Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1158 - Kayleigh Cake Went from Stripping to Nude Modeling to Professional Porn

Episode Date: July 2, 2025

Kayleigh Cake went from nude dancing, to nude modeling to mainstream porn and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she got into the adult entertainment bu...siness and why she decided to go down that path, how and when she decided to start selling naughty pics and then videos online, how and when she went from doing amateur porn to mainstream porn, how her boyfriend at the time felt about her doing porn, what she does to make sure she’s not taken advantage of in the business, her first porn shoot and how it was set up and what went down, her first girl/girl scene and how she felt about it afterwards, how and why she’s not dating anyone now, how her family found out about what she does and how they feel about it, how she vets the people she shoots with, how there are no more fluffers on set and why she wants to bring them back, the specific things she’ll do and not do in scenes, how and why her tattoos have been a problem in the business plus a whole lot more. You can find all Kayleigh's stuff here: http://linktree.com/kayleigh_cake **To see HOT pics KAYLEIGH CAKE plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive AND LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2516-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: ANONYMOUS to get an 50% off plus a 14 day money-back guarantee Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:03:00 You get your in, you know, you can find out where all the gangbings and hotel takeovers and meetups and munches are in your location or in any location. They are worldwide. You want to sign up for SDC and get a free trial. Use my code 37712 or just go to the. description and click on the link. The last thing I'm going to say is if you love my show, please write a review when I actually get to read the reviews in here where people really think about my show. I fucking love it. It makes everything that I do worth it. So keep those great reviews coming. It helps the show. Okay, today I have on Kaylee Cake. I love Kaylee Cake. I want her to work for me one day. She's like, she's like the first young person that's like a hard worker. She's
Starting point is 00:03:48 like a successful bitch. I love her. She's got a such a good head on her shoulders. She has made a lot of money and become very successful in the adult entertainment business. She started super young. She talks about why she started and how she started. It's an interesting story. She was dating a guy at the time. She got into videotaping herself and then selling nudes on Snapchat and then selling like her videos on Snapchat and then eventually she got contacted by a professional company and she started to do professional porn shoots and she talks about that she talks a lot about like how the scenes go down how she feels about the sex that she does she's done girl on girl scenes she's done a guy on girl scenes she talks about the differences of all of that she talks a lot about the business and how it works
Starting point is 00:04:37 She talks about how her family knows and how they found out and how they reacted. Her sisters know, all her friends know. She's a very open-minded girl. She's a little workaholic. That's why she does very well. She's very successful. She loves what she does. She gives all her shoutouts at the end.
Starting point is 00:04:54 You could go check her out. She's got an only fan still. She also dances and she's got a lot of porn stuff out there. So you'll be able to find her. She's super hot. She's got a great story. and she really has a good head on her shoulders. I loved her.
Starting point is 00:05:10 Like I said, I wanted her to work for me, but she doesn't need to work for fucking anyone, okay? She's a little entrepreneur, and she's doing very well herself, and I give her a lot of credit, and I think you're going to as well when you hear her story. So I'm going to be right back on with Kaylee Cake.
Starting point is 00:05:26 Hey, Kaylee Cake. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Hi, good. How are you doing? Good. Listen, Kaylee, you sound super young. I'm so glad I don't have to change your voice because you already sound kind of like
Starting point is 00:05:39 how I normally change girls' voices. I try to make them sound like they're 15. Guys like really young sounding girls' voices. I should have changed mine because I sound like a dude, right? But this is my real voice. But you still sound young anyway, and the short story is you've been a stripper. You do like nude modeling and stuff, right? And you also are doing porn.
Starting point is 00:06:03 I know that you had to like change times today. because you're like shooting some porn scenes in the desert, which I'm a little jealous of not that you're doing porn scenes, but that you're in the desert. It's so beautiful. That's a short story, right? Yeah, yeah, that's the gist of things there. I appreciate it too.
Starting point is 00:06:20 I think your voice sounds awesome either way. But, yeah, I do kind of a mix of everything in the adult entertainment world, even in just the regular entertainment world, too. Yeah. Oh, okay, cool, cool. So let's get a snapshot, like I said, of where you're at now. how old are you currently? Yep, I'm 27 years old.
Starting point is 00:06:39 Okay, you're 27. Now, how long have you been doing all this stuff? Like, what age did you start into, you know, getting into the adult entertainment business? Even when it was just like stripping, because I would consider that. Yeah. Right? Oh, yeah. I kind of started kind of all of it with, like, I did amateur adult film.
Starting point is 00:06:58 And I did start stripping. And then nude modeling all began when I was 19 years old. Wow. 19, all of it, all the porn, the stripping, the modeling, all at once at 19. Yeah, and it was a lot more amateur, like just, I made videos with friends and with my partners at the time, but it definitely all started getting the ball rolling for sure at 19. And then within the next few years, I started doing mainstream. Right.
Starting point is 00:07:25 Okay, cool. So, Kaylee, what's going on in your 18-year-old, like, world that gets you into all of this when you're 19? I mean, were you just always like super horny, very curious, really open-minded? You know, what made you make that move so early on? Yeah, I get asked that a lot, actually. And, you know, for the most part, you already said it. I have always been extremely open-minded, very in tune with my sexuality.
Starting point is 00:07:54 Not always as much on the super horny side as just wanting to be free. I'm a nudist. I always love dancing. I love being sexual. I love expressing that too. So I've just had more of a nature of kind of those regards. And of course, I do have an ailment. I am handicapped.
Starting point is 00:08:14 I have an autoimmune disease. So I really did have to get my career going just to making money for myself at a young age and just kind of be in control of my own schedule for when I need to go to the hospital and make sure I pay for all my medical bills. Yeah. It's a kind of disease, the autoimmune disease, that you have to go to the hospital, consistently, like within a year, like a couple times or something to get worked on or whatever? I mean, could you say what it is?
Starting point is 00:08:38 Is it at mass or something? Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, no worries. So right now, basically how they, it's kind of to explain it how they classify it is, I have an overactive adrenal gland. Uh-huh. So my body produces too much cortisol. And that just kind of affects me in many different ways.
Starting point is 00:08:55 I have extremely low blood pressure. So I do faint a lot. I do get sick to my stomach a lot. so I'm very, very sensitive to food and to temperature. I am, well, aside being sensitive to temperature, that will make me faint pretty easily, too. And then I actually, I'm about to get a pacemaker inserted into my nervous system to help with my stomach and my bladder, which gives me my handicap. And it's all just from like overactive cortisol from like a hormonal imbalance.
Starting point is 00:09:24 So I've been dealing with it my entire life. I just really sick in and out of the hospital, pretty much every. other month. I have to go to the hospital doctor appointments every couple of weeks. But, you know, my medical team has been awesome and so amazing. You know, even for me being this young, we're already on the right track for everything to make me feel better for right now and for when I'm older too. So they've just been great, but it's been very expensive. So I've been so thankful for my job, for being able to afford this and for it being flexible enough to when I have to go get my surgeries done. it's just been amazing and I'm very blessed for that.
