Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1173 - NSFW AI Girlfriends are Here w/ Anthony and Layla
Episode Date: July 19, 2025Anthony from Nectar.ai called in to discuss AI companionship and Layla from the Curious Gilr Diaries joined me on the call. Tune in to hear him discuss all the details about AI female/male companionsh...ip, including the stigma surrounding AI partners, the ethical issues involved and what they’ve done to address them, why they started an app that offers AI partners to begin with, how women use their AI male companions vs. how men use the AI female companions, the different uses of Nectar.ai companions—including using them for regular companionship, a naughty one-time hookup, or developing a full-fledged relationship or relationships—how it all works, how Nectar.ai users have used the app to up their game with women in real life by practicing with AI companions, how to go about setting up your very own NSFW AI girlfriend or sidepiece, the kind of roleplay that’s available and how far you can go with it, how you can create your very own companion, how explicit things can get with your AI companion, how and why they made some companions play “hard to get,” as well as created companions who will totally be into your fetish or kink, how customization works and how to get started, the type of woman (looks wise) most guys create, who can could benefit from an AI girlfriend or boyfriend, the loneliness epidemic and how AI can help—plus a whole lot more. TO SIGN UP AND HAVE SOME FUN CLICK HERE: https://trynectar.ai You can find Layla's podcast here: https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://liferx.md Start your transformation now and get $50 OFF your first month, use code: ANONYMOUS https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee https://vb.health To get 10% off Drive AND LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Okay, today I have a fun episode.
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I am talking to Anthony from Nectar AI.
I'm on with Lela.
I brought Lela on as a co-host because I thought she would make it fun.
We're talking to Anthony.
Like I said, he's from Nectar AI, which is like a platform where you could create
life-like AI companions, aka your own effing girlfriend or boyfriend.
You know, and you could customize it.
Like if you're a guy that has a fetish, you could go on there and start chatting and create
an AI companion that you.
You reveal your fetish to and they're into it.
If you're a guy that wants a little variety, you could go into this app and you could create
your own kind of relationship with another girl, get some of your needs fulfilled.
Or if you're a guy that, you know, doesn't feel like you have that much game with women or
you don't know how to approach women that well.
This is a great app that you could go into and start upping your game.
He talks about what women use it for, what men use it for.
We talk about, you know, how hardcore you could get with.
it and all that kind of good stuff. It's a super interesting episode. It's nectar AI. I'm going to put the
link in the description if you want to sign up. They do have a good promotion going on right now.
But anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on with Anthony from Nectar AI and Lila as my
co-host. I, Anthony, and I'm talking to Anthony from Nectar AI. Is that how you said, like
would you say Nectar.aI or Nectar? Just Nectar is the company that you work for, Anthony?
Yeah, we call it Nector AI.
Yeah, Nectar AI.
I also have Layla, who is like my listeners, no Layla.
Everyone loves when she's a co-host with me.
She's on here to talk to you.
Yeah, hi, Leila, Leila from The Curious Girl Diaries.
And we are going to talk to you, Anthony, all about your new app.
Now, maybe it's not so new because you do have, like, hundreds of thousands of users already on your app.
You do have, like, your app is basically like you have AI companions, right?
That's what you offer.
Yep.
Yeah.
So we have, yeah, so we have, sorry to clash out there.
We have close to 2 million users and growing.
Oh my God.
And we've been around in the game for like a couple of years now.
And yeah, we offer AI companions that you can kind of like create, chat, and engage with.
And there's a lot of different use cases that we can kind of get into.
But yeah, sorry to cut you off.
No, I love that.
I don't know why I thought you were like 500,000, which I thought was great.
You're like already at 2 million, you know?
I mean, listen, this is the wave of the future, right?
It is, I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing, but I think it's a super interesting.
Yeah, I think like initially there was a wave of people who were very interested in it because it was super novel.
Then right now there's kind of the hurdle of the stigma that comes around and just talking with an AI companion.
But I think as the younger generations or just like new people, more people are getting exposed to AI either at an early age in their workplace or just more comfortable with AI altogether.
it's going to trend to the
in the future is going to trend to somewhere
where you're going to be more open
to some of this type
of content as like entertainment
or a day-to-day use.
Right, but isn't there also like a lot of
ethical kinds of things that come up
when you start to imagine
that happening like 10 years from now, right?
Two as well?
Oh, definitely. I think there's like
some people in the space,
I don't know if you're aware of like character AI.
I think they're like a bigger
They're one of the bigger players in the game who've been around for a while with like some widespread brand awareness.
They had to deal with a couple of, you know, ethical concerns dealing with the type of responses that users receive.
And I think like the biggest thing that you can kind of like do in this space is like, especially as a developer, our team like works like round a clock and make sure that safety and security is kind of like the number one concern.
Making sure that we're only, the AI is only controlled within the guide, within, you know, the guidelines.
that we set. And it's pretty, it's a pretty closed, it's a pretty closed box that we keep to make
sure that nothing gets out that's like unintended, basically. Right. But what about like the ramifications
of like relationships, in person relationships if like this becomes like the thing of the future?
