Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1159 - Girl Talk: Orgasms and a Recent Gangbang

Episode Date: July 3, 2025

My guest today called in to talk all about orgasms and the gang bang she recently had with 3 guys. Tune in for all the details which include how and why she recently became multi orgasmic, how she no...w can have all types of orgasms including clitoral, cervical and G spot and how you can have them too, how and why she can orgasm while giving a bj, what kind of foreplay works for her and why, how opening up about your fantasies is the key to great sex and how that helped her in her new relationship, how knowing your body can help you orgasm, what men can do to give their partners better ones plus she ends the show with a super hot, very detailed story about a recent experience she had that started at a vanilla bar and ended with her, in an orgy with 3 other guys plus a whole lot more. REPEAT THURSDAY, originally aired 9/22 **To see HOT pics of ERICA plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive AND LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2516-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: ANONYMOUS to get an 50% off plus a 14 day money-back guarantee Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:03:25 review because I really do love hearing from my listeners. I fucking love it. It makes everything that I do worth it. So keep those great reviews coming. It helps the show. Today I have on Erica. She called him before. Erica loves women and threesomes and orgies and more. Well, she decided to come on and talk about orgasms. I had her on for this topic because this bitch knows how to have every kind of orgasm. Even orgasms that I didn't know existed. There is a cervical orgasm, I didn't know that existed. Does that make me dumb? I don't know. I don't think so. I'm like the average kind of person. I never heard of a cervical orgasm. This bitch has them. She has multiple orgasms. She squirts. She can also make herself orgasm while she is giving a guy hat with no touching herself.
Starting point is 00:04:16 There's a move that she talks about, that she learned that will literally get her to have an orgasm through a blowjob. And that's what we talk about on this episode. Like the G spot ones, the best position for that, the cervical one, the best position for that, how she learned to squirt, how she became multi-orgasmic before she, because she never was before. What happened in her life that created this awakening? Because this girl did really change her life. And she talks about that. If you won't believe what this girl does, you'll get a taste of it at the end because at the
Starting point is 00:04:54 End. She gives me a story that just happened, a situation, an orgy, a gang bang. I don't know. It was her servicing three guys. D.P. was included. They all started off at like a vanilla bar, okay? Not even like a Swingers Club or anything. And wound up with her having sex with three different guys. She fools around with the girl at the bar too. Okay. It's like a scene out of a porn. And she explains it in full detail at the end. So we close it with that. She sent me in picks of what she was wearing, like a little hot nighty, that she was wearing the night of this for some gangbang.
Starting point is 00:05:38 So if you want to see picks of Erika, after listening to this, join my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The link to that is in the episode description, as well as the links to everything else that I told you about. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Erica. Hi, Erica.
Starting point is 00:05:57 Welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast. You're calling in now for Girl Talk. You were just on. Yes, thank you. I know. It was only a few weeks ago, but we had so much fun. Episode 522. Erica loves women and threesomes and orgies and more.
Starting point is 00:06:13 And the reason why I wanted to have you on for Girl Talk is because I was like trying to think of like different topics to have for this series. And, you know, I already did one on anal. I'm going to do one on squirting. And then I was like, let's do one on orgasms. And who better to have on to wrap about orgasms than Erica, who told me on the episode, on your episode, you told me you could orgasm through giving a guy a blow job, okay? And I was like, wow, I totally get it.
Starting point is 00:06:40 So we are going to wrap about orgasms. You have multiple ones and you have every kind of orgasm. You squirt. I mean, have you always been so in touch with your orgasms? Or did that come through time? No. Not at all. I mean, I remember having orgasms actually, like, as a child, you know, through, like, self-exploration. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:07:06 And then when I first started, became, like, sexually active, like, late teens, I don't really remember coming, like, that much. I had one boyfriend before my husband. He was a little bit older as well. And he actually was really sad. He was like six foot four and he had the smallest stick. And at first I thought maybe it was like an obstacle illusion. Yeah, yeah, yeah, right. Because he's so big.
Starting point is 00:07:34 Yeah, yeah. But no, it was not. So we actually ended up having a lot of anal sex because I preferred that since the stick was small. And I remember coming through that, but it really wasn't until I had a deep emotional connection with my affair partner 10 years ago. And that's when I started, I realized I had the ability to have most. multiple orgasms, but they were still primarily clitoral orgasms. It wasn't until Sam that I really started having every type of orgasm. And a lot of that is through our communication. Like,
Starting point is 00:08:06 while he's fucking me, I'll be like, even though he's very dominant in the bedroom, I still, I don't just lay there. I'm like, you know, slower, deeper. You know, whatever, whatever does I need. Like, if I feel something building, I communicate that with him. Unless it's just like, Like, you know, he is holding me down on the bad, like fucking a shit out of me. Then, you know, then he just does this thing. But, you know, for the most part, we just really communicate with each other. And that's how I've gotten in touch with these different types of orgasms. Like, I feel very comfortable with him.
Starting point is 00:08:39 I feel extremely comfortable and confident in myself. Maybe it's an age thing. I've heard women over 35, like, start to gain that sexual confidence. I'm not sure. But it's been, it's been amazing. Yeah. Definitely like the G spot. I heard your episode the other day with the, for anal with like the butt plug.
Starting point is 00:08:58 Yeah. I do like the butt plug too. But, you know, the G spot, it had, like, the dick has to go in at a certain place to hit that G spot for that kind of orgasm. I've had cervical ones. I have cervical ones. Yeah, what is that? Cervicals, when you actually feel it touching your cervix? You can feel it touching your cervix.
Starting point is 00:09:18 And you like that? I like it. I'm a little bit of a. pain slut. Oh, right. Maybe Layla is that girl that I talk with anal. She had that going on too. I don't have that at all. That's like freaks me out. So it's because it's kind of painful and that's what turns you on? It's a little bit. It can be a little painful. But, you know, for that, generally what I'll do is like, you know, on my back, Sam will be either standing outside of the bed with like my legs up on his shoulders or I'll have like a pillow under me if he's kneeling on the bed. And just so you kind of like have your butt elevated. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:09:53 And then just like deep and slow. So you can feel it like rubbing on your cervix. You feel a cough rubbing your cervix. It's not like pounding. Oh, okay. And then I feel it building. And then it's like the orgasm kind of radiates up through your body. Instead of like, you know how like a regular orgasm you kind of feel like you just like clench up and then like release?
