a very very fast
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around like 1920. It did take me some time. But then from being bottomless to the porn, that was a very,
very fast.
Yes.
Switch up.
Right.
You just bring somebody next to you.
Right.
But the transition from Topless to totally nude was the big thing for you.
And I could see why that would be a much bigger jump for sure.
Yes.
Yes.
That definitely was.
And listen, most, I mean, you know, stripping became very popular when I was younger.
It was the type, you know, it started to become very mean, sheen.
Like, every girl started to do it.
It was like the thing to do.
And, but it was very rare that you had, like, most clubs were all had G-strings.
because they couldn't sell alcohol if it was totally nude, right?
So most of the clubs had bought it were always just topless.
But so you went from working in a toopless club to working in a totally nude club or like
the club that you worked in, it was like you could do either.
So what I, yeah, I ended up doing is I went from topless and then I eventually went to totally
nude.
And you could do either or really where technically where I worked.
It wasn't just strictly, just fully nude.
And then it wasn't until I moved to VATES.
biggest, there is a club here that is alcohol and fully nude.
It's the only one on the West Coast.
Yeah, it is. Palomenos, which is awesome too.
I believe it's like grandfathered in, so it surpasses that so they can have the full nudity
and their drinking license too, since they're a much older established, well-known club.
Oh, that's how they got in because I always thought that you couldn't be, but they're like
the one club that have both.
They probably like kill it.
Oh yeah, I'm sure they do.
Yeah, they've been around for a while too in Vegas.
So I know there is like that one.
I think there's some that are like more northeast kind of closer to Canada that also do the same thing.
But yeah, you're totally right.
For the most part, you cannot have the full nudity and the alcohol at all.
And it's like the same when you're on set for any type of porno.
You cannot be under the influence of anything and then perform.
Yeah, of course.
Let me ask you this.
We'll get to like the, you know, the professional point.
But like, what made you make that jump from?
Oh, I'm keeping my bottoms on.
I'm only doing topless everything to I'm taking the bottoms off.
Was it something like, oh, I just want to make more money and you made more money if you were nude?
Or did you want to, you know, just go there because, you know, you just wanted to?
Like what was the, what happened that made you make that choice?
Yep.
So that one, to really just completely start going that full direction, I'd say was really more money, like what you said to.
Yeah, that's okay.
Yeah, you had a problem.
You were your problem fucking solver.
You needed money for, you know, this disease that you had.
Yeah, too.
And I love investing as well, too.
I'm always looking at ways to make more money regardless there.
And, you know, this is during the time when only things.
fans have just started very, very, very new and just started becoming popular.
And so what I did is I started just selling kind of like bit by bit.
First, I already had fully nude already taken of me because I've been doing photo shoots
for a long period of time, even before selling the content.
I have done photos shoots.
And so I already had so many photos I could use.
So I kind of started out slow where I just showed myself in a bikini at first and then
like a couple weeks go by and then I show myself
topless on there and I'd advertise this
and like never before seen
you know online topless
and then what really dropped
the ball and I got a ton of subscribers
is when I announced I was going to be showing
you know pussy for the first time
and that really
yeah and it was good and
that's I kind of had a kind of
business plan in my head where I wanted
it set up in a way to where I could
graduate from one thing to the other
to increase that revenue
And then even after that, it took me a while to start posting the porn, too.
Because I did want to kind of just, you know, not...
Give it all up in one time.
Right, exactly.
It was much better for me to make money the way I did and get the subscription the way
I did that way, too.
It worked out really well.
Yeah, no, it was super smart.
I had a girl on.
I forget what her name was, but she was like some Mormon church girl virgin until she was
married kind of girl.
And then she got into doing only fans and just a girl, girl.
stuff and she was very covered up for many years on her only fans. And then eventually she did more and
more. And she said the same thing. Like it just blew her the fuck up because it was like the big
tease, right? Think about it. She had all these people like you. Like you had all these people like they're
wondering, you know, you're keeping them in suspense for so long and then all of a sudden you take it off like
I could just imagine. And then all of a sudden after time now you're showing them more. And it is a smart thing to do.
if this is the way you're making your money.
Right.
It is.
And of course, I always say to always do whatever you're comfortable with doing.
But if you're able to kind of build it like that, and if you want to, then I highly
recommend it.
Right.
Now, you did say at some point, like very early on you're like, it wasn't really, I wasn't
very horny.
Like I was just doing it more like all this time.
Like, are you like the type of person, right?
If we're just talking sex, you're like, as somebody who gets turned on?
by like guys looking at her that guys buying her stuff are you like an exhibitionist or you a voyeur and
like to see yourself on those videos or all of the above or was this just like a job for you?
Oh, that's a really good question actually. So I'm a huge exhibitionist and nudist of course and I love
seeing me on camera. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah, you're absolutely right there. But it's funny. I'm I'm quite
asexual. I guess my friends say dummy sexual. Yeah. Otherwise. I'm. Otherwise. I'm. I'm, I'm actually. I'm
I don't I don't get horny.
I mean, when I do fall in love, then that's okay, yes, I want to be like, go fucked on the balcony and every position all around the house.
I become a lot more of a nympho when I'm with someone that I do generally care about and have that bond with.
But otherwise, I'm really just more money sexual just for my job.
I find.
You got to wait.
We need to come up with a good term for that money sexual is like kind of is like a funny concept.
but there's probably like a much more clever way to say it.
