Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1163 - Ashley and Dave Just Started Hotwifing and Spent an Entire Weekend with a Bull

Episode Date: July 8, 2025

Ashley and Dave just started hotwifing and spent an entire weekend with a bull and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear the both of them discuss all the details including how long they talked about hotwifing before they tried It, when and how Dave realized he was into hotwifing, when he decided to tell Ashley about his interest in that genre of porn and how Ashley reacted and how watching hotwifing porn led them to them roleplaying hotwifing scenarios, t, how he enjoys seeing her play with the the toys they bought and how and why he preferred the “bigger” ones, how log it took before they started taking about doing it in real life, the reservations she had at first and why she decided to go through with it anyway, the terms that needed to be in place and the rules they come up with, the content creators he had become friends with and how he became friends with them, the successful content creator (Mr. Bull) they became friends with and how and why they decided to pick him to be their first hook up, how Ashley started flirting and sexting with Mr Bull and how and why that turned them both on, how the sex leading up to meeting with Mr. Bull was off the chart, how and why Ashley getting to know him ahead of time helped her get become super attracted to him, the only rule they had going in to their first hook up, the deep throating that went down on the ride back from the airport and exactly what went down, exactly what went down once they got to their Airbnb and then exactly what went down the rest of the weekend with him, how opening up has changed their marriage plus a whole lot more. You can check out Mr. Bull here: https://linktr.ee/mrbullbbc **To see HOT pics of ASHLEY plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code anonymous to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14 day money back guarantee  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive AND LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY   Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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please write a review because I really do love hearing from my listeners. I fucking love it. It makes everything that I do worth it. So keep those great reviews coming. It helps the show. Okay, today I have on Dave and Ashley. And let me just tell you, I am slightly obsessed with Dave and Ashley's story. Okay. And you're going to be obsessed with it too. They do not disappoint. It's a newbie story and I think that it's a newbie story that includes so many smart things to do. So many that includes so much like that include that's going to teach you so much. They did everything right. Okay. And I don't even know if they were like trying to do everything right, but everything that they did do. They did it right. And so you can really learn from

them. They also have like a hot story. I mean, Their first hot waiving experience, which they work up towards in this episode, is like a week, like a week and long experience with a professional bull. Okay. Like, so there's a lot that goes down on their first experience. And it just happened. But they tell their whole story on this episode and they start from the beginning, like when Dave got into hotwifing, how he got into it, how he wound up bringing it up to his wife, how she felt about it when he first brought it up, how what they did first, which was just like watching. porn and then how they started to role play and then who brought up actually doing it in real life first and then after they started talking about doing it in real life how they went about finding

you know a guy to sleep with like I said everything that they did oh my god I'd be like like everyone should do it the way they did it because it was kind of really smart and like I said they end with their first hot wafing experience who winds up to be a whole weekend's worth of sex they tell that whole story at the end. The whole thing is super interesting. I have picks of them over my Patreon. You're going to love their story. You're going to learn from them if you want to get your girl the hot wife or your couple thinking that maybe this is something that you should do. Listen to how they did it and take from this episode because I think that they did everything right and they were successful. They had a great fucking time. You're going to hear the whole story. So I'm going to be right back on with

Dave and Ashley. Oh, hey, Dave and Ashley, welcome to the Strictly Notamus Podcast. How are you today? Hi, doing well. How are you? Good. That's Ashley. We have Dave on the phone too, right?

Dave, there you are. Hey, Kathy. You know what some people don't understand is before I get couples on the phone, I always, you know, and give them a couple instructions, you know, and I always tell the guy, like, listen, my listeners really like to hear from the women. So make sure not to, like, monopolize the conversation. But a lot of times when I say that the guy just, like, sits there and stuff, talking. I'm like, no, you can talk. So Dave, you're allowed to talk, okay? Dave and Ashley, I'm going to

give this short story. Then you guys are going to tell me your whole story. But really what your story is, is a newbie story, which I love because I think other people could really learn from it. You're a couple, like a lot of couples that are listening now that were probably listening to podcasts and trying to figure, you know, at some point because you started at one point in your life talking about hot wiping and then role playing about hot wiping. And you just had your first real live, hot-wifing story. So that's like it's to me a very interesting story because a lot of people, like I said, that are listening to this, want to be where you guys at, where they cross the line and do the real thing, right? So real quick, how long have you been together? Are you married? Are

you dating? What's your deal? So we are married. We, this summer, will actually be celebrating our 10-year wedding anniversary. Okay. So spice some things up this year. Oh, okay. So this is a year journey. That was going to be my second question. Like, how long does this whole process take? Oh gosh, Dave probably approached me with it about a year and a half ago. And first I was like, what the fuck? And then so, I mean, he kept talking about it and kept talking about it. And finally, I was like, okay, let's see what this is all about. So then we started watching some content together.

And then that would get us excited and get us in the mood. And then we started role playing. So we like progressed a little bit further. And that was turning us on a lot. So we had a lot of fun with that. You're telling your whole life. You're telling your whole one and you hear half story in two minutes. We want to drag this out.

I'm going to cut you off. Okay, Ashley. And I'm going to start with when Dave brought up the conversation because that's like a really major thing. And first I want to ask you, Dave, right? Because we need to go back a little bit before you brought up the conversation. Obviously, at some point, you realized like you were into watching your girl with another guy, right?

Correct. Okay. So how did that come to be for you? So I think like most guys, we watch porn and stuff like that. And so, yeah, right, surprise. But just going through, like, you know, different things, different genres, like, whatever, turn me on. I got turned on more into, like, lifestyle content.