Starting point is 00:10:16 And it's kind of just all centered and like the vagina. or with split. This is very much like a full body. Like I feel, like I tell him, I'm like, I feel you everywhere. Like I feel the orgasm throughout my body. And that's when your cervic is, is stimulated. And that is a real thing? Cervical orgasms?
Starting point is 00:10:37 I've never heard of that. It is a real thing. Like if I Googled it, like it exists. Like there's what other kinds of orgasms exist? Cervical? There's G-spot, right? There's, so that's vaginal. There's, um,
Starting point is 00:10:50 What's the other one? Clitoral. Yep. And there's, what would we say, what will we call the one where you get it in your mouth, okay, when you're blowing a guy and it's on the top of it? I mean, that feels like a clitoral one, but it seems I can squirt from it. Yeah. I actually, I just Googled it because you said that. And Glamour magazine has an article about it.
Starting point is 00:11:15 On what? On cervical orgasm. Oh, interesting. So they, well, I mean, listen, I believe you. I just never knew and I didn't. Did that, did it happen to you by accident or did you, you know, did you guide him to do it? Because like you said, you micromanage it because whatever feels good, you like, you know, tell him to do more. I definitely discovered it by accident.
Starting point is 00:11:37 I mean, I felt, I felt something different happening. But yeah, it just, I wasn't trying to do it. Yeah, yeah. It just happened. And he tells me, like, all the time you'll look at me and the look on your face is like, what the fuck is happening to my body right now? Because so many times, I tell him, like, this is not what sex has felt like my whole life. Like, now it's 38 years old.
Starting point is 00:12:04 Sex feels completely different than it ever did before. So that's very different than the G-spot orgasm. The G-spot, I find happens after like a couple of clitoral orgasms. And, you know, when the guy's in your, like, the cock's in your vagina and just hitting that G spot, like a little, a little bit inside of you. And just for, I mean, Sam has a big dick. So really, it's just the head of his cock and a little bit more. Right. And generally for that one, I like to do like the lazy dog where I'm laying on my bat or on my, my belly and he's behind me.
Starting point is 00:12:44 And sometimes I'll, like, reach back and like, hold. this cough so that I am controlling how deep it goes in. And that will make me square like every time. Now, is that, do you hold it because you could get it in the right angle because it has to go in or it can't go in too deep? I mean, is it just because
Starting point is 00:13:01 you know exactly where your jeezer Yeah, I don't hold it all the time. I don't hold it all the time, but I will sometimes. Or, you know, if he's just going in shallow like that I'll be like, yes, you know, like, yes, Daddy, keep doing that. It feels so good. Right. I'm not like, I'm not saying like, do this, do that. Like, I try to make it
Starting point is 00:13:17 sexy, but still communicating what I like. But how does it feel? Like, how do you know that your G, like for somebody that's never had that experience? Like, how do you know your G spot is getting activated? Like, you just feel like good? Does it feel like nothing at first, or does it feel like what people say, oh, you've got to pee? Yeah, I mean, the G spot, I feel like is sensitive, especially once you're already really turned on.
Starting point is 00:13:42 I mean, a lot of that has to do with, like, your overall arousal. So it feels like, you know, when I feel like I have to score, it's done a little bit, feel like I have to pee, but really I just feel this like need to release. Right. And so it just goes. And, you know, the G-Spoor orgasm for me kind of feels like that release combined with the clitoral orgasm feeling. You know, like my vagina will pulse. I'll feel that, you know, tightening up while also releasing, you know, having an. ejaculation. Hey everyone, have a partner. Well, then why not reboot your sex life by getting
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Starting point is 00:15:53 And, you know, a geosol orgasm for me kind of feels like that release combined with the clitoral orgasm feeling. You know, like my vagina will pulse. I'll feel that, you know, tightening up while also releasing, you know, having an ejaculation. And I definitely think the laying on your stomach position. is probably the best way to have that kind of orgasm, because there's been a couple times that I've been in that position where I've felt a different kind of orgasm than ever before
Starting point is 00:16:26 and never really realized it. Do you know what I mean? And I think it's because of the position, like it's hitting something different, and I never realized it, but maybe it's the G-spot. It is, yeah. Well, I mean, I think you've talked about never squirting before. I think you need an hour with Sam.
Starting point is 00:16:43 I think he has 100%. Oh, you're offering a bit of, your guy. I know you share. I have 100% offering him up. I've got a lot of offers from my show. I don't take on guess, but that's, but I understand. Yeah, this is what I think, though, and this is like me copping to something personal, but, like, I have this thing. Me and my friends call it pokey, pokey. Like, I, I, I don't even like the inside of my belly button being touched. And I think there's something about the G-spot orgasm that I have, like, a mental block to it because it's, like, something inside me that needs to be touch. Like if anyone's tried with a finger or anything, like I'm just too in my head about
Starting point is 00:17:19 something feeling around for a body part. I don't know what it is, but it freaks me out and it bothers me. I think I personally have a mental block to it. Do you understand? But maybe why it has worked for me or I felt it a different way when I'm on my stomach and I don't do that move a lot, but I probably should. That's probably my key to getting it to work because that's when the dick is going to, you know what I mean? Like the guy's the dick is going to be hitting my thing and giving me the order. Because trying, squirting with the hand action, I don't think will ever work for me unless I go to like 10 years of therapy and get pokey, pokey out of my head. It's like some weirdo thing. We call it pokey pokey. I don't know how else to explain it, but it's like I can't
Starting point is 00:18:00 get that out of my head. And that's why I think I talked about like if like a guy's fingering me, like you can't finger me with one finger like two or three at least because I can't feel like a thin thing going in there like a probe, you know? And I don't know why. So I think the that that's what I mean. Like, I think if I did the move where I was on my stomach more and had sex that way, I would probably get closer. That's what I need to do. I did a whole thing on my Patreon about sex positions recently. And I did talk about the fact that I like missionary a lot because I think I might have like a little bit of a smothering thing. Like, I like that dominating feeling of like a guy on top of me and being pinned down. So I think missionary gets a bad rap for
Starting point is 00:18:45 being very vanilla because it doesn't, to me it's really not, you know? Oh no, I love missionary. Right? Right. Right. For sure. Yeah, I totally went through all the sex positions and the choices were missionary, doggy style. I think I did reverse a cowgirl, you know, or cowgirl, whatever that's called, and something else, whatever. And it was, you know, most people, of course, I think it was doggy style was the thing that got top billing. Well, so I chose doggy style. I, you know, Oh, you were on it? I love, yeah, I love this position. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:19:19 So, I mean, this is most closely along with doggy. But, and if you like the smothering, like, one thing that Sam and I will do is he'll kind of lay down on top of me so that I feel his weight. And that's kind of like a dominant thing too. Yeah, yeah. And I also enjoy some breath play. So he'll, like, lay down and, like, cover my nose and mouth. He fucks me that way. And it is really hot.
