Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1166 - FETISH FRIDAY or FACT OR FICTION: Ben was Caged in a Female Led Relationship for Years

Episode Date: July 11, 2025

Ben was caged in a female led relationship for years and he called in to talk all about it. Tue in to hear him discuss all the details including how and where he met the teacher who wound up domming him, the first time he went to a dungeon and exactly what she instructed him to do, when she explained in details exactly what she was looking for and the rules she presented to him and well as the list of chores he was made to do, how she got him to be completely obedient, when she introduced to chastity and the hardcore chastity cage she got him for his birthday, how long he was in chastity for and what he was not able to do while caged, the punishments he got fro her including flogging, caning and whipping, the weekend he was treated as a waste basket for a bunch of dommes and exactly what went down, how and when he lost his anal virginity and exactly what went down, how their days were set up when he lived with his Domme and all the things he would do for her and all the things she would do to him, how she started loaning him out to other Dommes ad what they’d do for him, when she finally took him out of the cage and the things she would do to him then, how she branded him and what she branded him with, how and why their female led relationship ended, what kind of relationship he’s looking for now plus a whole lot more. Do you think this is FACT or FICTION? Comment on Spotify! **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code anonymous to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14 day money back guarantee  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive AND LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY   Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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some certain questions and I didn't feel like I was getting correct answers, but maybe it's just because I went in thinking, ah, this might not be true, that I was swayed. I don't know. You need to tell me. He does tell a good story. He has a very interesting story. And he has very, a lot of details. It's not like he was vague. He is a young guy. He's still only now 34, but when he was young and in medical school, he found a woman who was a total femdom. He started hanging out with her. She introduced him to BDSM and she was working in a dungeon and he went and visited. And then he became like her slave over time. Eventually he even lived with her and the shit she made him do was crazy. He was in a curiosity cage. He got gang banged by a bunch of femdoms. They'd use him as an

ashtray. They wanted to use him as a waste bucket and eventually he was branded and that's what I'm like, send me picks of your branding so I could see them. Now I always take my intros after I hang up with someone so I don't know if he's going to send me the pictures of his branding. But I did a couple times like I was like kind of like is this really true and towards the end I kind of said it to him but he's very nice as any sub would be if he is lying he's a great storyteller because he has a lot of specifics and he goes on and on and tells his story very well and it just might be my mood today you know that I thought he was lying I want to hear from you tell me what you think regardless this is a type of situation that does exist out there right there are people in female led relationships

There are people that get put in a cockage for a really long time. There are people that, you know, have all the things happen that happened to him and the story happen to them. So like I said, it might just be me questioning it just because of the way the wind blew today. I don't know. I'm curious what everyone else thinks. I still think it's an interesting story. So I'm going to be right back on with Ben. Hey, Ben, welcome to this strictly anonymous podcast.

How are you today? I'm fine, Ms. Katie. Thank you. Thank you so much for inviting me to the podcast. Well, listen, Ben, you're in like what you can. call a female-led relationship, right? Or you're into that kind of relationship? Are you in a relationship right now?

I am on a break at the moment. I'm searching there. But you were introduced as by your medical school professor, which I think is kind of horrifying. I don't know how you got into being into like Femdom and shit like that from a teacher. I don't know. Like, how did she teach you? How did your teacher teach you?

Well, I never knew at first that she. She was my, you know, she was on the faculty in the medical school. And we met at a book club of a mutual friend. And that's how it started. I mean, she never actually taught me at medical school, but she was in the faculty. Oh, well, you wrote in your thing. I was introduced to this by my professor, by my professor at medical school. So she was never your professor.

I mean, she taught me a few classes, but not hands on training because she was a surgeon. That's what I meant. So I had a few theoretical classes on surgery, but never hands-on training. So, yeah, I did introduce her to my other colleagues as my professor, but teaching in a sense, hands-on teaching. I never had it from her. Okay, but anyway, she got you into this female-led relationship dynamic. You're into CBT, whipping, caning, flogging, pegging, all that shit, gangbangs. Oh, my God.

So like, let's get to the point where, you know, you meet her and how it turns into this thing where she becomes like your little dom or your femme dom or whatever it's called. Yeah. So I happen to have a lonely time back in medical school and lots of busy classes in the first few years. And then during my closing years in medical school, that's when I started exploring around, going around the city. and that's when I met her at a book club but I never knew what she was into or anything she was just a mutual friend of a mutual friend kind of you know and so

she was having a conversation with a group of other people about you know all this dynamics BDSM that terminology was kind of new to me though I came across it in psychiatry we just come across we have a subject called psychiatry at medical school and that's how I first came across BDSM but I never test of the waters, so to speak.