And so this would have been, like, you know, 223, maybe that far back. I started watching more lifestyle stuff, wife sharing, all that. And then the hot wife content, I started watching, little more than Only fans, like with some of the real people out there that actually share their experiences. And so I actually then stumbled upon the podcast about it and started listening to learn a little bit more about it. And just listening to folks and listening to different experiences, The whole concept just started turning me on from more than just like a visual level. And so just the idea started, you know, a lot of the guys sharing that they,

they love to see their wife get pleasure. Like there's one thing to have sex with your wife, you know, be in the act, be in the moment. It's another thing entirely to watch to actually be a viewer of it. And so when that clicked in my head, I came to. her in the fall of 23, like I said, and I just said, hey, like, there's this thing called hot wifing, and couples do it. And you know, kind of probably give a really dumb explanation the first go. But I just expressed it to her.

She's like, oh, that seems cool. Whatever. Like, she, yeah, just listened to me because I talk a lot. And so, yeah, so that's how it started was just kind of casually mentioning it. and me consuming it more on a content and podcast level. Now, listen, I, you know, these are the things we're going to focus on every step of the way because this is how people learn, right, by your journey. And I think that, you know, you deciding to go from just thinking about it secretly

and fantasizing about it in your own head to really putting it on the table with your wife is pretty ballsy because I think there's a lot of guys out there that can't even do that first step, you know. Was it easy for you because Ashley is just like fucking cool? and you know that she's open-minded, and even if she didn't like it, she'd be fine. Or, like, you know, what gave you the balls to kind of throw it out there? I mean, we're really in love.

Like, we've been together for, you know, at that point, it would have been eight years. Yeah. And it would have been married eight years together for almost 10. Like, so I, you know, we trust each other. And one of the, oh, so this was it. One of the things that I really got. And it was actually, again, listening to a podcast.

The biggest thing before anybody starts his journey is the communication, right? And hearing about how these couples have like the best communication with each other. And so I was like, well, let me tell her what my fantasy is because it's better than just bottling up and just consuming content. And then just being the porn guy and like, you know, just enjoying that. Because spouses can get, can resent that too. For sure. If you see your history, like what the fuck are you into?

Why haven't you told me what's this about? It's like creepy. You're a perv. Exactly. Or like I'm not paying her. Yeah. And so I said, you know, I said, I just decided I'd be honest about it and just say, hey, like, this is something that's kind of turning me on. I'm just learning about it and kind of learning the whole culture behind it and everything.

And so that's when I told her. Yeah. So you were smart enough to know that, you know, it starts with communication. It moves on with communication. So you had to communicate it if it was ever going to sort of if you, so that you could actually be. cool with your wife, not get caught watching hot wife stuff, right, or whatever. So were you surprised by her reaction? I mean, she, it seems like you think she said, oh, yeah, okay, whatever, but she said before

a little bit, like she was kind of like, what the fuck? So, you know, what was, how did she really, how did that conversation really go after you said, hey, this is what I'm kind of into and I'm wondering, like, what did you, I mean, you obviously didn't say I want you to go fuck another guy. Like, what was it about in the beginning that conversation? like I'm into this and let's role play it? No, not right away. I think first it was conversations.

I guess her internal monologue said what the fuck, but like not, she didn't treat me that way. Like she didn't, I didn't feel like she treated me any less for coming out with it. If anything, she probably was like more comfortable afterwards, just like us talking about something that we never really talked about,

kinks or fetishes or anything like that. I think a lot of it. yeah I was like I think a lot of it too is I was like oh that's just what he's watching and I know he watches porn and content I'm like oh that's cool that's what you want to watch go for it so I think that was more of like the initial reaction and I didn't know if it would go further at this point right because he wasn't coming straight out and saying hey I want you to fuck someone else he was just kind of saying this is something that exists and I'm kind of hot for why don't you check let's check it out together yeah and I was like oh that's cool and But again, at that point when we were talking about it, I didn't expect it to be like, no, this is what I want you to do. Right. I thought he was just showing me what he was interested in. And I was like, all right, awesome. Hey, guys, ever try to get it up?

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Right. I thought he was just showing me what he was interested in. And I was like, all right, awesome. Okay, so you didn't really come out and say, that's what you want. This is just like a porn that I'm interested in what I'm watching. Let's watch together. And you guys started watching that kind of porn together.

Now, did it turn you on, Ashley, when you would see it? It did. And we always had great sex after we watched it. But so it kind of makes sense that it fell into where our journey was going. But yeah, it started off slow with that. And then we did start doing the role play type things. Yeah. Now when you started to, so how long did you watch it before someone said out loud?

Like let's role play this scenario. Or did the role playing just like how, like did someone just start blurting out another guy's name? Or did you just start talking about the scenario while you guys were fucking one day? Like how does it go from just watching? role playing. Well, we pulled out the toys. And then we didn't necessarily like put a name with the toy or anything like that, but we kind of did a scenario like imagine like you were doing this with a different guy and then I came home and reclaimed you. I was like, well, that's kind of hot. So it started off not with specific names or people or anything like that, more just general

scenarios. Well, as a woman, that's what I'm always like sort of jerking off to, right? Like scenarios, not people. I don't know when, or maybe other girls jerk off to Brad Pitt. I don't know, but I'm never putting like, yeah, I know, I think people will be like, oh, who's your fit? Like, you know, it's like scenarios, right? That's what everyone jerks off to. You don't jerk off to specific people, unless it's someone you're horny for, you know, right? So you can't make up a guy. It's just really the naughtiness of what's happening. Now, let me ask you this, Ashley, like if you hadn't, if you hadn't watched all that porn and you skipped that step and he just came to you and said, hey, let's role play this.

Do you think it would have gone over as well? Or do you think that watching the porn first, like, really help you guys ease into that for you? I definitely think it was a good way to dip the toes in. Right. So slowly moving in because I'm going to share something. Dave was my first and only person I'd ever had sex with before. Oh, I like that's an even more interesting part of this story, okay? Yeah, so kind of asked a little bit.