Starting point is 00:19:42 Wait, wait. What did you just say? Cover your breast. play or breath play? Breath. Breath. Breath. Breath. Breast. What the fuck is that? It's like autoerotic asphyxiation. So like I get off by, by like choking or, you know, having my nose and mouth covered, like not being able to breathe.
Starting point is 00:20:03 Oh my God. Erica, you just keep bringing shit up. I mean, you need to go into this now too. What the fuck are that all about? Also, one more thing on the G-spot thing. Yeah. But you might also find helpful is I have this little vibrator. I can send you a link to it on Instagram. Yeah. It's like super tiny.
Starting point is 00:20:22 And you can just like hold that on your clit while you're lying on your stomach. And having the vibrator on your clit might actually help you get over that hump of squirting as well. Or like having that chief spot orgasm. You're going to be getting that quit stimulation at the same time. Yeah. So I'm not really one that uses a vibrator during sex. Like we will. I have a wand.
Starting point is 00:20:44 I have a ton of sex toys. We definitely will use it, but I'm not like, oh, I have to have it to get off. It might be something to try. I typically have always, because I've always had very easy to have a clitoral orgasm, right? I think that's everyone's go-to. So I would always use my hand. I have no problem just doing it myself. I tend to not like vibrators that much on my clit,
Starting point is 00:21:09 only because I feel like there's so much overstimulation, and I feel like I get nervous that I would like never be able to get off without it, you know, because it's so unnatural. Do you know what I mean? It's like so fucking unnatural. I used to tell my girlfriends who were having issues with orgasms, like don't get a vibrator because like what's going to happen is you're going to be so used to like that getting you off that.
Starting point is 00:21:35 Real sex is nothing like that. Like it does nothing to do with that. Like learn how to get off on real sex, you know, like because. Because a vibrator, or then you're just going to be addicted to always having it, but I'm like very black and white. I'm an addict. So like I get afraid of getting addicted to anything. So I've never, I'm not so sold on vibrators. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:21:57 Like so I definitely think the G spot thing for me is on my stomach, do it more. Use my hand like you saying just some way make sure that the clit is being stimulated too because you need to be very turned on because that G spot. it gets bigger, right? I mean, it swells out. Right. So it's like it's an erectile tissue. Right. Internal erectile tissue.
Starting point is 00:22:20 So in order to get that orgasm, like you have to be erect, just like a guy. Right. And whereas like for women, like we don't really think of it that way because it's not visually the same. Yeah. But yeah, we need we need to have an erection as well. And the vibrator that I'm talking about that's little, it actually does this like deep pulse. So it's not like a wand where you're just like.
Starting point is 00:22:42 you know, like wanding the shit out of yourself. Yeah, you know what I mean. Yeah. Yeah. And I find that, I just find that to be over the moon. But like I said, it's something that we might do like once a month. And I don't have a hard time. Like if I use my wand like a couple of days because Sam and I live like 50 miles apart from each other. So we only see each other like three times a week.
Starting point is 00:23:08 Yeah. So sometimes like I saw him a couple of days ago. I didn't see him for two days. Like, I didn't get off. I'm not like a sex addict. I didn't get off in that time between the two times that I saw him. Yeah. But like sometimes I will, you know?
Starting point is 00:23:21 Yeah. You're horny. You want to get off. And I'll use my lawn. It doesn't impact my ability to have like a regular sex orgasm the next time or anything. But I just think that's very individual for each woman. And I also think that like some of the issues that women might have with orgasming just with their hands, like you get up in your head. Like women, I feel like sex for women, it's probably like 90% mental.
Starting point is 00:23:47 For sure. And so if you're in your head about something, it's just not going to happen. If you're like, I can only get off with a vibrator, well, that's the self-fulfilling process. Yeah, that's what my pokey pokey is. Like I said, it's a block. And it's deep-seated, you know, like I said. So I don't know that I can ever get past that block. But I know that when I had girlfriends who couldn't come, it was typically the girls that maybe didn't feel good about their bodies and they're not comfortable.
Starting point is 00:24:11 their skin. And that happens with women in the menopause because their body start to change. You know, it's a very mental for women. So any kind of mental thing you got going on there that's that's going to block you, like whether it's, oh, I'm never going to be able to come without a vibrator or my body doesn't look good and he's not going to be interested in what he sees. You know, it's going to block you from having orgasms. And the problem I think most women have, and this is for girls who are listening to our girl talk thing, is that they don't really know guys, okay? I have always had girlfriends. I need girlfriends, but I always had guy friends. I need to be able to be alpha someplace in my life. And my guy friends are that. I could tell them to shut the
Starting point is 00:24:52 fuck up, you fucking asshole, and be myself. You know what I mean with them? And it's like, cool. I just can't be that way with my girls. You know what I? That's why I've always had guy friends, because I could just really be me with them. And they're cool. But I really know how guys are. And I think a lot of women don't. And I know that guys don't fucking look at your little roll that's on the side. You know, like, girls are very fixated on things and their bodies in ways that guys aren't. Other girls might be and they're judging and we're all about our bodies and everything. But guys really aren't.
Starting point is 00:25:24 They're not that fucking picky. You got some good tits. You got some legs. You got a little waist. You got a big ass. Like, they like it. They're not looking at your little flaw that you're hyper fixated on because you're a woman and, you know, society has told you to be hyper-fixated on that stuff. It's just not the case. And I think a lot of
Starting point is 00:25:41 women don't feel good about their bodies because of that. And then they can't really relax and they think a guy is being as critical with them. And they should not. You know what I mean? Like guys like a lot of different things. Right. I think if you're in a partnership where one partner is a woman, the other partner is a man, it should be on the man to recognize that foreplay for a woman, and I said this on my last episode with you, begins first thing in the morning and goes the entire day. So if your wife isn't feeling comfortable, like, you know, I was reading this one story where the woman, like, refused to let her guy eat her out. Or, you know, you will only have sex with the lights off or only have sex with your bra on or whatever the hangout is.