Yeah. And so I was hearing her from a distance. My back was turned against her. I was at a coffee table and I was hearing her have a discussion. And I was a little intrigued, but I never showed it in my first conversation. And then that's when my friend, she noticed that I was a little intrigued and said, maybe you could just go and have a chat with her. Just to, you know, just get around, get to know people. And I actually dismissed that.

And but it so happened that two or three times we kept coming across each other and that's when I finally decided to, I just mastered up some courage to actually go and talk to her. And she can actually read into people's minds and she kind of asked me, I feel that you're intrigued about this. Why not we have a discussion about that? And that's when we went out and had a discussion. And then she invited me to the place where she had a, where she kind of said she had a sessions. kind of a dungeon kind of thing. And that's when I was, I thought, okay, maybe I have a few cells within my body which are intrigued about this. And that's when I tried to test what is. And in one of the sessions, she invited me to, you know, just try some kind of impact play. And I did. And then she asked me how it went. And she asked me the rating on a scale of 1 to 10. And that's how it started. Yeah, but I have a lot of questions about that. kind of thing. It sounds like really kind of a crazy jump for this really shy guy. At this point, have you dated women before? Are you a virgin? Like, what's your experience with women? Are you

typically a submissive? No, I never knew. I never knew that I was submissive at all in my life until then, to be honest. The only time that I came across anything, any BDSM terminology, was in psychiatry, because we have terms like pseudosicism in psychiatry. And so, you So that's the only time I just came across this terminology, but I never knew I was submissive. I never knew there was such a lifetime. It was something completely new to me. I thought it was crazy, weird, all that stuff. Right, but how does she get you to go to the dungeon?

And does she tell you you're going to a dungeon? And you're like, is it because she's like hot that you decide to follow her? No, I mean, she's definitely attractive. Anyone would say that. But she gave me certain literature. I don't remember what. exactly online and I read about it and that's when I also came across a few pictures related to BDSM and I was like you know I was young I was intrigued to be honest and then I when I had an

conversation with her I asked is this something that you do and she was like why don't you take a look and I was like okay it might be something I thought something real would be much better than something watching online. So that's when I just went to one of those playrooms that she, I know. Okay. So what happened in that playroom? Because you never just like start impact, impact play without, you know, or a session without conversation ahead of time. Because don't you have to like, you know, how did, how did that first initial session start? So when I first went to the dungeon, it was one of a high profile subs. And he just told me, look, whatever you see, if you feel disturbed at any point of time, you're free to leave.

And she made me watch it at a distance. And she started with a little bit of vlogging. And I really thought that really weird in the beginning. I went off, I walked off after maybe five to ten minutes. And then I then just, I don't know what happened to me. I just walked back in just to see how it was going. And then she handed him over to someone else. And then she came over to me and just to check if I was okay

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Just go to the description, click on the link and use my code anonymous. If I was okay after watching all that, because it was my first time watching something like that happened in front of my eyes. And that's how it started. And she said I could keep visiting her as often as. No, no. Listen, let me just tell you something. I don't know why, but I'm worried that you're the... this isn't a true story. And if it's not a true story, you're never going to be able to answer my

questions because you will never see where they're coming and what I'm asking you about. What I just asked, you didn't really tell me. You told me you had impact play, but now you're telling me a story where you're watching somebody else be flogged. But didn't she flogged you? You asked me about my first? No, it didn't happen the first few times. She kept inviting me two or three times until she felt I was. Okay, but you said the first time I went, and we had some impact play and that's how it started. No, no, no, no. The first few times, I just visited her until when she actually, she wanted me to be comfortable because it was something painful.

Yeah, I get it, but that's not how you started the story. You went straight to the impact play. Do you know what I mean? No, I'm sorry. I think I'm misunderstood there. I'm sorry. Okay, so take me to the time where you get the impact play, though. What happens that time?

So you're going all these times and you're just watching stuff on the sideline. Okay. And then one day you go and what's the difference in that day? What happened that day? Well, she asked if I was willing to. try and she told me that, you know, I could just pull off. I could just say no when I couldn't handle it anymore. And that's when it started. And she started with flogging. She had a small little flogger and she asked me, look, there's a scale of 1 to 10. You can tell me, like, that's something

we use on a pain scale back in medical school too for patients. So she said, just tell me how much you can handle on a scale of 1 to 10. And she started with what I think was a 3rd. I didn't expect that. And then it went on up to seven and then I couldn't take it anymore. It was not about the pain, but it was more about, I started being,