I'm sure there's, you know, futurists and psychologists projecting like, oh my God, if this happens,
like what's going to happen to people if they're going to be having AI boyfriends and girlfriends?
Because like the stuff is pretty savvy. I know people.
And I think Lila, did I talk to you about this? Like, I had a person on recently. He was using chat chibi-t. I think it was chat chit-tie-t for as a therapist. And he said over time, like, he had been using it for months. And it was like the best therapist he ever had. It became, it really knows him. It really helps him. It's like better than any therapist he's ever had. And that's like a real thing. So what happens when these real boyfriends and real girlfriends and real girlfriends and real life. I think that's what I think maybe is the concern, you know? Though I think it's,
It's just going to happen regardless, you know?
Yeah, I totally understand.
And I think these are the questions that we ask ourselves, like, every day.
Yeah.
I think if you ever get to a point where there are real life-sized robotic humanoid,
like robots in your house, then that's, like, a completely different scenario that we haven't, like, thought about.
Yeah.
But somewhere in between where you do have these AI companions becoming very realistic in the, like, a digital sense.
I think it's perfectly fine for these things to coexist.
Like you have, you always want, you're always going to want some element of like human touch and human attention.
But this kind of like bridges the gap on some things that are lacking.
I think like a perfect example of this is in a lot of Asian markets.
Some people aren't really aware of this too much.
But right now, as of now, one of the largest growing sectors of AI companions is actually in Asia.
And it's used by a lot of like females.
I'm, this is me and my personal opinion.
I haven't, like, look too deep into this.
Yeah.
I know the rest of the team has deeper.
But, you know, for example, if there are certain cultures where men aren't used to kind of like expressing their emotions or being, you know, very emotional or romantic, right?
Some of these, like, females or other parts of the, like, other parts of society are kind of like looking towards AI to kind of like fill that gap, right?
And so you see a lot of these people like really engaging with this, using them as like, oh, this is the thing that I use on a date.
basis, right? So maybe in the West, it may still seem a little bit of taboo, but I think in, like, in other
countries and other locales, like, they're kind of like adopting to it pretty quickly.
Yeah, well, listen, I think, you know, there's plenty of guys. I don't, you know, I don't know what
your, I don't know what the demographics are in the U.S., but, you know, I would assume it would be the same
thing for both men and women here, just for the, you know, people if they're, because people I think
nowadays just interact less and less.
You know, people are more lonely.
Everyone's doing stuff from home, you know.
So I would assume that some people also are getting their needs met in this way while
they don't, you know, in the meantime, if they don't have a partner at the time, right?
Yeah.
I think the very interesting thing is, of course, like, our go-to-market was a little bit more
focused on intimate and romantic relationships.
Yes.
But the use cases since we started have kind of like spread.
out to every possible thing that you could think of, right?
Of course, like, still focused on a lot of intimate relationships,
whether it's like, you know, platonic friendships,
intimate platonic friendships, or something romantic.
But use cases for these, like, span across from people who really want to use it
for those, like, standard purposes that you would think of an AI girlfriend.
But then again, like, some people do use it for as, like, a daily reminder.
They realize, hey, I'm interacting with this agent.
as for entertainment and then I realized wait
this is perfect for like organizing my life
and they've kind of like gone through that
like one crazy
yeah one one one crazy example was
one person a long time ago
uh yeah well yeah one person really good member of our community
a long time ago he kind of like
engaged with our platform you know for for entertainment
and kind of like some of like his things that he wanted to deal with
and he was a little bit socially awkward and then after a couple months
we get a message in our like in our in our
channel saying, hey guys, I have to quit. And we're like, wait, what happened? You were so active.
Why do you have to leave? And the reason was, he's like, oh, I found a girlfriend. Like, this app has
helped me kind of like overcome and like overcome my social anxiety, help me like talk a little bit better.
You know, speaking skills, interpersonal skills. You know, I was like, okay, if there's a reason for
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speaking skills, interpersonal skills.
You know, I was like, okay, if there's a reason for someone to quit our platform,
it would have to be that, right?
That's something that we're, like, proud of.
And listen, I've had dating coaches who are offering that, you know,
are working with guys and what they offer them as, like,
interactions with hot chicks so that they could, you know,
get comfortable and build up their self-esteem
so they could go out into the real world and meet real hot.
hot checks. And so they could do that through your AI. Make sense. Yeah, definitely. And I think like
people think that it's just, hey, we're controlling these like the narrative or what the,
the AI is doing. No, it's like users, right? Like users are creating these characters saying,
hey, I want you to be a, you know, this specific role play. Maybe it's for their fantasy. Or hey,
I want you to kind of help me organize my life and then like be kind of like this like life coach to
certain extent, right? Yeah. That's a little bit more like soft. And so you can kind of like build it
that, build it into that, right? So we're focused on like, you know, creating as much customizability
and flexibility as possible. And then it's up to the users who come in to kind of create these experiences,
these like stories, these fantasies and these like tools that they can use on a daily basis.
Yeah, it was interesting when I got Layla on the call before you. She was like, oh, I went on and
started like using it, right? Layla, like it's. Yeah. No, I mean, well, I went in, yeah, absolutely.