That's like,
oh yeah,
I'm sure.
Wait,
so like when you're doing your porn scenes,
like are you just turned on because you know you're making the money or you're not
turned on at all and but you just are a great actress?
Oh no.
I would say I'm definitely turned on.
So it's,
it's funny.
I'm so nervous before a scene.
I get just like really anxious and kind of jittery.
But the moment we actually get into it,
it's a completely different.
ball game. It just becomes more my nature, definitely more my realm of things, where I definitely can get
into it and focus on the actual act itself and what it is and not just that it's a job or even though
it's like a character. Like you get into character and you like fully immerse yourself into it. Yeah,
I get it. Yeah. But for what it is, though it feels good. So I get into it either way. And I definitely
enjoy it. So I can't say that like when I'm doing it, it doesn't turn me on. Because when I'm actually
in the act, it does make me horny. And so that does help. And then my nervousness completely goes away
and it turns into definitely more hornyness for sure. Right. Oh wait. Real quick, like I didn't even
ask you before. Like I know you were dating some guy, but like do you do girls and guys? Are you just
strictly into dudes? Like how do you identify yourself sexually? Yeah. I do a boy girl and I do
girl girl i haven't done as much girl girl because i'm just not as experienced with it yeah i'm trying to
get more involved in that side of things to girl girl hasn't been as popular mainstream as it used to be
but it yeah which is interesting to me too because on places like only fans are just like regular
content creators that aren't necessarily doing mainstream their girl and girl collaborations do really
well too. So I still love to do photo shoots with other girls too, even if I don't do as much
mainstream, specifically with a girl. So, and you know that because you're not getting hit up to do
a lot of girl, girl scenes for mainstream. That's how you know that it's not as in demand.
Right. Yeah. And that's just been discussed to just amongst other people within the industry.
Do they say why they think that's the case? Do you know? Do what?
Do they discuss why they think that's the case?
Is it because people are going to only fans for that?
Is it because like there's so many other kings and stuff that people are into that,
a little more into that?
Like, why do they, have you heard why they think that is in less demand?
It's interesting to me.
Yeah, no, that's a good question.
You know, it seems like they don't even really know themselves.
Yeah, interesting.
They just know that it gets, you get paid a lot less doing girl on girl.
It's not nearly the same amount of money as a boy girl scene would be.
Wow.
So, yeah.
it's usually like about half the amount of money.
So that is one thing.
And then I guess it's just because it's not in demand.
There's a lot less companies that shoot girl on girl,
where there's way more companies that shoot the boy girl and even like boy, boy.
Like gay porn is a lot more popular than lesbian porn is.
Which is so surprising to me because I love lesbian porn and most of my guy friends love lesbian porn too.
I never really understood that.
Yeah, right?
because yeah you always hear girls on TV talking like oh the only kind of porn I watch is lesbian porn you know and like just like you said right
And but yet I wonder maybe it's because guys are just like maybe hornier and go to porn more than women. I don't know
I mean and maybe it's because they want to see like the you know the com shots and everything I don't know but let's move on to your story
Let's go back so you're stripping you gradually like do more and more your boyfriend and you are like videotaping yourself and now do you start selling
that on Snapchat first
before you get into
like, you know, doing the amateur stuff
on your own before you get into doing
it professionally?
Yeah, I did
more on Snapchat and then even
like places like Messenger,
really any time someone would
hit me up
for that type of content, which guys
always will, always do. It doesn't matter
if you have my type of job or
not. A lot of girls get
asked for nudes or
videotapes of themselves from guys.
Right.
You know?
And I happened to have it and be in that type of business.
So I was willing definitely to sell it.
And so, yeah, I did more so then.
And then when I decided to do OnlyFans, we started making a lot more to.
You and your guy, because he was the person that you were in the, all the stuff
with just him and OnlyFans at that point?
Yeah.
At that point in the beginning.
Yeah.
And then it was all my ideas, too, that I'd come up with.
as well.
And so, which was like, cool, because it was more his idea at first, but then I started coming up
with, like, outfit ideas and just, like, themes and stuff we could do.
So it kind of became a little bit more fun for us, too, which was nice, so.
And now, was he the type of guy, like, a lot of guys on my show where he, like, enjoyed and
got off on knowing that other guys were, like, totally into you and you were his girl?
Or was he just doing it because, you know, it paid some of your guys?
bills.
The latter for sure.
For sure.
He was definitely,
I don't want to say
the jealous type
because he let me do
what I wanted to do.
And he was like
kind of different about to you.
Sometimes he like really genuinely
enjoyed what I do too.
And some days he absolutely hated it too.
He definitely kind of went between
the two emotions of it.
But yeah,
it did pay for all the bills.
So,
you know.
So you didn't stop.
he never left you because of it, but it did create issues at some point, I would assume.
Oh, yeah.
Definitely.
And I'd say that's probably more so why we ended up parting ways now, too.
And we did end up being greatly different from each other regardless to, besides, you know,
like I travel and he's a homebody.
I'm very extroverted.
I'm very, he's very introverted.
And then with my lifestyle.