I think I was really, really nervous, to be honest. And she said, okay, we'll stop it for now. The first thing didn't last for more than 20 minutes,

to be honest. Okay, then what happened? She took me out. I was actually shaking, to be honest. It was something too overwhelming for me. And she calmed me down,

sat me through it, diverted all the topic to my studies and how I was doing my examinations and upcoming thesis work and all that stuff. And she left me off. She told me that I can only come back to her in this

setting only if I was willing to try again and if I was really comfortable or she's fine with me watching if provided the other subs whom she was handling was also comfortable me watching. And so I took more than a week to get back to her. We were still

exchanging text messages. But then I read up a lot more and then I realized maybe, just maybe, I had this submissive nature lying dormant within me. So that's what I told her. And then she said, okay, but that was just a foretaste of what actually was in the lifestyle. There's a lot more that a lifestyle can handle, can offer. And she asked me if I can really handle anything. And I said, look, this is my first time and I really didn't do well during my very first time in your hands. So I just wanted to try a little more and see how it goes. I requested if she could be patient with me because I know that I'm using up a lot of a time. And she was surprising.

I didn't expect I thought she'd just dismiss me because she was, you know, into very big people. But she accepted my request and that's how it started. Did you have to pay for these sessions? Never, never. That was what was surprising. I never had to because I know how much the other people who were visiting her were paying. That was a lot. Why was she giving it to you for free? Do you know? Yeah, she never said that, but yeah, actually in truth, that was what it was. Yeah. No, but do you know why you were getting it for free and everyone else was paying? No, she just said, look, because I was just willing to try and she never,

Like, she told me much later, I mean, three to four years later, that she actually liked the way I submitted to her. I mean, the way I was willing to try out new things, was not afraid to put myself in her hands, all that. So she said, she just wanted to, I was some kind of a, she actually referred to me as an experimental animal, so to speak, when she was talking to one of her friends who were lifestyle dorms. So, yeah. Okay, so now you're living like this double life because you guys are both in medical school at the same time. She's a teacher. You're like a student, but you're secretly seeing her in the dungeon all this time. Like, how does your relationship proceed with her? Look, I did call her ma'am because it was or when I was with her outside medical school and by her name when I was affixing, a prefixing doctor so and so on the name when I was back in medical school. rarely we met maybe during, you know, breaks. Her timings, her classes were at different times. And she was always stuck in the operation theater most of the time. And so we only met in the evenings after 6 p.m.

And we used to go out for dinner. This happened for a couple of months, maybe I think three or four months. And then she said, okay, well, look, she told me that she was actually looking for someone whom she could train to be her personal kind of slave. That's the first time she used the word sleeve. And I was surprised when she used that word, and she asked why I was surprised, and I said, I thought that was all something, medieval kind of that word.

I've never used that in my life before. And she invited me to her place and said, if I was willing to be hers, then there were a set of rules that I had to follow, and then she let me go through the list. She actually read it out to me and said, which of those I was willing, and which of those are with unwilling.

Why don't you go through some of those with us? So she said she, unless there was someone else in her place at that point of time, she never wanted me naked at all. But other times she wanted me naked, hit her to tell. That was one. And I was always expected to honor her, not just superficially, but really, like from the heart kind of, you know, it has to be so evident to her.

And she had a ways of testing that. I was to be always punctual. I had to prepare certain, I was supposed to do the domestic work and whenever possible, when time permitted, cooking. And she had a kind of a timetable for me whenever I had the opportunity to be with her in the initial few months before I finally moved to be with her, you know, 24-7. Oh, okay. So she was like grooming you to move in with her and be in this female. led relationship as her guy. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I was supposed to wake up by at least the latest was 6 a.m. in the morning.

Unless, unless I was on night shifts towards my later years in medical school. Otherwise, I was supposed to wake up at least by 6 a.m. and fix a bath because she would leave by 7, 7.30 sometimes, depending on her schedule in that week. And I had to prepare her breakfast if she was having breakfast at home. If she was in a hurry, she would have it at the canteen back at the medical school. But otherwise, it was back home. Okay, so now you're having this, like, weird kind of situation with her. I mean, to the outside world, this is, like, very unconventional, right? But now this is, like, where you find yourself.

You're, like, you've okayed, like, you've said okay to, like, all these rules and regulations, right, that she has for you, and you're going to be her, quote, unquote, slave. Now, like, is all of this kind of turning you on? Do you feel like you're falling for her, like, as like more than just, I don't know, like, is there, obviously it becomes like a relationship, right? Yep. Yeah. And he actually knew that I was into her. I mean, she could create my mind very well.