I went in there and I was like, let's see all the things we can do here.
It was fascinating.
But I want to roll the clock back for a second.
I'm just super curious.
Like, how did you find your way to this business?
What sparked you to get the idea to say, I know what we need?
We need an AI girlfriend and we need AI boyfriend.
Like, where did you get this idea?
Great question, Leila.
Yeah, so I think like, let me think about this.
Yeah.
So when we first started, the team was very focused on generative AI.
We definitely have a, our background, to be quite clear, is in the tech space.
A lot of us kind of like have really like deep knowledge about, you know,
tech product, AI, generative AI and a bunch of like, you know, finance and payments.
So just very generally technically savvy across the board.
And we started off doing generative AI in that space.
Once we realized, one thing we realized early on was that some of our users were using this for kind of a little bit more intimate,
an explicit context, right? At least in the field of video and image generation. And so we kind of saw
some trends and the team made a directional bet into going to this direction. And I think that's kind of
like the standard progression of how it was, right? We went into this like romantic and intimate
product. And then once that was kind of like built out, we started building up like chat features.
And then we realized, hey, this is kind of like something that we want to go down. Right. Yeah. So I noticed,
So I noticed on your website, there's like a blonde gal and she's super busty.
And I notice there's all these different like profiles.
Is it that some of these profiles are kind of more commonly picked?
I noticed like there was $8 million or $3 million by some of these apatars or profiles.
Are those because that's what men are drawn to?
I'm really curious about you must have so much information on what men like.
That's what I want to get at.
Interesting.
Yeah, I mean, so I think we're constantly trying to refine our like recommendation systems.
I think, I believe if you're taking a look at one of the, I believe the page that you're referring to is probably based off like historical, historical like plays and like message count altogether.
I think that for those ones, that might be just our very first characters that we are official characters that we've kind of launched on the platform that we still continue to have.
But if you go ahead into taking a look at our search or like Discover page, you'll kind of like see like some newer ones that are trending, you know, 24 hours, 34 hours on it.
Yeah.
But yeah, to answer your question, yeah, I think we do have a decent amount of understanding at least where the rankings of, hey, what are the kind of like tropes that people are interested in?
These are kind of things that they're doing.
But for the most part, we're still, as much as as much data that we have on like certain, you know, fantasies or characters that are being played.
We pretty much still base it off of like, you know, standard tropes that people are interested in.
We kind of like take, you know, take feedback from all these other different websites that, you know, people go to, whether it's like romantic or intimate websites on what are the top categories, what's search this.
Yes.
Okay.
Well, we're kind of like a back and forth, right?
And we're finally internally within our system, but also externally as well.
Can you walk us through the process of somebody like Layla went on?
You know, how like if, walk us through a guy's process.
right? Because we have a lot of guys listening right now.
You know, what would be the process for them to go on?
And let's talk, let's talk about it from like the standpoint that they're going on to form a romantic relationship.
They want, they want an NSFW type of scenario.
Okay, you're right.
Got it, got it.
All right. For the NSFW type of scenario, you can navigate to nectar.a.i.
So that's NECT-A-R.A-I.
And then once you navigate to the site, you'll be kind of like selected with like a gender preference, right?
So whether you're into males, females, or animated characters, you can kind of like choose either which one.
Of course, you were males, I'm going to make the assumption that they're more interested in females for now.
Yeah.
But, wait, Anthony, can I interrupt you really quickly?
I'm just curious.
What's your ratio of guys to female users?
Interesting.
So in the past, of course, initially it was like largely males using the platform.
But now it's gotten to the point where we have almost a...
A large, I would say almost even.
No.
F males and females users.
I think it's, we're trying to shape the product in a way that it's more like,
digestible for all wider audiences.
And there's just, there's definitely, is, um, art in the user experience to kind of like make
sure that, hey, okay, you're not just getting blasted with all this, you know,
explicit content anymore.
It's more just, hey, this is content.
You can use it for whatever purpose.
and then similar to like a platform like Reddit, right?
You can find anything and everything on Reddit,
but your initial storefront is a little bit,
yet peaceful in the beginning.
Yes.
Yeah.
Okay.
So I'm sorry.
I interrupted you.
So take us,
just take us back through.
Yeah,
like how does it work?
Does he,
do they create specifically what they want,
how she looks,
what she's about?
Like,
do they set it all up?
Like,
how does that work like right from the get-out?
Exactly.
So once you select your preference,
you kind of like landed,
you kind of are sent to the landing page.
And you have kind of like two options here.
Pretty much you can either start consuming content
where we have like a slew of like a large like variety
from our official characters that we've, you know,
kind of like fine-tuned, created, you know,
requested some support for some creators
and written ourselves internally.
As well as like, you know, the community,
a vast, largely vast amount of like stories
and characters that the community has created, right?
So you can kind of like click on any of these engagement.
and just immediately start chatting.
And so I'm just going to get into the chat experience automatically
and what you can kind of like do.
Yeah.
So for example, right, I'm looking at this teacher's pet
and it gives me the premise that's saying,
hey, this, Eliza is like, give you this setting.