Starting point is 00:10:03 Yeah, for sure. Because imagine the regular person who doesn't have that kind of cash or maybe doesn't have insurance that also has a nine to five job. I mean, this could be a real serious problem that you would not think of. So I think it's like really interesting. You know, it's good that you pointed that all out because it can really, you know, it obviously really affects your life, but you have set it up in a way that you could tend to that and live your life at the same time, which is pretty amazing.
Starting point is 00:10:29 that you figure it out so young, you know? Yes. Yes, absolutely. Yep. And so. It's been very empowering. Yeah, of course. So,
Starting point is 00:10:38 okay, so you're like 19 years old now. You just start like videotaping shit with like your boyfriend. Are you in a relationship right now real quick? Now I am not. No. Okay. So when you were 19 though,
Starting point is 00:10:49 were you dating somebody and were you like filming it then? Is that where like the the filming stuff started? Yeah, it is actually. Yep. It was definitely more my partner's idea. And I wasn't really sure at first, but, you know, I was kind of like curious about it. So I was interested in it.
Starting point is 00:11:07 So, you know, I let it happen. And once I watched it, I was like, oh, my gosh, I want to do this again and again. And I want to make something out of it. And he honestly was completely on board and he liked it a lot. We were together for years, but just, you know, we did end up just having completely like, I travel a lot and he's a home body. So we did definitely go our separate ways there. But, you know, I definitely had the support to just do the sex work and do what I needed to do also to pay my bills.
Starting point is 00:11:38 And he let me be very independent. And, you know, that helped me out a lot too. So I was very appreciative of that. Yeah, but what was on the table when he brought it up? Like you were like, he was the one that brought it up and wanted to. Is it just like, let's film ourselves like fucking? Or was it like, let me let's film ourselves fucking and put it on. online or something?
Starting point is 00:11:57 Like what was the ass in the beginning? Actually, no. It wasn't the most appropriate. We were really, really young. And of course, I completely forgave him too, but he had already filmed me without me knowing.
Starting point is 00:12:10 I had a boyfriend that tried to do that and I saw the fucking camera. I'm like, are you, it's like right there. Like, you're so fucking stupid. I didn't see it at all. I was doing the regress cowgirl.
Starting point is 00:12:22 I did not see it. But he did show me. He showed me right afterwards, you know, and I was like, oh, my gosh, you what? But then when he showed me. So he didn't ask you. Sorry. You told the story wrong. He didn't ask you to tape you.
Starting point is 00:12:36 He taped you without your knowing and then showed you. And then he showed it to me. And then he asked if we can continue. And then I was like, well, that one was really good. So, so yes. But, you know, I have to say, I did really. I loved when I saw it, I was like, oh, my God. I did awesome.
Starting point is 00:12:55 So, like, I can't even be that mad. I was like, can I use this? Can I sell this video? He's like, yeah, absolutely, you can. I was like, okay, cool. So what did you do with the video? I ended up, that's pretty much right around when I began to selling content online and, like, using Snapchat was more popular at first before only fans.
Starting point is 00:13:16 Oh, interesting, really? A lot more popular. Yeah, people definitely used, they called it private Snapchat, but just regular Snapchat. You just sell content that way through text. You could sell. People were selling on Snapchat? Oh, yeah. Oh, definitely.
Starting point is 00:13:32 So, like, clueless. You'd think I know everything because of my show. I never heard of this. But, okay, so you were doing that even before your guy taped you. You were already into the nude, like taking pictures and selling stuff yourself. Anyway. Yes, I was already doing the nude modeling. And I was already definitely selling nudes.
Starting point is 00:13:52 But I was not doing anything. the pornographic side like it even took me a while to even not be topless anymore because I started just topless dancing only topless photo shoots then eventually it took me about a year or two to migrate to
Starting point is 00:14:08 being bottomless too from that so it was more around like 1920 it did take me some time but then from being bottomless to the porn that was a very very fast yes switch up right you just bring somebody next to you hey guys
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Starting point is 00:15:53 Yes. Switch up. Right. You just bring somebody next to you. Right. But the transition from Topless to totally nude was the big thing for you. And I could see why that would be a much bigger jump for sure. Yes.
Starting point is 00:16:07 Yes. That definitely was. And listen, most, I mean, you know, stripping became very popular when I was younger. It was the type, you know, it started to become very mean, sheen. Like, every girl started to do it. It was like the thing to do. And, but it was very rare that you had, like, most clubs were all had G-strings. because they couldn't sell alcohol if it was totally nude, right?
Starting point is 00:16:26 So most of the clubs had bought it were always just topless. But so you went from working in a toopless club to working in a totally nude club or like the club that you worked in, it was like you could do either. So what I, yeah, I ended up doing is I went from topless and then I eventually went to totally nude. And you could do either or really where technically where I worked. It wasn't just strictly, just fully nude. And then it wasn't until I moved to VATES.
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Starting point is 00:17:20 Oh yeah, I'm sure they do. Yeah, they've been around for a while too in Vegas. So I know there is like that one. I think there's some that are like more northeast kind of closer to Canada that also do the same thing. But yeah, you're totally right. For the most part, you cannot have the full nudity and the alcohol at all. And it's like the same when you're on set for any type of porno. You cannot be under the influence of anything and then perform.
Starting point is 00:17:49 Yeah, of course. Let me ask you this. We'll get to like the, you know, the professional point. But like, what made you make that jump from? Oh, I'm keeping my bottoms on. I'm only doing topless everything to I'm taking the bottoms off. Was it something like, oh, I just want to make more money and you made more money if you were nude? Or did you want to, you know, just go there because, you know, you just wanted to?
Starting point is 00:18:12 Like what was the, what happened that made you make that choice? Yep. So that one, to really just completely start going that full direction, I'd say was really more money, like what you said to. Yeah, that's okay. Yeah, you had a problem. You were your problem fucking solver. You needed money for, you know, this disease that you had. Yeah, too.
Starting point is 00:18:38 And I love investing as well, too. I'm always looking at ways to make more money regardless there. And, you know, this is during the time when only things. fans have just started very, very, very new and just started becoming popular. And so what I did is I started just selling kind of like bit by bit. First, I already had fully nude already taken of me because I've been doing photo shoots for a long period of time, even before selling the content. I have done photos shoots.