Yeah. So you would have needed that. That really helped you ease into it. Yes. Yeah. And I think that that's smart. And the reason why I'm picking apart this whole thing is because like I'm thinking of people listening, right? And they're listening because like I said, they want to be you guys.

And there may be haven't even started talking about it yet. So I think that all this little stuff is super important for other people to hear. Right. Like Dave, when you went out there figuring things out and listening to podcasts, like wasn't this the kind of stuff that you wanted to hear too? Yeah, I did. Yeah. So you did some research.

Yeah, yeah. So you start role playing. And for you, it was hot, right? The scenario, Ashley? Yes. I didn't do it because it was something totally new because, again, normally it was just me and Dave. And we were very vanilla and, I mean, we had great sex, but it was just kind of how it was. So this kind of put a new take on it and kind of reignified.

things and made it interesting. Right. And what about for you, Dave? It must have been great, right? Because you're a little bit closer to that scenario. Oh, yeah. Like, seeing her go from just Vanella to kind of getting turned on by the whole concept of it. And then, you know, pleasuring her with the toys and then now I'm witnessing it, right? A little more, I'm a step away from the action. And then I'm still with her. It's just us.

But like now I'm like seeing something else deliver the pleasure to her and that just heightened everything for me. Yeah. And you know what is also going on in this scenario that I think is always super hot is like she's now getting turned on by the exact thing that turns you on, right? It's like she's as horny for this scenario as you are, right? You were sitting with it for a while turned on and it just so happens that your girl gets off on it too. And I think that that's like amazing, right? Right. Okay.

So now roleplay, like, did it just stay with just like using toys? Did you ever get a fucking machine? I know a couple seconds. I'm like, that's actually a smart thing. No, we did not get a fucking machine. We just stuck with, stuck with dildos. And we got different size dildos, different material dildos. We kind of tried them all to see what we like.

And we ended up finding a rather large one that I quite enjoy it. Yeah. I mean, is Dave? being our favorite. Wait, is Dave large or just regular? Like, are you big too? So large is really large? I don't know. You tell me. No, Dave. He's average.

Right. And Dave, are you like the regular guys that are into hot wiping where like you don't mind that it's bigger because if she's being pleasure, like that's what it's all about? Because a lot of times you know, some people would think it would be intimidating for a guy to have his girl want

like a way bigger toy than him. Right? But to me it seems like, with all the guys that I've talked to that are into hot waving is that they're like into the bigger dicks and they don't care because it's like the bigger it is she's like more satisfied and that's what you're there for right yeah yeah definitely that that part seeing her with with somebody with a bigger dick is is part of the turn on because I mean if it's somebody's smaller or same size it's like well she has that at home so like so there's no variety there but yeah I know being being a regular guy really good size guy like I I was like getting her the bigger toys and everything to play with and then you know letting her feel those sensations of having you know being filled by somebody

bigger yeah that's interesting so how long did you like role play for do you think before somebody said something about making this a real thing I want to say it was probably close to nine 10 months it was a while we didn't

that he was very patient with me I mean he never like was pushy. He just knew that within time, I would eventually come around. So I think he definitely did that in a great way. That didn't make me feel like pushed and like turned off by it because he was so pushy. So we role played for probably, yeah, 10 months or so. And then he ended up going on a trip and then came back and was still talking about. I was like, okay, this isn't going away. This is something that he is really into. I don't necessarily, but I was like, okay, damn. It's still here. So then I guess it was probably February, March. Of this year? Of this year. Yeah. We kind of just sat down and had a real conversation about, okay, if we were to really do this,

what would it look like? We kind of just set, like what our parameters would be, like what I, would be looking for what I would want to make that real step because, I mean, it is such a big step from having one person you've ever slept with in your whole life to looking somebody else. It's not your husband, but your husband being there and watching it and being okay with it. So there was a lot of discussion about what I think would make me feel comfortable in this situation. He was really good about like making sure that we would get those things lined up before we actually did something with somebody. Yeah, I got to say the lifestyle is like a woman's world. Like the guy does really have to follow the woman's lead. And it's because like women are

wired very differently than men. And I think that, uh, and that's why it tends like the couples that are successful. It is when the guy really goes at the woman's pace. It's going to be most likely, most of the time, a little bit slower because women are wired in a different way, you know, like Right? Like you're not just going to like find the first guy hot and be like, I want to fuck him because he's cute. Like there's like so much more to it for a woman to go out and find another guy that she wants to fuck, right? It's like hard. So you were the one though that brought that conversation up, which is pretty like he waited for you to bring it up. Yes. And it was, I mean, good on him for being so patient. But that's the right thing to do. I got to tell you. Yeah. Yeah. It is like this is like good lessons. This is the successful.

couple people listen to how Dave worked Ashley. And I don't know if you did it on purpose because you heard people talking about it or it's just your nature to be cool with your girl because you respect her. But that's the way it has to be. And that, you know, and eventually you came around. That's pretty major. Yes. And it is hard for women too, going back to your point. I mean, we have all these societal norms and I'm a mother and I'm a professional. And so you think about like, I can't do this. And like, I have children. Like, I mean, but. we talked about all the ways around like not around that but like how it can still be okay and this is the right time for us to do it now or maybe we might have to like if we can't get everything

set up the way that we talked about it and we have to wait and so we we knew that it wasn't like oh my god we're going to do it right now but it was all like if everything lines up the way we want it then okay like we put no pressure on it and I think that helped too yeah that is that's really smart and Dave how happy were you though when she when you realize that she was actually considering this uh in real life oh I was like the dog that caught the car I was like I was like she said yes yeah now what yeah I hadn't thought the whole thing through I just I'd always waited to yes and then she said yes and it was like okay go time and she had some like terms that she wanted met and the biggest one was the guy the first guy would have to be someone that i completely

trusted that you know wasn't a creep in anything so that's where i i then went on my search kind of yeah what were your other terms though actually like as a woman like what was and as a woman who had only fucked one guy and has all these like you said these societal norms your mom you don't want to be considered slutty quote unquote you know what i mean like all this stuff going on like what were your terms and your reservations and the things that had to be in place for you to feel comfortable? Our biggest one was that it had to be like if we did any sort of talking or anything, we both had to be involved like group chats only. Okay. Clearly they needed to be like tested and things like that.