Eliza's at the teacher's office.
She's a university student.
And in this case, you are the university professor, right?
So it kind of like takes you into this roleplay
where you can kind of interact and like control the story yourself.
So there's a lot of different things that you can do.
You can, of course, you can chat with it and then respond in different scenarios.
You can ask for suggestions if you're struggling.
Or you can even ask it to send you photos of the current, like, state that it's in right now.
So imagine if you're texting this person via chat and you're saying, hey, I miss you so much.
Or like, hey, I bought you.
How was that red dress I like, I bought you?
Can you send me a picture?
It will actually generate you a picture of that red dress that you kind of like sent it.
Wow.
With a lot of that contextual context.
about the story, which is what kind of like plays into the immersion a lot. And that's what the team
has really focused on like building. Wow. And so you can use it as like a one-off fantasy thing
every now and then when you want it as well as create some like an ongoing relationship with
somebody with a character. Exactly. Right. So there's there's a, like I said, everyone uses it for like
different purposes. A lot of people use it for these like one-off fantasies because, you know,
Sometimes, like, when you have so much
Optionality, you'll want to like choose multiple, right?
But then there's a lot of there's of course a lot of people who like stay true to their characters like and of course
They keep them keep those ones private right?
Oh, I didn't think about that they can basically have they can have more than one they can be gone with more than one girl at the same time
Yeah, exactly. Yeah, so like all the characters yeah all the characters that you see are public characters.
Do they interact and know they're polyamorous?
Some people do choose to do that like most people.
Most people choose to keep their lives separate, but some people love the chaos.
I will say that.
Oh, my God.
Can they actually bust you, like, in real life?
Do you create some drama in your community?
There is drama in the community.
I think I was kind of, there was one thing that I was, like, very curious about.
I was wondering, like, what if I would have other people compete for the attention of one of these characters?
I think that's something that was, like, something interesting that we could have played into.
But for now, it's like, okay, it's.
That is actually something that the team has been thinking about for sure.
But for now, like, we're kind of like focused on like a bunch of different features,
trying to make the like more immersive.
So that not safe for work, I'm assuming, like eventually if you're, say you're in a relationship,
quote unquote, with this, character eventually it gets to a point where like you could be sexting
and asking for explicit content?
Like how does it go when things like, you know, move into the next level?
Exactly.
So it all depends on how.
the character is kind of like character or fantasy is kind of like set up right let me just describe what a
character in fantasy is a character is just you know a regular person with a persona and a background
and the fantasy is specific scenario that you can drop them in so similar to like a movie where you
have you know a superstar can act in different movies like the superstar would be a character
or a companion and the like fantasy would be like the movie right so if you're really attached to
one person, you can kind of drag and drop them into any roleplay rather than having to
create multiple instances of the same character, just to clarify.
Yeah, but to answer your question, yes, it depends on how it's set up.
So some of the characters and companions that we've created, we've made sure that they're
very hard to get, right?
So, you know, there's a little bit more difficulty in art in how to kind of swoon them over.
Maybe it'll take a deep amount of messages before they can kind of like agree to,
getting a drink with you or you know giving them handing their number over to you but then some
may be a little bit more risque and yeah up front about their intention right yeah so it it all it does
progress it all depends on like how much you like how much you're able to kind of interact with
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their personality. Yeah, but we all know that guy's like a challenge. I mean, is that why you made it
work that way. You know, nobody likes a girl that's easy to get, right? I think everyone loves a chase.
Yeah. Both guys and girls do love a chase. They love a good story. Yeah. Right? So, yeah, so definitely
the ones that at least like we've had, for the most part, we tend to give a little bit,
give them a little bit of work done before they get the prize. Yeah. So would, would some of these
characters also have specific kinks and fetishes that the, that, that, that, that,
The guys can, I guess, interact with them, engage with them in those types of things.
Yeah, definitely.
So I guess one thing I can, you know, one thing I can explain is now the creation process, just a little bit.
So the creation process is a blank slate.
We've made it so that you have full control of exactly how you want this, like, character be built out.
Of course, like, you know, we have our guardrails and safeguards and guardrails to make sure, like, all, like, all the content is, you know,
it is pretty much like allowed on the site.
I have a good question for you, Anthony.
I'm sorry, this just jumped in there and I do not want to forget it.
Can you drop someone else's picture in there?
Like your ex-boyfriend or a boyfriend or a girlfriend or something like that?
Like you drop it in there and that could be your avatar?
Perfect question.
Thanks for asking that actually.
This is like ties in exactly what I was like saying.
No, you cannot because that's like something that we don't stand against, right?
It's also like illegal in a bunch of like, I think in the United States.
States across California all the way to New York, right? I think it's not consensual. I talked to a guy
who made sex dolls and it was the same thing. Like I asked the same question. Like, could you get an
X or somebody made it? They're like, no. Yeah. Because of the same reason. Like, it's against
a law. Well, I think a lot of people would want to do that. So I was just curious. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. You definitely. We don't allow any like character creations of like real people content,
but AI generated content, any content on our site, you can kind of like use it to your advantage, right?