Starting point is 00:19:08 And so I already had so many photos I could use. So I kind of started out slow where I just showed myself in a bikini at first and then like a couple weeks go by and then I show myself topless on there and I'd advertise this and like never before seen you know online topless and then what really dropped the ball and I got a ton of subscribers
Starting point is 00:19:27 is when I announced I was going to be showing you know pussy for the first time and that really yeah and it was good and that's I kind of had a kind of business plan in my head where I wanted it set up in a way to where I could graduate from one thing to the other
Starting point is 00:19:44 to increase that revenue And then even after that, it took me a while to start posting the porn, too. Because I did want to kind of just, you know, not... Give it all up in one time. Right, exactly. It was much better for me to make money the way I did and get the subscription the way I did that way, too. It worked out really well.
Starting point is 00:20:04 Yeah, no, it was super smart. I had a girl on. I forget what her name was, but she was like some Mormon church girl virgin until she was married kind of girl. And then she got into doing only fans and just a girl, girl. stuff and she was very covered up for many years on her only fans. And then eventually she did more and more. And she said the same thing. Like it just blew her the fuck up because it was like the big tease, right? Think about it. She had all these people like you. Like you had all these people like they're
Starting point is 00:20:34 wondering, you know, you're keeping them in suspense for so long and then all of a sudden you take it off like I could just imagine. And then all of a sudden after time now you're showing them more. And it is a smart thing to do. if this is the way you're making your money. Right. It is. And of course, I always say to always do whatever you're comfortable with doing. But if you're able to kind of build it like that, and if you want to, then I highly recommend it.
Starting point is 00:21:00 Right. Now, you did say at some point, like very early on you're like, it wasn't really, I wasn't very horny. Like I was just doing it more like all this time. Like, are you like the type of person, right? If we're just talking sex, you're like, as somebody who gets turned on? by like guys looking at her that guys buying her stuff are you like an exhibitionist or you a voyeur and like to see yourself on those videos or all of the above or was this just like a job for you?
Starting point is 00:21:29 Oh, that's a really good question actually. So I'm a huge exhibitionist and nudist of course and I love seeing me on camera. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah, you're absolutely right there. But it's funny. I'm I'm quite asexual. I guess my friends say dummy sexual. Yeah. Otherwise. I'm. Otherwise. I'm. I'm, I'm actually. I'm I don't I don't get horny. I mean, when I do fall in love, then that's okay, yes, I want to be like, go fucked on the balcony and every position all around the house. I become a lot more of a nympho when I'm with someone that I do generally care about and have that bond with. But otherwise, I'm really just more money sexual just for my job. I find.
Starting point is 00:22:08 You got to wait. We need to come up with a good term for that money sexual is like kind of is like a funny concept. but there's probably like a much more clever way to say it. That's like, oh yeah, I'm sure. Wait, so like when you're doing your porn scenes,
Starting point is 00:22:22 like are you just turned on because you know you're making the money or you're not turned on at all and but you just are a great actress? Oh no. I would say I'm definitely turned on. So it's, it's funny. I'm so nervous before a scene. I get just like really anxious and kind of jittery.
Starting point is 00:22:41 But the moment we actually get into it, it's a completely different. ball game. It just becomes more my nature, definitely more my realm of things, where I definitely can get into it and focus on the actual act itself and what it is and not just that it's a job or even though it's like a character. Like you get into character and you like fully immerse yourself into it. Yeah, I get it. Yeah. But for what it is, though it feels good. So I get into it either way. And I definitely enjoy it. So I can't say that like when I'm doing it, it doesn't turn me on. Because when I'm actually in the act, it does make me horny. And so that does help. And then my nervousness completely goes away
Starting point is 00:23:24 and it turns into definitely more hornyness for sure. Right. Oh wait. Real quick, like I didn't even ask you before. Like I know you were dating some guy, but like do you do girls and guys? Are you just strictly into dudes? Like how do you identify yourself sexually? Yeah. I do a boy girl and I do girl girl i haven't done as much girl girl because i'm just not as experienced with it yeah i'm trying to get more involved in that side of things to girl girl hasn't been as popular mainstream as it used to be but it yeah which is interesting to me too because on places like only fans are just like regular content creators that aren't necessarily doing mainstream their girl and girl collaborations do really well too. So I still love to do photo shoots with other girls too, even if I don't do as much
Starting point is 00:24:14 mainstream, specifically with a girl. So, and you know that because you're not getting hit up to do a lot of girl, girl scenes for mainstream. That's how you know that it's not as in demand. Right. Yeah. And that's just been discussed to just amongst other people within the industry. Do they say why they think that's the case? Do you know? Do what? Do they discuss why they think that's the case? Is it because people are going to only fans for that? Is it because like there's so many other kings and stuff that people are into that, a little more into that?
Starting point is 00:24:45 Like, why do they, have you heard why they think that is in less demand? It's interesting to me. Yeah, no, that's a good question. You know, it seems like they don't even really know themselves. Yeah, interesting. They just know that it gets, you get paid a lot less doing girl on girl. It's not nearly the same amount of money as a boy girl scene would be. Wow.
Starting point is 00:25:05 So, yeah. it's usually like about half the amount of money. So that is one thing. And then I guess it's just because it's not in demand. There's a lot less companies that shoot girl on girl, where there's way more companies that shoot the boy girl and even like boy, boy. Like gay porn is a lot more popular than lesbian porn is. Which is so surprising to me because I love lesbian porn and most of my guy friends love lesbian porn too.
Starting point is 00:25:33 I never really understood that. Yeah, right? because yeah you always hear girls on TV talking like oh the only kind of porn I watch is lesbian porn you know and like just like you said right And but yet I wonder maybe it's because guys are just like maybe hornier and go to porn more than women. I don't know I mean and maybe it's because they want to see like the you know the com shots and everything I don't know but let's move on to your story Let's go back so you're stripping you gradually like do more and more your boyfriend and you are like videotaping yourself and now do you start selling that on Snapchat first before you get into
Starting point is 00:26:10 like, you know, doing the amateur stuff on your own before you get into doing it professionally? Yeah, I did more on Snapchat and then even like places like Messenger, really any time someone would hit me up
Starting point is 00:26:25 for that type of content, which guys always will, always do. It doesn't matter if you have my type of job or not. A lot of girls get asked for nudes or videotapes of themselves from guys. Right. You know?
Starting point is 00:26:40 And I happened to have it and be in that type of business. So I was willing definitely to sell it. And so, yeah, I did more so then. And then when I decided to do OnlyFans, we started making a lot more to. You and your guy, because he was the person that you were in the, all the stuff with just him and OnlyFans at that point? Yeah. At that point in the beginning.
Starting point is 00:27:02 Yeah. And then it was all my ideas, too, that I'd come up with. as well. And so, which was like, cool, because it was more his idea at first, but then I started coming up with, like, outfit ideas and just, like, themes and stuff we could do. So it kind of became a little bit more fun for us, too, which was nice, so. And now, was he the type of guy, like, a lot of guys on my show where he, like, enjoyed and got off on knowing that other guys were, like, totally into you and you were his girl?