I wanted, I would, wanted them to be more local, but also I needed to be able to keep my, because of my profession and things like that. I needed to be able to be anonymous where I needed to be. So we had to be careful with that. But it was mostly the, we all had to like the person. And I wanted Dave involved in all the steps. I didn't want to like be by myself and I wanted it be with him. Right. You don't want to be talking to strange dudes on tax and going online and having to look

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Hey, go ahead and lead the search. So, yeah, so here's where it got interesting. We didn't start with the apps or anything like that. Oh, do you go to your coworkers? Is that you? No, no. Not that. All right, I have that person in my back somewhere.

Okay, tell me. So I had, over the course of time, like, kind of gotten friendly with some content creators. Oh, the ones that you were watching that were hotwifing? Uh, yes, actually, ironically enough, the, the first person, the first, like, couple I'd met was, was sexy soccer mom and her husband. Oh, no way. That's a good couple to meet. They're super hot. Yeah, so I followed her content and her podcast. Um, and so I had just, I had over the course of time on X and only fans, like, through messaging and, like, uh, just chat it. Because here's the thing. Most people don't treat content creators, like, just, just normal folks. And so I literally just started talking to her, like, she posted some stuff

about like in and out burger out in California. And I was like, and we're in the south. And so Waterberger's king here. And it literally started just talking like random stuff like that. Like, oh no, we have better now here. Like it was just like a like just stupid talk. So you, I started talking to them and then I'd follow, you know, whoever they were hooked, whoever she was hooking up with on her content. And that's when, uh, I, I met or I kind of started talking to Mr. Bull. Oh, he's one of my guys. He's been on my show.

He has. And so I talked to him over time and he was great because he would like coach me through the whole process. Like the different stages we were in. That's awesome. Oh, yeah. I talked to him. I listened to like the, I talk my life podcast. That's a good one for, especially for guys like me.

We're trying to talk to our wives about this. Mm-hmm. I love that. Yeah, I got my biggest aha moments from those guys in terms of talking to Ashley. But so. You just gave me a great idea for an episode of Mr. Bull. He text message me recently to be back on again and do another episode. I'm going to have him do a whole one where it's like coaching for guys like you because like you said he was very like good at that for you, right?

Yeah, very good. And so, well, you know, again, kind of befriending these guys, supporting them. like I joined X and I would help, you know, promote them like their content and everything, like just sharing and just being a very active fan. But so I talked to him. And so back in March, we were chatting and stuff. And so we, he was going to be out this way. And so I set it up to where her first bowl would be him.

No way. This is who you wind up fucking. This is that one story we're going to get. That's, that's the one story you're going to get. I love it because like he's been on my show. Oh, that's kind of interesting. You didn't look like, you know, and listen, I think you're very smart, Dave, okay? Because like, you know how much riff-ruff you would have had to go through if you went

on to like an online, you know, lifestyle dating site? I've never heard of someone do it your way. But, you know, you just made me realize how fucking smart that is because these people are professional. They're the real deal. This is what they do, right? There's none of that nonsense that. that a lot of other people who go onto a site and are just trying to find regular people

they deal with, right? People not showing up. They book a hotel room, people being flakes, people being at, it's like amateur hour. You know, some young guy just wants to fuck your wife and you can't get it up, you know, shit like that. Here you are. Like, you went for professionals. That's so smart. Like, did you like consciously realize, like, was that a conscious decision or you're just like smart by accident? Well, it was just in conversation. Like, I was asked by sexy soccer mom because I was on her I was on a couple episodes of her show first as a fan yeah so first as a fan

I kind of gave some fan talk and she was going out for an award and so I was like I was like promoting she she she was very like active in promoting her nomination so I was on accident like and I would boost her yeah so that was their first time the second time was more like where you at in the lifestyle like where are you at your journey

and so I talked a little bit more of me and Ashley and so going so I I she asked me like who would who would you love in the perfect scenario who would you love to have as Ashley's first and I rattled off as one of the two names I said I said Mr. Bull who was the other guy can you tell or you don't want to say uh it's another great guy he's also he's out there soCal uh he his name's a how I think oh okay cool all right so those were your two top guys and did she know both of them or did she just know mr ball uh sex is talking about yeah she she she knew him both she she worked with him both okay so go on yeah so so i was so then flash forward to actually saying yes i tell him and i'm like this is the

term she really wants me to trust the guy and so like i said schedule aligned up to where he he would be able to pay a social visit and and uh and come and make it happen so i was like oh my god and i told I told Ashley, I'm like, your first is going to be like throwing you into a Yankees game right off the bat. No minor league bulls for you. Like this is this is straight to the pro. So, but yeah. So and we, we said a date for, I mean, it was just last weekend. So as recent as this past weekend, we set a date.

And then I got to do the other great thing about this. I got to see her flirt with him, like via chat, via text on the group chat. Oh, interesting. And he worked it. He made her so comfortable, flirted with her. He was very smooth. Honestly, probably ruining it for the other Bulls to come because, like, now there's a pretty high bar that she's used to. But very smooth, very great operator.