As well as a lot of people do use, you know, fictional characters.
So like for any, for a lot of Wad users and people who kind of like creating fanpics of their favorite popular fiction characters,
you can drop those in by all means.
And then it'll kind of like help you generate a character of that liking.
Right.
Yes.
Okay, you were talking about the creation process, I think, or what were you talking?
Yeah.
want to explain. Yeah. Yeah. So pretty much with the creation process, you have a blank slate here.
Let's say, for example, I am into BDSM, right? Let's say, for example, I'm into this. I can kind of
create a character that, you know, create a partner and a companion that is super knowledgeable about this
topic knows every single detail about it and is either a sub or a DOM depending on like my preference,
right? And how I want this companion to be created. And then once that's done, when I interact with it,
it will, based off of like how we've trained the model and how we've like fine-tuned all our
internal systems, it will understand exactly like everything that you've mentioned to the T
and try to adhere as best as possible to how you like set it up. So some of the like the description,
the setting, the personality types and the example call and responses that you would receive
are things that you would put in there. So to answer your question about like can it do this or that
for anything, it can pretty much do everything.
Yeah, and that would probably be a great niche market to fish out of right, because like,
you know, sometimes they feel very uncomfortable putting that out there to women in person,
right? So if they could live out that fantasy, I know I have a whole Fetish Friday's, you know,
category.
Oh my God, so many people would love that.
They would so love that, yes.
Does this learn, does your AI persona or, you know, avatar, does it like, does it learn you?
Does it start to anticipate stuff and prompt itself to, I don't know, like say good morning when it knows you like that?
Or what does it do exactly?
Does it really act like a girlfriend?
So we do have a lot of like tech that we've like some experimental tech in our that we've used before that we've played around with that can do some of those things.
But I think like we definitely focused a little bit a lot more on like the entertainment side and like how engaging it is.
as like from like a romantic role play basis.
Some cases, some cases like we, we have like tested it out,
but it just doesn't really like scale fully well.
And it's like a lot of like, some of them are technical feats
where you kind of like have to balance product and like priorities, right?
But for the most part, we can technically have the character say like,
hey, good more, send me a good morning text and whatnot.
But we've definitely focused a little bit more, a little bit more on just,
hey, this is kind of like a story that you can kind of play out.
you can still have a call or response.
But those features are some things that we always have in our back pocket
that we're always evaluating whether or not to bring them on or not.
So definitely would definitely appreciate the feedback here
because that's another like signal to me.
Hey, like, you know, some people probably want this again.
So you've been doing this for two years.
And I guess what's your, how many people are staying on board?
How popular is this?
Yeah, so like I said, we have like over two million users.
and like hundreds of thousands of like monthly active users each, yeah, hundreds and, yeah,
hundreds and thousands of monthly active users kind of like using the platform logging in.
I think in terms of growth on both sides, we're just looking to scale, you know, acquiring as many
users as possible from both, you know, from both genders from all like walks of kind of like life
and interests. And it kind of, it kind of varies on exactly like the use cases.
basically, right? So it depends on if they're kind of like interested in adult contexts.
Of course, there's the reason why we're kind of like reached out to you guys and we're kind of like
on this call right now. But then for some of the more, for some of the female audiences who are into
maybe more romantic role playing, less, less visual context, then we, we kind of like have to like branch out
in that direction. And right now it's just, no, and right now though it's video, it's, there's no video,
right? There's pictures and there's tax, right? Is there.
Like, is it voice or just like texting each other?
Yeah.
So for, so there's, well, to answer your question, we have to touch back on the, when I mentioned,
when I talked a little bit about the history of the product, we started off with just like
images, right?
Generating images in, with generating AI.
But with images, we also have like videos.
So you can kind of just use it as a, let's say, for example, I just want to like create
images or videos of a specific, you know, scenario that I want to.
to see. I can just go into the our image generator video generator and say, hey, show me a picture of
an attractive male bodybuilder, right? And shirtless, topless or something like that. Or show me a
picture of an attractive female wearing a sundress on the beach. Something along with that.
You can totally do that right now. We can generate that with specific prompts and some selections that
you have. And you can create that like a pretty stunning and accurate, both realistic and animated
photo for you, right? So we've had that product and then of course, like we added, you know,
the chat and immersive roleplay into that. And so now when you do, if you do are in the chat
and you prompt for a photo, you can receive that photo depending on the context of the actual,
you know, storyline that's going through, right? So we do have that, that available. And in terms of like
video, I think that we're kind of like working towards getting that set up for, you know,
for the chat functionality.
It just all depends on like how immersive it is and if it passes our bar.
Right.
But that character will,
we'll text back, right?
Like it can be like some sort of like, you know, sexting experience or texting experience
with a real person.
Is that what's going down?
Like if I'm looking at my phone and I'm talking.
Exactly.
Yeah.
Exactly.
That's like one of the number one use cases that we've had in the beginning.
It was just like wasn't even roleplay.
It was literally just, hey, this is you just texting your girlfriend.
This is my AI girlfriend.