Starting point is 00:26:28 Yeah. Like, if you're the male partner and that is, you know, lessening your experience, then when your wife's getting ready for work in the morning, you need to go up behind her kiss her neck and be like, damn, baby, like, your ass looks so good today. Like, do it at times when that's not about to happen. Do it at times when she's like, you know, making breakfast for your baby. Be like, damn, like, look at those tips. Like, I'm such a lucky man. And shit like that goes a long way to boost a woman's confidence. Totally.
Starting point is 00:27:02 You're very right. It is a very smart piece of advice for guys out there. Instead of focusing on that issue, help her get passed up by building her confidence, like you said, with compliments and making her feel sexy about herself. Exactly. I mean, ultimately confidence comes from within, but I mean, we're humans. We seek, you know, that gratification from the people that mean, the most. to us. So if your partner's struggling with confidence or, you know, body insecurity, just pump her up, you know, and pump her up, you know, women don't want to feel like they're being complimented because
Starting point is 00:27:40 you expect them to take their clothes off. Right. Women want to feel complimented because, you know, it's those little moments. Those little moments throughout the day are what make or break relationships, in my opinion. And I do believe, and I think this is what you're saying, is that those moments should come not because you want sex. Those moments should come, like, before you walk out the door, you know, because what I think women are very against or what really gets them down, or I hear it a lot from men, like, oh, she complains that all I ever want is sex is guys only initiate those kinds of conversations and give those compliments because they want the girl to, like, blow them and they're horny.
Starting point is 00:28:18 You know, it's always the start of something. So, you know, do that when you don't want anything. When you're like, like I said, walking out the door before, I think that's what you mean. right? Yep, yep, because those little moments will lead to hot sex. Right. Hot sex is not going to come from, you know, it's 10 o'clock at night after a long day that you haven't connected all day. And now all of a sudden you want your wife to be a porn star. Hot sex is not going to happen in that moment.
Starting point is 00:28:44 Hot sex is built through little moments, little bits of connectivity, little bits of vulnerability. Like, women need to see their guys be vulnerable too. And they need that connection. And that's what leads to the porn star sex. It's just fact. Unless you're with someone who doesn't have any sort of mental connection with facts. But like for me, those little moments with Sam and I have made me into you know, the foursome queen or or G or you know, whatever. Because he looks at me all day long and it's like,
Starting point is 00:29:19 goddamn, like, I am the luckiest motherfucker on this planet with you. He is lucky, okay? Because not only are you like the porn sort that does all that stuff, you could actually orgasm by blowing him. Can you describe what you were talking about? Because when you explain the move and I did it and everybody listening should do it, they will see that there is a connection.
Starting point is 00:29:45 It has to do with the top of your mouth and your pussy. You make that connection for me. Talk about it. I know, I know. I know. I mean, I don't know if that makes him the lucky one or me the lucky one. Both.
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Starting point is 00:31:35 makes him the lucky one or me the lucky one. Both. I can, yeah, that I can work out some from that. But basically, you want to already be super aroused. So typically, typically, will do this like in the middle of fucking like I'll be riding him and then I'll just take his dick out and kind of kneel between his legs while he's laying down so that I have total control of his cock and I just take it in my mouth right past the hard palate there's that really soft area before you get to your throat and I either just kind of stroke it or gently you know like gently thrust it right there. And it probably takes about a minute and then I'll just start coming and squirting from that.
Starting point is 00:32:26 And I'll do it like two or three times. Right. But what I think women should do is what I did when I was talking to you. Like take your tongue and like flick it on that back part, right? On the top of your mouth right there. You could kind of feel that somehow it's like connected. There must be nerves that go from there to the bottom, right? Explain.
Starting point is 00:32:46 It is. I mean, your entire body is connected. And that's why, you know, a sexual experience shouldn't just be about your penis and vagina. It's your entire body. Like, you can get off from, you know, I can get off from my nipples being played with. It's just all very connected. But I think the key is to be in that very aroused state. Right.
Starting point is 00:33:08 So it's not like you could just go right now and start blowing him and do that only to get you aroused. No, not right. not right from, you know, like cold turkey, like from nothing. I mean, I got aroused from, you know, giving him blowjob, but it's not like that. It's, it needs to be in the, in the middle of, you know, the session, so to speak. And I think that's really important, too, for a couple of, like, I think a lot of times we think of like, okay, we're going to have oral, just the kind of warm things up and then we're going to get to the fucking. But if you mix it up and you start. you know, obviously you need to be, have that baseline arrival for intercourse to be comfortable for a woman.
Starting point is 00:33:52 But like once that's going, then like stop and have him finger you or have him like lick your pussy or go down on hand, whatever. And just switch it up during during that fuck session. You don't have to just go from like fingering to oral to fucking in a routine. Right. I mean, listen, sometimes quickies. a lot of couples. Yeah, sometimes though quickies are really great and could be fine. But quickies are efficient because people are fucking busy.
Starting point is 00:34:22 You live far away from your guy so you only see him a certain amount of time. But like I think sometimes when people are seeing somebody all the time, people are married and they're always, you know, with the same person. Sometimes quickies happen, it's fine. But you're saying the whole point, because I want to always tie it into the orgasm, is that take your time, have more foreplay. That will lead to better orgasms. I also think if you're switching things up.
Starting point is 00:34:49 Right. I mean, Sam and I do live far apart, but we still see each other like four times a week. Yeah, yeah, yeah. About. And so we are having a lot of sex and we are, you know, just kind of doing regular life stuff. And, you know, we have cookies like every other couple. But like, I think you can get a lot done in 20 minutes. it doesn't have to be, you know, I know everybody's tired by the night. You're saying it doesn't have to be
Starting point is 00:35:16 longer. It just has to be something different. And what I do think is actually important about your relationship. And this isn't a negative. It's to remind people of how a relationship is in the beginning. I think people lose sight of that. I'm talking to the people that are listening that are 10 years in, you know, and they're having a problem. What do they learn from that couple that has just met up and is so fucking horny for each other, like they used to be, that you have to bring that sort of energy back, that curiosity about each other, that trying new things, you know, that hotness back into the bedroom. That could happen by remembering what it was like and how that works, because that's
Starting point is 00:36:01 like how a lot of couples start out. And I think that they lose that. Absolutely. I also think it's not even about like getting that. hot time back with your partner. It's about getting in touch with it with yourself. So for women, like go out, like, have some time, like, in the bath or just in bed by yourself and, you know, touch yourself in a different way or get a new toy or just, you know, relax, you know, while you're rubbing your clit, like play with your nipple and just see what happens,
Starting point is 00:36:36 see how that feels. Because the more in touch of women, especially that we are with ourselves, the better our experience of the partner is going to be. Of course. My girlfriends that couldn't come with guys couldn't even come with themselves over a couple. And I'm like, are you got to be kidding me? You know,
Starting point is 00:36:52 and then if you can come by yourself, but you can't with your partner and you can have, then all you need to do is speak up. You know your body and you have to know your body. And that's why I would tell some of my girlfriends, like stop with the vibrator because you can't, you know, you're maybe getting yourself off with that.