She was very well experienced. And I think that's the same thing with all those very well experienced dominant ladies out there. And this is when she told me, she asked me one. specific evening when I was really away from studies, away from all the hassle back at the medical university, she asked me that she wanted to ask, have a very good conversation, and she wanted me to be completely honest about this. And that's when she asked me if I was really willing to be fully committed to her. And by that, she meant that I was not supposed to touch myself, no matter what. And I wasn't allowed to see anyone else, no pornography, stuff like that. And that's when

said I was completely willing because I kept reading stuff online and I knew what the genuine dominant ladies expected from their submissives. And she knew that I was doing the reading. And she knew it was some kind of a rhetorical question. And I said yes. And that's when she asked, Chastity included. And I said yes. And that's when I was first introduced to Chastity. I think it was maybe six months into my first time meeting her. Well, what else were you doing before Chastity, just impact play, flogging? Like, what did you get into? What was going down at your sessions?

That's what was interesting because she only did that the first few weeks. And then she stopped most of the BDM's and stuff. I mean, the ones that we get to watch online, Kenna. She was actually training me to be an obedient, a submissive, someone who was completely willing to submit to her, no preferences of my own unless they were really important. and she was training me towards obedience towards pleasing her, turning my attention to her and not focusing on myself. That's what she was focusing on in those few months before that.

So were you meeting her in the dungeon anymore? No, no, but when I was invited to a place after the first few months, that's when I gave her some foot massages, fixing her baths and preparing her meals and helping her out in her work, kind of preparing her presentations at medical school, stuff like that. She was always testing, I felt she was testing my obedience and realized that I shouldn't get ahead of myself. And so I just followed her lead. And that's when she introduced me to foot massages and stuff like that.

And then eventually Chastity play comes because you are told, like, she keeps having all these rules for you. Eventually the rules are you could only do stuff to her. Yeah. Keep going. So, yeah, so it was, I think, approximately six months into me meeting her that she introduced me to Chastity. I just started off with a regular plastic device. And I was not really comfortable at least for the first few weeks. But I realized that she kept increasing the intensity of her powering over me, if I could say that so.

and one evening and it was I think one week before my birthday and that's when she said you have a surprise and then she put something on the table and she said you can look at it after finishing the cleaning and the cooking and after you have a wash and I did and then when I was about to open it she said bring it to me and then I brought it to her and then she asked me to open it and I did and to my shock it was a chastity device with a urethral insertion

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she said, bring it to me. And then I brought it to her. And then she asked me to open it, and I did. And to my shock, it was a chassis device with a urethral insert. Oh, God. Oof. It goes through your urethra? Yeah.

You guys know how to put that shit in, right? This is like your job. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's a different thing putting the urinary catheter into a patient's, you know, herrithra. Than yourself? And she asked me to put it on myself. but I really struggled to be honest.

I was really shaking. I don't know why it happened. I still can't explain it. I've actually tried to read it online. I initially, for the first few months, until she actually can't me down, I would always have some kind of involuntary shiver down on my body. Well, I was in a presence.

I don't know why it happened. Maybe it was because I was too overwhelmed or whatever. I don't have a proper explanation to it, to be honest. So she realized I was struggling And so that's when she had me lay on a On a table kind of That's when she Inserted it

And how long would you stay caged I To be honest this is the most surprising part to a lot of people I think She placed me in chastity Complete chastity with no release for the first two years Oh my God How old are you right now?

Yeah I'm 30 And how old were you when you met her? I was 24. Yeah. Okay. Do you still hang out with her? Are you still with her?

Sadly, she had to leave the entire thing because her family ran into a lot of problems. Her mother, she was battling cancer. But you were really seeing her outside of that world. You were with her in her house, correct? but at some point you leave that house, I'm assuming. After she invited me, I kept wasting her just when I was, until the time that she placed me in chastity. That was the day, until then I kept wasting her and leaving the house, but that was the day

that I started living with her thereafter. The chast, when you got into chastity, right. But how long did you live with her total? I think six to seven years. Okay. Now, so, okay, and then what started to go down while you're in chastity? Because, like, you know, at this point, like, when was the last time you were with another woman or pleasured yourself or had any kind of release? The last time I was with a woman was, I think, maybe three years.

When you were with her, though, I'm talking about, like, before you got put in chastity. Because I'm like, I'm just assuming, like, what guy is going to give up? jerking off, you know, at 24. Obviously, you're just a sub, you know. She was really captivating. There was something about her that drew me to her. And there's something about you. I mean, listen, nobody's going to, no person could get somebody to do this shit that

you're doing with her unless you, the other person, is down for it, right? I mean, you're like two peas in a pot. I mean, no one could change you into being the type person to do something that's totally out of your wheelhouse. You're obviously this super submissive guy and on some level and you were waiting for this because who else would be like, oh yeah, put a cock cage on me and don't let me have sex and I can't watch porn. Nobody would say yes to that. Most guys wouldn't say yes to that at 24. No, I was struggling with masturbation, to be honest, and she knew that.