Yeah, you're open-minded and free and he's, you know, more like,
the jealous type. He probably doesn't, he wants someone more like him, which I get. And I think it's
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you know, and try to force yourself to be okay with something that you're not. You know,
obviously he wasn't. He tried probably as hard as he could because he loved you, right? And you guys
were in this long-term relationship. But eventually, it's probably best that you guys split because
this, you enjoy what you do. And it is who you are, right? Yeah. Yeah. And you went and you went and you were
going further in it, not like you were never, you were, you know, you were on the trajectory to go more so
into it than to pull back for him, right? So when did that?
whole turn to doing it professionally
happen? Like did someone come to you?
Did you seek it out yourself?
Yeah. Actually,
someone came to me that
he often works through TeamSkey
which is one of my favorite
companies too. And I was just
so excited when he reached out to me to do
he wanted to do a photo shoot and then a scene
together in Las Vegas. Okay.
And that's actually what helps me even
encouraged me to move to Vegas.
Because once I got there, I did
schedule myself other shoots.
and other films and I found it was so lucrative too.
So that's really what helps me get more into mainstream.
And then I was kind of stubborn at first.
I didn't want to sign with an agency quite yet.
I had some issues with like some scam agencies even at first.
Oh, really?
First getting started.
Yeah, but luckily I was able to tell, you know, pretty quick which ones were legit or which ones were not.
So that that kind of did help that I already had a little bit of just the familiarity within the feel.
Yeah, but imagine the women that don't, you know, like I was talking to you before we even got on the call and I was saying like I could tell I literally like if you ever get out of porn come work for me because I could tell you're like fucking on the ball, smart bitch.
Like they don't make people like you.
Okay.
Like I could just tell you're that successful person.
And everything you're saying only just furthers what my feeling was about you.
But like, you know, so you're like just super smart.
and could tell that kind of stuff.
Like, you know, what do you say to other girls?
Like, how do you spot that shit?
Because I think that that's a big thing that happens a lot of the time,
especially in that world for young girls when they're getting into it.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, definitely.
And I've been scammed before, too.
So, you know, I've always just learned from my mistakes.
Yeah.
That's the biggest thing.
And to be completely aware, it's totally okay to ask as many questions as you need.
Yeah.
Always ask for references.
Who have they worked with before?
Take a picture of their ID, you know, as much as they need to see the girl's ID, the girl needs to see their ID and have all their information as well.
The biggest thing, too, is I don't quite know how I feel about checks.
Checks can be, like, try to take it in cash if you can.
Even the transactional ones like Venmo cash up, they can always cancel those or say it was like a scam afterwards.
You just got to be so careful in this industry to where you just got to know what you're doing.
And if they ever are like, no, I don't want to show you my ID or I don't have references or I don't want to pay you this way.
I have to write a check, you know, unless it's like, unless you're working for someone like browsers that's very, very, very, very reputable.
And they would never tell you no for any of those things.
You know, if they tell you no, then you just move along.
Because there's no reason that they don't need to supply all that for you, you know, for your own safety as well.
because all professionals, I've learned that I've done mainstream,
all professionals will totally be willing to work with you on that.
Absolutely.
And when you were first approach,
it was from a company that you had known about, right?
Like you mentioned the word, Tienski.
What was the name of it?
Yeah, so he actually works for Tinski,
and he does his own photography and porn on the side too.
I already knew I had followed him for a while and already knew who he was.
and so I was so eager to be able to work with him and just to get that started.
And he really did help me.
He taught me, you know, how you break up scenes and how much work it really is too and how hard
it is, but how different it is.
It's not like normal sex whatsoever.
It's totally a job completely.
As fun as it can be, and I'm thankful for that.
It is hard work.
So he really did show me that just with, you know, five minutes on, five minutes off
and every angle and every position and everything.
And that helped tremendously, though.
It got me ready for when I started working with other mainstream companies.
So what was that first experience?
Like, you know, he hits you up.
He says, I wanted to shoot with you and everything.
Like, walk me through that first time.
Yeah.
Oh, gosh.
It was a few years ago now.
So I'm trying to remember exactly.
I'm sure he probably messaged me.
It was probably on.
Instagram or on Twitter.
And I had already done quite a bit of amateur porn as well.
So he was probably also on my OnlyFans.
I'm sure he'd already seen a lot of my content.
And he was just trying to find new models to work with and to get started.
He was trying to build for his own roster as well.
And as was I too, I definitely needed more professional-looking content.
And it looked phenomenal too.
So yeah, he messaged me and I told him that I'd fly out to Vegas.
and come work with him.
And yeah, I ended up, I think, working with him two different times, I believe.
But he did actually introduce me to some people here in Las Vegas
and helped me move to Las Vegas too.
So I was very, very thankful for all that.
But when he flew you out that first time to do it, like was it just a photo shoot
where you were just modeling?
Were you having sex with him or somebody else?
Like, okay.
But he was not only the guy producing it, he was also like,
storing in it? Yes, and that's a big thing too that I like to tell people. I'm glad that you brought
that up. A lot of the males within the industry, most of the males, they are the photographer,
they are the producer, they are the director, and they are the talent. Yeah, that's interesting.
The men do so much work. They really do. Yeah. And so I found that a lot because there's not as many guys
in the industry too. They are doing all the above. And he's a young, super young, handsome man.
it was so impressive to see him be able to do everything.
And he works with quite a few different girls that are pretty big names too.
So, you know, his networking is just phenomenal also.
Right.
So you lucked out that he was the first guy to contact you.
Plus, you already knew him.
You knew his work.
How was the first scene with him?
Because this is kind of like the first time you're having, as a demisexual, right?