Starting point is 00:37:07 And then you go to have regular sex and you can't. So I would recommend. Use a dildo, like mock up real sex and figure out what works for you while you're not self-conscious to get yourself off. And then when you're with the guy, speak up or move around or take control and make that happen. But it definitely starts with knowing your own body, knowing what turns you on because your guy was with somebody else before he was with you. He knows how to get that girl on, you know, and every girl is a little bit different. Everyone's clit is a little bit different. Some people are more sensitive.
Starting point is 00:37:41 certain areas. Everyone has like their thing. So everyone's G spots are in a different places. So that guy knows, like I said, how to get off on somebody else. He has to learn how to get you off. And I think it's just a whole new experience always. And you have to tell a guy, they're not a fucking mind reader. I think some people are definitely good at vibing on what feels good with somebody else, you know, but a lot of people aren't. I think that's somebody that's very comfortable in their skin, very comfortable having sex. But, a lot of people that don't know how to click into that, they have to like speak up for themselves. Tell the part of what it is they want and what it is that they like and what feels good to them
Starting point is 00:38:22 so they could get more and have better orgasms. And for the women or couples that have been married for 10 years, don't reinforce something that isn't working for you. Oh, that's important. Yeah. I mean, listen, you were in a new relationship, but you were also in a long relationship. I mean, you know both sides and all sides of it because you've been there done that. Yeah. And I definitely reaffirmed what didn't work for years because, you know, you just get into that routine.
Starting point is 00:38:51 I know so many married couples who will not tell their partner, their fantasies or, you know, what they would want to try. And maybe you want to talk about that like outside of the bedroom, like on a date night or something. Or maybe you say it like in the middle of when he's fucking you. But just say it, you know. and let, you know, let yourself feel sexy. Because I think as women and as moms, that goes by the wayside sometimes. So the first thing that does, you lose yourself. And I know that for me, it was a conscious decision for me to reconnect with that part
Starting point is 00:39:29 because it could, you know, it does go away in the beginning. You do become like hyper fixated on your child. And I think that that's just nature and that's the way it should be, you know, and you give like two, two and a half years. I remember feeling like I was coming out of that like haze. I'm like trying to figure out how to take care of this thing. And then it's like you're good to go. And then you're like, oh my God, I'm sort of back to myself.
Starting point is 00:39:52 And I lost that part of me. And I think it's very important to get it back. And I remember listening to a woman named Esther Perel. Now she's very famous. She's the fucking boss bitch on sexual, like anything, like sexuality. She's a PhD sex therapist. And she talked about how so many women complain and are upset about their guy coming into the, you know, while she's cooking and grabbing her ass and wanting to have fucking sex and how women just load that. And it's like a big problem for them.
Starting point is 00:40:30 And she was like, you know, instead, what you should do is feel so happy that, you know, your guy still sees you as a sex. Because one day that won't be the case, but no, but she says, just because you have lost the ability to see you that way, you should be thankful that he can still see you that way and try to connect with that. And I heard that and I thought, oh my God, I have this guy. I always have a booty call in my life because I don't have a lot of relationships, but I'm always getting laid somewhere. And I remember this guy always like harp and I mean, have sex. And I'd be like, I'd be like, okay, every now and then. But I was like, you know what? I have to force myself to go there and be thankful that this is a man that still sees me as a piece of ass and just wants to fuck me. You know, it's not a bad thing. It's actually a good thing. And like she said, just because I couldn't see myself that way anymore, you know, I needed to let him, you know, appreciate the fact that he was and therefore start seeing myself.
Starting point is 00:41:31 And that is a very true thing. She said it a lot better than I just did, but it's very fucking true. Don't knock that, you know? Don't look down on it. And if you see yourself, right, if you see yourself through his eyes or you look in the mirror, you pick out something about yourself, you're like, God damn, right, that looks look amazing. And you think about that, like, while you're fucking, you're going to be able to get that work out of them more than if you're feeling like, oh, is my stomach jiggling right now? Yeah, but those are things. Yeah, those are real things.
Starting point is 00:42:03 And that goes back to like you saying, like, oh, the guy should make the woman. feel okay. And I think a lot of times the guys do the guys, a lot of times women gain a little weight and we notice it a lot more, especially women that are going through menopause, than the guy doesn't. The guy doesn't fucking care. I have a lot of guys on my show that are in relationships with women and have been married to them. And they say that their wife isn't as into sex anymore because she doesn't feel good about her body. But he does not see the difference. They just don't. But that's hard. And that's like, that's where sometimes, no matter what somebody else says to you. It can't change it. It's called self-esteem for a reason because it does come from yourself.
Starting point is 00:42:42 So you do have to go within and figure out a way to feel sexy again. And that's like, listen, if you don't like your fucking jiggly stomach, go get it fixed. If you don't, you gain too much weight and you cannot feel comfortable that way and will never feel sexy that way because you start intermittent and fasting and get your ass to the gym. You know, do something about that to make yourself feel so. there's always like some sort of slu or relax into it and be like this is who I fucking am and I'm fucking hot and buy yourself some sexy lingerie and feel good about yourself. I had a girlfriend who had a body that wasn't perfect, but she had really big boobs.
Starting point is 00:43:23 She had great legs, you know, but she was always, I mean, she literally looked at herself as like a two and her body was not that way. And I used to show her celebrities that dress like her and that had her body. I'm like, that's your fucking body on that girl and that girl feels hot. And the only difference between you and her, because this girl is sexy and she's in magazines and she looks fucking hot is she feels that way and she dresses that way. And she's got your same body, but you don't see yourself that way. So you don't have to be perfect to feel hot. But if you're never going to feel great with your body the way it is, there's stuff you could do. Work out, go to the gym, dress sexy, you know.