Starting point is 00:27:32 Or was he just doing it because, you know, it paid some of your guys? bills. The latter for sure. For sure. He was definitely, I don't want to say the jealous type because he let me do
Starting point is 00:27:45 what I wanted to do. And he was like kind of different about to you. Sometimes he like really genuinely enjoyed what I do too. And some days he absolutely hated it too. He definitely kind of went between the two emotions of it.
Starting point is 00:27:59 But yeah, it did pay for all the bills. So, you know. So you didn't stop. he never left you because of it, but it did create issues at some point, I would assume. Oh, yeah. Definitely.
Starting point is 00:28:12 And I'd say that's probably more so why we ended up parting ways now, too. And we did end up being greatly different from each other regardless to, besides, you know, like I travel and he's a homebody. I'm very extroverted. I'm very, he's very introverted. And then with my lifestyle. Yeah, you're open-minded and free and he's, you know, more like, the jealous type. He probably doesn't, he wants someone more like him, which I get. And I think it's
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Starting point is 00:31:01 into it than to pull back for him, right? So when did that? whole turn to doing it professionally happen? Like did someone come to you? Did you seek it out yourself? Yeah. Actually, someone came to me that he often works through TeamSkey which is one of my favorite
Starting point is 00:31:19 companies too. And I was just so excited when he reached out to me to do he wanted to do a photo shoot and then a scene together in Las Vegas. Okay. And that's actually what helps me even encouraged me to move to Vegas. Because once I got there, I did schedule myself other shoots.
Starting point is 00:31:35 and other films and I found it was so lucrative too. So that's really what helps me get more into mainstream. And then I was kind of stubborn at first. I didn't want to sign with an agency quite yet. I had some issues with like some scam agencies even at first. Oh, really? First getting started. Yeah, but luckily I was able to tell, you know, pretty quick which ones were legit or which ones were not.
Starting point is 00:32:00 So that that kind of did help that I already had a little bit of just the familiarity within the feel. Yeah, but imagine the women that don't, you know, like I was talking to you before we even got on the call and I was saying like I could tell I literally like if you ever get out of porn come work for me because I could tell you're like fucking on the ball, smart bitch. Like they don't make people like you. Okay. Like I could just tell you're that successful person. And everything you're saying only just furthers what my feeling was about you. But like, you know, so you're like just super smart. and could tell that kind of stuff.
Starting point is 00:32:31 Like, you know, what do you say to other girls? Like, how do you spot that shit? Because I think that that's a big thing that happens a lot of the time, especially in that world for young girls when they're getting into it. Oh, yeah. Oh, definitely. And I've been scammed before, too. So, you know, I've always just learned from my mistakes.
Starting point is 00:32:49 Yeah. That's the biggest thing. And to be completely aware, it's totally okay to ask as many questions as you need. Yeah. Always ask for references. Who have they worked with before? Take a picture of their ID, you know, as much as they need to see the girl's ID, the girl needs to see their ID and have all their information as well. The biggest thing, too, is I don't quite know how I feel about checks.
Starting point is 00:33:12 Checks can be, like, try to take it in cash if you can. Even the transactional ones like Venmo cash up, they can always cancel those or say it was like a scam afterwards. You just got to be so careful in this industry to where you just got to know what you're doing. And if they ever are like, no, I don't want to show you my ID or I don't have references or I don't want to pay you this way. I have to write a check, you know, unless it's like, unless you're working for someone like browsers that's very, very, very, very reputable. And they would never tell you no for any of those things. You know, if they tell you no, then you just move along. Because there's no reason that they don't need to supply all that for you, you know, for your own safety as well.
Starting point is 00:33:54 because all professionals, I've learned that I've done mainstream, all professionals will totally be willing to work with you on that. Absolutely. And when you were first approach, it was from a company that you had known about, right? Like you mentioned the word, Tienski. What was the name of it? Yeah, so he actually works for Tinski,
Starting point is 00:34:14 and he does his own photography and porn on the side too. I already knew I had followed him for a while and already knew who he was. and so I was so eager to be able to work with him and just to get that started. And he really did help me. He taught me, you know, how you break up scenes and how much work it really is too and how hard it is, but how different it is. It's not like normal sex whatsoever. It's totally a job completely.
Starting point is 00:34:43 As fun as it can be, and I'm thankful for that. It is hard work. So he really did show me that just with, you know, five minutes on, five minutes off and every angle and every position and everything. And that helped tremendously, though. It got me ready for when I started working with other mainstream companies. So what was that first experience? Like, you know, he hits you up.
Starting point is 00:35:06 He says, I wanted to shoot with you and everything. Like, walk me through that first time. Yeah. Oh, gosh. It was a few years ago now. So I'm trying to remember exactly. I'm sure he probably messaged me. It was probably on.
Starting point is 00:35:22 Instagram or on Twitter. And I had already done quite a bit of amateur porn as well. So he was probably also on my OnlyFans. I'm sure he'd already seen a lot of my content. And he was just trying to find new models to work with and to get started. He was trying to build for his own roster as well. And as was I too, I definitely needed more professional-looking content. And it looked phenomenal too.
Starting point is 00:35:48 So yeah, he messaged me and I told him that I'd fly out to Vegas. and come work with him. And yeah, I ended up, I think, working with him two different times, I believe. But he did actually introduce me to some people here in Las Vegas and helped me move to Las Vegas too. So I was very, very thankful for all that. But when he flew you out that first time to do it, like was it just a photo shoot where you were just modeling?
Starting point is 00:36:16 Were you having sex with him or somebody else? Like, okay. But he was not only the guy producing it, he was also like, storing in it? Yes, and that's a big thing too that I like to tell people. I'm glad that you brought that up. A lot of the males within the industry, most of the males, they are the photographer, they are the producer, they are the director, and they are the talent. Yeah, that's interesting. The men do so much work. They really do. Yeah. And so I found that a lot because there's not as many guys in the industry too. They are doing all the above. And he's a young, super young, handsome man.
Starting point is 00:36:51 it was so impressive to see him be able to do everything. And he works with quite a few different girls that are pretty big names too. So, you know, his networking is just phenomenal also. Right. So you lucked out that he was the first guy to contact you. Plus, you already knew him. You knew his work. How was the first scene with him?
Starting point is 00:37:11 Because this is kind of like the first time you're having, as a demisexual, right? You know, the first time you're like fucking someone with the cameras, that you're not in a relationship with, right? Like, how was that for you? Yeah. Well, for me, he wasn't necessarily the first one I've been like that with. Oh, okay. So that did kind of help, yeah.
Starting point is 00:37:34 So in your amateur experience, you were already doing stuff like that with other guys? Yes. Oh, okay. So, yeah. And so I definitely already had made that disconnection pretty well from filming. Yeah. So being in a completely brand new, I guess, state with someone I've never met before, though, with all of these cares around me, that made me nervous. And I wasn't like scared or worried.