And she said she wanted me to be honest with her. And I knew that if I'd lie to her, I'd really miss up the whole thing. No, well, listen, it's not. It's very common for someone to deny someone, all that stuff. I'm just saying that, you know, what was your life before she, like, locked you down and you were okay with it? Because you're giving up sexual, you know, gratification, correct, for this woman. Yeah. So I did masturbate at least, I think, twice a week to four times a week, especially during weekends. Because medical school is really tough and, you know, you barely get time to think. Yeah. Think about all this. So weekends for my time when I was away from, you know, all my stuff. And I just put up everything. I just, underst it was examination time, I'd always try to work on Sunday, Sunday's

evening, Sunday evenings. And Saturdays was when I'd actually go out with friends or when I was alone in the room. That's when I'd touch myself and do stuff. Right. But you were, you know, she at this, by at this point, the time that you get into the chassis, she had had you so mesmerized and so submissive to her that you're going to do whatever she says, right? Yeah. So she was, she actually probed me psychologically kind of after she placed me in chastity.

She asked me a few questions. She asked me if I really liked pain. I don't know why I started liking pain thereafter because I never, I actually cringed pain. I used to, it's a very surprising thing that even got into medical school. I was actually afraid of stuff like needles. Yeah. So after she, you know, puts you in chastity now what goes down? Because you're in chastity for two years.

Yeah. And what are you doing that time? Like just cleaning for her, doing her household chores? So each week she kind of chipped up the things that she wanted to do with me in the lifestyle. She was kind of testing me. She told me that the next few weeks would be really challenging. because she was going to put me through certain things that I never expected.

And I had no idea. I thought maybe it was just some kind of more impact play or more pain or increasing my pains on the shoulder and stuff like that. And it was partly true, but it was just 25% of what I was actually imagining in my wireless imaginations. She started, I really messed up certain things like I wasn't punctual sometimes in doing certain things, certain tasks that she instructed me to do. or I didn't really excel at certain things that she wanted me to do. Like, for example, fixing her schedule or shopping or doing some basic domestic stuff

or time management, stuff like that. And that's when she used that as some, I don't say it's an excuse, but some kind of an opportunity to kind of punish me. That's what she meant. And that's when I was taken into, she had a dedicated room back in a place where she'd take me to do all these things. and that's when I was introduced to Canning, a week later to some real flogging that I've never experienced before in the past few months. And then came the surprise whipping, which I dreaded the most.

And this happened, I think, by the end of two months after I was placed in Chastity. Whipping? So by... Whipping. Okay. So I was able to handle all this well, but she rated me. She said at the end of each, I wouldn't use the word session, but I wouldn't use the word session, at the end of each whipping or caning of vlogging, she would just read me on a scale of 1 to 10 and say,

okay, your score is 6 and I want you to improve to 7. I didn't know what she was planning. I didn't see it coming. And then one day, it was her birthday. And she, two days before that, she took me out to dinner and just asked me how my studies were going and all that. And this was a time of a time in medical school when I was actually quite far away from examinations and some busy life. And that's when she

asked me to take a week off from medical school. And I thought, okay, maybe she's planning a vacation for a birthday and she wants me to go out with her. And it was not exactly so. And that's when she kind of told me that she was inviting a couple of her friends

over to her place for a weekend fun. That's what she told me. So it was a Friday evening. And so she told me two days before that on a Wednesday evening during dinner and when I went you outside and said, look, I'm going to invite 20 of my friends and most of them were lifestyle dominant ladies or pro-doms or some women who were just testing the waters were just novices into this lifestyle. And she said, I'm going to, and she said she was going

to invite them over and I was to be their plaything for the weekend and they were to and the plan was for them to use me as the wished. Oh my God. And I was like completely, I didn't know how to respond. Of course, I was never going to say no because I was actually excited. But then she saw that puzzle look on my face and said, I see that you're not really willing. I said, no, no, I am willing.

I was just concerned about whether or not I might actually please her because it was a birthday I didn't want to kind of tap out and say, no, I can't handle anymore. Because it's not one person or two people. It's like a whole bunch of ladies. And I didn't want to embarrass her or disappoint her before them. And I was concerned whether I would actually end up pleasing her well. Right. You know, and that was my concern.

And then that's when she kind of took me, took my hands into hands. And look, I'm in control of the situation and I'll handle it. and you don't have to really worry. She assured me. And I was like, I felt like trusting her completely more than I trusted her until that point of time. And so Friday evening started. And as expected, I was naked.