You know, the first time you're like fucking someone with the cameras, that you're not
in a relationship with, right?
Like, how was that for you?
Yeah.
Well, for me, he wasn't necessarily the first one I've been like that with.
Oh, okay.
So that did kind of help, yeah.
So in your amateur experience, you were already doing stuff like that with other guys?
Yes.
Oh, okay.
So, yeah.
And so I definitely already had made that disconnection pretty well from filming.
Yeah.
So being in a completely brand new, I guess, state with someone I've never met before, though, with all of these cares around me, that made me nervous.
And I wasn't like scared or worried.
But I was like, how am I going to do?
Am I going to do good?
I need to make sure I perform my best.
Like, I was nervous for my own performance than the situation.
But he, like, was very, very comforting, gave me a hug beforehand, explained everything.
And he knew I was brand new to that kind of setup.
So he eased me into it for sure.
But it helped prep me to know, you know, it's a lot of hard work.
You're going to be out of breath.
You're going to do all these positions you don't normally quite do in your regular sex life.
That's just for the camera.
And it's really a five minute on to 10 minute on off kind of ordeal.
So, you know, just be, you know, yeah, prepared for that, which, yeah, a lot of people probably don't realize how much.
work it actually is there.
No, I would think that if I'm watching like a fucking scene on porn that, you know,
they fucked, right, the whole time.
And they just taped it and then took different, you know, parts of the reel to create it.
But you're saying they're filming it for five minutes and then you have to stop and then
you go back and then they're filming it for another five minutes and then you stop and then
go back, right?
That's like what actually is going down.
Yeah, yeah, just about that.
And sometimes it's even 10 minutes on, 10 minutes off and you just do that for a couple of
hours usually.
So, yeah.
Yeah.
And so walk me through your first girl, girl,
uh,
scene that you did.
But was that something new or did you do that also, you know,
like when you were doing your own stuff?
Yeah.
I really more or less just dabbled it because I haven't really had the
opportunity with,
uh,
mainstream to be able to do it.
So I did do it when I was doing amateur porn.
And that was even more nerve wrecking for me.
But it was a lot more fun.
experience too.
How come more fun?
Well, the way the guys were reacting
to it was a lot more
positive, you know?
Yeah, that was definitely
they were enjoying themselves
a lot more than, even though I get
a lot of good feedback and a lot of
views from my boy girl, the girl
girl did tremendous.
It still surprises me that
girl, girl mainstream isn't as popular anymore
because it did really good.
And that was, honestly,
one of the times I've been the most turned on before in my life.
And even afterwards, she was like, so if you ever want to film again, please, please do.
Even like, it's been, gosh, about a year and a half now.
And when we hung out just like a week or two ago, she's like, well, I got a pool now.
So if you want to make content by the pool together, I was like, oh, girl, say less.
But yeah, that makes me even more nervous, though, because, you know, she's a beautiful lady.
so and why what what about it makes you nervous because you're like you just get more because you're kind of like more into it and so therefore you're more nervous because it's more like not just work it's a little bit more like actually really attracted to her you like her right exactly and we do it too more as like friends too it's a little bit like less work for us even though she lets me sell it she doesn't do anything with the videos she just wants to film with me which is really nice too very flattering
So, yeah, it's a lot more personal for us.
So that's definitely why I'm way more into it than with boy girl.
It feels a lot more like work or just something I got to do.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Now, should I just assume that by the time you got into mainstream that you weren't with your boyfriend yet,
or were you still with him during that time?
I was still barely with him.
It was very, very often on, kind of honestly hard to say.
Yeah.
Not really.
Not anymore.
And then you moved, so you were like a far.
I did.
Right.
Yeah.
And he never, he would still say I was girlfriend, his girlfriend, but he would never come
visit me.
Or if I was there, he would never have me go.
Like when I'd visit my family, back where he lived, he would never have me go visit him
or anything at his house.
I'd go say hi to him.
Like at dinner, we'd go to the movies.
But we even stopped sleeping together for the last couple years that I had moved away.
So I don't, I don't think either.
one of us were really involved anymore.
So we just drifted.
Sometimes when you're with someone for a long time,
I mean,
rarely in real life do you break up one day and never talk to them again.
You know,
not when you're with someone for many,
many years, right?
It's always like back and forth and stuff.
Like that's because it's hard to get away from someone,
even if you know they're the wrong person.
You know what I mean?
You keep going back and that's like just the normal ways.
But by the time you were doing it,
you were basically like knew you guys weren't going to be together anymore.
Yeah.
Oh, definitely.
Yep.
Now, how about your dating life now? And since you and him weren't together, right? Like,
how does that go for you when you do go out with guys and, you know, when do you tell them what you do?
Or do you to only go out with guys that know ahead of time because you're like out and proud?
Like, you know, what is your dating life like?
Yeah. So I definitely only typically go out with my friends since I am, I guess, a little bit more on the demisexual side.
and my friends already absolutely know what I do.
Yeah, but I really don't go on too many romantic dates at all.
I haven't had any interest in dating whatsoever.
I've been so motivated on work and just getting his pacemaker done.
Yeah, and so I've had like some guys try to pursue me.
But with my job too, I'm sure you know, the type of guys that sometimes approach me.
And so it's not been the best.
And so I've definitely just kept to myself.
I live alone, just me and my cats.
And yeah, I just focus on going to the gym and working and not scout in my hobbies.