Starting point is 00:38:03 But I was like, how am I going to do? Am I going to do good? I need to make sure I perform my best. Like, I was nervous for my own performance than the situation. But he, like, was very, very comforting, gave me a hug beforehand, explained everything. And he knew I was brand new to that kind of setup. So he eased me into it for sure. But it helped prep me to know, you know, it's a lot of hard work.
Starting point is 00:38:28 You're going to be out of breath. You're going to do all these positions you don't normally quite do in your regular sex life. That's just for the camera. And it's really a five minute on to 10 minute on off kind of ordeal. So, you know, just be, you know, yeah, prepared for that, which, yeah, a lot of people probably don't realize how much. work it actually is there. No, I would think that if I'm watching like a fucking scene on porn that, you know, they fucked, right, the whole time.
Starting point is 00:38:57 And they just taped it and then took different, you know, parts of the reel to create it. But you're saying they're filming it for five minutes and then you have to stop and then you go back and then they're filming it for another five minutes and then you stop and then go back, right? That's like what actually is going down. Yeah, yeah, just about that. And sometimes it's even 10 minutes on, 10 minutes off and you just do that for a couple of hours usually.
Starting point is 00:39:20 So, yeah. Yeah. And so walk me through your first girl, girl, uh, scene that you did. But was that something new or did you do that also, you know, like when you were doing your own stuff? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:32 I really more or less just dabbled it because I haven't really had the opportunity with, uh, mainstream to be able to do it. So I did do it when I was doing amateur porn. And that was even more nerve wrecking for me. But it was a lot more fun. experience too.
Starting point is 00:39:50 How come more fun? Well, the way the guys were reacting to it was a lot more positive, you know? Yeah, that was definitely they were enjoying themselves a lot more than, even though I get a lot of good feedback and a lot of
Starting point is 00:40:07 views from my boy girl, the girl girl did tremendous. It still surprises me that girl, girl mainstream isn't as popular anymore because it did really good. And that was, honestly, one of the times I've been the most turned on before in my life. And even afterwards, she was like, so if you ever want to film again, please, please do.
Starting point is 00:40:29 Even like, it's been, gosh, about a year and a half now. And when we hung out just like a week or two ago, she's like, well, I got a pool now. So if you want to make content by the pool together, I was like, oh, girl, say less. But yeah, that makes me even more nervous, though, because, you know, she's a beautiful lady. so and why what what about it makes you nervous because you're like you just get more because you're kind of like more into it and so therefore you're more nervous because it's more like not just work it's a little bit more like actually really attracted to her you like her right exactly and we do it too more as like friends too it's a little bit like less work for us even though she lets me sell it she doesn't do anything with the videos she just wants to film with me which is really nice too very flattering So, yeah, it's a lot more personal for us. So that's definitely why I'm way more into it than with boy girl. It feels a lot more like work or just something I got to do.
Starting point is 00:41:26 Yeah. Yeah. Now, should I just assume that by the time you got into mainstream that you weren't with your boyfriend yet, or were you still with him during that time? I was still barely with him. It was very, very often on, kind of honestly hard to say. Yeah. Not really.
Starting point is 00:41:44 Not anymore. And then you moved, so you were like a far. I did. Right. Yeah. And he never, he would still say I was girlfriend, his girlfriend, but he would never come visit me. Or if I was there, he would never have me go.
Starting point is 00:41:59 Like when I'd visit my family, back where he lived, he would never have me go visit him or anything at his house. I'd go say hi to him. Like at dinner, we'd go to the movies. But we even stopped sleeping together for the last couple years that I had moved away. So I don't, I don't think either. one of us were really involved anymore. So we just drifted.
Starting point is 00:42:20 Sometimes when you're with someone for a long time, I mean, rarely in real life do you break up one day and never talk to them again. You know, not when you're with someone for many, many years, right? It's always like back and forth and stuff. Like that's because it's hard to get away from someone,
Starting point is 00:42:33 even if you know they're the wrong person. You know what I mean? You keep going back and that's like just the normal ways. But by the time you were doing it, you were basically like knew you guys weren't going to be together anymore. Yeah. Oh, definitely. Yep.
Starting point is 00:42:45 Now, how about your dating life now? And since you and him weren't together, right? Like, how does that go for you when you do go out with guys and, you know, when do you tell them what you do? Or do you to only go out with guys that know ahead of time because you're like out and proud? Like, you know, what is your dating life like? Yeah. So I definitely only typically go out with my friends since I am, I guess, a little bit more on the demisexual side. and my friends already absolutely know what I do. Yeah, but I really don't go on too many romantic dates at all. I haven't had any interest in dating whatsoever.
Starting point is 00:43:26 I've been so motivated on work and just getting his pacemaker done. Yeah, and so I've had like some guys try to pursue me. But with my job too, I'm sure you know, the type of guys that sometimes approach me. And so it's not been the best. And so I've definitely just kept to myself. I live alone, just me and my cats. And yeah, I just focus on going to the gym and working and not scout in my hobbies. And that's about it.
Starting point is 00:43:52 No, yeah, I don't really, I don't have a sex life outside of work at all. Right. But maybe you don't need one because you are having sex in your work life, right? I mean, it's not like you're not getting fucked for six months, right? True. Exactly. Exactly. And of course, it's not the same.
Starting point is 00:44:09 Right. But are you having orgasms ever when you work? Or do you jerk off to get orgasms? Like how are you getting your orgasms? Yeah, it's very, very rare. I actually can come during a scene because I'm just so focused. Yeah. So usually I just, you know, masturbate myself.
Starting point is 00:44:29 That's when you get your release, your real release. Like, I don't know. You need that every now and then, a real orgasm. Yeah, exactly. And, you know, and every once in a while, too, I miss the intimacy and the affection of, you know, having an actual sexual relationship, a sexual relationship, not necessarily a relationship with someone that you just care about, whether it's a friend or a partner.
Starting point is 00:44:51 You know, I do from time to time, I long for that. But at the same time, I keep myself so busy doing like really fun things that, you know, I really do sometimes just enjoy my own company and don't really feel. the need to try to get myself involved in any of that, especially when it's not the right time or with like the right person either. I'm pretty good at, you know, making that decision for myself. Listen, you're obviously capable of having a long-term relationship. You were with one guy for a long time. You're demisexual. You prefer that, right? But you're also a businesswoman. And you're like, you're like a boss bitch. Like, you're doing great. Like, you're killing it.