Starting point is 00:44:04 and it's all about like what you're saying and all of that stuff to tie it back into orgasms helps you orgasm better because it is like like you said in the beginning very mental with women and so if you can't really feel hot you're just not going to be turned on right yep that's that's 100% true so you know get that mental aspect and and have positive self-talk throughout the day like I said, if you catch a glimpse of yourself, you know, compliment yourself in the mirror or like, take that five minutes and put a little makeup on or put on a little outfit that you feel cute in, even if you're not going anywhere. And that, like, for me, you know, if I'm mom and around, I like to put on like a cute little tank top with my yoga pants so that I can see, you know,
Starting point is 00:44:55 my cleavage. And it doesn't make a huge difference. But when I look at myself in the mirror, I feel sexy. I don't feel like, oh, I just have this big floppy t-shirt on. I believe those little things definitely shift your energy. And it could start a little bit where just wear a little tighter shirt or wear like tighter pants. You know, do something that,
Starting point is 00:45:16 show a little midrifts, do something where you're starting to feel a little bit more sexy about yourself. And then it's snowballs. I definitely believe that. I mean, you were a girl that went from, you were in a long-term relationship. You had four kids. You weren't into them.
Starting point is 00:45:34 You were cheating like crazy because you obviously were happy at home. And even though you did have an open relationship kind of with them, I mean, it was kind of crazy. People have to listen to your first episode to get the whole back story. And then you wind up meeting the one. You know, it's probably like you would say, this is the one. You guys both knew it from the get-go. And it's totally changed the game.
Starting point is 00:45:56 Like you're having all these orgasms, all the stuff that you're doing now, you couldn't do before. So that's the good news to people. Like, just because you can't, you're not multi-orgasmic or you can't squirt or you can't get off by just blowing your guy. It doesn't mean that you never can. Like, you can. And that's what I love when I hear people like you because I'm not multi-orgasmic. And whenever I hear someone that says that they weren't and they are, I'm like, oh my God, tell me how to fucking make that happen. Because, you know, life's short. Right. Well, and I don't think you need to change partners in order to change experience. I think you need to both be committed to having those open and vulnerable
Starting point is 00:46:32 conversations. Yeah, because, I mean, the fantasies that you're living out with your guy and all the orgasms and all the pleasure that it has led to is like a 100% complete change in your life. And like I said, you weren't like a vanilla woman that completely changed the game. You were very open and doing a lot of the stuff that you're doing now. But it is different. It is a different experience. You did shift and it was about all the things that you're talking about. It happens to be with a new partner, but like someone could do it within their own relationship that they're still in. But you did change the game, your game. I changed my life. I changed my life and it's changed me completely. Now I know, and we're going to end with this and it's a long hot story. I mean,
Starting point is 00:47:18 you did tease me before we started taping that you're like, oh, I just have, what did you just have like recently? Like you just had like a five person. I did have a three three guy experience. Okay. A three guy experience. Let's end with that crazy three guy experience. Okay. There were a lot of orgasms. We tied in. The last time we spoke was meeting about a month ago. And since then, I have had DP with two different partners in addition to Sam. And this particular, case on Saturday, we had actually originally planned to go to a swingers club Saturday night. And it's hard for us to get to the club just with like family obligations and real life shit, you know.
Starting point is 00:48:08 And so we set it aside, we're like this Saturday, we're fucking going to the swingers club. We're going to throw down the last time we were at the club is when we had that orgy. So we're really excited to go again. And we just had like all the family shit all day. by the end of the night, it was like nine or ten o'clock at night. Like, oh, fuck. Just don't feel like driving all the way there, getting a hotel, the whole deal. So I decided like, let's just go to a bar.
Starting point is 00:48:37 We were originally going to go to just like the regular bar that we, you know, go grab drinks at on the regular. We decided to go somewhere else. So we roll up to this bar and it is a total like 10 to wine sausage fast. Like guys everywhere. And this is a regular bar, right? This is not a swinger bar. This is like a regular bar. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:49:03 Okay. Tons of guys, no hot girls except you. You know what? It was honestly like the bars being from Star Wars. It was very strange. I know exactly what you're talking about. From the first Star Wars, right? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:49:18 Yeah. There were a decent amount of hot guys. I would say almost every woman who was there was over six feet tall. It was like Amazon women. Wow. Interesting. Yeah, it was very strange. In this particular area is where like the pro football players hang out and all that, like in our area.
Starting point is 00:49:38 So, you know, there's some good looking guys. And we rolled through the bar just like kind of seeing what's up and all these guys are checking me out. And that gets Sam going. Like he loves when I turn heads. walking through a place. Right. And so we start, like, you know, making out a little bit, dancing, we're having a good time drinking.
Starting point is 00:50:00 And the Scott actually hit me up that I had been talking to from FLF, like the senior site. And we had been talking for, like, a couple weeks, just hadn't really been able to put it together, like, to meet up. And I tell them, like, hey, you know, Sam and I were hanging out at this one bar. He's like, oh, I'm going to roll up there. And he's like, no pressure, no pressure. So we keep, you know, making out, having fun. And this guy rolls in.
Starting point is 00:50:29 His name's Brian. Mm-hmm. And immediately he looked 10 times better than his pictures. He had a really sexy, like French accent. And he and I just start, like, immediately making out. So I'm alternating in this vanilla bar, making out between Sam and Brian. The guys that we. but the guys that were checking you out
Starting point is 00:50:54 must have been like, what the fuck is going on here? Amazing. Like, I don't consider myself a voyeur, like have a voyeur cake, but maybe I do like to be watched because... No, no, that's an exhibitionist. The voyeur is the people watching them.
Starting point is 00:51:11 Yeah, yeah. Yeah. So we're making out. And this girl, she starts, she's dancing up on her boyfriend, and she's just looking at me. She's got to be like 20, And I'm almost 40.
Starting point is 00:51:23 Yeah. And she comes over to me. We start like kind of dancing. I kiss her on the cheek. I'm like, you know, you're fucking hot. And I say the same, I'm like, I'm going to take this girl to the bathroom. So. Oh, we didn't know.
Starting point is 00:51:37 This was included in this story. I know. Girl actually kind of throw it in. Yeah. So I grab her by the hand. I was like, come on. And I like to be a little dominant with women. whereas I'm submissive with men.