And that's about it.
No, yeah, I don't really, I don't have a sex life outside of work at all.
Right.
But maybe you don't need one because you are having sex in your work life, right?
I mean, it's not like you're not getting fucked for six months, right?
True.
Exactly.
Exactly.
And of course, it's not the same.
Right.
But are you having orgasms ever when you work?
Or do you jerk off to get orgasms?
Like how are you getting your orgasms?
Yeah, it's very, very rare.
I actually can come during a scene because I'm just so focused.
Yeah.
So usually I just, you know, masturbate myself.
That's when you get your release, your real release.
Like, I don't know.
You need that every now and then, a real orgasm.
Yeah, exactly.
And, you know, and every once in a while, too,
I miss the intimacy and the affection of, you know, having an actual sexual relationship,
a sexual relationship, not necessarily a relationship with someone that you just care about,
whether it's a friend or a partner.
You know, I do from time to time, I long for that.
But at the same time, I keep myself so busy doing like really fun things that, you know,
I really do sometimes just enjoy my own company and don't really feel.
the need to try to get myself involved in any of that, especially when it's not the right time
or with like the right person either. I'm pretty good at, you know, making that decision for
myself. Listen, you're obviously capable of having a long-term relationship. You were with one guy
for a long time. You're demisexual. You prefer that, right? But you're also a businesswoman.
And you're like, you're like a boss bitch. Like, you're doing great. Like, you're killing it.
And you're super young. And this is the time in your life to do this kind of stuff for yourself.
And if you could get yourself like really financially in a place, which I think you maybe already are, where you're so secure that you don't have to pick a guy for those, you know, for to help you with that and everything.
You know what I mean?
And you could just pick a guy because he's like a fucking good guy, you know, like you're not, you're, you're going to be doing yourself some good waiting.
Like there's, you're still really super young.
Your eggs are still good if you want to have kids one day.
You know what I mean?
It's not like you're getting like you got to make any decisions.
when I was growing up like people, women got married so young.
I never understood it, you know, because I was like not ready for that in my 20s at all.
I mean, you're still young.
And I think like right now, you know where your head is at.
And like I always say, like my favorite saying is know thyself.
And I think sometimes that's harder for some people than others.
But it sounds like you're very in tune with yourself and what's going on.
You know what you fucking want.
Right now it's not the first priority.
Sometimes you miss it.
And you know what?
When you start missing it more.
than not, that's when you'll go out and find somebody, and you'll find somebody then.
You know what I mean? You'll know your time, and it's just not now, but you're,
it's not like you're doing nothing. You're like building your whole brand and your whole
business, right? Do you see your Kaylee cake as a brand, right?
Oh yeah, definitely. Yes, and thank you so much for that. That was right on the nose,
because absolutely I am right now just working on myself, my brand, of course, my job, but making
sure that I myself
unstable as a person. I want to make sure that I have
a house. I have a great car
for myself. You know, I just
want to make sure that I'm good. And I know
that, and I'm
good right now too, but I know
that in those moments,
that's when things fall in the place where those
people just naturally come to you
and find you. You know,
I'm never out searching for that.
And I luckily know exactly
what I want. And I'm not picky
either. I want a good, respectful
man. And that's what you're going to get. I know that will. Yeah, exactly. I know that will come
when the universe decides to bring that to my way too. But it will most likely because you're so
self-aware and you're just so honest with yourself. Like it most likely will come the minute you want it.
You know what I mean? That's how I've always been like, I don't know. A lot of times they'll be like,
oh, you find people like when you least expected or when you're not looking. I'm like,
not really. For me, I've never found anyone when I'm not looking. Because when I'm not looking,
I'm really not looking. I'm not like secretly hoping I meet somebody.
I'm like really not interested
but when I am no I like that person just shows up
it's like I make those decisions myself and I'm very clear
about that and but I think a lot of people aren't and that's why you hear
those stories of people like find it when they're not looking or they're trying
so hard and they can't find anything because a lot of people are just like
fucking confused but you're really not you know exactly what you want and when
you do turn your light on you will find a good guy but I do think it is hard
listen like when you're going to be sitting across from guys and you're going to be like
oh this is what I do and stuff that you're going to have to weed out but like
Like you have such a, it sounds like you have such a good head on your shoulders that you'll know the right guy when he comes and he'll show up.
But let me just ask you this.
So like your family, do they know what you do?
I know all your friends do.
I mean, you're obviously like all over Instagram.
I can see your face and everything.
So like I'm assuming like your family knows about everything you do.
I don't know.
Yes.
Yeah.
They do.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And my mom, she just passed away only a couple of years ago.
but for dancing she would help me pick out outfits and recommend me dancing with like scarce she'd
recommend like old 70s music to dance to oh she'd always say you know she knew oh yeah she knew she knew
she said she would never do anything of that sort herself yeah she as much as she loves dancing
she can never do the nudity but she says i'm my own person i'm a different generation and as long
as i'm happy healthy and safe and making money that's all that mattered to her so she's still very
encouraging while still letting me know that was not what she would ever do and that's that's I respect that
a lot and now my father he is my financial advisor so he helps me invest all of my money
he has been for the past few years yeah and he doesn't ever need to know details doesn't want to
know details but he is very you know he's a smart man he's very aware but he wants to make sure
my money is going where it should be too so I'm very appreciative of him and he's he's wonderful
Well, he must be happy as a man to know that he has a very like independent, strong-minded
daughter, right?