Starting point is 00:45:33 And you're super young. And this is the time in your life to do this kind of stuff for yourself. And if you could get yourself like really financially in a place, which I think you maybe already are, where you're so secure that you don't have to pick a guy for those, you know, for to help you with that and everything. You know what I mean? And you could just pick a guy because he's like a fucking good guy, you know, like you're not, you're, you're going to be doing yourself some good waiting. Like there's, you're still really super young. Your eggs are still good if you want to have kids one day. You know what I mean? It's not like you're getting like you got to make any decisions.
Starting point is 00:46:07 when I was growing up like people, women got married so young. I never understood it, you know, because I was like not ready for that in my 20s at all. I mean, you're still young. And I think like right now, you know where your head is at. And like I always say, like my favorite saying is know thyself. And I think sometimes that's harder for some people than others. But it sounds like you're very in tune with yourself and what's going on. You know what you fucking want.
Starting point is 00:46:32 Right now it's not the first priority. Sometimes you miss it. And you know what? When you start missing it more. than not, that's when you'll go out and find somebody, and you'll find somebody then. You know what I mean? You'll know your time, and it's just not now, but you're, it's not like you're doing nothing. You're like building your whole brand and your whole business, right? Do you see your Kaylee cake as a brand, right?
Starting point is 00:46:53 Oh yeah, definitely. Yes, and thank you so much for that. That was right on the nose, because absolutely I am right now just working on myself, my brand, of course, my job, but making sure that I myself unstable as a person. I want to make sure that I have a house. I have a great car for myself. You know, I just want to make sure that I'm good. And I know that, and I'm
Starting point is 00:47:17 good right now too, but I know that in those moments, that's when things fall in the place where those people just naturally come to you and find you. You know, I'm never out searching for that. And I luckily know exactly what I want. And I'm not picky
Starting point is 00:47:32 either. I want a good, respectful man. And that's what you're going to get. I know that will. Yeah, exactly. I know that will come when the universe decides to bring that to my way too. But it will most likely because you're so self-aware and you're just so honest with yourself. Like it most likely will come the minute you want it. You know what I mean? That's how I've always been like, I don't know. A lot of times they'll be like, oh, you find people like when you least expected or when you're not looking. I'm like, not really. For me, I've never found anyone when I'm not looking. Because when I'm not looking, I'm really not looking. I'm not like secretly hoping I meet somebody.
Starting point is 00:48:04 I'm like really not interested but when I am no I like that person just shows up it's like I make those decisions myself and I'm very clear about that and but I think a lot of people aren't and that's why you hear those stories of people like find it when they're not looking or they're trying so hard and they can't find anything because a lot of people are just like fucking confused but you're really not you know exactly what you want and when you do turn your light on you will find a good guy but I do think it is hard
Starting point is 00:48:28 listen like when you're going to be sitting across from guys and you're going to be like oh this is what I do and stuff that you're going to have to weed out but like Like you have such a, it sounds like you have such a good head on your shoulders that you'll know the right guy when he comes and he'll show up. But let me just ask you this. So like your family, do they know what you do? I know all your friends do. I mean, you're obviously like all over Instagram. I can see your face and everything.
Starting point is 00:48:51 So like I'm assuming like your family knows about everything you do. I don't know. Yes. Yeah. They do. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:48:58 And my mom, she just passed away only a couple of years ago. but for dancing she would help me pick out outfits and recommend me dancing with like scarce she'd recommend like old 70s music to dance to oh she'd always say you know she knew oh yeah she knew she knew she said she would never do anything of that sort herself yeah she as much as she loves dancing she can never do the nudity but she says i'm my own person i'm a different generation and as long as i'm happy healthy and safe and making money that's all that mattered to her so she's still very encouraging while still letting me know that was not what she would ever do and that's that's I respect that a lot and now my father he is my financial advisor so he helps me invest all of my money
Starting point is 00:49:42 he has been for the past few years yeah and he doesn't ever need to know details doesn't want to know details but he is very you know he's a smart man he's very aware but he wants to make sure my money is going where it should be too so I'm very appreciative of him and he's he's wonderful Well, he must be happy as a man to know that he has a very like independent, strong-minded daughter, right? You know, it's better. Yeah, because he knows you could fucking take care of yourself, right? Yes.
Starting point is 00:50:13 He always tells me all the time. He says out of all of his daughters, because he has four of us. He says, I'm the one he never has to worry about ever. And I'm so appreciative of like just that it shows me that he respects me too as much as I respect him. And we have such a good relationship. We really do. Yeah, that's great.
Starting point is 00:50:31 And now you're, and so did your mom and dad find out because you told them? Did they find out by accident? Or did you just have that great relationship with them that you were like straight up from the beginning? Yeah. So my mom, I actually told. And then my dad, I went to go tell. And it took me longer to tell my dad. But when I went to go tell him, he goes, Kaley, with the gifts you've been giving me on my birthday,
Starting point is 00:50:54 if I was saying Christmas, I knew exactly what you started doing. And I was like, oh, my God. But yeah, and he told me that my sister just she never, I have two step and then my blood who's like, my sister's my best friend. And he goes, your sister would not tell me when I asked her. She kept her mouth sealed. Oh, good. She's moral.
Starting point is 00:51:14 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes. So what is your sister? I mean, is she like the complete opposite than you, but she totally accepts it and that works? Yeah. She, yeah, she completely accepts it. She is so funny, actually. She is like, she told me the other day, it cracked me up.
Starting point is 00:51:32 She said, you know, we have dad's money. We have mom's money, but there's nothing like sissy's money. And I was like, oh, my gosh. You got the most money of them all? I'm the most financially, I want to say responsible. Yeah, yeah, that's funny. You really try hard to save. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:50 And, you know, and when she needs help too, I always have her. If she needs help with bills or anything, she's a very. She is the complete opposite of me. She actually works with children, and she's in school right now. She's very introverted, homebody, too, but the sweetest, most caring person. But she definitely keeps to herself. She's just, she's not close-minded at all. She's very, very open-minded, but she's more conservative herself and just being,
Starting point is 00:52:19 I'm trying to think of the right word, too, because not close-minded, just. Conservative, I think is right. Like for herself. Like that's, she's more, she wouldn't do it for herself, but she certainly wouldn't judge you or she's not anti it for other people. Right. Yeah. No. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:35 She would never judge anyone. She's, yeah, very, very accepting of everyone and all their jobs and all dynamics, wherever they come from. Yeah, because she works right now with handicapped children. So they're autistic and down syndrome. And she's getting her license to be a doctor in that field, too. So she's just an angel. Yeah, that's amazing. Awesome.
Starting point is 00:52:56 Right, but super successful too and doing it, doing stuff, really amazing stuff on our own. Let me ask you this. Like, now you live in Vegas, right? And now, how many other companies are you working for currently? Like, once you moved there, because you started with that guy, right? But then when you got there, did you have, like, bigger companies that came to you? Or you started, like, going and getting other jobs? Yes.