Like, he was, Mr. Bull was just an awesome all-around guy, let alone, well, like, he made her feel very comfortable. Checking with me. every step hey how you like you know what do you you want me to do talk about anything else and I was like no no no just I'll just do you I was spectator Dave and I and I participated in the conversations it wasn't like I was you know relegated to the sidelines I just let him go and she opened up like I had never seen her open up interesting real yeah yeah it's weird to see your wife right doing that at first like I don't know it's kind of crazy if you think about it you know to see your quote unquote wife in a way like you said that you've never seen and she's actually like flirting with another

dude. I'm sending like sexy pictures. And did she have game? Wait, did she have like a lot of game? No. No? Don't put yourself down, Ashley. I'm sure he was so fucking into it, Dave, right?

Weren't you into the way she was flirting with him? I mean, I'm just sitting at work in my office seeing the back. I'm like, I can't believe I'm getting just horned up at work. listening to this happen and I'm like God I got to go home from work and when I get home we would end up having amazing sex like the sex leading up to the sex right yeah was was the best like best of our marriage like and we probably had more sex in the three months leading up to it to meeting him than like in the previous three years it was just it was just amazing for us yeah I could imagine that anticipation of knowing what's going on in this

whole new thing being introduced. And it turns out that Ashley didn't have to have any kind of game. Just her talking to him was turning you the fuck on, right? Because you're all in a group chat, correct? Like you're watching everything and you're in there as well? Yeah, she has a little game. Don't let her tell you that. Exactly. That's why you're putting yourself down, Ashley. No, because she comes at it with a little innocent, like innocent housewife. No, that's not her. She was sharing. She would share titty picks. You would share lingerie picks. And I'm like, like, and I'm just sitting at work, like, this is fucking awesome. Oh, my God. See, Ashley, you're a little bit more naughty than you expected.

Yeah. More on that later. Yeah, yeah, more on that later. But let me ask you this, Ashley, how was it like it was obviously turning him on, like, how was it for you to be flirting with this other guy while your hubby watch and, you know, he's like a full-fledged content creator bull? You've obviously seen his goods, you know? Like, how was that for you?

that whole texting experience. It was fucking wild. It was very hot, very sexy. I mean, during the work day, I was like, I've got to calm myself down. You too. I got to get the rest of this day. Oh, my gosh.

What people don't realize that people in other cubicles are doing. Look at the two of you at your job. Yes. And, I mean, yeah, when we would get home, we'd get the kids to bed, and I'm like, we got to go in the bed. We got to get busy. Right.

But it built my confidence up because it was not something I had really done before. So it was fun flirting back and forth because I mean I hadn't flirted with a guy in 10 years, 12 years since we've been together. So I mean it was kind of fun. It was new and when things are novel, it is exciting. And so I had a good time with it. And yeah, knowing that he was this major

content creator bowl, that didn't hurt either. And like honestly, yeah. But also like as a woman, you know, especially a woman who has, put her, like, hasn't walked around and, like, had guys ogling over her, right? Because you're kind of married and you're not even noticing stuff like that. But, like, to have another guy complimenting you, which I'm assuming he was doing and looking at your physical stuff and giving you comments and being into it, you, like, wasn't that a turn on? Definitely. Yeah, definitely just boosted the confidence. And, I mean, Dave and I have also gone on. We have each lost 100 pounds. So we were in this, like, weight loss journey. type deal. And so just feeling more confident in my body, putting my body out there really was great. A lot of people after they lose a lot of weight go and start just like fucking everybody, which I think is hilarious. So wait, can I just ask you real quick? Because I think it's always really interesting how people lost weight. Like, did you do the shots? Did you just do like a specific diet? Like what work for you guys that you were able to lose 100 pounds each? That's a lot.

And it's, listen, weight loss is something that a lot of people struggle with. No, we did the shots. I mean, I'd struggled my weight most of my life. And so the shots were the only thing that has ever worked for me. Plus, I mean, generally changing my eating habits and going to the gym, you have to do that too. But the shot is, I mean, it's changed my life. So I know the people have different beliefs on it. But, no, it's been, it's been amazing.

I have no shame. And, like, I think that it's great. I, like, I don't use it because I don't have to. But my sister used it and she needed it. Like, I'm sorry. She just did. And it really worked. And it also, like, helps you be healthier because being skinnier, it makes you healthier in

general. It's not just about losing the weight. Everyone thinks it's like this shallow thing. And even if it is for that reason, you do wind up being healthier because of it. And the way that they've learned to, like, slowly dose people and everything, like, my sister didn't have any side effects. And she lost a lot of weight. And it was the only thing that works.

So I think it's, like, great. I don't see why anyone would have a problem with it. I mean, some people maybe it's expensive. I don't know, but my sister didn't think it was that expensive. Was it expensive for you guys? It was all out of pocket. So yes, it was expensive. But money will spend worth every penny.

Yeah, that's great. Now, and let me ask you this last question about it, just so if people are wondering about it for themselves. Because, like, I know my sister, when she got off of it and lost all her weight, what she does sometimes is takes a little bit, like if she feels she needs it. Is that like how you wean off of it or do you stay on it forever? Like, how does it work for you guys? Yeah, so I'm still on it regularly.

but with my doctor, she said we could do like every other week instead of every week. And then so you can like, yeah, just like your sister's doing dose smaller. Right. And start microdosing even eventually. And how about you, Dave, same thing, right? That's what you use the shot. Yeah. Went from every week to now about every other week.

I'll shift the days. And just right now I rely more on diet and the gym. Yeah, that's great because you need that after because, listen, you could lose all the weight you want. But to get your body to look good. some muscle in there, right, to hold you out. Now you guys work out together? No, with our schedules. Oh, okay, but whatever.