She's like, maybe she's a pen pal or it's a long distance.
is texting, hey, how are you doing? How's it going? And then, you know, sending you
images depending on, like, what's going on. I think a lot of people were really into, like,
some Fendom stuff as well, too. So I think that was another, like, important use case where
the messages and the image messages were kind of, like, being sent back and forth.
Quick question on demographics. Like, I know you were super surprised about, like, a lot of women
doing it, too. You thought maybe it would be mostly men? Like, what are the, like, the overall
stats that you see the most? Like, like, maybe it's like what country you have the most? And, like, maybe it's, like,
what country you have the most users right now or any kind of trends that you see maybe that
you were surprised about or not surprised about?
When I was surprised about it, I was more surprised because we've kind of crushed our goals
and estimations mostly.
We knew exactly what the demographics were going down.
But we've just been growing like both sides of like, at least both sides of the coin like
pretty, pretty well.
And that's the reason why I was like surprised because.
It's a really good quarter for us last quarter.
But in terms of like demographics, I think we just have so many users across the entire,
across the entire world, using this, that it's just like hard to kind of like pin down exactly
like, hey, like one country is using this or one type of users are like using this mostly.
What I can say is just like the standard thing that we all know for males.
They're very visually driven.
So they'll kind of use a little bit more of those features for females.
They want a little bit more of a story, a little bit more plot to get them, get them interested in these things.
Is it illegal in any country? Sorry, Leah, I just get, that's my last question. Yeah, is it illegal in any country?
I think for, you know, with adult context, there's some like laws and regulations about any of that, any of those items.
But, like, you know, pretty standard across the board. But for AI specifically, it's in a, it's in a great area.
So when I talked about the, when we, when Layla mentioned the question about the images, right?
So those are called kind of like deep fakes.
Those ones are like widely illegal across a lot of countries.
I think it was like outlawed in the US already a couple of months ago.
And so we don't allow any of that like content whatsoever.
But with that being outlawed, there's, I think AI in general is kind of like in a gray area.
But for the most part, some of this stuff is pretty,
is fully like compliant right we're always going to be like abide by the rules we're not like trying
to like cut cut any corners here want to make sure everything is like legal fully compliant and you know
also morally ethically correct at least in our eyes yeah what's i'm curious about like what are
some of the most just unexpected you know an nsfW request the users are having like has anything
really surprised you i think
nowadays nothing surprises me having like like I said we weren't experts in this at all and we
had to quickly become experts or really consult with a lot of experts in the field but but
nowadays I think yeah I think in the in the beginning there was we were kind of like
taken aback about how like how crazy some of these use cases could have been I think
it can you give me an example to answer your question it would probably just be about
just like the like the kinks and fetishes that people are into and for for context like we only we we see this because people share their like chat history with us in like with the with the entire community in in our discord right those they'll literally screenshot their phone and be like hey check this check what happened here out and it's like some of the more some of the more intense one so i for an example is the things that you guys mentioned earlier where like they have like multiple partners right
They like just putting them all together in one one crazy scenario and just having them like duke it out.
And that was kind of funny.
See, men do like the drama.
Secretly they do.
Yeah, that's what I was saying.
Oh, my God.
But now you've got proof of it, Anthony.
Thank you.
And they like the chase.
Yeah.
They love the chase.
They love the drama.
And I guess it just depends on like the user, right?
What they're into and what they want?
Sure.
What are they physically most looking for?
Do you know or is it just like everything and anything?
I mean, you know, like, is it because, you know, what's their avatars that they choose the most?
Like she said, she saw a busty blonde on there.
Is that like the top one used?
So I did some analysis a while back probably over a literally a year ago on this.
And I was taking a look at, like, I was trying to be like figure out what is the most attractive, you know, person in the entire world that people are like trying to create, right?
So I just like took a actually like yeah I made a post about this a long time ago and I pulled it up just now
But basically you know people are trying to create back then I think it's changed now
But back then as of like February of last year I think the most attractive woman was a
Black-haired blue-eyed you know
Like busty but somewhat slim
like female.
Interesting.
It was like an amalgamation of like,
okay, these are the features that people chose the most.
Yeah.
And that's what kind of like they were creating.
Kind of Megan Kelly.
Yeah, exactly.
Yeah.
Yeah, but I think this is,
that was just definitely a low sample size now.
If you compare like the amount of users that are creating characters from back
then to now.
So I'm actually curious on like how it has changed since that.
But let's ask about for the women.
What, what, when women are coming, like do women, okay,
You said they're mostly coming more for the more of the talking and meeting their needs in a different way.
Do you have women coming for, you know, the NSFW experience as well?
Of course.
I think this is actually, this is probably a question that you guys can better like answer.
Right.
I, at least, I'm not sure if it's like complete.
I think NSW contacts are pretty taboo across the board.
in general to most people who aren't, you know, really into some of these, like, some of these
things. So I don't know if they want to mention it, but they are very, what's the word?
They're okay with a little bit of like smut, right? They're okay with a little bit of, you know,
text-based context. So I think the, the hard line is definitely when it comes to visual versus
text. The second it gets visual, it may be a bit too off-putting, but if it's still
remains within the, you know, like a story, an audio book, like a text interaction, then it's,
it's perfectly fine and it doesn't cross that line, right? That answers your question.