Starting point is 00:53:20 So, I started working, gosh, now I've worked with, oh, my gosh. goodness, I'd say 20 to 30 different companies. And I am with my agency 101 modeling. They have helped me find a bunch more companies to be able to work with too. But yeah, I've worked with quite a few different ones. And then some of them too I do return back with, which has been awesome. I'd say about like a good 10 of them are pretty reoccurring out of all those. So yeah. Well, how many times a month do you like do a job? And like do you do one whole? like a job in a day. If someone hires you for like a porn scene, like is it filmed over a week or is it like do they typically hire you for three scenes a day?
Starting point is 00:54:07 Like how does it, how does it work? Oh yeah. Oh, that's a good question too. It is so all over the place. A lot of the time since I am in Vegas, I do look out there where I or when I'm out in L.A.
Starting point is 00:54:20 for a week or two. I get scheduled to where it's just like I go in for work for a couple hours and I leave. So I am typically working, I would say, I film a couple times a week, anywhere from one to three times a week. But I have gone an entire month before where there has been no films because it's so slow. Or I've done five films in a week. So it does greatly change. And like with this trip that I'm on now, I will be in LA for the whole week where I'll be doing, just going in for the day and then leaving. But where I'm at now in Joshua Tree, I'm here for three days and we're just doing one giant film, getting as much content in as we can in these three days.
Starting point is 00:55:03 Wow. And with this one company. Yeah. And sometimes it is like I get flown out to Austin, Texas or Seattle, Washington, where I do stay for a couple of days and end up doing that. Now, when you're on a set like you are, you know, I know, movie sets. I have friends. I've worked at movies. There's a big, you know, production, lots of people.
Starting point is 00:55:22 Like when you're on a set like you're at now, like a Joshua Tree. Is it like three people that you're there with? Is it like 10 people that you're there with and super fun? Like, like how many people are there working on this scene that you're doing in all these days? Yeah. So right now it's three of us. And with this company in particular, he'll have anywhere from three to like up to 10 people. He's pretty good with that.
Starting point is 00:55:45 But most of the time I'm by myself or it will be the sometimes if the director, producer is not also the performer. Yeah. It's the performer and then the director and then myself for the trip. So typically always three or just two. And how do you, like as a girl? I mean, I know that you're professional now and you know how to like kind of turn it on and do it. But do you like ask to see the guy beforehand that you're going to have to fuck? Or like do you just sometimes meet them when you get there?
Starting point is 00:56:15 Do you do some sort of vetting? Have you ever said no because you saw the guy and you're like, oh, I can't fuck him or are they all kind of okay looking? I don't know. You tell me. Yeah, no, absolutely. I definitely do ask to see what they look like prior to. Yeah. Yeah. That is a huge thing for me and like trust. I've had guys be like, well, my face isn't going to be on camera so you don't need to see what I look like. Oh my God. And that is sketchy. That is weird to me. I'm like, well, I still want to know. What the fuck are you hiding? Yeah. Right. Right. And, you know, a lot of those times those gentlemen are a lot, a lot older, like in their 60s or 70s and they're trying to hide. And we're trying to hide. And, you know, and. We're trying to hide. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And. And, you know, you know, which is fine. I'm not judgmental there, but I don't like false pretense. So if they're able to give me everything they're able to provide, get the right testing, give me references, they work with a ton of other really good models or content creators too. And they're like, he's great. He's awesome. And that's more what I care about is the being repable. You know, and they're networking too.
Starting point is 00:57:14 Like how much of a following do they have? Can we help each other network? You know, that's a big thing for me too. Yeah, there's a lot more transparency now because of like only fans and all the different websites and all the stuff online that you can vet people through other people as well, just not only just between yourself and that person, right? Like you said. And I think every world, no matter what you're in, whether it's finance or you're in the entertainment business, you know, or you're in the porn business. Every world is kind of like a small world, right? So like everybody kind of knows everybody. I mean, you could get like the lowdown most of the time on people that are in that business if you ask around, right? and you have enough connections, right?
Starting point is 00:57:53 Yes, absolutely. And yeah, and always ask, I'm actually a part of a Las Vegas group of girls that are all workers there and some in L.A., too. And we always ask each other like, hey, who is this guy? Yeah, exactly. I've been working with them before, who's this company,
Starting point is 00:58:07 you know, and we all have each other's backs. It's really a great group of women who work in this industry and guys, too, that protect and help each other. But the women are awesome. They really are. And, you know, I had a guy on recently.
Starting point is 00:58:23 I forget what his name was. And that's terrible that I'm forgetting. But I'm terrible with names. Okay. But he was on my show and he was like a big porn producer. Oh, Vic Legina. How can I forget his name? Vic Legina.
Starting point is 00:58:32 He did a whole thing and he was in the porn and he just talked about all the girls that were like fucking high and like whatever. You know, and I'm sure you have that, right? You don't sound like the type of girl. I don't even know, like if you drink or do drugs. Like you don't sound like the type that seems like you show up like that. But do you still see a lot. of that in the business or most of the girls that you see doing this like totally clearheaded doing it for the right reasons you know yeah yes exactly no actually so it's pretty much
Starting point is 00:59:03 just standard you're not allowed to come under the influence right set at all and so i've actually seen more guys show up intoxicated than i have women the women know and yeah and i myself i don't drink i don't do drugs yeah i knew i have you pegged And it's a good peg I have for you. But go on. Thank you. Yeah. And most women, even the girl I'm here with now, same exact way.
Starting point is 00:59:28 Most of the girls are just young, level-headed. The girl I'm with now, she's 24. And she's like, honestly, everyone I know doesn't even party anymore. Yeah. I think as time goes on, people are getting less into that. And I love to see that. But no, it's usually the older gentlemen that I film with that end up drinking a couple of cocktails before we work together.
Starting point is 00:59:47 Probably because they're nervous. But I really don't appreciate that because you are not supposed to to be filming under the influence of of anything. So. Yeah. Listen, if you're showing up not like that, then they should bring the same shit to the table. You know, come on. Exactly. Especially how you get to get it up with your fucking drunk? Like, isn't that a problem? Do you see that with like guys? Like, are there problems? Like, are there fluffers on set? Like, is it sometimes hard for them to like fucking get hard? Like, what do you do? So we don't have fluffers anymore. I am the fluffer. Oh, you are? Oh my God. It is a hard job.
Starting point is 01:00:20 You're like, it fucking in and then he's like kick it off. You're like, okay, I'll blow you for five minutes, turn the cameras off. Oh, my God. No, I need a bumper sticker that says bring back fluffers. Oh, my God, that's so funny. You're so funny. That's your tagline.
Starting point is 01:00:34 Bring back fluffers. It's definitely an issue. Yeah. You're totally right. Especially because it's like five to ten minutes on. Yeah. Off, you know, during that off period, it can be really hard for them. I mean, they are still a human being.