You know, it's better.
Yeah, because he knows you could fucking take care of yourself, right?
Yes.
He always tells me all the time.
He says out of all of his daughters, because he has four of us.
He says, I'm the one he never has to worry about ever.
And I'm so appreciative of like just that it shows me that he respects me too as much as I respect
him.
And we have such a good relationship.
We really do.
Yeah, that's great.
And now you're, and so did your mom and dad find out because you told them?
Did they find out by accident?
Or did you just have that great relationship with them that you were like straight up from the beginning?
Yeah.
So my mom, I actually told.
And then my dad, I went to go tell.
And it took me longer to tell my dad.
But when I went to go tell him, he goes, Kaley, with the gifts you've been giving me on my birthday,
if I was saying Christmas, I knew exactly what you started doing.
And I was like, oh, my God.
But yeah, and he told me that my sister just she never, I have two step and then my blood
who's like, my sister's my best friend.
And he goes, your sister would not tell me when I asked her.
She kept her mouth sealed.
Oh, good.
She's moral.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yes.
So what is your sister?
I mean, is she like the complete opposite than you, but she totally accepts it and that works?
Yeah.
She, yeah, she completely accepts it.
She is so funny, actually.
She is like, she told me the other day, it cracked me up.
She said, you know, we have dad's money.
We have mom's money, but there's nothing like sissy's money.
And I was like, oh, my gosh.
You got the most money of them all?
I'm the most financially, I want to say responsible.
Yeah, yeah, that's funny.
You really try hard to save.
Yeah.
And, you know, and when she needs help too, I always have her.
If she needs help with bills or anything, she's a very.
She is the complete opposite of me.
She actually works with children, and she's in school right now.
She's very introverted, homebody, too, but the sweetest, most caring person.
But she definitely keeps to herself.
She's just, she's not close-minded at all.
She's very, very open-minded, but she's more conservative herself and just being,
I'm trying to think of the right word, too, because not close-minded, just.
Conservative, I think is right.
Like for herself.
Like that's, she's more, she wouldn't do it for herself, but she certainly wouldn't judge you or she's not anti it for other people.
Right.
Yeah.
No.
Yeah.
She would never judge anyone.
She's, yeah, very, very accepting of everyone and all their jobs and all dynamics, wherever they come from.
Yeah, because she works right now with handicapped children.
So they're autistic and down syndrome.
And she's getting her license to be a doctor in that field, too.
So she's just an angel.
Yeah, that's amazing.
Awesome.
Right, but super successful too and doing it, doing stuff, really amazing stuff on our own.
Let me ask you this.
Like, now you live in Vegas, right?
And now, how many other companies are you working for currently?
Like, once you moved there, because you started with that guy, right?
But then when you got there, did you have, like, bigger companies that came to you?
Or you started, like, going and getting other jobs?
Yes.
So, I started working, gosh, now I've worked with, oh, my gosh.
goodness, I'd say 20 to 30 different companies. And I am with my agency 101 modeling. They have helped me find a bunch more companies to be able to work with too.
But yeah, I've worked with quite a few different ones. And then some of them too I do return back with, which has been awesome.
I'd say about like a good 10 of them are pretty reoccurring out of all those. So yeah.
Well, how many times a month do you like do a job? And like do you do one whole?
like a job in a day.
If someone hires you for like a porn scene,
like is it filmed over a week or is it like do they typically hire you for three scenes a day?
Like how does it,
how does it work?
Oh yeah.
Oh,
that's a good question too.
It is so all over the place.
A lot of the time since I am in Vegas,
I do look out there where I or when I'm out in L.A.
for a week or two.
I get scheduled to where it's just like I go in for work for a couple hours and
I leave. So I am typically working, I would say, I film a couple times a week, anywhere from
one to three times a week. But I have gone an entire month before where there has been no
films because it's so slow. Or I've done five films in a week. So it does greatly change. And
like with this trip that I'm on now, I will be in LA for the whole week where I'll be doing,
just going in for the day and then leaving. But where I'm at now in Joshua Tree,
I'm here for three days and we're just doing one giant film, getting as much content in as we can in these three days.
Wow.
And with this one company.
Yeah.
And sometimes it is like I get flown out to Austin, Texas or Seattle, Washington, where I do stay for a couple of days and end up doing that.
Now, when you're on a set like you are, you know, I know, movie sets.
I have friends.
I've worked at movies.
There's a big, you know, production, lots of people.
Like when you're on a set like you're at now, like a Joshua Tree.
Is it like three people that you're there with?
Is it like 10 people that you're there with and super fun?
Like, like how many people are there working on this scene that you're doing in all these days?
Yeah.
So right now it's three of us.
And with this company in particular, he'll have anywhere from three to like up to 10 people.
He's pretty good with that.
But most of the time I'm by myself or it will be the sometimes if the director, producer is not also the performer.
Yeah.
It's the performer and then the director and then myself for the trip.
So typically always three or just two.
And how do you, like as a girl?
I mean, I know that you're professional now and you know how to like kind of turn it on and do it.
But do you like ask to see the guy beforehand that you're going to have to fuck?
Or like do you just sometimes meet them when you get there?
Do you do some sort of vetting?
Have you ever said no because you saw the guy and you're like, oh, I can't fuck him or are they all kind of okay looking?