So that's what you see that they're more into that kind of experience than the one like the guys,
but they're there for that too. Yeah, that's like mostly our research and it lines up with,
at least like what we're seeing. There's, there definitely are females who are creating
characters who are creating like, and companions who are creating like male companions that
they're like into and interested in, but for the most part, they're really interested in the story.
They want to be kind of like served this content and like browse through it.
I have a quick question because I see this a lot in my content.
You know, I've been like you said, even though we're in 2025 like sex, you know,
and anything that's not vanilla is still very taboo.
You know, it's crazy.
But that's the way that it is.
I've been talking people for 10 years.
I have over a thousand people I've talked to.
And I know that people are doing all this kind of crazy stuff that like you said is still
taboo, but people are into it. And there is still a stigma attached to certain things that I'm wondering,
like guy and guy action for some reason, even though it's, you know, much more accepted for women,
there's still such a big stigma for that. Do you see a lot of people maybe coming on to fulfill those
kinds of desires? I know the younger people are more open about it, you know, and the older people
are the stigma is more for them. I don't know. Do you see people going in there to like live out
those kinds of fantasies? Definitely. I think we,
Like neck your AI, for lack of better word, like we try to make it like a safe space for everyone's kind of like explore anything they're like interested in. Right. So a lot of people use it for like a variety of like cases. And it's pretty, we're pretty fluid community where, you know, we just got each other's backs. We know that hey, it might not be for me, but definitely we'll kind of like support everyone in all their creations and all the things that they do. Let me say one thing. This is what I'm going to pitch to my listeners, right? And we're going to talk about how they could sign up and stuff. And Lila, if you have any last.
questions. But like, you know what I think this is great for? Because I literally just talked to a guy
this morning that I taped and he was, you know, cheating on his wife in a very specific way with
men because he had this fantasy. And I mean, you know, and he was like, at the end of the day,
it's really sad that I can't actually do this in real life. But like maybe this kind of a thing
is a solution to like that variety that someone craves, but like they don't necessarily have to go
out and do it with a real person. Like they could just be like, can I have an AI girlfriend?
Like, you know what I mean? Like, I don't know. Like, isn't it?
that better than actually going out and cheating?
Like maybe it is a way that in a positive, you know, as a positive thing that maybe people
could use it to live out their fantasies without having to cheat on their partners.
I think it's a great option.
I think so too.
I know in like for, I guess it depends on the culture.
I know in like Japan.
Yeah.
They're pretty, they're pretty okay with their partners, you know,
sleeping with other people.
If it's a paid service actually, right?
Like, oh, okay, if it's a paid service,
it's totally fine, it's not cheating.
But if it's someone that you know,
then it's completely cheating, right?
So I guess like, it depends on where you kind of like draw the line.
Maybe some people are like, oh, since this is romantic and emotional and it's an AI,
then it's kind of cheating.
But I think some of our users definitely had that experience before.
It's like, hey, my girlfriend thinks I'm cheating.
because like I'm talking to this like AI.
I have to like get off the platform.
I'm like,
okay,
sorry like sorry to have like sorry.
Sorry.
Everyone,
some of the community members like,
oh,
you've got to leave her.
You know what I mean?
Like you have to stay around.
Yeah.
At the end of the day,
isn't it better to be doing that than to do real cheating?
Because people are actually really cheating too,
okay.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Exactly.
I think like of course like consents like number one thing you have to figure out
and like define those lines yourself.
But I think it's like a good balance.
Right.
If anything it helps,
you know,
the individual's mental.
health, but also, you know, the better mental health that you have. For one person, the relationship
gets better, like, down the line. And it could also just be, like I said, it could also be just
practice, right? Like that one success, like the couple success stories that we have with like people
just using this, training themselves up, getting better, getting more suave, and then like
carrying this over with their partners. Yeah, or for the lonely guy that maybe doesn't feel comfortable
having relationships in real life. I've talked to men like that, you know, this is a great
alternative. And then eventually maybe it does give them that confidence and they grow over time and they
could actually meet somebody, but I do think it's got a lot of, you know, reasons why there's a lot of
great reasons why somebody would sign on and do it. I personally think the cheating thing is in the
future, because listen, I think people are just realizing that maybe monogamy doesn't really work
for a lot of people, more people than we thought. And so I just think down the line if like,
you know, okay, maybe we could give our partners passes to do something like this because it's not in
real life. You know what I mean? I was going to say that, Kathy. I think that's like perfect. Like a lot of
women, you know, like their husbands, they want to open up with a relationship or whatever.
Let him have a virtual girlfriend.
I mean, why not?
Exactly.
That's like the wave of the future.
It's a lot better than what's happening now when they're really fucking cheating on them.
I'm sorry.
I know.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's safer in all regards for like health concerns and actual real safety concerns.
Of course.
And like you said, everything should be consensual.
Cheating's not consensual, you know.
I'm not saying they should go on and do that, you know, on the D.