But you're still, what I think is really great is when couples go on these kinds of journey together. You know what I mean? Like you guys did all of this together. And I think that that really helps to have somebody right there with you doing all this stuff because it's like hard, you know? So I think it's great that you guys did it together. Because what could be really bad in relationships is it's like one person, it goes on those

shots or loses a lot of weight and it looks like fucking killer. and the other person's not there yet, they're going to be resentful of that other person, you know, and maybe, like, weirdly jealous and stuff. So I think it's great that you guys did it together. Okay, so now you're, like, skinny, you guys are into this. You're Mr. Bull is in your phone. You're texting three months, right?

Yeah, it's the longest three months ever. Yeah, but you know, in a weird way. Yeah, but in a weird way, you guys got that killer sex for three months. Like Dave said, it was like the best fucking sex you had for those three months while you were waiting, right? definitely we he reaped the benefits for sure oh my god and so and so and you thought mr bull was hot and did you did like talking to him all that time just increase like your attraction to him because you

got to know him yes definitely that was a big part of it and yeah i got to know his like personality he's an awesome guy and we would like we do face time here and there and we'd talk on the phone so we got to build a connection before like it was go time so i thought that helped a lot too. Yeah, that's so smart. That's what women need. Most women, I mean, some women are wired to just, like, want to fuck a guy that she never met, you know, but most women aren't, and I think it's really smart. The other thing that a lot of bulls that are really successful do and that they've taught me is that they really, you know, form a good relationship with the guy so that they could ask the guy, like, what the girl likes, you know what I mean? Like, and take that into consideration.

Like, Dave, did you, like give him some tips of how to talk to Ashley or what Ashley like? Did you go there with him and also talk to him about stuff like that? yeah a few things of you know kind of pointers on what was a no go what was a go I had I was a little bit more of the boundary referee kind of thing but he's in he's a smooth enough character to where he knows exactly how to play it and so it wasn't it wasn't too much talk on that it was I just literally let him go and talk to her and and and put in and participated when when it was called for right so he just naturally like organically gets that information from your girl and that's like that he probably makes it like foreplay but really

what he's doing is finding out exactly how to give her the best night of her life right yeah definitely okay so let's get to that night should we get there is that what happens next like just recently you meet up with him do you want to go there now yeah let's do it okay so we he ends up coming in town a little earlier than we originally thought on a Friday and so all the I mean, that was the longest day of my life. I was like, so nervous all day. I can imagine. I was trying to keep myself busy, but we ended up getting an Airbnb down in Nashville.

And so we got there, got set up, got everything ready. And then finally we headed to the airport to pick them up. And through all our texting, we were like, well, how is it going to be when I see you for the first time? What's going to happen? And then somehow it ended up that I was going to suck his dick in the car on the way back to the Airbnb. Not sure how that happened, but... Really? That was me.

That was my... Wait, that was your idea? Yeah, I kind of said, I'm going to have her ready for you. Because, again, all the flirting, all the talking was done at that point. So it wasn't going to be like an introductory car ride. So I had her dress a certain way, and then basically within, yeah, I had her, she knew what she was going to do. Okay, so you get in the car. So he, we get him in the car.

we did the hi how are you the hug and then we just start kissing and making out and things like that and then my hands wander and out his dick goes does he have like a really big cock yeah i don't remember i wish i could remember what i said when i saw it for the first time were you like holy shit basically i don't you know i've had so many people on my show i don't remember i've and i have a lot I did a dick pit contest on my Discord and I'm like, wow, there's a lot of big dicks on my Discord. Like I have a lot of big listeners with big dicks and all these bulls that have been on my show. They all have big dick.

So I don't remember what any of these big dicks look like because they're all big. It's like crazy, you know? But that was like, so it was like bigger than you had ever seen. Obviously. Yeah. It was like, oh shit. All right. How was your, how was the making out with him though?

Because it's like a first guy, you know, like was there chemistry? I know. Yeah, there was. I think all the buildup. really really helped. And so that's what I would recommend for hesitant wives to, yeah, try to do the flirting beforehand because it made it a little bit less awkward when he got in the car. You're not kissing a stranger.

And let me just ask you one more question before we get back in the car because I forgot to ask you this. But when you said you started making out with them, I realized like, oh, like typically that's like a rule that people have that is not on the table. Like you can't kiss, you know. But like for you guys, were there any rules as far as, like, like what you could do or not do in this experience with Mr. Bull? No, we, I just have a no anal rule.

Okay. Just from my preference. But that was pretty much our only rule. Boundary, really? Because, again, we don't, we didn't really know because we're all new to this. And I was like, I guess we'll figure out more boundaries when we cross that road. Right now that was it. How would you know unless you go into it?

Exactly. Yeah. So you're in the car. I mean, you have to have that connection. I feel like that's part of it, too. Like, I feel like it's hard to fuck somebody if you don't kiss. I fucked my, I fucked a booty call for seven years and I never kissed his mouth once because it was so gross to me.

Really? I loved his cock and it was fine. But he was like a booty call. But yeah, but no, I think, listen, I would never have no kissing on my, my plate either because I think kissing is just like super hot.

You know what I mean? I just didn't kiss him because I hated his mouth. Like I'm very weirded out by lips. You know what I mean? But kissing, I don't have to like someone to kiss them like at all. I think kissing could just be dirty, hot, fun, sexy, right? Like, so I'm right there with you.

I just, but I'm just trying to say that you can fuck someone without kissing them, because I did. And the sex is great. I do. But anyway, all right, so you're in the car. You do the reach around like every girl does to feel like, you know, what he's packing. Yep. Okay.