I was expected to invite the ladies into a place. And I was required to serve them drinks and the initial snacks and stuff like that. And it started around, I think, around 6 p.m. in the evening once. Friday. And then they had their light snacks and then it started. Then she introduced me formally to them and told them. She had already told about me to them, but formal introduction happened at that point of time. And she said, look, he's your plaything. He's your play toy. You can call him names. You can use it as you like. And she said, they cannot perform sex with me at all, at least that evening. Well, are you in chastity, meaning like they can't peg you or something? Like, what is sex if you're in chattel? Yes. Yes. So all that was, all that was on the table. So that evening was the first time that I was first introduced to pegging. Okay, but she told them that they're not allowed to have sex with you, correct? Yeah, as in regular sex. Well, of course you can. You're in chastity, but I thought she was forbidding them.

to do any kind of touching you? Anything. Anything. Yeah. So all that was allowed was, you know, caning, whipping and flocking and, you know, CBT, ball busting, nipple torture. And, you know, how many girls were there? I think they were around.

I think at least a 20, 20 of them. 20? 20. 20 doms. She had that many friends? Okay. So walk me through what exactly happened? Sorry. So not all of the 20 were

participating. Right. Yeah. No, no. All of them were participating, but at least six or seven were novices. Someone, some, some, some. Oh, like, I get it. Okay. So tell me exactly what happened. So it, so it started with them actually kind of tying me up, you know, spread standing. And they were kind of four pillars, you know, in the room that all this had. happened and so my all my four limbs were spread open and I was not hanging I was my foot my feet resting

on the ground but I was actually kind of spread and it started with the ladies kind of they had the drinks in the hands and they would come and they'd asked me to remember their names and if I forgot their names after a while they would kind of whip me or each each of them selected what what kind of devices they wanted to use on me some chose or caning some chose scanning some chose floggers some chose whips. So they took turns like four of five together. I was in the center of the room, some of them standing, some of them just feeding on some of snacks and stuff like that.

And it started with caning and whipping and vlogging. And they attached some kind of coat pins to my different parts of my body with a rope. And then that's when she had, And that's when they called my lady forward and asked her to kind of do some kind of birthday cake cutting and blowing the candles. And that's when as they were singing happy birthday, at the end of the song, they just pulled off all the pins. Okay. Did they use you as a waste bucket or that was off the table? No, she didn't encourage them to use me that way because some. Sometimes I did choke when they actually used me as ashtray or something like that.

Okay. So she didn't want to spoil the evening. But they were allowed to rub off the cigarettes on my nipples or, you know, on my jingotils. Now, how are you doing with all this pain? Because it seems like you've come a long way, right? You were someone that was so anti it. And right now you're letting them, like, put cigarettes out on you and shit like that. Like, you know, you're very far down the rabbit hole here.

All I could feel was that my had palpitation. to be honest. Right. They actually gave me a break around, I think, maybe one and a half to two hours after all the play. And that's when they left me alone for, I think, about 45 minutes, approximately. And then they came back and another group of ladies actually tied me over some kind of bench kind of thing. And that's when my lady came forward and said, you know, this is your lucky day. It's my birthday and this is the day I want you to remember that you first lost your anal.

virginity. And she said she could have done it on any other day, but she wanted this to be a day that I remember. Right. The day that, you know, because it was a birthday and so on. And that's when they, all this was being filmed too. And that's when she, you know, kind of lent forward into me and said, are you ready? You know, she used certain words. I don't know if I'm allowed to use. You're allowed to use them. Yeah, so he grabbed me by my hair and pulled me back so at all the league because I was really, I was not shy, but I was like too nervous to look into any of the eyes kind of, you know, all I could see at that position was, I think at the most I could see was the heels and up to their thighs, that's all. And that's when she grabbed me by my hair and she spat on me from behind. and then she said, today you're going to be mine, literally mine forever.

Are you ready to take this bitch? And I was like too nervous and she didn't hear me answer. So she made me repeat the answer a couple of times and that's when she plunged into me. And that was the first time and all this time that you're getting pegged at this point? Yes. Okay. And now like if you're in a cockage, I don't know what that experience is like. But I do know what anal is like, and it's very highly charged because there's a lot of nerve-ending.

So, you know, you can't help but be stimulated if you get into it, right? Like, I mean, is there any kind of pleasure for you, even though you're in a cock cage? Can you still come? Can you still get turned on? Like, I don't know what goes down. Initially, I think at least for the first few hours of the begging. And that's when she picked me for a couple of minutes. And then they went off to have some more drinks.

And then I was told that I was supposed to clean up. because there was something more very deadly coming, and I didn't realize what it was. I had no idea. And that's when the deal, she decided that all of the ladies were going to take turns begging me at night. Right. But I asked you, like, do you feel, like, pleasure? So at that point of time, when I was cleaned, when I was asked to clean, she removed the cock cage, she removed the chastity cage.