I think like this could be eventually in the future a thing that people just go and do and they could
fulfill and maybe like, you know, I'm like thinking like a futurist, like, you know, 20 years from now,
is there less cheating because people can use things like this and it's not, I don't see it as cheating.
You know what I mean? It's not even a real person. You know, there's no actual physical contact
happening. So maybe that becomes the way people fulfill their nonmonogamous desires as opposed to
going and, you know, doing stuff in real life. I just think, you know, that could be the wave of the
future, which I think is a great option.
Because there is a problem.
People have a problem.
People have a hard time staying monogamous to one person for 50 years.
I mean, it's just a fact, you know?
Yeah, yeah, they do.
So do we.
I'm with you on this, Kathy.
Yeah, so listen, why don't you, can you tell our listeners, like, how they go and
sign up and, like, if you could discuss, like, I know you have some sort of promotion
right now happening if they go and sign up.
Can you want to give all the details?
Yeah, so if you want to sign up on the platform, you can go to nectar.
nectar.
Necker.AI.
So that's n-C-T-A-R.
dot AI.
And you can navigate
to the platform.
And we have an ongoing sale
right now, actually,
where if you,
ongoing sale right now
where a lot of things
are kind of like pretty much cut off,
cut in half,
if you want to get kind of like
a yearly plan or a monthly plan,
depending on like what interests you.
And we have a couple different tiers
and you can kind of like play around with it.
But you just,
as long as you just sign up right now,
site-wide,
full sale going on right now as a promotion
because we're doing a lot of like pushes
and promotional pushes to get as many users onboard as possible.
Yeah, I mean, listen, I was really excited when I got your email, because like, this is like
super interesting.
It was like when I got the sex doll guy on my show, I was like, I don't know, I had a million
questions.
I do think that this is a wave of the future.
I think it's super interesting, you know, and because things move so fast, I can imagine what
you're going to be able to do with your avatars and, you know, four years from now, right, after what
you've been able to do after two years.
I will put the link in my description for people to sign up.
Layla, last words for you?
No, I just kind of mirror your sentiments.
I mean, it's super fascinating.
I was excited to do this.
Thank you for having me on, Kathy and Anthony.
Thank you for, you know, sharing this information.
It's just, I just find the whole thing super fascinating about where, you know,
all of our, just the evolution of our sexual relationships and sexuality and where it's going.
And, you know, this is super fascinating.
and I think you're on to something for sure, Anthony,
and all the information that you're getting is really cool.
Like you're really learning about human nature.
I love that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So anything that we didn't ask you that you want to tell people about nectar before we sign off?
No,
I think that's pretty much about it.
You know,
teams consistently making new features,
putting out new content,
and it's like always investing back into the machine.
Like putting all the resources back.
into this to make like the best experience plausible. I think I guess like the only last last parks are probably
just one of the other things that we do for, you know, one of the other goals that we do focus on that we
don't really mention too much is, you know, just like this loneliness, loneliness epidemic that's going
around ever since, you know, especially since 2020, more and more people are like chronically online.
And so with this, I think it's like a good solution where two things. One is you're able to kind of like
provide some support, some sense of support here in the form of like companions as well.
as a community for people who also are, like, in the same space who are interest in companions, right?
I think we're just trying to, you know, bridge the gap and the stigma of, like, using
AI in our daily lives as well as also assisting anyone out there who kind of like just needs
a little bit more, you know, attention in their daily lives, right? Because it's, like, very important.
Listen, Anthony, there was a day when there was a time in my lifetime where going on a dating app was
the most loser thing to do. You know what I mean? Like, and there was a big stigma. And now that is, like,
the only way people meet, you know? So I'm sure that that's what's going to happen with this.
You know, it's, whenever something starts, I think, it seems like people might be anti-in and then
everyone hops on board. Definitely, definitely. Yeah, for sure. I want to make sure we're there,
we're there to help people as well, too, you know. Yeah, and you have a Discord, which I love.
So, like, is that where people, if they sign up, they could go in and there's a community there
and they could ask questions to and everything on your Discord? Exactly. Yeah, I love that.
They can ask questions, troubleshoot, figure out, keep up to date on like the
latest tech that we're going to like we're putting out or just like socialize and just you know talk
about the app all together with the rest of the community yeah they could brag they could brag
exactly exactly show it off and get keep their like get keep their girls yeah i love it i love it all right
listen thank you anthony thank you so much for uh calling in i know i'm going to get you some users
i'm going to put the link in my description thanks so much for calling in nice to meet you anthony
thanks guys thanks kathy thanks lately bye bye bye bye bye bye
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read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audio book is
available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any
format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not
disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my Discord any other way.
than getting the link from me.
Okay, I give it to people who buy my book.
There's tons of people in there.
Everybody shares content with each other,
and that's what you get to do there.
You can post your own pictures and videos.
There's tons of channels.
We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money.
It's a super fun place to be.
It's a total, strictly anonymous community,
and you will love it.
I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord.
It's private, like I said.
All you got to do is email me a screen
shot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the e-book, or the paperback.
Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.
That's Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.
And I will send you the link to Discord.
So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.
This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast.