And he was packing heat. So, yep, it comes out. And so I just, I go for it. I'm like, all right, I'm about to. I'm about to do this. How did you do it if it's that big? Oh, I went I went in for it.

Wow. I mean, surprisingly, I surprised myself because I mean, I have always sucked Dave's dick for the last 10 years. So I'm just used to that one. And I mean, I surprised myself. I was pretty proud of myself for my skills.

We watched a lot of videos. Oh, interesting. I had to do like larger sizes. So I watched some videos. And I think that. helped. That's important. I'm glad I asked because that's important information.

That's important information. I'm glad I asked. Like you literally knew this is going to be one big cock and I'm going to have to blow him. So I want to see like how do I do it right for like a huge one. Right. Like that's what you like you go. You watched videos on it. Yes.

They watched lots of blowjob videos because yeah, I needed to know what to do. How to make it how to make it work. You don't understand how, how great your guys. episode is like all these little things that you guys did to me are such like this is smart things to do in this kind of a journey right like I said I think you're like accidentally smart it sounds like I don't know it's not it doesn't seem so thought out but it is very it is it's so it is thought out right obviously because like you thought to yourself like oh I'm going to blow this guy's got a big cock and I have only been with Dave let me go look and what a smart thing so you did a so you blew him

in the car. I'm going to stop interrupting you guys. Go with the rest of the story and tell the whole hot story from the car blowjob on. So we go to the car, we suck his dick till we get to the, it was what 17 minutes from the airport to the Airbnb, so we had a good set, probably 15 minutes of dick sucking in there. And so we got all started. Wait, Dave, are you in the front seat watching in the River of your mirror? I'm trying not to crash. Yeah, we almost crashed a few times. But, no, okay. No. And then we get to the Airbnb and we go upstairs, gets us back situated.

And then I change into some lingerie. And then more dick sucking happens. And then Dave fill in. It was kind of a blur. I like kind of blacked out because, again, I was so nervous. I could totally understand. Yeah. And so it was just kind of this like ignorant bliss that I blacked out.

out of but I remember it was a good ass time. So Dave, kind of fill in some pieces here. Yeah, because Dave, you're like, let me ask you this real quick before you get into it. Or have you decided that you're just going to sit there and watch or you're going to participate? I mean, I like to participate. But at this point, I just wanted to watch me the first time. Oh, okay. So there you are. Okay. So I'm there watching, not taking any, you know, pictures for us or anything like that just in the moment watching. She comes in in her lingerie. we're in his room

and so they go back to it the kissing everything she starts sucking his dick and you know goes from from her sucking his dick really taking it down like she surprised me with no

virtually no gag reflex which was really hot to watch after she gets him like ready he just turns her around and like it was a very just I'm gonna own you kind of sex right here

like dominant because that's what she likes. She likes to be kind of led through sex. Yeah. So she bends over and I swear the look on her face when he first got in her, that's like seared into my mind. Like yeah, like eyes rolling back, all that. Sounds I never heard her make before. And they, he just goes at her, does it from behind first and then puts her on her back,

legs on his shoulder and you know that's from i remember i think that was the last the last position before like he inevitably finished it in it how long do you think like that whole uh you know time of them fucking him fucking your wife last was it 30 minutes was it 20 minutes was in an hour i think that first one was like i remember she was stuck in his dick in the car so it was kind of like that plus there's uh i want to say like probably 15 20 minutes okay Now, did he stay all night and there was more sessions going on? Oh, no, this was a whole weekend. This was night.

This was a hot like weekend. Oh, okay. Keep going. This was night one. All right, keep going. Yeah, so they finished and then, you know, we all get cleaned up, whatever. I, we went back to our room and I reclaimed it immediately. I could not wait.

Like, I was just like, we're doing this. And so she and I have sex. and, you know, when we finish up, get cleaned up, that was, that was the end of, like, the first, the first session. That was a, that was a close on that. There was a what? That was, that was the end of that session. Right. Okay.

Okay. So we were out to Broadway. Yeah, then we did go out, have a little social time. Yeah, we got a lot of energy after that. I was reinvigorated. Hilarious. And then we, yeah, went out to Broadway, had a few drinks, and then we were out at the table. and started feeling thighs.

Because you're going out together with him is what you're saying. I mean, you're not leaving him home. You're all hanging out together like a thruple. This is like a thruple weekend. A hot life thruple. Yeah, that's a good way to put it. Yeah. It was a thruple weekend.

Yeah. Okay. So you're out and now under the table. You can't keep your hands off each other? Yep. And so we were like, all right, we got to go. And so we went back to the Airbnb. I had another session.

This one was, I think it was another hot and dirty one, which that's how I like it. I like it hard and hot and I want them to tell me what to do. Right. So I like it. Well, I think a lot of girls like it that way. Yeah. I make enough decisions throughout the day that I just want mindless, feel good sex. Yeah.

You feel like you're with a man. Like there's something manly about that, right? It makes you feel more female, I think, right? Definitely. Like more feminine. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah.

So we had another session, another reclaim, and we slept so good that night. And then the next morning, I think I woke him up with a blow job that morning, the next morning. Can I just ask you real quick? Are you all sleeping in the same bed, too? No. We have two separate rooms, two separate bathrooms. We have that bigger living space. Yeah, okay. I just was wondering, you know, I would assume he wants a little alone time, right? Yeah. Yeah. Okay.

We have our own spaces. Yeah, okay. And then the next morning, I sneak over and had a good morning blow job before brunch. And I'm, yeah, I think I got fucked too. Definitely got fucked before brunch. Yeah. Oh, my God. So, I mean, it was a weekend full of fucking and reclaiming.