And it was kind of a mix between pleasure and pain, to be honest, because, they did use the hands to kind of bring me to an edge. And then they stopped kind of when I was kind of, when they felt that I was kind of But I mean, when you are caged up and someone's pegging you, okay, can you get turned on in that experience? I don't know, because I don't have, I've never been in one. It isn't an orgasm kind of thing, but I did leak a lot. And she would make me look it off her hands. Would it feel good?

But as you're being pegged, are you turned? on? Initially, no. It was really, really painful. It was really... But you, so for two years, though, while you're in that cockage, you don't come the whole time, correct? No, no. Okay. And you can't get a hard on, right? I did, it's hard on in the sense. I did, I did strain against the cage, and it was really painful. And I'd go and try to take a shower or put some eyes to kind of overcome it. But you can't come. You can't have an orgasm either?

No. Okay. Okay. And my, and she was really, that evening was, that's how it happened. And 20 of them, they just had their way with me. I was bit roasted. I was put in all kinds of positions on my back or on my belly. And this went on up to, I think, 4 a.m. in the morning.

And that's when they let me off and said, okay, you can go off now and rest a while. And I was let off until the afternoon that day, I think. And then restarted again at around 1 p.m. on Saturday. And they did it the same until late Saturday night. And that's when they left. Okay. Yeah.

Now, over the years, how many of these kinds of experiences did you have? This happened, I think, once in two months in the beginning. And then I think the most it happened in a month was maybe three or four times, not more than that, on the weekends especially. Okay. So what else went down through your whole, you know, all these years of living with her? So after the initial, let's call it, gangbank session with the 20 ladies, that's when there was regular for the next three years, I think there was, regular pegging kind of at least she'd pick me at least five days a week in the evenings and this was when I was living 24-7 with her apart from my time in at you know medical I finished medical school and I was you know I joined as an assistant in one of the

hospitals and so on days when I was not on the night shift that's when the pegging happened most of the time so it just happened at least I think three to four times each week And so the whole thing did happen. I was supposed, I wake up at 6 a.m., prepare her bath and breakfast and be a typical household slave. Doing the domestic work, cooking, groceries, shopping, driving her around, taking her to conferences, accompanying her to different places, preparing some presentations for her and all that stuff. And in the sexual part of it was, yeah, begging was a regular thing that she did very often. She knew that I was finally kind of, you know, entirely submissive to her and that I wasn't going to say no to anything that she tried to do with me.

Of course, she was very careful with my health too. This is when she kind of loaned me out to some of her friends. Okay, and what was that all about? These were, you know, novices. That's how she sometimes called them. And some of them were lifestyle dominant ladies who wanted. a couple of evenings with me, pleasuring them,

you know, pleasing them sexually and stuff like that. So this was when she'd loaned me out to them for a couple of, you know, maybe days, maybe two or three days. Weekends, I was supposed to be back with her, you know,

comfort me. And that's what would happen. And, well, with the ladies, you know, the same thing. I mean,

they, they, they just used me as their sex joy. I was, you know, expected to please them morally. And, you know, they had the way with me. Just the regular stuff, never sex. But I think at the end of my third year or fourth year with her, that's when she first surprised me and introduced sex into our, you know, relationship.

Introduce what? Sex. What do you mean sex? You're taken out of the cage? Yeah. So I was taken out of the cage. of the cage. After maybe some kind of, you know, flogging or thing like that, she didn't want me to think that I was in control of the situation whatsoever. So after dinner time, sometime around 10 p.m.,

she'd just take me into her master bedroom and, you know, have me bound. And that's when she'd have remod the chastity cage and have sex with me for a couple of hours. And it always involved me having to, you know, swallow from her. Right, okay. Snowballing. That's called snowballing. But anyway, go on. So now you're like doing more different stuff

because you're not caged anymore. Yeah. It's not that I was not caged anymore, but I'd go back into the cage by morning. Right. It was just some kind of a ritual kind of thing. Every time I was not in a cage, she'd make sure that she actually placed the cage back onto me in the mornings usually.

If she used me in the night, then in the morning I was back into the cage. It was not allowed to touch myself. And she knew that I was being honest. To be honest, I've never touched myself without a permission at all whatsoever. Right. I do you want to get to the point where why do you leave that house eventually? So she branded me. Okay.

With her hot iron. What is the branding? What is it? Is it her initials? What is it? What is it? What is it? Her initials, she didn't want to brand a name. So she prepared me for it. I was really terrified after watching a few video clips online. And she calmed me down. She had me bound. And I was tied to the bed on my belly. And that's when she kind of burnt her initials into my skin. Can you send me a picture of that for my Patreon? I'll try to. I'll get it. What do you mean try to? You just take the fucking picture and send it. Try is like the weirdest word to me. Try is like I can't stand people and say try. What do mean try? Either do something or don't. It's yes or no. No try is like bullshit. What do you mean you'll try to take a picture? Just take a picture of it and send it to me. Will you do that? Yes or no? The thing is she didn't want. I don't care about her. She's long gone. You're not even living with her, she doesn't rule you, okay?