I don't know. You tell me. Yeah, no, absolutely. I definitely do ask to see what they look like prior to. Yeah. Yeah. That is a huge thing for me and like trust. I've had guys be like, well, my face isn't going to be on camera so you don't need to see what I look like. Oh my God. And that is sketchy. That is weird to me. I'm like, well, I still want to know. What the fuck are you hiding?
Yeah. Right. Right. And, you know, a lot of those times those gentlemen are a lot, a lot older, like in their 60s or 70s and they're trying to hide. And we're trying to hide. And, you know, and. We're trying to hide. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And, you know, you know,
which is fine. I'm not judgmental there, but I don't like false pretense. So if they're able to give
me everything they're able to provide, get the right testing, give me references, they work with a ton of
other really good models or content creators too. And they're like, he's great. He's awesome.
And that's more what I care about is the being repable. You know, and they're networking too.
Like how much of a following do they have? Can we help each other network? You know, that's a big thing for me too.
Yeah, there's a lot more transparency now because of like only fans and all the different websites and all the stuff online that you can vet people through other people as well, just not only just between yourself and that person, right?
Like you said.
And I think every world, no matter what you're in, whether it's finance or you're in the entertainment business, you know, or you're in the porn business.
Every world is kind of like a small world, right?
So like everybody kind of knows everybody.
I mean, you could get like the lowdown most of the time on people that are in that business if you ask around, right?
and you have enough connections, right?
Yes, absolutely.
And yeah, and always ask,
I'm actually a part of a Las Vegas group of girls
that are all workers there and some in L.A., too.
And we always ask each other like,
hey, who is this guy?
Yeah, exactly.
I've been working with them before, who's this company,
you know, and we all have each other's backs.
It's really a great group of women
who work in this industry and guys, too,
that protect and help each other.
But the women are awesome.
They really are.
And, you know,
I had a guy on recently.
I forget what his name was.
And that's terrible that I'm forgetting.
But I'm terrible with names.
Okay.
But he was on my show and he was like a big porn producer.
Oh, Vic Legina.
How can I forget his name?
Vic Legina.
He did a whole thing and he was in the porn and he just talked about all the girls that were like fucking high and like whatever.
You know, and I'm sure you have that, right?
You don't sound like the type of girl.
I don't even know, like if you drink or do drugs.
Like you don't sound like the type that seems like you show up like that.
But do you still see a lot.
of that in the business or most of the girls that you see doing this like totally clearheaded
doing it for the right reasons you know yeah yes exactly no actually so it's pretty much
just standard you're not allowed to come under the influence right set at all and so i've actually
seen more guys show up intoxicated than i have women the women know and yeah and i myself i don't
drink i don't do drugs yeah i knew i have you pegged
And it's a good peg I have for you.
But go on.
Thank you.
Yeah.
And most women, even the girl I'm here with now, same exact way.
Most of the girls are just young, level-headed.
The girl I'm with now, she's 24.
And she's like, honestly, everyone I know doesn't even party anymore.
Yeah.
I think as time goes on, people are getting less into that.
And I love to see that.
But no, it's usually the older gentlemen that I film with that end up drinking a couple
of cocktails before we work together.
Probably because they're nervous.
But I really don't appreciate that because you are not supposed to
to be filming under the influence of of anything.
So. Yeah. Listen, if you're showing up not like that, then they should bring the same shit to
the table. You know, come on. Exactly. Especially how you get to get it up with your fucking
drunk? Like, isn't that a problem? Do you see that with like guys? Like, are there problems? Like,
are there fluffers on set? Like, is it sometimes hard for them to like fucking get hard? Like,
what do you do? So we don't have fluffers anymore. I am the fluffer. Oh, you are? Oh my God. It is a hard job.
You're like, it fucking in and then he's like kick it off.
You're like, okay, I'll blow you for five minutes,
turn the cameras off.
Oh, my God.
No, I need a bumper sticker that says bring back fluffers.
Oh, my God, that's so funny.
You're so funny.
That's your tagline.
Bring back fluffers.
It's definitely an issue.
Yeah.
You're totally right.
Especially because it's like five to ten minutes on.
Yeah.
Off, you know, during that off period, it can be really hard for them.
I mean, they are still a human being.
They're not a robot.
Yeah.
So, yeah, it definitely happens.
And then you have to, you're the fluffer because they don't have fluffers anymore.
No, yep.
Yeah.
Exactly.
And then I got to warm it up.
My last question is just a little bit about the money.
Like, so you get, you said you get paid more like for the guy, girl stuff, right?
Like, is there other stuff like if you were like do anal or like a threesome or like an orgy
something like does, is that like all, oh, you get more for that and that.
And like, what are your boundaries and things you will and won't do?
Yes. Yeah. So we all do,
pretty much have like different cheers. And definitely with gangbangs or threesomes,
anal, for sure, that all is more and more. Sometimes too, if I end up doing like multiple
scenes in a day, you know, with one company, I'll charge more for that as well. So multiple
pops, I will charge extra four. Yeah. That makes sense.
Just depending on what the scene is. Yeah, if it's really hard or whatever. So yeah, that makes
a really big difference. No, I myself, I am okay with the threesomes. I do not do the gangbings yet.
We'll see if I ever graduate to that. And then I do not do anal and I probably won't ever graduate
to that one, which is, I was told it's fine. You know, you don't have to do, you don't eventually
have to do anything that you don't want to do. In fact, what hurts me the most would probably be my
tattoos more than me not willing to do anal. Really? How come?