Starting point is 00:51:53 So I grab her hand and she's Turkish, like barely speaks any English. And we make it to the bathroom and just start getting it on in the bathroom. Like how hard core? Like I had my hand on her bibbs. Like we're making out. My hands was all in her butt. There was definitely a woman in there who was, I would say, 100% lesbian who was really enjoying that bathroom show as well. Wait, how do you know?
Starting point is 00:52:23 I mean, she, I would just say very typical, like, just a typical luck, you know. She was butchie, and she stayed in there, you know, you mean. Oh, yeah. She just stayed, like, she was glued to the wall, just, like, watching us make an owl. And so, you know, she says to me, like I said, she barely spoke, she's like, that's your boyfriend? And I was like, yeah. And she's like, other guy. I'm like, no, we're just having fun.
Starting point is 00:52:49 Like he's not my boyfriend too. So I'm like, come on. Let's go get the guys because I'm thinking like we're going to rope her boyfriend in. So we're going to have like three guys and two girls. Like now we've got a party, right? Yeah. And we only live like 10 minutes from that bar. So we'll go back to my place.
Starting point is 00:53:08 So we go back. We're holding hands and her boyfriend grabs her and immediately leaves the bar. And that was it with her. He was jealous. He wasn't into it. Yeah, he wasn't into it. Yeah. I was devastated, obviously.
Starting point is 00:53:24 Oh, yeah. But while I was in the bathroom, Brian ended up, like, texting one of his friends to kind of meet us. So I guess he was out, like, a different place in that same area. So within five minutes, Brian's friend shows up. I don't even know what the fuck his name is. So now I'm alternating, making out with three guys. Oh, my God. In the vanilla bar still.
Starting point is 00:53:50 In the vanilla bar still. Oh my God. What a slut you are. And I have only had two drinks. You know, I wasn't like fall down drunk or anything. Yeah. So I'm like, I say to Sam, I was like, let's cash out. We got to get out here.
Starting point is 00:54:02 I'm like horny as fuck. Let's go. So I go to the bar to cash out. Sam goes to bathroom. The other two guys, like I give him my address. They start heading over to my apartment. I'm sitting at the bar. And this guy, my own.
Starting point is 00:54:18 It's next to me and he was like, hey, you know, like, how's it going? He starts chatting me up while Sam's in the bathroom trying to cash out. It was like really busy to like five minutes. So I end up getting his number, inviting him to join us too. Oh, my goodness. It was like a crazy night. He was so sweet. He was 22, total baby face.
Starting point is 00:54:39 He thought I was 26. I'm like, you're my favorite. But once he texted me, you know, to like hook up later that night, I was like, you know, come join us. He's like, oh, no, no, no, I only do one on one. I'm like, well, that's not what we're doing tonight. Right. So we go back to my apartment and, you know, Sam and I park, get in. I go into the bedroom just to like put on some lingerie and, you know, freshen up. Sam goes down to let the guys into the apartment. So go upstairs. And they come upstairs. They're in the kitchen. and we're all just like hands all over me. I've got like six hands on me, you know, all over my
Starting point is 00:55:22 tics, fingering me, like, slapping my ass. Like we're all just like kissing. I mean, not, the guys aren't kissing each other. I'm just, you know, going around like rubbing talks. We had to my bedroom and I think I told you I'm like a major squirder. So I had put down our like moisture mitigation system like on the floor and on the bed. And I just. start blowing like these three guys and just alternating between them stroking the other two
Starting point is 00:55:53 while I have one in my mouth and it was incredible like I felt like a fucking porn star yeah you sound like one you know I mean it's like a porn scene you know what I mean it's not a common thing that goes down definitely and so Brian you know
Starting point is 00:56:10 he's got this like French accent he's like dirty talking up a fucking storm to me while I'm sucking his cock. And I'm like, oh, my God. Like, what kind of stuff gets you off? Like, what kind of dirty talk is he doing? Well, I was deep throating his cock and he's like, oh, my God. Like, what a little slut you are.
Starting point is 00:56:33 Like, oh, you're swallowing my cock. Like, you know, and I like to get, like, really messy blur jobs with, you know, like, spinning on it and everything. And he was just loving it. Right. Like he, you know, he was calling me a slot. And then, you know, I would look up at Sam, I'm like, do you like this daddy? And Brian would be like, oh, are you doing it for daddy?
Starting point is 00:56:55 Like, you're such a good girl for daddy, like, things like that with his like super sexy accent. And where do you find this guy in SLS? He was like, is he? I was on SLS, yeah. Is he a single guy married? Do you know his deal? He's single. He's single.
Starting point is 00:57:09 Right. He hit the jackpot when he hit you up. I know. Right? He also, I think he had been with a DCML couples. Like he had shown us some videos. Like, I like to see videos of guys fucking women before I agree to do it. Like, I don't want to bring in a guy and have him be like a fucking slouch, you know? Oh, you want to know he's good in bed. So that's like one of your requirements, like a dick pick and a video if you have one. Oh, yeah. Definitely dick pick because I'm a size queen and definitely video so I can see the guy in action. Oh, wow. I mean, every guy has videos these days. Like, if they play in the lifestyle, they play with Hotwives, they have videos. Oh, interesting. Okay, I didn't realize that.
Starting point is 00:57:54 Yeah. Oh, yeah. I don't think we've ever really come across a guy that has, you know, doesn't have a video. Wow. Interesting. So you watch that video and you're like, oh, he looks like he can't fuck that good. I'm not going to, I'm not going to call him. Or do you typically like what you see because they're in the lifestyle and they're professionals?
Starting point is 00:58:12 Typically, I like what we see. I mean, yeah, it's not like we've been with a ton of single guys. I think maybe five total over the past year, maybe five or six. But, yeah, I mean, I want to know, you know, I'm extremely satisfied with Sam. So if I'm going to bring in another guy, he needs to be a good lover too. Right. And so, yeah, so he, so Brian, I'm second. off Brian, his friend still don't know what his name is and Sam.
Starting point is 00:58:48 And I look at a... Just call him third guy. Third guy. Third guy. Yeah. Third guy. I'm like, I'm like, baby, you have to fuck me right now. Like, I am so fucking turned on.
Starting point is 00:58:59 So I lay down on the bed, like on my bat. I don't remember. I think, I can't remember if I still have my lingerie on or not, but like they all basically undress me real quick, like throw me on the bed. And it was pretty, they were pretty rough and aggressive. Like I actually have some like bruises on my arms, I think, from just kind of being manhandled between the three of them. Right. But Sam starts fucking me.