Starting point is 01:00:49 They're not a robot. Yeah. So, yeah, it definitely happens. And then you have to, you're the fluffer because they don't have fluffers anymore. No, yep. Yeah. Exactly. And then I got to warm it up.
Starting point is 01:00:59 My last question is just a little bit about the money. Like, so you get, you said you get paid more like for the guy, girl stuff, right? Like, is there other stuff like if you were like do anal or like a threesome or like an orgy something like does, is that like all, oh, you get more for that and that. And like, what are your boundaries and things you will and won't do? Yes. Yeah. So we all do, pretty much have like different cheers. And definitely with gangbangs or threesomes, anal, for sure, that all is more and more. Sometimes too, if I end up doing like multiple
Starting point is 01:01:36 scenes in a day, you know, with one company, I'll charge more for that as well. So multiple pops, I will charge extra four. Yeah. That makes sense. Just depending on what the scene is. Yeah, if it's really hard or whatever. So yeah, that makes a really big difference. No, I myself, I am okay with the threesomes. I do not do the gangbings yet. We'll see if I ever graduate to that. And then I do not do anal and I probably won't ever graduate to that one, which is, I was told it's fine. You know, you don't have to do, you don't eventually have to do anything that you don't want to do. In fact, what hurts me the most would probably be my tattoos more than me not willing to do anal. Really? How come?
Starting point is 01:02:15 And it's just how the industry is. Now, times are changing, luckily, but for the most part, porn does not like tattoos. Well, isn't there, like, makeup that you could put on them if you wanted to? No, actually, you were not allowed to wear body makeup during a porn scene. What? I'm so glad I asked that question, but that's interesting. Oh, really? Yep, you're not allowed to at all.
Starting point is 01:02:39 I learned that as well, too. I asked the exact same question to my agency, and they said, no, you're not allowed to wear any type of body pain. So no, you can't cover it up like that. Right, because you're all over each other that shit and you don't want to smudge in it. And then half your tattoo is there. Right. I get it. Or they don't want to stop the scene and be like, oh, it's your tattoo is showing.
Starting point is 01:02:57 Yeah, I guess that makes sense. Well, you know, maybe they'll come up with some waterproof, smudge proof, you know, tattoo cover up. I see all that shit on Instagram, you know, all the time, which is like kind of funny. Now, let me, last question, do you still do the stripping and the only fans and everything else as well as all of this stuff. You're doing everything still, right? Yep, I sure do.
Starting point is 01:03:19 Yeah, I love to work. So, yep, anytime one of them is slow, I just go and do the other one instead. And then I'm always online doing my only fans as well too and still selling content every single day online. So it just, business just never stops. Yeah, well, that's what, you know, people, I think, also don't understand. And I always say this because I think it's so rude when you hear people in the news
Starting point is 01:03:44 like once when like OnlyFans was going to go down. They were like, oh, all these like losers are going to go back to working at McDonald's. And I'm kind of like, people don't understand. I don't care what kind of platform you have, whether it's a TikTok with 150,000 followers or an Instagram or an OnlyFans. If you have a very solid, big platform and you're making money at it or a podcast like I am, like you have to tend to it every fucking day, 24-7. You got to talk to your fit. Like that is the way you become successful. And that's why typically when I do repeat Thursdays and I'm re-airing all my girls that had
Starting point is 01:04:20 Only fans a year to three years later, they're all dead in the water because they have other jobs. It's not their thing. It has to be, it becomes your full-time job. And those are the ones that are successful. So like you love to work, right? And that's great because you need that kind of mentality to keep this kind of shit up. So when people make fun of like someone that is like, you know, doing this as a business, it's like ridiculous because you're working just as hard. not harder because there's a lot of barriers because you're talking about sex. Like you could get your shit deleted in two seconds, you know, and all that kind of bullshit that you deal with. But you have to tend to your platform and work 24-7 to keep it going to be successful. It never stops. You don't get
Starting point is 01:05:00 to a point where you're like, oh, I got all these followers now. I could just like cash in. That's what doesn't work like that. Nope. You're absolutely right. It's totally a full-time job. I mean, luckily I enjoy working, but I really am always working. And if I want to be, making as much as I am to be able to do what I do and have the life that I have, I have to be working a lot too. And, you know, it's definitely worth it if you're willing to put that effort into it. Yeah. Well, I could tell you're like, before you even got on the call with me, just the way you were trying to reschedule your time, I'm like, this is a successful bitch. Like, I can't explain it. I just, I was complimenting you because I know, everything about you. You're going to, you're going
Starting point is 01:05:39 places. No matter what you do, you're going to be successful because you enjoy working. And that's like what it's all about. But I love your story. Please do me a favor and give all your shoutouts. I'm going to put all your links and stuff in the description. So anyone listening that wants to go check you out because they're going to want to see what you look like and everything and, you know, get all your content. It'll be in the description so you don't have to remember it or anything. But just give your shoutouts to everything now. Yeah, absolutely. So you can find me on Instagram. It's Kaley underscore Kake. That's pretty much all of my social. So TikTok, you can find out. me as well on there.
Starting point is 01:06:16 On Twitter, I'm Kaylee underscore cake with an X at the end for Twitter. And on OnlyFans, I'm also Kaylee underscore cake. So I try to keep it the same. Yeah, but you need to spell Kaylee. But I mean, the link is going to be there. But Kaylee is not spelled. I think, you know, you need to tell them how Kaylee is made in case they don't ever go to the description.
Starting point is 01:06:36 They're just listening. You know, spell it out. Yeah, it's a very unique spelling. it is K-A-Y-L-E-I-G-H- underscore cake. Right. And cake is regular cake, right. Kaylee cake, yeah. Yeah, so that's how you find her.
Starting point is 01:06:54 But I'm going to put a link and send me like a one link if you have it or like your OnlyFans link or your website, whatever you got. Send it to me. Do me a favor and send me a couple of hot picks for my Patreon, right? I'll also give you free access to there if you want to go and see the comments and give you free access to my Discord. I have like a guest. I have so many different channels in my Discord.
Starting point is 01:07:14 I have over 5,000 people on there. But I also have like a content creator channel. And I, you know, I allow people to go in there and promote whatever they want and do whatever, like and put content in there. So you could always go, you know, I'll give you free access. You could go in there, put up teaser content. And so, you know, send people to your only fans. Whatever you want.
Starting point is 01:07:31 I'll send you all those links to get in when your episode goes up. But send me picks and your links as soon as possible. So I have it. Okay. And then I'll email you right. before your episode goes up, okay? All right. Sounds great.
Starting point is 01:07:45 Thank you so much. No, thank you. I love your story. Thanks so much for calling in. Yeah, of course. Thank you for having me. Okay, bye, Kaylee. Hi.
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