Now I'm doming you, okay? Send me the fucking picture. I will. Okay, thank you. Or else I don't believe your story, okay? I'm telling you, I want it for proof because at some point here, I'm listening and I'm thinking this whole thing is bullshit for some reason. I don't know why. But let me just ask you, why at the end of this story, are you not with her anymore? Like, what happens? Because you wind up living in that house or being with her for seven years, right? Like, you know, a long time or whatever. You know, what, how does the ending happen?

What happens at the end? Look, towards the end of my sixth year or seven years with her, she was having a bad time with her, I know, in her family. She was going through surprises. Her mother battling cancer. And that's when her mother passed away. And they had, they do a lot of charity work. And she was very attached with her mother.

and she did find out that she had cervical cancer. Who, your girl? Yeah. Okay. And so she said, she, this thing just kind of broke me, to be honest. I wasn't expecting any of this. And that's when she said, she just revealed this news to me. She was actually, the entire thing started going down ever since her mother passed away.

We didn't, she didn't have involved with me much. engage much ever since her mother past. But when she gets cancer, because you have this like relationship with her, do you, does it change where, but like there's a friendship there that you're there for her and stuff or do you just split? Like I don't understand.

Okay. No, no, no. We didn't split. I mean, kind of, I do visit her once every three to four months. But why did you move out? So she didn't want to engage in any relationship thereafter. And she said,

Initially, she said she was going to take a break and the break extended to more than a couple of months. Right. And then one evening, she called me to a place and said, look, she had to undergo chemotherapy and radiation therapy. And she said she couldn't handle, you know, this lifestyle anymore. Okay, that makes sense. But you're still friends with her to this day? I mean, she got through her cancer, right? And she's okay.

And so many years later, you still see her? Yes. Each time she lives in Australia, and so I visit her at least once every three to four months. Okay, where do you guys live now? Where do you live now? I am currently in southern India. I'm working on a project. Okay, but in your email, you said I'm from New York City. You're from New York City? What does New York City have to do with anything? Sorry, could you say it again?

In your email to me, you said I'm from New York City. Mm-hmm. Or you just said you live in India? Have you ever been in New York City? Yes. I've come to Southern India on a project on a tour. Okay, so you work in New York, but you're in India for a long time, and you go to Australia all the time to see her.

Not all the time. I spend about not more than a week to 10 days with her. Let me ask you this, because I have to go, and I need proof of this relationship. You need to send me pictures of your branding, okay? Yep. You know, what is your love like? love life now. Listen, you're a doctor, you're 34 years old, you're on the market, you know,

are you dating women? Do you, are you looking for another female-led relationship? Do you ever see yourself having a normal relationship or do you want one that you had with her before? Like, what's your deal now? I think I'd consider myself lucky if I come across someone like her or no, slash your relationship like I had with her. But I do realize that every dominant lady is different and has different days. So I don't expect the same thing to replicate again, but I'm definitely looking forward to another female red relationship. It's just that I took some time away for searching for the past few years because I wanted to focus on what I was committed to. And so I've only started searching, I think, in the past four months since the new year began.

And where do you search, like on Fat Life or on Adult website? If you go to Dungeon? Are you on a website? Are you on a website? They were not on dungeons because I've I tried Fat Life initially and then I thought I wasn't lucky enough on Fat Life. I came across a couple of scams to be honest, males predicting. Well, if you live in New York City, I have to highly recommend a woman named Domina C. Aphrodite. She was on my show. She lives in New York. She's based in that area.

She's on Fat Life. She's very big on there. She's a total Femdom. Okay. thanks for letting me know. Yeah, let her know. So listen, I have to go. Okay, but I don't know why I don't believe your story because it's so far-fetched.

And sometimes I think these kinds of things are like big-time fantasies, you know, I don't know. I think people who are into this type of thing don't even probably fucking care if it's a fantasy. They just like hearing this stuff. You know what I mean? I don't know. Like, I still have to be like people will listen to your stories because even if they're not true, they're like hot to some people who are into this kind of situation. but I would love for you to send me the branding pictures so that I have like quote unquote

proof of your story because I don't know why I don't believe it. And I will give you free access to my Patreon for a month so you could see people commenting when your episode goes up. It'll be on Fetish Friday as well as I'll give you free access to my Discord where you could go on there and talk to people for sure. Okay? I'll send you the links to all of that stuff. Okay.

Thanks, Ben. Thanks so much for calling in. Thanks so much. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.

I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally,

the audiobook is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get in. to my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to

my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is, email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous Podcast.