And it's just how the industry is.
Now, times are changing, luckily, but for the most part, porn does not like tattoos.
Well, isn't there, like, makeup that you could put on them if you wanted to?
No, actually, you were not allowed to wear body makeup during a porn scene.
What?
I'm so glad I asked that question, but that's interesting.
Oh, really?
Yep, you're not allowed to at all.
I learned that as well, too.
I asked the exact same question to my agency, and they said, no, you're not allowed to wear any type of body pain.
So no, you can't cover it up like that.
Right, because you're all over each other that shit and you don't want to smudge in it.
And then half your tattoo is there.
Right.
I get it.
Or they don't want to stop the scene and be like, oh, it's your tattoo is showing.
Yeah, I guess that makes sense.
Well, you know, maybe they'll come up with some waterproof, smudge proof, you know,
tattoo cover up.
I see all that shit on Instagram, you know, all the time, which is like kind of funny.
Now, let me, last question, do you still do the stripping and the only fans and everything else
as well as all of this stuff.
You're doing everything still, right?
Yep, I sure do.
Yeah, I love to work.
So, yep, anytime one of them is slow,
I just go and do the other one instead.
And then I'm always online doing my only fans as well too
and still selling content every single day online.
So it just, business just never stops.
Yeah, well, that's what, you know, people, I think, also don't understand.
And I always say this because I think it's so rude when you hear people in the news
like once when like OnlyFans was going to go down.
They were like, oh, all these like losers are going to go back to working at McDonald's.
And I'm kind of like, people don't understand.
I don't care what kind of platform you have, whether it's a TikTok with 150,000 followers or an Instagram or an OnlyFans.
If you have a very solid, big platform and you're making money at it or a podcast like I am, like you have to tend to it every fucking day, 24-7.
You got to talk to your fit.
Like that is the way you become successful.
And that's why typically when I do repeat Thursdays and I'm re-airing all my girls that had
Only fans a year to three years later, they're all dead in the water because they have other
jobs. It's not their thing. It has to be, it becomes your full-time job. And those are the ones
that are successful. So like you love to work, right? And that's great because you need that
kind of mentality to keep this kind of shit up. So when people make fun of like someone that is like,
you know, doing this as a business, it's like ridiculous because you're working just as hard.
not harder because there's a lot of barriers because you're talking about sex. Like you could get your
shit deleted in two seconds, you know, and all that kind of bullshit that you deal with. But you have to
tend to your platform and work 24-7 to keep it going to be successful. It never stops. You don't get
to a point where you're like, oh, I got all these followers now. I could just like cash in. That's what
doesn't work like that. Nope. You're absolutely right. It's totally a full-time job. I mean,
luckily I enjoy working, but I really am always working. And if I want to be,
making as much as I am to be able to do what I do and have the life that I have, I have to be
working a lot too. And, you know, it's definitely worth it if you're willing to put that effort into it.
Yeah. Well, I could tell you're like, before you even got on the call with me, just the way you were
trying to reschedule your time, I'm like, this is a successful bitch. Like, I can't explain it.
I just, I was complimenting you because I know, everything about you. You're going to, you're going
places. No matter what you do, you're going to be successful because you enjoy working. And that's like
what it's all about. But I love your story. Please do me a favor and give all your shoutouts. I'm going to
put all your links and stuff in the description. So anyone listening that wants to go check you out
because they're going to want to see what you look like and everything and, you know, get all your
content. It'll be in the description so you don't have to remember it or anything. But just give
your shoutouts to everything now. Yeah, absolutely. So you can find me on Instagram. It's
Kaley underscore Kake. That's pretty much all of my social. So TikTok, you can find out.
me as well on there.
On Twitter, I'm Kaylee underscore cake with an X at the end for Twitter.
And on OnlyFans, I'm also Kaylee underscore cake.
So I try to keep it the same.
Yeah, but you need to spell Kaylee.
But I mean, the link is going to be there.
But Kaylee is not spelled.
I think, you know, you need to tell them how Kaylee is made in case they don't ever go to
the description.
They're just listening.
You know, spell it out.
Yeah, it's a very unique spelling.
it is K-A-Y-L-E-I-G-H- underscore cake.
Right.
And cake is regular cake, right.
Kaylee cake, yeah.
Yeah, so that's how you find her.
But I'm going to put a link and send me like a one link if you have it
or like your OnlyFans link or your website, whatever you got.
Send it to me.
Do me a favor and send me a couple of hot picks for my Patreon, right?
I'll also give you free access to there if you want to go and see the comments
and give you free access to my Discord.
I have like a guest.
I have so many different channels in my Discord.
I have over 5,000 people on there.
But I also have like a content creator channel.
And I, you know, I allow people to go in there and promote whatever they want and do whatever,
like and put content in there.
So you could always go, you know, I'll give you free access.
You could go in there, put up teaser content.
And so, you know, send people to your only fans.
Whatever you want.
I'll send you all those links to get in when your episode goes up.
But send me picks and your links as soon as possible.
So I have it.
Okay.
And then I'll email you right.
before your episode goes up, okay?
All right.
Sounds great.
Thank you so much.
No, thank you.
I love your story.
Thanks so much for calling in.
Yeah, of course.
Thank you for having me.
Okay, bye, Kaylee.
Hi.
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