Crazy. Crazy, right? I mean, it was hot. Listen, you guys lived like such a hot fantasy story. Like, I mean, you guys, your story did not disappoint because what you led up to is like, top of the mountain for any like first time hot, like it's for any hot wafing experience. It's like such a great experience. But for it to be your first time with like a professional bull for a whole weekend and everything. Yeah, I think you are. You're just going to have to keep having these

professionals. There's a lot of them out there. So I think you just got to stay in that lane because you really like the way you newbies ended or just started your journey is pretty crazy. You started like at the top of the mountain. Yeah, so we are definitely on cloud nine. And now my hot wife gates have been opened. I am on the prowl now. I'm ready for my next experience. Oh my God.

Let me ask you, Ashley, last question. Or no, I'm going to ask David a last question too. But for you, Ashley, for the woman, the mom, the girl that had never fucked anybody else except her husband, you know, one and only. Like after you cross the line and really, you know, actually experienced doing this and having like this dirty hot sex all weekend with, you know, this bull. Like, did you have any kind of weird feelings about it or because you waited so long and you talked about it for so long and you did it the right way that did you feel fine about it?

Like, how did you feel afterwards? I think so the next day at brunch, I literally was like, you know what? My biggest aha moment is I'm still me. I'm still a mom. I'm still professional. I'm still like, nobody. like nobody thinks any different of me like I'm it's I don't care if people judge me I had a good ass time and I'm going to continue doing it but I thought like I would have this like weight like oh my gosh

this is not what society thinks you're supposed to do and I thought I would have that weight on me and I absolutely did not yeah I love that and I think it's because it's kind of freeing yeah I could imagine I have this whole experience that I get to do and that Dave lets me get to do do and we get to do it together and it's fun and it's exciting yeah and how for you dave did it like change things to see your girl do you feel closer to her i mean i know it's changed the sex for you guys after all this time but like after actually really seeing her with this other guy like how did you feel about it you know the zero jealousy i thought i thought jealousy would play a play a role oh that's interesting you were worried or you didn't

didn't know if maybe you'd be jealous. Yeah, because, because like, you hear, you hear some hard stories. Like, I know, especially on your podcast, uh, that I've heard, I've heard it go south, but I feel like it would end up happening with us here. And again, we're just starting out, but I think that's why we talk. We, we're so open and communicative. That happened before this all happened. And it's even more, you know, I would say even more this week in what we, where we want to take this. So I thought jealousy would, I thought I'd be jealous. I wasn't. It was hot. It made me, you know, more attracted to her. Like, I was, I mean, the reclaim was like a fighting her for her back. You know, like, I probably like, like I was like wanting her back so much. So it's like that. Oh, interesting.

Yeah. I mean, like, like even, even after I dropped this to ball off at the airport, I mean, we fucked before we left the Airbnb. Like, we were just so turned on for each other. And so, like, I love my wife. I love her. more than anything and and this is just like magnified that so much and i just like it's getting me off seeing her get so much pleasure and attention yeah what a what a great way to end this whole fucking story like i love that you know you both came out of it on the other side happy i mean listen i have more success stories than i have gone wrong stories i think they've gone wrong stories are important right and i always throw those out there because some people will do things wrong and

some things won't, you know, go well. But I love stories like yours where things do go really right because I think that these kinds of stories really help other people, you know. I never knew that guys were into, having seeing their girls fuck other wives. Turns out it's a big thing, right? And it turns out a lot of guys are into it. And so I think a lot of guys will be finding this, this episode or women too, you know, couples. And they're going to learn a lot. I'm obsessed with your story and your episode this episode. I'm so glad you decided to call into my podcast too and tell your story because I didn't know you've been on other people's podcast. Did you tell me that in your email? I don't even remember. It was no, we didn't share that. Half the time I don't

even read the whole email. People send me like emails that are like 10 paragraphs long. I'm like, I don't even have time. I'm like, yeah, be on the show. Like here's the, you know, the link. Sometimes I'm like, oh, maybe you told me I didn't read it, you know. But I'm so glad you decided to call it and share your story because like I really think it's like, first of all, it's a super hot story and it's a great story for you guys but it's also I think like really educational for other people and people will really learn from it and what a shout out to Mr. Bull who I know is a really great guy because he's been on my show and typically these bulls that I've had on my show you know and people who are very like who are professional bulls tend to be guys that just really know how to

treat women you know that's why they're successful and there's a lot of guys out there that want to be bulls that don't do that you know so I think you should stick to your professional Bulls thing, you know? I don't know if you can, but I think that that was a smart way to go about it. But listen to you guys want to send in picks for my Patreon, and I'll give you free access to that and then free access to my Discord. There you could post whatever you want. And there's a whole content creator channel in there, and you could see Doc Chocolate

who I've out of my show, fuck a lot of people. Like, there's a lot of guys in there. You could see, you could see as a content creator stuff in there, but you guys could go in there as well. So send me picks if you want for my Patreon, anonymous picks. Right? And send them to me sooner than later because this one's going to be up very soon. All right. Awesome. Thank you so much. Yeah. Was it good for you? Ashley, you were good, right? How was your first podcast for you?

Good. I got over the nerves. You were great. Okay, cool. Dave, thanks so much for calling in and bringing your girl on with you. Yeah, my pleasure. This was awesome. Okay, awesome. And I'm going to change your guys' voices, right? You'll sound good. And I'll email you with all the free links and stuff when your episode is going to go up. But send me your pictures sooner than later. So I know that. I have them, okay? Yeah, and of course, these are just the rated for the Patreon, right?

You said? Yeah, Patreon, I always do, like, listen, you know, a lot of times a girl's sending picks of them in lingerie. It could be sexy picks, but nothing X-rated. You know what I mean? Like, yeah, okay? All right, awesome. Thanks, you guys.

You were great. I love your story. Thank you. Thanks. Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly

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