Starting point is 00:59:27 And then I'm stroking third guy's cock and sucking off Brian. And then I pull Sam's cock out of me and just squirt fucking everywhere. Like a geyser. Oh, my God. And Brian didn't know I was a squirder. And he was like, are you fucking kidding me right now? He said, you're a squirder? And then he just had to fuck me right then.
Starting point is 00:59:50 So then everybody kind of switched. Brian starts fucking me. And then third guy fucked me for like a minute and bust like right away in his condom. So he was just kind of a dud. But I still got that third guy experience having, you know, sucked him off. and just having the attention of three guys. So they all, after third guy come, Sam and Brian just continue to kind of take turns fucking me.
Starting point is 01:00:22 You know, they're like biting my tits and stopping my ass. And then I look at Sam, I was like, I want DP again. Because I had done it like a couple weeks prior with a different guy. And Sam, so Sam and I have a rule. Like when we play with other guys, no anal. for the other guys. Like, it's only, anal's only for daddy. Right. But in DP,
Starting point is 01:00:47 Sam likes vagina because he likes to be on the bottom so he can like see my face. Right. I'm getting fucked in the ass with it by another guy. And so I get on top of Sam, Brian gets lube, he goes under my ass. I listened to your anal episode the other day and I am a total anal slut too. Like I have the biggest orgasms from anal.
Starting point is 01:01:13 You're right? There's a lot of nerve endings in there. Yeah. I call them season ender. What do you call it? What? Season ender. Like if you have a season ending injury, like because I'll come.
Starting point is 01:01:26 Oh, that's hilarious. All that's funny orgasms while being fucked. But like if I have a really intense anal one, I'm like, I'm done. I'm done. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's top of the mountain, for sure. Top of the mountain, yeah. So I climb on Sam.
Starting point is 01:01:39 Brian enters. my ass and within, we know it's within two minutes because I actually have a security camera in my bedroom that we got the whole thing on tape. I had the biggest orgasm of my life and I like shot off of both of the guys' cough and just like, fucking squirted everywhere. I'm coming, shaking the whole deal. And I'm like, holy fuck. Like, that was incredible.
Starting point is 01:02:12 And then do you do it with the other guy, too? Is that what's coming? No, he had already come in his condom. But he was just enjoying the show. Like, he was just kind of standing on the side of the dog watching. Right, right, right. But you had had DPs before, right? It was just...
Starting point is 01:02:28 I'd had one before. Oh, okay. Interesting. So this was just your second one. This was just my second one. The first one was maybe like two or three weeks ago. Mm-hmm. And so I go to the bathroom, like, kind of clean up, like, just kind of gather myself.
Starting point is 01:02:41 Third guy ends up leaving. And we had talked to Brian just about, like, testing status and everything. Because we like to play really safe. And but he had like recently got untested. And so we're like, let's do a little cream pie action. So he ends up fucking my pussy and coming inside me. and then Sam fucked me afterwards because that's kind of one of our kings, like for him to fuck me with a cream pie and then for him to come inside me too.
Starting point is 01:03:13 Oh my goodness. Where do you get all that? I mean, were you always like this type of girl or like is this like a new awakening for you? Or were you always this, you know, dirty? I don't know what is the right word. You know, horny, dirty. Honestly. You should have been a born star.
Starting point is 01:03:31 I should. I mean. Sam and I keep talking about starting an only fan. Oh, you don't have one? No. Oh, yeah. This is, I mean, this is your calling. That's actually, it's funny you should say that because, like, actually a week ago,
Starting point is 01:03:47 Sam and I were talking, and I was like, you know what? I can be so wild. I could definitely be an escort. And I'm one of those girls. I look like a girl next door. Right. You know, and I could totally do like, a full girlfriend experience.
Starting point is 01:04:05 You know, just we live in a city to where, you know, the easier to get those business travelers that want to want to go off the dinner with them, you know, well-educated, I can talk about anything. I think I would do really well with it. Yeah, yeah. But I don't have a problem with it. Like, I definitely do not look down on sex workers. And if I had to put some other table for my kids, I would 100% do what I just don't know
Starting point is 01:04:30 if I could. Well, especially if you're in a place where it's, It's not legal. I mean, you just don't want to go there. You know, it's different. A lot of the sex workers I talk to are in Canada, and it is legal there. So it's a very different story. But what you could do and what I think women do nowadays that want to get into that
Starting point is 01:04:46 business or make money because they love sex so much is they do only fans. You know, you could live your same life. But if you put it out there on some level and you could monetize it, it's no different, really. I think it's kind of the same thing, but a different option because it is legal. you know, so you could mock up that whole scenario on OnlyFans. You'd be doing the same thing, but you could do it with more people because it's virtual. True. Right.
Starting point is 01:05:12 Yeah. I mean, I'm definitely open to it. We've talked about it many times. It's just, you know how it is now? Like, with my job, if they found out, I could lose my job. And it's just, I feel like that's such bullshit because it's just shaming, like, people for what they do on their private time. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:05:31 But you could do it anonymously. Potentially. Somehow. So anyway, I thought you did have a OnlyFans. I don't know, but you just have an Instagram. No, I don't have anything. I don't have anything. No, no.
Starting point is 01:05:46 I have Instagram, but it's just like, you know, my private Instagram. Yeah, you just sound so fucking horny and so into sex that I'm like, you know, how are you not a part of that world that everyone's, you know, a part of? But anyway, listen, Erica. Thank you. So we called you Erica. right. Thank you so much for coming back on. I really think that, you know, maybe you don't have an OnlyFans or Instagram, but maybe you should have something. I don't know what that's going to be.
Starting point is 01:06:15 Maybe. I don't know. Well, I appreciate you having me. It was a lot of fun. Yeah, no. And listen, you already sent me in new picks to post on my Patreon ones that you wore. You sent me pictures of, like you, what you were wearing in that scenario that you just had, right? Is that what people could see? Yep. The one in blue is what I wore Saturday night. Yeah, the one in blue is what she wore Saturday night. So if you want to see that, you're going to have to join my Patreon.
Starting point is 01:06:44 Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. Thank you, Erica. I'm sure we'll have you back on because you'll just keep having these hot experiences. You'll be back to the regular show. But thanks again for calling in. Thanks so much. Thanks. Have a good one.
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